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www.siouxland.net . 07.23.2020 . Weekender . 3 Dakota-Thurston County Fair downsizes, but still offers fun

BY DIANE DYKES Bousquet said. limit the number of entrants Because of what the in the ring. Bousquet said DETAILS While some of the CDC recommends and the they’ll separate animals Dakota/Thurston County district health measures that based on family groups. What: Dakota-Thurston Fair events have been are in place in Nebraska, ”All of our barns County Fair canceled, there is still plenty Bousquet said the board are open to the public,” Where: 1527 Stable to do, according to Lisa wasn’t able to make Bousquet. “Everyone can Drive, South Sioux City, Bousquet, fair manager. everything work. walk through and see the Nebraska JIM LEE, THE WEEKENDER Bousquet said there will Bousquet said even with animals.” When: July 26 through Poultry on display during the Dakota-Thurston County Fair in be a tractor pull, a gaming these events canceled, many Bousquet encourages Aug. 2 South Sioux City, Nebraska, in 2017. truck, rodeos and other people were excited and people to ask questions to Website: www.dako- fun things. The full event surprised that the Dakota/ the youth in 4-H or have tathurstonfaironline.com/ to happen, the board is of the public and hoping schedule can be found Thurston County Fair the 4-H youth reach out to working with the extension they will follow those on their website www. would continue because people and educate them staff to make sure everyone guidelines,” Bousquet dakotathurstonfaironline. others weren’t. about their animals. the fair for the youth so is practicing good hygiene, said. “I hope that every com/. Bousquet said there was “Luckily, we are they could showcase their sanitization and social one that is attending the Bousquet said there some disappointment when blessed to have this huge animals or show off the distancing. fair is respectful of those would be no kids’ day, it came to canceling the fairgrounds and large projects they been working Bousquet said there will guidelines set forth.” petting zoo, parade and parade and kids’ day. grandstand so we can spread on. be signs to help maintain Bousquet understands if other smaller events this Grandstand events will people out,” Bousquet said. Bousquet said they social distance, especially people are afraid to come year. continue and 4-H and Open “If we do get a large crowd – wanted to provide FFA for events. However, the out where there is a large “We felt that we Class shows will be held in which hopefully we do – we (Future Farmers of fairground should be big crowd, but she hopes that couldn’t have them and still the expo building. have plenty of space.” America) and 4-H members enough for people to easily the people who come out keep people safe without For the livestock shows, Bousquet said the fair a place to come to. separate. can get out and enjoy a spreading the virus,” class sizes will be reduced to board wanted to have In order for these events “A lot of this is education summer event.

DETAILS Business stirs up fresh Mexican treats When: Noon to 8 p.m. What: Neveria Antojitos Sunday, Monday and BY DIANE DIKES chunks and tamarind candy. It and online ordering to “Cuauhtemoc” Thursday, noon to 9 p.m. is topped off with a Popsicle. limit contact,” Jurado said. Where: 2116 Court St., Sioux Friday and Saturday. Closed Cynthia Jurado, the Jurado said they are so “Customers can order City Tuesday. owner of Neveria Antojitos much more than ice cream through our messaging Phone: (712) 224-2199 Cuauhtemoc, said when shop. They also serve system on Facebook.” people come in for the first alcoholic beverages and time they noticed the menu appetizers. and are surprised by the Another popular item is variety of treats. elote (corn). Jurado said they “Many say, ‘Wow, that give the option of corn in a looks amazing!’ Many people cup or on corn on the cob. are excited to try something Then it’s coated with mayo. different and out of their It can be topped with cotija comfort zone,” Jurado said. cheese, homemade chili Neveria has been serving PROVIDED powder and Valentina sauce. a variety of sweet Mexican Jurado said the business is treats, like ice cream and Jurado said a lot of their open every day but Tuesday. fruit cups, since June of 2017. snacks are similar to ones “We would usually Jurado said everything is served at a typical Mexican ice stay open later, but to help made fresh every day. cream shack, but they have minimize our exposure “We cut our fruit daily created many of them on and for the safety of our and we make sure that every their own. customers, we decided to ingredient we use is fresh and Jurado said she has a limit hours,” Jurado said. of the best quality. I think couple of things on her menu Jurado said they are still something else that makes us that are very popular. One limiting the number of people unique is that we have our of them is the Paleta Loka inside to 50% to keep both own ideas, and we make our (or Crazy Popsicle), which is staff and their customers safe. PROUD SUPPORTER OF SIOUXLAND PUBLIC own creations.” made with ice cream, mango “We still offer pickup MEDIA PROGRAMS:

