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July, 1959 Published in the Interest of the Best in the Religious, Social, and Economic Phases of Mennonite Culture July, 1959 Published in the interest of the best in the religious, social, and economic phases of Mennonite culture MENNONITE CENTENNIALS Various Mennonite conferences and groups are commemorating centennials in 1959- 60. The Church of God in Christ Mennonite was founded in 1859 in Ohio. This issue contains two articles pertaining to this conference which has spread to the prairie states and provinces and the Pacific coast. The Mennonite Brethren were organized in Russia in I860 and have spread to all Mennonite settlements in Russia and of North and South America where Menno- nites from Russia settled. P. C. Hiebert, a representative from this conference, is reminiscing in connection with his work within and outside of his brotherhood. An outstanding leader and evangelist who was instrumental in reviving the spiritual life and starting educational efforts in the Mennonite General Conference (Old Men­ nonite) was John S. Coffman. John S. Umble presents his life story in this issue. Numerous other contributions in this issue are outstanding sources of information. More articles pertaining to the centennials, including that of the General Conference Mennonite Church, will follow. Tell your friends about this issue of Mennonite Life. Better yet, give them an introductory subscription. What about your public and church libraries, are they on the mailing list? Single copies— 50c; 1 year—S2; 2 years—$3.50; 3 years—$5; 5 years—$8; bulk orders of 10 copies or more—50 per cent discount. Mennonite Life MENNONITE LIFE North Newton, Kansas COVER: Rich Farmland Lancaster County, Pa. Photo: Marion Post Wolcott Farm Security Administration MENNONITE LIFE An Illustrated Quarterly ' EDITOR Cornelius Krahn ASSISTANT TO THE EDITOR John F. Schmidt ASSOCIATE EDITORS Harold S. Bender S. F. Pannabecker J. Winfield Fretz Robert Kreider Melvin Gingerich J. G. Rempel N. van der Zijpp Vol. XIV July, 1959 No. 3 TABLE OF CONTENTS Page The Need for a Peace Witness in the Orient.......................................................... Melvin Gingerich 99 Jacob .............................................................................. Warren Kliewer 101 What Type of Church Architecture?.............................................................................LeRoy Gräber 102 Fifty Years of Public Service.............................................................................................P. C. Hi eh ert 105 John Samuel Coffman: His Life and Work...............................................................John S. Umble 110 Blessed Relief...............................................................................................Mrs. Evelyn Stolfus Tit era 116 The Agricultural Revolution of Our Day................................................................. Harley J. Stucky 117 The Church of God in Christ, Mennonite.............................................................Harry D. Wenger 122 Portrait of a Prophet.............................................:.............................................................. Inez Unruh 123 Education for Responsibility...............................................................,.................... John D. Unruh, Jr. 125 Gardening ........................................................................................................ Ruth Baughman Unrau 128 More about Habaner Pottery......................................................................................Robert Friedmann 129 My Contact with Thomas Mann... ........................................................................Frank T. Kauffman 131 A Discovery in Anabaptist Hymnody......................................................... Rosella Reimer Duerksen 132 Samuel Geiser Copies an Old Hymnbook.................................................................Cornelius Krahn 135 Ein alter Handschriftenband.............................................................................................Samuel Geiser 136 Coutrship and Marriage among Russian Mennonites..................... Katharine Woelk van den Flaak 13S Low German Children's Rimes........................................................................ Warren Kliewer 141 Mothers and Daughters...................................................................................Ruth Baughman Unrau 142 Books in Review........................................................................................................................................ 143 Henry A. Fast, Irvin B. blorst, John F. Schmidt, Cornelius Krahn, D. C. Wedel, John Thiessen, Alice Loewen. Mennonite Life is an illustrated Quarterly magazine published in January, April, July, and October by Bethel College, North New­ ton, Kan. Entered as second-class matter Dec. 20, 1946, at the post office at North Newton, Kan., under Act of March 3. 1879. G.o.*d>uLttosil in 9A±ue (From left to right) /vleLVIN G1NGERICH, Goshen College, spent two years in Japan representing Ihe Peace Section of the M.C.C. (p. 99). WARREN KLIEWER, M.A., University of Kansas, will teach English at Bethany College, Lindsborg, Kansas (p .1 0 1 ,1 4 2 ). P. C. HIEBERT, educator and chairman of the M.C.C., now lives in retirement in Hillsboro, Kansas (p. 105). HARLEY J. STUCKY, Professor of History, Bethel College, gave this paper at a Men’s Brotherhood meeting (p. 117). JOHN D. UNRUH, JR., A.B., Bethel College, is doing work in the M.C.C. office, Akron, Pennsylvania (p. 125). RUTH BAUGHMAN UNRAU, homemaker and teacher in Commerce Department, Bethel College, writes as a hobby (p. 138, 142). ROBERT FRIEDMANN, Philosophy Department, Western Michigan College, is doing extensive research on Anabaptists and Hutterites (p. 129.) FRANK T. KAUFFMAN, born in Congerville, III., member of General Manager's office, So. Pacific Railroad Co., San Francisco (p. 131). ROSELLA REIMER DUERKSEN, Ann Arbor, Michigan, earned a Ph.D. degree in Anabaptist hymnology at Union Theological Sem. (p. 132). CORNELIUS KRAHN, director of Bethel College Historical Library and co-editor of MENNON1TE ENCYCLOPEDIA (p. 135). SAMUEL GEISER, Brügg bei Biel, Switzerland, is a Mennonite historian and musicologist (p. 136 f). KATHERINE WOELK VAN DEN HAAK, born in Russia, grew up in Canada, graduated from Bethel College in spring of 1959 (p. 138). NOT SHOWN LEROY GRÄBER w as a member of Building Council of the Salem-Zion Mennonite Church, Freeman, S. D. (p. 102). EVELYN STOLFUS TITERA, Wheeling, West Virginia, of Mennonite background, writes as a hobby (p. 116). HARRY D. WENGER, Hesston, Kansas, is evangelist and chairman of Mission Board of Church of God in Christ, Mennonite (p. 122). INEZ UNRUH, B.S., Bethel College, teaches at Indian school, Arizona, under Bureau of Indian Affairs (p. 123). ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Photography: Pp. 110-16, Mennonite Historical Library, Goshen College and J. S. Coffman family; Cover and pp. 120-21, United States Department of Agriculture; p. 130, Josef Vydra and Ludvik Kunz, PAINTING ON FOLK CERAMICS, Prague, 1956; pp. 133-34, Ervin H. Schmidt. 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The peoples of the East the West over the countries of Asia has been broken and arc looking forward to the day when their children will with this break have come far-reaching political, eco­ not need to go to bed hungry almost every night and nomic, social, and religious changes. Only recently the when there will be schools, hospitals, doctors, and nurses white man still held a privileged position in much of for them. Certainly Christians of the West dare not the Orient, but today the theory of white racial superiority criticize them for desiring to have the benefits of modern is discredited and the white man can work in the Orient civilization which we demand for ourselves. With their only on the basis of the equality of the races. limited financial
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