Year 2, Vol. 26 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 The www.therainbowtimesnews.com FREE! Lesbian Notions: Will the The Controversial RainbowTimes “real”women stand up? Couch: God hates fags Your LGBT News in Western MA, the Capital District of NY, Northern CT, & Southern VT p. 24 p. 2

IS OBAMA READY? MCCAIN VS. OBAMA P. 20

STREET SENSE: HILLARY IN OBAMA’S CABINET? P. 26

‘ANOTHER GAY SEQUEL: GAYS GONE WILD’ P. 6

TRANS SEXUALITY P. 15

‘BROOKE KNOWS BEST’ GLENN’S TELL ALL Q&A P. 12

MARCH IN ALBANY: SUPPORT MARRIAGE EQUALITY P. 14

AP Photo/Jae C. Hong 2 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions Dad’s story: In loving memory The Controversial Couch Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something By: Nicole Lashomb*/TRT Editor-in-Chief effect of his terminal illness left us all feeling place to live gay-ppily ever after, so defeated. By: Suzan Ambrose*/TRT Columnist [This issue of The Rainbow Times is dedicat- sod off!” Once he lost his brave battle, I began to ed to the memory of Joseph E. Lashomb, my God hates fags. Fred Phelps and his ‘church,’ made ponder that perhaps we indeed had witnessed father, who recently lost his courageous battle At least that’s what the Pastor up of his many, many, many sons and several miracles, such as the miracle of his to cancer, but whose spirit continues to guide Fred Phelps and his wacky cult-like followers daughters, grandchildren and a few trucks, life with an undying spirit and immeasurable and inspire my life.] from the Westboro Baptist Church in Kansas continues to protest at soldier’s funerals, love for us all. No matter how difficult the ife is too short; at times it is expected will tell you. This ‘man of God’ is best known regardless of the anguish it causes those in road became, he did not grumble. No matter and sometimes, unexpected. Regardless for his sickening protests at veteran’s funerals mourning. These people hold up signs with L how much pain he was in, he absorbed it with of the nature or anticipation of the inevitable, since the U.S. Supreme Court overturned the messages of hate and loathing, yelling angry, grace. No matter how tired he was, he wanted the death of a loved one, the anguish that it sodomy laws. This makes the United States to stay awake, for it was more important for despicable words at the family members. causes is not something one can ever truly gay-friendly and accepting, according to him talk and share with others than to rest his What a loving, spiritual kind of guy; only try- prepare for or embrace when that final Phelps. ailed body. ing to get more people to see just how much moment comes. Recently, I found myself in Huh. I wish someone had mentioned this to Throughout the past several years, before God hates … well, almost everyone, accord- that very predicament. me and my parental units way back when. It his cancer diagnosis, my father evolved into ing to Phelps’ website. But most especially: My father, whom I adored, lost his coura- could have saved me years of therapy if I just an enlightened man who understood complex the gay community. That’s me and you and a geous, noble and valiant battle to perhaps one could have told them: “Hey! America is the concepts at a profound level. One day in his dog named Boo. of the cruelest culprits of all—cancer. When living room we discussed my sexuality and If none of this makes sense to you, you he was diagnosed as having Stage 4 lung can- my marriage to the woman I adore. To be aren’t the only one failing to see the logic in cer this past January, realistically, I knew the truthful, I didn’t know much about his experi- Letters to the Editor that argument. The good news is, most people odds and what he was up against in this fight. ences with the gay community, other than don’t agree with hate mongering. Even if Although he insistently stated that he would Dear Editor, myself. He began describing friendships that Loved The Rainbow Times’ coverage of some folks aren’t completely gay accepting in “beat” this incurable and devastating disease, he had had with members of the gay commu- Uncensored! Nice job! our world, they have the sense to know that I knew it would take a miracle for him to con- nity, members that he had worked with and Howard N. Schenectady, NY what this pastor is saying is pretty far from the quer it. We all prayed for that miracle but as other friendships he had developed through Christianity Jesus is known for preaching. we stood in solidarity with him, the spiraling the years. Dear Editor, See Dad on Page 13 Why are some people so filled with hate for Rue McClanahan’s latest move is great. I the gay community? What is it that needs to couldn’t get enough of the Golden Girls then be heard, or fulfilled, within them? C’mon Out – Just Ask! Advice column and love it more now that she’s continuing to By: Tetty Gorfine* time, a person’s love for work with the gay community. Rue rocks and See Couch on Page 10 I have a daughter 16 from a marriage to my hus- their parent wins out and it was so sad to lose Estelle Getty. band. My husband and I are divorced and I came that significant person will Natally E., Williamstown, MA out 3 years ago. Six months ago I fell in love with a accept and come to terms The Rainbow Times woman. I haven't told my daughter yet. We have with who they are. Dear Editor, 351 Pleasant St., #322 been very close and not telling her is putting a strain Tell you daughter that you Who is Jackie or Jack Kennedy. We love his Northampton, MA 01060 columns here in Hartford! He sounds sexy and on me now. I know I must tell her but I'm afraid of her have been feeling strain in www.therainbowtimesnews.com hopefully he’s a guy ’cause I’m dying to meet reaction. Do you have any advice for me? your relationship because [email protected] him! Care to let him know about me? Worried, Jess TETTY GORFINE you’ve had to keep some- [email protected] Michael G., Hartford, CT thing important from her. Tell her that you are Phones: MA: 413-204-8959 • NY: 518-391-2617 Hi Jess: telling her this because honesty and being Fax: 866-310-8512 Good for you that you recognize the strains close to her is so important to you. Tell her Dear Editor, that are put on a relationship when one person that she has been and will always be special to The Aug., 2008 edition story from Rev. Irene Publisher Deja N. Greenlaw can not be fully themselves. Often it takes you. Monroe was a hit! Of course men are afraid of Gricel M. Ocasio Tetty Gorfine the “F” word. She’s right, it happens in the courage to tell the truth. Now years into the Reach out to your friends Jess and get sup- Editor-In-Chief LGBT community, in the straight community Sales Associate: LGBTQ movements we know that keeping port. The more support and encouragement Nicole Lashomb SJ Seymour secret one’s sexual orientation or gender iden- we have in these types of situations the and everywhere we go. Women are always treated like second class citizens. No wonder Distribution Reporter: tity is very detrimental. It causes much pain. stronger we feel. Ben Peterson Lindsay Wilson Relationships that harbor secrets also fair The best to you and your daughter Jess. why our butch lesbians are going for sex oper- poorly. Keeping authentic parts of oneself Tetty ations. They want the male privilege that we Columnists: Webmaster: Jarred Johnson hidden will deaden a relationship quickly. don’t have in this “fair” society. I’d like to Jack/ie Kennedy This is equally true in all forms of relation- Dr. Tetty: have Jackie Kennedy or Suzan Ambrose write Suzan Ambrose Paul P. Jesep ships from parent/child, to life partners, to I am a 22 year old gay man and I want to find a about it. In the meantime, kudos to Rev. Irene! boyfriend. When I meet other guys they either ignore Tamara J., Northampton, MA close friends and to children. The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow The good news Jess is, that coming out usu- me or come on to me. I want to just get to know them Dear Editor, Times, LLC. The articles written by the writers, ally benefits all involved. As a psychothera- and find one special one. I see my friends go out and columnists, and correspondents express their opin- pist for many years I find it extremely rare find someone for casual sex but I don't want to. 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Usually however, over See C’mon Out on Page 27 who lacks the privileges that mainstream The whole content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the does. So, why even bother? sole property of The Rainbow Times, LLC and they Read TRT’s Trans Column on P. 15 & Lesbian Notions on P. 24 Mellisa H., Easthampton, MA cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 3 Massachusetts Local News Local youth group preps for National Conference By: Nicole M. Young believe on a constant basis,” said Chino. “If participants performed during the recent On August 14, Food for Thought Books it says ‘critical resistance,’ I’m there!” fundraiser, speaking out on the inequitable (Amherst, MA) hosted a fundraiser in efforts A grassroots, volunteer-based organization, treatment of queer youth and adults in the to send local youth and adult community Critical Resistance was created to dissolve the prison system. Posters designed by local organizers to Critical Resistance 10, a nation- Prison Industrial Complex (PIC). PIC refers youth reflecting on the issue were also on dis- al conference on prison abolition in California to interest groups that see an opportunity in play during the event. Throughout the year, happening in late September. overcrowding prisons. Organizations such as these posters will be exhibited throughout One of the groups that will be attending the prison guard unions, construction companies, Springfield and other cities in Pioneer Valley. conference representing the Pioneer Valley is and surveillance technology vendors tend to Youth from Out Now continue to remain Out Now. Out Now, a GLBTQA youth- be more invested in monetary gain rather than active locally, nationally and internationally. focused organization based in Springfield, has reducing crime rates and rehabilitating incar- Rios just returned from the Democratic sent representatives to the conference for the cerated people. In 1998, the organization held National Convention in Denver and several past several years and is looking forward to its first conference, bringing national atten- "Members of QuEST following a performance participants attended the International Harm attending this year. tion to the Prison Industrial Complex. With at Food for Thought Books." Reduction Conference in Barcelona, Spain “We’ve been participating in the prison activist Angela Davis as one of its founders, last May. abolition movement for some time now,” said Critical Resistance now has chapters across for them,” Richardson stated. “Queer people Out Now is still seeking donations for the Holly Richardson, co-director of Out Now. the country and has successfully prevented fear for their lives because of stigmas and conference. If you’d like to contribute, please “We want to make people aware of the impact the construction of several prisons in stereotypes, which could lead to medical neg- contact Chino at (413) 351-5436 or mail that the Prison Industrial Complex has on our California. lect. They are also not protected from violent checks to Out Now, 1695 Main St., 2nd Floor, youth and others in the community. We go to While prison conditions are not ideal, mem- acts committed against them because of who Springfield, MA 01103. the conference to educate ourselves and then bers of the queer community who are current- they are.” For more information on Out Now, visit the educate others.” ly incarcerated face even harsher treatment. QuEST (QUeer Empowerment thru group’s website: www.outnowspringfield.org. Chino Rios, a community organizer and Out According to Richardson, inmates who iden- Solidarity and Truth), a program of Out Now, For more information on Critical Resistance, Now participant, is geared up, ready and tify as transsexual, transgender or gen- is specifically geared toward addressing visit www.criticalresistance.org. excited to attend this year’s conference. derqueer face crueler circumstances. issues impacting GLBTQ-identified youth “We must continue to stand up for what we “The prison system is not equipped to care and the Prison Industrial Complex. QuEST 4 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com In ‘The Name of God’ Faith, Family, and God: “Perspective” By: Paul P. Jesep* Science has long documented what many in their fears and superstitions. The consequence heterosexual, what earthly reason have we to ention religion and many mem- the GLBT and searching community already is frequently to shape an abused individual’s say that is not the case with the homosexual.” bers of the GLBT and searching knew–being gay is a natural part of a diverse relationship with God and understanding of This man demonstrates through ministry that Mcommunity become anxious. The universe. Yet the denial of science coupled faith. faith and religion are an expression of God’s word can evoke negative emotions. with a handful of misquoted and misunder- Religion was once used to justify slavery. sacred gift of hope, justice, and unconditional Understandably, it is identified with hate, big- stood biblical passages has given those in reli- Yet Martin Luther King Jr. successfully love. otry, and rejection. Sadly, these negative emo- gious authority the hubris and perverted applied religion to fight social injustice. Faith, whether Jewish, Muslim, Wiccan, tions can be associated with faith and belief in morality to condemn and persecute persons Dorothy Day used it to fight poverty and Buddhist, Christian, or however one comes to a higher authority. This new column is an made differently by the Creator. One of the homelessness. Religion also is still a tool to know and embrace it, can strengthen a person attempt to put God, faith, religion, and spiri- tragedies, in addition to the spiritual, physical, persecute the GLBT and searching communi- and the family he or she has made with anoth- tuality in a proper and ecumenical perspec- and emotional abuse caused to members of ty. Yet Archbishop Desmond Tutu of South er child of God. It can be an anchor in bad tive. the community, is to drive people away from Africa uses it to show to the community that times and a blessing during times of celebra- Over the centuries religion, a manmade God and faith. Although there can be overlap “God loves you just as you are.” tion. It can bless and strengthen the holy, inti- vehicle intended to enhance an individual’s between God, faith, and religion, they are According to the Nobel Peace Prize winner, mate union of two men or two women in the faith journey, evolved into an exclusionary very distinct. In fact, religion need not be part “homophobia equals apartheid.” South Africa fullness of God and creation. club usually operated by men that maintained of the equation. is the only nation in the world, thanks in part * Paul is a practicing attorney in Albany, power by playing on fears. Although there is It is the misuse of religion that causes harm. to the Archbishop, to guarantee equal rights priest and prelate in the Eastern Orthodox a certain majesty and beauty to religious cer- Not the Maker of All Good. It is religious for gays and lesbians in its constitution. Church, and author of “Crucifying Jesus and emony, corporate faith has become mired in “leaders” that exude a sanctimonious He says that “the totality of our love makes Secularizing America— the Republic of Faith the insecurity of persons needing to be in spir- hypocrisy. Not the Creator. Historically, men each of us grow to become increasingly god- without Wisdom.” He may be reached at itual control of others. and women have distorted religion to project like and compassionate. If this is so for the [email protected]. sash & trim paints a tribute onto an Autobiographic Canvas By: Nicole M. Young that many can relate has toured nationally and internationally with elements to sash & trim. New WORLD Theater, in collaboration with to,” Branner states. Fierce Love and Dark Fruit. He has created An Obie and Bessie Award-winning actress the UMass Department of Theater, begins its sash & trim addresses the original works The House that Crack Built and choreographer, Carlos is recognized as an 2008 Season with a workshop presentation of father-son relation- and Mighty Real: A Tribute to Sylvester, and original player in the New York avant garde sash & trim, Djola Branner’s newest work. ships between black contributed to the anthologies Voices Rising performance scene. She is best known as the This presentation is New WORLD Theater’s men in particular and (G. Winston James and Other Countries, edi- first woman to perform “The Lady in Blue” in fourth Community Spirit Showcase. Each examines the legacy of tors), Colored Contraditions (Robert Ntozake Shange’s foundational choreopoem, year, New WORLD Theater’s season begins our fathers. To Alexander and Harry Elam, editors) and for colored girls who have considered sui- with a performance featuring a local artist. Branner, it is important Staging Gay Lives (John M. Clum, editor). cide/when the rainbow is enuf. A collaborat- Past performance have included poet to “know what to leave As an educator, he has taught dance, acting ing founder of Urban Bush Women, Carlos Magdalena Gomez with Raúl Salinas and DJOLA BRANNER behind.” Through this and dramatic writing at Macalester College, performed with Jessica Hagedorn and Robbie Fred Ho, acclaimed musician Terry Jenoure, artistic account, University of Minnesota and the American McCauley as Thought Music in the 1980s. A and playwright and spoken word artist Branner pays homage to the life, legacy, and Musical and Dramatic Academy. Currently, gifted writer, Carlos’ plays include White Lenelle Moïse. lessons left behind by his own father. Branner is an Assistant Professor of Theater at Chocolate, The Cooking Show and Organdy Branner pays tribute to his dad with this A play about “splits,” Branner explores Hampshire College. Falsetto. five-character play that takes the audience Hank and Sadie’s divorce, the life of a young sash & trim will be directed by seminal the- During the two-week artist residency, stu- back to Branner’s teenage and young adult man’s anguish due to this split, and Hank’s ater artist Laurie Carlos. Frequent collabora- dents from local colleges and universities will years. Using real and imagined events, sash two talents—writing music and painting tors, Branner looks forward to working with get an opportunity to work directly with & trim reconstructs a man’s broken promises, houses. “Hank is torn between passion and Carlos on the development of sash & trim. Branner and Carlos. Directing, dramaturgy troubled romances, and thwarted ambition––a obligation,” says Branner, hence the detail to According to Branner, Carlos’ work is similar and technical students will participate in a father’s dreams of success as a singer/song- music, art and relationships in this play. to his in structure and style–making this part- series of workshops and guest lectures and writer sharply contrasted with the relation- Branner uses lyrics from songs written by his nership essential to the future of this piece. work on the sash & trim production team. ships that crumble around him. father: recollections of a fabricated reality. “Laurie is known for nonlinear work, the use Branner calls this story “poignant and iron- Co-founder of the critically acclaimed per- of language and music,” says Branner. Carlos ic in the face of failed dreams “It is a story formance group Pomo Afro Homos, Branner will be an active participant in adding those See sash & trim on Page 8 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 5 Featured Business Sweetwood works with LGBT community to ensure inclusiveness Retirement community offers welcoming atmosphere, luxury living WILLIAMSTOWN, MA July, 2008— the Williamstown Theater Festival, Earlier this year, staff from Sweetwood Williamstown Jazz Festivals, Continuing Care Retirement Community Tanglewood, MASS MoCA, Berkshire worked with local LGBT organizations Theatre Festival, Jacobs Pillow Dance to ensure that the organization—long Festival, and more. 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Since 1987, the To find out more about the Sweetwood retirement community has allowed sen- Continuing Care Retirement Community, iors independent, worry-free living, Sweetwood provides one-of-a-kind College free of charge and attend outdoor please see page 11. paired with active, thriving personal access to world-class museums, perform- concerts, lectures, and performances of lives. 6 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Movie Review Bed Buddies: An interview with the stars of ‘Another Gay Sequel’ By: Mikey Rox* handled those situations? Just call ’em the Fag Four. JONAH: Thanks for asking. I don’t think he Andy, Nico, Jarod and Griff—who came of struggles with love because he’s too feminine age (quite literally—and all over the place) in for others, although he is off the Richter that director Todd Stephens’ Another Gay Movie— way. I experience and can relate to his struggles return to select theaters this month to serve up with love because of how he feels … as an an extra helping of crude-and-campy pie in alien of sorts. I relate to Nico’s queerness as a Another Gay Sequel: Gays Gone Wild. freak more than with his femininity, and bit In a recent interview, the actors behind the more of the act for me. I do have to say, I feel queer quartet—Jake Mosser (Andy), Jonah more comfortable in my masculinity now Blechman (Nico), Jimmy Clabots (Jarod), and because of what I had to embrace for Nico’s Aaron Michael Davies—reflect on filming the femininity. As far as how I have handled those follow-up by trading quips about who has the situations—hopefully, like Nico, with no biggest “ego,” pondering the vanity of porn shame, accepting and loving that I am what I mogul and AGS guest star Michael Lucas, dis- am. cussing their own four-way love affair, offering AARON: Jonah's a hot piece! Any guy who advice on overcoming nagging insecurities, would turn him down is definitely an evil het- and revealing the reason they can’t eat cinna- ero. mon-apple oatmeal ever again. MR: Maybe it’s just me, Jonah, but I get a very Besides, of course, always having a mouth Griff (Aaron Michael Davies), Jarod (Jimmy Clabots), Andy (Jake Moser) and Nico (Jonah Blechman) get Charles Nelson Reilly-esque vibe from Nico. Is full of something else. crabby. Photo courtesy of Christopher Stephens. that deliberate? MIKEY ROX: Before we get into the grit and campy, fun, beachy-type movie, and Todd time to play coy with your cast mates. Have JONAH: Quite. That’s Todd’s direction. I just grime of Another Gay Sequel: Gays Gone Wild, [Stephens’] script was just that – with a little you all seen each other naked, and how do you do what he tells me. do you know what I had to do to land an inter- romance and zombie action thrown in. preserve a professional relationship when you AARON: He reminds me of a combination of view with all four of you?! MR: AGS is full of guest stars, from transgen- know what everyone’s packin’? Samantha Jones, Snagglepuss, and Tinker Bell. JIMMY: No, I don’t know what you had to do der icon Amanda Lepore and “American Idol” JIMMY: We've seen each other emotionally MR: Jimmy, Jimmy, Jimmy. What can I say – to get this interview, but if it involves turning alum Jim Verraros to gossip gangster Perez naked, yes. But I'm hung like a field mouse in you’re a beautiful man. How do you cope with off the lights in the barn and playing "Who’s in Hilton and drag queen RuPaul. But the one that a snowstorm, and everyone laughed the first the reality that after this movie releases you’ll My Mouth?" then I wouldn't be surprised. interests me most is porn mogul Michael time I whipped it out. be the fleeting sexual fantasy of a good number MR: Ha! Thanks for assuming I’m some kind Lucas. He hasn’t been a fan of mine since he JAKE: You know, I don't think I’ve seen the of gay men? of self-promotional fornicate. Let’s get down to read a scathing op-ed I wrote about him a few other guys' junk. We all wore socks when we AARON: Sweet God, I can just hear his head business. What every man watching this movie years ago. Did any of you have a chance to get filmed the nude scenes - though I heard Aaron swelling right now… will want to know is who’s really gay and who to know him? Is he happier these days? is the big winner on that one. But I don't have JIMMY: Thank you. I'm very gay friendly. isn’t? JONAH: I respect the hell out of Michael. He any proof. Some of my closest friends are gay. They've JONAH: I’m queer—that’s for sure! is a real example of an immigrant living the AARON: Mine is totally the biggest! God helped me through some really tough times, JIMMY: I'm not gay, but I might consider it if American dream. I salute him as a business- made some mistakes when he made the size of essentially loving me until I found how to love Cheyenne Jackson became single. I saw him in man, and he was nothing but respectful to me. my body, but he made up for it in the reproduc- myself, and to them—they know who they “Xanadu” in New York recently, and he was JIMMY: Michael was a bit vain on set, but he tive region! are—I owe my life. That said, I feel blessed to sublime. had his charming moments. And every time I MR: The premise of this follow-up finds the be the fantasy of gay men, and hope I don’t dis- AARON: Well come now, good sir! We must walked by his room at the hotel, it reeked of four friends traveling to Ft. Lauderdale for appoint, performance-wise, in their imagina- leave some things up to the audience's imagina- masculinity. That's when he asked me if I'd ever spring break expressly to engage in activities tions. tion. They get to see us all engage in homoerot- considered porn. I told him Brent Corrigan that involve alcohol and naked men. Anybody MR: So it sounds like the possibility of AGS: ic sexual acts, whether or not we're really gay. already had first dibs if I ever "turned." have a spring break story akin to the sequel to Part III is very likely. Can any of you confirm Is that not enough? AARON: He was just lovely. [coughs] No, share? or deny? Will you be a part of it? MR: Yes, I suppose it is. What made you guys really. I mean it. JONAH: I was an Orthodox Jew during those JONAH: I’m one of the freakin’ exec produc- take on such a charmingly raunchy role? MR: With all the raging hormones on set, there years. ers on this ride, so how can I not be a part of it?! JIMMY: I wanted to play Jarod because I knew was bound to be some behind-the-scenes action AARON: Sadly, I never got to go on a fabulous AARON: If this is as successful as we all hope after reading the script that the conflict at the happening. Come clean–who got it on? spring break until I went to Ft. Lauderdale. I’m it will be then I'm definitely down to take a trip heart of the Jarod/Griff monogamy problem JIMMY: I had a girlfriend during production; from a white trash family in Iowa. to another galaxy. was nurtured inside this gay utopian environ- we talked dirty on the phone a few times. JAKE: I don't have any spring break stories, JIMMY: Part three is in the works. You'll have ment where sexuality was never labored in gen- JONAH: I only got to fool around with unfortunately. I never went anywhere for to wait and see. der specificity–it was only questioned in terms Gunnar, who isn’t even in the credits. spring break. I could never afford it in high Another Gay Sequel, Gays Gone Wild can be of ‘how much do I or can I really love my sig- AARON: I think there was a wonderful torrid school, and in college I was always in a play. seen on Sept. 12 in Philadelphia, PA at the nificant other if I'm sharing their specialness love affair involving all of us! I met some great Oh, except my freshman year. That year I was Landmark Ritz Bourse; on Sept. 19 in with others?’ I think that's an issue everyone people and made some great friends. Honestly, pledging. So that spring break I just went home Washington, DC at the Landmark E Street; on can relate to, gay or straight. I don't think there was really all that much and hid for a week. Sept. 19 in Boston, MA at the Landmark JONAH: I’m a seriously trained actor who has hooking up going on. I mean, I've heard a few MR: Jonah, you reprise your role as Nico in Kendall Square & on Sept. 19, in Detroit, MI issues with boundaries–so why not! tales, but I’m not one to kiss and tell. I'm also this sequel, a character that struggles with love at the Landmark Maple Art. AARON: Anyone who has experienced a New not one to gossip—per the requests of my co- because he’s too feminine for others’ tastes. York winter would have done the same damn stars. How much of Nico’s dilemma have you had to * Who is Mikey Rox? Who gives a $&*@! But thing. That aside, I have always wanted to do a MR: With a movie like this, there’s really no deal with in your dating career? How have you you can find him at www.mikeyrox.com. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 7

