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CELEBRATING Mothers, Jewish Heritage, SHDS at 60 and Shavuot

DON’T MISS: LOOK: INSIDE: MAKING GETTING THROUGH HONORING JEWS MUSIC COVID-19 BY CHOICE (4) (6-7) (15) Jewish Observer May 2020 of Central New York Published by Jewish Federation of Central New York From the Acting Editor Reflections 5655 Thompson Road by Richard D. Wilkins DeWitt, NY 13214 The video of a dog being walked by a drone down an empty “The Torah that Moses commanded us is the heritage phone: 315-445-2040 x116 street in Italy is an image that will of the Congregation of Israel” (Deut. 33:4) fax: 315- 445-1599 stay with me forever as a symbol Though commemorating the most momentous event in human jewishfederationcny.org of so much that characterizes the history, Shavuot has become the least celebrated of Jewish holidays. age of the novel coronavirus. Even Bereft of any special symbols, it is observed for but one day, two in as we isolate ourselves within our the Diaspora. Though the Exodus’s culmination, falling seven weeks homes, even as we use technol- thereafter, it is overshadowed by Passover. Its entire focus on Torah ogy in the most unexpected and is reflected in a number of traditional practices. A rabbinic legend President/CEO...... extraordinary ways, even as we that the Israelites slept late that morning led to a special reparative Michael Balanoff Board Chair...... Ellen Weinstein Barbara Davis mourn the deaths that mount up text, Tikkun Leil Shavuot, intended for all-night study, containing ex- Acting Editor...... Barbara Davis and the bravery of those who are cerpts from all fifty-four weekly Torah readings, with selections from fighting the pandemic on so many fronts – life goes on. Dogs need Prophets and Midrash. Despite the unraveling of beliefs and practices, to be walked; children need to be fed and taught and loved; we over the last two centuries, Torah, however conceived, remains central need to reach out to our friends and neighbors; we must help those in Jewish thought. Over millennia, commentators have subjected its who need food and connection and financial support. Despite all the chapters, verses, words, even textual anomalies, to the most exhaus- bad, much good has also come from this modern plague. We use 3D tive examination, producing an enormous literature. The Jewish Federation of Central New York is a proud printers to make masks; we can order things online; students are On the first day of Shavuot, after the first Torah verse, Akdamus, a member of the Jewish Federations of North America. taught virtually; we stream programs on our computers; we Zoom 90-line poem in tongue-twisting Aramaic, is recited by reader and one another for business, for fun, for religious services, for celebra- congregation. On the second day, a comparable 15-line Aramaic Produced by tions. Even as life is completely disrupted, it goes on. poem, Yitziv Pisgam, is inserted after the first line of the haftarah. The Jewish Observer is cognizant of both the disruption and the Those poems, and both days’ haftarot, are replete with mystical al- continuity of Jewish life in Central New York. We celebrate Jewish lusions. The first (Ezekiel 1:1-28,3:1), known as Ma’aseh HaMerkavah American Heritage Month with a shoutout to the Judaic Heritage (Work of the Chariot), presents an extraordinary vision of Heavenly Center and a book review of Jewish life in the Catskills. We celebrate Hosts. A contrasting reading is the idyllic Book of Ruth. Shavuot is Publisher/Chief Revenue Officer...... Barbara E. Macks the Syracuse Hebrew Day School’s 60th anniversary – although no also called Yom HaBikkurim, initiating the season for bringing First [email protected] one ever thought they would be teaching their students remotely in Fruits to the Temple. Setting the standard for future converts, Ruth Creative Director...... J.P. Thimot [email protected] this milestone year. Mother’s Day occurs in May, so we are honoring the Moabitess, great-grandmother of David, accepts the Torah: “Your Vice President/Production & Sales...... Jennifer Tudor Jewish mothers in this month’s JO. We also celebrate the holiday of people are my people and your God is my God” (Ruth 1:16). [email protected] Shavuot and read from one of the two biblical narratives titled after “Honor thy father and mother,” the Decalogue’s fifth command- Lead Designer...... Kimberly Miers women. Megillat Ruth is named for its younger protagonist, but it is ment, bridges the first and second tablets: the first, duties owed God, [email protected] the older Naomi who is the dominant figure. A caring and altruistic the second, prohibitions towards others. Due to a mother’s profound Senior Graphic Designers...... Josh Flanigan, Andrea Rowley mother-in-law, Naomi is also, in the words of biblical scholar Phyllis religious influence on the child, Jewish descent traditionally has been Graphic Designers...... Kristen Thomas, Nicholas Vitello Trible, “a profound figure of faith who experiences God as enemy but through the mother. It is she who prepares the home for Sabbath Production Manager...... Adam Van Schoonhoven then wrestles blessing from adversity.” Shavuot is a holiday that hon- and holidays and is more attuned to Judaism’s emotional elements. Sales Director...... Cynthia Oppenheimer ors Jews by choice, echoing Ruth’s words to Naomi, “Your people shall Mercifulness (rachamim) is particularly associated with motherhood [email protected] be my people, and your God my God.” This issue of the JO contains (rechem, womb). Thus, when praying for the ill, the mother’s Hebrew Sales Executives...... Keren Green the fascinating stories of three people who chose to become Jewish. name, not the father’s, is used. Specially burdened, women are exempt [email protected] In 1978, the Federation board voted to support the creation of from time-dependent positive commandments. Over the ages, Jewish an “Anglo-Jewish newspaper in Syracuse.” Its purpose was to “help mothers have greatly earned and merited much gratitude. surface the potential of our community” through information, edu- The Jewish historical experience has been unique. Massively dis- Submissions: cation and entertainment. “In performing these basic functions,” the persed twice, scattered across the globe, with faith their only succor, Submit editorial stories, photos, and calendar items by the 1st of board stated, “the Jewish Observer adds a vital element of cohesion Jews have outlasted far stronger physical and spiritual enemies, over- the preceding month of issue to: [email protected]. to our community. It will give groups and organizations a better un- coming persecution and pogroms, confiscations and expulsions. Sad- To Advertise: derstanding of each other, and demonstrate how separate pieces fit ly today, far too many highly educated Jews are functionally Jewishly To advertise, call Cynthia Oppenheimer at 716-783-9119 x2240. illiterate. American Jewish success has led to attenuated connections together to form a larger picture.” Ad space & materials are due by the 16th of each month prior to Forty-two years later, the JO continues to help our community be to Jewish heritage. To assure a Jewish future, Jews must feel fully part publication. For a rate card and any additional information, please cohesive and understanding and supportive of one other. We are cur- of the Jewish people, emotionally engaged to their triumphs and email Cynthia Oppenheimer [email protected] or rently living in a completely unanticipated state, for which we were, tragedies, and conversant with Judaism’s theology, liturgy and history. 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2 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 LETTERS FROM THE BOARD CHAIR AND PRESIDENT

