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Contributing Writers: Howard Erman Les Goldberg Ronnie Greenberg Dr. Robert Horseman Judith Rogow Debbie L. Sklar

VOLUME 44, NUMBER 12 Nick Thomas

DECEMBER 2018 “Serving The Needs of Orange County & Long Beach Seniors Since 1974” Robert Conrad “It’s up to the audience … I don’t sing anymore, and I don’t dance at all. But I have a 50-year career. Bring it on but have some class.” —Robert Conrad

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young faces not much older ules, let me introduce our in- than her own children. Even structors.” With that he started calling out At one point in life, my wife though she was expecting this, names along with the subject decided it was time to go back she was still feeling uneasy. Searching about with her eyes, they were teaching, and each to school. Our three children Planes of Fame instructor stood up. were in school and she thought she looked around to sit near Air Museum someone her own age or at 14998 Cal Aero Drive it would be a good example for Chino, CA 91710 The first instructor to stand them to see mom studying and least close to it. was the lady who arrived late doing homework just like they and was sitting on her left. The had to do. After searching the crowd with her eyes she finally spotted a instructors remained standing as additional instructor names At that time, we were living in couple of women at the front of were called and they stood. a small town in central Arizo- the auditorium who were close Soon all around my wife in- na. There was a 2-year com- to her age. They were sitting structors were standing, on her munity college in the county in the front row next to each left, right, in front of her and that wasn’t too far away, so my other and she reasoned they behind her. In fact, she was wife made the trip and enrolled must be going back to school the only one sitting in the first in classes that could eventual- like her. Both ladies smiled four rows. Her facial color ly transfer to a college with a at her as she sat down next to changed to bright red when 4-year degree. one of them. The auditorium filled up quickly. She noticed she realized she was sitting in the faculty section. After being out of school for that more women her age must over 20 years, she was a bit ner- have spotted her and the two vous. After all, she assumed other ladies and joined them. most of the students would be A few minutes later two older about 20 years younger than men who apparently were also With A her. She would be dealing with starting back to school joined raising three children, feeding them. Soon it looked like a a hungry man and having a whole section in the seating Heart commute plus juggling all the area was filled with adults like chores at home. That was one her going back to school. for of the reasons she decided to go to Orientation Day. About 10 minutes later the lights dimmed and the pres- Seniors A week before classes start- ident of the college stepped ed was Orientation Day. She on stage and walked to the arrived on the day of the ori- microphone in the center of entation meeting, parked her the stage. The auditorium ap- car and made her way to the peared to be completely full. auditorium. She was walking He introduced himself and along, feeling out of place with welcomed the students to Cen- all the young people striding at tral Arizona College. twice her speed to the meeting. She opened the door leading “Now before I get started with to the meeting location and the information about campus was stunned to see nothing but and changes in the class sched- Page 4 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Warning Signs Your Aging Parents Need More Help

If the sniff test reveals some Listen Up olfactory oddities, it might not Is the TV or radio volume blar- just be “normal aging.” Dimin- ing? Are conversations repeat- ished sense of smell can be an ed? Does Mom keep asking early indicator of Alzheimer’s “what?” or just smiling and PURCHASE, REFINANCE and Parkinson’s diseases. If nodding instead of participat- Home care agencies often see a you sense something isn’t ing? Don’t brush it off. Diffi- and REVERSE MORTGAGES surge in calls in late December quite right, help Mom or Dad culty following conversations and early January. Why? Many to set up a doctor’s visit to see may be a sign of hearing loss, grown children head home for if there’s something else going cognitive impairment or both. the holidays and notice their on. Seniors who begin losing their aging parents need some help. hearing are at greater risk of “We usually see a surge in Have A Look Around developing dementia over time demand for care around the Your childhood home may since hearing is a brain func- holidays as families get to- look the same as ever—but it tion. Sometimes, hearing aids gether and adult children no- may not work as well for old- (714) 831-1315 stimulate the sounds needed tice changes in their parents’ er adults. As people age, their for the brain to restore orga- BRIAN DOLAN, MBA well-being and realize they environment typically needs nization and correctly process [email protected] USMC, Ret. need more support to remain simple upgrades to keep them sounds. www.CertHomeLoans.com CalBRE #01801002 safe and independent in their safe. You can significantly re- VA •FHA • USDA • FNMA • JUMBO NMLS #1263264 homes,” said Austin Harkness, duce fall risks by taping down Making Sense Of Your Senses head of care for Honor, one of throw rugs, removing extra Talking to parents about warn- the fastest-growing home care furniture, securing electrical ing signs you’ve noticed isn’t companies in the country. Here cords out of pathways and add- fun. But do it anyway. Let them are ways to tell: ing grab bars in the bathroom. know you want to be involved to help them stay independent Take The Sniff Test Pay attention to clutter as well. for as long as possible. Even if Breathe in that holiday hug. If Stacks of unopened mail, bro- you notice unclean clothes or ken appliances or drooping you live far away there’s a lot an uncharacteristic body odor, houseplants may also signal you can do, such as scheduling that could signal that a par- a need for help. Being unable appointments and finding help ent is having trouble bathing, to manage everyday activities with transportation, chores and maintaining personal hygiene can be a symptom of depres- projects. Talk to nearby family or keeping up with household sion or of cognitive impair- members about how they can chores such as laundry. ment, which often presents help out or set up a visit with a like depression. home care agency that can pro- Next, follow your nose to vide ongoing support. the kitchen. Open the fridge. If you see any of the above You’ll notice pretty quickly if warning signs, you may want Fear of losing independence there’s spoiled food—but your to arrange for your parent keeps a lot of seniors tight parents may not. The sense of to see a doctor and for fam- lipped. If your parents are smell diminishes with age, ex- ily members or professional open and honest about their pecially after 70. Many seniors caregivers to stop by and help can’t detect unpleasant odors with projects and chores. Just changing needs, consider it a that would normally tell them knowing your parents have generous holiday gift. They it’s time to toss last week’s help and resources can relieve trust you’ll know what to do meat loaf. worry, both yours and theirs. with it. Page 5 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Postal Service Tips For A December Less-Stressed Holiday

The U.S. Postal Service plans Calendar all year for the holiday season. With more than 240 years of experience delivering the hol- of Events idays, the Postal Service and local postal elves are ready to • Redirect packages when they make this year the best one yet. won’t be home to receive it by Here are some tips designed to It is the end of the year but that Annual Newport Holiday Trains at the choosing the USPS Package help postal customers have a doesn’t mean you can’t go out Intercept option for an addi- Beach Christmas Boat Nixon Library happier, less-stressed holiday and have some fun. Don’t miss tional fee. Parade Yorba Linda by getting those greeting cards out on these events happening Newport Beach/Newport Through Jan. 8 and packages delivered on Skip the Trip and Ship On- in and around the area. Bay Annual Christmas celebration time and intact. line: The Postal Service is Dec. 19-23 with large displays of minia- uniquely qualified to deliver Tamale Festival The boat parade will light up ture model trains and the an- Know the deadlines: Mail the holidays—offering cus- Placentia the harbor for five consecutive nual Pat Nixon White House cards and packages on or be- tomers a variety of customized fore the dates listed. Dec. 5 nights; free admission to the Gingerbread House. Also, this solutions designed specifical- 4 to 9:30 p.m. public. The parade kicks off year, a 20-foot Nixon White ly to make shipping holiday For military and international The Placentia Santa Fe Mer- at Collins Island at 6:30 p.m. House Christmas tree — packages easy and convenient. destination deadlines, please Customers can stay home and chants Association and the and lasts for 3.5 hours. More decked out in red, white and go to usps.com. avoid holiday hassles by: city of Placentia are hosting than 250 ships participate in blue. At, Richard Nixon Pres- the annual Tamale Festival in the parade as well as hundreds idential Library and Museum, Get a Sneak Peek into Your • Ordering free Priority Mail Old Town Placentia in the 100- of waterfront estates. Free for 18001 Yorba Linda Blvd., Yor- Mailbox: With Informed De- and Priority Mail Express box- 200 blocks of Santa Fe Street. spectators, entry fee for par- ba Linda. Call, 714-993-5075. livery, customers receive an es and envelopes at usps.com/ Come enjoy live entertainment ticipating boats. More than 1.5 e-mail every morning with freeboxes, or picking them up images of incoming mail and Christmas Palm tree lighting million people view the parade from the local post office packages. It allows packages and visits with Santa. At, Santa each year. Call, 949-675-0551. to be rescheduled so they can Fe Street, Placentia. • Using Click-N-Ship online at be delivered when someone usps.com/ship to create ship- Discovery Cube: is home to receive them. Cus- ping labels with USPS Track- Christmas and Science of Gingerbread tomers can: ing and pay for postage — and Nativity Play Santa Ana by using flat-rate shipping • Sign up for free services and products, weighing isn’t nec- Huntington Beach Through Jan. 6 customize the delivery of their essary Dec. 16 Explore the world of the clas- Doors open at 5:30 p.m. package by going to informed- sic holiday dessert and how delivery.com • Getting packages picked up Old World Village hosts the science plays a role in the for free at home or in the of- International Celebration of kitchen. Build a candy car • Receive text messages or fice with Package Pickup. Just Christmas bringing together out of holiday treats and then e-mail alerts notifying them hand the package to the mail various churches, singers and compete, sweet-to-sweet in the that a package is en route and carrier on his or her regular dancers in celebration of the Gingerbread Derby. Visit with additional notifications when delivery route. Pickups can also be scheduled at usps.com/ true meaning of the holiday Santa Claus who will make a the package has been delivered pickup. season. Free admission. At, special appearance. At, Dis- Old World Village Festival • Provide delivery instructions covery Cube, 2500 N. Main How to Avoid a Holiday Hall, 7561 Center Ave., No. online and authorize the car- St., Santa Ana. Call, 714-542- Glitch: Here are some ad- rier to leave the package in a 49, Huntington Beach. 2823. ditional tips to help ensure a specific location glitch-free holiday:

