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Photo by: Walter Kurtz 2 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions Economics & same-sex marriage The Controversial Couch By: Nicole C. Lashomb*/ TRT Editor-in-Chief breaks, hospitalization/visitation rights, Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something On July 29, 2008, the Mass. House voted pension survivor benefits, amongst others. By: Suzan Ambrose*/TRT Columnist their precious puss-in-boots and to repeal a 1913 state law that prohibited The business of same sex-marriage is pooches. Why, just pick up an almost all out-of-state gay and lesbian cou- also proving beneficial for local Fluffy. Puffy. Muffy. Furrface. issue of any queer rag and you’ll ples from legally marrying in economies. You’ve guessed it. These are all eventually come across a sec- Massachusetts. This repeal was favored in In a report by The New York Times, names lovingly used to describe my warm, tion entitled “Lesbians and Their Pets.” little pussy ... cats. Lesbians and their puss- a vote of 118 to 35. In lieu of the repeal, August 2nd edition, “The New York City These furry little friends, with their goofy es are as common as trees in a forest, neighboring gay coupled New Yorkers comptroller’s office estimated in a June grins or what-the-hell-are-you-looking-at butches with tattoos, or gay men that smell attitudes, are staring back at you from the have begun flocking to the liberated state to 2007 report that allowing gay marriage good. You’d be hard-pressed to find one pages, pictured with their (often similarly- unify their relationships across the border could bring $142 million to the local econ- without the other. looking!) owners. as opposed to flying across the country to omy in the first three years. The state It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to notice Why are gay people so obsessed with California. would collect an additional $8 million in that lesbians have a strong attachment to their pets, treating them like the children In May 2008, NY Governor Patterson taxes and the city would collect an addi- their pets. Felines have been the domesti- we’ve never had—or, perhaps, never want- instructed New York State agencies to rec- tional $7 million, and companies in New cated pet of choice for years; however, ed to deal with? These little balls of furry ognize same-sex marriages performed in York would benefit from a wider pool of dogs have been making headway in this love never speak back to us, never tell us other jurisdictions. This opens up a wealth possible employees attracted by the change category most recently. Could it be dogs we have to drive them to a soccer game of legal rights to lesbian and gay couples, in marriage laws, the report projected.” are what diamonds are to straight women- (“NOW Mom!”) or complain when we a butch’s best friend? including state health insurance, state tax See 1913 Law on Page 22 leave them to go out. On the other hand, Yes, lesbians do have a real affinity for our domesticated friends are quick to tell us how hungry they are, or that the bathroom C’mon Out – Just Ask! Advice column Letters to the Editor break should have happened an hour previ- By: Tetty Gorfine*/ TRT Columnist go ahead and find some- ously. Oh no, Fido! Tetty, Thank you for your offer of help. I am a 51 one. Do not involve your- Dear Editor, With the most recent trend of lesbians year old, happy, hetero, single, male, cross dress- self in having to find I was recently alerted by a few in-the- and gay men having children on their own, er. I live a fairly balanced "dual life" (mostly in the someone who can quickly know friends that my photo, captioned I’m curious to know if the pet industry has closet but "out" for pride marches away from my and easily accept this part under “Bearded Women,” was featured on noticed a dip in adoptions at the local shel- small New England town). I'm bright, jovial, & have of you. Do not tell them a website of a Massachusetts organization. ters. a lot to give but am feeling "shot down". I'm looking that you are a cross dress- This was one of many photos selected to So, has it become a choice between kit- for a woman who wants this, not just accepts it. I've er. You might think this is represent what this organization titled a ties or kiddies? Pampered pets or just plain TETTY GORFINE written hundreds of very nice emails to (online a lie, but I think it is not. “Gruesome display of body mutilations.” Pampers? Kid-Mart or DogSmart? It’s daters) straight & gay women ...no takers ...now When people first enter a relationship there What this organization was slanderously clear that there are parallels between the writing only to bi-women ... no takers ... short of are all sorts of things that are not shared. referring to was the diverse parade of two worlds. selling my house & moving to a big metro area. For example, if there are family secrets or proud Transgender folks and allies that was See Couch on Page 3 HOW will I ever do this? I'm frustrated to despon- if someone has had an earlier experience New England Transgender Pride. They dency as I know that my chances no matter what, that has brought them shame, these things also got my identity wrong. I do not identi- fy as a Bearded Woman. I’m a female-bod- The Rainbow Times are slim. Lonely & worried, DJ frequently are not shared until trust is 351 Pleasant St., #322 developed. Don’t get me wrong DJ, I am ied person, and I like to dress in drag occa- Dear DJ: Northampton, MA 01060 not advocating secrecy, nor do I think that sionally, preferably cowboy-style, to It is clear you want to be open and honest being a cross dresser is something for express the masculine part of my gender www.therainbowtimesnews.com with a potential partner. This is a wonder- which one should feel shame. It is just that identity that too often gets repressed. Of [email protected] ful thing and I applaud you for it. we, humans, do not go around sharing our course, you’d have to ask me to know that. [email protected] I have met scores of heterosexual cross deepest feelings and vulnerabilities until But why wouldn’t this organization if they Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 dressers over the years. I haven’t met one we feel safe enough to do so! chose to publish my picture? NY: 518-391-2617 who has not been anxious and/or worried Date, meet people, DJ. When you meet Transgender Pride was particularly about their partners finding out. There is a Publisher J.M. Sorrell someone with whom you click, when you inspiring because it gave a glimpse of what great lack of information and awareness Gricel M. Ocasio Deja N. Greenlaw find you can share your deepest thoughts the world might look like if all people were about gender identity and it’s expression. Editor-In-Chief Tetty Gorfine and feelings, you’ll find just the right time liberated to express their gender identities When people first learn or see someone Nicole Lashomb Sales Associate: to tell her about yourself. And your rela- however they chose. Transmen, smiling, who is different (no matter what the differ- SJ Seymour tionship will then be ready to grapple with would proudly bare their chests to the sun. Distribution ence), the response can be one of fear. And diversity. Transwomen would wear T-shirts and jeans Ben Peterson Reporters: fear can be expressed in so many ways Best to you, and still have people get their pronouns Lindsay Wilson such as anger and judgment. This is, what Columnists: Tetty right. Intersex people would finally speak Webmaster: I believe you are experiencing with the Jack/ie Kennedy their stories of violation and survival. Tynan Power Jarred Johnson women with whom you are meeting. C’mon Out! Submit your questions to Tetty Allies, including many of the social workers Suzan Ambrose When two people first meet and fall in Gorfine, Director of LifeCourse Counseling Center. who were in my cohort at the Pride March, love, hopefully, over time openness and Simply go to www.lifecourse.net and click on “Ask would recognize how the full expression of The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow honesty develops. As they get to know Us A Question.” All questions will be answered on Times, LLC. The articles written by the writers, their gendered selves is bound up in columnists, and correspondents express their other better, they begin to share their inner the bulletin board. One or two will be printed next Transgender Liberation. The lines between opinion, and do not represent the endorsement or truths (and secrets). The outcome is trust month here in The Rainbow Times. allies and members of the community opinion of The Rainbow Times, LLC or its own- and deepening intimacy. This takes time would blur. You wouldn’t be able to tell who ers. To write letters to the editor, please send and can only be built slowly. * Tetty has been a psychotherapist since 1980. was born in what body, and what that your letters, with your name, address and phone number to: The Rainbow Times (address shown In my experience, couples who accept She has worked extensively with LGBTQ indi- meant to them. above), or e-mail any comment/s to the editor at: one as cross dresser do so as a result of a viduals, couples and groups and has supervised If Transgender Pride was a glimpse at [email protected]. All submis- relationship that is already successfully both clinicians and therapists in training. Her liberation, this website’s publication was a sions will be edited according to space con- negotiating differences (since any two peo- vision and leadership spirited nearly all of reminder that we are not there yet. But, of straints. The Rainbow Times, LLC reserves the ple are always different). When two people LifeCourse Counseling Center’s programs. Tetty course, those of us in the movement already right not to print any or all content, or advertise- ments for any reason at all. TRT is not responsi- are developing trust because the relation- has also been on numerous radio talk shows and knew that. What to do? Retain the libratory ble for advertising content. To receive The ship is already working well, there is a television programs. She has presented at pro- spirit of the day, name the transphobic Rainbow Times at your home via regular mail, or great deal of motivation to work out more fessional conferences on topics pertinent to assault as what it was, and move on through electronic delivery, please visit our web- challenging differences. gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and transgender individu- site. The content and graphics (photos, etc.) are So DJ, what I want to suggest is that you als. the sole property of The Rainbow Times and it See more Letters to the Editor on Page 15 cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s con- Read TRT’s Trans Column on P. 4 & Lesbian Notions on P. 20 sent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 3 Massachusetts Local News Massachusetts lets out-of-state gay couples marry Implications for same-sex couples from NY who wed in Massachusetts BOSTON (AP)—Joy Spring and Carla said he was proud to sign the bill repealing “It’s extremely important. If something ing majority of which specifically bar Barbano spent the day before their wedding the law, which some say had its roots in try- happened to one of us she’d always be same-sex marriage. The old law had been the way many brides do: relaxing and ing to block interracial marriages. taken care of,” said Spring, who joined invoked by then-Gov. Mitt Romney, who primping at a spa. Massachusetts in 2003 became the first Barbano in a civil union in 2006 in New said repealing it would make But unlike most, their wedding day had state to rule gay couples had a right to York. Massachusetts the “Las Vegas of gay mar- to wait until Gov. Deval Patrick signed a marry; California recently legalized gay The couple is from one of the few states riage.” bill Thursday that repealed a 1913 law that marriage, without a residency requirement. that will recognize their impending union: Now opponents say the Massachusetts had blocked gay couples from outside “In five years now, the sky has not fallen, New York Gov. David Paterson said earlier repeal may just give fresh momentum to Massachusetts from marrying here. the earth has not opened to swallow us all this year that state law requires recognition efforts for a constitutional amendment that “We’re being recognized as a married would ban gay marriage across the country. couple,” said Spring, of Middletown, N.Y., “This is a clarion call for the rest of the who planned to wed Barbano, her partner “Now New Yorkers can drive across the border to a neigh- nation on the dangers of this radical social of seven years, at a ceremony Friday in experiment, and also the essential need for Provincetown. boring state (and) get a marriage license that will be recog- a federal marriage amendment to clearly Supporters of the repeal of the law, which nized as fully legal and valid here at home,” said a statement define marriage as the union of one man banned couples from marrying in and one woman,” said Kris Mineau, presi- Massachusetts unless their unions would be from Empire State Pride Agenda, a New York gay rights group. dent of the Massachusetts Family Institute. legal in their home states, say lifting the “Same-sex marriage is a social experi- ban was not only fair but will have eco- up, and more to the point, thousands and of legal marriages performed elsewhere. ment, and it certainly will have an impact nomic benefits. thousands of good people—contributing “Now New Yorkers can drive across the on the culture, particularly the children, A state study estimates that more than members of our society—are able to make border to a neighboring state (and) get a where we already see that in 30,000 out-of-state gay couples—most of free decisions about their personal future, marriage license that will be recognized as Massachusetts, children are being educated them from New York—will wed in and we ought to seek to affirm that every fully legal and valid here at home,” said a on the efficacy of same-sex marriage and Massachusetts over the next three years. chance we can,” said Patrick, whose 18- statement from Empire State Pride Agenda, the irrelevance of fatherhood and mother- That would boost the state’s economy by year-old daughter recently revealed pub- a New York gay rights group. hood,” Mineau said. $111 million and create 330 jobs, the study licly she’s a lesbian. The California Supreme Court ruled this Asked if the change in Massachusetts estimated. An emergency preamble attached to year that same-sex marriage is legal, and might create legal problems for couples Opponents say Massachusetts now could Thursday’s law allowed out-of-staters to Rhode Island law is quiet on the subject. returning to states with gay marriage bans, become the “Las Vegas of gay marriage,” begin marrying immediately. Other states specifically forbid it, though a Patrick said: “What we can do is tend our and they criticized lawmakers for infring- That’s good news for Spring and few allow same-sex civil unions. own garden and make sure that it’s weeded, ing on other states’ rights to define mar- Barbano, whose 11-year-old daughter, Opponents said the ban prevented and I think we’ve weeded out a discrimina- riage. Lizzy, will exchange rings with the couple Massachusetts from interfering with the tory law.” Patrick, the state’s first black governor, at the ceremony Friday. decisions of other states—the overwhelm-