rael arevim zeh bazeh. And so, it is note- Ellen Weinstein worthy but not surprising that because Michael Balanoff Board Chair of these firm foundations upon which President/CEO we are raised, we see wonderful things happening even in the midst of this pandemic. We are deeply appreciative of the incredible courage and dedica- tion of members of the medical profes- sion and other first responders, who are stressed to the limit but keep working to save lives, even at risk to their own. We are grateful to people we normally don’t acknowledge as front-line defend- ers – store clerks, security guards, postal workers, food delivery people – who are As you read this message, it is my also courageous - providing some sem- “It was the best of times, it was tutions will be hurting, and we are work- hope and prayer that the worst is blance of normalcy to our world. the worst of times, it was the age of ing to develop ways to help them recover over and the world will soon return to And then there are the generous peo- wisdom, it was the age of foolish- when the crisis eventually comes to an some semblance of “normalcy.“ But ple who are opening their hearts to ness, it was the epoch of belief, it was end. we must also recognize that this new others, doing favors for their neighbors, the epoch of incredulity, it was the Our overall goal, as the community’s normal will be different from that calling upon those in isolation, collect- season of light, it was the season of umbrella, is for all members of our com- that was before. In any case, I am ing food, offering free services – the list darkness, it was the spring of hope, it munity to have a feeling of belonging in confident we will go forward together goes on and on. In a time when a bar was the winter of despair.” Judaism and Jewish life. We are work- with renewed vigor and determina- mitzvah takes place in a kitchen over Charles Dickens’ words in A Tale ing collaboratively with the synagogues, tion to meet the challenges ahead. Zoom, when a friend dies and there is no of Two Cities seem almost prophetic, agencies and Jewish organizations of Unprecedented. That’s the best word formal funeral or shiva, when a wedding though written more than two hundred Central New York to engage the energy to use to describe the changes that have or a bris is postponed, or at best, lim- years ago. In response to the Covid-19 and commitment of the members of our taken place, seemingly overnight, in our ited to only the participants, it is good pandemic that is sweeping through the diverse community. world and our community. We never, to know that we can still reach out to world, we have seen people act selfishly The pandemic has shown us that we even in our darkest moments, thought others, sharing the joys and the sadness and thoughtlessly, and we have seen can do old things in new ways, that we we would contemplate taking an 11th and all striving together for better days great acts of chesed and generosity. We can work together to overcome obsta- drop of wine from our Passover cups ahead. are all indebted to the front-line defend- cles, that we can harness technology to because of a 21st century plague. The need to connect is far greater ers, those in the health care professions, bring us together instead of isolating An unprecedented crisis demands an than any existential threat. We are so who have shown incredible fortitude us. Covid-19 has shown us that we can unprecedented response. We at Fed- fortunate in that technology affords us and courage in these most challenging attend services online at different syna- eration are doing all that we can, in the opportunities to “be there” and we times. We are also indebted to teach- gogues, learn from different rabbis, and this time of tremendous uncertainty, have responded with imagination and ers, who have found ways to keep chil- sing new songs. We have known for some to assure that the impact of Covid-19 innovation. But I so long, as I am sure all dren involved, challenged and engaged time that in the 21st century, Jews and on our community is mitigated to the of us do, for the day, if it has not already in structured and enjoyable lessons their families will likely not claim alle- greatest extent possible. While the world come, when we can really be there with a taught remotely, using all the benefits giance to any one institution or organi- has changed, Federation’s commitment kind touch, a warm hug and more than a that technology provides. And we are zation but will seek to belong to and par- to our community has not. In this time smile or a tear from 6 feet away. indebted to our community’s rabbis and ticipate in many spaces. The pandemic of extraordinary uncertainty, we are In ordinary times, Federation’s work congregations, who have shown us that has accelerated this phenomenon. Fed- working with our communal partners to is ongoing. But in these extraordinary we can still worship via Zoom and Face- eration welcomes multiple entry points understand and respond to the needs of times, when our most vulnerable become book, learn via online classes, and reach into Jewish life. We recognize that today the community not only for today but even more so, we need you even more. out to one another to share and care, Judaism can be a source of identity, for the days, weeks and months ahead. Many people have asked how they can even as we distance ourselves physically pride, family ties and communal affilia- This month we celebrate both Moth- help. At this moment, the most effec- for the sake of everyone’s health. tion through many diverse linkages. er’s Day and Shavuot. At first blush, these tive way is for you to donate to meet The Jewish Federation of Central New Another of the lessons we learned this are two seemingly different observances the vast and growing needs. It will take York’s response to the coronavirus crisis month is that, in the words of Ari Mof- with little commonality. Yet, if we go the generosity of all of us to confront is manifold. First and foremost is com- fic, founder of CoHere Chicago, “When beyond the secular nature of the former the aftermath of the current situation. munity connection, whether through brave Jewish organizations and funders and the deeply religious significance Please consider making a donation to online meetings, the Jewish Observer, meet the needs of the people, Juda- of the latter, we can see that they both the Emergency Fund today and please Community Happenings or Constant ism will authentically and organically be mark and honor the forces that guide consider making a pledge to the Fed- Contact. Federation continues to work thought about, learned about, practiced, our moral compasses and ties to human- eration’s 2020 campaign. You can do to ensure that people are informed about and allowed to shape the world in posi- ity. Our Mothers from the day we are both at www.jewishfederationcny.org. what is happening locally and aware of tive ways.” The Federation believes that born and the Torah given to our people No amount is too big or too small to be where to turn if they want to take action, in the truth of his words lies the future at Mount Sinai, teach us, guide us, and meaningful. You can make a real differ- get help or simply stay in touch with of Jewish Central New York. Working challenge us to do the right thing, with ence when it matters most. Thank you. others at a time of mandatory isolation. together, we can and will accomplish our hearts and with our heads, with love, Secondly, the Federation is gearing many wonderful things. compassion, justice and righteousness. up to deal with the aftermath of the Our Mothers and Torah teach us about pandemic, particularly its fiscal after- communal responsibility, that kol yis- effects. We know that people and insti- May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 3 THE JEWISH EXPERIENCE Let’s Give It Up to Chants Jayde Martin Maggid Jim Brulé, Lisa Levens, and Cantor Paula Pepperstone have started a Jayde Martin has been playing the Jewish chant circle called Let’s Give It Up to Chants! They sing niggunim or word- violin since she was five years old. less melodies, and songs with simple or limited text. They chant them over and over, Playing violin has been a way for partly as a meditation, and also to pull from them all they have to offer - the words, the her to connect to her local commu- music, the harmony, singing and being with others. Rabbi Shefa Gold, who has been at nity as well as communities around the forefront of the Jewish chant movements, writes that “the magic of chant is that the world. Growing up in Syracuse, just a few short words, simply repeated with sweet passion, deliberate intention, and Jayde was given many opportunities refined beauty, can unlock treasure upon treasure of healing, wisdom, and love.” to perform in the Jewish community, including playing at the Jewish Music and Cultural Festival, playing with The Keyna Hora Klezmer Band, and at Kol Nidre services at Temple Concord. Jayde always wanted to teach music, as it blended her love of playing violin with her love of helping others. She attended the Crane School of Music at SUNY Potsdam and majored in vio- lin performance and music education. Through her college, Jayde was able to acquire a multitude of experience in teaching music. Her first placement as myself in music,” she explains. Later, as a student teacher was in Clifton Park, a student teacher, she designed a buck- where she taught general music to first et-drumming curriculum, using some of through fifth graders and conducted two the techniques used in Jamaica. Martin choruses. Her second was in Saratoga worked as a counselor for Crane Youth Springs, where she worked with the high Music, a summer program for middle school orchestra and helped teach music school and high school musicians from “Everyone is welcome to join the is working through you,” notes Maggid theory. She gave instruction in violin, all over the country, which helped her group,” says Cantor Pepperstone. “The Brulé. viola, cello and bass. “Knowing the foun- connect with young musicians. She quality of one’s voice is irrelevant. The Lisa Levens explains that “We learn dations of each of those instruments and coached a quartet, conducted a small kavannah/intention that one brings is by repetition and ultimately, once we basic techniques is really important for chamber orchestra, and played along what’s important.” There is a small core get it into our kishkes, the results are so teaching your students,” she explains. with campers in the orchestra. of regular participants, and others who rewarding because that’s when the har- Her other major teaching opportu- In 2018, Jayde became an orchestra come when they can. The difference mony breaks out and we begin to soar.” nity came as part of the Jamaica Field teacher in the Liverpool Central School between chanting and singing is crucial. Cantor Pepperstone adds, “We all deeply Service Project. She taught children in District. She teaches strings to students Chanting is primarily a meditative pro- value the silence after a chant is over. small primary schools in rural Jamaica, in grades four through eight at Liv- cess which requires both an inward focus Breathing into the new space the group took daily lessons in Afro-Caribbean erpool Middle and Liverpool Elemen- and a sensitivity to the energy of the has created together is powerful.” All drumming, and sang traditional songs tary Schools, instructing small groups in group. “As with any type of meditation, are welcome to attend the group’s ses- with the local children. She was so suc- addition to rehearsing two orchestras. effort is required, and yet at some point sions in the Community Room at Meno- cessful that she was invited back twice Teaching five grade levels truly allows one must simply surrender to the power rah Park when they resume, generally on as a supervisor, overseeing other music Jayde to see the progression her stu- of the chant, the presence that has been the fourth Sunday of the month. education students. “I loved seeing a dif- dents go through as well as the joy that invited in, and the transformation that ferent culture and being able to immerse music brings to their lives.

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4 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 THE JEWISH EXPERIENCE Joe Eglash Adam Fine It is no understatement to say that Joe Eglash is a man of many talents. The “Classically Jewish” is our local public lead guitarist in several live bands, he is also a songwriter, musical director and radio station’s exploration of Jewish cul- arranger. Primarily a guitarist, he also plays drums, bass, mandolin and other tural influences in classical music. As WCNY instruments, performing all of the instrumentals on his five (soon to be six) solo explains, “Music has been central to the Jew- albums. ish cultural and religious identity for thou- sands of years. This rich heritage has been a When he was young, Joe wanted to be a source of inspiration for composers and per- rabbi. His family was Orthodox; his mother formers.” Featured topics on the show with is a survivor. “I loved studying and daven- host Adam Fine include Jewish composers, It wasn’t something he had thought about, ing, and I especially loved the singing” says music composed in concentration camps but it seemed like an interesting oppor- Joe, adding “the music stirred me, it gets me during the Holocaust, Jewish composers of tunity. “I’m happy to say that I’ve worked in the kishkes.” But then he realized that, as Hollywood, Jewish violinists, and more. here for three and a half years now,” he a rabbi, “I would have to pontificate, and Adam Fine grew up in Queensbury, New York. says, “and it’s been the best job of my life.” I don’t like to speak in front of people.” In his elementary school, students had to audi- Adam’s program, “Classically Jewish,” With that career path derailed, Joe looked tion for the school choir. Perhaps fortuitously, developed from his lifelong interest in elsewhere. He studied classical guitar at the Adam was not accepted. So instead he started music, Judaism, and Jewish music. “There University of Minnesota and taught gui- singing in the choir of his synagogue, Temple is no other weekly radio program out there tar professionally for many years. He also Beth El. By the time he was in middle and high exploring Jewish influences in classical played with a successful touring band, The school he was regularly working as the cantorial music,” he points out. “It seemed like an Flood, and he met Kari Siegel there when soloist for Shabbat services. At Northwestern avenue I could explore and share some- his sister brought her to a concert. Their University, he majored in choral music educa- thing new with my listeners.” What he joint love of music and Judaism led him to night services at Temple Concord. tion and minored in composition, served as likes best about hosting the show is that follow her to Israel, where she was enrolled He does this as a gift. “It’s my way co-president of the Reform minyan at Hillel and “I learn something new every week, and I in seminary. They then moved to New York of volunteering for the community; I as music director of the Jewish a cappella group get to listen to great music. I know a good and got married. While Kari studied at the don’t want to be paid by my religious and klezmer band. After graduation, he was the deal about Jewish music, but I wouldn’t call Hebrew Union College cantorial school, Joe community. Playing the guitar is my High Holiday cantorial soloist at Temple Beth myself an expert. I like to learn, and I’m earned a B.A. in Judaic Studies from Brook- profession and the way I give; it’s El for a year and also spent three years as the fortunate to be able to share my research lyn College. all my expertise rolled into one. I’m cantorial soloist at B’nai Sholom Reform Con- with other people.” Joe then had an epiphany. “I’d been in here to support Rabbi Fellman and gregation in Albany, leading all music for High “Classically Jewish” is sponsored by the a family business, and I loved Judaism, Cantor Kari and help the ruach of Holiday services and select Shabbat services. Sam Pomeranz Jewish Community Center and I’d been a musician for a long time. It the service.” He doesn’t mind being Adam has performed in almost thirty operas, of Syracuse. New episodes premiere on suddenly occurred to me that there must in front of the congregation (“I am I including several in Central New York. He has Sundays at 3 pm with an encore presenta- be a Jewish business related to that.” He fully confident when I have a guitar sung with Oswego Opera (Pooh-Bah in The tion the following Saturday at 7 pm. The became the director of Transcontinental strapped to me.”) and is very happy Mikado, Frank in Die Fledermaus, and Noah in program can be heard at 91.3 FM in Syra- Music Publications (TMP), the oldest and living in Jamesville with his family. Noah’s Flood) and the Syracuse Opera (Cockney cuse, 89.5 in Utica/Rome and 90.9 in Water- largest Jewish music publisher in the world, “We love living here and I love the Quartet in My Fair Lady, Baron Douphol in La town, streaming online at wcny.org/radio, a job that combined his business sense, Temple Concord community and the Traviata, and The Imperial Commissioner in or with the TuneIn app. Episodes to date love and knowledge of Judaism, and the Jewish community,” Joe says. “Central Madama Butterfly.) have included Musicians in Exile, Jewish music business. He edited or contributed to New York is a place where you can Adam came to Syracuse for graduate school Women Composers, Richard Tucker, Jewish some of the most widely-used songbooks slow down and be happy, enjoy good at Syracuse University. He was singing with Influences in Theater and a Chanukah spe- and anthologies in the Jewish music world. friends. People here are the salt of the the Syracuse Opera when Bruce Paulsen, the cial. Many more intriguing programs are Today, Joe is a recognized authority in earth; it’s a heimish community, not morning host at WCNY Classic FM, asked if he planned for the weeks and months ahead. the Jewish music industry. His T’filah Band a rat race.” would be interested in a job at the radio station. songbook series contains arrangements of liturgical music for synagogue band and choir. At TMP, he created the first Jewish music licensing agency, JLicense, which Kosher helps congregations legally and ethically use copyrighted music and be copyright compliant, and encourages the creation of new Jewish music and the development of Jewish music songwriters and composers • 20 years of experience • Supervised by Vaad Ha’ir of Syracuse through the channeling of royalties. Joe A Glatt Kosher Kitchen loves his work. “When we introduce a new Executive Chef, Keith LeBlanc hours: melody and synagogues adopt it, it can go Supervised by Vaad Ha’ir of Syracuse all over the world. It can become an indi- A Glatt Kosher Kitchen Sun 11am-4pm | mon-thurs 8am-10am; 11am-2pm; 4pm-7pm fri 8am-10am; 11am-2pm | sat closed vidual community’s melody or you could go to a synagogue in Israel or Singapore, Delivery or curbside pick up at The Oaks grub hub or curbside pick up at menorah park and there is a chance they got a melody 18 Arbor Lane, DeWitt 13214 41040 E. Genesee Street, Syracuse 13214 from something that we published.” 315.446.9111 ext. 255 or [email protected] 315.446.9111 ext. 116 Joe accompanies Cantor Kari at Friday May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 5 COMMUNITY

