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Wednesday, April 26, 2017 2 Thursday, February 23, 2017 2017 The Times Leader Make proposals special and successful Make proposals 2 special and successful A proposal is a special moment in couples’ lives together. Did you know? Most popular month It can be made even more special by following some guidelines. How guests can cut costs and 3 Did you know? Wedding weight 18 still attend loved ones’ weddings Jewelry care and Reconnect during wedding 4 cleaning guidelines 19 planning Master the wedding Tips for trimming the 5 save-the-date 20 wedding guest list Stunning engagement Tips for Selecting a comfortable 7 ring alternatives wedding Determining wedding Throw a casual wedding 8 day codes 21 to remember Treat guests to Incorporate in 9 personalized vows 23 various ways What’s new for the 2017 Did you know? Wedding white 10 wedding ? 24 Merging finances after 11 Wedding transportation tips 26 getting married Different roles for Hotel how to: tips for guests 12 the father of the looking for lodging Tips for a special “I do,” take two: Guide to a proposals is a couple’s first rest of their lives. So choose a proposal mother/son dance 27 second marriage official step toward the altar. Tradition location that has sentimental connections. Weddings and Prevent wedding day foot pain dictates that men pop the question, Think about where the first “I love you” nontraditional families 28 Awith their surprised — and hopefully soon- was uttered or where a first date occurred. 14 Did you know? Longevity to-be-fiancées — ultimately deciding if These can be prime locations to pop the Successful toasts help in marriage shape social events 30 wedding bells will be on the horizon. question. 15 Make every anniversary count Proposing marriage can be nervewracking. Note her style 7 ways to recycle a 31 wedding gown Did you know? Establish a However, if the time seems right and love Engagement rings play a big role in many 16 memory table is in the air, popping the question can be couples’ proposals. One person’s style is exciting. Regardless of who is proposing not necessarily what his partner will like. marriage, the following strategies can help Bigger isn’t always better. Rather, choose a make proposals memorable and successful. ring that reflects your partner’s preferences Turn the tides and personality. Take your partner jewelry An old Irish tradition known as “The Lady’s shopping and see which types of jewelry he Privilege” was established in the fifth century or she is most drawn to. Certain preferences by a nun named St. Brigid. She decided to can serve as a jumping off point for ring create an opportunity for women to propose designs. marriage. This day fell on every leap year, Ask for the family’s blessing February 29. Centuries later, women can Men no longer need to ask their girlfriends’ still use this tradition as the impetus to take fathers for “permission” to wed their the marriage reigns into their own hands. daughters. However, asking your partner’s But women need not wait for the next leap family for their blessing is a sign of respect year to propose. and can add a romantic and heartfelt touch Many women view proposing as an to the proposal. Did you know? empowering action that is tied to the Capture the moment evolving view of independent women. ccording to the 2015 Real Weddings Study from the premier multiplatform Couples are negotiating more in the Though we live in an age when every wedding resource The Knot, the most popular month for couples to get engaged marriage process, and the dissolution of moment of people’s lives is documented is December. Sixteen percent of survey respondents became engaged in the final commonly held practices is occurring more with videos and photographs posted to Amonth of the calendar year. The survey also found that the average length of a couple’s often. social media, proposals still stand out as engagement is now 14.5 months. Where June once was the most popular month of extra special moments. Hire a professional the year to tie the knot, today’s couples are now heading down the aisle most often in Choose a photographer to discreetly capture the sentimental location October. Seventeen percent of weddings now occur in October, closely followed by 15 proposal and your partner’s reaction so it percent in September. And at what age are couples saying their “I dos”? The average Couples will remember the proposal for the can be cherished for years to come. marrying age for a bride is 29 and it is 31 for the groom. The Times Leader WEDDINGS 2017 Thursday, February 23, 2017 3

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80809483 4 Thursday, February 23, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 The Times Leader Jewelry care and cleaning guidelines