Couch from Page 2 These close rela- everything has changed. Lesbians and gay way things are going, who knows if that will laughter and gurgling are replacing the purr tionships with four- men are having children more than ever always be the case? and friendly lick offered to us by furry fam- legged friends may very well satiate the before. And, where does that leave Pretty As progressive consciousness continues to ily members. maternal feeling that, perhaps, we uncon- Kitty and BowWow Doggie Dog? shift, it becomes harder to define who makes One can only hope we have room in the sciously yearn to express. Pets could give us Alisa Welch writes in up the typical GLBT family. As if there’s a minivan for both. everything we want or need in that regard. Annabellemagazine.com that, according to picture-book idea that defines all of us, like * Suzan Ambrose can be heard on her call-in talk Loyalty, trust, snuggles, companionship, statistics from the U.S. 2000 Census, The Mom, Dad, 2 kids and a dog for hetero fam- radio program, The Naked Truth, Monday evenings at warm greetings when we arrive at home; Urban Institute estimates the number of ily units. 8 pm, on 103.3FM, Northampton, MA, or on the web these are all traits we love about our kitty- families with two lesbian-identified mothers We are definitely in flux with our use of at www.valleyfreeradio.org. For more of Suz’s cats. Yet, it appears many of our gay sisters to be around 167,000 couples. Research is the word “family” … as it becomes clearer thoughts, visit: www.nakedtruthshow.com Feedback (and brothers) have felt this is not enough, limited concerning exact figures, as certain with each passing day that kiddie drool, for Suz? Email: [email protected] and have begun giving birth to their own to individuals may not be willing to be labeled 2-legged animals. Really, you’re supposed ‘gay’ or ‘lesbian’ on a survey. More recent- to laugh here. ly, Witeck-Combs Communications in Many can attest to the fact that our pets are Washington reported the number of lesbian like surrogate children. We raise them from parented households is most likely to be infancy, ogling over their every little meow more than three million. The Gay and or trick that they perform. “Gay people have Lesbian Atlas (Gates & Ost) reports that in a very emotional connection with their pets, New Jersey, 30% of same-sex couples have stronger than the general population," notes children. Wow! That’s somewhere around Jeff Watters, vice president of pet snacks 10,000-12,500 kids being raised by gay marketing at Del Monte Pet Products, as folks, in just that one state! You do the math. reported in Mike Wilke’s column from Times, they are-a changin’, and it’s not TheGully.com. According to Watters, les- just in Northampton anymore! bians and gays are “not unlike empty nester There was once a world that did not honor households, where the cat or dog becomes the right for all to have children. As social the furry 'kid' — that's a fundamental driver morass has shifted, it has become more in this community.” He continues, “Cats and acceptable for gays and lesbians to be rais- dogs do not cast judgment on owners or ing children. With medical advances, lifestyle.” women can now search for the perfect No arguments there. donor, simply by using the Internet and But with the rise of the ‘Gayby Boom,’ FedEx. Ok, they still need sperm, but the

Did you know that the University of Massachusetts, Amherst made the list of the top 20 schools from The Advocate Magazine’s top 100 best schools for LGBT students ? 4 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com In ‘The Name of God’ Parley of Mormon agency, gay support group put off By: Jennifer Dobner/AP Writer best to postpone the meeting until the new date earlier than August. “The meeting was the church has labeled “same-gender SALT LAKE CITY (AP)—An August commissioner is named,” Riley wrote to put on hold until August at Affirmation’s attraction” have been excommunicated. meeting between a gay Mormon support David Melson, assistant executive director request.” Others have left the denomination. George group and a social service agency of The of Affirmation. Melson said both sides agreed to meet- Cole, 27, who runs Affirmation’s young Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Melson said Affirmation regrets the ings in August because the all-volunteer adult program, said the attitude of today’s has been indefinitely delayed. church’s decision to put the meeting on Affirmation executive committee already Mormon youth is different. In a letter sent July 23, Fred C. Riley, the hold. It was the result of a February appeal had plans to travel to Utah for a conference. “I suspect the younger crowd is much outgoing director of LDS Family Services, to Monson to open dialogue between the The LDS church teaches that being gay is less willing to be second-class, or just to said the matter would best be handled by church and gay members. not a sin and that gays are welcome as leave the church over it. I really think they his successor, who hasn’t been selected. “We’ve now written to President Monson church members, but homosexual relation- want to have both,” said Cole, of San LDS Family Services is an arm of the Salt and asked if another general authority can ships are sinful and gays should remain Francisco.” Lake City-based denomination. be designated to meet with us,” Melson celibate. Affirmation was founded in secret by stu- Riley was to hold the Aug. 11 meeting at said. Mormons consider traditional marriage dents at the church-owned Brigham Young the request of church president Thomas S. It’s unclear how soon the meeting could an institution ordained by God and church University in Provo more than 30 years Monson. It was seen by leaders of be rescheduled. Melson said he understood leaders have in the past joined with reli- ago. The group had tried unsuccessfully Affirmation, an international support group a replacement for Riley could be picked in gious conservatives to lobby for its preser- since then to create a dialogue with church for gay, lesbian and transgender Mormons, three to six months. vation. leaders. as a sign that church leaders were becom- Church spokeswoman Kim Farah con- This year, LDS leaders are backing “It was a wonderful sign,” said Cole of ing more open to gay Mormons and their firmed Riley’s departure from LDS Social California’s Proposition 8, which would the planned meeting. “I do worry a little bit families. Affirmation is not affiliated with Services and said a search is under way for define marriage in that state’s constitution that there won’t be any follow through the church. a replacement. as being only between a man and a woman. now, but I still have some faith in the “We feel badly about this but believe that “The reason the August meeting with LDS leaders have asked members to make church. It’s run by people doing what they for this to be the best experience for all par- Affirmation was postponed is clearly given contributions of time and money for the can to make lives better. I think they want ties and to ensure appropriate consistency in the letter,” Farah said, adding that the campaign. to serve all of their members.” and continuity of the process, it would be church had initially proposed a meeting Some Mormons who have acted on what Dating for the transgender woman: It can be very different By: Deja Nicole Green/TRT Columnist … not all, but most best try. Now we have "moved on" and are I kiss her again now that I know?" The k, you've finally accepted that straight men would now experiencing life in our preferred gen- questions come fast and furious. you are a male to female much rather date a bio- der. After the questions and the doubts, the OTranswoman. You've taken steps logical woman. A lot of And, although, it is nice to go out on a rationalizations then come into play. It just to feminize your body and now you are straight men have trou- date and finally get to be the female that we might be too much for some people but thinking about finding your soul mate. It ble being with us. always wanted to be but what about the some, I think, would still be interested. would be nice having that special someone Evidently, there is other half of the date? What would they After all, there was an attraction and it was in your life but how will it work? Can you something in many think of dating a Transgender? Would it be ok before. It'll just take time to deal with make it work? What are the problems that DEJA NICOLE straight male’s minds okay with them? Would it not be ok with the whole idea and to work things out. you might encounter? You think to your- GREENLAW about being with a male them? Some may have no trouble with it, This person may research self, "Hmmm, this is going to be a bit dif- to female Transgender some may find it appealing and some may Transgenderism and may find it in their ferent than from my straight life." woman that just doesn't sit well. I think the find it "unthinkable.” I think most would heads and their hearts to decide to go with Dating for the Transgender woman, well, biggest concern is them thinking that being have to step back and think about it for a their feelings and continue to pursue us it is different. Many of us Transwomen with a Transwoman is like being with bit. [transgender people] but ...and the next but came from the straight world. We kind of someone who once was a guy. If one looks I'll try to see it from their eyes. Let's see. is huge … But, "What will my friends, know the expectations of straight dating at it strictly from a physical view, that is a This woman looks like a very dateable coworkers, family, etc. say?" "How will but now things are different. For one, we true statement. Physically we were "men" prospect. We hit it off, she's nice, she's they deal with it?" Will they be shocked? are on the other side of the fence. Before who have taken steps to become women, intelligent, she's easy to talk to, we have Will they think that I am gay? Will they we would enter the dating scene as a male but mentally and emotionally one could common interests, she is cute and I'm defi- stop being my friend?" Will I lose people in but now we are entering it as a female and argue that we never really were men but nitely interested, but... she was once a guy. my life? Will my children be ok with it? although it is wonderful and exciting, there women who tried to act like men because Does that make me Gay? I never thought Unfortunately, these are very real questions are issues. that is what we thought that we must do. It that I was Gay, could I be Gay now? She for the person dating the Transgender per- First, many Transgender women would was expected of us and so we gave it our did kiss well and we both enjoyed it but can son. like to date straight men. But, let's face it See Trans Dating on Page 10 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 5 Featured Business Sweetwood works with LGBT community to ensure inclusiveness Retirement community offers welcoming atmosphere, luxury living WILLIAMSTOWN, MA July, Berkshire Theatre Festival, Jacobs 2008—Earlier this year, staff from Pillow Dance Festival, and more. 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Since 1987, the Institute, Sweetwood provides one-of- Theater Festival, Williamstown Jazz page 11. retirement community has allowed a-kind access to world-class museums, Festivals, Tanglewood, MASS MoCA, 6 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Book Review Joe Oppedisano opens up about Uncensored By: Steven Le Vine folio of made up, put in incredible clothes, can do If you’ve ever wanted to take a raw, work. But anything, and no one blinks an eye. My upfront and hypersexual tour of the male you seem to goal in shooting men is to make them look form, world-renowned photographer Joe describe it as like they are shots pulled out of a L'Uomo Oppedisano is your guide. On Nov. 11, "sensuality." Vogue shoot that maybe went a little far. I 2008, premier gay publishing house, What do you am planning on releasing a women’s book PROVOCATEUR, will officially debut its feel is the soon. Men like it, because the fantasy of an first-ever published book, Uncensored, a difference in-charge woman in killer clothes and heels continuation of Oppedisano’s best-selling between the is the epitome of POWER. 2006 photobook, Testosterone. two, and SLV: What was your main inspiration for The 192-page, full-color, hardcover (8.6” how do you, Uncensored and where do you see your x 11”) photobook will be available through as an artist next work going, in terms of structure, such major retail outlets as 10percent.com, and photog- form and theme? and in local community retailers around the rapher, dif- JO: I like to take the viewer on a trip. I world. Uncensored is a bold, masculine and ferentiate work in storyboard form, so usually I am completely uncensored journey of men and them through photography? trying to create a visual story that gets more their deepest desires. JO: I just think that the "way" I shoot and more out of control. I have the oppor- In a one-on-one interview, Oppedisano makes it a glamorized version of porn, tunity to work with some of the hottest, explains the ins and outs of his career, his especially in Uncensored. Firstly, I have sweetest men from every studio including passions, and what he thinks his legacy to almost every major porn star out now in it, Falcon, Raging Stallion, Chi Chi LaRue this form of art is. but it does not appear cheap because the (love her), Butch Bear and Colt. They were Steven Le Vine: Coming from Testosterone lighting is excellent. Erik Rhodes, Steve all really generous and sweet, and gave me to your new book, Uncensored, what do Cruz, Jake Deckard, Ricky Sinz, (and of control to create photos of their stars that I you feel are the similarities and differ- course, Colton Ford) are the inspiration for really love. As for structure and form, I JO: Thought-out! ences? Do you see Uncensored as a contin- this, because they live their lives on their studied Art History in Florence, so I'm a Some of his other recent achievements uation of Testosterone or a totally separate terms, and I find great beauty, more than renaissance man. I love symmetry, the include the 25th anniversary Calvin Klein entity altogether? anything, from this. I wanted these photos twists and turns muscles create when they spread published in Italian magazine Joe Oppedisano: Testosterone was a com- to blow away everyone's idea of what I do. are in motion It's all about form, muscle, Collezioni Uomo, and album covers for Ari pilation of editorials I had shot over a I push it further, but also I let the sensuali- perfection in mind, body and spirit. Those Gold, Colton Ford, Daphne Rubin Vega, seven-year period for magazines like ty take control and expose raw sexuality, no things will never leave me. BUT, I have Raven O and IO in addition to Colton Esquire, DNA, Genre, Gay Times, etc. holds barred. been directing videos (my directorial debut Ford’s new music video for “That’s Me,” of Uncensored is almost all work that has SLV: If you were to approach the female of Colton Ford's “That’s Me” was just which he directed. Oppedisano also won an never been seen before. It was a journey form in the same way, with respect to announced as being one of Logo TV's top award last year from the Fashion Institute coming out of the success of Testosterone. Uncensored, how different do you think the five requested videos of all time, beating of Technology for his outstanding contribu- The truth is, I have been a fashion photog- book would turn