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The secular new year is bringing her efforts has been the continuation four years ago, coming out of retirement each month, not only contributing much some changes to the Jewish Federation of vibrant programming for everyone from a long career as a development of the material that appears in each issue of Reading’s staff. from young children to senior citizens. professional for organizations such as but assisting with proofreading as well. Two key figures in helping the Thanks in large part to Jayne, the JCC the Lehigh Valley Health Network and The role of Program Director will Federation and Jewish Cultural remains a central part of Jewish life in the Atlantic Health System in northern be filled by a familiar face: Amanda Center transition to its current era — Berks County without having to maintain New Jersey. Hornberger, coordinator of the Holocaust Program Director Jayne Kleinman and a large building. He came on board in the midst of Library and Resource Center at Albright Development Director Paul Landry — “Thank you to the Reading Jewish an economic downturn and managed College. She will continue in her role at are moving on to spend more time with Community for your support over the to boost the Federation’s fundraising Albright while taking on additional duties family. last nine years,” she said. “I have many efforts during a challenging period of at the JCC. Jayne has been working for the fond memories of Jewish programming transition for our community. Particularly A search is underway for a new Federation and JCC for the past nine for youth and adults. Wishing all a happy notable were his efforts to encourage director of development. years, joining the organization after and healthy 2015!” members of the community to engage The community can be assured concluding a teaching career in the Jayne said she is eager to have in planned giving — leaving money to that as always, the valuable work that Reading School District. She played more time to spend with her three the Federation through careful estate the JCC and Federation do for the an important role in determining how grandchildren, including new twin planning. community will continue even as some to reinvent the JCC after its move from grandsons. Paul and Jayne also played valuable of the names and faces behind the Reading to Wyomissing. The result of Paul joined the Federation staff about roles in the production of the Shalom scenes change. A fond farewell By Paul L. Landry with the transition, I will no longer and that doesn’t always happen to JDC, JAFI, etc.) and to the wider Shalom! be writing columns for the Shalom. a fundraiser! world through disaster relief efforts. This is my last I extend my thanks to everyone As I have come to know you Those are all laudable efforts that column. I have associated with the Federation and the Federation I have come deserve our continuing support. decided to retire at for the kindness and friendship to realize just how worthwhile my I will always treasure my time at the end of 2014 in they have shown me. Of course I efforts were. The Federation is well the Jewish Federation of Reading order to spend more thank my colleagues in the office, run and provides important, much — the people I have met and the time with my family, but I also wish to thank the many needed services to our local Jewish many things I have learned. So especially with my wife and three volunteers and donors with whom community, the worldwide Jewish I guess there’s nothing left to say grandchildren. Though I may be I have worked. You have made me community (through its national but — Shabbat Shalom! around for a time in January to help feel welcome and appreciated — and international partners — JFNA, White House illuminated by Yemin Orde menorah Obituary two years as a paratrooper in the Israel Dr. Leonard Rosenzweig, Defense Forces. Today, he serves as Wyomissing. Leonard and his wife an Israel representative to a synagogue Sheila moved to the Highlands in 2009 in suburban Washington, D.C. He plans from New York. Before his retirement to return to Israel after one year and he was a pediatrician on Long Island. attend university. He is survived by his two sons: Seth “If you have a value laden life, then and his wife Barbara of Wyomissing you can live a good life. I am very grateful and Andrew of Scottsdale, Ariz. There to Yemin Orde for teaching me this,” are also four grandchildren. Ataklit said.

“Our parents are soul mates. How could we Friends of Yemin Orde is proud to Federation of Reading’s Israel Now announce that a graduate of Yemin Orde campaign. Youth Village, in Israel, was honored with “This is a great honor and privilege move them apart?” lighting a special menorah at the annual for Yemin Orde Youth Village and our White House Hanukkah celebration organization,” said Charles Gwirtsman, Dec. 1. Chair, Friends of Yemin Orde. “Hanukkah Ataklit Tesfaye, 23, an Ethiopian- is a reminder of our freedoms as Jews. To Israeli who immigrated to Israel in 2008, have Yemin Orde, whose vulnerable children recited the Hanukkah prayers alongside journeyed to freedom in Israel, represented President Barack Obama and First Lady at such an important symbol of American Michelle Obama. He is pictured above freedom, the White House, connects our two next to Mrs. Obama. worlds and enriches us all.” The menorah was handcrafted by Ataklit immigrated to Israel as a children at Yemin Orde and delivered to teenager from Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, the White House for this occasion. The when he was 16, with his older brother. special menorah, made of olive wood, They lived at an absorption center for new Rob and Sue always marveled at how close their iron and clay, symbolizes the safety immigrants in Beersheva when Yemin parents were throughout their marriage. So of a home and community provided to Orde Youth Village welcomed Ataklit to when their father’s early-stage memory loss Yemin Orde’s at-risk youth, as well as its community shortly thereafter. He was threatened to separate him from their mother, the cultural diversity of the children who bewildered by his new surroundings, had they feared what it would do to each of them. live there. no knowledge of Hebrew and did not They visited us, and we discussed our shared In his remarks before the menorah have friends or close relatives in Israel. living options, allowing spouses with different care needs to stay lighting, President Obama drew parallels Yemin Orde’s unique educational together. Now, their parents are still together, and Rob and Sue are still between the powerful miracle of the methodology, called the Village Hanukkah story, and the power that Way, helped Ataklit adjust to his new admiring their strong union. faith and courage can provide to make environment. He developed confidence From independent living to specialized memory care, we have a range of in himself, made friends and believed miracles happen today. advice and solutions to help your family—all on a vibrant campus with “Yemin Orde is just one village. But in a hopeful future as a productive activities, social events and individualized services. the story of Hanukkah teaches us that citizen of Israel. Ataklit excelled in there’s no such thing as a futile act of school and participated in robotics Call us to find out how we can help, courage, or a small act of faith. One classes. He went on to represent or learn more at CountryMeadows.com. doctor can save a life. One school can Yemin Orde’s robotics team at the help a child. That life, that child may Israel-wide robotics competition. He Serving Seniors change a village. One person can be also participated in the highly-selective in Berks County for the spark that changes the world,” said Genesis summer program at Brandeis over 25 years President Obama. University. He completed his high An invitation to be represented at the school studies with top grades and 1800 Tulpehocken Road, Wyomissing (close to Rte 422 & US 222) • 610-374-3122 White House presented an exceptional advanced studies in robotics and opportunity for Yemin Orde, which is English. A few years later, he graduated Independent Living | Personal Care | Memory Care | Restorative Care supported by funds from the Jewish high school with top grades and served Country Meadows offers services and housing without regard to race, color, religion, disability, marital status, ancestry, national origin, sexual orientation or gender.

