AN O INDEPENDENTU VOICE FOR THE TLESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER COMMUNITIES October 3, 2014 | Volume XII, Issue 11 Kelly Neel Resigns from GLCCB

By Steve Charing changes over the past 15 months including Kelly Neel, interim executive director of the the sale of the long-held building on Chase GLCCB, resigned on September 19. She was Street and the eventual move to its current appointed to that post shortly after the resig- headquarters in the Waxter Center. The Cen- Kelly nation of the previous executive director Matt ter endured much criticism from the commu- Neel Thorn in April. The effective date of her resig- nity on the sale of the building and its shifting credit: cour- tesy of Kelly nation is October 3. of Pride to the Mount Royal area just north of Neel “It has been a tumultuous time for the or- its previous location in the Mt. Vernon neigh- ganization, which has been in transition for borhood. quite some time now,” Neel wrote in an email In July the Center came under fire during to community members, colleagues and an open town hall meeting over issues of di- friends. “While I believe that we have navi- versity on the board, transparency, the move gated the past year to the best of our abilities, of the Pride venue and other matters. Since I no longer feel that my values and my vision then, under Neel, the Center moved swiftly to align with those of our leadership, and have address this disquiet by posting more infor- since made the decision to focus my talents mation, such as financial statements, board elsewhere.” meeting minutes and board applications (the The GLCCB has undergone critical —continued on p. 3 Trans Rights Law in Effect

By Steve Charing to petition the law to referendum. On October 1, the Fairness for All Mary- “This law is critical in the lives of transgen- landers Act of 2014 went into effect. This der Marylanders,” said Equality Maryland’s Ex- law updates the state’s anti-discrimination ecutive Director Carrie Evans in a statement. laws in the areas of employment, housing, “For too long it has been okay to fire transgen- places of public accommodation and credit der people, kick them out of their apartments to include transgender individuals. and deny them service at a restaurant.” Previous attempts to pass compre- Currently six local jurisdictions in Mary- hensive non-discrimination legislation land have anti-discrimination laws that include based on gender identity failed in Mary- protections for transgender people: Balti- land’s General Assembly. On March 4, more, Howard and 2014, however, Senate Bill 212 passed the Montgomery Coun- PHOTOS Maryland Senate with a 32-15 vote. The ties, Baltimore City, House of Delegates passed the measure College Park and FROM on March 27 with a 82-57 vote. Senator Hyattsville. Mary- THE Rich Madaleno (D-Montgomery) and Del- land joins 17 states egate Luke Clippinger (D-Baltimore City) and the District of GAY were the law’s chief sponsors in the Gen- Columbia in provid- ’20S eral Assembly. ing anti-discrimina- The bill was signed by Gov. O’Malley on tion protections to May 15. Opponents were unsuccessful in transgender peo- Fairness for All Marylanders Act signed into law their attempts to gather enough signatures ple. t

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Kelly Neel Resigns from GLCCB the GLCCB there has been a culture of dis- – continued from page 1 connect between the various organizations that provide services to our LGBTQ commu- latter has since been removed), on their web- nity. It is a shame that there isn’t more com- site to be more transparent. Moreover, start- munication and collaboration, as people are ing in August, board meetings became open oftentimes unaware of the services available to the public. in their own neighborhoods. Neel acknowledged the concerns in her “In the future, I hope the dots can be con- email message. “To those who attended the nected and the city of Baltimore, all of its pro- town hall and were brave enough to speak up viders and organizations can work in unison and air their concerns about the organization, towards creating a safer, more supportive, thank you for your honesty. Without commu- and robust home for Baltimore’s LGBTQ resi- nity input, we couldn’t possibly be successful dents and visitors. The more we work togeth- in providing the programming, services, and er, the higher we can lift one another.” events that are needed. It is my deepest hope Mike McCarthy, President of the Board, that the GLCCB’s Board of Directors and fu- was surprised by the resignation prior to the ture leadership will continue to listen and will completion of the selection process. “We cer- take the community’s input to heart.” tainly acknowledge that Kelly didn’t enter the Neel thanked the multitude of volunteers role in an ideal situation and had a difficult who have helped the Center. She wished the transition from Matt (Thorn),” McCarthy told Center luck and explained she is not leaving Baltimore OUTloud. “We appreciate the work Baltimore’s LGBT community and pledges Kelly did while serving in an interim capacity to stay involved to advocate for those in the and wish her the best in her future endeav- community who need it the most. ors.” She adds, “I would also like to use this It appears that Joel Tinsley-Hall has been opportunity to say that during my tenure at hired as the new executive director. t

PFLAG and GRMD to Celebrate Trans Rights

By Steve Charing were unsuccessful. PFLAG and GRMD The Howard County chapter of PFLAG and played key roles in the passage of FAMA Gender Rights Maryland (GRMD) will hold a working behind the scenes with legislative celebration of the passage of the Fairness leaders. for All Marylanders Act (FAMA). The legisla- “We are excited to celebrate with our tion, SB212, which prohibits discrimination PFLAG allies on the occasion of the gender in employment, housing, credit, and public identity protections taking effect in Mary- accommodations based on gender identity, land,” said Brackett. “Without their support in was passed during the 2014 Maryland Gen- Annapolis and Howard and Baltimore Coun- eral Assembly and signed into law by Gov- ties this would never have been a reality.” t ernor Martin O’Malley. Opponents failed to garner the requisite number of signatures to place the measure on the November ballot. Sharon The effective date of the law is October 1. Brackett The “pot luck” celebration will take place (left) and on October 14 from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. at the Catherine Owen Brown Interfaith Center, 7246 Cra- Hyde dlerock Way, Columbia, Maryland. “We are very pleased to be able to cel- ebrate the passage of the Fairness for all Marylanders Act,” Heath Goisovich, event coordinator and advocacy committee co- chair, told Baltimore OUTloud. “We have been working on this for a long time and are pleased to know that all transgender Mary- landers will be treated equally under the law.” Led by Sharon Brackett, GRMD board chair, and Catherine Hyde and Heath Go- isovich of PFLAG, both organizations were instrumental in getting similar laws passed in Howard and Baltimore Counties in 2011 and 2012, respectively as statewide attempts

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At the scene was Harris who appeared Woman Stabs to have self-inflicted non-life-threatening lac- Speak Fire Panel In addition to the panel discussion erations to the interior of her forearms and events, HIV testing by Chase Brexton Girlfriend to Death abdomen. Both Johnson and Harris were Series Launches Health Services will be available onsite. transported to separate hospitals, and John- The next Speak Fire panel will take By Steve Charing son succumbed despite medical interven- with ‘House’ place on November 13. The theme is “Un- On September 23, Baltimore City Police ar- tion. earthing Our Trans Queer Legacy.” t rested and charged Tamala Harris, 25, in Harris was treated and released after ini- connection with the tially refusing medical treatment. She was By Steve Charing stabbing death of then transported to the Homicide Section. The Center for Black Equity Baltimore and her girlfriend Tekeya Harris told the officer that she had a domes- the FreeState Legal Project have part- Amanda Johnson, tic fight with Johnson. An independent wit- nered to host a “Speak Fire” panel series 12th Annual 24, in the 6000 block ness reported hearing the women cursing for black LGBTQ folks and allies. Its pur- Black Pride of Amberwood Road and yelling at each other prior to the police’s pose is to reflect on histories of great re- arrival. Harris reportedly told a medic on the in the Northeast sec- sistance and love with the goal being that The Center for Black Equity-Baltimore (for- scene that her girlfriend was stabbed. Sev- tion of Baltimore. understanding the lives of all human be- merly Baltimore Black Pride) will be spon- eral knives were recovered from the apart- According to po- ings matter. soring its 12th Annual Baltimore Black ment, and evidence indicated there had lice charging docu- The first of these panels will be a discus- Pride (BBP) 2014 Celebration. This year’s been a struggle prior to the stabbing. ments, officers re- sion on “What Do You Know About House.” theme is, “I Am Black Pride.” The Center According to court records, Harris was sponded to a report It will take place on October 9 from 6 to 7:30 for Black Equity-Baltimore is a member of charged with Second Degree Murder, First at around 5 a.m. of a T amala Harris p.m., and from 8 to 9 p.m. there will be a the Center for Black Equity, which for ten Degree Assault, Reckless Endangerment, domestic-related in- Vogue Class by Boom St. Laurent. These years has worked on black LGBT issues. Second Degree Assault, and Possession of cident and a non-breathing individual. When will take place at Chase Brexton Health The mission and vision statements a Dangerous Weapon with the Intent to In- entering the apartment whose door was Services’s Community Meeting Room, 1111 are to eradicate social inequality of black jure. Harris is currently being held at the Bal- ajar, the officer shouted “Police!” The officer North Charles Street, Baltimore. LGBT persons as well to improve the well- timore City Detention Center. A preliminary heard a female voice, later identified as Ta- being and quality of life through health and hearing will be held on October 22. mala Harris, stating “over here.” He entered wellness, spiritual and economic empow- A funeral service for Tekeya Johnson is the rear bedroom where Tekeya Johnson erment, social justice, and coalition build- scheduled for October 3 at March Funeral was lying on the floor, unresponsive, with a ing. Home, 1101 East North Avenue in Baltimore. t stab wound to the lower abdominal area. This year’s celebrations and activities will take place October 6 to 12. BBP has engaged several community partners to participate in the youth / young-adult pride. The youth town hall meeting on October 6 is titled “Speak Up & Shut Up” – a youth perspective to barriers to health care. It takes place at Johns Hopkins University Bloomberg School of Public Health, 615 North Wolfe Street, Room W3008, from 6 to 8 p.m. There will be karaoke at Ziascoz on October 8 for ages 21 and over. On October 9 the SpeakFire Panel se- House has long been celebrated as an ries is launched. (See companion story.) art form within the black LGBTQ commu- On October 10 the Star Track project nity. The panel will discuss the history of health youth block party will take place the House scene and its role in LGBTQ re- at 120 Penn Street from 2 to 6 p.m. This sistance as a way to create change in the year’s meet-and-greet at Club Bunns face of oppression. along with Icons We Love award presen- “We’re excited to introduce the Speak tations 606/608 West Lexington Street. Fire panel series during this year’s Bal- Another meet-and-greet will be at Ziascoz, timore Black Pride,” said Carlton Smith, 1313 East Pratt Street. executive director of the Center for Black October 11 is National Coming Out Equity Baltimore. Day (NCOD), which will be commemo- The panel consists of leaders within rated at the GLSEN Summit at Towson the African-American LGBTQ community. University, West Village Commons – 424 The idea for the Speak Fire Panel Series Emerson Drive, Towson, Maryland. It came about through a partnership between takes place from 12:30 to 9 p.m. Celebrate FreeState Legal Project and Center for NCOD in the community at the Drinkery Black Equity Baltimore. “We recognized with Baltimore Black Pride during Happy that it was vital to bring together Black LG- Hours. BTQ leaders in Baltimore City and County The BBP finale is the Fall Festival at to talk about the issues that were relevant Club Bunns from 4 to 10 p.m. t to our lives,” said Saida Agostini.

