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In this Issue . ..

* The Rector Writes ...... page 3 * "Christmas Memories" ...... pages 4,6,9 & 18 * Christmas Service Schedule ...... page 5 * Bishop's Visit ...... page 7 * Sunday School ...... page 10 * Cursillo "reports" ...... pages 11 & 23 ***** * Welcome Mat...... pages 12,13 * Synod: Social Justice Issues ...... pages 14,15 * Alzheimer's - 2 stories ...... page 16 * Coffee & Conversation ...... page 19 * Special Vestry, Youth Worker ..... page 21 * Bishop Harry ...... page 23 * Neelin's Outreach letter/Quito ..... pages 24-27 * Kids' Page ...... page 30

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Rector The Rev' d Ross Moulton 836-5741 (ofl5ce) 836-2467 (home) Lay Reader Robin Tilgner 831-2709

Parish Staff Parish Secretary Shirley Sharkey 836-5741 Caretaking Brent & A 1 Read 836-3687 Organist Don Gillen 836-2229

Members of Parish Council Rector's Warden William Passmore 836-2876 People's Warden/ Parish Council Chair Margaret Stone 836-4152 Deputy Warden Vestry Clerk Luc =~~:~~ Briar. Smith 831-0580 Outreach Link Barbara E ottriell 836-2305 A.C.W. Link ~~~ : fs~~~-- Phyllis Lumsden 831-3078 . t'' . ,, · ~ ·, . Member at Large Roger Cooke 836-4599 Member at Large - ~:: ·(..~~ 0;.~~~ ---' Karer. Julian 838-2389

Convenors, Coordinators & Lay Leaders Choir Director Peter T, )fUnski 836-5295 Pastoral Visiting Team Coordinator Coordinator of Prayers & Readers Tom Sandor 831-7269 Hall Rental Coordinator Peggy 3eckett 831-8641 Church School Coordinator Edna Cooke 836-4599 Church School Music Don Pnrchase 836-4073 Church School Treasurer Barbara Schizkoske 831-0492 Nursery Servers' Guild Shannon Jdferies 836-3166 Altar Guild Joan Thorneycroft 836-6384 Sidespeople/ Greeters (8:30) Sidespeople/ Greeters (10:00) Roger Cooke 836-4599 .. Coffee Hour Convenor Elizabeth Norris-Gervais 836-4584 Anglican Church Women Phyllis Lumsden 831-3078 Card Secretary Elsie S anding 836-4495 Cemetery Committee Chairman Ber: Smith 838-4085 Cemetery Committee Secretary/ Treasurer Bett Burke 831-2657 Deputy Treasurer Sylvi Dawes 836-5729 People's Pulpit Editor Trish Irwin-Kitt 831-7107

Page 2 People's Pulpit The Rector Writes "Hail, thou ever blessed morn; hail redemptions happy dawn; sing through all Jerusalem, Christ is born in Bethlehem."

The above words are taken from equally amazing how the signifi­ the refrain of the popular Christ­ cance of those events is ignored. mas carol, "See Amid the Winter's Those well versed in the details of Snow." The concluding line forms Jesus' arrival on earth are often "To all who received him, who the heart of the event we know as hard pressed to identify what, if believed in his name, he gave the Christmas. At the core of all the any, difference his arrival makes. power to become children of God celebrations, the gift giving, the Christmas remains a major event in who were born, not of blood or the good cheer, and the festive decora­ western society but it is all too will of the flesh, or of the will of tions is a fact of history. In the town often sentimentalized and man, but of God." [John 1: 12] of Bethlehem a child called Jesus trivialized to the point that it is Christmas is about a new be­ was born to a woman whose name robbed of its power and emptied of ginning that you and I can make. It was Mary. In the years that have its potential. is about beginning a new life in the passed since that event it has been Christmas is about the mighty Kingdom of God. Jesus' coming the subject of more writing, more acts of God. Only the act of crea­ into the world is God's offer to us to poetry, and more music than al­ tion itself even comes close to the be part of a new creation, to be born most any other moment in history. magnitude of what happened in the afresh into a new way of being, to Musings and reflections on the birth birth of Jesus. The God of creation, become, as the fourth gospel says, of Jesus were cast in written form the God of history, the God of a child of God. within the first century of the Chris­ Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, the God It is my prayer for you this tian era and have been the subject of all that is became a human being Christmas that in addition to cel­ of many words ever since. Musi­ and took on our humanity. No ebrating those awesome events that cians from Handel to Elvis have word can begin to capture that real­ took place in Bethlehem so long crafted their skills around that Beth­ ity - probably the best attempt ago, you will also experience the lehem moment. Gospellers Mat­ that can be made is to use the Old wonderful gift of Christmas that is thew and Luke each developed vivid Testament word that has become given over and over again. That and memorable narratives around popular again: "AWESOME." eternal gift is God' s invitation to their understanding of the birth of However, the birth of Jesus new life. A new life as his precious Jesus. Their characters and plot and the events of Christmas are child. lines have been impressed indel­ about even more than the awesome I began by quoting a hymn line ibly in the minds of almost every activity of God; they have some­ that states the event of Christmas: person in the western world. Men­ thing to do with you and me. While "Christ is born in Bethlehem". I tion shepherds, a manger, angels, a the event of Jesus' birth is truly conclude with another hymn line, baby, a young mother, and the ap­ cosmic, the purpose of Jesus' birth this time from "Hark! The Herald pearance of a new star and every­ is profoundly personal. The author Angels Sing. " In it is captured the one knows the event you have in of the fourth gospel gave a very result of Christmas. "Light and mind. Perhaps more than any other different account of Jesus' birth life to all he brings" part of the Christian tradition, the than did Luke or Matthew. While May that light and new life be Christmas story is well known to the Christmas event was described yours this Christmas and always. those inside and outside the church. using rich images such as the 'light While the events of Jesus' birth that overcame darkness' , the pur­ are known today, as in the past, pose of the event was articulated ~+ with amazing detail, it is almost with simple clarity.

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Christmas was always so very Silmt Nisl1t Holli Nisl1t special growing up with my fam­ ily. My parents did everything in ". .. a babt,J born so mant,J, manv vears ago, vet his presence so their power to fill the house with close to me that night." Christmas magic, warmth and ~======~~ laughter. Therefore, my first Christmas tree, prezzies, eggnog or chestnuts quietly sang along, walking around away from home was destined for roasting on an open fire. Bah hum­ the nursery, looking at each baby. loneliness. I had just moved toOt­ bug! Each one a miracle, a precious gift tawa after graduating from nursing Around4 a.m. Christmas morn­ from God. school, and as the new kid on the ing, my paperwork finally com­ Suddenly I was enveloped in block, I was scheduled to work pleted, I looked up at my tiny the Christmas spirit. The true mean­ over the Christmas hours. With a charges. All the babies were in si­ ing of Christmas, not turkey or heavy heart and humming, "I'll be lent slumber and with the lights brightly wrapped presents, but of a home for Christmas" I headed up very dim, it was all very peaceful. newborn baby. A baby born so to the newborn nursery, where I The only noise being the radio qui­ many, many years ago, yet his pres­ was scheduled to work for the night. etly spilling out carols. Silent Night, ence so close to me that night. Poor me, I thought, no Christmas my favourite carol, started and I Allyson Feres

Christmas memories. I hope you Please take special note of the enjoy catching up on what we, as a Christmas service schedule, found parish, have been involved in since on page 5. Since Christmas Eve ~... .,,. a-., from the the last issue (lots, obviously!), and falls on a Sunday this year, there Editor's reading the stories- some amusing, will be no 10 a.m. service that Sun­ some touching and some sad - day, but the other more traditional Desk shared by others in our Christian Christmas Eve service times will community. I welcome your feed­ still take place. back and, of course, submissions We' re looking forward to for the next issue which will be out spending what looks bound to be a sometime late February. white Christmas at Kevin's family Many thanks, once again, to farm in the Eastern Townships. The As I begin to prepare for each Peggy Beckett who entered onto kids are sure to be spoiled rotten new issue of the People 's Pulpit, I disk for me a good number of the (being the only grandchildren on always wonder if I'll have enough articles in this issue, and to Nona his side) and I won't have to do any material. Well, this Christmas is­ and Bill Steadman for picking up cooking! (Can it get any better?) sue can be called "the little issue the job from the printer and attach­ Our Christmas service will take that grew!" At 30 pages, this is the ing envelopes and mailing labels. I place in a lovely old country church largest People 's Pulpit yet, and really appreciate your help, always in the scenic valley ofFrelighsburg. some material even had to be left so cheerfully offered! Grateful Kevin joins me in wishing all out in the end. Thank you to all who thanks, also, to Georgina Purchase of you the peace of Christ and a contributed articles, reports and, who took care of Trevor for me one very happy Christmas! especially, their personal stories and day so I could work on this issue! Trish Irwin-Kitt

Page 4 People's Pulpit Share the Joy of Christmas Worship at St. Thomas

Sunday, December 17 - Advent 3 8:30 am Holy Eucharist 10:00 am The Natiuity Story - a pageant pre­ sented by the children of th e Church School Junior Choir Singing Aduent and Christmas Carol Singing

Sunday, December 24 - Christmas Eve 8:30 am Holy E ucharist 4:00 pm Family Seruice Lvith the Blessing of the Creche, A Children's Story, Carol Singing and Holy Eucharist. 7:30 pm Sung Euch arist Luith Christmas Carols an d Sermon 10:00 pm Sung Eucharist Luith Christmas Carols an d Sermon

Monday, December 25- Christmas Day 9:30 am Holy Eucharist

Sunday, December 31 - Christmas 1 8:30 am Holy E ucharist 10:00 am Lessons and Caro ls for Christmas Lvith the Holy Eucharist