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PMS 118 PMS 119 PMS 3435 October 2012 SHALOM Page 3 Looking forward to a great New Year January 2015 SHALOM Page 3 DON’T MISS OUT By Alvin Katz in need. Providing food, assistance with visit, among other sites, Yemin Orde, and Be sure to pick up the October From the President’s Desk Chairman expenses and many other aspects of getting Meir Panim, which we support through I want to take this those less fortunate back on their feet. your contributions. Yemin Orde is a youth Berks County Living time to wish all of you a Our ܁nance committee has been working village in the Carmel mountains near Haifa magazine featuring a special Jewish engagement crucial veryto Happy making and Sweet a betterovertime ensuring world that our funds are well which caters to youth in need, providing supplement produced by the New Year. cared and accounted for. I also want to them with shelter, emotional support and Jewish Federation of Reading. By William D. 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PS – Alma marched with would build the U.S. Holocaust Memorial into Jordan when the borders with Israel Activist delivers stirring defenseTorah of (Jewish Israel learning), tikkun at olam U.N. others in our community on the National Museum in Washington, America’s were reopened. “To think, she would (repairing the word) and tzedakah (social Mall in Washington during one of the national institution for the documentation, reminisce; “that we along with other Human rights scholar and activist administration’s response to Israel’s justice).“The And United her life Nations was an embodiment itself is the largestrecords marches of specific in American states, history. condemn That study and interpretation of Holocaust Federation mission-goers, met with King Anne Bayefsky spoke Sept. 8 at the announcement that it will continue to build ofleading those globalprinciples. purveyor of anti-Semitism. rallyone would state: become Israel. That’s a turning anti-Semitism. point in this history. She reଂected on the mixture of Hussein. Ed and I were so fortunate.” U.N. headquarters in New York. She is new homes for its expanding population OneShe does believed not honor in thethe memorybold collective of Jews movement.Fifty percent. Fifty percent of the special raindrops and tears that fell the night of Her family was her heart. She director of the Touro College Institute on in disputed territory”, calling it hysterical, ofmurdered Federation by intoleranceand knew that six togetherdecades sessionsShe spoke of the about general the assembly unity of overthe its dedication as she, Ed and others from considered a better world, her Human Rights and the Holocaust. 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No emergencySolomon rescue special mission session that has hats and toured the vast and important I think those of us who knew Alma were human rights law, equality rights, and determining ultimate legal ownership of strengthenin the here and the now.” Jewish people and tookbeen placecalled inon Mayany other1991. state The in state over 30of structure. the truly the fortunate ones. constitutional human rights law. the land in final status negotiations, what literally,Bayefsky change went the on world. to list official actions Israel,years. togetherThat’s anti-Semitism. with Jewish TheFederation human At home in Berks County, the JCC’s Alma Lakin passed away Aug. 27 at She has published extensively in is going on?” sponsoredThe ongoing by U.N. turbulence bodies in whichthe Middle anti- ofrights North council America’s has a major fixed partnersagenda onwith theone Lakin Early Education Center preschool the age of 82. the field of human rights, including a Excerpts for her Sept. 8 U.N. Semitism was promulgated. item to condemn to Israel at every session, collaborative report with the Office of speech are below. Her full speech “Inciting to hate, like declaring Israel and one item to consider the other 192 the UN High Commissioner for Human can be seen at www.youtube.com/ to be racist, as does the U.N. Durbin U.N. member states if required. That’s Rights in 2001, and created bayefsky. watch?v=pDTHGwpsyJ8 ­ Federationdeclaration, the flagship of the U.N.mission racist anti-Semitism. to 70 percent Israel of all the 2013 begins Oct. 21 com, a gateway to the U.N. Human — Bill Franklin anti-racism program of action. General Assembly resolutions criticizing Rights Treaties aiming to enhance “the “I will get right to the point. The U.N. A“In joint theory mission the U.N. chartercomposed demands of chairedspecific by countries Michael forand human Susan rights Fromm abuses and Berks County will be joining the group purpose and heightened appreciation implementation of the human rights legal is not having a conference on the threat communityequality both members of individual from the menReading and Victorwere aboutand Dena Israel. Hammel. That’s anti-Semitsm… In addition to on the mission. and connection to Jewish identity. standards of the United Nations” on the that global anti-Semitism poses to areawomen, and andthe Lehighof nations Valley large will and leave small. for Mitgang,“Today, Jayne U.N. Kleinman, anti-Semitism Cultural has Center taken The Reading Jewish community has Mission participants will visit Reading’s basis that “accessibility to UN human international peace and security … Why IsraelIn reality, Oct. 21. the U.N. mass-produces programone more director treacherous and Mark turn. Goldstein, The U.N. bene܁ted from teaming with the seasoned Israel Now projects — two important rights norms by individuals everywhere couldn’t the U.N., founded on the ashes inequalityFor the for Reading Jews and community, the Jewish it nation.is the Executivehas launched Director a oflegal Jewish pogrom Federation against of mission-goers from the Allentown area humanitarian efforts that both save is fundamental to their successful of the Jewish people, and presently ܁rst “Thirty-five mission thepercent Federation of all resolutions has ledin thethe LehighJewish Valley State. will Hired staff guns; the mission. posing as and Lehigh Valley Federation’s “well- and change lives — Yemin Orde Youth realization.” witnessing a widespread resurgence in moreand decisions than 15 years. ever adopted A goal of by Federation the U.N.’s independentRabbi Brian arbiters… Michelson are appointed from oiled” mission process. Village in the Carmel Mountains and Meir Bayefsky speaks out in defense of anti-Semitism, sponsor a conference on Presidenttop human Tammy rights Mitgangbody, the and Human Federation Rights Congregationto discover what Oheb they’ve Sholom already and Rabbifound: “Mark Goldstein and his staff have Panim’s new nutrition center in Kiryat Israel. She was critical of “the Obama combatting global anti-Semitism? leadership,Council, that the are Reading critical mission of the rights’is co- Yosefguilty.” Lipsker, Chabad-Lubavitch of created over the years a network of Gat, where the community will dedicate resources and processes that have the kitchen that was made possible bene܁ted our community — newbies, thanks to the Reading community’s if you will, when it comes to mission funding efforts. SHALOM planning. And, we are neighbors. The The dedication will be a big thank you BERKS CARDIOLOGISTS, LTD. A newspaper serving the Jewish community of Reading, Pennsylvania, mission project is just the start of future to our community and a proud moment. A newspaper serving the Jewish community of Reading, Pennsylvania, and published monthly, September through June, under the Jewish joint efforts,” Mitgang said. With two out of every ܁ve children in and Diagnostics Imaging Center and published monthly, September through June, under the Jewish Federation of Reading. Funded by the Reading United Jewish Campaign. There are many details that need Israel living below the poverty line, Federation of Reading. Funded by the Reading United Jewish Campaign. to be addressed when moving a group Meir Panim’s network of soup kitchens, General Offices: 1100 Berkshire Blvd., Suite 125 of more than 50 people across Israel. restaurants and feeding centers, ensure 2605 KEISER BLVD. General Offices: 1100 Berkshire Blvd., Suite 125 Wyomissing, PA 19610 Jewish Federation of North America’s warm, nutritious meals for thousands of Wyomissing, PA 19610 WYOMISSING, PA 19610 Phone: 610-921-0624 FAX: 610-929-0886 Missions Department and its staff in children and families every day. Phone: 610-921-0624 FAX: 610-929-0886 Web site: www.ReadingJewishCommunity.org Israel along with Kenes Tours will further At Yemin Orde, the group is anxious to Web site: www.ReadingJewishCommunity.org ensure that each and every day of the see ܁rsthand the progress that has been FOR AN APPOINTMENT, CALL Jewish Federation of Reading mission is maximized. made at the village since the wild܁res Chairman:Jewish Federation of ReadingAlvin Katz (610) 685-8500 Federation missions are travel devastated it in 2010. President:Chairman: TammyLarry Rotenberg K. Mitgang experiences unlike any other. Along The group is honored that Chaim Peri, CommunicationsPresident: Director: MarkWilliam Nemirow, D. Franklin Editor Gary M. Lattin, MD Hani H. Salha, MD with visits to historic and sacred sites, beloved educator and director of Yemin Proofreaders:Communications Director: EstherMark Nemirow, Strauss & Editor Federation staff Charles R. Minehart, MD Rajendra H. Solanki, DO museums and popular tourist destinations, Orde for 30 years, will personally be hosting Member:Proofreaders: AmericanFederation Jewish staff Press Association Meir Mazuz, MD Ronald J. Polinsky, Jr., MD Federation missions provide exclusive, the group during a tour and lunch. TheMember: opinions expressed in Shalom are Americanof the writers Jewish and not thePress Jewish Association Federation of Reading Guy N. Piegari, Jr., MD Michael B. Russo, MD insider access to residents, community Young people from the village will join Frank Politzer, MD Christopher B. Rogers, DO leaders, area experts, and political the group for the tour and share their The opinions expressedDeadline in Shalom for theare of November the writers and notissue the Jewish is Oct. Federation 5 of Reading Louis Borgatta, MD Troy W. Trayer, DO personalities and provide a sense of experiences. Mayank R. Modi, MD Nicholas A. Rossi, DO Andrew R. Waxler, MD Next deadline, Jan. 5 Page 4 SHALOM January 2015 Alvernia grants honorary degree to Sandy Solmon Sandy Solmon, chief executive commitment to her community,” said Dr. continued. officer and president of Sweet Street Thomas Flynn, Alvernia president, who “Our honoree has been recognized Desserts, received an honorary Doctor praised Solmon for her work turning a tiny both locally and statewide for her of Humane Letters degree from Alvernia cookie business into the world’s largest dedication to diversity in the workplace University at the college’s winter manufacturer of frozen gourmet desserts and to the well-being of her community. commencement. and the leading innovator in the dessert From the Reading Symphony to the Solmon, a past campaign co-chair industry, baking for restaurants and cafes Girl Scouts to Berks Women In Crisis, for the Jewish Federation of Reading, in more than 60 countries and employing organizations in Reading have benefited was honored for her personal and 700 people worldwide. from her contributions. professional accomplishments. “She comes from a family that works “But most important to our honoree “We are pleased to honor an hard and likes to do good for others, a are her commitments to ensuring that individual who has achieved professional winning combination that today influences her company is an exemplary corporate success on an international scale and her approach to life and business and, we citizen and that she leads a balanced, is well known in Berks County for her might note, that makes her an appealing well-rounded life grounded in fun-loving entrepreneurial spirit and heartfelt role model for today’s graduates,” Flynn family and close friends.”

Scholar, writer and journalist Dr. Ted Merwin speaks at the JCC.

A strong turnout for Dr. Ted Merwin’s talk on the history of the Jewish deli.

