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October 2008 Issue 60 FREE of charge CCarly’sarly’s AngelsAngels CCantinaantina QQueenueen SShowhow tturnsurns EEightight HHappyappy Halloween!Halloween! GGayay HauntsHaunts SScreamfest,creamfest, aandnd CCalgaryalgary GGhosthost TToursours A SSupernaturalupernatural VVisitisit toto CCalgary’salgary’s GayGay BarsBars IInterviewsnterviews with:with: HHenryenry RRollins,ollins, BBernieernie KKoppel,oppel, aandnd AAmbermber >> STARTING ON PAGE 16 GLBT RESOURCE • CALGARY & EDMONTON 2 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #60, October 2008 Table of Contents 5 The Fear and the Fight Letter from the Publisher Established originally in January 9 Bernie Koppel 1992 as Men For Men BBS by MFM Love Boat’s “Doc” Talks Gay Hollywood, Aging, and Viagra Falls Communications. Named changed to GayCalgary.com in 1998. Stand alone company as of January 2004. First Issue 11 Play Nightclub of GayCalgary.com Magazine, November Edmonton’s Newest Hot Spot 2003. Name adjusted in November 2006 to GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine. 12 Adult Depot 34 Publisher Steve Polyak & Rob Diaz-Marino, A Living Piece of Calgary’s Gay History [email protected] Editor Rob Diaz Marino, [email protected] 14 Out of Town 16 Exploring London’s Soho Neighborhood Original Graphic Design Deviant Designs Advertising 16 Map & Event Listings Steve Polyak [email protected] Find out what’s happening Contributors Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino, Jason Clevett, 23 The Danger of Voting For Andrew Collins, Jerome Voltero, Stephen Lock, Jack Fertig, Romeo San Vicente, Felice Harper Newman, Evan Kayne, Mark Randall, Matt Salton, Mercedes Allen, Joan Hilty, Dave 25 Q Scopes Brousseau, Kevin Alderson, James S. M. Demers, Ted Kerr, Linda Eckess, Brian Pawlak, “Charge your batteries, Sagittarius!” Keith Andony, Glen Hanson & Allan Neuwirth, and the Gay and Lesbian Community of 26 Adult Film Review Calgary and Edmonton Centurion Muscle, Big and Beefy, Serbia, Father Knows Best 57 Photographer Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino 28 Deep Inside Hollywood Videographer New Projects For Michael Douglas and Matt Damon Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino 29 Whole Lesbian Sex Please forward all inquiries to: GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine Lesbian (Detachable) Fellatio Suite 403, 215 14th Avenue S.W. Calgary, Alberta T2R 0M2 30 Pride Center Keeps Moving Forward Phone (403) 543-6960 or toll free (888) 543-6960 31 East of Berlin Groundbreaking Canadian Play Comes to ATP Fax (403) 703-0685 E-mail [email protected] 32 Television Review Print Run Monthly, 12 times a year 33 Calgary Ghost Tours Masthead continued on page 4 A Spooky Walk through Calgary’s History 34 A Conversation with Henry Rollins 37 Gay Haunts A Supernatural Visit to Calgary’s Gay Bars 38 Some Statistics Regarding Human Sexuality 40 Amber Dance Diva Talks Gay Rights, Music Industry, and No More Tears Continued Next Page 59 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #60, October 2008 3 From Previous Page 42 Fundraising Photos 45 Billy Twinkle Puppet Master’s Newest Show Debuts in Edmonton 47 HIV and Gonorrhea and Syphilis – OH MY! Continued from page 3 48 Understanding That Bashing is a Crime Copies Printed Monthly, 10,000 copies. The Calgary Police Sexuality and Gender Diversity Committee Distribution points up to 200 points in Calgary, largest number of distribution 49 Screamfest points for any Gay publication in Calgary. Have a Scare at C.O.P. Up to 150 points in Edmonton, largest number of distribution points for any Gay publication in Edmonton. Also distributed 50 The Quest to Pee II coast to coast across Canada in select locations in Toronto, Vancouver, Montreal, 52 Letters to the Editor Regina, Saskatoon, Winnipeg, and other places across Canada and the United 53 A Couple of Guys States. Please call us if you would like to 45 be a distribution point. 54 Music Review Distributed by Gallant Distributions Ghost Colours, Love is Dead, Chemical Rising, Prima J (Calgary), Clark’s Distribution (Edmonton), Canada Post (rest of Canada and USA) 57 CockTales and by GayCalgary.com Ground Zero/Hit and Myth talk the Cock Deadline for Ad Bookings 25th of the month (unless otherwise stated) 58 Carly’s Angels Deadline for Ad copy 28th of the month Cantina Queen Show turns Eight (unless otherwise stated) Legal Council Courtney Sebree Aarbo, 59 Rough Drag and Rider Queens Barristers and Solicitors A Diva Danielicious Idea Printers North Hill News This Issue Cover Model Mercedes, Josh 62 Bitter Girl Gilmour, and Carly York Jones taken at ScreamFest in Calgary. Photo taken by 63 Monsters In The Closet Steve Polyak. DVDs Worth Unearthing for Tricks or Treats this October The opinions expressed in this magazine are not necessarily those of GayCalgary.com or 72 66 Concert Reviews the contributors of the magazine. Sleepercar and Elton John People photographed or