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In the early 1950s, appliance num tray. Thomas experienced with cartons that featured im- manufacturers began offer- a “light bulb” idea moment ages of a wood-grained tele- ing refrigerators with freezer and sketched a food-tray de- vision cabinet and various compartments. Frozen fish, sign on an envelope. knobs. meat and vegetables began appearing in markets at about Back in Omaha he presented When the heated meals proved the same time. Also growing his idea to the Swanson hon- too hot to balance on one’s lap in popularity was the unrelat- chos, glibly explaining: “Look, while watching television, an- ed phenomenon of television. what if you put frozen turkey other invention — the folding Eventually all three coalesced in here and cornbread dressing TV tray — quickly solved the into a concept that would rad- in there and sweet potatoes in problem. ically alter the eating experi- there? Stick the whole thing in ence of the traditional Ameri- the oven, and in less than half With more women staying in can family. an hour — no fuss, no bother the postwar workforce, frozen — you’ve got a meal!” dinners proved to be a godsend And it all started with lots of to many harried homemakers unsold meat. The idea of cooking food and exhausted by the day’s end. freezing it for later consump- But women were often still ex- Accounts vary as to the actual tion wasn’t new. A New York pected to fix dinner, and some development of so-called “TV outfit called W. L. Maxson had men, resisting change, hated dinners,” the most frequently provided meals consisting of the idea of eating once-frozen told story involving an over- meat, a vegetable and a potato food rather than fresh. supply of 260 tons of turkey for the navy during World War meat in 1953. Supposedly II. In 1949 brothers Meyer and “Men said they would divorce an especially warm turkey Albert Bernstein had started their wives if they were served breeding season had resulted a Pittsburgh company called our dinners,” Thomas once in a warehouse full of surplus Frozen Dinners, Inc. (They explained. “I got a lot of hate meat owned by C. A. Swanson sold their product locally and mail. They said we were ruin- and Sons of Omaha, Neb. To under the odd brand name of ing family life.” keep its product from spoiling, One-Eyed Eskimo.) By the Swanson used refrigerated tur- early 1950s, American mar- Bibliography key-stuffed boxcars that rum- kets were already offering en- Books: Smith, Martin J. and Patrick J. Kiger. bled back and forth across the trees of frozen steaks and piz- Poplorica: A Popular History of the Midwest while the company zas, and Swanson itself sold a Fads, Mavericks, Inventions and Lore That Shaped Modern America. New York: frantically worked on a plan. popular frozen chicken pot pie. HarperCollins Publishers, Inc., 2004. The Thomas quotes are from pages 121 and EVERY MORNING MY Gerry Thomas, a Swanson By 1953 television sets could 123. HUMAN SHAVES OFF Internet: sales executive, had flown to be found in over half of the HIS FACE FUR, HE’S en.wikipedia.org. Printout: TV Dinner FUNNY LIKE THAT. Pittsburgh for a sales meeting nation’s homes. Swanson — Myers, Dan. “10 Things You Never Knew About TV Dinners.” thedailymeal.com. — T U C K earlier in 1953. On his flight, with much more marketing September 9, 2015. adopted 05-04-11 Pan American Airlines had clout than the folks behind “13 Healthy Frozen Dinners.” health.com served its passengers a hot One-Eyed Eskimo — promot- Trimarchi, Maria. “History of TV Din- ners.” recipes.howstuffworks.com. meal of meat, potatoes, vege- ed their frozen meals under “Who Invented the TV Dinner?” loc.org tables and dessert on an alumi- the brand name “TV Dinners,” (Library of Congress) Page 9 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

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Here’s another case of “be- was a week-long job pos- “Thundering Jets” (1958) and popularity from the hit TV ware of what you read on the ing outside a theater made his TV debut in the Bat show and the $5,000 a week Internet:” Facebook reported when the 1956 film “Giant” Masterson episode, “One Bul- paycheck but found time to on Nov. 12 that actor Robert was showing; Conrad bore a let from Broken Bow.” work on other projects. He Conrad had died. Hundreds resemblance to the iconic ac- formed Robert Conrad Pro- of fans immediately start- tor , who starred in ductions, and wrote, starred in ed writing their messages of “Giant.” His mother used her and directed the 1967 condolences on the Facebook entertainment industry con- film “The Bandits.” page. Two days later, the sto- tacts to help him get the part, ry was confirmed to be a com- which was intended as a pub- The Credits Mount plete hoax and thankfully, the licity stunt to boost attendance Conrad appeared in episodes 89-year-old handsome star of at the theater. He also studied of “Mannix” and “Mission: TV, silver screen and radio is singing with a vocal coach, Impossible” and in 1969 he alive and well. Dick Marx, who was the father debuted as prosecutor Paul The hoax, one of many simi- In addition to his acting, he of singer . Ryan in the TV movie “D.A.: lar Internet fraudulent claims was a singer, and recorded Murder One.” He was also in against celebrities, did affirm several pop/rock songs in the such made-for-television mov- Conrad’s popularity among late 1950s and early as ies as “Weekend of Terror and Bob Conrad. He also hosted Warner Bros. Five Desperate Women” and a weekly national radio show Conrad was soon signed to starred in the feature films – “The PM Show with Rob- an acting contract by Warner “Murph the Surf” and “Sudden ert Conrad” – on CRN Digital Bros. where he released sev- Death).” Talk Radio since 2008. A year later he met actor Nick eral recordings, including the Adams, who suggested that Billboard hit song “Bye Bye His Early Life Conrad move to California to Baby.” He appeared in the Conrad’s mother and father enhance his dream of becom- 1958 second season of the were 15 and 16 years old when ing an actor. His friendship series “Maver- Conrad Robert Falk was born with Adams led to a bit part in ick” and guest-starred in sev- on March 1, 1935 in Chicago. the 1958 film “Juvenile Jun- eral other shows, including His mother, Alice Jacqueline gle.” His brief non-speaking “Highway Patrol,” “Lawman,” Hartman, later became the first role enabled him to join the “Colt .45,” “Sea Hunt,” “The publicity director of Mercu- . He then Man and the Challenge” and ry Records and was forever landed a small role in the film “Lock Up.” Conrad found ratings success his many fans across the known as Jackie Smith. again in the mid-70s with globe. Now retired, his fame “Black Sheep,” which earned came largely from his role in him a People’s Choice Award Conrad attended Chicago From 1959 to 1963, Conrad the 1965-69 TV series “The for Favorite Male Actor and a schools but dropped out at age starred as detective Tom Lopa- ,” in which Golden Globe nomination for 15 to live on his own and begin ka in the hit show “Hawaiian he played a sophisticated Se- his performance. He followed working full time, including Eye.” During the series’ run, cret Service agent, James T. it with a lead part in the tele- jobs loading trucks and driv- he appeared on an episode of West. And we all know him vision miniseries “Centennial” ing a milk delivery truck. He the TV series “Gallant Men,” as the star of television’s “Baa in 1978. Baa Black Sheep” series (lat- eventually entered Northwest- then later starred in “Palm er syndicated as “Black Sheep ern University to study acting Springs Weekend.” Conrad made the occasional Squadron”) in which he played and pursue a thespian career. feature such as The Lady in World War II ace Pappy Boy- ington. One of his first paying roles In 1965, Conrad enjoyed the Continued on page 14 Page 11 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

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Segerstrom Center’s Annual Fiesta Navidad Celebrates the The Gadget Holidays with Grammy Award-Winning Mariachi Los Camperos Geezer Continued from page 12 Wednesday, December 12, 2018 at 8 p.m. The company doesn’t sell film Renée and Henry Segerstrom Concert Hall anymore, but Kodak offers a PixPro collection of digital Tickets on sale now cameras starting at about $80. This compact point and shoot Segerstrom Center for the is a step-up model with a re- Arts’ Fiesta Navidad, one of chargeable lithium-ion battery. Orange County’s most popular and anticipated holiday cele- It features high-definition vid- brations, returns to the Renée eo, 28mm wide-angle lens, and Henry Segerstrom Concert a variety of shooting modes, Hall on Wednesday, December 16.14-megapixel resolution, a 5.1-25.5mm zoom lens and a 12, 2018 at 8 p.m. The concert 2.7-inch LCD screen. It also features the renowned Gram- fore the birth of Jesus. This colorful and is packaged with a charger, my® Award-winning Maria- power cable, wrist strap and beloved holiday concert is an event to be chi Los Camperos, dancing by quick start guide. enjoyed by the entire family. Folklor Pasión Mexicana and Las Posadas, plus the honored Finally, I hope you and your Latino Christmas tradition that families enjoy the season of giving and receiving with reenacts Joseph and Mary’s good health and happiness. I pilgrimage to Bethlehem be- will “see” you next year! Page 14 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

Robert Conrad Fabulous Finds Continued from page 10 By Debbie L. Sklar Red (1979) for Roger Cor- It’s the end of the year and the venient to get to what’s needed Kathy Holman and Fred Love, man’s , holidays are here. If you need a without hassle. Four new bags to name a few. It features his- where he played last-minute stocking stuffer or make up the collection. Order toric and modern photos and and that same year played a gift, here are a few options that or visit http://solo-ny.com for illustrations in addition to San modern-day variation of James should put smiles on the fac- more info and pricing. Juan Capistrano’s timeline dat- West in the short-lived series es of the receiver. From great ing back to 1776. Capistrano “A Man Called Sloane.” smelling fragrances for men to Capistrano Trails Trails is available at Amazon. a neat book for the horse lover, com in Kindle format, black take a quick gander. and white print, and hard-back 2000s color print. Proceeds benefit On March 31, 2003, while on For the Traveler a variety of local charitable Highway 4 in the California causes. For more information, Sierra foothills near his Alpine visit www.drdonnafriess.com. County home, Conrad drove his Jaguar over the center me- Great Fragrances for dian and slammed head-on into Men a Subaru driven by 26-year- old Kevin Burnett. Both men suffered serious injuries. Tried on felony charges, Conrad Longtime San Juan, CA., resi- pleaded no contest. He was dent, author and historian, Don- convicted of drunk driving na L. Friess, Ph.D. has written Dollar Shave Club has and sentenced to six months Conrad spent most of the Capistrano Trails, Ride for the launched, Blueprint Fine of house confinement, alco- 1980s starring in TV movies. Brand. Unlike many local his- Fragrances offering every- hol counseling and 5 years’ He played a paraplegic coach Solo New York, an urban-in- torical accounts, Capistrano thing men need in the bath- probation. A civil suit filed by in “Coach of the Year,” the ti- spired designer of backpacks, Trails memorializes the stories room to prepare for the day. Kevin Burnett against Conrad tle role in “Will: The Autobi- totes, duffels, briefs, and and history of the horses that Blueprint is a line of six pre- was settled the following year ography of G. Gordon Liddy” sleeves, comes the new No- shaped San Juan Capistrano mium fragrances under two for an undisclosed amount. In and a villain in the comedy mad Collection — a modern, as ‘Horse Capital of the West series – Fresh and Warm – 2005, Burnett died at age 28 “Moving Violations” for the- versatile collection of four Coast.’ It explores the question that help set the stage to be from perforated ulcers, which aters, and “The Fifth Missile, unique bags made for the of how San Juan Capistrano your best in the moments that his family attributed to his dif- Assassin” and “Charley Han- go-getter. The Nomad Collec- remains connected to its Old matter most. Free of synthet- ficult recovery from the crash. nah’s War” for TV. tion’s design captures the spirit West roots as the book takes ic dyes, parabens, or sulfates. Conrad himself suffered se- the reader through the horse’s Price: $35 (kit of 3-15ml), $50 of the focused, fast-paced ur- 1990s vere nerve injuries from the ban commuter. Always on the Ice Age beginnings, the Mis- (50ml), $50 (Collectors set of Conrad appeared in the music crash, which left his right side lookout for the next opportuni- sion Periods and Rancho Era, 6-15ml), See more options at video “Hazard,” which be- partially paralyzed. ty, they need a functional, yet to today’s horse-friendly San DollarShaveClub.com came a number one hit in 13 sharp everyday bag that looks Juan Capistrano community. countries, played supporting In 2005, Conrad ran for head stylish no matter what the The 250-page oral history in- roles in the motion picture of the Screen Actors Guild setting. Sleek grey and black cludes a mix of narration and “Jingle All the Way” with Ar- and recorded audio introduc- tones maintain an impecca- first-person accounts from past nold Schwarzenegger, TV se- tions for every episode of the ble look for frequent traveler and present equestrian legends ries “Nash Bridges” and the first season of “The Wild Wild heading from one meeting and Marguerite “Daisy” O’Neill, film “Dead Above Ground.” West” for its North American airport to the next, while the Tony Forster, Colonel Jim Wil- He also was cast in the mov- DVD release. He was induct- separate compartments for lap- liams, Richard Egan, Richard ie “Samurai Cowboy,” the TV tops and devices make it con- O’Neill, Sr., Gilbert Aguirre, movie “Search and Rescue.” Continued on page 15 Page 15 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

Robert Conrad

Continued from page 14 ed into the Stuntman’s Hall of Fame for his work on “The Wild, Wild West” series -- no- tably the only actor to claim this honor.