People' s Pulpit Page 5 Christmas Memories by N on Roffey

our parents. On this Christmas a pirate flag with skull and morning some us could not find our crossbones and 10 staves for his stockings, so we were stuck. Be­ pirate gang. After he had gone to tween you and me, I think Santa bed, his letter was read and my At the Christmas that I am re­ forgot where he put the missing sister and mother scurried around calling, I had three brothers and a ones. sewing together odds and ends of sister older than me and a brother The following spring when my material from my grandmother's and a sister younger. Later I was to mother went to put on her raincoat trunk in our basement (as she also have two more baby brothers for a which had been hanging unused all lived with us ) to make the flag. total of nine children, of which I winter in the clothes cupboard by Meanwhile my father called a friend was the middle one. It was the the front door, she found my miss­ who owned a hardware store to see custom on Christmas eve for each ing Christmas stocking pinned in­ if he had bamboo fishing poles. He child in our family to hang up one side the sleeve of her coat. I was said that he did and he would reo­ of their stockings on a broom stick very happy to fmally have my stock­ pen his store, although it was late suspended across two chairs in front ing and even though the fruit had Christmas Eve, so my father could of the living room fireplace. You rotted, I could still eat the candy. buy the poles as staves for my young have to realize that girls of my age At another Christmas Santa hid brother's pirate gang. then wore long woollen stockings one of the stockings in the oven of You can imagine my brother's during the winter similar to the the kitchen stove. It was not found great surprise and happiness Christ­ knee high ones worn by boys and until the gas oven was lit to cook mas morning when he found the generally even longer. the turkey. Some smell and mess! pirate flag and staves by our Christ­ Santa would then come and fill Mother made sure that Santa did mas tree. our stockings with various candies, not use that hiding place again. You may have heard in the fruits and nuts as a treat. He would Another Christmas, when I was news recently that Mr. Dover was also put in each stocking a piece of about ten years of age, my five­ finally closing his hardware store coal and an onion. Do not ask me year-old brother wanted something on Richmond Road opposite All why. If you figure out let me know. badly for Christmas. However, no Saints, Westboro. He is the son of The stockings, when filled, matter what my parents did they Mr. Dover, the great Jewish gentle­ were not left hanging in front of the could not find out what it was. He man and friend who so kindly reo­ fireplace. No, Santa hid each of kept saying that Santa would know. pened his store late that Christmas them in a different place. Then on It came to Christmas Eve and Eve over 60 years ago. The original Christmas morning, it was up to my parents were getting desperate. Dover store was on the north side each one of us to find our own Finally he pinned a letter for Santa of Sparks Street between 0' Connor stocking. There was no help from to his stocking stating that he wanted and Bank streets.

St. Thomas Cards The beautiful Christmas cards Inside the Christmas cards there is derful opportunity for you to show and hasti-notes which were made a short quote from Luke along with our beautiful church off to friends up last year are still available for an appropriate holiday greeting. The and relatives. Please see Barb sale. The front of the card is a full hasti-notes are blank inside. Both Schizkoske to purchase your cards, colour photo of the inside of St. sell in packages of 10, including or call her at 831-0492. Thomas decorated for Christmas. envelopes, for $7 .50. This is a won-

Page 6 People's Pulpit "My Friends, God Loves You!"

stayed for coffee and muffins in the 1995, it was in fact his fifth visit Council room. By the time 10:00 here during the past year. It was arrived, Joan Baycroft had arrived late November last year, when he in Stittsville (thanks to the driving was here for h,is 1994 visit. Then in Our Bishop delivered a mes­ of AI Roffey) to join us for our December, he was here for a dioc­ sage of Love last month as he made second service in the morning. esan weekend conference called his annual visit to the Parish of St. The Bishop spoke very much "Total Ministry", celebrating the Thomas. The Right Reverend John off the cuff, referring to the read­ Eucharist at the end of the session. Baycroft celebrated the Eucharist ings of the morning and to other Joan Bay croft attended the funeral and preached, at both the 8:30 and texts, to bring us a simple message: ofLem Bennett last Christmas, with 10:00 services. Myfriends, Godlovesyou! He then the Bishop returning in June when It was a snowy morning on baptized three infants, bringing Bob Bennett left the parish to move November 12th, the first real snow them into the family of Christ. west. He returned in October for of the season, and that may have Afterwards, it was time for the memorial service for Bishop kept a few parishioners away. lunch, with a large crowd of people Harry Cook, of our parish. Nonetheless, Bishop John was joining the Baycrofts in the parish Through all the ups and downs greeted by an enthusiastic congre­ hall. Sandwiches and squares had of the past year, we rejoice in the gation at 8:30, a congregation which been prepared by the ladies of the love and friendship of our chief sometimes misses out on Episco­ ACW and the congregation. pastor. pal visits. Although this was Bishop After the service, many people John's annual visit to our parish for Brian Smith

Sunday School Christmas Pageant Sunday, December 17 at the 10:00 service

Pageant Rehearsal Schedule December 3: - During Coffee & Conversation time in church - Speaking parts only - Costume fitting for speaking parts only December 10: -Right after 10:00 service in church - Speaking parts only December 16: - Dress rehearsal for all children in church 4- s pm December 17: -Performance 10:00 a.m. - All children need to arrive & get ready around 9:30

People's Pulpit Page 7 It was with much regret that on Parish Council. A quick review rything she undertook, was per­ Parish Council accepted the resig­ of Vestry minutes show Marilyn as formed with dignity, faithfulness, nation of Marilyn Johnston as a consistently hard-working leader and dedication. Churchwarden on November 14th. in this parish: 1981 - Alternate Marilyn was keenly interested Marilyn, a member of St. Thomas' Member of Synod; 1982 - Alter­ in spirituality and the spiritual nur­ for the last twenty-four years, has nateMemberofSynod; 1988- 1991 ture of church members. Her inter­ been a faithful and tireless sup­ Vestry Clerk; 1992 - 1993 Deputy est in liturgy, the transformation porter of the ministry of this parish. Warden - a position in which she process, and more recently her in­ Like so many have done in the chaired Parish Council and attended volvement in Cursillo all spoke of last quarter century, Marilyn and meetings of Synod as an alternated her active faith and commitment to her husband Arnold moved to Stitts­ member; 1994 - November 1995 her Lord Jesus. ville to find a pleasant community People's Warden. Over the years Everyone who had the privi­ in which to raise their family. Al­ Marilyn has also offered able serv­ lege of knowing Marilyn during most immediately upon arriving at ice on the Worship Committee, her time at St. Thomas thoroughly St. Thomas' and meeting the then Deanery Council, and the Parish enjoyed her friendship, good hu­ rector, The Rev' d Lydon Coordinating Team for "Trans­ mour, dedication, and sincerity. McKeown, Marilyn found herself formedbyGod'sCalling." Marilyn We wish Marilyn and Arnold well entrenched in the life of the has coordinated the sidespeople and God's continued blessing in their parish. She was soon Sunday greeters at the 8:30 service and in new home at Robertson Lake in the School Superintendent and deeply August of 1994 was granted "Bish­ tranquil and beautiful setting of involved in the Christian Educa­ op's Permission" to perform the Lanark County. tion program of the parish. In the office of Lay Assistant at the Ad­ years that have followed, Marilyn ministration of the Holy Commun­ Ross Moulton has served in a variety of positions ion. This latter ministry, like eve-

Christmas Greetings from the Rectory

We wish you much joy, love and peace in this Holy Season as new light dawns and we rejoice again in Emmanuel - God with us. Merry Christmas!

Donna, Ross, Laura and Emma Moulton

Page 8 People's Pulpit r Christmas Memories b y Roger P. Cooke

Fundy. A white Christmas was house is on fire!" always my main wish for Christ­ Before my brother could possi­ mas. My two older brothers were bly get the incriminating words out, making plans for our early rise. I "No, no, it is just me," my Father put out Santa's snack and hurried was half way down stairs to save up to my brothers' bedroom where the house. He did not have to get I would sleep that night. the rest of us up because my Mother Our family was no different Mom and Dad always stayed was doing enough screaming to than any other family when it came up later. Dad would stoke the wood wake the dead. Needless to say that to Christmas as far as traditions. stove before coming to bed while parenting was stretched to its ulti­ What made it different was being Mom would scurry around and do mate limits within the next five one of four boys and the excitement the last minute wrapping. Then the minutes. The realization of my that it generated. Just ask my par­ wait for morning and Santa's ar­ brother's mistake came with the ents! The following is one incident rival that always seemed to take postponement ofan early rise. Even that took 5 seconds to throw our forever. with this disappointment, I could house into utter chaos one Christ­ After a decade of sleep, my not contain myself. I laughed and mas Eve, and one I still laugh about brother woke me. The silence of laughed. when I tell it. the night was deafening. The house A couple of hours later all was The Christmas that I am refer­ had cooled and the frost was in the forgotten and the Christmas fes­ ring to, was back in the mid-fifties. air. Then Conrad took his flash­ tivities continued. Memories such We had returned home from our light and flickered it to signal Terry as these happen in only seconds but traditional midnight church serv­ that it was time to get up. The light last a life time. As part of my ice. It was snowing big soft flakes flickered and flickered. Then the family traditions, I will remember and we were going to have a beau­ terrifying consequences. Out of these best of all at Christmas and tiful white Christmas, which was my parents' bedroom came the keep them in my heart even though not too common on the Bay of chilling scream, "Oh my God, the we are many miles apart.

