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2014 Spring/Summer Volume XVIII Issue II
1 the Messenger SPRING/SUMMER 2014 PASTOR’S PAGE
BY FR. ROBERT MALAGESI, MSSCC Roman Catholic Churches to share His of the Immaculate Conception holy love with the poor am writing this shortly after in spirit. The primary goal of our Insti- of the Blessed Virgin Mary the conclusionI of a three week Canon- tute is to work tirelessly, no matter (Fairfield, PA) and St. Rita ical visit of both the Superior General what the cost, to make known to all (Blue Ridge Summit, PA) and Vicar General of the Missionaries. peoples the most ardent Love these
The Superior General, in speaking Hearts have for them and to enflame
with some members of the Lay Mis- in their hearts this Divine Love. sionaries, saw that they had a pro- PASTOR As a member of the Congre- found interest in the charism, or gift, gation, I am humbled to share in so Rev. Michael A. Messaro, msscc that God gave to St. Gaetano. I would great a calling as to be asked to work like to try to convey this gift in the PAROCHIAL VICAR in union with the Sacred Hearts of hope that those who read this will be Rev. Robert P. Malagesi, msscc Jesus and Mary for the salvation of drawn into this gift and grow in holi- souls. St. Gaetano was chosen by God ness. From reading about St. Gaetano for the express purpose of founding a Errico’s life, I strongly believe that he The goal of this publication is to religious community for making was inspired in his zeal for the salva- known to God’s children His love for provide a link between the parishioners tion of souls to provide a way for them them. I see in this choice the words of St. Mary’s and St. Rita’s, to their to come to God through an act of love. written by Theodoret of Cyr, "When a He could see and feel the plight of the church, and to each other. It contains shepherd sees that his sheep have scat- people caused in one sense by the liv- articles and information that can help tered, he keeps one of them under his ing of immoral lives and, in another control and leads it to the pastures he us to progress spiritually, enrich our sense, by the oppression of govern- chooses, and thus he draws the other ments. He knew that he must help them. faith, inform us of parish activities, sheep back to him by means of this one." and to share our love of God. In the Constitutions of the While Theodoret is speaking Missionaries of the Sacred Hearts of of Our Lord, I can see these words Jesus and Mary, two specific sections also being applied to one whom God exhibit St. Gaetano's zeal. The first PUBLISHER Fr. Messaro has chosen in a special way to be His establishes the identity of the Congre- EDITOR Christy Weller vessel. While founders of religious gation. It is by God's Will that the communities certainly fill this role, I Congregation of the Missionaries of PROOF READER Mary Daniel believe this call, after Our Lord, is the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary DESIGN/LAYOUT Christy Weller most perfectly fulfilled in our Blessed was established, so mankind may Mother. She has been graced by God WRITERS John Butcher know the great love of these Divine to share most profoundly with Jesus in Hearts. The second section sets forth Paulette Nidel the salvation of mankind. Jesus en- the aim of the Congregation among trusted her to us as our Mother who Anne Jones God's people. The Eternal Father, longs to hold us in her heart: a heart when bestowing His Divine Love in Mary Ann Carr that is human; a heart that is sacred; the hearts of humanity, chose among and a heart that has been pierced. Our Denise Jackson all creatures the Most Sacred Hearts of Blessed Mother cooperates perfectly Jesus and Mary. Offering themselves Sandi Polvinale with Her Divine Son to help draw us to the service of God the Father as co- Helen Hornbake to the Father’s merciful love. Come, workers in His Divine Plan, the Sa- share in the life of the Missionaries of cred Hearts in our times have called us the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary! 2 the Messenger TABLE OF CONTENTS
2 PASTOR’S PAGE 4 YEAR OF THE FAMILY 4 FAMILY… IS WHO WE ARE, WHAT WE ARE, WHY WE ARE 6 ANSWERING GOD’S CALL 8 LIGHTHOUSE LESSONS - PURITY ON A POSITIVE NOTE 9 TO MY CHILDREN 10 “THE CIRCLE OF LIFE” A CHICKEN STORY 10 ONE MAGICAL DAY 11 FAITH BEE??? 12 ADORATION 12 THREE LITTLE WORDS 13 FINALLY OUR NEW BISHOP INSTALLED 14 A GRACE FILLED WEEKEND WITH JAIME THIETTEN 15 JAIME THIETTEN PERFORMS AT ST. MARY’S 15 BELL CHOIR, BIRTHDAY PARTIES, AND MORE! 16 ST. MARY’S PARISH NURSES 17 A LENTEN SATURDAY WITH FR. MILLER 18 PULPIT PONDERING : REFLECTIONS ON RECENT HOMILIES 19 A NOTE OF THANKS... FROM FATHER M. DAVID DAWSON 20 MY MEMORIES OF POPE ST. JOHN XXIII AND POPE ST. PAUL II 21 ADORATION IN THE SAINT GAETANO ERRICO CHAPEL 21 COVENANT 22 A SEED IS PLANTED - MEET AND WELCOME RON SMITH 23 CRADLE CATHOLIC FINDS A HOME 24 COME HOLY SPIRIT - THE GIFT OF THE SACRAMENT OF CONFIRMATION 25 ST. RITA CONFIRMATION 26 THE EASTER VIGIL AT ST. MARY’S CHURCH 27 THE CREED 27 BRUCE KOCSIS PSUAC WRESTLING COACH OF THE YEAR 28 AN EASTER WEEK GIFT - A DAY IN THE CAPITAL CITY 29 ST. MARY’S MEN’S CLUB 29 THE NIGHTMARE 30 FIRST PENANCE RETREAT : FAITH AND FUN FILLED DAY 31 I’LL GROW 31 I KEPT LOOKING FOR YOU 32 ST. RITA’S FIRST COMMUNION 32 ST. MARY’S FIRST HOLY COMMUNION 33 ST. RITA SENIOR RECOGNITION MASS 33 LIFE RARELY SURPASSES PRECIOUS MOMENTS AS THIS 34 ST MARY’S SPECIAL OLYMPIAN 35 MILESTONES
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YEAR OF THE FAMILY
BY PAULETTE NIDEL
nine topics including themes such as with the topic: “The Pastoral Chal- how Catholic teaching on the value lenges of the Family in the Context of the family has been received and of Evangelization.” Pope Paul VI understood, marriage according to established the Synod of Bishops in natural law, local efforts to support 1965. It is a general assembly gath- and promote family life, the ering created as part of the Vatican Church’s ministry and care for peo- II reforms. Regular synods meet ple in irregular marriage situations, every couple of years to bring about id you know this is the Year including the religious education of greater unity and cooperation of Dof the Family as declared by Pope the children of these marriages, as bishops the world over with each Francis in the fall of 2013? The top- well as the openness of married cou- other and with the Holy See. Call- ic of the family flows logically from ples to life and the Sacraments of the ing an Extraordinary Synod versus a the focus on the Year of Faith and Church. regular Synod means that the issues then the New Evangelization. The are even more urgent. The partici- By the end of 2013, the family is the basic unit of society pants are more select, and the heads findings were compiled to help dis- and of course the greatest source of of the Eastern Churches attend as cover solutions to difficult pastoral faith and the root place for evangeli- well as presidents of bishops’ con- situations in light of the existing zation to begin. In October 2013 the ferences and heads of curia offices. doctrines of faith. The resulting Pope asked that bishops throughout The First Extraordinary Synod was document will be used at the Synod the world distribute a thirty-nine held in 1969 The second, called by In October 2014. This Synod, or question survey to all priests. For Pope John Paul II, was called the gathering of Bishops, called the the first time, the Vatican asked for Second Extraordinary Synod of Third Extraordinary General Assem- parishioners’ responses to a ques- 1985 around the theme “The Twen- bly of the Synod of Bishops, will be tionnaire. The survey addressed tieth Anniversary of the Conclusion in Rome from October 5 – 12, 2014,
amily… IS WHO WE ARE, WHAT WE ARE, WHY WE ARE BY DENISE JACKSON
Just imagine if the Bible was entitled bands, Parenting, Forgiving, Surviving the Past, Seeking the God’s Little Instruction Book for Fami- Future, and Life in the Present. The longest chapter would lies. It would be on the list of best be Love. According to the scriptures, we are made in the sellers, and people would flock to the book stores to buy it! image and likeness of God. God is love. We are also love. Between the bound leather covers, the pages would lay in We are instructed to “Love one another as I have waiting to deliver knowledge for the sages, directions for loved you.” To do that, God has given us, each to the other, raising children, instructions for growing up, and how to live to be His love personified in the world. We are called to live the ‘good life.’ There would be no need for dear old Eloise in the structure of family and to love one another so we may or dear Abby. Tarot cards would flap in the winds of astrolo- understand the love of our Father. In turn, each family is to gy, and Emily Post would have needed a new career. reach beyond their immediate members to extend God’s per- The books of the Bible could be divided into chap- fect love to an imperfect world. That same love allows us to ters listed as Genealogy, Family, Marriage, Wives, Hus- embrace others beyond the boundary of blood ties, to extend
4 the Messenger of the Second Vatican Council.” With the special focus on http://www.vatican.va/news_services/press/ documentazione/documents/ This Third Extraordinary Synod is a the Year of the Family, Father Rob- sinodo_indice_en.html result of Pope Francis’ meeting with ert thought it would be enriching for the “G8″ Council of Cardinals. families to have this statue as a re- minder to pray and seek holiness of For Francis, issues of family life. This was another response to and marriage are the ones that re- inspiration on his part after the large quire deeper interpretation given the Holy Family statue was installed on signs of the times, and dedicating a the grounds by the Church en- synod to the topic suggests he wants trance. The intent is for the statue to to unify church teaching about them. travel for weekly visits among pa- When local church offices around rishioners. The Statue was blessed the world make their own decisions in January, and so far about ten fam- The Notto family receives the Holy about marriage and family, especial- ilies both from St. Rita’s and other Family Statue at the Sunday Mass. ly about serving communion to di- Father will join them to pray the parishes have hosted the statue. vorced and remarried Catholics, the Rosary for Married Couples global church becomes divided. Vat- Did you know you can sign at the end of the week. ican spokesperson Fr. Federico up in the vestibule to be a home for Lombardi said, “It is very important St. Rita’s Holy Family statue? Fa- that an extraordinary Synod has ther will be in touch with you to been convoked on the theme of the make arrangements. He will meet pastoral of the family. This is the with you during the week and pray way in which the Pope intends to the Rosary for married couples, promote reflection and to guide the which he developed during his years path of the community of the in the seminary. Individuals as well Church, with the responsible partici- as families are welcome to sign pation of the episcopate from differ- up. All of us benefit by praying for The Bakers and Barb Harris (Tina ent parts of the world.” families! You and your family will Baker's’s Mom) receive the Holy Family be happy you did! Statue for their week in February . the heart of God to others. As such, we enlarge the circle of blessed with wonderful, faith filled spouses. We prayed for immediate family to our church family, and that to the body and with our children. Now they pray with their children. of Christ. We taught by example, celebrated the sacraments, and prac- ticed the tenets of our faith with them. Now, we watch them When I met my future in-laws, I was drawn to their share the joys of our faith with their children. strong family life, how they treated each other, and how they lived their faith every day at home and within the communi- Of all the blessings in our lives, we are proud of and ty. They even prayed together. I remember thinking that grateful for the young adults our children have become. Our when I grew up I wanted to have a family just like that. They joy is most complete when we enter the church, and four were a family that relied on God in good times and bad generations of our family fill the pews of St. Mary’s. My times. They accepted his unconditional love and loved oth- heart nearly burst when our son-in-law entered the church, ers unconditionally. I eventually married the oldest son in and when our daughter-in-law signed up for RCIA. Through that family. example, by simply living our faith, we have mirrored the family life of our past generation, and it now reflects in the For forty-three years I have been grateful to the par- lives of our children. We welcomed two new members and ents who raised such a beautiful, faith filled man, my hus- nine grandchildren into our family, and to our faith. Fami- band. As a young couple, we welcomed the birth of our chil- ly… is who we are, what we are, and why we are. We are dren, and early in their lives we began praying for the chil- the body of Christ. We are family. dren who would become their future spouses. I should not be surprised then, that our son and daughter have also been Denise Jackson, © 2014
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ANSWERING GOD’S CALL
