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E X I S T E N T I A L - H U M A N I S T I C I N S T I T U T E N E W S L E T T E R 2 0 1 9 V O L . 2 2 . 1 THE EXISTENTIAL HUMANIST Celebrating Our Diversity of Existence and Being Editors: Nader Shabahangi EHI RESIDENTIAL RETREAT and Sonja Saltman TRAINING MAY 2019 2 0 1 9 E X P E R I E N T I A L 6-day Annual Residential Immersion Training in T R A I N I N G D A T E S Existential-Humanistic Psychotherapy at Beautiful Westerbeke Ranch in Sonoma, California. May 23rd, 2019 EHI, believing in the meaningfulness, intrinsic value and diversity of through life, teaches principles of existential-humanistic psychotherapy and May 28th, 2019 offers in-depth trainings in the practical application of those principles. T H E M E S C O V E R E D I N The annual experiential residential is the core of EHI's training. It T R A I N I N G I N C L U D E : allows licensed professionals and graduate students in psychology or counseling programs to come together in a safe environment, get ● the here-and-now ● the inner search process to know one another, and experience how E-H therapy is practiced ● subjectivity and encounter up close and personally. ● the therapeutic relationship EHI Faculty emphasize the key ingredients of the E-H approach, These experientially including empathy, acceptance, and genuineness, to model how oriented courses teach trainees can create safe, collaborative and life-changing therapeutic existential-humanistic encounters. They demonstrate how the therapeutic relationship, in concepts of: resistance, and of itself is a vehicle for healing and change and how therapeutic meaning and alignment, existential spirituality, "presence" cultivates sensitivity and appropriate responsiveness to and integrative existential clients’ emotions, relational patterns and inner worlds. These two practice. essential principles: building the therapeutic relationship and working in the "here and now" are the foundational blocks of E-H www.ehinstitute.org therapy and EHI training. E X I S T E N T I A L - H U M A N I S T I C I N S T I T U T E N E W S L E T T E R 2 0 1 9 V O L . 2 2 . 1 EMBRACING SUBJECTIVITY Wanting to be an By Bob Edelstein, L.M.F.T. Existentialist When she was 14, being an James F. T. Bugental, Ph. D., was termed the third force in served as the first president of psychology. This perspective Existentialist meant the Association of Humanistic included a focus on subjectivity watching French movies Psychology in 1962. He also as the main energy source and With actors so ugly they helped organize the Old guiding force in our lives. were beautiful, Saybrook Conference in 1964, a Subjectivity is the accessing of gathering of great minds which one’s inner life - including It meant cropping her hair helped clarify the vision of thoughts, feelings, bodily like a boy humanistic psychology in the sensations, memories, images, And wearing her sweater United States. Among those hopes, fears, expectations, with the buttons present with Jim at this seminal anxieties, perceptions, etc. backwards, conference were his close Another focus is to translate friends, colleagues, and mentors one’s subjectivity through While quoting lines from – George Kelly, Rollo May, expression and actualization Samual Beckett’s Waiting Abraham Maslow, and Carl into the outer, objective, for Godot. Rogers. physical world. This was based She walked on cobblestone upon the belief that we are streets of her small town, I interviewed Jim for the beings-in-the-world. February/March 2003 issue of barefoot, One way Jim facilitated his clients the AHP Perspective. He told me With the son of the General and students moving deeper into he most wanted to be who was going to get hell their subjectivity was through the remembered for “more inward searching process. This from his father legitimacy for the subjective life. Giggling like the naughty At a time when I was most entails paying attention moment productive, I was always trying by moment to the inner flow of children they were to storm the wall of consciousness moving through Drunk on their existential you. He emphasized that the psychological science.” power to choose present moment is the only true Trusting, believing the In 1964, when Jim and his reality we have. Each of our choice was theirs, however colleagues were convening at present moment realities are Old Saybrook, psychology uniquely ours. Jim encouraged us minute. emphasized the objectivity of to trust that in each moment we Existence. Pure. science and the physical world. would be pulled