interviewed, writers, advertisers, contributors and 67 Chelsea Boys anyone else involved with this publication November are not necessarily gay, lesbian, bi, 72 Queer Eye - Calgary and Edmonton bi-curious or trans gendered. They can be 2008 Press Community Events this Month straight people that are gay friendly. No part of the publication may be reprinted Deadlines without the expressed permission of the editor-in-chief. Member of AAdd SSpacepace BBookingooking - Friday,Friday, Canadian Gay & Copyright 2008 OOctoberctober 331st1st 22008008 Lesbian Chamber of Commerce AAdd SSubmissionubmission - Member of International Gay & MMonday,onday, NNovemberovember 3rd3rd 20082008 Lesbian Travel Association IInn CCirculationirculation - Thursday,Thursday, NNovemberovember 6th,6th, 20082008 PPleaselease ccontactontact usus rrightight awayaway ifif yyouou tthinkhink youyou maymay havehave missedmissed tthehe BBookingooking oror SubmissionSubmission Member of Edmonton Rainbow DDeadlineseadlines Member of Tourism Calgary. Business Association. 4 gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #60, October 2008 The Fear and the Fight Letter from the Publisher that there is a quota to fi ll, By Rob Diaz-Marino, MSc. even if it means making a mountain out of a mole- Any other time of year, being afraid is considered a hill. Without the stresses negative experience – an unwelcome departure from of bona-fi de survival, we an overdeveloped sense of security. But Halloween are ticking time bombs for is a chance to wrap ourselves in the very vision of physical violence (fi ght) and death, decay and darkness that frightens some of irrational hatred (fl ight). us so much. By doing so, we make our fears just Without realizing it, as tangible and mortal as the people pretending to many of us gravitate toward be them. Then we suspend our disbelief to pretend controlled situations that those zombies, ghosts, werewolves etc. are real, so test our reactions. For that we can be afraid of them knowing we aren’t ac- instance, playing sports lets tually in danger. It seems bizarre and backwards. you channel that violent energy into a structured The only explanation I can conceive of is that we want competition. Watching to be scared, or even like to be scared, as Josh Gilmour of sports puts you in the place Screamfest put it (see page 49). Frankly, I think we have a of your favourite player or primal need to be scared every once in a while, or else we team; you go through the start to question whether there is something wrong with stress of their struggle, and us. adopt a temporary or per- manent hatred for their op- In today’s society, people are expected to behave like ponent. If you fi nd yourself obedient, effi cient and reliable machines, but they are liking a horror or disaster not! The simple fact is that human beings (like all other fl ick, or even a violent video living beings) are equipped with instincts that serve to game, it’s likely because it keep us alive. But how often in your everyday routine do allows you to exercise the you encounter a direct threat to your life? Those survival mental stresses of fi ghting instincts are going largely unused. for your life without actu- Inconveniently we still need those impulses if there ever ally fi ghting for your life. does come a time when we truly are threatened. For lack Music can invoke turbulent of a better option, our psyche will fi nd ways to compensate emotions, and dancing lets so that we still make use of those instincts, to keep our you express them. It seems physical responses sharp, in case of an actual emergency the whole entertainment - like a fi re drill for your fi ght-or-fl ight response. For that industry is there to channel reason, a threat to your livelihood can seem just as dire as your ugly and dangerous a threat to your life; a disparaging comment can seem just inclinations into something as threatening as a strike across the face. My hypothesis is less destructive (and make a pretty penny while do- ing it)! These outlets are your metaphorical punch- ing bags; hit them or hate them. What’s the worst that can happen if you don’t cope with your daily need for confl ict? Just ask any brand of fanatic, phobic, drama queen, and career criminal walking the earth. If their lifestyle doesn’t bring enough misfortune to challenge them, they end up looking for a fi ght which gaycalgary and edmonton magazine #60, October 2008 5 visits suffering on themselves, those they love, and those the minds of that crowd about the gay bar scene before they choose to blame and hate. Next time you meet one they go back into hiding. If everyone plays their cards of these types, save them from themselves – give them a right, this can be a saving grace even for the other bars: punching bag so they won’t practice on people. plenty of people to go around, and a renewed curiosity in the gay bar scene. Time to show off your best, and keep Halloween is a great opportunity to scare ourselves the customers coming back! senseless, and that’s healthy.