4 . Weekender . 07.23.2020 . www.siouxland.net Mini Greek Festival Ready for another weekend of Greek treats? Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church on Sixth Street will be holding its 3 mini Greek fest beginning at 11 a.m. July 25 and 26. Look for gyros, Greek fries, SUX 6 spanakopita, Greek salad and assorted pastries at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 900 THE BEST THINGS TO DO IN SIOUXLAND Sixth St. Putting for pooches Owner Erik Martin sprays Noah’s Hope Animal Rescue is hosting down the inside of a tank after cleaning it. a golf tournament at Covington Golf TIM HYNDS, WEEKENDER Course, 497 Golf Road, South Sioux City, 1 4 at noon July 25. There will be dogs, around five at a time that, to hand out. All dogs are adoptable. Kids days 2020 The Sioux City Public Museum is back open and will feature Kids Days from 10 a.m to noon Thursdays and Saturdays 5 until Aug.1. The event is designed to let families safely experience the museum at 607 Fourth St. An online option Join the Lewis and Clark Interpretive Center and Betty Strong Encounter for a special and virtual reunion concert with 6 Jack and Mike Langley. The father-son duo will entertain with their usual flair at 2 p.m. July 26

It’s time for a party Tyson Center hosts Hump Day Happy Marto Brewing Company, 930 Fourth St., is turning one! Join the staff all week for special beer, along with double Hour series bottles on July 25. Marto Brewing SIOUX CITY – A five-week Hump Day Happy Hour, with live music, food trucks and bar service, will take place every Wednesday from July 29 through Aug. 26, at the outside plaza Ready to Eli Dykstra of the Tyson Events Center, 401 Gordon Drive. shredding on Presented by The Saturday in the Park Festival, the event his guitar. rock? CONTRIBUTED BY will run between 5 - 7 p.m., each Wednesday, with proceeds Guitarist Eli Dykstra SHAWN HUDGINS benefiting local nonprofit organizations. will play the outdoor The live music lineup will include Ultra Violet Fever (July 29); 2 Emily Johnson (Aug. 5); Dane Louis (Aug. 12); and Ghostcat venue at the Hard Rock (Aug. 26). Ticket reservation will be required. Hotel and Casino, 111 To assist with social distancing, tables will be only sold for Third St., beginning at 6 p.m. July each week’s performance. 20 seated table (for groups of 4 to 24. Hard Rock is testing the water 6 people); and 18 cocktail tables for two are available. with outdoor concerts that feature For more information or to reserve a table, go to plenty of social distancing. TysonCenter.com.

www.siouxland.net . 07.23.2020 . Weekender . 5 music Mat D. signs recording contract

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A regular on the Siouxland music scene has just signed a recording contract. Mathew deRiso, better known as singer/ Mat D., was signed to the Denver-based indie Crazy Poet Records, and he said it was very unexpected. DeRiso said when he got the initial offer, he was floored. He said they reached out because his producer sent some raw acoustic and vocal tracks to the label. “From there, it just sort of happened,” deRiso said. “I was not seeking or pursuing a publishing, label or record deal. I’ve done things independently for so long I just didn’t ever think this would really happen.” DeRiso said the great thing about Crazy Poet is that he still has complete creative control, so there’s no break in his songwriting and production process. DeRiso said Crazy Poet has been incredibly supportive in what he’s doing and wants nothing more than to him brought more into the limelight. “This is a great opportunity to get my music in front of a new audience and keep things relevant,” deRiso said. “I think this is the beginning of something very cool.” DeRiso said he’s not sure what it means for his music, in the long run, his focus at the moment is recording and producing the best PROVIDED PROVIDED album he can. DeRiso is hoping that his music music and sending it out, none of garage band in high school,” deRiso and finding my home,” deRiso said. sound and my own songs,” deRiso will matter to someone. He said he this would have happened. said. “So that was roughly 30 years Everything changed in 2001 said. wants to make someone stop what “I’m very grateful to the friends ago. I played bass guitar in college when he saw Bob Dylan at Sioux DeRiso said he’ll play anywhere, they’re doing to listen. To bring and fans who have stood by me and church in my early 20s but City’s Orpheum Theatre. He said it from Saturday at the Park (which them into the stories and songs he through thick and thin over the didn’t start playing acoustic guitar was like a complete 180 for him. he has done twice), the Orpheum wrote and to inspire them. past 15 years,” deRiso said. “This until 2002.” DeRiso said he caught the music Theatres in both Sioux City and “At the end of the day, I just want is largely due to them and their DeRiso said when he started bug and started writing music like Sioux Falls, and the Hard Rock to put out cool songs that people support.” in high school and college, his he did when he was younger. He Hotel and Casino. enjoy listening to,” deRiso said. “ I music was just about playing fun said it was like Dylan was his North “(I’ve played) lots of venues in want this to mean something and DeRiso describes his music as punk songs with friends and DIY Star. Minnesota, Iowa, Nebraska and inspire listeners and other writers.” gritty and soulful. recordings. But he never considered “I just steered the ship around South Dakota,” deRiso said. “Could DeRiso said that if it wasn’t for “I started out playing bass guitar a career in music. him and his influences until I came be a dive bar on a Saturday night or his producer getting excited over his and writing songs in a punk rock “It was just about being creative out the other side with my own and outdoor stage somewhere.”

