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Blessing on the Trees Thanks to all who made it memorable By Rabbi Shlomo Segal every year. If a person was delayed in Baruch was needed to make it happen. making the blessing until the fruits Hashem, we Member of Crown blossomed, he does not make the had a won- Mrs. Phyllis Mintz and Mrs. Penina Heights Bais Din blessing.” We derive from this that the derful Purim Metal of the CHJCC for taking reser- blessing is only on fruit trees. The Baer Seuda this past vations and helping out in many other Questions. Hetav adds, “We do not make a blessing week befitting ways. except on fruit trees.” the spirit of 1. This year, being P u r i m a nd The officers of the 71st Precinct for that it is a leap Nissan or also Adar and Iyar Shimshon and giving us the special attention and year, the trees Martha Stock consideration that we needed for the begin to blossom It seems from the Talmud [quoted who it is named after. Over 500 people holiday (see letter below). earlier. Can one above, “If one goes abroad in the days came to the seuda, and many others make the blessing over the trees at the of Nisan”], that the obligation for the supported the seuda by making l’chaim All the members of the community that end of Adar, or does he need to wait blessing is only in Nissan. But in the with me during the float parade. Many joined in the Seuda, making it truly until Nissan? Chidushei Horitva (on Rosh Hashana) people deserve our thanks for making “B’rov Am, Hadras Melech. he writes, “It is not necessarily the days this Purim Seuda happing in the most 2. Does one recite the blessing over fruit of Nissan only, but everywhere, it is beautiful way: We also would like to thank the donor trees or over any trees? according to the blossoming season in who gave $18,000 towards the new rec. their location.” Dovid Shalom Pape for being our mc center. He wishes to remain anonymous Answer and host of the evening. at that time, but his donation is a great This is also mentioned by Reb Chaim beginning to this project. Next week, The Talmud (tractate Brochos 43b) Noeh in his sefer Ktzos Hashulchan Yossi Cohen for the leibedike music and we hope to publicize a donor of $70,000, states: “Reb Yehuda says, ‘If one goes (chapt. 66:9), and based on the words Yossi Frankel for his great singing. b’ezras Hashem, who will make our out in the days of Nisan [spring time] of the Alter Rebbe in Birchas Hanenin state-of-the-art locker room a reality. and sees the trees sprouting, he should (12:23). The Alter Rebbe writes that a Shalom Rubashkin for his hard work say, ‘Blessed be He who hath not left person may recite the blessing in Adar for weeks, taking care of all the details Everyone should have a Gut Shabbos His world lacking in anything and has and Iyar. from the caterer to the music to all that and a Simchadike week! created in it good creatures and good trees for the enjoyment of mankind.’” But the Rebbe (Shaarei Halacha Umin- Likewise, is cited in the tractate of Rosh hag vol.1 pg. 220) proves from the Alter A HEARTY THANK YOU TO THE 71ST PRECINCT Hashana, pp. 11a. Rebbe’s words in Birchas Hanenin FROM THE CROWN HEIGHTS COMMUNITY (13:14), which is the final verdict: For helping us to have a safe, happy Purim. The reason for this blessing is explained Halachically, one could make the bless- For assisting us with our special traffic needs in delivering in Shita Mikubetzes (Brochos 43), ing in Nissan only and not in Adar or Shaloch Monos, without issuing any parking or double parking “They instituted this blessing because Iyar. This is derived from the fact that tickets. it comes from season to season, and it in Birchas Hanenin, he omitted the For all the extra safety precautions that were taken to insure is being renewed that a person recites a halacha that one could recite the bless- everyone’s safety on a very hectic day. blessing on dry trees that Hashem had ing after thirty days, which obviously For your general support and attentiveness to our special needs made them blossom.” means that in the final version, he has on the holiday. the opinion that one cannot make the Fruit trees or all trees blessing in Iyar. A special thank you to: Inspector Frank Vega From these words, the Rebbe proves his Therefore one should make the blessing Captain Mark DiPaolo shita (Shaarei Halacha Uminhag vol. on trees that bear fruit and in the month Lieutenant John Cantwell 1 pg. 219) that the obligation for the of Nissan only. Sergeant.Bobby Troise blessing is not only on fruit trees but on Officer Vinny Martinos all trees, because all trees are refreshed And the rest of the Community Policing Unit after they have dried up and later blos- somed again in the new season. We would also like to thank Officers Doug Ayris and Richard Silverstein for their work walking the beat. But in the Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chaim chapt. 226: 1) it is stated, “When one goes out in the Nissan days and Portent of things to come..... sees trees blossoming, he recites the blessing… this blessing is recited once

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A Young Jew’s Story of Survival Grodzinsky, the legendary leader of Vilna, passed away shortly later. Still By Rabbi Shimon Goldman and our general attitude. period, Reb Yehoshua Eizik remained reeling from fresh losses, Lithuanian a bastion of faith and strength, offer- Exerpted from the book with the At one particular farbrengen, Reb Jewry paused to grieve for this great rav, ing encouragement to many Jews in author’s permission Yehoshua Eizik turned to Mendel a community leader who felt personally the ghetto. On their final march to Tenenbaum and said, “Mendel, Mendel, for every Jew. I am hardly the person to Continued from last week the firing squad, Reb Yehoshua Eizik your forehead is not creased enough.” describe his greatness in Torah or his addressed the other prisoners about One day — I think it was Yud-Tes Kislev Mendel Tenenbaum was considered a tremendous acts of kindness, but it was the great mitzva of sanctifying G d’s — a special guest arrived in Vilna to maskil — a bochur who spent much common knowledge that Reb Chaim Name. “We will go with self-sacrifice,” farbreng with us. This wasR eb Yisrael time contemplating the deep ideas Ozer’s home was the address to turn he exhorted them, “just as Rabbi Akiva Noach, the rabbi of a small Lithuanian found in Chabad Chassidus — yet Reb to for all problems. Capable of dealing and many other saintly tzaddikim.” Reb village. Reb Yisrael Noach had learned Yehoshua Eizik expected more. “Yes, with numerous issues simultaneously, Yehoshua Eizik kept speaking words in Lubavitch at the same time as another you learn Chassidus in great depth,” Reb Chaim Ozer dealt with complex of encouragement until the very last student with the same name. I imagine he seemed to be saying, “but there is Talmudic questions, community issues, moment — just before his voice was that, in order to differentiate between always room for greater toil, for greater simple everyday problems, and any abruptly silenced by the Nazi guns. the two, Chassidim called him “the achievement.” other predicament that crossed his May G d avenge his blood!) small Reb Yisrael Noach,” and the door. In all, Reb Chaim Ozer was a One Shabbos afternoon, we came to the nickname stuck. When he arrived to Tragedy and Loss central figure among the Torah giants kitchen only to find the cholent burned take up the rabbinate in this small of his generation. beyond use, and none of the bochurim Though life inV ilna seemed generally village, Reb Yisrael Noach began a touched it. It was simply inedible. Reb secure, we could not ignore the horrific In July of 1940, while Reb Chaim Ozer weekly custom of reviewing ma’amorim Yehoshua Eizik spent many hours calamities affecting Polish Jewry.A t the was in the countryside, he lay down to (discourses in Chassidic philosophy) in prayer and he entered the kitchen time, we heard few details of the brutal rest early one Friday morning, only to for his congregants. He often chose well after we finished eating. To his Nazi war machine wreaking havoc pass away quietly in his sleep. The tragic complex ma’amorim from the teachings surprise, he saw all the cholent plates across the country, but we understood news quickly reached the city, and the of the Rebbe Rashab and, naturally, his laying untouched on the table, and he that the once glorious Jewish com- stunned community began debating audience barely understood a word. The asked us why no one had eaten. “But it’s munity of Poland was facing systematic when to perform the funeral. Some village Jews were mostly unlearned, burnt beyond recognition!” one of the decimation. Our mood alternated maintained it was more appropriate to and though they listened respectfully bochurim said. “We can’t eat it!” between fear and despondence as we hurry matters and bury the venerable as their rabbi preached, people could tried to digest the bits of news coming rav before Shabbos. However, others not help but wonder why Reb Yisrael Reb Yehoshua Eizik could hardly from Poland. It was a terribly difficult pointed out that many roshei yeshiva Noach was wasting his time. “No one believe his ears. “How can this be?” he time. were spending the summer in the coun- understands the ma’amorim you say,” said in amazement. “The Alter Rebbe tryside with their students, and it was someone finally asked Reb Yisrael writes that a person must not say, ‘this We suffered spiritually as well. Some only befitting that they, too, participate Noach. “What’s the point of saying I can do; this I can’t do.’ How can of the foremost Torah giants of the in the funeral. If the funeral were held Chassidus for them?” bochurim say about a piece of food: generation passed on from this world, on Sunday, busses could be arranged ‘We can’t eat it?’” leaving behind a tremendous spiritual “They themselves might not under- to transport the vacationing yeshivos void. Hardest hit were the Lithuanian stand,” Reb Yisrael Noach answered We, the spoiled boys of Poland, sat back to Vilna. Moreover, Jews living yeshivos, which drew inspiration and fiercely, “but their souls definitely shamefacedly as Reb Yehoshua Eizik in the surrounding villages would have support from these luminaries. Reb understand.” proceeded to make kiddush and eat enough time to come and pay their final Boruch Ber Liebowitz, the rosh yeshiva the cholent. Our mashpia truly felt no respects to this outstanding leader. In Vilna too, Reb Yisrael Noach of Kaminetz, and Reb Shimon Shkop — other alternative: if the Alter Rebbe reviewed a ma’amer for us with such rosh yeshiva of Grodno — passed away A group of distinguished Lithuanian demanded that Chassidim should not extraordinary energy and enthusiasm, in the same period of time. Thousands rabbis convened a special session to be selective about food, then that is how it appeared as though he was actually of students felt physically orphaned by resolve this painful question and, Chassidim needed to act. Moreover, a part of the ma’amer. As he spoke, he the loss of these inspirational people. after hurried deliberation, the funeral he expected every Tomim to feel the mentioned the concept of G d’s light Reb Meir’l (Schedravitzki), the Rebbe was postponed until Sunday. “True same, even if it entailed eating tasteless, descending into this world, and he of Bialystok, also passed away then. honor will now be accorded to this burnt food. thrust his hand downward with his His comprehensive grasp of Torah was great leader,” resolved the rabbis. “This thumb extended, as if to illustrate the In the winter of 1940, news reached legendary; misnagdim too accorded postponement allows time for the descent. He did it with such sincerity us that the Rebbe Rayatz would soon him great honor and respect. funeral to be conducted in a proper that, for a moment, we imagined we leave Poland for Riga and, from there, manner, as befits such a distinguished Due to these tragedies, the community could actually see the light coming to America. Upon hearing this, Reb Torah scholar.” of Vilna decided to hold a special ses- down. Reb Yisrael Noach epitomized Yehoshua Eizik immediately traveled sion in memory of these distinguished Meanwhile, the rav’s coffin was brought the obsession of Chassidim with to Riga, in order to see the Rebbe scholars, to eulogize the greatness of to Reb Chaim Ozer’s home in Vilna. It Chassidus. before his departure and secure his holy these Torah personalities and mourn is customary for people to stand watch blessing. Reb Yehoshua Eizik did indeed Another unique individual who helped their loss. The synagogue was crammed over the aron and recite tehillim until merit to see the Rebbe, and the Rebbe mold our spiritual lives was our mash- to capacity. The entire student body of the actual time of burial, and the com- blessed him, saying: “May HaShem help pia, Reb Yehoshua Eizik Boruch. Reb every yeshiva in Vilna came to pay their munity leaders began searching for the us to meet again with Moshiach.” Yehoshua Eizik was a Tomim in the respects for the departed roshei yeshiva. right people to perform this holy task. truest sense of the word, a person who These words filledR eb Yehoshua Eizik The general Jewish population and all After consulting with various rabbis and lived and breathed Chassidus. Nothing with dread. If the Rebbe blessed him to the refugees also attended. roshei yeshiva, the students of Tomchei else mattered to him. The greatest proof meet again with Moshiach, this meant Tmimim Lubavitch were asked to A panel of distinguished rabbis eulo- of his stature is the fact that the Rebbe Reb Yehoshua Eizik would not see the undertake this responsibility. gized the roshei yeshiva. Among them Rayatz sent him specifically to serve Rebbe before that time. Reb Yehoshua was the rav of Krincka, who opened We were chosen for two reasons. as mashpia of the bochurim learning Eizik returned to Vilna in a despondent his address by quoting the verse, “Who Firstly, Tomchei Tmimim was a well- in Vilna. Reb Yehoshua Eizik left his frame of mind, worrying about his will give water to my head; to my eyes, established yeshiva, having opened in family behind and came alone to Vilna, apparently bleak future. Whenever he the source of tears.” Continued the Vilna well before the onset of war and to learn with us and help our spiritual farbrenged with us, Reb Yehoshua Eizik rav: “Who could possibly have enough the ensuing flood of refugees. Secondly, growth. repeated: “We want to see our King!” tears in his head to mourn the trag- many other yeshivos were away in the When Reb Yehoshua Eizik farbrenged (Indeed, as a citizen of Lithuania, Reb edies befalling our people, to properly country, and could not possibly assist in with us, his inspirational words filled Yehoshua Eizik was forced to remain in bemoan the terrible destruction of our this regard. Yeshivas Chachmei Lublin us all with ambition to reach greater Vilna while we fled to Japan.A fter the nation and the loss of our leaders?” Reb had also stayed behind in the city, but spiritual heights. Though we were only Nazis overran the city, Reb Yehoshua Henich Eigish, one of Vilna’s foremost the rabbis decided to choose us instead. young boys, he made us feel dissatisfied Eizik and all of Vilna’s Jews were herded scholars, also addressed the crowd. I suspect they felt more familiar with by our achievements. After listening to into the Kovno ghetto, where they our Hebrew pronunciation, which Our sense of loss and insecurity was his farbrengens, we made firm resolu- awaited mass execution. Survivors later sounded very similar to their own compounded when Reb Chaim Ozer tions to improve our studies, our prayer, told me that, throughout this terrible Lithuanian enunciation. 4 CROWN HEIGHTS ~March 28, 2008 Our Heroes

