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d Mon G ay Alliance Tues Youth Program Fabulous Wed Fridays Thurs 7-9 pm Fabulous Open Arms The Empty Closet MCC, 707 E. Sat Main Street Sun Very Fab Follow us on Facebook at empty closet news • Follow us at WWW.TWITTER.COM/EMPTYCLOSETNEWS NUMBER 479 A PUBLICATION OF THE GAY ALLIANCE JUNE 2014 ARING E F OTT C : H P OTO S Trans panel members with Jeanne Gainsburg and students. G ay Alliance panel at St. John Fisher Pharmacy School educates about transgender issues Training may be only one in this country By Adam Young adamant in reciting what was When Mallory Livingston, instructed in their file. co-founder and co-president of “Because of who I am, they’re the Syracuse Transgender Alli- not taking me very seriously, and ance, began going to a local they’re rolling their eyes… they Toronto World Pride runs June 20-29. pharmacy to pick up hormone keep telling me what’s on their replacement therapy (HRT) computer screen, and that’s what for transitioning, the response they have to do. The [staff] is T oronto hosts WorldPride 2014: Rise Up! from the pharmaceutical staff not taking what I say as cor- By Susan Jordan Lollapalooza and rivals Calgary’s was usually confused, even dis- rect,” Livingston said. The lack A huge global Pride event is Stampede for the title of Can- respectful at times. of privacy at the pharmacy coun- coming up June 20–29, only a ada’s largest festival. This year Despite how she presented ter was also uncomfortable, par- few hours’ drive from Roches- WorldPride 2014 is expected to herself at the counter, she was ticularly at busy times. “So if ter. Up to two million LGBTQ attract up to two million attend- often referred to as “he,” given there are people in line… you’re people from around the world ees, making Pride in Toronto the male name that remained basically spilling your guts to a are expected to attend. officially Canada’s largest festi- on her ID. Livingston also bunch of strangers,” Livingston WorldPride 2014 Toronto val of any kind. required a unique syringe and said. (WP14TO) is a 10-day inter- Major partner organizations needle combination to take Jennifer Mathews and Amy national celebration incorpo- al LGBTQ communities. The include the Toronto Interna- her HRT. However, at the Parkhill, Associate Professors of rating activism, education, and WorldPride event, held in a dif- tional Film Festival, Inside Out time, the pharmacy staff was (Pharmacy continues page 3) the history and culture of glob- ferent country each year, replaces (presenter of the annual Toron- the usual Toronto Pride celebra- to LGBT Film Festival), TD tion. The theme for WP14TO Toronto Jazz Festival, Art Gal- is “Rise Up!” as chosen by the (T oronto continues page 3) Rochester City community. Council member Matt Haag with Dozens of events will take Mayor Lovely place at various venues across the Warren. Over 500 Greater Toronto area. The main guests attended festival footprint will be over 25 Inside ESPA’s 15th Annual blocks and will include 10 open- ...................................... Spring Dinner. Editorials 2 air free-to-attend stages. Melissa Local/State News ....................... Right: Evelyn 3 Etheridge, Deborah Cox, Mar- National/International News..... 4 Bailey receives tha Wash, Hercules and Love Interview: Ambush ........................ 7 Community LGBTQ Living: Families .............17 Service Award Affair, Crystal Waters, Neon Shoulders To Stand On ...........21 from Bruce Hitch, Chely Wright, Amanda Columnists ...............................22 Gorman and Emily Rheaume, Steve Grand, Mark Community ...............................25 Jones. Photos: Jacob and DJs David Morales Entertainment: Gay plays .........27 Ove Overmyer and Quentin Harris are among Gay Alliance: Youth picnic .........30 the many international artists to Calendar ....................................34 M ayor Warren announces extended trans health benefits for perform. Classifieds .................................34 Pride in Toronto is one of the Comics ............................... 34, 35 city employees at Empire State Pride Agenda Spring Dinner largest arts and culture festivals The Gay Alliance is publisher By Ove Overmyer, Staff Reporter, At the dinner, Rochester which time the City of Rochester in North America. Welcoming of The Empty Closet, New York Empty Closet Newspaper Mayor Lovely Warren, alongside will add transgender healthcare more than 1.22 million guests in State’s oldest LGBTQ newspaper. On May 17 at the Roches- Rochester City Councilmember benefits for employees and their 2013, it is larger than Chicago’s ter Riverside Convention Center, Matt Haag, announced that the family members who are enrolled The Empire State Pride Agenda city will extend transition-related in the City’s “enhanced” medi- (ESPA) celebrated its long-stand- healthcare coverage to transgen- cal plan. Approved by the City’s I nterview, page 6 ing