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compiled by Jim Becker ple are six times more likely than gay men from social interactions with her.” in my life. The fact that the CDC wanted and lesbians to be closeted. This impacts EEOC attorney Laurie Young told the to use my face and voice to help educate the emotional well-being of many bisexual Detroit TV station that federal law “prohib- others is a millstone for both the HIV/AIDS people and is a contributing factor to the its employers from firing employees be- communities and the transgender commu- community’s higher rates of poor physical cause they do not behave according to the nity,” she added. and mental health.” (Seattle Gay News – employer’s stereotypes of how men and More than 1.1 million people in the Mike Andrew at Sgn.org) women should act.” (Dallas Voice – Tammy United States are infected with HIV, the vi- Nash at Dallasvoice.com) rus that causes AIDS. Southern states now have the highest rates of new HIV diagno- ses, the largest percentage of people living Federal with the disease and the most people dy- Transgender ing from it, according to Rainey Campbell, commission files executive director of the Southern AIDS woman part of Coalition, a non-profit group serving the 16 suit supporting Southern states and Washington, D.C. Fif- new CDC HIV ty percent of all new HIV cases are in the trans workers South. “I always tell people that knowledge Bisexuals are prevention effort is power and to know your status by getting Washington, D.C. – The Equal Em- tested. Also be responsible with everything majority of those ployment Opportunity Commission has, Atlanta, Geogria – The Centers for that you do – use clean needles, never for the first time ever, filed federal lawsuits Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) just share needles and use protection with all that identify as on behalf of transgender workers fired by launched a new HIV awareness campaign forms of sex, Barge said. (Q-Notes Online employers because of the gender identity/ this past month, “HIV Treatment Works!” – Jennifer Barge at Q-notes.com) LGBT gender expression. EEOC filed suit against The campaign is the first of its kind, utiliz- R.G & G.R. Harris Funeral Homes of Gar- ing the stories and faces of people who are Washington, D.C. – Bisexuals make den City, Michigan, on behalf of embalmer living with HIV and are on treatment for the up 52% of the LGBT community, a new and funeral director Amiee Stephens, and condition. Fifteen people across the coun- Inspired by report says, and despite their numbers, against Lakeland Eye clinic in Florida on try were chosen to share their challenges they fare worse than gay men and lesbi- behalf of Brandi Branson, according to re- and successes with staying in treatment Uganda, Gambia ans when it comes to income and work- for HIV. The campaign will feature print ing conditions. The study, by Movement ads for magazines, posters and billboards. passes anti-gay Advancement Project, in conjunction with Participants also created public service Bi Resource Center and BiNet USA, was announcements which will be hitting cable law released September 23 to mark Bisexual stations over the next few months. Awareness Week. The finding that bisexu- “As a local resident of Asheville, and Banjul, Gambia – Mirroring legisla- als make up a majority of the LGBT com- a long-time survivor of HIV/AIDS, I was tion thrown out by Uganda’s top court on a munity is consistent with previous studies. thrilled to be asked to be one of the 15 technicality, the Gambian National Assem- “Bisexual people are vulnerable to ... people to take part in the campaign, said bly passed a law calling for life sentences poor physical and mental health outcomes Jennifer Barge. “It is a groundbreaking for cases of “aggravated homosexuality.” – often at rates higher than their lesbian project showing that an HIV/AIDS positive The term applies to people with HIV and and gay peers,” the report concludes, and diagnosis does not have to be the end, but those who are repeatedly arrested for gay- disproportionate levels of discrimination, instead the disease can be managed and sex offenses. violence, poverty, and suicide, the report risk of transmission can be diminished. By Gambia recently banned flights into the concludes. According to the report, some choosing me, the CDC for the first time country following confirmation of the first 25% of bi men and 30% of bi women live in also chose to use a transgender person Ebola death in Senegal, which surrounds poverty, in contrast to 20% of gay men and as a spokes- 23% of lesbians. At work, almost three in person. As a five bisexual employees have heard jokes ports by CBS channel WWJ-TV in Detroit. transwoman or comments about their sexuality, and feel Stephens was fired in 2013 after six who survived like they work in a hostile environment. years with the Garden City funeral home an AIDS diag- Ineke Mushovic of the Movement Ad- when she told her boss she was transi- nosis about vancement Project said that despite being tioning from male to female. That lawsuit 18 years ago, a majority of the LGBT population, “[Bisex- was filed in U.S. District Court in Detroit. when I was uals] are among the most invisible... The Branson was fired from her job as direc- told I would be failure to account for bisexual lives and tor of hearing services at Lakeland Eye in dead in about experiences compounds a lack of social 2011 after saying that she would be tran- four weeks, support and keeps bisexual people in the sitioning from male to female. The lawsuit this campaign closet,” she added. “Bisexual people of- in her case, filed in a Tampa federal court, is important ten face pervasive stereotypes and myths alleges that when Branson began wearing because the surrounding bisexuality,” adds Ellyn Ruth- “feminine attire” to work, including makeup stigma related strom, president of the Bisexual Resource and “women’s tailored clothing,” she saw to both HIV and Center. “The fear of being stereotyped her coworkers snickering and rolling their transgender is manifests itself in a real way: bisexual peo- eyes at her, and that coworkers “withdrew commonplace

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the country on three sides. Apparently, the But now, starting with the new annual Ameri- sex couples accounted for a sliver of that to- Gambian government is more concerned can Community Survey, they are in among tal, some 251,695 homes. In North Carolina, with butt-sex than hemorrhagic fever. The the family totals. there were an estimated 19,327 households legislation awaits the signature of Presi- The change delighted Lynn Helms and with same-sex couples, including 6,469 dent Yahya Jammeh, who said earlier this Laura Murphey, a Stallings, North Carolina, homes, or nearly 34 percent, with married year, “We will fight these vermins called ho- couple who got married in Washington, D.C., couples. In 2012, an estimated 27 percent mosexuals or gays the same way we are in 2011. They also have a ten-year-old son. of same-sex couples were married, the data fighting malaria-causing mosquitoes, if not “We certainly talk about us as a family,” Helms showed. Same-sex couples who live together more aggressively.” said. “It’s nice for the census to come into this but are not married are still counted as “un- “These draconian laws have no place century and do the same.” Murphey agreed married partners,” the same designation for in the 21st Century, and the United States and called the change an important step in unmarried opposite-sex couples. The Census must send a clear message – privately or acknowledging the diversity of American cul- Bureau has counted same-sex couples since publicly – to the Gambian leadership that a ture. “It’s nice to be recognized,” Murphey 1990. t (Q-Notes Online & the Charlotte Ob- government must not trample on the rights of said. “We see each other as a married couple server – Adam Bell at Q-notes.com) its LGBT citizens,” said Ty Cobb, the Human on a day-to-day basis. (The census change) Rights Campaign Director of Global Engage- Census: same- makesLike a differenceLike Us in Us Onthe bigger On picture.” ment. “This bill is part of the rising tide of ho- That picture includes nearly 56 million T hese news notes have been compiled, mophobia in many African nations, whose sex marrieds married-coupleFacebook!Facebook! households in the nation last with permission, from the online version government leaders are working to deny year, according to the new estimates. Same- of various newspapers and other web the rights of their LGBT citizens through a are families sites. We thank these publications for campaign of misinformation and discrimina- allowing us to bring you their news sto- tory laws and policies,” said Shawn Gaylord, Charlotte, N.C. – As reported in the ries. Usually the reports have been sig- director of Human Rights First. “The United Charlotte Observer, new census data re- nificantly edited and you can read the States and the international community leased on September 18 made a simple but full story by going to the web site men- should continue to work closely with Afri- substantial change in categorizing same-sex tioned following the item. Comments can human rights activists and civil society married couples: They now are considered are strictly the opinions of Jim Becker leaders to promote the protection of the hu- families. In prior years, the U.S. Census Bu- and not of Baltimore OUTloud or Pride man rights of all Africans.” (Gay People’s reau counted such couples as “unmarried Media. Chronicle – at Gaypeopleschronicle.com) partners,” even if they were legally married.

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3,, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 7 news // national Sentenced to Life as a Teen After False Accusation, Bernard Baran Dies at 49 Bernard Baran, who was a gay teenager helped spark widespread interest in the case, terrible medical of the children, a pseudoscientific when he was sentenced to life in prison eventually leading to his release in 2006. care, probably practice now thoroughly discred- in 1985 for crimes against children he Baran was convicted of sexually abus- contributing to ited. Reports and statements that never committed, died suddenly on Sep- ing five children at the Early Childhood his death. “Baran may have assisted Mr. Baran, such tember 1st at the age Development Center in was a frail, openly as the coaching of a child by a par- of 49, eight years after “Baran was a frail, Pittsfield, where he worked. gay 19-year-old ent hoping for a cash settlement he was exonerated and Years later, fighting for his when he was sent and the possibility that a family released from Massa- openly gay 19-year- release, Baran’s lawyer John to Walpole,” Mas- member may have abused one of chussets prison and old when he was Swomley argued in 2006 sacchsustts’s noto- the children, were withheld from the awarded $400,000 in that the young man’s origi- rious high-security defense.” compensation from the sent to Walpole,” nal lawyer was incompetent prison, “where ciga- Bee, as Baran was known to state – whose officials Massacchsustts’s – he had failed to discover rettes were offered friends, died suddenly on Septem- nonetheless have so far and introduce videotaped as a prize for killing ber 1, at age 49. He leaves his part- refused to expunge his notorious high- interviews with some of the him. He was raped, ner of eight years, David Colarusso, conviction. security prison, alleged victims stating that beaten, insulted, and a legion of supporters. Baran was among “where cigarettes they had not been molested spat upon, and dis- The Memorial Service for Ber- the first people convicted by Baran, or anyone at all. believed,” notes Bernard Baran around the nard Baran will take place in Boston in a wave of fraudulent were offered as a There was virtually no solid Bob Chatelle of the time he went to prison on October 11, 2014, at 3 p.m. A re- “Satanic abuse” daycare prize for killing evidence against Baran. The NCRJ, which for ception will follow the service. The center cases that swept three-year-old boy Baran al- years championed the man’s case. location is the Staffordshire Room at the the U.S. in the early 1980s him.” legedly sexually abused had According to the Berkshire Eagle, “The Hotel Westin Copley Place. that sent dozens of people gonorrhea in his mouth. Ba- case that ensued in Berkshire Superior The family suggests donations in his to jail on spurious charges, ran tested negative for gon- Court in the midst of this ugly climate was memory to the National Center for Reason with cooked up charges promoted by ideo- orrhea, though his mother’s boyfriend test- a throwback to the Salem witch trials. The and Justice (NCRJ). The mailing address logically charged social workers and unscru- ed positive – evidence authorites ignored courtroom was closed during the testi- is NCRJ, PO Box 191101, Roxbury, Mas- pulous prosecutors. Coverage of his case in in their rush to railroad Baran. mony of the alleged victims, a violation of sachusets 02119 or online at Freebaran. The Guide, a now-defunct Boston-based gay Baran experienced dozens of rapes Mr. Baran’s right to public trial. Psycholo- org. t – This article based in part on Bay magazine, by journalist Jim D’Entremont, and assaults while in prison and received gists testified to the ‘repressed memories’ Windows’s coverage of this case.

