The KING’s Telephone Consultation & Training Sessions Outline, Guidelines, Protocol, and Confidentiality Agreement

Client’s First Name or Telephone Pseudonym: [insert real first name or pseudonym here] Day, Date, and Time of Desired Telephone Session: [insert desired day, date, and time here] Scheduled Duration: [insert a time frame of 20 – 90 minutes here] Fee: [$75.00 deposit for complimentary sessions]

Professional Disclaimer: Alan Roger Currie (from this point forward referred to as ‘The KING’) is not a licensed or credentialed psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, and/or sex therapist. The KING is a Book Author, Public Speaker, Workshop Facilitator, Professional Coach and Sex Coach, and a Professional BDSM Dominant Sir & Advisor who offers advice and recommendations to clients for changes and improvements in their behavior patterns, as well as offers sexual entertainment to female clients and couples who seek out his services.

None of the advice and recommendations expressed by The KING is medical or clinical in nature. All of The KING’s advice and recommendations are based solely on his own strong opinions that were formed from his own life experiences and observations that have been accumulated from his countless conversations and interactions with men, women, and couples (married and unmarried) over the last three plus decades.

The KING does not assume any responsibility or liability for any erroneous, improper, or incorrect applications of The KING’s advice and recommendations. The KING nor any associate of Mode One Multimedia, Inc. assumes any responsibility in the event that the client misinterprets The KING’s advice and recommendations in a manner that potentially results in psychological and/or emotional duress or physical injury. The KING’s advice and recommendations are never to be thought of or treated as a viable substitute for the advice they would receive from a licensed and credentialed medical or clinical professional (e.g., marriage counselor, sex therapist, et al).

Action step #1: Please send an Email response to The KING ([email protected]), and in the subject area, write: “Interest in BDSM & Polyamory Complimentary Consultation Session,” and in the text / body of the message, write: “1) I fully understand the cautionary advisory of the The KING’s professional disclaimer” and include a copy of this document with your name or pseudonym, desired day, date, and time, and the desired length of the session (minimum 20 minutes, maximum 90 minutes).

Overview of the Consultation / Training Session (Telephone format only): FEE PAYMENT The fees for the telephone consultation & training sessions range from $75.00 (20-minute session) to $300.00 (2-hour session). The KING generally offers brand new clients a free or discounted ‘introductory’ session for the client to examine if The KING’s various training sessions are right for them and conducive to their needs. Complimentary sessions require a $75.00 deposit, which will be returned to the client after the complimentary session has ended, unless the potential client failed to show up for the scheduled session. Payments are usually accepted via PayPal unless an alternative method of payment is mutually agreed upon.

A potential client may purchase a telephone consultation & training session by visiting The KING’s Training Page, which is http://www.modeone.net/training/ Look for the PayPal link on that page SCHEDULING The KING is usually available for telephone consultation & training sessions on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays unless he is traveling and out-of-town. Occasionally The KING is also available on Fridays and Saturdays if needed. The KING is usually always unavailable for consultation and training sessions on Sundays and Mondays. A client may usually schedule a telephone session for a start time as early as 10:00 AM EST, and many times as late as 11:00 PM EST, depending on The KING’s availability on that particular day. Last minute changes to a scheduled telephone session are not refundable unless it is due to an extreme and/or unexpected emergency (e.g., sudden illness, death of a member or close friend, got called into work, etc.) If you feel the need to change from your original time slot to a new one, please notify The KING a minimum of twenty-four (24) hours ahead of time, and preferably at least 48-72 hours ahead of time. Unless otherwise specified, the client shall always provide The KING with a telephone number (work, home, or mobile) that has a high quality vocal connection. The client should always be prepared to begin the telephone session at the exact start time that was initially and mutually agreed upon. The KING may offer approximately a five-minute “grace period” (i.e., allowing a 20-minute session to end after 25 minutes of conversation), but beyond that, the client must submit an additional payment to extend the telephone session beyond its scheduled time frame.

