Parshat Ha'azinu/Shabbat Shuva Yom Kippur 7-10 Tishrei 5781

Parshat Ha’azinu/Shabbat Shuva Yom Kippur 7-10 Tishrei 5781 September 25-28, 2020

Indoor/Outdoor Minyan Update • September 24 • 6 Tishrei SUNDAY, Erev Yom Kippur, September 27 What stays the same: Selichot/Shacharit 7:45 a.m. ● We will begin shacharit with Rabbi Yishmael Omer in order to daven Hatarat Nedarim (after Shacharit): around 8:30 a.m. a full pesukei d’zimrah with a minyan (except YK). Candle Lighting: 6:26 p.m. ● You must register for all Minyanim, even if you did so last week. Mincha 3:00 p.m. ● Register at shomrei-torah.org/minyanparticipation. Fast begins 6:24 p.m. We remind you that: Kol Nidrei/Ma'ariv*: 6:30 p.m. ● Anyone who is immunocompromised, over 60 years old, obese, has Shkiah (Sunset): 6:44 p.m. heart disease, asthma or COPD, is on dialysis, has liver disease, or Repeat Kri’at Shema: after 7:34 p.m. has another compromising condition is strongly urged to continue to daven at home and to consult with your physician to determine whether it is a good idea to join a minyan. Similarly, anyone who MONDAY, Yom Kippur, September 28 lives with such a person should consider continuing to daven at Earliest Tallit: 6:01 a.m. home. Neitz (Sunrise): 6:51 a.m. ● It is prohibited to attend a minyan if one is sick with any condition, Shacharit*: 6:40 a.m including but not limited to a fever, sore throat, cough, stomach *Note: For women signed up for the annex minyan, please use the rear issues or body ache. You will not be able to resume attending a door entrance of the annex building. You can access this entrance by minyan until cleared by a doctor. Anyone who has tested positive for going around the side of the annex building closest to the main shul. COVID must be cleared by a doctor for participation in a minyan. Shacharit*: 10:20 a.m. ● The minyanim, for now, are open to men and women, ages 9 and above as long as they stay with a parent and wear a mask. Sof Z’man Kri’at Shema: 9:48 a.m. ● Participants at minyanim, shiurim and shul events must follow social Sof Z’man Tefillah: 10:47 a.m. distancing and mask wearing guidelines, both at minyanim and Earliest Mincha: 1:16 p.m. wherever else is required to do so by the law. Pre Mincha shiur by Rabbi Schrier 4:25 p.m. Thank you, Mincha*: 4:55 p.m. Rabbi Donath, Rabbi Markowitz, and the Minyan Committees Plag Mincha (earliest time to recite Neilah) 5:28 p.m. Neilah:* 6:10 p.m. HIGH HOLIDAYS 5781 ● Yizkor & Kol Nidre Appeal — For everyone's safety, we are once Shkiah (Sunset; daven Mincha before this time): 6:42 p.m. again planning for a "virtual" Yizkor & Kol Nidre appeal, which Ma'ariv*: 7:23 p.m. would allow members and friends to donate in memory of loved Havdalah/Fast ends: 7:32 p.m. ones. Interested families should visit dno.am/5781/yizkor-kol-nidre to provide the office with a list of family members that have WEEKDAY SCHEDULE departed, together with their donations in their memory. The Zoom ID 6 82 603 3886 to join all weekday tefillot. This week will include daily compiled list would then be sent out to everyone before Yom Tov. In Shacharit at 8:00 a.m. and daily Mincha/Ma’ariv. this way, when we say Yizkor alone in our homes, we can take comfort that tzedakah has been given in memory of loved ones that Sunday Morning Shacharit*: 8:00 a.m. have passed away. Weekday Shacharit*: 7:00 a.m. Selichot — For Erev YK we will be starting 15 minutes before the posted

FRIDAY, Erev Shabbat, September 25 shacharit start time. Candle Lighting: 6:29 p.m. Mincha/Ma’ariv*: 6:25 p.m. Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat/Ma'ariv*: 6:35 p.m. Note: For updated Selichot schedule, please check the joint minyan website at Shkiah (Sunset): 6:47 p.m. shomrei-torah.org/minyanparticipation for the most up to date schedule. Repeat Kri’at Shema: after 7:37 p.m. SHABBAT DAY, September 26 * Minyan at shul for registered participants only Earliest Tallit: 5:59 a.m.