out? Is there a major dif- out Madonna). That’s kind of fierce. tion to the fashion/art world. rapher for years, shooting women and men ference in both sexes, or are they basically SLV: What do you want people to take Furthermore, he is known for his featured for institutions such as New York Times the same when put in front of a camera? away from your portfolio of work, whether photography in such esteemed publications Magazine, Vibe, WWD, Esquire, Uomo JO: I LOVE shooting women. I just did a in the past and currently? Many years from as Esquire, New York Times Magazine, Collezioni — all work that was not dark or lingerie campaign for Carmen Marc Valvo now, how do you want your art to be Men’s Health, Time Out, Pref, refresh, extremely sexual. To break out of the box, that is one of my favorite shoots ever. It's remembered? And you as an artist, in par- MR., Instinct, DNA and Gay Times, and I wanted people to see that I work in many an incredibly gorgeous Brazilian model in ticular? his advertisements for Pepe Jeans and red different ways. I also wanted to bring the a huge French pied e terre, in $15,000 JO: I think I've already done it. People carpet favorite Carmen Marc Valvo. Never hyped up sexuality out of the dark and in pieces of couture lingerie, completely dom- always say to me, "I saw this picture and afraid of starting or fueling controversy, locations that were upscale, and in that inating Erik Rhodes. Women are great knew it had to be yours." I'm happy I create Oppedisano also shot the infamous Black way, a little more twisted. because they already have that sense of images that are recognizable to people even Party poster, featuring female-to-male SLV: Obviously, there is a lot of raw male fantasy that I try to bring to the male form though the picture may not even be a half transsexual Buck Angel, and of which has sexuality in Uncensored, and in your port- in my photos. With women, they can be naked man. I like to have a sense of humor become a high-selling collector’s item. and also recreate gay history. I don't think For more information on Joe that anyone has been a connection to the Oppedisano’s Uncensored or other prod- gay experience we share since Jim French ucts put out by PROVOCATEUR, please created Colt. Gay youth needs to have visit www.villagelighthouse.com. something to look forward to when they are 40. 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The club has had as many as adding excellent works to the collection. 30 members in recent years, and hosts a Numerous professors in a variety of fields, variety of events throughout the academic Pride 2007, President Ira Rubenzahl and club advisors Prof. Eric Brown and Prof. Amy including English, sociology, psychology, year. The club, in conjunction with the philosophy, and political science, offer Stephenson. Photo by Amy Stephenson. Diversity Council, has hosted a National courses inclusive of LGBT issues. Coming Out Day Celebration in which the and Movie Afternoons, Halloween parties, entire campus community to join them at If you are interested in attending STCC, entire campus community was invited to fashion shows, educational speakers, pic- the march - and STCC has shown its pride please contact the Admissions office at attend. 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By: Mikey Rox*/TRT Special would definitely be down for. LOGO. of courtesy Photo couldn’t. ow Rue McClanahan became a Cheesecake, anyone? MR: You have quite a knack for playing TV icon isn’t classified informa- MIKEY ROX: You’ve been in show busi- excessive southern women, but in your Htion: For 20 years, the veteran ness for a long time. I won’t take you all new role as Peggy Ingram on Logo’s actress has brought syndicated love and the way back to the beginning, but I did Sordid Lives: The Series—which will mark laughter to millions of people via The read somewhere that while playing mania- your return to series TV—your character is Golden Girls’ Blanche Devereaux, cal nanny Caroline Johnson on Another way out there, much different than anyone America’s favorite over-the-hill whore. World, a fan sent a letter advising you on you’ve played before. Considering that this With the royalties that the 74-year-old the best poisons with which to kill the char- role is such a departure from how we’re McClanahan reaps from the still-popular acter Pat. That’s kind of frightening to say used to seeing you on TV, what made you sitcom—broadcast daily around the world the least, but what other sort of scary letters decide to take on this project? to roughly 1.2 million viewers—you’d have you received over the years. Any one RM: [Series creator] Del [Shores] sent me expect that the Healdton, Okla., native that comes to mind? the script back in November. When I read would be eager, at such a tender age, to sit RUE MCCLANAHAN: No, that’s the only it, I said this is the best thing I’ve read by back and count her cash. one. That was enough. I got some letters far. It was a very funny script. Peggy is a Au contraire. The saucy septuagenarian from some convicts when I was doing departure, but of course she turns into a continues to take on surprising—and some- Golden Girls, but I didn’t answer them. I’m sexy maniac. But she starts out as a church times scandalous—new roles. Her latest? not sure it would have been safe. RUE MCCLANAHAM mouse, never had a drink of beer, married Peggy Ingram, the matriarch of a colorful, MR: Speaking of Golden Girls, there’s no in reruns in 1988, and it hasn’t stopped to the same man for 34 years, never had an crooked Texas clan in Del Shores’ Sordid question that you’re best known for your since. It dawned on me then that this might orgasm. It’s about the growing up of Peggy, Lives: The Series – based on Shores’ 1999 role as Blanche Devereaux. How did that be an ongoing proposition. her blossoming. And she’ll grow up even feature-length cult classic of the same your life? MR: In the mid-1980s, talk of homosexual- more. In the second season Del has so name—premiering on Logo July 23. RM: It gave me a lot more self-confidence. ity on TV was quite taboo—and even today much up his sleeve. Peggy starts out really In a new interview, McClanahan talks I realized that she thinks she’s the cat’s the introduction of a gay storyline creates a boring, quiet-spoken, carrying her little about her long-awaited return to series tel- meow, crazy about herself, very outgoing, lot of buzz—but Golden Girls was a pio- purse in both hands. But she goes to the evision; the gigs that got her there; fan mail thinks that she’s beautiful. I figured, I’m neer for gay issues way back then. Why was beauty parlor in the 11th week and wants to from convicts; the problem with playing the part—why don’t I start feeling the show so committed to these issues? go blond, platinum. God knows what will Shreveport, La.; her brave battle with that way too. I became much less shy. RM: I think because maybe we could get by happen in the second season. breast cancer; her steamy Sordid Lives sex MR: At what point during the Golden years with so much. I heard Betty White say this MR: Had you seen the movie prior to scenes; and the on-set drama that’s making did you know that the show had made its so many times—‘four old broads are so receiving the script for the TV series? everyone uncomfortable. mark on television history? non-threatening.’We could do and say a lot It’s dish that Rose, Sophia and Dorothy RM: Several years ago. It started running of things that shows with younger actors See Sordid Lives on Page 9

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65 State Street • Northampton, MA Phone: 413-584-2633 • Fax: 413-585-9756 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 9 Queer Justice News Queer Justice: Town inspector’s harrassment By: Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter* of the by-laws. I own my own business. Recently the town Read them very inspector has been coming to my place of busi- carefully. If after Q S ness investigating complaints supposedly made you do that, you ueertations: ay what?! by my neighbors. Does the town have the right still do not under- By: Rex Wockner to do that and what can I do? stand why the town —Janice, Westhampton, MA inspector is visit- "It's a very empowering thing to be able to preside over these cer- Dear Janice: ing you, contact an emonies. We've been working on this for such a long time. ... I'm The short answer is yes the town has attorney. the right to investigate any and all com- * Attorney very happy to preside over all the ceremonies that I can." plaints and actually has an obligation to Jennifer L. Dexter do so. Atty. Jennifer Dexter earned a B.A. in —Comedian Margaret Cho, who got deputized and is performing marriages for her gay Every town has what they call by-laws. Psychology from The University of Central friends, to E! Online, July 11. These are “laws” if you will that regulate Florida. She moved to Massachusetts to the land and how it is used within the attend law school at The Western New town or city lines. They define what por- England College of Law in Springfield, "You know, the old thing about if gays get married, then it somehow tions of the land will be used for what Mass. She is a member of the threatens heterosexual marriage? It just so doesn't track on any purposes; ie what is a commercial dis- Massachusetts Bar and has a Solo General level, but then again, any sort of homophobia doesn't really track on trict, a residential district, historic, Practice in the Pioneer Valley Area. municipal etc. The information contained herein is any logical level. It probably comes largely from religion; if it wasn't Before being able to adequately answer intended for educational purposes only and in the Bible, they would not really have any leg to stand on—not that your question, I would need to know, does not represent legal advice. Should you I consider that much of a leg." what the by-laws are in Westhampton, need legal advice, please contact an attor- whether or not you had to apply for a ney. —Bill Maher, host of HBO's Real Time with Bill Maher, to the Portland, Ore., gay special permit and if so what it says, and If you have legal questions that are what complaints your neighbors made. unanswered, or if you would like to know newspaper Just Out, July 3. So the first thing would be to look at more about a specifid topic, then send your special permit. Are you in compli- your questions to: queerjustice@com- "The nature of being gay is that you are forced to challenge the gen- cast.net ance with all of the conditions? Then I eral perception, otherwise you have to accept that something is wrong would go to the town hall and get a copy with you. Maybe that gives gay men the perspective that many have Sordid Lives from Page 8 ing physical problems. I was dealing with turned into art." RM: No, I received the script then got the a knee surgery that was only six months old. It was all swollen and there was a lot —Singer George Michael to the Los Angeles Times, June 29. movie and watched it. I guessed that it had of limping. I was not at all happy with been directed by Del. Thank goodness. how I felt or how I looked, so for me it "From the beginning, my whole scene broke out in the gay clubs. ... I He’s just wonderful to work with. Almost was very difficult. all the people are wonderful to work with. MR: Like so many women, you bravely have to give credit where credit is due." There’s one person that isn’t awfully popu- battled breast cancer and beat the disease. lar, but I won’t get into that right now. But What’s your health status today, and to —Singer Donna Summer in an interview published by the Northampton, Mass., LGBT most everyone is professional and coopera- what do you attribute your cancer recov- newspaper The Rainbow Times, July 3. tive. There aren’t any prima donnas. Well, ery? except that one person. RM: Excellent. I’m getting very, very MR: Behind-the-scenes drama? I love it! I healthy. Currently I’m at the Hipprocrates "The only thing Republicans really have going for them this year is hear, too, that you have a steamy sex Health Institute in West Palm Beach, on a fear—fear of terrorists coming over the ocean and fear of immi- scene. And details? Would Blanche raw food diet. I attribute my recovery to my husband, Morrow Wilson. His support grants coming over the border and fear of homosexuals coming over approve? helped me through it. We had just met your back." RM: I have several steamy sex scenes— when I was diagnosed. He’s a brave man. they’re wild and raucous. I suppose MR: All right, so you’re 74 years old and —Bill Maher, host of HBO's Real Time with Bill Maher, to the Portland, Ore., gay Blanche would probably approve. I also you’ve been working all your life, bring- have a very sweet love scene. Blanche ing joy and comedy to so many people newspaper Just Out, July 3. would be envious, if anything. around the world, but at some point don’t MR: The series debuts on Logo on July 23. you just wanna sit back and relax? But before the show becomes this sum- RM: No, I want to work. Working is life – mer’s guiltiest pleasure, what can you tell acting, writing; I like to write. I love acting me about life on set? Any juicy details? in good things. I just shot a Hallmark RM: I think most of the juice is on the movie with Ed Asner called Generation screen. But we were living under difficult Gap that will premiere in late October. It’s conditions: bad food, low budget, long things like that that keep me young. I don’t hours. Shreveport, [La.], is a pretty red- want to retire. neck town, and there aren’t very good *Who is Mikey Rox? Who gives a f#@&! But places to stay. We were working out of you can visit him at www.mikeyrox.com. trailers, and during filming I was undergo- 10 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer But-not-Queer Rhea of Hope: Caroline’s diverse career keeps growing By: Mikey Rox/TRT Special Sure, a case can be made that the 44-year- Caroline Rhea in Sordid Lives: The Series. LOGO of courtesy Photo omedian Caroline Rhea is somewhat old's career gained considerable steam as Cof an anomaly. Aunt Hilda on ABC and The WB's Sabrina, Unlike most actors, the native Canadian the Teenage Witch—but, frankly, that was isn't "best known" for any particular role. just her first act; Rhea has gone on to star in or host equally as popular projects, such as her renamed Rosie O'Donnell hand-me- The Night Owl down The Caroline Rhea Show; the most Best LGBTQ Clubs in our recent incarnation of The Hollywood Gayborhoods! Check ’em out! Squares; and NBC's feel-good fat camp, The Biggest Loser. Hartford, CT Central & Western, As diverse and rewarding as each of Massachusetts Polo Club those gigs were however, Rhea's most Blu 678 Maple Avenue memorable character may be just around 105 Water Street Hartford, CT the corner: This summer, the veteran stand- Worcester, MA 168 York Street Cafe upper will star alongside Hollywood leg- 168 York Street ends Rue McClanahan, Olivia Newton- Club Car New Haven, CT John and Leslie Jordan in writer-director 64 Water Street Del Shores' Sordid Lives: The Series— Worcester, MA Bar based on his 1999 cult hit of the same name 254 Crown Street —which premiered July 23 on LOGO. DIVA'S New Haven, CT 492 Pleasant St. In a recent interview, the always cheerful States? the world and be called a witch everywhere Northampton, MA Gotham Citi Cafe Rhea addresses questions about her new CAROLINE RHEA: It used to be the I went. Church & Crown hope as a huggable hillbilly, the comedy exchange on the dollar (laughs). Also, just MR: I have friends from Canada, and they Hob Knob Streets circuit as a male-dominated profession, the opportunity. For me it was like, I'm think most Americans sound like geese 234 Chestnut Street New Haven, CT why she came to America, her middle-aged going straight to New York. I felt like I because we say "huh" a lot. Do you find Springfield, MA milestone, and those pesky rumors that would ultimately end up there if I could do that to be true? What else are Americans Partners Cafe she's the one who ruffled old Rue's feathers this well. The Pub 365 Crown Street known for up there? 