theirs are more extreme under this kind of pressure. Now is not the time to make Getting Through Covid-19 big decisions. Try to remember that this will all pass and it’s nobody’s fault – Tips From Syracuse Jewish Family Service including yours. Find ways to celebrate the collective by Judith S. Huober track your results. Even better, share your sense of taking care of one another. plan and your progress with someone Read stories of people helping others. While we cannot change much else. Keep the scope reasonable and don’t Remember the tremendous efforts of our about the external Covid-19 situa- let the perfect grow into the enemy of health care professionals. Maybe write tion, we can choose our own course the good. letters of appreciation and support or of action and how we focus our minds Take practical and higher-level post them online. Remind yourself that and spirits. Agency means feeling steps to care for yourself. Set a sched- the sacrifices you make are because you yourself as an active, impactful agent ule and some routines for yourself. Be are part of a community that is protect- in your own life and circumstances. It sure to get dressed every day, even if it’s ing its most vulnerable members. Give is the counterweight to the decimat- in sweatpants. Don’t spend the day in yourself full credit for the supreme act ing helplessness we feel reduced to by bed unless you’re sick. Routines give you self-esteem and a sense of meaning. of lovingkindness that you are perform- coronavirus. Here are some ideas for a sense of control. Go to bed and wake up Maintain your sense of relatedness. ing: depriving yourself in order to keep concrete actions, linked to some of at regular times. Eat meals on a schedule. Social distancing makes social relation- others safe. the typical human needs which people Give yourself permission for some ships more difficult, so be creative and Continue to learn, grow, adapt and are having a hard time satisfying right exceptions to those routines and plan focus on success. Call people, don’t just evolve. Seek out and celebrate mean- now. for some special treats – and change text them. You want real-time connec- ing. Take an online class with one of our Assert agency by focusing on things it up. Our need for safety and certainty tions. Facetime is also great and Zoom community’s rabbis. Suggest podcasts to within your control. How you feel isn’t is balanced by our need for variety. Over- works well (free for up to three people.) others and try out a new one yourself. always a choice, but what you do is. playing our need for certainty and control Social distance doesn’t have to mean Find a Facebook “Live” event to try out. Maybe it doesn’t feel like there’s much may feel like it reduces fear, but it feeds social isolation. Have cocktails with Develop an “attitude of gratitude.” Make you can assert control over, but start an anxiety backlash when our certainties friends on your phone. lemonade from life’s lemons -- optimism somewhere. Find one thing to concen- inevitably fail at some point. Make room Figure out the corollary of social feeds resilience. Seek out and celebrate trate on and set a goal, make a plan, and for both. interaction: boundaries. Find ways to the “silver linings,” the good things that Move your body. The JCC is posting get enough space, even if you are cooped are happening now that wouldn’t have great workout videos on its website. You up with others in small quarters. Take occurred if events had run their usual can take a walk if you don’t get close to turns deciding on TV programs or which course. others. Exercise decreases stress, boosts videos to watch. 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6 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 COMMUNITY Temple Concord Community Staying in Touch

“We are continuing to build community one gigabyte at a time!” Rabbi Fellman

“Being a part of these live feeds feels as though I am with my temple family and that is so comforting to me.” Peggy Grossman

“This isolation is unbearable. It was so meaningful to hear you, the traditional melodies, and the positive upbeat messages. Thank you for all you are doing.” Catherine Gale

“Seeing all the other faces of zoom, it is a way of us connecting even though we are not together in person” Meryl Lefkowicz

Learning and Worship in the Era of Covid-19 Keep Moving During Covid-19

A recent book by Nathan Englander, Kad- services Sunday through Thursday at 7 pm. Con- The JCC has a full schedule of online classes on its YouTube channel that dish.com, described the development of a gregation Beth Sholom-Chevra Shas holds Kabbalat can help everyone stay in good shape despite confinement and quarantine. fictional app where you can pay someone to Shabbat services on Fridays at 6 pm and Ma’ariv & There are classes in basic and advanced Pilates, line dancing for beginners say kaddish for you. Little did readers guess Havdalah on Saturdays at 8:15 pm. Temple Adath and improvers, body sculpting, WERQ fitness, senior strength and fitness that there would soon be a worldwide crisis Yeshurun holds Kabbalat Shabbat services on Fridays and Zumba Gold. Descriptions for all of these classes can be found at that would ban funerals and shivas, b’nai at 5:30 pm via Zoom and Havdalah on Saturdays www.jccsyr.org/docs/group-exercise-sched-2020-01-30-web.pdf. mitzvah ceremonies, auf rufs, weddings, and via Facebook Live. Temple Concord holds Shabbat religious services and push everyone online. evening services at 6:00 pm on Fridays and Shabbat But the Jewish community of Central New morning services at 11:00 am preceded by Torah ® York is nothing if not resourceful, and with- study at 10:00 am. Contact the synagogues for Zoom PJ Library Resources in a few days of prohibitions being estab- meeting IDs and passwords and dial-in information. lished, rabbis and congregations developed Chabad offers Zoom classes on Pirkei Avot: A fresh for Quarantined Families study and prayer alternatives that assured look at an ancient text on Wednesdays at 7:30 pm and the distancing and health of participants, The Psychology of the Soul on Thursdays at noon. Con- As Central New York families stay home to flatten the curve of COVID- while allowing all to experience the joy of gregation Beth Sholom-Chevra Shas sponsors a class 19, many are finding it challenging to keep their children entertained learning and worshipping together. Fol- on the weekly Torah portion with Rabbi Pepperstone without access to playgrounds, the public library and friends. PJ Library® lowing is a listing of local worship and on Thursdays at 1:30 pm and a Talmud class with the offers virtual story times, podcasts, activities, recipes, and Jewish links and learning opportunities. Links to these and rabbi on Mondays at noon and 7 pm. Shaarei Torah resources. There is even a page on How to Talk to Your Kids About Scary other classes and services are sent weekly Orthodox Congregation of Syracuse offers an interac- Situations. “As a parent, I know we have been thrown an overwhelming via Community Happenings. (If you are not tive online class on contemporary issues on Mondays amount of work and responsibilities,” says PJ Library® coordinator Caro- receiving Community Happenings, go to the at 7:30 pm, a Talmud class on Sundays at 7:30 am, a lyn Weinberg. “If there is anything I can do to help maintain a connection, Federation website, www.jewishfederation- Chumash class on Thursdays at 7:30 am and a Friday please let me know. I am happy to pick up the phone, record a video, host cny.org to subscribe.) haftarah class at 2 pm. Temple Adath Yeshurun is teleconference calls, lead a parent’s night in, whatever I can do to help The community Conservative minyan offering a class entitled Foundations for Jewish Life on relieve some stress.” PJ Library® sends free, award-winning books that is held weekday mornings at 7:30 am and Sundays at 10:30 am. Temple Concord’s Talmud class celebrate Jewish values and culture to families with children 6 months evenings at 5:30 pm. Shaarei Torah Ortho- with Rabbi Fellman meets on Tuesdays at 12:30 pm through 12 years old. For more information, contact Carolyn Weinberg dox Congregation of Syracuse hold Mincha through May 5. at [email protected].

