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PAUL A HYMAN (1946–2011) At the Center of Change by rachel kranson !TTHETIMEOFHERDEATHIN$ECEMBER 0AULA(YMANWASTHE,UCY-OSES0ROFESSOROF-ODERN*EWISH(ISTORY AT9ALE5NIVERSITY3HEHADBEENTHEFIRSTFEMALEDEANOFTHE!LBERT!,IST#OLLEGEOFTHE*EWISH4HEOLOGICAL 3EMINARY THEFIRSTWOMANPRESIDENTOFTHE!MERICAN!CADEMYFOR*EWISH2ESEARCH ANDCO FOUNDEROFTHEGER- MINAL*EWISHFEMINISTGROUPOFTHES %ZRAT.ASHIM7HILESTILLAGRADUATESTUDENT SHEAUTHOREDWHATMAY have been the first social history of Jewish women, The Jewish Woman in America [1976], and then proceeded to transform the way that Jewish scholars think of such basic historical paradigms as assimilation and acculturation BYVIEWINGTHESEPHENOMENATHROUGHTHELENSOFGENDER3EEHERBIBLIOGRAPHYATLilith.org.) -OSTOFTHE*EWISHGIRLSBORNIN!MERICATODAYWILLTAKEITFORGRANTEDTHATWOMENCANBE COUNT in a , and read from the Torah. And Jewish historians being trained today are called to task when THEYDONOTTAKEGENDERINTOACCOUNT0AULA(YMANWASAT the forefront of the religious and intellectual struggles that GENERATEDTHESECHANGES(ERINFLUENCEEXTENDEDBOTHINTO the academy and far beyond it, affecting the lives of Jewish females in schools and congregations in ways of which many are still unaware. The reflections that follow give some glimpses into her LEGACY ANDTHEEXTRAORDINARYWAYSINWHICHSHESHAPEDTHE Jewish feminist world we live in today. Rachel Kranson teaches in the religious studies faculty at the University of amy stone amy Pittsburgh. She is co-editor of !*EWISH&EMININE-YSTIQUE*EWISH7OMENIN Hyman and her daughter Judith Rosenbaum, 2010. Postwar America (2010) and a contributing editor at Lilith.

undergraduate major concentration). One Paula and I were both regular attend- Martha Ackelsberg semester, we actually took all four of our EES AT &RIDAY NIGHT DINNERS AND SERVICES classes together — and this without any AT (ILLEL AND ALSO AT #ONSERVATIVE SER- aula and I first met early in our ADVANCEPLANNINGORCOORDINATION VICES ON 3HABBAT MORNINGS "UT DESPITE freshman year at Radcliffe — prob- I would say that it was probably in THEPRODDINGSOF2ABBI"EN:ION'OLD P ably during the first week, ANDTHROUGH(ARVARD(ILLELTHATWECAME DIRECTOROF(ILLELATTHETIME BOTHOFUS although I cannot remember for sure. to be close friends — and, probably not hesitated to take on the honor of leading Really, I cannot remember not know- coincidentally, began to develop at least services, because we fully accepted the ing Paula once we were at . an initial feminist consciousness. Paula view, dominant at the time, that leading 3OMEHOW WE ALMOST ALWAYS FOUND OUR- AND ) WERE BOTH PRODUCTS OF *UDAISMS SERVICES WAS hMENSv ROLE ) REMEMBER selves doing the same things, in the #ONSERVATIVE MOVEMENT WE GREW UP IN VERYCLEARLY HOWEVER ANIMPORTANThCLICKv same places —(ARVARD (ILLEL 0HILLIPS synagogues that educated girls and boys moment, when I was sitting with Paula at "ROOKS (OUSE THE SOCIAL SERVICE ORGA- together, but did not count women in SERVICESONEITHER2OSH(ASHANAHOR9OM NIZATION THE #OMMITTEE ON $EGREES IN a minyan, and did not allow girls to be +IPPUR)BELIEVEITMAYHAVEBEENDURING 3OCIAL 3TUDIES A SMALL INTERDISCIPLINARY CALLEDFORANALIYAHASABAT our sophomore year). A fellow student