382 Dwight Street New Haven, CT on the Sordid Lives set. MR: What specifically did America offer CR: I've never heard that one before, but Springfield, MA Cue the catfightin' music. you that you couldn't find in Canada? now that I think about it… (laughs). I don't New York Clubs MIKEY ROX: As a native Canadian, what CR: I always wanted to be on a sitcom—a think Canadians as a people are crazy about MB is it about America—in your opinion—that big American sitcom on the big three net- 40 Grafton Street Water Works Pub draws so many young performers to the works. And, of course, I want to go around See Rhea on Page 21 Worcester, MA 76 Central Ave. Albany, NY Sin City Trans Dating from Page 4 Transgender person will tell you that to choose between people in your life. 350 Worthington Street Club Phoenix because of their transition there are some So those are my thoughts on Transgender Springfield, MA 348 Central Ave., One of my male to female Transwoman folks who will never even speak to them dating and I do realize that Gays and Albany, NY friends told me “Deja, we come with a lot again. They break contact forever from us Lesbians and others have to deal with very Club OZ of baggage." It's true. It's not fair, but it's and there's really nothing that we can do similar issues in their quest for soul mates 397 Dwight St. Joey's Bar true and this is yet something else that we about it. and so do people of different religions and Springfield, MA 664 2nd Ave., Troy, NY as Transgenders have to deal with in look- There is prejudice and ignorance and different races and different places in soci- Connecticut Oh Bar ing for a soul mate. I think it'll have to fear. It's not right but it is very real. And ety. It shouldn't have to be an issue but it is. 304 Lark Street, include a very open minded individual who when we include someone very close in our A Transwoman friend once told me "If it Triangles Albany, NY doesn't care what others may think. I've lives this will happen to that someone who was just the two of you, it would be fine, 66 Sugar Hollow Road found a few open minded people but it is is close to us. Our baggage is now their but when you get others involved, it Danbury, Connecticut Fuze Box Bar hard to find someone who doesn't care baggage. Because of us, our soul mates will becomes a problem." How true. Others can 12 Central Avenue, Chez Est what others may think and will ultimately lose contact with some people that are cur- and do make it rough on our soul mate Albany, NY 458 Wethersfield Ave. risk losing people in their lives in order to rently in their life. It's an awful situation to choices. Lord, it ain't easy being different. be with us. That is the biggie. Any be in and it's terrible to know that you have Queer Cinema You Can’t Miss! NOTICE: The Hob Knob Club, in Springfield, will be closed for repairs for the next three months. Almost Myself (T) gay. After he is arrested, he begins to understand Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated his past. Director: Tom Murray An American Soldier (L) Finding You the RIGHT One, Not Just Anyone Release Date: TBA Genre: Documentary Notes: Premiered at 2006 Newfest Rating: Not yet rated Synopsis: Director Tom Murry explores the lives Distribution: Limited Release of a group of diverse MTFs in this documentary. Content: L We understand ... Director: Edet Belzberg • It’s hard to meet the right Amnesia--The James Brighton Enigma (G) person. Genre: Drama; Rating: Not yet rated Release Date: 00/00/00 Distribution: Limited Release Notes: Premiered at 2008 Sundance Film • You are busy and want Director: Denis Langlois Festival • Personal, Discreet, matches chosen just for you. Distributor: K Films Amerique Synopsis: Sergeant First Class Clay Usie is one Respectful Lanie & Bud, Company Founders • You might not want to of the most successful army recruiters in the “We met through a dating service.” Starring: Dusan Dukic, Norman Helms, Louise • People are who they say they meet someone in a bar or at country; he also acts as a mentor to high-school Laprade. ; Release Date: 00/00/00 are ... work. Notes: Winner of the Best Canadian Feature at students training to become soldiers, many of • We welcome Singles of all the Inside Out Toronto Lesbian and Gay Film whom will eventually be deployed to Iraq. One of • You don’t want your per- Lifestyles Festival. the soldiers he recruits, and whom this film fol- sonal info for all to Synopsis: A young man (Dukic) wakes up naked lows closely over a period of nine months, is • An affordable service see on the Internet. in a vacant Montreal parking lot, remembering revealed to be a lesbian. nothing of who he is, except for the fact that he's (413) 665-3218 • massmatch.com • [email protected] www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 11 12 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Q-lebrities Golden Archer: Great in A Four Letter Word By: Mikey Rox*/TRT Special you have to do to persuade Casper to write For writer-actor Jesse Archer, the name an entire movie around this character? of his larger-than-latex character, Luke— JA: Ha! My character—the gay cliché—is whom the Oregon native brought to life in only always ever seen as a punch line. Both director Casper Andreas’ debut film Slutty Casper and I wanted to show that he has his Summer—might as well be short for own truth to tell. You may have to read Lucrative. between the lines, but it’s there. He didn’t Because four years after the well-trav- take much persuading—just a hot cattle eled tramp—who’s now a Manhattan trans- prod. plant—landed the promiscuous (albeit pen- MR: I heard that you had a hand in writing sive) part in his moviemaker friend’s first this film. Tell me about the screenwriting feature, he reprises the role in the platitude- process, and what influence did you have peppered follow-up, A Four Letter Word, on the finished product? available on DVD August 19. JA: Oh yes, we wrote the whole film In a recent interview, the affable Archer – together. Collaboration is tough. We would from his sparkling Alphabet City abode— often send drafts to each other and we’d loosens his lips on infiltrating Out maga- just erase what the other person had written zine, sharing screenwriting credit on the and write our own stuff. At one point we Luke (Jesse Archer) and Stephen (Charlie David) in A Four Letter Word. award-winning AFLW, that pheromone- had to sit down and make a case for what Photo courtesy of afourletterwordmovie.com producing physique, commingling with co- we wanted in there, and why. Ultimately, it you’re lying on the bed in a pair of blue Letter Word was shot in New York City in star Charlie David, and where NYC’s faux- made for a more dynamic script. We each briefs. Your tresses are tussled, and sym- 17 days, no? That’s a pretty tight shooting filthy go to get funky. got what we wanted most. bolically you’re meant to seem vulnerable schedule. How were you able to pull it off? As if you didn’t already know, ho. MR: As with most independent films, the given the context of the scene. But, frankly, JA: Yeah, super tight. A lot of the scenes, MIKEY ROX: Most people know you as a budget for this film was relatively meager. I don’t care about any of that. Tell me the like the ones at the sex shop, were shot columnist for Out magazine—I do, at least. But, I’ve gotta say, your wardrobe was truth; you think you look amazing in that overnight when the store was closed. Some Your anecdotes are charming, if not hilari- bang on. Whisper in my ear the budget for scene, don’t you? Because I do. And if I days we’d work all night, some days during ous. How did you get that gig? the wardrobe. Did you have a hand in were you, I would totally steal the direc- the day. It really messes with your body JESSE ARCHER: Thank you. I like Luke’s look? Did you take any of it home? tor’s cut and self gratify once a week. chemistry. But I was really thrilled to be charming and hilarious—I’ve heard much JA: I’ve got all of it! I’m sure I’ll be caught JA: Oh my god, that’s really funny in a making this film we wrote. In the last days worse! Aaron Hicklin (Out editor-in-chief) wearing that sleeveless red vest with the scary way! Self gratifying? There’s a char- of shooting, I’d worry while I walked to set knew I was a writer, and had me come in to cursive L out at the bars when I’m 65. acter profile for a really creepy film! The that I might get hit by a car and die and then show my portfolio. He took a look at it, and Luke’s wardrobe was a compilation of my scary thing is, I think I wore those same it’d never get finished. One funny anecdote then I never heard back. Well, it took a few clothes and my friends’ clothes. The only underwear in Slutty Summer. Thanks for from set is the day we shot in Central Park. months before I heard back, and when I did money spent on wardrobe in the entire film the compliment, but when I watch that Tourists would gather and watch the scene it turns out he thought I’d make a good was $20, I think for something [the charac- scene all I think is, “Why am I positioned where Charlie and I are talking on the lawn. columnist. Lucky me! ter] Marilyn wore in bed. like that?” The camera is all up in my At the end of the scene, we make out, and MR: How do you get yourself into the oft- MR: If we’re gonna chat fashion, we must crotch. each time some mother would cover her scandalous predicaments you write about? discuss the hair. I lost count how many dif- MR: Charlie David, best known to the child’s eyes and rush off in a huff. I loved JA: I take the slut approach to living. That, ferent ways Luke wore it. queer community as the protagonist of every minute of that. and I really like to push buttons. JA: Oh, that hair! I mean, it has a mind of Dante’s Cove, is your main squeeze MR: While we’re talking Manhattan, MR: As the old saying goes, it’s all in who its own! My favorite look is the one where throughout much of A Four Letter Word. where’s your favorite place to hang out in you know. Which must have been true for I come into work all disheveled after an all- As such, you two share some pretty explic- the city? Aaron Hicklin, who has a non-speaking night “fourgy.” I look like a chicken at the it sex scenes that some might consider soft- JA: Depends on the night. I do love a dirty role in your new movie A Four Letter state fair. corn porn. What’s it like literally baring it dive bar. Boiler Room comes to mind. Word. Did you owe him one? MR: I can’t neglect mentioning that you’re all on camera that way? More importantly, MR: All right, so you’ve got your second JA: How did you know that? Aaron was a in mighty fine shape in this film. What did did you and Charlie practice beforehand? feature film under your belt. What’s next? great sport. He came in and played one of the physical conditioning entail? And JA: Charlie and I were boyfriends the More Out magazine? Move movies? Fill my victims at the bar. I undo the button on before you say a word, don’t tell me that entire shoot. I adore the guy. He’s a class me in. his shirt and say one of my favorite lines: you’re naturally built like that and that you act. Thanks to him, those scenes were a lot JA: More Out, more movies, more travel! “Lose a button, make a friend…” I did owe don’t require gym time, homo. I’ll slap less awkward than they could have been. It I’m now developing a new story about a him one—the column gig is great. Plus, you. may look sexy, but we were surrounded by fag hag. I’m also one of the New York writ- since Aaron is in it, we thought he’d be JA: I was totally going to tell you I’m nat- a camera crew. The action is all choreo- ers for a fun new site called Gay List Daily. more inclined to promote the film! urally built like that – don’t slap me! I do graphed, and then the make up guy comes Check out my blog at www.jesseonthe- MR: This isn’t your first film, and, in fact, go to the gym, and I run long distance. It in and sprays you down with glycerin so brink.com for what’s new with me. Stop by the character you play in A Four Letter keeps me thin, but I’m not OCD about you look sweaty. Hot and bothered, in all and say hi! Word, Luke, originated as a bit part in exercise. There’s more to life. the wrong ways! * Who is Mikey Rox? Who gives a f$@&! But director Casper Andreas’ previous film, MR: There’s a scene in the film where MR: Correct me if I’m wrong, but A Four you can find him at www.mikeyrox.com. Slutty Summer. So, I have to ask, what did you’ve just gotten out of the shower and www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 13 QueerWood Deep Inside Hollywood: Sarah Jessica Parker Collects Art in the City By: Romeo San son—and a cruelly truncated, eight-episode bly watched Knight Rider, the show about Vicente* mini-season at that—approaches in January David Hasselhoff and the talking Trans Am 2009. And then that's it. A future of Dana with superpowers named KITT. And now Sarah Jessica Parker and Dawn Denbo on DVD, at best, seems that you're all grown up, the concept's been Collects Art in the City to await the faithful. But now there's a new rebooted for this fall's TV season. The new Visual artists spend hope on the horizon. Co-creator Ilene series comes complete with a hot young long periods of time in Chaiken is at work on a spin-off series that cast, a more tech-advanced car that can go solitary contemplation will follow one of the characters as she into transforming attack mode, and...a sex- creating their work, seeking no outside embarks on a new chapter in life. No other ual orientation? Well, probably not. But in opinions save for their muse. Until now. In details are known at this time, especially recent interviews, the series' creators have the spirit of commerce-meeting-art-meet- not the identity of the new show's star. But joked about KITT being gay, thanks to their ing-reality competition shows—a TV fever strong contenders would seem to be bold, own childhood ideas about the original that has turned every single aspect of mouthy Alice (Leisha Hailey) or womaniz- KITT's snooty, know-it-all, diva-like human existence into marketable skills ing heartthrob Shane (Katherine Moennig), behavior. And Val Kilmer, who played a honed through a series of judged chal- but don't discount sophisticated Type-A gay guy in Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, is the new lenges, each striver sent packing one by Bette (Jennifer Beals) or superdiva Jenny KITT's voice, so here's hoping he throws a one with a cute (or annoying) catch- (Mia Kirshner). No matter who it is, the little gay accent our way. phrase—comes the Sarah Jessica Parker- flock will surely follow. created Bravo series American Artist. *Romeo San Vicente cared less about the That's right— the next household name to Gore Vidal Sees a Shrink Katherine Moennig of The L Word. Trans Am and more about the moments when spring from the tiny, esoteric world of con- He's outlived his peers and even some peo- becomes a pothead in order to cope with Hasselhoff would take off his