BY JOHN BUTCHER AND TOM KINIRY M any of you know Tom Irish housewife. They raised their up knowing him only as a priest. As Kiniry. He is an active member of St. family in the lower middle west end the years went by, Joe became the Mary's Men's Club and is always section of Johnstown, Pennsylvania. pillar of our family, and in many willing to help with the myriad pro- My brothers and sisters and I grew ways, also of the diocese. If some- jects the club sponsors. However, up in the 30's, 40's, and 50's, the one needed work, if a son or daugh- during casual conversations, I dis- peak years of Catholic education. It ter was in trouble, if a marriage was covered that Tom has a remarkable was through the Baltimore Cate- failing you went to Monsignor Ki- family background. chism, taught by the Sisters of Mer- niry. He was pastor for twenty-five cy, that we learned our religion. It years of the largest parish in the dio- Growing up, I had an ex- was the discipline at home, the ad- cese. During that time, he was ap- tended family with many religious herence to the faith, that put it in pointed Director of the Diocesan vocations. Two of my father's aunts motion, but this way of life was Bureau of Information and had his were sisters (Franciscan and Mer- common at the time. We were no own weekly TV show. He was Pres- cy), my mother's cousin was a Pas- exception. ident of the Priests' Council and sionist priest, and my aunt was a twice received special honors from sister of the Good Shepherd. Howev- Our neighborhood was blue Pope John Paul II: Prelate of Honor er, this pales by comparison with collar, predominantly Catholic. I with title Monsignor, and Prothono- Tom Kiniry's immediate family. never knew an African American, tary Apostolic. Joe died in 2008. and I hardly knew a protestant. Eve- As Tom describes his family, ry nationality had its own church Marianne chose the single out of the ten children, six went into and school. On Sunday mornings, to life vocation. As such she was our religious life. There were two dioce- the strings of polka music coming mother's right arm and a stabilizer san priests, two Holy Cross Broth- out of kitchen widows we all went for the family. She is eighty-six ers, and two nuns (Dominican and off to Mass: the Irish to St. Colum- years old and still sends me $15 on Sister of St. Joseph). ba, the Germans to Immaculate Con- my birthday! Tom provided this amazing ception, the Slovaks to St. Francis or Jimmy was the quiet one of story about his family. St. Stevens, the Polish to St. Casi- the family. He entered the Holy mir, and Croatians to St. Rochus. Upon hearing of the six vo- Cross Brothers right out of high cations in our family, people often We never owned a car and school. He taught high school math assume that we must have been a never missed one. Everything we for years in several private all male very religious family. In truth, I nev- needed was in the neighborhood or a Holy Cross high schools, including a er felt that we were any different streetcar ride away. No one went on number of years at the American from any of our neighbors. vacations. Life was so simple. Focus School in Rome. Jimmy left the or- Terri Gelles, who belongs to was on home and family. der after twenty-eight years. He con- tinued to teach and died while living St. Francis Church in Gettysburg, Religious activities were in Pittsburgh in 2009. was my neighbor. She once told me daily, weekly, and annual events. that her mother prayed daily for a They gave purpose and structure to Bridget (Jetty) entered the vocation in their family, and she our lives. In this environment, my Dominican Sisters of Sparkill, New could not understand why the Ki- brothers and sisters and I were pre- York, after high school. Jetty was nirys had all the vocations. We still pared for the world. and remains the family cheerleader. laugh about that. There is seldom a dark day in her My brother Joe, the first life. She spent her entire career My father was an Irish rail- born, was ordained a priest in 1950 teaching in the Manhattan girls’ roader. My mother was a German/ when I was in second grade. I grew 6 the Messenger schools run by the Dominicans. She children. Thanks to Michael, my Pittsburgh for a few years before was a small town girl who made it father's family name continues. leaving the community. She married, big in the city. When she retired had three beautiful children, and The characteristic that best from teaching she was appointed then sadly died of cancer at the age describes my brother Larry is Love. Administrator by the city of New of thirty-five. The youngest in the Like Jetty, life is pure joy to Larry York of Incarnation Center, a home family was the first to pass on. Both and he brings that love of life and for children with AIDs. Jetty was Joe and Larry were on the altar for compassion to everyone he meets, awarded the University of Mount St. her funeral. Only a little over a year especially those he is serving as a Mary's Founders Medal in recogni- separates Patty and me. Although we parish priest. You would be hard tion of her work. I enjoyed many a come from a family of ten, she and I free meal, free room, and place to sort of grew up alone. park in New York while visiting my Being born the ninth of ten sister Jetty. children certainly had its ad- Dick also joined the Holy vantages: lots of in house baby sit- Cross Brothers, but not until after a ters, lots of hand me downs, lots of stint in the United States Navy. Dick free advice, and most important, lots is the J (Judging on the Meyers- of love and support along the way. Briggs Personality Type Indicator) When I reflect on looking of the family. He is “order personi- for an answer to the question, “why fied.” Like Jimmy, Dick taught in so many vocations in one family,” I the Holy Cross high schools and was Photo taken in 1966 on the day of focus on their internal drive to want extremely active in social programs Tom’s brother, Larry's, first mass to serve humanity in some compas- in Washington, D.C. For years right sionate role. They all possess a very up to his recent (second) retirement, Left to right: Front row fond love of their faith and a com- he administered in various nursing Tom’s mother, Larry, Tom’s dad mitment to it, but their emphasis homes in the district. He received seems to be allowing that to play out several dinners and other venues of Back row in relationships with other human recognition from those organizations Patty, Joe, Marianne, Jimmy, beings. Of the six vocations, perhaps upon leaving for his provincialate Jetty, Dick, Peggy, Tom Joe exemplified the role of a preach- near Albany, New York, this past (Michael was missing) er. He was well known for his mas- fall. I always worried when I heard terly skill of combining sacred scrip- Dick was coming home because he pressed to hear an unkind word spo- ture with everyday occurrences never failed to bring lists of jobs to ken of Larry. He has touched, and which the people could identify with be done around the house! continues to touch so many lives and relate to. People of all faiths with the true spirit of our Catholic Peggy was the first to marry tuned into his TV show to listen to faith. My brothers, Joe and Larry, and, as you might imagine, was mar- his homily. He loved this role, and along with two cousins who are ried by Joe. She and her husband, by such, he, like Jimmy, Jetty, Dick, priests, and Joe's two assistants, Ray, raised five children, who have Larry, and Patty gave so much of married Carol and me in 1983. Carol rewarded them with grandchildren, themselves to make the world a bet- tells people we had more priests on and now great grandchildren. ter place. the altar than we had people in the Michael entered the Marines pews. I wish I had a dime for eve- while in high school. He fell in love ry time I was asked, “What hap- Patty, the youngest of the with Florida while stationed there. pened to you”? My pat answer has family, entered the Sisters of St. Jo- Upon discharge he came home, got always been, “God called six, and seph upon high school graduation. married, and returned to Florida the Marines called two.” She taught elementary school in where he raised a family of seven
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LIGHTHOUSE LESSONS - PURITY ON A POSITIVE NOTE
BY PAULETTE NIDEL
id you know the average Prayer is the most powerful tool. parenting may be currently a thank- teenD is exposed to eleven hours of less job, they will come back asking The second tip is: Set the media per day? for your guidance years later. standard high and make it clear: i.e., Jason Evert is a noted abstinence until marriage. You Fourth: Delay the onset of speaker and publisher of CDs and at don’t tell a child, “Don’t play in a dating until at least sixteen years least twelve books on the subject of street, but if you happen to, please old. Recognize the purpose of dating chastity and other aspects of Cathol- wear a helmet to protect yourself,” and encourage group friendships. icism. Some of his titles include or “In case you have a strong urge to Introduce your teens to the ideas of What’s so Great About Being Cath- smoke, here is a weaker pack of cig- courtship. If someone is not worth olic, How to Find Your Soulmate arettes which is not so dangerous.” marrying, they are not worth da- Without Losing Your Soul, and These alternatives give another op- ting! Kids need specifics. To avoid Raising Pure Teens. He includes lots tion and show an expectation of fail- a potentially bad situation, keep girls of humor in his CD presentations so ure. Evert points out the term “safe away from older guys. Encourage you don’t lose interest while listen- sex” degrades a woman reducing her her to ask herself, “Would I date a ing! to an object of pleasure. guy this much younger than I am?” In Parenting for Purity, Fifth: Network with oth- Jason makes it quite clear that the er parents. It is great for kids to parents are the #1 influence on have friends whose parents have their teens sexual behavior! The the same values as you do! Form virtue of chastity must be linked networks so parents are aware of with the virtue of love and fo- what is going on in the teens’ cused on in positive terms as op- lives. Parents can pick up many posed to negatives, for example ideas from other parents too. focusing on love for the other’s Sixth: Be aware of inter- good versus abstaining to avoid net and media safety, a challeng- negative consequences such as ing frontier. Recognize that if pregnancy or STDs. your child has email, he or she He gives ten strategies to may receive pornography. Be- help teach families purity and come educated in this area recog- communicate the message of nizing the dangers to the kids as The third tip: Be a parent chastity. First: pray, fast, and offer well as to the marriage! Remember first, then a buddy. Let your kids sufferings for your children. Prayer what fidelity in marriage means, and know you are there for them and is the first thing we should turn to, let your kids know of your faithful- give them clear boundaries. He cites and it should be done as a couple ness to your own vows! There are examples showing how to demon- and as a family. Praying together internet safety filters and accounta- strate you care. The opposite of love happens with grace, Mass, and Con- bility software available such is not hate but indifference. Be fession when parents and children as covenanteyes.com and keyboard available to them at all times, setting receive the sacrament together. logger. It is essential to become the standard high and clear. They There is no greater lesson in humili- computer literate. Keep the comput- can blame you for not doing stupid ty than for children to see their mom er in a high traffic area so that both things. He gives great examples on or dad going to confession and rec- the teen and the screen are always this too! He points out that while ognizing their own weaknesses. visible. You can also track on their
8 the Messenger TO MY CHILDREN phones where they are! Learn about moral matters, the teens assume he By Denise Jackson © the dangers of child porn and how it disagrees with mom. Do things like is spread! It is the best way to spend father/son days or dates for father I have so much to give you your time! Evert also lists ways to and daughter to show how she So much love to share limit use of phones and other media. should be treated by a man. Spend time together. You’re in my every thought and Seventh: Keep communica- Kept in every prayer. tion open by not always delivering a Tenth: Chastity is a virtue, lecture. Learn how to listen well to like courage. Virtues are more them! Think, “What is the best ques- caught than taught. Practicing chas- From the dawning of each morn tion I can ask them to help them tity in your marriage is the best way Till the ending of each day think about their issues?” If you take to teach it to your kids! Use the gift I spend my life daydreaming an interest in everything in their of sexuality according to God’s Loving you my way. lives, they will be more likely to be plan. Know the Church’s teaching open about everything. on marriage such as no contracep- tion or sterilization. Good Catholics I want to make you happy Eight: Don’t just give “the are open to the gift of life. That is talk,” give many talks. With their Want to make you glad the default position, and if you have academic subjects, they get years of To bring your life more sunshine a sufficiently just reason not to have formation. They need to hear early Cheer you when you’re sad. a child, Natural Family Planning is and often about the truth of human the way to do this. sexuality! The Church does not give I want to be there with you an age; every child is different. Both Remember, the kids may not parents should speak when it comes always obey you, but they will imi- When you feel all alone to human sexuality, whereas moms tate you! Let them recognize they When you feel lost or lonely speak to daughters and dads to sons are not waiting to have sex made I will bring you home. about the “birds and bees.” Teach legal but rather waiting for a spouse, the value of delayed gratification. their future husband or wife: their To listen very closely You can start teaching this message vocation!! early in many ways and use chil- To the thoughts you share I recommend this CD espe- dren’s books like The Princess and Wish my heart to understand cially if you have children or the Kiss. Children who learn im- teens. We can all learn something Show you that I care. pulse control and delayed gratifica- from this since most of us are not tion develop the ability do much nearly as well educated as we might I want to look out with you better later. Be ready with not only need to be for our children. We also what the church teaches but also Show you what I see may be able to help others in this with resources that document how regard – nieces, nephews, grandkids, I want to help you become marriages last for those who are neighbors kids! If this topic is not All that you can be. chaste before marriage. Skeptical useful to you, there are many oth- kids can see that the social statistics ers. Jason’s What’s so Great About back what the Church says. Let’s look at your tomorrows Being Catholic would be a great one See what we can see Ninth: As parents, get over to start with! Maybe you can relate! your insecurities when it coms to Check out www.chasityproject.com. Let’s hold hands as you become talking about the subject. Both par- Ask Father Robert if you would like That which you will be. ents need to speak on these is- this CD! sues. If dad is silent in spiritual and I believe In You!