ridal and tuxedos may get their slippery substances such as soaps and oils, Beware the sun, too share of attention at weddings, but as jewelry may fall off and become lost. The Gemological Institute of America, Inc. the subtle details of brides’ and grooms’ Instead, remove precious jewelry and store states that sunlight can affect the durability Bwedding attire also garner guests’ attention. it in a safe location, such as in a jewelry and color of colored gemstones. Over time chest or a drawer. Breathtaking jewelry worn by the bride, and in excess, the sun and heat can fade groom and members of the bridal Exercise caution with or damage some stones, such as amethyst, looks great on the day of the wedding and beauty products topaz and . Other stones can darken in photos couples will keep for decades to Apply lotion, cosmetics, perfume, cologne, with exposure to the sun. come. Naturally, engagement rings and bridal and hairspray before putting on jewelry. Clean jewelry with care are the shining stars of the celebration. These substances can discolor certain Rely on mild detergents and a light touch However, other pieces of jewelry also make metals or even damage stones. Prolonged when cleaning jewelry. Use products for cherished accessories for weddings. contact with perspiration and bodily oils also specifically designed for jewelry care, Bridal jewelry is an investment worth can cause discoloration over time. Gently and read labels to ensure safety. The maintaining. According to a 2013 report by wipe down jewelry with a soft cloth after International Gemological Institute the Jewelers of America, couples spend an wearing it to remove oils and sweat. says seriously soiled jewelry should be average of $4,000 on engagement rings and Be careful around swimming professionally cleaned. more money on wedding bands. Considering pools, spas and the ocean several thousands of dollars may adorn the Inspect and know your jewelry Couples should remove jewelry before Protect jewelry necks, fingers, ears, and wrists of bridal party Routinely inspect jewelry to test for any partaking in water-based activities on their by cleaning it members, individuals should learn how to structural issues that can result in breakage . According to jewelry retailer regularly and keep their jewelry investments looking pristine. or lost stones. Make sure any suspected Zales, chlorinated water can react with exercising caution problems are repaired promptly. Remove jewelry during hard work the metals found in jewelry, causing color when engaging in Exercise caution when wearing jewelry changes and even structural changes. Don’t Ensure jewelry will last for years to come. certain activities. during strenuous activities or when jewelry risk jewelry falling off in the ocean. Store it in Exercise caution when wearing pieces and can be damaged. Also, when handling a secure location before diving in. clean and care for them properly.

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any couples’ weddings take more than Save-the-date cards require couples to a year to plan. Couples want all of the assemble their guest lists well in advance of special people in their lives to witness the wedding. The leading bridal resource The Mtheir vows, and giving guests advance notice Knot notes that everyone who will get a wedding can ensure as many loved ones as possible invitation should also receive a save-the-date Master the wedding attend the ceremony. card. There’s no turning back once cards are To be certain that guests have ample notice sent, so couples will need to be certain everyone to clear their schedules, many couples now they want to attend is getting advanced notice. turn to save-the-date cards, which announce It’s acceptable to mail save-the-date cards even weddings well in advance of the actual if some wedding day details are still up in the wedding day. air. Guests really only need to know the date Save-the-date cards once were reserved and location of the wedding. Couples also can only for weddings that required travel or use the save-the-date card to direct invitees to special circumstances, such as destination a wedding website where guests can learn the weddings. But such cards have now become details of the wedding as they unfold. commonplace for all weddings. That’s because RSVP information does not need to be included many people plan vacations or business trips on the save-the-date card. anywhere from four to six months in advance. Save-the-date cards are much less formal Busy people require plenty of notice to than invitations, so couples can have fun with include this important date on their calendars, them. They can showcase couples’ clever particularly when wedding dates fall during personalities or funny quirks. Keep in mind it popular travel seasons or around the holidays. is in poor taste to mention or registries on Kleinfeld Bridal, a premiere New York bridal save-the-date cards. There will be plenty of time boutique, says that save-the-date cards are to direct guests to registries later on. typically mailed six to eight months prior to Couples are increasingly turning to save-the- the wedding, though some are sent as early date cards when planning their weddings to as a year before the big day. Once a date and make sure busy friends and family will have a location is secured, save-the-dates can be enough time to make plans to attend their ordered and mailed. weddings.

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Stunning engagement ring alternatives

hite have Moissanite: This crystal been the traditional naturally occurs in meteorites engagement ring and is nearly as hard, dense and : tend Wstones for decades. While scuff-resistant as a . Morganite: According to the to be blue stones (of varying shoppers have experimented Some feel moissanite offers blog Bridal Musings, morganite is intensity), but they also come with , silver, platinum, and more brilliance and fire than currently one of the most popular in peach, pink, yellow, green, other precious metals for ring diamonds. Moissanite is a white- choices for engagement rings. Its and white. Sapphire may not bands, the star of the show colored stone, so it can mimic pretty pink hue is romantic and sparkle as much as a diamond has long been that twinkling, the look of a diamond. And since feminine. It also sits at around or even moissanite. However, pristine diamond. it can be made in the laboratory the same hardness as sapphires, with the right cut, it can be hard ensuring the rings will endure. Even though diamonds may at a fraction of the cost of even Lemon quartz: This is the to distinguish any lack of luster. be a “girl’s best friend,” they lab-made diamonds, it’s a frugal Vividly cut , trade name for a lemon-yellow Sapphires are the third hardest may not fit every woman’s option. A nearly flawless one- and tanzanite — all gems that stone that is a variety of color- mineral, and at about one-third style, particularly the bride carat moissanite gem can cost are rarer yet less expensive enhanced transparent quartz. the price of diamonds, they make who likes to buck tradition less than $1,000. than diamonds — can make Quartz is turned into this sunny an ideal diamond substitute. and think outside the box. beautiful engagement rings. hue through an artificial gamma According to Money magazine, Some couples also may opt for ray irradiation process. Like the average engagement ring rings without gemstones, such other quartz gemstones, lemon costs more than $5,800. In as traditional Claddagh or “true quartz is considered to be very addition to being one of the lover’s knot” rings to signify their durable and is therefore suitable most expensive gemstones, union. for all types of jewelry. diamonds have become quite commonplace. Some women even eschew diamonds for moral reasons. Whatever the driving force behind shopping for alternative gems, women who want to set themselves apart from others — and men who want to “wow” their significant others with unique and eye-catching rings — may opt for other dazzling stones. S8

