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ON THE COVER | CONTENTS LIGHTING THE ADVENT WREATH— 6 “JESUS CHRIST IS LORD” 25 REVISITING PACEM IN TERRIS Aaron Cipriano lights the Advent Wreath while his wife, Bishop Caggiano Coat of Arms Peace on Earth Patricia Freyler and daughter, Sabryne, look on before Mass Inside this issue at St. Matthew Church in Norwalk. Fr. Sunil Pereira, IMS, 9 A DAY IN BETHLEHEM 27 THE KIDS HIT THE STREETS celebrated the Mass. The Cipriano-Freyler family joined A Local Excursion Youth Service in New York Fr. Rolando Arias 3 to be ordained in Bethel many other individuals and families who have participated

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By PAT HENNESSY children. His father, Pastor Arias, him in a different direction. A Seminary and spent a year there ordination as a transitional dea- is deceased. His mother, Maria Colombian priest who was serv- perfecting his fluency in English. con in June he has been serving Bishop Frank J. Caggiano Galvis de Arias, is a member of ing in the Diocese of Bridgeport He enrolled in Mount St. Mary’s at St. Mary’s. will ordain Fr. Rolando Arias San Vicente de Paul Parish in the “It’s been a blessing for me Galvis as a priest for the Diocese city of Armenia. having Fr. Cory as my pastor. of Bridgeport on December 14 at He attended local grammar I’ve learned so much from him,” the 12:30 pm Mass in St. Mary and high schools in Armenia, he says. “The St. Mary’s commu- Church in Bethel. Fr. Arias is the Colombia. Deeply devout, he nity has welcomed me, and the first priest the bishop will ordain volunteered for mission trips with staff has been great.” for this diocese; five more men his parish even while working in Over the past months, his are looking forward to priestly Bogotá, Colombia’s capitol city. service as a deacon has led him ordination this coming spring. Those experiences led him to to officiate at Baptisms, visit the Because Fr. Arias is the only consider a vocation to the priest- sick in hospitals, and get to know priest being ordained at this time, hood or religious life. “Out in the parishioners more deeply. “I’ve the Sacrament of Ordination is countryside, people appreciated had the opportunity to preach, being celebrated in St. Mary’s, his so much that we would spend and I’ve discovered that I like home parish. Holy Week or Christmas with that a lot,” he says. “I’m going to “Fr. Arias brings many them. It helped me realize that I continue to focus on that in the extraordinary abilities, including wanted to serve them more com- future.” his intelligence and lively sense of pletely,” he says. He sees it as a special blessing humor, to his priestly ministry,” As he began to explore that that his ordination will take place says Fr. Robert Kinnally, director calling, he made contact with on the feast of St. John of the of vocations for the Diocese of members of the Carmelite order Cross, one of the great Carmelite Bridgeport and rector of St. John and thought God might be call- saints. “God has been so good. Fisher Seminary in Stamford. ing him to join them. While a Carmelite spirituality has been “I am so happy that the Lord candidate with the Carmelitas special to me, and this is a won- called him from Colombia to this Descalzos in Bogotá, he attend- derful gift from God.” diocese.” ed the Universidad Javeriana, Fr. Arias will celebrate his Rolando Arias Galvis, 31, was a Catholic University. After encouraged him to come to the Seminary in Emmitsburg, MD, first Mass on Sunday, December born and raised in Colombia, three years, it became clear United States. where he completed his seminary 15, at 10 am. Fr. Kinnally will the eleventh in a family of 12 that his vocation was pulling He entered St. John Fisher studies this past May. Since his deliver the homily. n 4 December 2013 Local News Bishop’s Christmas Message Carols of the season A Season of Hope

he Holy Father’s Angelus message for the start of Advent teaches us the importance of hope during this liturgical season in which we await the light of Christ. “For the great human family, it is necessary to renew alwaysT the common horizon toward which we are journeying. The horizon of hope! This is the horizon that makes a good journey,” Pope Francis reminds us, “a hope that does not disappoint because it is founded on the Word of God.” During our Advent journey, I pray that the Light of Christ will shine upon you and dispel whatever darkness of fear or anxiety dwell in you. It is the Lord Himself who guides our journey, and by His light we can find hope, mercy and peace in our lives. In the coming days there are many Advent and Christmas observances around the diocese. CAROLS OF THE SEASON—Seminarians and priests at St. John Fisher May your heart be renewed by these opportunities to dwell in the mystery of Christ’s love and renew Seminary in Stamford joined together recently for “Carols of the Season.” our sense of gratitude and wonder: The music director of the seminary, David Harvey, collaborated with Thom Marino, music director of St. Aloysius, and Cidalia Alves from the music staff at St. Aloysius to put together an hour-long program of Advent and Christmas It is a good time to pray for peace carols. The seminarians and audience were graced by the presence of Bishop It is a good time to pray for the world’s salvation Frank Caggiano, who gave a blessing to the gathering at the end of the con- cert. The event took place on the afternoon of December 7 at St. John Fisher It is a good time to pray for all those who are in need Seminary. It is a good time to mend fences and seek reconciliation It is a good time to wait in silence and vigilance It is a good time for lighting a candle in the darkness As we prepare for the joy of Christmas with our families, please also allow me to express my sin- cere gratitude for the loving and gracious welcome you have extended to me as Fifth Bishop of Bridgeport. In a very short time, we have become family, and the Diocese of Bridgeport has become my home. May the peace of God be with you as we celebrate our Savior’s birth, and please know that you will be remembered in Masses I celebrate during the Christmas Season. Wishing you and your family all of the joy, warmth and gladness of Christmas.

Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport 5 December 2013 Catechetical Congress “Who do you say that I am?”

By PAT HENNESSY teaching with hands-on technol- ogy given by Amy Taylor and “It’s all about love,” Bishop Jaimee Keogler. “Our catechists Frank J. Caggiano said in his key- were excited to attend a workshop note speech at the Catechetical given by such energetic young Congress. “You have to foster, people,” says Janet Wrabel, assis- create, allow the Lord in his awe- tant DRE at St. Catherine’s. some beauty to touch you, and “They showed the cat- for you to love him back. There is echists how to use PowerPoint, a big difference between knowing YouTube and websites like about Jesus and knowing Jesus.” Catholic Toolbox and Life Teen. The Catechetical Congress, They even showed us how to a symposium on faith, was held save a YouTube video from November 16 at Sacred Heart Facebook to our computers. University. Sponsored by the They’re really up there.” Office for Pastoral Services, it is Participants also had the traditionally held every three years. chance to hear Dr. Peter Kreeft “It’s a beautiful way to improve on “Do Catholics Need to be the connection between the dio- having a personal relationship with December 14, 2012, in Newtown, many of us here, the people of Evangelized;” Dr. Anthony cese and the individual parishes,” Christ,” says Damien O’Connor, “A place where things like this… Newtown are our neighbors.” Esolen on “Obedience and says Fr. Jose Brito Martins, pas- director of Pastoral Services. don’t happen.” After that intense morning, Truth;” and Amy Ekeh on “If tor of Immaculate Heart of Mary “This Congress was designed to “It was like Good Friday— the theme of the Congress was Today You Hear His Voice” Portuguese Parish in Danbury. “It offer people a number of ways to there were mothers crying for explored further by nationally Recognizing the Moments of helps to glue us together.” deepen that relationship and give their children, their children who known and local speakers who Your Own Evangelization.” This year’s Congress, which them the tools to share their love had died. These were parents focused on ways to take the The Chapel of the Nativity took as its theme “Who do you of Christ with others.” who I married, children who I experience of faith and pass it was open throughout the say that I am?” drew more than The need for the support and baptized. We held tight to the on to others. Along with many Congress for private prayer and 600 participants. Although it is love of God was brought pain- foot of the cross, because that parish groups, catechists from Eucharistic Adoration. The day geared toward people in Church fully to life in a witness talk was our only hope.” Immaculate Heart of Mary split ended with Mass, the source and ministry—catechists, youth min- by Msgr. Robert Weiss, pastor “His talk was exceptional up to take in all the workshops. summit of each Catholic’s rela- isters, RCIA facilitators—the of St. Rose of Lima Parish in because of the emotions They will be sharing their experi- tionship with Jesus. Congress is open to all adults Newtown. The strength of his involved,” says Susan Moran, ences in the weeks to come. “Catechesis never ends,” said who are interested in deepening faith and his compassion grasped who teaches sixth-graders in the At St. Catherine of Siena Bishop Caggiano. “It’s a lifetime and enriching their faith. the hearts of listeners as he religious education program at Parish in Riverside, a number of conversation. We echo and re- “There is no greater joy than described the horrific events of St. Peter Parish in Danbury. “For catechists attended a workshop on echo the song of Christ.” n

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The sec- The winged sword, a new copacy there are six tassels ondary color is blue, representing change in the bishop’s design, suspended on either side to represent his personal the Blessed Virgin Mary. represents St. Michael the of the hat in a pyramidal spirituality and theologi- The crescent moon is an Archangel, a particularly style. ancient symbol of the Blessed important devotion of Bishop The episcopal cross cally-based philosophy of Virgin Mary because the moon Caggiano. The Bridgeport dioc- found behind and above life and is most frequent- has no light of its own but only esan arms appear to the left, as this coat of arms is worked reflects the light given to it by one views the coat of arms, and in gold; it is known as a ly grounded in Sacred the sun. Its application to Mary the bishop’s personal arms appear Cross Botonny and has Scripture or in a promi- is that she receives her glory as a to the right. Although this was three roundels at each reflection of the glory of her son; the custom for all residential bish- terminus. The Cross is worked in Holy See, with members of nent prayer or litany. she is the perfect disciple. In addi- ops of the Church for many cen- gold with a large cabochon deep the College of Cardinals and For Bishop Caggiano, tion to Bishop Caggiano’s per- turies, it only remains the custom red garnet at its center, the com- the episcopacy. He resides in this symbolism is found sonal devotion to the Mother of for residential bishops in America mon stone adopted by Brooklyn, Gwynedd Valley, PA. God, the use of the crescent also to unite episcopal arms with the the bishop’s place of birth and the Linda Nicholson, who in four simple yet power- recalls his education at Cathedral diocesan coat of arms. seat of his vocation, and the State expertly paints the heraldic arms ful words: “Jesus Christ College and Immaculate Surmounting the shield of of Connecticut, his new home, designed by Noonan, completes Conception Seminary, both of both a residential and an auxilia- as well. the partnership of this unique is Lord.” which bear this emblem as well. ry bishop is the pilgrim’s hat, the About the Heraldic Designers team in Church service. She is The Pascal Lamb image shows heraldic emblem for all prelates James-Charles Noonan, Jr. is a craft painter of the prestigious Symbolism and Significance that Bishop Caggiano’s ministry and priests of the Latin Rite of a well-known Church historian Society of Heraldic Arts in The principal color in the will be to proclaim the work of the Roman Catholic Church. For and ecclesiastical protocolist as England. She holds a master’s Caggiano design is red, signifying the Lamb of God; just as he does the rank of bishop, the pilgrim’s well as one of the few Vatican degree in medieval studies from trained heraldists at work today. the University of Toronto and He routinely works with the resides in Ontario. n 7 December 2013 Evangelizing Youth Bishop is new Episcopal Advisor for NFCYM WASHINGTON, DC— every two years. This year there included keynote addresses, work- Bishop Frank J. Caggiano has were 23,000 young Catholics who shop sessions addressing a variety accepted the invitation to serve came together in worship, prayer, of topics, opportunities for liturgy, a three-year term as Episcopal song and reflection. The theme Reconciliation, prayer and wor- Advisor to the National for this year’s conference was ship, service, and special activities Federation for Catholic Youth “Signed, Sealed, Delivered.” such as concerts, exhibits and an Ministry (NFCYM). His term “On Saturday morning I had interactive thematic park. started in November of this the privilege to preach to the entire Through its speakers and year. He will serve as a member gathering,” the bishop reported activities, the Youth Conference of the Board of Directors and, on his Facebook page. “It was a demonstrated that all catechesis among other duties, will serve humbling experience to see how and all youth ministry must begin as liaison between the NFCYM quiet and reverent 23,000 young with one goal: “To help foster in and the United States Catholic people can be when they are set our young people an encounter Conference of Bishops. on fire for the Lord. I could feel with the person of Jesus Christ In late November, Bishop their enthusiasm and energy and it in the community of the Church. Caggiano led a delegation of gives me great hope.” Once they meet the Lord, the road youth from St. Philip Parish in The bishop had met the to conversion and commitment is Norwalk to the National Catholic pilgrims from St. Philip’s at clear,” Bishop Caggiano said. Youth Conference (NCYC), La Guardia airport. “We flew of young women and men they He looks forward to traveling “As we retool our youth min- where he was a speaker. The together to Indianapolis. We also are! I was so proud to be with with them again in 2015, along istry efforts in the months ahead, conference is a three-day meet- spent some time together during them and I thank them for mak- with many more young people we must never lose sight of the ing of young Catholics from all the festivities. What a dedicated, ing the sacrifices needed to come from parishes across our diocese. goal: to allow every young person around the country that happens committed and faith-filled group to the NCYC gathering.” The schedule of the conference to fall in love with Jesus.” n “Signed, Sealed, Delivered” As Bishop Caggiano wrote way of praying to God. Matt “I’m of Mexican descent. I about the group from St. Philip told me how he gets his inspira- attended two workshops that Parish: “What a dedicated, tion to write his music from us, were meant to empower Latino committed and faith-filled the young Catholic Church, and teens to work within their com- group of young women and how we have so much energy. He munities to spread the faith men they are! I was so proud made me think that music could within the Latino community. to be with them!” be my new way of praying to It was an amazing experience Now St. Philip’s youth want God. I will keep celebrating God to be able to meet thousands to show the world that they with music.” of other teens who shared the are, as the theme of the confer- Abby Kniffen same faith as us, and I want ence says, “Signed, Sealed, to make a promise to my com- Delivered!” Although the weekend was munity. I promise that I will filled with loud and upbeat do everything I can to bring as In one of the call and music, there was time for quiet much of this amazing experi- responses used throughout reflection as well, with Taize- ence back to our parish.” the National Catholic Youth style meditative prayer on Friday Luis Corona Convention, MC Jesse night. Manibusan would call out, “There were countless mov- “In one session I went to “Who is the Church?” and ing moments during NCYC, but there was a boy in a wheel 23,000 young people would the one that moved me the most chair. Tara and I started a respond “We are!” The chants the last part is the most impor- get even more in touch with my was when we performed Jesse’s conversation with him about continue: tant, ‘We are everywhere, and all faith. I was able to go deeper and song, ‘Fish with Me,’ all in where he was from, we traded “And where is the are welcome.’” it was beautiful and amazing.” silence. Seeing a stadium of over buttons with him and his smile Church?” Michael Falbo Kelly Gavigan 23,000 people profess their faith was unforgettable. The session “Right here!” all together in a sort of medita- involved a lot of talking. Our “…And?” The music was a particularly “The music at NCYC changed tive state of complete silence was discussions would start on topic “Everywhere!” potent source of inspiration: me. Music helps me get so much breathtaking. You could feel the but venture into talking about “My favorite part during the closer to God. It speaks to me energy in the room emanating off him and his life as well as ours. “This weekend I realized conference was when we were in a different way rather than of everyone. It is an experience It was nice to know how open that this isn’t the end to my in the stadium and there was a just reading a Bible. At NCYC I will never forget, and I am for- everyone was and welcoming. NCYC experience but that it speaker named Jackie Angel. She I met so many different bands ever grateful for that experience.” Everyone wanted to tell you is the beginning! I learned that sang this song with everybody and artists that take God’s word Tara Carney their story and wanted to hear we have to take this to every- in the stadium. We were sitting to a whole other level. When I yours. I learned so much I can one else. The young Church there praying and singing and it got to meet Matt Maher while The participants all hope to only hope I will be able to carry needs to go out and tell the was peaceful and beautiful. For at NCYC, my whole thought bring back the spirit of the con- out the same attitude as every world the good news. We are that moment I was so content of religious music changed. I gress and open up their Catholic other kid there.” the Church, we are here, but and at peace that I was able to learned that music is a different faith to all those in their lives. Olivia DiMarco n 8 December 2013 Meeting Pope Francis, Bishop of Rome Pope Francis, Father and Brother