9 the Messenger “THE CIRCLE OF LIFE”
A CHICKEN STORY Congratulations to Saint There is even a St Rita’s character that started this whole Mary’s parishioner, Sandra L. commotion! And if that isn’t enough drama, there’s a Polvinale, for her first place award pause for an endearing cell in the first annual Christian story- phone call to my mother telling contest in the Fall of 2013 in and a run to the emergency Hagerstown, MD. room at Feathers Tails and Scales. Throw in some civ- In her own words, Sandi shares a little about her il war anesthesia, and you story: It seems all kids, young and old, enjoy a good have the recipe for a hilari- chicken story. Although I shan’t reveal the whole story ous disaster that ends in an due to length and publisher’s first rights, I will tell you unexpected twist. Life on a that it is never a good idea to name your pet chickens af- farm is fodder for a whole ter your sisters’ middle names, your own, and your moth- slew of stories. er’s nick name Chic, pronounced Chick! What happens in this story is pretty much true with a slight bit added for Maybe we can artistic license. It involves a chaotic surgery attempt, a convince Sandi to share her chase scene, a villain, the heroine, surgeons, surgeon hilarious, award-winning wanna be’s, and a whole colorful cast of characters! story with us one day soon.
O NE M AGICAL D AY
BY DENISE JACKSON © 1995
A special experience that brought our family closer together occurred one marvelous afternoon, made magical by the gift of laughter. Enchanting from the start, it began with a spine -tingling ride high atop the backbone of Ice Mountain. Our family could barely get enough of the crisp October air into our lungs. All the while, the glorious autumn sunshine warmed our spirits to the joy of complete abandonment. Blessedly, away from the busy world, we were alone on our own private mountain for a whole day. In union, white knuckled, clinging to the rope support and each other, we trembled as we crossed the rickety wooden foot bridge. Valiantly, we thrilled with the triumph of reaching the other side, high above the rushing stream. A family of God’s ageless children, we impetuously scampered with the squirrels among the leaves. Laughing ourselves silly, paying no attention to the staining walnut husks or green grass, we rolled pell-mell over and over down the sloping mountain side. As we breathlessly lay on our backs, we watched the painted cotton-balls roll our azure blue sky… a magnificent canvas. Grateful for that sparkle in time, I knew we could never again recapture those iridescent moments. For one afternoon we belonged to each other, hearts and souls. What joy! We were a family united in Christ, on a day born of Mother Nature. Perhaps that is how God feels when we spend time with Him. 10 the Messenger FAITH BEE??? BY PAULETTE NIDEL
contest. They left school at lengthy answer which included the noon, and the contest start- concept that maybe man’s under- ed at 2 P.M. lasting until standing and interpretation were 6:30! They stayed until the more stern and that, since Jesus had end encouraging contest- not come yet, there would be a ants and curious about the greater contrast to show the impact winner. of the Commandment to love one hat is it all about – a Faith another. The New Testament law W First of all, Katie said she Bee? Do any of us adults know includes more a spirit of love for had not realized how much she al- enough about our faith that we could which the people of the Old Testa- ready knew as she took part with a name the eleven bishops of Harris- ment were not yet prepared. total of fifty-six students, of whom burg or all the Popes of the 20th and three quarters were from Catholic Katie seemed to really enjoy 21st centuries in sequence beginning schools. There are about eighty par- the day and even made friends with with Pope St. Pius X who estab- ishes in the diocese so this was a the students sitting next to her. lished the age of First Communion good representation from fifty-six of Though she did not win the grand at seven, the age of reason. Could those. Secondly, she became in- prize, Katie is a winner in her own we name all the books of the Old creasingly aware that there is so right and well on her way to realiz- and New Testaments in order? much more to learn! (That old say- ing that we all can learn more about This past January 19th, the ing: “The more you know, the more our faith and should be highly moti- seventh and eighth graders of St. you know you don’t know!”) She vated to do so. We are then better Rita’s took a written test about the said she was very happy to have had able to explain and defend it espe- Catholic faith. In both parish CCD the experience and would gladly do cially today when there is so much programs and Catholic schools it again. She felt good about how confusion about truth and what we throughout the diocese, students in well she did, finishing in the top believe as Catholic Christians. these two grades took the test and twenty students. Had she studied? The day ended on a great then competed in an oral Faith Bee YES! Her twin sister Hanna as well note with Father Robert treating at their parish to select a finalist for as her mom and other family mem- Katie, her mom, Chris, and sister the Diocesan Faith Bee. All of St. bers helped her to study, for which Hanna to dinner on the way home! Rita’s seventh and eighth graders Katie is grateful. I asked about the took part in the judged, live Faith winner, a guy, and she said he Bee on Feb. 2nd during the regular seemed like he knew everything! CCD class time. As a result Nick Katie thought he might someday be Hays, Peter Warthen, and Katie dedicated as a religious in the Manning were the finalists, and Church and with all that knowledge Katie went as the delegate to the – a real gift! Diocesan Faith Bee held on March Students were invited to 25th, interestingly enough, the Feast submit questions to Bishop Gainer of the Annunciation. before the bee actually started, and Katie said she was a bit Katie’s deeply thought out question nervous but very excited about the was selected: “Why does God seem experience that was an opportunity so much more stern or wrathful in to meet our recently installed Bishop the Old Testament than in the and to take part in this challenging New?” Bishop Gainer gave a 11 the Messenger ADORATION THREE LITTLE WORDS
BY DICK HEIBEL BY MARY ANN CARR
DAY LIGHT SAVINGS TIME “Oh my God, relying on
Thy infinite mercy, almighty power, Time to turn back your clocks and promises. I hope to obtain for- ust three little words. They didn’t sound as if giveness of my sins, everlasting J they would cause much trouble. The TV and computer life, and all thy graces, through the had reminded us for weeks, at least a half dozen times a merits of Thy Son, our Lord Jesus day, to be sure and turn back our clocks on Satur- Christ.” I began to say the Act of Susan E. Bates day. Saturday night rolled around, and I reminded Photography Hope every day in 1995 to keep me Bruce that now was the time to DO IT. focused on attaining my goal of reaching heaven. When the Adoration Chapel opened, “Eh. I’m a little tired. I think I will change Mary and I signed up for the 2:00 A.M. hour. This was one of the them in the morning.” hours during which the apostles had fallen asleep during Christ's “Let’s do it tonight and get it over with so that agony in the garden. I thought I could do better. we won’t be late for Mass.” “Don’t worry. No problem. I’ll get it done in After seven years of Adoration, I have found the following: the morning. Trust me.” 1. I am never tired or bored. I find myself looking forward to this quiet time with no distractions between me and God. I ask for I didn’t listen. All the clocks that were within help solving my problems, and perseverance to live my life the way easy reach or essential to the correct time in the morn- God wants. ing, such as the coffee pot, I pushed back an hour.
2. Going to Adoration is a lot like taking up jogging. Once it We woke the next morning to another sto- becomes a habit, you'll find you miss the peace and quiet, just like a ry. Half of the clocks pronounced the time to be jogger misses the endorphin rush when he doesn't do routine exer- 7:00. The other half chimed 8 times. “Which clocks cise. The Adoration rush is one quiet hour when you are in Christ's did you set back? Is this the right time on this clock, or physical presence and can ask Him for guidance, help, etc. You al- is other one already set back? How many of them did ways feel better. you turn back?” 3. I discovered that you can obtain a plenary indulgence for a half hour visit, when you meet the additional conditions of Mass, “Well, now that you mention it, I’m just not Communion, Confession, and prayer for the Holy Father's inten- sure. You know what my memory is like these days, and you told me that I should trust you.” tions. To me a plenary indulgence represents a “get out of Purgatory
free card” or at least to spend a shorter time there. . . . And then, I did have a memory of something that I urge you to make the commitment to go to Adoration, happened several years ago. Bruce had run a twenty- then start with a half hour when you are free. Don't pick a time that one mile race for cancer. I was so proud of him. As he stresses you out. Then make a commitment to yourself, no one else, neared the finish, I waited on the other side of the line to go once a week for nine weeks. At the end of this novena, your to greet him. He saw me and opened up his arms for life will change. the big hug. I did the same. His long legs didn’t stop. They continued to lope along the path. The sud- For most of my adult life, just like the apostles, I had fallen den burst did its job. He ran right over me. His arms asleep. It was the sleep of indifference and ingratitude towards did break my fall, but the next thing I knew, I was on Christ's suffering and love. Now I have a way to show my gratitude the ground. Glasses flung to one side, hearing aids on and get to my ultimate goal. the other. So much for trust!
Two weeks ago after 5:30 Mass there was a huge rainbow I believe I will stick with Jesus. in the eastern sky. One end was to the North in Gettysburg the other Trust in Me. end was at the Adoration chapel. It was like a memo from God re- I will be with you until the end of time. minding me that the only treasure I needed was with Him.
