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LGBT activists from across the Midwest and Jessica elsewhere gathered March 12-14 to discuss Man of the future of the grassroots LGBT community. Halem page 7 The event, “Unite+Fight: Strategizing for LGBT equality: The Equality Across America Midwest Gold Conference,” brought together about 250 activ- ists ranging in age and experience. It was held downtown at Columbia College Chicago. The event began the evening of March 12 with spoken-word performances and live music. Work- shops and registration took place all day March 13, with a special plenary and a film screening occurring March 14. Workshops, which were based on submissions by activists across the Midwest, focused on a variety of concerns within the LGBT community. These included a session with the photographer of the well-known “No H8” campaign, Adam Bouska. He began the campaign in response to Proposition 8 in California. HIV Audience members asked him questions about page 4 the people he has photographed, what has been Report difficult about it and how he manages his pho- tography business while doing “No H8” free of page 22 charge. When Bouska started the photos, he said it
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school would rather hurt all the students than Prom canceled treat everyone fairly,” said McMillen, 18. “This isn’t just about me and my rights anymore—now because of I’m fighting for the right of all the students at lesbians; my school to have our prom.” “Itawamba school officials are trying to turn ACLU sues Constance into the villain who called the whole Christine BY ANDREW DAVIS thing off, and that just isn’t what happened. She’s fighting for everyone to be able to enjoy page 15 Ebersole The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) filed a the prom,” said Kristy Bennett, legal director of lawsuit March 11 against Mississippi’s Itawamba the ACLU of Mississippi. “The government, and County School District, which canceled an April that includes public schools, can’t censor some-
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William Corporate Production Sponsor Foundation Production Sponsor Hotel Partner STILL SEARCHING TVN QueerTVNetwork.com Ron Clewer, the brother of murdered Lake View resident Kevin Clewer, Check out our talks about the ongoing video channel for case. new videos weekly www.QueerTV Photo courtesy of Ron Clewer Network.com 4 Mar. 17, 2010 from Gates himself saying that. A check with ONLINE AT Cynthia Smith, a spokeswoman for Gates, turned DADT repeal up none. Asked whether Gates had ever made a WINDYCITYMEDIAGROUP.COM statement for or against repeal, Smith said she NATIONAL NEWS teeters on could “only refer to the Feb. 2 testimony” before the Senate Armed Services Committee. midterm In that statement, Secretary Gates said: “We have received our orders from the commander in elections chief and we are moving out accordingly.” By Lisa Keen Asked if there were any other statements, Keen News Service Smith said, “No other statement that I’m aware —Gay R.I. mayor of.” (left) running Google “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and you’ll get But Gates has made statements suggesting for Congress more than 2 million hits. Add the word “repeal” he’s not convinced Congress will pass a bill to to the search, and you’ll get about half million. repeal DADT. —Washington Post Add the words “this year,” and you’re down to In a little-publicized March 2 memo to the defends gay 135,000. general counsel of the co-chair of his DADT work- photo That’s probably a good illustration of how the ing group, Gates repeatedly discusses repeal as actual repeal process is going these days: Lots something that might happen, not something —Gavin Newsom of people are talking about it, but the chances he is charged with making happen. running for for success this year rely on a lot more things “The Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff [Ad- lieutenant converging just so, and not too much. miral Mike Mullen] and I owe the President an governor The plan on the table right now is two- assessment of the implications of such a repeal, pronged: first, some sort of intra-Pentagon re- should it occur,” wrote Gates. laxation of the enforcement of the current policy “Should Congress take this action,” wrote the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs.” by, roughly, the end of this month. And then Gates, “strong, engaged and informed leadership “The question for this [working group] panel,” Defense Secretary Robert Gates. there is the prospect of a repeal of the policy at will be required at every level to properly and ef- said