Defining Female Achievement: Gender, Class, and Work in Contemporary Korea
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Defining Female Achievement: Gender, Class, and Work in Contemporary Korea The Harvard community has made this article openly available. Please share how this access benefits you. Your story matters Citable link http://nrs.harvard.edu/urn-3:HUL.InstRepos:40049991 Terms of Use This article was downloaded from Harvard University’s DASH repository, and is made available under the terms and conditions applicable to Other Posted Material, as set forth at http:// nrs.harvard.edu/urn-3:HUL.InstRepos:dash.current.terms-of- use#LAA Defining Female Achievement: Gender, Class, and Work in Contemporary Korea A dissertation presented by Eunsil Oh to The Department of Sociology in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy in the subject of Sociology Harvard University Cambridge, Massachusetts. April 23rd 2018 Doctoral Committee: Professor Mary C. Brinton (Chair) Professor Alexandra A. Killewald Professor Paul Y. Chang Professor Jocelyn Viterna © 2018. Eunsil Oh. All rights reserved. Dissertation Advisor: Professor Mary C. Brinton Author: Eunsil Oh Defining Female Achievement: Gender, Class, and Work in Contemporary Korea Abstract Understanding how women transition to adulthood and make decisions about family, employment, and parenting have long been central questions in gender and family scholarship. Korea offers a particularly compelling context in which to study these issues: Korea has the highest female educational attainment levels in the world, yet also has a relatively low labor force participation rate among married mothers. Based on interviews with 100 mothers with young children, three empirical chapters dig into the “black box” of how culture is created and disrupted at the micro-level. Each chapter unpacks one micro-level process: developing career aspirations, making work decisions, and engaging in childrearing. Findings show that in Korean culture, regardless of their level of education, mothers are pressured to constantly provide legitimate reasons why they deserve to work and are expected to spend endless time and energy ensuring their children’s well-being and academic achievement. In such a context, ideas about who should work as a mother and how a mother should approach childrearing are constantly challenged, negotiated, and reproduced. At the heart of these phenomena, I argue, families – across multiple generations – play a significant role not just in reproducing but also in challenging social norms. Especially in the lives of married mothers, intergenerational bonds – especially between women – become a critical relationship and resource. Consequently, I argue that the influence of natal families begins in the early childhood stage through divergent childrearing approaches but also continues to differentially shape adult children’s aspirations and employment. iii Table of Contents Front Matter Acknowledgements………………………………………………………………... v Dedication…………………………………………………………………………. viii List of Figures………………………………………………………………...…… ix List of Tables….……………………………………………………………...…… x Chapter 1: Introduction……………………………………………………………………. 1 Chapter 2: From Passengers to Drivers: Women’s Education, Career Aspirations, and the Role of Families in Contemporary Korea………………………………..... 10 Chapter 3: Who Deserves to Work? How Women Develop Expectations of Childcare Support in Korea………………………………………………………………. 48 Chapter 4: Class-based Mothering in the Land of Concerted Cultivation………………… 77 Chapter 5: Conclusion…………………………………………………………………….. 113 Back Matter Bibliography………………………………………………………………………. 122 Appendix A: Interview Guide…………………………………………………..… 142 Appendix B: In-depth Interviews…………………………………………………. 150 iv Acknowledgements Thanks are due first to my dissertation chair, Mary C. Brinton, whose guidance and patience made this dissertation possible. Mary was the first one to say that it is okay to study women’s lives in Korea. Ever since, she has shown endless support and encouragement. I respect her work, intelligence, and writing which have been motivation for me to work harder. Her faith that I will grow as a sociologist kept me writing when I was going through hard times. I am truly grateful to Sasha (Alexandra) Killewald for her multiple rounds of comments. Compared to the first manuscript that I sent her, which received 100 comments, I am now receiving one third that number, which is, I think, a good sign. Paul Chang has pushed me to think more about how the Korean context not only teaches sociologists a lesson, but also has unique features that I should bravely model theoretically. He also has been a big supporter of almost every one of my presentations during my graduate education. Jocelyn Viterna kindly understood my position as a