Personal Life Conrad and his first wife Joan were married for 25 years until an amicable divorce. The cou- ple had five children. His sec- ond marriage to LaVelda Ione Fann produced three children. They met when he emceed the Miss National Teen-ager Pag- eant, which she won.

Happy Holidays from the Senior Reporter Page 16 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Elevate Your Holiday Meal ‘Those Were the Days’ With This Mary Hopkin Prosciutto MBA, Realtor Cranberry By Randal C. Hill December 1968 Crostini Recipe Seniors List for as low as 1% Beatle Paul McCartney first borhood recording studio numerous other artists, includ- heard of Mary Hopkin when where Hopkin taped several ing Bing Crosby and Dolly he was eating dinner at his songs. Parton, recorded the rousing father’s Liverpool home one tune. night. Included at the table that Years earlier, at a London club evening were friends Twiggy called the Blue Angel, McCa- McCartney also felt the work (the British supermodel) and rtney had heard “Those Were had international appeal and her manager. The conversation the Days,” at the time sung by asked Hopkin to record ver- turned to TV talent-discovery touring American performers sions in Italian, Farsi, Span- shows, and the younger McCa- Gene and Francesca Riskin. ish, French and German — Advertise in Here’s a great way to make rtney wondered aloud whether The tune featured a haunting sung phonetically, just as the holiday entertaining easier and anyone was ever really discov- Russian melody but, courtesy Beatles had done when they The Senior more fun for everyone: Ham ered on such programs? of Gene Riskin, employed En- cut German versions of “She Reporter’s it up. Not with just any ham, glish lyrics and arrangement. Loves You” and “I Want to Twiggy responded that she had however. Stock up on Pro- The song had originated as a Hold Your Hand” in 1964. recently seen a cute 17-year- CLASSIFIED & sciutto di Parma. Prosciutto 1925 Russian romance piece old Welsh girl named Mary called “Dorogoi Dinnoyu” — Alas, Hopkins’s star soon fad- di Parma is an excellent item PROFESSIONAL Hopkin on a show called “Op- literally “By the Long Road” ed but not before leaving be- to keep in your fridge during portunity Knocks.” Twiggy, — and dealt with reminisces hind two more Top 40 winners the holidays because it offers a SERVICE impressed with the young la- uon youth and romantic ideal- with the McCartney-produced variety of ways to elevate any dy’s high, clear voice, predict- ism. The Riskins always closed singles “Goodbye” and “Tem- DIRECTORY meal, from your main dish to ed — correctly — that Hopkin their shows with “Those Were ma Harbor.” festive appetizers or straight would win on the next week’s the Days.” Only out of the package to the plate broadcast. A downbeat footnote: On for a last-minute charcuterie McCartney loved the song and Christmas Eve 1975, Francis- McCartney became intrigued board. suggested it to friends Dono- co Macias Nguema, the pres- / enough to tune in. He too $37.50 van and the Moody Blues, but ident of Equitorial Guinea, mo with a 6-mo. quickly fell under the spell of Prosciutto, which means neither showed interest. Later, ordered the execution of 150 Hopkin’s voice and her strik- commitment “ham” in Italian, is aged by McCartney decided to produce coup plotters in a football sta- ing and wholesome looks. The dium while powerful amplifi- a special dry-curing process. the tune himself with Hopkin. seniorreporterof Beatles had recently started ers blasted — yes — Hopkin’s Discriminating palates are “I thought it was very catchy, their own label —Apple Re- [email protected] it had something, it was a “Those Were the Days.” partial to the delicate, savory cords — and were on the look- or call good treatment of nostalgia,” flavor of Prosciutto di - Par out for talent other than them- Bibliography McCartney said. “[Hopkin] Books: Bill Thomas at ma. It can be produced only selves to promote. picked it up very easily, as if Feldman, Christopher G. The Billboard from specially bred pigs in the Book of No. 2 Singles: The Complete His- (714) 458-5703 she’d known it for years.” countryside surrounding the McCartney: “So I thought, tory of the Singles That Almost Reached the Top of Billboard’s Hot 100. New York: city of Parma, Italy. In Parma, OK. Quite right. We should Billboard Books/Watson-Guptill Publica- The future 8-million seller be- the art of making prosciutto is sign her up for Apple, may- tions, 2000. came Apple’s second released Miles, Barry. Paul McCartney: Many passed on from generation to be make an interesting record single, immediately following Years from Now. New York: Henry Holt generation and the methods with her.” and Company, 1997. The first McCartney the Beatles’ “Hey Jude.” quote is from p. 454, the second from p. used thousands of years ago To Hopkin’s amazement Mc- 455. have remained consistent. So Shannon, Bob and John Javna. Behind the Cartney phoned her and sug- McCartney had been prescient has the guarantee of the Par- Hits: Inside Stories of Classic Pop and gested that they meet for lunch in picking “Those Were the Rock and Roll. New York: Warner Books, ma Crown, fire-branded on in London. They did (along Days” for his new artist. The Inc., 1986. every leg, and visible on every Internet: with Mary’s mother), and on song reached No. Two on en.wikipedia.org. Printouts: Mary Hop- Continued on page 17 the same day visited a neigh- “Billboard,” and eventually kin, Those Were the Days (song) Page 17 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Prosciutto rounds on a baking sheet and Dessert on the Ceiling drizzle lightly with olive oil. Cranberry (and Other Kooky Christmas Traditions) Bake until toasted, about 5 Crostini minutes. Remove from oven by Randal C. Hill hidden under a sackcloth while Continued from page 16 and let cool. bearing a horse’s skull on the presliced package, so that you More than 160 countries end of a stick. Divide cheese on top of the know it’s a 100 percent natural around the world celebrate toast rounds and return to the product made with no addi- Christmas. Overseas and else- Germany: Each December oven. Bake until the cheese tives or preservatives, just sea where, some holiday tradi- 5th, German children leave has melted, about 5 minutes. salt, air and time. tions may seem wonderfully a shoe outside the house. Top with a thin layer of cran- weird—and maybe even a bit Well-behaved kiddies awake berry compote, then place ½ One great way to serve it is in bizarre. For some chuckles, to find the shoe stuffed with slice of prosciutto on top. this elegant, flavorful appetiz- let’s check out the yearly hap- sweets. Those behaving oth- close to all traffic when Christ- er. penings in erwise are likely to find a tree The tart cranberries paired mas Eve arrives. This is a branch instead. with sweet yet salty Prosciut- safety measure as many city Prosciutto di Parma Cran- Slovakia: During Christmas to di Parma and savory cheese dwellers roller-skate—nobody berry Crostini Eve dinner, the oldest male Canada: There’s an actual will have you and your guests seems to know why—to late- ⅓ cup cranberry compote (rec- resident tosses a spoonful of postal code used in Canada to enjoying these crostini all night Mass. ipe below) loksa pudding (a mixture of send letters to the North Pole: night long. Bursting with fla- 1 18-inch baguette sweetened poppy seeds, bread HOHOHO. All the letters re- vors just right for the holidays, Norway: All brooms are hid- ¼ lb melting cheese such as and water) onto the ceiling— ceived, even those in Braille, they pair well with a bold red den in order to keep witches white cheddar, grated the more that sticks, the better are answered by thousands of wine to bring out all the rich from finding them and riding 10 slices Prosciutto di Parma his crops or business will do volunteers who donate their flavors further. Extra virgin olive oil, as need- during the next year. off into the Christmas Eve time every year. night. Men also fire their guns ed Learn More into the evening sky. Cranberry compote Guatemala: Each neighbor- Czech Republic: Some folks For more holiday inspiration, 12 oz fresh or frozen cranber- hood sweeps dirt into one large fast on Christmas Eve in the visit https://parmacrown.com/ Japan: Since 1974 the power ries pile, then plants an effigy of hope that they will visualize seasons/. of persuasive American adver- 3 Tbsp butter the Devil on top before setting a golden pig—a sign of good tising has established a newer 6 Tbsp light brown sugar it on fire. luck—appearing on a wall be- tradition: enjoying a Christmas 6 Tbsp maple syrup fore dinner. Day feast at the nearest Ken- 1 Tbsp grated orange rind

