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Alliance sponsors I auction fundtaiser The Gay Alliance is sponsoring 'A Bid From the Hean/' a gala auction and cham- pagoe brunch, from 1 to 5 p.m. on Feb. 11, at GEVA Theater, 75 Woodbury Blvd. The event is open to everyone, inchiding the heterosexual community. Admission is $10 in advance, and »15 at the door. Tickets arc available at Wild Seeds Bookstore and Cafe, Silkwood Bookstore, Paul's Grocery, Parkleigh and \^age Green. Items to be auctioned off include memberships to thc YMCA and thc Plaza Athletic Club; gift certificates to many ma jor restaurants; a cappucino maker from the Partdeigh; a brass coat rack from Jack Greco's; paintings and prints by iocal artists; a S250 gift certificate from Hickey Freeman. Kate TUitc wiil be thc auctioneer, assisted by Marcella. Ribbon-cutting ceremony at Commtmity Health Netwoi^* Left to right: Dr. Steve Scheibel, Gloria Beltran, Free champagne and a gourmet brunch Rep. Louise Slaughter, Dr. Bill Valenti, Carol Williams. Photo by Tl. Cvetan. (Morc photos on pagc 20). will be provided, as well as entertainment by pianists Martha Brown, Mike Costelio and Paul Knokc; and groups Natural Sign, Mon CHN clinic hosts official opening tage, and Kathy Reilly and Howard. By Susan Jordan In addition to the two physicians and Washbum family, and local residents.) As of Jan. 25, thc GAGV fund drive had Community Health Network, 758 South nurse clinician Carol Williams, the staff in Rep. Slai^ter noted that "CHN is the first raised $35,604.15- The money will go Ave., held its official opening reception on cludes social worker Sydney Metzger, and in non-profit center for the treatment of AIDS towaid the downpayment on the building at Dec. l4, with a ribbon-cutting by U.S. Rep. future there are plans to add a caseworker in America. Its state-of-the-art equipment is 169 Atlantic Ave., future home ofthe GAGV. Louise Slaughter and client Gloria Beltran. from AIDS Rochester, and a drug cotmselor the gift of this community. People will get President Claire Parker said, *'We need The non-profit clinic for people affected by from RESTART treatment, and education can go forth from lots of financial su|^>ort right now. ^Jtfc'rc try HIV had been operating since mid-August. At the ribbon-cutting on Dec. 14, Rev. Paul here, rm sure that the rest of the country ing lor $90,000 in 1990." A large crowd had gathered to examine Wdker of the Greater Rochester AIDS Inter will be following Rochester's example. But If all goes according to plan, the closing the newly-furnished clinic Dr: William faith Network gave the invocation. Adele the prayer we have is that one day these should have taken place by thc end of Valenti. with Dr. Steven Scheibel one of two McCarthy of Helping People With AIDS Inc. clinics will be obsolete ' January. The GAGV hopes to be moved into resident physicians, said "Believe it or not, announced that her oiiganization had con this used to' be the Elks' bowling alley." He Gloria Beltran said, "I've gotten to know the new building by March 1, and is asking tributed $36,750 to CHN. and added "This BUI Valenti, Steve Scheibel and-Carol for volunteers to help with cleaning, pain said that CHN is currently treating 200 check will hot>efully be the first of many." clients, with a capacity to serve 750 by the WiUiams as human bdngs, and I kttow God*s ting, carpentry, and thc move itself. (CHN announced in January that they have hartd Is upon this place'* Vblunteers arc also needed for thc auction end ofthis year. In 1991 CHN hopes to add received a $20,000 grant to open an AIDS on Feb. H Those who arc interested in help a third physician and a second nurse practi education library, which will be dedicated ing out in aqy way should call Richard Kaza tioner, so that the clinic ultimately could be to thc late John Washbum. The grznt came at 244-8640 between 6 and 9 p.m.. or leave treating up to 2000 clients. from the Rochester Area Foundation, thc i message. Skinheads sentenced to 6 inos. in jail, Protestors hit 5 years probation; must attend virorksliop local churches By Susan Jordan All of the defendants had pleaded guilty simply to lecture people on their prejudice Three area CathoUc churches have been The five local youths found guilty of at to second-degree attempted robbery, about groups other than their own. Rather, \ deuced recently by anonymous protestor tacks on men in Highland Park were sentenc although they had been charged with two the first steps taken may be to ask people to claiming to be pro-choice AIDS acdvists. Red ed by scate Supreme Court Judge John Doyle counts of second-degree robbery and third- identify their own identity and the gtoup paint was thrown on the church doors, and on Jan. 4. All must serve 6 months shock in- degree assault. Second-degree attempted they come fiom. and to become aware of items such as condoms, a coat hanger and careeration in Monroe County iail and must robbery carries a maximum penalty of two both positive arul negative quaUties which a rcd carnation were left on the steps of atteiul prejudice reduction workshops to be and a third to seven years in state prison. may be associated with their own group several chtirches. developed by the South East Area Coalition Judge Doyle warned the teens that if they identities. (SEAC) and the Gay AUiance violate the terms of thdr probation they wUl AnonytiKHis callers have claimed that the Participants are encouraged to sec how t I actions are a protest against the church's The self-proclaimed skinheads will be on face a period of state Incareeration. He had many eaQ>erieiK:es, traits, etc tbey share with probation for five years. Judge Doyle told denied them youthful offerKler status, and stand on abortion, AIDS and sexuality, ochers percdved by them to be differem, and : which they say threateru the survival of each defeiKlam to stay out of Highland Park, each now has a criminal record. to see conunonaUty where once they saw women, gays and lesbians, and people liv and off Monroe Avenue between the ex -Some information from Blair ClafUn in only diversity. Exereises may include U ing with AIDS. They stated that the protests pressway and the ictner loop, and not to the Times-i/nion. roleplayii^ as a member of a group which at churches would continue. associate with each other during that time. is not thdr own; identifying negative The churdies havolved are St. Augustine's In addition, each defeiKlant must pay a reduction stereotypes about thdr own ktentitics whidt Church, 410 Chili Ave.; Blessed Sacrament fine of $112.11 to the Crime Victims participants have internalized; idetitlfying Church on Oxford St., and St. Bonifoce Assistance Unit. IWo youths, Andrew aim: to see assumptiotis and slurs about their own Church, 330 Gregory St. Johnroe of Pittsford and Timothy Wiite of groups which they never wam to hear again; Thc Rochester PoHce Depanment an Rochester, were aba sentenced to 60 days in others as human speaking out about painful pexstmal ex nounced that the incidents are being in home confinement, due to their added periences involving these stereotypes and charge of third-degree robbery. The prejudice reduction workshops I vestigated separately. which the skinheads wUI undcfgo wiU be other forms of discrimination. The ultimate -Vincent X^rlor in the Democrat & *Wt are very pleasedr said Claire Parker, created in detail by the Gay AUiance of the goal is for partidpants to begin to see per Ml Ci^ronicle. Gay AUiance president. "The sentence in Genesee Villey and the South East Area sons of Other groups as human beings Uke cluded everything we had asked foe" Coalition (SEAC). SEAC in turn has worked themselves. Women to march Jackie Curry, crime prevention cool^' with the Rochester CoaUtion BuUding In Jackie Curry of SEAC said '*I have taken dinator for S&ac. said '*We'te tnaid^ itiative, a chapter of the National Coalition a similar workshop and it was a very power s^gainst violence history. This is the flrst time that a prejudfce Bonding Insdnne. to develop a model for the fol eq[>erience %u get down lo gut levd and reduction wockshop has been used locaUy. workshops. .-« find out how you have been UBiog pie^udice A Ikke Back the Night march and raUy or nationaUy, to my knowlec^" She said to help you deaden your own pain." will be held on Fdb. 4. beginning at 6 p.m. that tbe workshop would consist of four ITK Tbe goal of pcefudlce reduction is not at Gemesee Cfo««foads Park, next to the An troductory sessions and 10 two-faour ses draw Sf' entrance (between St. Paul and sions, makiiig ^4 hours in aU. and would State St.) begin after the youths had completed thdr Itt Thia lamaei Thc route will go down State Strand Uke jaU terms. EdiiorlaiAettcrs page 2 • Ave. IO LyeU Arc., around Jones Park and Asslsiaftt District Attorney Thomas Rain State a local newa . pd^ i tadc agalA, covering about two and a half bow Mofsc commcnied, '*Furttker use of pre- pt^ 4 MHea, and ending at the Downtown iudice reducclott In cases wiU depend on Picatofierlan ChufCh, 121 N. ntzht^, whete larry rhaiupoiu luautlcw ...... *.* pape • how it succeects la this case It could hap I i a fatty with speaken, poctt and musicians pen if lt*8 seen as a viable compoiMttt of \^aicssar •«••••••***•••••••••••••••*•«***•••• page lo WiH lake place. Uransportation wiU be pro seiMendng, aod If g/tattu ate available'* Gay Idsiory part n ...***.....« ^. page 12 vkled fbr those unable to walk the entire The teen-agers claimed to be |»art of a lAfc pocaM ••••••••••••»•• •«»a**««««*»*«*M pagjc 13 fDute, and partkdpanis afe asiced to brlf^ a racist, homophobic gnnip called Bufblo- candle of flashll^t. Rodiester Aryafi. Skia Heads, or BRASH. Coimmists *•••*••••*••••••••••*•*••••«*<•* pagje lo The march is being organiBed by a wide They' wcrc arrested in May affeer tbey had Gay gfo^pa ••••••••••••••••••••••^•^••••*» page lo range of individuals and women's groups, lured a oun they believed to be gay into a Udlea JI GcttUeaca All page 21 and Is sponsored by community ofganlza- remote atea of HIgliland Park, whefe they 22 \ I Marcb continued on page 3. beat him and took his wallet. art. See page 15. a - THE 5MPTY CgOSET FEBRUARY 1990 FEBRUARY 1990 THE EMPTY CLOSET
Netifsi^iefo continued from page 1. Some infonnation from Eric Houston in "Rochester Racism;" "Adwocacy toe the tions Including the League of \(t>men VMcfs thc Times-Unitm. Doniger becomes Homeless;' and die woric oi HaMtat for Editorial (Metro), Plaiuied Parenthood of Rochester Humanity. AU workshops are ftee; cfaUdcare public h ^oltb cliief aod signing for the bearing inqsaiied wU i>e and thc Genesee Vahey, Greater Rochester Albany elects gay Dr Andrew Doik.^ -r was u.y) >inted as N.O.W., Alternatives for Battered ^9(%>inen, provided, and the YWCA is wheelchair ac- Moaroe County PubUc Health s^-xtor in cessfl>le For information on legistnuion, cafl Genesee Vklley Chapter of N.Y. Civil Liber Black official January. When asked about his . ans for Questions and ans-vtrers, and more questions ties Union, 1K^mien*s Programs of Colgate Keith St. John became thc nation's flrst 325-2560. they are "not active" than "very active' local news and gay grdup news. The other sports column. How about coverage of the deaUng with the AIDS epidemic' he said B»y- Suaa» n -mJorda m^n^ thev are "not active" than "verv active" i^wvit n^B»i ^nA o^v xmsim rM-w« T\\f nthcn- enorts cc Rochester Divinity School, Metro Act, openly gay Black man to win elective office Seventeen gay men answered the survey. features which had majority approval were women's softball season, for example, com "One thing which I think is very important As of Jan. 25. twenty-seven people had Rochester Peace and Justice Education when he was elected alderman in Albany's GAGV sets dates There were only four lesbians and six bisex (in order of ranking) calendar; national plete with photos? is advocacy for more screening, which of answered the Empty CU>set questioimaire in Cemer, YWCA, New York State CoaUtion second ward by 75 percent of the vote uals represented. Most of the gay men said news; trial coversige; a three-way tie between General suggestions included stories, course must be balanced against che rights the Dec/pan. issue I'd like to thank them for Against Sexual Assault. Rochester ^Cbmen^s St. John. 32. said "I hope to represent for board election taking the trouble to fill out the form and that the EC is "feiriy informative" about gay columnists, radical activism and interviews; poems, debates, business, more poUtical in of patients. No one shouid be tested against The Gay AUiance of the Genesee Vdley male life. Of the four lesbians, three said that terviews, and (again) more focus on lesbian Network, Magdalene Projea. and the Gay change and empowerment and opportuni their wUl. mail it in. It was certainly a random sampl book irviews; electoral poUtics; arts talk, and AlUance of thc Genesee Valley. wiU hold eleaions for new board members the paper is "fairly informative" about les classified ads. The two features with a tie or life and issues. Many of these ideas wiU be ty for thc gay community especially of ing of the community; whether it is also African-American descent to place its fears "Now that we have ways of prolonging at thc annual meaing on April 28. Groups bian life, while one checked "not infor negative response werc the cartoon (10 forthcoming in the immediate foture. If The Ikke Back the Night march was in- the Uves of people with AIDS, the medical and individuals wishii^ to nominate people representative of the EC readership is hard spireti hy the recent serial killings of women behind it and speak out for what is just and to say. mative." Four out of six bisexuals also felt against, 10 in tavor) and record reviews (nine anyone would like to make post- community should work to educace people for election to thc board of directois should questionnaire suggestions about the content in this dty, the miudeis of women graduate right. Insidious discrimination wiU not be In any case, it was interesting to get even that the paper is fairly informative about bl against, five in fevor).! had forgotten to list about the importance of cariy testing." inform the nominating committee by Feb. of the EC, piease do so through the letters- students in Montreal iast December, aitd the tolerated any longer." an un-reprcscntative bunch of opinions- life, one said that the paper is somewhere editorii^s and letters-to-the-editor, and one 2L to-the-editor section. violence against women and hatred of St. John's district is a majority black Many reflect feelings and fects I've already between "fairly" and "not informative," and rcspon^nt reminded me of that and said The board of direaors is the governing It's important to note that without your women which permeate our society, in the distria and is not known as a gay or lesbian Int^l Women^s Day become aware of, while other responses one felt that it is not informative. that he or she enjoyed both (thank you). body of thc GAGV, and consists of 24 active involvement in writing and produc form of r^pe murder, banerlhg, sexual uronghold. Me had to overcome a negative, were surprising. I already felt that the paper docs not in 1 was surprised to leam that the most- members: 16 at-large representatives, one tion, the changes you want to see may not harassment and aU threats to women's Uves gay-bashing campaign waged by his op set for March 3 Thc respondants wcrc spread evenly bet clude enough about lesbian and bisexual requested new feature idea was coming-out representative from thc Lesbian Resource issues, and hopefuUy that will change in be possibic! If anyone has ideas for a colimin, and rights, according to Arma Freuiul, one ponents, who circulated flyers in his distria International Women's Day will be ween ages 24 and 55- They arc mostly of stories, although one person wrote that they celebrated in Rochester on March 3 this year, Center, one from thc Gay Men's Group, one coming months. One new project which is are "boring," and another preferred ac articles, interviews, reviews or other features, of the mareh organizers. the day before the eleaion, asking if voters from thc Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, European descent (including Greek, Irish please send me a sample to give me some The first Tike Back thc Night marehes in "really want a man who finds (sodomy) with a day of speakers and workshops at the and Italian-Americans). Two respondants being planned is a regular coltunn about les counts of mature, post-coming-out life. and five organizational representatives. bian life, which will be written by different idea of how you write and what you have Rochester were oiganized in 1979 and 1980 religiously rewarding to represent you." YWCA. 175 N. Climon St., and an evening identified themselves as Jewish and one as Photo essays, film reviews, more book entertainment, featuring Bonnie Abrams and All at-large representatives, and aU women each month. I also hope to have reviews, theater and art reviews were also in mind. Td especially like to hear from les by Rochester Women Against Violence "Luckily, voters were turned off by thc organizations with representatives on the Black. Most arc local residents; one person bians and bisexuals; from lesbians, gays and Against ^Kbmen (RWAVAW), a radical feminist negative campaigning." St. John said. "I was other local performers. lives in Ithaca, and one lesbian firom Amster coverage of the bisexual conference in San mucb-rcquested ideas. Respondants voted 14 board, excepc LRC, the Men's Group and thc ' Francisco in June. bisexuals of color, and from working-class- group which disbanded in 1984. Those pro able to make my being gay a non-issue, as The theme of this year's gathering is the dam sent in a form (and yes, thank you, 1 to 13 in favor of "bar life" coverage, one op- homeless in Rochester and thfou^iout thc Caucus, must be elected to the board by the Most respondants said that thc EC is "fair identified gays, lesbians and bisexuals. tests also focused on thc murder, torture. I believe it was." would be interested in sedng an article about f>osing person writing "what life?