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BY DIANE DYKES the coronavirus by giving them something new and fun to see. If laughter is the best medicine, “I feel like we provide them Siouxland Comedy is on call and a good sense of returning to ready to help. normalcy,” Augustine said. Drake Strong, a comedian Strong said the open mic nights and head of the comedy lineup begin at 8:30 p.m. at Marty’s Tap, said he wanted Augustine said the number of a platform that will give people participants and the audience could a chance to perform and be an differ depending on the week. information center for all things Strong said audience size comedy in Siouxland. isn’t what it once was because of Strong said Siouxland comedy coronavirus concerns. He said started back in 2012 and was at the because of COVID-19 not all of Chesterfield, but moved to Marty’s their comedians have returned yet, Tap in 2017 after the Chesterfield either. closed. Strong said the weekly lineup JESSE BROTHERS PHOTOS, WEEKENDER Siouxland Comedy meets every usually includes veterans and one Drake Strong, left, and Josh Augustine are the dynamic duo behind Siouxland Comedy at Marty’s Tavern, 1306 Thursday night and experienced new person wanting to try it out. Court St. comedians or amateurs are Augustine said he was going to welcome to join. be one of those who was going to it,” Strong said. “You don’t want to people enjoy and love doing. all the different jokes, formulas Joshua Augustine, a comedian, perform once, but he enjoyed it so overthink it, because the more you Strong said comedy is hard to and senses of humor because they said Siouxland Comedy, much he’s still a part of Siouxland think about it then you’ll end up do, but it’s still fun to do. bring in something new. the group’s name, is a loose Comedy’s Open Mic nights. psyching yourself out.” The two encourage people to “If we didn’t have new people, organization for people who have To follow in his footsteps, one Augustine said it’s like any try it at least once because it can it would just be me and Drake an interest in comedy and are just needs to sign up for a time hobby; it takes practice. One surprise them when they realize up there every week,” Augustine looking for places to perform. spot, and organizers will make sure might struggle at first, but one will they’re a lot funnier than they said. “And last time I check Augustine believes it’s helping there’s an opportunity to perform. get the hang of it soon. He said think. Drake and Josh was canceled on people with their concerns over “The biggest advice is just to do comedy could turn into something Augustine said it’s great to see Nickelodeon.”

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www.siouxland.net . 07.23.2020 . Weekender . 9 ETC. CROSSWORD A roundup of bizarre happenings SIOUXLAND STRANGE from Siouxland’s police logs.