Morrell, “is don’t consider whether it’s a some point in the future. fectively implement a legislative change.” good thing or not. Don’t consider if this were The memo came just one day before a sub- Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., says that future Democrats lost one party vote last November to … happen. Go about this from the perspec- committee of the House Armed Services Com- point will likely be on the Fiscal Year 2011 De- to Republican Scott Brown from Massachusetts. tive of, this is the president’s desire; it is likely mittee held a hearing on the DOD’s “process for fense Authorization bill which, last year, got Brown has not publicly stated his position, and to happen. We need … to be prepared for that assessing the requirements to implement repeal” its final vote in October. But Defense Secretary he told Barbara Walters he hasn’t made up his eventuality. We need to know more than we know of the military’s policy of excluding openly gay Robert Gates told a Senate Armed Services Com- mind. But he described the issue as one of “so- now about what the potential impact would be. service members. mittee last month that he sees Congress taking cial change,” not discrimination, and two Mas- And we need to be armed with that information, Discussing the memo at a routine Pentagon up the matter after the Pentagon does a study of sachusetts groups –the anti-gay Massachusetts so that we could work with the Congress to help press briefing, March 3, DOD spokesman Geoff the impact and how best to go about repealing Family Institute and the pro-gay MassEquality— inform the process that they undertake, if they Morrell said, “We have always been very explicit the policy. He set Dec. 1 as the report’s due date say he supports keeping “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” undertake it.” about the fact that it is the president’s desire to and, in a memo to the study group March 2, sug- Last year, the key Senate vote on hate crimes Next week: The Gates Report—is it a study repeal ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ and that desire is gested the group might consider recommending took place in July. But conventional wisdom in or a stall? supported by the Secretary of Defense [and] by “further study.” Washington is that legislators start running for ©2010 Keen News Service In other words, repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t re-election by the end of March and they often Tell” (DADT) this year is teetering on the mid- run to the political middle to ensure the wid- term elections. est base of support in the general election. That MSM 44 times While there is clearly more support for repeal is not the direction that helps secure votes for of the policy this year than in the past 17 years DADT repeal in a Democratic majority Congress. more likely of its implementation, DADT is still a conten- Democrats have a 77-seat advantage over Re- tious issue. Joint Chiefs of Staff Chairman Ad- publicans in the House, and—if independents to have HIV by Bob Roehr miral Mike Mullen says it’s the “right thing to usually vote with Democrats—an 18-seat advan- do,” his four Joint Chiefs say not now. The most tage in the Senate. Trouble is, the Senate has Men who have sex with men (MSM) are at least recent national poll—conducted on 1,023 adults become increasingly vulnerable to Republican 44 times more likely to be diagnosed with HIV by CNN Feb. 12-15—found 69 percent favor, 27 filibuster. And since it takes 60 votes to break a than other men, and 40 times more likely than percent oppose and 4 percent were unsure. But filibuster, Democrats are feeling impotent with women, according to an analysis released by that was a slip from 75 percent—in an ABC poll 59. And that’s if the vote on repeal takes place the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention of 1,004 adults—the week before, just after before the midterms. If it takes place after the (CDC) at the 2010 National STD Prevention Con- Mullen’s remark was widely publicized. And Con- midterms, it’s unclear what the political climate ference. gress has deteriorated into a partisan combat will be. Eighteen Democratic seats and 18 Re- They also are more than 46 times as likely to zone and some Republican members of the Sen- publican seats are up for vote in November. have syphilis than other men and more than 71 ate Armed Services Committee made clear they Yet another factor in gauging DADT repeal’s times as likely than women to have that sexually oppose repeal. chances for success this year is Secretary Gates. transmitted disease (STD). Repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” is