** country; the day's events wUl begin with a general membership. Thc baUots wiU be sent ly important" to them. More said that the To conclude, it seems to me that the tape and objectiflcation of women as shown -BLK, Los Angeles. yqur group). Thirteen people wanted nationally- panel discussion on * *The Roots of out to the membership by AprU 7, and must paper is "very important" to them than said responses do reflect some t>asic tendencies In pomc^raphy, art and advertising. Almost all of those who answered the syndicated comics, and eight werc against Homclessness: will you be homeless in the be returned to thc nominating commitlee by that it is "not important." TWenty-four out in the community, some positive and some The phrase **7Ute Back the Night" refeis "class" question at all said that they were thc idea. There werc three requests for Assembly considers lS>90s>" The discussion will focus on the April 25. of thc 27 stated that they regularly read other negative. They reflect the diversity which to the pagan era when the goddess of thc middle class. Only one claimed to be of "Dykes To Watch Out For," by Alison social, economic and legal implications of Individuals wishing to stand for eleaion lesbian^ay publicattons, and although most can make us a powerfol influence on socie moon, queen of the night, was thc central working class origin, and three respondants Bechdel. Unfortunately, syndicated cartoons '^domestic partnership" homclcrssness, and why it disproportionately to the board, who are not included on the sharc their copy of thc paper with only one ty, but which can also threaten our unity, diety in many cultures. The concept sym seemed very confused as to what "class" are expensive, so that idea may have to wait A bill which would grant gay and lesbian affcas women. slate presented by the nominating commit or two others, one person said that 10 to 40 especially when issues of race, sex and class bolizes women's desire to reclaim thc night means and why it should concem us. Clearly a while I would like to run both DTWOF couples many of the same rights enjoyed by Panelists are Sister Grace Miller, of the tee, must submit paitions to che committee others see his copy. and "Morgan Calabrese," which has both les arc not addressed. The Empty Closet will as a time of safety, freedom and power for married heterosexuals went before thc New by March 21. The paitions must bear a we need to devote an issue of thc paper to probably go on trying to please everyone a woinen. House of Mercy; SaUy McCoy, director of the class identities and why class matters, Nine people have become involved with bian and gay male characters. (And then York state Senate and Assembly on Jan. 19. New York State Tenants and Neighborhood minimum of 10 signatures of voting gay groups in the past year; 11 had been there arc my own two fevoritcs, "Sylvia" and little, and failing to please any one person Thc legislation would aUow couples to mcmt>ers of the corporation. sometime during the coming year completely. Topfree 9 guilty; Coalition, Rochester office; Nancy Most respondants said they arc not disabl longtime members of one or morc gay "Zippy the Pinhcad". . oh well). declare a "domestic partnership," enabling Kleniewski, associace professor of sociology Individual membership in the GAGV is ed; one is hearing-impaircd, and one is groups. Six had read the EC fot two years The ideas of a gossip column, drag show As for you splendid, public-minded folks given one-year them to receive hospital visitation rights, at SUNY Brockport, and Robin Lavergne city represented on the board by a minimum of disabled due to a back injury. The largest seg or less; seven for threc-to-five years; ftve for coverage and leather scene coverage were aU who offered to volunteer for the paper— personal leave and other beneflts granted to school guidance counselor, who will aa as two-thirds of the total board membership. ment make between 0 and $30,000 per year; fivc-to-10 years, and seven for over 10 years. voted down by thc respondants—which you know who you are. Unfortunately, I married haerosexual couples. The partners moderator Organizations which are members of thc don't. AU I can say is that copy for the March criminal discharges seven respondants make between $30,000 The majority had begun reading thc pai>er doesn't mean that we will never have any of of public employees would also be eligible Workshops wil follow the panel discus AlUance may have a rcpresentarive on thc issue is due on Feb. 15, and word process City Court Judge John Manning Regan rul and $50,000, and only one checked through a bar, friends or a gay group, and those things. In fact, this issue conuins fbr medical covera^. The btU would also ex sion. Topics WiU include "The Women's board, but at no time should organizational ing starts soon thereafter; that layout will ed on Dec. 13 that nine women anested last '$50,000 or over" The majority had "some most said they wcrc "fairly likely" to use coverage of the "Miss Empire State" tend rights to unmarried hetcrosexuai Movement in Third World Nations;" members on the board exceed one-third of products and services of EC advertisers. competition. probably be from noon to five p.m. on Feb. June for removing their shirts in Durand- couples. jhe board membership. college," while thc second-largest group had Eastman Park had violated a state law pro bachelor's degrees and the third-largest had Several people made clear their dislike of Respondams favored thc idea of sports 24 and 25, and that the maiUng party will The conversation flows so naturally off phone sex ads. probably take place at 7 p.m. on Fd>. 28. Thc hibiting breast exposure. Letters continued from page 2. whahcr it's permissible to talk about your attended graduate school. Most people said coverage by 12 to nine. I'd love to hear from their tongues. Today it hurt more than other significant ocher(s). The fevorite current features are definitely volunteers wiUing to alternate in doing a number to caU in Rochester is 244-9030. . . Most of thc women were sentenced to times. I am their sidjstitute teacher. They arc they arc "fairiy" poUticaUy active; more said one-year criminal discharges and a l$0 flne. straights pointing their fingers at us and say And we are satling for less when our ing, "\bu*re different! VCfc don't want you." my students. I have UteraUy been counting young people misunderstand us. Mary Lou Schloss. Kathleen Reilly and the number of lesbian and gay putdowns I Ramona Santorelli were given $100 fines That created the group of peof^e that came There has been a lot of talk about the Gay ro call themselves gay. And while afieaion hear ac various city and suburban schools. AUiance buUding fund lately. If, by any because they had been arrested on the same On the average, regardless of the school, charges in 1986 (those charges were in thc abstraa sense is affeaion anywhere, chance, you're thinking that this does not Letters not only is a man's afliection for a man dif there are approximately five putdowns daily. concern you. I ask you to think just a Uctle disndssed). IWo young men were walking down the A criminal discharge implies that another ferent from a woman's affeaion for a more. Since current sutistics show that two- is a vaccine and a cure for AIDS the gay jcom- Maybe what we're searching for is simp woman; within the sexes themselves there hall. . ."Hello. Ms. " They're nice ly to be accepted, but that's quite a different arrest by the defendant within a year could The GAGV is chere for aU of us. And if thirds of all individuals with HIV infection munity must not aUow itself to be forgotten. are plainly different sociological types. kids, I substitute for their class often. They you'rc thinking that the GAGV isn't perfea Lack of funding thing from being assimilated. (We accept, say, result in a re-opcning of the charges. The resumed their conversation openiy as we are gay or bisexual males, we do not want Respectfully submitted, woinen have all stated that they are unwili- These different types each have their own (you may be right) it's probably because to see these men Forgotten or left behind. James G. Black, Rochester plumbers; they could even, I suppose, be said charaaeriscic strengths, weaknesses, vision waUced. "They should aU be setu to their for gays with HIV? to be "assimilated," but they're still if^ to pay the fines. you're not involved; because you're not Organizations dealing with AIDS must seek Jeffirey A. Kost, Rochester and modes of behavior own continent," he said. there to help us with the necessary plumbers.) Regan admitted that the scate law against "Who?" I asked. To tbe Editor, out funding to provide services for thc gay Jason M. Pavone, Rochester exposure of person discriminates against Thus, to say "I'm gay" is to place one's improvements. When AIDS surfaced in the late '70s and community. What happened to such ideas Ibny Greene, Rochester Thoughts Hke these lead mc K> think that self in an unlikely coUcaion of groups, some "Gay men," he.said. "Wc dtm't want this assimilation business is fundamentaUy women, but stated that it does not violate them over here, they should send thc les yon should know that the GAGV is there eariy '80s, the gay community was the first as safe sex workshops? the idea of free con (This letter tvas also signed by over 140 thc Hth Amendment, guaranteeing equai of which, having Uttle in common, under for you. For 17 years it has been working to to feel its effects as gay men became iU and doms at bars? testing infortnation available others.) nonsense It likely stems from a desire to other circumstaiKcs would have Uttlc to do bians too." make gayness more "presentable" to convcn- protection under the law, and that it con buUd a stror^ nawork and foundation for died. Once the disease became better at gay businesses? forms to community standards. with each other. There are many varieties of comments. lesbians and gay men in thc Rochester area. tioiud gays and straif^ts, and thus more *'ac Many of you are able to repeat a gay |oke chac understood, thc gay community responded The gay community also must remain in Don't assimilate; Mary Lou Schloss said. "It was very disap Moreover, there seems to be an unwill Remember, if wc want the dream, it Is with hearts and waUets. Gays were in volved and alert to make sure that services ceptable" But to try to do that is madness. ingness to publicly acknowlec^c this fsict. you've heard. A student from another school Gays are and forever wiU be different from pointing to have his ruling against us. I see related this one. "Why was Ubcrace buried there for us. If we beUeve it, it can be ours. strumental in setting up community arc available for gays, and that there are no become ourselves it as a crushing blow against equal righu for My guc» is that people don't want to talk La me clearly state the fiia: we are going organizations locally and nationaUy. They differences in programs and services. The straights and any attempt to superin^x>se about it (outside of their own group) for fear upside down?" 1 wiU foigo the punchline as To the Editor: upon ourselves some sort of rnythical nor women." it isn't funny. "He was a fiiggot," the young to have our own building, where we can ha gave financial support, leadership, and time Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley must A salute to Jack Bradigan-Spula for his Ramona SantorelU told the judge, "I can't that it might be seen as divisive, if not ac ter outteach to thc community, and improve volunteering to aU who were infeaed. become vocal about services offiercd to gays, mality is to join, as Mr. Bradigan-Spula tuaUy so. But this head in Che sand approach male jokcster said. "He was gay and he had thinking ('Assimilation Equals Collabora promise TU never take off my shirt on a hot AIDS " the quatity of our tives. People have been AIDS has now been recognized as a threat and about the lack of funding specifically pointed out, the majoritarian ctdture in the noc only makes it harder for us to overcome tion." EC Nov. 89). I admit I haven't seen the act of opprcssion. day or in the water until the day I die So worldng hard. Vffc have raised over S35.000. in the heterosexual community. Major available for gays with HIV infection. It is Kirk-Madsen book After tbe Ball, but 1 have our differences, it makes it harder to take ad There are many more, and 1 hear them But there is stUI a long way to go. In £ut. we shotdd move In a direction op I may be back. Judge Regan." every day. It seems as though w^ are the one government and fbundatian funding sources our opinion that the AUiance could sponsor a very difflcult time trying to cotuxive of SafUoreUi told the Empty Closet, '*The vantage of them. Now is the time to donate your ideas, are specificaUy targetii^ IV drug users, their a conference for aU tocal AIDS organizations what assimilation might possibly mean. posite to assimilation. tK>t in the sense of de KenKUdore safe group to be openly iisrespcaful verdict is very disappointing, but we wUl towards. newspaper articles, time, creativity, skills and sexual partners, women and chUdren. Any to address these issues. Can it mean that gays woutd be in fying majoritarian ctdture, but rather in money. I am proposing that aU meinl>ers of becoming more ourselves. continue thc fight. Wic'Il have to carefully AIDS organization not applying for these Only if all of us, organizations and in distinguishable from straights? That would consider any action for next summer; since If not us, ^who? "They're oniy kids," my friend says to me the Rochescer community (gay or heterosex- ^ One of the more subtle fbrms of ma "Kidssay those kinds of things." \(UI, 1 say funds would be dereUct in its duties. Ufe dividuals, work together can we make a dif be beyond the wUl of God. thete is IKYW a possiMUty of jaU time if we ual). donate one day of pay to the buildii^ agree These people also have AIDS and are ference The gay community has woriced Can it mean that we would all act Uke joritarian oppression is rooted in the £act that violate probation." If not now; when? that the difference between kids and adults fiind, or the equivalent of one workday