Horav Hagaon Hachossid Reb Zalman Shimon Dworkin (1901 - 17th of Adar 1985) was using for shechita. TheR av checked composed person.” appointment. She and her husband them all and approved them with a wanted to personally come and thank Part 2: A Few Hours of the Rav’s Long smile, saying, “Good”! The door had The second person waiting, an older the Rav. Reb Zalman Shimon man- Day. been left slightly open and a subdued Polish chossid, turned to the Rav, aged to turn the offer down. Since he (Adapted from the Yiddishe Heim, looking yeshiva bochur entered. He “Rebbe, please pardon my bothering was very busy these days, he would written by his nephew, Reb Yehoshua had just noticed that you so early. I have accept the “thank you” by phone with Dubrawsky) in error, his talis koton no one to turn to; a full heart. With the help of Hashem, had been exchanged only you can help at a simcha in their family, he would By: Rabbi Michoel Seligson with someone else’s. me.” personally speak with them. He realized that there The following describes a few hours of was a shaalo regard- Reb Zalman Shi- What was their story? They were mar- the intensive activity in the Rabbonus ing the kashrus of mon also called ried a few weeks ago. A couple of days of the Gaon and Chossid Reb Zalman this talis koton. Reb this person into after her chasuna to a fine chassidisher Shimon Dworkin and is an accurate Zalman Shimon told the kitchen. bochur, she arrived at the Rav’s house, reflection of a routine weekday, begin- him, “OK, show me Maybe he would terrified. Reb Zalman Shimon anx- ning early in the morning and conclud- the tzizis.” successfully drink iously asked, “What is it? Anything, ing very late at night. It is based on the some warm tea. G-d forbid, wrong in the relationship?” observation of one of the Rav’s relatives. In the meantime, “In short” – the The young lady answered, “Everything The facts are true to life, though some the tea kettle in the Yid began his long is Boruch Hashem in order.” “But what details have been changed or omitted. kitchen had already story – he and his is it?” She and her husband did not have Reb Zalman Shimon did not have an boiled, and the water sick daughter were the means for to make enough money. office, but his house was the place where was cooling, a usual being evicted from Both were alone and poor and had a people from all over turned to for a event. Reb Zalman their apartment. quiet wedding. The Rav officiated at solution to their problem. Shimon replaced it on They hadn’t paid the wedding. In fact, the young woman the flame and again opened the sefer. rent in months. They had no money, and did not know that the Rav himself had If not for the Rav’s organizational skills, When the tea kettle whistled once more, he had no work. They had just enough helped finance the wedding. After the it would be difficult to comprehend how the phone rang, and the door chimed. money from the social security to eat. wedding, the husband studied in the he so successfully digested such a long Reb Zalman Shimon once said that he “I want to ask the Rav: according to Kollel, and she worked as teacher. At day. Every weekday was a long day, with needed to be as light as an eagle, and as Halacha, are they permitted to evict the time, they had no furniture or pos- the countless shaalos, problems, argu- swift as a deer; that is how he was until me, when I hope that Hashem will help sessions. But the couple was happy with ments, matters ofH atzala and help, and his last years. me and I will be able to pay?” each other. Then a minor issue came up many other issues that it brought. in which they did not agree. Using the Reb Zalman Shimon placed the cup Reb Zalman Shimon responded, wedding money, she managed to buy At approximately 5 A.M. on a summer of tea on the table, opened the door, “Surely Hashem will help. I will not some curtains for the two windows day Reb Zalman Shimon had just man- and then answered the phone. On the get involved in the Halachic view of the facing the street. Her husband argued aged to pour negel vasser. The phone phone was a young lady married only a matter. One must pay rent and not get that she could do what she wanted with rang. A communal leader from Man- short while, who had recently returned too far behind. Something, one must the money, but in his opinion, curtains chester, England was on the phone. Did to Yiddishkeit. She just managed to say pay.” Reb Zalman Shimon placed his were a luxury and not a necessity. This he know exactly when the Rav opened “Dear Rebbe”, and Reb Zalman Shimon hand in his “Tzedoko pocket”, reserved is what he was taught in Chassidus. She his eyes in the morning? Not necessar- heard a sigh of distress. She cried as for charity; maybe there were two such did not want to return the curtains. ily. He hadn’t accurately calculated the she spoke in English scattered with pockets. The Rav began counting dol- She had bought them cheaply, and they time difference between England and defective Yiddish. Reb Zalman Shimon lars, “How much is the monthly rent?” enhanced the apartment. The husband the United States. He had a very urgent already knew who this was and said, the Rav asked, and handed the person suggested, “Let us consult the Rav.” shaalo, a matter of pikuach nefesh. So “Mrs. P., yes? More trouble with the enough money for a few months rent. They consideredR eb Zalman Shimon how could one look at the time? He husband? Nu, you already had trouble The Yid did not move, “Rebbe, No! I not only a Rav but a dear grandfather. did the Rav a favor, by allowing him one time!” It seems, that after a quarrel can not take it.” Reb Zalman Shimon, So the young lady, although embar- to recite Birchas Hashachar prior to which had taken place over the course with his positive temperament insisted rassed and confused, came to the Rav. the conversation. At the end of which of a few days, the husband had left the firmly that he should accept it. “Let it be Reb Zalman Shimon asked, “How Reb Zalman Shimon commented with night before without saying a word, a Gemach or a loan over a long period much did the curtains cost?” He gave a smile, “This you considered pikuach and had not returned home. ”Nu, nu, of time. Be well and pay up the rent for her money, saying that she could not nefesh?!” calm down. Don’t lose yourself. With the apartment.” refuse to accept it because this was the help of Hashem it will straighten his personal gift for the wedding, and Reb Zalman Shimon sat in the kitchen out. Come tomorrow at 6 P.M. I will With a sigh, Reb Zalman Shimon “when one receives a drasha geshank while he studied. Among his daily contact your husband.” sat down again at the Zohar with his or wedding gift, one does not turn it shiurim was the study of the holy head between both hands, trying to down. This is what you should relay to Zohar. Reb Zalman Shimon could not In the waiting room sat two Yidden concentrate. The phone rang. This time your husband.” hold back his expressions of excitement waiting for the Rav. They saw the posted he answered the phone, had a brief con- when discussing the Zohar. “Every time schedule on the Rav’s door and each versation, and then hung up. In the quiet Regarding marital problems, a couple that one studies the Zohar, one feels excused himself. TheR av needed to be that allowed, an additional liveliness in every word. mochel because each had an urgent mat- his quiet, sweet During a Yechidus, the Rebbe RaShab ter and had no choice. The first person song flowed as instructed a Chassidic Tomim (who was a young shliach in a distant location he learned. had studied in the Yeshiva Tomchei and needed to leave immediately. The Tmimim) that when one reaches these issue was a life matter that related to a As soon as Reb years (the Chossid was older than large family, and the Rebbe had advised Zalman Shi- middle age), one needs to learn more him to turn to Reb Zalman Shimon. mon took his Zohar.” Being that it was confidential,R eb Zal- talis and tefillin man Shimon took the young man into bag preparing Reb Zalman Shimon sat glued to the the kitchen and conversed privately for to go to Shul sefer, but not for long. Soon the bell a long while. The Shliach walked out of for Shacharis, rang. the kitchen with a happy face and said the phone rang farewell to the Rav. He thanked him again. A young Reb Zalman Shimon lifted his eyebrows, but could not control his emotions. He woman, recently as was his custom, and said, “Ahh, the hugged the Rav, who smilingly said, married, asked shochet.” The shochet arrived to show Rabbi Dworkin (in the middle) and Rabbi Gross honoring a member of the “They say that you are Baal Mochin, a the Rav for an the Rav the different chalefs which he Brooklyn Jewish Hospital board March 28, 2008 ~ crOWN heights 5