May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 7 SYRAJEWS IN THE NEWS Winners

Dr. Joseph Goldberg, English teacher at Jamesville-DeWitt High School, is the latest recipient of the Master Teacher Offering of Honor Award from Kappa Delta Pi, Full Restoration International Honor Society in Edu- cation. Goldberg joins a select group and of remarkable educators who have been Dr. Joseph Goldberg, Emily Jones, and Eric Lichtblau Construction recognized with this honor. Goldberg achieved National Board Certification Emily Jones’ Color Book was a other interactive elements. Emily is a Services for Professional Teaching Standards in first-place gold winner in the 14th recent graduate of the Savannah College 2013 and was selected as a teacher lead- Annual International Design Awards of Art and Design; she is a designer for er for the American Federation of Teach- competition. The International Design Newport News Shipping in Virginia. ers in 2016-2017. He holds a M.S.T. in Awards exists to recognize, celebrate Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Secondary English Education, a M.S. in and promote legendary design visionar- Eric Lichtblau’s latest book is Return Instructional Design, Development and ies and to uncover emerging talent in to the Reich: A Holocaust Refugee’s Evaluation, a C.A.S. in Designing Digi- architecture, interior, product, graph- Secret Mission to Defeat the Nazis. tal Instruction, and a Ph.D. in Teaching ic, and fashion design. IDA aspires to Lichtblau is a two-time Pulitzer Prize– and Curriculum. Dr. Goldberg also works draw attention to the iconoclasm of winning journalist and the best-selling as an adjunct professor at Le Moyne design world-wide, conceptualizing and author of Bush’s Law: The Remaking College and Syracuse University, and producing great work. Color Book was of American Justice and The Nazis Next is developing curriculum for the Media designed to show off a variety of papers Door. His new book tells the story of Education program at Syracuse Univer- offered by Mohawk Fine Papers, Inc. Fred Mayer, a German-born Jew who sity’s S.I. Newhouse School of Public It covers a wide range of information escaped Nazi Germany only to return as 315.454.0518 Communications. all about color, utilizing different skills an American commando on a secret mis- Art Diamond, owner such as foiling, die-cuts, fold outs and sion behind enemy lines.

8 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 JCC JCC Letter to JCC Summer Camp Fun Coming Soon the Community While Central New York and the world have been battling the coronavirus pandemic, the Sam Pomeranz Jewish Com- From Marci Erlebacher, munity Center has been working hard to still hold summer camp this year as planned. After all, as long as we’re all in the Executive Director and Steven clear, many children can probably use a much-needed release after isolating for so long. Sisskind, Board President The JCC’s Camp Joe & Lynne Romano The JCC’s more than thirty Specialty Thank you for your patience, summer day camp will run weekdays for Camps for school-age children allow kids understanding and working with us eight weeks from June 29 through August to explore a specific interest area for an through the coronavirus situation for 21. Once again this year there will be plenty entire week. In addition to staples such as the health and safety of our commu- of non-stop excitement, fun and adventure gymnastics, art, rocketry and fishing, this nity. We have all done an amazing job for children and teens to experience. Each year’s new Specialty Camps are Bricks 4 of coming together while being apart week campers will have a blast making Kidz CSI—Whodunnit, Bricks 4 Kidz Magic for the greater good. We hope that new friends and participating in enriching Tricks & LEGO Bricks, Pickleball and Poké- while isolating at home you were able activities. There’s nothing boring about mon Camp. to maintain your connection with the summer camp at the JCC as campers go Young teens ages 14 and 15 looking JCC school-age campers show off some of JCC through social media and our free swimming and are kept active every day. their pirate garb during “pirate day” last July. to take on some responsibility should online exercise and early childhood Pictured, from left, is Mya Burgmeier, Zoe Van check out the Camp Aide and Counselor in program videos. Beveren, Edith Rothman, Caleigh Hampel, Josh Training (CIT) programs. They offer many Having to temporarily close the JCC Davis and Derek Charsky. opportunities to hone teamwork and lead- in mid-March was very painful. The rev- ership skills. enue that we lost was nearly $250,000 Camp Romano registration is happen- per month. This does not account for ing now. Children can be registered any- the “human” costs to our employees, time right up until the start of camp on many of whom had to go without a pay- June 29 and throughout the summer prior check. Although one very bright spot to the start of each camp session. Spots did emerge. Our sincerest gratitude goes go quickly and some school-age specialty out to the many generous members and JCC early childhood camper Nathan Rosenberg camp sessions closeout early. Except for takes a wild ride down the slip and slide last JCC school-age campers getting creative and families who stepped up and continued summer. having fun during Painting Camp. Pictured, from the Camp Aide and Counselor in Training supporting us with their early childhood left, is Ella Kanfer, Shayna Nellis, Anna Congelli teen programs, current JCC membership is program fees or membership dues dur- Camp Romano serves three different and Ayesha Aslam, counselor in training. not necessary for Camp Romano registra- ing this difficult time. Thanks to your age groups. The early childhood camp is tion, but JCC members receive discounted kindness, we were able to extend the pay for children 6 weeks old through enter- camp rates. A discount for siblings is also of our early childhood teachers a little ing kindergarten, school-age camp is open 5655 Thompson Road in DeWitt. Depend- available. longer which helped them during this to children entering grades 1–6 and the ing on the camp, some campers may go off- For more information about the JCC’s difficult time. SyraCruisin’ teen travel camp is for young site for scheduled field trips and specialty summer camp, and to request the camp Now comes the part where we can still teens entering grades 7–10. Each camp camp activities. Early and late care options program guide, call 315-445-2360 or visit use your help. If you are in a position day will begin and end at the JCC on are available for all campers. www.jccsyr.org. to make a donation to the JCC, become a new member or prepay your existing membership a few months or a year in The JCC’s Neulander Family Sports & Fit- advance, we will be forever grateful. JCC Pools to Open May 23 ness Center is looking to offer its Aqua Fit- No pressure, though. We know finances “After the way this year started, I The JCC has two outdoor heated pools. ness class. This fun group exercise class is are tight and this is something that not think everyone is excited to get sum- The small pool is shallow and ideal for set to music and designed to improve over- everyone can do. But if you are able to mer started and enjoy some time in the small children who are non-swimmers. The all cardiovascular fitness and flexibility. All help us get back on our feet again, we pool.” said Pamela Ranieri, JCC director large pool features both shallow and deep ages are welcome. The class is free for JCC cannot thank you enough. of children’s programming. “The JCC’s ends and a designated diving area and lap Fitness members and $10 per drop-in for To make a donation, join the JCC or pools are such a focal point each sum- swim section. non-fitness members. Look for details on prepay your membership, please con- mer for children attending camp, fami- The JCC will offer group swimming les- class times to be announced shortly. tact Erin Hart at 315-445-2040, ext. lies spending time together and those sons for children and semi-private and The JCC of Syracuse pools are a mem- 112, or [email protected]. If you wish taking swim lessons. It will be great to private lessons for both children and adults bers-only benefit featuring open free-swim to support the JCC with a one-time or see everyone getting out in the sun and seven days a week. Taught by certified and lap-swim times. Guests are welcome recurring donation, we will provide a making a splash.” instructors, swimmers of all skill levels are to purchase a pool pass and swim when receipt for tax purposes. Although the coronavirus situation is welcome. Infants as young as six months accompanied by a member. The JCC pools Thank you very much for stand- probably still on everyone’s minds, the old, older children and adults can get start- also may be booked by both members and ing with our community and for your Sam Pomeranz Jewish Community Center ed on learning to swim. There are also les- non-members for pool parties to celebrate thoughtful consideration of helping us is looking forward to opening its outdoor sons geared toward advanced swimmers. birthdays and other special occasions. continue to weather this unprecedented heated pools as planned on May 23 at 10 JCC membership is not required to take For more information about the JCC situation. Be well and stay safe. am. The JCC’s learn-to-swim group swim- swimming lessons, but members receive a of Syracuse pools, including swimming ming lessons will begin on June 1 and discount. lesson and other schedules, call 315-445- continue through August 28. The pools will Exercising in the JCC pool is great way 2360 or visit www.jccsyr.org. remain open through Labor Day. to get the body moving and heart pumping. May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 9 SCHOOLS Epstein School The Day School Turns 60 Appoints New Head In the Midst of a Pandemic Jewish education in Syracuse was Hundreds of students have attended The Rabbi Jacob H. Epstein School once in the hands of melammedim, itin- SHDS (or Max Gilbert Hebrew Academy of Jewish Studies is pleased to erate teachers who taught children at as it was formerly known) and over five announce that it has appointed a home. In a completely unexpected hundred are graduates. The Day School new Head of School for the 2020-2021 turn of events, sixty years later, stu- has provided a superior program of gen- school year. Aaron Spitzer, a Board dents of the Syracuse Hebrew Day eral and Judaic studies, unique in the member at Temple Concord, has School are also being taught at home, area and unparalleled in its influence, accepted the position and will offi- although by their regular teachers, as evidenced by the many successes of cially start on May 1st working with through the wonders of technology, its alumni. Cantor Paula Pepperstone. Aaron is and as a result of a worldwide pan- A 60th birthday has traditionally been a graduate of Binghamton University demic. an important milestone for Jews, for with a B.A. in history and a master’s As this is Jewish American History it signifies the avoidance of karet, or degree in American History. He was a Month, it is interesting to retell the tra- premature death, which is said to occur PhD Candidate in American history jectory of Jewish education in Syracuse. before the age of 60. But having a 60th when he and his wife, Amy, decided The first Jewish school, founded in 1897, anniversary in the midst of a worldwide to homeschool their children. future of Jewish education in Central was the afternoon Hebrew Free School. pandemic is only one of many challeng- Aaron comes to the Epstein School New York. In his words, “As a parent Parents paid what they could afford, and es the Day School has successfully met with a wealth of experience in general to three future Jewish leaders, noth- because many were newly-arrived immi- in its six decades. In this case, SHDS was education and deep involvement in Jew- ing brings me more joy than helping grants without money, they paid noth- fortunate that its current head of school, ish education. For the past several years, young people engage with our tradition. ing. The school lasted for twenty-five Laura Lavine, was the first administrator he has served as the co-president of I am committed to the Epstein School’s years until financial insolvency finally in New York State to lead a public virtual the Home Learners Association of CNY. continued growth and engagement with shut its doors. In the early 1950s, a day school and as a result, SHDS teachers In that role, he was responsible for the our teens. Robust programs like Epstein, school was created but faced opposition were trained and ready to start online organization’s administration and cur- and the friendships nurtured there, help from community members committed instruction as soon as the school closed riculum, and the association witnessed teens cement their Jewish identity dur- to public education. After suffering a due to the corona virus. Classes, books, a dramatic increase in family enrollment ing these critical years.” fire, it too shut down. Then, in 1960, hardware and software were available during his tenure. But his first love and Aaron is married to Amy Spitzer, a the Syracuse Hebrew Day School was for students, and prayer and learning – professional home is as a Jewish educa- teacher in the Jamesville Dewitt school established. even physical education and music les- tor. Aaron teaches fifth grade at Temple district, and they have three children – Sixty years later, the Syracuse Hebrew sons – began on time. Concord’s religious school, as well as Judah, Marian, and Arthur. The Epstein Day School proudly celebrates its stand- The Jewish Federation of Central New fourth grade at the Syracuse Community School is delighted to welcome Mr. ing as one of the Central New York York recognized the value of the day Hebrew School. He is committed to the Spitzer to its leadership team. Jewish community’s finest institutions. school as an anchor of the Jewish com- munity in establishing its tuition incen- tive program (see sidebar), citing “the critical importance to our community of Federation Tuition Incentive Program maintaining a vibrant Jewish day school. The immersive environment provides for the Syracuse Hebrew Day School each child with the elementary foun- dation of Jewish values that we have The Jewish Federation of Central New York recognizes the critical importance to our community of maintain- treasured and developed as a people ing a vibrant Jewish day school. The immersive environment provides each child with the elementary foundation for thousands of years.” The Syracuse of Jewish values that we have treasured and developed as a people for thousands of years. Through a gift from Rabbinical Council stated, “Only at the the estate of Claire D. Selzer, the Federation has committed up to $200,000 to fund the Jewish Federation Tuition Syracuse Hebrew Day School can a child Incentive Program to assist families attending the Syracuse Hebrew Day School (SHDS). The goal is to help more receive a top-notch secular primary edu- of our community’s children to take advantage of this unparalleled educational experience. cation while also receiving a level of Incentives are not need-based and are determined after SHDS tuition and financial aid is established. Incentives are Jewish education that even the finest limited to the total tuition actually paid by recipient families. synagogue or afternoon school cannot match.” But perhaps the most meaning- • The program is open to current and new SHDS families who make an annual donation to the Jewish Federation of ful comment is by physician Mara Semel Central New York. Kenger, SHDS ’92, who said, “SHDS is • A family will be reimbursed up to $7,500 for their first child enrolled in SHDS. almost more of a family than a school. • A family will be reimbursed up to $1,800 for each additional child enrolled in SHDS. It’s a place where academic excellence • An enrolled SHDS family who refers a new family that enrolls a child in SHDS will be reimbursed up to $1,800. is expected and encouraged. It is a tes- tament to the idea that children are The Tuition Incentive Program application may be downloaded from the Federation website www.jewishfederation- sponges who can learn as much as we cny.org and from the Day School website www.shds.org. For more information, contact Don Cronin at 315-445-2040 x throw at them if the environment is lov- 118 or [email protected]. ing, supportive and nurturing.”