Out! For Reel Film Series presents “The World Unseen,” lesbian film by women New to Western apartheid South Africa, Massachusetts this Fall, and where the love between much needed by the two women dares to LGBTQ community, is the bloom. Beautifully filmed, Out! For Reel Film Series. The World Unseen is brim- With the tagline, “Showing ming with stunning South the Best in Lesbian and African landscapes, sultry, GBTQ Films,” Out! For soul-lifting jazz tunes, and Reel’s mission is to screen the palpable energy of two films that have won awards women falling unexpected- and earned positive reviews ly in love. Both sensuous at LGBTQ film festivals and political, filled with around the world. courage and hope, this For its premiere event, cross-over film will capti- Out! For Reel Film Series vate both romantics and was given the honor by film social justice activists of all distributor, Regent orientations. Releasing, to screen the Out! For Reel Film internationally award-win- Series has received strong ning film, The World Unseen on Saturday, and enthusiastic support throughout Western September 27 at 7:30 p.m. at The Academy of Massachusetts. Sponsors are eager to support Music in Northampton. This will be the only this much needed film series. The Rainbow screening of this film in western Times is the main media sponsor, and other Massachusetts. major sponsors include The Women’s Times Described as the "future of lesbian cinema" and Web-Tactics. by the London Gay and Lesbian Film For more information about the Out! For Festival, The World Unseen is a moving and Reel Film Series, The World Unseen, & about passionate love story set in the early '50's in upcoming films, visit: www.OutForReel.org. 8 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Obituaries North Carolina; two brothers and their wives, Joseph E. Lashomb Edward and Mary "Louie" Lashomb, OGDENSBURG, NY—Joseph E. Watertown, and Peter and Tina Lashomb, Lashomb, 53, of Ogdensburg NY, died at 1:25 Ogdensburg; 4 grandchildren, Morgann & a.m. on Sunday August 17th at his home, fol- Mikaela Bova, and Caleb & Hannah Flack, all lowing a courageous battle with cancer. of Ogdensburg; 6 step-grandchildren, Alec Born on Sept. 18, 1954, in Ogdensburg, and Taylor of Lowville, Keegan Taylor, Taylor & son of G. Edward and Phyllis Miller Kristopher Bunch, and Tanner & Landry Lashomb, he graduated in 1972 from Lapiene, all of Ogdensburg; several aunts, HELP WANTED: $$$$ Ogdensburg Free Academy and received an uncles, nieces, nephews & cousins. electrical certificate from Northwest Mr. Lashomb was cherished and loved by Deliver The Rainbow Times to Technical Center. Mr. Lashomb was an elec- his family and fulfilled a special role in each the Capital District of NY: of their lives. He will be terribly missed, but trician maintenance mechanic at St. Lawrence (Albany, Schenectady & Troy) Psychiatric Center from 1979 until his death. never forgotten. Mr. Lashomb was predeceased by his moth- During his career he also owned a contract- Must have: ing/electrical business, Lashomb Electric. father and stepmother, G. Edward and Betty er, Phyllis, in 1998, also due to cancer. Farley Lashomb, Ogdensburg; three daugh- A prayer service was held at 9:30 a.m. on • Disposition to work 1x month His first marriage to Orinda (Rindy) • Valid NY or MA Driver’s Licence O’Marah Lashomb ended in divorce in 1992, ters and in-laws, Maureen Bova and her hus- Wednesday, August 20th at Fox-McLellan and together, they had four children. band David, Ogdensburg; Nicole Lashomb Funeral Home, followed by a funeral Mass at • Car Insurance & a reliable Car He married Kathy Kiah Taylor on Oct. 16, and her wife, Gricel Martinez Ocasio, 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Cathedral with Father • Deliver paper on the exact date 2004, at St. Mary's Cathedral with the Rev. Springfield, Mass.; Kimberly Flack and her LaValley officiating. • Be courteous Terry R. LaValley officiating. husband David, Ogdensburg; and a son, Interment was at Foxwood Memorial Park. • Good communication skills Mr. Lashomb enjoyed playing guitar and Christopher J. Lashomb, Ogdensburg. Also Donations on Mr. Lashomb’s behalf may be banjo, singing, boating, motorcycling, his dog surviving are his stepson, Troy Taylor, made to St. Joseph's Foundation, Catholic Gizmo, carpentry and fixing things. He Ogdensburg; two stepdaughters and spouse, Charities, St. Mary's Cathedral Campaign enjoyed helping others and visiting friends. Billi Jo Lapiene and husband Kenneth, Fund, Richard E. Winter Cancer Treatment He also enjoyed spending time with his chil- Ogdensburg, and Kathleen Taylor, Center or Hospice and Palliative Care of St. Lawrence Valley. dren and family doing various activities such Plattsburgh; three sisters and their husbands For more information, Celina and Vernon “Sam” Burns, Condolences may be made at www.foxm- as barbequing and playing sports like basket- please call ball, tennis, and baseball/softball. Ogdensburg, Mary and Mark Wademan, clellanfuneralhome.com. 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sash & trim from Page 4 A rare opportunity, students will have direct Theater, Wednesday, September 24 through contact with these artists, a significant contri- Friday, September 26. All performances will bution to their educational growth. “Training be at 8 PM. Ticket prices are $15 general and experience in experimental theater forms admission; $8 for low-income patrons and are important to our students,” said Priscilla senior citizens; and, $5 for students with valid Page, dramaturg for sash & trim. According to I.D. For tickets, call the Fine Arts Center Box Office at (413) 545-2511. www.seriosmarket.com Page, the theater department and New WORLD Theater have complimentary mis- Based at UMass Fine Arts Center, New sions on theater education and the training of WORLD Theater presents and produces the- “Where customers are friends & friends are customers.” theater practitioners. “We are looking for- atrical works by artists of color. With a focus ward to collaborating on this invaluable the- on new and contemporary plays, New Family Owned & Operated since 1950! ater experience.” WORLD Theater also supports artist develop- This is the second collaboration between ment through the Multicultural Theater Groceries • Deli • Fresh the UMass Department of Theater and New Practicum, the Summer Internship Program, Fruits & Vegetables WORLD Theater in the past three years. the youth initiative Project 2050, and the New Facilitating this relationship, Page works for Works for a New WORLD Summer Playlab. DAILY SPECIALS TO GO both organizations. She is a professor in the For more information on New WORLD theater department at UMass and the Program Theater, call 413-545-1972 or visit their web- Quality Meats Curator for New WORLD Theater. Page is site at www.newworldtheater.org. Old Fashioned Service assisting with script development, research, There will also be a reading of The Pork Chop Wars, a new performance-novel by since 1950! casting, and coordinating and supporting the rehearsal process. Laurie Carlos, on Monday, September 15 at STORE HOURS: sash & trim will be performed at the Curtain 6:30 PM in the Curtain Theater. This event is Mon. - Fri.: 8 a.m. - 8 p.m. Theater, located in the UMass Department of free and open to the public. Sat.: 8 a.m. - 7 p.m. WE DELIVER Sun.: 8 a.m. - 1 p.m.