second person handed the question to the Rav. It is a trip of Shimon and had received his guidance, Reb Zalman Shimon two hours. Nu, how many Yidden do I became a kallah. When the father told a big package saying, have of such caliber?” Reb Zalman Shimon the good news, “Reb Ch. in California he wasn’t sure if the Rav heard him. sent the blueprints for That is how the Rav’s day continued, Suddenly Reb Zalman Shimon burst the Mikva which he far into the night. into laughter and asked from which of is building. He needs two families was the chosson. quick advice from the To conclude with few anecdotes that Rav.” A third person, took place in Reb Zalman Shimon’s last The 17th ofA dar, Reb Zalman Shimon’s a religious professor, days. These stories were heard this past petira, was the day that Reb Yosef removed a black toupee Shabbos from a Yid who is a shochet Karo completed the Shulchan Aruch from his pocket. He for many years. He knew Reb Zalman centuries earlier. Reb Zalman Shimon inquired if Halachically Shimon from Pittsburgh and was very was truly “a Halacha Yid” who internal- this was a satisfactory closely connected to him. ized Torah knowledge and Jewish law size to cover his head in his relationships with both Hashem while giving a lecture When Reb Zalman Shimon was already and man. “Bain odom lamkom, ubain at a distant university hospitalized, critically ill, this Yid held odom lachavairo.” that had strange rules. a vigil by the Rav’s bedside. The Rav Another group of Yid- was taken down by elevator for tests. Yehi Zichro Boruch! May Reb Zalman den stopped the Rav When Reb Zalman Shimon opened Shimon’s life as a legendary Rav whose while he walked from his eyes and saw the Yid standing next self- sacrifice for the benefit of any the entrance of the shul to him in the elevator, he immediately Jew that turned to him, serve as the to his place. A group of asked mechila for a situation that had inspiration to utilize consideration, people were already taken place when the shochtims’ pay devotion, and selfless commitment to waiting for him as he was delayed. TheY id was surprised that one another, no matter the situation folded his Tefillin after Reb Zalman Shimon asked mechila, or background, and concern ourselves davening. People who since it was not he who had held back with the physical and spiritual needs had private questions the salaries. of every individual in a sincere and waited on the street or full-hearted manner. at the house. To conclude on a happy note, this Yid once came to Reb Zalman Shimon recalled that while Reb Zalman Shimon We should speedily witness, “The ones and told him that they had decided to When the Rav reached his house, was lying in the hospital, from time to who dwell in the dust will awaken and divorce and wanted him to perform around ten in the morning, his nephew time he would fall into a coma and be rejoice,” with Reb Zalman Shimon the get. The Rav responded, “My job had already arrived to assist him. He unable to respond. ThisY id’s daughter, amongst them and in the lead. is to marry couples. For a get, you can was answering the phone and already who was very close to Reb Zalman contact Rabbi______(Reb Zal- had a list of urgent man Shimon mentioned the Rabbi’s shaalos. A few gabaim, name). communal leaders, were waiting for a meeting TheR av again took his talis and tefillin about an urgent matter attempting to get to shul. While he that had been scheduled opened his door, two Yidden called with the Rav for 10 A.M. out, “Oy, Rav, forgive me, only two A young Rabbi and a tall words!” youth were waiting to see the Rav about perform- Reb Zalman Shimon asked, “What is ing a conversion. In the it about?” They respond that they had corner, an elderly man a quarrel. Reb Zalman Shimon asked, waited with a package “Do you want a Din Torah?” “No,” they under his arm. answered. “We are relying on your opinion and will accept anything you Reb Zalman Shimon advise us.” gave a quick look to all the assembled and with Reb Zalman Shimon concluded, “Call a special smile said to me at 12:00 o’clock.” They continued, the elderly man, “Ah, “One of us is leaving overseas in an Reb Yonason! How are hour.” Reb Zalman Shimon retorted, you?” Taking his package “Then come back to see me when he he added, “According to returns from his trip.” The two men: me, you are the first one “But the trip depends on your deci- on line.” sion.” Reb Zalman Shimon: “What do you want from me?” “We need an etza, After Reb Zalman Shi- advice.” Reb Zalman Shimon added, mon had checked the “After I have heard your ‘few words’, slaughtered chicken and my advice to you is that I should be the person left, the Rav able to go daven. When you will decide explained why he had what you want to do, I will see what I priority: “He is a simple can do here.” person, not a great Ben Torah, who has lived in From the Rav’s house to the shul was America for fifty years. a distance of a few steps, but it took a He never ate from any long time for him to successfully enter shechita except that the shul. He was greeted by people who which he personally took “escorted” him, by simply stopping him to the shochet. He then in the street. One of them asked Reb soaks and salts the meat Zalman Shimon, “Rav, please forgive himself. Whenever a me, one short question. No, two.” A question arises, he brings 6 CROWN HEIGHTS ~March 28, 2008 Shiduchim

his hands” — with a yud and“ — (ידיו) I would like to paraphrase, dear Chatan Vedibarta Bam ~ Marriage and Kallah, the berachah issued by denoting the plural. How could this be Moshe and Aharon to you. Our Sages reconciled? By Rabbi Moshe Bogomilsky pleased with K’lal Yisrael and dwell (Shabbat 30b) tell us that His Divine in the Mishkan. However, in addi- This apparent oddity contains great The Jewish people contributed gener- Presence abides only where joy and tion, they also blessed the Jews that meaning for all and particularly you, ously and the master craftsmen worked happiness prevails. Undoubtedly, His when they are involved in “ma’aseh dear Chatan and Kallah. diligently to arrange that all the com- Divine Presence will definitely be yedeichem” — their regular daily ponents of the Mishkan should be in in your midst during your personal Perhaps it could be said Aharon was in activities and preoccupations — even place. The completion of the Mishkan Yom Tov period. May you be blessed a sense employing audio-visual aid to then they should conduct themselves in was followed by a seven-day period of with continuous joy and happiness, a convey an important message. Indeed such a way to merit that the Shechinah inauguration. Finally, on the eighth life without confrontation and strife, he lifted both hands when he bestowed should feel “comfortable” to be in their day, which was Rosh Chodesh Nissan, so that also when you are engaged in his blessings, but the two hands were midst. the inauguration was completed and ma’asei yedeichem, the daily mundane placed so closely together to appear as Aharon and his sons were initiated as Every Chatan and Kallah builds their activities, His Holy Divine Presence one united hand. the Kohanim. own home, which is their miniature will abide with you. Aharon’s message was that for a com- Mishkan — Sanctuary. They, too, have On this day, Moshe and Aharon blessed Now let me share with you the secret munity, partnership, business enter- a period of inauguration, which is the the people, saying, “Yehi ratzon shet- ingredient to attain and merit this prise or a husband and wife to merit seven days of sheva berachot. This time ishreh Shechinah b’ma’asei yedeichem” exalted lifestyle. the fulfillment of the Priestly Blessing is a Yom-Tov for them. They refrain — “May the Shechinah — His Divine it is imperative that all “hands” involved from work and are primarily occupied Immediately prior to the joint berachah Presence — abide in the work of your be united as one. When the hands pull with enjoying each other. They are given by Moshe and Aharon, we are hands” (9:23, Rashi). This indeed is a in different directions and each has his royaly treated as a king and queen and told that Aharon personally blessed the beautiful blessing, but why did they selfish interests in mind, chaos prevails. they are the guests of honor at festive people with Birchat Kohanim — the speak in an obscure way? Instead of When all hands, however, join together meals and listen to the acclaim, praise traditional three-fold priestly blessing referring to the Mishkan as the “work in a mutual and dedicated effort for the and laudatory remarks of the host and for Divine protection, spiritual enlight- of the hands,” they should have clearly enhancement of the undertaking, G‑d guests. enment, and peace. said “May the Divine Presence abide in is truly pleased and His blessings for the Mishkan?” After this comes their initiation into The Torah tells us: “Vayisa Aharon et success are imminent. the mundane daily routine of life. The yado el ha’am vayevarcheim” — “And When the Jews were involved in build- My dear Chatan and Kallah, it is my joyous Yom Tov period has climaxed Aharon lifted his hand towards the ing the Mishkan, Hashem was delighted fervent wish that the both of you unite and now they need to face the daily people and he blessed them” (9:22). with His chosen people because they your “hands” as one and work jointly to chores and common travails connected were in an exalted spirit. After the Now, there is something strange in the accomplish your noble goals and aspira- with olam hazeh — this earthly world. Mishkan was completed, they returned Hebrew text. The word “yado” is written tions. Hashem will definitely reward In day-to-day life sometimes people are to their regular mundane activities. without a yud between the daled and your “love and friendship, harmony and confronted with trials and tribulations the vav, thus, it spells out the singular fellowship” with His blessings for all the Undoubtedly, Moshe and Aharon and a husband and wife may experience .However, when the best materially and spiritually .(ידו) ”his hand“ prayed that the Shechinah should be strife and animosity. text is read aloud, it is read as “yadav”