England: The idea of kiss- tucky Fried Chicken restau- ¼ tsp ground cinnamon South Africa: After residents ing under the mistletoe began rant. ⅛ tsp salt enjoy a traditional Christ- here. Refusing a smooch was mas Day meal, they eagerly said to bring bad luck, and Greenland: Folks relish hol- Preheat oven to 350° F. For tuck into after-dinner treats of one tradition required that, iday treats of mattak (whale the cranberry compote: Rinse plump, fuzzy caterpillars that with each kiss, the participants skin with a strip of blubber in- and drain the cranberries well. have been fried in oil. pluck a berry from the mistle- side) and kiviak, the raw flesh Melt 3 tablespoons butter in a toe bunch. of auks (a type of Arctic bird) medium sauté pan over medi- Final thought: Makes you which have been buried whole um-high heat. Stir in the cran- wonder how some of our own New Zealand: Summertime in sealskin for seven months berries and other ingredients. Christmas traditions might Santa often appears in “jan- until they have reached a cer- Cook, stirring occasionally, seem strange to others, as dals” (New Zealand sandals) tain level of decomposition. until cranberries start to break well? and an All Blacks (their na- (Seconds, anyone?) down and mixture thickens, tional rugby team) shirt. Kids about 8 to 10 minutes. Set leave beer and pineapple Wales: Some villages in South aside to cool. chunks for Mr. Claus, and car- Wales celebrate Mari Lwyd, rots for his reindeer. a wassailing folk custom in For the crostini appetizer: which a local man parades Slice baguette into 24 rounds Venezuela: Caracas streets through the streets, his identity about ½-inch thick. Place Page 18 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Cooking Corner Holiday Entertaining Advice From A Celebrity dishwasher safe and oven safe stir in more stock, each time Chef up to 400° F. Try it out with adding just enough to cover the Chef Fabio’s holiday risotto rice. Stir often, making sure it Celebrity chef and restaurateur recipe: doesn’t stick to the bottom of Fabio Viviani loves to enter- the pan. Once you have add- tain friends and family during Mushroom & Chestnut ed all the stock and the rice is the holidays and he has some Risotto tender, remove from heat and tips to consider before plan- (serves 6) stir in the nutmeg, mascarpone ning your next gathering. 2 Tbsp. butter and Parmesan. Adjust for salt Fridays most games 4 slices pancetta, diced and pepper. Top with roasted • A signature cocktail is a must. 1 yellow onion, diced chestnuts and additional Par- will pay $500 & $400 Make a base the day before to 1 lb oyster or shiitake mush- mesan cheese. Serve with the let the flavors meld and add al- rooms, sliced remaining bottle of Prosecco cohol the day of your party. salt and ppper wine on the side. 1⅓ cups Arborio rice • To make an easy yet elegant 1 cup Prosecco Learn More table setting, choose a platter. 2 quarts chicken or vegetable For further facts and tips, visit It makes for an impressive stock www.bedbathandbeyond.com. display of food but puts every- ½ tsp. ground nutmeg one in charge of serving them- ½ cup mascarpone cheese selves. ½ cup Parmesan cheese, grat- • Lastly, always use a quali- ed, plus more for garnish ty brand of durable nonstick 6 oz roasted chestnuts, shelled, cookware that makes an im- toasted and chopped pressive dish but is easy to clean. Heat butter in a large nonstick sauté pan over medium heat. Chef Fabio’s go-to cookware Add pancetta and cook until Happy Holidays line is Bialetti Titan. The golden brown, then add onion unique micro-divot interior and mushrooms with a pinch provides a textured nonstick of salt and sauté until softened, surface for superior food re- about 10 minutes. Stir in the lease and easy cleanup so you rice and cook for two minutes. can spend more time with Pour in wine and simmer un- guests. til absorbed almost complete- ly. Start adding the stock one Available exclusively at Bed ladle at a time, just enough to Bath & Beyond, Bialetti Titan cover the rice. As the stock is cookware is metal utensil safe, absorbed and the rice cooks, Page 19 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Turkey Talk

By Robert E. Horseman, DDS

“That’s the one, Doc,” he con- curred. That’s the rascal been gree, an odd 180 degree atti- giving me fits.” He called all tude shift occurred. A patient his teeth rascals. “See that ras- said to me, “I need an MO al- cal on the other side? No, not loy in my #30.” Immediately, that rascal, the rascal two up One of the perks of the dental I’m thinking, “Uh oh, here’s from there.” profession is that one meets trouble!” A patient who takes such a broad spectrum of peo- the trouble to annoy you by After two years, I found my- ple. There are other perks, of learning the lingo is, or was, self questioning, “How’s that course, and given enough time, somebody’s assistant or maybe rascal we treated last time?” I’m sure I could think of one. a lab man. They are not going and at the same time berating These people—our patients— to buy my simplistic explana- myself for having surrendered whose attendance in our offic- tions of dental problems. Ref- so easily in the battle of se- es is so vital to our well-being erences to rascals and turkeys mantics. in many cases to have priori- are not going to impress them, ties, agendas and vocabularies so now I’m bilingual. Another patient of mine had which are at a wide variance 32 “turkeys.” This was back from our own. Teeth can be babies or bicus- in the time when the term tur- pids, molars or S.O.B.s. Tak- key was used by the general When I was younger, one of ing the pulse of the situation, population to describe almost my tenets besides the belief I can skip with facile tongue anything, particularly if it was that Brilliantine was the best between scientific dental disagreeable. I can’t believe I possible form of grease to terms and patients’ homemade did this, but I routinely asked apply to my hair was that in equivalents, being equally am- this guy if he had experienced order to communicate more bivalent in either milieu. any trouble with his turkeys effectively with my patients, since his last visit. I tried to as- we should both speak the same Just for fun sometimes during suage my embarrassment and language. Dentally, that is. a mind-numbing procedure, guilt by rationalizing that we Since I was the doctor with a it enriches our communicat- were at least communicating new Perma-Plaqued diploma, ing skills to speak in a frowny and that was supposed to be and fiercely imbued with the manner of “a furcation in- the name of the game. crusade to educate the masses, volvement in this chopper with I righteously felt the common a possibility of a hemisection, On one occasion, an otherwise language we sought should be leaving the sucker with one mature lady with a toothache mine. root. insisted that “we get that pup- py out of there!” Once I be- Hoo, boy! It soon became Adept as I became vaulting the came comfortable with this clear that any education that language barriers to complete concept, I was prepared to re- ensued was likely to be my understanding, I came a crop- fer without hesitation to teeth own. An early lesson occurred per eventually with a lady who with a gentleman whose prob- as zebras, hippos, or aardvarks chose to refer herself and her lem, as I described it to him in if necessary, just get on with possessions in the third person. colorful multisyllabic terms, the appointment. concerned his maxillary right 2nd molar. Having capitulated to this de- Continued on page 26 Page 20 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

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can talk about. Ex- cials blame their deaths on nat- truckers, mechanics, biolo- cept Lia’s parents, ural causes. However, when a gists, miners, smugglers, and who refuse to dis- small drone is spotted at the goatherds. cuss what might scene of the most recent death, have happened it quickly becomes clear to “By thanking these people there. They refuse, FBI agents Nicholas and Mi- face-to-face, Jacobs finds some even, to discuss chaela that there’s more to this much-needed brightness in his Make sure you round out the anything to do with Emile. mystery than meets the eye. life. Gratitude does not come year with a good book before naturally to Jacobs — his dis- 2019 arrives. Here are some “As a student journalist, Lia “The key: indecipherable. position is more Larry David options you might want to in- begins an investigation that than Tom Hanks — but he sets vestigate and curl up with on a will take her far from her “Dr. Isabella Marin is a lan- off on the journey on a dare cold winter’s evening. home, discovering clues about guage expert, and she’s ded- from his son. And by the end, Emile’s past that lead to a it’s clear to him that scientific Limetown icated her entire life to re- Florida to California, Goffard shocking secret — one with research on gratitude is true. The Prequel to the No. 1 searching an ancient text that has reported probingly on the unimaginable implications Gratitude’s benefits are legion: Podcast has long been considered in- shadowy, unseen corners of not only for the people of Li- it improves compassion, heals By Cote Smith decipherable … that is, until society. This book gathers to- metown, but for Lia and her your body, and helps battle de- Contributions by: Zack Akers now. When it becomes clear gether for the first time ‘Dirty family. The only problem is … pression. and Skip Bronkie that there’s an alarming pat- John’ and the rest of his very she’s not the only one looking tern between the text and the best work …” according to for answers …,” according to “Jacobs gleans wisdom from recent deaths, she teams up Publisher Simon & Shuster. Publisher Simon & Shuster. with the FBI to find the link. vivid characters all over the globe, including the Minneso- It’s clear that the manuscript Thanks A Thousand The Sixth Day ta miners who extract the iron is the key to catching the kill- A Gratitude Journey (Book No. 5 of that makes the steel used in er. But how? …” according to (Part of TED Books) ‘A Brit in the FBI’) coffee roasters, to the Madison Publisher Gallery Books. By A.J. Jacobs By Catherin Coulter and J.T. Avenue marketers who cap- “Author A.J. Jacobs discov- Ellison tured his wandering attention Dirty John and Other ers that his coffee — and ev- True Stories of Outlaws for a moment, to the farmers and Outsiders in Colombia , …” according to Publisher Simon & Shuster. By Christopher Goffard “ Since its release in fall 2017, the ‘Dirty John’ podcast — “On a seemingly ordinary day, about a conman who terrorizes 17-year-old Lia Haddock hears a Southern California family news that will change her life — has been downloaded more forever: 300 men, women, and than 20 million times and is children living at a research now a scripted drama on Bra- facility in Limetown, Tenn., vo starring Connie Britton and have disappeared without a Eric Bana. The story, which trace. Among the missing is also ran as a print series in the ery other item in our lives — Emile Haddock, Lia’s uncle. , wasn’t would not be possible without “The mystery: shocking. unfamiliar terrain to its writer, hundreds of people we usual- “What happened to the people “When several major political Christopher Goffard. Over two ly take for granted: farmers, of Limetown? It’s all anyone figures die mysteriously, offi- decades at newspapers from chemists, artists, presidents, Page 22 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 San Simeon: The Majestic Coast Story by Ronnie Greenberg • Photos by Joe Hilbers

Dazzling gold and orange Angus ribeye; roasted Heir- restore the light station to a hues on vines that were loom beet salad; smoked period of historical signif- once green, spread across Dungeness crab and shrimp; icance. The final phase of the crisp and delicious Swiss chard ravioli; baked the restoration of the Fog Highway 1 Discovery Route oyster; and top it off with Signal Building built in along the California Coast breadcrumb ice cream sun- 1906 and just completed in on the way to San Simeon. dae or coffee crème brûlée. August has been a signifi- The route, midway between Located at 9415 Hearst Dr., cant journey. Los Angeles and San Fran- call, (805) 927-4688 or visit cisco, connects 10 artisan www.cavalierresort.com Tours are offered year-round communities that are known on Tuesdays, Thursdays and for beautiful beaches, abun- Sites to see: Saturdays. Tours last about dance of outdoor adventure, Cavalier Oceanfront Resort Piedras Blancas Lighthouse. 2 hours and include the his- rugged landscapes, a va- The light at Piedras Blan- toric Piedras Blancas light- freshly-baked cookies and The perfect springboard riety of wildlife viewing, cas was first illuminated in house and support building, given samples right off the to beautiful beaches, the award-winning wineries, 1875, at which point the along with a half-mile in- baking tray. Watch the team Whale Trail, Pacific Coast and authentic farm-to-table tower stood 100 feet tall. terpretive trail that provides of bakers and dough makers Wine region and minutes cuisine. Its unique appearance, flash spectacular ocean views and hand roll each Brown Butter away from the world-fa- pattern, and later, its fog opportunities to view wild- Sea Salt cookie. Take some mous Hearst Castle. Before reaching San Sime- signal made it easily identi- life. For tour information/ on, make a delightful short home or have them shipped. The Cavalier has 90 spa- turnoff from the Discovery Located at 98 N. Ocean Ave. cious rooms, many with Route to the beach town of in Cayucos, call, (805) 995- wood burning fireplac- Cayucos, for a step back in 2076 or visit www.brown- es, patios with Adirondack time. Walk around the area, buttercookies.com chairs, coffee makers, bin- stroll along the beach and oculars, complimentary Wi- explore downtown Cayucos. Once you get to San Sime- on check into the Cavalier Fi, pet-friendly grounds and Visit Brown Butter Cook- Oceanfront Resort situated accommodations. Outdoor ie Co. owned by the Hozie along Highway 1, set on a amenities include three sisters, where you are wel- scenic seaside bluff over- oceanfront fire pits, two out- comed with the aroma of looking the Pacific Ocean. door heated pools and hot tubs, direct beach access, outdoor games that include Elephant Seals Rookery giant chess and checker sets, fiable to mariners traveling a deck with telescopes for this rocky stretch of coast- reservations, visit www. whale watching, and beach line. Owned and operated recreation.gov or www.blm. volleyball. by the Bureau of Land Man- gov- please do not wait at agement since 2001, the the gate of the lighthouse, On site and so very con- venient is the Cavalier light station is still in use but follow the instructions Coastal Kitchen open for as a navigational aid and for when making reservations. breakfast, lunch and din- scientific research. Today, Located at 15950 Cabril- ner. Lunch and dinner high- the BLM and Piedras Blan- lo Hwy., San Simeon, call, lights include: cream of cas Light Station Associa- (805) 927-7361 or visit Piedras Blancas Lighthouse cauliflower soup; tartare of tion are working together to www.piedrasblancas.org Page 23 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 San Simeon: The Majestic Coast continued