By FR. MATTHEW be both “a father and brother to with our Holy Father, Pope MAURIELLO them, with true love and tender- Francis, and our few minutes of ness” referring to the Vatican conversation was a great “shot in On August 1, 1959, Blessed City employees who were now the arm” for me and the perfect Pope John XXIII promulgated entrusted to his care. conclusion to my Silver Jubilee the encyclical Sacerdotii Nostri These words stayed in my retreat. It was more than I ever Primordia to commemorate the mind. expected or deserved, but truly a centennial of the passing to eternal The day for the Mass with the wonderful gift from the dear Lord glory of St. John Vianney, the Holy Father arrived and I was to one of his unworthy priests. patron of parish priests. The open- asked by his secretary to be a The memory of my encounter ing words of the encyclical are, principal concelebrant by praying with the Pope who is both “pater- “When we think of the first days aloud a section of the Eucharistic nal and fraternal” will long linger of our priesthood, which were so Prayer, helping to distribute Holy and be a source of both consola- full of joyous consolations…” Communion and purifying the tion and inspiration as I face the Recently, with the celebration Pope’s chalice. After Mass we of my Silver Jubilee of Ordination had the opportunity to greet the to the Holy Priesthood on Holy Father in a small audience January 11, 2013, I, too, have hall outside the chapel. There family, especially for my father a fraternal embrace been thinking of those early joy- is where I sensed that he was who has been ill and, especially, in gratitude. The ful days of my priesthood. As truly both “father and broth- pray for my parish. He was warm quote was done in a seminarian for the Diocese of er,” embracing me and the others and kind in responding that he Spanish, his native Ponce, Puerto Rico, I had the with “love and tenderness.” The would be happy to do so and language. The trans- opportunity to study in Rome, Pope practiced what he preached! asked that we would please pray lation is: “We have and was present with Blessed During our words of for him also. been called to heal Pope John Paul II for the opening exchange, I mentioned that I had It was a privilege to give the wounds, to unite of the Marian Year in June 1987. celebrated my twenty-fifth anni- Pope several gifts: a signed copy what has fallen apart One of my classmates from versary earlier this year and was of my book on the Lord’s mercy and to bring home those days in Rome, now serv- in Rome for a spiritual retreat, and a quote from St. Francis of those who have lost ing as a priest in Orvieto, Italy, and I asked that he please pray Assisi that I had hand-lettered their way.” daily challenges, as well as bless- celebrated his Silver Jubilee for me to persevere, pray for my and framed for him. He gave me Concelebrating Holy Mass ings, that are ahead. n on November 13, 2013. He had been with me in my parish for my celebration, so I accepted his invitation to join in his. With this, I planned to arrive a few Pope Francis is third Pope to win days early in Rome and make a retreat as a time of prayer and reflection considering the many Time’s Person of the Year honor “good times and bad” of the last quarter century. By Carol Glatz Time announced it had named the Father As well, I had felt inspired to Catholic News Service pope for the annual feature. Lombardi write to our Holy Father, Pope “Rarely has a new player on said. But if Francis, and asked for the oppor- Pope Francis is not seek- the world stage captured so much the recogni- tunity to meet him when I was ing fame or accolades, but attention so quickly—young and tion “attracts in Rome for my Silver Jubilee being named Time maga- old, faithful and cynical—as has women retreat. It was my desire to zine’s Person of the Year will Pope Francis,” Time said on its and men receive his blessing to give me a make him happy if it helps website. “With a focus on com- and gives special grace for the future years attract people to the hope of passion, the leader of the Catholic them hope, in the Lord’s service. A response the Gospel, said the Vatican Church has become a new voice the pope is arrived from his secretary just a spokesman. of conscience.” happy.” few weeks later and I was invited “It’s a positive sign that one Blessed John Paul II was The to concelebrate Holy Mass with of the most prestigious recogni- named Person of the Year in 1994 spokesman the Pope at 7 am on November tions in the international press” and Blessed John XXIII in 1962. added that 21, the Feast of the Presentation goes to a person who “pro- Other past honorees include Pope Francis of Mary, in the Chapel of the claims to the world spiritual, several U.S. presidents, Mahatma would also St. Martha Guest House. I was religious and moral values and Gandhi, Adolf Hitler, Josef Stalin be pleased greatly looking forward to meet- speaks effectively in favor of and Mark Zuckerberg, founder if the maga- ing our new Vicar of Christ and peace and greater justice,” said of Facebook. The magazine says zine’s deci- hoped that we could exchange a the spokesman, Jesuit Father the title goes to the person or idea sion “means few words after the Mass. Federico Lombardi. that “for better or worse ... has that many When I first arrived at the The choice of Pope Francis done the most to influence events have under- priests’ residence, I had the “is not surprising, given the of the year.” stood, at opportunity to read the Pope’s wide appeal and huge attention” The Pope “does not seek least implic- homily at the episcopal ordina- to his pontificate so far, Father fame and success, because he itly, this tion of the new Director of the Lombardi said in a written state- serves to proclaim the Gospel message” Governance of the Vatican City ment December 11, shortly after and God’s love for everyone,” of hope. n State. Pope Francis told him to 9 December 2013 A Day in Bethlehem A special local destination

By JOSEPH PRONECHEN A year later, the woman who The church was specifically owned it at the time donated it to constructed of fieldstone and wood This Christmas season, as part the abbey and entrusted the nuns and designed to encompass the of your family’s Twelve Days to protect and preserve it for pos- nativity scene (churchofthenativity- of Christmas celebration, make terity. The same donor also gave ct.org). The wondrous scene begins Bethlehem a special destination to a similar magnificent Neapolitan right inside the vestibule, which has see and pray before the Nativity. crèche to the Metropolitan walls of glass separating it from the It doesn’t mean a flight to Museum. It is displayed there nave. Here there is a permanent, THE FIRST STOP is at the Regina Laudis Abbey, Bethlehem, Connecticut. Israel, but, in this case, a pleasant annually during Christmas. year-round crèche with life-sized drive to Bethlehem, Connecticut. As was the custom back then, figures of wood. by an artist in Maine from a see and worship: “O Come All This rural town attracts this Bethlehem crèche places The Virgin Mary stands and single pine tree. Ye Faithful,” tons of visitors to the local post the nativity in a contemporary cradles Jesus on her shoulder. Etched onto the glass wall Whether on your way into or office to get their Christmas early 18th century Neapolitan The Infant Lord is looking over behind the Holy Family is a out of the church, you can stop cards postmarked with that spe- setting in a mountainside village her shoulder to see into the nave. panorama of the little town of on the lawn in front to see the There he gazes at the cross. Bethlehem. Through the wall and permanent, very large manger Joseph kneels reverently by them. visible behind the altar are the scene with its 20-foot stable filled All these figures were carved words of the hymn inviting us to with the scene of the nativity. n

erhaps the greatest joy in retiring is P knowing you can live life to its fullest. Maintaining your indepen- dence and helping you enjoy THE SECOND CRÈCHE to visit is just four miles up the road from the Abbey, practically in Bethlehem center, on East Street at the Church of the Nativity. life is our only goal at Carmel Ridge and Teresian Towers. Located on the grounds of cial Bethlehem stamp. But few against a background mural of St. Joseph’s Manor, our visitors realize that better things blue sky and seaside. The heart of await them in Bethlehem. They the crèche is the Holy Family— unique retirement commu- can visit two magnificent crèches Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. nity provides the support and —one on the way to the town Angels hover above in awe at security you may need to live center and the other just yards up the sight of our Infant Savior’s the road from the post office. birth. At the same time, the vil- life to its fullest, including The first stop is at the lagers populating the scene and 24-hour medical and security Regina Laudis Abbey stretching out of the town react in services, nursing staff, shopping (AbbeyofReginaLaudis.com), different ways to this most holy a community of cloistered sight. The life-like figures mir- transportation, and optional Benedictine nuns that was ror the reactions of people even meal plan. Day-to-day living is founded after World War II. On today. Some are in wonder as they enhanced by an on-site chapel, the grounds and set back from approach the manger to adore the Flanders Road, the abbey has an newborn King. Some are too busy library, recreation hall, crafts early 18th-century masterpiece with transporting their wares or room, swimming pool, and displayed in a barn dating back taking care of mundane duties to nearby golfing. to nearly that same time. The notice anything different going on, barn was recently restored specifi- or they are just plain curious with cally to house this nativity scene. no reaction to the spiritual scene. In fact, just a few years ago the This is a big village. There are We would like to help you nativity on display got a three- 68 figures of carved wood, ceram- make the next years the finest plus year meticulous restoration ic, metal and plant fiber. Some are of your life. To receive more done by authorities who worked nearly a foot and a half tall. All at the Metropolitan Museum of are dressed in their original 18th information or to sched- Art in New York City. century costumes that specialists ule a visit, call 1-800-852-3866 in Connecticut or 203-261-2229 from out of This crèche is enormous and from the Metropolitan Museum state. Units from $58,000. Inquire about our Rental Program starting from definitely elaborate. It spans 16 restored to pristine form. $995 per month. feet from end to end and is six The second crèche to visit feet in depth. is just four miles up the road According to its history, from the abbey, practically in the crèche was a gift to Victor Bethlehem center, on East Street. Teresian Towers/Carmel Ridge Estates Amadeus II of Sardinia for It is the Church of the Nativity, 6454 Main Street • Trumbull, Connecticut 06611 his coronation in 1720. It was and it recalls Jesus’ birth all 365 A non-denominational facility owned by the Diocese of Bridgeport. Professionally managed by Winn Residential. brought to America in 1948. days of the year. 10 December 2013

EDITORIAL YEAR END GIFTS

Awaiting Christmas Now that we are approach- ing the end of the year when CLERGYAPPOINTMENTS In an ideal world, advent is about preparing for the birth of Jesus, many people are generous and not about hectic holiday shopping. In the real world, you’re at the mall think more about their giving, on the way home from work. Xbox, iPad or Wii, which will they like there are advantages of making Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport, best? You pick up, then reject, the violent video game. You’re doing a donation through appreciated has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: the best you can. securities and through the IRA You turn on the news to reports about “Black Friday” or “Cyber Charitable Rollover (while it is Monday,” the season laced with sales totals, as if our highest destiny still in place). as human beings is to be consumers—all the better if we can abandon Donating Appreciated Judicial Vicar our actual Thanksgiving and Christmas observances! Securities can give donors spe- MSGR. JERALD A. DOYLE, J.C.D., re-apointed to Judicial Vicar, You hurry to get to Mass, and wish you didn’t shop on Sundays. cial tax advantages. Donating Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on January 1, 2017. You squeeze in time for the Sacrament of Reconciliation and work to assets that have grown in value Adjutant Judicial Vicar let go of all those resentments you’ve been collecting—knowing full well over a long period of time such the holiday season may put a few more in the basket. as marketable securities allows MSGR. J. JAMES CUNEO, J.C.D., re-apointed to Adjutant Judicial Vicar, There is no perfect Christmas cookie. There is no perfect Christmas a donor to receive an income Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on January 1, 2017. tax deduction for the full market dinner. (Your sister brought her dog last Christmas; your husband Judge hates dogs.) You adapt to the challenges of this year’s Christmas sea- value of the stock on the date of the gift, provided they have FATHER MICHAEL A. BOCCACCIO, re-apointed to Judge in the son. You’re not perfect. But you pray, light a candle, worry about oth- Tribunal, Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on January 1, ers in your rare quiet moments. owned the securities for more than 12 months. Most donors 2017. On Christmas night, when the house is finally calm, take ten avoid liability for capital gains MSGR. WILLIAM A. GENUARIO, P.A., J.C.D., re-apointed to Judge seconds before you unplug the tree. Take a long, quiet breath. All sea- tax otherwise due on the sale of in the Tribunal, Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on son long, through a limping, imperfect, well-intentioned Advent and securities. January 1, 2017. Christmas, you’ve done the best you could. Now Christmas has a pres- The IRA Charitable ent for you: the chance to be reborn in Christ, to renew your life, and FATHER MICHAEL SKROCKI, J.C.D., re-apointed to Judge in the Rollover is still available for Tribunal, Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on January 1, to participate in the fullness of time through the beauty of his light. 2013, but not after 2013. Donors 2017. age 70½ or older are still eligible FATHER MICHAEL M. QUINLAN, J.C.L., re-apointed to Judge in the to move up to $100,000 from Tribunal, Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on January 1, An extraordinary year their IRAs to qualified chari- 2017. ties without being taxed on the We are coming to the end of an extraordinary year for the Church distribution. There are additional FATHER WILLIAM F. VERRILLI, J.C.L., re-apointed to Judge in the and for our own diocese. Tribunal, Diocese of Bridgeport. A three-year term ending on January 1, tax benefits in reducing Adjusted 2017. In February 2013, Benedict XVI became the first Pope in 600 years Gross Income, including reduc- to resign, and not long after that, the little-known Jorge Cardinal ing the limits of itemized deduc- Vicar Bergoglio stepped out onto the Vatican balcony and took the name tions and exemptions, and reduc- Francis. Since then, he has captured the love and respect of the entire ing the tax effects of the new FATHER G. FRANTZ DESRUISSEAUX, re-apointed to Vicar for the Hatian Catholic Community. A five-year term ending on January 1, 2019. world with his compassion and humility. Investment Income Tax. This tax Then at the end of July, when we had become convinced that we benefit expires after December FATHER GUSTAVO A. FALLA, re-apointed to Vicar for the Spanish- would not have a new bishop for months, Pope Francis sent us Bishop 31, 2013. speaking Catholic Community. A five-year term ending on January 1, Frank J. Caggiano of Brooklyn. In his short time in the diocese, he has Please review the tax pro- 2019. inspired us with his call “to build spiritual bridges,” and his energy and visions of giving appreciated FATHER REGINALD NORMAN, to Vicar for the African American joy in getting to know the diocese. securities or through the IRA Catholic Community. A five-year term ending on January 1, 2019. While we awaited our new leaders, the work of the diocese went Charitable Rollover with your on under the leadership of Msgr. Jerald A. Doyle, who served ably tax advisor. We are not tax Sabbatical as administrator: we ordained seven priests, educated 10,000 children experts and this is not intended FATHER COLIN J. MCKENNA, Parochial Vicar of Sacred Heart Parish, in our schools, served 1.5 million meals to the poor and elderly, and to provide tax advice. After you Georgetown, to Sabbatical. Effective date was November 1. celebrated the sacraments in our 82 parishes. You can read many more have discussed your personal details in the Bishop’s Stewardship Report included in this issue. situation with your tax advisor, Rev. Msgr. Kevin Royal, Episcopal Vicar for Clergy Personnel please call the Development In this season of giving, we thank all those who have given so much December, 2013 throughout the year. May your Advent journey be filled with the hope Office at 203.416.1312. and the blessings of the season, and may you and your family have a Happy and Holy Christmas.