24 LILITH s Spring 2012 (male, of course) was leading the daven- SOME CALLED THAT INSISTENCE hDIVISIVEv 3O uncompromising in her view that it would ING NOT VERY EXPERTLY AND 0AULA TURNED FOREXAMPLE WHENAGROUPOF9ALESTUDENTS be utterly unacceptable for a gathering of TOMEANDSAIDh7ECOULDDOBETTERTHAN (many of whom had studied with Paula)  WOMEN NOT TO CONSIDER OURSELVES A PAUL A HYMAN THATv&ORBOTHOFUS THATTURNEDOUTTO ORGANIZEDACONFERENCEONh*EWISH7OMEN minyan. The decision we reached, which be the first, cautious step in an awaken- AND &REEDOMv IN !PRIL OF  AND WAS ACCEPTABLE TO THE /RTHODOX WOMEN ing Jewish-feminist consciousness: before INCLUDED ON THE PROGRAM A &RIDAY NIGHT present, was that there would be a full (1946–2011) the end of that academic year, we were service in which the hundreds of women SERVICEANDTHAT/RTHODOXWOMENWOULD both taking regular turns leading the present would not constitute a minyan (the simply not respond to bor’chu or kaddish. congregation in prayer. Needless to say, QUORUMNECESSARYFOR*EWISHPRAYER 0AULA 7OMEN CALLED TO THE4ORAH COULD RECITE the foundations of Judaism did not come TUMBLINGDOWN Paula and I continued our feminist EXPLORATIONSTOGETHERIN.EW9ORK AFTER She was one of the most fearless people I have we started graduate school — I at Princeton ANDSHEAT#OLUMBIA7EBECAMEPARTOF ever known. I remember going to a panel on a feminist consciousness-raising group modern Jewish history. Everyone paid hom- made up of wives of medical students, and spent many hours sharing stories and age to the “great minds” and she said, “I didn’t developing a more systematic analysis of the difficulties we were confronting in our think they were great minds; they never wrote lives and relationships. about women.” And it was breathtaking. Not surprisingly, then, when — as a MEMBER OF THE .EW 9ORK (AVURAH— I Riv-Ellen Prell HELPEDTOORGANIZEACLASSONhWOMENAND *UDAISM v0AULAWASONEOFTHEFIRSTPEOPLE WEINVITEDTOJOIN(ERENERGYANDENTHU- siasm — as well as her deep knowledge of HELPEDTOORGANIZERESISTANCE INSISTINGTHAT whole or partial blessings as they wished. and commitment to Judaism — were criti- THEEGALITARIANGOALSFORWHICHSHEWEHAD !S)RECALL 0AULAREADFROMTHE4ORAH&OR cal to the group. Although we began with fought for so long should not be dismissed the vast majority of people present, it was the simple goal of educating ourselves ORIGNORED EVENINTHENAMEOFhINCLUDINGv the first time we had ever heard a woman about Jewish sources on the status of /RTHODOX*EWISHWOMEN read Torah. WOMEN WEEVENTUALLYCAMETOREALIZETHAT )SPENTTHEFOLLOWING2OSH(ASHANAH Martha Ackelsberg is the William R. Kenan, we needed to take action to try to change Jr., Professor of Government and of the Study WITH THE .EW 9ORK (AVURAH 0AULA WAS the actual situation of Jewish women. of Women and Gender at Smith College. She is eight months pregnant. I can still picture 7E TOOK THE OPPORTUNITY OFFERED BY THE author of, among other works, &REE7OMENOF so clearly the way she carried the baby ANNUAL MEETING OF THE #ONSERVATIVE 3PAIN!NARCHISMANDTHE3TRUGGLEFORTHE in the straight-out-in-front way that led MOVEMENTS 2ABBINICAL!SSEMBLYATTHE %MANCIPATION OF 7OMEN and of Resisting people to say she was carrying a boy. #ONCORD(OTELIN-ARCHOFTOGIVE #ITIZENSHIP &EMINIST %SSAYS ON 0OLITICS !LWAYS OVERTURNING EXPECTATIONS 0AULA ourselves a name —%ZRAT .ASHIM WE #OMMUNITYAND$EMOCRACY. HADAGIRL *UDITH2OSENBAUM !T0AULAS took this because it referred to the wom- prompting, I was given an aliyah — my ENS SECTION IN THE ANCIENT