shirt. He can be temporary art is going to be found on cable ple from younger generations. He's written personal tragedy. No word, really, on who reached care of this publication or at television after creating meaningful, lasting iconic novels like Myra Breckinridge and Vidal's character is, but it would be kind of [email protected]. work from items found while blindfolded films such as Suddenly Last Summer. He's cool if he played the thugged-out dope and let loose in PetSmart. OK, enough sar- openly gay, often irascibly so, and at 82 he dealer, wouldn't it? Unless it's not a come- casm. It's Sarah Jessica Parker's world; the hasn’t seen fit to retire from life yet, so it's dy. Then it would be somewhat inappropri- Drive for TRT in NY!! gays just live in it. We'll watch. fitting that Gore Vidal has taken on a small ate. Watch for this one to get small on the Have a car, driver’s license & role in the latest film from producer Kevin big screen in 2009. The L Word Spins Off ... But to Where? Spacey, Shrink. Also starring Spacey and are very reliable? We want you! Bittersweet days are ahead for Romeo ... er, gay actor Dallas Roberts (The L Word), it's TV's Final Frontier: The Gay Car 518-3391-22617 for rabid fans of The L Word. The final sea- the story of a Los Angeles psychiatrist who If you were a kid in the 1980s, you proba- 14 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Gay Travel Out of Town: Laguna Beach, California By: Andrew Collins* expanse of golden sand, heavily used vol- you're looking for a bit more clubbing hic Laguna leyball nets and basketball courts, and a action, you can always drive up to Long Beach, the jewel small wooden boardwalk. Locals and Beach (40 minutes north), which has a nice Cof the so-called tourists laze in the sun, their peace inter- selection of lively gay bars. California Riviera, has rupted only by the occasional ring of a cell Laguna's Coast Highway is strung with long been a favorite gay phone. Along Ocean and Forest avenues, generally mainstream but gay-friendly vacation spot. About mid- and along Broadway, are excellent cafes lodgings, from posh hotels that face the way between San Diego and Los Angeles and some fine art galleries and boutiques. ocean to a few basic motels. In the absence and nicknamed SoHo-by-the-Sea, the area North of Main Beach is Laguna's Gallery of a true gay resort in Laguna Beach, a began attracting artists around the turn of Row, the most concentrated stretch of art number of properties nevertheless have a the 20th century. dealing in town, as well as the Laguna Art strong gay following. At the luxury end, the In addition to painters and writers, Museum, which houses a small permanent swank Surf and Sand Resort sits right on Hollywood film stars—Douglas Fairbanks, collection of works by local artists and the beach, each of its 152 spacious rooms Mary Pickford, Bette Davis, and Mickey mounts outstanding temporary exhibits. and suites offering panoramic ocean views. Rooney—were an early presence in A five-minute drive south of downtown, The tastefully appointed units have muted, Laguna Beach. The early culturati helped Coast Highway leads to some gay-popular Photo courtesy of: Surf & Sand Resort contemporary furnishings and color establish what is still one of the nation's businesses and hangouts, most of them and serves fine French fare, such as three- schemes. The resort also has a top-notch outstanding community theaters, the along the blocks between Oak and Calliope way duck (confit, grilled breast, and foie spa, Aqua Terra, and there's a beautiful Laguna Playhouse. The Festival of the streets. The long-famous gay resort, the gras) with a port-sour-cherry sauce. One of patio overlooking the sea that's perfect for Arts, a still-thriving showcase for local Coast Inn, closed in 2007, but there are downtown Laguna's top restaurants, 230 weddings—the resort is very amenable to painters, sculptors, and other artists that rumors afoot that a new gay-friendly resort Forest Avenue wows diners with imagina- same-sex ceremonies. began in 1932, sealed the town's reputation will take its place. The beach behind the tive West Coast regional cuisine. The An enchanting Spanish Mission-style as a cradle of West Coast creativity. former inn still has a somewhat gay follow- emphasis is on seafood: pan-seared sea compound, gay-owned Casa Laguna Inn The GLBT presence was very discreet ing, however. scallops with squash-porcini risotto, sweet draws a mainstream clientele but also has a during most of the 20th century, and there For an enchanting side trip, head south of corn sauce, and white-truffle oil is a strong GLBT following. The property has has been occasional tension between some Laguna Beach several miles to reach San favorite entree. lush gardens and courtyards strewn with of the town's mainstream and gay business Juan Capistrano, the one town in the area Although it's a tad touristy, the Cottage bougainvillea and queen palm trees, a pool owners and even residents over the years. that retains a sense of California's Mission- has been a friend to gays and lesbians since and sundeck shaded by banana and avoca- Laguna is, after all, a coastal arm of conser- era history. Many of the adobe structures it opened in the early 1970s. The straight- do trees, and a small but exceptional spa. vative Orange County. Nevertheless, by here date from the late 18th century. forward Continental cuisine is competently The wide-ranging accommodations (which 1983 there were enough progressive resi- Mission San Juan Capistrano is famous as prepared—fire-roasted Colorado rack of are pet-friendly) include a small romantic dents to elect Robert Gentry the first open- the spring host to thousands of migrating lamb with a whole-grain-mustard sauce is a cottage with phenomenal views, and about ly gay mayor in the United States. Laguna swallows from Argentina, and its Serra favorite. For breakfast, try the Laguna 20 additional units ranging from sprawling later became the first town in Orange Chapel is thought to be the oldest continu- omelet with bay shrimp, snow crab, fresh ocean-view suites to moderately priced County to adopt an antidiscrimination poli- ously used building in the state of dill, and Swiss cheese. Another of the more courtyard rooms. Nearby, Laguna Brisas cy that protected the rights of gays and les- California. A small downtown area has gay-popular venues in town, Nick's serves Spa Hotel is a cheerful property with a bians. largely escaped 20th-century commercial- nicely prepared traditional American chow good reputation in the gay and lesbian Laguna today is a desirable getaway for ism. and has a lovely outdoor patio that's perfect community. Rooms are done in cool pas- couples seeking romance, and with One of the finest restaurants and most for relaxing on a sunny day. tels; they're big, comfortable, and have California having legalized gay marriage in romantic settings along the Southern Zinc Cafe and Market is the ultimate ocean views—and all have two-person 2008, it's quickly become a favorite locale California coast, the Splashes Restaurant at lunch and breakfast spot downtown, with whirlpool tubs. The setting is a dramatic for same-sex weddings and honeymoons. the Surf and Sand Resort captivates diners outstanding, healthy salads, sandwiches, hill, with rooms tumbling down the side. The ocean views and sandy beaches are with its sleek dining room directly fronting and gourmet goodies, and a sunny outdoor It's not quite as laidback as your typical spectacular, there's noteworthy shopping the ocean. Service is deft and knowing, and dining area aglow with greenery and set beachfront hotel, but the formality of the and dining, and there's one lively little gay the creative regional American fare is out with zinc tables. The self-serve fast-food magnificent Ritz-Carlton Laguna Niguel is bar—just enough nightlife to keep yourself of this world. Consider starting with Maine restaurant Taco Loco is more than just a worth braving if only to behold the breath- occupied in the evening until another gor- lobster salad with roasted beets and orange- favorite surfer hangout—it serves fish faji- taking views from its stunning waterfront geous day begins. star-anise dressing, before sampling fen- tas and tacos to die for, available in many setting. Rooms are spacious and outfitted A good spot to begin your explorations is nel-pollen-crusted ahi with a fava puree, varieties: octopus, shrimp, mahimahi, and with top-notch amenities, including glam- in the village center of Laguna, at the olive oil, artichoke confit, and tarragon so on. Plenty of folks rave about the black- orous marble baths, goose-down pillows, oceanside equivalent of a traditional sauce. ened-mushroom-tofu burgers, too. Get terry robes. Even if you don't stay here, American town green: Main Beach. This Nearby and also of considerable acclaim, your java fix at Koffee Klatch, a cheerful consider dropping by for a treatment in the breezy park has tile benches, a large French 75 occupies a Tudor-style cottage storefront coffeehouse in the gay neighbor- magnificent spa, snacking in ENO wine- hood, with tantalizing desserts, sandwich- and chocolate-tasting bar, or enjoying din- es, and Wi-Fi. ner in the ultra-posh Restaurant 162, With the Coast Inn and its Boom Boom named for its spectacular location on a Room nightclub club having closed, bluff 162 feet above the ocean. Laguna Beach is not a major destination for gay nightlife. Bounce is the town's only * Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's gay bar—it's a cozy basement lounge with Gay Guide to the USA and eight additional comfy seating, and it's close to Koffee travel guides. He can be reached care of Klatch and several other gay-friendly busi- this publication or at OutofTown@qsyndi- nesses along South Coast Highway. If cate.com. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 15 Queer Opinions Everyone is trying to live life to the best of their ability By: Jack/ie Kennedy vince everyone around you, well not every- pened? Because of fear and embarassment. selves in the mirror and have gender dys- hy are so many people shocked one if you follow my drift, that you’re It seems like everyone is afraid to say and phoria. A bald straight man looks at himself that same-sex couples rush to straight? It’s easier to be straight. It’s the do what they really think and want. Is it in the mirror and tries to get into a Hair Wget “married” but not to get norm! then human nature to lie? Where does lying Club for Men to correct his situation/prob- “unionized?” Let’s face it people, how Now, let’s not compare that with how fall in the Christian meaning? Does it fall lem. Other guys, have penis enlargements, would you feel if you were given a meat- others stay in the closet out of fear for their above or below being a “homosexual?” For and that doesn’t happen for the sake of ball when what you really signed up for lives. I think that there is a small percent- those who hate different people (based on bringing children into this worl either. My was a huge, juicy burger? Why would you age that should actually be concerned about race, or cultural differences), but claim point? If you really follow what I am say- settle for less? What? My comparison isn’t that. The rest of the people in such a they are also Christians, where do their sins ing, then you’ve guessed it. applicable? Honestly, only those who are predicament should be honest. If everyone fall? Before or after being a “lezbo?” We are all made a certain way, and we short-changed feel that something that they who was gay really put their foot forward, And, what about vanity, what kind of a should accept the variety, and understand have the right to have, should be freely I think most of my neighbors, politicians, sin is that? Aren’t we basically changing that only one God could make so many available to them. lawyers, heck most of the people in my who we are, the people that God meant us beautiful people different. Gays, lesbians, What happens is that we live in a world town and state would probably come out to be and how God wanted us to look? trannies, bisexuals, straight people, people in which the powerful can hide the best. too. At some point, even Hugh Hefner him- Does that follow under lies, vanity or desir- with no hair, with wrinkles, with short- Which brings me to my next topic. Why do self, liked Dick. But, fear is a more power- ing to be someone else to be more loved, comings (penile and breast), people with you think that there are so many rich peo- ful feeling than honesty. Why do married admired, etc.? Aren’t these all ways in sexual disorders, etc., we are all people try- ple, celebrities, etc. in the closet? Because people cheat and hide it for years or until which we all fall in the same category? We ing to live life happily and to the best of our they can! Wouldn’t you be in the closet if they get caught? Because of fear. Why do want to fit in, because we’re not happy with abilities. Why is this so hard to understand you had the money and resources to con- people pass gas and pretend it never hap- who we are. Trans people look at them- and so difficult to believe?

Letters to the Editor from Page 2 Dear Editor, about time that we have places like the Pub a few venues. Please I’d like to know. towards our vision of society where every per- Loved Donna Summer on the cover! The only that showcase good events for gay people and —Maureen B., Burlington, VT son can self-determine their gender identity thing is that I get disappointed when the at the same time contribute to good causes. Dear Maureen, and expression, realize it, and live a full life. Hollywood personalities keep getting and I’m going to schedule a trip to the Pub in We are always expanding at The Rainbow —Sara Walker, Northampton, MA looking younger than my kid. I mean, this Springfield and I’ve never been there. Times. Thank you for your input and we will woman must be in her late 50s if not 60s and —Rick Lonest, Schenectady, NY take it into consideration. We wanted you to Dear Editor, yet her picture shows her looking no older know that we do go to parts of Bennington The True Colors Tour article from the July than 25. How can that be? I am tired of see- Dear Editor, and Brattleboro, VT. However, we understand edition of the Times was boring. I don’t under- ing fixed-up pictures of celebrities and the Any chance that you may be covering New the need for more and are constantly working stand why there weren’t any pics with it. I was impact that these photos have on our youth Hampshire or other parts of Vermont soon? on it. Thank you. hoping to see the Lauper myself. It was a and the concept of getting older. I think that We don’t have a paper here, but get yours at —The Editor shame not seeing or feeling it more. Mrs. Summer should let herself age to be —Ken Morristan, Albany, NY taken more seriously. —Tammy N., Springfield, MA Dear Editor, Although I like the Kennedy writer, why won’t Dear Editor, he or she come out as a he or she? What’s I wanted to see more pictures of CT Pride! It wrong with that? I think that his or her stuff is was disappointing to see that there were funny, though with somewhat of a dry humor almost only 5 or 6 pictures. Maybe next year to make people think without the borderline you’ll be able to show more of what took sarcasm that he or she had before. I feel that place then. if the person would come right “out of the —Jay Lopez, Hartford, CT closet” instead of acting almighty about it, we may follow what he or she says better. If Dear Editor, you’re so proud, why can’t you come out? I just kept an older edition of the June, 2008 —Jerry Mostel, Hartford, CT of the Rainbow Times and loved reading about The Pub night club. I think that it’s