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A member of Reading Health System January 2015 SHALOM Page 5 Congregational News Jewish atmosphere at home critical to children’s identity

By Rabbi Brian Michelson unloved and unwanted. Parents will say, not all the Hebrew schools, not all the Jewish holidays and no observance of Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom “We gave our lives for our children. How early childhood or teen programming the Sabbath, in any way shape or form, Children learn a can they ever doubt that we love them?” are going to take the place of adults who is not speaking the words of Judaism or great deal by watching Yet, children will doubt if they haven’t create a Jewish atmosphere in the home. fulfilling its actions. and listening to adults heard words of love spoken. In order for our children to be Jewish, We repeat over and over again that they know and trust. A similar situation exists in Judaism. they need to see Judaism being lived in part of what we do is to help ensure Children need to hear Parents assume that because they are their homes and to hear the words of future generations for the Jewish words of affection, members of a congregation and send Judaism spoken and acted upon. The community. The words of Judaism love, and devotion their children to Religious School, that words of Jewish living have to be spoken need to be spoken in our day. Its actions shared by the adults their children will automatically be Jewish. in the home from the time that a child need to be performed and its flavor in their lives for them They will not. Even those parents who is born. A home where nothing Jewish must be a part of our lives, our homes, to understand their hold high position in Jewish organizations is mentioned, where no Jewish books and our dealings with our children and meaning. They need these same words in the community are discovering that this are found, where no Jewish music is grandchildren. As we begin this secular spoken to them and then fulfilled by does not in any way make their children heard, where no Jewish art is seen is New Year, may we teach them by our actions. All too often, tragedies occur in Jewish, interested in Judaism, or affected a Jewish vacuum. A Jewish home that own right examples how to love and families where children feel that they are by things Jewish. Not all the meetings, has no excitement of observance of the how to be a Jew.

LOCAL CONGREGATIONS AND SERVICE TIMES Kugel Cooking Competition and Tasting! REFORM CONGREGATION OHEB SHOLOM (610) 375-6034 Friday, Jan. 2 at 6 p.m.; Fridays, Jan. 9, 16, 23 and 30 at 7:45 p.m. Sunday, Jan. 18 at Kesher Zion Synagogue Saturday, Jan. 24: Tot Shabbat, 10 a.m. CHABAD CENTER OF BERKS COUNTY (610) 921-0881 Kitchen will open at 9 a.m. for cooking Tasting will be at noon Saturday mornings: 9:30 a.m.; Friday evenings: 6:30 p.m. If you would like to participate, call 610-374-1763 with your recipe. KESHER ZION SYNAGOGUE (610) 374-1763 Weekly services Saturdays: 9:30 a.m.; Tuesdays, 7:30 p.m. Following the tasting Rabbi Rachel Schwartz will talk on “Nourishing Friday Evening Service – Please call for service information Ourselves Jewishly” Babysitting available upon request with one week’s notice

CONGREGATION SHOMREI HABRITH Kesher Zion Chevra Kadisha The Kesher Zion Chevra Kadisha lovingly cares for our family and friends after they pass. It is a very spiritual experience to share this Tuesday night Minyan at Kesher Zion kindness with members of our community.

If you would like to learn more about the chevra and are thinking of joining, please contact Rabbi Rachel at [email protected].

SAVE THE DATE For the 2015 RCOS Supper Club!

The 4th Annual Ruth & Irvin Balis Volunteer Appreciation Award goes to…

Participants in Kesher Zion Synagogue’s weekly Tuesday night Minyan gather to light the Chanukah menorah together. The synagogue holds weekday evening services each Tuesday at 7:30 p.m. Eve & Mike Lunch & Learn Pardo with Rabbi Rachel Schwartz Saturday, April 18th All classes at noon at Kesher Zion Synagogue The Life Cycle 6:00pm Cocktails Jan. 13 — Marriage Jan. 20 — Death Jan. 27 — Birth ceremonies 7:00pm Dinner All are welcome to join. Please rsvp at [email protected] INVITATION TO FOLLOW Page 6 SHALOM January 2015 Cooking with Chana a delicious culinary adventure

By Doris Persky Leisawitz the responsibility to carry out her Move over Ina Garten and Julia instructions was ours to fulfill. Fill them Child! “ Cooking with Chana” is alive and we did, stuffing either 12 regular-sized well in Berks County. On a recent cold knishes or 24 bite-sized ones. December evening at Chabad, Chana While our treats were in the oven Lipsker ably entertained, inspired and Chana, ever the hostess, served us demonstrated to 25 eager participants delicious hot knishes she had prepared how to create elegant and delicious along with beverages and sweets. Jan knishes. Simon won the evening’s door prize, Chana is known for her cooking and laughter and conversation filled and baking talents as well as her the room. organizational skills, but she outdid At the conclusion of our culinary herself Dec. 7th. So much was done adventure back out into the cold night before we arrived, and this preparation we went, warmed by our hot trays of made the evening’s presentation flow fresh knishes and the knowledge that smoothly. With the help of her able we were now Chana’s Knish Masters! assistant, Zalmon ( Chana’s son), The next class, featuring stuffed the dough and the tasty fillings of cabbage, will be held Jan. 11. It has mushrooms, onions and potatoes been said that eating is a necessity but were prepped in advance. Chana cooking is an art. Thanks for sharing then proceeded with a detailed step- some of your art with us, Chana. by-step demonstration after which Oheb Sholom celebrates 150th

Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom celebrated the 150th anniversary of its founding with a special Shabbat service Nov. 21. The event featured music and liturgy spanning the history of the congregation. Marking the occasion, from left, are Student Cantor Jordan Shaner, Rabbi Brian Michelson, congregation President Michelle Mart, Union for Reform Judaism Senior Vice President Rabbi Jonah Pesner, and Scott Davis, a former president of Oheb Sholom.

Photo courtesy of Bruce Cohen

CONNECT AND ENGAGE: COMMUNITY SHABBAT DINNER AND SERVICE

Let us connect with each other, our tradition, and God As we celebrate this special time.

February 6, 2015 Services are at 6:00 PM and Dinner is at 7:00 PM

Kesher Zion Synagogue 1245 Perkiomen Ave. Reading, PA 19602

Kosher Buffet Dinner: Vegetarian option by request Adults $20 per person* - Children and youth, 18 and under are free

Please RSVP to Brenda: [email protected] or call 610-921-0624

Sponsored by Chabad Lubavitch of Berks County, Jewish Federation of Reading, Kesher Zion Synagogue, and Reform Congregation Oheb Shalom