TEMPLE BUT first — and afterwards she congratulated LITERALLY ITMEANShHELPFORWOMENv — and MEONMYBATMITZVAH to present a set of demands: “Jewish 7HENTHE*EWISH4HEOLOGICAL3EMINARY 7OMEN #ALL FOR #HANGEv !MONG THE Judith Plaskow decided in 1983 to admit women into the changes called for in that document were MET0AULA(YMANATTHEFIRSTNATION- RABBINICALSCHOOL AGROUPOF%ZRAT.ASHIM access by women to institutions of Jewish AL *EWISH &EMINIST #ONFERENCE members went out to dinner to celebrate. higher learning, including rabbinical and I IN .EW 9ORK #ITY IN  !FTER There, I remember Paula saying that her cantorial schools; counting of women in a the opening sessions, several members MEMBERSHIP IN %ZRAT .ASHIM WAS VERY minyan; full membership in Jewish com- OF %ZRAT .ASHIM WENT TO A HOTEL ROOM important to her as a historian because MUNAL ORGANIZATIONS ABILITY TO BE HEARD TO DISCUSS HOW TO HANDLE THE QUESTION IT MADE HER REALIZE THAT SMALL GROUPS OF as witnesses in courts of Jewish law and of whether women could make up a people really could make history. to initiate divorce…(the full document is VALID MINYAN AT 3HABBAT SERVICES THE Judith Plaskow is professor emerita of religious AVAILABLEAT,ILITHORG 0AULAWASONEOF NEXTMORNING)WASPARTOFTHEPASSION- studies at Manhattan College, a Jewish femi- THEGROUPSMAINSPOKESPERSONS ate conversation about how we could nist theologian, and co-founder of the Journal of Paula never suffered fools gladly, and function as a minyan at a conference Feminist Studies in Religion. Her best-known DID NOT MINCE WORDS 3HE INSISTED ON WITH BOTH /RTHODOX AND NON /RTHODOX book is 3TANDING !GAIN AT 3INAI *UDAISM WOMENS EQUALITY EVEN IN CONTEXTS WHERE participants. Paula, like others of us, was FROMA&EMINIST0ERSPECTIVE.

www.Lilith.org s LILITH 25 Once Paula supported a cause, a move- Alice Shalvi Keren McGinity ment, or a principle, she was unshakeable. ,IKEWISE WHENSHEBELIEVEDINSOMEONE he first time I met Paula was in hen I saw Paula at the she never wavered, though privately she  WHENWEWEREBOTHAMONG !SSOCIATIONFOR*EWISH would always tell people what she felt they T the participants at a conference on 7 3TUDIES CONFERENCE IN NEEDEDTOHEAR7HENTIMESWERETOUGH GENDERAND*UDAISMAT/HIO3TATE5NIVERSITY I asked her to inscribe a copy of and even when she did not agree with my )TSOHAPPENEDTHAT2OSH(ODESHFELLONTHE Gender and Jewish History which I had just decisions, Paula remained in my corner. second day of the conference. I suggested we PURCHASED3HEWROTEh4O+EREN 4HANK Beth S. Wenger is Professor of History at the HAVEAWOMENSTEFILAAND TOMYASTONISH- you for bringing our work further. All the University of Pennsylvania and director of ment, within 10 minutes everything was BEST 0AULAv4HESEWORDSSIMULTANEOUSLY its program. Her books include (ISTORY,ESSONS4HE#REATIONOF!MERICAN *EWISH(ERITAGEAND4HE*EWISH!MERICANS 4HREE#ENTURIESOF*EWISH6OICESIN!MERICA, We should think about what she used to call companion volume to the 2008 PBS series. “passing it down.” We can’t help the older people but we can pass it down. Academia was competitive and cutthroat, and that’s totally Rebecca Kobrin rom the moment I stepped into the opposite of what I got from Paula. 