65 State Street • Northampton, MA Phone: 413-584-2633 • Fax: 413-585-9756 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 9 Queer Justice & Queertations Queer Justice: Effect of MA law on gay movement By: Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter* Hypothetically I am wondering, if the legislature is successful in speaking: I live in repealing the law that Governor Romney invoked Ohio which has a Queertations: Say what?! in order to preclude people from other states to DOMA. My partner marry in Massachusetts, what effect will that have and I come to By: Rex Wockner on the gay rights movement? Massachusetts get —Mable, Southbridge, MA "Here is the hard truth—if you are looking for a life partner the numbers married and return to Ohio. We are then are not in your favor. If you take the total number of gay men in your city, Dear Mable: denied any and all subtract the number you are not sexually compatible with, minus the ones The law to which you refer is rights and privileges Massachusetts General Laws chapter 207 sec- who have deal-breaking habits, minus the guys who you have nothing in Atty. Jennifer Dexter based on that DOMA tion 11 which prohibits marriage licenses to common with, minus the pathological closet cases who play straight while but yet in violation of be issued if that marriage would be void in Article IV of the US Constitution. We file a playing around online, minus the ones who just plain annoy you -- the uni- that couples home state. law suit against the State and who knows after verse of potential mates is remarkably limited. This harsh reality is true Should this law be repealed, and gay cou- that. Law suits will eventually be filed all for gay men in large cities and especially for rural gay men who can't find ples from any state be allowed to marry, theo- over and we will have to wait and see. retically, that marriage should be recognized Ultimately, these cases could end up before a hunk in Podunk." in that couples home state. Unfortunately we —Syndicated columnist Wayne Besen, Aug. 12. the Supreme Court. do not live in a theoretical world. This is a very exciting time to live in Article IV of the United States Constitution Massachusetts and to be a part of the gay "What can I say? I'm the luckiest girl in the world. She's officially off states, “Full Faith and Credit shall be given in rights movement. the market. No one else gets her. And now she'll cook and clean for me." each State to the public Acts, Records, and *Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter earned a B.A. —Ellen DeGeneres, who married actress Portia de Rossi on Aug. 16, to judicial Proceedings of every other State. And in Psychology from The University of Central People magazine, Aug. 19. the Congress may by general Laws prescribe Florida. She moved to Massachusetts to the Manner in which such Acts, Records and attend law school at The Western New Proceedings shall be proved, and the Effect "I believe that marriage is the union between a man and a woman. Now, England College of Law in Springfield, Mass. thereof.” For purposes of your questions, this She is a member of the Massachusetts Bar for me, as a Christian ... it's also a sacred union. God's in the mix. ... I means that any marriage in the and has a Solo General Practice in the would not (support a constitutional amendment with that definition) Commonwealth should be recognized every- Pioneer Valley Area. because historically ... we have not defined marriage in our Constitution. where. The information contained herein is intend- The mystery will be what effect individual ed for educational purposes only and does not It's been a matter of state law that has been our tradition. Let's break state DOMAs would have on the proceedings it down. The reason that people think there needs to be a constitutional represent legal advice. Should you need legal here in the Massachusetts? Many states have advice, please contact an attorney. amendment, some people believe, is because of the concern that about enacted what is called Defense of Marriage If you have legal questions that are unan- same-sex marriage. I am not somebody who promotes same-sex marriage Acts (more or less defining marriage as that swered, or if you would like to know more but I do believe in civil unions. I do believe that we should not—that for between a man and a woman). So, constitu- about a specific topic, then send your ques- tionally, which law wins? That will be the big tions to: [email protected] gay partners to want to visit each other in the hospital, for the state to debate. say: 'You know what? That's all right' I don't think in any way inhibits my core beliefs about what marriage are (sic). I think my faith is strong enough and my marriage is strong enough that I can afford those civil rights to others even if I have a different perspective or a different view." —Barack Obama, speaking at Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, Calif., Aug. 16.

"I don't think about being an icon really. The gay fans have always been very loyal; they are a really great audience and have always been there for me." —Singer Olivia Newton-John to AfterElton.com, Aug. 13.

"I think these last 10 years have seen just a huge shift in the psyche of this country as regards gay people. I think AIDS had a lot to do with it. So many families who really believed they'd 'never met one' were sudden- ly confronted with their sons becoming ill, and friends of sons. I think that brought a lot of it into the open. Certainly groups like ACT UP (and) Larry Kramer brought a lot of it into the open. But I think there also has just been a willingness on the parts of people like myself, people like Melissa Etheridge or Elton (John), to stand up and be counted that has hopefully lent some bravery to people who are not in (the public eye)."

—Out singer Janis Ian to Time magazine, Aug. 7. 10 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com AIDS Awareness AIDS Walk: A chance to make a difference By: Sasha Fles the power of Mark’s courage. The potency of HIV+; that this disease continues to spread at At the Oz Nightclub in Springfield, MA, 28- Mark’s message that night embodies the alarming rates; that, despite the advances in year-old Mark Zatyrka stood in front of a essence of the 2008 AIDS Walk with Mark as treatments, this disease is a difficult, chronic roomful of people and shared his story of liv- its chair. condition that affects every aspect of some- ing with HIV. The audience listened in awe. The AIDS Walk on September 20 in Forest one’s life. Many in that room were also HIV+ but the Park is everyone’s opportunity to stand in sol- The AIDS Walk gives everyone the chance thought of publicly sharing their status and idarity against HIV/AIDS. For all those who to do all of this and so much more. The suc- their story was unfathomable. Yet they all felt are not free to share their status with friends cess of the Walk will carry on all of these and family, the Walk is their chance to implic- effects beyond just one day. Benefiting the The Night Owl itly share it. For all those who know someone AIDS Foundation of Western Massachusetts, Best LGBTQ Clubs in our who is HIV+, the Walk is their chance to the Walk will fund concrete efforts to tackle Gayborhoods! Check ’em out! express support. For all those who know each of the fronts against HIV/AIDS. 458 Wethersfield Ave. someone who has died from HIV/AIDS, the Through the amazing sponsorship of local Central & Western, Hartford, CT Walk is their chance to honor their lost loved businesses like Ken’s Parking, the Platinum Massachusetts ones. 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That certainly According to a story in the Topeka-Capital- al rates in a group of men watching erotic Partners Cafe seems to be the case in the folks I know per- The Pub 365 Crown Street Journal, by Joe Taschier and Steve Fry, “they videos has just been published. According to 382 Dwight Street New Haven, CT sonally. the article “Is Homophobia Associated with Springfield, MA After the death of actor Heath Ledger, the Homosexual Arousal?” by H.E. Adams, Phelps clan was at their beastly best again, ... the theory that homophobia— MB New York Clubs Ph.D., Lester Wright, Jr., Ph.D. and Bethany protesting at the funeral, because Ledger por- fear, anxiety, anger, discomfort and Lohr, the experiment involved 35 homopho- 40 Grafton Street Water Works Pub trayed a gay man in Brokeback Mountain. I Worcester, MA 76 Central Ave. aversion that some people have for bic men and 29 non-homophobic men as can’t help pondering if perhaps Phelps Albany, NY gays—is the result of repressed measured by the Index of Homophobia Sin City fathered so many children having sex exactly scale. All the participants selected for the 350 Worthington Street Club Phoenix like Ledger’s character did: with a woman on homosexual urges that the per- study described themselves as exclusively Springfield, MA 348 Central Ave., her knees because all he could think about heterosexual both in terms of sexual arousal Albany, NY son is either unaware of or Club OZ was the sex he’d rather be having with a man. and experience. 397 Dwight St. Joey's Bar Why would someone devote their lives to this denies. Appearing in the August issue of the Springfield, MA 664 2nd Ave., Troy, NY rather extreme and vile public display of hat- Journal of Abnormal Psychology, published ing homosexuals? became close friends. They did everything by the American Psychological Association, Connecticut Oh Bar Perhaps the answer lies in Fred Phelps’ boy- 304 Lark Street, together, including going to the movies and this study supports the theory that homopho- Triangles hood. And indeed, after rooting into his past, Albany, NY attending gatherings at the Central United bia—fear, anxiety, anger, discomfort and 66 Sugar Hollow Road I discovered a possible key to the man’s dis- Methodist Church.” aversion that some people have for gays—is Danbury, Connecticut Fuze Box Bar turbed life. Fred tragically lost his mother at 5 The article goes on to say the duo went off the result of repressed homosexual urges that 12 Central Avenue, Chez Est years of age. Work kept his father away from to a religious revival together that was instru- the person is either unaware of or denies. (To Albany, NY home a lot (missing daddy syndrome) and the mental in changing Phelps and Capron forev- learn more, watch an eye-opening video about er. The two of them ‘got religion.’And during this study on TRT’s website: www.therain- Finding You the RIGHT One, Not Just Anyone this time, young Fred Phelps, by his own bowtimesnews.com). description, said he “had what I think was an So, like many of us have felt in our hearts experience of grace. I felt the call.” all along, it’s possible (Heck! Likely, even!) We understand ... I wonder what else he felt. that gay bashers, homophobes and people • It’s hard to meet the right How about the story between the lines? who just love to hate are probably repressing person. Capron and Phelps, young, hormone-raging some feelings of their own. Unbeknownst to teens, find themselves spending a lot of time him, it sounds like ol’ Fred may have been bit • You are busy and want together. They are the best of friends. And just with the gay bug after all. • Personal, Discreet, matches chosen just for you. like the two young men in BrokeBack, it’s just But don’t worry, Pastor Phelps. God doesn’t Respectful Lanie & Bud, Company Founders • You might not want to meet not socially acceptable to be gay. It’s not even really hate fags. “We met through a dating service.” • People are who they say they someone in a bar or at work. acceptable to think you might be. So it’s not a are ... stretch to conclude, that young Phelps and * Suzan Ambrose, when not camping in • You don’t want your person- Capron did what any average teenager would Vermont or playing with her cats, can be • We welcome Singles of all al info for all to see on the Lifestyles Internet. do at that time in history: deny it. And Lordie heard on her call-in talk radio program, The • An affordable service Lord, I gotta find me some Jesus. And I mean Naked Truth, Monday evenings at 8 pm, on quick. 103.3FM, Northampton, MA. Also catch the Many of us can remember doing something show streaming on the web at www.val- (413) 665-3218 • massmatch.com • [email protected] like that. Just think of Reverend Ted Haggart leyfreeradio.org. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 11 12 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Q-lebrities Packard’s Belle: Choreographer & star of ‘Brooke Knows Best’ By: Mikey Rox* chasing a career as a recording artist, among a If it weren't for the Hogan family's cata- full slate of other projects. How do you man- strophic fall from grace, choreographer-to- age to fit it all in? the-stars Glenn Douglas Packard wouldn't be GLENN DOUGLAS PACKARD: Wow, I playing TV sidekick to wrestling royalty's wish I had his career–but I do plan on giving first daughter, Brooke Hogan, on the Vh1 him a run for his money! My management spin-off series Brooke Knows Best. will sometimes have to put me in my place: Right. So tell the fame-hanger something he "Glenn, it's 2 in the morning – go to bed!" But doesn't know. I've worked with some of the biggest artists in See, Packard, whose genius has manifested the industry, from Al Pacino and Liza itself in the fluid moves of the King of Pop Minnelli to Michael Jackson and Jennifer and Jenny from the Block, doesn't care how it Lopez, and they don't care what time it is happened. What matters most is that it did – when you've got a job to get done. I'll sleep finally. Because after years of standing idly in when I'm dead. the shadows of aging celebrities whose MR: You're also working with a group called careers benefited from his fresh perspective, The Knockouts. From the looks of them, Packard is relishing his time in the spotlight – they're poised to be the next Pussycat Dolls. even if the curtain is already half closed. What can we expect? In a recent interview, Packard sizes up his GDP: A Knockout! When I saw the success of superlative situation—from maintaining mul- PCD—I had a group like them in New York tiple gigs (which includes a Pussycat-esque City way before they hit the scene—and what burlesque act) and moon walking with a men- Robin [Antin] was doing and where she took tally ill MJ to dueling with man-divas and his them, I was like, there's room for two of us. Jackson's 30th Anniversary special back in sing; her voice is sick! She can perform too. next act as an Oscar winner. [The Knockouts] are in the studio recording 2001. How'd you get involved with that proj- Brooke Bollea, on the other hand, does have a But don't be disappointed. He throws their music, and in rehearsals perfecting their ect, and what was it like to dance it out with weak side that I see as her friend, and as a Brooke under the bus, too. show. If MTV still had Celebrity Death the King of Pop? human being she can only take so much. It's MIKEY ROX: OK, so I did some digging on Match, we would have quite the battle! GDP: I worked my butt off—that's how I got hard to see her crying and hurting. All I can do you, and you might be the busiest guy in MR: At 32 years old—and might I say that that! [laughs] At that point in my choreogra- is be a friend to her. entertainment–next to Ryan Seacrest, of you don't look a day over 25 – you've accom- phy career I was doing the hottest ticket in MR: Can you squeeze any juice about what's course. I mean, you're choreographing huge plished monumental milestones, namely earn- NYC—Miracle on 34th Street at Madison happening within the Hogan clan? names, peddling your own fashion line, and ing an Emmy Award nomination for Michael Square Garden. I had worked with P!nk, GDP: Just watch the E! True Hollywood Whitney Houston and even Liza on their stage Story coming out. performances, and I earned the respect of MR: Can't wait! In the meantime, how've you many in the industry at the time to have been helping Brooke work through her family Michael Jackson look at my work and hire problems? me. We choreographed the whole show, and GDP: Focusing on the positive, working on working with Michael was a huge highlight in ourselves, our fitness, rehearsing. We're in the my career. studio doing music, going out, having adven- MR: You're currently starring alongside bur- tures – living life to the fullest. And lots of geoning pop star Brooke Hogan in her new laughing – that's the best medicine. reality show Brooke Knows Best. How's that MR: All right, now we're back to the basics. going so far? Where'd you learn all your dope moves? Did GDP: Well, one thing that has happened is this come to you naturally, or did you pick up that it has brought Brooke, Ashley and I real- bits and pieces along the way? ly close to each other. We share a special bond GDP: Good Question! Really I was this that's a lot different from other friendships – small-town country boy that just had these especially when we're dealing with every- moves, and at family weddings, growing up, thing that is going on around us. But we're everyone would just be entertained. So I think looking out for each other. And being an it came very naturally. One time I was danc- openly gay role model is something I look ing with Chaka Khan, and she came up to me forward to. and said, "Boy, I don't know where you came MR: What can you tell us about Brooke the from, but you've gots to have some black in artist versus Brooke your friend? Because, you somewhere!" [laughs] I trained a lot too, frankly, we've all watched her publicly try to with all styles when I got older. I want to be a make it as an artist, but it's been an uphill bat- well-rounded performer. tle. What gives? MR: Homo to homo, you strike me as the GDP: Right! You'd think she'd be on the top kind of guy who knows how to make things of the charts with the hit show and her name. happen for himself. What's next for you? But it has a lot to do with the industry; she Where do you hope all this leads? isn't a bad girl—at least not yet. [laughs] But GDP: Well, I really hope to become a suc- I don't think that's going to happen. She's got cessful film director with my Tattooed Angels a good head on her shoulders, and she's a business partner R3Y GUTI3RR3Z. I love strong young woman. Brooke Hogan can filmmaking— nothing liking watching a group of people sitting in a theatre, all emo- Drive for TRT in NY!! tional, being entertained. And I want to win an Have a car, driver’s license & are Oscar. You know a small town boy can still dream big! very reliable? We want you! * Who is Mikey Rox? Who gives a &$@#! But 518-3391-22617 you can find him at www.mikeyrox.com. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 13 QueerWood Deep Inside Hollywood: The L Word’s Shelley faces a terrifying Day By: Romeo San Vicente* Turner Signature Edition" of her '90s kink- nobody knows when) in the U.S. comedy Preaching to the Perverted, pick it Don Roos Goes to the up.) Turner will next grace the screen in Feed, Lindsay's Got Labor Pains Dogs an indie drama about a media-obsessed blog- Unlike other Hollywood party girls, Lindsay You've probably already ger who shoots a video that winds up on the 5 Lohan is a talented actress in everything from seen the teasers for o'clock news. The leak of the clip puts her and The Parent Trap to Mean Girls to A Prairie Marley & Me, featuring her fellow underground newsies in grave dan- Home Companion. And now she's taking Owen Wilson and Jennifer ger. The directorial debut of (female) film- advantage of the recently developed "glass Aniston chasing an adorable puppy down the maker Mel Robertson, Feed is expected to closet" phenomenon in Hollywood—that beach to the theme from Chariots of Fire. So beam onto the big screen before the end of means she doesn't speak to the press about it, what could possibly be gay about this come- 2008. but is clearly involved with British DJ dy, based on the best-selling book, about a Samantha Ronson and not shy about demon- family that learns valuable life lessons from L Word's Shelley Faces a Terrifying Day strating it. If Lohan is indeed a lesbian now their dog? Plenty. For one thing, the screen- During Rachel Shelley's stint playing ditsy (or "just for now"), it means she's at least as play is being co-written by Don Roos, the Brit heiress Helena Peabody on The L Word, welcome on our team as Anne Heche used to hilarious genius behind such dark, man-on- we've seen the character be a spoiled brat, an be. And she'll next be seen in Labor Pains, a man-inclusive comedies as The Opposite of amorous convict, a compulsive gambler, a comedy about a woman who has to spend Sex and Happy Endings. Add to that director Hollywood hotshot, and a doting mom. nine months pretending to be pregnant. Also David Frankel, whose most recent gig pre- Shelley gets parental once again in the featuring such comedy greats as Cheryl Marley was guiding Meryl Streep to an upcoming horror film The Day, but with a Hines, Janeane Garofalo, and Willie Garson umpteenth Oscar nomination in the fabulous completely different spin. The new movie, set (Sex and the City), Labor Pains will burst The Devil Wears Prada. Be on the lookout for on Christmas Day, has vacationing parents forth into theaters in 2009. OWEN WILSON witty, queer, yet family-friendly subtext when fighting to survive when their formerly Photo by: © New Line Cinema Marley scampers into theaters on Christmas adorable children suddenly turn on Mums and Romeo San Vicente dated a DJ once. You Day. and one of the sexiest women in Hollywood. Daddy. (That'll teach you not to buy every- thought there was going to be a joke about 12 So Romeo is always thrilled to hear about a thing on their holiday wish list!) The Day, co- inches in there, didn't you? Never assume. He Guinevere Turner Taps the Feed new project involving lesbian dynamo starring Stephen Campbell Moore (The can be reached care of this publication or at She's a successful actress and screenwriter, a Guinevere Turner. (If you haven't already History Boys, The Bank Job), is set for release [email protected]. pioneer among out-of-the-closet movie stars, checked out the recently released "Guinevere this year in the U.K. and later (meaning