10 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 SCHOOLS » SHDS Alumni Profiles How do you feel about Sophie Marmor, SHDS ‘99 being virtually-schooled? Schuyler County Assistant District Attorney “One word: Awesome.” - Remy S. graduated from the Syracuse Hebrew Day School “It’s going pretty smoothly. Sometimes the computer glitches. I love to sleep in!” in 1999. She earned a B.A. in history with a minor - Walden O. in political science from Yeshiva University, and “It is a challenge, but it is interesting and good to try something new.” Tammy G. a J.D. from the Benjamin N. Cardozo School of “I like it because the school day is shorter and I get to hang out with my friends!” Law. - Sam E. Sophie was always interested in history, politics, and writing, so law was a natural fit. Her greatest professional accomplishment to date is arguing cases in front of the Appellate Division in Albany. “The judges on the panel ask you questions about the case in a fast-paced, rapid-fire fashion so you have to think on your feet quickly,” she says. “I’m not sure if it’s bragging to say I won all three times, but I’ll take gogue’s Sunday school in Elmira. my chances and put that out there!” Sophie defines “I feel deeply honored to pass her prosecutorial role as a search for justice, not just on such an important part of our convictions. “That’s the best part of my job -- hav- heritage to the next generation,” ing absolutely no other mission than to seek justice. she explains. “There is a part of Sometimes justice does mean seeking a maximum me that feels humbled each time sentence, but lots of times, it also means giving I teach. I definitely don’t compare someone who has had a rough life a break.” to the heroes I learned from at Sophie’s education at the Day School nurtured SHDS. Still, I consider my teach- her affinity for history and writing. “The teachers ing a tribute to them.” “It’s good, because I never have to worry about being late.” - Lucy S. there noticed that I had a very strong interest in Asked what she would say “I like learning online because we get to see everyone in their house, history and encouraged me to pursue it by giving to a family who is considering including our teachers!” - Benjamin B. me extra reading. I remember that in the fifth grade SHDS for their children, Sophie “I like online learning! It’s hard sometimes, like when the computers shut off.” I made a paper mâché Liberty Tree when we were replies, “Go for it! Aside from the - Yetta W. studying about the American Revolution (a special individualized attention that the “It’s really good! I like that we can turn on the computer and we’re at school! interest of mine). I still have it at my mom’s house.” school provides, the values that We get extra time in our day because we don’t need to get in the car to go Still friends with many of her fellow day schoolers the students learn are timeless. to school or get in the car to come home!” - Takeshi S. on social media, Sophie says, “It’s great to see that Any local school can produce a “Overall, I think online learning is ok, but being in a classroom with my class- they’re accomplished and happy. I’m sure that like scholar, but only SHDS will make mates and teachers seems a much better way for me to learn.” me, they’d attribute much of their current success a mensch. Similarly, SHDS imparts - Makayla S. to their early years at the Day School.” One unique a sense of community that stays “I’m disappointed that I’m missing out on my lab courses, which can’t be done aspect of her SHDS education was her participa- with me to this day. I’m not only a online. But this is a small price to pay and, as a STEM major, I understand and sup- tion on the school’s Drug Quiz Team. “Lots of the member of my local community, port the precautions that need to be taken for public health in order to flatten the information that was drilled into me during that but I know that I’m also a part of curve of COVID-19. My school is doing all that it can. I even had a Zoom call last experience stays with me today. It comes in handy the Jewish People. Knowing that week with the dean of my college to choose courses for next semester.” sometimes when I’m prosecuting drug cases.” provides an incredible sense of - Rachel E. Sophie also serves as a Hebrew teacher at a syna- comfort and confidence.” “Another day in Paradise.” - Jack W.

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» Book Review » Heritage Catskill Culture: A Mountain Rat’s May is Jewish-American Memories of the Great Jewish Resort Area by Phil Brown Heritage Month

Review by Laura Feldman In 2006, President George W. Bush proclaimed May as Jewish-American Heri- tage Month, a national month of recognition of the 360+ year history of Jewish The Catskill Mountains played a large part in contributions to American culture, in fields ranging from business, medicine, the lives of many of those of a certain age who science, the arts, sports, and entertainment to government, military service, lived in New York City and its environs during music, and more. the ‘30s, ‘40s, and ‘50s. The experience was shared by rich and poor, by native New Yorkers, and by immigrants forced to escape the untenable condi- tions in Europe.