TELEPHONE PROTOCAL and ETIQUETTE A client should never engage in a telephone consultation & training session with friends, family members, or other acquaintances with them in the room unless it has been cleared by The KING ahead of time. The client should always begin a telephone session with a clear head, an open mind, a relaxed emotional disposition, and an obedient and submissive mental attitude. It is often recommended that the client have a journal or notepad ready and accessible to take notes if needed. When engaged in a telephone consultation & training session with The KING, he is always to be addressed as ‘Sir,’ ‘My Most Dominant Sir,’ ‘Daddy,’ and/or ‘King Alan Sir.’ The KING will typically refer to his male clients as “My New Obedient Student,” “My New Protégé,” or “My Designated Servant,” and The KING will typically refer to his female clients as “My New Submissive” or “My Obedient Good Bitch” (within the parameters of The KING’s training sessions, terms such as ‘bitch’ are never expressed with the intention of disparaging, disrespecting, or insulting a (female) client for no valid reason, but rather it is used more as a BDSM Dom-to- Sub ‘term of endearment’ and is representative of erotic dominance). The client shall never interrupt The KING while he is offering advice, recommendations, or instruction, and the client shall never display behavior that is blatantly defiant, smart-alecky, distracted, or disrespectful. Such behavior may result in an immediate termination of the telephone training session with no refund available. If the client has a question, he or she must ask permission (e.g., “Sir, May I ask you a question please?” or “Sir, May I explain my situation further to you?”). Generally speaking, the client may only speak when he or she is given permission to speak by The KING. If the telephone session involves episodes of self-pleasure (i.e., masturbation), the client must ask The KING’s permission to experience an orgasm (e.g., “King Alan Sir … may I please make myself cum?”). The telephone consultation & training sessions should never include “trivial small talk” or “fluff talk” that are not directly related to the purpose of the telephone consultation & training session. All attempts at being “humorous” (cracking jokes and the like) or engaging in lighthearted ‘small talk’ should be avoided. Lighthearted moments between The KING and his clients should only happen naturally and organically, if at all. Action step #2: Once your complimentary session has been scheduled, send an Email response to The KING ([email protected]), and in the subject area write: “Telephone Protocol Agreement,” and in the text / body of the message, write: “2) I fully understand the telephone protocol & etiquette that is requested by The KING”

DIFFERENT TYPES OF (TELEPHONE) SESSIONS The KING offers a variety of different types of telephone consultation & training sessions: A) FEMALE CLIENTS ONLY Session Type #1 – Increasing Your Feminine Energy via Obedience & Submission Training This type of session is for female clients who have arrived at the conclusion that many aspects of their behavior could be categorized as or perceived as ‘too Alpha’ (a combination of too controlling, too defiant, too dominant, and even ‘too masculine’ in terms of how they verbally express themselves, and their overall disposition), particularly as it relates to their conversations and general interactions with their , companions and erotic lovers. The KING will conduct several very ‘intensive’ training sessions with his female clients to create a paradigm shift and eliminate negative connotations regarding the manner in which these women view the idea of being “obedient” and “submissive” to a male companion or designated lover and causing the client to progressively enhance their degree of feminine energy to the highest level possible. The ultimate objective is to help the female client transition into more of a “Girly Girl” type that exudes a high degree of FEMALE confidence (as opposed to MALE-like confidence) and irresistible sensuality. Female clients may ask The KING’s permission to pleasure themselves to the point of orgasm during portions of the session.

Session Type #2 – Overcoming Past Sexual Trauma and sexual-related feelings of ‘Guilt’ and/or ‘Shame’ This type of session is for female clients who might have been physically and/or sexually molested or assaulted as a pre-teen, teenager, or young adult … or … they were brought up in a household where one or both of their parents were extremely prudish and deeply religious as it relates to sexual morals, ethics, values, and beliefs. The KING will conduct several very open, brutally honest, and emotionally empathetic consultation sessions with his female clients to help them rid themselves of repressed memories and invalid beliefs, attitudes, and convictions. The ultimate objective is to help the female client transition to a point where they no longer associate sex with negative thoughts and detrimental emotional feelings (such as shame and/or guilt), and can free themselves up mentally, emotionally, and physically to become a more enthusiastic and highly appealing sex partner for any male companion or lover of their choosing.