0AULA(YMANSCLASSROOMIN Marion Kaplan & as a Yale undergraduate, her pas- sion for teaching and for bringing the PAST TO LIFE INSPIRED ME (ER COURSE ON THE *EWISH IMMIGRANT EXPERIENCE PRO- ORGANIZED 0AULA VOLUNTEERED TO DO BOTH validated my research and called on me voked me to rethink the ways in which I THE 4ORAH READING AND -USSAF— tasks she TOCONTINUETHEPURSUITOFGENDEREQUAL- CONCEPTUALIZEDANDNARRATEDTHISCHAPTER PERFORMEDWITHIMPRESSIVESKILL3HEWOREA ity —ONESMALLEXAMPLEAMONGCOUNTLESS IN *EWISH HISTORY 3HE PERSISTENTLY QUES- tallit and tefillin, for me a totally new phe- others illustrating that Paula was a con- tioned everyone in this seminar on their nomenon. At the time, such a thing could summate scholar and teacher. views, left no argument unchallenged and not have happened in Israel and was still made everyone feel they were part of a Keren R. McGinity, Ph.D., is a research associ- COMPARATIVELYRAREINTHE53 ate at the Hadassah-Brandeis Institute. She larger mission to uncover aspects of the )T WAS NOT UNTIL  THAT ) CAME is the author of 3TILL *EWISH ! (ISTORY OF PASTNOONEHADYETEXAMINED to know her more intimately, when she 7OMENAND)NTERMARRIAGEIN!MERICA, and One of the great fortunes of my career enthusiastically agreed to partner with founding director of Love & Tradition (www. WASBEINGABLETORETURNTO9ALEINAS 0ROFESSOR $ALIA /FER OF THE (EBREW loveandtradition.com). a postdoctoral fellow. Paula saw it as her University in editing the Comprehensive task to provide me with crucial mentoring Historical Encyclopedia of Jewish Women, not only on teaching and scholarship, but WHICH MY HUSBAND -OSHE 3HALVI HAD BALANCINGMYPERSONALLIFEASWELL7HEN LONG DREAMED OF PUBLISHING %VERY SUM- I once noted that I felt that I had failed as mer she came to Israel and spent countless Beth Wenger a postdoc because I had not yet found a HOURSWITH-OSHEANDMYSELFDISCUSSING MET0AULA(YMANINTHEMIDDLEOF publisher for my book, she retorted with- the progress, both actual and desired, her career and was the first graduate out missing a beat, “if you do not produce OF THE PROJECT (ER DETAILED COMMENTS I student to study with her after she a sibling for your daughter, you have failed revealed not only an astonishing range went to Yale. I was not a part of the pio- AS A POSTDOCv )NDEED ) HAVE MET FEW and profundity of knowledge, but also neering generation of Jewish feminists, but women like Paula in the academic world (more unusually) a punctilious attention to instead reaped the benefits of their efforts. who remained steadfastly committed to details of style, grammar and even punctu- I have always felt that there are two dif- making sure her students remain fully ation. It became clear to me that whatever ferent approaches taken by women from engaged in politics, community, academic project she undertook she carried out with that generation. One group says, “I had it life and family. all her heart, mind and soul. so tough; you should appreciate what you Rebecca Kobrin, Knapp Assistant Professor HAVENOW vANDTHEOTHERGROUPDOESNOT Alice Shalvi won the Israel Prize 2007 for her of American Jewish History, Columbia contribution to Israeli society and to the advance- WANT TODAYS WOMEN TO EXPERIENCE WHAT University. Her first book, Jewish Bialystok ment of women, founded the Israel Women’s they did, but rather wants to make it even AND)TS$IASPORA was a National Jewish Book Network and headed the Pelech Religious BETTERFORTHENEXTGENERATION0AULACER- Award Finalist. Experimental High School for Girls. tainly fell into the latter category.