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tivities and finances from the last year; dis- T he cast of Frederick Center: cuss the various committees and how one The Legends can become more involved; celebrate their Meeting & Picnic Set new official status as a 501(c)(3) tax ex- empt nonprofit organization; and present By Steve Charing goals for the coming year. Ideas for the On October 11, the Frederick LGBT Com- community and one-on-one meetings with munity Center will hold their annual meet- the board members are encouraged. ing. Those interested are asked to gather Following the annual meeting there will in Kidwiler Park at Rosedale starting at 9 be a free-form picnic. A dish to share is a.m. (rain or shine), requested as well as a favorite non-alco- near 518 Schley holic beverage (alcohol is prohibited at all Avenue in Freder- city parks). The Frederick Center will pro- ick (see details and vide bottled water. There is parking on the directions at Md- street around the park but ride-sharing, frederick.civicplus. walking, and biking are encouraged. com/Facilities/Fa- For more information on this free event, t cility/Details/136). visit Thefrederickcenter.org. kind experience at The Maryland Theatre, Pink, Reba McEntire, and Jennifer Lopez. The annual 27 South Potomac Street, Hagerstown. “Although these stars will be lip-synch- meeting will be followed by a community “High energy and high quality marks ing, you will be swept away in the illusion, picnic. Folks should meet at the pavilion ‘Night of the Living this 90-minute all-age Halloween show for performance and – most importantly – the at the park. There will be access to the the entire family starring Western Mary- glitz and the glamour,” says Velasquez who children’s playground, the soccer field and Dead’ Comes to land’s finest male and female imperson- co-produces the event with Ryan Dryden. the basketball court (if no one else has re- ators,” says show producer Joe Velasquez. Night of the Living Dead and Ahhhlive! is served these last two). Hagerstown “The Legends’ all-star cast of imperson- directed by Scott Ruble aka Araya Sparxx. The Frederick Center annual meeting ators is beyond your average drag show.” Tickets are available at Dhwebsites. starts promptly at 10 a.m. in the pavilion By Steve Charing The performers recreate the likenesses com/mdt/tickets.php.For more information, and will last approximately one hour. Lead- On October 24, The Legends: Celebrity of favorite legendary artists, such as Bette visit LegendsCelebrityShow.com, email ers of the organization will be introduced; Impersonators Show will bring Night of the Midler, Elvis, Tina Turner, and Michael Jack- contact@legendscelebrityshow, or call there will be a report on The Center’s ac- Living Dead and Ahhhlive! – a first of its son to current celebrities like Dolly Parton, 202-309-2832. t

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the best of our abilities, I no longer feel that dertaken by both sides to my values and my vision align with those of improve the relationship. our leadership.” (See front page story.) To be clear, Neel was OUT Prior to the resignation, a search for a just one person given for- Spoken permanent executive director was underway. midable tasks to manage Neel saw the handwriting on the wall: she the Center. As she had Steve Charing was not going to win the job through a com- previously pointed out in petitive process. Neel told me that she did not an open letter, “it takes a receive support from the board of directors; village.” All the essential there was a decided lack of communication operations and programs The GLCCB’s between the board and her; she did not feel of the GLCCB should not valued or respected; and there was a “discon- be the responsibility of Mounting nect” regarding her vision on financial strate- one person. The board gies and event planning. should not simply super- Challenges A member of the board acknowledged vise the executive director she was not likely to be offered the perma- but to also assume an “all The resignation of interim executive director nent position though she would have been hands on deck” posture to Kelly Neel from the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, considered along with other candidates. For actively help out as well. That has not happened. Kelly Neel marching at Pride and Transgender Community Center of Balti- their part, the board was dissatisfied with her credit: Steve Charing more and Central Maryland (GLCCB) further handling of the job, managing and presenting To the public (and the brings to light the mounting challenges facing budgets, and the manner in which she inter- executive director is in- the 35 year-old institution. In a candid email acted with board members. deed the public face of the Center) Neel dem- even include program-related expenses. sent to 180 friends and colleagues, Neel, who Without getting into the he-said, she- onstrated a calm temperament and demean- Neel rightly acknowledged there is a served in that capacity for about five months said details, one thing is clear: they didn’t get or during the contentious town hall meeting growing apathy among the LGBT communi- following the resignation of her predecessor along, and she resigned on her own terms at the Waxter Center in July. She was among ties towards the Center, which would take Matt Thorn, wrote, “It has been a tumultuous without having to go through the process of those in the cross-hairs during that event, an enormous effort to reverse. Two months time for the organization, which has been in inevitably losing out to another candidate. handling the barbs with professionalism, ago I outlined some common-sense sugges- transition for quite some time now. While I be- Cohesion is critical in any organization, and class, and respect. She pledged and followed tions to right the ship (Baltimoreoutloud.com/ lieve that we have navigated the past year to perhaps a better effort could have been un- through on the prevailing theme of establish- thinking-outloud/outspoken/item/2748-the- ing transparency by posting minutes of previ- center-at-the-crossroads). If followed, there is ous board meetings (to the extent that they a chance the Center could build a brand that were available), financial reports, and board will provide a rationale for its existence and applications (since removed) to the GLCCB’s the donations would possibly follow. website. She also arranged for open board The key to success is community buy- meetings of which two have taken place. in. The GLCCB must express a vision that it As Neel pointed out, she functioned in rightly has a place in Baltimore and whose an environment that she termed as “tumul- mission is not centered on Pride alone. It tuous” – a generous characterization. She needs to extend their hands to all com- assumed the post of interim executive di- munities and allow representatives to help rector just a couple of months before Pride formulate and act on the Center’s mission. It whereby decisions had already been made needs a diverse board with a broad range of to shift the location. Her task was to imple- experiences that would be willing to roll up ment those decisions in a tight timeframe, their sleeves and work. The Center should and despite some cracks in the walls, she continue what Neel was beginning to ac- and her staff of volunteers pulled off the complish by holding small, inexpensive, huge event quite well. and affordable events to raise money and Prior to Neel’s appointment, the GLCCB’s to show more visibility and relevancy. move to new digs at the Waxter Center last Instability at the top (and that includes winter did not go over well. The new venue the revolving door on the board) is not the was and still is not physically and cosmetical- way to maintain rapport and business re- ly ready for prime time, depriving the Center lationships with other entities nor will it from holding a welcoming open house to help help bolster confidence in an organization reset their image. And the sale of the previous that is in need of it. Kelly Neel was not the building as well as the move itself was con- problem and a search for a permanent ex- troversial because of the lack of transparency ecutive director could have waited. and community input. The focus should be on developing During the town hall and since, Neel is- a clear strategy to deal with the financial sued a public warning that the Center needs crisis and fast. Perhaps most importantly, the community to survive. The financial pic- however, the communities must feel there ture for the GLCCB looks dismal with mount- is a reason to keep the GLCCB going. ing debt and a lack of a reliable income stream These are challenges, to be sure, but to sustain a minimum of $10,000 per month if not met, the doors could shut down for for operations and personnel. This doesn’t good. t 10 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com Quality of Life

