St. Xenia Parish News 170 North Lowell Street, Methuen, MA 01844 November - December 2018
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St. Xenia Parish News 170 North Lowell Street, Methuen, MA 01844 November - December 2018 Metropolitan ONUPHRY: Man’s Main Task Is To Rule Not The World But His Own Heart Belaya Tserkov, October 29, 2018 is Beatitude Metropolitan Onuphry of He also noted that few are those who strive to live Kiev and All Ukraine, the primate of the according to God’s Word, and thus few are those H Ukrainian Orthodox Church, offered a who bring forth good fruits. Such are atheists and word on the parable of the sower (Mt. 13:3-23) in those who do not renounce God but constantly his Sunday homily given at St. Mary Magdalene complain and accuse Him of injustice. Monastery in the city of Belaya Tserkov (White “We must not say that we deserve a better fate, Church) in which he emphasized that man’s main because we thereby blaspheme God, we insult task in life is to “work on his spiritual develop- God. We must always thank Him and say, ‘Lord, I ment.” know that I have received more than I deserve, The Ukrainian primate also added that it is prayer, because I am worthy of nothing.’ When God sees fasting, and living according to the Divine com- such humility, then … He sends man everything mandments that help a man attain spiritual perfec- he needs for life,” the Ukrainian archpastor ex- tion, “in cleansing the heart of sin and cruelty,” plained. reports the site of the Ukrainian Orthodox This also includes those who believe in God but Church. not trust Him with their lives and constantly put “Some say that the greatest work is to be a politi- off correcting their lives: “These people accept the cian, to direct the world to the right and to the Word of God when they are praised for it, but left. Some say that the greatest work is to be a when their faith is not praised, but persecuted, king and rule over people. But the greatest work is then they fall away.” to learn to rule over yourself, to control your pas- Met. Onuphry concluded by offering advice to sions and vices, and your own heart,” Met. those who find themselves relating to such people Onuphry emphasized. with hearts of stone, advising “not to despair, but “To purify the heart, one must entrust his life to to work on yourselves.” God, that is, to build it on the principles of Holy “We must read the Holy Gospel, read our prayers, Scripture. Perhaps it will be unfashionable. Per- and begin to build our lives on the basis of Divine haps someone will call us cowardly, weak—do not Law. Then, gradually, this hardness of soul will pay attention to that. We must build our lives on soften, the soul will be filled with kindness and the Divine commandments… Then a man will purity, and we will also bring forth salvific good bring forth good fruits,” His Beatitude exhorted. works,” His Beatitude affirmed. St. Xenia of St. Petersburg Orthodox Church is a par- Parish Council ish of the Russian Orthodox Church Outside of Rus- President: V.Rev. Michael Crowley (978) 204-0428 sia, under the omophorion of Met. HILARION of Fr. Constantine Desrosiers (603) 775-0320 Eastern America & New York. The parish newsletter Dcn. Alexander Doohovskoy (978) 369-4486 is published bi-monthly under the direction of the Rev. Starosta: John Kekis (978) 456-9865 Michael Crowley. In order to ensure timely delivery Treasurer: Alexei Rodzianko (603) 275-8251 to our far-flung parish, please submit all notices by the 15th of the month prior to publication to Secretary: David Nettleton (203) 895-7636 Father Michael at [email protected]. Sisterhood: Pamela Ann Reed (978) 254-5043 Thank you. Cemetery: Natalie Pishenin (978) 761-3449 Choir: Laryssa Doohovskoy (978) 841-5960 Rector: School: Mat. Nancy Crowley (207) 232-6780 V. Rev. Michael Crowley 34 Elm Street Michael Dolan North Andover, MA 01845 Dimitri Nikshych (603) 659-0015 (978) 204-0428 Anthony Sarantakis (978) 263-2016 Dan Hakim (201) 543-4260 Confessions on Saturday during Vigil, on Sunday dur- ing the Hours, and by appointment. Trapeza Schedule * = strict fast Trapeza can be whatever you would like to prepare, anything is appreciated. Note: If you are preparing anything containing nuts or other allergens, please put a small label to that effect in front of your dish. Nut allergies are especially fatal to small children. A note about Trapeza etiquette: Standing, even for short periods of time, is often extremely difficult for older people and expectant mothers. It would be an act of Christian charity to allow them to collect their meal first and to be seated. It should go without saying that this courtesy should also be extended to visiting clergy. NOVEMBER DECEMBER 4 Matushka Helena, Marianne Dimatteo, *2 Olena Fedina, Ksenia Guryeva, Liliya Tanya Nikshych Afanasieva 11 Pam Reed, Carolyn Savage, Diane Mendez *9 Alexandra Gonzalez, Anna Kekis, Marina 