Food Bank Christmas Needs Cash donations best way to help food bank bring Christmas cheer

The Christmas season is an Food Bank Chair Leslie extra busy time for the Stittsville Haubrich says the average cost for Leslie. Food Bank, located in the base­ a Christmas hamper for a family of She points out the Food Bank ment of Saint Thomas Church. four is around $40. So a cash dona­ is a registered charitable organiza­ And while the Bank is now tion of this amount to the food bank tion and it will issue tax receipts. reasonably well-stocked with ba­ would be the preferable way for Cheques should be made payable sics, gifts of money to help pur­ better-off families to share the spirit to "Stittsville Food Bank." They chase the extra comforts of Christ­ of the season with the less fortunate may be either mailed, to Box 878, mas, or provide another complete right here in our community. "We Stittsville, K2S 1B 1, or left in the food hamper, would be greatly ap­ expect to be looking after at least church office. preciated. 40 families this Christmas," says Mike Bryan

People's Pulpit Page 9 Sunday School Report

The Sunday School has enjoyed hand of 'Hi Don'. We seem to be another happy and successful cou­ quite rowdy but we're having fun. ple of months. We are just entering The biggest hit to date has been the our fourth unit entitled 'Come Walk addition of a rap tune. The kids love With Us '. We invite all of you to it and it was very well received come walk with us any time - we when we did it in Church. Our only have an open door policy that ex­ regret is that we couldn't rap for the tends well beyond parents. Every­ Bishop! Maybe next time! one is welcome to pop in and join We had our first big Sunday us! School social just before Hallow­ These last few months have een. The kids, parents and teachers . The Sunday School are proud to seen us do a lot more than what you were all invited to come to the announce their forthcoming Pag­ may expect. We have a new addi­ Church, in costume, for games, eant on 17 December. Once again tion to our mornings in the form of crafts, stories and a ghoulish s ack. Donna Moulton and her team will the Penny Jar. This little innova­ The event was very well attended be helping the children to present tion is a simple jar with a slit in the by a variety of princesses, rabbits, the Christmas Story for our enjoy­ top, and any children or teachers dinosaurs and many more. There ment. Please make sure to support celebrating a birthday during the was even a rather large pyjama clad the kids in this event. course of the week are invited to soother toting baby . . . could that The Sunday School have also drop the appropriate number of have been our own Edna? We had two money raisers recently. pennies into the jar ... sometimes played lots of games, bobbed for The first was a 'One Stop Shop­ we count to guess the age, but we apples, made chains of ghosts and ping' event which raised $400.00. do show discretion! We would like pumpkins, went on a witch hunt The second was the Sunday School to invite EVERYONE to partici­ and much more. Finally a happy table at the ACW Snowflake Ba­ pate in the penny drop (okay, we group settled to a delicious snack zaar. Here the kids got to sell their won't count). The money saved complete with foaming witches own Christmas decorations (made over the course of the year will be brew (and witch). All our thanks go during Sunday School time). They used for something exciting, al­ to Chris Ritchie who was instru­ raised $50.00. though we have yet to decide what mental in organizing this event. So as you can see, we're very that will be. So come on in and With the fresh fallen snow active and busy down here below spend a penny!! around and the malls already teem­ stairs, so come on down and visit . Our music programme is blos­ ing with Christmas goodies, our ... and don't forget your pennies!! soming nicely under the guiding own thoughts tum to Christmas. Georgina Purchase

One Stop Shopping On October 21st St.Thomas' Tupperware, Regal, Discovery was none cooperative so the tum Sunday School hosted their first Toys, Lantana, Leigh Morgan out for this event was poor! We do "One Stop Shopping " event. Six­ Fashions, Appletree Country, Lady plan to repeat this again next year, teen of the best home shopping Remington Jewellery, Princess please remember to support us! companies were invited to bring House, Linen 's and Lace, Child's The event raised $400.00 for their wares to the church hall for Play, Story Teller and Nu Skin. the Sunday School. Well done and everyone to view (and purchase!). Those of us who attended were able 'thank you' to the organizers: Edna Our thanks are extended to the rep­ to get a jump on all of our gift Cooke, Donna Moulton and Geor­ resentatives of Avon, WOW Kids, buying for friends, family and even gina Purchase. Kids Only, Please Mum, ourselves. Regrettably the weather Georgina Purchase

Page 10 People' s Pulpit Cursillo !

When I arrived at the Convent in ber of the church in Ingleside from ences for many of us on the weekend Orleans on a Thursday evening at the where we inherited our present pews.) and formed an integral part of the start of November I was a little ap­ At this point we started to learn Cursilloexperience. Theremusthave prehensive about what was to come a little about what we would be doing been many choir members there I over the next three days. Here I was over the next three days. The Spanish think because the sound of nearly 40 at the start of a Cursillo weekend, word Cursillo means a short course men singing together, often in har­ something I had avoided on and off in Christian living, we were told, and monies, could never have been bet­ for the last few years. I think that a lot that it consisted primarily of series of ter. of the reluctance had come from not 'Rollos' or long boring talks. Fortu­ The weekend included lighter knowing exactly what happened at nately the long boring talks turned moments too. On Saturday evening Cursillo but when, earlier in the sum­ out to be short interesting talks. The an impromptu skit night was held mer, a friend had explained that there topics covered by the Rollos included with each table making a presenta­ was nothing really too mysterious Faith, Study, Laity, Action and sev­ tion. It would not be an exaggeration about it, I decided that maybe it was eral more. Each talk was given by a to say that the tears were rolling something I should do. different speaker including one by down our faces at some points. The The first evening seemed pretty our own Jim Sharkey. We did more kitchen staff were particularly im­ informal. I met many of the other than just listen however. After a Rollo pressive although I suspect that they candidates and everyone seemed each table group would then spend had somewhat more rehearsal than pretty normal. There were even a few time discussing the topic f rther and the rest of us. familiar faces! After a while I found would use its artistic skills (maybe) It is quite difficult to sum up myself in conversation with another to create a poster depicting the theme what this Cursillo experience meant young fellow discussing the relative of the talk. Finally each table group to me. I didn't need to be apprehen­ merits of different programming lan­ presented a synopsis of its discus­ sive about it, I realise now. It was guages. Later in the evening we all sion and its poster (usually with ex­ fun, interesting, challenging, enlight­ gathered in a meeting room where planation of what had been drawn) to ening, invigorating. It was an emo­ we were split into table groups of the other groups. tional and spiritual high point cer­ about 6 or 7. We were all asked to Another important part of the tainly, but I think it was also some­ find out a little about the person sit­ weekend was worship. We did a lot thing more lasting than just that. I ting on our left so that we could of singing led by two extremely pro­ would encourage anyone who has introduce them to the whole group ficient members of the Rainbows and been thinking about Cursillo to go later. I found myself getting to know Crosses group and each day we had a ahead and try it. You might be sur­ a historian called Chris Porter who service in the Convent chapel. The prised too. works at Upper Canada Village. (I times of worship, both informal and Phil Dawes later learned that he had been a mem- formal, were very moving experi-

Christmas Music Night

The local group for the "Chil­ band will also be here along with a dren of Chernobyl" will be putting few soloists. on a Christmas Music Night Decem­ The Chernoby I group is also hav­ ber 10 at 6:30p.m., here at St. Tho­ ing a bake sale downstairs afterward mas. All proceeds will go to bring­ so you can catch up on your baked ing children here in the summer as a goods for Christmas. Santa will be respite from the ill-effects caused by marching the children downstairs the radiation in their country. Many after the performance and someone people will be performing Christmas will be on hand to take pictures which mu sic from our community. So far, can be purchased should you wish. Tickets to this concert will be two other churches in Stittsville along Coffee, tea and soft drinks along $3.00 per person and will be sold by with our choir will be performing with Christmas goodies will be served Christine Ritchie. Please call 836- selections. Goulbourn Community should you wish a refreshment. 6884.

People's Pulpit Page 11 The St. Thomas Welcome Mat

The Parish of Saint Thomas ment Corporation at its Kanata extends a warm welcome to these plant. Her husband Troy, an elec­ recent additions to our Church fam­ trical engineer, is employed by Bell­ ily. Please offer them a special Northern Research in Nepean. He's greeting first chance you get! from Orillia and she's originally from North Bay. The couple both Chris & Allyson Feres attended Waterloo University. 53 Denham Way Stittsville Jim Edwards & 836-7727 Jennifer Birrell 16Amy St., Chris and Allyson joined the Stittsville Ruth Couldrey Parish of Saint Thomas this past 836-2176 13 Havenwood Trail September with their two children, Stittsville daughter Alysa, age 5, and son Recently married, Jim and 831-2256 Jordon, six months. Jennifer moved from Ottawa into They have been residents of their new Stittsville home at the The Couldrey family moved to Stittsville for six years after mov­ end of this past August. They're Stittsville only this past July, after ing here from Bells Comers. both originally from the Ottawa Ruth's husband, Roger, was trans­ Allyson is a registered nurse area. ferred here in his job with the Bank who works at the Civic Hospital's Jennifer is an Anglican who of Montreal. Ottawa Heart Institute, while Chris attended our namesake parish of They had been living in is a systems analyst at CrossKeys Saint Thomas, Alta Vista, while Burlington while Roger worked Systems a fast-growing Jim is a Roman Catholic. So some with the bank in the Hamilton area. Newbridge Networks Corporation Sundays she'll worship with him at Ruth was born in Cape Town, South spin-off which produces software his church, while likewise he'll join Africa, while Roger is a native of solutions for the telecommunica­ her at Saint Thomas from time to Great Britain. tions carrier industry. time. Their three children are Ross, Allyson was born in the UK. Jennifer, a graduate of the Uni­ age 14, Brandon, 10 and Ashley, 8. Chris is from the Montreal area, versity of Ottawa, is a lawyer with where virtually all their relatives the local firm of Bell, Baker. Jim, Ken & Heather Kirk now live. who attended Carleton University, 957 Oak Creek Road works in the customer service field , Carp Troy & Louise Ayers for Northern Telecom. 836-5453 109 Beechfern Dr. / Stittsville Katherine Mosley Ken and Heather have lived in 831-0944 6 Haven..wood Trail- the area between Carp and Stitts­ Stittsville ville for the past dozen years or so. The Ayers family - Troy, 836-2673 Former long-time members of Louise and 1-year-old son, Trevor, Christ Church, Aylmer P.Q., they moved to Stittsville about four years Ottawa native Katherine began attending Saint Thomas in ago from Ottawa and joined our moved to Stittsville this past Au­ Stittsville this autumn. church this fall. gust from Belleville with her hus­ They are both originally from Louise, who has an impressive band, Wayne, and the couple' s chil­ British Columbia- Ken from the list of professional qualifications dren, Jordan, 13 and Natalie, 11. Lower Mainland area and Heather including certified industrial hygi­ Wayne, who is also originally from from Salmon Arm. enist, manages environmental Ottawa, has his own trucking busi­ After working for the CN Rail­ health and safety for Digital Equip- ness. way in the West for about 10 years,