world-renowned architec- ing, picnicking, walking the ture Julia Morgan. Con- beach, windsurfing, kayak- Dinner is a special treat at struction began in 1919 ing, fishing, surfing and tide Robin’s Restaurant owned continuing until 1947 and pooling. For camping res- by Shanny Covey, and was was not fully completed be- ervations, call, (800) 444- originally built in 1935 by fore Hearst’s death in 1951. 7275. Located at 750 Hearst Frank Souza who was the There are guesthouses, Castle Road in San Simeon, construction foreman at pools, (the indoor Neptune call, (805) 927-2093 www. Hearst Castle. This best-of- pool features an ancient hearstcastle.org all-world eatery has been a Roman temple as its center- piece), 8 acres of cultivated gardens and a private zoo on Robin’s Restaurant property.

Ryan Cooper Manager-US Descendants of some of Hearst San Simeon State Department of the Interior the zoo animals including Park and Castle Bureau of Land Manage- zebras, can sometimes be Hearst Castle that sits on ment. seen today grazing on the top of what is known as green hillside of the near- Piedras Blancas Elephant “Enchanted Hill,” is the by 80,000 acre working Seals Rookery 60,645-square-foot, 115- cattle Hearst Ranch, that is Witness the power of the room luxury estate that still privately owned. Visit ocean as waves crash the looks like a castle in Spain, Stolo Family Winery www.hearstranch.com surf and sea otters frolic in and now a museum that Wine and Dine in nearby favorite among locals and crystal blue waters while the lures visitors from all over Additional recreational ac- Cambria visitors alike. With its trum- fascinating blubbery North- the world. The Castle is the tivities are available includ- Stop at the Stolo Family pet vine covered patio and ern Elephant seals bask on result of the vision of Wil- ing a trip to the Hearst Cas- Winery for a tasting and cozy interior, Robin’s is one the sand. From December liam Randolph Hearst, the tle Visitor Center viewing a tour. The winery has 22 of those rare kitchens that to March they can easily be newspaper magnate, movie movie at the Hearst Castle can combine many differ- seen nesting, having pups, acres of vineyards, a tast- producer and world class Theater or taking one of the ent cuisines and do them all battling, and mating on the ing room and a patio for a art collector who built the multiple guided tours. Other well. With an emphasis on beach up the road from San picnic or snack. Get to meet historic estate, along with activities are camping, hik- using farm-fresh ingredi- Simeon Bay at scenic vista the very knowledgeable and ents, Robin’s features such points on the coast side of personable General Man- eclectic choices as Viet- Highway 1. Friends of the ager, Diego Aguirre who namese spring rolls; fettu- Elephant Seals blue jacket- along with Winemaker Ni- cine prawn Alfredo; salmon ed docents are delighted to cole Bertotti Pope can walk bisque; cocoa crusted filet interpret, answer questions you through its sustainable mignon; Zoodles made with and relate the fascinating growing practices and how zucchini and yellow squash story of the seals, and can be it crafts its Garagiste wines. noodles, eggplant, roasted found at the Northern Ele- Located at 3776 Santa Rosa red bell peppers, roasted phant Seals vista points. Lo- Creek Road in Cambria, garlic, red bell pepper po- cated on Highway 1, about modoro, walnut parmesan 10 miles North of Cambria, call, (805) 924-3121or vis- and garlic crostini; duck call, (805) 924-1628 or visit it www.stolofamilywinery. www.elephantseal.org Interior of Robins Restaurant com Continued on page 26 Page 24 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Page 25 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Segerstrom Center for the Arts presents “The Beautiful Day” With A Kurt Elling Sings Christmas Heart Saturday, calist of our time,” Kurt El- pondering mysteries.” Inven- for December 15, 2018 ling returns to the Center with tive and fresh, this very spe- a special program that will cial program reimagines the Samueli Theater feature a repertoire of songs sounds of Christmas, mixing Seniors Tickets on sale now from his holiday album, The traditional carols decked out in Beautiful Day. Elling says, “I new arrangements with songs Segerstrom Center for the knew I didn’t want to make that are revelations and redis- Arts presents Grammy® a ‘religious’ record, just as I covered treats. Elling wraps Award-winning vocalist Kurt knew I didn’t want to make the universal themes of hope, Elling in a special holiday set a standard, swingin’ jazzy light, wonder, mystery, and “The Beautiful Day” - Kurt Christmas. I’m trying to ex- goodwill in musical packages Elling Sings Christmas for two pand my consciousness and full of delightful surprises. performances on December 15 embrace the goodness of the at 7 p.m. and 9 p.m. Declared season, and I want to include by The New York Times as everybody. For me, Christmas “the standout male jazz vo- is a time of consideration, of Page 26 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

with her tongue, or, more like- Turkey Talk ly our tongue. San Simeon Continued from page 19 Continued from page 23 Mrs. Jones and her teeth are “This is Mrs. Jones. We would obviously having some sort of mole; and blackened salm- like an appointment,” she an- mutual intelligence exchange on. The curries include tofu nounces to my receptionist. to which I am not privy. Panang; Thai green chicken; Roghan Josh a dish of North “This is for you and Mr. “We think our upper right is Indian lamb curry, and all Jones?” the problem,” she reports, simply delicious. Located at having received a confirma- 4095 Burton Dr., Cambria, “No,” replies Mrs. Jones, “we tion of the location through a call, (805) 927-5007 or visit will be coming alone.” joint probing effort between www.robinsrestaurant.com our tongue and our teeth. This Uh oh, here’s trouble, I muse, is remarkable, considering her Linn’s Restaurant owned wishing I were as good at tongue is like a big, red flan- by John and Renee Linn, avoiding trouble as I am at nel ironing board with a width and housed in an old brick spotting it. measurement in excess of 1 building, is a mainstay of centimeter at its tip and is in- locals and visitors. What “We have a toothache,” ex- dicating at least three of our to once started as simple fare plains Mrs. Jones when she’s be the culprit. based on fresh fruits and finally seated. vegetables from Linn’s San- Well, we (me or I) eventually ta Rosa Creek and neighbor- “Oh? And which one of our took care of the problem for all ing farms in 1989 has grown teeth would it be?” I ask, trying of us, but I’m still not comfort- over the years, but Linn’s to get into the communality of able except in one-on-one sit- Restaurant in Cambria still it all. She gives me a hard look uations. Amongst us and Mrs. retains its country roots usually reserved for teen-aged Jones and our turkeys and pup- with contemporary Ameri- shoe salesmen and takes a mo- pies, there’s just too big a mob, can recipes. Open daily for ment to explore both arches at least for one appointment. breakfast, lunch and dinner from 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. Locat- ed at 2277 Main St., Cam- bria, call, (805) 927-0371 or visit www.linsfruitbin. com

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Copyright Pyromod Software Inc. For personal use only. Not for publication. Page 28 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 How To Prevent A Multigenerational Home Thermostat War Multigenerational households “smart” systems by enabling turers offer apps that enable are on the rise, with a record remote temperature control via systems to be controlled from one in five Americans living in a mobile or Internet-connected anywhere using a mobile de- homes shared by multiple adult device or voice-operated home vice. Now, voice-control ca- generations, inevitably leading automation system. Several pability uses digital assistants, to various domestic conflicts, leading manufacturers, includ- like Amazon Alexa, to ver- including home temperature— ing Fujitsu General America, bally dictate home tempera- but that doesn’t have to happen offer Smart Systems as well tures—“Alexa, set the living at your house. as options to control single room temperature to 70 de- and multizone Halcyon and grees.” For instance, Fujitsu Bridging the Thermostat Airstage heating and cooling offers a free FGLair app that Gap systems using a third-party enables Web-activated control Mom versus dad, grandmother smart thermostat. via mobile devices and now versus granddaughter. When it voice-activated control via comes to home climate con- Increase Family Peace AND Amazon Alexa. trol, the generation and gender Energy Efficiency gap is real. 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Further, only occupied areas preferring a far warmer en- Here’s how ductless mini-split are heated, which can repre- vironment (77 degrees) than systems work. Thin copper sent a significant savings con- men (72 degrees). tubing is used to pump refrig- sidering the kitchen, dining • As people age, their bod- erant from an outdoor com- room, living room and bed- ies become sensitive to cold pressor directly into an indoor rooms are left unoccupied for temperatures because of a de- air-handling unit, where the at least 40 percent of the time crease in the metabolic rate. air is quietly distributed to the in most households. What’s Here are some practical tips interior space. This eliminates more, the comfort continues that can help prevent the the need for basement or attic even in extreme cold weather. dreaded Thermostat War. evaporators and bulky, expen- Fujitsu’s Extra Low Tempera- sive ductwork. 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Ben has brought gives him cash after Ben says: Senior gy-saving products popular at ey and help reduce greenhouse only a vaping pen and no “If I don’t deal with this, then this time of year, along with gas emissions. overnight items with him. He it could be worse next time.” Reporter special deals from manufactur- claims that his sober-living is published monthly by: A typical household spends ers, retailers and utilities that sponsor has encouraged him to Later Ponce, the lovable fami- SENIOR REPORTER about $2,000 a year on ener- participate in the ENERGY sign himself out and go home ly dog, is kidnapped. Holly and OF OC STAR Program. Looking for for Christmas, even though Ben frantically go in search gy bills. A home outfitted with 9114 Adams Avenue, Suite 358 products that have earned the the ENERGY STAR label on Ben has spent a mere 77 days of him and are drawn down Huntington Beach, CA 92646 at the private facility he now increasingly darker paths as ENERGY STAR label can products specially priced for Email: jcampos@ save 30 percent, or about $575 the holidays means you save calls home, Holly learns just how much seniorreporterofoc.com Ben has kept from her over the a year, on household energy on the initial price, plus keep The soft-spoken young man years. Telephone bills. Over their lifetime, these saving through the holidays (714) 975-6345 will soon test the love of every- It becomes easy to see how products save about $8,750 on and beyond. Fax one who cares about him. His a person such as Ben Burns (714) 369-6517 mother, Holly (Oscar winner can become lost, and just how Rate is $28.00 per year. Julia Roberts), is determined worthy he is of being saved. to keep the erratic teenager Guest articles, commentaries and photographs are invited, on the narrowest of paths and But will he be? however, publication is at the discretion of the editor always makes him promise to spend the next 24 hours with Director and screenwriter EDITOR: DEBBIE L. SKLAR her . Reluctantly, Ben agrees. Academy Award nominee Pe- DIRECTOR OF SALES: JAMES WEBB ter Hedges — Lucas’s father ADVERTISING MANAGER: WILLIAM THOMAS Holly talks up what she sees — is the main creative force GRAPHICS: as positive changes — Ben has behind “Ben is Back” and the SEASIDE GRAPHICS & PRINTING gained weight and has even Roadside Attractions/Black Contributing Writers: got “sparkle” back in his eyes. Bear Pictures release opening Les Goldberg, Jim McDevitt, Yet at the same time as she is on Dec. 7. Production co-cred- Ronnie Greenberg, Dr. Robert voicing support, Holly is hid- its also go to Nina Jacobsen, Horseman, Lyn Jensen, Nick Thomas, ing pills and items of value in Teddy Schwarzman and Brad Rancal C. Hil the house. Simpson. Page 30 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