Did you know the Gender Identity Disorder Facts? • Gender Identity Disorder (GID) is a serious health condition consisting of a persist- ent discomfort with one's assigned sex and a strong identification with a different sex, causing significant distress or impairment. • Some, but not all, transgender people are diagnosed with GID. • Health experts recognize that treatment of GID is medically necessary. The accept- ed therapeutic approach involves an individualized gender transition, including living full-time as a member of the gender that corresponds with one's identity. 16 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com TRT Calendar ONGOING EVENTS/SUPPORT GROUPS & younger. youth ages 13-18. Save the Date! FMI: well as having opportunities to help create a vision www.cdglcc.org for the future. (MA) (MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group (MA) TransForming Families – Transgender Sept. 4; 5:30-8:30PM; THE POND HOUSE CAFÉ which meets at 7 p.m. on the 2nd and 4th Support Group; Parents, partners, children and Aug. 8 -10; CDGLCC's Summer Open House 1555 Asylum Ave, West Hartford. Hors d’oeuvres, Thursdays at Baystate Hospital 3300 Main Street their transgender loved ones. Wednesdays, 7:30 – Extravaganza! Pasta Bar & Cash Bar; Admission: $30 pre- in Springfield, MA. FMI: Deja 860-604-6343 or 9 p.m. in Hadley. FMI: www.transformingfamilies.org Aug. 9; CDGLCC'S SOFTBALL TOURNAMENT; paid/$35 at the door. Vote for your favorite talent Keri 413-364-1749. or 413-522-0522. FMI: [email protected] or 462-6138. act online at ctaidscoalition.org for a minimum $5 (MA) EAST COAST FEMALE-TO-MALE GROUP (MA) SOCIAL GROUP FOR LESBIANS; We Aug. 9; THE RAINBOW RUMBLE SOFTBALL donation. Finalists will perform live at Connecticut (ECFTMG); 2nd Sunday of every month from 3:00 always meet on the first and third Friday's of the TOURNAMENT - CDGLCC vs. Two Rivers LGBT AIDS Resource Coalition’s, CARC, annual to 6:00 p.m. FMI: 413.584.7616 or email: betpow- month. For information call 413-687-2065 Outdoor Club; 10am. Lincoln Fields (Morton and Summer Camp event on September 4th. [email protected]. (MA) MATURE LESBIAN SUPPORT GROUP; Eagle); We need players! FMI: Sept. 13; THE 15TH ANNUAL MICKEY Group for women 55+ meets monthly at the (VT) TRANS SUPPORT- Third Sunday of Every [email protected] or 462-6138. $5 entry fee PALLOTTO GOLF OPEN: Sponsored by Northampton Council on Aging at 240 Main St., at Month; in Brattleboro, Open to anyone whose to cover costs. Hamilton Connections; held at Hunter Memorial identity or expression doesn't fit neatly into the 6 p.m.; second Monday of each month. Aug. 10; VINTAGE PRIDE POTLUCK BRUNCH; Golf Course in Meriden. FMI: gender binary, including transpeople of all genders www.leeway.net/events.html (MA) DISCUSSION GROUP FOR LESBIANS 40+ For LGBTQ folks over 50. FMI: and sexual orientations. FMI: Benjamin Robin: meets every Wednesday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at [email protected] or call the office at (518) [email protected] the Stonewall Center at UMass. This is a warm 462-6138. S. VERMONT (NY) CAPITAL PRIDE SINGERS LGBT and Aug. 8; SPIRITUALITY: 6:30pm, the Menspace. and welcoming group of intelligent women. Aug. 10; FAMILY POTLUCK DINNER AND ICE affirming mixed chorus. Rehearsals on Monday's, Final “summer movie” night!; We’ll close out our Information email to: [email protected] CREAM SOCIAL; Lots of fun for adults and their 7 PM, Emmanuel Baptist Church, 275 State St., cycle of films that tie into spirituality with DOWN (MA) OLDER LESBIAN DISCUSSION GROUPS; children! FMI: [email protected] or call the Albany. FMI: 518-435-4636. THE RABBIT HOLE, the follow-up movie to WHAT office at (518) 462-6138. Amherst/NoHo Area. New members accepted on THE BLEEP DO WE KNOW.. We’ll begin at (CT) LIVING SOULFULLY: A MONTHLY MEN’S space-available basis. If enough interest, new Aug. 10. "TRANSCEND" MEETING. 7:00 - 8:30 6:30pm in order to have time to watch the movie GATHERING; Meets on 4th Wednesday of every groups may form. FMI: 413-247-3257 or 413-253- pm, South Congregational Church, Pittsfield, MA. and have a discussion following. FMI: Curtis @ month from 7:30-9:00pm at the Hartford Gay & 3049. Monthly support/social group meeting for the 802-254-2400. Lesbian Health Collective. FMI: HGLHC at 860- (VT) MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP; Any male 18 or Trans community. Sponsored by BSCC. FMI: 413- 2787-4163. Aug. 9; BIKE & BBQ: 11am/2pm, Brad’s in 822-7268. older; Support group not a therapy group. Free. Peterborough. Brad’s popular bike and BBQ. (NY) First and third Sundays of the month, 11 - 1 Every Tuesday, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Brattleboro, VT. Aug. 13; 2pm; PROJECT HOPE will be at the Please bring a dish to share, your swimsuit and a p.m. at the Rainbow Cafe, 332 Hudson Ave., FMI: 802-258-3914. River Street Men’s Club located at 540 River towel. If you choose to come to one or the other Albany. FMI: Viktoria 518-438-6315. (MA, NY, CT & VT) DISCRIMINATION BECAUSE Street in Troy, providing FREE and Confidential of the two events, that’s fine, but if you are arriving YOU ARE QUEER? Call The Rainbow Times, (CT) LGBT TEEN SUPPORT- RainbowRoom is HIV/STD testing. Rapid HIV testing results provid- for just the barbecue please don’t arrive until 2pm! 413-204-8959; 518-391-2617. open every Sunday from 3:00pm-6:00pm and is ed in that same session. FMI: 518-434-4686 ext FMI: Curtis @ 802-254-2400. located at 1841 Broad St., Hartford. 2327. (NY) Bisexual Brunch; First and third Sundays of Aug. 12; CORE GROUP: 6pm Potluck, 6:30pm RainbowRoom is an affirming and safe place for the month, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow Cafe, Aug. 14; PROJECT HOPE offering FREE and Group Discussion, at the Menspace. Help guide lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and questioning teens 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria 518-438- Confidential HIV and STD testing at Waterworks the Men’s Program. Join us for a great potluck and young adults 13 to 21. RainbowRoom is a 6315. Pub located at 76 Central Ave in Albany.; 11pm – and then conversation about the program. We’re drop-in center located in an intimate, informal 2:30am; Rapid HIV testing results provided in that actively seeking new members. (NY) Bagel Bunch; Tuesdays; 10:30 a.m.; Older space with room for a variety of activities. same session. gay men’s social and discussion group. August 15-16; BEAR FILM FEST at Tree Frog of Value, including the exclusive VIP party at the FMI: 518-434-4686 ext 2327. Bruegger’s, Hannaford Plaza, Central Ave., Farm. The Bear Film Fest is in its fourth year, and Brass Key, a Carnival Tee Shirt, and gift bag from Albany. Aug. 16; SCHENECTADY GENDER this year the theme is cowboys get ready for some our sponsors! FMI: 800-637-8696, or ALTERNATIVE - Monthly Get Together; 7pm - western fun! FMI: Curtis @ 802-254-2400. (NY) Capital Pride Singers; Mondays @ 7 p.m.; www.ptown.org/Carnival.asp 12:00 am; Yours Jazz Club; 145 Barret St, LGBT/LGBTaffirming; mixed chorus; St. Andrew’s, Aug. 17; TRANSGENDER SUPPORT: 5:30 – Schenectady; FMI: (518) 370-9865. Everyone is Episcopal Church, 10 No. Main St., Albany, 12203; 8:30pm; Meeting in Brattleboro the third Sunday of W. MASSACHUSETTS welcome, and you are free to dress in the gender FMI: 435-4636. every month. Open to anyone whose identity or of your preference. There is a $5.00 meeting fee August 6; BSCC ANNUAL BARBEQUE expression doesn't fit neatly into the gender bina- PICNIC;5:00-8:00 pm; Pittsfield State Forest ski which we give to the owner of Yours (Joe) for let- (NY) Capital District Prime Timers; Provides ry. Not a Men’s Program event. FMI contact lodge @ 1041 Cascade Street (off Churchill ting us use the room. social, cultural, and recreational opportunities for Oshee: [email protected] Street), Pittsfield, MA. BSCC will provide bever- Aug. 23; MEN'S GROUP END OF SUMMER mature gay and bisexual men. 21+. FMI: jalli- Aug. 19; POTLUCK; 3pm, Mountainside, ages, paperware and cutlery, hamburgers, hot BBQ; 1PM-?; CDGLCC; 332 Hudson Ave. Albany. [email protected] or CDPT 595 New Loudon Hinsdale, NH; David Herrod is hosting another dogs, veggie burgers and rolls. Bring a main dish, FMI: Please RSVP to Joe at (518) 462-6652 or Rd #202 Latham NY 12110 summer BBQ at Mountainside in Hinsdale. FMI: salad, fruit or dessert to share. All are welcome. albanygwm311@ aol.com. (NY) Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men Picnic will be rain or shine; the ski lodge will be www.mountainsidenh.com/directions/ Aug. 27; PROJECT HOPE will be at Capital Support Group; Mondays; 7 p.m.; Support group used in case of inclement weather. Aug. 24; KAYAKING; 11am, led by Brad on the District Gay and Lesbian Community Council for GBT men; CDGLCC @ 332 Hudson Avenue in Aug. 10; East Coast Female to Male Group Contoocook River, Peterborough, NH. Brad will located at 332 Hudson Ave. in Albany, providing Albany. FMI: Q Diamond at (518) 462-6138 or qdi- Meeting: “Coming Out as Trans;” 3-6p.m., 146 lead a kayak trip down event down the scenic FREE and Confidential HIV/STD testing. Rapid [email protected]. Riverbank Rd., Northampton; FMI: Contoocook River in Peterborough, NH. Kayaks HIV testing results provided in that same session. (NY) Lesbian and Bisexual Women's Support www.umass.edu/stonewall are available for rent at E.M.S. just 1/4 mile away. FMI: 518-434-4686 ext 2327. Group; every other Tuesday; 7 p.m.; Meet at Aug. 10; LGBTQ DANCE; Dance Northampton; Call E.M.S. at 603-924-7231 for info. Sept. 5; First Friday at the Romaine Brooks CDGLCC at 332 Hudson Avenue in Albany. FMI: Second Sunday of every month; 3-6 PM; $8. Aug. 29; GAYME NIGHT; 7pm, Howie’s place in Gallery featuring Alan Bennett Ilagan Q Diamond at (518) 462-6138. Chesterfield, NH. We’re getting in all kinds of Aug. 17-23; PROVINCETOWN CARNIVAL (Photography); Free; CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave, (NY) Youth Group; Friday nights; 7 p.m.; 332 games these days. Come on over to Howie’s with THEMED WILD, WILD WEST; Provincetown, MA. Albany; FMI: CDGLCC at (518) 462-6138. Hudson Ave. in Albany; Group offers peer support The VIP Pass is the best way to attend all of the your favorite game... and a snack to share if you’d to LGBT& questioning individuals ages 13-19. A Carnival Events! The pass retails for $85 and Sept. 9; WEIGHT WATCHERS® in an LGBT- like. FMI: Howie @ 603-256-6995. FMI: Curtis @ supportive environment for LGBTQ youth and includes over $135 worth of Value, including the friendly setting! New Program! 6:30pm; Come to 802-254-2400. Upstate New York's only lgbtq-friendly Weight their straight allies. FMI: Q Diamond (518) 462- exclusive VIP party at the Brass Key, a Carnival Aug. 31; BRAD’S LAST BIKE & BBQ of the sea- Watchers meeting! Weigh-in starts at 6pm, and 6138. Tee Shirt, and gift bag from our sponsors! FMI: son! 11am/2pm, Brad’s place in Peterborough. the kick-off meeting will have free registration and (NY) Confidential HIV Testing; first Wednesday 800-637-8696, or www.ptown.org/Carnival.asp refreshments! Meetings will be held every Sept. 7, MEN’S PROGRAM PICNIC at of each month; 6-8:30 p.m.; Provided by Project Aug 24-28; Register Now for the SOCIAL Tuesday at 6:30pm at the Capital District Gay & Townshend Dam. H.O.P.E., a program of the AIDS Council of JUSTICE MEDIATION SUMMER INSTITUTE, Lesbian Community Council, 332 Hudson Ave in Northeastern New York. Testing offered at the Amherst. For those individuals interested in Albany. FMI: 518.462.6138. CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: 518- becoming trained in mediation with a social justice 462-6138. Submit your non-profit perspective. FMI: www.sjmediation.org. N. CONNECTICUT LGBTQ TEA DANCE AT DANCE NORTHAMPTON. Aug. 30; "CRAZY" Ogunquit Week; 10:00pm; Aug. 9; NEW HAVEN JAZZ FESTIVAL; 6-9PM; Second Sunday of every month; 3-6 PM; $8 calendar event/s* online at: Ogunquit, Maine. Grab your Bikini and Get Out of with thousands excepted to attend, this is a great (includes lesson at 3:00) FMI: www.dan- Boston for Labor Day Weekend! FMI: opportunity to talk to community members and to cenorthampton.com . therainbowtimesnews.com www.crazyogunquit.com demonstrate local support for marriage equality. (NY) OUT DANCING (for the LGBTQ community); Sept. 20; WESTERN MASSACHUSETTS GAY To volunteer, contact Community Organizer Cari every Wednesday evening; 7 to 8 p.m.; Saratoga AND LESBIAN CONTRA DANCERS; 4-10pm; Bohm by email [email protected] or call 860-525- SAVOY, 7 Wells St, Saratoga Springs, NY. Forr more Montague Grange; 34 Main St. Montague, MA 7777 x304 information: 518-587-5132. 01351; FMI: (413) 367-9380$7-10, $ w/student ID. TRT Aug. 17; RAINBOWROOM; 3-6pm; Hartford Gay http://saratogasavoy.homestead.com/files/out- Oct. 19-26; FANTASIA FAIR, a week-long trans- & Lesbian Health Collective; 1841 Broad Street, dancing.html gender event held every October in the GLBT Hartford, CT 06114. Come join us as *Certain restrictions apply. Small for-profit (CT) Every Sunday; ALL LGBT YOUTH to the resort town of Provincetown, Massachusetts. RainbowRoom continues to be safe space for events/groups, 35 words or less, are considered Rainbow Room; at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian teens and young adults (13-21 years old) of for a small fee. Large/for-profit events are not Health Collective; from 3-6 p.m.; 1841 Broad CAPITAL DISTRICT OF NY diverse gender identities and sexual orientations Street, Hartford, CT; for LGBT youth and allies. 21 to hang out, socialize and support one another as considered. All submissions appear online. Aug. 8; CDGLCC'S YOUTH BBQ; For LGBTQ www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 17 Connecticut Connection LMAF urges signing of pledge to help CT get marriage equality Do you know that CT anti-gay opponents on amending our Constitution. ument, which has served our state so well, uncertain outcomes. 