*Financial assistance available by calling Sari at 610-921-0624 January 2015 SHALOM Page 7 Jewish liberals real targets of attempts to boycott Israel By Adam Kirsch book’s first section, “Opposing Boycotts and politically flawed; but, like the vast into anti-Semites. Anti-Zionism, they tabletmag.org as a Matter of Principle,” by writers majority of the ASA membership, they insist, is a form of anti-Semitism, since At the end of last year, the American including Martha Nussbaum, Cary do not seem to care enough about the “when a people is denied its right to self- Studies Association earned more press Nelson, and Russell Berman. Drawing issue to get deeply involved in it. It is determination, that’s an attack upon that attention than it has in its entire history on one of her own areas of research, Jewish academics who feel the boycott people, as a people.” By this logic, the by voting to boycott Israeli academic Nussbaum points out that in 2002 the movement to be a personal threat that very same right that should guarantee institutions. The effect of the boycott government of the Indian state of Gujarat demands a vigorous response. the Palestinians a state in the West Bank has been devastating — not to Israel, organized what she calls a “pogrom” and That is because, as a number should also guarantee the Jews a state where apparently its sole effect has a “genocide” against Muslim citizens; of essays in the book argue, the in Israel. To fight for one and oppose the been to interfere with the dissertation yet no calls for a boycott of Gujarati or BDS agenda is at heart not just pro- other is ipso facto hostile to Jews. work of one Arab graduate student, but Indian universities were heard. “I am Palestinian but anti-Zionist and anti- Of course, this is not the most to the ASA itself. Immediately after the not sure there is anything to be said in Israeli, if not actively anti-Semitic. One dangerous kind of anti-Semitism in the vote, hundreds of college presidents and favor of a boycott of Israeli scholars and of the convictions shared by several world, and when Jews are being killed in faculty leaders blasted the organization, institutions that could not be said, and contributors is that many people sign the streets of Paris — and of Jerusalem with several schools withdrawing possibly with stronger justification, for on to the BDS movement without — it may seem idle to worry about what a their membership. This fall, the ASA similar actions toward the United States realizing that it is committed, not to a few activists are saying in Berkeley and embarrassed itself by threatening to bar and especially India,” she writes. peaceful two-state solution, but to the Ann Arbor. Unless, of course, Berkeley representatives of Israeli universities Meanwhile, Berman reminds us end of Israel as a Jewish state. The or Ann Arbor is where you live. For from its annual convention, only to that academic freedom is a hard-won official BDS movement website features liberal Jewish academics, especially reverse the decision under the threat of privilege, easily trampled by politics, the unimpeachable slogan “Freedom in the humanities, the demonization discrimination lawsuits. Its leadership which scholars have an obligation to Justice Equality,” but when you get to of Zionism presents a fundamental managed to make things even worse defend by “resisting the imposition of its actual demands, they turn out to be challenge to their identity, since it puts by banning Jewish media organizations any political criteria on scholarship, as follows: their commitment to justice and their from the conference, under a press whether the directives are from state 1. Ending [Israel’s] occupation and commitment to Judaism at odds. And it is policy one commentator derided as legislatures or from professional colonization of all Arab lands occupied notable that almost the entire spectrum being “as complicated, arbitrary and scholarly organizations.” And in his in June 1967 and dismantling the Wall of opinion represented in “The Case daunting as getting a press pass for contribution, Nelson shows that such 2. Recognizing the fundamental Against Academic Boycotts of Israel” the North Korean Politburo meeting, trampling is already taking place in BDS rights of the Arab-Palestinian citizens is liberal, dovish, pro-peace. Here except that the ASA professes to be a circles, as when Steven Salaita — who of Israel to full equality there are no Moshe Feiglins or Naftali progressive organization devoted to the himself made news this year, when his 3. Respecting, protecting and Bennetts; the very logic of their Zionism exchange and dissemination of ideas.” appointment to the University of Illinois promoting the rights of Palestinian commits these writers to also support a It would be hard, then, to account was revoked over his virulently anti- refugees to return to their homes Palestinian homeland. the ASA boycott as any kind of victory Israel comments on Twitter — calls and properties as stipulated in UN Ironically, it is Omar Barghouti and for the BDS movement. If anything, for a boycott not just of Israel, but of Resolution 194 Judith Butler, to name two figures the contrast between the ASA’s self- “individuals who consciously participate Most Americans (and most Israelis) frequently rebutted in these pages, righteous blundering and the actual in advocacy for the Israeli state.” would agree to the second item, and who have something in common with course of events in Israel and Palestine, “The new BDS McCarthyism,” Nelson many to the first; but the third, read Jewish settlers and annexationists. Both over the last horrible year, makes the writes, “is organized around an implicit correctly, means putting an end to Israel sides agree that the Israeli-Palestinian boycott seem not just pointless but question: ‘Are you now or have you ever as a Jewish state. This is a demand that problem is a fight to the death between obscenely trivial. But the appearance been a Zionist?’ ” virtually no Israeli Jews, even the most nationalisms, in which only one side of an important new book, “The Case The weaknesses of the boycott liberal, would accede to, as the BDS can prevail. Most American Jews, Against Academic Boycotts of Israel,” campaign are, in fact, so glaring that it has movement knows full well. To include however, cannot countenance the idea edited by Cary Nelson and Gabriel Noah had little success in imposing its agenda this core demand, then, means that that these are the only options. Since Brahm, makes the argument that the on universities. Notably, the Modern BDS is not about resolving the Israeli- Louis Brandeis, we have cherished the academic boycott movement is more Language Association, a much bigger and Palestinian conflict but prolonging it, conviction that Zionism is not at odds significant than its actual achievements more influential group than the American and taking sides in it. It follows that with liberalism, but an expression of suggest. For on every page of this thick Studies Association, declined to pursue an any boycott adopted on these terms liberalism: A movement for national anthology, full of essays by American anti-Israel resolution this summer. Samuel can never be withdrawn as long as the self-determination by one of the world’s and Israeli academics, you can sense and Carol Edelman offer some statistics Jewish state continues to exist. most oppressed peoples. The danger the distress that the BDS campaign in their contribution to the book: “In the For these reasons, many of the we are facing today is that, as the Israeli has succeeded in provoking in its real 2013-14 academic year, 15 divestment essays in “The Case Against Academic occupation stretches on without an end target — which is not Israel at all, but resolutions were introduced in universities Boycotts of Israel” turn out to be about in sight, the connection of liberalism Jewish liberals. in the U.S. Of these, only two passed.” subjects much broader than boycotts: with Zionism is coming apart. In such a “The Case Against Academic Where such resolutions are adopted, it is They are about the history of Israel, situation, liberal Zionists risk courting the Boycotts of Israel” is 550 pages long, usually by student governments with no Zionism, the Jews, and, inevitably, contempt of the left and of the right. But and it contains, in addition to essays, a power to affect university policy; of the anti-Semitism. In 2002, the president this is a position long familiar to liberals dossier of official documents on the ASA six campuses where BDS resolutions of Harvard, Larry Summers, famously of all kinds; and it requires exactly the and other boycott resolutions, as well as passed in 2012-13, “not one … boycotted, warned that boycotts of Israel were kind of moral firmness demonstrated in a short history of Israel. It is intelligent divested, or sanctioned Israel.” anti-Semitic in effect if not in intent. In many of these essays. and wide-ranging, from David Caplan’s If this is so, the question then becomes, their essay, Gabriel Noah Brahm and *** essay on the representation of Jews why are the contributors to “The Case Asaf Romirowsky reverse this formula, Copies of “The Case Against in current American literature to Shira Against Academic Boycotts of Israel” so arguing that it is precisely the intent of Academic Boycotts of Israel” are Wolosky’s memoir of what it is actually concerned about the issue? The answer BDS that is anti-Semitic, even if its effect available to borrow at the JCC like to teach Arab and Jewish students is suggested by the Edelmans’ title, on most adherents is not to turn them office. in an Israeli university. But its core “When Failure Succeeds”: Even when arguments can be summarized in a few BDS resolutions are inconsequential, paragraphs, since they are obvious and, they can succeed in changing the Pediatric and Adult Patients it seems to me, overwhelming. parameters of discussion about Israel First, the boycott of Israeli universities and Zionism. “What BDS did not fail at,” Treating Ear, Nose, Throat Problems is a violation of academic freedom, since the Edelmans write, “was weeks, months, it restricts the ability of scholars to and even years of constant attacks Thyroid Nodules, Neck Masses & Sinusitis teach and collaborate with colleagues, against Israel, portraying it as a pariah simply on the basis of national origin. nation, an occupier, a human rights Physicians: Second, it is counterproductive, since violator, a racist nation, and a denier of James P. Restrepo, M.D., F.A.C.S. it targets exactly the sector of Israeli Palestinian rights. That is significant.” Charles K. Lutz, M.D., F.A.C.S. society where pro-Palestinian and Whether such language will have Jeffrey S. Driben, M.D., F.A.C.S. pro-peace opinion is most flourishing, a permanent long-term effect on the and where Jews and Arabs are most American people’s sympathy for Israel Nurse Practitioner: likely to meet as peers. And third, it is may be doubted. Students are exposed Rosemarie Montgomery hypocritical, because it singles out Israel to a lot of political ideas in college MS, CRNP, FNP-C for opprobrium while saying nothing that they seem to have no trouble Audiologists: about countries whose violations of discarding after graduation. What is academic freedom and international certain is that, for Jews who make Kathleen D. Vivaldi, AuD, FAAA law are much worse. Indeed, if they their lives in intellectual and academic Melanie A. Appler, AuD, FAAA were truly brave, and consistent, the circles, the growing prevalence of Matthew R. Bonsall, AuD members of the ASA would boycott the anti-Israel discourse is making things United States — which is responsible very uncomfortable. Looking at the Hearing and Balance Disorders for far more violence against Arabs and table of contents of “The Case Against State of the Art Hearing Aid Fittings Muslims than Israel — by refusing to Academic Boycotts of Israel” proves In House Hearing Aid Repairs teach in any university that receives the point: Of the book’s 25 contributors, government funding. at least 21 seem to be Jewish. Surely These points are made with force there are many non-Jewish academics 985 Berkshire Blvd., Wyomissing and concision by the essays in the who would agree that BDS is logically 610-374-5599 • www.ent-hns.net Page 8 SHALOM January 2015 Youth News

Berks Chai BBYO brings home the gold

By Marissa Missan crafts, dancing, singing, joke telling, the gold trophy. Black and white in a new environment in just hours. Of BBYO’s Tournies weekend was a oratory, and so much more. Points photography, cornhole, storytelling, all the BBYO conventions, Tournies blast! The local chapter, Berks Chai, are accumulated for participation, singing, instrumental, banner offers what seems like endless won first place in the small division. sportsmanship, enthusiasm, decorating, joke telling, singles and sources of entertainment, for you Tournies consists of numerous and winning, of course. Eleven doubles ping pong, and volleyball cannot possibly do it all. Ask anyone competitions, including sports, representatives brought us home were all placed in by individual Berks in the pictures and I bet you will get Chai members, a mere 11 people. a response along the lines of “SO As an older member, I witnessed much fun! Can’t wait to see my new newer BBYOers adjusting and thriving friends again.”