Dad from Page 2 legally married in MA), which my wife and I never had, he emphatically stated “of course.” He explained that he had become good As the weeks and months went on he friends with two gay men that he knew always introduced me as his “[my] daughter through work and that they “had been togeth- Nicole and her partner or spouse Gricel,” to er for 25 years.” He then told me—using the anyone new that I met. To me, this too was a only name he only called me by—“Nic, it’s miracle in itself. just about love. There is nothing wrong with Despite the outcome of his illness, I feel

I sat in astonishment as I listened to my devout Catholic father proceed to discuss politics and profess the importance of the gay community having equal protection under the law and the same rights and benefits as heterosexual couples. that.” I sat in astonishment as I listened to my blessed and honored to have traveled this road devout Catholic father proceed to discuss pol- with him. The intimate conversations that we itics and profess the importance of the gay shared I will forever cherish. His courageous community having equal protection under the spirit, never ceasing to believe in his desire to law and the same rights and benefits as het- win this battle, will continue to be a govern- erosexual couples. When I asked him to walk ing force in my life. I am so incredibly proud me down the isle at my wedding ceremony of him, proud to be his daughter and proud of (knowing that my wife and I were already his legacy that he has left behind. 14 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Gay Travel Out of Town: Gay destinations on the rise By: Andrew Collins* Mauritius and Reunion Island Gay Destinations on the These small islands off the coast of Africa, Rise about 500 miles east of Madagascar, have Amazing as it may sound lately become favorites with Euro jet-setters. today, famously gay-popular Some say Mauritius has the potential to places like Austin, Mykonos, become another Ibiza or Mykonos, with puls- Rehoboth, and Prague haven't always had ing gay discos beginning to spring up here much of a following with the GLBT commu- and there. This island with a population of nity. Cities and resort communities change about a million and a diverse cultural heritage over the years, some becoming more fashion- (with English, French, Indian, and Chinese able with gay travelers, and others falling out influences) is renowned for its spectacular of favor. In fact, there are big cities, alluring white-sand beaches. About 120 miles to the towns, and beautiful resorts all over the world southwest, the French island of Reunion (pop- that, while scarcely known to gay travelers at ulation 800,000) is a volcanic formation with the moment, have the potential to develop magnificent mountain peaks rising to more into tomorrow's next queer hot spots. Here's a than 10,000 feet and a nascent but fast-grow- look at a dozen potential "family-friendly" ing tourism industry. Together, the islands destinations to watch, from formerly conser- make for a stunning, remote hideaway, and vative cities like Nashville and Indianapolis, they're already drawing a number of gay visi- which are becoming increasingly progressive, tors from South Africa, Australia, and Europe. to picturesque vacation spots like Tasmania The hip Taikang Lu Arts District—with its galleries, cafes, and courtyards - is just one neighborhood that's and Mauritius that have only lately begun Mexico City, Mexico become popular with gay and lesbian travelers to Shanghai. Photo by Andrew Collins capturing the attention of the gay jet set. With a metro population of nearly 20 mil- lion and one of North America's most exciting Nova Scotia, Canada decade, the city has seen the opening of sev- Lisbon, Portugal cultural and arts scenes, there's no question Although it's just the second-smallest of eral gay bars, along with an extremely popu- Relatively affordable compared with many that vibrant—if in some ways chaotic and Canada's provinces, Nova Scotia and its his- lar and attractive gay entertainment-hotel other European nations, and a darling of food unpredictable—Mexico City has plenty of toric capital city of Halifax offer plenty to see complex. As thousands of ex-pats from all and wine connoisseurs, Portugal been gener- gay and lesbian residents. As a gay vacation and do, including a handsomely preserved over the world continue to visit and relocate ating plenty of buzz of late among sophisticat- destination, however, Mexico's capital waterfront, exceptional theater and fine arts to this exciting, dynamic city, the gay scene ed travelers, and its capital city, Lisbon, is metropolis has yet to develop a major follow- venues, and verdant parks and gardens. will surely explode over the next few years. steadily emerging from its somewhat conser- ing. Its reputation is picking up, though, as Elsewhere in the province are such popular vative shell as a leading gay and lesbian get- more and more visitors return home to spread draws as Lunenburg, a colonial seaport and Tasmania, Australia away. The city now produces a guide for gay the word about the trendy dining scene, rela- shipbuilding center now recognized as a This rugged island state off the southeast visitors, and the GLBT community has been tively affordable luxury hotels, cruisy gay UNESCO World Heritage Site, and the coast of the Australian mainland used to have credited with helping turn around the once nightlife, and huge Gay Pride parade held in charming fishing village of Peggy's Cove. a somewhat conservative reputation, but the grim Bairro Alto neighborhood, transforming late June each year. With its relative low cost Gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs abound tides have turned in recent years. Many gays it into one of Europe's most charming gay vil- and a wealth of direct flights from elsewhere in the towns already mentioned as well as in and lesbians have moved to this laid-back, lages. in North America, look for Mexico City to such scenic communities as Annapolis Royal stunningly beautiful land, known for its natu- become ever more popular among U.S. and and Shelburne. ral beauty (don't miss Cradle Mountain or the Ljubljana, Slovenia Canadian travelers. Freycinet Coast). The island's tourism office Neighboring Croatia gets more attention San Luis Obispo County, California produces an extensive guide for GLBT travel- with gay travelers, at least among the nations Nashville, Tennessee The legalization of gay marriage is but one ers, and you'll find a number of "family"- that make up the former Yugoslavia, but Although it's smack in the middle of reason scenic San Luis Obispo County is one owned accommodations around this island romantic, beautifully preserved Slovenia and America's so-called Bible Belt, Nashville has of California's best gay-friendly vacation that's roughly the size of West Virginia and its capital city of Ljubljana (pronounced lyoo- become steadily more gay-friendly in recent secrets. This area with a charmed setting has a population of about a half-million. blyah'-nah) are fast developing a pink fan years. The city has embraced progressive pol- along the Pacific has one of the nation's most base. Ljubljana looks and feels much the way itics, environmentalism, and the arts with exciting winemaking scenes (especially Torremolinos, Spain Prague did before the latter became inundated great gusto, and a handful of funky little around the town of Paso Robles), and the Spain already has its share of stunning gay with tourists and excessive commercialism. neighborhoods around town (East Nashville, largest community—San Luis Obispo—is a vacation areas (Ibiza, Sitges), and in the With its medieval castle, narrow streets, and 12th Avenue South) abound with GLBT-pop- lively university town with dozens of superb sunny Andalucian region, yet another has ornate bridges, it's a fine city for a strolling. ular coffeehouses, restaurants, and boutiques. restaurants and a fun, friendly gay scene. At lately begun to emerge: the picturesque beach You'll also find a handful of gay bars and For these reasons, plenty of "family" are mov- the southern end of this county that's midway town of Torremolinos. Numerous hip restau- cafes, and, to the delight of cinema buffs, ing to Nashville these days, in search of a along the coast between Los Angeles and San rants and bars have opened, especially in the Ljubljana hosts an increasingly prestigious slightly more intimate and better-planned Francisco, you'll find a number of gay-friend- La Nogalera neighborhood, and the town also gay and lesbian film festival, which will cele- alternative to such gay Southern mega-cities ly resorts between the towns of Avila Beach has about a dozen resort hotels catering heav- brate its 25th anniversary in 2009. as Atlanta, Houston, and Dallas. and Pismo Beach. ily to the GLBT crowd. Spain's fabled Costa del Sol has long had a popular following with Shanghai, China northern Europeans, and Torremolinos looks The so-called "Paris of the East", with a poised to develop into one of the continent's population of more than 13 million and a top gay vacation hubs. breathtaking skyline of countless postmodern skyscrapers, Shanghai is rapidly becoming * Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's Gay Asia's must-see destination for cutting-edge Guide to the USA and eight additional travel shopping, fashion, and the arts. Attitudes guides. He can be reached care of this publi- toward gay people are slowly but surely cation or at [email protected]. changing for the better - just in the past www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 15 Trans Opinions & News My head hurts: A lesson on Transgender sexuality By: Deja Nicole Greenlaw that make me Lesbian or heterosexual male who loved a female, but as should matter. recently spent a weekend at a friend's would that make me a male-to-female Transgender I am now con- Yes, falling in love is a tough business. Why lakeside cottage. There were eight of us straight? And if I prefer sidered a female. If I now have a relationship should there be gender rules? It's hard enough Ithere that weekend. One couple was men, would that make me with another female, I would be a Lesbian. for anyone, mind you, to get any relationship comprised of a Transgender female (a person Straight or would that But, if I have a relationship with a man then going so why not try to make it a little easier? born physically male) and a Transgender make me gay? But, if I one could say that I am a heterosexual So you get a glimpse of the Transgender male, (a person born physically female); preferred a Transgender woman. I know this might take time and be thought and you think that we might be deep another couple was a Transgender female and male what would that tough to follow, especially all you folks who at times. But then a Cross dresser earnestly a genetic female; a third couple was a DEJA NICOLE make me? How about if I are not that familiar with Trans peeps, but it introduces to me the idea of a person being a Transgender female and a genetic male; and GREENLAW preferred another lastly there was two Transgender females, one Transgender female such as myself? And who prefers men and the other prefers what would it make all my different partners Yes, falling in love is a tough business. Why should there be gen- women. Confused? Need a scorecard to tell in all those scenarios? It does get confusing who's who? Welcome to the Transgender and it does make one think. In the end, how- der rules? It's hard enough for anyone, mind you, to get any World! And it gets even more confusing! ever, does it really matter at all? Oh, you relationship going so why not try to make it a little easier? Please read on! might have a "plumbing" preference but real- So at the cottage there were six Transgender ly what attracts us to each other is each other's and two non-Transgender people present. As spirit. I guess you might say we Trans peeps you can see we all have somewhat different might go a little beyond, Straight, Gay, does follow a type of logic that offers a “new "Straight Cross dresser." That's, most often, a preferences when it comes to partnering and Lesbian and even Bisexual definitions. way at looking at things.” male who dresses like a female and prefers it's hard to put a label on who we are in those So whoever we are and whoever we prefer When I first came into the Transgender women. I could understand that view about respects. Think about it! For instance, as a is wide open and it may change as the years Community I would hear terms like being Straight as in heterosexual, but I had Transgender female if I prefer women would pass. For instance, I was once considered a Pansexual, Omnisexual, Polysexual and trouble with a Cross dresser saying that they Pomosexual. I was as confused as I listened to are Straight. I don't think that the term Cross Transgender refugee faces murder charge in Idaho other's definition of all those terms. Basically dresser can somehow really fit into the TWIN FALLS, Idaho (AP)—A transgender extent of Kolestani’s injuries, but she was what they were saying was that it's not about Straight definition, but then again, maybe it Iranian refugee accused of fatally shooting a hospitalized in Boise. After being released gender and gender rules but it's about the per- can. male roommate, also a refugee from Iran, has from the hospital, police said she was taken son that you fall in love with. That's all that been charged with first-degree murder in into custody and held overnight in the Ada southern Idaho. County Jail, then transported to Twin Falls. Majid Kolestani, 42, was charged recently The Times-News reported that she appeared in 5th District Court. in court on Friday in a wheelchair, in hand- Police allege that Kolestani, who was born cuffs, with a red mark on one cheek and a a man but portrays herself as a woman, shot small patch of hair shaved off the top of her and killed Ehsan Velayati Kababian, 29, on head. She spoke through an interpreter. She Monday. was held without bail in the Twin Falls Police said Kababian was in a parked vehi- County Jail. cle when Kolestani banged on the window, Ron Black, director of the College of and then shot Kababian when he opened the Southern Idaho Refugee Center, said driver's door. The vehicle then crashed into a Kolestani assimilated into the Twin Falls area house; Kababian was dead when authorities through the center. He said Kababian came arrived. through the program as well, but separately After the shooting, police said Kolestani ran from Kolestani. to a nearby house and shot herself in the head, “It's sad,” Black said. and was taken into custody a short time later. Court records said Kolestani has been in the Police in Twin Falls declined to discuss the U.S. since January.