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More Connecticut News on Pages 16 1764 Litchfield Turnpike • Woodbridge, CT 06525 • www.ippi.org 18 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com LGBT News Briefs from Around the Country Hate crime charge filed in trans- Supporters of the ban have taken in more According to the NYCLU, Blue Cross & Deamons possesses the mind, personality gender beating than $1.2 million from out-of-state contrib- Blue Shield now says it will cover married and behavioral characteristics of the female GREELEY, Colo. (AP)—Prosecutors in utors. same-sex couples. gender. Transgender men and women Greeley are treating the beating death of a In opposition, gay and lesbian rights A spokeswoman for the insurer did not should go about their lives as the gender transgender woman as a hate crime. groups around the country put more than immediately respond to a request for com- they identify with, Murphy said. The Weld County district attorney’s $1.3 million into the fight against the ballot ment Monday. The company said earlier it “It’s just kind of the common sense office filed criminal charges against 31- initiative. was awaiting guidance from regulators in approach,” said Kristina Wertz, legal direc- year-old Allen Ray Andrade including first- That figure was before Bruce Bastian—a cases of gay marriage, which is not legal in tor for the California-based Transgender degree murder and committing a bias moti- co-founder of the WordPerfect software New York. Law Center. “Someone should use the rest- vated crime, which is also a felony. company—opened his checkbook and room that corresponds with their identity Andrade is accused of killing 20-year-old donated one (M) million dollars. Transgender fights Cleveland on and their appearance.” Justin Zapata, who lived as a woman and Bastian grew up in a conservative locker room policy was known as Angie. Mormon family in Twin Falls, Idaho. He CLEVELAND (AP)—An embarrassing Judge: principal mistreated gay According to court documents, Andrade went on a mission for the church and question from a boy in a locker room students told investigators he and Zapata went on a received his bachelor’s and master’s inspired Karen Deamons to fight the city: PONCE DE LEON, Fla. (AP)—A feder- date after meeting online. He allegedly degrees from Brigham Young University. Why was there a woman in the men’s al judge scolded a Panhandle school princi- confessed to beating her with a fire extin- But he has been at odds with the church’s room? pal, saying the official led a “relentless cru- guisher after realizing Zapata was biologi- view on homosexuality since coming out as Deamons decided last month she would sade” against gay and lesbian students at cally male. a gay man. no longer abide by Cleveland’s require- Ponce de Leon High School. The arrest affidavit said Andrade took a Bastian, who lives in Orem, Utah, says ment that she change in the men’s locker Student Heather Gillman and the fire extinguisher off a shelf and struck he felt he had to level the financial playing room at the indoor pool at the city-run American Civil Liberties Union sued the Zapata twice in the head, telling investiga- field. Cudell Recreation Center. A transgender Holmes County School District. A federal tors he thought he “killed it.” He allegedly who identifies as a woman—but has not judge ruled that Davis violated Gillman’s told investigators that he struck Zapata Same-Sex Suit: NYCLU upstate had sex-change surgery— Deamons wants rights by silencing all pro-gay messages. again as she struggled to sit up. same-sex couple wins insurance to be able to put on her bathing suit in the According to the suit, Davis told a gay Andrade was also charged with first- fight women’s locker room. student it wasn’t right for her to be homo- degree aggravated motor vehicle theft for BUFFALO, N.Y. (AP)—The New York Deamons, 53, said she filed a complaint sexual and held a morality assembly, allegedly stealing Zapata’s car. He was also Civil Liberties Union says a lesbian couple June 2 with the Ohio Civil Rights according to testimony. The court’s opinion charged with committing identity theft who married in Canada have won their Commission. She’s also asking the Ohio was released last week. against Zapata’s sister. fight against a western New York insurance Legislature to pass a bill that would prohib- In response to the ruling, the district is company over spousal health care benefits. it cities from discriminating because of training teachers in free speech issues this. Out-of-state cash floods gay mar- The NYCLU sued Blue Cross & Blue sexual orientation or gender identity. School Superintendent Steve Griffin said riage initiative Shield of Western New York on the cou- The city’s stance toward Deamons is not Monday that Davis is no longer a principal; SAN FRANCISCO (AP)—Millions of ple’s behalf earlier this month. The lawsuit discriminatory, Cleveland Law Director he now teaches American government dollars in out-of-state money is flooding accused the insurer of discrimination and Robert Triozzi said. classes. the ballot-proposition campaign to ban of breaching its contract with the school A letter that Deamons carries with her same-sex marriage in California. district that employs one of the women. from endocrinologist Thomas Murphy said New Studies on Marriage for Gay and Lesbian Couples The new study published by UCLA’S with children and strong religious beliefs William Institute reports that gay and les- are more likely to hold a commitment cer- bian couples take advantage of their ability emony. The researchers behind the study to marry or form civil unions in states said their findings suggest that lesbians and where it is available. The report’s data is gay men are seeking to protect their chil- representative of the eleven states that rec- dren. Mothers and fathers were 3.5 times ognize marriage, civil unions, domestic more likely to have a commitment ceremo- partnerships or other legal arrangements ny than couples without children. The for gay and lesbian couples. researchers, who surveyed 190 gay cou- The research director of the Williams ples, also suggested that faith communities Institute states, “Marriage clearly gets the are an important source of legal education most enthusiastic response from [gay and and advocacy for families with lesbian or lesbian] couples, as we’re seeing in gay parents. California.” For more information, visit: www.fres- In another study, the University of nobee.com/547/story/766646.html Illinois found that lesbian and gay couples www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 19

BUY FROM SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST.COME SEE ME AND I’LL TREAT YOU LIKE “FAMILY.”—KIM MORRIS, SALES CONSULTANT LIA HONDA OF NORTHAMPTON 20 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com More Queer Voices Lesbian Notions: The fearful “F” Word men don’t like By: Rev. Irene Monroe* issues got swept under the convention-floor Michelle Obama told Washington Post African-American Shaker settlement in ichelle rug. In the Democrats' effort to neither bash writer Anne E. Kornblut in May 2007, just Philadelphia in the 1870s and lived with Obama Bush nor bring up hot-button topics that months after her husband's announcement each other for more than 30 years, would won't use might turn away swing voters, the elephant of his run, that she's not a feminist. be labeled lesbians in today's climate. M in the middle of the convention floor was "You know, I'm not that into labels," Walker disputed Humez's right, as a white the F-word. Alice Walker called it by the issue of marriage equality. The Michelle Obama told Kornblut. "So proba- woman from a different cultural context, to another name. And Democrats donned Republican drag and bly, if you laid out a feminist agenda, I define the intimacy between two African- when Hillary Clinton left Boston reneging on one of the DNC's would probably agree with a large portion American women. used the F-word, platform promises: to support "equal of it...I wouldn't identify as a feminist, just But many African-American sisters don't before she ran for president, she got clob- responsibilities, benefits, and protections" like I probably wouldn't identify as a liber- use either term because both have been and bered with rumors stating she was an for LGBTQ families. al or a progressive." continue to be used for lesbian-baiting in L.U.G.—lesbian until graduation—because In the Democrats' rhetoric to secure a When white feminists pounced on the African-American community. That's she got married to Bill, and then an L.A.G safer world for all children, they did not Michelle Obama for not using the F-word where Michelle Obama fits in. —lesbian after graduation—because of her understand that our children must grow up for herself, many African-American sisters At the 2004 convention, DNC delegates marriage to Bill. with the same rights as others and that the came to her rescue, stating that many who were supporters of marriage equality With the Democratic National were disallowed from bringing signs into Convention meeting his month, the dele- Boston's Fleet Center for "security reasons" and because "the campaign wants to get a gates that identify themselves with the F- And with moving over to the word—as "Feminists for Obama"—will Hillary Democrats slowly consistent message out." Of the 4,300-plus come out in droves. The trek to Colorado Obama camp, we LBT women also move with hesitan- delegates, 255 were identified as LGBTQ. will be made by dykes, dykettes, dykelings, And although one would think that these bi-sisters, transfolk, and, oh yeah, our cy, given Obama's stance on same-sex marriage. 255 should have been the loudest advocates straight sisters, too. But as my LBT friends for marriage equality, they too skirted the have pointed out to me, the sisterhood issue for fear of losing the election. between straight feminists and us is Let's not make this mistake again. strained at best and nonexistent at worst. children of LGBTQ parents must also have African-American women don't use the Because the distance between straight And with Hillary Democrats moving slow- those rights. term "feminist," but instead prefer "wom- "Feminists for Obama" protecting their ly over to the Obama camp, we LBT And can we, this time, rely on straight anist," because of the racism embedded in families and LBT women protecting our women also move with hesitancy, given "Feminists for Obama" to help us? the feminist movement and the strained families is just one child away. Obama's stance on same-sex marriage. Feminists have fought for reproductive history between white and black women While the fault lines of race and class are justice and family protection for years. But that remains unaddressed. * Rev. Irene Monroe is a nationally rearing up among "Feminists for Obama," they have also viewed us LBT women as a But if truth be told, the creation of the renowned African-American lesbian so too are the fault lines of gender expres- liability to the women's movement. In word "womanist" was to conceal "the activist, scholar, and public theologian, sion and sexual orientation, as LBT women 1969, Betty Friedan, then president of the Lavender Menace." Alice Walker specifi- whose writings have appeared in the attempt to convince our straight sisters that National Organization for Women, and an cally devised the term in response to Jean Boston Globe, the Boston Herald, the Bay our families, like theirs, matter. icon of the "Second Wave" of feminism, Humez's introduction to the book Gifts of State Banner, Cambridge Chronicle, and And while I believe many of our straight called us "the Lavender Menace," creating Power: The Writings of Rebecca Jackson, Metro News. She can be reached care of sisters understand our struggle, will they a chasm between straight and LBT femi- Black Visionary, Shaker Eldress. Humez this publication. forge a sisterhood with us against a presi- nists. suggested that Rebecca Jackson and dential candidate who supports civil unions Going into the convention this year, Rebecca Perot, who were part of an for same-sex couples but not marriage? "Feminists for Obama" face not only the During the DNC in Boston in 2004, our expected infighting characteristic of the Fantasia Fair 2008: the October you can’t miss feminist movement, but Fantasia Fair is a week-long transgender also, with the current event held every October in the GLBT backlash to feminism, resort town of Provincetown, their own struggle for Massachusetts. The Fair is a “full immer- legitimacy. And a woman sion” experience, meaning that attendees caring, and enjoy the opportunity to share who benefited from the can and usually do spend an entire week and partake of workshops and sessions all the feminist move- living 24/7 presenting their gender as they that explore and recognize the ups and ments —past and pres- wish. downs of a TG partnership. ent—and could be impor- Started in 1975, “FanFair” is the oldest Your next Fantasia Fair promises to be tant to their cause is not a and longest-running gathering of transgen- an exciting, fun, and educational opportu- feminist: the Democratic der persons for mutual education, support, nity. Your CD or TS self will be able to presidential nominee's collaboration and socializing. Every year develop confidence by exploring life in a wife, Michelle Obama. the Fair grows in its scope, character, and real community without boundaries. assistance to the gender explorer. FanFair Attendees can spend a full week in beauti- continues to be the leading annual pro- ful Provincetown, enjoying the seaside gram promoting an individual’s ability to Jennifer L. Dexter beauty and the friendship of many won- thrive in a real-life situation, and receive Attorney at Law & Notary Public derful T folks. Yes, you really are wel- positive reinforcement and encourage- come and free in all of Provincetown, and, ment. This allows the cross dresser, MTF Specializing in: Real Estate, Family Law, Wills, Education Law & yes, you will make friends you will keep transsexual, FTM transsexual and all the forever. Criminal Law gender diverse to experience life in an This year Fantasia Fair will take place open and caring environment—something 95 State St., Suite 724 on Onctober 19-26 in Provincetown. For unique in a world that typically has diffi- Springfield, MA 01103 more information about costs, directions culty understanding and accepting gender to the event, etc., please visit: www.fan- [email protected] diversity. tasiafair.org/ 413-214-7626 Couples find support, friendship and www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 21 QPuzzle & More Authors on Authors: Jennifer L. Jordan’s Q Puzzle: Greek Team Selective Memory mystery novel By: Ruth Perkinson*/TRT Author Reviewer this is the Test-A-Mate subplot that has Kristin dressing up and trying to bait a It’s easy to understand why Jennifer L. cheating lover. It’s a great release from the Jordan’s latest psychological thriller, ominous and complex, Alexandra Selective Memory, was short-listed for a Madigen. Lambda Literary Award. This novel, The story also delves into Kristin Ashe which is the sixth in her Kristin Ashe mys- and who she is an investigator. She’s tery series, is a page-turner: fast-paced and miffed by her client many times and strug- full of deep, dark intrigue. gles to find the answers to the life this When classical pianist Alexandra woman led. She has trouble sleeping, has a Madigen crashes her car and suffers a trau- fight with Fran, and at times doubts why matic brain injury, she hires Kristin Ashe, a she’s doing any of the investigating she private investigator in Denver, to piece does. together her life—bit by bit—over the last The plot and characters are always com- twenty years. As the fine-tuned plot pelling and Jennifer L. Jordan’s book, unfolds, we find that at the bottom of the Selective Memory, is one for all mystery memory loss is the beautiful yet elusive lovers—or not. She’s just changed this Clarissa who has played a shadowy role in writer (who usually reads non-fiction) into Alexandra’s life from the start. Clarissa, wanting to read the first five books in the who first fell in love with Alexandra in series. In my book, Jennifer L. Jordan wins high school, is back and the haunting re- the prize for creating a story and characters enactment of how their mysterious lives you want to know more and more about— unfold proves well worth staying up past on every level! midnight to read on. To learn more about Jennifer L. Jordan Jennifer L. Jordan threads together a and her books, please visit her at www.jen- mystery that encompasses the fits and niferljordan.com and check out the ad on furies of her subject. And, at the same time, page 22, which has more information. she throws in her ever-humorous compan- * Ruth Perkinson has written three books ion and workmate, Fran Green, who pep- for Spinsters Ink and can be found on the pers the plot with her humor and new spot web at www.ruthperkinson.net on a radio show for lesbians. Coupled with Across Down Rhea from Page 10 1 'N Sync member Lance 1 They slide into openings at keggers the [American] politicians in office. MR: How do you get into character—any 5 Joe.My.God, for one 2 Like unhappy lovers, maybe 9 Bear 3 Gays, technically, after a 1973 APA vote Canada is a much more liberal country. particular methods? 