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" . .. we decided, back in 1971, to Valerie Laschewski Valerie migrated to the Eastern On­ try the east for maybe just three or 41 Crossing Bridge Crt tario region from "down East" in four years ... but, we never went Stittsville 1973, after completion of teaching back!" explains Ken. 836-4520 and other volunteer work overseas He retired last April from the with CUSO. In the past, she has federal government's Health Valerie and her daughters, also lived in Richmond. Canada department. Heather is a Laura, 7 and Natalie, 11 , recently Valerie now works in Ottawa, retired school teacher. moved from Manotick into their as a secretary for the Canadian The Kirks have a married new town home in Crossing Bridge. Medical Protective Association - daughter out west and two other They started attending Saint an organization that represents doc­ grown children, Nathan and Susan, Thomas this October. tors in legal matters. still at home. A native of New Brunswick, Mike Bryan

On behalf of all ACW' s mem­ decorate the tree, purchased items bers, I would like to thank you, the such as mitts, socks or toques are congregation for supporting the greatly appreciated. Snowflake Bazaar. Whether you We are still collecting "things". donated baking, crafts, "re­ Campbells, Franco American and useables", your time, or came for Swanson labels have been re­ soup and a chat, all is greatly appre­ deemed for computers, mini vans, ciated. The proceeds of just over paper clips and crayons by the $2000 will be used in part for the Schools for the Deaf in Puerto Rico sound system and ACW Outreach. and El Salvador. Again, thanks. Used postage stamps are sold Our Special Project this year is in bulk to stamp dealers and the go toNelson House or in theN orth­ to assist a Youth Group in the Ca­ proceeds pay the administration ern Bales in the Spring. thedral Church of St. Jude in Iqaluit costs of the Leprosy Mission, We decided to treat ourselves (formerly Frobisher Bay). We also thereby freeing up donors' gifts for to "lunch out" instead of a Pot Luck send gifts of money and/or clothing their true purpose. Labels from for the December 4th meeting. Our to Centre 454, The Well and Nel­ Heinz baby food jars have a value group continues to grow and you son House. of 6 cents each to the Children's are welcome to join us for an after­ The Woolly Tree will be in the Hospital of Eastern Ontario. Eye noon of prayer, work and fellow­ Narthex for Advent. All items will glasses and hearing aids are recy­ ship. be removed on the third Sunday, cled by the Blind Mission. May Christmas and the New December 17, and will be taken to In the New Year, we will have Year bring you the blessings of Nelson House, a home for abused guest speakers and more afghan peace, hope and joy. women and their children. If you workshops. The 5" squares soo:t:t Phyllis Lumsden are not a knitter and wish to help grow into beautiful afghans which ACW President

Welcome to three new St. Thomas babies!

Jordon Miles Feres, Samuel Anthony Maviglia, James Nicholas Tokaryk born May 20 born July 24 born November 17 to Chris & Allyson Feres to Frank and Kelly Maviglia to Ted & Joanne Tokaryk brother to Alysa brother to Nicholas & Joseph brother to Hailey & Hannah

People' s Pulpit Page 13 1995 Synod of the Diocese of Ottawa A report by Robin T ilgner

"For He does not despise nor abhor the poor in their poverty; neither does He hide His face from them; but when they cry to Him He hears them." Psalm 22 Christian Presence in the World mous debt incurred over the past members of our commumties is Goal: To develop, advocate and decade. The government of Ontario emerging as the single most impor­ demonstrate Christian responses to has already seriously reduced vari­ tant issue dealt with at the 1995 Synod current social, political and economic ous forms of social assistance ben­ of the Diocese of Ottawa. The above issues and problems, such as envi­ efits for this reason, and yet also motion has been referred to in some ronmental concerns, social justice promises a large reduction in per­ context at every meeting or discus­ issues, and bioethics. (From Mission sonal income tax. Is the burden of sion in which I have taken part since Statement and Goals of the Diocese debt being fairly distributed or is Synod in October. At the first meet­ of Ottawa, January, 1994.) public policy being driven by an ide­ ing of Diocesan Executive this No­ ology which characterizes the poor vember, the Bishop again expressed A Vision Lives in Acts of Justice and unemployed as lazy and fraudu­ his firm stand that we cannot use Our vision is of a church lent? power to abuse the weak. If we can­ equipped and determined to speak The social and economic costs not affect the cuts to social spending, prophetically to the world, calling of deepening poverty are twofold: we need time to shape our response. for and demonstrating mutual inter­ 1. Rising hunger and homelessness, Our approach to community minis­ dependence in all personal and social more mental and physical illness, tries may need revisioning and we relationships, and opposing injustice increasing despair and hopelessness, must remain open to participate in and all misuse of power whether by more family disintegration and more new ways. Synod's inotion asks that the individual or the group. (A Vi­ crime (including violence in the home the churches be given a chance to sion for the Anglican Diocese of Ot­ against women and children); remain caring - not to make the job tawa, September, 1993.) 2. For society in general: increas­ impossible due to the frightening ing demand upon public service (in­ speed of the cuts. We can no longer Notice ofMotion #2 Carried as pre­ cluding the health system, social serv­ assume that a distant agency is dis­ sented ice, schools and police service) and persing our tax dollars as effectively Moved by: Rev Garth Bulmer increasing pressure upon charitable as possible, or that our church Out­ Seconded by: Rev Peter John Hobbs and voluntary organizations. reach Committee will be able to meet That this Synod of the Diocese The targeting of social pro­ all local requests for help. It is im­ of Ottawa: grammes to bear the brunt of debt perative for each one of us- no matter 1. Urge parishes to inform their reduction raises serious questions how fatigued we are from the infor­ members of the proposed social about the kind of society in which we mation overload of requests and sto­ spending cuts in the Province of live. ries around this issue- to think deeply Ontario, especially as these cuts may Do we as a church, have any about our response as Christians to affect the most vulnerable members teaching for our people or advice for this need. of our communities; policy makers regarding the funda­ The Bishop in his Charge to the 2. Urge collaboration with other mental values we hold as essential? 1995 Synod of the Diocese of Ot­ churches, to formulate a common Can we, as a church, participate tawa stated: response to proposed social spend­ constructively in the reform of social "For the past few months I have ing cuts in the light of Christ's com­ programmes which we have devel­ been trying very hard to avoid a hasty passion for the poor and vulnerable. oped over many decades to ensure judgement about the actions of the Each day brings news of yet more support for the most vulnerable in Government of Ontario . . . Has the cuts in government spending for so­ our society? Government planned the next stage cial programmes. This is deemed The issue of cuts to social spend­ to deal with the consequences of the necessary in order to address the en or- ing and its impact on the li ves of present changes in our social safety

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net and support system? ... I know for Justice, Peace and the Integrity of Church, with all its under-used build­ the Scriptures condemn those who Creation were very thought-provok­ ings, its rich skills in pastoral care, abuse their power to take away from ing. We were given hard data on the and its wonderful message oflove. If the poor for the advantage of those numbers of people on social assist­ ever there was an opportunity to make who are already comfortable. As a ance, who they were, and how much the Faith real, this is it . .. . the social Christian I shall feel very uncomfort­ they actually had to live on. We were and economic transformation of the able if my taxes go down and my invited to compare our own expenses 1990's is creating deep fault lines in neighbour is plunged more deeply with the amounts families, single our society. The hope for the future into poverty ... I urge you, if you are parents and singles now have to live of this community and for countless concerned to write to your MPP or on. The actual figures show a single others across the country will lie in the Premier to express your concerns, person with only 47% of income our ability to look after each other." and if you know of actual cases where needed for expenses. After rent is (Judith Maxwell) someone is suffering, please tell the paid, with no money allowed for At the beginning of his Charge, politicians the facts ... we need to other costs - $109 remains for food the Bishop had noted, "Grace is a gift know whether or not injustice is in­ for a month. God gives to us through faith . .. creasing." It was emphasized to us that it is through grace we are inspired to deeds Several excellent presentations time to stop indulging in the rhetoric of social sensitivity that advance the were made to Synod in this area, of "blaming the victim" and as were­ Kingdom of God and the welfare of including one by Judith Maxwell, invent the future, re-invent collec­ our sisters and brothers ... we are well-known economist and lecturer, tive responsibility. As a Church, it is God's handiwork, created in Christ and as it happens, Lay Reader and vital that we connect with the bro­ Jesus to devote ourselves to the good member of St. Matthew's, Ottawa. kenness of those in the communities deeds for which God has designed She led us through an overview of in which we live. We need to talk us. While each of us as a pilgrim and the drastic changes that are taking with those in difficulty and to collect disciple is personally committed to place in our society and what we will their stories. We were cautioned to follow in the steps of Jesus, we are be called on to do personally to meet present these stories accurately, so not meant to be solitary travellers; by the challenge of those changes. that there would be an end to the God's grace we are called to pursue For example, members of St. mythology surrounding those who the journey of faith together in com­ Matthews are meeting with the Board are unemployed and on social assist­ munity, in our parishes, the diocese and staff of Harmony House, a sec­ ance, or who are the working poor. It and the wider church. From our par­ ond-stage shelter for battered women is essential to understand that many ticipation in the community of grace and their children, which is facing of those are, or could be, ourselves. we draw strength to witness to our cuts of $190,000, in an attempt to Need is not always evident from out­ faith in the secular community in work out a way to keep the shelter ward appearance and there are those which we live." open. It is scheduled to close at the in our own congregation here at St. Those of us at Synod were privi­ end of December this year, leaving Thomas in difficulties. We need to leged to travel together in faith for a its residents without the support they examine the stereotypical way in short while, to see the Holy Spirit at were being given as they moved on which we refer to those of us who are work in our efforts to understand the into the community. Some will have experiencing hard times. It is said too response which we are called to give no alternative but to return to abusive often that some of us are only two to those in difficulties, and to see relationships. Ms. Maxwell noted that pay cheques away from a foodbank. God's grace in action in our over­ the short notice given before the end­ As a minimum, let them know that whelming determination to carry out ing of these programmes allowed we are praying for God's healing Christ's mandate for us in the world. only time to grieve but not time to grace for them, and let us resolve, as "Do not grieve the hungry, rebuild. Accordingly, a motion from a church, to raise our awareness of or anger one in need. the floor was sent to the Government the problems, so that we can help in Do not add to the troubles of Ontario asking for an extension of the solutions. of the desperate, closure to 8 months, so that commu­ "We have dozens of community or delay giving to the needy. nity groups will have time to work institutions whose budgets are being Do not reject a out the dynamics of keeping essen­ cut. They must create survival plans supplicant in distress, tial programmes alive. - to merge with others, to collabo­ or tum your face away The reports from Community rate, to find new partners, or to change from the poor." Ministries and the Anglican Network their mission .... We have the Sirach