Want to learn more about Jewish youth groups? For BBYO, contact Janine Ure via the Jewish Federation, 610-921-0624. For National Federation of Temple Youth, contact Scott Introduce your children to the joy Stein via Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom, 610-375-6034 of Shabbat. Tot Shabbat is a musical, story-filled Shabbat morning experience Back by geared towards families with young popular children through grade 2. Bring your Healthy Foods demand! family and friends to celebrate with Cooking Class Rabbi Brian Michelson and stay for a pint-size Oneg offering grape Learn what’s healthy juice, challah, and child friendly treats. and how to delicious make it !

Join Pam Charendoff, vegan cooking instructor and food enthusiast, for a fun & informative January 24, 2015 cooking demonstration. February 21, 2015 March 21, 2015 When: Sunday, January th 25 April 18, 2015 9:15 am – 12:00 (Snow date: February st 1 ) May 16, 2015

June 20, 2015 Where: Temple Oheb Sholom Kitchen 555 Warwick Drive, Wyomissing

Cost: $25/person Tot Shabbat services are held Saturday Includes tasting & recipes mornings at 10am at Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom located at 555 Warwick Drive, On The Menu . . . Wyomissing, PA 19610. No registration is Turkish Red Lentil & Bulgur Soup required. Please call the Temple office with any questions: 610-375-6034. Roasted Tofu with Brussels Sprouts and Leeks Chocolate Raspberry Brownies with Chocolate Ganache