work, and yes, risk-taking. When one Minority Health and Health Disparities in Finding A Needle in a Haystack gets into a car one takes a major risk for the Maryland Department of Health and By: Sarah Junik with a specific genetic condition, such injury and even fatal accidents, G-d for- Hygiene. as cystic fibrosis, Tay Sachs, Canavan bid, but one takes this risk daily because I am continuing to quote from Dr. Mitt- What I want to bring to your attention disease, or Bloom syndrome. one needs to get places to carry out our man’s article: with this article is that one should be routines. In other words, for the benefit In regard to other illnesses and condi- discriminating when doing research It is also a fact that two to three out of of driving we have to put up with the tions, however, my research has unrav- on matters of health. Do not reject a every 100 newborn babies will have risks that driving entails: getting lost on eled many erroneous beliefs. Do they shiduch out of hand because of a health some kind of a birth defect – most the way to our destination, having a flat constitute a genetic condition or not? problem. Consult with a doctor who commonly, a heart defect. The vast tire, or, G-d forbid, worse possibilities. As an Orthodox physician articulated to can advise you. majority of these cannot be predicted In the same way, finding our bashert me, “People often call me with genetic Be thorough in your research. Ask by family history, and many of them means taking a chance. questions. There are lots of different the right questions and call both the are not genetic. disorders, and many people don’t have We hope that we and our children and reference you were given and friends or It is important to define the differ- any idea whether they are genetic, or loved ones will live to me’ah ve’esrim family who might know the prospect. ence between a “birth defect” and a even important.” (120) in wonderful health, but we can- On the other hand, all those who give “genetic condition.” A birth defect is not predict our future, and there are no Getting an accurate genetic risk assess- information, make sure your informa- an abnormality either in structure, guarantees. We do not know whether ment in a quick phone inquiry is rather tion is factual and true to the best of function, or body chemistry that is the child will develop asthma, have an tricky. First of all, genetics is a complex your ability. If there is a medical prob- present from birth and has physical attention deficit disorder, or grow up to science, and demands a close familiarity lem and you are not sure if it should be and/or mental consequences. However, have hypertension. with the rapidly evolving nature of the mentioned, call a Rov. By withholding a birth defect is not necessarily genetic, field and emerging findings of human The Beauty of Diversity information you are not doing a favor meaning it does not “run” in the family genome research. Moreover, only a We have to remember, also, the special to anyone. line. One common example is Down careful examination of the health his- value of uniqueness, our diversity is Syndrome (DS). The vast majority of I recently heard a story of a divorce that tory of both sides of the family would be what makes the world such a wonderful persons with DS have this condition came about because of information that reliable enough to be used as a basis for place. as a result of an accidental abnormality was withheld. A couple had a baby that such an important question as “chasana of chromosomal rearrangement. So, Having said that, if there are serious was born with certain defects which or no chasana?” having a family history of DS does not health issues in the family beyond were caused by medication the husband mean that the person is any more likely So, where do we go from here? those of the general population, it is was on at the time of conception. The than anyone else to have children with possible to ascertain genetic risk. Just wife had no idea the husband was on The Benefit-Burden Concept this condition. remember, it is a matter for experts. medication or even that he needed While Dor Yeshorim offers a reliable Call your doctor, and if the doctor any. If the wife had known about the Genetic Assessment way to do premarital testing for reces- is not sure, ask to speak to a genetic condition, the baby might have been The organization Dor Yeshorim has sive conditions, it does not guarantee specialist. To find a genetic counselor born healthy. increased awareness of genetics in the perfect health for a myriad of other in your area, you can log into the web Orthodox community. The testing conditions that are not recessive. Any constructive comments are site of the National Society of Genetic it provides is one way to alert people Simply put, there is no such thing as welcomed by the editor. Write to CHP5768 Counseling: www.nsgc.org. considering marriage as to whether, a “free lunch.” Everything we do in @gmail.com or directly to the author at Dr. Mittman is a certified genetic counselor together, they are likely to have children life demands some compromise, some [email protected]. and a public health expert at the Office of March 28, 2008 ~ crOWN heights 7

Rabbi Hecht, is chairman of the board of the National Committee for the Furtherance of Jewish Education (NCFJE), continuing the tradi- a relationship without commitment Ultimately, though maybe not con- tion of social services management and outreach that began with his doesn’t offer the same challenge to sciously, we marry because of the father, the Rabbi Jacob J. Hecht A’H. He is a Rabbi and activist in the better oneself. An unmarried person spiritual and esoteric. has to worry only about themselves. Jewish community, focusing on family crisis intervention, guiding and G-d told us to. Each person is only ½ Marriage and children help a person advising troubled youth and their families, marriage counseling, and of a whole. Without the other half, a drugs and cults counseling and consultations. He can be reached at jump over that hump and care about person never feels whole. Our spouse [email protected]. • others. Rabbi Shea Hecht not only challenges us to be a better It’s difficult to be selfish when you live human being, but also complements us. Marriage is much like that vacation with others who demand that you give A man and a woman create a positive Why Marry? people dream they will take one day: of yourself; living with a pet demands energy. just like people seek different compo- responsibility, but it certainly doesn’t If I was asked to describe the perfect Marriage leads to fulfillment in all nents to create that perfect vacation, encourage anyone to be a “mensch.” vacation, it would be one spent with areas of our lives: the physical and the people look for different things in their family. All the other attractions a Fido (or whatever your loving pet is spiritual, the financial and the practical, marriage. vacation can offer pale in called) may mean the world to you, the esoteric and the down-to-earth, comparison to uninter- W hy do people but an animal places no challenges on day-to-day needs. rupted time with my marry? What does its owner to improve. Animals accept A good marriage is the possibility of family. marriage have to their owner with unconditional love. getting that dream vacation with all offer? How many of Though each person dreams to be Some friends of ours believe its components. Just as it takes a con- the things that marriage has accepted and loved unconditionally, the perfect vacation is one spent certed effort to put the dream vacation to offer do we recognize and the truth is that we all need to improve pampered in a luxurious hotel with together, it takes work to bring our appreciate, especially if they are not our character, and marriage challenges breathtaking scenery and a heated marriages to their full potential. Mar- part of our dream? us to do just that. pool. riage creates obligations on a multitude Communication, intimacy, and com- Marriage is the holy and legitimate of levels. However, we can reap the When you envision the ‘perfect vaca- panionship are three of the big draws to way to bring children into this world. benefits on a multitude of levels. tion’, what does your imagination a permanent relationship. The warmth Children are our guarantee that our conjure? A luxurious hotel? Delicious If we understood the benefits of mar- of knowing that someone cares and will generations will continue, and they food? Entertaining people? Interesting riage, what it can accomplish for us be there to listen is a common pull to give us grandchildren which are a great sites? The right weather? Beautiful and how it can help us become a better settle down and marry. source of nachas. scenery? The right entertainment? and more wholesome human being, Some of the above? All of the above? Many marry because they find that Then there are the financial and practi- the question of ‘why marry’ wouldn’t An eclectic mixture of all the things their relationship challenges them to cal benefits of marriage: a home, food, exist. mentioned? better themselves. Living alone or in and even a better-looking tax return. PURIM AT THE SHALOM SENIOR CENTER On Purim morning, over 100 people During the meal, Mishloach monos gathered at the Shalom Senior center to were distributed by the staff to all the hear the annual reading of the Megillah. seniors. In order for everyone to fulfill As usual, the megillah was read by the the mitzvah of Mishloach Monos, Rov of Congregation Chevra Shas, everyone was advised to exchange their Rabbi Mordechai Gurary. Rabbi Gurary package with the person sitting next to has read the Megillah at the Shalom them. Everyone gave tzedoka as well in Center for the past 25 years. order to fulfill the mitzvah of Matonos Leevyonim. This year was not going to be any dif- ferent even with Purim falling out on During the Seudah a d’var Torah was Friday and with major time constraints. said, and by the time we bentched, With his loud and melodious voice, everyone had had a wonderful Purim. everyone in the center was “yotzei” Of course, this all would not have hearing the megillah. Thank youR abbi happened without the work of the Gurary for your wonderful leining. dedicated staff at the Shalom Center: Shimon Herz, Director, Jenya Cherny, After the Megilla reading, the tables Program Director, and Luda Rubin, were set for a full Seudas Purim. At Kitchen Director who made sure 11:30 am, the music started to play everyone had a wonderful and joyous with freilecher tunes, and everyone Purim. took their places. 8 CROWN HEIGHTS ~March 28, 2008

The Rebbe's Sicha 5744

Shabbos Parshas Shemini idea of newness. But what can be the darkness is transformed into light, and the Baal HaTurim explains that “a Parshas Poro distinction of parshas Poro — espe- to the extent that one who becomes kingdom of priests” means High Priests. 20th Day of Adar II, 5744 cially since it is not called “the sacrifice impure from contact with the dead — Since holiness does not move from its of the Poro,” but just “Poro.” the most severe form of impurity — is place, it follows that even after Matan Published and copyright © by Sichos purified through the Poro Adumah. Torah all Jews are High Priests. Even In English It becomes even more perplexing when if this level is concealed, a Jew has at we realize that the “poro” in question This leap from the lowest levels to 1. Today is Shabbos parshas Poro. least the level of a deputy High Priest. had to be a “red cow.” The color red the highest is expressed in the service And thus even today Jews, utilizing The lesson to be derived stems from indicates a murderous personality, associated with the Poro Adumah. the level of deputy High Priest in parshas Poro. Even a small child knows brute strength and aggressiveness, as Although it had to be done “outside the their soul, can carry out the spiritual that the main emphasis and excitement exemplified byE sav (Bereishis 25:30): camp,” nevertheless, Torah says (Bam- service of the Poro Adumah. Likewise, on this Shabbos is not so much regard- “Let me swallow, please, some of this idbar 19:4) that the deputy High Priest those aspects of its service connected ing parshas Shemini, but concerning red, red stuff ... therefore his name was “shall sprinkle of its blood towards the with the Bais HaMikdash (e.g. “He parshas Poro. Why? We read the weekly called Edom (red).” Further, the Yalkut front of the Ohel Moed.” Sprinkling, shall sprinkle of its blood towards the parshah every Shabbos, whereas the Shimoni says that “Poro — this is the in contrast to placing, stresses the idea front of the Ohel Moed”) can also be four special parshas — Shekalim, Egyptian exile; Adumah — this is the of leaping, for when sprinkling, the carried out, for although the physical Zachor, Poro and HaChodesh are read Babylonian kingdom,” connecting the blood is thrown or “leaps” from one Bais HaMikdash was destroyed, the at special times of the year. Special Poro Adumah to the idea of exile. Why place to the other. spiritual Bais HaMikdash, and certainly excitement, therefore, surrounds the then, is such a fuss made about Shabbos 2. In terms of man’s spiritual service, the spiritual “front of the Ohel Moed,” reading of these parshas, to the extent Poro, more so than parshas Shemini, this teaches the following: The descent exists in perfection also in exile. that the entire Shabbos is called “Shab- when “Shemini,” which means eight, to “outside the camp” is paralleled by bos Parshas Poro”. is a very lofty number? The lesson from parshas Poro is relevant a descent in terms of time — meaning to all Jews, youth and elders. When But this special emphasis on parshas It is precisely because “Poro” descends exile. In exile itself, it refers to the time a Jew is at the start of service, when Poro is puzzling to a small child. “Poro” to such a low level that it is of a very when “darkness covers the earth” — his service is on the level of a “youth,” means “cow,” and a cow is a member of lofty nature.A s we pointed out above, the intense spiritual darkness in the parshas Parah teaches that although he the animal kingdom, lower than man, “Poro” itself is lower than man; “Poro era immediately preceding Mashiach’s is on a low level of service, it is specifi- and certainly lower then Jews. Why, Adumah” — the “red cow” indicates coming. The Poro Adumah teaches cally through this that he reaches the then, such excitement about a Shabbos aggressiveness and a murderous per- that this awesome descent into exile highest levels. which is called “Poro”. sonality; and it also alludes to exile. brings Jews to the loftiest heights, Moreover, unlike other sacrifices, the transforming darkness into light. It On the other hand, when he reaches This question does not apply to the service of the Poro Adumah was carried is specifically through going “outside perfection in his service, the level of other three parshas, whose worth is out “outside the camp,” forcing the the camp” that one reaches the level of “elders,” when the exile does not affect self-evident. Parshas Zachor is the idea deputy High Priest, who carried out being “towards the front of the Ohel him — as the Alter Rebbe writes, that of remembrance; parshas Shekalim, its service, to leave the camp. Thus the Moed. in regard to Rashbi the destruction although discussing a shekel which is Poro Adumah signifies a descent to a and exile did not exist — Parshas Poro an inanimate object, has the distinction Although now, in exile, we do not very low level. teaches that the service of elevating the that when G-d commanded that half a have the Poro Adumah, its concept lowest levels (exile) is very important, shekel be given by every Jew, he showed But it is specifically through this great nevertheless still applies. At Matan for through it, one reaches the most Moshe “a coin of fire” R( ashi, Shmos descent that the highest of levels is Torah, every Jew was told that “You lofty levels. 3:13); and parshas HaChodesh is the reached. Through the Poro Adumah shall be for Me a kingdom of priests,”