People's Pulpit Page 15 ~ Alzheimer's ~

During the year 1986, orpossi­ help from the home care people and controlling motor function of the bly earlier, I began to notice a sub­ myself. thought processes and physical tle change in my wife's personal­ The Provincial Government of perambulation renders the patient ity. Sometime later I decided that it Ontario at present provides a home entirely unable to function in a co­ was time to find out if there was a care person for 15 hours per week. herent manner. medical answer to the question, In addition I pay for persons to Patience and understanding, "What caused this change?" come in 15 more hours per week. love and caring are the onlymeans It started with her inability to Also four of my daughters come of coping and that is where you accept responsibility for any mis­ over on weekends to help out, alter­ play a role. takes that were made, however nating the time. Your continued support by minor. This was unlike my wife I also pay for two Day-Away prayer and words of encourage­ who was, prior to the onset of Alzhe­ Programs. One is at Carleton Lodge ment are most appreciated. I know imer's disease, a very responsible, every Tuesday from 9:30 a.m. to that you care about Lillian and me loving , caring person. As the dis­ 3:00p.m., and one each Wednes­ and our family, and this also helps ease progressed she became more day with the V.O.N. in the Fire Hall very much in buoying up our spirits withdrawn, not willing to carry on opposite Lincoln Fields on Carling as the disease progresses to its ulti­ conversations, probably because Avenue. mate fatal conclusion. of the destruction of the memory Both Lillian and I welcome Thank you all! cells in the brain. Also she became your support by prayers and coun­ Yours truly, unable to perform the daily tasks - sel. Ross Duncan baking, cleaning and washing - for It is extremely difficult to de­ the same reason. scribe the feelings of people who (Since this piece was written, Lillian As a result of this, our family are personally involved in the care now resides in a nursing home at decided that one of the daughters of a close relation who is also an Carleton Place, and Laurie, her (they are all married with young Alzheimer's patient. The simplest daughter, is working in the nursing children) would live with us. Our of tasks can no longer be performed home in Richmond, continuing her daughter, Laurie, was elected. She by the patient. The gradual total interest in seniors.) provides the palliative care with destruction of parts of the brain

To footnote Ross Duncan's lowing my mother to keep self es­ In the nursing home we sharing I remember my mother and teem and power ... at the cost of her watched as the life cycle reversed in the early 1980' s we learned she own. She suffered phone calls at all itself: Mum didn't 'grow up', she had 'melancholia'. We knew she times day or night, about a stove 'grew down' . When she died at the was odd since the 70's: very insu­ that wouldn't work or 'men' who age of 83 she was like a larva, a lar, secretive, with some weird ideas wanted in on nefarious deeds. But grub, a baby, an elderly cherub. To about members of the family and still Sis wouldn't put her in a home. cope with this I would envisage her 'happenings' in her life. By 1985 That much my Mum could still soul above her body and talk to it. I we knew it was Alzheimer' s she understand. She wanted to be in dealt with the person God might suffered. I watched her drive my her house. But in it she did nothing. know was still there. But when sisternuts in the grocery store. Two But she knew where the liquor store physically exhausted by the duties hours and she couldn't decide be­ was and even though numbed from of care, one might find this ex­ tween frozen beef or chickeri din­ her disease she wasn't numb tremely difficult. ner. My mother, who had been an enough. When she finally fell, in It was wonderful to learn that excellent and culinarily inquisitive belligerent circumstances, my sis­ Lillian Duncan now has a nursing cook, was reduced to frozen din­ ter realized she should not be al­ home. ners. lowed to go home again. The guilt Nedra Nash My sister was intent upon al- of that decision was heavy for Sis.

Page 16 People's Pulpit Tom Harpur writes a weekly means to an end and not good if newspaper column in the Toronto they become ends in themselves), Star, has a show on Vision TV, and to spirituality, which he says is an is the author of a number of best­ internal matter, an affair ofthe heart, selling books. He is also an or­ the determination to look beyond dained Anglican priest and was pro­ the signs of God's presence to the fessor of New Testament studies at "Real Thing", the experiencing of Wycliffe College in Toronto for a God's grace and love. The chal­ number of years. lenge for all religions today, he His book, God Help Us, is a maintains, is how to communicate collection of some of the columns a living faith which makes sense which appeared in the Toronto Star. intellectually and at the same time There doesn't seem to be any issue heeds the thirst for that inner expe­ he is afraid to write about and he rience of God. does so with wisdom and insight. Harpur is a thoughtful, unor­ The book covers topics such as the thodox writer who challenges and environment, religion as it is today, provokes the reader into thinking and the broad issue of ethics. more deeply about spiritual well­ He contrasts religion, which he being, the health of the planet, and Book: God Help Us says is basically about beliefs, ritu­ the teachings of Jesus. Author: Tom Harpur als and rules (which are good as a Shirley Sharkey

Youth Group Steps Out

The first really wintry day of the part of the way because its feet hurt. year was Sunday, October 29th. As We left the church around 10:30 luck would have it (yeah, right!), this after receiving a blessing from Ross was the day the St. Thomas Youth in front of the congregation, and got Group chose to walk to Kanata. It to our destination around 12:30. We was when we were passing the Tea were welcomed warmly when we Room that the first snow flakes started arrived at St. Paul's, Hazeldean. to fall . This occurrence was met with Unfortunately, most of us were too a hearty (but somewhat off key) ver­ much in shock from the lovely heat sion of Jingle Bells. of the hall after our cold walk to reply We followed the train tracks all coherently. the way to Kanata, and we ended up We had a wonderful lunch pro­ about a mile too far from our destina­ vided by the St. Paul' s Youth Group. tion - St. Paul's Church, Hazel dean. There were different types of breads some more coming up soon and The walking part was interest­ and rolls which we stuffed with vari­ maybe even a visit by St. Paul' s to St. ing. We sang songs from groups that ous types of meat, sauces and lettuce. Thomas by foot ... if they're as tough had gone out of style in the late There were lots of different types of as we are, and brave sub-zero eighties, tried to bring circulation chips and the Doritos disappeared weather! back into our blue hands and sent a first, as usual. I'd like to thank Alain Tilgner herd of cows stampeding with our I think the first fund-raiser for for organizing the walk; also the adult attempt to talk to them. I guess we the St. Thomas Youth Group went volunteers who came with us and/or used the wrong "moo" or something. pretty well. Did I say that we took drove us home. It was really fun to The poor little dog, Angus (of­ pledges for our walk? Well we did­ do something with other kids from ten referred to as Agnes), who was unless we forgot and then we got the parish. accompanying us, had to be carried them after. There'll probably be Katie Bottriell

People's Pulpit Page 17 Christmas

"And if the tree is a branch of spruce from a garbage heap strewn with a string of wee white lights and hung with a pewter medallion relief of Mary and babe, it's beautiful ... "

