Fostering Gratitude Adoption in Thailand the Kindness of Strangers
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BANGKOK MOTHERS & BABIES INTERNATIONAL, A PROJECT OF CHILDBIRTH AND BREASTFEEDING FOUNDATION THAILAND NOVEMBER 2018 The kindness of strangers Adoption in Thailand www.bambiweb.org Fostering gratitude Life as a November 2018 stay-at-home dad CONTENTS On The Cover 16 Fostering gratitude 18 Adoption in Thailand: our journey Welcome to BAMBI 22 Life as a stay-at-home dad Bangkok Mothers & Babies International 28 The kindness of strangers “Support and Special Features 16 Fostering gratitude friendship through 18 Adoption in Thailand: our journey the common bond of 20 Growing up as a third culture kid parenthood” 21 An open thank you letter to the ‘Clown’s’ teachers 22 Life as a stay-at-home dad Mel Habanananda 24 What I want to tell the world about Autism 28 The kindness of strangers 32 The art of upcycling 34 Why moms run this town 42 Loy Krathong festival 46 Snow White pantomime We are a group offering support and Playgroups & Events companionship to each other through the early years of parenting. 6 Kute Kids say thanks! 10 BAMBI Bearing Playgroup We offer prenatal and postnatal support, 12 Mid-autumn at Sukhumvit 31 Playgroup regular playgroups, fundraising for charities and more. If you wish to join, come to our 14 Chinese ceremony at BAMBI Small World New Members’ Coffee Morning or any other regular BAMBI activity. To volunteer to serve on the committee, contact any Food & Nutrition of the committee members listed in this magazine. 36 Trans fat free Thailand 38 Eat a rainbow of 'anytime food' everyday 40 It’s clean, it’s traditional, it’s flammekuche! BAMBI is a project of the Childbirth & Breastfeeding Foundation of Thailand (CBFT). In Every Issue Mission Statement The CBFT is a non-profit networking and resource center 27 Reading Corner dedicated to ensuring the best possible start in life for our 44 How to become a BAMBI member babies. We believe that this can best be achieved through: 48 BAMBI needs you! 48 November birthdays n Encouraging the appropriate use of technology and medication for all births. 48 New members n Promoting breastfeeding for every mother and baby in 49 Member discounts the community. n Providing information and training to health 52 Support groups professionals involved in maternity care. 54 Playgroup and activities n Supporting parents through the pregnancy, birth and postnatal period. 57 BAMBI team 58 Member profile: Mao Sano For more information on CBFT, contact: English speaking, Tel 05-310-4573; [email protected] Thai speaking, Mobile: 081-776-9391; [email protected] or [email protected]. Or visit: www.cbfthai.org and www.facebook.com/pages/ Cover photographer: Mao Sano ChildbirthBreastfeeding-Foundation-of-Thailand Cover subjects: Bao Minh Lam, Elliott Noah Lam, Wyatt Oliver Lam Follow BAMBI on Hello! Facebook: Can you find me in the magazine? facebook.com/BAMBIBangkok CHAIRWOMAN'S LETTER Hi all, Welcome to the November edition of BAMBI News. The theme of this month’s maga- zine is Thanksgiving. Whether that involves lots of turkey, yams and pumpkin pie (always a winner in my house!) or just a moment to take stock of all that has been Wachieved and experienced in the past year before the manic rush of the December holidays, it is worthwhile to reflect on the year passed in order to focus and set goals for the year ahead. At the helm of BAMBI, Akiko and I remain forever grateful for the help and support we receive from each and every one of our 70+ volunteers. As an organization we have grown both in membership numbers and in the services we can provide to young fami- lies in Bangkok. This is due in no small part to the energy and enthusiasm of our commit- tee of warm, talented people. On a personal note I am grateful that my expat life here allows me the time to dedicate my skills and experience to the birthing community in Bangkok at BAMBI Bumps and Babies, making a difference, even in some small way. So, as you reflect on your gratitude list in this season of Thanksgiving, beyond the health and happiness of your family, consider also the opportunities you had to make Photo by Azusa Uchida a difference to the community or to use your skills for others. Connection and fulfillment really do feed the soul. I intend to draw up my list while enjoying a pumpkin spice latte. Happy November! Emma BAMBI Vice Chairperson www.bambiweb.org • 5 EDITOr’S CORNER Personally speaking, this role presents explains what drove her to create a an opportunity for me to give back to a dedicated running group. community I owe a huge amount to. As a new mother, in a new location, it was the Find out about the impact of being raised wonderful