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that he himself had once said dent upon him. the Christmas message of hope he hoped his “Carole” would He also bears a cross—know- and redemption. So it lives on. A Woman’s View “pleasantly haunt the lives” of his ing that he cannot provide the I got the sense that I was sup- audiences. It has, generations of medical care needed by his son, posed to write about Charles By Antoinette Bosco them. tiny Tim. The child faces an early Dickens this Christmas because As for why, it certainly is death. when I put down Chesterton’s because he dealt with the two As the story progresses, book, I picked up another small Antoinette Bosco is a member ultimate themes of existence—life Dickens, who has the gift of being book that had biographies of of St. Marguerite Bourgeoys and death—and with human an imaginative story teller, cre- men of science and literature. failing. That failing, of course, ates an eerie setting that forces There, I found an entirely dif- Parish in Brookfield. is greed and the love of money, Scrooge to face his own evil and ferent set of personal writings which so easily carry one to the the death this will lead him to. of Dickens, a father of nine. In extreme of crowding out all the It may seem strange that a a letter to his son Edward, leav- y house is loaded great writer and Catholic convert really good things in life. When Christmas story begins on this ing for Australia, he writes, “I with books, many Chesterton. money becomes one’s ‘god,” then note of death, for Christmas is a put a New Testament among of them purchased In this notable author’s respect the next logical need is to have time of birth—the greatest birth your books because it is the best Mat used book sales. I for Dickens, I understood even power, for without power you ever, the one that forever brought book that ever was, or will be, intend to read all of them “some- better why I had always been cannot protect your money. Love into this world. But that’s known in the world… You will day.” This week I noticed one a fan of his forever-enduring Dickens created Scrooge to the seduction of “A Christmas therefore understand the better bought a long while ago with two Christmas story. As Chesterton be the embodiment of greed’s Carole.” By undergoing his sym- that I now most solemnly impress great names on the dust jacket. explained, for Dickens, effect—becoming a loveless man. bolic death, Scrooge realizes how upon you the truth and beauty It was titled “Charles Dickens, “Comradeship and serious joy are He exercises over his employee, he has lost his life—and he asks of the Christian religion, as it the Last of the Great Men,” not interludes in our travel; but Bob Cratchit, bleeding every forgiveness and another chance. came from Christ Himself, and by G.K. Chesterton. Thinking rather, our travels are interludes ounce of labor from him to pro- Dickens’ story then becomes a the impossibility of your going far of Dickens’ great “Christmas in comradeship and joy, which tect and increase his own wealth. tale of life renewed. wrong if you humbly but heartily Carole,” I picked up the book through God shall endure for- Mr. Cratchit, a man who values Chesterton points out that, respect it.” curiously. Not surprisingly, I read ever.” fidelity to his family, accepts this in the rebirth of Scrooge and His message is beautifully it in one sitting, so taken was I His words had me reflecting exploitation so as to keep his job the saving of Tiny Tim, “A appropriate was we prepare for by the wonderful writing of the on Dickens’ story, remembering and support those who are depen- Christmas Carole” proclaims of Christmas! n A Parish Christmas Animation Studios. Michael is a past grand knight There’s no better example of At nine, our Clara is an old of Father Stapleton Council joyful preparation than the Holy A Dad’s View Christmas pro. I worry that she’s #2287 and a man of garrulous Family. According to Luke, when starting to grow suspicious of this good cheer all year round. He’s the angel Gabriel visited Mary By Matthew Hennessey Santa business. I wish she would hoping the health of his 12-week- and Joseph, the news he brought stay nine forever. This is the wish old granddaughter improves dur- was so awesome and confusing of all fathers. ing Advent. If you don’t mind, they didn’t know how to process Matthew Hennessey and Monsignor would like it if say a prayer for the little angel. it. They were only a young cou- we could somehow extend the This Christmas, ple, just starting his family are parishioners Christmas spirit of hope and Marie is hoping the out. In today’s of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. caring throughout the year. He young people she “Frosty isn’t world we could should talk to our Magdalena. works with will stay imagine Mary No one loves Christmas more close to the Church technically telling Gabriel he Knights of Columbus door. Where did November go? than she does, but it doesn’t have after they are con- that the timing put up the crèche for Last year we didn’t have the to be December for her to feel firmed. She is the a member of wasn’t so good. the living nativity on time or the energy to do any the spirit. She’ll sing “Frosty the director of religious “I’m not Tthe Saturday after decorating. Baby Sally had just Snowman” coming out of the education at St. our Church.” ready,” the mod- Thanksgiving. Turnout was good, been born. This will be her first town pool on July 4th. A’s. “A nice new ern Mary might but there’s only enough work for real Christmas. We haven’t dis- (Frosty isn’t technically a building for all my say. “Joseph isn’t a couple of guys. It’s really more cussed it with her in detail, but I member of our Church. Then students would be nice, too,” she really established in his career of a social occasion—the unof- sense she doesn’t want much in again, James Joyce described says with a little bit of a twinkle yet, and I’ve still got a few things ficial start of Advent. the way of material things. She’s Catholicism as “here comes in her eye. Are you listening, I want to do before we start a “Advent is a time of hope,” still working on the basics—walk- everybody.” Don’t snowmen Santa? family.” But in her moment of says Msgr. Scheyd, pastor of St. ing, talking, feeding herself. We count?) This is Bishop Caggiano’s difficulty, Our Lady offered up Aloysius. “It’s a time of prepara- should all be so unattached. For Deacon Steve, Advent is first Christmas in Bridgeport. I all her fears to God and gave us tion.” In our house, preparations When Sally gets a little older, less about Rankin & Bass then it hope he’s not too homesick for an example of trust and faith that take the form of decorations. I she can confer with Paddy. His is about prayer and Mass. “It’s a Brooklyn. Come to think of it, we can truly live by. Don’t forget: was impressed when the kids Christmas list starts coming high holy kind of time,” he says. this is our first Christmas with Christmas is a pro-life story. made an Advent calendar from together around Labor Day. A Deacon Steve enjoys reading the Pope Francis as well. What a If our Church is, indeed, two pieces of poster board. Less little boy’s wishes are often not Church Fathers as part of the great and loving example both “here comes everybody,” so when I realized we still hadn’t bounded by rationality. Five- Liturgy of the Hours at this time men are giving us of how to live a then this Christmas, to para- taken down the Halloween scare- year-old Paddy is hoping Santa of year. We’re lucky to have such Christian life in communion with phrase Tiny Tim, “God bless crows and put a wreath on the will bring him a career at Pixar a fellow in our parish. Church teachings. us, everybody.” n 12 December 2013 Cardinal Shehan Center Breakfast A nurturing community is the right of every child BRIDGEPORT—Beyond ilies and young people of lower belonging and are mentored and its recreational and educa- Fairfield County, particularly challenged.” tion programs, the Cardinal inner city Bridgeport. Its mis- The bishop said that true Shehan Center offers young sion is “Enriching Lives Through community for children is not people “something precious and Learning” through After School simply keeping them busy but intangible that is their right as & Saturday Youth Development “coming together with purpose children of God,” Bishop Frank programs, a summer day camp, and embracing nobler values to J. Caggiano said at the 26th a number of basketball and soft- serve one another for the com- Annual Celebrity Breakfast of ball leagues, physical education mon good.” He said his vision for the Cardinal Shehan Center held classes for grammar schools and the future of the diocese “is one November 20 at the Downtown alternative education programs. of hope, growth and vitality, and Holiday Inn. Speaking to a gathering of young people are at the center of “The word is ‘community,’ more than 400 men and women this vision. The Lord will guide a place where children are nur- business and civic leaders, Bishop us and places like the Shehan tured, accepted and known by Caggiano said many young Center will help to make this their name,” said the bishop at people today are deprived of the vision a reality.” the breakfast, which raised over community support that adults During the breakfast, Kolbe $65,000 for the youth center’s after- received in their youth. YOUTH SPEAKER: Terry O’Connor, executive director of the Cardinal Cathedral High School sopho- Shehan Center, and Bishop Frank J. Caggiano congratulate Kolbe Cathedral school and Saturday programs. The bishop said that when he High School sophomore Marcus Hickey after he spoke to the gathering of more Marcus Hickey was hon- For 50 years the Shehan grew up in Gravesend, Brooklyn, over 400 at the celebrity breakfast. Marcus said that he grew up at the Shehan ored as the youth speaker. “I Center has served the recreation- he didn’t have a brother, but he Center and that it has played an important role in his learning and personal grew up at the Shehan Center, al, educational, and social needs had seven friends that formed a development. and it has played a huge role in of moderate and low-income fam- band of brothers who played stick my life,” he told the gathering. Douglas Turnage, a corporate ball in the street and looked out revenue analyst for Unilever, Cemetery Offices for one another. The eyes and accepted a volunteer award on BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD ears of parents and other adults behalf of the Trumbull company, St. Michael Cemetery 2205 Stratford Avenue were also constantly watching which provides consumer goods Stratford, CT 06615 over them. and personal care products. 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Manago-Executive Director 13 December 2013 St. Vincent’s Medical Center 2013 Employee of the Year BRIDGEPORT—Joseph and “Nemo,” which put quite a nates campus-wide safety aware- Laveneziana, executive direc- strain on the community at large. ness, training and drills in order to tor of Facilities and Security at Described as a “servant leader” keep each and every St. Vincent’s St. Vincent’s Medical Center, with “impeccable moral character” employee in step with safety and was named St. Vincent’s and “the highest levels of integrity” security protocol. 2013 Employee of the Year. by his colleagues, Lavenziana is Lavenziana was hired by St. Laveneziana is a Shelton resident charged with the complex task of Vincent’s in 1989 as the Medical and a member of St. Jude Parish keeping patients, visitors and staff Center’s director of Safety and in Monroe. He has been with St. safe in an often hectic and demand- Security. As the Medical Center Vincent’s Health Services for 24 ing environment. He oversees a grew, so did his responsibili- safety and environment of care. or work in the Medical Center years and was recognized not only sizeable safety and security team ties. By 1992, he was chair for Lavenziana was promoted to his safe is not enough pressure for for his dedication and commit- who must be trained, prepared the Emergency Preparedness current role as executive director Lavenziana, as Employee of the ment, but for his extraordinary and primed for any number of Committee and also assumed of Facilities, Safety and Security Year, he alone will be responsible leadership and reliability during security and emergency situations responsibility for oversight in reg- in 2012. for placing the Angel on top of the two major storms “Sandy” that might arise. He also coordi- ulatory compliance as it relates to As if keeping all who visit the St. Vincent’s Christmas tree.n

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To all Fairfield County Catholics, we wish you a Blessed Christmas & a Happy, Healthy New Year filled with Good News 14 December 2013 Shepherds Yankee leads Shepherds line-up DARIEN—Yankees First Baseman Mark Teixeira teamed with Shepherds as the guest speaker at the Fifteenth Anniversary Founder’s Dinner on October 10 at the Woodway Country Club. Shepherds’ mission is described by co-founders Barnet Philips, IV, and Brendan Fisk as “Helping one kid at a time, getting them through school and on to a productive life.” Teixeira spent time learning about personal experiences and chal- Teixeira, who has earned five Gold Glove lenges with Shepherds’ seniors at Kolbe-Cathedral High School: (l-r) and three Silver Slugger Awards, is a member Herlinda, Jocelyn, Jonathan, Andrew and Sophomore Catherine. He of St. Michael Parish in Greenwich. He shares also took time to discuss student successes with alumni and alumni Shepherds’ belief that education is the key to mentors. (l-r) Front row: Dessirett, Bianca, Netfa; back row: Marques, lifelong success. Nancy and Curtis (l-r, second row). n

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December, 2013 Dear Friends in Christ,

Allow me to begin by of the Diocese of Bridgeport. To that end, presented in and replacing it with a defined contribution plan expressing my sincere gratitude this report are the condensed financial statements and for employees; for the heartfelt welcome you commentary for fiscal years 2010, 2011 and 2012 for • Instituting a pension shortfall assessment in 2011, have given me since my arrival the Bridgeport Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation with plans to continue the assessment each year as Bishop of the Diocese of (the “Diocese”). Also being presented as part of this until the liability is fully discharged; Bridgeport. I am truly humbled report are the full audits for fiscal years 2010, 2011 • Close monitoring of the pension fund’s asset allo- to serve the Lord in this strong, and 2012, which can be found online at www.bridge- cation and investment strategy by the Diocesan diverse and faith-filled com- portdiocese.com/Stewardship.html. These audited Finance Council Investment Committee; munity. Further, I am truly financial statements received clean, unqualified opin- • Ongoing review and reorganization of Diocesan blessed to follow the strong and ion letters from our outside auditors. By December operations, to generate efficiencies and reduced dedicated leadership of my pre- 31, 2013, we will also issue financial statements with expenses. decessors. commentary for fiscal year 2009. Since the 2009 audit As I begin my ministry in year reflects an 18 month audit, as the result of a As I have studied the situation over the last two your midst, I commit to you, change in the Diocesan fiscal year from June 30th to months, I wish to commend those in past positions of the priests, deacons, women December 31st, it is not a comparative report to those Diocesan leadership who made difficult decisions to and men in consecrated life and issued here. By January 31, 2014 a full accounting of address these challenges. I applaud my predecessors the lay faithful of the Diocese, the Diocesan endowment fund, Faith in the Future, and Monsignor Jerald Doyle, whose hard work before my unwavering commitment to will be issued. my arrival has given us a solid foundation upon which serve as your shepherd here in This stewardship report and accompanying finan- to build. Fairfield County. cial statements are the first step in a three step process. I am grateful to our Diocesan financial services My vision for the future of With this report I am providing a current assessment team, the Diocesan Finance Council, the College the Diocese of Bridgeport is of the Diocese, as well as specific information on of Consultors, and many others for their hard work one of a growing and vibrant its recent past. The second step will be to undergo a and dedication to ensure faithful stewardship of the Church that welcomes every- consultative and collaborative process by which we resources entrusted to the Church’s care. one who seeks to deepen their can articulate together a comprehensive pastoral and As we acknowledge the challenges that we face relationship with the Lord Jesus strategic vision for the future of our Diocese. Included as a Diocese here in Fairfield County, I am delighted within our Catholic community in that vision will be identifying those areas of pastoral to report that our 82 parishes, 34 schools, our social of faith. Central to this welcome life that need to be revitalized in order to realize a service ministry provided by Catholic Charities, and is my desire to invite all of our vibrant and growing Church. The third step will be to many other pastoral, spiritual, and educational ser- young people to grow in love of develop a concrete plan that will allow us to realize vices offered by the Diocese and outlined in this report the Lord Jesus and to find their this vision over the next few years. To achieve these have faithfully and generously served the Lord Jesus spiritual home in our parishes goals, I will seek the assistance and collaboration of and His people very well. Whether we look at our and schools. My vision is one all in Diocesan leadership, as well as all the clergy, spiritual and pastoral life, educational and social ser- of hope and growth, of renewed religious and lay leaders of our Diocese. vice ministries, or the financial stewardship provided faith and charity towards those As we know, the past five years have seen great by our Diocese, there is great news and much progress most in need. change and presented significant challenges in our to be celebrated. With your help, support and country’s broader financial markets. The Diocese has While we continue to work together to enhance prayers, I stand ready to col- also experienced similar change and challenges, as our financial resources, we are all committed to doing laborate with you to make this outlined in our financial statements. Like many other the Lord’s work in our parishes and communities. It is vision a reality. non-profit organizations and individuals during 2008, each of you, our faithful priests, deacons and women As a necessary first step the investment portfolio of the Diocese, particularly and men in consecrated life who have given their in building the future of our the Diocesan Lay Pension Plan, experienced market- lives in dedicated witness to the Church, and the lay Diocese in service of the Lord, related losses. Additionally, the Diocese has struggled faithful who have given their time, talent, and trea- I wish to begin by sharing the over the past several years with an annual operating sure, who make this work possible. We all share this accompanying Stewardship deficit, primarily due to the inability to collect all of responsibility, through our individual vocations and Report that includes a summary the insurance premiums due from some of our schools ministries, and the support we give to our parishes and of our ministries and a picture and parishes. As a result, the Diocese required both the Annual Bishop’s Appeal. of the current financial position external and internal borrowings to finance ongoing I ask you to join me to foster a growing and regular operations. You will see in the vibrant Church here in the Diocese of Bridgeport, accompanying reports how the Diocese where all are welcome and in which our young people has chosen to address these challenges. will find their spiritual home. Finally, despite these financial challenges, It is in this spirit that I wish to express my sincere the Diocese has continued to honor its thanks to all of you for your generosity and commit- commitment not to fund any settlements ment to Christ and His Church. May our work in the of sexual abuse claims with monies from years ahead reap great fruit as we strive to serve the donors, parishes or Diocesan accounts but Lord through one another. has funded these settlements with past and As we enter the Advent season, please be assured ongoing property sales. of my prayers for you and your loved ones. Over the last few years, the Diocese has Sincerely in Christ, taken a number of steps to strengthen its financial position. Among these steps are:

• Freezing the Lay Pension Plan for Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano all participants as of July 2010, Bishop of Bridgeport 17 December 2013 Stewardship Report This Stewardship Report is a vibrant Vietnamese community wor- just the last two years, we have welcomed nificantly grown. In addition to providing first and foremost a record of shipping at St. Augustine Cathedral in several new permanent deacons to our support for the Rite of Christian Initiation Bridgeport and growing Brazilian commu- clergy family. Also in the past few years, of Adults process, the following ministries/ faith in our Diocese. Nothing nities in Danbury and Bridgeport, as well we have also welcomed seven new reli- opportunities now exist: Professionally could compel the extraordinary as a long history of Hispanic and Haitian gious communities who bring a deep faith recorded St. Cyril of Jerusalem Program commitment, personal giving, ministries in our Diocese. Our parishes and renewed vitality to the Diocese. available online, Diocesan partnership also serve Polish, Korean, Nigerian, Italian The practice of our faith is a work of with Sacred Heart University entitled and acts of faithful service out- S.H.A.R.E, numerous annual pilgrimages, lined here other than the experi- Train the Trainer program for parish lead- ence of the Risen Lord in our ers, and classes to prepare adults for the Sacrament of Confirmation. midst. It is a faith that binds Youth Ministry is flourishing in many generations and celebrates the parishes and schools. Growing numbers presence of Jesus in our lives of young women and men participate in Convivio (an annual retreat that focuses and manifests itself in the good on their personal relationship with Jesus), works outlined below. World Youth Day (every 2-3 years), an annual Fan the Fire youth rally at St. Rose As Catholics, we must constantly ask, of Lima Parish, mission trips to Peru, and “How authentic are we as a loving com- a highly successful High School Apostles munity?” The good works described here leadership program for the youth. answer this important question. They The Marriage and Family ministry speak to a stewardship with its roots in the oversees the reinvigorated Marriage Gospel mandate to serve the poor, to care Preparation Program (650 couples for the sick and to bring the merciful love were served in 2012). This ministry has of Jesus to all those who are seeking recon- expanded to offer outreach, catechesis and ciliation and healing in life. services to newly married couples, couples Stewardship is a gift, not a burden. already married for a number of years, and Stewards are neither masters nor ser- those individuals who have experienced a vants, but loving caretakers who treat the divorce. In addition, our Episcopal Vicar resources with which they are entrusted as for Hispanics oversees a growing Marriage if they were their own. In a larger sense, Preparation Program in Spanish. this report is not simply about Diocesan The Ministry for People with stewardship, but the giving of time, talent Disabilities has received national atten- and treasure by so many people of faith in and Hungarian Catholics, along with oth- grace that draws on the gifts and talents tion for pioneering catechetical programs our parishes, schools, and throughout the ers from a variety of European, African of every believer. In the work of the local that catechize people with developmental Diocese. and Asian countries. Church, we continue to discover new ways disabilities: www.liturgy123.com and St. Augustine reminds us that only The following spiritual movements have to love God and serve one another. Sacraments123 (an iPad mobile app). those who are truly grateful for their lives brought new fervor and adult faith forma- The Respect Life program has expand- and gifts can be generous to others. They tion to the Diocese: the Neocatechumenal Pastoral Services ed to include an annual Diocesan trip to use their own talents well, and give their Way, Legion of Mary, Teams of Our and Christian Formation the Pro-Life March, the annual Respect surplus blessings to support those in need. Lady, Marriage Encounter, Walking with The Diocesan Office for Pastoral Life Mass, Project Rachel (that provides The following report offers a snapshot Purpose, Focolare, Communion and Services fosters, guides, and supports the numerous confidential services to women of the wide range of ministries, programs, Liberation, Opus Dei, Cursillo, TEC, endeavor of life-long formation in the and men who have suffered through an and charisms at work in our local Church. Knights of St Gregory, Knights of Malta, teachings of Christ and all aspects of the abortion), Days of Hope and Healing, and The report also provides a comprehensive Knights of Holy Sepulchre, Knights of Catholic Faith on both the parish and the 40 Days for Life campaign. and accurate picture of diocesan finances Columbus and Columbiettes, Emmaus, Diocesan levels. It evangelizes by provid- The Annual Diocesan Lenten and financial commentary, as well as the PII, Regina Christi, TMIY (That Man is ing catechesis for all ages by supporting Confessional Campaign has successfully summary of good work you make possible You!), Sons of St. Joseph, Third Orders of and building up parish catechetical pro- welcomed back thousands of people to the through your continued financial support. Dominicans, Franciscans, Carmelites, and grams, youth and young adult ministries, Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation Benedictines. adult formation, Christian Initiation, over the last several years. This past Lent, Living in the Spirit The Diocese is blessed with 240 priests, pro-life and family life activities, marriage the U.S. Bishops encouraged all dioceses We are a diocese of 82 parishes serv- 103 deacons, and 343 religious women preparation, and formation programs for to offer similar campaigns and highlighted ing 420,000 Catholics in Fairfield County. and men in consecrated life who witness to teachers, catechists, catechetical leaders, the Diocese of Bridgeport program as a Our parishes continue to proclaim the Christ and serve in loving ministries, and and clergy. model to follow. Gospel, draw people into the life of the a laity second to none in its generosity and More than 36,000 children participate Sacraments, and serve as loving communi- record of faith. Last year we celebrated in the Religious Education programs in Communications ties that bring the comfort of Jesus to those 4,343 Baptisms, 5,128 First Communions, the 82 parishes throughout the Diocese. The Diocese of Bridgeport is commit- in need. and 2,614 Marriages that reflect a vibrant, This great collaborative effort between the ted to bringing the Good News of the In our diverse Diocese, Mass is said living Catholic faith. Additionally, seven Diocese and its parishes teaches our young Gospel to Fairfield County through the in 14 languages and the area’s newest men were ordained to the priesthood, people in the Catholic faith and prepares use of print, electronic and social media. immigrants worship alongside those who while 37 seminarians are discerning their the next generation of believers. Its many publications and online efforts have been here for generations. There is vocations and preparing for ministry. In The Adult Formation ministry has sig- inform, evangelize and educate, while 18 December 2013 Stewardship Report from diverse cultural schools. Catholic Charities is often the backgrounds, contin- only much needed help available to many ues to serve a growing of our most fragile clients. This service international popula- is and will continue to be available in tion in this city. especially difficult situations such as the Professional devel- Newtown tragedy. These much needed opment of our teachers programs will be maintained in spite of remains a priority, with shrinking financial support from govern- programs in conjunc- ment and private sources. tion with Fairfield Housing needs are one of the biggest University and Sacred challenges we face in Fairfield County but Heart University. an increased focus on meeting these needs has resulted in the establishment of sev- Catholic Charities eral facilities in Bridgeport and Stratford Catholic Charities currently providing permanent and transi- offers more than tional housing for nearly 200 individuals 30 programs across and families. Fairfield County serv- Family support services are an inherent ing thousands of needy part of all Catholic Charities programs but, and vulnerable of in particular, our Room to Grow preschool all backgrounds and program in Norwalk which serves 83 three faiths. The core services to five year old children from families with include nutrition, coun- limited resources. We hope to expand this seling, housing, family very successful program in the near term. support, immigration Immigration Support Services provides helping to build support and resources for Over 50% of our elementary schools services, and adoption. legal and lifestyle counseling to several the local Church. have now met the criteria for “Blue A broad range of nutrition activi- hundred individuals and families regularly. The Diocesan newspaper, Fairfield Ribbon” status by the U.S. Department of ties include six programs in Bridgeport, We are certified by the Department of County Catholic, continues to thrive with a Education, the highest national honor for Stamford, and Danbury serving 1.5 million Justice and expect this welcoming activ- circulation of over 100,000, making it the any school. This puts our schools in the meals annually in soup kitchens, food pan- ity will continue to grow as immigration largest newspaper in the state, mailed free top 10% of public and private schools in tries, the elderly in their homes and senior changes evolve with legislation on the of charge every month. the country. Our students in grades 3-8 at centers, as well as more than 200 meals horizon in the next few years. The Diocesan website records almost our Blue Ribbon schools rank in the top daily to inner city youth. We recently initi- Catholic Charities’ oldest service, the 20,000 visits each month and offers timely 15% of schools in the country in reading ated an effort to provide fresh and nutri- Adoption program, has had to be restruc- and detailed information. Usage continues and math. tionally beneficial food in the past year. tured as available placements have decreased to grow, making the website an impressive In our five Diocesan Catholic high Individual and family mental health significantly. We currently offer pregnancy and effective way to get the message of schools, average SAT scores in critical the Church out, particularly to our young reading and writing are above state and people. We are committed as a Diocese to national norms. The average percentage of stay ahead of the changes in communica- our students scoring 600 or better in SAT tion that mark our modern life in service Mathematics and Writing was higher than of the Gospel. national norms. 99% of all our high school Recently the Diocese has also moved graduates continue on to post secondary into social media with a lively two education. Facebook pages, a Youth Page, Twitter Our schools continue to thrive, both and an online newsletter sent to nearly academically and spiritually. Overall, our 40,000 registered Catholics who have enrollment continues to increase across our provided their emails. schools as a whole, serving over 10,000 students in our 28 elementary schools, Catholic Schools our special needs school (St. Catherine Our schools continue to model Christ’s Academy) and five high schools. Our example in every aspect of our learning commitment to serving inner city students environment, focusing on Gospel values continues to be a priority. This fall, we and a strong educational foundation with opened the new consolidated Cathedral Catholic identity as our priority. Our par- Academy on two campuses in Bridgeport. ishes continue to provide financial support The Catholic Academies of Bridgeport, to achieve our goals through an offertory including Cathedral Academy, St. Ann contribution that has translated into an and St. Andrew, as well as several of our annual contribution of $100,000 for all 25 neighboring Catholic elementary schools, support services are available through counseling and home studies across the not located in Bridgeport. The Bridgeport are serving over 1200 students from three clinics that provide 15,000 clinical County. In addition, we are one of only Catholic Academies receive support from Bridgeport alone, more than half of whom sessions annually. With a growing focus two Hague accredited agencies in the State the Bridgeport parishes and other contribu- benefit from financial assistance. St. Peter on children, we provide psychiatrists and enhancing our ability to serve other agencies tions specifically directed to these schools. School in Danbury, whose students hail psychologists in these clinics and our with, in particular, foreign adoptions. 19 December 2013 Financial Issues Financial Issues picture of the Diocese’s operational posi- ministries in the Diocese. While investment • Structure of Loan: Five years interest- Among the significant issues presented tion. While these long-term pension losses have prevented any income distribu- only payments with the remaining in the accompanying diocesan financial obligations continue to show a significant tions from the Fund for the past several balance amortized over the remaining statements, which also warrant discussion deficit, the Diocese fully expects to be able years, gradual recovery has positioned the 15 year term here are the following: to meet all of its ongoing obligations to all Fund to resume distributing support to its • Security: Certain properties owned of its former and retired employees under respective beneficiaries beginning in 2014. by the Diocese, primarily vacant land Operating Deficits its pension plans. In addition to the con- At December 2012, Faith in the Future (no parish or school properties As reflected in the Disaggregated densed, disaggregated financial statements, Fund had investments totaling more than included). If properties are sold, Statement of Activities, net assets have declined each year for the three years reviewed in these statements. The primary causes for these operating deficits from ongoing activities are:

• The level of uncollectible amounts of reimbursable revenue intended to cover employee benefits and insurance program expenses, primarily from inner city schools. • Increasing cost of healthcare and benefits. • Reduction of anticipated Annual Bishop’s Appeal contributions.