26 LILITH s Spring 2012 Reflections on Jewish Women in America: An Historical Encyclopedia Anne Lapidus Lerner by f I had to choose from among the 7EENGAGEDINOUROWNGENDEREDMINI WHO IS A *EW DEBATEWHEN INTHEMID decades of my memories of Paula S 0AULA (YMAN AND ) PONDERED WHICH WOMEN TO INCLUDE IN OUR Jewish (YMAN JUST ONE IT WOULD BE HER Women in America: An Historical Encyclopedia. Our arguments occurred in the I midst of heated debates among American Jews around intermarriage and a feared DAUGHTER*UDITHSBATMITZVAHINOURLITTLE shul, Paula in her purple dress walking HEMORRHAGINGOFNUMBERSOF*EWSTOA*EWISHFUTURE&ORUS QUESTIONSREVOLVED confidently up the stairs on that clear around non-halakhic criteria since we considered either a Jewish mother or .OVEMBER 3HABBAT IN  WITH HER FATHERASBRINGINGAWOMANPOTENTIALLYWITHINOURDOMAIN(OWIMPORTANTIS HUSBAND 3TANLEY 2OSENBAUM AND THEIR SELF IDENTIFICATIONAS*EW (OWCRITICALISRECOGNITIONBYOTHERSAS*EWISH (OW daughters Judith and Adina. DOWEEVALUATECONVERSIONTO*UDAISM (OWINTERPRETCONVERSIONTO#HRISTIANITY On the surface it was a familiar scene: 0AULASSTEADFASTSHAPEDTHISENORMOUSPROJECTTORESCUEUNHEARD a couple with their children approaching OFNUMBERSOFWOMENFROMUNDESERVEDOBSCURITY(ERVISIONPROMPTEDMETO the synagogue to mark the coming of age join her and motivated most of the other female scholars to devote their energy, of their elder child. But things are not EXPERTISE ANDTIMETOANUNCOMPENSATEDADVENTURE)TSHAPEDOURDECISIONTO ALWAYSWHATTHEYSEEM&ORWEEKSPRECED- include only women on the advisory board of the encyclopedia and in the end ING THE BAT MITZVAH 0AULA HAD NOT BEEN it led to the vast majority of entries written by women (many men turned us FEELINGWELL3HESELDOMCOMPLAINED BUT down when we asked them). she was clearly concerned — headaches, The project raised our consciousness and that of all of the women who par- DIZZINESS 3HE WAS RELIEVED WHEN SHE ticipated. In many ways, the encyclopedia represented that very special intersec- was running a fever because, as she said, tion of feminist activism with popular scholarship that Paula had pioneered as people who have had cancer can the AGRADUATESTUDENT$ESIGNEDTOOPENNEWTERRITORY THEENCYCLOPEDIARADICALLY FLU TOO3HEWASWILLINGTOGOTOTHEDOC- challenged ways of thinking about the American Jewish past. tor, but wanted to wait until after the bat /NEOFOURDECISIONSINTHEONGOINGWHO IS A *EWISH WOMANDISCUSSIONEXCLUD- MITZVAHNOPOINTUPSETTINGTHINGS ED -ARILYN -ONROE WHO CONVERTED TO *UDAISM BEFORE MARRYING THE PLAYWRIGHT &INALLY ON&RIDAYMORNING EIGHTDAYS !RTHUR-ILLER7ECONSULTEDOURCHILDRENOURFEMINISMMEANTTHATTHEYWERENEVER — BEFORE THE BAT MITZVAH CEREMONY SHE far from the project several of them wrote entries), thrashed the issue out with our CALLED TO SAY THAT 3TAN INSISTED THAT SHE ADVISORYBOARD ANDCONCLUDEDTHATTHECONVERSIONWASEXPEDIENT(ADWEKNOWN wait no longer to see a doctor, so we WHATSUBSEQUENTRESEARCHREVEALED WEPROBABLYWOULDHAVEINCLUDEDHER might have to postpone our scheduled Nevertheless, like many feminist projects, it was fraught with controversy. FORAYTOTHE,OWER%AST3IDEWHERE)WAS 7HENITCAMETIMETOCELEBRATEPUBLICATIONOFTHEENCYCLOPEDIA ANUMBEROF going to buy our gift for Judith — a pair FEMINISTACTIVISTS ANGRYOVERTHOSEWHOWEREEXCLUDED PICKETEDTHEPARTY! of tefillin %VENTUALLY 3TAN CALLED TO SAY FEWJOINEDTHECELEBRATIONATTHE*EWISH4HEOLOGICAL3EMINARYTOPROTEST)WAS THAT THEY WERE DOING TESTS (E SOUNDED DISTRAUGHT0AULA HOWEVER WASUNFAZED calm when he called again to tell me that Deborah Dash Moore is Frederick G. L. Huetwell Professor of History at the University 0AULAS BREAST CANCER HAD METASTASIZED of Michigan and director of the Frankel Center for Judaic Studies. Most recently she edited into a brain tumor that they would take with Marion Kaplan, 'ENDERAND*EWISH(ISTORY (2010), a collection of essays in honor OUTON3UNDAY!DOCTOR HECLAIMEDTHAT of Paula Hyman that won a National Jewish Book Award. it was not very complicated surgery. 