nomenon for the LGBT community. actually lost about 75 followers (readers) It is too early to assess the effects of because they basically considered me to be marriage equality, but there is research that confused? Wait a minute, don’t we hate that Ask shows that positive or negative attitudes to- Bi- word? I have heard that people in my own wards same-sex marriage influence health Lines LGBT family have called me phony, a pre- Dr. J care and even mortality rates. In 2010, Dr. Nicole Bettis tender, and anything else that diminishes Janan Broadbent, Ph.D. Mark Hatzenbuehler reported that in states my character in the queer community, all with bans, LGBT individuals experienced a because I feel in love with another person 37 % increase in mood disorders, 42% in- because of who he is and didn’t dismiss him crease in alcohol-use disorders, and a two- Rainbow because of what he is (male). Even though The Stress fold increase in generalized anxiety disor- I’m not hurt by the overwhelming negative ders in the 12 months following the ban. Shade response I’m getting I am surprised, to say of Marriage Such problems did not increase in LGBT the least. I think that’s mostly due to the dis- individuals in states without the bans nor Being judged by others never produces appointment that I have in my community. Equality were there changes for heterosexuals in positive feelings for any of us. Whether the As I previously stated, critics are going to states with the ban. More strikingly, in Feb- judgments that are passed are based on come, it’s inevitable but to have such ridi- ruary 2014, the same researcher found that preconceived notions or stereotypes, fail- cule attached to it, while tumbling off of the We usually associate stress with negative LGBT persons who live in communities with ures, or things that we have absolutely no tongues of my own family, it’s heartbreak- events. But think of when you were look- high anti-gay prejudice have a life expec- control over; judgments make us feel bad. ing. ing forward to a special occasion, such as tancy 12 years shorter than their peers in Even for those of us who were taught early The issue of queer people, throwing a date or vacation. There is stress in posi- least prejudiced communities. The stress of in life that we should never care what other shade on each other actually came up in tive events as well. Stress originates from living in such a community is linked to car- people think, or to simply ignore people’s a conversation I had recently with a good the environment making demands on us, diovascular risk. opinions, we must first get over the initial, friend. When I asked her how she felt whether it is from anxiety, fear, or excite- On a more positive note, Dr. Hatzen- inimical intention of the “judge” and even get about it, she said, “It’s completely hypo- ment. Our bodies respond physiologically buehler found that in Massachusetts, where to the beginning of being unaffected. Luckily, critical! We make such a big noise about and mentally. in 2012 same-sex marriage was legislated, I reached the point of being unaffected years being accepted but, as soon as a situa- With marriage equality becoming a re- there was a 13 % reduction in healthcare ago, but not unconcerned. tion like this comes up we yell ‘betrayal.’ A ality in parts of our country, an option that visits and a 14% reduction in healthcare One would think that the queer commu- lot of people just don’t practice what they used to be absolutely out of the question costs, where the lessening of stigma-relat- nity would be one of the very last groups to preach anymore and it’s kind of sad.” Not has become a choice for many LGBT cou- ed stressors created a protective effect. throw shade on anyone else, especially be- only do I completely agree with her, I feel ples. What are the intended and unintended For many same-sex couples, however, cause we are already so accustomed to being as if a serious re-evaluation is in order. We consequences of this choice? the decision to marry may be a no-brainer. prejudged, ostracized, rejected, abused (the seem to me, to be in a state of regression, Let’s first look at some scientific evi- Not only because they may have made a list could go on forever) ourselves. We know adopting the same bigotry of our adversar- dence same-sex marriage bans have had long-term commitment anyway, but they how it feels first-hand to be denied a position ies, the same attitudes that we fight so hard on individuals. In her 2000 book, Voted also can get the economic and social ben- when one has all the necessary credentials or against. If you can close your eyes to this Out: Psychological Consequences of An- efits of the union. That marriage equality is to be abandoned by family and friends for no and say that there is nothing wrong with this tigay Politics, Dr. Glenda Russell remarks not the law in all states, however, can cre- reason at all. We have each cried those tears picture, shame on you. that when people are in places where they ate complications. What if one spouse is and carried those heavy hearts. That’s why We will never be able to unite fully have more rights as opposed to fewer offered a new job in a state with the ban? this concept is so hard for me to understand. against outside sigma and oppression if rights, mental health is advantaged. How- The financial benefit may negate the access We are the first people to scream “Love is we are constantly separating ourselves ever, with those rights, come new stressors. to protections the marriage had brought. love,” and say things like, “Love has no face, from each other, dividing ourselves into, What might those be? For starters, it means Even more complex is when children are race, or gender”; yet as soon as my heart led opposing factions and tearing each other exposure as an LGBT person. Then, there involved. me into the arms of a man, the whole damn down from within our own community. Af- is pressure from family and friends to get When an option you never thought you gay world stopped spinning. ter all, a rainbow, no matter how splendid, married, and once you get married, to have would have becomes a reality, how do you Despite popular belief, I’m not green by cannot exist where there is shade. Sips children. Those pressures are quite familiar deal with all the new issues and questions a long shot. I knew very well that I would tea. t to heterosexual couples, but it is a new phe- you face? Yes, they may be joyful, as in: have critics and I was prepared for them; A conventional big wedding? Or a destina- that’s just a part of following your own path tion wedding? Do you write your own rules? (instead of the one chosen for you). I just What to wear? Where to have it? What kind never thought, in my wildest dreams that of cake and food? These may be positive my harshest critics were in my own back issues to resolve, but nonetheless, they do yard. “Oh Nicole, who broke your heart and become stressful. It is important to under- made you switch teams?” That’s funny, I stand this and to protect yourself and your was under the impression that I was (and partner from getting too bogged down. still am) on team equal love, equal rights – As mentioned before, though, then silly me. Furthermore, don’t we, LGBT folks come all the family and friends with their ex- make it a point to let other people know pectations of when you are getting hitched. that, same-sex love has nothing to do with Once that is over, when will you have kids? opposite love heartbreak? I guess it doesn’t Just remember, it is your life to lead, not make sense the other way around. theirs! After I decided to go public with my new Change for the good, is still change, and love interest, my inbox blew up with ques- brings with it adaptations and transitions, all tions, comments, insults, and opinions. I that is at the heart of life. t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3,, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 11 Quality of Life

number of coincidences in my life. I also en- joy learning from people who have spiritual a key to preventing asthma may be con- gifts. Some healers have the gifts of clair- The tained in lemons. The findings were pub- voyance (seeing), clairaudience (hearing), lished in the journal Bioorganic and Medic- Moving or claircognizance (knowing). The gifts of Essentials inal Chemistry in which it was discovered Forward psychic and intuitive readers and healers of Living Naturally that inhalation of the chemical component Ava Barron-Shasho stem from their connection to the knowledge limonene, which comprises 90% of lemon and healing energy of the universe. Michael Lausterer and other citrus essential oils, prevented On Saturday, October 18 at 11 a.m., I will asthma symptoms in animals. be attending the New Market Psychic and The experiment exposed animals with What are your Healing Arts Fair at the New Market Volun- Lemons for induced asthma-like symptoms to limo- teer Fire Department Meeting Hall, 76 West nene over the course of several days. The Spiritual Main Street, New Market, Maryland. There lung function of these animals showed will be many wonderfully talented and gifted Asthma? that inhalation of essential oils containing Beliefs? practitioners there to help you connect spiri- limonene prevented asthmatic symptoms. tually. Asthma is a chronic condition that affects Pathological evidence also suggests that I ask my clients what are their spiritual be- In attendance there will be intuitively more than 20 million Americans, with ap- the effect of limonene on lung function dur- liefs in the first session or two. The response gifted Angel card readers who provide mes- proximately nine million of those individu- ing times of asthmatic symptoms promoted I hear most often goes like this… ”Well I sages and guidance that come through the als being children. Center for Disease Con- an anti-inflammatory outcome. was raised (fill in the religion here) but I cards chosen. This can help one receive an- trol (CDC) statistics also show that more In other promising studies, essential haven’t been to (fill in the place of worship swers or guidance on life choices. Or maybe women have asthma than men, though oils such as mullein (Verbascum thap- here) in years. I just don’t feel comfortable you like stones and crystals and want to see among children, more asthma sufferers sus), holy basil (Ocimum there.” This, I explain, tells me about their what meaning there is behind them? Stones are boys. The condition affects the airways sanctum) and religion and religious beliefs. Much of what and crystals on an astrological cloth provide in the lungs. A person that has asthma geranium (Pel- you need to know about religion can be read you with a chart that has meaning unique can be very sensitive to allergens and argonium gra- in books. The Bible, after all, is the most only to you. irritants such as perfumes, cold veolens) were popular selling book ever published. Reli- Readers of astrology will explain air, pet dander, and cigarette proven to gion includes an abundance of information aspects of personality and smoke. When the inner walls have strong about getting into heaven or not, when to predict future events based of the airways are swollen antispas- pray, what to believe and not to believe, what o n the position of the sun, and susceptible to allergen modic, ex- to eat or not eat, when to celebrate and how moon and other celes- conditions, the irritations pectorant, to go about doing so. tial objects at the time of make the airways con- and anti-in- My question, “What birth. tract, making the air pas- flammatory are your spiritual Energy healers in their sages narrower. This makes properties. beliefs?” is some- many forms – reiki, ama- breathing more difficult, caus- When com- thing different alto- deus, and shamanic to name a ing an asthma attack. bined together gether. In our society, few – will be there to demon- Though there are treatment options as a synergistic blend, the therapeutic ef- spiritually is often associ- strate their gifts and talents as available, many people seek holistic, natu- fects of these essential oils can help allevi- ated with a sense of comfort and well. Ama-deus, for example, ral approaches to combating asthma and ate the onset of asthma-related symptoms peace. While the concept of spirituality is based on the healing of un- its debilitating attacks on the body. Es- in a shorter period of time. Because asth- can be universally understood, what conditional love and has been sential oil therapy is a useful component ma attacks and their related symptoms gives one a sense of spirituality is passed down for centuries to add to your already existing routine in can be life-threatening, consult a doctor as unique to you as your fingerprint. among the Guaranis Indi- order to help make symptoms and attacks before adding essential-oil therapy to your Some feel spiritual when they are in nature ans of the Amazon in South easier to manage, reducing the time of its asthma regimen. . t while others when they are meditating. I American. presence. Michael Lausterer is a master essential oil know of people who have spiritual rooms Or you can have your aura photograph According to a study conducted at the therapist and is co-owner of Basic Earth Es- in their homes and others who achieve the taken or participate in craniosacral therapy Technion-Israel Institute of Technology, sentials with his husband Stephen Jarvis. same feeling when they spend time with a to relieves pain and tension. loved one. The New Market Psychic and Healing After my client’s brother died suddenly, Arts Fair is an ideal way to try a new spiri- he began seeing hawks everywhere. “I tual practice with out breaking the bank or hate admitting this,” he said, “but this has committing to something before you know- become a sign of hope from my brother ing if you like it. It’s also an easy way to and provides me with a source of strength.” learn something more about you. No need Seeing hawks was spiritual for him. Some- to lie on Freud’s couch and talk about your one else recently told me they dreamed childhood. Try sitting in a chair and have about a situation and the next day it hap- someone read your energy. You will walk pened just as she had seen it in the dream. away feeling lighter and more hopeful. These types of beliefs or life events See you there. t can’t be explained in a textbook. They come Ava Barron-Shasho, MSW, is a life and from knowing inside one’s soul. Some relationship coach, certifed by the Interna- people go to psychic healers as a way to tional Coach Federation, and welcomes deepen these spiritual beliefs. As a spiritual feedback at avabarronshasho@yahoo. person, I try to find meaning from the great com 12 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com Quality of Life