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theiMer. widi "FG" and '^Jl*' ndngs. Pivc Cultural activists fight back: Boy with Arms Akimbo otiKT BtifiEdo artisu sakl tbey wwld reinovc Pyramicl foruin: artists dKte work fitom tbe ^how in solkburity widi defies censorship ^irith intellectual subTersion to freedom of Zanda * * I really had the sense ttut diey werc go A network of San Francisco-hosed cultural tratyiclcd to galleries around tbe country, and tn«ssing ophtioiift at an open mike. Artist JiU ing out of dicir way to picvunt people from By Susan Jocdam GuMOw updated the gathering about the activists founded an anonymous, col- On Jan. 7, Pynunid Art Center, 274 N. had not caused any procest. However, Mtir viewing fKiy work/' Zando said. **l find the labofative, collective group called ''Boy with ray said, a rightwing otgauiizadoii called petition protesting thc airport art competi coniexnialization of my work as being im- Goodman, hHd a fbnim entitled **Aftts» don decision, which excluded female and Arms Akimbo'* in July, as a response to Sen. Concerned About Freedom of Expression.'* "Americans for the Family V^^ heard about suitablc fbr chikken is reprehensible." She Jesse Helms* attacks on the National Etulow- this ''blasphemous*' and '*hoiiioefotic" art Black artists. Juditfa Kaplan, executive direc said ttutt much of her work deals with grow which was attended by about 200 artists and tor of Arts for Greater Rochester, read a state ment for the Arts and on freedom of expres arts supporters eager to discuss issues of cen (which they had not seen) and began a letter- ing up and the discovery of sexuality. sion, specifically sexual speech. writif^ campaign attacking the NEA for sup ment issued by the New Yoric State Arts and sorship, such as the the new legislation Zando and state officiais reached a com Boy with Arms Akimbo uses a broad porting institutions which gave funding to Cultural Coalition, calling for Congress to promise in which the parental discretion restricting government funding through the repeal the NEA legislation. range of non-violent uctics which involve National Endowment for the Arts, and to artists like Mapplethorpe and Serrano. warning was removed ftom the begitming of Pyramid Arts Center has offered its exhibi what the group calls "intellectual subver develop a plan of action to defend freedom Homophobic Congressmen Jesse Helms the videoupe, and the warning sign remain sion,'* seizir^ and manipulating thc process of expression. (R-NC). Alphonse DAmato (R-NY) and tion space l>etwcen Feb. 9 and 18 to be used ed posted outside the small theater wherc to cxiend discussion ofthe issues. Proposals of advertising and mass media to defy right Artist Nancy Chalker-l^nnant tnade an Robert Darmemeyer (RrCalif) initiated legisla the videoupes were shown. wing censorship and repression. tion which would have ended NEA funding should be sent to John Worden, director of "I was morc intetesrcd in letting the opening sutecoent. noting that '*tepression artistic affairs, or to Laurence Champoux. ex The actions have included gluir^ poster- starts with intellectuals and artists," and (hat for art deemed obfectionable by the right museum know that artists have rights and ecutive director. size enlargements of male nude photographs the arts community needs to become an wing, fundamentalist ser^ibiiity. "Artists arc they also have a ceruin amount of power," to columns at the entrance to the San Fran organized voice in response. She asked. "Is being depicted as people who arc deliberate Zando said. cisco Federal Building. The photographers it possible, if someone does not like a work ly trying to offend thc public," Murray said. Censorship update -Sebby Wilson Jacobson, Times-Union, represented included Robert Mapplethorpe, of art, to call the police?** Chalker-lbnnant "All artists arc now suspea.'* The August and October issues of the and David Bauder. Associated Press. Man Ray, Joel Peter Witkin, Hans von Man- introduced the three speakers. Thc initial Helms proposal would have Etnpty Closet contained information on the nen, and Wilhelm von Gloeden. The group dancer/choreographer/SUNY Brockpon pro prohibited govemment funding for art controversy created by the photography ex stated "Basically, we demonstrated that even fessor Clyde Morgan, writer Dale Davis and which is "obscene," which offends any hibition at the Corcoran Gallery in if NEA funding for things like male nudes is poet Joan Murray. rcligion or non-rcligion, or which denigrates Washington D.C, which included cut off. you can still sponsor your own Clyde Morgan spoke about his experience anyone on practically any basis (Ed. note: ex "homoerotic'* art by the late Robert Map federally supported art, merely by finding a as a teacher in Brazil during the time when cept sexual orientation). The proposal was plethorpe and a depiction of a crucifix in large federal support and pasting your art the country was a military dictatorship. Cen so broad that it could apply to almost any urine by Andrcs Serrano. Sen. Jesse Helms onto it.*' sorship was total, and any criticism of the art, Murray said, and was thercforc un (R-NC) and other right wing congressmen workable. The initial legislation was Boy with Arms Akimbo also distributed authorities, or mention of common owner rcacted by proposing wide-ranging restric iSaont 2000 posters with 30 different images, ship of land (most of Brazil is owned by a defeated, but Congress went on to adopt tions on artists and art Institutions which legislation banning govemment funding for each with the slogan "Just Sex," or "Sex Is,'* small minority of militaristic landholders) rcceive money from the National Endow AFrER HOURS in public locations throughout San Fran was forbidden. He said that as an African- "obscene" art which is found to be without ment for thc Arts (NEA). The Helms proposal rcdeeming artistic, literary or social value. TRAVEL cisco. The group made the posters available propriety of sexual discourse that frequent ment (Stonewall, the White Night riot in San munities under atuck" American he understood the Brazilian was defeated, but a watercd-down version to cultural activists in other cities, and ly motivate efforts at censorship and other Francisco in 1979 following the murder of Boy with Arms Akimbo also designed a cultural characteristics of elusiveness, The head of the NEA, Robert Frohnmc>'er, was added to the NEA*s appropriation bill. LOCKPORT, NY was given new powers to censor art by postering at Yale University in New Haven. more generalized restrictions on self- Harvey Milk, etc.) "Night of Resistance*' logo fbr use on several disguise, subtlety, and other ways of getting (Sec story on thc artists' forum at Pyramid CONVENIENT Conn, led to nine arrests for breach of peace determination and communal autonomy in The group conunented, "The events of T-shirt designs. The ftrst shirt is spattered around censorship, since African-American withdrawing funding, and a commission was Art Center). crcated to study the NEA and decide if ar on Oct. 27. American society.*' Oct. 6 represem the worst police atuck on with red spots overprinted In black with the people in North America have had an iden Thc first testing of the new rcstrictions EVENING HOURS The group suted. *"Just Sex/Sex Is uses In respotise to the Oct. 6 Night of the lesbian and gay community in san Fran words "My domestic partner went to the tical experience. tistic merit is a sufficient standard, or whether therc shouid be morc strings attach came in November, when a show about CALL NOWMie FOMO-TIUVB. C
Gays and lesbians should undetstand their rights. Through the Reagan years, artists, in- fole in thc struggle for civil rights. Thc telleauals, gays and lesbians, etc. were mechanics of ororession are similaf if vou'tv, characterized as ''outlandish^ and "the Freedom and creativity: a conyersatioii with Larry Champoux gay, Black; tetaaie, etc. Artists, especially le^- radical fringe,** Many of us are within the Funding in -supportof the arts and free bians atid gays, should be etilightetiing publk mainstream, we vote and work and con By Susan Jofdan opinion about the mechanics of opprcssion. tribute to our world, and arc concerned. Lattrettce Cbarr^oux, poet, directtjr of arts community into a comer. There's a EC: The right wing seems eager to cen EC: Should artists be dependent on This often Involves denial of culture, as in EC: Which do you think is a more suc expression is more than just funding art the Pyramid Arts Certter, artd one of tbe growing recognition that we're not only ar sor In two areas: sexuality, especially government funding? Clyde Morgan seem slavery with its destruaion of African cessful strategy for gay and IcsMan artists— organiaers r^ the Pyramid censorship tists but citizens, who value democratic and hotnosexuality, and political comment, ed to feel that therc are advantages to beina culture, and in the destruction of Native to defy the repression by producing images works. Ws allowing the national spirit forum, spoke with the Empty Closet about constitutiotially-protectcd rights of free especially by lesbians, gays, women, outside the mainstream system, and that Anierican traditions. It's blatantly evidenc as daring and shocking to the bouigeoisie as issues connected with censorship, ftxusing speech, and it's important to broaden the socialists and people of color. Do you see people of color have always had to maintain ed In the legislation recently enacted. There possibic like the San Francisco group **Boy to roam about and discover the future... on hotnophobic r^fression. issue so that Americans understand the this repression as an attempt to keep up their cultural traditions outside the white needs to be an understanding and an educa with Arms Akitnbo,** or to try to establish an EC: Do you see a systematic repression threat to their freedoms apparent through perclass, heterosexual white males—the con European tradition. tion of the public about how oppression image of gays and lesbians as non- hy the right wing going on now, and is there this kind of legislation. servative establishment—in control of LC: I don't think a person should be works. Artists can periiaps assist the nation threatening aild "{ust good wholesome It moves into the areas of the souls of a concerted national elfort by artists to EC: What is the atmosphere here in society? dependent on govemment fiindhig, but the in understanding the current situation for Americans like yourselves"? respond? Rochester among museum boards, the arts LC: I would say it's subtle—but it's hard reality of how our nation operates is that gays and lesbians. individuals and the soul of the nation, LC: The issue of censorship has many community and so on? The airport art con to say. Helms certainly isn't subtle at all. One money's allocated in different aieas, and a EC: Do you think we could be looking LC: There should be multiple af^>roaches. facets, and is alarming for every citizen, but trovetsy seems to indicate that sexist and of the things which emerges is if an artist small amount is allocated to the NEA to sup at the possibility of total repression, such as Part of freedom is allowing for assimihttion it falls particularly heavily on a variety of racist attitudes are so engrained as to be in is going to explore an area of our culture— port research and development of culture existed in Brazil during the military if that's desired and allowing for diversity to discover the potential of democracy. minority groups. There are two forms of visible even to many artists. something as significant as AIDS—how can that reach far into conununities. Would we dictatorship? if that's desired. I applaud both the political censorship: blatant legislative censorship LC: What's happening in Rochester with you separate sex and politics from the say that no grants should be made to science LC: Certainly repression is possible, theater of groups like ACT-UP as well as such as that of the NEA, and atmospheric anist-reiated issues of cultural diversity is discussion? or technological industries that rcceive because it has happened in so many coun others working within the political LC: The role of the individual artist has censorship which appears to come from tries around the world. Tm very encourag maifistream to raise awareness. U^ are all dif been demeaned in the community and na and inconsequential. Funding in support of nowhere; certainly the suppression of ideas ed by the role artists are playing as anten ferent human beings also—unique. Gays and tion. Ideally, I'd like to see a strengthening the arts and free expression is more than just is apparent in our culture. nae of society, in alerting the nation to cer lesbians are an intercultural group, and cross of the role of the individual artist, and funding art works. It's aUowing the national Gays and lesbians lead lives of censorship. tain diminishings of lireedom. In America it's racial, socio-economic, educational and recognition of the importance of artists in spirit to roam about and discover the future. Their very beings are censored and they Gays atid lesbians lead lives of censorship. easy to become complacent about freedom, other boundaries. As such we have great the community as neighbors and colleagues, So it's more than just a painting or a function in a continual mode of self- and not to notice how it's slowly being chip potential to bring about awareness of how because that creativity can provide potential sculpture. It moves into the areas of the souls censorship, to avoid ridicule, violence and Their very beings are censored and they function ped away. Artists at this time are reacting as racism and sexism operate. solutions, and we function in an era seek of individuals and the soul of the nation, to discrimination. A leamed censorship pattern responsible citizens protecting the bill of £'C:What kinds of actions do you hope ing to diminish creative thought. discover the potential of democracy. inhibits the free flow of ideas. Blatant will come out of the forum at the Pyramid? We have to leam to use language that's EC: Do you agree with Heinrich Boll's legislative censorship has heightened in a continual mode of self-censorship, to avoid been used against us, and turn it around. As statement that art is the sole freedom on awareness of censorship issues throughout a writer I'm interested in how we're affected earth? What makes that a true statement? the country. It took the legislative censor by language, and how it's used as a weapon. LC: I think art functions right now in a ship to bring forward the concept of sup ridicule, violence and discrimination, A learned Ikke back the language of patriotism. It's place outside politics, religion and other in pression of ideas. In particular this relates to becoming a game of steal'the-flag, rather stitutions, and as such can guide the rest of gays and lesbians, as the legislation grew out than bum-the-flag. Because it's a symbol that our culture. Ariists functioning with the of the strong homophobia of Helms and his censorship pattern inhibits the free flow of ideas. can be used in many ways, and can be filled fullest integrity owe allegiance to that inner followers. This is especially threatening THE BIRTHDAY REPORT details happenings with meaning depending on who's holding awareness that guides them to the truth— because art is one area where lesbians and < since your birthdate indtxling the symbol. however they sec it. There's a tendency to gays function freely, and have been able to happening across the country too. It's en Is any political content '*too'* political or much more monev than the arts? •r famous people who share your birMay EC: Our society does tend to ignore and want to keep culture the same, but it has progress. couraging that artists are included in the V your birthday's place in Nstory devalue its artists, except those who are very always changed, and consciousness has general population. For any minority in the is it negative criticism that's being defined EC\ How can artists combat society's Last fall 1 went to the National Associa as *'too" political? This is the thteat of deep racist, sexist and homophobic MT prices of common items way back when successful commercially. Can art ever be always changed. It's futile to try to keep tion of Artists conference in Minneapolis, ans it's not easy. Atmospheric censorship more than a commodity in a capitalist things as they are. Artists can take a look aliow^s for acceptance of some diversity— limiting free speech for all. U should be stereotypes, not to mention the prohibition «r milestone events through the years which is a national organization for artists' noted that exhibits or performances which that our culture puts on being sexual at all? ^ and more society? down thc road and function prophetically. spaces throughout the country, and issues of like the acceptance of the Rochester Gay Men's Chorus—but thc arts community acccept the status quo are equally political LC: What does **homoerotic" mean? Does ORDER THE BIRTHDAY REPORT for yourself or LC: The NEA as it originally was allowed EC: Is there anything else you'd like to censorship were predominant. One recogni as those that question it. Inhibiting anists* this mean two people of the same sex just a friend... at $3.00, ifs a great value! artists to function outside the capitalist talk about? tion that seems to be evolving is that par hasn't met with open arms its gay and les bian writers, visual anists, performers etc., free speech also undermines art's great looking at each other? What does it mean? >v Betterthan a binhday card, ifs a personalized economy. Grants to artists and foundations LC: 1 look at much political activity ticular legislation points out not only and hasn't nurtured these individual^ and capacity to understand culture. There's no legislation restricting keepsake. On parchment paper, ifs suitable were like research money—research into related to AIDS in reaction to restrictive homoerotic an but also sado-masochism, ex groups. There's something about depictions of "heteroerotic" art. If Helms and D'Amato arc for framing. culture—and have allowed artists to function legislation as very positive, and would like ploitation of children and so on; it backs the naked men that's unacceptable, while there's so straight, how can they tell what's M* We*! even mail it for you, enclosing a gift card hiirly independemly. The future of an NEA to point to the need for a sense of courage an acceptable voyeuristic tradition in pain- homoerotic? When the controversy broken run by Congress with final say lends itself in the face of these overwhelming cir imprinted with your name, to least-common-denominator art—that cumstances. I see a great deal of courage in ling that views thc female form; there's sort D'Amato was under fire for the HUD scan n- Simply send $3.00 (check OK) with person's ofa cultural jockstrap. It's important for all dal, so this served as a deflection for him; which is least offensive to the greatest activists w^hich is inspiring. Taxes Accountl'*g name, birthdate (include year) and maUng number of people. Art which is very diluted of us to ensure that ait is more than to point at sofnegroup'andir^rcuse them of iristrudkxttto: , decoration—a decoration for democracy, immorality, while he hims'' was being ac that becomes nationalistic. cused of misbehavior Words Unlimited 62 Lyndhurst Street. Rochester. NY I46(e ffediH' ^AiSodeoM or call 325-7385 for more infonnation 76 East Street Fairport. 