Laura Feldman Howard Port

In the late 1800s, the Catskills were a place where refugees who were not allowed to be landowners in Europe were able to buy land. The mountains were beautiful, a perfect escape from factory and manual labor jobs. How- ever, gentiles would not accept Jews in their hotels. The solution was the advent “Jewish-American Heritage Month is “The Judaic Heritage Center, in coop- of the “Jewish” Catskills where wealthy a good time to remember that we all eration with the Onondaga Historical Jews began to build their own hotels. So capacities. He exhibits an obvious and come from immigrants to this country. Association, is working to preserve the begins Brown’s tale of what ultimately personal love of the culture, as well as We are here for freedom to practice our story of our immigrant past so it can be led to “The Catskills” as we knew it in a sociologist’s objectivity. In his tale he religion, freedom to pursue educational passed on to future generations,” says towns like Ellenville, South Fallsburg includes photographs, mouth-watering opportunities for our children and our- Port. “We invite everyone to visit the and Kiamesha Lake. menus and lists of hotel casino events. selves, and freedom to earn a living and Jewish Exhibit at the OHA’s downtown Brown takes the reader from farm- He incorporates anecdotes about famous provide a good life for our families,” says museum at 321 Montgomery Street to land to Jewish Catskills to the Catskills entertainers and how they got their Howard Port, president of the Judaic learn about the institutions and people of today. He combines a keen sense of start in the Catskills. Who doesn’t recall Heritage Center of Central New York. who had a pivotal role in founding our humor and sensitivity with a profes- Marjorie Morningstar, Herman Wouk’s The Jewish community in Central community.” sor’s quest for factual history. In this best seller, that took place in a fictional New York dates back to the mid-1800s, In addition to the Judaic Heritage Cen- most informative and enjoyable book, he Catskill Hotel? Storyteller and comedian although the major influx of immigrants ter, there are several Facebook groups writes about how the Catskills became a Sam Levinson, a teacher at Tilden High arrived just prior to World War I. Many devoted to preserving the history of the summer haven. e describes what made it School in Brooklyn, got his start at one of these Jewish immigrants made their community in its earlier days. Besides special to so many summer inhabitants hotel, and was such a hit he began trav- home in the 15th Ward, where they gath- the Jewish Community of the 15th Ward, of the kuchalayns (“cook for yourself”) eling throughout the mountains enter- ered to build a vibrant neighborhood there are pages devoted to Camp Bradley rooms and bungalow colonies, family taining the guests. Jackie Mason, Danny and make major contributions to the Brook, Snowflake Pastry Memories, and hotels like the Seven Gables in Green- Kaye, Eddie Fisher and many others got economic, social, and cultural growth of Sharing Syracuse Jewish Ancestry. field Park and luxury hotels like The their start in the Catskills. Jewish farm- the then-thriving city of Syracuse. Preservation of local history provides Nevele and Grossinger’s. Some of the ers became hotel owners. Antisemitism The story of this old Jewish neighbor- a sense of continuity and connection. earlier hotels catered to political groups morphed into gradual acceptance. The hood is memorialized, in words and pho- That is why the Judaic Heritage Center, like the Workman’s Circle. Bungalow Borscht Belt was born. tographs, in A Place That Lives Only in the Onondaga Historical Association, colonies catered to couples with young Catskill Culture is an engrossing por- Memory, a book written by William Mar- and the local Facebook groups matter. children, sometimes all from the same trayal of a crucial era of American Jewish cus and published by the Judaic Heritage “But these repositories are only as good Brooklyn or Bronx neighborhood, who heritage. Center. This book—as well as two videos: as the content they contain,” says Port. needed to escape the hot city. NOTE: The Jewish Observer wel- Stories from the Syracuse Jewish Commu- “So when you look at your accumulation Brown writes from personal expe- comes the book reviews by members nity and People and Places of the Syracuse of old pictures and family items, please rience of trips up north from Florida of the Jewish community. Please send Jewish Community—are available for pur- think about donating them to the Judaic each year as a young child and then your 300 word submission of a book chase at the Onondaga Historical Asso- Heritage Center. In this way, your story, as a teenager. His parents originally by a Jewish author or on a Jewish topic ciation bookstore and from the Judaic too, can be told to future generations.” owned their own small family hotel and to [email protected] for Heritage Center (5730 Commons Park later worked at other hotels in various consideration for publication. Drive, East Syracuse, NY 13057). 12 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 PROFILES IN COMMITMENT COMMUNITY Local Acts of Chesed Like Mother, Like Daughter, Like Granddaughter During the Pandemic After receiving her master’s degree in social work from Syracuse University in 1990, Randi Bregman began her career at Vera House. The human service agency A pandemic can bring out the worst to any company or institution with a bona fide prevents, responds to and partners to end domestic and sexual violence and in some – hoarding, Zoom-trolling, con- response to the current health crisis. “Abundant other forms of abuse. Ten years later, she became its executive director. Randi’s spiracy theorizing, scapegoating. But it Life Church found us, and their volunteers set daughter, Sonja Gottbrecht, is the chief performance officer of Catholic Charities. can also bring out the best in others. up shop and assembled 4,700 food package kits Sonja has led the successful expansion of services to meet the needs of some of The Jewish Observer is proud to highlight to help families through the weekend. They are the most vulnerable populations in Onondaga County. She too has a master’s some things that community members realizing the advantages of our loading docks, degree in social work from Syracuse University. are doing to help others in this difficult ample parking (50-60 volunteer shifts) and wide- time. We know this is only a sample of open spaces. To witness the hive of activity is just acts of lovingkindness that exemplify awe-inspiring.” our shared humanity and compassion. RUTH STEIN: “Israel Connect is a project that Please let us know of others at jewishob- uses volunteer mentors to help Israeli students [email protected]. prepare for Israel’s university entrance exams that are heavily focused on English proficiency. I just signed up to be a volunteer and will start next week. I have a student assigned to me, and we will meet weekly, one-on-one, via Zoom for 45 minutes to practice English conversation, reading comprehension, and vocabulary devel- opment. Israel Connect provides the curriculum and trains each volunteer to use the video plat- It is easy to see parallels between I’m jealous!” form. I am so excited about doing this and want Randi’s professional life and her Randi Bregman describes a similar pat- JEREMY GARELICK: Movie writer, direc- to tell everyone about it!” daughter’s. But a pattern becomes tern between herself and her mother. “My tor and producer Jeremy Garelick founded even more apparent when one real- mother is a force of life,” she says. “She American High in Syracuse in 2017 as a izes that Randi’s mother and Son- is passionate about social justice, an out- full-service production company special- ja’s grandmother is Ona Cohn Breg- standing social worker and the matriarch izing in heartfelt teen comedies. Little did man. Ona is also a social worker, of our family. I tend to be a little bit more he think that three years later, he would be who worked at the Onondaga County laid back than my mother, which might teaming with Budmen Industries to mass- Mental Health Department for many be because she had to fight harder for produce and distribute as many face shields years before opening a private prac- things she wanted than I ever did.” It is as possible to CNY health care workers. tice in family systems psychotherapy. interesting to contrast Randi’s and Sonja’s Volunteers work four-hour shifts running She later became associate professor relationships with their mothers with Ona’s 3D printers and assembling the masks at BRAD SEIDMAN: Brad Seidman is a teacher in of social work at Syracuse University, relationship with her mother, which she the Greater Syracuse Soundstage in DeWitt. the Syracuse City School District. His students retiring only to devote herself to writ- described as “a mixed bag.” “She had high come from low-income or refugee families and ing and research projects related to expectations and could be highly critical if he wanted to do something to help. “We are Bowen family systems theory. one disappointed or chose differently,” she working with our Office of Family Engagement, What is the secret that ties these recalls. Nonetheless Ona credits her mother social work staff, contact staff, and others to three women so closely together? Is a with being “supportive in a thoughtful and make sure all of our students and families have shared love of social work an example open way” and being “always there for me if enough food during the Covid-19 crisis. We are of nature or nurture? Or is something I was troubled.” collecting non-perishable food items as well as else involved? Both Randi and Sonja say that the most health and beauty items. We can arrange for pick When asked to describe her mother, important thing their mothers gave them up at your residence. If you would like to help, Sonja responded, “She’s a friend, she’s was unconditional love. “I always knew that PAMELA WELLS: A communication con- please contact me at [email protected].” a mentor and she’s the most generous she was there for me no matter what. That sultant and public-speaking coach, Pamela LYNN GREENKY: Lynn Greenky, an assistant person I know. Everyone I’ve met that is a tremendous foundation upon which to Wells wanted to do something to help small teaching professor in the SU College of Visual knows her always tells me how lucky I build,” says Randi. “My mom taught me at businesses impacted by the pandemic. and Performing Arts, saw that a local firm had am.” She describes her mother as her an early age that despite any mistakes, her “Business is about relationships, and even posted 3D-printing plans for a face shield on its best friend and says that they are both love is unwavering. This has made me a if we can’t do business, we can still have website. She asked if the University’s 3D-print- “passionate about changing systems very forgiving person and is a gift I give to relationships.” She posted a series of videos ing facilities could make the masks. Within days, and improving lives. We both work at my own children,” says Sonja. Ona likewise on her Facebook page (Pamela Wells Com- several departments began to collaborate print- non-profits and are dedicated to our recognizes that her mother gave her “a munication Coach) to teach people how to ing pieces of the face shields at the School of work. We are also very family focused, stable, loving home where I was encouraged create short videos they can use to share Architecture and the College of Engineering and and put our kids first.” Sonja is not, to develop as my own person, get educated advice and stay connected when they can Computer Science and bringing them to VPA’s however, a carbon copy of her moth- and contribute to the world.” There is a no longer provide their services in person. production facilities for assembly. The initiative er. “My mom is very outgoing,” she Jewish proverb that says, “What the daugh- CANTOR ROBERT LIEBERMAN: RAV Prop- produces 60 to 90 face shields per day, which are relates, “whereas I am an introvert. ter does, the mother did.” The truth of that erties offered 53,000 square feet of ware- then distributed to hospital emergency depart- She is confident in front of a big room adage is evidenced in the three generations house space, up to six months rent-free, ments by Syracuse Orthopedic Surgeons. of people and is an excellent speaker. of Bregmans. May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 13 COMMUNITY