and will readily state whether they are a ment of this type does not mean a child • Any age: stating, “I wish I was a boy/ boy or a girl. Transgenderism is an inborn is transsexual, but it should be responded girl,” “I really am a boy/girl,” “I feel like a difference, present from birth. In this con- to in an open-minded way. For example, boy/girl.” dition, brain gender does not match body the parent or caretaker might say, “That’s Social transition is the process through Open Wide gender. Transgender people strongly feel really interesting, can you tell me more which a transgender child (or adult) chang- themselves to be the gender opposite to about it? How long have you been feeling es from living in one gender to living in the ask Dr Eva the gender associated with their genitals. you’re a girl?” In cases where the feeling of other. This involves change of first name, Dr Eva Hersh It’s not surprising that, like other children, cross-gender identification begins in child- change of pronoun, change of clothing and transgender children also show preference hood and/or persists for years, the feeling hairstyle. For children, it often works well for clothes and activities matching the gen- frequently continues lifelong and cannot to do this at the same time as changing How der they identify with from very early ages, be medicated or psychoanalyzed away. In schools, and if possible, changing school sometimes even before they can speak. such cases, the best thing that can happen systems. The goal of social transition is Young Can Once they can speak, they may try to tell for the child and parents is to work togeth- for the child to have the opportunity to live parents or other caretakers that they are, er with mental health and medical profes- completely in the new gender. Therefore, Transsexuality or want to be, the opposite sex. If nonver- sionals who are knowledgeable in this area contact with people who knew the child bal attempts to communicate have been ig- to assist the child to transition to living in before transition (other than those known Begin? nored, rejected, or punished, they may not the self-identified gender when she or he is to be supportive) is minimized. Social tran- feel safe to communicate this verbally. I do ready to do so. sition does not include hormones or any not think it is possible that “trendy parents” Here are some examples of the ways other kind of medical or surgical treatment. Dear Dr. Eva, could be pushing kids into claiming to be kids tell their parents that their internally Hormones are not needed until the onset A friend tells me that her grandchild, transgender. If that were possible, then all felt gender does not match their biological of puberty, which occurs at about age 11 born male, has identified as female since the efforts parents make to convince tran- gender: for genetic females and about age 12-1/2 the age of two, and now, at age six, is skids that they are the gender their geni- • 12 months and up: preferring clothes for genetic males. about to begin “social transition.” What is tals indicate they are would be effective – of opposite sex sibling I will continue next issue and discuss social transition? Are hormones involved? but they are not. • 18 months old, spoken: “Me a boy, the needs and treatment of transchildren Can such a young child make such serious We hear about transgender children mama.” as they grow into older childhood and their decisions? Can a two year old even com- much more now than in the past because • Middle school, note left under moth- teens. t municate feelings about gender? What if there is so much greater awareness of er’s pillow: “I need to be a girl.” Eva Hersh is a Baltimore family physician. the child later changes his mind? I have gender variance. Much of this increased • Age six and up: trying to remove pe- Send your comments and questions to her by known many transpeople, all of whom tran- awareness has come through the internet nis in various ways. email at [email protected]. sitioned in their late teens or older. Is there and some through TV and other media. a new trend of childhood onset of trans- Parents who saw, for example, the Barba- sexuality? Is it possible that some of these ra Walters special in which she interviewed kids are being pushed into this by trendy several transchildren, will most likely take parents? their children more seriously if they make Amazed and Alarmed gender non-conforming statements than parents will who have not seen it. In the Dear Amazed, past, a typical reaction to, for example, Don’t be too amazed, and don’t be a male-bodied child stating, “I’m really alarmed. Early recognition and early tran- a girl,” would have been, “No you’re not, sition is an excellent thing for transgender boys have penises like you do and girls children. have vaginas.” While that is a perfectly true Gender is one of the first and most sta- statement of the physical facts, it misses ble parts of identity to develop in all peo- the point. The child is probably aware that ple. By age three years, and often young- the penis signifies maleness, but none- er, most children prefer toys, clothes, and theless may be dealing with a persistent types of play associated with their gender, awareness of being female. A single state-

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3,, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 13 The Musical that Changed the Rules “A brave, breathtaking musical.” —The New York Times Next to NORMAL Music by Tom Kitt Book and Lyrics by Brian Yorkey Directed by David Schweizer Oct 8–Nov 16 Next to Normal Night Out October 14 Join us for Center Stage’s pre-show cocktail hour for the LGBT community and its allies! Available with purchase of ticket to the Tue, Oct 14, 8 pm, performance.

Experience the Pulitzer Prize-winning musical that dives boldly into one family’s struggle to find love in the face of loss. Tickets start at $19. 410.332.0033|centerstage.org

14 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3,, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 15 Lively Arts //t Ou on Stage No Mediocrity in Center Stage’s Amadeus The part of Antonio Salieri in Amadeus, exits in Center Stage’s Pearlstone Theater Bruce though somewhere in between the afore- to keep the action paced well and flowing. Nelson mentioned roles, provides yet another ve- A scaffold above the main stage is designed (left) as hicle for Mr. Nelson to showcase his acting to simulate the back of an opera stage but Antonio chops. As the narrator for the story, Mr. Nel- is used sparingly. Mr. Mackabee also trans- Salieri and son changes wigs and clothing tops onstage forms the theater’s lobby into the Court of Stanton to journey back and forth from present-day Vienna to add more to the experience. Nash as 1823 when he is old and supposedly on the Michelle Habrick’s lighting design beauti- Wolfgang verge of death to the 1780s when his life fully illuminates the stage and is employed Amadeus Mozart changed with the arrival of Mozart. effectively during dramatic moments. Victo- credit: © Mr. Nelson is the anchor of the play de- ria Delorio provides good use of sound ef- Richard livering several long soliloquies – a difficult fects especially when coordinating with light- Anderson challenge for most actors – with seeming ing changes during selected stage entrances ease. Though the play is not a comedy per through the main door – a clever device. se, Mr. Nelson brings home the few witty This production under the direction of retorts through his commentaries adding Mr. Kwei-Armah sparkles with all the moving lightness to the plot. He pretends to be an parts meshing well. The performances of the ally of Mozart but all the while plotting his two leads alone are worth a visit. But you will demise. Salieri attempts to seduce Mo- also enjoy the work of the entire cast and zart’s wife Constanze (Kayla Ferguson) in crew. It is far from mediocre. t an attempt to undermine his rival with Mr. Amadeus (140 minutes, with intermis- Nelson relishing that role with mischievous sion) runs through October 12 at Center enthusiasm. Stage, 700 North Calvert Street, Baltimore. His counterpart, Stanton Nash as Mo- The play contains profanity. For tickets call By Steve Charing following the civil rights leader’s assassi- zart, is wonderful. His part calls for more 410-332-0033 or visit Centerstage.org. Some people spend their lives searching nation. In 2015, Center Stage will present action, more physicality than Salieri’s, and for fame and fortune only to find out disap- One Night in Miami, which speculates how Mr. Nash rises to the occasion. Playing the pointingly that they are merely mediocre Cassius Clay would spend time in a Miami rather childish, and at times, vulgar Mozart, as such lofty goals become elusive. Oth- hotel with the likes of Malcolm X, singer he come through superbly employing exag- ers find that such gifts are natural and Sam Cooke and footballer Jim Brown after gerated voice inflections and mannerisms to A ‘Night Out’ their fame comes easy and enduring. he won a boxing title. amplify his churlish persona. When such people intersect in their life’s Shaffer’s Amadeus and the relation- Mr. Nash effectively becomes dramatic at Center journeys, it may not always be pleasant. ship between the title character and Salieri during the second act to convey Mozart’s That is in essence the core plotline of is also a fictional account. Though a defini- desperation for trying to impress the Em- Stage acclaimed British playwright Peter Shaf- tive cause of Mozart’s early demise has yet peror Joseph II (Kevin Orton) and the court fer’s 1979 play Amadeus now playing at to be established, he attributes the com- so that he (as is the situation for Salieri) On October 14 at 6:30 p.m. there will Center Stage. It revolves around 18th- poser’s death to Salieri’s poisoning him, or receives salaries and enjoy the freedom to be a Night Out to welcome Baltimore’s century Vienna Court composer Antonio does he really do it? compose music. LGBT community and allies. If one pur- Salieri (played by Bruce R. Nelson) who Salieri loves Mozart’s music but is re- Ms. Ferguson plays the role chases a ticket to the Center Stage’s was having things go his way until the sentful of the talent in which he believed of Mozart’s fiancé then wife upcoming production Next to Normal, child prodigy of Salzburg, Wolfgang Ama- was bestowed upon Mozart by God. As nicely as she must contend there will be a pre-show cocktail hour deus Mozart, (Stanton Nash) comes on a devout Catholic, Salieri assumed with his behavior but at with food, drink, and special guests. the scene. God would have rewarded him with the same time, pushing The winner of the 2010 Pulitzer Shaffer is known also for his award- that gift instead of the uncouth Mo- hard for his success. Prize of Drama and three Tony Awards, winning work Equus – a completely differ- zart. The resentment builds and Sa- The remainder of the Next to Normal is a groundbreaking, ent type of play from Amadeus though the lieri, searching for weaknesses in large cast (by Center darkly funny musical that tells the story psyches of the main characters of each Mozart’s personality and life, is de- Stage standards) does of a suburban mother struggling with are explored. The latter captured the 1981 termined to destroy him while Mozart well in their roles. Jay bipolar disorder and the effect it has on Tony Award for Best Play, and the 1984 is convinced he is on his side all along. Russell and Lucia Spina her family. movie collected four Oscars including Best Salieri realizes his mediocrity but flour- stand out as Venticelli – the Baltimore native and 11-time di- Picture. ishes while the prodigy declines. court’s local gossips, adding a rector of Center Stage productions It seems as though Center Stage artis- Any play that features celebrated Bal- fun touch to the proceedings with their ban- David Schweizer is helming the show tic director Kwame Kwei-Armah, who also timore actor Bruce R. Nelson is sure to re- ter. in Center Stage’s intimate Head The- directed this fine production of Amadeus, ceive an immediate upgrade. He envelops Mr. Kwei-Armah’s technical crew shines ater. Broadway-veteran Schweizer last has an affinity for attracting works that such diverse characters in Center Stage in this production. David Burdick outfitted directed 2012’s Bus Stop at Center cogitate how real people would interact productions as well in performances in the cast in colorfully lavish period garb. Stage. with others had such exchanges actually other local venues. Mr. Nelson’s chillingly The set designed by Timothy R. Macka- Visit Centerstage.org or call the occurred. dark portrayal of Edgar Allen Poe and his bee presents an ornate drawing room com- Box Office at 410-332-0033 to pur- Last year’s The Mountaintop contained depiction of the loony, hilarious Groucho plete with two large crystal chandeliers, light chase tickets. t such imagination regarding Dr. Martin Lu- Marx in Animal Crackers are examples of blue patterned wall paper and gilded door ther King, Jr.’s conversations with God his versatility. frames. The cast uses all the entrances and