8 Thursday, February 23, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 The Times Leader Determining wedding day dress codes edding invitations do the desired . to the time of day. Fabrics have a little more leeway with more than merely Casual should represent the season. For their attire at such gatherings. announce that a example, a will not pass A long might be Wcelebration is on the horizon. If the invitation mentions casual at a winter wedding. preferable. However, a chic attire, it’s important to realize that Invitations provide key information Formal also can be about the ceremony and festivities everyday casual is different from acceptable, and darker, neutral to follow. Many details, including wedding casual. , and Formal attire is the default dress colors are most appropriate. the location, time and date of the tank tops are unacceptable unless code for the majority of weddings. Some invitations may reference wedding, are spelled out on the otherwise noted. Err on the side When the invitation does not “ Preferred.” While men wedding invitations. However, of caution and go with business specify a dress code, it is safe to may opt for a tuxedo, a black suit invitations can sometimes leave casual, which includes chinos, assume formal attire is expected. also can be worn. slacks, a polo or button-down Men can choose among a dark guests confused about the Black tie appropriate style of attire for shirt for men. Women can wear suit and tie or a tuxedo. Women weddings the occasion. a or slacks or a can opt for a formal cocktail- The most formal of occasions will require and an attractive . If the length dress, a classic suit or a request white tie attire. gowns men to Even though invitation mentions beach casual, long dress. Select among tones and tuxedoes with tails are the wear wedding tuxedos. shorts and even are likely that are gray, black or brown. norm, as are dramatic jewelry and invitations acceptable. hairstyles. White tie attire is akin rarely offer Black tie Semiformal to what one might see worn to specific Black tie events also require awards shows. information Semiformal dresswear, sometimes formal attire. Black tie typically regarding attire, referred to as “dressy casual,” is goes hand-in-hand with an When attending a wedding, it is chances are a step up from casual clothing. evening wedding. Black tie is always better to be overdressed the wording will Cocktail or a more elegant more rigid for male guests, who than underdressed. Guests can provide clues skirt and are the norms. should wear a tuxedo, black consult with fellow guests or that can help Gentleman generally wear a suit , , and the bride and groom if they are guests interpret and tie. Coordinate the colors of . Women unsure of the dress code.

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ouples who choose to write their build on that. . own wedding vows recognize Tell a story. If you need inspiration, Decide on a mutual structure for the how special such personal look to a moment in your relationship vows. If you and your spouse will not Treat guests to gestures are. Writing one’s own vows C be writing the vows together, agree when you really knew this was the can impart a personalized and special person with whom you wanted to share on a format that you both will follow. touch to the ceremony. But as anyone your life. Relay the story, but keep it Otherwise, you might be writing about who has stared down a blank piece of brief. Try to be as specific as possible, your unending love, and he or she personalized vows or blinking cursor can attest, a and recognize that it’s acceptable to may be promising to keep updated case of writer’s block may encourage be playful with your words. When it’s on favorite sports teams or television couples to abandon the idea of writing really coming from the heart and not programs. You want the tone and style their own vows. the head, you’ll know it. of the vows to be cohesive. Writing vows can be nerve-wracking. Borrow from traditional words. Dig deeper. Look into the future and Many couples are unaccustomed to Take traditional vows and tweak them project how you hope your life to be speaking in front of crowds, and then to make them your own. This works in 10 or 20 years. Explain all of the there is the challenge of turning life- especially well for those who have reasons you want to be together for altering feelings into language that will trouble getting started or are unsure the duration. appeal to the masses. of which format to follow. Incorporate Read the vows several times. But couples struggling with their key words, such as “partners,” “love,” Read over your work and make sure vows need not throw in the vow- “friends,” “joy,” and “forever.” the language is clear and there are writing towel. With some practice and Be sure the officiant is on board. no glaring errors. It may take a few guidance, anyone can write cherished Depending on the type of ceremony, versions to get the final version right vows that will be remembered for all of the officiant may have final say over where you want it. the right reasons for years to come. what can or cannot be included in Get a second opinion. Ask someone Skip the schtick. Jokes may pop up in your vows. Religious ceremonies, for you trust to listen to the vows and offer speeches throughout the evening, but example, may be limited to certain feedback. This needs to be a person wedding vows can be your chance to scripture readings and traditional vows. who will be honest and not just tell you truly speak from the heart. Humor may Before you devote any time to writing what you want to hear. come across as insincerity. Rather, vows, ensure that it’s alright to include list the words that describe your them. Otherwise, save personalized Personalized vows can add an extra feelings for your future spouse, and sentiments for a special at the special touch to wedding ceremonies. Events of Distinction Beautiful ambiance, exceptional cuisine, impeccable service... every detail in place to create the perfect celebration for you and your guests.