Neitz (Sunrise): 6:49 a.m. Shacharit (outdoors)*: 8:00 a.m. SHABBOS SHUVA LUACH 5781 Instructions & Halachot from Rabbi Donath for those davening at home Shacharit (indoors)*: 9:00 a.m. or without a minyan Sof Z’man Kri’at Shema: 9:47 a.m. ● One adds the paragraph of Shir Ha’Maalot before yishtabach in Earliest Mincha: 1:17 p.m. one’s davening throughout Aseret Yemei Teshuva (AYT). Shabbat Shuva drasha on "The Blessing of Brokenness" (in the tent) ● Remember special insertions for AYT in your shemoneh esrei (SE)- 4:45pm - 5:30 p.m. Ha’Melech Ha’kadosh in the 3rd bracha of SE is the only one that Mincha*: 6:20 p.m. would require repeating SE if forgotten. Friday night מגן אבות is said in המלך הקדוש ● .Shkiah (Sunset; daven Mincha before this time): 6:46 p.m ● Shabbat Shuva drasha will be given a second time between Haftorah is “Shuva Yisrael” – Hosea: 14:2-10; then we conclude mincha/maariv (in the tent) with Joel 2:11-27 ● We say Av HaRachamim before mussaf Ma’ariv: 7:15 p.m. ● We do recite tzidkatcha during Shabbat mincha Havdalah: 7:36 p.m.