16 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com Lively Arts No Mediocrity in Center Stage’s Amadeus This is Where I Leave You iMusic: Autumn Dance Party Leaves By Gregg Shapiro was just dumb-o!), this confusing collection at- Those first three albums, especially Remedy The dance music world was dealt a tragic tempts to elevate the CCM slinger to disco sing- and Rooty, were unique unto themselves and blow when legendary producer and songwrit- er. The thing is, as often happens with remixes, the time. Fifteen or so years later, the ground- No Cliché er Frankie Knuckles passed away in March the final product says less about the artist than work Basement Jaxx helped to lay has ben- 2014. An artist of epic proportions, openly gay it does about the egotistical remixers, including efited countless deserving (and undeserving) Frankie Knuckles singlehandedly made Chi- Tony Moran, Hex Hector, Dave Audé and Ralphi electronic music acts. That said, Junto is an im- cago’s house music genre a household word, if Rosario, who think that everything can be made provement on prior releases and offers an array Unturned you will. Just how significant Knuckles’s contri- better with more BPM, synths and such. Some of delightfully danceable tunes including “Pow- butions were was exemplified by his signing to of these songs, such as “Every Heartbeat,” are er to the People” (not to be confused with the Family dynamics are a crazy thing. Most a major label (Virgin) in the 1990s, bringing a better suited to this kind of treatment. Ultimate- John Lennon song of the same name), “Never families get along, or at least pretend to get formerly underground kind of music to the fore. ly, it begs the question WWJD – Where Would Say Never,” the spacey “We Are Not Alone,” the along during holidays and special gatherings, Both of his albums for that label, 1991’s Be- Jesus Dance? Paradise Garage? I-came-to-party-anthem “What’s The News,” and others just can’t be in the same room to- yond the Mix and 1995’s Welcome To the Real With its debut album New Eyes (Atlantic) and the (fish)tail wagging “Mermaid of Salinas.” gether without some unfortunate event taking World have been reissued “straight from the UK dance music quartet Clean Bandit has made Sometimes dance music comes from unex- place. crates on heavyweight vinyl” by Virgin/UMe. a record as irresistible as Disclosure’s Settle or pected sources. Take brainy pop band Bishop The Altman family, from the new come- Beyond the Mix opens with the dated hip-hop/ Goldfish’s Three Second Memory. High-kicking Allen, for example. In a little over ten years, the dy-drama This is Where I Leave You, falls house hybrid “Godfather” which bellows 1991. things off with the tasteful “Mozart’s House,” band, led by Justin Rice and Christian Rudder, squarely into that second Things improve on “Rain Falls” (which could Clean Bandit makes a powerful opening state- has perfected its distinctive style of sophisticat- Out on category. Oldest son Paul have used a little more thunder) and the airy ment. “Extraordinary” comes close to living up ed but accessible pop. On its latest full-length (Cory Stoll) feels like the treat of Eric Kupper’s “The Whistle Song.” Side to its title, “Rather Be” is rather exciting, “A&E” Lights Out (Dead Oceans), Bishop Allen amps Screen “responsible” son who took two is more consistent, with the “Party At My adds a pleasing island breeze to the disc and up the dance factor on songs such as “Ham- control of the family busi- House,” “Right Thing” and “Workout” triple play. “Telephone Banking” cashes in on electronic mer and Nail,” “Bread Crumbs,” “Start Again,” ness while his younger brothers fled their Welcome To The Real World, featuring vocal- experimentation. “Good Talk,” and unlock the funk on “Skeleton hometown. Middle son Judd (Jason Bate- ist Adeva on 10 of the 13 tracks (as well as Don’t listen to Junto (Atlantic Jaxx / PIAS) Key.” Bishop Allen even pay a visit to Vampire man) seems to have a successful career and prominently on the cover alongside Knuckles), by groundbreaking Basement Jaxx and expect Weekend territory on “Crows” and tips it hat to marriage... on the surface, and youngest son contains the huge dance hit “Too Many Fish,” the Basement Jaxx of their Astralwerks days. The Ting Tings on “Give It Back.” t Phillip (Adam Driver) is seen as the irrespon- as well as the club sensation “Whadda U Want sible one who is now dating a much older (From Me).” On the whole, though, the album woman. Then there’s sister Wendy (Tina sounds like the corporate idea of what house Fey) who seems more like a mother to them music ought to sound like for the masses rather Another Regional Premiere all than their actual mother. than the foundation on which Knuckles built his Coming to Toby’s! And that mother, Hillary (Jane Fonda), is own house. an author who wrote a child-rearing book that If Knuckles had lived, the concept of Amy was basically a tell-all of her own children’s Grant’s dance remix album In Motion: The Re- OPENS SEPTEMBER 5! lives which caused them no small amount mixes (A&M) probably would have had him of embarrassment. Now that their father has clutching his chest. Amy Grant, disco diva? Act suddenly passed, Hillary tells the kids that of desperation or genius? Nowhere near as of- their father’s last wish was that they all sat fensive as the recent Disney remix disc (that Shiva for him (even though he was an athe- ist, and she’s not Jewish). Of course, close quarters reveal all of their deepest secrets. It’s those secrets that drive the plot of seems to be having fun playing a super sexy This is Where I Leave You, but unfortunately (grand)mother with a new, large set of breasts, they become an unrealistic list of one thing unapologetically baring her cleavage to her after another plot contrivances. Judd’s wife uptight family. Timothy Olyphant is very under- has cheated on him, but she shows up un- used (wasted) as a brain-damaged neighbor, expectedly with another surprise, Paul and as is Rose Byrne as Judd’s old flame, and a From the underground dance clubs of 1950’s Memphis, Tennessee,comes his wife can’t get pregnant, Phillip raises eye- final act twist comes completely out of left field. brows with his girlfriend, Wendy’s husband With that said, there are some funny mo- a hot new Broadway musical that bursts off the stage with explosive is a jerk and she’s still in love with someone ments and, refreshingly, the film does not tidy dancing, irresistible songs and a thrilling tale of fame and romance. else from the neighborhood... it almost gets up everyone’s messy lives by the time the cred- tiring keeping up with its roll. Director Shawn all the subplots. 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Levitt and Corbet at Sundance 2014, an in- He wants to spend the night with him, but terview with author. Here are some of the Michel’s not that kind of guy (he already of- ways you know that Stranger by the Lake fed one clingy beau). When Franck arrives Mysterious (Strand) is a French film, not an American the next day, the beach is deserted except one: the subject matter (gay men cruising for Henri and a helicopter overhead. Ram- and having sex near a lake), the nudity iere’s body has been found in the water. By (some of the men at the beach sunbathe the next day, a few cars have returned to the Stranger naked), the depiction of gay sex (graphic, lot and the beach is peppered with men, in- By Gregg Shapiro including erections and orgasms, and real- cluding Inspector Damroder (Jérôme Chap- The ten-year anniversary blu-ray edition Bill Sage, and Mary Lynn Rajskub. istic to say the least), and men in Speedos patte). The awkward Damroder begins his reissue of Mysterious Skin (Strand) opens Faithful to Heim’s novel, Mysterious (need more be said?). interrogation, questioning Franck, Michel, with a new two minute intro by queer film- Skin spans a 10-year period, from 1981 to Attractive and fit gay man Franck Henri, and others. maker Gregg Araki that neither adds nor 1991, in which Brian (Corbet), a socially (Pierre Deladonchamps), makes small As the men at the lake’s pattern re- detracts from the film. Mysterious Skin was awkward asexual teen, attempts to explain talk with dumpy straight man Henri (Pat- sumes, and Damorder’s investigation con- the indie movie version of a perfect storm. a missing five-hour pe- rick d’Assumçao) at the tinues, things grow tense between Franck The best film of Araki’s directing career, it riod from his eighth beach on a summer day. and lone-wolf Michel. The tension reaches was his first time adapting a novel, Scott year. Convinced he was Franck used to sell veg- its peak when Henri hints to Michel that Heim’s acclaimed first book of fiction, for abducted by aliens, Bri- etables at the market he knows he killed Ramiere. Stranger by the big screen. The film also contained an’s search leads him and is trying to figure out the Lake then gets stranger, bordering on Harold Budd and Robin Guthrie’s haunting to Avalyn (Rajskub), a his next move, while the becoming a kind of serial-killer flick, with a score. But the real coup, for a low-budget woman who also claims newly single Henri is a mounting body count. As terrifying as it is indie, was the amazing cast. to have had a similar ex- logger. Their conversa- tantalizing, Stranger by the Lake is a unique After playing a homophobic Mormon perience. But does she tion ends abruptly when and above=average thriller. In French, with missionary in Latter Days, Joseph Gor- have ulterior motives? Franck sees mustached subtitles. DVD bonus material includes an don-Levitt took the lead in Mysterious Only slightly better Michel (Christophe interview with writer/director Alain Guiraud- Skin, playing Neil, a sexually abused boy adjusted, Neil, who dis- Paou), a man in whom ie. Stranger by the Lake is also on Vimeo who became a gay hustler. Levitt’s co- covers the effect he has he’s interested, and fol- on Demand at http://vimeo.com/ondemand/ t stars include actor/director Brady Corbet, on men at the hands lows him into the wooded strangerbythelake. Elizabeth Shue, Michelle Trachtenberg, of his pedophile little area, littered with con- league coach (Sage), doms, condom wrappers, turns his sexual prow- and crumpled tissues, ess into a money-mak- where an assortment of Authors ing business in his hick- men have either paired off town. By 1983, young or are hoping to do so. But Neil (Chase Ellison) is Franck’s pursuit of Michel Meet Readers exhibiting anti-social hits a roadblock when he behavior, something observed by “soul- suspects that Ramiere (François Labarthe) mate” Wendy (Riley McGuire), but over- is Michel’s boyfriend. looked by his distracted and irresponsible A pattern is soon established. Franck ar- mother (Elizabeth Shue). rives daily at the lake’s parking lot and takes Years pass and the boys follow their his place on the beach next to Henri. Franck life paths. Neil heads to New York after and Henri become better acquainted, with high school, crashing at the older Wendy’s Henri’s eyes being opened to the various nu- (Trachtenberg) apartment and hustling, ances of gay culture and behavior. More of- before getting a job at a sub shop. Brian ten than not, Franck wanders into the woods remains behind, living with his mother to test his own wood making skills. (Lisa Long) and befriending Eric (Jeff Li- Things take an unexpected, decided- con), a high school classmate of Neil’s who ly dark turn when, late one afternoon after had a crush on the unattainable boy. But the beach emptied of sunbathers, Franck Brian’s persistence pays off and he’s soon witnesses Michel drown Ramiere in the lake. able to connect the pieces of his lost hours, The only remaining traces of the dead boy- realizing that Neil was somehow involved. friend? His little red Peugeot left in the park- A fateful Christmas 1991 meeting of Neil ing lot for days on end, as well as his towel, G ay authors James Magruder and Gregg and Brian, following Neil’s brutal rape at clothes, and shoes on the beach. Shapiro performed readings from their newly the hands of a psychotic trick, is the first But that doesn’t prevent Franck from published books during an appearance hosted step towards the boys making peace with returning to the lake, day after day. When by the GLCCB on September 17. Over a doz- their past. Michel approaches Franck, he is initially en attended the event. Magruder (left), from If you can handle the difficult subject hesitant (he did witness Michel drown his Baltimore, authored Let Me See It. Shapiro, matter, Mysterious Skin is strongly rec- boyfriend!) and then gives in and has sex who has been a long-time writer for Baltimore ommended. Gordon-Levitt’s extraordinary with him. And the next day, too! Unsafe sex OUTloud, wrote Lincoln Avenue: Chicago performance was a turning point in his act- to boot! But what the heck, you’re doing it Stories. For Shapiro, the visit in Baltimore was ing career. Blu-ray bonus features include with a murderer anyway. one of several in his book reading and signing deleted scenes, an interview with Gordon- Franck finds himself falling for Michel. tour. credit: Steve Charing