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Hochester had gay bars like When Joe and I fitst knew each other Beneath a Mue nor Ibnderest shade of pink always be those who fight fot rights, and bian history of Rochester continues. In this Report was a small victory fbr homosexuals; Pusy*s, which may have beeo one of our diffeient ways of seeing things thern sky, and a choir Soft as a lover's kiss others who sit l>ack and applaud or say, *l issue wc will traviei to the pre-Stonewall era it gave them knowledge, but that was ail. Rochester's first gay bars; it closed aroimd produced a stuttered confusion along of yellowing aspen angels, he punctuates Upon your cheek can't do that, thank heaven they are.' And and up to pan of thc 1970s. During the McCarthy era which started 1959- The other early bars werc Dick's 43 with his smiling wich crunches of appled Yourig In 1948, '"TbeKir$sey Report ^ms publish in 1950. Senator Joseph McCarthy helped and thc Blue Chip. it is maybe even morc so for the gay com Your nipple munity than for the non-gay." the depth diat stereoscopy brings ruby-fire. ed. Sex researcher Alfred Kinsey fbund that usher in the House Un-American Activities There were a string of other bars in the As we deepened through the years Juice squirts Joe's fau:e, drips down his And thigh After the StonewaU riots, the Gay Libera four percent of the adult men he interview Committee. At this time '* homosexuals were city that opened and closed quite rapidly. there grew in us a symmetry: naked chest. A pink so sweet tion Front was formed in July 1969. In ed identified themselves as exclusively deemed to be a security risk and unstable The early gay bars did IKM seem to have stay the world, it seemed, was ail of mirrors Then almost ufgently, he hands mc the is what rcnuins Rochester, the Gay Liberation Front had homosexual, another 13 percent were more personalities, and were systematically in ing power until after the Stonewall riot in in which I saw Joe and be saw nte. rest. Of the Unicorn's shadow New York City on June 28, 1969. That day three area organizations in Geneseo (form than incidentially homosexual for at least vestigated and Hred from their jobs.*' (Before Nowadays wr seldom^ speak How do you negotiate this apple test? and marks you the police raided the Stonewall as they had ed sometime in I971)» in Brockport and at three years after thc age of 16, and 37 per Stonewall: Tbe Making ofa Gay and Les and should we, each might wonder If this be Eden's twice, pertiapft some As one of love's special creatures before, but in the early moming of June 28, thc University of Rochester; the latter cent had had a homosexual experience in hian Community, page 43.) whether higher the police met opposition from the bar's became the Gay Alliance of Genesee Valley their adult lives. Thc fact that gay people Those in the military who were found to it was he or I who spoke, power reconsiders sticky feocs were so numerous suprised nearly everyone be homosexuals, or even suspected to be patrons, who threw glasses, bottles, bricks, in 1973- then grin from wondering togetfaer and heaven too now wrings with wet Gentle touch of slender white Mary Katherine Keenehan and offered hope to millions of closeted homosexual, received an undesirable change from their pockets. Several of the The Stonewall riot did have some positive Ken KUdore desire. Ripples StiH water deep gays.*' (This quote is from The Alyson discharge from the Armed Forces. During patrons and a few employees were arrested. efliects on the gay community; it gave the gay within. . . Almanac, page 17.) this time, undesirable dischaige meant only Other riots took place for several days Ken Kildore community thc desire for the rights that wc What fire glides in one thing, that the person being discharged after the raid on the Stonewall. When asked Horace Lethbridge, Gay Aliiance secretary not only need but deserve. harmony was accused of being gay. One of the laws how he felt upon hearing about the and counselor at thc Wtllcsley Center, had In the next pan of this series we will con From center and of this time, which may or may not have Stonewall riots, Horace Lethbridge replied, this to say about the Kinsey Report: **In thc tinue to look at thc 1970s, and thc surge of down rocking hips. . . been taken off the books yet, is desci*ibed *'. . .excited, very excited and glowing with 40 years since then, we have a much more activity that has occurred over the past twen Once more and once again by Joan Giuffre: the recognition that at last we were standing accepting climate for gays, and now have ty years since the Gay Liberation Front was Wave rushing to your up, saying that you can't do that to us." more college kids who arc willing to iden "The laws were, three or more homosex formed here. insistent shore tify their leanings and come out of the uals in one place constituted an illegal When asked about the fight for rights, he Flowing over you closet." gathering. What they took as proof of a Amidst tears, sighs The Kinsey Report gave much hope to homosexual gathering then, was to catch and love's pink glow rural and small lown homosexuals, who, three people dancing illegally. . , Now it's unlike some of the teen-agers of today, felt legal to dance in a gay bar; it was not then." 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Bicxxfys & Screws ROCIKSTCM'S lAftqi^f ftc4tf y C»xpawy Beei; Wine^ Schnapps $150 m FEBRUARY 1990 THE EMPTY CUDSET |S 14 THE EMPTY CLOSET FEBRUARY 1990 ^sinat art: -where spirits d^vell *>•:•• i. -^^ iQ Mismoriam Arts Talk Wf Brtc BcllilMinn JFy^Kca kildore for A^foft C^«o Where the ipiHts LHvell; An Odyssey in aS^ftmiU of NetiJ Guinea, by Ibbfas If^yt>u''haip^n~on an afterlife, ' ' Scfancebaum, Evergreen Books, Grove Press, 1 hope you'll find there's scrabble play f9.W, paperback, 1969. ing there, *^AIt oCthc Astnat," Feb. 9 through March in luxuriant n^ alphabets that yield A couple of lesbians talking about Spaulding Gray 3 at Shoestring Gallery, 1855 Monroe words of subtle eloquence on boards Ai^enue. By Svsaa Carter where sound and meter figure in the but he*s not politically acid like Whoopi C: He suddenly switches from humor to clear to me. And I have real trouble with his Lecture: '*The Ans of New Guinea," score. As a sculptor and designer, I was asked Goldberg. He's not as funny either—more seriousness by telling that story about the attitude about the women in his lifie. When •Ibbias Schneebaum. Memorial Art Gallery, to review Spaulding Gfay's performance anecdotal. mochers of children who have been killed, Renee has fears of having contracted AIDS M>. 15, 7:15 p.nn. Free admission. piece '*Monster in a Box: Footnotes to Im- I hope that there'll be rageous vegatation F- He certainly engages his audience, and and beginning a litany of descriptions of from him, he freaks, but only about himself As an anxious gay adolescent I identified possihle Vacation*" a monologue which to be potted, to line vast windows that the cadence of his delivery is remarlcMe. A deadl that drops into the spaces between the and his potential death. He can't deal with with Jews. 1 knew none. Through literature pass took place at The Pyramid Arts Center on Renee's fear and pain, and pushes it away. sellout performance, and what a diverse au laughs. I leamed of persecution, suffering, hope and a comfortable sunlight on from fairer Jan. 12 and 13. He becomes very theatrical about his brush dience as far as age range—but not par ^ F: But he fell short, I feel, of political dcqxdr, culturc art, and faith, and from that prospects Beforr the performance I was talking ticularly muiti-cultural. awareness and tnie compassion. For in with AIDS, and says "If I had AIDS, I . expertence gained perspective and nourish about it with my friend Forest. wouldn't lecture on safe sex and condoms, with richer breezes, and low, romantic C: The ticket prices might exclude a large stance, when he's giving detailed descrip ment. In the recent past, as I have chronicl skies. Forest: So what is a "performance piece?*' number of people. If thc Pyramid is commit tions of thc CIA-trained contras' murders I'd rent a storefront and die in public." ed my early years, the standards for Carter: Performance art is a newly- ted to encouraging new art and artists, a with mutilated genitalia. But he remained F: Somewhat narcissistic. Renee is left to autoUography have included Maya Angelou, 1 hope for you saucier pastas and brilliant hybridized art form which might mix poetry, limited number of tickets on a sliding scale removed, a performer an actor playing to an provide her own support system on Mary McCarthy and Kate Simon, each of prose, dance, music, drama, sculpture, pain salads, might be made available for people of lower audience. He didn't evoke any feeltngs in me numerous occasions. After a flu episode in wiKHn survived a harsh early life and found, massive accommodations of colored ting and film in non-traditional combination, income. of empathy. No depth of horror and Helsinki, she pleads "Ifyou just pet me this in time, a craft or discipline which enabled in a performance which takes place in real woods F: It's pretty ironic to be trying to write devastation. moming, Spauld, you'll go to heaven." He creative achievement to provide framework and enticing textiles sumptuous to touch. time. objectively, what with my being a therapist, C: The situation in Nicaragua is too real quips "WcU, I went to hell that moming," fbr viewing the past. While I took en F. Oh. . . and given all his therapy quips, and his anx to laugh about. He lets us know this—even which smacks of egocentrism. couragement where I found it, their stories And most I hope that you'll be finding C: The Pyramid news release says that iety around being criticized bv thc Times and though he keeps most of his politics on the C: Well, the heck with Renee, and the were inconclusive and incomplete. I waited Gray has created a scries of 10 monologues there Newsweek. Funny, loo, him using a personal ievel. heck with his mother too. In his fantasy, the to hear more. waiting friends, eager to understand. which have been performed throughout the 1400-page manuscript about a "control What about his relationship with his AIDS virus appears to him as caused by the in Xflfere The Spirits Dwell, the fmal United States, Europe and Australia. His Obie freak" as an opening prop. It's clear he's girlfriend Renee? "sirens sent by the dark side of my mother" volume of a trilogy that includes Keep the Whether there is a furthering of you, award winning "Swimming to Cambodia" engaged in therapeutic process. He has much F: Spaulding alludes to homosexuality F: Neither of us liked his misogyny. River on Your Right (1969) and The Wild became a film by Jonathan Demme. He has have it be as though the perfect game in his psychic awarcness. Fbr instance, in the when he says, "And of course in Nicaragua However, his emotional openness at thc end Man (1979), cultural anthropologist Ibbias of scrabble had been played: Nothing to appeared in numerous films including "The line "Here I am, saved from the 'monster,' wc werc in this room where I slept on one lured me back again. Larry Champoux Schneebaum tells two stories. One is of the Killing Fields." His monologues deal with do a man who can't write a book about a man side with the men and Renee slept with the (director of Pyramid) told me that Spaulding son of Jewish Polish immigrant shopkeepers, but leave expended tiles wherc they lie. true stories about himself. He says he finds who can't take a vacation. , ." I got uneasy women, which is the way it should have is supportive and active in organizing AIDS a family in which generations fail to com it "therapeutic to share the bulk of my ex about that one, feeling the ''monster" may been ' benefits. municate; in which cancer rages, and in periences and emotions." He has tried more be his mother, who committed suicide, as C: His affectional orientation isn't that C: That's not egocentric! which he was sexually initiated and possibly conventional therapy but stopped after does the protagonist's mother in the novel. exploited. The ethnic insularity of this en In Passing realizing that his therapist was seeing the Still, I laughed a lot; he makes his dilemmas vironment is illustrated by a brief vignette (for Aaron Cohen) debut performances of his best stories, and very amusing. that foretelis a search for identity: his mother by Ken Kildore getting paid for it. IISIEN 10 HOT MESSAGES & swept daily by rising tides, and eating a diet bands, a colleage of Michael Rockefeller who C: I like that he doesn't get humor from informs school officials her child's name is of bland sago, will make you gasp slack- edited his journals and catalogued the ob You know. Forest, maybe you should trashing others—mostly the humor is Tbivelc, and the befuddled officials' reponse jawed at this story, the superb stretch of a come with me, since Tm a sculptor, not an lEAVE YOUR ANSWE1? IN jects in the Metropoliun's collection, While you directed at himself. But his bit about the is to write down Theodore. The boy comes man's search on an exotic mission in which describes the Asmat region as *'a vast ex actress, and 1 know you're more intense "Voices of the Mothers and Heroes of COMPLETE PRIVAa to regard himself as "Ved until, as an adult, he indeed finds the happiness we all seek. simply slipped into sleep about analyzing theater than 1 am. MECT OTHER MEN TNAT panse of mud, intersected by a network of unswirlingly, down Nicaragua" made me very nervous that he he secures a passport and discovers he is You will be charmed, bewitched, perhaps rivers covered by a tropical rain Fl Who, me? Tm a therapist! was straying onto thin ice. WMNT WHAT YOU WANT! ON OUR NEW IcgaHy Ibbias. empowered and you may raise the level of a motionless vortex to C: That's what I mean. forest. . . Head-hunters and caiuiibals before a place that isn*t there F'. I guess he felt sleazy about accepting The other story is of a man who studied your own dreams. The spread of Eurt^>ean influence, the Asmat After the performance the following the position of Columbia Pictures' 24 HOUR Wt Acnom ElKIRONiC MAIL BOX dialogue took place. pointing after being a soldier, and, as a result After Andrew Holleran read my firet Emp arc deeply concerned with the necessity of Nicaraguan Him researcher. I felt anxious too r^f working with the Mexican master Rufino ty Closet article he wrote: "You must con appeasit^ the spirits of the ancestors. Their I F: So what did you think? that his niaterial would attempt to joke about 'Cunayo, traveled to Mexico and later lived tinue to write, what else is there to do these ritual Hfe is devoted to this end. Its endur 1-900^34-2345 went out by the shimmering harbor C: I was entertained. He*s funny, he's a the Nicaraguan people's horrible and pain m fftstu on a FuS>rl9te: Scholarship, initiating days, anyway.