Session Type #3 – From Self-Proclaimed ‘Prude’ to ‘Kinky Freak’ in the bedroom This type of session is for female clients who believe that they are ‘too conservative’ and sexually inhibited when it comes to their sexual conversations with men and their physical sexual activities with men. The KING will conduct several very ‘intensive’ training sessions with his female clients to create a paradigm shift and eliminate negative connotations regarding the manner in which these women view the idea of being “kinky,” “experimental,” and “sexually adventurous” with male (or female) companions of choice. The ultimate objective is to help the female client transition into engaging in the type of sexual activity that she REALLY wants to instead of avoiding trying different things sexually for fear of being criticized, labeled, or judged by others. Female clients may ask The KING’s permission to pleasure themselves to the point of orgasm during various portions of the session.

Session Type #4 – Learning to Your Pussy This type of session is for female clients who up to this point have a strong aversion to engaging in multiple episodes of masturbation and self-pleasure. Also, for those women who feel like the human vagina is “ugly” or not appealing to touch and/or look at.

The KING will conduct several very playful and instructional, yet erotically dominant training sessions with his female clients to help the client eliminate their previously negative attitudes and beliefs toward the art of female masturbation and engaging in self-pleasure to the point of orgasm. The ultimate objective is to help the female client transition to a mental and emotional state where she genuinely masturbating and using her fingers (or favorite sex toys) and tap into her most powerful sexual fantasies to create moments of self- pleasure for herself and evolve to a point where she firmly believes that her vagina is an extremely beautiful part of her entire body. Female clients will be strongly encouraged to masturbate during this type of session, but the client still must ask The KING’s permission in order to experience an orgasm.

Session Type #5 – Help me become a Better Sugar Baby for my potential Sugar Daddy

This type of session is for female clients who were specifically referred to The KING by Sugar Daddy-Sugar Baby expert, advisor, and author Taylor B. Jones of http://thesugardaddyformula.com Female clients who choose this type of session will automatically receive a free complimentary ‘introductory’ session, as well as a 20% or more discount off of the normal rates for their subsequent sessions that The KING offers for his telephone training sessions.

The KING will conduct a session that contains many elements of his “Girly Girl” training sessions (Session Type #1), and in addition, The KING will help women quickly and effectively identify when they are interacting with a man who is ‘cheap’ or financially selfish, abusive, misogynistic, and/or too promiscuous, which are all character traits that are not conducive to a long-lasting Sugar Daddy-Sugar Baby relationship. The ultimate objective is to help the female client take her “Sugar Baby game” to the HIGHEST LEVEL POSSIBLE and be in a position where several different Sugar Daddy candidates are competing with each other for the client’s attention and companionship, and those Sugar Daddies are more than willing to shower and spoil the female client with financial favors and material gifts. Female clients may ask The KING’s permission to pleasure themselves to the point of orgasm during portions of the session.

B) MARRIED and UNMARRIED COUPLES Session Type #1 – ‘Slut ’ and/or Submissive Spouse Training There are two sub-categories involved in this session: 1) What is known as ‘Slut Wife’ Training 2) Submissive Spouse or Submissive Romantic Companion Training ‘Slut Wife’ training benefits men who are swingers or couple-swapping voyeurs who enjoy watching their wife, fiancée, or long-term romantic companion enjoy themselves sexually with other men who meet the approval of the , fiancé, or long-term romantic male companion. The KING will advise the married or unmarried couple on the ins and outs of maintaining this type of non-monogamous ‘open’ relationship or marriage, and how to avoid episodes of profound or envy. The KING will train the woman to respect her husband, fiancé, or long-term romantic male companion, and to put his sexual needs and urges first always. Also, even within a strictly monogamous relationship or marriage, many men want their wife, fiancée, or long-term romantic companion to become their “obedient submissive slut” or “personal whore” in the bedroom. This type of session is for female clients who want to take on the persona of the “Respectable Good Girl and Classy Lady in the Streets, but Total Whore & Slut in-between the Sheets” type of woman. Does your husband, fiancé, , or Sugar Daddy perceive you to be too much of a “prim, proper, and prudish good girl” type both out of the bedroom and more importantly, in the bedroom? The KING will conduct several very ‘intensive’ training sessions with the female clients to convince them to accept the idea that it is ‘okay’ to be a man’s “obedient bedroom slut” and “personal whore” as long as the experience is not an abusive one and it is mutually rewarding. The male client involved will learn how to create an atmosphere and nurture a relationship that makes their female companion or spouse feel far more comfortable deferring to and adhering to the various sexual desires, needs, fantasies and requests of their erotically dominant male romantic companion. Both the male and female client involved in the session may ask The KING’s permission to engage in an episode of mutual masturbation, oral sex, or even intercourse during the telephone session.