local Post Office. If you are delivery. For your most valu- Five Tips For Safety expecting a package, you can able packages, you can opt redirect it to your local Post for Registered Mail® service. For many of us, this season and parcel theft. Office by selecting Hold for Registered Mail receives spe- is a time to celebrate the hol- What can you do to ensure Pickup using USPS Package cial handling from the time idays with family and friends. your gifts and cards are safe? Intercept®. it’s mailed until the time it’s Unfortunately, thieves take Postal Inspectors are offering Mail at the local Post Office®. delivered, with documenta- advantage of the holidays FIVE tips to help ensure your If you plan on going out of tion every step of the way. to steal packages containing important packages reach town or know you won’t be 4. Customize the delivery. gifts for loved ones or sup- their destination, and brighten able to check your mail for a If you know the package will plies needed for holiday cel- the lives of friends and loved few days, consider using the not fit in your mailbox and ebrations. ones this holiday season. Request Hold Mail service you won’t be home to receive - on USPS.com®. Letters and it, you can authorize the car rier to leave it in a specified The Postal Service™ looks 1. Don’t leave delivered mail packages will be held secure- forward to delivering a great and packages unattended. ly at the local Post Office until location. Visit usps.com, en- deal of holiday cheer along Just as you would not leave you pick them up or request ter the tracking number and with more than 15 billion mail your wallets and purses on the delivery. select Delivery Instructions. pieces. The United States front seat of an unlocked car Postal Inspection Service®, overnight, mail and packages 3. Plan ahead. Ship using 5. Secure the shipment us- the federal law enforcement should not be left sitting in Hold for Pickup. When ing USPS Special Services. arm of the Postal Service, is mailboxes or on front porches shipping packages, you can Signature Confirmation helps working around-the-clock for any length of time. choose the Hold for Pickup ensure the package ends up to keep your important ship- option and the recipients can in the right hands by requir- ments safe and prevent mail 2. Going out of town? Hold collect the packages at their ing a signature at the time of Page 31 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Busy Boomers By Les Goldberg

Laguna Hills, Florence Sylves- Local Senior Centers – More Than Meets the Eye ter Senior Center, 23721 Moul- ton Parkway, 949.380.0155 When my wife of 52 years Corona Del Mar, Oasis Garden Grove, H. Louis Lake suffered a stroke 13 years ago, Senior Center, 800 Mar- Senior Center, 11300 Stan- Laguna Niguel, Sea Country she was advised by medical guerite, 949.644.3324 ford Avenue, 714.741.5253 or Senior and Community Cen- professionals and family to or NewportBeachCA. ci.garden-grove.ca.us. ter, 24602 Aliso Creek Road, find ways to stay active, meet gov. 949.425.5151 or ca-lagunani- new friends and surround her- Garden Grove, Orange Coun- guel.civicplus.com. self with people her own age Costa Mesa, Costa ty Korean-American Center, or older. Heeding that advice, Mesa Senior Center, 9888 Garden Grove Blvd., Lake Forest, City of Lake For- she has spent two times a week 695 West 19th Street, 714.530.6419 est Senior Center, 25550 Com- at the Santa Ana Senior Center 949.645.2356 or CMSe- merce Center Drive, 949-461- where she is a former member niorCenter.org. Garden Grove, St. Anselm’s 3400 or LakeForestCA.gov. of the advisory committee and Cross-Cultural Community occasional Bingo winner. in excursions, check with your Cypress, Cypress Se- Center, 13091 Galway Street, Los Alamitos, Los Alamitos local center—they likely spon- nior Center, 9031 Grindlay, 714.537.0608 or AnselmCen- Recreation Department Se- nior Center, 10911 Oak Street, Her experience mirrors that of sor semi-regular group trips 714.229.2005 or ci.cypress. ter.org. 562.430.1073 or ci.los-alami- thousands of older residents in for a small fee. ca.us. tos.ca.us. Long Beach and Orange Coun- Huntington Beach, Michael E. ty who call the senior centers a For your convenience, here is Dana Point, Dana Point Se- Rodgers Senior Center, 1706 Midway City, Midway City home away from home. Pro- a directory of the area senior nior Center, 34052 Del Obispo Orange Street, 714.536.9387 Street, Ste. B, 949.496.4252 or Community Center, 14900 grams vary at each of centers, centers: or ci.huntington-beach.ca.us. DanaPoint.org. Park Lane, 714.898.0203 or but all offer opportunities for orange.networkofcare.org. building friendships, stimulat- ORANGE COUNTY Irvine, Lakeview Senior Fountain Valley, Southern Cal- Center, 20 Lake Road, ing creative talents, eating nu- Anaheim, Anaheim Indepen- Mission Viejo, Norman P. ifornia Indian Center, 10231 949.724.6900 or ci.irvine. tritious meals and keeping fit. dencia Senior Center, 10841 Murray Community Senior Slater Avenue, Suite 112, ca.us. Garza Avenue, 714.821.0460. 714.962.6673 or IndianCenter. Center, 24932 Veterans Way, Since the centers are sponsored 949.470.3062 or CityofMis- org. (not specific to FV) Irvine, Merage Jewish Com- by public funds, and usually Anaheim, Anaheim Senior sionViejo.org. munity Center of Orange run by the city or county parks Citizens Center, 250 E. Center Fountain Valley, Senior and County, One Federation Way, and recreation departments, Street, 714.765.4510 or Ana- Community Center at Found- Orange, North Orange Senior 949.435.3400 or JCCOC.org. the services they offer are heim.net. er’s Village, 17967 Bushard Center, 16561 E. Lincoln, available at little or no cost to Street, 714.593.4446 or Foun- 714.998.4010 or OrangeSe- Irvine, Rancho Senior Cen- you. For instance, lunch meals Anaheim, West Anaheim Se- tainValley.org. niorCenter.org/NOSC. ter, 3 Ethel Coplen Way, are no more than $3. Typical- nior Center, 2271 W. Crescent, 949.724.6800 or CityofIrvine. Orange, Orange Senior Cen- ly, participants are active and 714.765.3415 or Anaheim.net Fullerton, Fullerton Senior org. ter, 170 South Olive Street, mostly independent adults Multi-Service Center, 340 West Commonwealth - Tem- 714.538.9633 or OrangeSe- with a desire to be involved Brea, Brea Community Senior porary Location is next door La Habra, La Habra Commu- niorCenter.org. in their community. As far Center, 500 S. Sievers Avenue, at St. Mary’s Church 400 West nity Center, 101 W. La Habra as transportation goes, don’t 714.990.7750 or ci.brea.ca.us. Commonwealth, 714.738.6305 Blvd., 562.905.9708 or La- Orange, Friendly Center Se- worry if you can’t drive to or ci.fullerton.ca.us. HabraCity.com. nior Center, 615-A North Lem- get to the regularly-scheduled Buena Park, Buena Park on, 714.771.5300 or Friendly- games, classes and meals— Community Senior Activity Fullerton, Maple Senior Cen- Laguna Beach, Laguna Beach Center.org. most neighborhood senior Center, 8150 Knott Avenue, ter, 701 South Lemon Street, Senior Center – The Susi Q, centers offer free or low-cost 714.236.3870 or BPLegacy. 714.738.3161 or ci.fullerton. 380 Third Street, 949.497.244 rides. Also, if you’re interested org. ca.us/maple. or LagunaBeachSeniors.com. Continued on page 34 Page 32 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 ‘Knights in Armor’ Exhibit Shines at Bowers Museum

If you’ve been to Orange at Bowers Museum in Santa learn that in England the kings’ County’s own Ana should be a “must-see” on armies were made up of lords, Medieval Times your to-do list this fall. or knights, who were respon- and marveled sible for defending their lands. at the jousting On display through Jan. 13, For instance, King Henry II figures on horse- the exhibit “showcases a (1154-1189) had 6,000 knights back, or you are unique collection of more in his army who received no just fascinated than 100 European arms and pay for 40 days of service each unique collection of more by the history armor, including two horses year. than 100 European arms and of the Middle in full guard and an array of armor, including two horses Ages, then the weapons and swords forged To defend themselves and in full guard and an array of “Knights in Ar- over the course of centuries, their horses in battle from the weapons and swords forged mor” Exhibit well-known to scholars, spe- piercing lances – and later bul- over the course of centuries, at Bowers Mu- cialists and collectors around lets from low-velocity firearms well-known to scholars, speIf seum in Santa the world,” according to Peter – the knights and their soldier you’ve been to Orange Coun- Ana should be Keller, president of Bowers staffs wore steel armor. At ty’s own Medieval Times and a “must-see” on Museum. first it was made of interlock- marveled at the jousting fig- your to-do list ing iron rings known as mail ures on horseback, or you are this fall. As you explore this colorful or chainmail, which was rivet- just fascinated by the history period in history, from the ed or welded shut. Gradually, On display through Jan. 13, of the Middle Ages, then the 13th to 15th centuries, you will the exhibit “showcases a “Knights in Armor” Exhibit Continued on page 33 Page 33 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

hillside villa and park into the ‘Knights in Armor’ museum which houses nearly Continued from page 32 50,000 items, including arms, armor, paintings and ceramics small additional plates or discs from throughout the world. of iron were added to protect vulnerable areas. Hardened Keller said he believes leather and splinted construc- “Knights in Armor” is the first tion were used for arm and leg exhibition in Southern Cali- pieces, followed by a coat of fornia to focus on European plates sewn inside a textile or armor. leather coat.