3ATURDAY NIGHT IT SEEMED AS THOUGH the whole New York Jewish world was IN0AULASHOSPITALROOMTOWISHHERWELL 3HEWASCOMPOSED ASSUREDTHATBY&RIDAY Once more Paula had courageously she would be able to be home. kept her cancer at bay, as she did for 33 Hasia Diner 0AULA DID RETURN HOME THAT &RIDAY years, just more than half her life, without afternoon and appeared in shul on compromising her standards, her love of AULA(YMANMANAGEDWITHGRACE 3HABBAT MORNING FULLY PREPARED TO leyn FAMILY OF*UDAISM OF(EBREW OF4ORAH and aplomb to combine the roles the aliyot she had planned to read. No of learning, and of joy. P OF ACTIVIST AND SCHOLAR 3HE DID DRY EYES IN SHUL THAT MORNING (ER ONE not feel, as far as I could tell, obliged to Anne Lapidus Lerner is the author most concession to her illness was allowing me recently of %TERNALLY %VE )MAGES OF %VE IN bifurcate these two crucial concerns, nor to lead shaharit in her stead. That night at THE (EBREW "IBLE -IDRASH AND -ODERN did she consider herself obliged, when THEBATMITZVAHPARTY THEDANCING WHICH Jewish Poetry. At the Jewish Theological doing the one, to bracket the other. Paula prudently sat out, was the most Seminary she has served as vice-chancellor, The easy marriage between scholar- ENERGIZED)HAVEEVEREXPERIENCED)TWAS dean of List College, and associate dean of the ship and political commitment which completely cathartic as we gave physical Graduate School; she is founding director of its Paula both fostered and lived with is not EXPRESSIONTOOURRELIEF Jewish Women’s Studies Program. something that makes me comfortable.

www.Lilith.org s LILITH 25 er — writing politically INVISIBLE3HEDEMANDEDTHATTHEYREDEFINE charged books and WHAT CONSTITUTED IDEAS AND TEXTS SO THAT articles and citing her women could become part of history. EXPERTISE AS AN HIS- It is highly likely that the revolution torian in her public in modern Jewish history as a field would works — allowed her to NOT HAVE TAKEN PLACE HAD 0AULA (YMAN reshape the nature of behaved more like I do, saving my activism modern Jewish history for one part of my life, and making sure as a scholarly endeav- that my scholarship stands as devoid of my or. Paula the feminist POLITICSASPOSSIBLE3OEVENTHOUGH WHEN forced the field to I have taught her books, I have taken her to CHANGE 3HE PUSHED task with my students for the highly politi- and she prodded cal nature of the discussion, it is entirely Deborah Dash Moore and Paula Hyman, 1981. other scholars, men POSSIBLETHATMYCLASSESIN*EWISHWOMENS in the main but not history would never have come into being ONLY TO RECOGNIZE THAT without her willingness to do what I would I like to think of myself as an activist, women had made history and that the sub- not, could not, and indeed will not do. engaged in the public sphere, and as well jects they studied would be enriched and Hasia Diner is the Paul and Sylvia Steinberg being a dedicated scholar. But I believe changed if they bothered to think about Professor of American Jewish History at New that the two should never meet. I do not GENDER 3HE CAJOLED THEM INTO REALIZING York University. She is the author, with Beryl want them to touch, or not very much. THATBYVALORIZINGSOMESUBJECTS PRIMARILY Benderly, of (ER 7ORKS 0RAISE (ER ! 9ET 0AULAS WILLINGNESS AND ABILITY TO INTELLECTUAL AND TEXTUAL AND DOWNPLAYING (ISTORYOF*EWISH7OMENIN!MERICAFROM fuse the two helped make her a leader others, namely social history, they pushed #OLONIAL 4IMES TO THE 0RESENT, as well as among scholars. Bringing the two togeth- women to the side and rendered them numerous other books.