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80810643 10 Thursday, February 23, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 The Times Leader What’s new for the 2017 wedding season? By Marcella Kester “Out of 100 brides, maybe only two dresses, and a “mix-and- Jennifer Redmond had her venue set. For Times Leader want a white dress,” she said, adding match” approach has been on-trend She had her “dream dress.” But she that the trend now is an over a so far. Rushton said many brides and decided to scrap it all and start over It’s that time of year again. champagne or muted blue. choosing a color, but allowing their after learning that a family member’s With the season behind us and According to wedding site Brides.com, to mix styles, textures and illness may prevent them from attend- the slurry of that follow, many designers have opted to use pal- fabric together to make it their own. ing the ceremony she had planned. the beginning of the new year is often ettes from Pantone’s Color of Two-piece outfits and keyhole Now choosing to do a simple backyard the beginning of wedding planning for the Year for their bridal backs are also currently ceremony in August instead, Redmond’s many newly engaged couples. And, for gowns, making use in for the season, she original dress will no longer fit her ven- many women, there is one thing that’s of “Serenity” — a said. ue’s needs, and she has found herself on at the top of their list. Something that muted, pastel “It’s a 50/50 the hunt once again for a . they’ve been dreaming about since they blue - and “ split,” she said “I did have the whole spectacular were little girls. Quartz” — a of brides opting dress picked out,” she said, adding that The dress. light, blush pas- to give their she found her first dress from Gerri Ah, the wedding dress. It can arguably tel pink. DeBasi party members Bridal, but it would be far too hot for a be the most important part of a wedding also suggested more freedom to summer outdoor wedding. “With that (besides the ring, of course), but nar- that brides may chose their own being said … I am still looking for a rowing down your options can become want to consider a dress style. lighter lace material now to be married overwhelming. From hundreds of styles, color other than a tradi- Another trend she’s in.” colors, textures and accents, wedding tional stark white, as she feels been noticing is the amount of Redmond said she will be going back dress shopping is often not a “one-and- it can wash out a bride’s complexion New Year’s Eve weddings that will be to Gerri Bridal next week to continue to done” thing. And with many top design- and make her look too pale. An ivory or happening in the area this year. look for her new dress, and is hoping to ers just wrapping up their 2017 runway champagne would instead enhance the “New Year’s Eve seems to be a big find one that still has all the features she shows, a whole new lineup of on-point skin and give a natural, glowing look, trend for brides this year,” she said, likes — such as lace and pearls — but trends has just entered bridal magazines she said. noting that many New Year’s brides are more slim fitting and light to withstand and websites throughout the world. Another hot trend for the upcoming desiring a big and glamorous dress to go the heat. To make life a little easier, The Times season is plunging necklines and backs. with the holiday. “My first dress was more traditional,” Leader scoured local bridal shoppes and Top wedding websites such as “The In Exeter, one local bride recently put she said, noting that the original dress boutiques, asking what the top wedding Knot” and “PopSugar” show a multitude a halt to all her planning and is starting had a lace detail in the back. “With this dress trends are for the upcoming bridal of designers putting their models in her wedding from scratch — including one I’ve been noticing more of a scoop season. Here’s a hint: There is plenty to plunging V-neck dresses equipped with changing her dress. neck or v-neck.” choose from. delicate feather details, and cape- Michelle DeBiasi manages Gerri Brid- lets and 3D florals. DeBiasi said many al Shop in Pittston. A third-generation women have asked about dresses with owner, DeBaisi said she learned a lot revealing backs and exquisite beading from her grandmother, Gerri, and moth- detail. er, Judy, who worked the shop for the “Everybody wants a cool back,” she past 52 years. She said some of the top said. “Open backs are really big for the trends 2017 brides have been looking for brides this season.” is lace and beading with plunging backs Jennifer Rushton agrees. Co-owner of and necklines. As for wedding and The Dress Lounge Bridal and Prom Bou- trains, DeBiasi said shorter trains are tique in Kingston, Rushton said she also outselling traditional longer ones, but has had her fair share of brides desiring longer, cathedral-style veils have come to to show more skin. She also said that the forefront this year. many of her clients have also opted for “The brides all want lace,” she said, a nude or champagne underlay for their noting that the look coincides with rustic dress, and that lace is reigning supreme. and barn-themed weddings, which is cur- “I would say there’s more lace now rently also trending. than there ever was,” she said. Although there is no specific type Rushton said that while brides are of dress — as style and fit varies from seeking lace, blush tones and beading for bride-to-bride — she said that traditional their gowns, it’s all about shimmer for colors have taken a backseat in recent bridesmaids. years, ushering in a new era of cham- Sequins and shimmering lace, she pagnes, neutrals and blush tones. said, have been flying off the shelves for The Times Leader WEDDINGS 2017 Thursday, February 23, 2017 11

