WONDER WOMAN The myth of ‘having it all VIRGINIA HAUSSEGGER Allen & Unwin First published in 2005 Copyright © Virginia Haussegger 2005 All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording or by any information storage and retrieval system, without prior permission in writing from the publisher. The Australian Copyright Act 1968 (the Act) allows a maximum of one chapter or 10 per cent of this book, whichever is the greater, to be photocopied by any educational institution for its educational purposes provided that the educational institution (or body that administers it) has given a remuneration notice to Copyright Agency Limited (CAL) under the Act. Allen & Unwin 83 Alexander Street Crows Nest NSW 2065 Australia Phone: (61 2) 8425 0100 Fax: (61 2) 9906 2218 Email:
[email protected] Web: www.allenandunwin.com National Library of Australia Cataloguing-in-Publication entry: Haussegger, Virginia. Wonder woman : the myth of having it all. ISBN 1 74114 410 8. Contentsts Author’s Note vi 1 Wondering what’s so bloody wonderful 1 2 Triggering a brawl: I said, you said, she said . 12 3 Drop the baby—put it in the ‘possibles’: unravelling my own story 32 4 ‘Having it all’—a f . up feminist fantasy? 63 5 A child-riddled career . 81 6 The mummy backlash 114 7 The baby strike—a fertility crisis? 140 8 The childless revolution 157 9 Wanted: a way out of the unbearable lightness of modern-day coupling 181 10 Going it alone: a jam jar of seed .