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VOLUME 20 :: ISSUE 2 www.bwss.org :: Fall/2009 Silent No more Where are the leaders where are the men The silence on the issue is deafening We’re killing the women body and soul A call to my brothers can be silent no more She’s somebody’s mama Someone’s little girl She’s somebody’s baby This beautiful girl Time to take action time to speak out Time to come together it’s time to shout Day after day my heart tries not to break As I witness the madness and chaos around me Violence and abuse for either no excuse If we choose silence we are part of the problem bout the song writer: To know Troy Westwood one need agents and members of the American Indian Movement at By Little Aonly listen between the lines of every song he has ever sung. the Pine Ridge Oglala Lakota Nation in South Dakota. Hawk From his time as the front man for Eagle and Hawk to his latest foray into Indigenous Protest Folk Rock as Little Hawk, Truly Little Hawk is the sentinel for the national conscience. the repertoire he brings is a reflection of his spirit. Music is He holds no ambition other than speaking the truth regardless neither a habit nor a past-time for Little Hawk: it is his air. of consequences. His music is his path and where it leads is His award-winning debut album, 1492-1975, was defined shrouded in mystery. But even while trudging through the veils by the anger resulting from reading In the Spirit of Crazy and the darkness, for Little Hawk two things remain perfectly Horse, a book that was temporarily banned in the US for its clear: “I would die for the people, I will live for the people.” critique of the FBI investigation of a shoot-out between its Missing and Murdered Women in Western Canada by Angela Marie MacDougall attered Women’s full engagement of law the total – 348 women/ BSupport Services enforcement in seeking girls were murdered and has been on the front remedy and justice for almost one quarter are courage on the frontline courage line of raising awareness women. Back in the still missing. No one about women who early days the police has been charged in 150 have gone missing and were not investigating confirmed homicides. seek strategy to resolve women who have been the disappearances the systemic issues and found murdered in BC or seemingly not Of the 520 cases are seek justice for women. since 1994. These investigating the murders based in the West, 137 We convened meetings efforts have included of women. Since then in British Columbia, 85 in in person and over the proactive involvement a task force has been Alberta, 71 in Manitoba, phone in Edmonton, in the February 14th convened and there has 59 in Saskatchewan, Calgary, Regina, Women’s Memorial been a couple of arrests 59 in Ontario and 17 in Saskatoon, and Winnipeg March held every year including one notable Quebec. The rest are and spoke with over 200 to honour and mourn arrest and conviction. based in the Atlantic individuals. At these the disappearances provinces and territories meeting we discussed and murders of women. In April 2009, Beverly or are still being specific strategies we The march is also a Jacobs then president researched. will employ over the ceremony which moves of Native Women’s next year to seek justice through the downtown Association of Canada On the heels of an for women and we are eastside and where held a press conference FBI report linking the in the early stages of roses and tobacco are in Ottawa. Native disappearances and achieving our overarching laid where women have women die, vanish amid murders of women within goal of establishing a been known to have social apathy was the a four state area in the four province coalition to missing or where women lead line in the reports US to long haul truck consolidate our voices to have been murdered. that followed. Though drivers this summer seek justice. The report bwss strategic interventions sparsely attended Jacobs Battered Women’s with the strategies is Each year we make our spoke passionately and Support Services currently being reviewed way to the Vancouver tearfully indicating that traveled across the four across the four provinces Police Department 520 girls and women provinces meeting with and the strategies will location at 222 Main have disappeared or advocates, women, sex be made public as we Street where women been killed since 1970. workers and others to get clear and closer to speak about the need for Sixty-seven per cent of discuss the issue and to employing them. To hear more or to get involved email [email protected] PAGE 2 Women in Leadership & Training in Northwest BC Battered Women’s Support Services (BWSS) held brainstorming sessions with identified stakeholders to develop women’s leadership and training initiative in northwest BC in May of 2008. e were seeking to apply our years of experience the Aboriginal Win curriculum development and training women in their delivery from a women-centered perspective to communities. If you would like further work with organizations/stakeholders in identified information regarding communities to develop and implement a leadership September our Women in Leadership and training initiatives that are grounded in 2009, we and Training Initiative, women’s empowerment, leadership and community delivered development. Where women can build on existing the second please contact knowledge to seek their own healing and contribute to training to Angela MacDougall the healing of their communities. Metlakatla, BC, through our BWSS office o the frontline at 604-687-1868. BWSS believes strongly that women are the center workers of communities and to strengthen women is to within their strengthen communities. We are not naïve and community. recognize the forces of oppression that are deeply With the entrenched and are resistant to change and yet, we completion of believe in the power of women to create opportunities this training to meet challenges and overcome obstacles. We they have come believe in this because we see this every day. up with their We sought to share our knowledge and skills to action plan to further social justice from women’s perspective in implement a communities in British Columbia. Safety Team for the women within their community. With an emphasis on First Nations Women, we collaborated with members of northern communities The highlights from the two training sessions that we to integrate local ideas, knowledge, experience to the have provided is the input from the young women of development and delivery of Women’s Leadership and these communities; that they are taking the initiative Training Initiative. to provide the information that they gained to other young women in their communities to use as a tool for May 2009, we delivered the first of many Women the continuing healing for their First Nation women. in Leadership and Training Initiatives in Terrace with frontline workers from Nisga’a Nation, Terrace, In October 2009, we will be delivering the Women in Vanderhoof, and Kitwanga. With the completion of Leadership and Training Initiative workshops to Lax this training, these frontline workers are taking the Kw’ Alaams and Moricetown, which are also located in initiative to implement into their practices to work with the Northwest and North Coast of BC. PAGE 3 My First Time he first time I spoke out against women, but would it work with other if I came off poorly, my masculine by Byron Hurt Tmen’s violence against women, male athletes? Honestly, I had my credibility would be in question with I was very nervous. My talk was doubts. the guys. I was deeply afraid the in front of a group of guys that basketball team would think I had I knew pretty well - the men’s I had been in the basketball gone soft. basketball team at my alma mater, team’s position before. As a Northeastern University (NU) in former athlete, I remembered how Jackson, on the other hand, Boston. I had never spoken to a inconvenient it was to sit through seemed much less nervous than group of men about sexism and a stiff lecture given by a counselor, me. The first man to graduate from violence against women before and academic advisor, or guest speaker the University of Massachusetts the fact that I knew just about all after a grueling practice. It could with a minor in Women’s Studies, About the author of the guys in the room made my be unbearably boring. Physically, Jackson received his Master’s Byron Hurt is an first experience doing so even more you are tired, your body aches, you degree in Education at Harvard award-winning nerve-racking. Just two months have homework to do, and all you University. He proudly declared documentary earlier I was a student-athlete at really want to do is eat dinner, go himself a pro-feminist male. He filmmaker, a NU, just like them. I was a former back to your room, and chill. Now, knew all sorts of statistics about published writer, football player and had played here I was, standing in front of the physical and sexual violence to and an anti-sexist numerous pick-up basketball games room preparing to give a lecture to support his argument that men activist. Learn more with many of the guys on the team. guys who, I’m sure, didn’t want to needed to confront other men’s at www.bhurt.com. I had eaten dinner with them in the be there.