certainly He’s the man who named the membership for Kevin Fenton, who heads up the CDC’s efforts have more opposition than did the hate crimes the Pentagon’s DADT working group—which is in those areas, said the analysis was made to bill last year. The Senate needed 60 votes last charged with coming up with a report on how re- show “just how stark the health disparities are summer to force the chamber to approve adding peal would impact the military and how it could between this and other populations.” the hate-crimes law to the Defense Authoriza- be implemented. “It is clear that we will not be able to stop tion bill through unanimous consent; it got 63. While many news reports casually mention that the US HIV epidemic until every affected com- Can the DADT repeal get 60? Gates supports President Obama’s desire to re- munity, along with health officials nationwide, Some things have changed. For one thing, peal DADT, this reporter could find no statement prioritize the needs of gay and bisexual men with HIV prevention efforts.” “There is no single or simple solution for re- More than a bean counter... ducing HIV and syphilis rates among gay and Whether you are an independent contractor, own your own bisexual men. We need intensified prevention business or possess investment and real estate assets efforts that are as diverse as the gay community Kevin Fenton. Photo by Bob Roehr with your partner, your finances are complicated. You itself,” Fenton said in a prepared statement. need a professional knowledgeable to legally There was no new data, just a new analysis, minimize your taxes at an affordable price. and some assumptions behind it that some might MSM are a larger part of the population? The fa- consider, well, the scientific term is “squirrelly.” mous Kinsey study found that about 30 percent All broad, national analysis of gay and bi- of all men had at least one same-sex encounter sexual men has been hampered by the question at some point in their lives. If the number of of the denominator: Just how does one define MSM really is larger than 4 percent, the ratios those categories and many of them are there in would drop, perhaps precipitously. the country? The CDC had a telephone news conference on Located in Lakeview CDC’s answer was to make two assumptions March 9, the day prior to release of this new and computations. Under the first it assumed analysis; however, the focus was on herpes Thomas H. Franklin is just such a professional. Not only that MSM are 4 percent of the population and studies. Reporters were told ahead of time that possessing a CPA and Masters in Tax, he has over 19 years arrived at those conclusions. 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Photo courtesy of ACLU canceled all non-curricular clubs so that they PROM from cover would not be forced to allow a Gay-Straight Alli- regulations—including that each person’s date ance (GSA) to form. What the school and families must be someone of the opposite sex.) quickly realized is that punishing all students in McMillen returned to school last Thursday, order to deny the rights of a few is the wrong March 11, although she did not want to. How- decision.” ever, according to a Tonic.com item, she told The buzz about McMillen and the prom situ- a reporter, “My daddy [Michael] told me that I ation has grown—so much so that out come- needed to show them that I’m still proud of who dian/actress Wanda Sykes had the teenager on I am. The fact that this will help people later on, her show March 13, according to Advocate.com. that’s what’s helping me to go on.” During the talk, Sykes invited McMillen to Los Frank Walker of Chicago’s Youth Pride Center e- Angeles next month so the student can attend mailed Windy City Times, “Many people ask why the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defama- Lt. Dan Choi. Photo by John Fenoglio LGBT agencies have proms for their youth. This tion (GLAAD) Awards, where Sykes will receive story justifies why we always have to provide an honor. Lieutenant Dan Choi is a U.S. Army officer, West against gay and lesbian soldiers? separate events specifically for LGBT youth. If Additional information, including a copy of Point graduate and Arabic linguist. He has fought DC: No, absolutely not. With all the issues that this were to happen at a school here in Chicago, the legal complaint, is available at www.aclu. in combat in Iraq, and he continues to serve as a wartime soldiers must deal with—post-traumatic all the LGBT students would still have a prom to org/lgbt-rights/fulton-ms-prom-discrimination. National Guardsman with the 1st Battalion, 69th stress, survivor guilt, depression—those soldiers