The causes of the decline in net assets have been and continue to be addressed. Specifically, an inner city school reorga- nization was implemented to generate the necessary funding to meet current obliga- tions including all employee benefits and insurance programs. Additionally, the Diocese is consistently reviewing benefits, the full, audited financial statements for $17.3M with an additional $4.7M in funds 75% of the net proceeds shall be used both healthcare and other benefits in the reporting periods of 2010, 2011 and due from the Diocese. Advances from to pay the principal balance. During order to provide adequate support to our 2012 are available for download on the Faith in the Future Fund were made to 2013 a portion of the principal balance employees, yet maintain a manageable Diocesan website: www.bridgeportdiocese. the Diocese in 2011 to support employee of the loan, $2.7M, was repaid from level of expense for the Diocese. Through com/Stewardship.shtml. benefit insurance programs that a number the sale of some of these properties. fostering participation in wellness, we part- of schools were unable to fund. Because ner with our employees to keep costs low Sexual Abuse Cases these schools are now beginning to pay In other financial matters, the Diocese As is presented in the commentary and services reasonable. Finally, although down these debts and other funds became continues to strengthen the financial ser- accompanying the financial statements, the Annual Bishop’s Appeal fell short of its available, a majority of the advanced funds vices it provides for both our schools and settlements associated with sexual abuse goal this past year, it was not unexpected. received by the Diocese have already been our parishes. For our Diocesan elementary cases have consistently decreased over Without a Bishop, fundraising efforts were repaid earlier in 2013. At September 2013, schools, our School Finance Department the last several years. In the State of challenging, but the Diocese anticipated Faith in the Future Fund had over $21.1M provides comprehensive assistance in the Connecticut, the statute of limitations this challenge and took measures to cut in investments with $1.7M of additional budgeting and accounting functions. In allows cases to be brought up to 30 years current payroll and benefit expenses which funds due from the Diocese. The Diocese our parishes, the continued use of the basic beyond the complainant’s 18th birthday. will be reflected in ongoing future year’s is committed to return in full as quickly as policies and procedures established in the Despite this lengthy claims window, the savings. possible all the advanced sums it received to Parish Administration & Finance Manual Diocese continues to see a reduction in ensure future distributions out of the Fund. has created a strong foundation for all par- Pension Plans and Retired Priest claims. Further, all of the current claims A complete, comprehensive financial report ish finance activities. This year alone, our Healthcare against the Diocese involve incidents for the Faith in the Future Fund will be Parish Finance group assisted our parishes Aided by the steady recovery of the alleged to have occurred before 1985. All issued separately from this presentation by in recovering tax refunds of over $300,000 investment market, the Diocesan Lay payments associated with these claims January 31, 2014. associated with health care premiums paid Pension Plan continues to recover from have been supported in full by the sale by our parishes on behalf of their employ- the losses it incurred in the 2008-2009 of diocesan assets. None of the monies Knights of Columbus ees as small business employers. timeframe. However, for purposes of the collected by the Diocese from parishes In December 2011, the Diocese issued The summary financial statements presentation of the Diocesan financial or other fundraising efforts including the a promissory note to the Knights of that follow were derived from the com- statements and accompanying commen- Annual Bishop’s Appeal is used to pay Columbus for $15M. The proceeds were plete financial statements prepared by tary found in the report, the long term settlement claims. used to repay in full a loan issued from EisnerAmperLLC, an independent certi- financial obligations pertaining to the lay another financial institution as well as fied public accounting firm. The com- pension, priest pension and retired priests’ Faith in the Future Fund reduce other long and short term payables. plete audited financial statements (with healthcare have been segregated from the The Faith in the Future Fund was cre- unqualified (clean) opinion) for the same results of the Diocese’s annual operations. ated in 1995 when Bishop Edward M. Egan Terms of the note are as follows: period are available for download on the By segregating these long-term obligations, authorized a capital campaign to provide • Term of Loan: 20 years Diocesan website: www.bridgeportdiocese. you will see a much clearer financial a source of endowed support for various • Interest Rate: 5% fixed com/Stewardship.shtml. n 20 December 2013 Combined Financial Statements Bridgeport Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation Commentary on Diocesan Disaggregated Condensed Combined Financial Statements for the Years Ended December 31, 2012, 2011 and 2010 Overview The disaggregated financial state- ments for The Bridgeport Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation (the Diocese) are provided to allow a concentrated analy- sis of the “ordinary” operations within the Diocese separately from the impact of the Pension Plans and Retired Priests Healthcare obligations. The Diocese continues to meet all of its ongoing pension and retired priest obliga- tions (defined benefit obligation) and fully anticipates continuing to meet these obliga- tions in the future. Defined benefit obliga- tions are required to be reported in the combined statement of financial position based on the amounts the Diocese would When combined with Appeal contribu- and most Diocesan have to pay a third party to assume those tions that are not included in the Diocesan entities (parishes, obligations. (The Bridgeport Diocesan financial statements, (that go directly to schools, Catholic Pension Plan [lay employees] was frozen Catholic Charities and Diocesan schools), the Charities, Cardinal effective July 31, 2010, i.e. participants total for the Appeal and other contribu- Shehan Center) who earn no further benefits under the plan tions and bequests was $12.4M in 2012, work the required after that date. This plan is part of the $14.4M in 2011 and $12.3M in 2010. minimum hours per defined benefit obligation mentioned week. The insurance above. A new plan, called the defined Employee Benefit program is for prop- contribution plan replaced the old one and and Insurance Programs erty, casualty and based on certain qualifiers, a set percentage The Diocesan employee benefit and liability insurance for of an employee’s salary is contributed for insurance programs is a reimbursable Diocesan entities. their retirement benefit.) Since the Diocese arrangement between the Diocese and The reimburse- lems that created this situation of uncol- has no intention of transferring the defined most Diocesan entities. It is also the larg- ment revenues from those programs repre- lected revenue, the Diocese has been able benefit obligations to a third party and est source of funds to the Diocese. The sent amounts billed to the other Diocesan to reduce those amounts each year. these obligations are of a long-term nature, entities to cover it is appropriate to evaluate the current their portion of the Catholic Cemeteries position of the Diocese with the defined related expenses Cemeteries and other operating rev- benefit obligation presented separately. with the objective enues have declined approximately $1M of “breaking even.” each year since 2010. New construction Results of Activities Unfortunately, of mausoleums in 2010, and the revenue Revenues and Gains those revenues streams created by those projects increased Overall revenue and gains improved were reduced by typical sales revenue over a two-year in 2012 compared to 2011 by $1.6M pri- approximately period of time. No new large construc- marily driven by investment income. The $1.7M in 2012, tion occurred during 2012, which reduced investment returns in 2012, $1.8M were $2M in 2011 and revenue as compared to earlier periods. dramatically improved from the volatile $2.3M in 2010 Evaluations of new opportunities within market and subsequent loss of $80K for the for uncollectible Diocesan cemeteries are underway, with Diocese during 2011. amounts, primar- a focus on creating increased revenue Annual Bishop’s Appeal ily parishes and streams for the future. The Annual Bishop’s Appeal, along schools unable to with other contributions and bequests, has pay the amounts Expenses remained steady over the past three years due for the good Including expenses related to pensions at approximately $11M, with a one time and dedicated and retired priest’s healthcare, the Diocese increase of $1.1M in 2011 for contribu- people who serve has reduced its expenses from $54.6M in tions related to the future expansion of the employee benefit programs (health, pen- you and your families in parish and school 2010 to $48.1M in 2012, with almost $4M Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of Clergy sions, and workers compensation) cover all offices and ministries. Through concerted in regular operations savings alone. The retirement home for Diocesan priests. lay and clergy employees of the Diocese efforts and focus on the underlying prob- largest savings, over $2.5M, comes from 21 December 2013 Combined Financial Statements Combined Financial Statements the employee benefit and insurance this reduction—investments and property programs. During the past three years, the and equipment. Investments, principally Diocese has recognized savings from: representing Faith in the Future Fund, declined by approximately $3.5M in 2011. • Annual review of benefits, both health- Advances from Faith in the Future Fund care and other, along with fostering were made to the Diocese to fund excess employee participation in wellness to expenses over revenue largely brought on keep expenses manageable. by the uncollectibility of schools employee • Sexual abuse claim settlement payments benefit insurance programs. As schools are were made as follows: 2010—$0K, able to pay down their amounts due to the 2011—$595K and 2012—$920K. Diocese for these benefits, or other revenue Expense accruals for future payments streams increase, the Diocese has in turn, were reduced from almost $2M in 2010 returned the funds to Faith in the Future to $1.45M in 2011 to $1M in 2012. for the benefit of the schools affected. Portions of revenue from property sales, During FY 2013, the Diocese has been both past and present, have been held in able to return all but $1.7M to Faith in reserve and used to fund settlements. the Future from property sales completed in the current year. Proceeds from future Other expenses were reduced con- property sales will assist in repaying the tinuously over the past three years in remaining outstanding balance. Administration and General, down over The second cause for the decline in notes section below). impact on pension payments to retirees. $700K, and Services and contributions to assets is depreciation expense related to In 2012, Cash and Cash equivalents, Pension payments are funded out of other Diocesan entities and other parties, property and equipment. Approximately while consistent with 2010 levels, grew current investments and shortfall funding. down over $500K. The Diocese has taken $1.8M in depreciation expense is recog- about $4M during 2011 due to proceeds (In July of 2011 a lay pension shortfall measures each year to cut payroll and ben- nized annually. Typically, about $800K in from a financial institution loan, (see liabili- funding plan was implemented by the Diocese efit expenses, along with evaluating each new assets, primarily related to construc- ties below) that were not yet fully utilized. whereby each existing Diocesan entity contrib- program’s administrative costs to operate tion in cemeteries is added to property and utes a percentage of their prior year’s payroll as efficiently, yet effectively, as possible. equipment each year, leaving a net reduc- Liabilities dollars to assist in recovering from this under- tion in property and equipment of about The largest growth in Diocesan obligations funded status.) Financial Position $1M each year. occurred from the following: Assets Receivables in 2012 grew approximately • Pension & other Retirement obligations Promissory Note Total assets declined in 2012 by $1.5M over 2011, solely due to workers • Notes payable to Financial institutions The second largest increase in Diocesan approximately $4M as compared to 2010 compensation insurance due from excess • Payables due to other Diocesan entities liabilities over the past three years is from and by approximately $3M as compared carriers to cover claims recognized in notes payable to financial institutions, up to 2011. There are two main reasons for Diocesan liabilities (see Payables, other than Pension and other $7M from 2010. The promissory note to Retirement obligations the Knights of Columbus was issued in Pension and other retirement obliga- December 2011 and the proceeds were tions continue to be the largest Diocesan used to repay in full, the loan issued from liability. The original decline in pension another financial institution as well as par- assets initially arose in the eighteen-month tially reduce other payables. Lastly, 2012 period ended December 31, 2009, primar- payables, other than notes, were consis- ily from investment losses incurred in tent with 2010 figures, but up $2.6M com- the global economic downturn between pared to 2011. The primary increase was September 2008 and March 2009. a result of workers compensation claims Compounding those losses, defined ben- (partially offset with insurance, see Asset efit obligations are required to be reported receivable section above), and payables in the combined statement of financial due to other Diocesan entities. position based on the amounts the Diocese would have to pay a third party to assume Net Assets those obligations, even when there is no Net Assets decreased by $5.4M in FY intention to transfer them. The interest rate 2012, $6.9M in FY 2011 and $5.8M in FY that is used in these calculations is equal 2010 excluding pensions and retired priests to current interest rates for high quality health care. The operating deficits, primar- corporate bonds of comparable maturities. ily brought on by the uncollectibility of As these rates fluctuate, so too does the insurance reimbursements have been and liability the Diocese has for the retirement continue to be addressed. For example, plans. the Diocese has implemented an inner city As depicted in the charts below, while school reorganization, an ongoing review the plan assets have not changed dramati- of benefits, and a retirement incentive cally, the benefit obligations, due primar- plan at the schools as well as the Catholic ily to the change in interest rates, have Center. The Diocese will continue similar increased substantially in 2012. efforts in 2013 and beyond to improve its These declines have no near term overall financial position. n 22 December 2013

The Bridgeport Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation Disaggregated Condensed Combined Statement of Financial Position

The Bridgeport Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation Disaggregated Condensed Combined Statement of Activities 23 December 2013 A Traveler’s Notes Stonehenge: an enduring mystery

By DON HARRISON Especially now, at the dark- implore all those centuries ago as years ago. Over the next est time of the year, Stonehenge the sun sank to its lowest point? 1,000 years, huge sarsen If you’re on the senior side of makes you think about the fears On the afternoon we explored stones and smaller blue- 50 and would like to see those and hopes of the people who built this remarkable site, there was stones were transported years shrink to nearly nothing, this stone circle. Was it a burial a brisk wind but the sky was to the site and placed in I have a remedy that works: site for honored leaders? A celes- bright. As darkness approached, a sophisticated circular Visit Stonehenge. tial observatory? A healing center? though, the setting took on an alignment. Other massive Patti and I celebrated our 40th Stonehenge is carefully aligned eerie veneer. One could envision stones were placed, horseshoe- of smaller temples and other cer- wedding anniversary recently with on a sight-line that points to the ancient peoples gathering among shaped, inside the circle. emonial sites are nearby. Clearly, a trip to England. Among our sunset on December 21, the win- these mighty and mystical stones. Archaeologists believe that the entire area was sacred. must-see sights was Stonehenge, ter solstice, the shortest day of A wonder of ancient achieve- Stonehenge was used for ceremo- Stonehenge and the other the largest prehistoric structure in the year. Was it designed, as it ment, Stonehenge began as a nies, as a place of worship and ancient structures form an the world and an enduring sym- seems to be, to mark the passing circular ditch and bank during the celebration. Hundreds of burial archeological landscape so rich bol of mystery that had its origin of the sun and the changing sea- period known as the Neolithic mounds are clustered on the sur- that it was classified as a World about 5,000 years ago. sons? What God or gods did they or New Stone Age about 5,000 rounding hilltops, while remnants ➤ continued on page 32

Saint Mary’s Church “The Mother Church of Norwalk” | 669 West Avenue, Norwalk | Est. 1848 | www.stmarynorwalk.net | 203.866.5546 Pastor: Fr. Greg J. Markey • Parochial Vicar: Fr. Richard G. Cipolla • In Residence: Fr. Paul N. Check, Director of Courage • Deacon Stephan Genovese • Choirmaster: David J. Hughes Music for the 9:30am Sunday Solemn High Latin Mass The Midnight Mass of Christmas: Messe solennelle (Vierne); Hodie Christus natus est (Poulenc); Quem vidistis pastores (Rore); O magnum mysterium (Victoria); organ music Christmas Schedule of Messiaen & Widor; a selection of favorite Christmas carols begins at 11:30 p.m. Special Events: The Mass of Christmas Day: Missa O magnum mysterium Posadas, December 15-23, 7:00pm (Palestrina); Viderunt omnes (Pérotin); Hodie Christus natus Christmas Lessons and Carols, est (Poulenc); Verbum caro factum est (Sheppard); organ December 13, 7:00pm music of Bach December 29: The Sunday within the Christmas Octave: Sacrament of Missa Praeter rerum seriem (Rore); Praeter rerum seriem Confession: (Josquin); organ music of Buxtehude & Bach Friday, December 20: January 1: The Octave Day of Christmas: Missa Tecum 11:30am-12:00 Noon principium (Fayrfax); Angelus ad pastores ait (Lassus); Saturday, December 21: 3:00-4:30pm O admirabile commercium (Palestrina); organ music of Monday, December 23: 11:30-12:00pm Tournemire Tuesday, December 24: 3:00-4:30pm Holy Family and New Year’s January 5: Mass to bless completed renovated church Eve Masses: with The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano for the Feast Christmas Eve Masses: of the Epiphany: Cantus Missæ for double choir (Rheinberger); Tuesday, December 24: 4:00pm Tuesday, December 31 - Ecce sacredos magnus (Bruckner); Videntes stellam (Lassus); and 7:00pm (Spanish) 8:00am and 12:10 Noon, Magi veniunt (Clemens non Papa); Surge, illuminare, Jerusa- 11:00pm Rosary by the Creche 7:00-12:00 Midnight, lem (Palestrina); Laudemus nunc Domnium (Obrecht); music 11:30pm Christmas Carols Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament for trombones by Bruckner; music for organ by Vierne 12:00 Midnight Mass Benediction at Midnight Reception in the Extraordinary Form Solemnity of Mary/ Saint Mary’s Bookstore 203.854.9013 Christmas Day Masses: New Year’s Day masses: Offering a wide selection of books, crucifixes, rosaries, sacramentals from Italy Wednesday, December 25: 8:00am, and the Holy Land, First Communion and Confirmation gifts, and more. Wednesday, January 1: 9:30am (Latin), 11:30am, 8:00am, 12:10pm, 5:30pm (Latin), HOURS: Saturday 10am-4pm | Sunday 9-9:30am, 11am-2pm | Monday, Wednesday and Friday 12:45-2pm | Tuesday 11-11:30am and 12:45-2pm | Thursday 12:45-2pm and 3:30-5:30pm and 1:15pm (Spanish) and 7:30pm (Spanish) Located in Parish Center building behind Saint Mary Church | VISA/MC ACCEPTED 24 December 2013

