Life Will Never Be the Same Again !!! Your Road Map to Success
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Life will never be the same again !!! Your Road Map to Success Life Will Never Be Squadron Leader Jayasimha The Same Again! Your Roadmap to Success © Squadron Leader Jayasimha Mobile : 9866018989 E-mail : [email protected] Web site : www.jayasimha.in Face book: Jayasimha Squadron Leader Squadron Leader Jayasimha Chairman, National Memory Council of India Life will never be the same again Life will never be the same again Contents Preface.......................................................................... 9 Foreword .................................................................... 11 1. What is success ................................................. 1 2. The need to change ........................................... 9 3. Universal laws of success .................................. 38 4. Attitude and motivation ..................................... 54 5. The mischievous mind ....................................... 69 6. Why relationships matter ................................... 97 7. Maximising your potential .................................. 143 8. Self image .......................................................... 155 9. Good communication can change your life ......... 172 10. Anybody can dream ........................................... 191 11. Impossible to possible ....................................... 202 12. Evaluate your success .......................................... 235 A Final Word ...................................................... 247 5 8 Preface In the six months since it became a full-fledged training institute, Vision has made waves in the field of soft-skills training throughout the country. Our trainers’ strength has A day dawns, quite like other days, gone up to 15. The number of training assignments too has in it a single hour comes, quite like other hours gone up tremendously and this is an encouraging sign for all But in that day and in that hour of us at Vision. The hard work put in by everyone at Vision The chance of a lifetime faces us!!! is commendable. It only goes to show that achieving success is very simple. The universal laws of success have always remained the same. We only need to follow them without Can you think of anything truer? Success belongs to exception. In this book, I have made an effort to put together those who seize every opportunity that comes their way. all these laws in an easy, lucid and interesting manner.If They do it day after day, without slacking. It is what I have you take these ideas and add to them your own, you are done all my life and more recently, when my first book, likely to get a formula that will bring you more success and Train Your Brain came out. I had never expected to write happiness. If you find this book interesting and helpful, please another. But the first book’s success taught me that there tell others about it. We must all do our bit to spread happiness was more to be done and spurred me on to complete this in an increasingly cynical world. book on personality development in quicktime. People tell me that Train Your Brain has sold thousands of copies in As Longfellow rightly said: “ Lives of just three months, which is a record in itself. So why another great men all remind us. We can book? And so soon? To them, I say this: carpe diem (seize make our lives sublime, And the day). There was an opportunity to contribute more, departing, leave behind us and on a different topic. So why let go of a chance? Footprints on the sands of time. Let us, then, be up and doing, With a Life Will Never Be The Same Again! is also the Vision heart for any fate; Still achieving, mantra. I have always believed that if somebody practices still pursuing, Learn to labour and what is written in this book, their life will indeed never be to wait.” the same again. It is going to change and change for the better. I have taught in my seminars the finer points of I hope this book helps you as much as I have enjoyed sharpening one’s personality. Many a time, I have learnt writing it. from the participants. This book is written so that all Squadron Leader Jayasimha participants - past, present and future - attending my Bangalore seminars can have a companion that will inspire them on a Managing Director constant basis and their lives too will never be the same again! November 2004 Vision Life will never be the same again Life will never be the same again these wonderful precepts only to ensure that you are Foreword benefited. Furthermore, I wish to add here that if one carefully goes through this book, it could prove to be I am sure you have selected this book to read character moulding and should bring about a because you have decided to change over for a better transformation in your lives. participation in this only life that is all yours. An Author, Trainer and Counselor, I am honoured I have known Squadron Leader Jayasimha for the to write the foreword of this book not only for one of past 18 months during which I have observed that he India’s reputed Trainer but also a book that is poised to has risen to the top in a tremendous manner. become a bestseller. I have read and re-read several hundreds of books. This book, Life Will Never Be The Same Again, is Ihave found in each book a unique message that I have enriching, stimulating, rewarding for anyone interested drawn to change my own life. You will surely find a in understanding himself and reaching where you ought message in this book that will change your life too. to be rather than where you are. Read on and discover that great message which is Happy Reading !!! specially meant for you in this book. Emmanuel Anthony Das The message that Jayasimha conveys in Life Will Jade Research Centre Never Be The Same Again! is so meticulously planned Bangalore that you can become the person of your dreams with this beautiful road map that he has drafted for you. The most impressive factor about him is the sacrifice that he has made in quitting a plum post in the Indian Air Force to serve humanity so as to enable one to discover their potential. Life Will Never Be The Same Again! bypasses all the books on the stands today. In fact, I am sure he would have burnt a lot of midnight in putting together Life will never be the same again Life will never be the same again What is Success? all your actions and deeds will lead you in that direction. Slowly, but steadily, your bank balance will start getting fatter. 1 If you want to become successful, the thought of being successful should come to you first. Once you have visualized The line between failure and success is so fine that we what success will be like, you will naturally start working carcely know when we pass it; so fine that we are often on towards becoming successful. I know what you’re thinking: the line and do not know it. It’s not that simple. Actually, it is. The reason for so much Somebody asked Richard Hadlee, the world famous failure in the world is that 95% of people don’t fail in the cricket all rounder from New Zealand: “ How is it that every physical world but in their mind. They fail to believe in time you bowl, you get five or more wickets in an innings?” themselves, they fail to set goals and they never think that they too can become famous, popular, rich or achieve Hadlee, thought for a second and said, “ A day before whatever their life’s dream is. That’s why they live and die the match, when I sleep, I dream of getting many wickets. a mediocre life. On the day of the match, as I walk up to the bowling crease, I visualize the wicket tumbling the other side. I bowl and the So that’s the first thing you need to do: Believe in wicket tumbles.” yourself. Believe that you can become successful. Believe that you can become rich. Believe that you can achieve A press reporter asked Sergei Bubka, the legendary pole whatever it is you want to achieve. It is only when you have vaulter: “ Sir, how do you manage to jump higher and higher with each attempt and keep breaking your own record?” a goal, when you have a mission, when you want to make your dream come true, that you will find your friends, Bubka replied: “ It is very simple. My heart jumps first. relatives, family members and society coming forward to My body merely follows it.” help you achieve your goals. That’s probably why motivational speaker Napoleon Hill’s What is success? statement rings true: “ Everything in this world is born Whenever we talk about success, we normally hear people twice. First in the mind, then in the physical world.” say: I want to be successful in my career, I want to be If you want to build a beautiful building like the Taj successful in my personal life, etc. But what really is success? Mahal, the Rashtrapati Bhavan or the White House, that Who can you call a successful person? What are the signs of breathtaking structure should first be conceived - down to success? Would you call a high-ranking corporate bigwig with its finest detail - in the mind. Then it can be drawn into a an ulcer and high blood pressure a successful human being? blueprint and actually constructed. Of course, he also has to deal with fear, anxiety and constant pressure. So are these the signs of success? The power to If you want to become very rich, the thought or the do things you like but also to be engaged in constant power idea of becoming rich should come to you first. Automatically, struggles? To be afraid that they could lose the power that has become their life? No, this is not true success.