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ONGOING EVENTS/SUPPORT GROUPS (ECFTMG); 2nd Sunday of every month from 3:00 to income; $ 5-students. FMI: FAC Box Office 413-545- Bar & Cash Bar; Admission: $30 pre-paid/$35 at the 6:00 p.m. FMI: 413.584.7616 or email: 2511 or www.newworldtheater.org. door. Vote for your favorite talent act online at ctaid- (MA) LGBT Afternoon Tea Dances; Every 3rd Sunday [email protected]. scoalition.org for a minimum $5 donation. Finalists of the month; 3-7 pm. Dance, Drink, Dialogue! The Sept. 27; Out!ForReel Film Series; Western Mass will perform live at Connecticut AIDS Resource Union Station, 125A Pleasant Street. $8 admission, (VT) TRANS SUPPORT; 3rd Sunday of every month; Premiere of The World Unseen, a sensuous & com- Coalition’s, CARC, annual Summer Camp event on $5 w/student ID. FMI: www.nohopridepromos.com in Brattleboro. Open to anyone whose identity or pelling lesbian love story, on Sept 27 at 7:30 pm at September 4th. expression doesn't fit neatly into the gender binary, The Academy of Music in Northampton. $10 in (MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group which including transpeople of all genders and sexual orien- advance & for students with current ID; $12 at the Sept. 8; New Heaven Gay & Lesbian Community meets at 7 p.m. on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays at tations. FMI: Benjamin Robin: robin@benjamin- door; For tickets go to Pride & Joy in Northampton Center’s Rainbow Support Group; 5-6:30 p.m.; 50 Baystate Hospital 3300 Main Street in Springfield, robin.net FMI: [email protected] Fitch St, New Haven, CT. FMI: www.nhglcc.org MA. FMI: Deja 860-604-6343 or Keri 413-364-1749. (NY) CAPITAL PRIDE SINGERS LGBT and affirming Oct. 10-13; Paradise City Arts Festival; Sat. & Sun. Sept 11; Women & Families Open Hours; New (MA) SOCIAL GROUP FOR LESBIANS; We always mixed chorus. Rehearsals on Monday's, 7pm, 10am-6pm; Columbus Day 10am-4pm. Three County Heaven Gay & Lesbian Community Center; 12 pm – meet on the first and third Friday's of the month. For Emmanuel Baptist Church, 275 State St., Albany. Fairgrounds, Old Ferry Road and Route 9, 8pm; 50 Fitch St, New Haven, CT. FMI: information call 413-687-2065 FMI: 518-435-4636. Northampton, MA 01060; $12 adult; $8 seniors/stu- www.nhglcc.org (MA) MATURE LESBIAN SUPPORT GROUP; dents; under 12 free; FMI: 800 511-9725 or info@par- (CT) LIVING SOULFULLY: A MONTHLY MEN’S Sept. 12; BUSTED! AGAIN FASHION SHOW; 8 pm; Group for women 55+ meets monthly at the adisecityarts.com GATHERING; Meets on 4th Wednesday of every Tommy’s Restaurant; 825 Saybrook Rd., Middletown, Northampton Council on Aging at 240 Main St., at 6 month from 7:30-9:00pm at the Hartford Gay & Oct. 19-26; Fantasia Fair, a week-long transgender CT 06457; $10 at the door (Pay what you can, no one p.m.; second Monday of each month. Lesbian Health Collective. FMI: HGLHC at 860-2787- event held every October in the GLBT resort town of turned away for lack of funds); 21+ BUSTED! A fash- (MA) DISCUSSION GROUP FOR LESBIANS 40+ 4163. Provincetown, Massachusetts. ion show by and for the trans and gender non-con- meets every Wednesday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the forming community, its allies and friends. Free Food, (NY) First and third Sundays of the month, 11 - 1 p.m. Oct. 31; LGBT Halloween Costume Ball; 8 pm; at The Stonewall Center at UMass. This is a warm and wel- Cash Bar, Strut Your Stuff; FMI: diana@transadvoca- at the Rainbow Cafe, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Union Station, Northampton,MA. Prizes for the best coming group of intelligent women. Information email cy.com or call (860) 983-8139 Viktoria 518-438-6315. costumes! FMI: www.nohopridepromos.com to: [email protected] Sept. 15; GLANCE; GLANCE offers those 18-28 a (CT) LGBT TEEN SUPPORT- RainbowRoom is (MA) OLDER LESBIAN DISCUSSION GROUPS; safe, fun environment to meet people and to have open every Sunday from 3:00pm-6:00pm and is CAPITAL DISTRICT OF NY Amherst/NoHo Area. New members accepted on some fun. Some nights include: games nights, dis- located at 1841 Broad St., Hartford. RainbowRoom is Sept. 5; First Friday at the Romaine Brooks Gallery space-available basis. If enough interest, new groups cussion nights, and movie nights. A trip to a local an affirming and safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, featuring Alan Bennett Ilagan (Photography); Free; may form. FMI: 413-247-3257 or 413-253-3049. diner usually follows; 8-11pm at the New Heaven Gay trans and questioning teens and young adults 13 to CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave, Albany; FMI: CDGLCC & Lesbian Community Center; 50 Fitch St, New (VT) MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP; Any male 18 or older; 21. RainbowRoom is a drop-in center located in an at (518) 462-6138. Haven, CT. FMI: www.nhglcc.org Support group not a therapy group. Free. Every intimate, informal space with room for a variety of Sept. 5; 'The Eye of the Ego;’ A Photographic Tuesday, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Brattleboro, VT. FMI: 802- activities. Exhibition by Alan Bennett Ilagan; Presented by the Sept. 17-21; CT AIDS Bike Tour; Ride some of the 258-3914. Romaine Brooks Gallery, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, most incredibly scenic routes in the State: from W. MASSACHUSETTS Hartford, to Litchfield, then Danbury, onto Stamford, (NY) Bisexual Brunch; First and third Sundays of NY 12210; 5-9PM. FMI: www.alanilagan.com Sept. 7-18; FEMINART All Women's Art Exhibition; by way of Bridgeport, and then New Haven, New the month, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow Cafe, 332 Sponsoring Organization: Berkshire Women for Sept. 6; Dog Sees God: Confessions of a Teenage London and Willimantic, ending up back in Hartford. Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria 518-438-6315. Women Worldwide; Welles Gallery, Lenox Library, 18 Blockhead; 2pm; Ever wonder what happened to Ride every day or one or more. Join in at any point (NY) Bagel Bunch; Tuesdays; 10:30 a.m.; Older gay Main Street, Lenox, MA; FMI: Judy Nardacci, 413- your beloved Peanuts® characters? Well The Local along the way. Ride to support programs that assist men’s social and discussion group. Bruegger’s, 698-3878 or 413-243-2382. Cocktail party on Sep. 7 Actors Guild of Saratoga knows; join them as they and support thousands of Connecticut residents who Hannaford Plaza, Central Ave., Albany. is open to the public at a cost of $35 per person; $20 present Dog Sees God: Confessions of a Teenage live with HIV/AIDS. FMI: www.ctaidsbiketour.org Blockhead. The Saratoga Arts Center; 320 (NY) Capital Pride Singers; Mondays @ 7 p.m.; of that charge is a tax-deductible contribution to Broadway, Saratoga Springs. FREE for all 13-18 year Sept. 17; Join Love Makes a Family for a community LGBT/LGBTaffirming; mixed chorus; St. Andrew’s, Berkshire Women for Women Worldwide for the sup- old LGBTQ youth! (And you thought being an organizing meeting! 7-8pm; Now is a critical time to Episcopal Church, 10 No. Main St., Albany, 12203; port of UNIFEM programs for the world's poorest LGBTQ teenager would never pay off!) Must contact be a part of the movement for Marriage Equality in FMI: 435-4636. women. Q at [email protected] to sign up (by August CT. Come join the LMAF Field team for an exciting (NY) Capital District Prime Timers; Provides social, Sept. 8 or Sept. 9; Volunteer Night; 7:00pm; Join the 29th). discussion of: The status of the statewide campaign cultural, and recreational opportunities for mature staff of the Academy of Music for a special volunteer for marriage equality; The positions of local legisla- Sept. 9; Weight Watchers® in an LGBT-friendly set- gay and bisexual men. 21+. FMI: appreciation & training event. Munchies and good tors; Upcoming Events and actions in the area. At the ting! New Program! 6:30pm; Come to Upstate New [email protected] or CDPT 595 New Loudon cheer provided. FMI: 413-584-9032 ext. 104 New Heaven Gay & Lesbian Community Center; 50 York's only lgbtq-friendly Weight Watchers meeting! Rd #202 Latham NY 12110 Fitch St, New Haven, CT. FMI: www.nhglcc.org Sept. 13; 5th Annual Berkshire County AIDS Walk & Weigh-in starts at 6pm, and the kick-off meeting will (NY) Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men Support Rally; First St. Common, Pittsfield. Registration starts have free registration and refreshments! Meetings Sept. 21; CT SOFFA group is a group for significant Group; Mondays; 7 p.m.; Support group for GBT at 9 a.m. with a 10 a.m. walk to Park Square for the will be held every Tuesday at 6:30pm at the Capital others, family, friends & allies of Transgendered, men; CDGLCC @ 332 Hudson Avenue in Albany. rally then we walk back to the Common. District Gay & Lesbian Community Council, 332 Transsexual and Gender Variant people (SOFFAs). FMI: Q Diamond at (518) 462-6138 or Entertainment, massages and food will be available. Hudson Ave in Albany. FMI: 518.462.6138. 2-4 pm; Trans people who are also SOFFAs are wel- [email protected]. Funds raised remain to assist Berkshire County resi- come. MUST RSVP. FMI: Kristal Barnes by E-mail at dents affected by HIV/AIDS. FMI: Pat, 413-442-1506 Sept. 14; The Wedding March; Pedestrian Bridge at [email protected] or call (860)878-5256. At: (NY) Lesbian and Bisexual Women's Support the Corning Preserve, Albany, NY; 11 am; Albany will New Heaven Gay & Lesbian Community Center; 50 Sept. 15; Gaudino Dialogue: Former Baseball Group; every other Tuesday; 7 p.m.; Meet at become the third site in the nation for a special mar- Fitch St, New Haven, CT. CDGLCC at 332 Hudson Avenue in Albany. FMI: Q Commissioner Fay Vincent '60; 8 p.m., MainStage, riage equality ‘moment.' The Wedding March 2008 is Diamond at (518) 462-6138. '62 Center, Williams College; "Failing to Succeed" is the fifth year that the Brooklyn Bridge in NYC and the Nov. 8; One Big Event: A benefit for the Hartford Gay the first of four live, unscripted, one-on-one inter- second year that the Golden Gate Bridge in San and Lesbian Health Collective; 6:00 p.m. to Midnight; (NY) Youth Group; Friday nights; 7 p.m.; 332 views with Williams College alumni about their fail- Francisco will be sites for The Wedding March: the Hilton Hartford Hotel; Hartford, CT. Featuring: Emcee Hudson Ave. in Albany; Group offers peer support to ures, triumphs, and creativity. Free, but tickets are wonderful rainbow demonstration of solidarity and Michael Wilson, Entertainer Varla Jean Merman, and LGBT& questioning individuals ages 13-19. A sup- required. FMI: 597-2425, Tues-Sat, 1-5 pm. Tickets determination sponsored by Marriage Equality NY. Honorary Host Mayor Eddie Perez. Musical enter- portive environment for LGBTQ youth and their will also be available at the theatre one hour prior to March across the Pedestrian Bridge that connects tainment provided by the Shaded Soul Band. straight allies. FMI: Q Diamond (518) 462-6138. the event. Sponsored by the Gaudino Fund. the Hudson River's Corning Preserve to downtown Cocktails, Silent Auction, Dinner, Entertainment, and Dancing. Formal Attire Encouraged. (NY) Confidential HIV Testing; first Wednesday of Sept. 20; Western Massachusetts Gay and Lesbian Albany (crossing over Rte 787). FMI: Matt and Travis each month; 6-8:30 p.m.; Provided by Project Contra Dancers; 4-10pm; Montague Grange; 34 at [email protected] S. VERMONT H.O.P.E., a program of the AIDS Council of Main St. Montague, MA 01351; FMI: (413) 367- Sept. 20; Motorcycle Ride; Riding from Schenectady Sept. 7; MEN’S PROGRAM BBQ; 11am – 3pm; Northeastern New York. Testing offered at the 9380$7-10, $ w/student ID. to Cooperstown; 10 am; FMI: Connie Schmitz at Burrington Pavilion at Townshend Dam, Townshend, CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: 518-462- 518-366-3808. VT. FMI: 802-254-2400. 6138. Sept. 20; Out in the Park; Six Flags Great Adventure, Springfield, MA. Kids 2 & under, Free. FMI: Sept. 28; AIDS Walk; 1pm; Washington Park; FMI: Sept. 11; BOOK CLUB; 7pm, at the Menspace. Book (NY) OUT DANCING (for the LGBTQ community); www.sixflags.com/newengland. www.aidscouncil.org/. is Christopher Isherwood’s THE WORLD IN AN every Wednesday evening; 7 to 8 p.m.; Saratoga EVENING. FMI: Curtis, 802-254-2400. SAVOY, 7 Wells St, Saratoga Springs, NY. Forr more Sept. 21; Indigo Girls at the Mahaiwe Performing Arts Oct. 4-5; CDGLCC's LGBTQ History Month Book information: 518-587-5132. http://saratogasavoy.home- Center; 7:00 PM; Great Barrington, MA. Tickets on Sale; All proceeds will benefit the CDGLCC library. Sept. 17; “CONNECTING” GROUP; 7 – 8:30pm, stead.com/files/outdancing.html sale to the General Public on Tuesday, July 1st. All Accepting book donations until Wednesday, Oct. 1st. Menspace. RSVP. These evenings are always inter- Tickets: $45. Please contact [email protected] or call (518) esting and different, as the mix of men is always (CT) Every Sunday; ALL LGBT YOUTH to the 462-6138. changing. Join the conversation. Pre-registration is Rainbow Room; at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian Sept. 21; LGBT Afternoon Tea Dances; After the 21st, REQUIRED, space is limited. FMI: Howie at 802- Health Collective; from 3-6 p.m.; 1841 Broad Street, every 3rd Sunday of the month; 3-7 pm. Dance, Oct. 12-14th; 4th National Conference on Gay, 254-4444 or email him at [email protected]. Hartford, CT; for LGBT youth and allies. 21 & Drink, Dialogue! The Union Station, 125A Pleasant Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Aging "It's About younger. Street. $8 admission; $5 w/student ID. FMI: Time: LGBT Aging in a Changing World;” New York Sept. 19; SPIRITUALITY; 7pm; the Menspace; Open www.nohopridepromos.com Marriott at the Brooklyn Bridge, 333 Adams Street, discussion, no set theme, popcorn style. FMI: 802- (MA) TransForming Families-Transgender Support Brooklyn, New York 11201. FMI: www.sageusa.org. 254-2400. Group; Parents, partners, children and their trans- Sept. 24-26; New World Theater presents Sash & gender loved ones. Wednesdays, 7:30 – 9 p.m. in Trim; Curtain Theater, 8 pm; Djola Branner, co- Sept. 24; WRITING GROUP; 7-8:30pm, Menspace. Hadley. FMI: www.transformingfamilies.org or 413- founder of the critically acclaimed Pomo Afro Homos, N. CONNECTICUT Meet monthly. FMI: 802-254-2400. 522-0522. weaves personal narrative and performance to cre- Sept. 4; 5:30-8:30PM; The Pond House Café 1555 Sept. 26; GAYME NIGHT; 7pm, Howie’s place in ate a collage of theater, dance, and music in this new Asylum Ave, West Hartford. Hors d’oeuvres, Pasta (MA) EAST COAST FEMALE-TO-MALE GROUP work. Tickets: $15-general public; $8 seniors/ low Chesterfield, NH. FMI: Howie - 603-256-6995. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 19 Connecticut Connection One Big Event: Supporting CT’s only LGBT health organization The Hartford Gay & Lesbian Health on the dance floor. Collective’s 6th One Big Event (OBE) will Executive Director Linda Estabrook said, take place on Saturday, November 8, 2008 at “One Big Event is always a special evening. the Hilton Hartford Hotel from 6:00 p.m. to It is a celebration of not only an organization, midnight. It promises to be a great time: cool but a community and its incredible support of crowd, fine food, awesome auction, elegant the staff and clients. We are grateful to the entertainment and music to make you move. people who attend and help to make possible And we’re celebrating our 25th anniversary! the work we do.” This year, the organizing So mark your calendar NOW! committee has a goal of raising $75,000 for Last year over 400 people attended and the agency’s programs. It’s an ambitious demand for tickets is expected to be high. It’s agency’s history,” said Board President, John 25 years of activism, outreach, education and amount but we are confident that we can a great night out and it helps to support the McGarvey. “It is rare for a city the size of healthcare to the greater Hartford community. obtain it. important work of one of Connecticut’s only Hartford to have a medical facility devoted to OBE is the kickoff to a year of celebratory We are fortunate to have ING back as our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender health the LGBT community. And I do not use the events for the agency. Biggest Sponsor. 