20 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com Lively Arts // between the covers Arcadia in Manhattan An Arcadian Photographer in Man- University, Slocum took many photographs. albums, now mostly hattan: Edward Mark Slocum, by Donald Evidence suggests that he authored an dispersed. One of Rosenthal (Callum James Books, 2012, anonymous book which included some of these, which Slocum 80 pages; Callumjamesbooks.com) his photographs and poems, Lads O’ the called Filii Amoris, by William A. Percy Sun: Memories, that apparently was pub- had 58 prints until This is the first study of photographs by Ed- lished in New York in 1928 in a very lim- it was dismantled ward Mark Slocum (1882-1945). Living in ited edition. A few of the poems in that book in 1996. These pic- Manhattan in the 1920s, Slocum, a chem- nearly duplicate poems published earlier in tures, also probably ist by profession, took many photographs Men and Boys, ascribed to “Edmund Ed- from the 1920s, are of nude young men and boys, circulating winstone.” considerably more them under a variety of pseudonyms. Slocum usually placed his models in out- erotic than Slo- A multifaceted genius, Slocum has pre- door settings in and around New York City, cum’s “published” viously been studied as the editor of homo- but far removed from modern life, continu- photographs. Many sexual poetry, Men and Boys: An Anthology ing the tradition of Arcadian nudes of youths are still on the art (1924). Little was known about Slocum’s established in the 1890s by the German market, where a life when the book was reprinted in 1978 photographers Wilhelm von Gloeden and few have recently by Coltsfoot Press with a short note by his less famous cousin Guglielmo Plüschow, passed through auc- Timothy d’Arch Smith and an excellent in- who worked in Naples and Rome. Slocum tion sales. (For ex- troductory essay by Donald Mader, who, by visited Gloeden, the most famous resident ample, Liveaction- astute detective work, identified Slocum as of Taormina, Sicily, who made that beautiful eers.com under “sold, Edwinstone.”) published. He began with the photographs the compiler of the anonymous anthology. resort a mecca for homosexuals. A man of wide interests, Slocum in his of Baron Corvo, about whom there is quite While a doctoral candidate at Columbia This book of Rosenthal’s is subtle, later years seem to have stopped photo- a cult, in 250 copies (The Photographs of sympathetic, and beautifully graphing to write a study of Shakespeare’s Frederick Rolfe, Baron Corvo, 1860-1913, written. He includes unpub- homosexual associates and rivals. Profes- 2008, Asphodel). He plans to publish an- lished letters from Gloeden to sor David P. Mackay, of the CUNY Gradu- other limited edition of Norman Douglas, Slocum, as well as Slocum’s ate Center and Brooklyn College, describes whose photographs are difficult to distin- correspondence with other a typescript of these essays, in two parts guish from those of others, using his or photographers and (Folger Shake- their own Kodaks. The book on Corvo sold friends. Lads O’ the speare Library, out and is now difficult and expensive to Sun was handmade, Washington, D.C.) procure, so you’d better try to buy this one with 35 photographs as “the first full- before all 75 of its exemplars are gone. t and accompanying scale study of poems. Rosenthal homoeroticism in discusses the three the early modern known copies of the theater.” Rosen- book, all differing thal convinces that from each other and Slocum was a first- containing a total class scholar with- of 50 images, many out discussing at in unique prints. He length his original illustrates 14 of these, to- work on Shakespeare’s contemporaries. gether with related works by Slocum is a little-known photographer Slocum and other photogra- whose works remain difficult to find. Nev- phers, concentrating on the ertheless, his photographs bring a more photographs rather than the modern, American sensibility to the Arca- poems, which often have no dian genre of male nudes, best exemplified apparent relation to the ac- by the works of his older friend Gloeden, companying images. who used exclusively Sicilian models. In To track Slocum’s move- contrast, Slocum often paired a Nordic ments, Rosenthal cites nu- youth with a Mediterranean one. This book merous public records (ship- makes available for the first time a repre- ping manifests, census data), sentative selection of Slocum’s well-made, information unavailable to often optimistic images of youth, together Mader at the time he wrote with some works by some European art- his introduction. He presents ists working in the same tradition who in- convincing evidence that Slo- fluenced him. cum’s took the photographs Rosenthal began a highly specialized in Lads O’ the Sun. Rosen- career after retirement with limited-edition thal also discusses Slo- books featuring homoerotic photographs, a cum’s private photographic subject about which he’d never previously

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ginger and scallions ($4.50) to shrimp and Finger’s vegetable tempura ($8.95). Food For dinner, I had selected a bento box ($13.50) of sashimi, chicken teriyaki, and gyoza (pork dumplings, which are also available as an appetizer, by the way), Minato Sushi Bar with rice. The sashimi consisted of a piece 1013 North Charles Street of salmon and two pieces of tuna. While Baltimore, Maryland the sashimi was quite tasty, I wish there 410- 332-0332 were a few more pieces served. However, the chicken teriyaki was plentiful. I’ve had by Richard Finger chicken teriyaki before and tasted a gamey After a long day of hard work and many flavor, but this was not the case with this decisions, the one we couldn’t make was meal. My favorite part of the meal was the “Where to have dinner?” Too tired to head gyoza. The pork dumplings have a fine into Fells Point or Canton, Nick suggested noodle wrap, allowing the essence of the Minato’s, as it had been a long time since pork to be appreciated. he had been there. “Minato’s... where is As one would imagine for a sushi bar, that?” I asked. Nick chuckled because it there are many selections to choose from to is located not too far from where I lived. I create a bento box that will suit many tastes. must have walked by it hundreds of times There are items split into two columns (A without noticing. and B). A traditional bento box consists We had arrived ap- of picking proximately 5:30 p.m. on one item a Saturday, a little early for from A and dinner, yes, but we hadn’t two from had lunch and needed B, or, two to eat. We walked in and from A and found a nice table for two one from in front of the bar. The front B. There dining area is a clash of is a larger old vs. new. Located in a bento box converted row home, there available are remnants of the past, for $16.95, such as wide fireplace, allowing for but the design, completely two selec- contemporary. I especially Colorful meets tasty tions from liked the array of colors A and B. shining over the sushi bar. If a bento Lucky for us, we had ar- box doesn’t rived during Happy Hour. I decided on the sound appealing, there are dinner entrees Raspberry Daiquiri ($4.75). It was a warm available from chicken teriyaki ($13.95) to day in late September, and this was the shrimp tempura ($16.50), all served with perfect drink to cool off with. Without re- rice. questing, we were also served two glasses With room for dessert, we decided of cold water. to try the red bean and green tea iced Our server was very friendly, and quick creams. Both served on corn-cob shaped to take our orders. From the cooked appe- dishes, the iced cream is served in golf-ball tizer menu, we selected edamame ($3.75), shapes, split in half. Both flavors are in- along with a seaweed salad ($5.25) served tense, but I really liked them equally. Other with sesame dressing. The edamame was flavors are mango, lychee, and traditional freshly prepared, served warm, with just vanilla, chocolate, and strawberry. From enough salt. The seaweed was over a bed my perspective, an ideal way to complete a of sliced cucumbers, and very enjoyable. gratifying meal. Other salad options include garden green I’m so sorry I had not tried Minato’s Su- ($4.50) and octopus ($7.95). From the ap- shi Bar sooner, I hope to dine there again petizer menu, there is a variety of sushi se- very soon. For those visiting or residing in lections ranging from baby octopus ($6.50) the Mt. Vernon area, please do stop in and to usuzukuri (red snapper, $11.95). Also, give this place a try! Minato’s does have the list of kitchen appetizers is quite inter- a carry-out menu, and note that the bento esting, with offerings from cold tofu with boxes are $2.00 less during lunchtime. t