Church of the Holy Spirit St. James Church 403 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, Connecticut 06903 2110 Main Street, Stratford, Connecticut 203.322.3722 203-375-5887 - www.stjamesstratford.com Rev. Thomas F. Lynch, Pastor Msgr. Kevin Royal, Administrator Paul J. Jennings, Permanent Deacon COMMUNAL PENANCE SERVICE Wednesday, December 11 – 7:30pm – Church Individual confessions will be offered at the end of the service. 2013 Christmas Season Schedule BLESSING OF EXPECTANT PARENTS Penance Service Saturday and Sunday Masses, December 14 and 15 Monday, December 16—7:30pm A blessing will be given to those awaiting the gift of a child. Visiting priests will be available to hear confessions. CHRISTMAS MASS SCHEDULE Sacrament of Reconciliation (Penance) Tuesday, December 24 – Vigil Masses: 4:00pm and 6:00pm Saturday, December 21 A Mass in celebration of the Lord’s birth at 11:00pm 4:15pm to 5:00pm Wednesday, December 25 – 7:30am, 9:30am, and 11:30am Christmas Mass Schedule Solemnity of Mary, Tuesday, December 24 Mother of God THE HOLY FAMILY OF JESUS, Christmas Eve—Vigil of Christmas Tuesday, December 31, 2013 MARY AND JOSEPH 4:00pm; 6:00pm Mass; Please note: no 12:00 Midnight Mass Vigil Mass 5:15pm Saturday and Sunday Masses December 28 & 29 Wednesday, December 25—Christmas Day Solemnity of Mary, Families will have the opportunity Solemnity of the Nativity of the Lord Mother of God to write their name on votive candles as a way A Holy Day of Obligation for Catholics (New Year’s Day) of thanking God for His presence in their 7:30am, Christmas Mass at Dawn; 9:30am; 11:30am Wednesday, January 1, 2014 family in 2013 and asking for a greater Sacrament of Reconciliation (Penance) A Holy Day of Obligation openness to Him in 2014. Saturday, December 28th for Catholics SOLEMNITY OF MARY, 4:15pm to 5:00pm 7:30am; 9:30am; 11:30am MOTHER OF GOD Tuesday, December 31, Vigil Mass: 4:30pm Holy Day Masses – Wednesday, January 1, 2014, 7:30am, 9:15am, and 11:00am SAINT JAMES NEW YEAR’S DAY OF PRAYER CHRISTMAS Wednesday, January 1, 2014 Saint Theresa SCHEDULE - 2013 1:00pm-3:00pm Eucharistic Adoration in Parish Center Chapel ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH Sacrament of Penance REMEMBERANCE FOR CHILDREN WHO HAVE DIED The Mother Church of Trumbull Saturday, January 4 – 8:00am Mass Saturday, December 21 A special candle will be lit in remembrance of the children 11:00am-12:00; 3:00-4:15pm who have gone before us in faith. All parents who have lost Rev. Brian P. Gannon, S.T.D., Pastor Monday, December 23 a child are encouraged to attend. Rev. Michael Flynn, Parochial Vicar 4:00-5:15pm; 7:00-8:00pm Rev. Matthew Krankall, Parochial Vicar Tuesday, December 24 FEAST OF THE EPIPHANY God’s Word is among us - A celebration of our commitment to open our Deacon Salvatore M. Clarizio 10:30am-12:00 noon hearts to God’s word by reading, studying, and praying Sacred Scripture daily Dr. Carolina Flores, Director of Music Masses Saturday, January 5, 2014 – Vigil Mass: 4:30pm Christmas Vigil Sunday, January 6, 2014 – 7:30am, 9:15am, 11:00am, Tuesday, December 24 12:45pm, and 6:00pm 4:00pm, 6:00pm and 12:00 midnight Christmas Concert at 11:30pm precedes the Midnight Mass Christmas Day Wednesday, December 25 7:30am, 10:00am and 12:00 noon New Years Day Feast of Mary, The Mother of God Holy Day of Obligation Tuesday, December 31 Vigil Mass at 4:30pm Wednesday, January 1 7:30am, 9:00am and 12:00 noon 5301 Main Street • Trumbull, Connecticut 06611-4195 25 December 2013 Peace on Earth Impact of Pacem In Terris persists

By MARY TAYLOR, Ph.D., anniversary of the encyclical’s United Nations, Organization of and MICHAEL TAYLOR publication, presided over by American States, and others) rep- Cardinal Peter Turkson of the resented at the conference. This Fifty years ago, the world was Pontifical Council on Justice and was especially fitting because the on the brink of nuclear war. The Peace and attended by 250 guests major human rights documents of Cuban Missile Crisis occurred in from around the world, from the world, including the 1948 UN October 1962, and many credit Argentina to Zimbabwe. We Declaration, were strongly influ- a message of Pope John XXIII, attended as part of about a dozen enced by Catholic social teaching. requested by President Kennedy participants from the United Popularly remembered for its and published all over the world States. Cardinals, archbishops, call for nuclear disarmament, the (including in the Soviet Pravda) with bishops, priests, professors, and encyclical’s vision of peace was giving Nikita Khrushchev a way to directors of various international actually more far-ranging. As save face by being seen as a man of organizations arrived to share Pope John Paul II said, “Peace is peace rather than a weakling who insights on life, family, immigra- not just the absence of war.” was bested by the Americans. tion, economic, education, and In Pacem In Terris, John XXIII On Holy Thursday, 1963, justice issues. defended the family as the basis Pope John XXXIII issued his The Holy See—the world’s of society; conscience rights; the encyclical on peace, Pacem In oldest continuing international right to profess one’s faith both Terris. It had an influence far body—is the voice of conscience DURING A BREAK in Vatican Conference, U.S. delegates Mary and Michael in private and public; and much beyond the Catholic Church. advocating for those without a Taylor took time to visit their son, Michael, a member of the Sodalitium Christianae more. At a time when rights too This October, the Vatican voice in almost every interna- Vitae. (l-r) Mary Taylor, Father Jorge Olaeacha, the order’s Assistant General for often are seen as merely juridical, held a combination conference tional political association around Instruction, and Michael Dominic Taylor. (Photo by Michael Taylor, Sr.) Pope John rooted them in the and celebration for the 50th the globe, many of them (the ➤ continued on page 26

Saint Thomas Aquinas Church 1719 Post Road • Fairfield, Connecticut 06824 • 203.255.1097 Rev. Victor T Martin, Pastor Christmas 2013 Schedule Advent Penance Service Tuesday, December 17 – 7:30 pm Daily Mass on Tuesday, December 24, 7:00 am ONLY Christmas Eve Masses Tuesday, December 24 4:00 pm - Children’s Mass; 6:00 pm - Children’s Mass 8:00 pm Christmas Eve Mass; Adult Choir Concert 11:30 pm; and 12:00 am - Midnight Mass Christmas Day Masses Wednesday, December 25 8:00 am, 10:00 am, and 12:00 noon No 7:00 am Mass on Thursday, December 26th Feast of Mary, Mother of God New Year’s Eve - December 31 – 5:00 pm Mass New Year’s Day Masses Wednesday - January 1, 2014 8:00 am, 10:00 am, and 12:00 noon 26 December 2013 Peace on Earth

Pacem In Terris from page 25 persecution. Cardinal Jean- slaves, that her group has rescued. many times that the Church can- Louis Taurin, president of the The luminous center of the not be reduced to merely another God of truth and the human dig- to the Holy See reminded the Pontifical Council for Interreligious event was a private audience for NGO (non-governmental organi- nity derived from being made in gathering, there are around 30 mil- Dialogue, said that Christians are the participants with Pope Francis. zation) rooted in the social and the image of God. lion abortions every year. Some the target of 80% of all persecu- It took place in the Clementine political realms, but must remem- Conference speakers noted “rights” groups have even called tion. Courageous workers “on the Hall in the papal palace, with its ber its divine source; in this audi- that most of the encyclical’s con- for laws protecting abortion for ground” brought some partici- dramatic painting of the martyr- ence he reiterated that “the foun- cerns are still very much with us, gender and race selection. John pants to tears: for example, Prisca dom of Pope Clement I under the dation of building peace… con- but other crises have arisen that Paul II’s “human ecology” and Ojok Auma, founder of the Saint Roman Emperor Trajan, fitting sists in the divine origin of man, were unimaginable 50 years ago. Benedict XVI’s Caritas in Veritate Bakhita Centre for the Recovery because several speakers called of society and of authority itself Dehumanizing violence has taken were often cited as continuations and Reintegration of Victims of Catholics to be witnesses, even which calls individuals, families, on new forms. Global terrorism of John XXIII’s work, helping us Conflicts (Uganda), told harrowing martyrs if need be, to the truth of different social groups and States and the drug trade have exploded, negotiate these new challenges. tales of the thousands of children, Christ. to live out relations of justice and and, as the Korean ambassador Another topic was religious kidnapped as child soldiers and sex Pope Francis has reminded us solidarity.” n

The Cathedral Parish 170 Thompson Street, Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604 203.368.6777 and 203.335.0106 - Parish Offices • 203.690.1491 - Rectory • 203.368.6386 and 203.335.0107 - Fax Saint Augustine Cathedral Church Saint Patrick Church 399 Washington Avenue 851 North Avenue The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, S.T.D., D.D., Bishop of Bridgeport Rev. Peter F. Lenox, Administrator Rev. Sean R. Kulacz, Parochial Vicar Rev. Gustavo A. Falla, and Rev. F. John Ringley, In Residence Rev. Mr. William J. Bissenden, Rev. Mr. Santos Garcia, and Rev. Mr. William A. Koniers, Deacons Christmas Season Mass Schedule Regular Sunday Vigil Masses of Christmas Vigil Masses of the Solemnity of Mary, Mass Schedule Tuesday, December 24th Mother of God Vigil Masses: 4:00pm English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church Tuesday, December 31st: 4:00pm English Mass: 5:30pm English Mass with the Living Nativity portrayed 5:30pm English Mass: St. Patrick Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church by the children of the Parish: St. Patrick Church 8:00pm Vietnamese Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 4:00pm English Mass: 7:00pm Vietnamese Christmas Pageant: 10:00pm to 11:00pm Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament: St. Patrick Nihill Chapel St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church 7:30pm Spanish Posadas: St. Patrick Church 11:00pm English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church Sunday Masses: 8:00pm Vietnamese Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 7:00am English Mass: 8:00pm Spanish Mass: St. Patrick Church Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God St. Augustine Cathedral Church 11:15pm Christmas Carols and Organ works: Wednesday, January 1st: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 8:30am English Mass: 9:00am English Mass: St. Patrick Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church 12:10pm English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 9:00am English Mass: Solemnity of the Nativity of the Lord (Christmas) 6:30pm English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Patrick Church 7:00pm Spanish Mass: St. Patrick Church 10:00am English Mass: Wednesday, December 25th: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 12:00am Solemn Midnight Mass with Organ and Choir: 12:10pm English Mass: The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, principal celebrant St. Patrick Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church 12:15pm Spanish Mass: This Mass will be broadcast by radio on WSHU 91.1FM St. Augustine Cathedral Church 8:00am English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church Merry Christmas 2:30pm Vietnamese Mass: 9:00am English Mass: St. Patrick Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church 10:00am English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 5:30pm English Mass: 12:10pm English Mass: St. Patrick Church to one St. Augustine Cathedral Church 12:15pm Spanish Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church and all! 27 December 2013

Youth Service CATHOLIC PROFESSIONAL Humble servants NETWORK on the streets of NYC

By AUSTIN AMPELOQUIO as I handed out my first bowl of meet in person that night. chili, I realized that these people All in all, the Midnight Run Helping out those in need and were thankful for what we were was one of the best experiences of donating to those who need some doing. From that point on, I did my life. The event made me feel WANTED support can truly change your not want to stop helping out. I loved and thankful for all of the Buying Baseball Cards whole perspective on life. This was excited to go to the next stops time and effort that was put into and Signed Memorabilia year’s Youth Group Midnight to meet and help more people. planning and executing it. I felt Run Project did exactly that for Each individual I encountered like I was not just giving for the Call Lenny Svelnys me. Before we even hit the road 203.392.4470 to set up an appointment to begin our travel into New York City, I already felt blessed and thankful for the great opportunity I was lucky enough to be offered in helping the homeless. Seeing my peers, advisors, and volun- teers pack and sort out toiletries into individual bags showed how this trip not only benefited those we were giving to, but also benefited those who helped. One could really feel the love and unity of us helpers as we came together as one family to assist those who were less fortunate. That same loving vibe was car- ried over as we arrived in NYC. Thomas G. Raymond Before stopping at our intended Senior Vice President–Wealth Management locations, we met a former home- Wealth Management Advisor less man named Billy. He was a was extremely sociable. It hum- YOUTH GROUP MEMBERS of (203) 861-5922 very friendly and dedicated man, bled me to know that even in the St. Joseph Parish in Danbury put in Two Pickwick Plaza, 4th Floor who organized us into a smooth worst situations, these men and hours of preparation before hitting the Greenwich, CT 06830 efficiency. This being my first women were able to smile, laugh, road for the Midnight Run to NYC. experience of helping out the and make jokes with people homeless face to face, I did not they had never met in their lives sake of giving, but I gave because Merrill Lynch Wealth Management makes available products and services offered by Merrill Lynch, Pierce, Fenner & Smith Incorporated, a registered know what to expect, but the before. When we reached our last I truly wanted to sacrifice my broker-dealer and member SIPC, and other subsidiaries of Bank of America Corporation. © 2013 Bank of America Corporation. All rights reserved. way Billy directed us made things stop, I was upset because I truly time and some sleep to support AD-08-13-1176 ARJ241F2-07-12 444608PM-09/2013 seem less chaotic than expected. did not want to stop the genuine my brothers in Christ Jesus who As we reached our first stop, loving and caring I was partaking struggle on the streets daily. I witnessed a crowd of homeless in. We donated our extra supplies The Midnight Run taught men race over to the Midnight to a nearby homeless shelter in me to not take what I have for Home PC & Mac Help Run van. At first I was somewhat the city and I was happy to see granted, to cherish all that I have frightened by the group that sur- that we still had more to give to and to be thankful for everything rounded our serving stations, but those who we were not able to that God has provided me. The Midnight Run also showed me what true care, love and happi- Computer Systems, Networks, Notre Dame gets the ‘giving’ spirit ness is and I learned that if you can help someone else out in E-mail, Internet, Training & Tutoring FAIRFIELD—With Christmas approaching, three Notre Dame High School their situation, then do help. You MENTION THIS AD TO RECEIVE THE FAIRFIELD COUNTY CATHOLIC DISCOUNT! students pitched in to help the troops, feed the hungry and help those strug- can gain so much in helping, so if 203.377.7908 www.magtypecr.com gling with illness. Tracie Marko, you find yourself with an oppor- ND’s director of advancement, reports that students recently heed- tunity to work with the poor, I ed a request from the Columbiettes, strongly suggest that you do. the women’s auxiliary group of the I would like to thank the Knights of Columbus. The orga- Midnight Run, my St. Joseph nization had put out a call for Youth Group family (all of the Christmas cards to be sent to our parishioners, my fellow volun- RESIDENTIAL EMERGENCY DRAIN CLEANING troops serving overseas. “Thanks to teers, and my Youth Minister Mr. the efforts of our staff and students, MUNICIPAL • COMMERCIAL • INDUSTRIAL over 400 Christmas cards will be David Roman) and everyone who 24 HOUR EMERGENCY SERVICE • LICENSED & INSURED turned over to the Columbiettes to made the run such a humbling accompany packages being sent to blessing for me. 377-8704 • CATCH BASIN CLEANING or • TV PIPE INSPECTION the brave men and women protect- (Austin Ampeloquio, a member • HIGH VELOCITY WATER JETTING • AIR TESTING ing our nation and the freedoms • LARGE DIAMETER POWER RODDING 1-800-422-3724 • JET RODDING of the St. Joseph Parish, Danbury, Office: 534 Surf Avenue • Stratford • VACTOR SERVICE of others around the world this youth group, is a senior at Danbury n holiday season,” she said. High School.) n 28 December 2013 Obituaries Deacon Paul Tupper, 83 Deacon Paul Tupper died bomb test in Camp Desert Rock for twenty-seven years at St. children and eleven grandchil- peacefully at home on September in Nevada. After six years of Clement Parish in Stamford and dren. He was predeceased by his 23 at the age of 83. service, he accepted a discharge St. Mary Parish in Greenwich. firstborn son, Paul Eugene. He was born on March 19, from active duty and went into He always was thankful to God Friends describe Deacon 1930, in Ludlow, MA. He gradu- the Army Active Reserve, where for calling him to the diaconate Tupper as a man who lived ated high school at the age of 17 he rose to the rank of Major. and felt honored to officiate at the his life with quiet dignity and and promptly enlisted in the U.S. Several months after his dis- marriage of two of his children understated grace. He will be Army. charge from active service, Paul and to baptize his grandchildren. remembered for his love of oth- During four years of enlisted met the love of his life, Aurora “He was a calm person, ers, faith, courage, humility and service, he rose to the rank of Belmont, and they were married reflective, a good listener. He quick wit. In addition to God staff sergeant. His unit was trans- a year later. Shortly after, he always had time for you,” says and family, he enjoyed nature ferred to Korea in September enrolled at Columbia University his friend Deacon Robert Henrey (especially the mountains), 1950, and he was assigned to the and earned his bachelor’s degree of St. Catherine of Siena Parish music, family dinners, great Eighth Army. He returned home in finance. He spent his entire in Riverside. The two men had jokes, spiritual study and spend- in February 1952, commissioned career in financial management. known each other since their ing time with friends. a second lieutenant/artillery, One of his proudest accom- days in the diaconate formation A Mass of Christian Burial and assigned to the 5th Armored plishments was the day he was program. was celebrated at St. Mary Division at Fort Chaffee, AR, as ordained a permanent deacon in “He was one of those men Church in Greenwich on a platoon leader. While there, the Diocese of Bridgeport in May who always saw the good side of ple will say something good, and September 27. Bishop Frank he participated in an atomic of 1985. He served as a deacon people. That’s a gift. A lot of peo- then add a ‘but.’ Paul didn’t have Caggiano was the celebrant, a ‘Yes, but…’ He was simply a assisted by Deacon Henrey. Fr. kind person. That’s a wonderful Richard Gemza, parochial vicar virtue.” at St. Mary’s, delivered the hom- Deacon Tupper is survived by ily. Burial followed in St. Mary FUNERAL GUIDE his loving wife of 59 years, four Cemetery, Greenwich. n