attend!” There is also a Facebook group for people who Infantry, based in New York. After almost a de- who commit suicide later on… Do you think that Shannon Sullivan of the Illinois Safe Schools want to support McMillen, “Let Constance Take cade of military service, Choi publically revealed number isn’t comprised of soldiers who cannot Alliance stated to WCT that “[t]he school has Her Girlfriend to Prom,” at www.facebook.com/ that he is gay. Shortly thereafter, the military reveal their true feelings, who cannot confide, in chosen to deprive students of a school-spon- pages/Let-Constance-Take-Her-Girlfriend-to- issued him a discharge letter for violating the their most desperate hour, who they really are? sored activity rather than change their policies Prom/357686784817. (McMillen has more than “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) policy. Since then, A soldier struggling with those sorts of issues, to treat all students equally and equitably. By 265,000 fans.) In addition, those who would Choi has been a prominent figure in the effort to on top of all the other stressors of war, cannot canceling the prom, they are basically admitting like to voice their opinions directly can do so repeal the law. While much attention has been confide in a chaplain, or a mental health profes- their policies are illegal; they are now aware of by e-mailing Itawamba County School District given to repealing DADT as of late, Choi says it’s sional because of the fear of getting kicked out it, and they still don’t want to change them. Superintendent Teresa McNeece at tmcneece@ not enough. Last Friday, he spoke with Windy of the military. You talk about hate crimes… The “In the ‘90s, East High School in Salt Lake City itawamba.k12.ms.us. City Times about DADT and his experience as an suffering that those soldiers must endure, in ad- openly gay soldier. dition to everything else, that is a hate crime. Windy City Times: “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”… “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” is a hate crime. The president said he wants the law repealed, WCT: You are an activist. Don’t your actions, and he’s directed Secretary of Defense Robert as an activist, defy military protocol? Gates to come up with a plan to do so. You’re DC: I believe that my actions—that speaking not satisfied. Why? out against this discriminatory law—are my duty Dan Choi: It’s a major disappointment to see as a soldier and activist. I believe that what is the commander-in-chief not take stronger ac- at a deficit in the movement towards equality, Constance tion on this. When you consider what’s going on are leaders who base their contributions on ac- McMillen and within our movement, we as gay people are set- tions, rather than words. her dad, tling for eloquent speeches. It’s an important WCT: As a soldier, you knew that revealing Michael lesson, not just in the struggle to repeal “Don’t yourself to be gay would, more than likely, McMillen. Ask, Don’t Tell,” it’s a values lesson that digs at have repercussions. Did you intend to become Photo courtesy the sole of the gay community. With this law—it an activist by outing yourself? Did you intend of Chris being the only law that stipulates that you must to become the poster child for repealing Hampton, be in the closet or be fired [from the military]— DADT? ACLU we cannot tolerate this sort of discrimination. DC: I didn’t intend for this eruption of me- We cannot tolerate waiting one year to study dia attention just by saying “I am gay.” I knew the effects of repealing it, which, essentially, is that saying it was a violation of the “Don’t Ask, support for people with HIV. Quinn’s request for a delay tactic. Don’t Tell” policy. I did not fully anticipate this AFC: HIV services HIV programs is only about 50 percent of the WCT: Why is waiting a year to implement a outcome, but I am convinced that it is a wor- $44.06 million needed. plan of action to repeal DADT a delay tactic? thy outcome. My role now is a necessary one. I underfunded by On a positive note, AFC said, Quinn proposed DC: When you think about the 2010 elections hope my actions help other people to be true to $22 million level funding for programs such as minority-HIV and this false sense of fear—that putting people their identity. That’s the ultimate goal in all of prevention ($3.15 million), and HIV and correc- Illinois Gov. Pat Quinn has proposed a fiscal to a vote during midterm elections will hurt their this now. If that requires being in the media to tions ($1.94 million). year 2011 budget that underfunds HIV care and legislative agendas—what is most disappoint- do that, then