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By Anne Seltzer past years when needed. And there are The bravest person elves at work also. Between when the I ever met passed family left for the funeral and when they away in December came home, someone had decorated — my neighbor Todd. their house for Christmas, beautifully, but Todd was diagnosed tactfully. Someone wanted to make sure with ocular melanoma the children had Christmas. seven years ago and Todd had the funeral Mass he so was given about 18 richly deserved. Although, I am not into months to live. You can Catholicism and its tenets, it was the see that he exceeded the expectations loveliest and most meaningful service by several years. He leaves behind a I’ve ever attended. Also the saddest. beautiful wife and four fantastic children. The Father broke down and cried. Two Todd was only 44. His children range priests came down from the altar to hug from 8 to 14. Sometimes life really sucks. the family. And the Mass was about Todd. Although he was ill and in remission The fact that Todd truly believed that he multiple times during the seven years, was going to a better place, and that he cancer was his disease, not how his life would be with God, gave me comfort. It was defined. It was commonplace for him made it seem peaceful. Although Todd’s to be having testing or treatments and to journey on this earth is now finished, not feel well, but if you asked him how he his family’s journey without him is just was,Page he  was “great” and would then ask starting. It is going to be a hard processShalom March 2010 “how are you and your family?” When and they will need many people to help Jonathan was ill he always asked how them through it. Because we have such he was. When my brother passed away, a great street andCommunity they have a strong News he was very sympathetic and had hugs parish, there will be many hands. Please for me. It was never about Todd. He join me in a prayer for them to be able to always changed the subject to whoever be strong and find joy amidst the pain. Obituaries he might be talking to and inquired what The kids love cookies, and I will make was going on in their lives. And he was these when it’s my turn to make dinner. Lucy Suzanne Knoblauch L. (Sulman) Moyer. He is also survived genuinely interested. Zeidman, 96, Wyomissing. by his daughters, Aileen D., widow When he was feeling well, he was Oreo Truffles Surviving are a son, Bruce F., of Neal H. Endy, of Pennside, and E. always out doing yard work with the kids 1 lb. Oreo cookies (three sleeves) husband of Geraldine L. Zeidman, of Roxanne, wife of Les Walker, of Batavia and tossing a football. Last Christmas, 1 lb. milk chocolate (or dark if preferred) Shillington; a brother, Harry Knoblauch, Ohio; sons, Stan B. , husband of Kristine after asking for years, the kids got a dog. 8 oz. cream cheese, room temp. husband of Edith Knoblauch, of Reading; K. Moyer, of Sinking Spring and Jay So this past year you might have seen ½ lb white chocolate, cocoa powder or nuts a sister, Ruth Balis of Wyomissing; and H., husband of Margaret R. Moyer, of him walking the dog. Even a few weeks ½ tsp. vanilla extract (or whatever kind Gardeningseveral nieces andwith nephews. Vicky Muhlenberg Township. Other survivors ago Todd was outside raking leaves and you wish) --- are grandchildren: Brett A. Endy, Chad tossing a football with his sons. Truly I Grind cookies to a fine powder in a RightIrene S. plant, Zeidman, 62, right Wyomissing. place M. Endy is andkey Elizabeth to success K. Moyer; and have never met nicer and better behaved food processor. Drop in cream cheese She is survived by her brother Bruce great-grandchildren, Carson N., Logan children than theirs. Strong family values Images from F., husband of Geraldine L. Zeidman C., Ardyn N. and Ava L. Endy and vanilla. Mix thoroughly. Roll into By Vicky Sokoloff marigold and petunia will bloom until frost and their strong faith were apparent. of Shillington. --- small balls and place on wax-lined A snowy afternoon is the perfect time as long as they are deadheaded regularly. They were a very close family. Being Yemin Orde --- Shirley Robinson of B’nai B’rith cookie sheet. Refrigerate at least 45 to settle in with a plant catalog to start What happens to a plant that is put into very devout Catholics, especially Todd, Area resident and recent college Robert Berger, 54, Reading. Apartments. Survived by her Friendship minutes. Melt chocolate and dip balls into planning for next year’s garden. Before the wrong conditions? It will struggle! That they turned to their faith during the graduate Jessica Flamholz sent us He was the former spouse of Lea Circle friends. chocolate. Place on parchment or wax you make any selections, think about the means little if any growth, poor color, lack of hard times, and their parish became an these pictures from her recent visit Berger, Reading. He is survived by --- paper and let cool and harden. Drizzle place you are going to put the new plant. flowers, and more susceptibility to disease extended family. This was evidenced by to Yemin Orde, an Israeli village two daughters, Molly R. Berger, State Louis Malamud, 95, formerly with melted white chocolate or roll in The key to success is putting the right and insect damage. So if you find that you the multiple food chains set up during the for children and youth supported College, and Bethany S. Berger, of Temple. He is survived by a son, cocoa powder or nuts. Enjoy! plant in the right place. have a plant in the wrong place — move it. by our Federation. Reading; and one brother, Dr. Barry M. Mitchel, husband of Laura Malamud, The first thing to consider is zone. The Yes, it’s more work. But the plant will reward Berger, husband of Kathleen A. Vieweg, of Las Vegas; grandchildren Barry USDA puts Berks in Zone 6. Because we you with significantly better performance. Boston, Mass. husband of Johna Malamud, Deborah live in a rural area at altitude where wind is One way to judge plant growth is with this --- Babbit-Malamud and Sheri Malamud; also a factor, I always look for plants that are old saying, “first year it sleeps, second year All Around the Town______David Moyer, 85, Reading. and great-grandchildren: Jessy Babbit, hardy to Zone 5. People in other parts of the it creeps, third year it leaps.” By Joan G. Friedman Badal, who has received the honor of He is survived by his wife, Marjorie Carly Malmud and Ian Malamud. area are successful with Crape Myrtle, which A great source of information on the Congratulations to Korey Blanck being chosen as the Child Advocate of is a Zone 7 plant. 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Rabbi Dov offers a lesson on different styles of Chanukkiyot. Page 12 SHALOM January 2015 The best speech an Israeli diplomat ever delivered George Deek, the deputy chief of broke apart, leading to 100,000 people And when he saw the tension between educated Arabs in the world, with the mission at Israel’s embassy in Norway dead and about 3 million displaced. Arabs and Jews, this Holocaust survivor best living standards and opportunities in is a Christian Arab Israeli from Jaffa. In From 1919 to 1949, during the Visla decided to teach hope through music the region. Arabs serve as judges in the a speech given in Oslo on Sept. 27, he operation between Poland and Ukraine, to hundreds of Arab children like me. Supreme Court. Some of the best doctors told the extraordinary story of his family 150,000 people died, and 1.5 million Holocaust survivors like Avraham are in Israel are Arabs, working in almost and gave some interesting insight into were displaced. Following World War II among the most extraordinary people every hospital in the country; There are Israel as it really is. and the Potsdam convention, between you can find. I was always curious 13 Arab members of parliament who When I walk in the streets of my 12 million and 17 million Germans were to understand how they were able to enjoy the right to criticize the government hometown, Jaffa, I am often reminded of displaced. When India and Pakistan were survive, knowing what they knew, seeing — a right that they exhaust to the fullest the year 1948. The alleys of the old city, established, about 15 million people were what they saw. But throughout the 15 — protected by the freedom of speech; the houses in Ajami neighborhood, the transferred. years I have known Avraham when I was Arabs win popular reality shows; fishing nets at the port — they all seem This trend also exists in the Middle his student, he never spoke about his And you can even find Arab diplomats to tell different stories about the year that East. For example the displacement past, except once — When I demanded — and one of them is standing in front has changed my city forever. of 1.1 million Kurds by the Ottomans to know. of you. Today, when I walk the streets One of those stories is about one of and the 2.2 million Christians who were What I came to realize was that of Jaffa, I see the old buildings and the the oldest families in this ancient city — expelled from Iraq. And as we speak Avraham was not the only one, and that old port, But I also see children going to the Deek family — my own. today, Yazidis, Bahai, Kurds, Christians many Holocaust survivors did not speak school and university; I see flourishing Before 1948 my grandfather George, and even Muslims are being killed and about those years, about the Holocaust, businesses; and I see a vibrant culture. after whom I’m named, worked as an expelled in a rate of 1,000 people per even to their families, sometimes for In short, despite the fact that we still have electrician at the Rotenberg Electricity month, following the rise of radical Islam. decades, or even a lifetime. Only when a long road ahead of us as a minority, we Company. He was not very interested in The chances of any of those groups to they had secured the future did they allow have a future in Israel. politics.And since Jaffa was a mixed city, return to their homes, is almost non- themselves to look back at the past. Only This brings me to my next point- Time he naturally had some Jewish friends. In existent. when they had built a time of hope they has come to put an end to the culture fact, his friends at the electricity company So why is it then? Why is it that the permitted themselves to remember the of hatred and incitement, because even taught him Yiddish, making him tragedies of the Serbs, the European days of despair. Anti-Semitism, I believe, is a threat to one the first Arabs to ever speak the Muslims, the Polish refugees or the Iraqi They built the future in their old-new Muslims and Christians as much as for language. Christians are not commemorated? How home, the state of Israel. And under Jews. I arrived to Norway just over two In 1947 he got engaged to Vera, my come the displacement of the Jews from the shadows of their greatest tragedy, years ago, and here was the first time grandmother, and together they had the Arab world was completely forgotten, Jews were able to build a country that that I interacted with Jews as a minority plans to build a family in the same city while the tragedy of the Palestinians, the leads the world in medicine, agriculture community. I’m usually… used to seeing where the Deek family has lived for about Nakba, is still alive in today’s politics? and technology — Why? Because they them as a majority. And I have to say, it 400 years — Jaffa. But a few months It seems to me to be so, because the looked forward. looks very familiar. later, those plans changed, literally Nakba has been transformed from Friends, this is a lesson to every I grew up in a similar environment, in overnight. a humanitarian disaster to a political nation that wishes to overcome a tragedy the Arab-Christian community in Jaffa. When the U.N. approved the offensive. The commemoration of the — including the Palestinians. If the I was part of the Orthodox Christians, establishment of Israel, and a few months Nakba is no longer about remembering Palestinians wish to redeem the past, who are part of the Christian community, the State of Israel was established, the what happened but about resenting the they need to first focus on securing a who are part of the Arab minority, in the Arab leaders warned the Arabs that the mere existence of the state of Israel. It future, on building a world as it should Jewish State of Israel, in the Muslim Jews were planning to kill them if they is demonstrated most clearly in the date be, as our children deserve it to be. And Middle East. It’s like those Russian stayed home, and they used the Deir chosen to commemorate it: The Nakba the first step in that direction, without a dolls, you open a big one and there’s Yassin massacre as an example.They day is not April 9 — the day of the Deir doubt, is to end the shameful treatment a smaller one inside? I’m the smallest told everyone: ‘Leave your houses, and Yassin massacre. Or July 13 — the day of the Palestinian refugees. piece. A Jew in Norway or an Arab in run away’.They said they will need just of the expulsion from Lod. The Nakba In the Arab world, the Palestinian Israel, being a minority means that you a few days, in which with five armies day was set on May 15 — the day after refugees — including their children, are always a part of a small community they promised to destroy the newly born Israel proclaimed its independence. By their grandchildren and even their great- where everyone cares for each other and Israel. My family, horrified by what might that the Palestinian leadership declared grandchildren — are still not settled, supports each other; It’s a beautiful thing happen, decided to flee, with most others. that the disaster of the Nakba is not the aggressively discriminated against, to know that no matter what, you always A priest was rushed to the Deek family’s expulsion, the abandoned villages or the and in most cases denied citizenship have a community that will care about house, and he wedded George and Vera, exile — the Nakba in their eyes is the and basic human rights. Why is it, that you. Being part of a minority community my grandparents, in the house, in haste. creation of Israel. They are saddened my relatives in Canada are Canadian has been a blessing throughout my life. My grandmother did not even have a less by the humanitarian catastrophe citizens, while my relatives in Syria, But friends, the life of a minority chance to get a proper dress. After their that befell on Palestinians and more by Lebanon or the Gulf countries — who is also a life of constant struggle for sudden wedding, the entire family started the revival of the Jewish state. were born there and know no other home fair treatment. Sometimes you are fleeing north, towards Lebanon. In other words: they do not mourn — are still considered refugees? discriminated, and might even be a victim But when the war was over, the the fact that my cousins are Jordanians, Clearly, the treatment of the of hate crimes. Even in a democracy Arabs failed to destroy Israel. My family they mourn the fact that I am an Israeli. Palestinians in the Arab countries is the like Israel, being an Arab minority is not