14 Opening for the crack of dawn 4 Place where men wear makeup MR: Tell me about the first few years CR: Have you seen the wardrobe and the 15 Time that drags 5 Opened up, like a pansy coming to America. Were you seeking hair and makeup; it was hard not to [get 16 Michael of Miss Congeniality 6 Pandora's Box heroine stardom? into character]. [Noleta's] a real person. 17 Peter Pan pooch 7 Jackie's designer CR: I moved here with $300; I bought a My father was really ill at the time as well, 18 Spread it on your muffin 8 Rub it in pair of earrings for $220 the second day I so I was already very vulnerable. It was 19 "Let's hit the sheets!" 9 What a cruiser is looking for was here. I lived my sister. She was really easy to tap into the real part of life. 20 Athlete of 1976, 1984, 1988 10 Country north of Thailand sweet; she came to every show. I was MR: I spoke with one of your Sordid Lives 23 One that stays in a bed 11 Women's rights, for short working three jobs at the time: stand-up co-stars recently—the lovely Rue 24 Benjamin Hoff's The ___ of Pooh 12 A Chorus Line song comedy, spraying perfume at McClanahan—and she mentioned that 25 Flower for Foucault 13 Become husband and husband, e.g. Bloomingdale's, and fighting off the someone on the set isn't very popular, that 28 Signs of The Lion King? 21 Syllable pairs before "Don we now our gay apparel" lunatics that were spraying back. this person is somewhat of a prima donna. 31 Dildo, e.g. 22 Get in the sack MR: What do you consider the major I'm sure you love to dish with the best of 33 Athlete of 1968 25 The Wizard of Oz producer Mervyn turning point in your career? 'em, so can you give any insight into who's 38 Architecture, to Julia Morgan 26 Cara of Fame CR: The day that I did Comic Relief [8]. I at the center of this controversy and why? 39 They make points by touching the body 27 Has more than a one-night stand met Whoopi that day, which led me to CR: I don't know how that rumor got start- 40 Bill written by Alice Paul 29 River of Ulrichs' country Hollywood Squares, and ultimately upped ed—I think it's from some crazy blog. It's 41 Bosom buddy 30 Vital fluid my stand-up career. People knew my first not me because I love her. I can dish, but 42 They're performing, in Fame 32 Love Songs poet Teasdale and last name! this doesn't have any resonance. 43 Athlete of 1984 33 Where to find nipples MR: Let's get personal for a minute: How MR: You have a large gay fan base—why 45 Sauce for two sailors? 34 Winfrey of The Color Purple did you handle all the gossip surrounding do you think that is? Where did it come 47 Vidal's Breckinridge 35 Prefix with sexual your weight when you were hosting The from? 48 The L Word network 36 TV portrayer of Robin's partner Biggest Loser? What does that kind of CR: I think because—there's naturally this 49 Charlotte of Facts of Life 37 Like sexy undies negativity do to your self-esteem, espe- affinity. I have this hyper sense when 51 "More! More!" on Broadway 41 Common name in the land of Wan Yan Hai 56 What the athletes in this puzzle competed in, for 43 Noise of an ass cially when you can't escape it? somebody's not being nice to someone the U.S. 44 ___ set (package) CR: It's not of interest to me; I don't find else. I like to root for the underdog. I get 59 Dinah of a golf classic 46 Art historian Raven it interesting. It's mean-spirited. I don't the LGBT community, and I think it gets 62 One way to San Francisco 50 An old flame? even acknowledge it. me. 63 Satisfy fully 52 Playbill lists MR: In your latest role you play Noleta, a MR: Now that filming the first season of 64 The Wizard of Oz scorer Harold 53 Montgomery Clift's hometown trashy sort of lady who lives in a trailer, on Sordid Lives is wrapped up, what's next? 65 Sailor's patron 54 Raise the price of, at Barneys LOGO's Sordid Lives: The Series. What Will you return for a second season? 66 "___ she blows!" 55 Gay former NFL player Tuaolo drew you to this project? CR: Absolutely! Have you seen the guy I 67 Alfred Kinsey's tool 56 Cartoon Network's Moral ___ CR: The character herself was part of the had sex with? You would return as my 68 Word before admiral, in the navy 57 In need of some rays at Laguna Beach reason. Besides that, the script was well understudy! 69 Student org. for "family" and friends 58 La Douce role of Shirley written and the [original] movie was hilar- * Who is Mikey Rox? Who gives a f$#@%! 59 Carrier to Copenhagen ious. Noleta is a fully developed, three- But you can find him at www.mikeyrox.com. 60 National gay org. dimensional character. I embraced her. 61 Plug attachment Solution of Puzzle on Page 22 22 • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Voices from NY Lambda Legal urges Newfield Central School District to retract its Stance on New York Human Rights Law Newfield, NY— In an effort to persuade public school district to argue that the that went into effect after the court's deci- harassment and that she was given little to the Newfield Central School District Human Rights Law does not protect the sion defined "education corporation" to no help from the school district. The State (NCSD) to abandon its stance that the New students in its care." include public schools. Supreme Court judge ruled that the York Human Rights Law (NYHRL) does Two parents filed a sex discrimination Though the case at hand does not involve NYHRL applied to schools, but the district not apply to public schools, Lambda Legal complaint against NCSD alleging that their antigay discrimination or harassment of appealed the finding. After receiving today sent school board members a letter sons were unfairly disciplined while other gay students, the school's legal strategy Lambda Legal's letter, the local school outlining the legal flaws in their position students who were also misbehaving were would, if effective, wipe out a vital protec- board held a hearing, and on October 23, and warning of future consequences for not. In addition to disputing the facts, the tion for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgen- 2007, the board unanimously voted to students who may face antigay discrimina- school rejected the applicability of the der students, which led to Lambda Legal's rescind the challenge. Ithaca City School tion. NYHRL, arguing it only applies to "educa- interest in the matter. District Board of Education member Seth "No other federal or New York law bars tion corporations and associations," which, In October 2007, Lambda Legal submit- Peacock said, "I want to thank Lambda sexual orientation discrimination in public in its view, does not include public schools. ted a similar letter to the Ithaca City School Legal for their involvement in this case. schools as specifically and effectively as A state judge ruled in favor of the NCSD, District asking it to revise its stance that the Their letter, I think, allowed many of us to the Human Rights Law does," said Hayley citing a 1974 appellate decision. However, NYHRL did not apply to public sc11hools. look at this issue differently." Gorenberg, Deputy Legal Director of Lambda Legal's letter points out that the The case involved a student who alleged Lambda Legal. "It's unconscionable for a court's analysis is outdated because a law that she was the victim of relentless racial 1913 from Page 2 with Rhode Island and New Mexico for Pride Agenda’s comments on In addition, a “June analysis by the honoring same-sex marriages performed Williams Institute at the U.C.L.A. School in Massachusetts. Repeal of the 1913 Massachusetts of Law, estimated that Massachusetts Is it possible that even those who oppose Residency Requirement Law could add $111 million to the economy same-sex marriage will be avid supporters, over three years by taking the step it did not because of altruistic reasons, but rather New York, NY—“We are thrilled marriage license, we believe that this week to allow out-of-state couples to because of individual economic vitality in that Massachusetts has lifted its res- LGBT New Yorkers should not marry there. The report also suggested that a time when we are living in a fiscally idency requirements on marriage. have to leave their home state to the move could result in 330 new jobs and futile nation? Now New Yorkers can drive across get married. We look forward to increase state and local revenues by $5.1 the border to a neighboring state, a day in the near future when *Nicole C. Lashomb is the Editor-in-Chief million.” of The Rainbow Times. A seasoned writer get a marriage license that will be New York State stops discrimi- According to the Gay and Lesbian recognized as fully legal and valid nating against our families and and former vocalist, Lashomb can be Advocates and Defenders, GLAAD, Gov. reached via email at: editor@therainbow- here at home, and have access to the issues marriage licenses to same- Patterson’s decision places NY on par vast majority of the 1,324 rights sex couples. The State Assembly, timesnews.com.(no hyphens). and responsibilities that come with Governor Paterson and a majori- it. ty of New Yorkers also look forward to this NY: Novice rides 350 miles to raise AIDS funds While we realize that some families will day. Now it’s time for the State Senate to Republican that the ride up Route 22 has go to Massachusetts because they desper- act.” taken him five days. ately need the protections that come with a Monks' ride has been in honor of his brother, Jimmy, who died of AIDS in 1991. Monks says his ride has raised more than $6,500 for the Center for AIDS Research and Treatment in Manhassset, Long Island. The 44-year-old Monks chose to ride to Lake Placid because his family has a sum- mer place at Sekon on Upper Saranac Lake. Q Puzzle Solution from P. 21

LAKE PLACID, N.Y. (AP)—A novice rider has bicycled 350 miles from Jones Beach on Long Island to upstate Lake Placid to honor his late brother and raise money for AIDS research. Tom Monks wheeled into Lake Placid at noon Wednesday. The self-described “average guy” from Long Island told the Plattsburgh Press- www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Aug. 7 - Sept. 3, 2008 • 23 Queer Sports & QClassifieds The Outfield: Who would Jesus root for? By: Dan Woog* thumping Christian or agitated lesbian Importantly, Carroll added, "We agreed Each year at the would disrupt the proceedings—were not not to try to change anyone's minds. We NCAA women's bas- realized. Instead, each woman spoke about know there are differences we'll never ketball Final Four, the her hopes and fears. Together, they indeed agree on. That's not a negative; it's just an scene was the same. found common ground. acknowledgment of what not to focus on. Pat Griffin sat at the "We all love women's sports, and agreed This was more about finding common Women's Sports it's been good for us," Griffin said. "We all ground, to help all our student-athletes." Foundation's "It Takes recognized the need for respect and safety A highlight for Carroll came when a a Team" booth, hand- in sports. I realized I don't need everyone to coach in the audience said, "If Jesus ing out literature about LGBT issues in ath- accept me as a lesbian. But I do need to walked through that door, He would be letics. Each year, Griffin—a former coach, participate in sports safely. We all agreed proud of everyone one of us today." professor emerita at the University of that's important." Griffin concluded the panel by saying, "I Massachusetts, and director of "It Takes a "I felt well respected by Pat, though my can play on any team with any woman Team" - would sneak over to the Athletes in choices in life are different than hers," said PAT GRIFFIN here, or coach any of you." Wolff said later, Action (AIA) and Fellowship of Christian Haliday. "She did not in any way shame the desire to give all athletes a fair chance, "That's so true. We're all on the same Athletes (FCA) booths, surreptitiously me, or cause me to feel unaccepted. I was and the responsibilities of being a parent. team." seeking out antigay materials. very grateful for that, and I deeply desire to "As leaders, we all have a responsibility When the panel was over, Griffin walked Last year, she decided to introduce her- do the same. I don't see Jesus isolating of showing others that we can transcend up to the AIA and FCA booths. The women self. Soon Griffin and representatives from Himself in His days on earth, and I want to our differences," Carroll said. For example, greeted her warmly, and introduced her to the two Christian organizations pulled up be like Him in every way." believing that homosexuality is wrong, a other Christians. "I felt welcomed, but I chairs, and engaged in a spirited—but Each panelist saw the others as unique Christian coach had refrained from telling a didn't feel compromised in my beliefs," the respectful—conversation. individuals. An especially poignant lesbian athlete to go to the campus LGBT LGBT activist said. "It just felt right." "We ended up liking each other," Griffin moment came when AIA staff member and center. At the panel, the coach said she now *Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soc- recalled. "That surprised me, because I was former Division I basketball coach Tracey realizes it is her duty to go see how the cen- cer coach, gay activist, and author of the 'Christian-phobic.'" The women shared sto- Wolff described her conflict about a gay ter's resources can help athletes. "Jocks" series of books on gay male ath- ries of feeling disrespected - Griffin as a relative's wedding. Many Christians urged For her part, Carroll said, "Now I don't letes. Visit his website at lesbian, the others as Christians - and real- her not to attend, but she went. After the feel so reticent talking to Christian coaches www.danwoog.com. He can be reached ized that, despite their differences, they panel, a few lesbians told Wolff how hurt who may feel my lifestyle is not sanctioned care of this publication or at believed in their own truths, and respected they felt when loved ones did not attend by God. I can approach those coaches [email protected].* the others for believing in theirs. their own ceremonies. "Going to the wed- much more easily now." Inspired by that meeting, Griffin and ding was a very difficult decision, but hear- FCA's Debbie Haliday—athletic director ing from those ladies reinforced that it was and coach at Hillcrest Christian School, the right decision for me," Wolff said. and a former Division I basketball and soft- "Both groups have been standoffish to ball player—helped organize a panel at this each other," noted Helen Carroll, director year's Women's Basketball Association of the National Center for Lesbian Rights' Conference in Tampa. Titled "Seeking "Homophobia in Sport" project, and a for- Common Ground," it featured three les- mer athletic director and basketball coach. bians and three Christians. Their frank dis- "We didn't know how to approach each cussion - including a provocative question- other. Pat walked across that bridge, and and-answer session with 40 audience mem- made it happen." bers, evenly divided between lesbians and As the panelists spoke, barriers fell. 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