>" and I sighed^ at tht ironic ing manifestation is embodied in a wealth l«900»999»«5MLl and wai;ched the ships on the water good actor. He had me enthralled for most ful situation ir^ a way that would be ^•i?HlNi#igirt»orjsiS^ common peference to our Age of the Plague, where of sculpture/ the major art of the Asmat." , put smoke in the air of the two hours. He had political coment. offensive. ly referred to as '^primitive." Ultimately he traditional avenues of gay male expression Tobias Schneebaum describes his feeling , tnnreled to New Guinea, 506-miles ftxwn -are -filled -with- barricades. Kve-looked oa^ficst seeing work by the Ascnat: "I was ^•t:^ -.,>.4.-* ' Australia, to a place now known as Vtian fajA^. bdiekwattds, »a^ laeemsTftye taken and struck by the presence of work that power ?>/. D I f * ' a province of Indonesia east of Borneo aitd' ghosts T*ve'buried ki «he menibirs have fully experienced their owners' feelings in Bali. The people there arc Asmat Papuans, clarified the present, and I thought that was wood, paint, fteathers and seeds, represented Blacks first seen by westerners in 1511. Here enough: that's ail there is to that. Tobias experiences in a wortd inhabited by Michael Rockefeller collected art for the Schneebaum, writing about an ancient un ancestral t^rits." Schneebaunt will lecture Metropolitan Museum and disappeared, documented culture and its vibrant people, Feb. 13 at 7:15 p.m. at the Memorial Art presumed murdered by the very people points a direction towards the future. There Gallery. It is a rare opportunity to listen to Ed. Note: AstroQ Cohen, who often Schneebaum lives among and comes to love, are dreams to be pursued. a man who would go anywhere and try mdcm^ed sut for this paper, wasin ihe hite stages of AMDS Mast suat- that allows you to stay on as long as you want HUN •^«5 it is here, too, that Schneebaum collected 'Art of thc Asmat" will be on exhibit at anything if that hardship would serve his tribal carvings and found the compelling ex Shoestring Gallery, 1855 Monroe Avenue, mission. tner when he conunitted suiiMie, The Lines Dedicated periences that illuminated his life. Each of and the reception on Feb. 9 is open to the iuKvisag htmiUstrixed ititnseif with Your choice to America's us seeks that which he lacks, and it is public. Exhibited artifacts include shields, the thinking of The Hetniocit Schneefoaum's great fortune to discover hap spears, ancestor figures, drums, paddles and Society. UVE ONE ON ONE REMATCH Hottest Men. piness in this unlikely locale. tools. The Asmat artist uses only three col This is a personal account of a search for ors: white, red and black; and carves each OR BULLETIN BOARD Listen and Leave terrible imagined beauty in a world object from a single piece of wood. War Messages With Othe: associated with cannibalism. It is a wonder shields six feet tall are covered with painted of documentation and journal keeping. If relief ornamentation that iiKorporatcs styliz Discreet Men. you regard risk-taking as moving to Califor ed ancestor and bird motifs. 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This was clearly put into longing for a relationship was begiiming to go for the shock effect wben encountering relationship, for goddess sake* Grow^ing up: w^eeping for Willow^ fbcus fbr me by an anicle in the curreitt issue focus on a particular segment ofthe htunan nam>w-tnittdedness on sexual or racial 1 wam to make peace with my poUtically- of OttHooIr, entided "My Interesting Condi community. issues. I can also wear a bisexual pride but utuadical desires of die picsent momem, and tion" by Jan Clausen. ton at all times. By Eric Bellmann So can I—do I want to—come to terms to let them he, without label. But even if by Leaving home this moming I saw Willow, liked to come inside. Once on a day when door. Jan talks about how she is resisting the with the implications of accepting a place But none of this really addresses the fact miracle the gay and straight worlds both way. A knock on thc front door is a Jehovah's label "bisexual" because, among other among the white, heterosexist, privileged that, as Jan so aptly puts it, "There's a much forgive my not-quite-radical, aot-quite- the nei^bor cat, tying motionless on her Witness or a campaigning politician or a she was being coy and I was cooing **Willow, Ibday I don't have any cats. I explain it's side by the side of the road in a pile of leaves. Willow" In a most absurd fashion, I looked because I'm never home, but really it's reasons, she does "not want to become an community? Can I just admit my spiritual deeper and more painful issue buried here, orthodox sexual stance, can I ever forgive child selling candy. But not at 10 p.m. Jim identity junkie, hooked on the msh that weakness and live in the guilt of that fact? that of the division between women who myself? I loolced for a moment: Willow fluffy and holds a flash light. He's been looking for up and was embanased to see Jim grirxung because I have too many precious things. I comes with pinning down the essential can 'pass' and those who can't, between Probably not. Probably not tmtil the white, a well-groomed cat, her eyes closed Willow. He is crying. He wants me to say I over the fieiMx. "Everyone ends up talking don't want to risk havitig something break Or do 1 want to acknowledge my con as if, but not in fact, asleep. Dead. I could like that to her." he sa|d. and I wouldn't like cat hair everywhere, on characteristic that, for the moment, seems tinued, though occasional, attractions to women who love women but appear less world accepts every conceivable lifestyle wasn't sure the cat was Willow. to offer the ultimate deflrihion of the self, see no wound. I walked around to the Now he stood in front of mc sobbing, good chairs or needlepoint pillows. My women and place myself at a 7 or 8 on the threatening to the straight world, and and variation of life form, human and not. In spring, when first the delicate cat came the quintessence of oppression, the locus of Kinsey scale of homo/hetero-sexuality?^ women who from an eariy age fit the will I feel truly comfortable accepting that neighbors' back door, knocked and peered into my yard, I just watched her from the and, not willing to ask him in (my house is home is my refuge, my castle. I've leamed personal value—only to be superseded by Something in me feels absolutely stereotype of the butch lesbian and are which is comfbnable, even if that acceptance inside. No answer. window. She would walk around the yard fussy—people will think I'm odd) we talk on to be alone. the next revelation." She reveals the confus claustrophobic at the thotight. This bmtally punished for it." As she goes on to is rooted in honesty rather than cowardice. Mid-aftemoon I st<^ped back home and as if on a tour, stopping only for a moment the steps in the warm night. I offer to hug This is thc house I polish and clean. This ing discovery that her needs and attractions categorizing would continue to place a static say, there is a corollary here with the "ten It boils down to the difficulty in accep the cat was gone. I returned home finally to sit the way cats do, tooking at nothing. him, hardly knowing where the words come is the house I drank in alone. This house is seem to have an ebb and flow that do not lal>el around feelings and preferences that are sions among people of cotor, imrolving skin ting myself as a pan of a race that has enslav after nine and my neighbor (his name is Jim) Once I decided to attempt friendship and from. I say it's about all I can do, and he lets my compensation for no lover. This is the always mesh with her own current political constantly changing, fluid, evolving. I want tone, class, and access to the dominant ed, pan of a species that has made others ex was raking leaves under a backyard spodight. knew her ritual, I'd open the door a bit and me, and I rub his back. too. Jim is a construc house I would bring tricks to when I was agenda. a definition for myself that invites a con culture." tinct, pan of a nation that—oh, forget it. It Stretching as tall as the six foot stockade call "kitty, kitty" and make little clicking tion worker and he has a great back. I am drunk or when I was sober, only allowing tinual exploration, an opening out to em makes me sick to think about it. It was much fence (erected a year earlier; 1 value my sounds with my tongue and she would stop very close to tears myself. I recall my them onto the back potch, assuring them nb Perhaps I have t>een an identity junkie I am a woman who has had a small brace more and more of thc world within. more comfortable drawing a neat line t>et- privacy) I said: 'Tm sorry I can*t remember at least and look at me. Jim said whenever childhood; cat after cat: Bippy and Fluffy one would see us from the street, or hear. Now that 1 And myself actively seeking a number of intimate relationships with men, Paradoxically, exploring my ability to focus ween oppressor and oppressed, and careful your name, but Tm sorry about your cat." Willow was let out she went directly for my and Kitty and Leon, named after the vet. The fence provided protection. When one relationship with a man, I feel somehow less and none with women. I have had crushes seems to be a pan of this expansion. ly placing myself on thc side of the In seconds I realized he didn't know what yard. They are at this moment live presences. I considers recovery and is asked to Ust goals, politically pure than when 1 was looking on women, but more of them on men. In thc I was talking about. He'd been looking for prefer to think of dead people as "just my flippant answer has been to own a cat! equally at men and women. It was a rather I do not want to confine my future ex past 1 eagerly anticipated my first lesbian en underdog. Jim bought the house last year and has painful experience to admit that the inten ploration into any panicular direction. But counter, but now I am aware that my desire When 1 let go the lines in my psyche, all his lost cat all day. My role was not to be been renovating; I can hear hammering often somewhere else." I'm that way about cats I cannot yet accept responsibility for a pet, polite neighbor; I was instead £he messenger too. 1 loved my cats even when I mauled or relinquish my need for this space with its sity of my longing had shifted, narrowed, my exploration of myself demands that I be for a long-term relationship with a man the lines get fuzzy, and I see myself in the and there are rolls of insulation or stacks of become more focused—and on the less honest with myself and others at>out the supersedes my desire for a relationship with roles of oppressor and oppressed both, un of death. I felt weary and so perhaps my plywood on his porch most of the time. them or held them too long watching their precious inventory of vases and rugs, com voice sounded calm, hopefully kind, as I ears flatten, tails thump. Once I threw a cat pensation for a cruel life. Willow was a half politically daring side! Now how could I avenues my emotions are exploring in the a woman. comfortably rolling around, not quite surc Perhaps Willow preferred the seclusion and claim solidarity with the oppressed of the present moment. Perhaps there is no room in these pages when I'm in which territory. And that is the recited the day's observations, I was reliev ordered calm of my yard. Certainly she took across the bedroom when I found its dark way marker on thc road to where I want to ed when I went indoors to unload groceries. paw prints on a yellow sweater left flat to be. world? So this opens up a new chaUenge. If I suc for my introspections. Perhaps this column most unsettling thing yet. it to be her domain and visited daily. I was ceed in entering into a long-term heterosex will—and should—be my last contribution But if an evolution of consciousness is Less than half an hour later I heard a dry on towels on my bed, her napping place. So Willow is dead and gone, but no car Like Jan, 1 have felt a lot of guilt about out to seduce her I adore other people's cats. my privileged, white middle class ual relationship, how do I maintain honesty to Bi-lines. calling many of us to let go of the old lines, knock at the front door Those knocks alarm Since I was always there, I think she conclud Seconds later I clutched that cat in remorse, cass for proof. Jim is crying and in my arms. no doubt terrifying it more. That same cat. I like my neighbor very much right now. So background, and a solid claim to bisexuali at>out the totality of myself? Do I tell peo But somehow, some way, I want to fight then this may be a necessary symptom, from mc. My door bell hasn't worked forever, and ed she would have to come to terms with ple who inadvencntty grant me mainstream for the right to change my mind, to public which a more rigorous, and ultimately a friends know I allow entry only through the Kilty (I was not a creative chitd with cats' much for fences. All the sailness for loving, ty was a ticket to a more comforuble posi me, and Hnally, with each of us exercising tion for me among the oppressed. privileges, "You should know that I get ly acknowledge my belief in the health of more compassionate honesty can emerge. kitchen where I can ask people to leave dir great caution, she allowed me to come near names) would follow me on my paper route or never loving enough, or wanting to love ty shoes on the enclosed porch. I never wear In time she would roll on her back (1 was and would wail for rescue when she lingered more, or mourning love gone, is right here shoes inside the house; it stays clean that told she liked men) and, 1 think, would have and found herself trapped behind a gate or in the dark on the steps. We say goodnight. Gay and lesbiaii travel corner By Howard Ford cocktail hour daily. Pat will also put the Key West, Nassau, and a day at a private Dave Miller at 716-434-0948 or Vancouver 1990 is coming. Wc arc now customizing touches to your vacation by set island. Blue Lagoon. Response was so rapid 1-800-869-1445. We also handle after hours taking reservations for those in the western ting up some of your favorite activities, or and heavy that a third cmisc atx>ard thc new emergency travel needs. Born in this month: Langston Hughes (1902-1967) New York community who would like to at maybe an activity you have always wanted ly refurbished S.S. SeaBrecze will sail Oct. Yours in Thivel. . . Howard, Dave & Linda tend the Gay Games 1990 and Cultural to try. On the water, there are snorkeling, 28-Nov. 4, 1990. This historic seven night York in 1925. Here, first prize went to saluted. Immensly popular, the character By Thomas Krolak train trip south, viewing the Mississippi, he Festival in Vancouver, British Columbia, diving, sailing, water skiing and fishing women's cruise will visit San Juan, St. John Hughes's "The Weary Blues." It was the first lasted for 23 years and was in five books. wrote "Thc Negro Speaks of Rivers," one of Canada. Those who would like to go can tours, or. if you are a land person, she can and Nassau/Blue Lagoon. poem to use the rhythms of blues music and Hughes also wrote plays, such as Mulat "There were onty two of us Negro kids his most often-anthologized poems. send for a contract describing terms and arrange tennis, golf or sightseeing. As her The first two cruises have been full for in thc whole class and our English teacher In 1921, it became the first of his poems jazz. That November in W^uhington, D.C, he to, a novel. Not WiOpout Laughter, shon return it with a check for S50, and we will brochure says, "Sweet Times -will never be