readers.” Which is not to say that mother and daughter are alike in every way. Jewish Mothers “My mother is a doctor, but I was never very interested in science or medicine A man calls his mother in Florida. “Mom, how are you?” “Not too good,” says like she was. My mother is also very the mother. “I’ve been very weak.” The son says, “Why are you so weak?” She says, organized and neat and unfortunately, “Because I haven’t eaten in 5 days.” The man says, “That’s terrible! Why haven’t you I am not so much. We like very different eaten in 5 days? The mother answers, “Because I didn’t want my mouth to be full if types of food, even though my mom will you should call.” always try anything I make.” The Jewish mother is a beloved stereotype, the subject of jokes, protagonist of “I think the most important thing my books and plays, source of infinite guilt. The Jewish mother has been portrayed as mother ever gave me was my name,” smothering, too involved in her children’s lives, overprotective, self-sacrificing, inter- says Mookey. “It is unusual. Like me. fering, overbearing, extremely proud of her children (especially if they become physi- It is recognizable. Like me. I cannot cians) and constantly offering food. There’s even a book entitled The Portable Jewish hide behind it. Something my mother Spinoza came to Syracuse in 2009 with Mother: Guilt, Food, and... When Are You Giving Me Grandchildren? taught me never to do. It’s a conversa- her husband Yosef and her three sons, Many of the characteristics ascribed to the Jewish mother have diminished as Jews tion starter which I think has contrib- Ari, Itai and Eitan. Born in Bogotá, have assimilated into the larger society, and many are no longer applicable solely to uted to my gregarious personality. It Colombia and raised in San Cristóbal, Jewish mothers in an age of helicopter parenting. In many ways, the much-maligned has taught me to be assertive, whether Venezuela, she obtained her medical Jewish mother has now become the ideal parent: madly in love with her children, I’m instructing someone to correct the degree cum laude from the Universi- eager to feed them nourishing food, to protect them from all harm and to give them spelling or making sure the pronun- dad de los Andes Medical School. She as much attention as possible. Jewish mothers have come into their own. We laugh at ciation isn’t whitewashed. My Hebrew then became the first female resident their foibles, while recognizing that they’re smart and involved and, generally, their name Simcha means happiness, a word accepted to the Rabin Medical Center hearts are in the right place. that I think defines my journey in life. I Neurosurgery Training Program at the The JO asked two people in our community to share what they love about their am constantly searching for happiness, University of Tel Aviv. She speaks flu- Jewish mothers. spreading happiness, cherishing happi- ent Hebrew, English and Spanish. At ness and trying to embody that joyous Upstate, she made headlines by operat- Dr. Kate Van Orden is a psychiatrist feeling.” ing on the first patient in the world, a in private practice in Syracuse. She did It’s hard to know how to describe five-year-old girl, using laser technology her undergraduate work at the Univer- Dr. Zulma Tovar-Spinoza. She has to destroy a rare type of brain tumor that sity of Pennsylvania and received her many titles: Associate Professor of Neu- causes seizures, disruptive behavior and medical degree from St. George’s Uni- rosurgery, Associate Professor of Neu- other problems. versity School of Medicine. She is also rology, Associate Professor of Pediat- But she wouldn’t be where she is today the single parent of six, and the grand- rics, Director of Pediatric Neurosurgery, without the help of her mother, Julia mother of two. Director of Pediatric Epilepsy Surgery Romero. “My mother is my hero, the “My mother is a pillar of strength,” and Director of the Laser Ablation Pro- strongest, kindest and most selfless per- says her daughter Mookey, a theater gram at Upstate Medical University. The son I ever have known,” says Tovar-Spi- educator, director and performer. “Rais- list of ailments for which she offers noza. “She taught me to be strong and ing six children by herself. Adopting five surgical treatment is equally impres- to follow my dreams, to be resourceful of those children. Getting us all through They talk all the time and share a love sive: brachial plexopathy, brain abscess, and find solutions for the difficult cir- high school and putting us through col- of music. “I can’t count the number of brain and spine tumors, brain aneurysm, cumstances in life,” the surgeon explains, lege. She’s a master of tough love but musicals she’s listened to me obsess over cervical radiculopathy, congenital and “My mother is great at providing advice also has a soft heart full of love and pride and perform in. I’m pretty sure I’m the developmental malformations of the and she is a living example of how to for her children.” Mookey describes her only one of her children that enjoys clas- nervous system, curved spine or sco- age graciously and happily.” The most relationship with her mother as one “of sical music but I got that from her. We liosis, epilepsy, hydrocephalus, kyphosis, important gift her mother gave her, she reverence and restitution. I owe her for both love our Jewish history and culture lumbar stenosis, lumbosacral radiculop- says, is “always seeing the good and posi- many of my successes and I thank her and bond through that a lot of the time. athy, myelopathy – and that’s just the tive in people and circumstances.” She for helping me out when I needed it. I We both enjoy the beach as well, which first half of the alphabet. then adds, “And being physically there to am also in awe of all that she’s accom- makes sense seeing as we spend every Meeting this petit and charming sur- support me and my family while I accom- plished and the values she taught us as summer on the coast of Massachusetts. geon, one is immediately drawn to her plished all my dreams. I would not be able children that she still adheres to today.” And reading! We are both voracious warmth and deep humanity. Dr. Tovar- to be who I am without her.”

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14 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 COMMUNITY Honoring Jews By Choice On Shavuot

Whenever Jewish sages wanted a model of Jewish womanhood, of devotion lived in Israel, where my grandfather the more questions you have,” Caro- to the higher things in life, of loyalty and excellence of character, they spoke of worked in the Brazilian embassy. I liked lina says. “Judaism is so deep and has Ruth. Yet this woman, whose megilla is read on the festival of Shavuot, was not the things I heard about Israel and as so many layers.” “Judaism is not just a a Jew by birth, but a Moabite. Ruth left her family’s heritage and became the I grew older, I read a lot about it.” Her religion, it’s an identity,” adds Carlos. most famous female “Jew by choice,” despite the many hardships involved in grandfather had many Israeli objects “To become Jewish, you just don’t take following a faith unlike her own. Because of her commitment to living a Jewish in his home and Carolina found them a test; it’s a lifelong process.” Carolina life, Ruth is seen as the paradigm of the righteous convert, and was rewarded intriguing. Carlos was influenced by his chimes in, “We’re at the beginning. We’re by seeing her great-grandson David become king of Israel. grandmother, who had many teachings at the tip of the iceberg. There’s always It’s not easy to convert to Judaism. It’s not a proselytizing religion. Tradition says and sayings and values that he suspected something new to learn and understand. that prospective converts must be rebuffed three times to test their true commitment were linked to a past connection to Juda- But it draws you into it.” before conversion can be commenced. The Jewish Observer asked three members of ism. He felt drawn to the Jewish faith, Some of the challenges of the con- our community who made the decision to become Jewish to tell readers about their saying that somehow “You always come version process involved friends who experiences. back to it. It makes sense to you. It’s who did not understand why they wanted of people who abandoned conversion, you are.” to convert or even why they wanted to and their relationships, for lack of that When Carolina and Carlos began dat- be religious. “In our generation, people support,” she says. “My parents were ing and discussing a future together, aren’t drawn to religion,” Carlos says, okay with my conversion, and excited with marriage and a family, the issue of “As you change, people don’t under- to attend a Jewish wedding.” Once she wanting to be Jewish connected them. stand.” Despite the challenges, the Gou- and Ben had a family, they found that, In addition to the parallelism of their larts have persisted. “When we kept a “for the most part, it has helped us that grandparents’ influence, they both whole Shabbos for the first time, from the grandparents celebrate two different believed that Judaism needed to be a Friday to Saturday, reading, resting and sets of holidays. We can spend the holi- part of their lives. Carlos first went into experiencing the peacefulness – it felt days with Ben‘s parents, Christmas with a synagogue the week he and Carolina like a cleansing, a spiritual endeavor my parents, and host Thanksgiving at were to be wed, in a civil ceremony. He with which the other weekdays do not our house. One of the books that Rabbi was so affected by the experience that he compare,” said Carolina. Carlos agreed: Orenstein recommended to me, Your wore a kippa to his wedding. The young “We couldn’t wait ‘til the next week to REBECCA GREENBLATT people, My people, by Lena Romanoff, couple’s families were initially shocked do it again!” Dr. Rebecca Greenblatt, assistant pro- suggested explaining Christmas to by their decision to convert, but were The sense of community that Carolina fessor of microbiology and immunology the Jewish grandchildren as being like ultimately supportive and understand- feels, not just at Shaarei Torah, but with at Upstate, decided to convert very early attending someone else’s birthday party. ing. the entire Jewish community, is very in her relationship with her now-hus- That has worked really well for us.” The Goularts began studying with meaningful to her. She also appreciates band, and completed the process while Rabbi Shore two and a half years ago, that Judaism is a religion of inquiry, they were engaged. “I had an unusual when they moved to Syracuse so Carlos a constant questioning and trying to process because I started while in col- could do a residency in neurosurgery understand. Carlos, with a scientific lege at Cornell,” reports Rebecca. “I took at Upstate Medical Center and Caro- and medical background, paradoxical- the opportunity to do a Near Eastern lina could go to nursing school. They ly appreciates that not everything is Studies minor, with classes in Hebrew entered what they call “the universe based on fact. “It humbles you,” he says. and Jewish history. There were so many of Judaism” knowing that the process “Sometimes you just have to stop ques- candidates for conversion in Ithaca was a long one. They read books every tioning and take a step and do it. And it that decade, and only one synagogue, week, answer questions and attend ser- is wonderful.” that Rabbi Glass ran an every-Tuesday- vices regularly, in addition to observing evening conversion class year-round. I kashrut and Shabbos. “The more you dig, attended that while I was in graduate school.” Rebecca told her prospective in-laws that while she really appreciated the gift of Rabbi Glass’s time, she wanted to do more spiritual work than his class included. “They asked their rabbi, Dan CAROLINA AND CARLOS Ornstein at Beth Sholom in Albany, to GOULART help me, and he kindly designed four Beshert is a Yiddish word that means additional tutoring sessions for me, and “destiny,” used to express the seeming set up my mikvah at the Albany JCC fate of an auspicious happening. Listen- location. The minor mismatch between ing to Dr. Carlos and Carolina Goulart Rabbi Glass’s class and my needs was discuss their conversion to Judaism with really the only obstacle I faced. (That Rabbi Evan Shore is to truly comprehend and learning the alef-bet!)” the meaning of beshert. “I was seven Rebecca’s in-laws were also very years old when I started to think about accepting of, and interested in, her becoming Jewish,” says Carolina, who conversion process. “I know a couple grew up in Brazil. “My grandparents had May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 15 B’TAYAGENCIES AVON!