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More Connecticut Events on Pages 20-23 1764 Litchfield Turnpike • Woodbridge, CT 06525 • www.ippi.org 20 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com LGBT Politics 2008 Obama, McCain on the issues, in depth By: The Associated Press would benefit the nominee. Obama does HEALTH CARE A look at where Democrat Barack Obama accept money from state lobbyists and from McCain: $2,500 refundable tax credit for and Republican John McCain stand on a family members of federal lobbyists. individuals, $5,000 for families, to make selection of issues as the national party con- CUBA health insurance more affordable. No man- ventions affirm their presidential nominations McCain: Ease restrictions on Cuba once U.S. date for universal coverage. In gaining the tax and launch the fall campaign before the Nov. is “confident that the transition to a free and credit, workers could not deduct the portion 4 election: open democracy is being made.” of their workplace health insurance paid by ABORTION Obama: Ease restrictions on family-related their employers. McCain: Opposes abortion rights. Has voted travel and on money Cuban-Americans want Obama: Mandatory coverage for children, no for abortion restrictions permissible under to send to their families in Cuba. Open to mandate for adults. Aim for universal cover- suspending the 18-cent a gallon federal gaso- Roe v. Wade, the 1973 Supreme Court ruling meeting new Cuban leader Raul Castro with- age by requiring employers to share costs of line tax but idea got no traction. Global warm- that legalized the procedure. Now says he out preconditions. Ease trade embargo if insuring workers and by offering coverage ing plan would increase energy costs. would seek to overturn that guarantee of abor- Havana “begins opening Cuba to meaningful similar to that in plan for federal employees. Obama: Now would consider limited tion rights while being open to a running mate democratic change.” Says package would cost up to $65 billion a increase in offshore drilling. Opposes drilling who supports abortion rights. Would not seek DEATH PENALTY year after unspecified savings from making in Arctic reserve. Proposes windfall-profits constitutional amendment to ban abortion. McCain: Has supported expansion of the fed- system more efficient. Raise taxes on wealth- tax on largest oil companies to pay for energy Obama: Favors abortion rights. eral death penalty and limits on appeals. ier families to pay the cost. rebate of up to $1,000. Opposed suspension of AFGHANISTAN Obama: Supports death penalty for crimes for HOUSING the gas tax. Open to tapping the Strategic McCain: Favors unspecified boost in U.S. which the “community is justified in express- McCain: Open to helping homeowners facing Petroleum Reserve for short-term relief from forces. ing the full measure of its outrage.” As Illinois foreclosure if they are “legitimate borrowers'' high energy costs. Global warming plan Obama: Would add about 7,000 troops to the lawmaker, wrote bill mandating videotaping and not speculators. would increase energy costs. U.S. force of 36,000, bringing the reinforce- of interrogations and confessions in capital Obama: Tax credit covering 10 percent of GAY MARRIAGE ments from Iraq. Has threatened unilateral cases and sought other changes in system that annual mortgage-interest payments for McCain: Opposes constitutional amendment attack on high-value terrorist targets in had produced wrongful convictions. “struggling homeowners” scoring system for to ban it. Says same-sex couples should be Pakistan as they become exposed, ``if EDUCATION consumers to compare mortgages, a fund for allowed to enter into legal agreements for Pakistan cannot or will not act'' against them. McCain: Favors parental choice of schools, mortgage-fraud victims, new penalties for insurance and similar benefits, and states CAMPAIGN FINANCE including vouchers for private schools when mortgage fraud, aid to state and local govern- should decide about marriage. McCain: The co-author of McCain-Feingold approved by local officials, and right of par- ments stung by housing crisis, in $20 billion Obama: Opposes constitutional amendment campaign finance law, he plans to run his gen- ents to choose home schooling. More money plan geared to “responsible homeowners.” to ban it. Supports civil unions, says states eral campaign with public money and within for community college education. IMMIGRATION should decide about marriage. its spending limits. He has urged Obama to do Obama: An $18 billion plan that would McCain: Sponsored 2006 bill that would GLOBAL WARMING the same. He applied for federal matching encourage, but not mandate, universal pre- have allowed illegal immigrants to stay in the McCain: Broke with President George W. funds for primaries but later turned them kindergarten. Teacher pay raises tied to, U.S., work and apply to become legal resi- Bush, also a Republican, on global warming. down so he could spend more than the limits. although not based solely on, test scores. An dents after learning English, paying fines and Led Senate effort to cap greenhouse gas emis- Federal Election Commission belatedly overhaul of President George W. Bush's No back taxes and clearing a background check. sions; favors tougher fuel efficiency stan- approved his decision to bypass the primary Child Left Behind law to better measure stu- Now says he would secure the border first. dards. Favors plan that would see greenhouse funds, but rejected McCain's claim that he dent progress, make room for non-core sub- Supports border fence. gas emissions cut by 60 percent by 2050. needed no such approval. McCain accepts jects like music and art and be less punitive Obama: Voted for 2006 bill offering legal sta- Obama: Ten-year, $150 billion program to campaign contributions from lobbyists. toward failing schools. A tax credit to pay up tus to illegal immigrants subject to conditions, produce “climate friendly” energy supplies Obama: The presidential campaign's to $4,000 of college costs for students who including English proficiency and payment of that he'd pay for with a carbon auction requir- fundraising champion has brought in $390 perform 100 hours of community service a back taxes and fines. Voted for border fence. ing businesses to bid competitively for the million. He plans to raise private money for year. Obama would pay for his plan by ending IRAN right to pollute and aimed at cutting green- his general election, despite his proposal last corporate tax deductions for CEO pay and McCain: Favors tougher sanctions, opposes house gas emissions 80 percent by 2050. year to accept public financing and its spend- delaying NASA's moon and Mars missions. direct high-level talks with President Joined McCain in sponsoring earlier legisla- ing limits if the Republican nominee does, ENERGY Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. tion that would set mandatory caps on green- too. Obama refuses to accept money from McCain: Favors increased offshore drilling Obama: Initially said he would meet house gas emissions. Supports tougher fuel- federal lobbyists and has instructed the and federal money to help build 45 nuclear Ahmadinejad without preconditions, now efficiency standards. Democratic National Committee to do the power reactors by 2030. Opposes drilling in says he's not sure “Ahmadinejad is the right GUN CONTROL same for its joint victory fund, an account that Arctic National Wildlife Refuge. Proposed person to meet with right now.” But says McCain: Voted against ban on assault-type direct diplomacy with Iranian leaders would weapons but in favor of requiring background give U.S. more credibility to press for tougher checks at gun shows. Voted to shield gun- CT Neighborhood Organizations international sanctions. Says he would inten- makers and dealers from civil suits. AIDS Testing: www.guardinhealth.org Broad Street, Hartford, CT 06105 - 860.247.6090 Info. sify diplomatic pressure on Tehran before Obama: Voted to leave gun-makers and deal- Gay Father’s Group: (203) 938-2881Hartford and Referral program: (800) 479-2949 or Greater Israel feels the need to take unilateral military ers open to suit. 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Cannon Jones - 45 Church See Obama, McCain on Page 26 (860)264-5605Metropolitan Community Church of New Street Hartford , CT 06141-0387 - (860)646-8651 - Haven: (203) 397-2312New Haven Gay & Lesbian Povides knowledgeable info., and ongoing peer support Center: www.nhglcc.org; (203) 387-2252 to transsexuals. 2nd and 4th Saturdays of the month, 2 - PFLAG Danburry: www.pflag.org; (203) 797- 5 p.m. 4743Connecticut ’s Kids: (203) 256-8414 connecticuT View (cTView): A Transgender social and Senior Lesbians Happily at Play (SLAPHAPS): Kathy support club, for the TV, TG, TS, CD, both male and (203) 929-8113 female. Monthly meeting in New Haven as well as e- True Colors CT: www.ourtruecolors.org; (888) 565- membership, and more. A no dues club, with all the frills; 5551National www.transgender.org/ctv/ Runaway Switchboard: (773) 880-9860Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund (CWEALF): 135 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 21 22 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 23 24 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com More Lesbian Voices Lesbian Notions: Will the “Real” women please stand up? markers of beauty and femininity. On appear- licly taunted for not bringing femininity and Democratic presidential candidate Barack By: Rev. Irene Monroe* ance alone, Torres would fail. beauty to her game. Her muscular physique Obama's wife, Michelle, told Good Morning he Beijing The question of women's physiques has and supposedly masculine appearance killed America co-anchor Robin Roberts that she's Olympic always suggested a norm of beauty and femi- not only sponsor endorsements but also "a jock at heart, but likes to look nice"—she's TGames are ninity that supposedly many female athletes attempted to kill her spirit in playing the lately become a fashion icon, appearing on over, and the United don't meet. And their image as strong women game. Vanity Fair's 2008 "Best Dressed List." States sent a formidable has always created fear about a deluge of les- "As a professional tennis player, when I Sports programs are a particular challenge team. Time Magazine bians, intersexuals, and transwomen tilting came out, my focus wasn't on things like los- when attempting to make schools, play- listed 100 Olympic ath- the level playing field away from "real" ing endorsements or handling the press or grounds, and locker rooms safe for our letes to watch out for. women. even sacrificing personal privacy," LGBTQ children. And as long as young Dara Torres, nine times an Olympic medalist, With the passage of Title IX of the Navratilova wrote in the upcoming book women will be stigmatized as lesbian, that was one of them. At 41, Torres has been Education Amendments of 1972, prohibiting Crisis: 40 Stories Revealing The Personal, stigma will control women's participation. swimming faster than she did in her 20s, discrimination based on gender in education Social, and Religious Pain and Trauma of But sports can also provide innumerable revealing a more muscular and toned programs and activities receiving federal Growing up Gay in America [September opportunities to teach valuable life lessons physique. While the question of steroid use funding, women's participation in high school 2008). "The biggest thing on my mind was and can be a powerful influence in addressing could be asked, questions concerning her gen- and collegiate sports grew. But with women's being true to myself: I realized that I couldn't myriad social issues. And eliminating lesbian- der and sexual orientation should not. increased participation in sports, the damag- go on being a champion on the court if I was baiting can be one of them. Yet, the Beijing Olympic organizers ing stereotype of the lesbian athlete became leaving half of myself off the court." Dara Torres, a heterosexual and a mother of devised a "gender-determination laboratory" prominent as a way to police unfeminine But to restore traditional femininity and het- 2-year-old, inspires generations of female for "suspected" athletes like Torres, to catch behavior. And many women who chose to erosexuality to American female athletes, swimmers, and by extension, all females "gender frauds"—men masquerading as participate in sports often went to great Amanda Ray Beard, an Olympic swimmer, interested in sports. Her age signals to us mid- women. Their experts at Peking Union lengths to display traditional heterosexual posed for the July 2007 issue of Playboy. And dle-aged women, like myself, that we still got Medical College Hospital evaluated blood cultural markers through their clothing, hair- in June 2008, my home girl from game. And her body inspires a whole lot of us samples to test their genes, hormones, and styles, and mannerisms. Massachusetts, Alicia Marie Sacramone, couch potatoes to get moving. chromosomes, but, first and foremost, they LGBTQ athletes must constantly monitor along with teammates Shawn Johnson and looked at the athletes' physical appearance. how they are being perceived by teammates, Nastia Liukin, who were in the Beijing * Rev. Irene Monroe is a nationally renowned According to these experts, Torres, with her coaches, endorsers, and the media in order to Olympics, became the first female athletes to African-American lesbian activist, scholar, washboard abs, should fail. avoid suspicion. They are expected to main- be signed as CoverGirl spokesmodels. and public theologian, whose writings have And while we know reducing female ath- tain a public silence and decorum so that their The question of who's a "real" female and appeared in the Boston Globe, the Boston letes to their sex chromosomes is absurd, identity does not tarnish the rest of the team. who isn't will persist as long as lesbian-bait- Herald, the Bay State Banner, Cambridge America has a different test to verify the For example, tennis great Martina ing continues to be part and parcel of the Chronicle, and Metro News. She can be authenticity of its "gender fraud"—cultural Navratilova, who is a lesbian, was once pub- world of sports. Even presumptive reached care of this publication. Lesbian activist Del Martin dies at 87,“the fight for our rights is not over” By: Lisa Leff/AP wouldn't be by my side,” Lyon, 83, said in a ried,” she added. “I am devastated, but I take Martin and Lyon were married at City Hall SAN FRANCISCO (AP)—Pioneering U.S. statement. some solace in knowing we were able to on June 16. Mayor Gavin Newsom, who offi- lesbian rights activist Del Martin, who mar- ciated the wedding, singled them out to be the ried her longtime partner in June on the first first gay couple to legally exchange vows in day that California's same-sex couples gained the city, in recognition of their long relation- that right, died Wednesday. She was 87. “Ever since I met Del 55 years ago, I could never imagine a day ship and their status as gay-rights pioneers. Kate Kendell, executive director of the would come when she wouldn't be by my side,” Lyon, 83, said “The greatest way we can honor the life National Center for Lesbian Rights, said work of Del Martin, is to continue to fight and Martin died at a hospital, two weeks after a in a statement. never give up, until we have achieved equali- broken arm exacerbated existing health prob- ty for all,” Newsom said Wednesday. lems. Martin and Lyon were among the two dozen Her wife, Phyllis Lyon, was with her. couples who were plaintiffs in the lawsuits “Ever since I met Del 55 years ago, I could “I also never imagined there would be a day enjoy the ultimate rite of love and commit- that led the state Supreme Court to overturn never imagine a day would come when she that we would actually be able to get mar- ment before she passed.” California's ban on gay marriage in May. U.S. House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, of San Along with six other women, they founded Francisco, said Del and Phyllis were instru- a San Francisco social club for lesbians in mental in getting gay marriage legalized. 1955 called the Daughters of Bilitis after a “We would not have marriage equality in book of lesbian erotic poetry published in California if it weren't for Del and Phyllis. Paris. The group evolved into the nation's first They fought and triumphed in many battles,” lesbian advocacy organization. Pelosi said. “Through it all, their love and commitment to each other was an inspiration to all who knew them.” See Del Martin on Page 26 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 25 26 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Street Sense With Hillary Clinton uniting the Democratic Party most recently, it seems clear she will be offered a position of power within a future Barack Obama administration. What Cabinet or other position would you like to see her in? “I think she could “I think she would be “I think everybody “I think I would most have the most posi- best as Attorney would root for her to like to see Hillary tive influence on the General, given her be Secretary of Clinton take up Supreme Court, so legal background, State, since she is where she left off I’d like to see her and her clear under- so well known inter- with the health care keep working in the standing of the law nationally ... I think issue; I don’t know Senate until an and the Constitution, Secretary of the what cabinet position opening comes up. the limits there of.” Interior would be a that would be, but I And, then on to the good spot for her, to think that’s what she’s Mary Lorenz Mark Carmien Matt Meers Heather McCreary Supreme Court, to focus on all the prob- best suited for. I know Special Owner, Pride and Joy, Theatre manager, Mother/Teacher’s Aide, Education/Resource have an effect for a Northampton, MA Academy of Music lems here at home. Florence, MA she did a lot of good Room Teacher long time.” Northampton, MA Her talent would be work on that already.” Florence, MA wasted overseas.”