commitment to winning the der and gender non-conforming Labor Management Healthcare fight for equality and justice for municipal employees. Committee in April, the new LGBT New Yorkers by hosting The benefits will go into coverage will pay for services its 15th Annual Spring Dinner. effect beginning Jan. 1, 2015 at related to gender reassignment surgery such as medical and psy- chological counseling, hormone THEY GA ALLIANCE APPRECIATES THE CONTINUING therapy and cosmetic and recon- PARTNERSHIP OF BUSINESSES WITHIN OUR COMMUNITY structive surgeries. WHO SUPPORT OUR MISSION anD VISION. ESPA Executive Direc- OURT PLA INUM LEVEL paRTNERS ARE: tor Nathan M. Schaefer said, “We’re so proud that Mayor Warren, Council member Matt Haag and the City of Rochester shared this significant news at our Spring Dinner. The inclu- sion of transition-related care in municipal benefits will improve (PARTNERSHIPS CONTINUE ON pagE 2) (ESPA continues page 6) 2 the empty closet • the gay alliance • number 479 • june 2014 G ay Alliance Board of Trustees David Zona, President, Jessica Muratore, Vice-President, W. Bruce Gorman, Secretary, Peter Mohr, Treasurer, Perspectives Jason Barnecut, Chris Hilderbrant, Emily Jones, Jeff Lambert, Jeff Markarian, Steve Santacroce, William Schaefer, Chris Woodworth T he Empty Closet Editor G ay Alliance Board President SUSAN JORDAN D AVID ZONA and they have convinced many But this wasn’t just any other G ay Alliance partnerships in the Third World. But when event. This was a chance to see continued from page 1 faith denies justice, it ceases to the future. This was an oppor- be faith and becomes fanaticism. tunity for me to connect with a THANK YOU The U.S. looks like one of tomorrow so very different than the most liberal countries on what I’d experienced as a young- LGBTQ rights, but in spite of er gay male. These were youth G OLD LEVEL the growing acceptance of mar- living in a very different time riage equality and LGBTQ peo- than what I recall from my own ple in general, North American experiences. And it made me feel gays are still in constant danger a strong sense of gratitude for the of harassment, discrimination progress that has occurred over and deadly attack. If Teapubli- that period of roughly 20 years cans should take control of the since my younger days – a rela- Senate this fall, or of the White tively short period of time con- House in 2016, the rights we do sidering the slow pace of social C ity of Rochester have could be taken away and we change. World Pride can expect severe repression, as T houghts at the As a high school kid, there Absolut/Malibu rightwing True Believers try to was no way that it would’ve WorldPride 2014 is coming take our country back to 1950. Prom been acceptable for me to be an SILVER LEVEL to Toronto this month, and for Or was that 1850? I remember my first meet- openly LGBTQ individual. And 10 days as many as two million WorldPride is not the only ing as a Board Member of the as such, I hid my identity from 3 Olives those with whom I rode the LGBTQ people and allies will nearby Pride event coming up GAGV. I had been aware of the Baccardi celebrate Pride with dozens of this summer. Buffalo’s Pride organization for some years and school bus and roamed the halls. events. Parade is Sunday, June 1; Syra- in enough of a capacity to be very I forced myself to do the things Toronto is only around four cuse is Saturday, June 14. New much interested in becoming an that I thought were appropriate hours’ drive from Rochester, and York City’s Pride events run June active supporter. Upon joining for a young male to do, unwill- hopefully many area residents 24-29. the Board, I spent more time ing to admit the things that I will be able to get there. They Rochester Pride is held in digging into the good work that enjoyed that seemed to depart Barefoot Wine from these expectations. I often will meet people from all over July. We will have a fabulous the Agency had done spanning found myself hoping that by act- Hedonist Artisan Chocolate Canada, the U.S. and the world. Carnival-themed event, July its then almost 40 years’ worth A lot of Rochestarians travel to 19-20. See the Pride Guide sup- ing the part, I would eventually John’s Tex Mex of history. find it an effortless and natural Toronto Pride every June, and plements, published separately Since that day almost 2.5 this year it should be something from this newspaper. thing to do. years ago, I have had the honor This of course never hap- special. (Send me your jpgs!) Globally, LGBTQs are getting of participating in many events, WorldPride, held in a dif- more visible all the time. Three pened. The youth at the Big Gay in the capacity of Board Mem- Prom were a very different youth ferent country each year, is “an million people or thereabouts ber as well as, more important- international celebration incor- attended the Brazil Pride Parade – free to experience life authen- ly, volunteer.