From the introduction to Gender and Assimilation in Modern Jewish History by Paula Hyman

The beginning of my graduate studies in Jewish history WOMENSHISTORYANDRAISEDQUESTIONSABOUTTHEIMPLICATIONS coincided with my introduction to feminism as an intellec- OFWOMENSHISTORYFOR*EWISHHISTORIANS!SFEMINISTTHEORY tual movement. That encounter shaped my self-definition HASEXPLODEDANDHISTORICALSTUDIESOFWOMENHAVEPROLIFER- as a Jewish woman and opened my eyes to the absence of ATED )HAVEBECOMEALLTHEMOREEAGERTOAPPLYTHEEXCITING women from all that I was studying. As a graduate student I PERSPECTIVESTHATHAVEEMERGEDINGENERALWOMENSHISTORYTO BECAMEANACTIVISTINTHENASCENT*EWISHWOMENSMOVEMENT the field of Jewish history… and joined with two friends in writing a popular history of Although the inclusion of women and gender in the Jewish women, The Jewish Woman in America, published in writing of history is important in itself, it is not, in historian 1976. The book, however, was not directly connected to my 'ERDA ,ERNERS TERMS SIMPLY A MATTER OFhADD WOMEN AND academic program, and I viewed it as a digression from my STIRv&EMINISTSCHOLARSHIPHASASPIREDTO ANDACHIEVED MORE hSERIOUSWORKv!SASCHOLAR)FOCUSEDONMYCHOSENAREAOF THANhFILLINGTHEGAPSvOFINFORMATIONABOUTHALFOFHUMAN- SPECIALIZATION THEHISTORYOFMODERN&RENCH*EWRY4HEFIELD ity. In historical scholarship it has challenged such basic OF GENERAL WOMENS HISTORY WAS JUST ACHIEVING RECOGNITION PARADIGMS OF THE FIELD AS PERIODIZATION AND THE DETERMINA- 7ITHIN*UDAICSTUDIESTHEFIRSTSTIRRINGSOFINTERESTINRECOVER- tion of what is deemed historically significant… In Jewish ing the history of Jewish women manifested themselves in historiography of the modern period research on women and the early 1980s and had little impact in the field beyond a GENDERHASALREADYEXPANDEDOURCONCEPTUALIZATIONOF*EWISH small coterie of primarily female scholars and students. religious life to include the subjects of domestic religion and 7HEN GIVEN THE OPTION TO PREPARE PAPERS FOR ACADEMIC PERSONALSPIRITUALITY7ITHTHISBOOK WHICHDRAWSUPONSTUD- conferences, however, I increasingly chose subjects related ies by many of my colleagues as well as upon my own new TO WOMENS HISTORY 4HE PUBLICATION OF THESE PAPERS IN RESEARCH )HOPETODEMONSTRATETHATTOBEVALID ANEXAMINA- PARTICULAR MY ANTHOLOGIZED ARTICLE ON THE  FEMALE LED tion of the processes of in the modern .EW9ORKKOSHERMEATBOYCOTT BROUGHTTHESPECIFICEXPERI- and contemporary periods must include women and gender ence of Jewish women to the attention of scholars of general in its design.

28 LILITH s Spring 2012 those who, like herself, combined their mention that John was gay and how his David Ellenson academic work with a strong sense of HOMOSEXUALITY HAD DEFINED SUCH A LARGE SOCIAL JUSTICE7HEN SHE SERVED AS JUDGE part of who John was. Paula felt that such N)WASASECONDYEARRABBINI- ON THE $OCTORAL 3CHOLARSHIP !WARDS a one-dimensional portrait was ultimately CAL STUDENT AT (5# *)2 AS WELL AS #OMMITTEE OF THE .ATIONAL &OUNDATION distorting, for it failed to capture the man I A DOCTORAL STUDENT IN THE #OLUMBIA FOR *EWISH #ULTURE AN ASPIRING FEMINIST and his significance. John consciously $EPARTMENT OF 2ELIGION 0AULA HAD JUST scholar writing a work on feminist theo- demonstrated that a gay man could be COMPLETEDHERDOCTORATEAT#OLUMBIAAND logical concerns had applied for scholar- hOUTOFTHECLOSETvANDLEADALIFEOFBOTH was already serving as a faculty member ship support. A man on the commit- uncompromising academic integrity and personal dignity. John served as a public role model to everyone at Yale — especially its gay and lesbian students — that one She said “What I can’t stand about my need not divorce who one was as a person from who one was as a scholar. Paula colleagues is that they don’t understand how especially applauded John because he important my children are to me.” I thought REFUSEDTOCOMPARTMENTALIZEHISLIFEINTO professional and personal components about that. And I realized that I had rarely had Paula was a great scholar who unceas- ingly and tirelessly labored to create a a teacher who revealed even the slightest part of world where there was greater opportuni- his personal life to me. And all of my teachers ty and justice for both women and men. had been HEs! She changed the way I teach and David Ellenson, Ph.D. is President of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute she changed the way I see my colleagues. of Religion. He co-authored with Rabbi Daniel Gordis the 2012 book Pledges of Robert Goldenberg *EWISH !LLEGIANCE #ONVERSION ,AW and Policymaking in Nineteenth- and 4WENTIETH #ENTURY/RTHODOX2ESPONSA.