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A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Sr. Mary on Z Z 203-254-1414 or 800-542-0218 Memorial service facility September 28 at the St. Ursula Center Chapel, followed by inter- ment at the Ursuline Cemetery in Blue Point. n 29 December 2013 Obituaries Deacon Joseph Filingeri, 70 Sr. Mary Jacinta CUMMING, GA—Deacon way to the Christmas crèche. He Joseph Filingeri died suddenly of would pray there silently before a heart attack on the afternoon the Baby Jesus for a time and then Guinther, IHM of October 2, the Feast of the leave, again without a word. Guardian Angels. He was 70 “Deacon Joe would pray Sr. Mary Jacinta Guinther, years old and had been a deacon very hard every year for Santa to IHM, died on September 19 for 21 years. He and his wife, come,” Fr. Michael Jones, pastor at Regional Hospital in Patty, had relocated to Georgia of St. Lawrence, told his young Scranton, PA. this year to be near their children grandchildren at the funeral Mass. Elizabeth Ann Guinther was and grandchildren. The Knights of Columbus at born on September 11, 1926, Joseph Filingeri was born in St. Lawrence have dedicated the in Honesdale, PA. She entered New York City on July 10, 1943, parish crèche to Deacon Filingeri. the Sisters, Servants of the and graduated from C.W. Post Fr. Jones and Deacon Masso Immaculate Heart of Mary on College of Long Island University. traveled to Georgia to celebrate February 2, 1946, and made her For many years he owned and oper- a Mass of Christian Burial for temporary profession of vows ated a Carvel Ice Cream shop in Deacon Filingeri on October 7 on August 2, 1948, and her final Fairfield. It was an occupation that at Christ the Redeemer Parish profession of vows on August gave full range to his warmhearted were long-time facilitators. in Dawsonville, Georgia. Fr. 2, 1954. personality, one that enjoyed inter- Deacon Filingeri was ordained Brian Higgins, pastor of Christ Sr. Jacinta received a bach- acting with people of all ages. a permanent deacon on June 27, the Redeemer, concelebrated the elor of science and a master “Joe loved people,” says 1992, by Bishop Edward M. Egan. Mass. Deacon Filingeri had been of science degree, both in education, from Marywood College Deacon Frank Masso, who served He served as deacon at St. Lawrence completing arrangements to serve in Scranton. She served as an elementary school teacher in with him at St. Lawrence Parish Parish until moving to Georgia. as a deacon at the parish. Pennsylvania and New York before coming to Connecticut. She in Shelton. “He had a dry wit, Both his wit and his deep A memorial Mass was cele- taught at St. Ambrose School in Bridgeport, now part of the and always had something funny faith combined every year at the brated in St. Lawrence Church on Cathedral Academy, from 1966-78. to say.” That spirit enlivened the Christmas Eve Mass. Just before November 2 at 10 am. Fr. Jones Following her years as an elementary school teacher she Marriage Preparation sessions at Mass ended, “Santa” would qui- was the celebrant and delivered worked at a primary school until 2011, and continued to share St. Lawrence, where he and Patty etly enter the church and make his the homily. n her expertise as a teacher of reading until the time of her death. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Sr. Jacinta on September 24 at St. Rose of Lima Church, Carbondale, PA. Sr. Margaret Clarke, IHM Interment followed at St. Catherine Cemetery in Moscow, PA. n Deceased Clergy of the Diocese of Bridgeport Sr. Margaret Clarke, IHM, library science from Marywood died on October 31 at Our College in Scranton. December 15—January 18 Lady of Peace Residence in Sr. Margaret served as a Scranton, PA. teacher in New York State, December One of four children, Washington, DC, Pennsylvania, 15 Msgr. Lawrence J. McMahon...... 2009 Margaret was born on April 29, and Rhode Island. In Connecticut, 1921, in Providence, RI. One she taught at St. Ambrose School 17 Rev. Kieran T. Ahearn...... 1997 of her brothers, Peter, became in Bridgeport from 1980-86. 19 Rev. Philip Morrissey...... 2008 a priest. She entered the Sisters, Following her years in teaching 26 Rev. Vincent P. Cleary...... 1965 Servants of the Immaculate she was an elementary school 27 Rev. Ignatius Baraniak, O.F.M. Conv...... 1980 Heart of Mary Congregation librarian until her retirement in 29 Msgr. James H. Grady...... 1967 on September 8, 1939, taking 2008. 30 Rev. M. Joseph McCarthy...... 2006 the name Sr. Mary Emelia and From 2008 until the time of January made her her final profession of her death, Sr. Margaret was a vows on August 2, 1945. prayer minister at Our Lady of on November 4 at Our Lady of 1 Rev. Michael J. Flynn, C.S.Sa...... 1995 She received a bachelor of Peace Residence in Scranton. Peace in Scranton. Interment 2 Rev. Robert J. McDermott...... 1989 arts degree in education and A Mass of Christian Burial followed in St. Catherine’s 3 Msgr. Pierre A. Botton...... 2010 a master of science degree in was celebrated for Sr. Margaret Cemetery, Moscow, PA. n 4 Msgr. Francis Medynski...... 2008 6 Msgr. William J. Fox...... 1962 7 Rev. Walter E. Bozek...... 1995 8 Rev. Mr. Edward R. Kovacs...... 1999 Rev. Joseph P. Biondino...... 2001 Welcome New Advertisers! 9 Rev. Gerald T. Devore...... 2011 Please tell our advertisers that you saw their ad in Fairfield County Catholic, Rev. 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09/14 Notre Dame St. Joe’s in Class M Championship West Haven 47 - 28 Win TRUMBULL—After rebounding from a tough loss 09/20 Fairfield Prep to New Canaan High School 36 - 34 Win on November 22, the St. Joseph High School Cadets have rolled 09/28 Ridgefield High School toward the state championship 41 - 12 Win title. 10/05 Darien High School On Saturday December 14, 28 - 14 Win 10:05 am, St. Joseph (12- 2) will take on Brookfield High (11-3) 10/11 Wilton High School for the Class M championship 44 - 20 Win at Arute Field on the campus of Central Connecticut State 10/18 Bassick High School University in New Britain. 49 - 6 Win The Cadets, who will be eying 10/26 Trinity Catholic their first title since 2010, battled High School their way to the championship 53 - 7 Win game by defeating Joel Barlow of Redding 62-33 in the Class M 11/01 New Canaan state semifinals held at Bunnell High School Fairfield in Stratford. 62 - 21 Loss Shane Miller ran for three touchdowns and hauled in a 11/08 Andrew Warde touchdown pass from quarterback High School Jordan Vazzano, who threw for 47 - 27 Win 147 yards and two touchdowns 11/15 McMahon in the first half. He also ran for High School 77 yards. 42 - 35 Win The Cadet defense, held understood their assignments. Cadets are one of the most Barlow (10-3) without a point in We preached that at practice and highly decorated programs in 11/22 New Canaan the first half, and St. Joseph took they carried it out. To shut down Connecticut high school football High School a 28-0 lead into the break. such a good team for a half…We history, having won a total of ten 31 - 20 Loss Head coach Joe DellaVecchia didn’t expect that,” he said in a state championships (1980, ‘81, praised the Cadet’s defense. “Our Trumbull Times report. ‘82, ‘83, ‘84, ‘88, ‘89, ‘90, ‘09 and 11/28 Trumbull High School kids played with patience and The St. Joseph High School ‘10) since a state playoff system 61 - 26 Win was instituted in 1976. Most recently, in 2010, St. Joseph won 12/03 Ledyard High School the Connecticut Class S State 84 - 49 Win Championship with a 49-28 vic- 12/07 Joel Barlow tory over Ansonia at Rentschler High School Field in Hartford. 62 - 34 Win Current Head Coach is Joe ANGELS & COMPANY DellaVecchia, who took over the 12/14 Brookfield High School A R e l i g i o u s G i f t S t o r e program in 1998. DellaVecchia is Class M State Finals a graduate of St. Joseph’s (1981), Route 25 • 115 Main Street • (Crescent Village) 2013 Connecticut High a former player under Coach Ed School Football Playoffs Monroe • 203-445-0758 McCarthy, and has earned the Regular Hours: Monday - Saturday 10 to 5pm unique distinction of winning a Friday 10 to 6:30pm • Sunday 10 to 3pm thru Christmas state championship as a player, an assistant coach, and a head Give a gift that lasts a lifetime coach at the same school. Large selection of gifts for teachers and children The Cadets were full of hope to grab their first Fairfield Nativities, Ornaments, Treetoppers and much more, County Interscholastic Athletic Communion, Confirmation, Baptism, Conference football crown Doreen Virtue Books and Cards, Memorial section in the program’s storied his- tory in a game played against Religious Jewelry, Rosaries & Medals, Crucifixes, Statues, New Canaan on November 22. Outdoor Angels & Statues, Nice selection of Gold & Silver After a great first half, they got Jewelry, Angels for every occasion bogged down and fell to the We Carry Bibles and books Rams 31-20. The tough loss to the New Canaan squad no doubt tough- Take 20% OFF ened up the Cadets and quar- ANY ONE ITEM terback Jordan Vazzano, who have since rolled toward the state championship. n 31 December 2013 Know-how is supporting the communities where we live and work.

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what I knew would be a tense visit. weight was lifted from my heart. It the seat. When they reached his My father was in the living was going to be a great Christmas. house, he was unconscious. The Swimming Upstream room in his Barcalounger, doing By the time we got to moun- EMTs arrived and rushed him to crossword puzzles, and our four tains, snow was falling and every- the hospital, but it was too late. By Joe Pisani daughters went to kiss him while one was excited. We set up the At midnight on Christmas I put the gifts under the tree tree and had a wonderful Italian Eve, while my sister was sitting before escaping to the kitchen. meal of seven fishes (we only had alone in the emergency room, a Joe Pisani, a journalist for After a few minutes, my father four). When we were done, I went young minister approached and many years, is principal at The came out and sat beside me. into the bedroom to lie down. asked what was wrong, and she Dilenschneider Group, a strategic “How are you, Son?” he About an hour later, there was answered, “My father died.” communications firm. asked. frantic knocking on the door, and All he said was, “What a won- “Ok,” I shrugged, waiting to when I opened it, my daughter derful gift to celebrate Christmas resume our argument and tell Dana was standing there, tears in heaven.” week before Christmas, sometimes it can be downright him what I really thought. streaming down her cheeks. When I heard that story, I felt 2002, my sister called discouraging. He asked me about work, he “Grandpa died!” she said. peace for the first time in a long to say that for the first Instead of having Christmas with asked me about the kids, he asked My immediate thought was, time. Jesus always comes to the Atime in a long time, my parents, we were headed to the me about anything and every- “Jesus, why did you do this? rescue. our father was going to set foot in White Mountains to spend the holi- thing, and as we talked, I could Why did you ruin Christmas?” It was a gift to celebrate church. Miracle of miracles. day by ourselves. Was I being spite- feel my anger slipping away. I I was leaving one resentment Christmas in heaven, and I real- There were those who feared ful? Perhaps, but to my thinking wanted to be free of it, but pride behind and heading into another. ized that I, too, had been given a the roof might collapse, namely I was justified. (We can do some was holding me back. Later that night, my sister gift—the gift of forgiveness. my mother. Then there were the pretty nasty things when we’re I’m still not sure who was called and told us what hap- What would my life have been chronic cynics, who suggested it motivated by self-righteousness.) right and who was wrong. I do pened. My father and mother had like if my father died and we was unconscionable for a man My wife, Sandy, made plans know that it was Christmas, and dinner at her home, surrounded never had a chance to reconcile? who didn’t keep holy the Sabbath for us to exchange gifts at my Christmas isn’t a time for anger or by their grandchildren. They What would my life have been the rest of the year to go to parents’ house before we headed grudges, and as my late mother-in- opened gifts and went to church, like if he had died, and I was still church on Christmas. Actually, to New Hampshire, and even law used to say, if you love some- where my nephew put in a criti- consumed by resentment? that was me. though she pleaded with me to one, there’s no right and wrong. cally acclaimed performance as Christmas is a time for heal- To my father’s thinking, this come to my senses and stop hold- As we were leaving, he said, “I the third shepherd. ing. It’s a time to forgive and it’s a was an extra-special occasion ing a grudge, I intended to wait love you, Son.” And my response While my sister was driving time to forget old hurts. They say because his grandson would be in the car. came naturally, “I love you, too, them home, my father said he miracles happen at Christmas. It’s in the Christmas pageant, and no As we drove up the driveway, Dad.” Just then, an enormous was tired and put his head on true. I’ve seen them. n grandfather could snub a theatrical she said, “It’s Christmas Eve. debut like that, even if it was only You have to go in there and bury Stonehenge from page 23 the part of the third shepherd. your pride. Enough of this non- Special occasion or not, I sense. How important is it for Heritage Site. earth or timber. Another suggests of Monmouth suggested that the refused to attend because I hadn’t you to be right?” It was mind-boggling for us to that the lintels might have been stones had been transported to talked to my father in three “Very important,” I grumbled. ponder how these ancient people raised on a platform of interlock- the Salisbury Plain by the wizard months after an argument about Resentment comes easy to a were able to transport the sarsen ing timbers. Either way, it made Merlin, a prominent figure in the my mother’s medical treatment man who’s convinced he’s right. stones—each 24 feet high and for advanced thinking in that Arthurian legends. The Saxons for Alzheimer’s and cancer. Nevertheless, I acquiesced and weighing from 25 to 45 tons— distant era and shows its intense and Romans were considered Family life is never easy and followed them into the house for across 19 miles from the north of importance to its designers. among the potential builders of Stonehenge on the Marlborough When the Romans conquered Stonehenge, and the Danes and