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FINALLY OUR NEW BISHOP INSTALLED HARRISBURG HAS A SHEPHERD AT LAST! BY PAULETTE NIDEL
n March 19th, special dignitaries, priests and deacons! challenging circumstances. Rick and I wereO able to attend the instal- Archbishop Chaput, the Metro- Bishop Gainer comes highly lation of our newly appointed Bishop, politan Archbishop of Philadelphia (the recommended from all areas of his ex- Ronald Gainer, ordained in the diocese diocese from which Harrisburg was perience, even from the woman who of Allentown, Pennsylvania, in 1973, born), addressed the congregation and helps care for his ninety year old mother and formerly serving as the second presented Bishop Gainer as the eleventh who lives in the Bishop’s residence in Bishop of Lexington, Kentucky, since Bishop of Harrisburg, after which Arch- Harrisburg. He shows the traits of a fa- February 2003. What a privilege this bishop Vigano read the Apostolic Letter ther, a priest, and Christ Himself. He is was for us! Though the Installation from Pope Francis appointing Bishop truly a “pastor at heart.” (Catholic Witness, Mass and ceremony lasted over two Gainer as Bishop of Harrisburg. The March 28, p. 30) hours, the experience was totally con- congregation, including people from the suming and it flew by. Large TVs pro- Father Robert was asked to dioceses of Allentown, Lexington, and vided continual coverage which meant greet the Bishop during the ceremony on Harrisburg responded with a standing all were able to see very well. behalf of the Missionaries of the Sacred ovation in welcome. Hearts of Jesus and Mary. One of the The entrance procession con- Bishop Gainer mixed humor most impressive moments was during sisted of Knights of Columbus in full with the serious in his homily, saying the Eucharistic Prayer to hear the chorus regalia, diocesan seminarians, ecumeni- although the song in his heart was now of so many priests voicing the words of cal and civic leaders, deacons, priests, back to the “Pennsylvania Polka,” he Jesus in the Consecration! bishops, archbishops and cardinals, in- would always have the echo of “My Old cluding Cardinal Justin Rigali of Phila- All in all, I would consider this Kentucky Home” in his heart. On a seri- delphia and Archbishop Carlo Maria an experience of a lifetime, one which ous side, Bishop Gainer focused on the Vigano, Apostolic Nuncio to the United certainly brought me to a greater aware- Feast Day honoring St. Joseph and States. It was such an awesome gather- ness of the unity which exists in our spoke of his courage, obedience, and ing of religious, even more than the Church. How privileged we are to be humility. He reminded us that the devo- Chrism Mass in Holy Week which al- blessed as the only true Church, the one tion to St. Joseph must go far beyond ways impresses me! The photos can with apostolic succession! the real estate intercession when we are speak for themselves. Most of the left trying to sell our house! He said St. Jo- Father Robert Gillelan, as well side of the cathedral was empty as the seph is a model for us as he was always as all present, would no doubt agree that pews awaited the arrival of those many aware of “Lexington’s Loss was Harrisburg’s God’s inner Gainer!” (Headline, p. 30 Catholic Wit- promptings, ness, March 28, 2014) He spoke earlier ready to do saying that as Diocesan Administrator His will, and during the sede vacante or empty seat, humbly obe- there was no one present as relieved as dient even in he was on this day of Bishop Gainer’s the most Installation!
Bishop Gainer Father Robert and and Ron & Sara newly installed Smith, with Bishop Gainer at Paulette Nidel his Installation and Fr. Robert Ceremony on at the Rite of the March 19, 2014 Call to Continu- 13 the Messenger
A GRACE FILLED WEEKEND WITH JAIME THIETTEN
BY FR. ROBERT MALAGESI, MSSCC
A bitterly cold winter was thing that speaks, capable of touch- suddenly warmed on the first week- ing the heart, of communicating a end of March in the land of the Mis- message, of elevating the soul.” Peter sionaries of the Sacred Hearts Truly, the sincerity with which and me which included breakfast, (Bonneauville, Blue Ridge Summit, Jaime gives of herself in serving lunch, and dinners on various days. and Fairfield, Pennsylvania) through God is evident not only in her music She spent time talking about her life the gift God has given to one of His but also, from what I was blessed to and faith and hanging out with the daughters, Jaime Thietten. Jaime, in see, in all areas of her life, for many students of St. Rita’s on their Con- sharing the gift of her beautiful hearts were touched and souls elevated. firmation retreat. This made them voice, could be the personification feel special and appreciated. The For never really having met, of the words of Pope Emeritus concert itself, attended by parishion- except for a brief introduction at the Benedict XVI in one of his papal ers from all three parishes, left those National Catholic Youth Conference audiences. He reminded 5,000 pil- present with a spirit both renewed last November in Indianapolis with grims of the universal human re- and filled with joy and grace. It was 25,000 young people, over the sponse to beauty as reflected in a truly a “Good Day to be Alive.” weekend we quickly came to feel as sculpture, a painting, a poem, or a Thank you Jaime for visiting us, and though we were spending time with beautiful piece of music. The Pope we look forward to your returning to a family member. She shared in said it is, "something bigger, some- us again. multiple birthday parties for both Fr.
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JAIME THIETTEN PERFORMS BELL CHOIR, BIRTHDAY PARTIES, AND MORE! AT ST. MARY’S
BY JOHN BUTCHER O n March 2nd Jaime Thietten, Catholic recording art- ist, joined the parishes of St. Bell Choir Party - Christine Carpenter’s Birthday Mary’s, St. Rita’s, and St. Joseph the Worker, performing at Mass- es and at a concert at St. Mary’s. The appreciative audience includ- ed an equal mix of parishioners from each church. Attendance was good considering predictions First Friday Luncheons of up to a foot of snow; fortu- nately we only had rain. Jaime, from Idaho, said this was her first trip ever to Pennsylvania. In 2006 she, a Sev- enth day Adventist, and her hus- Donut Social at St. Mary’s Church band, a Mormon, converted to Catholicism. She told of her struggle with the continuing call to share her talent praising God and championing the unborn through her music. She and her husband have been married fif- Father Robert’s Birthday Party teen years, but she cannot con- ceive a child due to infertility. Jaime said they may adopt in the future, and her motto is “There is no such thing as an unwanted child.” After the concert, Jaime (L) Fr. Mike with Superior General Fr. Luigi Toscano and Vicar General Fr. had her CDs available and joined Benny James of the Missionaries of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary us for a cookie social in St. (R) Corby hosting annual gathering with visiting priest, Fr. Dan Nussbaum Mary’s hall. We thank Father Mike, Father Peter, and Father Robert for arranging to have Jaime share her talent with us, and we wish her success in spreading the pro-life message through her music. (L) New alter server, Kolbe Coughlin (M) Caitlin and Adam McClain with daughter Gracelynn (R) Seminarians Denton Morris and David Dawson
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ST. MARY’S PARISH NURSES
BY MARY ANNE GARDNER
ost of St. Mary’s parishion- sored by the Center for Disease Con- Sever- Mers recognize our Parish Nurses on trol and Prevention. Our part of the al of your Par- donut social Sunday. After Mass we program involves working closely ish Nurses work are at the corner table in the parish with several at risk parishioners, with the local Ameri- hall, offering blood pressure screen- regularly recording blood pressure can Red Cross organization, particu- ings and a variety of educational readings and working on several larly in support of Disaster Services. handouts on numerous health topics. interventions in an attempt to de- We have nurses who are qualified to Or they know that the Parish Nurses crease any abnormal readings. run the medical services in an emer- are hosting the donut social when gency shelter, and one who is a qual- When the Parish Nurses ar- they see fruit and/or bagels along ified Shelter Manager. We also ranged for the purchase and installa- with the donuts on the table. But maintain ties with several additional tion of an Automated External De- that’s not all your Parish Nurses do organizations, including the Adams fibrillator (AED) several years ago, for St. Mary’s congregation. County Registered Nurses, and the we worked with the Fairfield Fire Parish Nurse group from Holy Spirit Parish Nurses are Registered and EMS (Emergency Medical Ser- Hospital in Camp Hill, Pennsylva- Nurses who have received additional vices) staff to ensure compatibility nia. Contact with all these organiza- education to help them serve the with their equipment. Since then we tions helps us learn and grow and members of their congregations by have been invited to participate, as improve the services we can provide providing a holistic approach to community partners, in their annual to our community here at St. Mary’s. health and wellness. They recognize Open House in May in recognition the importance of integrating physi- of National EMS Week. Sometimes We continue to offer educa- cal, mental, and particularly spiritual we do blood pressure screenings, tional materials, personal counsel- aspects of each individual on their sometimes we offer materials about ing, and referral to any of our parish- path to wellness. a variety of health issues, and some- ioners. Stop by the Blood Pressure times we focus on disaster planning. table in the corner of the church hall We work under the auspices on donut social Sunday (or the up- of Meritus Health in Hagerstown, One of our Parish Nurses stairs classroom on the Saturday be- Maryland. They provide us with has become a certified CardioPul- fore). We would be happy to take professional oversight, continuing monary Resuscitation (CPR) instruc- your blood pressure, answer your education, referral and consultation tor, and offers CPR certification to questions, or say a prayer with you services, and a variety of resources. parishioners of both St. Mary’s and or for you. Or feel free to stop any This spring and summer they are St. Rita’s. [If anyone is interested in one of us whenever you see us. We assisting us during our participation participating, please contact Becky will gladly help any way we can. in the Million Hearts program spon- at the Church office.]