was at the other side of the border, and By doing so, the Palestinians have greatest oppression they experience always easy. Just over a year ago, a it seemed that the fate of the brothers become slaves to the past, held captive anywhere. And the collaborators in this bunch of price tag bullies walked into and sisters of the Deek family was to by the chains of resentment, prisoners crime are no other than the international the Arab Christian cemetery in Jaffa, be scattered around the globe. Today, I in the world of frustration and hate .But community and the United Nations. and they desecrated the graves with have relatives in Jordan, Syria, Lebanon, friends,the evident yet simple truth is — Rather than doing its job and helping writings “death to the Arabs”, and one Dubai, the U.K., Canada, the U.S., that in order not to be reduced to sorrow the refugees build a life, the international on the graves in that cemetery, was my Australia, and more. and bitterness, we must look forward. community is feeding the narrative of father’s. Being a minority, my friends, is The story of my family is just one — To put it more clearly: To mend the the victimhood. While there is one U.N. a challenge anywhere, because being a and probably not the worst — among the past, first you have to secure the future. agency in charge of all refugees in the minority means being different. many tragic stories of the year 1948. And This is something I learned from my world — the UNHCR, another agency And no nation has ever paid a heavier to be frank, you don’t need to be an anti- music teacher, Avraham Nov. When I was established to deal only with the price for being a minority, being different, Israeli to acknowledge the humanitarian was 7 years old I joined the marching Palestinian ones — UNRWA. than the Jewish people. The history of disaster of the Palestinians in 1948, band of the Arab-Christian community This is no coincidence — while the the Jewish people added many words namely the Nakba. The fact that I have in Jaffa. That’s where I met Avraham, my goal of the UNHCR is to help refugees to the human vocabulary: words like to Skype with relatives in Canada who music teacher, who taught me to play the establish a new home, establish a future expulsion, forced conversion, inquisition, don’t speak Arabic, or a cousin in an flute and later the clarinet. I was good. and end their status as refugees, the goal ghetto, pogrom, not to mention the Arab country that still has no citizenship Avraham is a Holocaust survivor, and his of UNRWA is opposite: to preserve their word holocaust. Rabbi Lord Jonathan there, despite being a third generation entire family was murdered by the Nazis. status as refugees and prevent them Sacks explains accurately that the Jews — is a living testimony to the tragic He was the only one who managed to from being able to start new lives. The suffered throughout the ages, because consequences of the war. survive, because a certain Nazi officer international community cannot seriously they were different. Because they According to the U.N., 711,000 found him gifted in playing the harmonica, expect the refugee problem to be solved, were the most significant non-Christian Palestinians were displaced, we’ve so he took him home during the war to when it is collaborating with the Arab minority in Europe, heard that before — some fled and some entertain his guests. When the war was world in treating the refugees’ as political And today the most significant non- were forcefully expelled. At the same over and he was left alone, he could pawns, denying them the basic rights Muslim minority in the Middle East; But time, because of the establishment of have easily sat and wept and cried over they deserve. friends, in fact — aren’t we all different? Israel, 800,000 Jews were intimidated the greatest crime of man against man Wherever the Palestinian refugees The truth is: being different is what makes into leaving the Arab world, leaving it in history, and over the fact that he was were granted equal rights — they us human! Every person, every culture, mostly empty of Jews. As we’ve heard left alone. prospered and contributed to their society every religion is unique, and therefore before, atrocities from both sides were But he didn’t, he looked forward not — in South America, in the U.S., and irreplaceable. And a Europe, or a Middle not uncommon. backwards; he chose life, not death; even in Israel. In fact, Israel was one East, that has no room for Jews, has no But it seems that this conflict was not Hope, rather than despair; Avraham of the few countries that automatically room for humanity. the only one during the 19th and 20th came to Israel, got married, built a family, gave full citizenship and equality for all Friends, let’s not forget — anti- century that led to expulsion and transfer. and he started teaching the same thing Palestinians in it after ’48. Semitism may begin with Jews, but it From 1821 to 1922, 5 million Muslims that saved his life — music. He became And we see the results: despite all never ends with Jews. Jews were not were expelled from Europe, mostly the music teacher of hundreds and the challenges, the Arab citizens of Israel the only ones to be forcefully converted to Turkey. In the 1990’s Yugoslavia thousands of children all over the country. built a future. Israeli Arabs are the most under the Inquisition; Hitler made sure January 2015 SHALOM Page 13 that gypsies and homosexuals, among the passive position of victims, rejecting Ishmael, Jacob and Esau, and Joseph grandfather looked around him and saw others, suffered alongside the Jews; And reality and looking for someone to blame and his brothers. Each story ends nothing but a dead-end life as refugees. it is happening now again, this time in the for being behind all this. It is true today differently — In the case of Cain and He looked at his young wife, Vera ­— not Middle East. as much as it was true in 1948. Abel, Abel lies dead. In the case of Isaac even 18 yet — and his newborn son, and The Arab world seems to have The Arab world can overcome this and Ishmael, they are standing together knew that in a place stuck in the past forgotten that its greatest days in the mindset, but it requires the courage to at their father’s grave. In the case of with no ability to look forward, there is no last 1,400 years were when it showed think and act differently. This change Jacob and Esau, they meet, embrace future for his family. While his brothers tolerance and openness towards those demands that the Arabs realize that they and go their separate ways. and sisters saw their future in Lebanon who are different. are not helpless victims, It demands But the case of Joseph ends and other Arab and Western countries, The genius mathematician Ibn Musa that they open up to self-criticism, and differently. For those who are not familiar he thought otherwise. He wanted to go el-Khawazmi was Uzbeki, The great to holding themselves accountable. Up with the story: Joseph was the 11th of back to Jaffa, his hometown. Because he Philosopher Rumi was Persian, The to this day, not a single history book in Jacob‘s 12 sons and Rachel‘s firstborn, worked with Jews in the past and was a glorious leader Salah a-din was Kurdish, the Arab world questions the historic in the land of Canaan. At some stage, friend to them, he was not brainwashed The founder of Arab nationalism was mistake of rejecting the establishment because of their jealousy of him, his with hatred. Michel Aflaq — a Christian, And the one of the Jewish state. No prominent Arab brothers decide to sell him to slavery. My grandfather George did what few who brought the Islamic rediscovery of academic has come out saying that if However, after a while Joseph rose to others would have dared — he reached Plato and Aristotle to the rest of the world the Arabs would’ve accepted the idea become the second most powerful man out to those that his community saw was Maimonides — a Jew. of a Jewish state, there would’ve been in Egypt next to Pharaoh. When famine as their enemies. He got hold of one But rather than reviving the two states, there would’ve been no war, struck Canaan, Joseph’s father, Jacob, of his old friends from the electricity successful approach of tolerance, and there would’ve been no refugees’ and Joseph’s brothers came to Egypt. company and asked for his help to get Arab youth are being taught to hate problem. And there, instead of punishing them back. And that friend, of whom I’ve heard Jews, using anti-Semitic rhetoric from I see Israelis like Benny Morris, who for what they have done to him, Joseph through my father’s stories, and never medieval Europe, mixed with Islamic is with us today, who dare to challenge decides to forgive his brothers. knew his name, not only was able but radicalism. And once again, what the narratives of their leadership in This was the first recorded event willing to help my grandfather get back. started as hostility towards Jews has Israel, taking personal risks in the quest of forgiveness and reconciliation in In an extraordinary act of grace, he become hostility towards anyone who of a truth that is not always comfortable literature. Joseph provides his brothers even helped him get his old job back at is different. Just last week more than for their people. But I fail to find their with all their needs. They prosper, they what has become the Israeli electricity 60,000 Kurds fled from Syria towards Arab equivalents. I fail to see a debate grow in numbers, and they become a company, making him one the very few Turkey, afraid of being slaughtered. questioning the wisdom of the destructive great nation. At the end of the story, Arabs who work there. On the same day, 15 Palestinians leadership of the Mufti of Jerusalem Hajj Joseph says to his brothers “You Today, among my siblings and from Gaza drowned in the sea trying Amin al-Hussaini; or the unnecessary intended to harm me, but God intended cousins we have accountants, teachers, to escape the claws of Hamas; Bahai war launched by the Arab league in 1948, it for good, to accomplish what is now insurance agents, high-tech engineers, and Yazidis are at risk. or any of the wars against Israel, in the being done, the saving of many lives.” diplomats, factory managers, university And on top of it all, the ethnic years that followed until today; And I fail By that, he meant that by our acts in professors, doctors, lawyers, investment cleansing of Christians in the Middle East to see self-criticism in the Palestinian the present we can shape the future, consultants, managers of top Israeli is the biggest crime against humanity mainstream today about the use of and by that redeem the past. Jews and companies, architects and even in the 21st century. In just two decades terrorism, the launching of the second Palestinians, we might not be brothers electricians. The reason that my family Christians like me have been reduced intifada, or the rejection of at least two in faith, but we certainly are brothers in has succeeded in life, the reason that from 20 percent of the population of the Israeli offers in the last 15 years to end fate. And I believe that just like in the I’m standing here as an Israeli diplomat, Middle East to a mere 4 percent today. the conflict. story of Joseph, through making the right and not as a Palestinian refugee from And when we see that the main victims of Self-reflection is not a weakness; it choices, by choosing to focus on the Lebanon — is because my grandfather Islamist violence are Muslims, it is getting is a sign of strength. It brings forth our future, we can redeem our past. had the courage to take a decision that clear to everyone – At the end of the day, ability to overcome fear and face reality. Yesterday’s enemies can be was unthinkable to others. Rather than hate destroys the hater. It demands us to look sincerely into our tomorrow’s friends. It happened falling into despair, he found hope where So friends, If we wish to succeed decisions, and take responsibility for it. between Israel and Germany, Israel no one dared to look for it; He chose to in protecting our right to be different, if Only the Arabs themselves can change and Egypt, Israel and Jordan. It is live among those who were considered we want to have a future in that region, their reality. By stopping the leaning on time to start in making a ray of hope his enemies, and to make them his I believe we should stand together conspiracy theories and the blaming of in the relations between Israelis and friends; For that, I and my family owe him — Jews, Muslims and Christians: We outside powers — America, the Jews, the Palestinians, so that we can put an end and my grandmother eternal gratitude. will fight for the right of Christians West or whoever — for all the problems; to the replaying of old grievances, and The story of the Deek family should everywhere to live their faith without fear, By learning from past mistakes, And by focus on our future and the exciting serve as a source of inspiration to the with the same passion with which we will making wiser decisions in the future; possibilities it holds for us all, if we’d Palestinian people. fight for the right of Jews to live without Just two days ago President Obama only dare. I still didn’t tell you the rest We cannot change the past. But fear. We will fight against Islamophobia, stood at the U.N. podium in front of the of my family’s story in 1948. we can secure a future for our next but we need our Muslims partners to join General Assembly and said: “The task After a long journey towards Lebanon, generations, if we want to mend the past the fight against Christianophobia and of rejecting sectarianism and extremism most of it by foot, my grandparents someday; We can help the Palestinian Judeophobia. Because the thing at stake is a generational task — a task for the George and Vera reached Lebanon. refugees have a normal life; We can is our shared humanity. people of the Middle East themselves. They stayed there for many months. And be sincere about our past, and learn I know that this might sound naïve, No external power can bring about a while there, my grandmother gave birth from our mistakes; And we can unite But I believe that it’s possible, and the transformation of hearts and minds”. to her first son, my uncle Sami. When — Muslims, Jews and Christians —‚ to only thing that is standing between us Lately I’ve read a very interesting article the war was over, they realized that they protect our right to be different, and by and a more tolerant world is fear. When by Lord Sacks about rivalry among had been lied to. The Arabs did not win that preserve our humanity; Indeed we the world changes, people start worrying brothers in the bible. There are four the war, as promised. And at the same can’t change the past, But if we do all about what the future holds.This fear stories about rival brothers in the book time, the Jews did not kill all the Arabs that, we will change the future. makes people shrink themselves into of Genesis: Cain and Abel, Isaac and as they were told that would happen. My Thank you. PJ Library welcomes children to enjoy Chanukah Storytime