Shicha Parshas Shmini 5740 be more than we anticipated to do, in a soon greet him with “our sons and Published and copyright © by Sichos In follows: Even if we are willing to serve degree of “a found object comes about daughters, our youth and our elders,” English G-d with Mesirus Nefesh (the contri- unexpectedly.” and proceed to our land with joy, hap- bution of the seventh day of Pesach), piness and true pleasure. The Baal Shem Tov says that an object’s The Talmud also says that Mashiach’s and unbounded Mesirus Nefesh (the name communicates its basic nature. coming will be unexpected. May we contribution of the final day of Pesach), Hence, the name “Shemini” brings and true pleasure (the contribution of out the basic nature of the entire Torah Shabbos); that is not sufficient. Our portion. service is still bound by the limits of Shemini means “the eighth day.” It refers human potential. We must begin a new to the eighth day of the inauguration of service, on the level of Shemini above the altar. During the seven preceding our natural limitations. The Talmud days Aharon and his sons prepared for declares that a sage never rests — he their service as priests. They offered must always proceed from “strength to various sacrifices and went through the strength.” Even if one appears to have entire process of ‘Miluim’ (consecra- reached completion of his service — he tion) as priests. What new element did seems to be a perfect Tzaddik and a true the eighth day contribute? Baal Teshuvah — nevertheless, when compared to G-d’s infinity, his service This question can be explained within is limited. the context of the fundamental differ- ence between the numbers seven and We might question: We are, after all, eight. Seven refers to the completion human and limited; how can we be of the natural order. (Hence, there expected to carry out a boundless are seven days in a week.) Eight refers service? Nevertheless, the very fact to a level that transcends the natural that Torah tells us, “Go from strength order and “guards” it. The seven days to strength,” and, “man was created to of consecration refer to the ultimate of work,” nullifies our question.W e must human efforts.H owever, the eighth day begin the service of Shemini. We cannot refers to a level that transcends human sit back and rest, enjoying the reward potential. The eighth day brought about from our previous service — now is the the potential for a new and higher time to work. service. That service was reflected in the We have the promise from Torah, “If actions of the Jewish people who “gave you work you will find,” as the Talmud praise and fell on their faces.” declares, “(If one says) ‘I worked and I The practical directive from above is as found,’ believe him.” The “finding” will March 28, 2008 ~ crOWN heights 9 Tree of Life

Sweetening The Air With the Scent of Moshiach! things will decompose back to a seed The sense of smell, according to tradi- “roots” of faith emunah, the unspoiled strengthening, purposeful and nurtur- once again and thus the cycle will repeat tion, is considered to be the most and inviolable part of every Jew. Having ing benefit.L ike the root oils, the woods itself. Likewise, the Rebbe writes that spiritual of all the senses. The Holy strong roots keeps us grounded and cen- also lend a calming, meditative quality man attains wholeness when his tree Zohar relates that our nefesh could not tered during turbulent moments in our to our lives. It is no coincidence that bears fruits. When ones learning and exist without smell.* Thus, as Shabbos lives. Aromatic oils extracted from the myrrh, frankincense and spikenard all practice spreads to others, we beget an departs, we smell sweet spices in order roots of Vetiver, Ginger, and Spikenard emanating from the tree’s sap, wood and endless yield: generations steadfast in to revive our souls. Further, smell are oils which have a calming effect and roots, are often the main ingredients in Torah and Mitzvoth. Oils derived from according to meforshim, is considered beneficial for helping one stay centered religious ritual. The Ketores, the most the fruit peel through cold-pressed to be the the only sense which did not within a fragmented world. Vetiver, a precious part of the Temple service, is techniques as well as the essential oils “participate” in the Chet ha Daas. We long, strong root, found in Haiti and a perfect example. extracted from delicate floral petals, read in Bereishis that Adam and Chava widely planted there to help curb soil affect our spiritual and emotional well- Although, the Rebbe emphasizes the saw the tree; they tasted the apple; they erosion, is also found in a variety of being. All of these oils possess qualities importance of the roots, faith and the touched the tree; and “heard” the voice perfumes. Its deep woody base note is that are uplifting, enduring and regen- trunk, Torah, he encourages us not to of G-d; What of smell? effective for its grounding and tranquil erative as well. Your beautiful citrus and stay complacent but to put our beliefs quality. Similarly, in Bereishis, Parshas floral oils, particularly Orange Blossom, Also according to tradition, Moshiach into practice, to live Torah – the mitz- Vayeshev 37:25, we learn how Yosef’s Jasmine, and Rose, all generate from ben David will be revealed to us through voth. Without the mitzvoth breathing brothers were preparing to sell Yosef seeds and possess the plant’s crowning the power of scent. We will smell him life into the Torah, our spiritual service to a caravan of Midianites on their way achievement and beauty (hence the in the air, and he too will judge us by would stay stagnant and self-contained. to Egypt. Traditionally these caravans magnificent price they incur!). So too, his sense of smell: Thus theR ebbe compares the mitzvoth our offspring, biological and/or spiri- “..and the spirit of Hashem shall rest tual, are, our crowning achievements upon him: a spirit of wisdom, a spirit which perpetuate our precious legacy of counsel and strength, a spirit of to future generations. knowledge and Yirat Hashem; And he shall smell with Yirat Hashem; he shall In conclusion, by experiencing these not judge by the sight of this eyes, nor fragrances , the evening gave the par- shall he rebuke by the hearing of his ticipants a greater tangible awareness ears….” Yeshayahu 11:3-9 of what the Rebbe explained in his Sicha: “Man is Like A Tree In the This power of scent is also revealed to us Field.” The success of this evening through the unique richness and varied was the discovery of different sensory properties of the tree, a Tree of Life! modalities which enliven a ritual or Recently, on Rosh Chodesh Shevat in an event, making it more effective and honor of Tu B’shevat, N’shei Chabad memorable. The BaisH aMikdash was had an inspirational evening exploring a perfect example, utilizing an array the Rebbe’s Sicha* on the pasuk: of different sensory modalities and כי האדם “Man is Like a Tree in the Field”, consequently became the quintessential עץ השדה Devarim 20:19. ritual of all time. May we merit once During the evening, the pasuk was again, to explore the rich, penetrating further explored through the power of fragrances of our tradition which will fragrance. Chana Schoenberg of Tal serve as stepping stones towards the Fine Essential Oils, a creative enterprise ultimate service and place, the Third focusing on scent and the Judaic tradi- Bais Ha Mikdash. May It Come Speed- tion, invited participants to embark on ily In Our Days! an aromatic journey while exploring the Biography different aspects of a Jew as compared to a variety of fragrant offerings from Tal Fine Essential Oils is a unique business the tree. By touching raw plant mate- enterprise in the world of aromatherapy. rial as well as smelling their essential Originated in Israel and privileged to have oils (highly concentrative essences received a blessing from the Lubavitcher extracted from botanical sources often Rebbe, Tal prides itself in exploring the through steam distillation), the Rebbe’s beauty of fragrance within the Judaic tra- insights were considerably enhanced dition. Founder, Chana Schoenberg, has and brought to life!. many years of experience in aromatherapy. often carried foul smelling merchan- to the branches of the tree, inspira- With her background in art and design, First, we explored the tiny seed from dise. However, at that one time, in the tional and rejuvenating. Likened to she has painted a vibrant business venture. which the tree and all creation emerge. merit of Yosef, sweet balsamic resins the branches of a tree, our respiratory Further, Chana has taught extensively The seed is compared to the G-dly spark and spices permeated the air instead. system, particularly the bronchioles on fragrance worldwide. Education is within each Jew which when planted Upon smelling these perfumes, the (which look like branches) efficiently chief among Tal’s many features offering into the earth, eventually germinates terrified Yosef began to feel a sense of take in oxygen and eliminate carbon lectures in all aspects of aromatherapy, into something greater than itself: calm and tranquility. Although he was dioxide - the breath of life. Our involve- interactive workshops and customized generations of Jewish children either preparing for his troublesome descent ment keeps our spiritual service fresh, blending. For reputable sources of essen- biological or “spiritual” who in turn pass into Egypt, he also realized that this expansive, and non-stagnant. Oils that tial oils and further information on it on to further generations. The seed decent would be for an even greater have this stimulating expansive quality workshops and lectures, please contact has an enterprising and inspirational ascent of revealed blessings. These are the leafy greens: Pine, Spruce, and [email protected]. component. Nutmeg and Cardamom fragrant perfumes, some extracted from Eucalyptus just to name a few. These were two examples of oils which have the roots and resins of trees, taught him oils have mucolytic benefits (mucous CAUTION: Essential oils are highly an innovative and creative impact on this lesson and offered comfort. eliminating), and thus on an emotional concentrated and potent. When used our intellectual and emotional facul- and spiritual plane, they have an effect in the appropriate dosages these plant The trunk of the tree is the backbone ties. Thus we often hear the phrase, as well. When we begin to stagnant in essences can be beneficial for physical of man, giving him strength, endurance “A seed has been planted in my head,” our spiritual growth, the expansive and emotional well being. If interested and purpose. TheR ebbe compares the a potential idea which will hopefully quality of these “green” oils can help in pursuing this alternative modal- trunk to the Torah, the blueprint of man. evolve into something more substantial us move forward. ity, one should contact a health care A few oils extracted from this portion of and concrete. provider who is knowledgeable in the the tree, its sap, bark and shavings are The trees ultimate attainment is its practice of aromatherapy. Moving up the tree, we come to the Sandalwood, Frankincense, Myrrh and fruits and flowers. Their ultimate source roots, which the Rebbe compares to the Cedarwood. All of these oils have this is the seed, and which like all living 10 CROWN HEIGHTS ~March 28, 2008 CHJCC