was a busboy in a hotel restaurant when he stories, librettos, ^and autobiographies. several momhs, but they have been able to was aiways stressing the importance of to be published, the vehicle being Crisis, the hold a place for yOU: Air fare will be in the w> good." • * release a few cabins whicb are avaiiable on rhythm in poetry. Well, everybody knows journal of the NAACP. More of his work put his poems on a taMe occupied by the area of S500 out and back. As for housing, On the Pacific side of thc coumry, famous poet Vachel Lindsay. That night, at a-first-come basis. There is stlU a fair amount except us that all Negroes have rhythm, so would be printed by the magazine in the we need to get a committed number going Wildwoods, a 12-acre Hawaiian country of cabins available on theif seven night sail they elected me class poet. I felt I couldn't next months. He would leave Columbia after a reading. Lindsay announced that he had before we seek this information. The time retreat for women, offers year round health discovered Hughes. The resulting publicity From his poeihs: ing, but these arc also going fast. let my classmates down, and I've been a year, due to campus bigotry and dull Cafe: 3 A.M. is coming to make your commitment to join vacation packages and bed-and-breakfiust. Entertaiiunent on each cruise will be pro writing poetry ever since." courses. He moved to Harlem, where thc helped in the publication of Hughes's first us at "The Event' of 1990. Located on the Island of Maui, Beth and book of poems, The Wsary Blues (1926). Detectives from the vice squad vided by all of Olivia's recording anists, Cris This gentle ridiculing of white racism was literary and entertainment life fascinated with weary, sadistic eyes spotting As I had promised, this month we will Roz created Wildwoods with the vision of Williamson, Teresa THill, IVet Fure, Dianne him. There, in 1922, he met the gay Black With thc aid of white benefactors, he was how the Black bisexual poet, Langston fairies. look at women's travet. For those of you bring women from all over thc worid to their Davidson, Deidre McCalla and Lucie Blue poet, Countee Cullen. They would become able to see more of his work printed and to Hughes, recalled his entry into the world of Degenerates who have a desire for travel to sunny home, to explore an attemative vacation ex Tlremblay. writing. He would l>ecome one of the great major figures of the Harlem Renassance of attend Lincoln College, from which he climates in the winter, there is a woman- perience that focuses on health and welt- graduated at age 27. some folks say. Becky said it has been an enjoyable lear writers of this century. the 1920s and '30s, a burst of creativity. owned-and-operatcd guest house in the being, and to share the beauty and magic of ning experience, setting up thc cruises and Cullen, a year younger than Hughes, fell in Previously, in 1923, Hughes had worked Bom February I. 1902 in Joplin, Missouri, But God, Nature Dominican Republic that you may find fits their tropical paradise. finding women's groups or activities in each he was descended from ajewish slavetrader love with him, but his feelings were on a freighter that went to Africa. White col your exclusively female vacation. They offer a unique t>ed-and-breakfast in of the pons to highlight and enhance the unretumed. onial domination of Africans angered him. or somebody and African, Scottish and Cherokee made them that vray. In the spring of 1986, Barbara and their special home in thc up-country area of cruises. ancestors. His parents separated when he The reason for this unresponsiveness is This rage at injustice was deepened by his Stronach decided to leave thc winter winds Maui, on the slopes of Hateakala crater. Currently Becky and the staff at Olivia experiences in the U.S. In 1931-32, he toured was a boy and he lived for a time with his not clear Arnold Rampersand, Hughes's Policelady or lesbian of Toronto, Canada and look for work in the There are no neighlxirs and no highways, Records are looking into a west coast sail grandmother in Kansas. She instilled in him biographer, disagrees with the general the country giving poetry readings. One in Dominican Republic. Both were trained just rolling green pastures, eucalyptus forests ing in 1991, which promises to be another cident that then galvanized Hughes's Over there? a fierce pride in his race, refusing to allow assumption that Hughes was gay. If he was, Where? social workers and felt it was time to do and wonderful mountain and ocean vicw^s. exciting women's event. him to attend a segregated theater In Topeka Rampersand claims, he kept the secret political involvement was the Scottsboro something else with their lives, and that Each month Wildwoods also offers New It has uken time for women's travel to his mother had argued for his right to attend carefully guarded. Hughes was always good case, in which Black men were accused of came in thc form of a job with a hotel in the Moon Health Vacations. They welcome four come out of the closet and stan to t>ecome an all-white school. She also sparked in him at keeping his emotions under control. But raping a white woman. The Communist Par D.R., which lasted for a year. During this women into their spacious redwood and a mainstream business; however, from all ap a life-long interest in books, the theatre, and even Rampersand admits Hughes privately ty came to their defense, and Hughes head time they looked for a house they could use eucalyptus home for seven days. Their pearances women's travel is "out" to stay, travel. revealed an incident that occured when he ed its Negro Rights League. as their own guest house, and found what private and personalized vacations include and growing rapidly. We will keep you Her own travels took her to Cleveland was 21. Working aboard a freighter, Hughes Some of his poems were printed in New has become Villa De Hermanas. The villa is airfare from thc west coast, accommoda posted as new destinations come along. where Hughes attended high school. There, was the "male partner" while having sex Masses, a leftist periodical. In 1932-33 he Good Moming Revolution an airy Spanish style building, nestled bet tions, nutritious meals from their organic Good-moming, Revolution: For information on any ofthe above trips he became close to a group of Jewish with a crewmember. Hughes called this the was in the Soviet Union, where he and ween a small roadside garden and an ocean garden, plus pool and sauna. You can also ptease contact After Hours Ihivel on our new You're the very best friend I ever had. students who were less biased than most flrst gay experience of his life. others tried to make a film. He also toured side pool. It has spacious, comfortable com participate in daily l>each excursions, guid' 800 line at I-800-869-I445. outside Niagara whites. By introducing him to socialist jour Later, he would love three women, and much of thc U.S.S.R. and reponed for We gonna pal around together from now mon areas opening onto large balconies with ed tours, water spons and hiking. Yoga, on. County. Wc offer convenient evening hours, nals, they encouraged him to be a radical. consider marriage with one of them. But in Izvestia, a Soviet paper. Hughes felt the a magnificent ocean view. As they say, room massage, acupuncture and nutritional 5-11 p.m. Monday to Saturday, and in-office This view was reinforced by a job in a his 50s and 60s, he was often seen with dark- Soviet Union was free of racial Say. listen Revolution: to be with others; space to be alone. counseling are also available. travel consultations by appointment only to department store, where he could see the skinned young men. What part sex played discrimination. You know, the boss where I used to work. Meals are prepared at the guest house and Both Roz and Beth are licensed and better serve you. Contact Howard Fbrd or gap between his world of poverty and that in these relationships is unknown. The few In 1937 he went to Spain to report on its The guy that gimme the air to cut down along with drinks are reasonably priced. Bar dedicated health professionals with a love of rich whites. stories he wrote about sex seem to be civil war for a Black papcr. while supponing expenses. bara and Stronach believe ttiat your t>ody of nature and the beauty of their island. Another formative experience came at 17, voyeuristic or satirical. Many who icnew him the anti-Fascist side. Four years earlier, in He wrote a long letter to the paper about and spirit should t>e appeased as well as your For those women who love the out of when he spent a summer in Mexico living said he was hard to know well. His con Tokyo, he made a speech denouncing \},S. you: appetite, and have available full body doors and are into adventure travel. Pacific with his father after his parents had been geniality masked a fear of being hurt. Also, tace relations. A repon was made to the F.B.I, Said you was a trouble-maker, a alien mass^Ses, crystal healings and tarot readings. Harbor Thtvel hosts many adventure tours to divorced. He leamed to hate the domineer his secretiveness could be explained by his that claimed he wanted a race war. Japan enemy, They also have an assonment of colorful and distant and exotic world locations, from ing, impatient older Hughes, who disapprov not wanting to endanger his position as the then expelled him for being pro-Soviet. In other words a son-of-a-bitch. unique gifts for yourself and others. backpacking and wilderness hiking, to ed of his dreams to become an author. What poet laureate of Harlem. As a member of the John Reed Club in He called up the police As for their goals today, Barbara and bicycling tours, to rafting, to a Galapagos left a lasting imprint on Langston was his This feeling that he was a voice for Black California in 1934, Hughes was charged with and told *em to watch out for a guy Stronach want to continue to provide a Island cruise, to "design your own trip — father's contempt for poor Blacks. This America wasf an ingrained pan of his self- being a Communist after helping striJces. He Named Revolution .... quality service and vacation to women anywhere-anytime." Their listings are too hatred only caused the boy to have a perma image. It put him in sharp contrast to Cullen, would always deny being a Party member, traveling to the Dominican Republic. numerous to include here, but you can call nent sympathy for the downtrodden of his who saw himself as a poet who happened but the accusations continued, climaxing in In Key West, Florida, where the sun and us for information. race. to l>e Black. Their poetry differed too, his 1953 appearance beforc Senator Joseph sea merge in endless beauty, there is a well For those with the sea in mind, Olivia Back home his poetry was appearing in Hughes's being less formal. None of this McCarthy's committee. Responding to its kept secret called Sweet Caroline. Sweet Records, a newmember ofthe IGX\, has just the school paper. It was assuming its free would prevent a friendship. But sex would questions be again made a denial, and said Harlem Caroline is an woman-owned-and-operated annotmced to us they have three all women's verse fomi and reflecting, at times, his pride be divisive. Cullen told Alahi Locke, a Black that some of what he had written was What happens to a.dream deferred? guest house of casual dhance. It is a tropical cruises in 1990. in his colon Another influence that would gay professor, about Hughes. Locke liked to misundectteod. Does it dry up like a calsin in tbe sun? hideaway for the discerning woman, where How a record company gets into the find its way into his work would be the surround hiinself with sman, yotmg. Black One selection from bis work quoted dur- Or fescer tike a sofe— you can relax in the privacy of your room cruise business is a question 1 posed to Becky dramatic church services of tils childhood. men and wrote to Hughes, hoping to meet ing the hearing was Crom Stffiijple ijpMiAs #Hs and then nm? In this historical Victorian ^'Covieh^' Kent, who Is the director of cruise services But thc most inqx>rtant wfltins he dklln his him, but was refused. Tbey met later, and Mirui. "Simple**, or Jesse Seinpte, had been Does it stink like rtitten meat? mansion. fbr Olivia Records. According to Becky. It teens was inspired by a steiond trip to Mex Cullen pefbaps tbooght tbey had been ir^ imnemed by Hughes in 1943 for use In a Or crust and sugar over— I have had the pleasure of talldng with the was an ifi^>ifation tbat came as a way to ico, in 1920. timate, and became more aggressive with newspaper cohmm. He was die Black com* like a synipy sweet? owncf; Rat Ma|oi; about her property, and cdcbmc women's events. After a lot of plan* Hughes. This may have caused tbe break in That rear he gnduaicd from high school mon man witb a sense of humor Siflq>le tbe tlispleasure of her talking about how ning and networking, Olivia Records leased tbeir friendUi^ discussed many subjects Crom bis baiMool and deckled co go to Columbia Univefsity Maybe It jnst sags iflce a heavy load. warm atid balmy the tii|^ was when it was the S.S. Dolphin IV and released tbe wocd Tbey wiere co be rivaU at a milestone in with a nanam^Me-uaed tbe Black street Or does it oplode? about 10 degrees here in LoclqxMt. that their two fbuTHnlghr wcmieik's eniiscy, in New Utirk. But he needed his fittber't lingo and lolk kHoms tbat Hu^ics*s poetry money if be was m gf> Po college. On tbe fingbes's careei; a poetry contest in New Pat serves a con4>Umentary bteakfast to sailif^Peb 12-16 and Fcfai 19^25 Ikom itaittili, ber guesu and also holds a conqilimentary wete a go! Tbe cruiae will feature stops in V'? • '•':mi^mtmmfitmmmv.:. -wiwmCTKw^-p' 18 THE EMPTY CUOSET FEBRUARY 1990 FEBRUARri9eO THE EMPTY CLOSET 19 tcffibdi Network (GEAIN). Other boaid iwiMhcia piucfaa»ed acryic for gay men and tesbians in tfae nnger Lakes call Open Arms Metropolitan Conummity Party will be held on Febi 18 at Tbe Con- prepare fbr the second meeting with Proud. 442-5117 for Infbrmation. **H wiU be a real event," remarked Barb area» iodndlng Monroe, WxytkCy Ontario, Church at 271-8478. fefcfice Center Cabin in Caiiq> Eastman, fiom Jamie Blue mrins lb help raise funds for tbe Gay Alliance Fish, hostess of thc mid-winter poduck. Building Fund, the Rochester Lesbian and Please address correspondence to: Lesbian Seneca and "tttcs Connties. 2 p.m. to 7 p.m. The cost of the tickets is and Gay Political Caucus, 713C Monroe Ave, Lesbian Action •Wfe'ie hof^ng tbat. Uke the many non- Our goal is to provide an aiientftive social Lesbian $ 15 and they must be purchased in advance. Miss Empire State Gay Political Caucus will host a festival of writers who have joined us in the past, bur Rochester. NY 14607. setting to meet firiends and oeig}ibors. Vl^ The deadline for purchasing tickets is Feb. Jamie Blue, crowtied Miss Empire State films. Movies to be shown staning at 8 p.m. annual mid-winter gathering works to in Caucus meinbers voted last month to Coalition wiU be having birthday atKl holiday celei>ra- Resource Center 14. The tickets will cover admission, a buf 1990 at Liberty, scored well in all categories at the Alliance's offices at 713 Monroe Ave. troduce new writers to the ccmmunity. as commit the group to securing a Monroe Rochester Lesbian Acdon Coalidon wiU tions, parties, dinners and picnics fet, and open bar. There will be games, prizes of the competition, including co-winner of arc: weU as introducing non-writers to she The Lesbian Resource Center will meet County civil rights ordinance this year. It is march as a contingent in the Tike Back the throughout thc year Otu: fitst event will be and fun for all! **Best Gown* with Aja Duvall in dazzling F^b. 3: Maurice, a sensitive look at the writing community. ^9^se encours^ing aU on Feb. 7 at 7 p.m, at the Gay Alliance, 713 the Caucus' intendon to draft an ordinance Night March on Feb. 4, to show solidarity in eariy March. Everyone is. welcome, and black sequins. Aggie Dutie gave up her tide relationship between a man and his hand lesbians—especially those new to Monroe Ave. The meeting will feature The Rochester Rangets' atmual Christmas that would protect the rights of lesbians and with the Rochester community as it calls for your input and stiggestions arc needed and as the reigning Miss Empire State 1989 to some schoolmate, who decides to stay in die Rochester—-to ccttne afikl panicipate in the representatives from various lesbian- Party, held on Dec. 17 at Arenas Ban€]uet closet, in a story written by E.M. Forster; gay men in all areas of lifie, including hous an et^d to male vitilcnce against womeii. encouraged. For move infbrmation about inclusive organizations. Find out what thc Center on Holt Rd In VKebster, was a tremen Miss Blue. Miss Blue wore brown velvet ac and Titfo into Tit^enty, a lesbian soap opera ing and employment. The need fbr an or Members and friends of RLAC had a holi ftm ' Finger Lakes Outreach Socials, contaa Kyle, Rochester lesbian community has to offer dous success. The food, fiin, and holiday cented with amber stones and **faux" fur, that is lx)th hysterically fiinny and profbund dinance will be discussed at the Caucus day potluck ditmer in Decetnber, attended The aftemocMi will feature an *'ethnic" P.O. Box 578, Newark NY. 14513.. Leam more about the Lesbian Parenting spirit present was enjoyed by all. Much proclaiming "You don't have to be a killer ly illuminating. meeting on Feb. 13 at 7 p.m. in the Alliance by well over 30 woinen. Great fiin was had potluck and of>en reading. "Last year a tocal Group, the newly formed Bikers Group, thc thanks to the staff of Arenas for their to look like one." offices; all interested persons are urged to by all. tfot^>e surprised us with a lesbian playlet," Women*s Chorus, various religious groups. hospitality. All six contestants were judged in three FH>. 