Obama, McCain from Page 20 Obama: Spoke against war at start, opposed SOCIAL SECURITY nent. Proposes cutting corporate tax rate to 25 IRAQ troop increase. Voted against one major mil- McCain: “Nothing's off the table” when it percent. Promises balance budget in first McCain: Opposes scheduling a troop with- itary spending bill in May 2007; otherwise comes to saving Social Security. term, says that is unlikely in his first year. drawal, saying latest strategy is succeeding. voted in favor of money to support the war. Obama: Would raise payroll tax on wealthiest Obama: Raise income taxes on wealthiest Supported decision to go to war, but was Says his plan would complete withdrawal of by applying it to portion of income over and their capital gains and dividends taxes. early critic of the manner in which adminis- combat troops in 16 months. Initially had $250,000. Now, payroll tax is applied to Raise corporate taxes. $80 billion in tax tration prosecuted it. Was key backer of the said a timetable for completing withdrawal income up to $102,000. Rules out raising the breaks mainly for poor workers and elderly, troop increase. Willing to have permanent would be irresponsible without knowing retirement age for benefits. including tripling Earned Income Tax Credit U.S. peacekeeping forces in Iraq. what facts he'd face in office. STEM CELL RESEARCH for minimum-wage workers and higher cred- McCain: Supports relaxing federal restric- it for larger families. Eliminate tax-filing tions on financing of embryonic stem cell requirement for older workers making under COLORING the LGBT world into OUR gayborhoods! research. $50,000. A mortgage-interest credit could be Obama: Supports relaxing federal restrictions used by lower-income homeowners who do therainbowtimesnews.com on financing of embryonic stem cell research. not take the mortgage-interest deduction In this side of the world, TAXES because they do not itemize their taxes. McCain: Pledged not to raise taxes, then TRADE TRT offers you a Quad-State equivocated, saying nothing can be ruled out McCain: Free trade advocate. Coverage you can count on: in negotiating compromises to keep Social Obama: Seek to reopen North American Security solvent. Twice opposed Bush's tax Free Trade Agreement to strengthen enforce- cuts, at first because he said they were tilted ment of labor and environmental standards. • W. Mass. • Capital District of NY to the wealthiest and again because of the In 2004 Senate campaign, called for “enforc- unknown costs of Iraq war. Now says those ing existing trade agreements,” not amend- • N. Connecticut • S. Vermont tax cuts, expiring in 2010, should be perma- ing them.