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A LENTEN SATURDAY WITH FR. MILLER
BY DICK HEIBEL Father Miller, a Marian ex- was born of the Virgin Mary.” pert from Mount St. Mary’s Univer- From the time of the Annun- sity, led this year's Lenten retreat. ciation, Mary was Christ's first disci- He discussed the Blessed Mother's ple and follower. Because she was to role in Christ's redemption of all Father Miller also discussed be the mother of Christ, she could mankind by selecting just two of St. the Assumption in this way: Since not have any stain of sin and had to John's gospels about Mary. These Mary was conceived without the remain pure throughout her life, that gospels were about the Annuncia- stain of original sin, and Christ's is “full of grace.” She requested tion and the crucifixion of Jesus. human nature came from Mary, both Christ's first public miracle in front her soul and body would be taken up The Annunciation / Incarna- of his other disciples at the wedding to heaven. We all will be resurrected tion had to happen, and Mary had to feast at Cana. When Christ ad- one day just as Christ was resurrect- say “yes” to save mankind. This was dressed her as “woman,” this term ed, but because of sin, our bodies an overwhelming responsibility to was not disrespectful. In those times, must return to dust before our resur- lay on a teenage girl. Happily, a husband addressed his wife as rection. Mary had no sin and so was Mary's unconditional “yes” to God's woman. In essence He is alluding to never subject to death or corruption. will led to the removal of the stain the fact that she is the spouse of of original sin and Eve's “no.” This God. One inquiry that stayed with acceptance by Mary made her the me from the question and answer At the crucifixion, Christ Mother of God. Jesus' relationship period was about Christ's last words once again called her woman when with Mary must be clearly under- on the cross. “My God, my God, he said to her and John, “Woman stood in order to understand Mary. why have You forsaken Me?” These behold thy son, and son behold hold Understanding that Jesus, the second words are the beginning of Psalm thy mother”. Mary at that moment person of of the blessed Trinity, was 22, not an act of despair. The psalm became a mother to all of us. She fully incarnate as a human and also actually ends with reaffirmation of represented the Church, the Brides- fully divine, is important in rebut- trust in God's help. maid of Christ, and therefore the ting the early heresy which held that spiritual mother of all mankind. after Mary gave birth, God then took From that day forward, Mary was over the human body. This truth taken in by John and treated as if she means that Jesus was born of Mary, was his mother. Mary became not not through Mary. Therefore Mary only our spiritual mother but also is truly the Mother of God, and her represented the Church on earth. As spouse is the Holy Spirit. In the such she was to give support and aid Creed we pray, “He was conceived to the early disciples and to us today. by the power of the Holy Spirit and
“For mental prayer is nothing else than an intimate sharing between friends; it means taking time frequently to be alone with him who we know loves us. The important thing is not to think much but to love much and so do that which best stirs you to love. Love is not great delight but desire to please God in everything. - St. Theresa of Avila” ~ Submitted by Corby
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PULPIT PONDERING: REFLECTIONS ON RECENT HOMILIES BY FR. ROBERT MALAGESI, MSSCC (AND OTHER PRIESTS) BY PAULETTE NIDEL
rom May 28, Wednesday of ten,“We too are His offspring,” and to Him! We heard how we sometimes the Fsixth week of Easter: “How are we Plato and Aristotle said to “Look to- fail to recognize the Holy Spirit and able to speak about God?” We hear in ward God.” how He works in our lives. The story the Gospel of St John, 16:12-15, that is told in the Magnificat about St Au- There is no doubt that some- the Holy Spirit will come and guide us gustine of Canterbury who was di- one greater than ourselves exists. As to all truth. In Acts, 17:15, 22-18:1, rected to go to England to convert the did pagans, we too have statues, but we hear how Paul went to Athens and people there. Fear developed in him our statues are a reminder of the one spoke to the Athenians about what and the group with him, so they turned they represent. For pagans, the statues they were familiar with. He noted back. Then the Pope sent him back, themselves are the gods! they were very religious and spoke of and this time he succeeded. The Holy their shrines, mentioning an altar he God calls us to repent. There Spirit will persevere to have us act found among them to an “Unknown will be a day when God will judge the according to His Will as long as we God.” He proceeded to proclaim to world. If we know the truth, we are are open to His lead! them this God whom they unknowing- responsible for it. Though not all ac- The Holy Spirit, Advocate, ly worshiped. He told them how this cept the truth, such as Christ crucified, Comforter, and Consoler will guide God is the source of all life and every- we must still speak it and live us, and the Father with the Son will thing that is. He made the whole hu- it. When Msgr. Rohlfs was here in work together so they all work in man race from one man and fixed the early June, he said, “Truth is not God’s will. We just have to trust! The seasons and the boundaries of their something different for you and for same Holy Spirit who came to the regions so we might seek God. But He me. We don’t invent the truth. God Apostles on that First Pentecost acts is never far from us; He is immanent, does! We just become aware of it now in and through us. We must allow ever near and wanting us to seek Him. through our intellect. So if someone Him! We have this innate desire to worship tells you, “That may be true for you,” one greater than ourselves! let them know truth exists inde- Thought for the day: How pendently of what you or I may be- will I work to fulfill God’s will today How we speak to people lieve or understand! and share my faith and speak the about God is called Apologetics. God truth? Pray for such opportunities and plants the seed of faith within people At the invitation of the Mas- ask the Holy Spirit to give you the which draws them to the truth. Only ter, we must entrust ourselves to the words and deeds to support that faith! when we seek God are we truly able Holy Spirit, learn the faith, and then to live. Even the poets have writ- we need to leave the final outcome up
A PRAYER FOR OUR PRIESTS BY JOHN CARDINAL O'CONNOR as do we, to be consoled and forgiven, as do we. Indeed, we ord Jesus, we your people pray to You for our priests. thank You for choosing them from among us, so that they un- You haveL given them to us for OUR needs. We pray for them derstand us as we understand them, suffer with us and rejoice in THEIR needs. with us, worry with us and trust with us, share our beings, our lives, our faith. We know that You have made them priests in the like- ness of your own priesthood. You have consecrated them, set We ask that You give them this day the gift You gave them aside, anointed them, filled them with the Holy Spirit, Your chosen ones on the way to Emmaus: Your presence in appointed them to teach, to preach, to minister, to console, to their hearts, Your holiness in their souls, Your joy in their spir- forgive, and to feed us with Your Body and Blood. its. And let them see You face to face in the breaking of the Eucharistic bread. Yet we know, too, that they are one with us and share our human weaknesses. We know too that they are tempted to We pray to You, O Lord, through Mary the mother of sin and discouragement as are we, needing to be ministered to, all priests, for Your priests and for ours. Amen. 18 the Messenger
A NOTE OF THANKS TO THE PEOPLE OF ST. MARY’S
FROM NEWLY ORDAINED FATHER M. DAVID DAWSON
St. Mary’s friendly seminarian, Marcel David Dawson, whom we had come to know and love, was recently ordained a priest in the diocese of Hartford (CT) on May 17, 2014. Below is a photo- graph from his first Mass.
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MY MEMORIES OF POPE ST. JOHN XXIII AND POPE ST. PAUL II
BY FR. MICHAEL A. MESSARO, MSSCC I went to Rome in 1961 (eons happened because he caught us off waited for a little while, the Holy ago) for philosophical and theologi- guard with his behavior that was Father appeared in his pope-mobile. cal studies at the Pontifical Universi- very unusual for a pope at that time. Since it was before the assassination ty Urbaniano. It was an exciting attempt, the pope-mobile was not Now that he is canonized a time to be in Rome since the Second covered with the bulletproof cover- saint, I feel privileged that he took a Vatican Council was in ses- ing, and he could be seen very clear- moment of his life to encourage us sion. Anticipations were high re- ly. As was the custom he passed by to be faithful to God's calling. garding the outcome of the Council blessing the people while the car Hopefully we have done what he and rightfully so. Our Superior moved on. I guess it was the Holy had asked of us in being holy priests. General at the time, Fr. Spirit that led me to stand at Leonard Carrieri, was a the right place to see the Council Father. From time Holy Father because as his to time he would sit with us car approached, we were students telling us about not more than ten feet apart. the various ideas and pro- For some reason the car posals under consideration. slowed down just a little, Studying at a Pontifical and I could see his eyes. I University also had its ad- was amazed to see nothing vantages because our pro- but sheer holiness, and I fessors were councilors to was overcome with awe. the bishops. My next encounter On one occasion, I with Pope John Paul II was do not remember the date, at the beatification of the Holy Father John XXIII Founder of my Institute, St. came to the university Gaetano Errico. For this chapel to celebrate Mass occasion I had the happy for the students. It was the privilege of con-celebrating old Tridentine Mass, and the univer- Mass with His Holiness along with Trips to Italy always include sity choir sang their hearts out. Af- other priests and bishops present for a trip to the Vatican and to St. terwards I was standing outside the beatification. This time when I Peter's Basilica. I lived and studied chatting with some fellow class- looked into his eyes I saw sadness, in Rome for six years, and it is truly mates when the Holy Father came suffering and pain, but there was the eternal city. Visits to St. Peter's out the chapel’s main door to get still that gleam of holiness that the were never tiring, and every time I into his car to return to his residence pain could not take away. Pope went to the basilica I learned some- at the Vatican. Much to our sur- John Paul II is known as “the great” thing new, something I was not of prise, he first turned and walked to- for many reasons, but for me it is aware of before. ward us. With a cheerful smile, he because of his acceptance of his told us that we were the future of the On one of my return visits, physical ailments and limitations Church. We needed to follow the when John Paul II was pope, I went that he patiently embraced for the call of God and become holy priests to the Vatican to see the Holy Fa- love of God. This has been my inspi- bringing many souls to God. With ther. It was general audience day. I ration to keep on going - no matter that he returned to his car and went stood in the crowd outside hoping he how difficult it may be - and do it all off. We could not believe what just would pass my way. After we had for the greater glory of God.
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BY JOAN RITTER
God has been so good to all and they all fell asleep. I told our your of us at St. Mary’s and St. Rita’s. He Lord that they were singing a song for Blessed has blessed us with Missionary Priests him. Moth- from the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and er.” Then there was Joe Pecher. Mary and the St. Gaetano Errico He also spent many hours with Jesus. Chapel. I love to start my day with I would hear him coming up Tract Rd. Mass and end my day with a date with in his old truck, and it always sounded Ray and Marie and Joe are Jesus at the Adoration Chapel when like it was on its last run. He would now in Heaven with Jesus. I now see possible. pull into the parking lot, slam the Joe’s son and family visit Jesus often. I have been so blessed to be a door, and come into the chapel. Joe I am sure Ray, Marie, Joe, and Arlene part of this beautiful devotion, and I had some health issues, and it was not Pecher are praying from heaven that want to share with you some of my easy for him. He would come into the we get adorers for the Adoration chapel. prayer partners. Ray and Marie Beau- chapel, give me a wink, and go sit This is a treasure that God mont spent many hours with Jesus at down in his favorite corner and pull our Father has given us. This is the the Adoration chapel. One Friday out his Rosary. I am sure he probably treasure that will get us to heaven with night when Marie and Ray were there, said, “Here I am Jesus. It wasn’t easy Him if we only take time to be with Father Robert came in to make a visit, but here I am because I love You and Him on earth.
COVENANT
BY DENISE JACKSON©
When two hearts entwine, The roots of forever firmly took hold,
Nurtured love grows- like the ivy-vine Thus love outwitted the ages of old
Each spirit vowed and thus endowed When the breath of life denied one lover -
Each lover graced- one from the other Memories breathed on for the other
Words spoken oft and tenderly- Somewhere beyond the realms of life,
Promises honored thus contently There wanders the faithful man and his
The union held sacred by man and wife- wife
Bloomed and proffered throughout its Holding hands, embracing each other- life Their love lives on, in one another
Though frigid winters unceasingly came- For a covenant blessed by integrity
And summers’ heat repeated the same true,
The couple weathered each storm anew- The couple had earned the joy that was due. Held tightly to the bond that grew.