18 Mary Doohovskoy, Fotini Dimatteo, Pavlova Sonya Carrascal *16 Nettleton/Chaplain/Bottos 25 Nancy Vaters, Brigid Amy Fischer, L&A *23 Matushka Nancy, JoJo Crowley Doohovskoy *30 Engalichev, Lynch, C&N Harris PARISH NEWS St. John of Damascus Church School News Sunday School is now meeting regularly. Please Annual Parish Meeting contact Matushka Nancy if you have questions or Please be reminded, our annual Parish Meeting is go to: November 4. All are invited to attend. https://www.stxenia.org/churchschool.html Congratulations …to Richie and Fotini Dimatteo on their marriage Choir News October 7 in Colorado! Many Years! The Children's Choir will be meeting on the fol- lowing dates: December 1, 15, 22, 29 and Janu- …to the Hakim Family on the baptism of their ary 5. The children will prepare portions of the twin boys Lucas Daniel and Matteo Charles on Liturgy for Nativity and work on learning the September 22! Also, to the Murphey family on the tones. This program is open to children ages 5 and baptism of their son Benjamin in November. We older. A registration form and more details will be ask God’s blessing and many years to all! forthcoming. Please Remember in Your Prayers If you have a private service - wedding, baptism, Athanasia Tamvlakis, Peter Danas, Dimitri Nik- funeral, etc. – and would like to have choir sing- shych, Masha Harris, and Laryssa Doohovskoy. ers, please contact Laryssa at [email protected]. Also, please be sure to inform the Sisterhood if someone is in the hospital or shut in at home. Building Expansion Update Father Michael and Constantine Engalichev con- Sisterhood News tinue to meet with prospective contractors to re- …Thank you to all who helped make our Fall Fes- view specs and generate quotes. tival such a success. We are very blessed to have this opportunity for the children (and adults!) of Our project has truly just begun and the fundrais- our Parish. ing will surely continue. To those who made pledges, we ask that you be mindful about sending …Our Parish is conducting a coat drive to collect in your monthly donations. coats and jackets for young students in need with- in the Methuen School District. The need is for Additional donations are always welcome. There elementary-aged children, grades k-6. are several ways you can contribute or pledge - envelopes and pledge forms are available at the As in the past, we will only be accepting new and candle counter. We also have a Paypal account on gently used (freshly washed) coats and jack- the St. Xenia website. ets. Accessories such as gloves, hats, etc. are not https://stxenia.org/buildingexpansion2018.htm needed as coats and jackets are the primary need l for the students. Waterproof winter jackets with hoods would be ideal. We thank you and ask for your continued prayers as we join together to move into this next im- Coats and jackets may be dropped off in the portant phase of our Parish. God willing, the church hall and will be collected every Sunday un- commitment today will have an immeasurable til November 18th. impact as we move to our next chapter. Please contact Katia Reilly if any questions arise By the prayers of St. Xenia, may God continue to at [email protected]. bless our efforts in expanding our church building and hall! DIOCESE NEWS The Holy Great Martyr Demetrios of Soluneia (Commemorated Oct 26/Nov 8) was the Saint Herman Youth Conference son of a Roman proconsul in Thessalonika (the With the blessing of Their Eminences Hilarion, present day Salonika, which in the Slavonic is Metropolitan of Eastern America & New York, termed Solun', [anglicised as Soluneia]). Three cen- and Gabriel, Archbishop of Montreal & Canada, turies had then already elapsed, and Roman pagan- the annual Saint Herman Youth Conference will ism, -- spiritually shattered and defeated by the be hosted by Nativity of the Mother of God multitude of martyrs and confessors of the Cruci- Church in Albany, NY. The conference will fied Saviour, -- intensified its persecutions. Both commence on the evening of Sunday, December the father and mother of saint Demetrios were 23rd and conclude on the morning of Wednesday, clandestine Christians. In a secret house-church at December 26th. The conference is open to all the home of the proconsul, the child was baptised youth over the age of 16. All registrations will be and raised in the Christian faith. When the father managed online at the Conference website: died, and the child had reached the age of maturi- ty, the emperor Galerius Maximian -- having as- http://sthermanconference.com/registration.html cended the throne in the year 305 -- summoned him, and confident in his education and military- The cost of the conference is $300.00 per person administrative abilities, appointed him to the posi- and includes all lodging, meals, and transportation tion of his father as proconsul of the Thessalonika from the hotel to the church.