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have been sufficient to say “vegeirah how much are we in danger if we would Vedibarta Bam ~ Shmini lo yigar” with the pronoun implied by absent ourselves from Torah.” the verb. From this we can deduce that Scales serve as a protective garment זאת החיה אשר תאכלו” By Rabbi Moshe Bogomilsky the prohibition applies only as long as to the fish and through the fins it flies And G‑d spoke to Moshe and to “vehu” — “and he” — does not chew“ “ויקרבו כל העדה ויעמדו לפני ה’” (swims) from place to place (see Rashi). Aharon, saying to them, ‘Speak to his cud: However, once he does begin “And all the congre- When one studies Torah it is expected the Children of Israel, saying: These chewing his cud, then he will no longer gation drew near of him to create chidushim — innova- (אור החיים) .are the animals which you shall eat.’” be forbidden and they stood tive thoughts and explanations. It is also (11:1-2) ••••• before G‑d.” (9:5) imperative that one who studies Torah Alternatively, according to the Gemara QUESTION: Do not the words “leimor have yirat shamayim — fear of Heaven. QUESTION: It (Chullin 109b), for whatever Hashem aleihem” — “saying to them” — seem The Gemara (Shabbat 31a) compares could simply have forbids us in the Torah, there is some- extra, since the pasuk continues “dabru Torah study with yirat shamayim to said that they con- thing similar that is permissible. For el B’nei Yisrael leimor?” wheat which is stored with chumton — gregated before instance, though we are forbidden to eat a preservative consisting of earth with a Hashem. Why does ANSWER: When Batyah, the daughter pork, it is permissible to eat the brain of high salt content. Just as the grain will the pasuk use the of Pharaoh found Moshe in the waters, a fish called “shibota” (mullet), which spoil quickly without the preservative, separate expressions, “they drew near” she at first tried to have him nursed by tastes exactly like pork. likewise, one studying Torah without and, “they stood”? Egyptian women. Moshe refused to Rabbi Chanina bar Abbahu said, “There fear of Hashem, will easily forget, and cooperate because years later he would ANSWER: In the instructions before are 700 species of clean (kosher) fish his Torah study will be like a poisonous be a prophet and speak to Hashem, and “Mah Tovu” in the Nusach Ari it is writ- and 800 types of clean grasshoppers, medicine for him. it was therefore unthinkable to ingest ten, “It is proper to say before prayer: and an uncountable number of birds. anything impure and thus render his Thus, the fins represent the power to ‘I hereby take upon myself to fulfill They all went into exile with the Jewish body unfit (Sotah 12b). accomplish and reach new heights the mitzvah of loving your fellow as people to Babylon; and when the people through innovative contributions to yourself.’ Perhaps our pasuk is a remez In the time of Mashiach, Hashem will came back, they all returned except for Torah, and the scales represent the (hint) for this custom. infuse His spirit into all the people, the shibota fish” (Midrash Rabbah, essential ingredient of yirat shamayim, “venibu beneichem uvenoteichem” Introduction to Lamentations 34). The Gemara (Berachot 6b) says that the through which one’s Torah study is — “and your sons and daughters shall expression “amidah” — standing — Consequently, chazir — pork — will preserved and becomes a source of sam prophesy” (Joel 3:1). Therefore, the can be a reference to “tefillah” — prayer always be forbidden, but the Midrash is chaim — medicine that adds life. pasuk tells us that Hashem said to — as it is stated, “And Pinchas stood suggesting that the shibota fish, whose Moshe and Aharon, “leimor aleihem” up and prayed” (Psalms 106:30). The brain tastes like pork will return and be Consequently, if one possesses the — because of the fact that “I will also pasuk is telling us that first, “vayikrevu available when Mashiach comes. quality of “scales,” he is on the right speak to them” (which means that track with his Torah study and will )שו”ת תירוש ויצהר סי’ קצ”ה( kol ha’eidah” — the entire community ultimately each and every Jew will became closer to each other by showing eventually enhance himself and the become a prophet) — “tell the Children ahavat Yisrael — and then “vaya’amdu” Torah with his “fins” — innovative of Israel that they should refrain from thoughts which will be compatible to “את זה תאכלו מכל אשר במים כל אשר ,they were ready to stand, that is, pray — eating things that are unclean.” (Thus, Torah truth — . Such an לו סנפיר וקשקשת... תאכלו” .lifnei Hashem” — to Hashem“ אמיתתה של תורה leimor aleihem” is not a command, but“ individual is considered tahor — pure )חסד לאברהם( This you may eat from everything that“ (קדושת לוי) (.a reason and clean. But one who studies Torah is in the water, every­thing that has fins “ויאמר משה אל אהרן קרב אל and does not have “scales” — fear of .(and scales...those you may eat” (11:9 המזבח” Heaven — is tameih — unclean and “ואת החזיר כי מפריס פרסה הוא ושסע -QUESTION: The Gemara (Niddah unfit.H is Torah study and fins — inno שסע פרסה והוא גרה לא יגר טמא הוא Moshe said to Aharon: come near to“ 51b) says that a fish that has scales vations — are contrary to Hashem’s לכם” (the altar.” (9:7 also has fins and there is no need to desire and it does not merit him the QUESTION: Rashi explains that “And the swine because his hooves are examine for them. However, there are spiritual source of life which Torah Aharon was diffident and reluctant split, and cloven-footed, but does not fish that only have fins and they are gives to those who study it. to approach the altar. Moshe said to chew his cud, he is unclean to you.” tamei — unclean. )רשימות כ”ק אדמו”ר חוברת ל”ט( him: “Why are you fearful? — lekach (11:7) nivcharta — You were chosen for this What lesson can we derive from the signs of the kosher and non-kosher ( )חזיר ”position.” QUESTION: The name “chazir “ואת החסידה...” ?swine” — means that, “yachzir fish“ — How was the fact that he was selected liheyot mutar” — eventually in the supposed to dispel his fear and ANSWER: Fish in their habitat — water days of Mashiach it will be permissible “And the stork...” (11:19) diffidence? — are analogous to scholars studying to eat it (Rabbeinu Bachya). How does Torah. This is obvious from that which ANSWER: A Chassidic Rebbe once this correspond with what is said in the QUESTION: She is called “chasidah” is related in Gemara (Berachot 61b) in encouraged a chasid to become a Rabbi Thirteen Principles of Faith “I believe — “kind” — because she shares her connection to the Roman government’s of a community. The chasid was reluc- with perfect faith that this Torah will food with her friends — Rashi. decree against Torah study. When tant and said: “I am very much afraid not be changed and G‑d will not give Pappas ben Yehudah saw Rabbi Akiva to accept the position; I doubt that I am another Torah”? The animals and birds that are forbid- convening public assemblies to study suitable.” TheR ebbe responded: “Who, den to the Jews to eat possess bad ANSWER: Kosher animals have split Torah he asked him, “Akiva are you then, should I make a Rabbi, someone character traits. What man eats has an hooves and chew their cud. The swine not afraid of the regime?” Rabbi Akiva who is not afraid? The fact that you are effect on him; therefore, Torah forbade has split hooves, but it does not chew replied, with a parable: “Once a fox was afraid makes you most suitable because animals that would badly influence our its cud, and it is therefore not kosher. walking alongside the river bank and you will always be careful in whatever character (Ramban 11:13). Since the The signs the Torah gives for a kosher saw fish gathering from place to place, you do.” stork shares her food with her friends, animal will not change, but in the days as they were fleeing something.W hen it seems that she is good natured, so When Moshe saw Aharon’s reluctance of Mashiach, the nature of the swine the fox inquired, ‘From what are you why should she be forbidden? and noticed his fear, he said to him: itself will change and in addition to running away?’ They told him, ‘From “Come near to the altar. You are indeed having split hooves, it will chew its cud the nets people set up to catch us.’ The ANSWER: A person who is selective the most suitable for the position. and thus be permissible. fox said to them, ‘Come up to dry land and helps only people that he likes, ‘Lekach nivcharta’ — Because of your and we will dwell together just as our paying no attention to the needs of fear of Hashem you were selected to be This opinion can be supported from ancestors dwelled together.’ The fish others, does not have a good character. the Kohen Gadol.” a difference of terminology used in responded, ‘You are a fool, for if in our Thus, the Torah forbids us to eat the describing the swine as opposed to habitat where our life is sustained we stork so that we should not acquire her )דגל מחנה אפרים בשם הבעש”ט( the other non-kosher animals. Only are afraid, all the more so we should be bad habits. regarding the swine does it say, “vehu afraid for our existence if we leave our (חידושי הרי”ם) geirah lo yigar” — “and he does not habitat.’ Likewise, Rabbi Akiva said, “If “וידבר ה’ אל משה ואל אהרן לאמר chew its cud.” The word “vehu” — “and now when we study Torah which is our אלהם: “דברו אל בני ישראל לאמר he” — seems superfluous. It would lifesaver, our existence is threatened, 12 CROWN HEIGHTS ~March 28, 2008 FELLOW JEW, IT’S UP TO YOU