it’s OK. You can talk about the AFC is urging citizens to contact state legisla- prevention services by $22 million, according to ing about that is it puts political expediency as 1.3 billion tax dollars that have been spent to tors about funding, asking them to visit www. a statement from the AIDS Foundation of Chi- a priority over the rights of the most discrimi- kick people out and all the personal stories of capwiz.com/aidschicago/issues/alert/?alertid=1 cago (AFC). nated people in America. All of us, not just gay gay soldiers, but unless those statistics are used 4792821&type=TA. “The state budget is broken,” said Mark people, but all of us who love this country have to underscore the immorality of this law, then In other AFC-related news, the foundation Ishaug, the foundation’s president/CEO. “We an obligation to push back against hesitation to what’s the point? has debuted Dose of Change, a new online tool need legislators to show leadership and advance repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Waiting longer Choi is one of 59 gay Arabic linguists, aimed at offering technical assistance and ca- a responsible and balanced solution to the state to repeal it reeks of compromise. We [those in and nine gay Farsi linguists, who have been pacity building for AIDS advocates across the budget crisis that funds all our priorities, includ- favor of repealing DADT] are on the right side of discharged from the military as a result of country, according to a press release. The forum ing education, healthcare, human services and history. This is the right thing to do right now. DADT. urges advocates to exchange information regard- more. The best solution is comprehensive tax It will make our country stronger. For more on Lt. Choi, visit www.ltdanchoi. ing the advancement of HIV/AIDS public policy. reform like [House Bill] 174.” WCT: You are fortunate to have had a posi- com. For more of this interview—including The blog is accessible at aidsconnect.net/ AFC added that services at risk include the tive experience with your fellow soldiers. why Choi says a moratorium on firing dose. AFC Vice President David Ernesto Munar AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP), which Other members of the military have not been gay soldiers is not enough—visit www. said, “It’s really a one-stop shop for anyone in- provides medication to low-income people with so fortunate. If DADT is repealed, do you WindyCityMediaGroup.com. terested in honing their craft and becoming a HIV; HIV-prevention programs; and housing and think there will be increases in hate crimes more impactful advocate.” Mar. 17, 2010 7 leave CAF someday and work in affordable hous- follow your passion.” Gaylon Alcaraz: ing because it is all tied together.” Alcaraz writes about the history and ongoing For Alcaraz, even the experience of coming struggle to protect women’s reproductive free- The personal out as a lesbian became connected with her ac- dom at chicagoabortionfund.com/ed_report. tivism. “I had left an abusive marriage. I did php. Jessica became not get involved with women because of this, Alcaraz and 24 other activists will be hon- Halem. but after leaving the relationship I found I was ored Wed., March 24, at the Chicago Founda- Photo by the political attracted to one of my co-workers,” she said. tion for Women 2010 Impact Awards. Visit Marc by Micki Leventhal Nothing romantic ever became of that crush, www.cfw.org or call 312-577-2801. Pagani but it opened Alcaraz’s eyes and heart to the Gaylon Alcaraz, executive director of the Chica- possibility of an orientation for which she had JH: [Laughs] You know, that’s so funny because go Abortion Fund (CAF), grew up in Chicago and no framework or reference point. She went to Queer comic in Chicago they either know Sarah Lawrence or graduated from Queen of Peace High School on People Like Us bookstore looking for answers. they don’t. I never understand the anxiety about the far southwest side. Her experiences as a mi- “I gathered up books and all the free newspa- Jessica Halem having to come out to people as queer because nority African-American student in this all-girls pers,” she said. “I found Blacklines [which was school set her on her path fighting for social merged with En la Vida to form the online pub- returns home all I have to do is mention I went to Sarah Law- justice. lication Identity] and read it from front to back. By ANDREW DAVIS rence and people go, “Oh...” “There were only about 30 Black kids in my I called every number in the resource section WCT: What do you miss about Chicago? class. It was the 1980s and there was still a lot that seemed like it was for Black