Downs in Wiltshire. The smaller Britain beginning in 43 AD, they Phoenicians soon joined the list. bluestones, some weighing up left their mark at Stonehenge. John Aubrey (1626-97), to five tons, are believed to have Roman finds—coins, brooches, a Wiltshire-born antiquary, been transported from the Preseli pottery—indicate more than just produced the first plan of Hills of Wales—about 150 miles casual visits to the site. Some his- Stonehenge in 1666, and con- west of Stonehenge; also no mean torians believe Stonehenge may cluded correctly that it was con- feat. Originally, there were about have become a Roman shrine. structed by the ancient Britons. 80 bluestones at Stonehenge. From medieval times to the Should you choose to join Whatever its use, Stonehenge present day, considerable energy the nearly one million visitors to clearly meant something criti- has been expended to determine Stonehenge each year, be sure cally important to its builders. the date, the builders and the to stop at the new visitor’s site,

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33 December 2013 Column Celebración de Nuestra Sra. de Guadalupe

tes regresen al redil; en lo social, Unidos tiende a abandonar la fe evangelizadora y de fe, nuestra nos invita a trabajar por el for- Católica. Aparentemente, a esto potencial contribución a la Iglesia Nuestra Voz talecimiento de la vida desde el contribuyen muchos y variados toma proporciones inimaginables. momento de la concepción hasta factores. En muchos casos, no es Es por eso que no nos podemos Por Padre Gustavo Falla la muerte natural; en lo político, necesariamente el obvio proseli- negar a la tarea de presentar a nos revela que en nuestro medio tismo Protestante en medio de Cristo Vivo ante una sociedad hay víctimas de leyes injustas y nuestras comunidades Católicas que necesita ser espiritualmente El Padre Falla es Vicario de los legisladores que ponen sus pro- lo que causa esta hemorragia. renovada. Unidos a nuestros pa- Católicos que Hablan Español en pios intereses antes que los intere- Tristemente, es también el indife- stores, ciñéndonos a las normas ses del pueblo al que representan. rentismo pastoral que se vive en locales y creando puentes entre la Diócesis de Bridgeport. Esta fiesta también nos invita muchas parroquias en las que, en nosotros y nuestros hermanos en a actuar a favor de las víctimas algunos extremos, los hispanos la fe podemos dar respuesta posi- de predadores inescrupulosos somos rechazados. tiva a la llamada que Dios nos que usan a las personas como Con motivo de esta gran ce- hace a través de María Santísima. uestra Sra. de nuestras familias han vivido tradi- simples elementos de trabajo, a lebración identificamos pues los Muy poco beneficio nos Guadalupe resalta la cionalmente más de acuerdo al los que ni siquiera se les paga lo retos que se nos presentan y las trae el conformarnos con can- presencia hispana en signo de la cruz que al signo de la justo, o como elementos sexuales oportunidades que se nos ofre- tar unas cuantas canciones a Nlos Estados Unidos moneda. obligados a vivir en la clandes- cen desde el punto de vista de La Virgen, compartir comidas aunque ella pueda ser tan ameri- La celebración de la Fiesta de tinidad, como es el caso de tantas la fe. Si Dios quiso que Nuestra tradicionales o adornar la bella cana como la sequoia gigante: Nuestra Sra. de Guadalupe nos jovencitas, víctimas de la trata de Señora se apareciera a San Juan imagen Guadalupana con las más ella es pobre, como lo somos la ofrece toda una gama de opor- blancas. Nos recuerda, a la vez, Diego fue para que le comuni- esplendidas rosas, si no estamos gran mayoría de los latinoameri- tunidades que van más allá de lo orar por los injustamente encar- cara su propósito de evangelizar. dispuestos a trabajar unidos en la canos; ella tiene una fe firme y que uno espera: en lo espiritual, celados, retenidos o secuestrados, Si Dios ha permitido el masivo tarea que Dios pone en nuestras constante en su hijo, como la nos conforta al sabernos amados para que encuentren prontamente influjo de hispanos a los Estados manos. Aceptando el mensaje de fe de nuestros mayores que se y protegidos por “La Madre”; en su liberación. Unidos deber ser también para María y viviendo la verdadera fe esfuerzan por comunicarla a las lo eclesial, nos confronta con la Trágicamente, según algu- que sirvamos como instrumento como hijos de la Iglesia move- nuevas generaciones; ella y su realidad de una Iglesia que, lla- nas estadísticas confiables, los evangelizador. Los que care- remos las montañas que separan hijo gozan junto a San José de mada a evangelizar, no siempre hispanos Católicos en Estados cen de fe podrán entender este a la humanidad del amor de una familia unida, como aquellas cumple con su tarea pues sufre el Unidos mostramos una tendencia fenómeno migratorio como algo Dios, ofreciendo así lo mejor familias que nos dieron la vida. dolor de la división interna y de a abandonar la fe a la medida que exclusivamente económico. De de nosotros a la sociedad que María de Guadalupe ofrece la los conflictos externos; en lo pas- nos asimilamos a la cultura. De cualquier forma, asumiendo que nos acoge. Que Nuestra Señora mejor alternativa a una sociedad toral, nos recuerda que nos falta esta forma, hasta un 40% de los nuestra presencia en Los Estados de Guadalupe interceda por materialista, preocupada más mucho para lograr que los ausen- hispanos nacidos en los Estados Unidos debe ser una presencia nosotros. n por el tener que por el ser. Ella defiende la vida, la familia y la fe, cosa que, típicamente, los latinos aún estamos inclinados a hacer aquí y en donde quiera SAINTLYLIVES BY ED WALDRON que nos encontremos. Aunque nuestro aporte económico a la Iglesia Católica en los Estados Unidos no haya alcanzado aún los niveles deseados, pues para eso se requiere tanto el acceso a las aulas universitarias como a empleos mejor remunerados, no podemos negar nuestro aporte en la fe y en la oración ya que Peregrinación a Fátima, Lourdes y Santiago de Compostela (Spanish-language pilgrimage) con el Padre Rolando Torres tomará lugar el 4-14 de noviembre, 2014. Precio: $2,834/persona desde New York. Incluye pasaje aéreo, hoteles, desayuno, siete cenas, y guías turísticos. Para más información, llama al Padre Torres: 203.327.7250 o email rolandomalak@ gmail.com. 34 December 2013 Bits & Pieces LESSONS & CHRISTMAS LITHUANIAN KUCIOS unfolds. Refreshments and fel- CAROLS will take place at St. (CHRISTMAS EVE) The lowship follow the presentation. A CHILD IS WAITING Ann Parish, Bridgeport on Sun., Knights of Lithuania of St. Suggested donation: $10. For Cradle of Hope Adoption Center is looking for families Dec. 15, at 4 pm followed by George Parish, Bridgeport will more information or to RSVP, to host Catholic orphans from Colombia for three weeks this refreshments. Free-will offering. celebrate a traditional Kucios contact ConnectionsFairfield@ summer. They are seeking families who have strong interest For more information call 203. (Christmas Eve) on Sun., Dec. gmail.com. in adopting an older child, between 9-12 years old. 368.1607 or go to www.stann- 15, with a Mass at 12 noon and ADVENT MISSION: “The Families must go through an orientation interview blackrock.com. a dinner following at 1 pm. For Pope’s Blueprint: Living the and training, and complete home studies. Both single children ADVENT EVENING more information and reserva- Corporal and Spiritual Works and sibling groups of two will be available. Adopting parents must CONCERT featuring record- tions call 203.878.0519. of Mercy,” with Fr. Dennis travel to Colombia to complete the adoption. ing artists ValLamar Jansen and CONNECTIONS! a min- Corrado, co, who New York Information sessions: Sat., Jan. 18, 1-3 pm, St. Michael Parish, Tom Kendzia will be held at istry for Catholic Singles 40 Magazine called “One of the Greenwich, and Sun., Jan. 19, 2-4 pm, St. Mary Parish, Bethel. Assumption Parish, Westport, and over, meets the third Mon. best preachers in New York For more information, contact Bridge of Hope Director on Sun., Dec. 15, from 6-7:30 of every month (Dec. 16) at City,” will be presented at St. Patrice Gancie, 301.587.4400 or [email protected]; pm. Dessert reception follows. the Basilica of St. John the Paul Parish, Greenwich, Mon.- or Kathy Renzulli: 203.888.8615 or [email protected]. Free-will offering. For more Evangelist in Stamford from 7-9 Wed., Dec. 16-18, at 7:30 pm. information call 203.227.5161 pm in Msgr. Nagle Hall. Bryan Mission is free and open to all. Stamford, on Fri., Dec. 20. Open 203.334.1822. or visit www.assumption-west- Mercier will speak on being sin- Refreshments will be served. seating, 7:30 pm; VIP reception, BLESSING OF THE port.org. gle while God’s plan for your life For more information call 6 pm. Cost: VIP reception and NATIVITY with Bishop Caggiano 203.531.8741. reserved seating: $50; open seat- will take place on the Trumbull CANDELIGHT SERVICE ing: $25 adults, $20 Seniors, $10 Town Hall Green, 5866 Main 24 Hour Service Available OF REMEMBRANCE spon- students. For more information, St., on Sun., Dec. 22, at 1:30 Family Owned and Operated sored by St. Vincent’s “We Care” call 203.921.5615. For tickets, pm. Light refreshments served. Since 1920 Perinatal Grief Support Group go to www.syapchristmas. For more information, contact Floral Designing Weddings & Parties will be held Wed., Dec. 18, at 7 eventbrite.com. Don Creatore: 203.261.3221 or Sympathy Arrangements Our Specialty pm in the St. Vincent’s Medical TRAVELLING ICON of Our [email protected]. Center chapel. During this dif- Lady of Czestochowa will be vis- CHRISTMAS CONCERT www.hansensflowershop.com ficult time, those who have suf- iting St. Michael the Archangel featuring the adult, teen and chil- 1040 Post Road Fairfield fered a loss are invited to share Parish, Bridgeport, on Sat.-Sun, dren’s choirs of St. Luke Parish, memories of their baby or babies Dec. 21-22, on her global pil- Westport, will be held on Sun., with other families experiencing grimage. The icon arrives on Dec. 22, at 3 pm. The concert 203-255-0461 similar losses. No RSVP neces- Dec. 21, at 3 pm, followed by will include a children’s pageant sary. For more information, call Mass at 4 pm and adoration and be followed by a reception. the Pastoral Care Department: after Mass until 9 pm. On Sun. There is no admission charge. 203.576.5110. Father will preach at all Masses For more information, call the HOLY LAND FRANCISCAN FREE AND LOW-COST about the icon. Join us to ask for parish: 203.227.7245. MAMMOGRAPHY will be her protection of life and family TELEVISED MASS for PILGRIMAGES offered through St. Vincent’s and for personal petitions. For Christmas with special guest SWIM Women’s Imaging Center more information, call the parish: lector Jimmy Smits will be for women age 35 and older on Thurs., Dec. 19, at the Franklin We are the proud printers of the Apartments, 12 Garden St., • Newspapers Fairfield County Catholic for the past 20 years. Bridgeport, from 9 am-1 pm. Mammograms are free for those • Publications who do not have health insur- ance, have financial limitations • Shoppers and qualify for assistance, and Holy land Holy land & discounted for those who do not april 8-21, 2014 Jordan have insurance but do not qualify • Catalogs $3,650 May 18-29, 2014 for free services. Appointments *Easter $3,990 are recommended; we suggest • Magazines June 17-25, 2014 that you bring a physician order $3,478 Holy land & to the appointment. If you do • Directories July 20-28, 2014 Mt. 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Lodging • Meals • Transports • Daily Mass CHRISTMAS CONCERT: 203.261.2548 “A Christmas with Frank • Advertising www.trumbullprinting.com www.HolylandPilgrimages.org | 1-800-566-7499 Mastrone and Friends” will Supplements Call us for a free quote. [email protected] take place in St. Cecilia Church, 35 December 2013 Bits & Pieces broadcast on Christmas Eve on Bethel, at 7:30 pm. For more BINGO is held every Thurs. Time Warner, Channel 97, and information, contact Jeanette at at St. Emery Parish, Fairfield. Cablevision, Channel 30, from [email protected]. Doors open at 4 pm; games start 7-8 pm; and Christmas Day on GOSPEL OF LIFE at 6:30 pm. Game sheets and WWOR, Channel 9, from 8-9 SOCIETY meets the second tickets: $30. Additional tickets am and WLNY, Channel 10/55, Sat. of the month (Jan. 11) at sold separately. Food (hot dogs, from 9-10 am. St. Mary Parish, Norwalk, at 10 sandwiches, etc.) will be served. NOCTURNAL ADORATION am. after the 9 am Pro-Life Mass. For more information, call Tom before the Blessed Sacrament Chris DeSanctis will speak on the St. Hillaire: 203.556.5480. will be held the first Fri. of Constitution and Pro-Life rights. RELIGIOUS GOODS every month (Jan. 3) at St. For more information, contact STORE is open at St. Matthew Bridget of Ireland Parish from 8 Eileen Bianchini: 203.847.5727 Parish, Norwalk, offering a pm-12 midnight, beginning with or [email protected]. selection of Bibles, crucifixes, Benediction. The Sacrament of WOMEN’S CLUB at Christ rosaries, First Communion sets, Reconciliation will be available the King Parish, Trumbull, will medals, cards and much, much after Benediction during the 8 pm meet Mon., Jan. 13, at 10 am in more. Store hours: Sat. after the hour. For more information, call the parish hall. Featured speaker 4 pm Mass and Sun. after the 9 the parish: 203.324.2910. will be T.R. Rowe, Trumbull am and 10:30 am Masses. For MEN’S DISCERNMENT Judge of Probate. All are invited. more information, call the parish: RETREAT DAY will be held For more information, call 203.838.3788. at St. John Fisher Seminary, 203.261.8020. TRIP TO IRELAND will Stamford, on Sat., Jan. 4. Young MASSES OF HEALING be sponsored by Msgr. Andrew men from high school seniors to AND HOPE sponsored by the Varga, pastor, and Deacon age 35 are invited for a day of Charismatic Renewal Office will Brian Kelly of St. Luke Parish, retreat and discernment time for be offered on Mon., Jan. 20, at Westport, May 5-13, 2014. Cost: prayer and reflection, conversa- St. Lawrence Parish, Shelton, $2,598/person from Newark. For tion, Mass and conferences by with Fr. Charles Allen. For more more information, call Deacon Bishop Caggiano and priests of information, call 203.268.8253. Kelly at the parish: 203.227.7245. the diocese. For more informa- MARCH FOR LIFE in 50TH REUNION for Notre tion, visit www.bridgeportvoca- Washington, DC, will take place Dame Catholic High School tions.org/events/mens-discern- on Wed., Jan. 22. Diocesan bus Class of 1964 will be held Fri.- ment-retreat, email frkachuba@ will leave the Catholic Center Sat., June 20 & 21, 2014. For gmail.com or call St. John Fisher: in Bridgeport at 5:30 am, with a more details, go to www.notre- 203.322.5331. stop at 6 am in Stamford at The dame.org (Click on “Alumni & CURSILLO ULTREYAS are Basilica of St. John the Evangelist. Friends”). To contact the reunion held around the diocese: Mon., We will depart from Washington committee email ndhs1964@ Jan. 6, at St. James Parish, at 4 pm. returning to CT at 11 gmail.com. Please pass this infor- Stratford at 7 pm; and Thurs., pm. For more information, email mation along to any classmates Jan. 16, at St. Mary Parish, [email protected]. you are in contact with. n

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