ADVERTISE: Del Martin from Page 24 though opponents within the group feared the 413-204-8959 OR 518-391-2617 impact of having a leader that many in the Martin in 1970 wrote an influential article mainstream still viewed as socially deviant. in the Advocate magazine that criticized what Martin was born in San Francisco and had a she saw as the gay rights movement's persist- daughter from a four-year marriage to her col- Queer Cinema You Can’t Miss! ent chauvinism. She and Lyon together wrote lege sweetheart. “Lesbian/Woman,” a 1972 book that argued She is survived by Lyon; her daughter, Another Gay Sequel: Gays Gone Wild (G) I Think We Are Alone Now (T) lesbians should be seen for more than their Genre: Comedy Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated Kendra Mon, and two grandchildren. sexuality and simultaneously offered a frank, Newsom ordered American flags at City Rating: Not yet rated Distribution: Limited Release no-nonsense account of lesbian relationships. Hall and the rainbow flag in the Castro Distribution: Limited Release Director: Sean Donnelly; Release Date: 00/00/00 A year later, Martin became the first out les- District to be flown at half-staff. Plans for a Director: Todd Stephens Notes: Premiered at 2008 Slamdance Film Festival bian to serve on the board of directors of the public memorial are pending. Starring: Jonah Blechman, RuPaul Synopsis: Called stalkers by the media, the two indi- National Organization for Women, even Release Date: 00/00/00 viduals profiled in this film would probably describe Synopsis: Characters from Another Gay Movie their shared obsession with 80's pop star Tiffany in reunite at a gay resort in Florida. far more benign terms. One of the film’s subjects, Denver native Kelly McCormick, is intersex. Religulous (L&G) Jennifer L. Dexter Genre: Documentary; Rating: R Cherry Blossoms (L) Attorney at Law & Notary Public Distribution: Wide Release Genre: Drama, Romance; Rating: Not yet rated Director: Larry Charles; Distributor: Lionsgate Distribution: Limited Release Specializing in: Real Estate, Family Law, Wills, Education Law & Starring: Bill Maher; Release Date: 10/03/08 Director: Doris Dorrie Criminal Law Synopsis: Progressive news satirist and comic Bill Status: 2008 Berlin International Film Festival Maher travels the globe to investigate the current Release Date: 00/00/00 95 State St., Suite 724 state of world religion. Throughout the documentary, Synopsis: About a middle-aged German couple "dis- he questions many religious leaders as to why they Springfield, MA 01103 covering love on the brink of death." They have a [email protected] do not welcome gay and lesbian members into their gay daughter. fold. 413-214-7626 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 27 QPuzzle & More OnTheHUNT.com Shoots – You Score Q Puzzle: Elton’s John By: Michael A. Knipp* home” to tape the tryst. Good news, Manhunter— Among the moonlighting cam- now you can have your beef- eramen are adult-film A-listers cake and meet him too. Collin O’Neal, Caesar, and OLB Media—sister compa- Jeremy Hall – all of whom are ny of Online-Buddies, which featured in OnTheHUNT.com’s operates Manhunt—recently debut videos. In addition, Falcon launched OnTheHUNT.com, Studios has granted permission an original-content amateur for its “lifetime exclusive” site that features the sexual Matthew Rush to demonstrate encounters of real-life his cinematic skills, marking the Manhunt members, filmed by first time in Rush’s film career some of the adult industry’s that he appears in a non-Falcon top stars. property. “We realized that every day “We thought our members thousands of guys are hook- might feel more comfortable ing up on Manhunt, and we thought it would having their hookups filmed by a star,” really amazing to capture these hookups as Blumenthal said. they happen,” said Gary Blumenthal, Though OnTheHUNT.com’s content is OnTheHUNT.com’s webmaster. “We won- advertised as “unedited,” Blumenthal admits dered if members would actually be interested that on average about 5 percent of each video in having their private sex lives filmed, so we is lost in the editing process, most of which is did a very small banner campaign which last- when the camera is out of frame or set aside. ed less than a week. In that short time, hun- Nonetheless, the site’s videos are longer – dreds of guys applied.” each lasting an average of 40 minutes – than Since the recruitment campaign kicked off its competition’s (SeanCody.com and earlier this year, OnTheHUNT.com has CorbinFisher.com) content, but Blumenthal received an estimated 1,500 applications, in doesn’t consider those sites competition any- fact–some from Manhunt members who are way. applying together, but most from men wishing “Both SeanCody.com and CorbinFisher.com to be paired up with an unknown partner. are niche-specific Web sites focusing on all- “We usually start by asking if they have a American jock-type guys, many of whom are scene partner in mind,” Blumenthal explained ‘gay for pay,’” he said. “Our site is not niche Across about the application process. “Perhaps it’s specific, and as far as we know our models are 1 Jackson and McKuen, for example Down someone they’ve already met on Manhunt, or gay and proud. You never know, from week to 5 Big swallow 1 Rock's longtime companion somebody they would like to meet. We try to week, who you’ll see on OnTheHunt.com.” 9 Oh! Calcutta! group of actors? 2 Milk go-with 14 Like phone sex? let potential models choose their own scene Either way, Blumenthal expects that 3 Paul of Little Miss Sunshine 15 Lucci's Erica in All My Children 4 Supporters in the bedroom partners, but if they don’t have anyone in mind Manhunt members will be pleased with the 16 Halliwell's lover we pair them up with someone that we feel final product. 5 Like beauty 17 Glinda portrayer in The Wiz 6 Fairy godmother's stick will be a good match.” “I think the personal connection that mem- 18 ___ instant (like premature ejaculation) Once a match is selected, the two “models” bers can potentially have with the models is 7 Ill-suited 19 Juicy fruit 8 Bottle dwellers, to Aladdin meet at a central location, usually a hotel or a exciting,” he said. “The idea of seeing some- 20 What pirates do to get booty? 9 Composer Aaron private residence, where cameras are rolling in one in your area, on Manhunt, over and over 23 "Scram!" in Auden's land, with "off" 10 Part of San Francisco's BART advance in order to capture the scene from the again … Maybe you even met them. Now you 24 Start of a Tony Orlando title 11 Without a date very beginning – awkward greeting and all. have the opportunity to see someone, with 25 Std. of a line through George Michael's land 12 Went lickety-split So far, the company has traveled to 17 states whom you have a connection, performing in a 28 R. Mapplethorpe supporter 13 Madonna's pair to bring willing Manhunt members together video. I think that will be a real thrill.” 30 One way to come out 21 Top drawer for first-time sessions. Participating individu- 35 Promiscuous linemen, to Esera Tuaolo? 22 Bloom of The Producers als—those engaging in “other” scenes—each * Michael A. Knipp is an NYC-based freelance 39 Artful move, in Oliver! 25 Messy little balls receive $1,000. writer and the founder of Line/Byline 40 Sometime Capote associate Chaplin 26 Big bucks But Blumenthal says that the big perk is Communications. He can be reached at 41 Tires, with "out" 27 The sounds of music “having a famous adult-film star visit your [email protected]. 43 Spamalot writer Eric 29 Partner of a wink 44 Billie Holiday's "God ___ the Child" 31 Be plenty hot 46 Photojournalistic mag with porn? 32 It makes the bottom line bigger C’mon Out from Page 2 Director of LifeCourse Counseling Center. Simply go 48 Walk like a drag queen 33 Home near polar bears, perhaps to www.lifecourse.net and click on “Ask Us A 50 Word before verily, in the King James 34 Vichyssoise veggies clients complain of the exact same thing. Yes, Question.” All questions will be answered on the bul- 51 Little black bk. listings there can be a lot of pressure within the gay 36 IML winner's accessory letin board. One or two will be printed next month here 52 California Assemblymember Mark 37 Cole Porter's "___ Love You?" community to have casual sex. And while in The Rainbow Times. 55 Gaza Stripper's assn. 38 Able to bend over there is nothing wrong in hooking up and hav- 57 Gay guy into weaving? 42 Foster and Fry ing consensual sex, some gay men confuse * Tetty has been a psychotherapist since 64 Rent 45 Tom Hulce's nemesis in Amadeus sex with intimacy. 1980. She has worked extensively with 65 Horse that isn't hung 47 David Hyde Pierce alma mater And no, you are not a weirdo for wanting LGBTQ individuals, couples and groups and 66 What a computer may spit out 49 To date what you want. There may be a lot of gay has supervised both clinicians and thera- 67 Rock Hudson's Gun Fury, for one 53 One who won't settle down men who chose many sexual partners, but pists in training. Her vision and leadership 68 Gomer's "anti" 54 No longer jail bait there are many who do not. There is nothing spirited nearly all of LifeCourse Counseling 69 Katharine's Butch Cassidy role 56 Like the subjects of Gay and Gray wrong with wanting to wait for the right part- Center’s programs. Tetty has also been on 70 SNL's Cheri 57 Masterstroke 71 Young women who have balls ner. numerous radio talk shows and television 58 Rex Reed et al. do this to movies 72 Ps on the Parthenon Follow your own heart and you will never programs. She has presented at profession- 59 Visitor at gay.com veer far from your own happiness? al conferences on topics pertinent to gay, 60 Hulbert Creek to Russian Riv. Tetty lesbian, bi-sexual and transgender individu- 61 Scout's promise to be "morally straight" als. 62 Ulrich of a landmark gay rights case C’mon Out! Submit your questions to Tetty Gorfine, Solution of Puzzle on Page 30 28 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Voices from NY A man of God: Standing strong for faith By: Paul P. Jesep* Judaism, among others, also have demonstrat- passing. God is omnipresent, omniscient, and V. Gene Robinson, the ninth bishop for the ed a loving inclusion toward the GLBT and omnipotent. Bishop Robinson, however, Episcopal Diocese of New Hampshire, is an searching community. prefers to call the Creator something not internationally recognized spiritual leader Bishop Robinson, who earned an under- often, if ever, heard: “omni-vulnerable.” who has advanced civil and human rights and graduate degree in American Studies from the According to him, “The act of creation and transcended religious and cultural boundaries. University of the South and a Master of creating a free humankind is the ultimate act Despite the mostly negative worldwide reac- Divinity from the General Theological of vulnerability” by God. In one sense, it is an tion to a gay priest being elevated to the epis- Seminary, thinks that the message of Christ ultimate act of love and trust. “Both the copacy, Gene Robinson has maintained his “is almost always a judgment against [the Hebrew and Christian scriptures are a testa- dignity, composure, and responded to the hos- leadership] in institutions. So it’s odd for me ment to how often and how consistently and tility, if not hatred, with love, kindness, and to be sitting here as the quintessential institu- doggedly God is making God’s self vulnera- extraordinary patience. It is one of the reasons tional man. On the one hand, I find in my own ble. He adds, “with disastrous results” as he is a hero to the GLBT and searching com- life and ministry that I’ve pledged to guard sometimes shown by how humankind abuses munity estranged from religion. This gentle, the unity of the church.” On the other hand itself and thus the Maker of All Good. remarkable soul exemplifies a positive faith “I’m mindful that the message I preach is The Creator is manifested to cultures and that blesses the families and individual lives largely anti-institutional.” individuals in many different ways. Because of GLBT and searching community. He said, “One of the things that surprises of the personal nature of embracing a higher “More and more people are making a dis- and disappoints me is that more people authority no faith can be considered better tinction between religion and faith,” he said involved in the institutional church don’t than another. According to Bishop Robinson, during an interview at the Diocesan House in seem to comprehend or acknowledge the anti- “For me, Jesus is the fullest and is the perfect Concord. “The vast majority of Americans institutional words that Jesus spoke.” revelation of God. It is God’s most dramatic consider themselves spiritual, but a growing “The realities of institutional church life,” BISHOP V. GENE ROBINSON and most singular event to reveal God’s self” number would not look to the church for help he reflected “are at odds with the life of faith. Photo by: Geoff Forester he said. with their spiritual life.” It shouldn’t be a surprise that Jesus took on has to err it should be on the side of “people He added, “What a small notion of God to The Kentucky native observed that reli- the institutional leadership of his day. It is and inclusion, not rules, canons, and struc- say that God could not be revealed in a myri- gious “institutions in general are suspect and important to remember” that the message of tures.” He asked rhetorically, “If a church ad of ways.” viewed with a certain amount of skepticism. Jesus “did not sound like good news” to the can’t risk its life for doing what’s right then “To write off Moses and the prophets and Add to that the very negative experiences religious establishment. “It only sounded like how can we preach a gospel” that says we Mohammed and Buddha and other people people have had with organized religion” and good news to the poor and marginalized” who should risk our personal lives for social jus- each of whom clearly had an enormous con- it becomes “a huge leap for them to walk back for the first time were loved unconditionally tice? Jesus told his disciples to especially nection to the divine, is ludicrous,” according into a church.” and without judgment. remember two lessons: love God and one to Bishop Robinson. One loving God who is Bishop Robinson, who legally joined with It is when corporate religion or the religious another as he unconditionally loved them. manifested in many, beautiful ways. his partner Mark of twenty years in a June 7, establishment “becomes more important than The Bishop reflected, “If as a representative “I came to the Episcopal Church largely 2008 civil ceremony, noted that “In the lives the mission of the church [to love uncondi- of the church I tell someone that God doesn’t because the denomination I grew up in of individual people, they would describe the tionally] that the institution becomes prob- care who they are [gay or straight, rich or believed whole heartedly that most of the pain suffered at the hands of organized reli- lematic.” The result is “to get bogged down in poor, weak or strong] then there is a freedom world was doomed to hell because they didn’t gion have outweighed whatever benefits they church politics or institutional survival rather and liberation that comes from it.” God loves believe in Jesus,” he said. “Simply, that didn’t thought they were receiving.” than do the work of ministry.” His elevation unconditionally. square with my notion of a loving God.” He adds, “one of the reasons I believe in the to bishop rocked the Anglican Communion, a The Almighty made the world and “gave up “I’ve learned,” he reflected, “that to love church is that over time it has been self-cor- worldwide Protestant affiliation. The knowing how this world would turn out,” he God is to let God love me. Part of loving God recting. God is present in the institution.” Communion is still at risk of coming to an end said. “If we really are free, which I believe we is to make the opportunity for it. This is what Episcopalian and United Church of Christ, for due to opposition that some members have are, then God doesn’t know” what will hap- allows me [or you] to go on. I am constantly example, are among the Christian denomina- toward the ordination of gays, lesbians, and pen. “The Creation is that dynamic. It’s the reminded of God’s love for me.” Bishop tions that are open and affirming in their heterosexual women. This stems from church ultimate risk God took. Otherwise at best Robinson knows that persons in positions of parishes toward gays and lesbians and who politics in Africa and a literal reading of mis- you’re a puppet and at worse you’re a victim. religious authority may not be true to their ordain these children of God as priests and understood biblical passages. I don’t feel like a victim. God’s stays creation as created by an infinitely loving pastors. Non-Christian faiths like Wicca, “God is always encouraging us,” he said “to involved” to support us. Creator. Yet it should never stop the individ- Buddhism, Unitarians, and some branches of get over the ‘them’ versus ‘us’ divide.” If one The bishop implies that because creation’s ual from being true to God and self. primary ingredient is love that all will be well. God offered the choice and freedom for each individual to love, to be loved, and respond to * Paul is a practicing attorney in Albany, fear, hate, and ignorance with love. The depth priest and prelate in the Eastern Orthodox of each person’s creation is defined by how he Church, and author of “Crucifying Jesus and or she responds to the actions of others in a Secularizing America—the Republic of Faith sometimes cold, complicated world. without Wisdom.” He lives in Schenectady God has often been described in the context and may be reached at of the Latin word “omni” meaning all encom- [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 29 Queer Voices from NY New Yorkers will march in Albany to support marriage equality Marchers will call upon the NY state Senate to pass the marriage bill Now that California and Massachusetts all New third state in the discrimination ends. have granted equal marriage rights for gays Yorkers are country to grant Matt Lloyd and Travis Arnold, coordinators and lesbians, pressure is building for marriage treated as equal marriage of the Albany Wedding March, remind their equality in NYS. Last year, the New York equals under rights for all its citi- allies of the words of Dr. Martin Luther King State Assembly voted in favor of a marriage the marriage zens. We must raise in 1967, 'In the end, we will remember not the equality bill but the State Senate has thus far laws. our collective voices words of our enemies, but the silence of our failed to vote on the measure. Governor This year in support of this friends.' Paterson is on record as a firm supporter of the Wedding most basic of civil Founded in 1998, Marriage Equality NY is civil marriage for gays and lesbians. A grow- March comes to Albany, NY. It will assemble rights!" the oldest organization in the state of New ing majority of New Yorkers agree. at 10:30 p.m. on the Hudson River Way Cathy Marino-Thomas, MENY's Executive York to advocate for full equal marriage for The 2008 Wedding March is designed to be Pedestrian Bridge at downtown’s Broadway Director says: "New York has historically same-sex couples. A."grassroots,501( C) (3) a visible statement of the efforts of the (at Pine St.) and march to the Corning been in the forefront of providing all its citi- non-for-profit organization, MENY and its Governor and those of every person and Preserve on the Hudson River. zens equal access to the rights and protections dedicated volunteers are devoted to ending group fighting for marriage equality across Ron Zacchi, Co-Executive Director for afforded by the state. The Wedding March discrimination in civil marriage through edu- New York. We are proud of the distance we Marriage Equality, NY (MENY), believes serves as a reminder, from state to state and cation, awareness and media campaigns, have come but determined to continue on for that "it's time for the State Senate to do the nationally, that this important civil rights political actions, and coalition building. our families, our loved ones, our friends; until right thing and vote to make New York the issue will only be rectified when the legalized http://www.marriageequalityny.org Attention: Parents of gender-variant children in the greater Albany area & surrounding areas Are you the parent of a transgender or gender-variant child and live in the greater Albany or surrounding area? We ourselves are parents of a 7-year old transboy. We are looking to form support groups for young children who do not conform to typical gender expectations, as well as for their parents and siblings. We envision meeting once a month at the Capital District Gay and Lesbian Community Council (CDGLCC) in Albany. We would like to know what kind of support children and parents need and we are open to suggestions as to how to help meet these needs. Please contact us via e-mail: [email protected] or contact Q Diamond, Program Director at CDGLCC at qdiamond@cdglcc. org or (518) 462-6138. 30 • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com LGBT News Briefs from Around the Country Thousands register as part of 77% supporting Kerry, the LGB vote was the years ago, a lesbian couple in Oklahoma test- Mexico City approves name largest LGBT voter education second most solid pro-Democratic grouping, ed a loophole in the Cherokee Nation's law changes for transsexuals after African Americans (88%). Still, nearly that defined marriage as between two people MEXICO CITY (AP)—Mexico City's leg- registration in NY one in four (23%) LGB voters in 2004 cast enrolled in the tribe. The tribe's clerk denied islature has passed a law making it easier for NEW YORK, NY—The Lesbian, Gay, their ballot for the Republican presidential the couple's marriage certificate, prompting a transsexuals and transgender people to legally Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) candidate. lawsuit, and the Cherokee Supreme Court change their names and obtain revised birth Community Center is proud to announce its A nonpartisan, grassroots outreach project, eventually sided with the couple. But they certificates that reflect their gender identifica- voter registration, education, and mobiliza- Promote the Vote works to create a visible never submitted the marriage certificate to the tion. tion project, Promote the Vote, is registering LGBT voting constituency, which is civically county clerk, which would have taken the Current law already lets people change their people to vote this year through the distribu- engaged. The PTV project builds upon and issue outside the tribe. The tribal council later names based on gender identification. But tion of over 3000 information boxes and via broadens our local and regional record of tar- adopted a law banning same-sex marriage. because of the lack of specific rules, the its website, www.gaycenter.org. Since 1996, geting the most underrepresented and margin- Becky Flynn, regional director of Basic process can take years to wind through the Promote the Vote has registered more than alized segments the LGBT community for Rights Oregon, a gay rights advocacy group, courts. 70,000 voters, collected 40,000 pledges, and voter education, registration and mobilization said Wednesday the impact of the Coquille The new law formalizes the procedure for reached over 1,000,000 voters via phone including: Low-income LGBT people, sex law is likely to be minimal beyond the couple name changes and lets people to ask a judge banks and direct mail nationwide. More … workers, first generation LGBT people from and the tribe. for new birth certificates. This year the project aims to register more immigrant communities, the homeless, Rural The federal government has the legal right It passed 37-17 Friday and now goes to the than 2,000 LGBT voters in New York City LGBT people, LGBT elders, and currently or to deny recognition to same-sex marriages mayor to be signed into law. and 20,000 voters nationally through a num- formerly imprisoned LGBT people. under the Federal Defense of Marriage Act Mexico City's leftist government has ber of initiatives such its distribution of Point To for more information on the Promote the passed by Congress in 1996. The tribe con- recently legalized abortion during the first 12 of Purchase stands (free-standing boxes to Vote project or to register to vote visit cluded that the act may bar the Coquilles from weeks and allowed same-sex civil unions. distribute voter registration cards and materi- www.gaycenter.org conferring federal benefits or money on als), local outreach and candidate forums. Become a Promote the Vote volunteer and same-sex spouses, said Melissa Cribbins, More than 3200 boxes have already been dis- help impact the lives of LGBT people in the assistant tribal attorney. Gay pride advocacy group tributed locally in the New York metro area United States! For more information contact The first couple to get married under the sues Birmingham mayor and nationally to local LGBT community cen- Ricardo Martinez, Public Policy Associate, at new law is expected to be Jeni and Kitzen BIRMINGHAM, Ala. (AP)—A gay advo- ters across the country. The project will also 212-620-7310 or via email at: Branting, whose maiden name is Doyle and cacy organization has filed a federal lawsuit supply 20 LGBT centers with training and [email protected] who legally adopted Jeni's last name three against Birmingham Mayor Larry Langford technical support to aid in the expansion of IMPORTANT DATES: Primary Election in years ago. Kitzen is a member of the tribe; for refusing to allow city workers to hang Gay their own voter registration and mobilization NY is September 9, 2008; General Election is Jeni is not. Pride Week banners. efforts. November 4, 2008. INFORMATION ON In an interview with The Register-Guard The suit said Langford's actions violated the “Participation in the election process is key VOTING IN NY STATE: October 10, 2008: newspaper, Kitzen Branting, 25, said she constitutional rights of Central Alabama Pride to advancing equality for LGBT people,” said Last Day to Register for the General Election doesn't expect anything beyond tribal rights Inc., which sponsored the 20th annual Gay Richard Burns, Executive Director of the for her partner. Pride Week in Birmingham in June. Center. “There are many segments of our “For me, the important thing wasn't about The suit said the city has hung flags or ban- community who are still not registered and Ore. tribe approves same-sex rights or the benefits,” she said. I just wanted ners in support of many diverse events in our goal is to increase and diversify the LGBT marriages the tribe to say 'Yes, we recognize that you are Birmingham, including City Stages music voting segment during this historic election PORTLAND, Ore. (AP)—The Coquille just as important as any other tribe member, festival and the Magic City Classic football cycle,” Burns continued. “We have a presi- Indian Tribe, based on the southern Oregon and we will treat you and your spouse as we game. dential election of great importance to our coast, recently adopted a law recognizing treat all tribal members.”' Langford said Wednesday that the city community as well as scores of state and local same-sex marriage, and its first such wedding The couple is planning a May wedding at hangs banners for events it sponsors. He said elections that will decide the next steps in our is set for next spring. the tribe's plankhouse, a common gathering he hasn't discriminated against anyone and march towards equality, the Center is commit- Oregon voters amended the state constitu- place for the Coquilles. They're inviting called the suit a frivolous publicity stunt. ted to making sure as many voices as possible tion in 2004 to prohibit gay marriage. But as between 100 and 150 people. in our community are part of the election a federally recognized sovereign nation, the process,” Burn concluded. tribe is not bound by the Oregon Constitution. Fired transsexual city manager A.G. OKs question to reinstate Statistics compiled by The New York Times Native Americans are “sensitive to discrim- finalizes divorce gay-marriage ban based on exit interviews at polling stations in ination of any kind,” said Ken Tanner, chief of CLEARWATER, Fla. (AP)—The former BOSTON (AP)—Attorney General Martha the 2004 presidential election showed that 4% the Coquilles. Largo city manager who was fired after her Coakley has given the go-ahead to a group of respondents reported that they were les- “For our tribe, we want people to walk in plans to have a sex change became public has that wants to overturn the Legislature's repeal bian, gay, or bisexual (“Transgender was not the shoes of other people and learn to respect finalized a divorce from her wife of 18 years. of a law barring marriages in Massachusetts offered as a response category”). George W. differences. Through that, we think we build a Court documents show that Susan Stanton, by out-of-state same-sex couples. Bush’s margin of victory in 2004 was just 3% stronger community,” he told The Oregonian formerly known as Steven, must pay her ex- Coakley said Monday the group's proposed over John Kerry. Strongly pro-Democrat, with newspaper. wife, Donna, $4,756 a month in alimony, plus ballot question meets the necessary technical The Coquilles are believed to be the first Q Puzzle Solution from P. 27 another $799 in child support for their 15- requirements, but added she does not neces- tribe to legalize same-sex marriage. Three year-old son. A judge signed off on the sarily support the measure. divorce settlement on Aug. 6. Supporters led by the group Stanton has not found a new MassResistence now must gather 33,000 sig- job since being fired by the natures by the end of October to appear on the Largo City Commission in November 2010 ballot. early 2007. The support pay- They are seeking to reinstate a 1913 law ments will come from making it illegal for couples to get married in Stanton's retirement fund. Massachusetts if their unions would be illegal Stanton's ex-wife also will in their home states. receive 50 percent of any The House and Senate voted in late June to money Stanton receives from repeal the law. Gov. Deval Patrick signed the movies or books about her life. repeal. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Sept. 4 - Oct. 1, 2008 • 31 Queer Sports & QClassifieds The Outfield: The CRUX of Gay Climbing By: Dan Woog* coach allowed her to, she climbed. great workout," McDonald says. "It's like bik- For many gay people, Not long ago, she and her partner, Danielle ing. Anyone can do it, at any level." the process of discover- Jablonski, spent nearly three months on the CRUX's major challenge now is to increase ing one's sexuality, then road. They visited 24 states, and climbed in membership. The club is contacting gay coming out to family, all of them. sports groups, including the New York friends, and colleagues, Right now, the focus of McDonald and umbrella organization Out of Bounds. They're is like climbing an enor- Jablonski's lives is CRUX, a gay climbing posting information on Facebook and other mous wall. A route to the club founded by the two women. ("Crux" is a websites. And they rely on word of mouth. top exists, but getting climbing term; it refers to the toughest part of "People who are looking for gay activities just there requires plenty of planning. The path a route.) find us," McDonald says. takes many twists and turns, and occasionally CRUX boasts a core group of 20 to 25 Her goal is to create a core of LGBT people there are slips. members. They travel all over the United who climb, meet new people, socialize, train, The metaphor is particularly apt for States, climbing and competing. Their home get in shape, and compete together. Meghan McDonald. The 25-year-old started gym is the Rock Club in New Rochelle, N.Y., McDonald calls the club "a great opportunity rock climbing a dozen years ago, at a gym in while the closest outdoor spot is the Partners Danielle Jablonski and Meghan to make LGBT climbers more visible in the her hometown of Nashville, Tennessee. The Shawangunk Mountains in Ulster County. McDonald. climbing community and beyond. And it's a first time she scaled a vertical wall, she was Why a gay climbing club? "LGBT climbers way to use climbing as a tool to empower hooked. are out there, but they're not visible," under the sponsorship of the national organi- LGBT people." "It's an amazing feeling - so empowering McDonald reports. "We think that whatever zation USA Climbing. Competitive climbing Once you've climbed a wall, the rest of life and simple," she says. "You start at the bot- you do, it's important to surround yourselves follows a predetermined route, and climbers is easy. And that's true whether the wall is tom, and reach the top. It's such a challenge, with like-minded people." can use only a limited number of holds. physically imposing, like a climbing gym or a but at the end it's so rewarding." She draws a parallel with a women's climb- Climbers who fall are disqualified. Both the mountain, or if it exists only in your mind. In climbing, McDonald notes, "you never ing group. "There's a similar feeling of Gay Games and Outgames have featured * Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer know what to expect, or what you'll get into. acceptance, a welcoming environment. competitive climbing. CRUX looks forward coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" It's a really dynamic environment. It's the Starting a new sport can be really intimidat- to entering teams in future competitions. series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his same as being an LGBT person: Before you ing. You're not sure what to expect. It's good But competition is only one aspect of website at www.danwoog.com. He can be come out, you don't know what people will to have a community you can rely on." climbing. "Danielle and I love the sport reached care of this publication or at think. Our lives are a challenge, just like CRUX accepts everyone, from newcomers because it's accessible, fun, very social, and a [email protected]. climbing is." to experts. (Straight people are welcome, too.) Like being gay, rock climbing is not always For many gays and lesbians who have never what it seems. "Strength is not the number tested themselves physically, the club can be one factor," McDonald says. "It's more impor- a life-changing experience. tant to be flexible, and have good balance." "We just had an event where a guy had Creativity counts, too. "When you're stand- never climbed before in his life," McDonald ing at the bottom of a wall or a mountain, you says. "He had never been an athlete, and he'd have to look up and analyze the most efficient never hung out with gay people. He was nerv- route. You can muscle your way up if you ous all day, but he took the plunge. Everyone want, but that's not the best way." really welcomed him in, and he made it to the Two years after her first ascent, McDonald top. He felt so good, and was so thankful. He began working at a local climbing gym. She e-mailed everyone afterward, and said he went on to Fordham University in New York, couldn't wait to hang out with us again." and played soccer there. But whenever her Competitions take place in indoor gyms, Q Classifieds PERSONALS NEW! Looking for someone who loves to have a good time. I value honesty, directness and living in the Trans moment. I love sports, music, dancing, the outdoors, “SWEET TRANSVESTITE" MTF, 51, smiling, slim, art, photography and motorcycles. 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