eddings are momentous themselves, to feel rushed. off on horseback, while easy riders events for the couple tying Once the timing has been might prefer to rev up the engine on the knot as well as all of the orchestrated, couples can figure out a Harley-Davidson. Couples should Wedding Wfriends and family invited to share in exactly which types of transportation never feel penned in by tradition, the big day. will be required. especially when something else makes them feel remarkable and the Before couples can tie the knot and Book personal transportation first cut a rug at their receptions, everyone, budget allows for it. couple and guests included, must Happy couples must make their Have your getaway car ready transportation tips own transportation their top arrive at the location (or locations if priority. Arrange for the couples’ Couples generally opt to arrive to the ceremony site differs from the the wedding and reception in style, reception area). Though arranging transportation between five and seven months in advance of the but take their own vehicles or cabs wedding day transportation can be home afterward. This requires some difficult, there are ways to make the wedding. It could be preferable to book it even further in advance if a advanced planning. Enlist the help of process go more smoothly for guests friends to park the return-trip car in a and bridal party members. couple is getting married around a holiday or during prom season when convenient location. with the Determine your needs limousines and party buses are in catering hall to see if a vehicle can be Before a transportation plan can be high demand. Remember, unless the left in their lot overnight. Otherwise, made, couples must first map out bride-to-be plans to be seen by her arrange to grab a ride home with their needs. Everything should be groom, couples will need separate friends or family. built around the ceremony. Once the transportation to the ceremony site. Consider others’ needs ceremony time has been set, the rest Factor multiple vehicles into the Have the names and phone numbers of the day can be arranged around wedding transportation budget. of taxi or ridesharing services available that time. Explore your personality for those who may not be able to drive Determine how much time is needed Brides and grooms have many after the party. Elderly or disabled to travel from the ceremony to the transportation options at their disposal. guests might appreciate prearranged reception area. Allocate enough time If a limousine doesn’t add the spark transportation as well. Although before the cocktail hour to allow for of creativity they desire, they can couples can arrange for transportation traffic, photos and any other needs opt for a VW bus or a retro roadster. as a courtesy to others, they don’t that may take up time. Couples Outdoor enthusiasts might want to ride need to make arrangements for do not want anyone, included everyone. Parrish Limousines PROUDLY PROVIDING PREMIUM TRANSPORTATION FOR OVER 3 GENERATIONS!

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Grooms are the unsung heroes of weddings. They more productive ways. often put others Wedding sites: Assign dear first, including old dad the important task of letting their own looking at potential wedding mothers shine on reception sites prior to visiting the dance floor. them yourself. He may have certain connections through work eddings celebrate the unions of If possible, include some photos that were or attended business or leisure happy couples ready to pledge shot during the wedding ceremony, asking occasions at catering halls and their lives to each other. In theory, the photographer to capture the look on your other venues. Dad’s connections Wthe wedding day spotlight should be shared mother’s face during pivotal moments of the can pay off. Let him impart his equally by brides and grooms. But brides ceremony. negotiating skills and find the best often eclipse their grooms, as guests are Show off your dance skills. One deals with the ideal backdrop for drawn to stunning bridal gowns. increasingly popular wedding trend is for the festivities. Though grooms might play second fiddle fathers and brides to choreograph the father/ : Let your father for much of their wedding days, there is one daughter dances. Grooms and their mothers assist the best man and other moment when all eyes are on the groom can follow suit, particularly if you both have groomsmen in securing their and a special lady in his life. The mother/ some stellar dance moves. tuxedos or other wardrobe son dance is a wedding tradition that many Let Mom choose the song. Give your essentials. Dad also can step in grooms embrace as their opportunity to mother the opportunity to express her and return rented items following show their mothers how much they love and sentiments to you, as mothers of the groom the wedding. appreciate them. The mother/son dance is an do not typically toast their sons during ideal time to create a special moment, and weddings or even rehearsal . Beverages: Dad may be fitting the following are some tips to personalize the to keep tabs on what is occurring dance. Invite other son/mother duos up. If the idea at the bar during the reception, of dancing alone with your mother is a bit ensuring that guests’ needs are Precede the bride and her father. Make intimidating, give other mothers in attendance your own tradition and switch up the timing opular movies and being met. He also can keep an opportunity to share the spotlight. of the dances. Be the first to take a spin on televisions shows give an eagle eye trained on anyone Celebrate all mothers in attendance, the dance floor and set the tone for the other the impression that the who may have overindulged and encouraging any mothers and sons who are traditional songs to come. Pjob of the father of the bride in needs to take a break. present to dance together. a wedding is ultimately about Speech: Give your father an Create a photo montage. Work with an Grooms may not garner the bulk of guests’ making sure the festivities are opportunity to shine by letting him entertainment company or photographer to attention on their wedding days. But they can adequately funded. In the movies, make a speech. Remember, this create a slideshow of images showing you take steps to make their special dances with fathers fret about the costs of is a momentous day for Dad as and your mother together and separately. their mothers more memorable and unique. everything from flowers to photos. well, as he may be trying to come But gone are the days when to terms with his daughter starting the father of the bride bankrolls a new life. his daughter’s entire wedding. Father-daughter song: Let Dad The Knot’s “2014 Real Wedding pick father-daughter song, and Survey” reported that, on go with his choice even if you had average, the bride’s parents something else in mind. contribute 43 percent of the total Ceremony: Even if you prefer cost of a wedding; the bride and a less traditional wedding groom contribute another 43 ceremony, let your father walk percent; the groom’s parents you down the aisle. This will likely spend 12 percent; the remaining be a moment he’ll remember for 2 percent of the budget is paid years to come. for by family members or friends. That frees up Dad for other roles Expand the father of the bride’s in wedding planning. With some role in the wedding by assigning creativity, couples can find ways him tasks where he can put his to incorporate the father of the style, experience and excitement bride into the festivities in even to good use. 8080883 The Times Leader WEDDINGS 2017 Thursday, February 23, 2017 13 80810645 14 Thursday, February 23, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 The Times Leader Weddings and nontraditional families