Eventually mail armor gave “Here at the Bowers, our mis- way to a full harness of plate sion is to bring the great art armor which is credited with treasures of the world to the allowing the heavy cavalry to people of Southern Califor- dominate battlefields for cen- nia,” he added. “And certain- turies. ly, when you go to Florence, Italy, and see this Renaissance It wasn’t until the early 15th armor, it’s an art form, but it’s century that advances in weap- also a major part of history.” onry allowed infantry to defeat armored knights in battle. The The museum is open from quality of the metal used in history shows that armor con- Tuesday through Sunday 10 armor deteriorated as armies tinues to be used in one form a.m. to 4 p.m. Seniors 62 became bigger and armor or another, from helmets to years of age and older can get was made thicker, necessitat- bullet-proof vests, from mili- in for $20 on weekdays and ing breeding of larger cavalry tary vehicles to limousines for $22 on weekends. Santa Ana horses. high-ranking politicians. residents are admitted free on Sundays with proof of address. The Bowers exhibit, present- ed by the Museum Stibbert in Florence, Italy, and founded by Frederick Stibbert, features unique interactive activities, including a sword-in-the-stone photo station and a “Knight’s Quest” scavenger hunt, a life- sized chess play, and a special “Kings, Queens and Castles” showcase in the Bowers’ Kid- Instead of making plate armor seum. obsolete, the use of firearms stimulated further improve- The collection on display is ments in plate armor and pre- part of an inheritance from vented battle casualties. Full Stibbert’s grandfather, who suits of armor were worn by was commander-in-chief of generals and commanders the British East India Com- right up to the second decade pany’s private army. Stibbert of the 18th century. Modern ultimately transformed his Page 34 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

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In The Spotlight By Debbie L. Sklar

Meet Magician, Author and More: Allan Zola Korozek You might want to pick up self into a magical being cation, when I was flirting with Grandpa Magic: 116 Easy who can do things no one the idea of teaching. Studied Tricks, Amazing Brainteasers, else can do — like pull stuff music and magic with master and Simple Stunts to Wow the out of thin air, make things teachers. Grandkids (Workman Publish- disappear, read minds, ing; ISBN: 9781523501052, see with your fingertips. Q: How do you stay young at $16.95) by Allan Zola There’s even a complete heart? Korozek a compendium of act that a grandparent can A: By staying active and al- more than 100 tricks, stunts, do with a grandkid for the ways involved with my inter- and brainteasers that will en- rest of the family. Learn ests, which include sleight-of- to do with perception, decep- gage the grandchildren and some material from each hand magic (there’s always tion, skepticism, and critical provide giggles, jaw-dropping section of the book and something new to learn – and thinking. I also read The New awe, and wonderful memories. you’ll never be at a loss for always audiences eager to see Yorker. Favorite fiction authors ways to amaze, amuse, and it) and music (attending con- are usually the ones I’ve read From perplexing card and coin engage the grandkids. certs, seeking out live Jazz, tricks to entertaining meal- keeping up on new compos- years ago, Nabokov, Stanley Elkin, Nicholson Baker. On time stunts to verbal puzzles A: No, it’s my sixth published Q: Where do people get ers). I’m also fortunate to have my night table currently: The that surprise and delight, these book, and there’s another in the book? good genes. Writing books Secret History of Magic by Jim tricks are illustrated step-by- the hopper waiting to be pub- A: Book sellers everywhere, also helps. Steinmeyer and Peter Lam- step so they’re easy to learn, lished. we hope. And online. and guaranteed to make grand- Q: Hobbies? Spare time? ont; Thinking Fast and Slow parenting even more fun. Q: How long did it take you to A: It’s mainly magic and mu- by Daniel Kahneman; The Q: What’s your best kept se- write this book? sic. I also do a lot of walking, Origins of Cool in Postwar cret regarding this subject to Zola Kronzek is a magician, A: About 2 years from concept go to the gym, socialize with America by Joel Dinerstein, share with grandparents? educator, and the co-author to publication. friends, teach magic (privately and Planet Funny by Ken Jen- A: Today’s kids — especial- (with his daughter Elizabeth and at a summer camp), and nings. ly those glued to their devic- of Laguna Niguel, CA.) of the Q: Where did you get the idea create new original magic ef- es — are deeply hungry for New York Times bestseller The from? fects. I also have an interest in Q: You have a daughter in La- human-to-human communi- Sorcerer’s Companion — A A: From my wife, who noticed dreams and dreaming and keep guna Niguel, CA., how often cation. They want something Guide to the Magical World how often — when I performed a dream journal in addition to a do you visit and what do you real, something live, some- of Harry Potter (More than 1 magic — people would come waking-life journal. like to do when you come thing special. Grandpa Magic million copies sold worldwide up to me afterward with this here? is a way to connect and create in 14 languages). He is also the request: ‘Hey, Allan, can you Q: Married? Pets? A: Not as often as I’d like. Last a unique, and shared experi- author of The Secrets of Alka- teach me a trick I can show the A: Married twice; currently to visit we went whale watching, ence. zar, 52 Ways to Cheat at Pok- grandkids?’ After hearing this the artist, Ruby Jackson. No visited art galleries, watched er, and the forthcoming The countless times, she said — pets after our beloved Sylves- surfers, enjoyed some lovely Book of Powers. 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By Judith A. Rogow If lost love as a theme is re- was the most interesting, writ- sponsible for creating Steven ten in a sort of Spanish gib- Stills love letter, Suite: Judy berish, something that Stills Goodbye, Cruel Year Blue Eyes, then we have Judy didn’t want people to easily Collins to thank for her inspi- When Robert Frost wrote: leave, to have copies of im- guess. Giving an accurate “Some say the world will end portant documents in a safe de- ration to Stills. translation to those can be as in fire,” he could have been posit box, or in the possession difficult as finding the lines foretelling the sad demise of of a family member in another Collins brought out Stills cre- in the first three sections that ativity to such an extent that many of California’s most state, it’s put off and forgotten. ly settled quietly, unfortunately discuss Collin’s therapy. The beautiful places in the year Creating a “bug out bag” is the charges by several publici- he created what is arguably last section was attached so the 2018. equally ignored even though ty-seeking persons of dubious the most well-known song of song’s ending wouldn’t sim- having a basic kit in all fami- credentials were splashed over Crosby, Stills and Nash. In ply lay there after going on so This spring and ly cars, or in a closet near the the networks and in various one of the most beautiful four- long. The most logical is, “I fall have seen the front door is a sensible precau- publications. So much for not part paeans to the heartache of just want to take you to Cuba, tion. Little things, basic First most devastating airing dirty laundry in public! lost love, Steve and his bud- the queen of the Caribbean, wildfire season Aid, dried or shelf stabilized dies Dave and Graham turn I just want to visit you there, on record with foods, a set of clothing (or Things are a bit brighter on the out a suite that weave soaring but I can’t, oh go, oh go!” The – as of mid-No- underwear at the very least), other side of the pond where trademark vocals with the ache last line is “oh va oh va va” vember when paper products, bottled water, an American actress, who is that is the emotional crux ev- not “uva, uva!” which should this article went your medications, and protein bi-racial and divorced, has eryone unquestionably accepts finally let some die-hard fans to press – more bars can make a huge differ- shaken up the staid British when falling in love. sleep better at night, if they than $3 billion in damages, ence if you and your family are Monarchy by marrying the were wondering why CSN&Y tens of thousands of acres stranded. “Playboy Prince,” in a magnif- It describes the exuberance of were singing “Grape, grape!” burned, more than 50 deaths icent ceremony and promptly the beginning, the down when and thousands of homes turned The best way to survive a beginning a family. to ash. wildfire, though, is to leave as it crashes and the hopefulness Stills, who would sing about of reconciliation. S:JBE is a soon as possible. Don’t wait Unfortunately, the cruel societal problems in songs The Santa Ana winds have for evacuation orders, get to step-sister and other fami- love song set to the meter of a such as Ohio and Wooden spread smoke far and wide, safety while you are still able. ly members have tried to use roller coaster. It was the re- Ships in an earnest and raw causing flying embers and un- the event for self promotion sult of several filled notebooks voice, became the first person Another poet, Rudyard Kipling, healthy conditions for anyone with shrill complaints and sil- narrating Still’s relationship in the Rock and Roll Hall of with breathing problems. wrote: “the tumult and the ly jealousy. Queen Elizabeth with then-love and muse Col- Fame to be inducted twice, shouting dies,” unfortunate- must long for the days when lins, and several pieces being once for the Buffalo Spring- Images of burnt cars, tires ly the “tumult and shouting” “off with their heads” put such fit together “… because they field and the second for Cros- melted into the pavement, of our recent mid-term elec- things to rest. were all about the same thing by, Stills, Nash and Young, was movie sets and some of the tions still echoes as votes are and they led up to the same open to experimentation with most impressive Malibu man- recounted, unread ballots dis- Given the choice, many of us point,” revealed Stills in 1991, guitar chording and would go sions turned into smoking ru- covered in closets, and other would “off with their heads” of with each section standing for so far as to soak strings in bar- ins, are unforgettable. misdeeds and illegalities are those who data mine our infor- a separate part of their rela- discovered. mation and sell it to unpleas- beque sauce to get a different tionship. Animals – wild and domestic ant characters who robocall at sound. Because he could also – perished in the flames along The circus of horrors even 5 a.m. or stuff our mailboxes play bass, piano, organ and At the same time, the title ac- with homeowners. Many of reached the US Supreme Court – virtual and real – with ads drums, Rolling Stone maga- complished a play on words those who died had gone back when a gentleman who was on promising slim bodies, mon- zine christened him Captain that gently teased the buying to save pets, or treasured pos- track to being appointed be- ey-making opportunities and Manyhands. Since he and Col- public of the sixties, who im- sessions when the evacuation came the target of accusations wrinkle eradication, all for a lins were both deeply into the that were unprecedented and mediately saw an alternate orders were broadcast. modest sum, of course. traditional acoustic sounds and eventually unproven, and he word in the title as “sweet.” community concerns, it seems No matter how often we are is now a younger voice on the advised to be prepared to bench. Such matters are usual- Continued on page 40 The fourth section of the song Continued on page 40 Page 40 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018