towards the In training therapists the direction that is right for each of ~ Sonja Saltman emphasis was on behaviorism us. And there is always something and environmental more, as one moment leads to interventions. There was a Bob is in private practice and another with a new set of founder/president minimization or even dismissal awarenesses. of Existential-Humanistic of one’s subjective life. Jim and NorthWest a professional his colleagues emphasized and organization advocating popularized humanistic Or as Jim liked to say, “And now… existential-humanistic values psychology, which And now… And now..." and philosophy. Existential-Humanstic Institute • www.ehinstitute.org • +1 415-689-1475 • [email protected] 2 E X I S T E N T I A L - H U M A N I S T I C I N S T I T U T E N E W S L E T T E R 2 0 1 9 V O L . 2 2 . 1 THE COARSENING (AND HOPE) OF THE AMERICAN MIND By Kirk Schneider, Ph.D. [Author’s Note: This article is the machine model for living. state of affairs: One, our adapted from an article by the This model emphasized citizenry will devolve into same title published at efficiency (or what many called drone-like functionaries, Tikkun.org. An expanded version efficiency): speed, instant programmed for elemental of this article can be found on my Psychology Today results, appearance and self-interest or two, we will (psychologytoday.com) blog called packaging; and it lured millions confront the moral crisis of “Awakening to Awe”.] to the marketplace--or killing our time--the quick fix instant fields. Babies being wrenched from results society--and engage parents, racist epithets flung at our abilities to be more fully The result however was countries south and east of us, present, both to ourselves and anything but “efficient” in the alarming levels of civil and those about us. In my view, larger sense. We created political discord--this is our such engagement would be country in the summer of convenience, ease, and an most welcome, but it would be 2018. There are also positive unprecedented sense of no panacea. By contrast it will developments to be sure, but personal power, to be sure. But be a rebuilding project- can anyone say how they will the advances were largely -“brick-by-brick“--that will endure? external--relegated to what we nudge us toward recognition of wore, how fast we drove, how While many of us are wringing quickly we ate, how many profit each other as complex human our hands asking ourselves margins we met, how many beings; persons with painful “how in the world we got gadgets we owned; our interior differences but also ennobling here?” Perhaps the more life, however, our capacity to commonalities. accurate question is “Why, given our mercantile- feel and reflect and materialist past, shouldn’t we communicate was left bereft. While there are many paths to have gotten here?” In his 1978 the latter and more hopeful book The Illusion of The result is that, today, too alternative of engagement, the Technique, public philosopher many of us have become grass roots phenomenon William Barrett forewarned of calculative and consumerist known as dialogue groups is the damage being done giants but emotional and exciting particular interest. through our overreliance on imaginative dwarfs, steely and things-rather than people--to impenetrable, but bereft of staunch our moral Consider, for example, the nuance, attunement, and depth; predicaments; and we should group that was featured in a and this is precisely our have paid more attention. February 16th, 2018 article by quagmire at this crossroad of New York Times columnist our history. From my Today we are stained with the David Brooks called the “Better standpoint as a psychologist, legacy of all those who fell -- Angels.” wittingly and unwittingly -- there are two likely outcomes under the spell of things; issuing from this alarming Continued... Existential-Humanstic Institute • www.ehinstitute.org • +1 415-689-1475 • [email protected] 3 E X I S T E N T I A L - H U M A N I S T I C I N S T I T U T E N E W S L E T T E R 2 0 1 9 V O L . 2 2 . 1 THE COARSENING (AND HOPE) OF THE AMERICAN MIND CONTINUED Better Angels, comprised of Or to put it more broadly, it like Better Angels (such as the ordinary and concerned could shift voters from what I Nonviolent Communications citizens, is bringing liberals have called a “polarized mind” networks, Bridge Alliance, and and conservatives together for or fixation on a single point of Experiential Democracy forums); “living room” dialogues view to the utter exclusion of many more encounters with throughout the U.S.