two people, oftentimes couples engaged to be made to feel as if they are unimportant. A Recognize that some families break the be married must contend with the politics of simple announcement of who stepparents are mold. Recently, a father made waves on the divorce or other familial issues. This includes at the wedding reception or inclusion of their Internet when a video of him pulling the bride’s if and how to incorporate stepparents and names on wedding itineraries can help smooth stepfather up to assist in walking her down the stepsiblings into the ceremony and celebration. over any potential bumps. aisle went viral. This was a wonderful image of There are no traditional rules regarding how Put others’ needs before your own. While families making it work despite their differences to handle blended families, so brides- and the wedding may be about you and your or the awkwardness that can result when grooms-to-be can customize their decisions future spouse, you must consider the feelings brides or grooms have parents and stepparents based on their own unique situations. Even of others. Biological parents and stepparents in attendance. Although this scenario might not when families have been happy through the may act defensively if they feel uncomfortable play out for all, find ways to impart a special years, the unique circumstances and traditions or hurt, and that can create an air of negativity touch, especially if you’re close to both your surrounding the nuptials can dredge up former to the day. Try to avoid this by considering biological parents and your stepparents. For insecurities, and certain aspects may require potential areas of conflict. For example, example, your biological father may walk you extra patience and tact. Here’s how to navigate mothers might be hurt if their ex-husbands’ down the aisle, while your stepfather may enjoy amilies come in all shapes and sizes. the process. new girlfriends are asked to be in a group the . During special events — particularly family photo. Instead, select separate times to flowers and gifts for all. Purchase those steeped in tradition, such as Consider stepparents and stepsiblings have everyone included. Remember to give flowers and wedding party gifts for all of the Fweddings — blended families may have to VIPs. Brides and grooms who are not parents and stepparents priority seating as special people in your lives, including your employ certain tactics to ensure the events go particularly close to their stepfamilies still have well, and they each should be seated next to stepfamily. off without a hitch. to recognize the role they play in the family dynamics. These people are still family, so someone they love and someone with whom Weddings can be complicated affairs when When planning their weddings, couples must respect and courtesy should be offered. If there they can converse comfortably. You may think factoring in blended families. With patience give consideration to the needs of their families. is any lingering animosity, extend the olive everyone can play nice, but it’s best not to push and compassion, such families can enjoy a Even though a wedding is about the union of branch on this day and try not to let anyone the issue just to make a point at the wedding. beautiful and happy day. Weddings by the Hilton Scranton

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ouples can spend months keep the lines of communication debt early on and come up with a way or even years planning their open and express a willingness to to pay it off together. The experts say, weddings. While planning a compromise with regard to managing like it or not, once you’re married, Cwedding requires lots of hard work, money. The following are some your spouse’s debts become your couples may also want to give some additional tips for couples who want problem. His or her credit score thought to life beyond their wedding to make the transition to sharing can impact your ability to get credit day. finances go as smoothly as possible. as a couple. It’s best to handle One of the more important matters Start the conversation early debt efficiently regardless of who is couples must consider is how to responsible for the debt. According to a recent poll by the manage their finances once they National Foundation for Credit Decide who is the tie the knot. Discussing money can Counseling, more than two-thirds money manager be a tricky issue, particularly when couples have long been accustomed of engaged couples had negative One person may be better or more to handling their own accounts and attitudes about discussing money organized when it comes to paying being responsible for their own with their soon-to-be spouses, with bills. Whether you keep separate income and expenditures. Bringing 5 percent saying even having the accounts or combine them, it is easier another party into the equation can conversation would cause them to for one person to take the lead and complicate matters, particularly when call off the wedding. If money is manage the finances from month to one spouse may not have the full causing this type of issue before the month. Money can funnel into a joint picture of the other’s spending and wedding, delaying the conversation account specifically established to saving habits. In fact, the financial until after tying the knot can be a pay bills. resource Bankrate.com says some of big mistake. It’s better for couples Develop a joint budget the most common financial problems to begin financial discussions and newly married couples encounter start brainstorming long-term goals Not only do finances need to be include overspending and managing and plans as soon as they get merged, but so, too, do lifestyles. debt. engaged. Don’t hide negative financial Couples must be on the same page information from a prospective regarding their spending habits and When deciding how to merge their spouse. Being open and honest — keep luxury or personal expenditures finances, couples can experiment even though it can be challenging — in check. Work out a budget and to see what works best for them. It is the best way to proceed. savings plan together.Managing may take some trial and error before finances is a conversation that couples find a solution that works for Deal with debt newlyweds need to have as soon them, but it’s important that couples Hiding debt is a big mistake. Discuss as possible.