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of disabilities covered under the ADA, can- It’s All About Perspective The More you not be seen by the human eye. I thought Know About about it a bit more, and realized that those By Woody Derricks than normal time since we’ve seen a market living with diabetes, HIV, and even addicts In June, my wife, Heidi, and I had our first child decline of 10% or more. Business in recovery, are covered under this Act. – a girl. Elise has been one of the best things to It was just over five years ago that peo- Richard Finger Thank goodness we have medication and come into our lives, yet just a short two months ple were feeling quite differently about their treatment available to combat the symp- after her birth I opted to travel to my firm’s an- portfolios. The equity markets were down toms of these conditions, for the most part. nual conference. The conference is a great over 50% from their peak in October 2007, There are millions of Americans living pro- time to learn about the improvements within the and everyone seemed to want to take less More Than ductive lives amongst us with these condi- company and to learn about industry changes. risk with their investments in hopes of po- tions, and we are none the wiser. Along with over 5,000 other financial advisors tentially minimizing future losses. Now think about how many employees affiliated with LPL Financial, I headed to San While emotionally we seem to want to Meets the an organization might employ that are hid- Diego. take more risk as the market is doing well ing things about themselves, whether they The first night was a welcome reception in the and less after the markets have declined, Eye be physical attributes or medical condi- main conference center where we had mu- this might not be the best way to manage tions, because for one reason or another, sic, food, and socializing. While I was walking investments. Ideally we want to sell some of I had an interesting insight that I would they are not viewed as acceptable. From through the event, my phone rang. It was Heidi our best performing investments after things like to share with the readers this week. personal experience, I can tell you, this is trying to Facetime with me. It was far too loud in have increased and use that money to buy I had been reading some material about exhausting. The energy it takes to maintain the center, so I declined the call and went into more conservative investments. This way if inclusion and diversity, and came across a public persona is overwhelming. For me, the entry hall where there were fewer people the market does decline we’re ahead of the an illustration. The illustration’s pur- the fear of being “found out” and less noise. change and have potentially provided some pose was to explain conclusions The invisibly was all- consuming. While I It turns out that my FaceTime request came downside protection to the portfolio. What people can make about a person, was able to remain produc- from Elise. Heidi held the phone while I chat- you need to evaluate now, while things are based on what they can see. Two disabled tive and accomplish many ted up my little girl. Heidi and I talked some, but going well, is your threshold for pain. How of these characteristics were “race” unbelievable successes, I Elise had my attention with her smiles, coos, much of a portfolio loss can you afford? and “gender.” I was quite surprised to see, always felt that had I had the freedom to and wiggling. After we ended the call, I got up As an example, if you have $500,000 in- in 2014, that it is still generally common be my authentic self, I might have had the to walk back into the convention center only to vested and you open your statement in six thinking that these characteristics are so energy to achieve even more. realize I had tears coming down my cheeks. It months, when do you start to panic if you easily determined. One does not have to So why does all of this matter? Think turns out that while technology gave me a won- see losses? If you lose $30,000? $50,000? look to far to see an increasing popula- about all of the judgments we make about derful gift, it also pulled out my heart. $100,000? Knowing that number and ad- tion of bi-racial or transgendered people a person based on what we see? Broken Later as I was surfing Facebook, I saw a justing your portfolio accordingly could help down a bit further, post from Heidi. Elise was to spend her first you if the markets decline. think about employ- night sleeping in her own bedroom. Heidi Don’t wait for a drop in the markets be- ment decisions that was understandably sad with this transition fore deciding if changes should be made. are made based on and made a comment that it was a bitter- Evaluate your risk tolerance today by con- what we see. Who do sweet moment for her. I commented that I’d tacting us for a free risk assessment. t we hire? Who do we have given anything just to be in the same The opinions voiced in this material are promote? Who do we house that night. It’s all about perspective. for informational purposes only and are not terminate? Many deci- Currently the headlines are showing the intended to provide specific advice to any sions are made based markets at all-time highs. Most everyone individual. Consult your legal, tax, and/or on what we think we with money invested in their retirement plan financial advisor to determine what is appro- know about a person, is happy because they’re generally making priate for your situation.t and as these decisions money. As I talk about risk with my clients, Woody Derricks is a certified financial are made, there is an many are saying they’re happy where they planner and an accredited domestic part- organizational impact. are because things have been going well. I nership advisor. Reach him at 410-732- The unsaid company have to remind them that it’s been a longer 2633. values are uncovered based on these deci- sions, and if we are not careful, we have a around them, and it is becoming more dif- workforce that is not diverse, and likely not TYRE’S REPAIR ficult for us to ascertain which “category” a going to maintain competitive advantage. Quality Workmanship person belongs to. Of course, this illustra- More and more organizations are real- AUTO tion included a list of characteristics about izing that a key to uncovering discretionary a person that is not easily seen, such as effort from their employees is to provide education, value systems, family status, a welcoming workplace that encourages sexual orientation, and a whole lot more. inclusion, a workplace where it is safe to 410.252.8001 Upon seeing this illustration, I drew a be who you are. I think by allowing new 24/7 Towing 410-583-8888 parallel to the disabled population. I re- perspectives to rise, we can make more Voted Baltimore’s Best Auto Repair – City Paper 2000 member many years ago sitting in a semi- informed business decisions, and increase nar learning more about the Americans with innovation. My call to action for our readers Next to Timonium Business Park Lightrail Stop Disabilities Act (ADA) passed in 1990. In is to dig under the surface, and not make the seminar, the instructor stated that 90% conclusions based on what is seen. t 1955 GreeNSPriNG Drive

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b y Wayne Curtis attention as frost either kills them off en- Colder weather is just a few weeks away. tirely or sends them into their winter sleep. Ugh. For homeowners, that means a Cutting back dead or dying foliage, reseed- checklist of items to take care of before it ing, feeding, and fertilizing... and raking! arrives: things that if addressed now can 4) The fall furnace checkup. Every save time and money later on. The Fall furnace needs cleaning, tuning, and a Checklist is one of those “perks” of home- thorough once-over before the weather ownership. If you don’t want to deal with requires it to be “on duty” 24/7. Not only this kind of preventive maintenance, then does this keep you from a midnight break- perhaps you should look at a condo or down and a cold night before you can get a HOA where property managers take care technician to repair it, it also of the exterior of the prop- erty! makes the furnace more 1) Cleaning gut- efficient and lowers utility ters. As leaves fall bills. they clog rain- When a house water evacu- has been ation systems main- like gutters, tained downspouts, annually drains, etc. over the and that course of causes water your owner- to back up and ship, it shows overflow dur- better to a ing those long potential buyer cold rains that au- when it comes time tumn brings. As win- to sell. So, taking ter arrives that back up can freeze, caus- care of the fall checklist helps now, and ing ice dams in downspouts and leaving helps you profit later. That’s a win-win! t pools of ice on steps and sidewalks. Water Wayne Curtis has been a licensed can also back up under shingles and leak real estate agent since 1998. In Novem- into attics. ber, 2012, he was named a Realtor Hero 2) Roofing checkup. Most roofing by the National Association of Realtors for types can use an annual checkup before his work promoting homeownership in Bal- winter comes to make sure that shingles timore. Send questions to him at wayne@ have not been blown away, broken, or oth- charmcityrealestate.com. erwise damaged by summer storms, tree branches and strong winds. Particularly on roof surfaces where snow can sit, thaw, and refreeze. 3) Landscaping wind-down. Most plant materials used in lawns, beds, or other residential landscaping need some

26 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3,, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 27 so important that we communicate prop- this problem – I was the one with erly with each other. the handicap. My easy solution to There can also be an even bigger com- this communication problem it to munication problem within the leather com- carry a small notepad and a pen. Leather munity. During the many years that I have There is a much better solution – Line been involved with the Baltimore leather learn sign language! Rodney Burger community I have met a large number of On Saturday, September people who are deaf or hard of hearing. It is 20 the Leatherboys of Mary- my understanding that many deaf and hard- land hosted their second annual of-hearing people relocate to this area after ASL (American Sign Language) Learn attending Gallaudet University in Wash- Leather Family Brunch. Over 30 ington, D.C. (Founded in 1864, Gallaudet leather folks gathered at the Club a Language! is the only university specifically designed Hippo in Baltimore for a very en- to accommodate students who are deaf or joyable afternoon of instruction, I sometimes forget that the leather com- hard of hearing.) In fact, Baltimore even personal testimonials, food, drink, munity has its own language. We have our has an active leather club called BLADeaf and brotherhood. Plus the event own meanings for certain words. If leath- (Baltimore Leather Association of the Deaf). raised approximately $500 for the er folks ran the world Subway would sell The members of BLADeaf are very support- Sharon St. Cyr Fund. Founded footlong subs and Doms. I really became ive of other leather clubs and other clubs’ by International Mr. Leather 2009 aware of a communication problem recent- events in the area. I even had the pleasure Jeffrey Payne, the Sharon St. Cyr ly when I was on Facebook. A friend who of judging the Mr. Baltimore Deaf Leather/ Fund (Sscfund.com) provides Crystal Sisk is not a member of the leather community Baltimore Deaf Leatherboy 2007 contest. hearing aids and grants for ASL (left) and posted a really cute picture of himself. I (There were no contestants for Baltimore interpreting services. The after- Val Sherrill commented with,“Woof!” He replied, “I am Deaf Leather Woman that year.) I was one noon started with a presentation not a dog!” and unfriended me. As anyone of two “hearing” judges. There was a good- by Mid-Atlantic Leatherboy 2014 involved in the bear or leather community sized audience that was predominately deaf boy david zeidler who discussed what a regarding relationship issues that are pres- knows, “Woof” is a compliment. It means or hard of hearing. There was an interpreter person should or should not do when com- ent when one partner is hearing and the that the person looks hot. It is like the con- for the hearing, but unfortunately he was municating with a deaf or hard of hearing other partner is deaf. It was noted that struction worker whistling at the pretty girl not easy to understand. Not knowing sign person such as himself. He relayed a list 87% of these “mixed relationships” fail. as she walks by. It may not be politically language, I had to struggle to follow what of thoughtless comments that people of- The audience met Mr. Connecticut Leather correct, but the meaning is the same. It is was going on. The audience did not have ten make including such gems as: “Do you 1998 Ronald Norberg and his partner In- know braille? (He’s hard of hearing, not ternational Mr. Deaf Leather 1998 Danny blind), Can you read and write? (He’s not Carbonell as well as Sir Kevin and his hus- illiterate!), Can I try on your hearing aid? band boy joey. Since this was a gathering (No!), or his biggest pet peeve when he of leather folks, the lessons also included informs someone that he is hard of hear- the use of non-verbal safe words and in- ing and they jokingly reply, “What?” (Like structions on how to negotiate a BDSM he has not heard that “joke” a million scene in sign language. times!) He also provided some very useful For a little entertainment Sir Kevin in- tips such as the importance of not looking troduced those gathered to his company away when speaking to a deaf person. For Dancing Hands (Dancinghandsasl.com). those who lip-read, it is a big problem if the This organization dramatically signs and speaker keeps turning his head. interprets music. Sir Kevin demonstrated Popular ASL interpreter Debbie Jones’s with a very animated and enjoyable per- demonstration really made an impression. formance of Miley Cyrus’s “Party in the She played an audio of a lecture. After a U.S.A.” followed by Mo Hopper, who inter- few minutes the audio was change to allow preted a song that I can’t name because the hearing members of the audience to we do not print those words in this news- experience how the speaker would sound paper – I’ll just say it is by Lily Allen and is to someone with mild hearing loss, moder- called: “ F. U. Very Much.” (You can find it ate, severe, and profound. I learned that on YouTube.) Mo was great and that song what is classified as “mild hearing loss” is was stuck in my head all day! not that mild. I couldn’t understand the re- Those are just a few of the highlights cording at that point! of the ASL Leather Family Brunch. It was For most folks sign language begins a really pleasant and informative afternoon with the alphabet and Mid-Atlantic Leath- and a great way to bring the hearing leath- erboy 2012 boy john walked the group er community and the deaf leather commu- through signing for each letter. (I must con- nity together. International Ms. Deaf Leath- fess that I did not know them all.) I also er 2011 Val Sherrill expressed it best: “We learned that there is an ASL app for your learn from you. You learn from us. Come smartphone and it is free. Yes, there’s an on – let’s learn from each other!” app for that! He also suggested that it is a The Leatherboys of Maryland are plan- good idea when attending events that have ning another such event sometime soon. an interpreter to watch the interpreter. This I know that I will be there. I learned a lot. will help you learn. Before the ASL Leather Family Brunch the There were also several presentations only word I could sign was “Woof!” t 28 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD OCTOber 3,, 2014 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 29 Ripped Genes & Janes 2015 Calendar Release Party • THE ENGINEERS CLUB, BALTIMORE, MD. September 26, 2014 • Photos by Bob Ford

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