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Following Christ Nathan E. Brown COMEAFTERME.COM Birmingham, Alabama Following Christ © 2017 by Nathan E. Brown COMEAFTERME.COM Birmingham, Alabama. All rights reserved. Cover design by Shane Muir. All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good New Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations marked NIV are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version,® (NIV®). Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by Biblica, Inc.TM Use by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide, www.zondervan.com. Scripture quotations marked NASB are taken from the New American Standard Bible. Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. 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TABLE OF CONTENTS FIRST THINGS FIRST 5 INTRODUCTION TO DISCIPLESHIP 7 SALVATION 9 BAPTISM 13 CONSECRATION 15 LOVING GOD 19 ESSENTIALS FOR SUCCESS 25 FOUR ESSENTIALS TO BEING A SUCCESSFUL CHRISTIAN 27 READING GOD’S WORD 35 PRAYER 45 PARTICIPATION IN CHURCH 49 WITNESSING 53 THE FIFTH ESSENTIAL – MEMORIZING AND MEDITATING ON SCRIPTURE 57 EARLY STRUGGLES 67 COPING WITH REJECTION 69 SPIRITUAL WARFARE 73 CONQUERING SINFUL HABITS 79 THE LAW OF SOWING AND REAPING 85 FORGIVENESS 89 JUDGE NOT 95 MATTERS OF CONSCIENCE 99 NEW PERSPECTIVES 105 THE KINGDOM 107 A BIBLICAL FRAMEWORK FOR LIFE 111 GUIDELINES FOR ENTERTAINMENT 115 BASIC DOCTRINES 121 GOD 123 ANGELS 129 OUR ENEMY SATAN 135 HELL 139 HEAVEN 145 THE RESURRECTION OF JESUS CHRIST 151 THE BIBLE IS GOD’S WORD 155 FROM THE MIND OF GOD TO THE MIND OF MAN 159 SAINTS OR SINNERS? 165 SIN AND THE BELIEVER 169 THE SECURITY OF THE BELIEVER 173 THE GIFT OF TONGUES 181 BIBLICAL FAITH 187 FUTURE EVENTS 199 THE RETURN OF THE KING 201 THE RAPTURE OF THE SAINTS 207 THE IMPORTANCE OF PROPHECY 213 DANIEL – THE KEY TO UNDERSTANDING PROPHECY 219 THE OLIVET DISCOURSE 227 BUILDING GODLY CHARACTER 239 HUMILITY 241 DILIGENCE 245 BECOMING MORE LIKE CHRIST 249 © 2017 Nathan E. Brown FOLLOWING CHRIST comeafterme.com First Things First 5 © 2017 Nathan E. Brown FOLLOWING CHRIST comeafterme.com 6 © 2017 Nathan E. Brown FOLLOWING CHRIST comeafterme.com Introduction to Discipleship 1) What is a disciple? A) A disciple is a person who desires to learn from and follow after someone else. For Christians, that “someone else” is Jesus. Your goal as a disciple of Jesus is to learn His teachings, model His way of living and become like Him in your thoughts, attitudes, actions and words. B) The master-disciple relationship is something that sounds a little strange to us today. Perhaps the best modern equivalent we can understand and relate to is the coach-player relationship. When you are accepted onto a sports team, you are effectively a disciple of your coach. You place yourself under his authority and agree to do whatever he tells you. Your goal is to learn to think about the game like your coach: to model his attitudes and actions and follow his direction. You are subject to his correction and discipline, and you work hard to earn his praise and respect. C) Being a member of a professional sports team is not a part-time endeavor. It affects every area of your life. It’s the same way with being a disciple of Jesus. It is a life- long commitment that will require you to give 100% in order to be successful. 2) How do I learn how to disciple others? A) The best way to learn how to disciple others is through the experience of being discipled yourself. That is the example Jesus gave us. (1) During His earthly ministry, Jesus chose twelve men to whom He gave special attention and instruction (Luke 6:12–13). He spent around three years living with them, teaching them and developing personal relationships with them. After His resurrection, Jesus commissioned them to go and make disciples just as He had done with them (Matthew 28:18–20). Their years as disciples of Jesus directly affected their ability to carry out His command (2 Peter 1:16–18; 1 John 1:1–3). B) These lessons are designed to be a discipleship experience for you. The goal is for you to be able to take this material and go out and disciple others. 3) Can you give me some practical suggestions for discipling new believers? A) Begin immediately. The devil isn’t going to wait a few weeks before attacking your new converts. You need to be there as soon as possible after conversion. B) Friendship discipling. Most new believers are converted through the witness of a family member or friend. Because of that relationship, you will be the one they turn to for guidance. It will be much easier for them to share and be open with you than with a stranger. That’s why it’s important for you to be able to disciple them. (1) I understand that not everyone has the gift of teaching or is comfortable with the role of discipling someone else. In such cases, the best solution may be for you to act as host for a discipleship class between your new convert and a teacher from your local church. In this way, you will gain the skills and confidence needed to one day do it on your own. 7 © 2017 Nathan E. Brown FOLLOWING CHRIST comeafterme.com C) Setting. If possible, conduct the training in the homes of your new converts. This will make sharing and accountability much easier, since people are most comfortable in their own environment. You can also invite them to your home and take turns with hosting the lessons. D) Size. If you have several new converts being discipled together, try to keep the group size small. If the group is too large, some of the more shy and quiet personalities may be smothered. E) Format. Most discipleship training takes place on a weekly basis (my experience is that monthly meetings are simply not often enough). Try to set aside a specific time each week that you meet. (1) Start by having a snack and sharing your week. Be prepared to address issues that come up during this time. Sometimes a problem will be brought up that should take precedence over the intended lesson. Be sensitive to what your new converts want to talk about. Also, be transparent. Let them know that you struggle with things just like they do. (2) Always begin with prayer. Ask God to open your hearts and minds to His truth. You cannot disciple others without the help and guidance of the Holy Spirit. (3) Cover the material for that week’s lesson. If questions come up during the lesson that you can’t answer, be honest and tell your new converts that you don’t know. Write them down and take them to your pastor. Then share the answers with the group the next week. (4) Conclude with prayer asking God for help throughout the upcoming week. F) Material. This is one of the hardest parts of discipling new converts: What do you teach them? My hope and prayer is that these lessons will be the answer. The material at http://comeafterme.com is designed to take a new convert from baptism to the first stages of growth and maturity in Christ. (1) Not everyone grows at the same rate. Take your time and work on any areas that they may struggle with. (2) Never teach new converts your own personal convictions. Keep the focus on God’s Word and let Him worry about other issues. G) Outside the classroom. Teaching the material in these lessons is only a small part of what it means to disciple someone. You need to be as involved as possible in the life of your new converts. Be available when they need help. Make sure they know you can be called anytime for support and encouragement. Whenever you can, integrate them into your own life and activities (e.g., hunting, fishing, recreation, etc.). H) Take the responsibility seriously. Your attitudes and actions are now an example for your new converts. They will look up to you and imitate your approach to living the Christian life. 8 © 2017 Nathan E. Brown FOLLOWING CHRIST comeafterme.com Salvation 1) Why do I need to be saved? A) You were created by God to love and serve Him (Matthew 22:37–40). His will for your life is clearly revealed in His Word the Bible. Within the Bible are written all of the commands that God expects you to obey—it is His law (John 14:15).