The People's Pulpit wanted daughter's from our residency there submissions about Christmas, 1985-87. He was very gay, enthu­ 'meaningful traditions' ... per­ siastic for all we proffered. That haps. No way, I thought. Christ­ Christmas foreshadowed the death mas is a thing to be avoided ... I of Dad, April 1, 1989. used to get a terrible sinus infection Since that 'first' Christmas; we the debut of December for three can remember specifically all our years or more after my daughter Christmases. Ironically the mem­ was born. It made it very difficult ber of the family who had the most God's pattern fixed when He sent to prepare 'properly' for Christ­ glitz about it, made sure the stock­ his Son away to join family and mas. Then I remembered: for her ings were stuffed, the candies and experience loss through loving. first Christmas I was in hospital presents bountiful, is missing. But Certainly my Christmases were with an illness that resulted in an if, by sending us His Son, God never so sacred before, even though operation that meant she would be wanted us to know to whose family I always went to church. Now they an only child. Somehow my body we truly belonged, since 1988 we are sacred to demonstrating through would remember this with a head have come truly to appreciate what the means available that I love my infection each Christmas thereaf­ He might mean by family, because family and whomever is there to ter. Upon that realisation I had a every Christmas the three of us, share it by whatever means we have chat with myself and it never hap­ with no arguments, no hesitations, at our disposal; all ceremony to pened again. Still, Christmas was a make plans to be together. That's convenience us mutually. There is 'time to be gotten through', to be pretty good when a 23 and 25 year one given always: the kids are with 'cooked through' in fine fashion. old are involved. And if the tree is Mum in whatever church they pick, Of course our family of four went a branch of spruce from a garbage at whatever service they pick, and to church. Usually it was three but heap strewn with a string of wee we worship our creation and Crea­ for this special occasion Daddy white lights and hung with a pewter tor as part of God's family. would join us. medallion relief of Mary and babe, Nedra Nash Then came the Christmas of it's beautiful, as is the leg of lamb 1988. Then began the only Christ­ and fried apple pie daughter de­ cided would be Christmas dinner. mases my adopted son says he can Christmas remember. Dad had gone to Aus­ And partying Christmas eve is fine Home tralia in September 'to find him­ with Mum as long as Christmas Communion self, hopefully to heal from his morn we're in church. We are manic depression, a naive idea we together; we are family, even if it's had. December came and no one New York in daughter's friend's heard anything from him, nor did empty apartment far from Mum's The Rector is available to his relatives there know where he Canadian friends. bring Communion to any who are was. He was supposed to return Since that time daughter has sick or shut-in over the Christmas home by then. It became a very come here. Since that time we have Season. It is important that all bleak Christmas. A neighbour's always had the opportunity, curi­ Anglicans receive their Holy family whose Mum was ill joined ously, to take a fourth person who Communion at Christmas time. us for dinner but the father didn't needs a Christmas where we hap­ To arrange a visit and com­ really want to be there. The only pen to find ourselves. What was munion at home, please call the bright spot was our visitor from Oz the saddest Christmas has sancti­ parish office at 836-5741. (Australia), an artist friend of my fied each to follow. Perhaps that's

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------Coffee and Conversation

On a Sunday morning in Octo­ well. It brought out lots of honest eight people per table and the groups ber, we finally got to experience the answers and lots of thoughtful an­ seemed to fall together quite natu­ dreaded "Coffee and Conversation" swers. The youth table agreed that rally with several people saying they Sunday that Brian Smith had been most of them were there because met new people at their table. keen to have for some months. It they had to be, (stifled laughter from It was informal, stimulating and wasn't dreaded by everybody, of their parents), but they also said they fun. It wasn't in the least threatening course, and Brian did have the sup­ spent part of their discussion time which I think was the fear some peo­ port of Parish Council to try out this coming up with a list of people who ple had. There was no pressure to new idea. But as with all new ways made them feel comfortable and contribute, but most people did be­ of doing things, there was some ap­ welcome when they were at church. cause it was a small group talking prehension as to just how this Sun­ The list, they said, was not for publi­ about something that interested them. day would work. cation, but it did make one think I hope the next topic will be First of all, what would we talk about the qualities that might entitle equally easy to discuss. It's nice to about? The format was to be a short­ an adult to get on such a li st. have a chance to talk to people over ened church service followed by a Many parents said they wanted coffee and doughnuts as part of the get-together and discussion in the to provide an opportunity for their church experience, without feeling church hall. Should the topic be children to experience religious edu­ that you're missing the actual service anything you felt like chatting about cation and the church, just as they or being forced to take part in some such as O.J. Simpson, or gardening, had done themselves. There was talk artificial religious discussion that or should there be a more spiritual of duty, ofbeing reminded regularly you're not really interested in. focus to it? This was the dilemma the that there was a world beyond To me it seemed like a worth­ group that met to tie down the final ourselves, a spiritual world while experiment and one I hope we details of the Sunday experiment had with which we wanted to be con­ do again- perhaps three or four times to solve. In the end we settled on a nected, of being with like-minded a year. Anything that can increase topic that touches everyone who people, of experiencing a commu­ our connections with each other as a would be attending on that Sunday. nity of believers, and Ross' sermons community without destroying the "Why do we go to church?" were highly appreciated. Being at beautiful church service that we have Now, that' s a question that prob­ church brought comfort for some, is worth doing again in my opinion. ably lots of people who don't go to unease for others, and inspiration. Barbara Bottriell church would like the answer to as There were approximately six to

The Junior Choir

The Junior Choir has had a made me very proud by mastering very exciting time in the past few them all well. We will be singing weeks. Along with our Adult Choir, several beautiful pieces over the we participated in the Mass Choir Christmas season and the children held at Christ Church Cathedral are currently working very hard at downtown on November 5. The learning them. children performed wonderfully If any other children are inter­ p.m. The children will also be and were exhilarated by all the ested in joining the choir there is participating in a music night at our voices. A lot of the pieces they always room for more. We prac­ church on December 10, 1995. sang were very difficult and they tice Mondays from 4:15 to 5:00 Christine Ritchie

People's Pulpit Page 19 Grace in Action 1896- 1996 Bishops from other Canadian propriate. dioceses visiting the Diocese of The design is of a circle with Ottawa this summer got a memento hands top and bottom embracing of their stay in the form of a spe­ the sky and water and framing an cially designed centennial medal­ oak tree which supports the Cross. lion. While there is no wording on the Bishop John Baycroft pre­ design itself, on printed matter it is sented the medallions during Gen­ accompanied by the words: Grace eral Synod in June. The design it­ in Action, 1896 - 1996, a celebra­ self will be extensively used during tion of memory, fulfillment and the Centennial Year of the diocese, hope. deemed, rooted like a mighty oak, beginning in January. Derived from passages of scrip­ rooted too in that other Tree, the Created for the diocesan Cen­ ture, the design is based generally Cross. Toward the loving hands of tennial Committee by Hilary Fowler on this thought: the Creator, the Church reaches out of St. Matthias, Ottawa, the design "Within the framework of to receive the bounty of creation is adaptable to a variety of pur­ God's gracious action in creation­ and redemption, God's grace liv­ poses, such as banners, t-shirts and hills and valleys, rivers and lakes - ing in our action: the Diocese of pins. Colours may be used as ap- stands the community of the re- Ottawa."

Diocese of Otta\v a 1896- 1996 Centennial Update

It is gradually coming to our Eucharist, Christ Church Cathedral Contacts: Rick Marples, 836-1001 attention that 1996 is the Centen­ Sermon: The Primate Peter Lackey, 489-3738 nial of the Diocese of Ottawa as Reception to follow Robin Tilgner, 831-2709 well as the 130th anniversary of St. Sunday, May 26: Service ofWor­ Cost: $15 per day or $150 for the Thomas, Stittsville as a parish. ship and Thanksgiving whole trip Some keynote events have been Centennial Sunday, 11:00 a. m. Please note: the attractive Cen­ planned and the dates fixed. Other Aberdeen Pavilion, tennial T-shirts with the Centen­ events which require less lead time Lansdowne Park nial logo (as shown above) on the will be announced as they are or­ August 19-29: Paddle for the Lord front which you may have seen ganized. St. George's Cathedral, Kingston around the church are available at Diocesan Dates to Remember: to Christ Church Cathedral, Ot­ Canterbury House, $10.00 each, January1,1996: NewYear'sDay tawa via Rideau Canal including G.S.T.

Food Bank Seeks Treasurer Join the Choir! The Stittsville Food Bank needs 836-2406. You may have noticed - yes, a treasurer. It's an especially impor­ The Stittsville Food Bank, a reg­ we still have room in the choir for tant role to fulfill at Christmas time, istered charity, is administered by a more singers! The choir offers when both seasonal cash donations local volunteer board of directors. friendship, fellowship and an and extra expenses have to be looked It's open to dispense to clients from evening among friends out of the after. the basement of Saint Thomas church house. We practice on Thursdays The job only requires a few hours every Wednesday from 4 to 5.30 at 7:30pm, so c'mon out and join a month. If you can spare a little time, p.m. the choir next Thursday. why not volunteer by giving Food Its help line is accessible 24 hours Pete Torunski Bank board chair, Leslie Haubrich, a a day , seven days a week to members call at either 831-0451 (the Bank's of the community in need. message/help line), or at her home, Mike Bryan ***** Page 20 People's Pulpit Special Vestry Meeting (October 18, 1995)

Background: to do repairs to the Rectory. The Diocese of Ottawa has been - Our Outreach budget is reduced. frustrated by the fact that after their -A Parenting course is to be offered in budget is set and the apportionments '96. made there is still usually a shortfall, - Mortgage reduction is to be looked resulting in budget cuts. Therefore the at. Diocese is trying a new approach based 1996 Diocesan Apportionment: Vestry then, through the use of on a 3 year budget. We at St. Thomas' Apportionment is the voluntary motions, committed to fund youth work are attempting to parallel this new plan. mission budget (working money) at the level of $5,000.00 for the latter Financial Update: which covers many outreach projects portion of 1996, and $10,000.00 for A clear picture of our present fi­ (local, national and international). the full year of 1997. They approved nancial status was presented at Vestry Our apportionment has been re­ the inclusion of $5,000.00 in the 1996 so that we could properly judge our duced by $2,601 over last year. We and the 1997 budget for capital expen­ future. have a good record of meeting our ditures to the rectory. They also di­ General Overview apportionment. It is important for our rected the first $3 ,000.00 of any sur­ - Our apportionment goes down for direct ministry to many projects that plus income realised in 1996 be used to '96 and '97. we know well. Therefore, it was hoped "pay down" the capital on our out­ - Our maintenance costs increase to that Vestry would accept and commit standing mortgages. Vestry then gave cover the new security system. to the 1996 Apportionment figure of preliminary approval to the Proposed - An increase in pay for the organist is $13,556.00. A motion stating this was Budget for 1996 of $160,000.00 and needed, to bring him on line with the made and carried. added $3,000.00 for Outreach. Pre­ Association of Organists' recommen­ There followed a general discus­ liminary approval was also given to dation. sion period where many points were the Proposed 1997 Budget of - Our General Capital is kept flat. clarified concerning the mortgages on $167,000.00. - A Youth worker is budgeted for the Church and Rectory, on the need It is hoped that at the Annual Ves­ (10hrs/wk for latter half of' 96, and for for a Youth Worker and our ability to try Meeting in 1996 the question of all of '97). support such a person, and the repairs Outreach will be reviewed again. -We've made a financial commitment etc. required to maintain the Rectory. Georgina Purchase