lesbian women. It has been a couple of years since queer femi- JH: The people, first and foremost; I just had of racism, a lot of isolation, separation. I re- The only one that called back was Affinity, and nist comic Jessica Halem left Chicago but she so many friends. And—oh, my God—you know member being targeted in certain classes,” ex- that’s how I became involved with them. I went occasionally returns—and will be back March what I really miss? I miss my clout. I miss know- plained Alcaraz, who credits her family for much to a meeting, scared to death—drove down from 20 to perform at Congregation Or Chadash’s an- ing where to go to get things printed, I miss of her naturally outspoken spirit. Lincoln Park to 62nd and Indiana. My life was nual gala, which will honor Howard Wax, Rob knowing what restaurant is going to help me do “The high school environment was very trau- changed from that point.” She became a vol- Pooley and civil-rights attorney Joey Mogul. a fundraiser and I miss knowing the bars where matic for me, but it was a powerful learning ex- unteer for the group, writing their newsletter Halem talked with Windy City Times about going I can get free drinks. This no-clout thing in this perience. It wasn’t easy, but it made me in a lot and undertaking a myriad of other duties. Most to Sarah Lawrence and what she misses about new city really sucks. of ways. Seeing what is right and what is wrong recently she served as board vice president. “I Chicago. WCT: So what led you from the Pacific and not backing down from that and refusing to did not come out in the bars. I came out into Windy City Times: I didn’t know you grew Northwest [where you moved after leaving have my voice stifled.” activism,” she said. Relationships followed. up in Kent, Ohio. Chicago] to New Orleans? Alcaraz began as a community organizer, edu- Alcaraz, 42, returned to college after joining Jessica Halem: Oh, yeah! My dad [Henry JH: Red [Halem’s partner] was working on a cating low-income renters on HUD regulations CAF in May 2005. She enrolled in DePaul Uni- Halem] taught glass and glass-blowing at Kent Ph.D. for a long time. When he finally finished and other housing issues. Mother of two (Nicho- versity’s School for New Learning, designing a State for 30 years; my mother is also intimately the Ph.D.—and Red goes by “he” now because las, 21, and Zoe, 16), she has worked with local course of study in organizing marginalized com- involved with Kent State. They arrived in Kent— he’s so super-cool—he got a job in the Pacific school councils, neighborhood organizations and munities. She finished her undergraduate degree they’re New York Jews, as you can imagine. They Northwest. But with the academic job market numerous youth development initiatives, as well two years ago and is now pursuing her master’s were East Coast Jews, and they arrived in Kent, being what it is, you have to go where the jobs as sexual minority, gender equity, anti-violence in applied professional studies/reproductive- Ohio; they were on a lot of drugs and I think are; now we’re in New Orleans, where he’s teach- and race and culture issues. Is there one issue justice issues. they were supposed to be at Penn State. [Inter- ing at Tulane. that stands out for her as being more important “You can come into social justice work early or viewer laughs.] They got there just before the Find out much more about Jessica—includ- than another? late,” Alcaraz said. “I landed this first executive [1970 campus] shootings, and they really helped ing what the attendees can expect from her at “If a gay person doesn’t have healthcare, or a director position without a degree, but I had a to keep the school going; they got involved in the March 20 gala—online at www.WindyCity- job that provides healthcare, that’s economic— lot of experience, a lot of passion, some skills the aftermath that Kent State went through, and MediaGroup.com. plus gender, plus LGBT. It is all intertwined,” she and I was given a chance.” For those wanting to now they’re like a bedrock for that community. For more info about the March 20 Congre- said. “All the issues hold high importance. When follow a similar path she suggests volunteering, WCT: [Joking] And when I saw you went gation Or Chadash gala, see www.events.org/ everything is not balanced the way it should be taking classes and networking: “Go to events, to Sarah Lawrence [College], I said, “Say no cpage.aspx?e=24827. in society, you have a lack of justice. I could meet people, get outside your comfort zone. And more. Columbia College Chicago Fiction Writing Department presents -,# MARCH 14 19, 2010 FREE & OPEN TO THE PUBLIC ' 5 ,2 2- !& ,%# 2