Session Type #2 – Creating a Higher Degree of Erotic and Sexual ‘’ This type of session is for married and unmarried couples who both feel like the sexual component of their marriage or long-term relationship has ‘grown stale,’ and desperately needs to be rejuvenated. The KING will conduct several very open, brutally honest, and informative consultation sessions with a husband-and-wife, engaged couple, or simply a romantically involved couple that have allowed their sexual relationship to become boring and unsatisfying. The ultimate objective is to teach the married or unmarried couple how to more effectively communicate their sexual needs, desires, and fantasies to one another, and create better ‘sexual sparks’ between the two of them whenever they need to. Both the male and female client involved in the session may ask The KING’s permission to engage in an episode of mutual masturbation, oral sex, or even intercourse during the telephone session.

Session Type #3 – Learn the art of Hot, Kinky Phone Sex and ‘Erotic Dirty Talk’ (Aural Sex) This type of session is for married and unmarried couples who are either curious about the idea of engaging in hot, kinky, satisfying phone sex (when they are apart from one another) or want to learn how to significantly increase their spouse or companion’s level of sexual arousal during foreplay by mastering the art of sizzling hot ‘erotic dirty talk.’ The KING will conduct several very sexually explicit training sessions with both married and unmarried couples to thoroughly teach them how to use their voice and overall conversation skills to create more exciting foreplay and sexual activity as well as mutually arousing and satisfying episodes of ‘aural sex’ (i.e., phone sex or erotic dirty talk while face-to-face). The ultimate objective is to help the married or unmarried couple transition from being ‘verbal prudes’ to being men and women who possess a ‘hot mouth.’ Teaching men and women how to be better at ‘talking dirty’ is a particular specialty of The KING. Both the male and female client involved in the session may ask The KING’s permission to engage in an episode of mutual masturbation, oral sex, or even intercourse during the telephone session.

Session Type #4 – Opening the Door for Swinging / Couple Swapping / Bull-Hotwife-Cuckold Relationships This type of session is for married and unmarried couples who feel like ‘exclusively committed’ and/or monogamous sexual relationships are too restrictive, boring, and/or simply unsatisfying. This type of session is for married or unmarried couples who have entertained the thought of experimenting with polyamorous sexual relationships (e.g., swinging, couple-swapping, Bull-Cuckold-Hot Wife scenarios, Polyamorous ‘family’ arrangements, etc.). The KING will conduct several very provocative and informative consultation sessions with the married or unmarried couple about the pros and cons of maintaining a polyamorous (i.e., long-term non-monogamous or ‘open’) sexual relationship with their spouse, romantic companion, or chosen long-term sex partner. The KING will tackle issues such as overcoming trust issues, jealousy issues, possessiveness issues, and generally becoming more comfortable exploring the Polyamory lifestyle. The ultimate objective is to help the married or unmarried couple not experience any regrets in their early attempts at experimenting with polyamorous / non-monogamous sex. Note: If a male client involved has submitted an interest in being trained as a Cuckold, he will be harshly and explicitly trained.

C) MALE CLIENTS ONLY Session Type #1 – BDSM Dominant Training This session for The KING to train men how to develop more confident, masculine, and erotically dominant behavior patterns so that they can be an effective male dominant with their spouses or female companions within the context of the BDSM Lifestyle. The KING will use several telephone or Skype sessions to help the male client weed out unwarranted fears, self-destructive egotistical insecurities, and invalid beliefs and attitudes that will lead to the male client developing the tools to become a more erotically dominant lover and companion.

Session Type #2 – Overcoming Past Sexual Trauma and sexual-related feelings of ‘Guilt’ and/or ‘Shame’ This type of session is for male clients who might have been physically and/or sexually molested or assaulted as a pre-teen, teenager, or young adult … or … they were brought up in a household where one or both of their parents were extremely prudish and deeply religious as it relates to sexual morals, ethics, values, and beliefs. The KING will conduct several very open, brutally honest, and emotionally empathetic consultation sessions with his male clients to help them rid themselves of repressed memories and invalid beliefs, attitudes, and convictions. The ultimate objective is to help the male client transition to a point where they no longer associate sex with negative thoughts and detrimental emotional feelings (such as shame and/or guilt), and can free themselves up mentally, emotionally, and physically to become a more enthusiastic and highly appealing sex partner for any female companion or lover of their choosing.