Chanukah Storytime was held Dec. 7 at Barnes and Noble at Broadcasting Square in conjunction with PJ Library, Jewish Federation of Reading, and Lakin Preschool. It was attended by 15 children and their families. PJ Library offers free books to Jewish families with young children. Please contact the JCC office at 610-921-0624 for information on how to sign up,

Eric Feigenheimer helps his son Noah curl up with a good book. Chanukah Storytime draws a crowd at Barnes & Noble. Page 14 SHALOM January 2015 Stories offer evidence of hope for peace in troubled time

By William D. Franklin Palestinian male with no prior record from Similarly, The Times of Israel (July Fraenkel said. A December article in the Jerusalem a West Bank village. He was shot in the 7, 20134) ran an article — “Bereaved “No mother or father should ever have Post caught my eye. Although it did not legs by a supermarket security guard. mother offers condolences to slain Arab to go through what we are going through, receive much, if any, attention in the Abu Khdeir was working in teen’s family.” and we share the pain of Mohammed’s American press, it reminded me of a similar the supermarket’s storeroom when “Rachelle Fraenkel, the mother of slain parents”. event this summer giving cause for hope. Wednesday’s attack took place. He teen Naftali Fraenkel, who along with two “Alongside the pain of this terrible From the Jerusalem Post (Dec. 17, helped stop the bleeding on an injured other Israeli teenagers was kidnapped act, we take pride in our country’s zeal to 2014) — “Cousin of murdered Palestinian man’s head and got him upstairs to an and killed by Hamas-linked terrorists on investigate, to arrest the criminals and to teen helped supermarket terror victims” office for further treatment. the night of June 12 south of Jerusalem, stop the horror, and we hope that calm “Mahmoud Abu Khdeir, whose cousin “That’s how I was taught to behave by offered her condolences Monday evening will return to the streets of our country.” Mohammed Abu Khdeir was killed this my family,” Abu Khdeir told Ynet. “When to the family of 16-year-old Muhammed “If a young Arab really was murdered for summer in the Jerusalem forest in an someone is wounded, you help them. It Abu Khdeir. His burned body was found nationalist reasons, this is a horrifying and apparent retaliation attack, helped victims doesn’t matter where they’re from. He in the Jerusalem forest on July 2nd after shocking act,” said the statement they at the Rami Levy market after a stabbing. added: “I was raised in a good family. I’m not he was apparently murdered by a group put out from their shivah tent. “There is He was among the first to help the at war. At work, when I see something like of Jewish extremists. “Even in the abyss of no difference between blood and blood. wounded in a stabbing attack at a West this, I have to help. It’s a matter of education: mourning for Gil-Ad, Eyal and Naftali, it is Murder is murder. There is no justification, Bank supermarket. I believe that tomorrow the wounded man difficult for me to describe how distressed no pardon and no atonement for murder.” He rushed to help the wounded inside will see someone else and go help him. I we are by the outrage committed in In a time of increased turmoil, there the Rami Levy discount supermarket in hope that one day the situation will change Jerusalem – the shedding of innocent is still hope that the good people on both the Mishor Adumim industrial zone near and we will no longer have incidents such blood in defiance of all morality, of the sides will prevail and create peace. Maale Adumim, east of Jerusalem. The as this. But force brings more force, and Torah, of the foundation of the lives of Both articles in their entirety appear assailant was identified as a 16-year-old peace brings peace.” our boys and of all of us in this country,” below. Cousin of murdered Palestinian teen helped supermarket terror victims Reprinted from the Jerusalem Post Mahmoud Abu Khdeir, whose cousin a West Bank village. He was shot in the legs doesn’t matter where they’re from. Mahmoud Abu Khdeir, whose cousin Mohammed Abu Khdeir was killed this by a supermarket security guard. He added: “I was raised in a good Mohammed Abu Khdeir was killed this summer in the Jerusalem forest in Abu Khdeir was working in family. I’m not at war. At work, when I summer in the Jerusalem forest in an apparent retaliation for the murder of three the supermarket’s storeroom when see something like this, I have to help. apparent retaliation attack, helped victims kidnapped Israeli teens, rushed to help the Wednesday’s attack took place. It’s a matter of education: I believe that at the Rami Levy after a stabbing. wounded inside the Rami Levy discount He helped stop the bleeding on an tomorrow the wounded man will see A cousin of the Palestinian teen who supermarket in the Mishor Adumim injured man’s head and got him upstairs someone else and go help him. I hope that was burned alive in an apparent retaliatory industrial zone near Maale Adumim, east to an office for further treatment. one day the situation will change and we attack was among the first to help the of Jerusalem. “That’s how I was taught to behave by will no longer have incidents such as this. wounded in a stabbing attack at a West The assailant was identified as a 16-year- my family,” Abu Khdeir told Ynet. “When But force brings more force, and peace Bank supermarket. old Palestinian male with no prior record from someone is wounded, you help them. It brings peace.” Bereaved mother offers condolences to slain Arab teen’s family Reprinted from the Times of Israel difficult for me to describe how distressed father should ever have to go through Murder is murder. There is no justification, Rachelle Fraenkel, the mother of slain we are by the outrage committed in what we are going through, and we share no pardon and no atonement for murder.” teen Naftali Fraenkel who along with two Jerusalem – the shedding of innocent the pain of Mohammed’s parents”. “How do we educate our children to other Israeli teenagers were kidnapped blood in defiance of all morality, of the “Alongside the pain of this terrible pray with all their hearts and souls, but in and killed by Hamas-linked terrorists on Torah, of the foundation of the lives of act, we take pride in our country’s zeal to parallel to also know that the response to the night of June 12 south of Jerusalem, our boys and of all of us in this country,” investigate, to arrest the criminals and to all those prayers might be ‘No’” she asked. offered her condolences Monday evening Fraenkel said. stop the horror, and we hope that calm “This is one of the most difficult challenges to the family of 16-year-old Muhammed “Only the murderers of our sons, along will return to the streets of our country.” of faith – and yet we just have to accept Abu Khdeir. His burned body was found with those who sent them and those who “If a young Arab really was murdered for that we have no right to make demands. in the Jerusalem forest on July 2nd after helped them and incited them to murder – nationalist reasons, this is a horrifying and All we can do is be confident that our he was apparently murdered by a group and not innocent people – will be brought shocking act,” said the statement they prayers are heard. “Faith is stronger than of Jewish extremists. “Even in the abyss of to justice: by the army, the police, and the put out from their shivah tent. “There is us. What is incredible is that we continue mourning for Gil-Ad, Eyal and Naftali, it is judiciary; not by vigilantes. No mother or no difference between blood and blood. to believe, despite everything.”

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Continued from Page 5 also that the students are genuinely On a wider note, there have justice and Holocaust remembrance today. silence is not the reason why survivors interested in hearing their stories. I know been many recent developments in I am heartened to hear that three additional are invited in. Instead, that factor is my students were genuinely interested in Holocaust education in Berks County schools in Berks County will be offering present because of the immense respect hearing Hilde’s story and many still talk and the surrounding areas. Within these courses for their students. students have for these individuals and about it now, several weeks later. the past month I have met with two Though the fourth quarter of the individuals who are in the process school year has begun, there are still of developing a Holocaust course to many additional opportunities that  be offered at their local high school. remain. I just spoke to an undergraduate  One gentleman was from Lancaster ethics class at Penn State Berks County. The other, Gerry Evans, is a regarding the ethical/moral implications teacher at Hamburg High School. I of the Holocaust. I found the students  have been in contact with two other to be receptive and inquisitive and local teachers, Pete Ruckelshaus at have been asked to deliver a similar  Twin Valley and Jim Konecke at Wilson program in the classes that the same  High School. Pete has resurrected a professor also teaches at Reading Area course on Holocaust Literature at Twin Community College.  Valley, and its first offering is during As mentioned above, Kim Yashek, the current fourth quarter. He is very daughter of the late local Holocaust excited about offering this course to survivor Richard Yashek, is speaking at  his students and has even lined up Twin Valley, Hamburg and Fleetwood.  several guest speakers including Rabbi Right now Albright College is hosting Brian Michelson, Kim Yashek and Hilde an exhibit titled, “Stories Among Us: Gernsheimer. Washington State Connections to the Jim Konecke is teaching at Wilson Holocaust, Lessons in Genocide.” The Central Junior High but will be moving up exhibit includes the stories of five Holocaust to Wilson High School at the beginning survivors and one liberator and has of next school year. He will be offering a received good reviews. It is definitely course on Nazi Germany. His students worth a visit! It will be at Albright’s Gingrich will be studying this period of German Library through May 10. history in depth, including a study of the *** rise of anti-Semitism, the initial period of Jennifer Goss teaches social studies the Holocaust and the Final Solution. The in the Fleetwood School District and latter part of the course will look at post-war specializes in Holocaust education. Plan for your Bar/Bat Mitzvah & Wedding Guests!

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