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A SEED IS PLANTED - A GENTLE INVITATION MEET AND WELCOME RON SMITH INTO THE CATHOLIC FAMILY OF ST. RITA BY PAULETTE NIDEL
R on says he just used to bring but receiving the Body and Blood of his wife Sara to Mass on Sundays Christ was most significant because and listen to the homily. While he he had long anticipated it. enjoyed coming to church, he want- Ron felt prepared for this ed to learn more. Though he and great sacrament through having Sara live in Thurmont, they started learned much from the classes. He coming to St. Rita’s over a year ago, was happy to know that the Catholic found people here very friendly, and Church is the only church dating were enriched by the liturgy, espe- back to the time of Christ and the cially the homilies. Ron works as the only one with the Living Presence of plumber for Frederick Memorial the Eucharist. He felt he had grown Hospital and seems quite the expert in the Faith and in understanding of in his field. One can always use a what we believe and was ready for plumber for a friend! Not only that, Ron and Bill at the reception in the hall, the Easter Vigil. when the RCIA team sponsored a sponsored by St. Rita’s Women’s Socie- Simple Supper during Lent, he and Ron intends to live up to the ty, following the Easter Vigil Liturgy Sara provided most of the meal with commitment made with the Easter pulled pork and baked beans as their Vigil and his entry into the Catholic specialty. (I don’t know any other Church by regular Mass attendance plumbers who can also cook!) on Sundays and Holy Days, except if he is sick. He will continue to read When he and Sara met with the Scripture, pray the Rosary, and Fr. Robert, and Father inquired as to learn new prayers. He has enjoyed whether he was Catholic, Ron said the CDs as well as the books and no. So Father spoke about RCIA and pamphlets available in the church invited him to come learn more vestibule. Dusk is just falling as Father begins the about the Faith. Sometimes all it traditional Easter Vigil outside with bless- Knowing that his sponsor takes is a simple invitation! (Note to ing and lighting of the Paschal Candle self: am I as invitational as I should Bill Stahl, Father Robert, and others be with potential candidates or are there to support and encourage lapsed Catholics?) him in his faith journey, he asks for continued prayers from both the What was Ron expecting to RCIA team and the parish. Take receive from the Easter Vigil? Be- some time to introduce yourself to sides being received into full Com- Ron and Sara and welcome them munion with the Church, receiving into our parish family. You too will both Confirmation and first Eucha- like Ron’s simple straightforward rist that evening, he had no idea style which makes him easy to talk what a wonderful experience that Fr. Robert anoints Ron Smith with Holy to and get to know. Remember to would be. The candles, readings, Chrism as part of the Confirmation cere- keep him and Sara as well as all our and fellowship at the reception after- mony while Ron's sponsor, Bill Stahl, parish family in your ongoing prayers! wards were more than he expected, places his hand on Ron’s shoulder
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CRADLE CATHOLIC FINDS A HOME BY SUSAN BATES
s a “Cradle Catholic,” my jour- The best gift Mom gave me, besides December 25, 2012. My neyA to RCIA is not the typical path. I life, was my faith. cousin Christy Weller who is more like was baptized as an infant at Our Lady of a niece to me, was expecting baby num- December 24, 1982 – Midnight Hope in Baltimore, MD, in September ber seven in January. Christy and Bud- Mass. As Father Jack was preparing for 1964. My mom raised my brother and dy announced that the baby would be Communion, it was as if my heart me in the Catholic faith, but we did not named Gloriana, after my mom Gloria. shouted out, “IT’S TIME! I’M go to church. We prayed, we fasted and They also asked me to be Gloriana’s READY!” Without saying anything, I abstained during Lent, and our faith was godmother. Suddenly I remembered got up, got in line, and I made my First very strong. RCIA. I wasn’t confirmed, but I would Communion. What a wonderful gift I call St. Joseph’s and find out what I As a four year old, I spent two gave Mom that night. Not only were we needed to do. weeks in Johns Hopkins Hospital after celebrating the birth of Jesus, it was a having heart surgery to correct a heart new beginning for me in the Church. After many meetings with Dea- defect. During the times when any four con Don, Fr. Paul was able to obtain year old would have enough poking and special permission for me to be con- prodding by doctors and nurses, I would firmed at the Cathedral of Mary Our ask my mom, “Can you call the priest?” Queen in Baltimore by Archbishop Lori Father would come, and we would pray. on March 10, 2013, with the under- I knew, even as a child, to turn to God standing that I would attend RCIA in for comfort especially in times of need. the fall. I chose the name Elizabeth Bernadette. Elizabeth for Mother Seton We started going to Mass regu- and Bernadette because she was very larly at St. Matthew’s in Baltimore sev- special to Mom and that was her confir- eral years after my brother graduated mation name. After Confirmation, Glo- from Loyola College in Maryland. My riana was baptized and I was her god- mom taught me about the Real Presence Bishop Gainer with Sue Bates (left) mother. What a wonderful Christmas in the Eucharist. I never questioned it and her sponsor, Denise Jackson, at the gift! because I knew in my heart that it was Rite of the Call to Continuing Conversion the body and blood of Jesus. Yet I did As promised, I began attending not make my First Communion until I As the years went on, my faith RCIA and I loved every minute! I got was eighteen years old. Every Sunday, grew stronger, but my attendance at to be a part of a wonderful group of Mom would ask me, “Do you want to church dwindled. After many years of people while taking part in the celebra- go up and receive?” Every Sunday I not attending Mass regularly, Mom and tions, all of which I had missed out on said, “No.” I wasn’t ready. She never I began to attend St. Joseph’s Parish of when I was confirmed. I now truly feel pushed. She knew that it had to be Texas in Cockeysville, MD. After a like I belong. I am home. when I was ready. I’m pretty sure Jesus year or so, I started talking about being My only regret is that I missed understood also and allowed me to de- confirmed. Again I was not ready, and out on so much by not attending CCD cide when the time was right as well. again years went by. During the end of and RCIA prior to my First Communion Months . . . . Years . . . . Time went 2011, I decided, although I had not told and Confirmation. As I said, my jour- by. Every Sunday Mom would look at anyone, I was going to sign up for ney was not by way of the typical path. me, silently asking, “Are you going to RCIA the following fall. Again, I Furthermore, I do not recommend this receive?” During this time I would ask would surprise Mom. This didn’t hap- path to anyone. Attendance of CCD myself, “Is it time? Am I ready for such pen. New Year’s weekend of 2012, classes for children and RCIA for adults a gift?” The answer; “Not yet.” Mom was diagnosed with stage three is such a pivotal part of the growth of lung cancer. Eight weeks later, God Christmas was such a special our Catholic faith. Don’t miss out on called Mom home. She was now with time for my family and me. Yes, Santa the wealth of knowledge and love of my brother whom God called home two brought gifts, but from little up, my GOD our CCD and RCIA instructors years earlier. I forgot all about RCIA. brother Bill and I were taught and un- share with us. It is a priceless Grace The fall came and went. derstood the real meaning of Christmas. from GOD. 23 the Messenger
COME HOLY SPIRIT - THE GIFT OF THE SACRAMENT OF CONFIRMATION BY PAULETTE NIDEL
he question of fitting in fami- much sooner in the school year. their Confirmation. lies,T some of them large, for a lunch Thankfully these snags did All this preparation in class in St. Rita’s hall came into play as we nothing to dim the special day as these time, service experience, and retreat realized how big the class preparing for students were, ‘Confirmed with the Ho- serves to help students realize they are this great Sacrament was. There were ly Spirit and sealed with the Chrism of reaffirming their commitment as Catho- seven from St. Rita’s and sixteen from Salvation.’ Father Robert was the main lic Christians. They now will benefit in St. Mary’s! With six to ten family celebrant with Fathers Michael Messaro, a special way with the Holy Spirit, that members per family on average, we msscc, and Father Jack Lombardy con- same Holy Spirit who came on the knew there wouldn’t be enough seat- celebrating. Apostles at Pentecost. May they be able ing. That problem was easily solved to share their faith as they continue to with stand-up pub tables and more fin- Confirmation candidates are grow in the knowledge of it. Hopefully ger than fork foods, once we re-thought required to take part in the two-year they also are imbued with a strong de- the plan. seventh and eighth grade CCD or paro- sire to learn more and recognize the chial school catechesis program for Not only was the class large, need to keep learning! Confirmation and can work on service the Confirmation was set for March hours once they have completed the God bless our new Confirm- 29th, over a month earlier than the usual seventh Grade. This past year Luanne andi, and may we fellow parishioners time for Confirmation sometime in May. Murphy of St. Rita’s taught the Confir- encourage them to be active in their This meant the students all needed to get mation class, and for St. Mary’s large faith, their faith community, and the their twenty or more service hours in group, Joanne Conrath and Jackie community at large. Keep them in your three different categories of family, Kapfhammer were co-teachers. Students prayers as they are faced with the chal- church, and community completed also take part in a day of retreat prior to lenges of our modern society!
St. Mary’s Confirmation Class of 2014 St. Rita’s Confirmation Class of 2014 Front Row: Kari Conrath, Gena Eiker, Max Kirby, Bottom Row: Zoe Mutchler, Peter Warthen, Gabriel Maturo, Theresa Blickenstaff, Margaret Grenchik, and Jane Bramson Sarah Stouter, Emily Weller, and Joseph Oleskey Top Row: Hanna Manning, Nora Stocksdale, Back Row: Jessee Hummel, Brendan Peck, John Alex Diaz, and Katie Manning Macharsky, Ashlynn Grinder, Thomas Schubring, Lily Kapfhammer, Allison Hoffman, and Rev. Fr. Robert Malagesi, msscc
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ST. RITA CONFIRMATION
BY LUANNE MURPHY
ather Robert Malagesi, msscc, is close to Katie and the Manning fami- ConfirmedF seven teens at St. Rita Cath- ly. Fr. Robert inspires Katie’s faith be- olic Church on March 29, 2014. The cause, “He does everything for our seven are Jane Bramson, Alexander Church.” “I have to trust God and trust Diaz, Hanna Manning, Katie Manning, myself in everything I do.” That is what Zoe Mutchler, Nora Stocksdale, and Katie learned about her faith through Peter Warthen. Confirmation. Jane Bramson chose St. Flora Zoe Mutchler chose St. Charity for her Confirmation name because St. because she liked what St. Charity did Flora’s father was Muslim and her in her lifetime to help others, particular- mother, a Catholic. Jane’s mother is ly the poor. Casey Gouldman, Zoe’s Catholic and her father, Jewish. Jane closest cousin, was her sponsor. Zoe is chose her cousin, Kelly Miller, as her inspired by the faith of her grandpar- sponsor because of the love they share. ents, Kathy and Dutch Amann. Through She is inspired by the faith of her moth- her Confirmation, Zoe learned how to er, Susan Keane, and her brother, find and to stay close to God. Michael. Jane believes, “That just be- Nora Stocksdale picked St. cause you receive the Sacrament of Rose of Lima because she has a literal Confirmation, it does not mean you can connection with her. “I can relate to her stop learning.” on so many levels and can turn to her Alexander Diaz chose St. when most needed.” Nora asked her Dominic for his Confirmation name grandmother, Rose McNally, to sponsor because it is his middle name. Alex her for Confirmation because “she is the chose his beloved grandfather, Charles relative in my family who most appreci- Thomas, as his Confirmation sponsor ates Catholism.” Nora’s parents, Greg because of his strong Catholic faith and and Rhona Stocksdale, inspire Nora’s his commitment to St. Rita’s Church. faith. Through Confirmation, Nora Alex attended St. Mary’s Catholic learned, “That there are other ways to School in Hagerstown, Maryland. reach God than strict, one way prayer. We can reach Him with our talents. Hanna Manning picked St. Everything you do and represent should Maria Goretti for her Confirmation be for and under the name of God.” name because her story inspired Hanna about forgiveness as St. Maria Goretti Peter Warthen selected St. forgave the man who killed her. Don Vincent de Paul because he wanted to Sprankle was Hanna’s Confirmation spon- pick a saint who exemplified humility. sor because, “He taught me a lot about my Peter honored his sister as his Confirma- faith that I never knew.” Hanna’s parents, tion sponsor because she loves God. Chris and John Manning, inspire Hanna’s Peter’s father, Rich Warthen, inspires faith as they have led her through faith Peter’s faith. Peter learned more about during her entire life. In Confirmation, St. Vincent de Paul through Confirma- Hanna learned, “Even though bad stuff hap- tion. pens, trust in God’s plan.” Congratulations to Peter, Nora, Katie Manning selected St. Zoe, Katie, Hanna, Alex, and Jane for Clare for her Confirmation name be- your commitment to our Catholic cause St. Clare trusted God. Cynthia Church, and we pray for you as you Gillard was Katie’s sponsor because she continue to grow in your faith.
25 the Messenger THE EASTER VIGIL AT ST. MARY’S CHURCH
SEE THE JOY OF ENTERING INTO THE LIFE OF CHRIST
At the Easter Vigil this (receiving the Sacraments of Baptism, Confir- year, St. Mary’s welcomed mation, and Holy Eucharist), and John Daniel some new members into her (receiving the Sacrament of Baptism); Ron family: Richard Baker Kirby receiving the Sacraments of Confirma- (receiving the Sacraments of tion and Holy Eucharist; and Royce Wiseman, Baptism, Confirmation, and receiving the Sacraments of Baptism, Confir- Holy Eucharist), with his mation, and Holy Eucharist. Susan Bates also children Allisa (receiving the participated in the RCIA program to complete Sacraments of Confirmation her promises regarding her full union into the and Holy Eucharist), Jadyn Roman Catholic Church. Welcome to them all!
