The New Shul Guide to DEATH AND MOURNING Prepared by The New Shul Ritual Lab Under the guidance of Rabbi Niles Elliot Goldstein The New Shul Guide to DEATH AND MOURNING Prepared by The New Shul Ritual Lab Under the guidance of Rabbi Niles Elliot Goldstein ©2010 The New Shul, New York City, newshul.org With appreciation to Anita Kushner for gracing the cover with her artwork Rabbi Joyce Reinitz for contributing her wisdom to "The Gift of Your Presence" section Joan Hirsch at the Marton Agency for her tireless work securing literary permissions * * * The printing of this book was made possible by contributions from members of The New Shul Ritual Lab. Special thanks to Cathy Gins and Tonda Marton. Contact Information for The New Shul As of July 2010 The New Shul office 212-284-6773 Listen to the recording for numbers to call outside business hours. Email
[email protected] We are always available to offer guidance and assistance to members of The New Shul in their time of need. Please do not hesitate to call or email Contents Introduction........................................................................................... 1 Four stages ........................................................................................... 3 Prior to death ........................................................................................ 4 Jewish laws and customs ................................................................... 4 Offering comfort .................................................................................. 5 Psalms