10: Entre Nous, the story of two said Aime Scale a playwr^t and orgsmizcr Open Arms MCC women who mn off together to Paris after attend. RLAC welcomed in die New Tfear by kick Gay Alcoholic Anonymous, Breaking thc Ice Look for our ad in the March issue of the categories: interview (which took place prior ing off its January meeting with the creation of the group. "There's an incredible wealth The Tiiird Annual AIDS Interfaith Vigil of (a lesbian support group), thc Lesbian Empty Closet for details on our upcoming to thc pageant and was not shown to the au ending up in stifling marriages after WW II; of talent in Rochester. It*s very gratifying to Prayer Service will be held at Genesee Bap and Victt>r/yictoria, the Julie Andrews/Fames of an RLAC workshop. This workshop, Writers' Group, and various politicalAtction- benefit for the Gay Alliance building fimd. dience), evening gown and talent. Miss Blue's Men's Chorus focusing on Coming Out atui Finding a see new writers willing to take their chances tist Church, 149 Brooks A\'enue, on Feb. 17 orientcd groups. Vte will also discuss how this benefit will be held on March 24 at An competition included Severa Screams, Gamer farce about a destitute singer who with the local audience." at 7:30 p.m. finds success pretending to be a man preten The Rochester Gay Men's Choras has Home in the Community, will be presented to go about forming a group or organization. thony's 522. Chanel Wellington. Ashley Nicole, Aja Du\'all ding to be a female impersonator, with received a S2000 decentralization grant from at Intemationai Vfbmen's Ehiy on March 3. Members of the Wri^rs Group wUl also This year's theme is "Spiritual Strength The LRC meeting on Feb. 21 will address For information on tickets or member and Sybil. Oscar-nominated performances by Lesley Ans for Greater Rochester. The money will RLAC focused on this topic; however; many be performing at the upcoming "Cof for Survival" and will feature the Rev. Steve thc string of serial killings of Lyell Avenue ship, call the Ranger Phone Line at 647-9613. Guest performances by emcee Aggie Ann Warren and Itobert Preston. t>e used to fund five concerts in 1990, in other topics came up, and it was decided that feehouse in the Woods," and at the Lesbian Pieters, field director of the AIDS ministry prostitutes and other women, and what they Dune and Morgan (Miss USA New York Stare) Faire at Nazareth CoUege in May. in the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Feb. 17: Waiting for the Moon, a re cluding appearances at the Gay Alliance pic these issues can be dealt with in future have to do with the lesbian community. We highlighted the evening, as well as giving the For more information about the Writers Conununity Churches, as guest speaker. Rev. creation of the lives of Alice B. Toklas and nic and the Lilac Festival. workshops. will also discuss attacks on members of other Rochester Rams contesunts time for outfit changes. The six Group, contacr Barb at 586-5720 or Anne at Pieters was diagnosed with AIDS in April, Genmde Stein, starring Oscar winner Lin Ikd Lyon. RGMC board chairman, said RLAC is continuing to prepare for the Les groups outside the accepted mainstream, On Jan. 13 thc Rochester Rams and judges included Morgan, Yvonne (Miss Buf 671-3294. 1984 afier a series of illnesses. Diagnosed da Hunt; and La Cage Aux Folles, the "We're very happy and excited. It's in bian Faire on May 19/W: arc looking for any and our relationship to these people and Bachelor Forum co-sponsored a service auc falo 1990). and Sam (Liberty s Wednesday teresting to note that this is the fourth grant artisans, craftswomen. musicians, with Karposi's sarcoma as well as lym their experiences. tion, to beneHt the Gay Alliance building night D.J). phenomenally successful comedy about a phoma, he was told by one health profes happily settled gay couple that is forced to we have received from the decentralization photographers, writers, performers, etc who Thc LRC is planning a coffeehouse per fimd. It was a huge success, thanks to the Receiving a silver platter as a second program; we've applied for and gotten grants want to "show their stuff* at thc Faire, to sional that he would not live to see 1985. formance to be held in early April. All pro hard work of the Rams, and the courage of runner-up was Sybil. First ruruier-up was try to act straight when their son brings He participated in one of thc early ex home his prospective in-laws. every one of the four years the program has be held at the Nazareth CoUege Communi GRAIN ceeds will benefit the Gay Alliance Building those who put themselves on the auction Ashley Nicole. been available This indicates suppon fbr our ty Center. If you would Uke to panicipate in perimental anti-viral drug trials, and con Fund. LRC needs gay/lesbian musicians, ac block for our new community center. Miss Dune's farewell performance was a Tickets are $5 per night and may be pur tinues to enjoy complete remission of his chased at the door. Complimentary pop community. any way, your energies are needed. Please GRAIN (Greater Rochester AIDS Intcr^tith tors, dancers, poets, comedians, etc. to Some brave board members and GAGV medley of 'The Best Thing That Ever Hap "The five concerts will all be free. Our call Ann or Colleen at 271-6304 or Beth at Network) is sponsoring a social gathering, cancers. According to his physicians at the donate time and talent for an evening of ftjn. members (Claire. Arnie, Lee, Nelson, pened to Mc • and Neither One of Us Wants corn, soft drinks and fruit juices will be serv University of Southern California Com ed; and opponunities for discussion wilt be hope is to get the choms out into the com 482-5694 for more information. Please join "An Evening Out with Friends," for people Call Sue at 271-4896. Marianne and Mark) brought some big bucks. to t>e thc First to Say Good-Bye." munity and expose the larger population to us to make this the biggest thii^ to hit aflected by HIV disease, their famiUes, prehensive Cancer Center, he is ' 'clinically provided. well in all respects." Fears that the state govenunent might start music offered by gay men." Rochester since sliced bread! friends and supporters. It wUl take place on Omega recording the names of people who are HIV- RLAC meets the third Monday of every Ffeb. 15 at Christ Church (Broadway and East Rev. Pieters will speak of his experience Ave., across from Channel 10) at 7 p.m. as a long-term survivor of AIDS at the ser Omega highlighted their year-end positive led four members of the Caucus and month in the GAGV loimge. For more infor festivities with a holiday party on Dec. 17 ^nnJ^sTZ—7 TIMOTHY SCHAPP, M.S. ED., NCC Alliance President Claire "Chic" Paricer to Men's Group mation about the group. caU Marty at The potiuck ditmer wiU also be a theme vice as well as conducting two seminars the same weekend. The seminars are as follows: for about 55 membeis and guests. It was a >j I \K\JH y^ Medicai Arts Psychotherapy Associates meet with State Assemblyman Gary Proud 461-0898. pany. It wiU honor the 50th armiversary of good time for everyone to take a break in the On Feb. 4 the Men's Group will show a The Wizard ofOz. A video of the film wiU Feb. 17, "Long-term Survival", 2:00 p.m. at last month. Proud is trying to secure passage video featuring Charles Pierce, popular hectic season to enjoy good food, presents, >. I ^ Nationally Certified Counselor offers of a law he has proposed that woidd require be featured. This wiU be an evening of fun Genesee Baptist Church, 149 Bttx>ks Avenue, female impersonator. Local anists will be and Feb. 18, **Good Grief*. 2:00 p.m. at and friendship. >^| y^ individual, coupies health officials to trace the sexual contacts Writer's Group and prizes fbr everyone, so try to wear a Omega is dedicated to bringing together present for discussion following the video. costume; however, come with or withtMit Open Arms Metropolitan Community ^^ and group counseling and support. of people who test positive for HIV By Shelly Kafferty gays and lesbians over 35 to meet, share, Why do men want to dress as women? one. and bring a friend. IVansportation can' Church, 243 Rosedale St. The Vigil of Prayer exposure. The popular Lesbian Writers Group takes socialize and network. Individuals interested 325-4090 Medical Arts Building • 277 Alexander St. On Feb. 11 the Men's Group steering com be provided; caSk Rev. Paul W^Oker, 889-3369. service is sponsored by Open Arms The Caucus and the Alliance believe that mittee meets at 7:30 p.m. at the Gay Alliance, to the stage in F^b^^uary, jjoitiing iti local fun Metropolitan Community Church In in more information my write: Membership protecting the confidentiality of anyone Chair. Omega/ Inc., T.O: BoX 23042,' 713 Moiiroc Ave. >t:v :i-! «flf :fl»^ cooperation with Greater Rexrhester AIDS In- tested is vital, but that such protection would Rechester, NY 14692 A discussion of relationships will take .«; r -j--.^ _ --:,. • »^ Hfc.: -J- be impossible if contact tracing is mandated. place on Feb. 18. There are many difi"ci3ent Proud said he believes this is simply a types of relationships; what works for one medical issue and that he does nf>t think it couple might not work for another. has any significant civil rights elements. Is drinkbig The Cooking Group meets on Veb. 25. For Subscribe to Effons to resolve this impasse were un reservations, call 654-6461. Leam more Lesbian successful at the initial meeting so Caucus about the culinary arts with other gay men. a problem MEN and Alliance members will meet again with Our meetings are held the first and third Resource Proud in March. People are urged to write Sunday evenings of the month at 8, and of In your life? CO the Caucus (anonymously, if they wish) fer a variety of topics for discussion. A social The EMPTY CLOSET Center ^tcnot to register their opinions about contact trac hour follows each meeting for time to con AA can help. Call 244-9030 for Call 232-6720,24 hours a day. Or come to Gay AA ^#> <^^ at St. Luke's Church MARCH MADNESS r on Thursdays at 8:30 pm. Meets the first and WELLESLEY Sign language interpreted, Michele lb£any last meeting of the month. third Wednesday each A MALE REVIEW CENTER Roman Catholics - Episcopalians month 7:30-9:30 442-2986 Ed.D. N.C.C. For gay women only: Other Gay Christians Mondays at 8:30 pm. MARCH 4 Join Us! Lesbiaii & Gay For gay men only: The Men's Group, in cooperation Therapists offer Dignity-Intcgrity/Rochcster is an ecumenical organization open to Sundays at 8:30 pm A social and informatiorKJl Offers: Individual • Couple individual, couple & everyone who wishes to worship in a pleasant, non-threatening Gay Al-Anon exchange for lesbian and with the new Bachelor Fbrum, Family • Group CounseUng atmosphere. Wc invite you to join us for our weekly celebration of group counseling in a Saturdays at 7 pm bisexual women to persons living a gay, the Eucharist, foUowed by a social hour, or one of our many special Unitarian Church presents discreet setting. events such as a pot luck supper, picnic, retreat, etc. A Roman lesbian 6T bisexual life^le Catholic mass is celebrated each Sunday of the month, except for the fourth Sunday when mass is celebrated in the Episcopal tradition. An evening of music, men & more Barbara Debes. M.S.. C.A.S.1 as a fundraiser for the GAGV Horace Lethbridge. M.A. ADJUSIABLE FEES PamtomI and Paer Counaaling la alao ayalkMa NAYIM 458-0533 Suwliy Schedule building fund. Enjoy live music, Ltturgy-&:00 p.m. bid on special items, and vote for Social Hour-6:00 p.m. St. Luke's Episcopal Chutch • T your fevorite performer. 17 S. Fitzhugh St. (between Main St. & Broad St.) Phona 328-9758 Downtownv A Group for Jewish Gays 9 p.m. Httppy to annaunce opening ofne^ office loctdion We art a Lesbitm support group fonrdng, pleaae txtU if interested United and Lesbians Moir Light Pleabyteriaik RUTHM. WILLIAMS, M^ Ed. Clitticli $5 at the door (tax deductable) Psychothefapist % Ham Sunday Offering Therapy for Individuals, ALL 121N , ri«»y^. -*•* •m^i^i\ »i .(•Kfili^JV'.?'-:; 20 THE EMPTY CLX>SET FEBRUARY 1990 FEBRUARY 1990 THE EMPTY CLOSET 21 Bookbriefs: lesbian love, IGEE,TIMMY. THE LIMO.'BIO FT^OM More scenes from THE HEART \ OINJNER, W.3W dOREg?f erotica and mystery thrillers the Community Gentlemen ARE YOU SURE ,j^\X;^/ ...CVER By ShcUy Kafferty Health Network Pleastires by Robbi Sotmncrs. P.O. Box Katherine Fbrrest produces the nnost consis rfftRiJA^V J'^^o RAAA ^^ D(TENDri 10543, IMlahasse, FL 32302. $899. paper. tent, positive, groundbreaking fiction in the reception on MYSELF? 182 pp; 1989. country, and should be read for that reason WHAT AM I Good sex alone does not great literature alotte. Along with her many earlier works, December 14. TO 00. AUNTIE make. These erode vignettes— each named Forrest's new mystery helps to build the KELLY ? after stich unlikely yet lascivious ladies as widening acceptance of lesbian lifestyles I WANT TO SHOW Morr^;an, Lilith, Ginger, ett;.—run the gamut everywhere, and as a whole, her work is a V\S A CPA, I W(3ULL significant contribution to the lesbian **pop'* MARK MOW t^UCh of possible sexual encounters from S and M I CARE BUT OKI / / , HAvc TROUBLE: to masturbation, from threesomes to culture of this century. {' bwiNGLNG TKB NI6HT. • voyeiuism. Each episode is unrelated to the A MACARONI^ next. The clear intent of these stories is CMEfSE 6U0e,fT merely to titillate; if reading them does not WHAT CAN r ToNtaHT rrs us,THE strike at least one of your foncies, you *re pro PPlf ... PT REPLACE ^ THE bably in deep need of thetapy. Don't bring any expectations to this AOclc McCtrtby and Dr. BUI ViUeati 'MON^yOU KNOW I Gm CHAMPA<^NE. reading; thene^s nothing literary or artistical (Photo hy T.L. Cvctsui> ALL THIS FROM TH I. J ly redeeming in the text. It's a dirty job, but 'aoURnEF BASKET'WOnAN hey, someone's got to do it. En|oy. .FOR HELPING HER OUT. S.P. Lilies A.D. by Catherine Brett. Thc VOU COULDN 'T\3^^ Womens Press, S5.95. FINABLE A hf^MM There's hardly a more difficult challenge ROMANTIC NIGHT than constructing the sensitive Young AduU .TOR YOU TWO i novel; Catherine Brett has done a fair job. Stephanie is infatuated with classmate Aone Delaney, and against the backdrop of creating a sculpture project in her high BLESS THE BARTER school, Steph struggles with the questions of lesbianism, family separation (her suppor tive brother is off to university), dating, task o accomplishment and other Great Mysteries o of Life. Brett provides Steph with a mentor THANKS, WCHAI^D. I couple in lesbians Mary and Kate, a retired hmm^ AI'PRlClATE THAT. BVE, profes.sor and her mate recruited to help Steph with her art pro/ect. While not par irs^SETgA RJMANTIC DAY AND ticularly literary, Brett brings her story along NIGHT FOR TWog ^,g:x: with the hand of a skilled practitioner The somewhat jjcdantic tone is instructional but not heavy-handed; a good read for young teens in particular; quality prcsswork from Toronto; a must for collectors. (No explicit sex.) The crowd at the ribbon-cutting ceremony. Photo hy Dawn Slanec. The Beverly Malibu by Katherine Forrest, Abbe Wilson of CHN gives a guided $16.95. tour to visitors Stephanie Fitzgerald Thc science of book-reviewing should aid i^therinc Denison. have some prescrit>ed aspects, and indeed it, Photo hy T.L Cvetan. does: the brief synopsis, thc comparative ^ '^3nty\^Key-e^Uixoi^^ analysis, and the literary assessment are all pertinent elements of the task. Unfortunate ly, most lesbian popular fiction is far too shallow and one-dimensional to warrant this much attention. Find Fortunatciy. thc work of Katherine For a roommate rest at least aspires to an appraisal of this eoL M nature. Forrest's third Kate Delafield mystery, Tbe Beverly Malibu, is mildly engaging, but or sell IT'S HOT! falls short in comparison to other works in thc genre. some bunnies IT'S SEXY! Thc story places Kate and her LA Police Department cop partner Tiylor in the mid with an IT'S WAITING FOR YOU! dle of a homicide investigation in a small Cocktail Lounse apartment building. The ensemble of Empty Closet suspects—the majority with more or less classified ad! • Steamy Back bonafide motives— ranges from film editors Room Action to swishing actors, all facing up against the Frankly, my, dear, scrim of McCarthyism and the Hotise Un- CaU • One-On-One American Activities Committee hearing that we DO give a damn! focused on Hollywood. 