Photo on Left:
(front row) John Daniel Baker, Royce Wiseman, and Jadyn Baker (last row) Father Fredric Clement, msscc, Allisa Baker, Richard Baker, and Ron Kirby
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THE CREED BRUCE KOCSIS BY JOHN OUNAN PSUAC WRESTLING COACH OF THE YEAR
St. Mary’s parishioner and Penn State he Creed is a very special prayer to me because the good Mont Alto's Head Wrestling Coach, Bruce Kocsis SistersT of IHM taught me not only how to say the prayer but that all has been named 2013-2014 PSUAC Coach of the the chief truths of the Christian-Catholic Faith are found therein. Year. This year was Coach Kocsis' third year as At Saint Thomas More Catholic Boys High School, the the Head Coach at Mont Alto and it was an im- priests taught me, in Ancient History and Religion class, how the pressive season. Creed was to be applied to my life. Not only how to say the prayer Wrestling had not been part of the Mont but how to live it. One priest in particular comes to mind: Reverend, Alto Campus for over thirty years when Coach now Monsignor James E. Mortimer. Father Mort, as we called him, Kocsis was hired. In less than three years, Kocsis showed us that it was not un-cool to believe and live the Creed. He and his staff have created and built it into the suc- taught us that in respecting the Triune God in the Creed we learn to cessful program it is today. respect ourselves and our fellow man. This year the team went 9-5 overall and 6- As a tenor in the a cappella choir at Epiphany of Our Lord 0 in the PSUAC, they were the PSUAC regular Byzantine Catholic Church, I was taught to sing the Creed in Old season champions as well as taking first place at Church Slavonic by Father John D. Lazarek and this increased my the PSUAC Championships and fourth in the love for the prayer. I pray for all those who helped me to love and USCAA Championships. Not only did they finish understand this great prayer. second in the NCWA Mid-East Qualifiers but sent eight wrestlers to the NCWA Championship tour- One morning, while having breakfast in the restaurant of the nament in Allen, Texas. While in Texas, the team Hotel Lutetia in Paris with my boss, Duke Westover of Royal World was very competitive and Jimmy Hughes finished Tours, a parishioner of Epiphany, who was also attending the Slovak 7th place in his 133 lbs. weight class and earn World Congress, approached. Sitting at our table were: Most Rever- NCWA All-American. This was the first time a end Michal Rusnak, Byzantine-Slovak Bishop of Canada, Father wrestler from Mont Alto was named All- Litva, a Slovak, Roman Catholic Jesuit, and Reverend Dusan Toth, American. Slovak Lutheran Minister. The parishioner sat down and told the Bishop how well I sang the Creed in Slavonic. “You will sing the "It's an honor to receive this award," *Viruju for me,” the Bishop said. Coach Kocsis comments. "The credit has to go to the team. They are the ones on the mat, they are I said, “Right now, here?” the ones that bleed, sweat and work hard every day “Yes.” to achieve their goals. Without them working hard to achieve their goals, this wouldn't be possible." While I sang very softly, my fellow parishioner explained, in English, to my boss, who is a Baptist from Lynchburg, Virginia, the http://www.psumontaltoathletics.com/sports/ words I was singing and what they mean. wrest/2013-14/releases/20140421nka25a After my command performance, which stopped everyone in the dining room, it was amazing to see how Roman Catholics, Byz- antine Catholics, Lutherans and Baptists all believe in the same Creed. *Viruju - Old Church Slavonic To listen to the Creed sung in Church Slavonic while seeing the words in English, go to https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=yo53amqybX8
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AN EASTER WEEK GIFT - A DAY IN THE CAPITAL CITY
BY PAULETTE NIDEL
ather Robert recently received our next stop where we spent much time capitol’s Catholic highlights as well as a specialF visitors from Italy. Fr. Luigi visiting the main Sanctuary as well as the little flavor of the city itself. I only hope Toscano, msscc, Superior General of the many altars in the Crypt Church, and the the rest of our party enjoyed it as much as Missionaries of the Sacred Hearts of gift shop. It was too bad we did not catch I did! I know they will not forget Rick’s Jesus and Mary, and Fr. Benny James, a glimpse of this great Basilica at night scream as he shouted “Mo-o-o-om!” to msscc, Vicar General of the order, were when the dome is lit. Next time! get my attention about a car entering the here in the US for three weeks just after roadway near the Cathedral of St. Matthew! To help make the day itself Easter. Some of their time was also spent more noteworthy, we visited the soon-to- I trust the Superior and Vicar in Linwood, New Jersey, at the US Moth- be-St. John Paul II Cultural Center. We Generals had a fruitful time here and en- erhouse. arrived to see the unveiling of the new joyed some free time too. It was a privi- I have wanted to be a tour guide picture and title of the Pope who would lege to get to know them a bit from my in our nation’s capitol for many years be proclaimed Saint on the following lay perspective. My prayers are for them now, so I somewhat boldly offered to Sunday, Divine Mercy Sunday. What all in their challenging ministry and re- take the special visitors on a day trip to perfect timing! Though we did not really sponsibilities for their Missionary order! DC. I was a bit nervous as the day ap- get to tour much inside, this was a special And good luck with the Italian language proached, especially considering our son treat which others had not yet experi- to Fr. Benny! Rick and I would be accompanying the enced. (And, luckily for us, the crowd As for me, I am ready to go back four priests going: the visiting dignitaries was not there yet either!) to the city any time. Is anyone out there as well as Fathers Robert and Augusty. By this point, everyone was game? We started out from St. Rita’s a bit later quite hungry so at Rick, Jr.’s suggestion, than planned, but all went smoothly, and Franciscan we drove to Ben’s Chili Bowl, a any anxiety was quickly dissipated as I Monastery “famous” eatery on the way into the more heard gales of laughter repeated through- of the Holy central part of the city. Though I don’t out the ride. (Joy-filled Christians indeed, Land – Fr. think it was named with Fr. Benny in Benny, Fr. these men are!) It worked out well that mind, we enjoyed the break and meal and Augusty, Fr. Augusty knows Italian, so he and Fr. then moved on to the monuments down- Fr. Robert, Luigi shared the “way-back” seat; nei- town. But before going there, Rick told Fr. Luigi and Rick Nidel, Jr. ther is very tall, which is also good! us of the National Catholic Cathedral, St. Ben’s Chili With a quick stop at Burger Matthew’s. Wow, another religious high- Bowl: King for coffee and light breakfast, we light that was new to me that day! We Fathers arrived in DC at the first destination, the arrived after some tricky navigation just Benny and Franciscan Monastery of the Holy Land, before they closed, but they allowed us to Luigi, Rick where the thriving Franciscan community look around and meet the sextant who Nidel, Jr., Fathers supports the mission of guardianship of gave us some great details of the church Augusty the Shrines in the Holy Land as well as and its history. and Robert other religious shrines. The interesting With little time left, I then guided tour was provided by a lay Fran- dropped all the passengers off near the ciscan who carefully noted the need for Lincoln Memorial, and they walked the silence in the area where Confessions area nearby until I joined them. As we In front of were being heard. I was duly impressed returned to the car by way of the East the Lincoln to see the beautiful tulip gardens but un- Potomac Park, the long trek allowed us to Memorial: fortunately did not get a photo of them. I see some parts of the FDR and Martin Fathers was so excited to be there, as I have Luther King memorials. Luigi, wanted to go since we moved here fifteen Benny, We arrived back late that night years ago. Robert exhausted, I am sure, but having had at The Basilica of the National and least a small taste of some of the national Shrine of the Immaculate Conception was Augusty 28 the Messenger
ST. MARY’S MENS CLUB The Nightmare
BY JOHN BUTCHER By Sandi Polvinale
ur February 16th spaghetti dinner had And those rhythmic beats of the aboutO 200 patrons and many compliments about native drums the sauce cooked by Italians (Roger Venzin). The drone – so monotonous! The Club may consider extending the dinner hours to 7:00 P.M. during ski season to attract Over and Over and Over! more skiers and ski instructors who get off work Reminders of distant thunder. at 6:00 P.M. I am so close. I can feel the body The Men’s Club was in a relearning heat, mode this year bringing back its pancake break- fast. The last one we held in 2011 was free to Smell the jungle sweat! the parish as a thanks from the Men’s Club, the With the stomping, jumping of the PCCW, and the Knights of Columbus for their natives… continuing support of our activities. Our March Like ten thousand soldiers on two breakfast wasn’t free, but that didn’t deter about feet! 140 parishioners from joining us for a breakfast universally praised by everyone I spoke with. The dusty, earthy odor…Oh, that We had some surprises for the diners including jungle heat! the addition of bacon and Tex-Mex scrambled That monotonous native eggs.
We are putting the profits from our ven- HEARTBEAT? tures to good use around the parish. With mow- ing season coming, the club purchased parts to get the lawn tractor moving. We thank Lloyd With that thought, I was jolted awake Ritter for his efforts in making the repairs. We By the racing heartbeat also purchased and installed new TVs and DVD/ VCR players in two CCD classrooms. Thank And fevered body of Chris. you, Bruce Carr, for your efforts to make this The reality eased itself happen. Into my consciousness Congratulations to our new officers-- Roger Venzin, President; Bruce Carr, Vice Presi- As my cool body revved up its dent; Bill Emory, Secretary; and John Butcher temperature, continues as Treasurer. Pressed next to him. We invite all men of the parish to partic- I HAD FORGOTTEN. ipate in our meetings and activities. There are no We were still within those hospital dues except your work and time. Meetings are walls normally held on the third Wednesday every month at 7:30 P.M. in the church hall. The busi- With soft muffled souls ness portion of our meeting comes first, and then Of the nurse’s footsteps we have a social gathering. The meetings are Those monitored heartbeats announced in the bulletin so check for possible changes. Please come out and share your ideas And those sterile smells. and talents with us and enjoy the hospitality 29 the Messenger
FIRST PENANCE RETREAT : FAITH AND FUN FILLED DAY BY PAULETTE NIDEL
J ust one week before making (Yeah, glitter glue!) their First Communion, ten second Father enrolled the students graders assembled in the hall to in the Brown Scapular of Our Lady spend the day in retreat. I was there as the morning came to a close. Dur- to help with “crowd control” and ing the special pizza lunch, the stu- help the day go more smoothly, but dents watched the film, “A Child’s as I recalled my own First Penance First Communion.” As you can see and Holy Communion, the day be- from the photos, they were truly in- came more special to me as I hoped terested! it was for each child there. After finishing lunch, the I was impressed to see how students played bingo identifying well they focused when they gath- sacred vessels, vestments, and other ered first for some prayer and a light religious items found in the church snack before focusing on the short and won religious articles as prizes. movie entitled “A Child’s First Pen- Father used this opportunity to set ance.” They were amazingly atten- up the church for Exposition of the tive while they heard about the ideas Blessed Sacrament and a Penance guiding them to know what sin is, service prior to their making their and how to prepare for Confession, private First Confession. Families their first of which would be the joined the children at 1:00 P.M. in day’s culmination for them. the church where, after Exposing the Dorothy Fawks, their teach- Blessed Sacrament, Father Robert er, had planned plenty of activities led them in Scripture and prayer pre- as they went through the day, the paring for Confession. All were in- first of which was the painted cross vited to go to Confession. Many sun catcher. They delighted in using family members used this opportuni- the water colors and were most crea- ty, too, before Father celebrated tive in their color choices. I am sure Benediction and reposed the Blessed they have a special place in a win- Sacrament. dow in their homes! Father encouraged the chil- They had a little play break dren to receive both Eucharist and before decorating their banners Penance frequently to stay close to which would mark the family’s pew Jesus. Maybe you remember your on their First Holy Communion Day, own First Penance and Communion May 4th. Dorothy, good teacher that Days and can reflect on the meaning she is, had all supplies cut out and these sacraments have become for ready to place for each student. you?
Corby remembers her childhood days: While in the seventh grade at Saint John's Catholic School in Westminster, MD, Sister Julian wrote a quote on the blackboard. "More things are wrought by prayer than this world dreams of." (Alfred Lord Tennyson) Corby never forgot that.
