The Newsletter of Temple Israel of Sharon, a Traditional Egalitarian Community November/December 2015 LETTERS
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[THE LUACH The newsletter of Temple Israel of Sharon, a traditional egalitarian community November/December 2015 LETTERS Rabbi’s Message depravity and inhumanity must end. As I write these words, a friend of mine is standing with fear by I pray that it will end soon enough for his father’s ICU bed. my friends and relatives in Jerusalem and throughout Israel to enjoy the I have been there many times. As a son, I recall being on the lives we all are entitled to. Lives filled phone with this same friend just hours before my father yielded with normality. Where hospitals heal in his struggle with infection and disease. As a rabbi, I have the sick. Where dangers are present, been with so many friends, congregants, and even strangers as but we live with confidence that life’s they agonized by their loved ones’ bedsides. Not knowing how challenges will make some sense. to interpret the latest test, that last comment made by a nurse or Where grandfathers are not targeted for doctor, we have all felt our heart in our throats as we have stared assassination. death in the face. How much can we read into the fact that her eyes suddenly opened? Did he say something? Is she trying to Each day in our daily minyan we end our service by praying breathe on her own? Is he trying to let go? for the State of Israel. I join in thinking about Israel, the land of the Jewish people. I consider the state, an imperfect human These moments of pain in confronting our mortality are project, and I pray that its leaders might have wisdom. That its universal. But my friend’s father is not suffering from disease. institutions might be strong. I pray for the human beings of all He is not sick at all. This sweet, caring grandfather of eight made backgrounds who live in the state, and I pray for their courage aliyah from Connecticut with his family about 30 years ago. He and commitment to peace. has laid down deep roots in Jerusalem and has lived a life of nothing but peace, joy, and love. He is in the ICU at Hadassah But during these days of conflict in the streets of Jerusalem once Ein Karem because a terrorist stabbed and shot him, along with more, I pray a much simpler prayer. I pray for grandfathers and more than a dozen others. They were on a bus in Jerusalem, their safety. I pray for children and their future. I pray for my going about their business, and they were struck down in cold friend. blood. “May God bless you from Zion and may you see Jerusalem I wish I could share certainty about my friend’s father’s prosper all your days. May you see children’s children. May there prognosis. But I don’t know if he will be OK. I don’t know if he be peace upon Israel” (Psalm 128). will return to his life. I don’t know if he will even pull through. Rabbi Ron Fish I do know that this violence, this endless exercise in senseless LETTERS President’s Message more comfortable and spiritual, how we can enhance our educa- What do you say when someone asks you about our synagogue? tional offerings, and how we can improve our physical space to Is your response fairly general—the size of the congregation, be more welcoming and engaging. the names and roles of the clergy members, or the number of While staff and lay leaders have a role in transforming Temple children in the religious school? Is your answer more specific— Israel, we will only be successful if more of our members feel the length of Shabbat or High Holy Day services, the topic of that our Temple provides us with personal relationships and a the rabbi’s last sermon, or a particular program or class in which spiritual connection to God. Staff and lay leaders can only pro- you participated? Is your answer simply that the temple is “just vide opportunities for you to establish those relationships and a fine” and is there when you need it? spiritual connection. It takes active involvement by members to My guess is that the answer most of us would provide includes actually make it happen! some combination of these responses since most of us view the So I ask each of you to do three things. First, what do you think “business” of our synagogue as including a religious school for is needed for you to feel that Temple Israel is a place of relation- our children, a rabbi for counseling and life cycle events, and a ships and connection to God? Is it alternative or existing prayer place to pray. services, beginner or advanced education, enhanced family pro- How many of us, when asked about Temple Israel, would say grams or social action activities? Ask yourself what do you need that “Temple Israel helps fill my life with meaning; it provides so that you will see Temple Israel as providing you with personal relationships to others in my Jewish community; and has relationships and a connection to God? enabled me to establish a spiritual connection to God through Second, if what you need is missing at our shul, email me at prayer, study, healing, and acts of social justice and loving kind- [email protected] and tell me what we need to do. I cannot ness!” promise that we can do everything requested, or that we can do As Dr. Ron Wolfson emphasizes in his book The Spirituality everything immediately, but we can immediately start working of Welcoming, a synagogue that is seen as providing a school, to deliver what you, our congregants, tell us is needed. clergy, and a prayer place may have been sufficient in the twenti- Third, if what you need already exists, but is not something in eth century but will not survive into the twenty-first century. To which you have participated, step up and “stick your toe into succeed, we must transform our shul into a place where many the water”! Come to a meditation service, see if Hessed can use more of our members see our Temple as providing personal your help in serving those in need, attend the next social action relationships and a spiritual connection to God. program, see what Hazak, Sisterhood, or Brotherhood has going I have quoted Dr. Wolfson often in the past and will continue on this month, attend a Board of Trustees meeting (they are to refer to him and his works as a blueprint for what we collec- generally open to all members and the agendas can be requested tively must do. Already, our professional staff, led by Rabbi Fish, from the office). and our lay leadership are implementing a number of ideas to Just think how wonderful it would be if you heard the follow- transform what it means to be a member of Temple Israel. These ing said by others about our Temple: “I don’t belong to Temple current changes range from greeting everyone when they arrive Israel, but every time I talk to someone who is a member, they at services, to actively helping each new member find his or tell me how meaningful it is to them and that I really need to go her place in our Temple, to supporting additional programs for check it out!” families with young children. Together we will transform our shul! We also are looking at how we can make our Shabbat services Ed Hershfield New Members Jared & Jacqueline Wiener & Family Sam & Roberta Wasif Michael Lichtman & Joyce Greenwald Mike & Suzie Katz & Family Michael & Luba Raynus & Family Leo & Julie Bellini & Family Barry & Ruth Spillberg Rob & Rebecca Lyons & Family Jason & Sara Weiner & Family Michael & Michelle Arundale & Family Ben & Amy Thaler & Family Steve & Shari Holstein Michael & Freda Yawitch Eli Silberzweig & Aviva Pollock Dmitriy & Leeza Vilk & Family Lee & Elizabeth Altman & Family & Family Cheri Cousens & Family Malya Scher Glenn & Jessica Zimmerman & Family Peter & Hana Berman Mark & Gloria Bieler Liat Hoffman & Avital Rech & Family Eric & Alison Neill & Family Mike & Jane Polimer Michael & Becca Markson & Family LETTERS Cantor’s Notes is not enough to say, “We received the Torah from Mo- I hope that the High Holy Day 6-week period of re- ses,” or “from our parents.” We have to take the Torah union and reflection was meaningful for you. Although and make it new in every generation. We have to write the following composition by the distinguished former our own scroll. The point about the Torah is not that it Chief Rabbi of Britain, Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, may is old but that it is new; it is not just about the past but seem dated since the Torah parasha that he referenced about the future. It is not simply some ancient docu- was chanted weeks ago, I submit this for your reading ment that comes from an earlier era in the evolution of pleasure with my hope that your song derived from society. It speaks to us, here, now - but not without our the Holy Days’ observances and customs may remain making the effort to write it again. relevant by pulsating each day forward with companion bless- There are two Hebrew words for an inheritance: nachalah and ings of health and harmony. yerushah / morashah. They convey different ideas.Nachalah is Cantor Steven W. Dress related to the word nachal, meaning a river, a stream. As water flows downhill, so an inheritance flows down the generations. It Torah as Song, by Rabbi Jonathan Sacks happens naturally.