244-9030 Conference Forrest dtiesn't fail on thc '*pol'tical cor • Man-Scan rectness" meter: her story includes a young for details, but inconsequential Black man; a new tover mmmmmmmmmmMmmm • National who's had her HlV-tesi (and strangely, is Bulletin never subjected to the rigorous scrutiny that befalls other apartment house dwellers once Boards she becomes Kate's lover); Kate's brief strug gle with thc butch-femme question; and the resident manager's unfailingly sympathetic MAKE OUR BAR eye towards people with AIDS, in turning over some previously-occupied apanments for an AIDS hospice. None of these par YOUR BAR... ticular incidents have even the remotest con nection to the mystery at hand however And that "mystery" is not quite satisfy ing. The protracted interviews with poten tial suspects to determine "who killed Owen ANTHONY'S Sinclair?" leave one with the only logical response—'*who cares?" To her credit. Forrest does continue to Rochester's Only Piano Bar with Patio bring strong lesbian images to the forefront of her Hction. Her popularity is unequalled • HAPPY HOUR — Monday to Saturday, Noon-7 pm by any other mystery writer working in the • TARA I^Shift Day -^ Rrst Monday of Each Month "small" ptess publishing field. She writes • PRI & SKS Nights — Live Entertainment 10pm-2am steamy sex better than most, but occasioital- ly falls into cloying cliches and repetitions • SUNDAYS 1-8pm — "Beulah" Specials, Hot Buttered Rum, which dcmaiKl the notice of a keener editor. Hot Cinnamon Cider, Daiquiris, Muddled Old-Fashioneds Naiad Press has produced 7»e Beveriy Malibu hi hardback format which is, to my & Hot International Coffees knowledge, thc first of its kind. For those of us continuaUy troubled by the high cost 42 Hows Weekly of Happy Hour! oi fiction. It's clear that things are not go ing our way. Open noon-2am, 7 days a week Dc^ite my reservations, I have to give 153 LIBERTY POLE WAY • 716-232-4719 The Beverly Maiibu a 'thumbs up/* . i*-AiL.-i''^'-^-A ••VWrt *. r ,„„,^MM ^•u:.' ( imm'-^mmmtir^^'-'-' • •••7'''s«Kr»>-- THE EMPTY CLOSET FEBRUARY 1990 <•••*-'•- CI^SSIFIED ADYERTISING wood floors. New private bathroom. Off- Classified tuis cost S3 Jtr the flrst 30 Roommates Wanted street parldng. Must be non-smoker, neat and ttnnxls artd $1 ftir each addUitmtd iO wtnds. Teach me to obey and worship. Write PO Roommaie wanted to share home. $200 clean. References, security deposit. Send cbeck or tntmey tinier attd ttd, typed Box 13364, Rochester 14613. includes everything. Five minutes from $245/month, plus part utUities. 461-4953. tir tvritten legU>ty, to: E.C. Press, 713 Mtmroe Wbite lesbian looking for Mendship, downtown in 19th Wud. Cable, laundry Roonunate wanted to share with two Ave., Box F, Kochester, NY I4607. Ads will possible relationship with same. Tm 36, also. Furnished or unfurnished. Call other males, large gracious house SW city. m?t he accepted over the telepbtme. good job, no drugs, very little drink. I like 328-7418 any time; please leave message if '5 minutes to downtown; laundry, cable, fur Tbe Empty Cioset tvill not accept walks, movies, music, dogs, just all-aroimd I'm not home. nished bedroom, separate phone Une. $2(X) classified tads by rrutil unless tbey are ac having a good time. Send replies to PO Box Gay male or female to share quiet two- security. $200/hH>nth aU. 328-1360. companied hy a natne atui telepiwrte 1140. Webster NY 14580. bedroom house in Brighton. Close to Protaalonal GF to share with same. Quiet, nufttber Tbe number ttHU not he publish BiWM, 30's, masculine, attractive, fit, ver Marketplace, UR, RIT, MCC $225- mo. plus non-smoker. Nice location. Goodsized half ed, but we wiii cail to confirm the ttd satile, sincere, honest. h«ilthy. HIV +, seeks half utilities. Please caU 272-1806, leave house, space! $230 plus half utilities. placement, a masculine nude with similar qualities for message for retum caU. Avaihd>ie fanmcdiatdy. 288-3637. Wr accept persottal ads, hut tite adver good times, and possibly a relation^ip Race Rooflunate wanted for large, spacious East/Park area. Seekli^ white male, non- tiser must use his t^ iter oum box numiter not important. Reply to PO Box 41149, house, close to U of R and RIT. We are look smoker, employed, neat, to share two Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friciay Saturday orttddress. "U^ puhlish personal ads frotn Rochester N.Y. 14604. ing for, preferably, a gay male or female stu bedroom -t* den apartment with white. prisotters on a spttce-atHtiiaide basis, ifyou GWM, HIV+, 30 s, Sicilian, seeks same, dent. You should be able to pay on time the mid-30s, athletic male. Furnished except DJ RANDY iHtve a problem tvith apenpai, iet $is kttow, relationship in mind. PO Box 19276. S300 a month rent. Everything in the house your bedroom and second Uving room. PRESENTS CELEBRATE ^UICE BAR Tbe Empty Closet cantuit Ite iteid resptmsi- Rexrhester NY 14619- is included, washer St dryer also. Cable and Basement workout equipment, cable TV. AN ALL THE SHOOTH AND bie fbr anyfltutnciai toss orphys/cai itt/ttry phone lines are in every room ofour house. haidwood floors, security, ofiT-street parking. inpoRmRTion STAR SHOW AND SU.KY tifat tnay result frotn atty correspotuiefuxi If you are interested, please send a brief $500-^^ half UtiUties. Security deposit. HOUSE SOUND DANCING AU Male Iklk Line, 1-800-666-HUNK. PRODUCED T- '..a description of yourself and what some of 473-0082 (evenings); 987-1314 (messages BY OF DJ Must use touchtone MCAlsa. 75 cents 1/2 your future goals are. MaU your respoonse anvtime). EVERY SAT Announcements minute. Must be 18. to PO Box 41324 Rochester N.Y. 232-1930 AGGY JACKIE 2AM - 4AM The -1 AU Man Line, 1-800-933-MANN. 14604-9998. Must use touchtone. MCA^isa. 75 cents 1/2 For Rent DUNE JONES DJ TON HOEY Susan Plunkett, Jazzberry's Uptown. minute. Must be 18. Gay female seeking gay female to share Gourmet intcmadonal catering. cozy 2-bedroom carriage house in the South Rooms for retit.Lexington-Dewey area. 9 10 473-8422. V(^dge W»her/dryer, cable and aU the com Male non-smoker, quiet. Room with kitchen 6 AMATEUR 8 rtULTl- OPEN Expose yourself to a lesbian a£foirl Par forts of home. Must be an animal lover. On faculties. Close to bank, gas station, markets. ^CLOSED 2 FOR I TITLFHOLDER EVERY SAT The followii^ prisoners are lonely and Call 254-8551. THE NEWEST ticipate in Rochester's first annual lesbian seeking correspondence with anyone ly mature adults need respond. 5250 plus ANNUAL ALL ALL LIP JAMIE AND NOST AT lOPN fair. May 19 at Nazareth College. VP^ need who wiU write: phone. CaU 454-3772. TWo bedroom upper in large, gracious EXCITING your talent, skills and energy to help make Roommate wanted. City NE. Responsible house, SW city, 5 minutes to downtown, off MISS MONDAYS LIQUOR SYNC BLUE DANCE Lonely incarcerated male seeks cor street parking, cable, lUilities included. DANCE NUSIC this a climactic success. AU inteiested respondance. Soon to be released, looking female to share 3 bedroom homd Laundry, IN 50 CENTS CONTEST IN CONCERT MUSIC women are invited to join us, including ar off-street parking and storage. S250-t-. Lease, security, $450/month includes all. WINTER WITH SPECIAL AVAILABLE for someone who is sincere. Tm 46 years Quiet neighborhood. 328-1360. $25 CASH IN THE CITY TILL 4AN tists, musicians and performers. Call Anne young, 5'9*\ 150 lbs., large brown eyes, black 342-2803- OUEEN FEBRUARY OFF ALL PRIZE SURPRISE or Colleen, 671-3294. Wanted—gay fc^male to share 3 bedroom U. OfR. area, 19th Ward. 2 bedroom half- OPEN TILL 3 hair, medium brown complexion, will house, dining room, pantry, remodeled kit PAGEANT SORRY! BEERS HiDNICHT GUESTS DJTOM Performers wanted. Wild Seeds answer ail sincere well-wishers. John Jr Ban- house on Rand St. Drug free. WIU consider Bookstore and Cafe is looking to book local pet. 1300 plus half gas & electric AvaUable chen with dishwasher, basement with laun ford #170-993, PO Box 45699. LucasviUe dry hookups, attic, porch, back yard. $425 IS 17 lesbian, gay and bi poets, musicians, and ar OH 45699-OO01. March 1. CaU 254-6043 or 422-2646, ask for 12 13 14 tists for future events at our gallery. Don't Fran. plus. Call 436-6877. HISS '^ "SHES A *^TRIBAL DANCE Seeking sincere, honest relationship. I'm 2 FOR I LIP SYNC STAR" be shy—share your talents with your com 23. 5*61/2'\ 152 Ibs. Brown hair & green Male roommate wanted to share nicely SWEETHEART CONTEST AT RITES TILL munity* Call 244-9310 or visit us at 704 furnished Beechwood home Hardwood PACEANT EVERY ALL eyes. Very lonely. Will answer all. please For Sale HIDNICHT CHARACTER "THE PARTY" DAWN University Ave. write and let*s exchange ideas. Timothy L. floors. Near bus line Not far from E. Main MC'D BY: DANCE NUSIC Peer facilitator—Answer the Gay Alliance St. or Bausch St Lomb. Non-smolcer prefer West Irondequoit, Wlnotui Blvd. 6 rooms. TUESDAY $25 CASH SHOW- OJ TON HOEY Bond #141-728. PO Box 45699, Lucasvillc 1 1/2 baths (2 bedrooms and den). Eat-in kit PRIZE OF THE EARLY hothne on a regularly scheduled basis from OH 45699-OO01. red, neat and clean. S240/month plus securi ASHLEY IT'S STREISAND, NEW BEAT, 7:30 to 9:30 pm (or other hours ifyou prefer ty, part utilities. 288-6351. chen, in-home offlce/rec room. Updated MINELLI, 80'S CEREBREAL, and can be very consistent about it.) Good Reaching out to find that special someone, mechanics. Parklike neighborhood. Ideal ST. JOHN DJ SAMMY to establish a true, sincere, honest relation Roommate wanted to share comfortable, PACKED AND NORE. DJTOM CLUB & HINRC listening skills a must* Will train. If in nicely furnished Southwedge home. Hard siti^csArouples/koommate situation. $90s of "THINK RED" terested, call the p.f, line 244-8640. leave a ship, lm 30. 6\ 185 lbs..black haii; brawn fers. 544-3419 after 5 pm. eyes, boyishly handcome, wiU be released message on the tape. A peer ^Killtaipr will 19 20 21 22 2^ THE TCK THE MID get back to you. 1990. ^BPtot to Te4octtit to anothfr state. Will $1 BLACK & id answer all. Piease write. Johnny Saunder ^ ^. •^"RED, >--«. . LIP WINTER BLUES "Mftlantcers needed for Gay Alliance fim BLUEISH IV LIBERTY 194-501. PO Box 45699. LucasviUe OH . WHITE AND DOOR SYNC IS OPEN PARTV ON draising drive and for the move to 179 Atlan 45699. CHARCf STARRING DOWN EVERY tic Ave. Cleaning, painting, carpentry, mov Warm, lovix^ sincere bisexual. 41, 6*2**. The Empty Closet BIJDE- CONTEST. CHANNELE NIGHTLY FROM SATURDAY ing volunteers needed for February. Fun 200 lbs., reddish blond hair, gray blue eyes. PARTY AND ON $200 iOPN TO 2AH AT draising volunteers needed for Feb. 11 auc Homebody, like cooking, country music, j SHOU & THE BEST JUICE BAR tion and throughout 1990. Call 244-8640. TUESDAYS ROCHESTERS rock & roll, fishing & camping, reading. ' fRODUCEO BY: FINALS PERFORMERS FRI i SAT BEST CLUe. Professional Cleaning. Benefit your James Van Buren #18916, PO Box 1989, Ely, needs you! AT 2AN 2r&UP ^ m APRIL IN ROCHESTI^ t billfold by bettering your business. We can NV 89301. MORGAN brighten and beautify your buildings, Looking for someone to share my true businesses and bars. Be bold—bring on the 26 2^!p SYNC best? 473-3882. feelings, thoughts and future plans with. I*m 25 THE LEAST 28, 5*ir*, 165 lbs., black hair, hazel eyes, Call 244-9030 to volunteer Step back in time! Plums Bed & Breakfast RONDRETTA CONTEST muscular build. Have degree in business and • ^^^•••m«w»»»^,.aiam»^^iti«iB.^^^m^^*^Lmin^itmit^^^*mY-*^«^^ii^m^i*^^^. EXPENSIVE for women only, antiques, charm, private accounting, also cooldng school. Larry IN NtCHT OF THE baths, full breakfast, parking, brochure: 160 Cash, #150-946, PO Box 45699, LucasviUe WEEK TO CASH Bradford St.. Provincetown, MA 02657. OH. 45699. CONCERT PRIZE (508)487-2283. Apartments and cottages A SALUTE TO EARTVfl also available. Looking for a lorer and friend. Brown 2 FORI DJ SAMMY hair, green eyes. 195 lbs., very good build. YESTER-YEAR Discreetly order adult novelties, aromas 1 don't like bars and don't want anyone who WtTH A FEU TUESDAYS MIDNIGHT and lubricants. Special: IHple Up Aroma. 3 wiU play games with me. Donald Clinton Please FRIENDS bottles (30 ml each) for 115 plus $2 shipp Black. PO Box 1989. Ely, NV 89301. ing and handling; 4 oz. Elbow Grease $5.95 plus $2 shippif^ and handling. Send check Wbite male, 40. 6*2*'. blond-brown hair, port Our or money order to RBC Mail Ofdci; 243 Mid- brown eyes, 180 Ibs. Athletic, in good town Plaza. Suite 297. Rochescer N.Y. 14604. physical shape. I enjoy ^x>rts. reading, music and art. Interests itwlude amateur carpentry, costume jewelry, and operating smaU A3vertisers novelties shop. I would like very much to Help Wanted hear from you. write me today and let*s get acquainted soon. James G^en Hanna. lilPl^® U^. Census Bnreau seeking to fill nearly #152-169. PO Box 45699, LucasvUlc OH 900 temporary fobs, work to b^in at inter 45699-0001. vals durhig Fd>. and March. Call Rochester Gay wblte male. 27, 146 tt>s.. 5*8*', black Census District Office. 464-0338. or write hair and green eyes. Searchii^ for that the office at 70 Glide St.. Rochester 14611. FOR RENT special person to share my life with. I enjoy music, poetry and writing. William McCorkle, 075385 1680. Avon Park Correc 4-room apartment tional Institution. PO Box 1100, Avon Park. Personal FL 33829rllOO. on second floor of house, Attfacdve GWM, 23. 5*7*; 145 lbs., slim Sli^e gay niale. age 25. seeks correspon and very fit. ifuo weightlilting. sports, and dance ftom same, of aU ages. Enjoys reading, a variety of other interests seeks same for music, holding hands, and the outdoors. I am 201 Grand Avenue. safe, intimate frietulship and possible rela tofiesofne; however, with your corrcspon- <" '. 117-125 UeePTY POLl^ WAY tionship. No drugs, cigarettes or queens daiKre I'm never alone Respond: Mx, Ernest' Nice space, track lighting, please! Your most recem photo along with Bircher. PO Box 45699-181854. Lucasrtile ROCHESTER. NY 14604 , a short letter will get mine. P.O. Box 704. OH 45699. • exposed brick walJ. 232-2240 Bfoc^mrt N.Y. 14420. UMiely man, 27, bobbies ate fooCbaU. GWM, 24. SUgfady heavy. Looking for basketbaU, basebaU, track and field, music, Rent $450 with heat and electric. i monogamoiis WM IO build a limifc togetfaeii reading and sharii^ ideals. Open-minded, Interests include movies, music, traveling, enjoy aU kinds of people. Wmild like to cor- going out (occasiottally), and spoidlng thne re^KHid with open-minded woman, lady Ready now. INFORMATION LINE: 232-19.3Q'" togedier. Please fC|^ to David, PO Box wtK> values her mocals and respea at aU "1 HT 26238. Rochester 14626. tknes, wUling to accept a gcndefflan. An- BkMid flMie wsflied, 18-26, to mch this diony R. MlOrr, No. 042610, MaittKix 1571. "^ CaU Craig at bisexual while male (24, 5*7", 125 lbs., kMg Avon Park Conrctional fnsdtttddn, Avon brown hair) to become his slave and servant. Park, FL 33825-1100. 473-44S0 or 586-7616 .\i^21 — •s^^ J - i /' L '4: v:> No. 211 February 1, 1990 Rochester, New York VV YORK STATE S3LDEST CAY NEWSPAPER nien's Network <9 Available at Paul's Grocery. opan Ann» iatmj|witt«n OjwwisqF Ctnirth Cavalry St. Andrews Church, 68 244-9050 Aeh\and St. at 95 Auerm A^e.. 7:30 pm. Silkwood & Wild Seeds 235-2473-