30 the Messenger I’ll Grow © Susan E. Bates Photography
By Denise Jackson © I KEPT LOOKING FOR YOU
BY FR. ROBERT MALAGESI, MSSCC If you tell me you love me
every single day
teach me to believe in my abilities help me to be proud he title of this article is taken from a new show me the goodness I possess inside DVDT about the life of St. John Paul II. I am us- ing it because it expresses perfectly the and guide me to the paths I can follow… thoughts of my heart when I look for familiar faces at Mass and do not see them. If I, just an I’ll grow. ordinary man, can be affected by this, how must Our Lord feel if we can imagine His eyes looking from the Tabernacle? If you correct me In my brief life as a priest, I have been in a positive manner when I’m wrong blessed to meet many wonderful people who seemed to have a deep love for God yet are not teach me to respect myself and others present at the most beautiful, powerful, and grace- filled event in this life, the Holy Sacrifice show me by example of the Mass. I have met you through RCIA, that life’s privileges through friendships, through marriages, through Baptisms, and other encounters. You come with responsibilities have assured me that you will come to Sunday Mass and even to daily Mass when possible, but guide me with a sense of humor I do not see you. I miss you and long for you to return, for nothing and no one should prevent bless me with the gift of faith… you from coming to the source of your true joy, Jesus Christ in the Holy Eucharist. I’ll grow. As a priest, God has entrusted me with the care of your soul. One day when my life on …and when I’m all grown up this earth has ended, I would like to tell Him that “I kept looking for you,” and I found you, I will have grown with Him, in Mass. Please come if you have been away, and please come more if you are well! able.
31 the Messenger ST. RITA’S FIRST COMMUNION
BY LUANNE MURPHY O n May 4, ten beautiful children processed up St Rita’s aisle to take part in the Mass at which they received Jesus for the very first time. After the homily and Preparation of the Gifts, the chil- dren knelt at the foot of the altar for the duration of the Eucharistic Prayer, at the end of which they received their First Communion. After the Mass, the First Communicants and their families and friends were treated to a reception hosted by St. Rita’s Women’s Society. They are pictured (top right) with Fr. Robert Malagesi, msscc, from left to right: Brendan Lawrence, Emma Dylewski, Gabriel Ril- ing, James Warthen, Hannah Cahill, Paul Inverso, John Scott Manning, Riley Newton, Bridget Hays, and Patrick Orlando.
ST. MARY’S FIRST HOLY COMMUNION
Photo at Right: Bottom from left is Luke Post and Aiden Culley. Rear from left is Lily Fredrikis, Kylee Oseen and Maria Clare Schubring.
32 the Messenger ST. RITA SENIOR RECOGNITION MASS
BY LUANNE MURPHY
Kevin Aughinbaugh, Zachary would like to participate in their Jazz tian way Mutchler, and Emma Whalen were Ensemble and A Cappella group. Ac- of life.” recognized during the June 1, 2014, cording to Kevin, “The most influen- Zach will attend Hagerstown Commu- Mass celebrated by Father Robert tial people in my faith are those that nity College to study nursing with the Malagesi, msscc. We, as a Church, instruct me and further deepen my ap- plans to complete his education at a thank them for faithfulness to our God preciation and love for Our Lord, and four year college as a Physician Assis- and St. Rita Church. guide me in my life.” tant. Kevin Michael Aughinbaugh, Zach Mutchler, son of Terri Emma Whelan is the daughter son of Dianne and Ray Aughinbaugh, and Chris Mutchler, is a graduate of of John and Flora Whelan and a gradu- is a graduate of Fairfield Area High Smithsburg High School, Smithsburg, ate of St. Maria Goretti High School, School, Fairfield, Pennsylvania. Kevin Maryland. Zach plays tenor sax in the Hagerstown, Maryland. Emma plans is a member of the soccer and track Jazz and Marching Bands and was cap- to attend Shippensburg University in teams and is active in Student Govern- tain of the Varsity and JV Soccer the fall with a business major and psy- ment, National Honor Society, Nation- teams. He was a Varsity wrestler for chology minor. At Goretti Emma was al Art Honor Society, the Envirothon three years and is active in the co-captain for cross-country, track, and team, Jazz Band, and Chamber Choir. Smithsburg Youth Athletics (SYA). swimming. She was active with Spe- Kevin has been most active in serving Zach is an active Boy Scout and he cial Olympics of Washington County, our St. Rita Church as an altar server works at Food Lion, Smithsburg. Zach Varsity Club Secretary, and Student for seven years. He attended the High is most well-known for his contagious Government as Homeroom Repre- School Religious Ed program and the smile and his big heart. He follows the sentative. She enjoyed being on the Youth Ministry. He is an Eagle Scout words of Pope Francis as he puts his Homecoming and Prom courts. Emma with Troop #76 in Fairfield and the faith into action as the “hands and feet” attributes her faith to her mother and Fairfield Venture crew and volunteers of Christ. Zach frequently volunteers grandmother. “My mother and grand- at Strawberry Hill Nature Pre- to work at local farms and the Food mother have inspired me in my faith serve. Kevin will attend Gettysburg Bank. He is inspired in his faith by his the most, encouraging me to further College in September where he plans grandparents, Kathy and Carl Dutch strengthen and develop it over the past to study biology or chemistry. He Amann, who taught Zach “the Chris- four years.”
LIFE RARELY SURPASSES PRECIOUS MOMENTS AS THIS When the girls were born, one of the first things that BY MARY ANN CARR Tricia and Travis did was to teach them to sign. I know that Bruce and I have just returned from a wonderful patri- during the first year of life, children start understanding the otic Memorial Day weekend on the Eastern Shore. The whole English language, but it takes a good while before they can family was with us. It was the most fun and the best time we learn how to say the words. Not so with signing. You wouldn’t have had in years. The weather couldn’t have been better. The believe how fast they catch on to knowing what is going on meteor shower was rather a bust since there weren’t as many as when they learn how to sign . . . , and then they sign back! I advertised, but sitting on the lawn taking in a million stars well walked around with open mouth as I watched Natalie show off made up for the loss. We oohed and aahed with the best of her skills. them, and our hearts were chock-full of awe as we thanked One afternoon Natalie and I were sitting at the picnic God’s for this nightly gift. table. I would take a bite of the ice cream in my bowl and then The two newest kids on the block, Cee Cee, age three, give her a bite. and Natalia, age sixteen months, were in for the time of their After a couple of bites, she said,’Mmmm.’ young lives. We showed them the stars. They loved the pool and sat in their small lawn chairs as they experienced the ins, Then she signed, ‘I Love You.’ outs, tastes, drops, and stickiness of s’mores while the rest of us I was sure that I had died and gone to Heaven. sat in a circle around the fire pit singing camp songs feeling . . . And I shut my mouth. happiness for the goodness of life. 33 the Messenger
ST MARY’S SPECIAL OLYMPIAN
BY JOHN BUTCHER
was on the way to Saturday iris). Although Matthew’s Virginia tices for the Special Olympics on eveningI Mass when Father Mike ophthalmologist had done three elec- Thursday evening, Saturday, and excitedly pointed to a young man troretinograms finding no brain re- Sunday. He competes in the 25 and behind me saying I needed to write sponse to the eye, he tried once 50 meter fast walk and softball an article about him for the Messen- more. Amy recalls she was in the throw. ger. I recognized him from an article hospital waiting room when a flock Amy said Matthew, in spite in the Gettysburg Times just that of white coats flew by. The doctor of all the difficulties in his life, week. Matthew Charland was at- came out and said he could not ex- demonstrates what she believes tending Mass with his grandmother plain it, but the test was positive this Jesus wants of all of us. He is very Janet, so I got a phone number and time. Amy knew it was a miracle. kind and does not have an unkind called his mother Amy to arrange a Matthew’s current ophthalmologist word for anyone. He never gets an- meeting. I reviewed the Gettysburg has told Amy he doesn’t know why gry and has a positive outlook every Times story about Matthew’s ac- Matthew can see and that he should day. complishments in the Special Olym- be completely blind due to the con- pics, thirty-one gold, twenty silver, dition of his retinas. Amy said she advocated for and five bronze medals. It seemed Matthew’s involvement in Special that much of his story was already Olympics so that he might develop covered, however, there is much to his full potential both educational- more to tell. ly and socially. He got involved at age 8. Since the article in the Gettys- Matthew faces a wide varie- burg Times, Matthew competed at a ty of health issues with Kabuki syn- multi-county athletic meet, adding drome. He has had twenty-four sur- one more gold and one more silver geries for the kidneys, heart, eyes, medal to his collection. At twenty- ears, cleft pallet and has a titanium four now, Matthew has a challeng- rod implanted to help with scoliosis ing month of competition in June. of the spine. Amy calls Matthew her Matthew attended St. Fran- From the 4th through the 7th, the miracle. He was born completely cis Xavier Church in Gettysburg, state summer games will be held at blind. When he was six months old a serving as a greeter. His grandmoth- Penn State. On the 14th through the friend of Amy’s was traveling to er Janet moved here a couple years 21st, the USA games will be held in Lourdes and took a pair of Matthew’s ago and finds it easier parking and and around Princeton, New Jersey. booties. They were placed in the getting into St. Mary’s. If you see He and Amy are excited to be going. spot where the Blessed Mother ap- him at Mass, you will know him She is very thankful for community peared. A few weeks later Amy from his infectious smile. Matthew support. Although these games will thought she saw Matthew tracking works five days a week at the HART be over by the time you read this, we her movement. She took Matthew to (Hanover Adams Rehabilitation & wish him well in other competitions. an ophthalmologist in Philadelphia Training) Center in New Oxford. He We also look forward to seeing him for evaluation; he agreed to do an takes the Adams County Transit Au- at Mass at St. Mary’s. iridectomy (laser surgery on the thority bus each day. Matthew prac-
It's faith in something and enthusiasm for something that makes a life worth living. -Oliver Wendell Holmes - Submitted by Corby
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MILESTONES
BY JOHN BUTCHER
Welcome to Our Newcomers: Royce Wiseman (RCIC)
at St. Mary’s Jaelyn Zapata, daughter of Jamie & Shannon Zapata Josh Anderson & Victoria Schoepke of Orchard Lane, Blue Ridge Summit
Horst & Christine Stehmer at St. Rita’s of Weikert Road, Gettysburg Jacob Darsey, son of Luke & Jenna Darsey
at St. Rita’s Gracie Mullen, daughter of Angela Palinkas
Nevin & Christina Camp & family Ronald Smith (RCIA) of Gladhill Road, Fairfield
Melvin & Geraldine Clark of Blue Ridge Summit Congratulations on Bob & Debbie Davison of Jolly Way, Kensington, MD the Weddings
Paul Lingg of Old Waynesboro Road, Fairfield at St. Mary’s
Teresa Parr of Old Waynesboro Road, Fairfield Lewis Masser, Jr. & Shasta Stonesifer, both of Fairfield Catherine Stahl of South Avenue, Blue Ridge Summit
Emily Taylor of Gladhill Road, Fairfield And We Pray for the Souls
Carla Valore of Charmain Road, of the Recently Departed: Blue Ridge Summit at St. Mary’s
Chester Cornwell, Fairfield
Welcome to Our Faith Community Anne Fox, Fairfield
The Following Newly Baptized: Joseph Pecher, Fairfield
at St. Mary’s Gary Sites, Fairfield
Allisa Baker (RCIA) John Weatherly, Fairfield
Jadyn Baker (RCIC)
John Baker (RCIC) at St. Rita’s
Richard Baker (RCIA) Rebecca Hays, Cascade, MD
Caleb Jacobs, son of Adam & Kelly Jacobs Arthur Leibold, Fairfield
Ronald Kirby (RCIA)
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