BAMBI family, made up of a as a ‘Third Culture Kid’ as nomadic number of kind hearted, selfless individuals entrepreneur, Pixie Cigar, answers our from a variety of different backgrounds probing questions. that not only helped me integrate into my new life here a year ago, but helped me Understand more about Autism as Abby Wailes thrive, and for that I am thankful. Autism Specialist and Speech Language Pathologist, Chiman Estephan shares BAMBI is a fantastic initiative and a some personal and insightful messages Well, hello there! team I am tremendously proud to be a from parents, therapists and educators. part of. It is such a privilege to introduce myself Discover more about the journey to as the new Editor of BAMBI News. Thank So, without further ado, let’s get the show adoption in Thailand, thanks to mom of you to the committee for their quite literal on the road and slip seamlessly into this two, Tricia Flagler. vote of confidence and the trust they month’s theme - Attitude Gratitude! have placed in me to lead this wonderful Finally, learn more about recent magazine forward. In this month’s issue we celebrate developments here in Thailand with Thanksgiving. our topical insights into the new app, It is not everyday that you write your first Facebook Messenger Kids and the new introduction as the new Editor from a In her final swan song for BAMBI News, trans fat free Thailand initiative. brightly colored ball pit with a fledgling Assistant Editor, Jinae Higashino, takes a eight-month-old, yet somehow that is look at fostering gratitude in our children. Thank you to all of the writers who exactly what I am doing. That aside, I am generously volunteer their time and enrich very excited about the future of BAMBI We have some heart-warming stories BAMBI News with their content. Do you News. from parents who have experienced the have a story to share? We’re always kindness of strangers, in Bangkok. looking for contributors and would love to We have a fantastic team of experienced hear from you. Feel free to send me an Assistant Editors, many of whom are new Get a glimpse inside the world of stay- email at [email protected]. volunteers to BAMBI and our aim is to share at-home dad, Rio Iida, as he shares a useful stories, tips, insights and expert candid account of what life is like in his Enjoy Thanksgiving! advice with you. Alongside ensuring the shoes. same quality of content we have enjoyed, thanks to our previous Editor, Donna Dias Rather contrarily, find out why moms run Abby Wailes Manuel and of course, our very generous this town. Not literally, well sort of literally. contributors. As mom and runner, Dianna Gibson, Editor, BAMBI News Thank you for a sister! Kute Kids - Adam & Neta say thanks! Send us your high-resolution photos to be published in our next issues! Email your favorite photo with the Thanks for being my best friend! Sisterly love child(ren)’s name(s) to: photoed@ - Charlotte & Charlise bambiweb.org. Thank you for being my friend! - Hana, Aska & Toki Upcoming themes for Kute Kids: December Kute Kids and Holiday Festivities January Thank you for Kute Kids Take Care of Mom/Dad taking me Thank you for being my friend! swimming Daddy! - Alegra, Wyatt & Ilana - Noah 6 • November 2018 CONTRIBUTOR PROFILES Jinae Higashino Ryusuke (Rio) Iida Dianna Gibson Jinae is from the US, an Rio is a Japanese stay-at-home Dianna is a mom of three experienced EFL teacher dad with two daughters and a (seventeen, fifteen and ten) and with a background in child devoted student of Ashtanga has been married for twenty development. She is currently Yoga. Rio enjoys making years. A self employed Civil a BAMBI magazine assistant Natto, Koji mold rice and Engineer by trade, Dianna editor, and served as playgroup other Japanese fermented food left all of that behind to move co-leader for several different as a hobby and his dream is to Bangkok and run! Dianna BAMBI playgroups. Jinae, her husband and 2 to one day to sleep in a fermentation cellar and is founder of the Moms Run This Town (MRTT) daughters have been living in Bangkok for 3 years. also to meditate in the Rothko Rooms around the Bangkok Facebook group. In the future she plans to pursue her passion in world. psychology and become a certified counselor. Chiman Estephan Sarah Russell Tamburrini Chiman is a certified (Adv.) Sarah is an Australian trained Tricia Flagler Autism Specialist and Speech Occupational Therapist and Tricia and her husband, Matt, Language Pathologist and Health Coach, commencing are both teachers and have founder of The Expat Speechie her career 10 years ago considered Thailand home blog. A life long student across various paediatric since 2015. They have two and expat from Sydney, hospitals.