AT#OLUMBIA)REMEMBERHERENTERINGTHE tee wanted to deny her application; he 5PPER 7EST 3IDE APARTMENT WHERE THE CLAIMEDTHATTHEWOMANSPROJECTWASNOT .EW9ORK(AVURAHGATHEREDFORITSWEEK- worthy of support. Paula had only admi- LY4HURSDAY MEETING %VERYONE CROWDED ration for this student and the significance Pamela S. Nadell around her, and wished her congratula- OFHERPROPOSEDWORK3HEALSOKNEWHOW e all have turning points tions on her doctorate. Paula beamed, important this support was — both for IN OUR LIVES ,ONG BEFORE ) and I saw her golden hair and her broad the student personally and for the cause 7 EVER MET 0AULA (YMAN SHE SMILEASTHEYLITUPTHEROOM7ESTARTED of Jewish feminist scholarship. Paula was played a role in mine. speaking that evening, and for 37 years infuriated by the attempt to deny this stu- )TWAS)WASFINISHINGAN-!IN our conversations never ceased. dent the award; she defended the project Jewish history and bound for law school. )N )SATWITH0AULAAT#OLUMBIA and the student, and threatened to resign I told one of my professors that, while I 0RESBYTERIAN (OSPITAL WHEN SHE HAD HER from the committee if this woman were really wanted a doctorate in Jewish his- first mastectomy. And in 1986, when not awarded a fellowship. Needless to say, tory, it seemed futile to get one. All the Paula was appointed to the faculty at the award was granted. professors I admired were trained both Yale, a number of her friends, including 0AULAOFTENEXPRESSEDANGERANDINDIG- as rabbis and historians. The former had ME EXPRESSEDGRAVECONCERNOVERWHATA nation when she felt an injustice had been only just become a possibility for women. MOVEFROM4EANECKTO.EW(AVENMIGHT done. This is how she felt at the funeral of Then I said: “Anyway, there are no women mean for her family should she die. I, and her Yale colleague John Boswell, who had INTHEFIELDv(EREPLIEDh4HERES0AULAv OTHER FRIENDS FELT THAT THEhSAFESTv THING been chair of the history department and Pamela S. Nadell holds the Patrick Clendenen to do might be for her to stay in New whose books on the evolving attitudes of Chair of Women’s and Gender History at York. Paula wrestled with this decision for THE#HRISTIAN#HURCHTOWARDSHOMOSEXU- American University, and is author of several weeks. In the end, she said to me, ality were magisterial and path breaking. 7OMEN7HO7OULD"E2ABBIS!(ISTORY h$AVID IF)WEREWELL )ABSOLUTELYWOULD 7HEN *OHN DIED AT  OF !)$3 0AULA OF7OMENS/RDINATION n. accept the appointment to Yale. If I say WASOUTRAGEDBYTHEEULOGYANEXTREMELY NO ITSASIF)MSAYINGTHAT)MGOINGTO prominent Yale professor delivered. The die —AND)WILLNOTACCEPTTHATFATEv 9ALEPROFESSORSPOKEONLYOF*OHNSINTEL- Throughout her years as a scholar, lectual brilliance, and his scholarly and Paula fought relentlessly on behalf of PROFESSIONAL ACHIEVEMENTS (E DID NOT

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