Magen Avraham the world in order to influence those every action, Avraham’s great shield manifestation of this is through our By Moshe Nunez around him for good. Avraham’s life of kindness. unwavering commitment to Torah and Avraham Avinu was dedicated to opening up people’s Mitzvos, powered by simcha which For this reason the highest point of had an amazing eyes to the Oneness of H-shem and will result in exemplary lives full of our daily prayers remind us each and shield that pro- that mankind was to acknowledge good deeds and middos tovos. We every day that it all starts with Avraham tected him from TheC reator in all his ways. This is why have already been given the ability and (Chesed) and although we then go to every foe. What H-shem chose Avraham to be the father resources to change the world around the deep wells of Isaac (Gevurah), to the was Avraham’s of the Jewish people as He desired to us. We just have to decide that we will beauty and balance of Yaacov (Tifferet), Shield? How big raise an entire army that would bring do it by teaching and encouraging our ultimately, we must complete the circle was it? What shape His Torah of Truth to a dark, confused, fellow Yidden by example and words, back to Magen Avraham (Shield of was it? Here are some hints… and broken world. and teaching and encouraging the Chesed). goyim in our immediate sphere of influ- First hint: There is aH aYom Yom where This is why the Amidah starts with You can be sure that this is the greatest ence the Seven Universal Principles the Rebbe teaches us that there are two Avraham and ends with Avraham. protection and shield against assimila- (Sheva Mitzvos Bnei Noach) with possible outcomes in every situation: Our own lives and avoda starts with tion. If we go out to the world and all their ramifications, in the light of Either the person is influenced by the the kindness of outreach and ends influence our gentile neighbors, col- Chassidus. situation he finds himself in, or he is a with outreach. Outreach to our fellow leagues, workers, employers, etc., catalyst for change, thus transforming Jews of course, since unfortunately We have everything to gain and nothing bringing them under the wings of the the environment he is in. However, if our own Jewish brothers and sisters to lose. Avraham Avinu did outreach to Shechinah through the light of the by Hashgocha Protis he has been placed are constantly being drawn under the the world around him it and what hap- Torah (Sheva Mitzvos Bnei Noach), in any given situation, this means that influences of the goyim.H owever, you pened? He was admired and respected they are not going to pull us down to he has already been empowered from can be 100% sure that in addition to by all. He was the only person that was their goyishe values. As we embody Above to transform it for good. this, outreach to the world at-large is not a king over a nation and yet minted and teach Torah standards, which are the key objective for which we were his own coins which were accepted Second hint: Meat that is being the only true guidelines for every aspect chosen, and it will be precisely this out- worldwide as a coveted currency of koshered, although it might reside in of life, we will inspire all those around reach to the world that will ultimately great value. People would travel from a pool of blood, does not become treif us to also live wholesome, happy, and protect our own from assimilation in near and far to consult him on impor- because when it is expelling blood productive lives. many respects (intermarriage, fashion tant life decisions. Yes, Avraham Avinu through the salting process, it cannot choices, appreciation for things rooted We Yidden are constantly on stage. became wealthy and wise because he absorb blood simultaneously (Shul- in the cultures of the nations that Like it or not, the world is watching was a channel of blessings to others, so chan Aruch Melicha, siman ayin, sif are contrary to Torah teachings and us. Especially we Lubavitchers who H-shem kept His best blessings flowing aleph). principles). Every Jew is capable of proudly display our yarmulkes, tzitzis, constantly through his life. Third hint: There is a cliché in sports that carrying out this mission because we and beards. Tachlis: How do we act? So, now you know all about Avraham’s says, “Offense is the best defense.” are believers and children of believers How do we conduct business? How do shield. The next time you say the who can and will influence the nations we talk? Do we exercise and eat healthy? So, have you figured out what is Avra- Amidah, remember why that first around us, one person at a time. Do we raise upright and respectful ham’s Shield? Not yet? Then let’s exam- bracha starts with Avraham and ends children? Do we have vices? How do ine something we say every day during Avraham represents the Sefirah of with Magen Avraham. Our strength we dress? We are the world’s examples the Amidah. Whether it be during Chesed (kindness) which he demon- and protection is in the Chesed and and are the ultimate standard for what Maariv, Shacharit, Mincha, or Mussaf, strated by having dedicated his life outreach we should do as true and a human being made in the image and the first bracha of the Shmonei Esrei to share with the entire world the faithful children of Avraham Avinu. It’s likeness of H-shem is supposed to be. starts out: most precious possession he had: The time we lift up our heads to understand knowledge of the One True and Only We must demonstrate with our and recognize that the Rebbe did do all Blessed are You, Lord our God and God G-d. Although Avraham was threat- thoughts, speech, and, most of all, that He could do…and now, Fellow Jew of our fathers, God of AVRAHAM, ened, persecuted, and condemned for actions, that there truly is hope and that It’s Up To You! God of Yitzchak, and God of Yaacov, this, he always emerged victorious. Moshiach’s arrival is indeed imminent. the great, mighty and awesome God, Why? Because of the unique hallmark This is not accomplished with catchy exalted God, who bestows bountiful of his life which was seeded in his slogans, flags, or chants. The true kindness, who creates all things, who remembered the piety of the Patriarchs, and who in love, brings a redeemer to their chil- dren’s children, for the sake of His name. Oh, King, a helper, a savior and a shield. Blessed are You, Lord, SHIELD of AVRAHAM. The blessing starts by blessing the G-d of Avraham and ends with blessing the L-rd, Shield of Avraham. So here it is: Avra- ham’s shield is his Chesed. His Chesed was manifest in that he devoted his life to outreach. He was practical too. Avraham quickly discovered that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, so he fed people in the desert for free as long as they would then acknowledge G-d and say a bracha after their meal. This is Avraham’s great shield, protection, and defense. Not the free food, but the fact that Avraham spent his entire adult life always doing outreach to March 28, 2008 ~ crOWN heights 13 Shleimus Haaretz The Principles Underlying The Israel-Arab Conflict When Is Peace More Likely? that in this way he could receive more not opposed to violence against Israel, from Israel than he could ever win in and that he desires Arab dominion over Published and copyright © by Sichos In If the deterrent of fear were removed a war. Afterwards, he explained, once the entire land of Palestine. Have we English by Israel’s ceding the Golan, would Egypt’s position was improved and forgotten the Palestinians who danced the likelihood of a Syrian attack be Israel’s was weakened, he could wage on their roofs with glee when Iraqi Not only is the land for peace theory increased or decreased? war from a position of strength. Scuds fell on Israel? dangerous; it has no logic to it. Take for example, the Golan. Despite all Giving away land for peace means A look at the school textbooks and news Can they be blamed for such an atti- the vehement anti-Israeli rhetoric exchanging strategic positions for a media in Egypt - a country which is tude? The averageA rab is certainly not emanating from Damascus since 1974, mere piece of paper. And it is legitimate officially at peace with Israel - reflects responsible for these feelings. These are and even though Syrian troops were to question how much that piece of whether or not the Arabs have taken the the values on which he has been raised involved in the Lebanon War in 1982, paper is worth. For the Arabs have concept of peace seriously. Their press for years. For him to defy them would there has never been an attack mounted broken every treaty they ever made with - which is all government controlled - mean challenging his society’s entire from the Syrian front. Why? For a very Israel. And, for that matter, they have a seethes day after day with anti-Israeli hierarchy. simple reason. Situated on the Golan sorry record of keeping the agreements editorials and anti-Semitic caricatures. Heights, Israeli artillery is pointed they have made among themselves. At school, in their history classes, chil- But absolving the ordinary Arab from directly at Damascus. The terrain is dren are taught about the imperialistic blame should not lead us to ignore the more or less flat, and tanks and infantry Do The Arabs Really Want Peace? intent of the Zionist invaders. And situation which prevails. Even a casual can advance without great difficulty. In Friday after Friday, a message of hatred perusal of the local Arab press and radio such a situation, any Syrian leader will Many times in their internal propa- resounds from the mosques. communicates a clear message: From think hard before he contemplates a war ganda, the Arabs have said that their the heads of state to the ordinary man with Israel. The risks are far too high. involvement in the peace process is part Whoever wants a clear picture of in the street, the Arab world’s attitude of their “holy war to liberate Palestine.” whether or not the Arabs desire peace toward Israel is one of hatred and Consider for a second the situation if Sadat said it bluntly when he explained should ask the ordinary Arab in the contempt; never have there been any that were no longer true, if there were to the Arabs why he visited Jerusalem: street. He will respond - as has been serious attempts toward coexistence. no Israeli guns on the Golan, and Syrian He told them that he paid lip-service to documented by many polls - that he is guns were positioned there instead. the concept of peace because he knew

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have found that high amounts (five or Use olive, canola, or corn oil in cooking The RAMBAM Lifestyle six servings weekly) can be harmful. or baking. By Yaakov Bam lamb. The fat marbling you can see in This risk may be due to the presence of Use cooking spray for baking – versus beef is composed of saturated fat. Some mercury in many kinds of fish (salmon butter or oil. The Rambam: vegetable products - including coconut is one exception). oil, palm kernel oil, and vegetable short- Check up your Cholesterol Levels “A wise man eats only ening - are also high in saturates. The Am I eating right? one dish or two, eating For adults 20 years or over, the latest liver uses saturated fats to manufacture only enough to sustain A meal that is high in carbohydrate- guidelines from the National Choles- cholesterol. Therefore, excessive intake him. This is alluded to containing plant foods will be naturally terol Education Program recommend of saturated fats can significantly raise in King Shlomo’s state- low in fat, making the task of reducing the following optimal levels: the blood cholesterol level, especially ment: “The righteous fat consumption much easier. While the level of low-density lipoproteins Total cholesterol less than 200 mil- man eats to satisfy his soul.”(Proverbs animal foods are higher in fat and (LDLs), or “bad cholesterol.” ligrams per deciliter (mg/dl) 13:25) (Hilchos Deos 5.1) cholesterol than plant foods, animal foods are rich in certain vitamins and HDL cholesterol levels greater than Monounsaturated Fats are found in Nutrition Bits and Bytes. minerals. Dairy foods are an excellent 40 mg/dl. vegetable oils that remain liquid at source of calcium and protein. Meat room temperature. Some examples of LDL cholesterol levels less than 100 Many of us have heard about fats before. in general is rich in protein, niacin, where it can be found are olive or canola mg/dl. We see the word on food labels, listed iron, and thiamin. Lean cuts of meat, oils. These are possibly the healthiest as an ingredient on food packages, poultry and low fat dairy products Tips for Raising HDL and Lowering oils to add to your diet. Studies from and use it to cook with. Do you really can be included into a low fat, high- LDL Cholesterol Levels. Mediterranean countries such as Italy know what is actually is and how much carbohydrate meal plan. The extra fat and Greece suggest that a diet rich in Limit consumption of foods that are to eat of it? This article will help you will not be missed, but you will still take monounsaturated fats may help lessen high in saturated fat and cholesterol. understand what fats are, describe the in the calcium, vitamins, and minerals the risk for heart disease. These fats three main types of dietary fats, give that are present in the full fat products. Stop smoking. appear to reduce blood levels of “bad you dietary recommendations for fat Fish has unique benefits and can be cholesterol” without affecting “good Exercise regularly. consumption, and show you how to eat eaten frequently. cholesterol” in any way. in a low-fat way. Eat more fish (at least two or three times What should be my cooking a week). Select cold-water fatty fish, Polyunsaturated Fats: These are found Facts about Fat technique? such as salmon, because they have high in greatest abundance in corn, soybean, levels of omega-3 fatty acids. Fats and oils are common parts of safflower, and sunflower oils. Certain Desirable cooking methods include foods. Fat can be found in red meats, fish oils are also high in polyunsatu- Use olive, peanut or canola oils (all baking, broiling, or grilling. Be sure poultry, fish and dairy products. Fats rated fat. Unlike the saturated fats, monounsaturated) in limited amounts to trim the extra fat and skin before provide texture and flavor to the foods polyunsaturated fat may actually lower when you must use fat. cooking. “Frying” can be done in a non- you eat and cause your stomach to your total blood cholesterol level. stick skillet with a minimal amount of If you are overweight, lose weight. empty slower. Do you notice that you cooking oil or vegetable oil spray. Maintaining a healthy weight is criti- feel full for quite awhile after eating Polyunsaturated fats can be hydro- cal to keeping total cholesterol down, fried chicken or a big order of French genated to make them solid at room When choosing cooking oil, choose a thereby raising HDLs and lowering fries? You feel this way because the meal temperature. These partially hydro- softer margarine or vegetable oil over LDLs. was high in fat, and fat takes longer to genated vegetable oils then resemble solid shortening or meat drippings. leave your stomach than carbohydrates saturated fats from animal products Some studies have singled out nuts, Avoid products with hydrogenated oils or proteins. And that’s why you may and have the same similar health which contain omega-3 fatty acids and or partially-hydrogenated oils on the feel hungry again within an hour or effects on blood cholesterol and blood fiber, as being particularly beneficial for food label as the body reacts to these two of eating a very low-fat meal. Fat vessels as saturated fats. These partially the heart by lowering LDL and total substances in much the same way as is necessary for health. In moderate hydrogenated fats are also known cholesterol. saturated fats. amounts, fat performs numerous as trans fats. Trans fats raise blood How much is enough activity? important functions in the body. Fat cholesterol levels, in particular LDL Health Tips for Your Good provides energy for your body to stay (bad cholesterol), increasing the risk of Lifestyle You need to get at least 30 minutes of warm, helps your body use some of the coronary heart disease. Trans fats also moderate physical activity per day, vitamins you eat, and helps protect your reduce HDL (good cholesterol) and How can I lower my total fat intake? most days of the week to help burn up body from injury. Unfortunately, fats increase triglycerides. Low HDL (good extra calories. But give yourself credit can also be harmful to your health. A cholesterol) often leads to metabolic Choose lean meats and leaner cuts of for the activities that you’re already diet high in fat is linked to a higher risk syndrome or type-2 diabetes if it is not meat. Try skinless chicken, fish, and doing. Common activities such as of becoming overweight or obese. It has reversed with diet and exercise. When 90-95 percent lean ground beef. Choose climbing stairs, pushing a stroller, also been linked to heart disease, high consumed, calories from hydrogenated cuts of red meat such as top loin, sirloin, gardening, and walking all count as blood pressure, certain cancers, insulin fats should be treated as saturated fats. round or flank steak. Trim fat from meat physical activity. Just make sure you resistance, and gall bladder disease. A A person’s combined intake of saturated and drain fat once it is cooked. do enough of them. change to a low-fat, controlled calorie and hydrogenated fats should total no meal plan will lower your dietary fat, more than 10 percent of his/her total Use 1/2 less fat in every recipe without To be continued. allow you to lose weight, and usually caloric intake. changing flavor or texture. improves your health. Yaakov Bam is a member of American Omega-3 Fat is found mostly in fish, Limit the sauces, dressings, and gravies Association of Nutritional Consultants. Types of Fat especially such higher-fat fish as salmon. on foods. He focuses on guiding and advising institu- Other sources include olive oil, canola Saturated Fats are found primarily in Make substitutions in recipes. Try 2 tions, families and private individuals in oil, soybeans, flaxseed, and many animal foods and remain solid at room egg whites instead of one whole egg, implementing the RAMBAM Lifestyle. nuts and seeds. A number of studies temperature. They are also found in or replace 1 cup of sour cream with 1 Yaakov can be reached at yaakov.bam@ demonstrate that eating fish at least butter and margarine. These fats raise cup of plain non-fat yogurt. Use ground gmail.com or by phone, (347)564-2874. once a week reduces the risk of sudden blood cholesterol levels, promote hard- turkey, ground chicken, tofu or textured To find out more details about the RAM- death from dangerous heart-rhythm ening of the arteries, and contribute to soy protein instead of ground beef. BAM Lifestyle, please see preceding and abnormalities by more than half. Oily blood clots that clog blood vessels to upcoming articles of the Health Interest fish, such as salmon, appear to be Reduce high-fat dairy products. Choose the heart and brain resulting in heart series. To register for a free Health Lifestyle particularly beneficial. Other research skim or 1 percent milk, low-fat yogurt, attacks and strokes. seminar, please contact Yaakov Bam. indicates that eating fish reduces trig- and reduced-fat cheese. Try low-fat lycerides (fat reserves in the body) and frozen yogurt or sherbet instead of ice Saturated FattyA cids are found primar- lipoproteins (protein-coated packages cream. ily in animal products, including dairy that carry fat and cholesterol to the items, such as whole milk, cream, and Use herbs and spices to enhance flavor, bloodstream). Eating no fish certainly cheese, and fatty meats like beef, veal, rather than added fat or salt. endangers the heart, but some studies 16 CROWN HEIGHTS ~March 28, 2008