qualitative demographer and gender scholar. However, she never hesitated to guide me to become a better qualitative sociologist. Each of the members of my committee has been generous with her or his time during their busiest periods, providing professional advice and academic training. Several additional staff and faculty from Harvard University and other institutions provided helpful encouragement, training, and support. I thank Jessica Matteson, Laura Thomas, Rachel Meyers, and Suzanne Ogungbadero for making me feel that I have a community that I belong to. I especially thank Laura Kistler for being on top of everything and for providing support. I thank other faculty members from Harvard and other institutions including Mario Small, Hyunjoon Park, Hiroshi Ishida, Sarah Damaske, Youngjoo Cha, Hyeyoung Woo, Sooyong Byun, Jaeeun Kim, Chan Suh, and Haeyeon Choo for their warmth and academic v training. Long mentorships from Chanung Park and Haejeong Chohan which have continued since I was a freshman have been a tremendous help whenever I had doubts about myself. John Elder and Julia Deems have been generous with their time during their busiest periods, providing professional editing. I could not have finished my dissertation if it weren’t for my fellow students and friends. Being part of my sociology cohort, I felt that I am a fellow sociologist and not an international student studying abroad. Special thanks to Jessica, Anny, and Kristin. My best friends, Juhyun, Juhwi, Jiseung, and Boeun were there whenever I wanted to hear their voices and wise thoughts. I also thank my friends, Jaehyoung, Mochi, Eunse, Xiana, Gru, Eunjin, Boyun, Sinnwon, Dongju, Minkyong, Kwan, Misun, Jiwook, and Sunmi for their endless love and support. Eunmi and Sunah, who are my dear colleagues, mentors, and friends, have provided priceless life lessons throughout my graduate years. I especially thank my friends for their support and love for the last few months of my graduate years when I was going through hard times. I received financial support from various institutions at Harvard including Graduate School of Arts and Sciences, Sanhak Foundation, Weatherhead Center for International Affairs, Korea Institute, and the Reischauer Institute. Also, I am thankful for financial support from the International Sociological Association and Koret Foundation (through Stanford University). I thank my family for their support, love, and courage. My father, Kyongsoo Oh, has been a powerful supporter of gender equality, which encouraged me to pursue my way of life. My sister, Eunkyong Oh, was a template for how to do things wisely and with dignity. My brother-in-law, Hyun Ma, always provides moments to laugh. My brother, Myongkun Oh, has been patient with his feminist older sister for all his life, staying kind and wise. My family members Sewon Park, Suzy Kim, Hyunsoo Park, and Sia Park have been patient and supportive vi while I have been living abroad, showing endless support and encouragement. Special thanks to my mother-in-law Bokhee Ko, who has shown wisdom and love during hard times. I thank my friend and partner, Hyunho Park, who listened carefully to all of my quotes and arguments in the dissertation, encouraged me when I wanted to walk away, and did vast quantities of housework so that I could focus on my dissertation. Lastly, I thank my mother, Soonja Jung, who bravely sent her daughter to the U.S. and who has shown her strength throughout her life. She survived two different cancers and has always taught me how to find peace whenever I was afraid of what lies ahead. Lastly, I thank all 100 mothers in my study. They were brave to open up their personal lives and stories. All the faces, all our conversations, and all of our tears during interviews will stay forever in my mind. Because of them, I had the power to finish this dissertation. vii For my mother, we did it. viii List of Figures Figure 2.1 Percentage of Women with Tertiary Education in Korea: Between the Ages of 25 and 29 from 1970 to 2010 Figure 2.2 Female Labor Force Participation Rate for Two Age Groups: from 1980 to 2016 ix List of Tables Table 2.1 Composition of Total Female Workforce by Educational Attainment Level Table 2.2 Characteristics of the Two Groups Table 3.1 Daily Childcare Hours Provided by Grandmothers: Mothers Continuously Employed with At Least One Child Under 3 Table 4.1 Summary of Responses from Online Survey Table 4.2 Average Time Spent on Childcare by Mother’s Employment and Educational Attainment Level Table 4.3 Summary of Differences in Childrearing Approaches x Chapter 1 Introduction: Three Essays on Mothers in Contemporary Korea 1 1.1 INTRODUCTION In the second half of the twentieth century, South Korea (hereafter Korea) experienced rapid modernization, which included industrialization, democratization, urbanization,