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ANNOUNCEMENTS color, and enjoy a morning of art and fun with food! If you would ● Mazal Tov to Rachel and Ari Berkowitz on the birth of a baby boy! prefer to do the activity at home, stop by during the event to pick up ● Machzor Reservations— If you need a machzor for Yom Kippur, fill a packet for your children. Please register by Thursday, September out this reservation form: 24, to join us in the backyard or to pick up a packet to enjoy at home. https://forms.gle/zEgRWBrwgDRFH7Dv9 Please note: Machzorim $5 per child. $10 family max. dno.am/5781/sukkah-decorating will not be provided at shul. Please remember to bring it with you as you arrive and depart minyan. LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES ● Refuah Shleima — Please keep in mind the following names of ● Daf Yomi, Nightly at 6:30- 7:30 p .m. — Join at people who are in need of a refuah shleima: Gruna Zlata bat Sara, dno.am/zoom/dafyomi. There i s no shiur on Friday, Shabbat, or Gittel bat Chippah, Menachem Mendel Ben Perel, Moshe haLevi Ben Yom Tov. Ettel, Yisroel ben Rachel Leah, Yosef ben Malka, Ratza Naomi bat ● Drasha Dose with Rabbi Donath Thursday night, 8:30 p.m. Leah. —Shabbos Shuva Drasha and Yizkor for those who aren’t able to (NOTICE: To accommodate new names, we will refresh the refuah shleimah come to the shul tent on Shabbat. Meeting ID# 647 347 032. list the first week of each secular month going forward. If you would like a name to be placed on the list or kept on the list for longer, email CHESED OPPORTUNITIES [email protected]) ● Meals for Parents of Newborns — The chesed committee is updating their email list. If you would like to receive emails letting UPCOMING EVENTS you know about meal sign ups for parents of newborns, please fill ● Shabbat Shuva Drasha/Yizkor- O n Thursday night Sep. 24th at 8:30 out the form at forms.gle/hRn12sUhXYdYNj2g9. Even if you have p.m. there will be a Yizkor on zoom for those who can’t come to shul signed up in the past, please sign up again! Please note, all current on Y’K. Rabbi Donath will also be sharing a shorter version of his meal sign ups for new parents are also available by clicking the “Sign Shabbat Shuva drasha at that time. The Shabbat Shuva drasha will Up Genius” button on Darchei’s homepage. also be given in person in the tent of the shul in the afternoon of ● Meals for families impacted by COVID-19 — To contribute, select Shabbat Shuva twice to allow for multiple opportunities for people “Chesed Fund” from d no.am/donate. Please email Elaine Kaufman to attend. Zoom ID# 647 347 032. ([email protected] / (201) 314-6073) or Ronna Adler ● Lulav & Etrog Sale, Deadline Wed, Sep 23 — Order your Lulav & (a [email protected] / (201) 686-9690) so they can coordinate the Etrog sets starting at $45. Lulav & etrog sets, extra hadassim & efforts or to volunteer. Every contr ibution is helpful to help make aravot, lulav bags, and more available for purchase. New this year: this happen. Tizku L’mitzvot. Bamboo Schach mats. Special thanks to Leah Brick, Avi Brick, and ● Grocery Request Form & Shopper Volunteers — The Chesed Ely Lenik. Please note: All orders will be pre selected and packaged Committee has a WhatsApp Group (d no.am/whatsapp/shoppers) for based on the price point you pay; you will not be allowed to pick volunteers who are going shopping to pick up extra items and drop your own etrogim. Order by 9/23 and pick up 9/29. Order at them off at the homes of those in need, and a Grocery Shopping dno.am/5781/lulav. Request Form (d no.am/shopping-request) for people who are ● Cocoa-less Conversations in the Sukkah! Oct 6th, 8:15 p.m.- See old quarantined, immunocompromised, or are otherwise vulnerable. For friends and make some new ones in a socially distant way! All questions, email Faigy Gilder (f [email protected]). gatherings will take place outside and there will be 10 people per location. Zoom options will be available as well.For women only. To SPECIAL NOTICES sign up: https://tinyurl.com/yy34lp99 ● Donations are needed — Please consider paying down your shul account. Donations are also needed for the Rabbi’s discretionary fund, which supports individuals in need in our local community, YOUTH COMMITTEE EVENTS ● Family Groups & Tot Shabbat, Sep 26th 10:00 a.m. — We are and for the Chesed Fund, which provides urgently needed meals excited to invite you and your children to Darchei Noam's Family during shiva or illness. Contribute at d no.am/donate. Groups and Tot Shabbat in the Darchei Noam backyard! Davening, ● Amazon Smile — Support Darchei while you shop on Amazon singing, stories, prizes, and to-go-snacks for the whole family! Each Smile by designating us as your charity at dno.am/amazon. week will include a maximum of 15 families. Children in 2nd grade and up will have a drop off option. We need YOUR help to ensure COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS this works well so we can continue to offer social distanced ● Help Make the Yom Kippur Minyanim in Paterson- Sun. (9/27) at programming for children at shul. 6:30 p.m. Kol Nidre followed by Ma’ariv. Mon (9/28) 9:00 a.m. Guidelines: Shacharis/Mussaf/Mincha- Abbreviated Davening Schedule. Sukkot ● Each family should bring a blanket to sit on to help maintain social Minyan: Shabbat, 10/10 9:00 a.m. Davening will take place in the distancing. social hall at Senior Towers of Paterson 510 E. 27th Street/12th Ave. ● Families will sit together on their blanket throughout the entire Ventilation and safety precautions in place. Masks must be worn at program. all times. Big Mitzvah. For more info, email: J [email protected] ● Social distancing guidelines must be followed and masks must be or visit: www.PatersonShul.org worn by everyone 2 years old and up. ● Please patronize our local establishments — Our local stores and ● In the event of inclement weather, an alternate date will be restaurants are still open and need our support. planned. ● Bergenshulstogether.com: Resources to Help Us During COVID ● Looking forward to seeing you and your children at shul! Recovery. bergenshulstogether.com/helpus. Sponsored by Jon and Ahuva Lamm. Sign up or sponsor at Bergenshulstogether.com is supported by Elie Y. Katz and dno.am/groups-signup. chopstixusa.com. Future Group Dates: October 3 and 4th at 10:15 a.m. ● Nefesh B’Nefesh Virtual Events visit n bn.org.il/events ● Communities Confronting Substance Abuse and Refa’enu, Sunday ● Sukkah Decorating, Sep 27 at 10:00 a.m. Join us in the Darchei October 18th from 9-11 a.m. will be presenting conversations about Noam backyard to create a beautiful sukkah decoration to hang in behavioral addictions, alcohol and Jewish ritual, ADHD medications your sukkah at home. We will also have everything you need to and the link to SUDs (substance use disorders), mood disorders, build your own edible Sukkah (to be enjoyed at home)! Bring your substance addiction and recovery, and self-harm/suicide. Each own blanket for your family to sit on, your own markers to use to group will include a clinician and someone with personal experience

with the issue who will share their unique perspectives. For more information go to: https://www.time2talkaddiction.org/events

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