81-year-old charged in slaying In the popular imagination, octogenarians are benign and Authorities responded to a 911 call from a woman gentle creatures who enjoy telling stories about the long-ago stating that Knapp, her husband, was assaulting her and her price of bread. The following bears little resemblance to that son with a stick and also pointed the shotgun at her. While characterization. sheriff’s deputies were responding to the call, the caller told An 81-year-old Merrill, Iowa, man already facing charges a dispatcher that Juzek, who also lived in the home, had just of domestic abuse has been charged with first-degree murder been shot, then reported that he had been shot a second for the fatal shooting of another man with a shotgun during a time. disturbance at their home. According to the complaint, deputies found Juzek lying In a complaint and affidavit filed July 16 in Plymouth in the living room. Evidence showed that Knapp had fired a County District Court, authorities say that Thomas Knapp 20-gauge shotgun through a bedroom door, striking Juzek Across Down told investigators responding to the shooting of 51-year-old in the abdomen. Juzek staggered into the living room and 1 Talked into, with “on” 1 Biblical seductress Kevin Juzek that “I shot the son of a bitch.” collapsed. Knapp then entered the room, nudged him in the 5 Calyx part 2 Offered a view Knapp, 81, was served with an arrest warrant at foot and then said, “Oh, you’re not dead yet.” Knapp then shot 10 Typical artist’s apartment 3 Shoeless Joe Jackson portrayer the Plymouth County Jail, where he is being held after Juzek a second time in the chest, the complaint said. 14 Samoan capital in “Field of Dreams” previously pleading not guilty of willful injury causing An autopsy ruled Juzek’s death a homicide caused by the 15 Amtrak option 4 Mother of Perseus 16 Cabinet dept. formed under 5 Marquis de __ bodily injury, domestic abuse assault while using or shotgun blasts. Carter 6 Prefix with friendly displaying a dangerous weapon, and two counts of first- Knapp is currently scheduled to stand trial in October on 17 Doughnut order from a king? 7 Product with a Simpsons set offense domestic abuse assault for striking his wife in the the willful injury and domestic abuse charges. His attorney, 19 Fifty percent up front? 8 Last Olds models head with a stick and breaking bones in her hand during the Jared Weber, of Orange City, Iowa, on July 14 filed a motion 20 Recorded 9 Andy Panda creator May 11 disturbance at the home in the 20000 block of Echo to suspend the case so Knapp can be examined to determine if 21 GPS info 10 Took charge Road in rural Merrill. he’s mentally competent to stand trial. 23 Pisa possessive 11 Two-run homer situation 24 Recording device 12 Like “executrix,” e.g. 25 Musicians given to tippling? 13 Old TV parts 28 Writer LeShan 18 Urban __ 29 Is next to 22 “Beauty is bought by judge- DIRECTIONS: Complete the 31 Sergeant Bilko, to friends ment of the __”: Shakespeare grid so that every row, 32 Tapestry thread 25 Fit and muscular SUDOKU column and 3x3 box contains 33 Saturn models 26 Certain footrest digits 1 to 9. 34 Set of data within an atmo- 27 Verve spheric analysis? 30 Quilting party 40 Quarterback Tony 34 Math branch concerned with 41 Swamplike surfaces 42 Protection against Mr. Decay 35 Rain forest region Germ, in old ads 36 Beyond slender 44 Continued violently 37 Former PBS “Mystery!” host 45 MDX Ö X 38 Extractable natural resource 48 Occupants of a well-insulated 39 Louisiana genre featuring the nest? accordion 50 One of the Coen brothers 40 Grain-based treat 52 “10538 Overture” gp. 43 “Understood, Cap’n” 53 Ocean bird 44 His stories inspired “Guys and 54 Gets rid of Dolls” 55 M’s favorite agent 45 Luck 57 How perfume is sold ... and 46 Pet that needs a sitter? this puzzle’s title 47 Many Alaska maps 60 Commercial exchange fee 49 “__ non sufficit”: the world is 61 Ames native not enough 62 Future ENT’s exam 51 Outdo 63 “You’ve Got Mail” co-star 54 Beltway VIPs 64 Grabs 56 Put on 65 Turtles, sometimes 58 BOAC competitor 59 Storied cauldron stirrer

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SNACK BREAK o there’s a day that’s all about popcorn is gone. of donuts we liked, so those were left Little Debbies were some of the best after- eating junk food. behind. school snacks I had around growing up. S National Junk Food Day was SLIM JIMS Unless there were homemade cookies. I July 21. I can’t help but think about my Slim Jims are great. What’s a family UNFROSTED POP TARTS would always choose cookies over those. BY DIANE DYKES favorite snack foods and desserts - snack road trip without them? When my My mom would buy them for us foods I could sit and eat on the couch all maternal grandparents were still alive, when she could, but she refused to get the GIRL SCOUT COOKIES day or foods that are perfect for road trips. we would go to the store just to pick up frosted ones no matter how many times As someone who used to be a Girl Sour candy things to snack on for the six-hour trip. we asked. Scout, needless to say I have eaten a lot of Sour candy has always been a favorite One thing we always seemed to grab was a I think she refused to buy the frosted them throughout my life. snack of mine - but now, I have to be couple of boxes of Slim Jims. because it had way too much sugar and While I had some interest in selling to careful. If I eat too much at once, the citric Slim Jims would be the first thing to most likely she didn’t want her kids people just for the different prizes, I feel acid ends up hurting my teeth. go, whether it was from kids eating them bouncing off the walls. like I was more interested in hoarding This sucks because it’s hard when I while enjoying a movie or my parents Did we need sugar for that, though? them so I could have them to myself. want to enjoy Sour Sprees or Sour Skittles asking to hand them one. While there is a day that is meant in my popcorn – especially when I have Beef jerky might be the second thing LITTLE DEBBIES for junk food, do any of us really need a no one to share it with. I don’t have family to go. Then we would move on to any In my humble opinion, this is one of reason to enjoy our favorite snacks? members causing the candy to sink to the candy, like twisters. the best junk foods to eat. Mostly because I would say no because junk food helps bottom of the bowl, nor do I see a pair Even if we had donuts, there would of the selection of different treats. comfort me after a long day, and it helps of big brown eyes begging me for the have been extras. They either dried Personally, I tend to stick with the me relax. Sugar is a nice comfort while I buttery goodness and whining until all the out or we were all picky with the kinds Cosmo Brownies and Honeybuns, but watch TV, read or play games.

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