Hotel How-To: Tips for guests looking for lodging

ouples about to tie the knot will be staying. Couples may have when searching for a place to stay a single room by yourself can save often arrange for discounted already done the legwork with for a loved one’s wedding. The substantial amounts of money. And hotel rooms for their regard to finding a hotel that’s most affordable option is not always staying in the hotel with many of the Cwedding guests. Many hotels offer closest to the wedding ceremony the most ideal. Proximity to the other guests will make you feel like substantial discounts to wedding and receptions sites and still within ceremony and reception venues you are not missing out on anything parties, but some guests and bridal arm’s-length of other attractions should be a priority, as guests during your stay. party members might still want guests can enjoy while in town. Give won’t save much money, if any, if • Look for lower rates in the to examine their options before ample consideration to the hotel or their hotel is so far away from the wedding hotel. Room rates are booking rooms. The following tips hotels affiliated with the wedding weekend’s activities that they must locked in once couples choose can help guests find the right room prior to beginning your search, rent cars or take taxis all weekend. a particular hotel or hotels, but so they can enjoy their loved ones’ even if the hotel is a chain you have • Share rooms to reduce costs. If guests might be able to find more wedding weekends to the fullest. never used before or have not liked the wedding rates are unaffordable, affordable rates at the same hotel • Don’t overlook the wedding hotel. in the past. float the idea of sharing rooms with by waiting to book and perusing Many couples put a lot of thought • Prioritize proximity. It’s important fellow guests. Splitting the cost of discount hotel websites and apps. into the hotel where their guests to consider factors aside from cost a double room instead of booking S27

The Times Leader WEDDINGS 2017 Thursday, February 23, 2017 27 ‘I do,’ take two: Guide to a second marriage ouples are returning to the altar in increasing numbers, as second and third weddings are becoming ever more popular. Pew Research Center Cindicates that, as of 2014, 64 percent of divorced or widowed men have remarried, compared with 52 percent of previously married women. Lavish second weddings were once uncommon, but that trend is also shifting. Couples who are taking another crack at marriage are tying the knot with renewed vigor and with weddings that may rival some first-timers’. Men and women who are remarrying after divorce or being widowed may not know how to approach planning their upcoming nuptials. The following are some guidelines to making the wedding sequel a success. Wardrobe Couples who have been married before often find that they have more leeway with regard to their wedding wardrobes than they did when tying the knot for the first time. Brides may choose something less traditional than a long, white dress. In fact, this can be a time to let loose and select something that is festive or even funky. This also may provide a great opportunity to choose clothing styles from different cultures or ties into one’s heritage. This freedom also allows brides to broaden their horizons with regard to where to buy their wedding wardrobes. Grooms may opt for something more casual than a tuxedo or coordinate with their brides-to-be so they are on the same creative page. Colored tuxedos and vintage are acceptable, even though such attire might have raised a few eyebrows the first time around. Some couples choosing to tie the knot again scale back In lieu of gifts, couples may ask guests to donate to a Guest list the size of the wedding this time around, feeling something specific charity or forgo gifts altogether. The guest list doesn’t have to be a source of anxiety. smaller and more intimate — with only the closest of Vows friends and family — is more suitable. Others will understand that there may be a melange of Couples can use experience to draft vows that have people at a second wedding. Children from previous Registries and wedding gifts personal meaning to their unique situations and make the marriages as well as divorced spouses or former parents- Considering couples who have been married previously wedding ceremony even more special. in-law are not out of the question. Even if exes will not likely have many of the housewares and items for daily be included, make sure they know about the nuptials in People getting married again can impart their own living that first-timers may not, registering for these gifts personalities into the ceremony and party to follow. There advance of others. It’s common courtesy, and it can help is not necessary. What’s more, some of the same guests head off feelings of ill-will. are no hard rules governing second weddings, so couples may have been present at first marriages and gifted then. can plan their weddings with good times in mind.