Session Type #3 – From Self-Proclaimed ‘Prude’ to ‘Wild Animal’ in the bedroom

This type of session is for male clients who believe that they are ‘too conservative’ and sexually inhibited when it comes to their sexual conversations with women and their physical sexual activities with women.

The KING will conduct several very productive training sessions with his male clients to create a paradigm shift and eliminate negative connotations regarding the manner in which these women view the idea of being “kinky,” “experimental,” and “sexually adventurous” with female companions of choice. The ultimate objective is to help the male client transition into engaging in the type of sexual activity that she REALLY wants to instead of avoiding trying different things sexually for fear of being criticized, labeled, or judged by others.

Session Type #4 – Mastering the Fine Art of Erotic Dirty Talk & Phone Sex

This type of session is for male clients who have a strong desire to learn how to ‘talk dirty’ to women so that they can leave women very sexually aroused before they even kiss women or touch their bodies.

The KING will conduct several very sexually explicit training sessions with male clients using one of his female assistants and BDSM submissives to thoroughly teach them how to use their voice and overall conversation skills to create more exciting foreplay and sexual activity as well as mutually arousing and satisfying episodes of ‘aural sex’ (i.e., phone sex or erotic dirty talk while face-to-face). The ultimate objective is to help the male client develop what is known as a ‘hot mouth.’

Here are some common terms used with both BDSM and Polyamory:

• BDSM: An acronym that stands for Bondage / Discipline & Domination / Sadism & Submission / Masochism that is highlighted by a high degree of erotic domination and erotic submission between two lovers or two companions that is very consensual and non-abusive in nature • Bull: A Bull is a male dominant polyamorous lover to a woman involved in a polyamorous arrangement known as a ‘Bull-Hotwife-Cuckold’ arrangement • Couple-Swapping: A form of swinging and polyamorous sexual activity that involves two or more couples (married or unmarried) who regularly or semi-regularly engage in sex with each other • Cuckold: A Cuckold is a male submissive and/or male masochist who serves the financial needs and non-sexual companionship needs of his dominant Hotwife within the polyamorous context of a ‘Bull- Hotwife-Cuckold’ arrangement • Dominant (or ‘Top’): A man or woman who behaves as the erotically dominant partner in a sexual relationship • Dominatrix: A female BDSM Dominant who is usually financially compensated by her male and female clients • Exhibitionist: This is a man or woman who loves for others to view them nude, and loves for their spouses or sexual lovers to watch them engaging in sexual activities with other men and women • Flexible (or ‘Versatile’): This is a man or a woman who vacillates back-and-forth between exhibiting very dominant sexual behavior and very obedient and submissive sexual behavior with their spouse, fiancé / fiancée, long-term romantic companion, or casual lover • Hotwife: This is a woman involved in a polyamorous marriage or who has the BDSM personality of a ‘Switch’ and usually maintains one or more erotically dominant ‘Bull’ lovers and one very submissive (and even masochistic) and financially generous ‘Cuckold’ companion • Masochist: This is a very obedient and extremely submissive man or woman who enjoys being verbally abused, blatantly disrespected, humiliated (even in public), and loves being subjected to various forms of physical pain and torture • Polyamory: A long-term non-monogamous (or ‘open’) sexual relationship or marriage that involves swinging, couple-swapping, exhibitionism, and voyeurism • Polyamorous Family: When two or more polyamorous couples reside in the same household or living space and raise their children together • Professional Dominant Sir: A male BDSM Dominant who is usually financially compensated by his male and female clients • Sadist: This is an erotically dominant man or woman who loves to verbally , humiliate, blatantly disrespect, and inflict various forms of physical pain and torture on their masochistic companions • Slave: This is a submissive or masochist that has been ‘collared’, which means that this man or woman is only allowed to submit to and serve the needs of one male or female Dominant • Slut Wife: A woman who is a ‘Slut Wife’ is similar to a woman who is a ‘Hotwife,’ with the only difference being that her husband, fiancé, or long-term romantic male companion is not necessarily masochistic or submissive in nature (i.e., he is more of a ‘Voyeur’ than a true ‘Cuckold’) • Submissive (or ‘Bottom’): A man or woman who behaves as the obedient and erotically submissive partner in a sexual relationship • Sugar Baby: A woman who is the regular or semi-regular companion of a Sugar Daddy • Sugar Daddy: A financially generous man who is willing to provide one or more women (who are usually significantly younger than him) with financial favors and materialistic gifts in exchange for both their sexual and non-sexual companionship • Swinger: A man or a woman, usually one that is married or involved in a long-term relationship, who is into exhibitionism, voyeurism, orgies, and any variation of kinky & polyamorous sex • Switch: A man or woman who maintains at least two (2) lovers, and he or she is completely submissive to at least one lover while also being completely dominant toward at least one additional lover • Voyeur: This is a man or woman who loves to observe others while they are nude, and even more so, they love to watch their spouse or romantic companion engage in sexual activities with other men and women while they masturbate