Coming soon to St. Thomas . .. A New Youth Worker It may not change the face of the of these problems. In fact the role of ing financially to the parish. A suc­ earth, or even the parish, but Parish lay volunteering may become even cessful youth program will eventually Council and a special Vestry meeting more important. However, the pres­ defray some of its own costs. have taken a big step to support youth ence of a trained person on a perma­ However, the prime motivation workinourparish. Thesumof$10,000 nent basis here, should provide a much for this new priority is our concern for a year is being provided in the parish stronger foundation for expanded youth our parish teenagers in this uncertain budget, beginning next August, with programs. world. Over the corning six months, the purpose of hiring a Youth Worker. One ofthe reasons for Parish Coun­ Parish Council will solicit some help One of Parish Council's top pri­ cil 's enthusiastic support of this new from other parishioners to establish orities for this year has been to find a initiative is the long-established pat­ criteria and begin the search for an way to support Ministry to young peo­ tern of church attendance by both teen­ enthusiastic and experienced Christian ple, specifically the many teenagers in agers and their parents. As young youth worker. Only then will we be our parish. Our work in this area has people move through their teen years able to see how youth programs in our always relied on one or two lay people (and many of us will remember this parish will develop. to come forward. Although this ar­ ourselves), they tend to drift away from In the meantime, this year's youth rangement has sometimes resulted in the church. In many cases, their par­ program is off to a fast start under the some wonderful events and relation­ ents do, too, at least for a few years, as leadership of Alaine Tilgner. It's ex­ ships, it has also been an occasional the 'weekend with the family' starts to citing to see so many young people disappointment for both leaders and take on a new meaning. involved in the parish! young people. From a financial perspective too, By hiring a part-time youth this has hurt the church. People who Brian Smith worker, we won't necessarily solve all are not here are usually not contribut-

People's Pulpit Page 21 Meghan Christine Kitt Marriage daughter of " . . . bound together in these Kevin Kitt and Patricia Irwin-Kitt Holy mysteries, become one in sponsors heart and soul. " Mark Gibson & Mary Irwin-Gibson Michael Richard Larouche and Brittany Victoria Seymour Shannon Ireland daughter of September 9, 1995 David and Jill Seymour sponsors Bruce Joseph Noel Dale Boothby and Kelly Boothby and Sherry Jean Timmins Alexander Greenwood Tracy September 30, 1995 son of Douglas and Colleen Tracy Peter Stanley Mohr Holy Baptism sponsors and "The water of baptism . . . in it Robin McLenan, James Tracy, Tammy Cheryl Kelso we are buried with Christ in His and Dean Whittingham October 7, 1995 death, share in his resurrection, and are reborn by the November 12, 1995 Holy Burial Holy Spirit" baptised by The Right "Increase our faith, deepen our Reverend John Baycroft hope, and confirm us in September 17, 1995 Bishop of Ottawa your eternal love."

Trevor Warren Ayers Meghan Elizabeth Carty David Charles Golledge son of daughter of September 5, 1995 Troy and Louise Ayers Scott and Heather Carty sponsors sponsors Phyllis Myrtle Lesniak Dennis Gebhart & Brenda Cutler and Peggy October 13, 1995 Vivian Gebhart Cuthbertson The Right Reverend Henry Eric Jackson DeMone Jordon Miles Feres George Cook son of son of Bishop Suffragan, the Arctic Paul and Carol DeMone Christopher and Allyson Feres (Retired) sponsors sponsors October 21, 1995 Mary Jackson & Norman Thomas and Robert Parent Cindy Feres Lydia Alice Lariviere November 3, 1995 Megan Elizabeth Flatt Samuel Anthony Maviglia daughter of son of Ruth Peaker Burnett David and Holly Flatt Frank and Kelly Maviglia November 24, 1995 sponsors sponsors Susan Beauchamp & Joe DiDoninico & Howard Gilbert Eynouf Paul Beauchamp Ida DiDoninico November 24, 1995

The church has a number of rotary phones to give away "free" to a good home. If you would like one (or more), please contact Pete Torunski at 836-5295.

Page 22 People's Pulpit The Right Reverend Henry George Cook (Bishop Harry) October 12, 1906 - October 18, 1995

Bishop Cook was born in 1944 to 194 7, and Superintendent and Barbara. Walthamstow, London, England of the Indian School Administra­ Bishop Harry attended the early and came to Canada as a child. He tion, 1947 to 1962. service most often and with con­ received his education in Ontario. On the Feast of the Epiphany, sistency occupied a seat at the back His calling to the Ministry be­ January 6th, 1963,HenryCookwas of the church on the left. He is gan with ordination as a Deacon in consecrated Bishop in the Church fondly remembered as a proud man 1935 and as a Priest in 1936, taking of God in All Saint's Cathedral, with a quick wit and love for his him to Fort Simpson, N.W.T. He Edmonton, Alberta, and served as family . He always looked forward was a missionary at Fort Simpson Bishop Suffragan of the Diocese of to visits with his grandchildren, from 1935-1943, Canon of the Dio­ the Arctic. In 1966 he became the and dearly loved to share the fond cese of Athabasca from 1939 to first Suffragan Bishop of Athabasca memories with us on his return. 1943, curate at St. Paul's Church, and in 1971, the first Bishop of ' So we bid a fond farewell to Bloor St. E., Toronto, from 1943 to Mackenzie. Bishop Cook retired Bishop Harry with the knowledge 1944, and Secretary Treasurer of in 1974 . . that he is in good hands and give the Diocese of Moosonee, 1944 to Bishop Harry was married to thanks for his friendship and time 1945. HewasArchdeaconofJames Opal May Thompson who prede­ with us. Bay, 1945 to 194 7, Principal of the ceased him. Bishop and Mrs. Cook Bishop Horden Residential School, had three children, David, Peter Marilyn Johnston

"So, you went on Cursillo . " At the beginning of November I faith affects our lives. There is lots of go when you feel ready. Here are attended the men's Cursillo week­ humour, lots of praise and lots of some indications that you are ready. end at a convent in Orleans, which opportunity to worship. The convent - a strong desire to know more of was a great blessing to me. But what, is remarkably comfortable and the Jesus in your life you say, is Cursillo? food is good. -a desire to reflect on your Christian Cursillo is a Spanish word mean­ My first impulse is to say-YOU faith journey ing 'short course' . The weekend MUST ALL GO-because it is so - you have had a lot of changes in presents the bones of what it is to be worthwhile. If you want to go then your life and you want to seek a new a Christian and to live out our Chris­ someone will sponsor you. If there direction for yourself tian faith in our lives so that we can are practical difficulties which may - a strong drive for a deeper Chris­ influence others for Christ. How­ prevent you, such as taking care of tian fellowship. ever, this is not a dry 'academic' and children or other duties, then your If you would like to know more theatrical three days. The courses sponsor will take care of things for please talk to me or others that have are presented as workshops where you. been on Cursillo. groups work at how each aspect of On reflection, it is important to William Passmore

Persons wishing to place flowers on the altar for Christmas may make their donation by cash or cheque and indicate their wish by signing the Flower Calendar. Cards & envelopes are available by the calendar and should be used in making donations. Please place envelopes containing the completed card & donation in the offertory plate. Cheques should be made out to "St. Thomas Church Flower Fund".

People's Pulpit Page 23 VIM Ecuador The Neelin Family Newsletter~ Volunteers in Mission to Quito, Ecuador After Six Months

Michael, Lyndal, Beth, Rebekah, Gevie and Gwen arrived in Quito, Ecuador about midnight on 1 M'!)'. This edition contains impressions from three famify members after almost six months. Lyndal's Views he last few months have been rich in new experiences T and expanding horizons. We have done some work with CLAI (the Latin American Council of Churches)- explored the possibili­ ties for a summer camp program next year in the "oriente" -visited some rural parishes near Ambato and Guaranda - done some drafting and design work (two chapels and some renovations at the school) - Suruhuayco Farm (Aug 13, 1995) and learnt how to prepare annual plans to satisfy the requirements of young Ecuadorian teacher. Adriana said community with a financial base Ecuador's Ministry ofEducation. is blessed with above average as funds from the ''North" begin to We have also taught eleven weeks of patience for "bizarre extranjero" dry up quickly. Good schools are in classes, despite 'summer' holidays, behavior and is a real gift to us. She short supply as we can attest to offering catch up classes to soothe is wonderful. We will be teaching by having experienced the line-ups at concerned parents and a very levels within the usual grade "colegios" while we were searching concerned Bishop. English classes divisions - more hours, fewer for a school for Beth. Canterbury have been a major preoccupation. students in a group (no more than schoo~ offering both English and Canterbury school has an all new 15). Bishop Larrea hopes that in this computers is growing quickly. way we will miraculously close the English teaching team thiS year. We made use of our four week gap between the most and least Michael ~d I have been joined by a break in August to go exploring, advanced students and have them eager to see something of the work working at standard grade levels in our work at the school supports. We the end. We shall see ... CONTENTS were delighted by our discoveries The school has an interesting double and our welcome. We ate corn after Lynda/'s Views ...... 1 mandate, raising the proftle of a little the morning service in Suruhuayco Beth's Perspective on Ufe, Learning and Ught ...... 2 known church community lost with a litter of puppies at our feN Viva La Tecno/ogia! ...... 3 within the Roman Catholic and and a couple of turkeys strutting Evangelical presence, and providing around us. We feasted on queso (it