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hile some couples may get cold feet on • in a pair of insoles. Stores carry a variety their wedding days, there’s no reason of insoles that can add cushioning, distribute Prevent wedding for anyone, including brides who don weight and prevent rubbing or chafing of the Whigh heels in the name of , to endure foot feet. pain. • Break in the shoes. It’s not a good idea to Foot pain is a common complaint for those wear a brand new pair of shoes when you know day foot pain unaccustomed to wearing stilettos or formal you’ll be on your feet most of the day. Instead, footwear. Wedding attire is not worn every day, purchase wedding shoes several weeks in so it’s no surprise that wedding footwear may advance of the event. Wear them around the contribute to some aches and pains. house with a pair of to stretch out straps Podiatrists warn that heels between one and and enable them to mold to your foot shape. two inches in height are the best to maintain foot Wearing them in advance also helps identify health. But that heal size does not work for all spots that rub or are likely to cause blisters. brides. Brides-to-be, bridesmaids and others can • Consider wearing . It’s now less of employ these tips to keep their feet pain-free a fashion faux pas to attend formal events with throughout the ceremony and reception. thank it once was, but it may be in • Give your feet a break. Swap out a higher heel your best interest to wear a pair of stockings to with a lower one every couple of hours. Do not a wedding. The thin material will help alleviate wait until you start feeling pain to switch to a rubbing and hot spots from skin-on- direct lower heel or more comfortable shoe. contact. • Choose shoes that fit and leave a little room. • Stretch and soak feet prior and afterward. Standing and dancing can cause feet to swell, Wearing heels can put strain on your calves, sometimes as much as one half-size larger. creating extra pain. Stretch your feet and legs Make sure the shoes you plan to wear to the whenever possible. And after a long night, wedding afford potentially swollen feet a little make sure a pedicure is one of the first spa breathing room. experiences you enjoy on your honeymoon.

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Did you know? ongevity in marriage is something to be celebrated. Couples who reach fiftieth and sixtieth wedding anniversaries often commemorate those anniversaries with big parties. But there Lare some around the world who would consider golden anniversary celebrants to still be newlyweds. In December 2015, Karam Chand, 110, and his , Kartari Chand, 103, from Bradford, West Yorkshire (originally from India), celebrated their 90th , becoming the world’s longest-betrothed couple. In America, John and Ann Betar, ages 104 and 100, respectively, have been married 83 years as of 2016. The couple eloped in 1932. They have been named one of America’s longest-married couples by the Worldwide Marriage Encounter.

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Anniversaries are a great way for couples to celebrate their time together by stepping away from emails, text messages, work Make every obligations, and even mundane everyday tasks to once again remember a day and moment that changed their lives forever. Those who may need a little inspiration anniversary count celebrating their anniversaries can consider these suggestions. Have dinner at your reception site. Find out if the reception site, which may be a catering hall or restaurant, serves dinner or . Make a reservation and enjoy celebrating in the spot edding anniversaries where the memories all began. provide opportunities Take a second honeymoon. for couples to reflect Honor wedding memories by Wand relive the excitement of their booking a second honeymoon at a wedding days. Anniversaries special location. can easily be forgotten amid the Throw a party. Use your hustle and bustle of daily life, anniversary as an excuse to have but many couples are making friends or family over for a party. concerted efforts to ensure their Be sure to include your wedding anniversaries are celebrated as song on the music playlist. the special occasions they are. Create a romantic evening. A first wedding anniversary is Rekindle the romance by pulling a special one. Some couples out all the stops, complete with a celebrate their first anniversaries nice homecooked meal, candles by enjoying a piece of wedding and mood music. cake that has been properly preserved in the freezer. Couples Wedding anniversaries present may also dance to their wedding ideal opportunities for couples to songs or enjoy a nice dinner at reminisce about their trip down a favorite restaurant. The first the aisle and all the entertaining anniversary also is a time to pull moments from the wedding. out the wedding video or photo They’re also opportunities to album and reminisce about the connect as a couple and focus on wedding day. each other.

eddings are to couples’ wedding mean something special. or she is always nearby. momentous day. Even though it • Play an upbeat song. • Reserve an empty Did you know? occasions can be challenging Invite guests onto the chair. Keep a chair at Wthat are full of happy to acknowledge that the ceremony and the dance floor and request sentiments. But for someone close is the DJ or band plays a reception empty for your couples who recently no longer around to song in your lost loved departed loved one. lost loved ones, an participate in a wedding, one’s honor. Perhaps it is • Dove or butterfly undercurrent of sadness there are plenty of ways a song that contains that may make wedding for couples to express release. Symbolize person’s name or is a unending love by ceremonies and their heartfelt sentiments tune he or she just loved. receptions somewhat for lost loved ones on releasing doves or bittersweet. their wedding days. • Keep a memento close butterflies in honor of by. Sew something your lost loved one. This Loss touches everyone • Establish a memory symbolic of your lost can be both a touching at one point or table. A memory table is loved one into your tribute and also a another, but it can be a place where you may wedding gown or tuck beautiful spectacle that particularly sorrowful put a photo of a loved it into a pocket of your couples and their guests when the loss of a one or items he or she tuxedo so you know he will remember forever. loved one occurs close may have given you that 32 Thursday, February 23, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 The Times Leader

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