‘Sweet Judy Blue Eyes’ ic, aided by perfect timing knows Where the time Goes, Stills would go on to pen four Last Thing on My Mind. Like when dropped into the bur- at a time when his relationship songs about Collins: Bluebird, most of Collins’ work, it’s a Continued from page 39 geoning folk movement taken with Judy was getting deep- S:JBE, You Don’t Have to Cry, reflective memory of what logical they would eventually under wing by no-nonsense er. Stills was at the studio in and Bluebird Revisited. But happened, bittersweet obser- cross paths. poet laureates as Dylan and 1968 when Collins finished 4+20 may be exactly how he vations on past relationships Baez. But to have it planted her work and had time left felt when he realized it was all and best summed up by the It was Collins’ piercing blue and grown at the same time over. Stills took over, paying over. It’s delivered in Still’s second verse: “I couldn’t love eyes that immediately grabbed of civil rights, drugs, a Brit- the engineer to record a rough plaintive cowboy wail, the you better, didn’t mean to be a person’s attention, especially ish invasion and a new breed collection of songs that later composition coming across unkind. You know that was on album covers that show her of Rock ‘n Roll made it sprout would be titled, Just Roll Tape. as a man who wakes up from the last thing on my mind.” S:- with a fragile sort of beauty, as fast as escalation in a new It included Change Partners, the effects of trying to hold JBE easily remains CSN+Y’s a fitting addition to her music trouble spot known as ‘Nam. Judy, Suite: Judy Blue Eyes, on to a love that drifted away best-known ballad, readily of longing or hoped-for-love. It was a nation finally shedding Helplessly Hoping, and Wood- from his fingers like so much familiar for the soothing har- Her expression appears halted its post-World War Two child- en Ships. When he left, the smoke. But this time, it’s the monies. Collins and Still’s ro- in time, a cross between tears hood of the fifties and moving tapes were kept at the studio hangover of reality that con- mance made a colorful episode ready to flow and a look that into the troubled adolescence and he eventually considered fronts him when he wakes set across the background of a echoed some of the inevitable of the 1960s. them lost. When the studio up. Gone is the songbird with new society, growing amidst introspective melancholy that was about to close in 1978, blue eyes that flew out of his the psychedelic and peace flowed from her classically When a mirror is held up to musician Joe Colasurdo, who hands. All that’s left is a so- movements, weaving both in a trained soprano and clear-as- chaotic times, it demands an was rehearsing there, was told bering taste of a steaming cup tapestry of music in a romantic a-bell voice. It had a unique accurate answer, and one of the by the owner he could take any of reality, and the universal time. The legacy of their re- timbre to it, like Judith Durham best ways is through music. It tapes he wanted before they feeling of a lover’s hangover. lationship is and always will of Australia’s the Seekers folk becomes an aural balm that clear out the place. After see- It’s anguish at the finality of it be firmly placed in Still’s love band. Collins was capable of lays out the situation in black ing Still’s name on several of all, capped by a burning desire letter. And who doesn’t enjoy lifting and holding notes of the and white, and then dresses it the boxes, he kept them safe to embrace the sadness and a love story? higher registers in what could up with chords and lyrics from until he could find a reel-to- head into another path to for- most accurately be described another meditative troubadour reel. Colasudo began an effort get it all. Like most talented as a luminous soprano. She of the day. Then it grabs our that lasted 25 years to get them writers, Stills painted a picture JUST used it in eclectic songs of attention with questions that back in Still’s hands. with words and music, one searching and wondering about open our eyes in ways we nev- that was indelibly sketched by JUDITH different songs of life, -direc er thought of. Finally, it goes Stills came over to Judy’s hotel the actualities of life and col- continued from page 39 tions not seen before, making ored by too much experience. for sell in record stores around room when she appeared lat- Even though this has been a ground making decisions at a the world. Quite often troubled er the West Coast and played The culmination of the song cruel year, there have been time when the nation’s young reminds the literate listener times aren’t discussed as much S:JBE. Collins recalls: “… bright spots, and perhaps the were looking for answers in of Marlowe’s’ Dr. Faustus, as they are merchandised. Ju- you know, broken hearts are fact that they have been few poles-apart paths their parents dith Collins, teen music prod- where the hero finally goes to and far between makes them a very good inspiration, and I couldn’t have dreamt of, let igy, had arrived, bringing her bed only to see the devil and more meaningful. just suppose I made promises alone traveled. Collins songs classical stylings and musings embrace ‘the many-colored I couldn’t keep.” Stills, when were pulled along by the pow- to a reawakening America, beast.’ The beast is bitterness, The Oxford Dictionary has asked for comment on the re- er of a grieving heart and a stepping off the streets and into sadness and loss all rolled into proclaimed “Toxic” as the lationship ending, offered:” calming demeanor that wanted the recording studio to pour the relentless spirit of resigna- “Word of the year” for 2018, let’s hope 2019 brings a happi- more than to settle down and onto vinyl the long dormant We were both too large for one tion, one that won’t be leaving er word … and world! make her seemingly uncatch- desires of a new generation. house.” Judy had made her any time soon. Like any loss, able dreams into a welcome re- decision and an already crack- eventually it’s replaced by re- ality. Her autobiography could Judy stayed with Elektra for ing relationship was shattered luctant acceptance. But there have been named after another 35 years, her first album, A when she met her 1969 New will always be a room in Still’s popular song of the era, Bob Maid of Constant Sorro being York Shakespeare Festival memory for what was a defin- Lind’s Bright Elusive Butterfly released when she was only production star of Peer Gynt, ing time in his life. of Love. 22. Like Stills, she was drawn Stacy Keach. Collins fell in to social activism. He played love with him, and informed Judy’s musical replay came 41 This was plenty powerful ton- back up on her release, Who Stills of her decision. years later, in her version of Page 41 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Tinseltown Talks Cruise of Lights By Nick Thomas By Eva Kilgore

Thousands of light dis- Christmas with Margaret O’Brien plays on homes, balconies, decks, docks and boats Adorable Margaret O’Brien “Mickey and I didn’t have began her big-screen career at any scenes together, but I can this holiday season. It’s the age of 3 with a one-min- still remember him walking the 56th annual Cruise of ute spot in 1941’s Babes on by and saying ‘Hello, what a Lights, and you’re invit- Broadway. Her career took off cute little girl!’ I sort of have a ed! Visitors come from as family, and your friends to an the following year as the star photographic memory and can far away as Australia to Hun- incredible holiday treat. of MGM’s Journey for Marga- remember all my movies just tington Harbour for 45 minute ret. Throughout the 1940s she like I was back there now.” narrated boat tours to see the This year, The Cruise will in- continued to endear herself to lights, and experience a magi- millions seeking Hollywood An avid reader as a child, little clude two special events. You cal show on water. diversions as World War II Margaret was thrilled to tackle may choose the Land and came and went. many roles based on the books Sea tour with a stop to see she grew up reading such as The entire community gets some wonderful and unique Little Women, Jane Eyre, and Ms. O’Brien, now 81, is back involved, and begins months decorations up close. Enjoy The Secret Garden. this holiday season starring in This is Our Christmas was released earlier putting up their dec- champagne or cider, listen to This is Our Christmas, a sequel on DVD in November - a good orations. Each year there is carolers, then relax at the Hun- stocking stuffer! Image provided by “How many children get to to the popular 2015 TV movie producer play a character from their a theme, and this year it’s “A tington Harbour Yacht Club Beverly Hills Christmas, and favorite books?” she asked. one of only a dozen children Space Odyssey” which is lend- for a special dinner. After din- follows the Foxworth family 7 “I knew them so well, it was to receive a Juvenile Acad- ing itself to some spectacular ner, your VIP status will move years after the original picture. just fabulous to create them on emy Award when the prize creations.The Cruise of Lights you to the front of the line for the screen.” And unlike many was intermittently given from runs December 14-17, and De- child actors who ventured your Cruise of Lights experi- 1935-1961. She astonished au- into the darker side of Holly- cember 20-23. ence! Or you may want to take diences with a display of adult wood and fame, O’Brien never an extended 70 minute emotions though she was not strayed. cruise for even more lights yet even a teenager. and fun.

“I think movie kids are just The Huntington Harbour a little more mature in some Philharmonic Commit- Publicity still from Meet Me in St. ways,” O’Brien said. “I knew tee presents the Cruise of Louis with Judy Garland it was a job, not playacting, Boat owners get involved, too, Lights. Proceeds benefit mu- and that others depended on and when you’re taking the The film had its broadcast pre- sic programs for children from me to know my lines. I took Cruise of Lights. you’ll see miere on the UPtv network in kindergarten through 12th my work very seriously.” brilliant lights, and hear some November, followed by DVD grade. For more information, music on boats passing by. The distribution through Walmart Margaret O’Brien in still from This and to buy tickets visit www. Though she says she never and Target, and will be re- is Our Christmas - Five Arts Films, Cruise of Lights is a wonder- cruiseoflights.org or call 714- watches her own films, she provided by producer broadcast on UPtv in Decem- ful way to treat yourself, your 840-7542. claims she can recall even her ber (see www.uptv.com). “My mother raised me to be Please see ad on page 37 first brief role inBabes starring pretty well-grounded,” she Mickey Rooney. O’Brien is no stranger to hol- said. “So, I never had the prob- iday classics having appeared lems that a lot of child actors in Meet Me in St. Louis (1944), faced. Acting has been a won- Tenth Avenue Angel (1948), derful career, and still is.” and Little Women (1949) Nick Thomas teaches at Au- which all featured themes and/ burn University at Montgom- or songs relating to Christmas ery, Ala., and has written fea- festivities. Appearing in al- tures, columns, and interviews most 20 feature films through- Margaret O’Brien early publicity for over 700 magazines and out the 1940s, O’Brien was shot newspapers Page 42 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Life in Long Beach By Lyn Jensen Hanukkah and More at Jewish Community Center

Synagogues from around Long cult to manage are encouraged to Beach are participating in the an- call the Membership Department nual Hanukkah Happening at the for a confidential interview to ar- Barbara and Ray Alpert Jewish range for a fee adjustment. Community Center, an event that Website: www.alpertjcc.org began in 1972. On Friday, Dec. 7, Address: 3801 E. Willow St., the center will hold a Shabbat ser- Long Beach the Knit Wits, weekly Wednesday vice, followed by a holiday meal Phone: 562-426-7601 lunches, bridge lessons, mahjong, and a concert with Michelle Ci- the Barbara Alpert Chorus, a trin. Admission is $10 for adults, “Happiness and Humor Group” but free for children, and tickets that meets monthly (except De- may be purchased in advance or cember) on the first Friday of at the door. every month, and Big Swingin’ Nights with the Beach City Big Another upcoming event at the Band on the third Monday of ev- center is “Assessing the 2018 ery month. Elections” with Dr. Raphael Son-

enshein, Dec. 9, part of a lecture Membership at the Jewish Com- series. Many volunteer organiza- munity Center allows access to tions and activities also work out the organization’s senior activities of the center. One is the Retired but also much more, with a wide and Senior Volunteer Program variety of social, cultural, recre- (RSVP), which includes dozens ational, and educational activities of volunteer opportunities. An- for all ages, faiths, and back- other is a friendly visitor program grounds. Some additional offer- that allows homebound seniors to ings include a drama club, poker, have contacts for social interac- lectures, movies, and events like tion. Other providers of volunteer Hanukkah Happening. 949-653-5609 opportunities include the Long Beach fire and police depart- Cost of an annual membership ments. includes a $150 registration fee plus membership rates by cat- egory, including adults, family, couples, and teens. Payment may be arranged by one annual sum, or in six-month or one-month installments. Over the holiday Programs and assistance special- season there’s a “join and give ly focused on seniors — of all back” promotion — donate a bag faiths or even none at all — have of non-perishable food and your been part of the center’s work registration fee will be waived. since the 1970s. Ongoing senior activities include fitness activities Families or individuals who find and classes, a knitting club called the full cost of membership diffi- Page 43 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018 Page 44 SENIOR REPORTER [email protected] DECEMBER 2018