OUR MOSDOS

individuals capable of making good although not everyone excels in aca- Rebbe and her Chassidishkeit. Also, decisions, then they will behave that demically-focused environments, they in her previous school she was getting way. I compare being a student in Ohr most certainly possess other important C’s and D’s. Now she is earning A’s Chana to being an adult who has a job: talents. These are catered to by life and B’s! The faculty and staff are so a job entails doing certain things in skills and vocational courses ranging dedicated and involved with each girl, certain hours. Fur- and I can’t thank them enough for ther, if a job holder really meeting my daughter on her own "I walk out each day feeling fulfilled.” is sick or must wavelength, encouraging her without Who could this be? A doctor in otherwise miss being condescending, and supporting a hospital? A teacher in a school? work or even just her.” “The real chiddush of OhrC hana”, Scientists in a lab? “The lessons are arrive late one day, says student Yitty Baizman, “is that they really good, because it’s all new to a responsible adult actually want you to succeed.” me. Everything is so interesting.” who wants to keep And indeed, Mrs Labkowski expresses Mekuravim at a Shabbaton? “It’s so his or her job would this sentiment when she says, “Without different from a typical school.” It’s call in, explain exception, each girl who has passed not a typical school - it’s “Ohr Chana.” the situation, and through our doors has given us reason Dini, Mushky, Chaya and Tovah and apologize.” to shep nachas as we have seen her their friends all have one thing in “This is the overall mature, grow, and oftentimes ‘find common: last year, they hated school, approach of Ohr herself.’” and this year, they love it! Chana. Teenagers Ohr Chana, at the forefront of women’s “Loving school is the right of every are so often over- education, is a response to the changing child. And not every child fits into looked, yet they needs of contemporary women. These the same mold,” says Sara Labkowski, are capable of so are the “women who are raising the the founder of Ohr Chana. Having much, if they are children who will bring the Geulah run Machon Chana and taught high just trusted and and girls who are training for this lofty school girls for many years, she was given a chance.” mission” that the Rebbe referred to in pained to see so many unhappy The school’s objec- a farbrengen. It is our responsibility teenagers and was looking for a solu- tive of individual- to help raise this generation. To do tion. After receiving many horas from ized learning is so we must believe in each and every the Rebbe, Ohr Chana Vocational achieved through individual and help her become the Academy, a first in the frum world, its small size. As strong, empowered Jewish mother she was created. one student says, was endowed and created to be. There are so many forces which “Because it is a “Future plans are to expand, and build put strain on young people today. small school, each girl gets the right from culinary arts, sewing, computer a state of art facility to house this Peer pressure, school work, home amount of the attention she needs. This graphics and office skills to practical program,” says its founder. For more responsibilities, and the mass media helps build self-esteem and lets you mathematics and English. For the first information call (347) 200-0632 or challenging young women in ways learn more, to grow more.” Another time, young women can explore their [email protected]. previous generations could never have student comments, “Coming from a identity through an alternative curricu- imagined. For some girls, the pressure large school, I’m not used to feeling lum, rediscover their self confidence to meet these demands can be over- important enough, which usually and leave the classroom with a whelming, sometimes resulting in an wouldn’t want to make me learn. I came marketable skill. Additionally, intense, internal struggle which limits here not knowing what to expect… girls learn teaching skills which any opportunity for self-exploration but now I walk out every day feeling they get to practice every Sunday NIGHTLIFE! and expression. Sadly, all too often, smarter, feeling that when I open my in a Talmud Torah and are an Upcoming Events these students slip through the cracks mouth I have new things to say.” integral part of the curriculum. Thursday, March 27th, 8pm of our larger schools. “One of the best ways to build The small size has yet another advan- The Scent of Antiquity: confidence and self-esteem,” Ohr Chana has recognized these tage. Chana Reich, Ohr Chana’s mad- Hands-On Exploration Into the explained Mrs. Piamenta, “is challenges and in response, has richa, remarks, “It is great to be able to Fragrant Beauty of the Ketores to turn a student into a teacher. created an educational environment just take everyone out on the spur of Guest Speaker: Mrs. Chana Schoenberg With ample support and help which appreciates that each student the moment! We don’t need to plan in lesson-preparation, our stu- Motzei Shabbos, March 29th, 9pm possesses singular talents, strengths in advance and order buses. If I see dents realize just how much they Graphology: A Workshop and abilities, which should be nur- the girls having a difficult day, I like already know as well as enjoy Revealing the Dynamics of tured and given full expression. This to surprise them by taking everyone the respect and admiration of Inter-personal Relationships unique approach to education strives out to ice cream. It’s also so easy to their young students.” For this Through Handwriting Analysis to meet the student’s individual learn- arrange—just a quick phone call or even program, the “homework” is with Rabbi Yaakov Rosenthal ing abilities and personal needs. One exchanging text messages with Mrs. not turned in; rather, lessons are student described Ohr Chana’s Piamenta or Mrs. Labkowski.” Monday, March 31st, 8pm prepared and then presented. response to her particular difficulties Can We Forgive If We Cannot Forget? The faculty at Ohr Chana is made up Girls are further allocated funds in Chumash class: “Whereas most Dealing With The Hurt In Your Life of dedicated staff who truly love and for teaching supplies and must of the girls could read fluently, I Guest Speaker: Rabbi Yossi Jacobson believe in each student. Chassidus budget accordingly. had trouble with kriah. Ohr Chana comes alive to these teenagers each Thursday, April 3rd, 8pm created a special chavrusa for me Support staff at Ohr Chana morning when they begin their day in 7 Circles: Understanding The Interplay outside of the class so that I could include a school psychologist, Rabbi Majeski’s class surrounded by of the 7 Relationships In Our Lives work on what I needed to.” Another currently in her residency, a enthusiastic Machon Chana students. Guest Speaker: Rabbi Shea Hecht girl relates, “Sewing was not my cup Madricha, and renowned men- Halacha is a favorite since it focuses of tea. Instead I wanted to pursue to tor Mrs. Shlulamis Pape, who All programs are held at The on the very issues the students grapple the Regents exam, so together we’ve in addition to teaching “Jewish NIGHTLIFE Lounge: with. Jewish Home classes dig deep into come up with a special, personalized Home,” makes appointments to Rubashkin Residence - 1349 the challenges they crave to understand. program.” speak to each girl privately each President Street “We grow daily in our Yiddishkeit week. email: [email protected] These experiences demonstrate because there is no pressure and every- Blog: www.CHnightlife.wordpress.com the importance of giving teenagers thing is discussed and explained.” The individual results are inspir- choices in their learning. “One of Other Limudei Kodesh subjects include ing. One mother describes how NightLife programs are a joint project of our main philosophies is to treat Chumash, Parsha, Chitas, Sichos, Ohr Chana turned her daughter’s CHJCC and BYIT and our students as adults,” says Mrs Tefila, and Yediah Klalis. life around: “She has matured sponsored by the CHJCC Zeesy Piamenta, Ohr Chana’s princi- and grown so much…in her Yet the school also recognizes that pal. “If you treat them as respectable middos, her hiskashrus to the