This is the universal symbol for the BDSM Lifestyle

This is the universal symbol for the Polyamory Lifestyle

SAFEWORDS In the world of BDSM sexual conversations and physical interactions, there is a concept known as “Safewords.” When involved in a BDSM / Dominant-Submissive conversation or physical and sexual interaction, phrases like “No Sir, please don’t … “ or “Please Sir … Please Stop …” are not genuine, valid, or recognized. Phrases such as these are treated more so as an expression of “token resistance” rather than a true indication of displeasure, discomfort, or feelings of abuse on behalf of the ‘Bottom’ or ‘Sub’ involved in the interaction. When a man or woman who is in a subordinate, submissive position really wants their ‘Top,’ ‘Dom,’ or ‘Master’ to genuinely know that they are uncomfortable with the way they are being talked to and/or treated, they employ what is known as “Safewords.” The most common and frequently used Safewords are “yellow” or “banana” (which usually means, “please be a tad bit more gentle and loving with me, and not so harsh in your verbal tone or physical punishment toward me”) and “red” or “strawberry” (which usually means, “Someone who is not familiar with the BDSM Lifestyle has unexpectedly entered into the room with me” or “I feel very uncomfortable with the manner in which you are talking to me and me, and I genuinely want you to temporarily stop dominating me for the time being”). The KING respectfully acknowledges any and all widely accepted Safewords during his telephone consultation & training sessions with his clients. CONFIDENTIALITY The KING is firmly committed to keeping all of the details from his telephone consultation & training sessions completely private and discreet. The KING will never discuss the real names or identities of his consultation clients with friends of his, family members of his, casual acquaintances of his, or other consultation clients of his. The one exception would be if a client blatantly exhibited suicidal and/or homicidal tendencies while in conversation with The KING. In that rare instance, The KING would feel compelled to notify a close friend or family member of that particular client, or even a medical or legal authority and professional. Similarly, The KING strongly requests from each and every client of his that they do not share the intimate details of their telephone consultation & training sessions with friends, family members, or other casual acquaintances, with the exception of in a written testimonial that can be used on The KING’s website and/or professional documents. When asked by The KING to provide a testimonial, you may use your real (legal) first name and the first initial of your real (legal) last name / surname, but it is usually preferred that you use a pseudonym or fake name. ** Examples of client testimonials can be found on The KING’s Training Page

Action step #3: Please send an Email response to The KING ([email protected]), and in the subject area, write: “Desired Session Type for Consultation,” and in the text / body of the message, write: “I would prefer to engage in the [insert type of session here] during our upcoming telephone session” (Note: For sessions lasting an hour or longer, clients can many times request a “hybrid” session, where The KING combines elements of two or more types of sessions into one telephone session) Along with this Action Step, you can also list an outline of your unique, specific challenges and concerns. Also include in the Email message that you fully understand that all of my telephone consultation & training sessions with The KING are to remain private and discreet, unless given specific permission from The KING to share with others.

THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO THOROUGHLY READ THIS DOCUMENT IN ITS ENTIRETY.

I LOOK FORWARD TO ASSISTING YOU.

The KING Professional Dominant Sir – Dating & Sex Coach for Men, Women, and Couples http://www.modeone.net/training/

* Updated on Saturday, May 5, 2018 to include the BDSM and Polyamory terminology