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Rope Sex: Bondage for Lovemaking and More Presented by Lee Harrington – © PassionAndSoul.com Rope bondage is a wonderful tool for spicing up your sex life- from binding legs open for access to the loins to turning a bed into somewhere a lover can't escape from, giving into their desires. We will learn how to make simple restraints for spread-eagle poses or binding lovers to chairs, as well as exploring ways to bind limb to limb, body to body, crotch ropes (and how to convert them into pieces that can be fucked through), and more. Let's explore and think creatively about techniques for adding bondage to your style of sensuality and sex. *Tools of the trade -pros and cons of various ropes and emergency tools -beds, chairs, tables, ottomans, pillows, blankets -blindfolds, gags, dildos, vibrators, condoms, gloves, lube (be prepared ahead of time) -body signs- nerves, physiology, check for circulation *Purpose and Passion -what sorts of activities do you want to do while tying the bondage? -what do you want to do once your partner is in bondage? -fashion and desire: what to wear to bind and fuck -types of sex and angles needed… play with body poses -know your partner- health issues, flexibility and communication *One Column Ties: -What is a column? Wrists, ankles, torso, neck, thigh…; Spare loop as a pulley system -Attaching to equipments/beds/other body parts (spread eagle, ankles tied to over head, tied to chest harness, ankles tied up backwards into leg-spread hogtie) *Two Column Ties: -ANY two columns… (ankle-wrist, wrist-wrist, thigh-ankle, wrist-upper arm, wrist-thigh) -What about multiple people? Limb to object? Options to adapt into spreader bar style. *Crotch Ropes: -Kots and braided crotch; Butt bondage; Pulling crotch ropes open for fucking, strap-on harnesses *Shinju: -Multiple variations; Wrists first, wrists last, wrists at all? *Where from here? (websites and books to spend days being inspired) www.PassionAndSoul.com www.bastardropes.com/links-to-awesomeness.html www.beknotty.com www.knottyboys.com www.ropefashions.com www.kybari.com www.twistedmonk.com www.bossbondage.com www.ds-arts.com www.ropemarks.com www.NaturallyTwisted.co Shibari You Can Use; More Shibari You Can Use- Lee Harrington Showing You the Ropes; Back on the Ropes- Two Knotty Boys Essence of Shibari- Shin Nawakiri The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage- Midori Rope for Sex Volume 1- Chanta Rose Kinbaku: Mind and Techniques 1 and 2- Arisu Go The Erotic Bondage Handbook- Jay Wiseman Male Bondage- Van Darkholme Rope, Bondage and Power- edited by Lee Harrington .

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