Page 24 People's Pulpit translates as cheese, but it neither 29 to be a music teacher at Canter­ of translating. We cleaned the looks nor tastes like cheese) stuffed bury school and a diocesan choir garbage out of the garden, stripped baked plantains after an interminable director. She is a kindred spirit and the paint off the building and then rainy climb to the chapel in we look forward to being great repainted it. The Ecuadorians were Guaranda. We ate a breakfast of friends. Just now she is thoroughly amazed that we North American peas and rice in the front room shop occupied with Spanish lessons. girls could match their guys bag for of a San Alphonso parishioner who bag, stroke for stroke, while their By the time you are reading this chatted to us while; she churned girls sat tamely in the garden picking classes at school will be in full swing. butter with a spoon and saucer. We out weeds. It looked really good by Please send a few "sustaining" walked "home" from evening prayer the time we were finished! thoughts in the direction of our girls listening to water running through who will be facing the first real At the school the two new class­ an irrigation system older than the challenge of their adventure, as real rooms are coming along well. The · Incas, felt the cold wind blowing students, expected to write tests and cathedral youth have been painting down from the snow caps across the hand in assignments. A big thank the scenes from "Sleeping Beauty" barren paramo, and saw llamas and you to all those who wrote to us and "Three Little Pigs" on the walls. sheep herded along cliff paths by after our first newsletter, perhaps A long, fun jobl children in bright coloured ponchos you can imagine the welcome letters and the hats which are symbols of from home, and indeed from friends belonging and identity. in far flung places. We are very We were also delighted to make grateful to know that we continue in contact with CLAI. Manuel your thoughts and prayers, and Quintero (CLAI's director of thank you for this wonderful communication) was sitting beside opportunity to get to know another me at a party following the baptism part of God's creation, God's people of Bishop Larrea's little son. Imagine and God's Church. my delight when he invited us to Lyndal drop by his office saying that he needed someone to do some translation work - Spanish to English. I was as flattered by the · Beth's vote of confidence for my Spanish as I was excited by the chance to Perspective on become involved with CLAI. We Gwen, Gevie & Rebekah in uniform - have "dropped in" several times Life, Learning leaning against the clubhouse/laundry now -to make use of their E-mail and Light room/one time maid's quarters access (graciously and generously offered to us), and to type some 40 may not be quite fluent in My new school, Colegio Alvernia, is pages of translation into their Spanish, but I can definitely run by the Franciscan sisters. From computer. (Do you hear a hint that I understand and be understood the outside it looks really unfriendly we might enjoy our own computer easily. I have not actually been with its high walls and barred and E-mail connection?Q CLAI's studying Spanish in a special windows. But inside there's a offices are a happy and pleasant academy for a long time. But talking courtyard in the centre with four place to be and we look forward to a with my friends has proved more floors of balconies and classrooms growing connection with them. effective than anything else. leading off them. In the centre of A youth group from Indianapolis the courtyard there's a large June Wilson (VIM from Victoria) came down to do volunteer work will be leaving us early in October to basketball court (the nets are for the church here. They were set somewhat lower, but considering the return to Canada, and if all goes weil, to cleaning the diocesan centre. My continue on to Tanzania in the new fact that I am taller at five four than youth group helped them in o rder most of the "Sexto Curso" (Grade year. We wish her well. July Riggs for the "gringos" to make friends (VIM from Toronto) arrived Aug. 12 students). It has a very good with the Ecuadorians, so I did a lot sports programme and drama

People's Pulpit Page 25 programme as well. Class starts at 7 am and runs to 1 pm. But what's worse is the uniform! A brown plaid jumper, white blouse, knee socks and little black dress shoes. I almost forgot -- on gym days I get to wear a brown jogging suit! Aren't I lucky?

A small excitement in life is the fact that every day the power gets switched off for five hours or so (absolutely nothing is punctual in this countryD. Ecuador has one major dam and the valley it's in is running dry. So in order to conserve power they shut off power to different sections of the country. Washing dishes by candlelight is an Neelin's home is the one behind the sign and bush. Photo taken from corner of the interesting experience... . school yard across the street. By the time you read this I'll be in Here in Quito for the past couple of action and friendship. The differ­ school and will hopefully have months we have been surviving an ence struck me after we returned power day every day. A nice all energy "crisis" which, while it really from visiting the rural mission of thought, but not likely. has not been any hassle for us, has San Alfonso, nestled in green fields Bye, Beth served to highlight the irony, both on the flank of snowcapped comic and tragic, in this situation. Carihuayrazo. There the power had Viva La Sixty-five percent of Ecuador's been off for an evening too. We electrical power comes from one began that evening holding hands in Tecnologia! partly completed (for lack of money) a circle around the candlelit altar hydro megaproject. And due to this celebrating evening prayer. We then country's wonderful geographical walked home along pleasant dark n our last newsletter I spoke of diversity, it is possible for one valley country lanes with Juan Carlos Quito as a study in contrasts. A to be in drought while the next one Espinoza, the young deacon, to city where you never know I is saturated. Guess which valley spend the evening eating and talking, whether you'll awake to a rooster's didn't get rain ... The one with the again by candlelight, with parishio­ crow or to the blare of a high-tech dam, inevitably! Since the beginning ners who dropped by to share their cat alarm. A city where you can step of August the power has been off food, their kindness and their in a matter of metres from the for some five hours a day. All those dreams for the church with us. It bustling, faceless luxury highrise microwaves, TVs and automatic was friendly, peacefu~ dark ... district into a 17th-century village of garage-door openers that well-to-do winding cobbled streets where the Next evening we returned to a Quitenos are so proud of begin to locals take the time to greet blacked-out Quito, arriving in a dark look a little ridiculous. To say strangers. Sometimes the sheer bus station in the tough part of nothing of the cost in time and incongruity is delightful. But clearly town. As you can imagine, in a city money of dead bank computers, at other moments the juxtaposition where "those who have" are rather traffic lights and grocery-store of consumerist "progress" of those preoccupied with hanging onto it, a freezers (it is estimated that the who "have" with the increasing city of armed guards, multiple locks, national daily cost of the blackouts is marginalization of the "have-nots" barred windows, watchdogs and higher than that of last winter's leaves us saddened and confused as alarm systems, a blackout is a undeclared war with PeruD. we as a family try, along with the different matter from our experience church, the schoo~ and the city In a blacked-out big city there is a in San Alfonso. Evening church itsel~ to straddle these two worlds. cost too in terms of social in ter- services are cancelled, nobody goes

Page 26 People's Pulpit visiting, and everybody complains landers here in the suburbs of a must know to thrive in this world of about lineups at the bank, chaos sprawling city that is grasping free trade and high tech. But equally during rush hour and appliances indiscriminately at every bit of importandy we are here to be · damaged by power surges. The final technology and "progress" it can·. I learners, valuing the way of life here irony is that the downtown core is all am convinced that a big part of our by our questions, our lifestyle and ripped up to install a spiffy new task of mission here is to come, in our admission of the limitations of European-built trolley-bus system­ humility and openness, from the the First World and of the inclina­ electrically powered, needless to say! much-envied and much-emulated tion to deify power and consump­ Welcome to the "First" World! North America, to afftrm the value tion. Meanwhile, we continue to of Ecuador's own spirituality, society enjoy our candlelit dinners! We ask ourselves often why God in and worldview. We are here as Michael · infinite wisdom and humour chose teachers of the new "universal" to put us Pontiac back-to-the- language, the E~lish which thev •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••••••••••••••• St. Thomas Finance Update Our Church finances are in an November and December to meet our improving situation following the let­ budget which includes our December ter we sent out in September. We now mortgage payment to the diocese of have as at 31 October, $12,700 as a $9,100. closing balance which means that we During late November and early are now in a position to pay our June December we will be conducting a tion and devaluation) destroy - lay up mortgage payment of $9100. All our financial campaign. Please prayerfully for yourselves treasures in heaven. For financial commitments have been met. review your giving and the blessings where your treasures are there will And now for the challenge. Out of that you receive from our Lord . Re­ your heart be also." Use the modern our annual budget of $156,000 we have flect on our Lord's words: "Don't lay tithe (5% of your salary/ income) as received $112,000. This means we up for yourselves treasures on earth your guide- and give! need $44,000 or $22,000 per month in where rust and moth (inflation, taxa- William Passmore

Well Done to the "BBQ Gang" Me, Advertise in the People's Pulpit?? Once again, the annual Chicken BBQ And a hearty "THANKS" to all A limited opportunity exists to held on 30 September was a tremen- the rest of you who helped. As a result sign up to advertise in next year's do us success! The weatherman coop- of the efforts of Don and his excellent era ted fully, and Don Gillen and his crew of cooks, the serving crew, the People's Pulpit. 5 editions per year wonderful crew of cooks came through clean-up crew, the pie crew and the for only $25. Interested parties may again with superbly cooked chickens. many people who donated pies and book space by contacting Pete To- The pies and cole slaw which you cole slaw, we raised about $1200 from run ski by December 20th (836-5295). contributed to the event were also sim- this BBQ. That money is slated go to ply delicious! the new sound system. Recycled Inserts Once again this year, Gerry Of course, none of this would be Yes, we do recycle the inserts to Stephens put in a lot of time to build possible without our great the weekly bulletins given out each more racks for the BBQ, and Hugh parishioners who supply the pies and Sunday at church. Of course, parish- Sparks made some supports for the sauces so willingly, and it would all be ioners are welcome to take the bulle- BBQ frame. Warner Eakins again had in vain if our customers did not show. tins and inserts home if they wish. The many constructive and innovative ideas As a point of information, the lower bulletins, readings/ prayers and hymn to improve the event. Linda Banister number of people who attended this word inserts which are left in the church once again did a tremendous job on year indicates that next year, we'll sell after the service are first sorted. The publicity. With clever planning, Don tickets ahead of time, as we did in all bulletins are then discarded in a blue Gillen and his crew again managed to previous years. recycling box; the inserts are kept for keep up with the demand and there Pete Torunski future reuse. Now you know! were no waits in line. Pete Torunski

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