What is your favorite dish to prepare? chopping and there’s bits or peels that you I love preparing kimchi chigage (kimchi are going to throw away, just throw them Jewish stew). It’s one of my comfort foods and I in the trash bowl. This is a time-saver Cook of theMonth love the spiciness, the crunch of the cab- because you don’t have to go back and bage, and the softness of the tofu. There forth to the trash can. Yolanda Febles are so many textures and it’s got the right 2. One thing I’ve learned with plant- amount of heat; it makes your nose drip based soups or chilis is when you want Yolanda Febles is a health coach who a little because it’s so hot...ah so good! I to increase the thickness or give it more is currently a full-time mom, children’s literally start salivating when I smell the body, you take some of the soup out and book author, and foodie who lives in kimchi cooking. It’s an easy dish to make blend it till smooth and add that back to Jamesville with her amazing husband, but it has so much flavor. the soup, you’ll have instantly thicker Arel, and two energetic boys. What is your favorite cooking secret/ soup. trick/hack/shortcut? 3. Umami is a wonderful flavor. Add a Where did you learn to cook? 1. Have a ‘trash’ bowl right next to your bit of soy sauce to soups, dressings, and The internet taught me almost every- cutting board. Whenever you’re peeling or anything you think needs a bit more depth. thing I know. I don’t consider myself a natural cook. I need direction and ideas so Could you please share a favorite kosher recipe that isn’t terribly complicated? I love how I can look up ingredients online and a recipe will pop up or if I want to learn something about their cultures. When how to make a type of food from a specific I married my husband, who is Jamaican Easy Three-Ingredient Tomato Soup country, it’s all there. I’m becoming more and Eastern European (Jewish), and (from inspiredtaste.com) confident in the kitchen to experiment we had our very mixed kids, I wanted PREP 5mins, COOK 40mins = TOTAL 45mins without a recipe but I consider myself more our boys to be exposed to all of our Makes 2 generous servings of a recipe curator. Right now, I’m espe- cultures through food. I love that I can cially into plant-based recipes. I recently cook seaweed soup, arroz con gandules INGREDIENTS completed a plant-based nutrition course, (rice with pigeon peas), and curries 4 tablespoons unsalted butter (or vegan butter or olive oil) * and it just makes sense that we need to eat for them. They are just as comfortable 1/2 large onion, cut into large wedges more fruits and vegetables and less meat, if eating herring and lox as they are eat- 1 (28-ounce) can tomatoes, we prefer whole peeled or crushed any. The science is there proving over and ing mac and cheese. I love that I can 1 1/2 cups water or low sodium vegetable stock over again that people who eat a primarily teach them that there is more than 1/2 teaspoon fine sea salt, or more to taste plant-based diet are healthier and live lon- one way to put ingredients together ger. I get excited when I find a whole food and that every country and person has DIRECTIONS plant-based recipe that meat-eaters and their own spin on it. I want them to be Melt butter (or oil) over medium heat in a Dutch oven or large saucepan. my boys will eat and enjoy. open-minded and cooking is one way Add onion wedges, water, can of tomatoes with their juices, and 1/2 teaspoon of salt. Why do you like to cook? to teach them that. Besides connec- Bring to a simmer. Cook, uncovered, for about 40 minutes. Stir occasionally and add addi- Cooking represents connection to me. tion, there is something so gratifying tional salt as needed. I feel more connected to people when I about taking ingredients and turning Blend the soup, and season to taste. The easiest way to blend is to pour the soup into a share a home-cooked meal. My mother is them into something you can eat. I blender or use an immersion blender. from South Korea and my father is Puerto love to eat! Cooking is also therapeutic *to reduce the fat content, use 2 tablespoons of butter or olive oil; you will still have a Rican, so we ate really different types of for me. I like to light a candle and put delicious soup. food. I loved it because I felt I was learning some bossa nova or jazz on as I cook.

travel. We’ve catered events in Clinton, our menu-creation process is also different Kosher Catering by The Oaks Verona, Cortland, Skaneateles, Binghamton from many catering companies. Instead of and more.” People who keep kashrut and working with a selection of standard menus, “Our Jewish community members Creativity plays a strong role in The who are in town for work or leisure often we create a menu for each client based on shouldn’t have to cook for themselves Oaks menu-planning. “We do it all!” Kristen request that The Oaks deliver food to local their individual wants and needs. No two seven nights a week because there are exclaims. “If kashrut doesn’t restrict us, we hotels for them. “We want out-of-towners event visions are the same and we don’t no local kosher restaurants,” says Kris- will do it. We love to cook what’s in season to have meal options when they travel feel as though our clients should have to fit ten Oja, Sodexo Catering Manager at and products we can get locally. Our chefs here and to know that the Syracuse area within the constraints of choosing between The Oaks of Menorah Park, with a smile. prepare what they think people will like. We is diverse and inclusive, with a strong and Package A, B or C.” “We offer our four-course meals Mon- have a great team of chefs who create a very welcoming Jewish community,” says Oja. The Oaks is making a special effort to day through Saturday. Each evening of diverse selection of menus.” The majority of “We offer all service levels; we are not help the community during the Covid-19 the week we offer a different soup selec- The Oaks menus are created by Chef Keith limited to to-go meals,” she adds. “We pandemic. “We understand that this is a tion, several salad selections, five entrée LeBlanc, who has more than fifteen years can host events in several different spaces trying time for many and we want the Jew- choices with complementing sides and of cooking and catering experience and is across our campus or we can come to the ish community to have access to hot Kosher dessert for only $25.” For major Jewish responsible for the entire Menorah Park customer. We do everything from a simple meals,” says Oja. “Meals are available from holidays, The Oaks has special menus campus. Chef Keith is assisted by The Oaks’ week-night meal delivery to a full-service The Bistro by calling 315-446-9111 ext. 116 featuring traditional foods. “There are executive chef, Dwight Bailey. wedding, and everything in between. We or through GrubHub. They are available also times when we create menus just “Our largest customer base is the local have catering options for all different bud- from The Oaks by calling 315-446-9111 ext. for a change of pace. We do a mac-and- Jewish community,” Kristen notes. “We get and event types. Of course, we are 255. We offer curb-side delivery right to cheese with all the fixin’s, and we had a often provide catered meals for the syna- unique because we are one of the few your car to stay in compliance with recent ‘Chinese Take-Out’ night.” gogues, schools and families. But we also kosher caterers in Central New York, but restrictions.” 16 jewishfederationcny.org | May 2020 May 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 17 EZKERA / REMEMBERING

Leaving the Jewish Observer HELLA (FREDRICH) STEINBERG MINNIE ROSSOFF March 26, 2020 April 2, 2020 Dear Readers, Best wishes and keep healthy. I am sad to report this will be my final Hella (Fredrich) Steinberg of Syracuse Minnie Rossoff, 97, died peacefully at her column in the JO as editor. It seems like almost yesterday when, in passed away Thursday, March 26, 2020. She home in Clay on Thursday morning. She was the spring of 2000, I was approached to see if I would be interested in was born October 25, 1931 in Germany, and born in Montreal, Quebec, Canada on November applying for the position of Jewish Observer editor. I believe I was asked emigrated to the US in 1940 by way of Pan- 11, 1922 to Samuel and Dora Albert. After WWII, to edit the JO, in part, because of the old adage – “if you want to get ama. She previously resided in Batavia, NY Minnie and Isaac settled in Massena where something done, you should ask a busy person.” And so, I became JO and retired from the city’s Department of they raised their family and had their interior editor on July 1, 2000. Public Works. On the passing of Seymour, decorating business until retiring in 1981. They I have viewed my job as the “go to” person with knowledge of the her beloved husband of 65 years in 2019, moved to Liverpool in 1986, then to The Oaks of Jewish community – someone who makes sure people stay connected she moved to Syracuse where she joined Dewitt in 2011, and in 2014, they moved to Clay. with the CNY Jewish community through the JO, a task that involved the JCC and made many friends. Together they raised four children while continually updating addresses, disseminating information about vari- She is survived by her children Dr. Mark working side by side every day for more than 40 ous Jewish community events, and making sure all the information, (Joan) Steinberg of Bethlehem, PA and years. They were active members of Adath Israel grammar and language in the paper were correct and consistent with Shari (Steve) Fauer of Manlius; grandchil- Synagogue in Massena. Minnie was an integral journalism practices. I had lived in Paris and taught English as a second dren Andrew, Elizabeth and Daniel Stein- part of the success of Hadassah and the Women’s language. I loved using my English skills again on behalf of the Syracuse berg, Allie Fauer and Erin (Kevin) Wil- Auxiliary. Jewish community. liamson; and several nieces and nephews Her kindness and generosity of spirit will be I have not done the editorship alone, and am indebted to all those including Dr. Paul (Suzanne) Schulman of greatly missed. She was a gentle, kind soul who who have contributed d’vrei Torah, synagogue and organizational news, San Diego, CA. She was predeceased by her was loved by everyone who was privileged to information about personal life events and new contact information. I brother Bernie. have known her. She was predeceased by their was the person hiding behind the headlines. It was a labor of love. The family wishes to give a special son, Gerald Philip Rossoff, in 1979. With the reformatting of the JO to a different kind of journalism, my thanks to the nurses and staff at Upstate Her family includes her husband Isaac of tenure has come to an end. And so, as the longest-serving JO editor, I Hospital who became her extended family more than 76 years; their daughters Harriet say, l’hitraot and best of luck to the new JO. over these past many weeks. Contributions (Irving) Zucker, Norma (Jason) Searns, and Judith in Hella’s memory may be made to The Rossoff; grandchildren Danielle, Sean, Adam Bette Siegel Support of Upstate Employees Fund: www. (Claire), Stuart (Ashley), and Gregory (Amanda); upstatefoundation.org/careforcaregiver. and great-grandsons Abraham and Everett. Sisskind Funeral Service Sisskind Funeral Service

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EDITH BONIN KENNETH RICHTAND LERMAN, RICHARD RAPP April 11, 2020 “WILDMAN” March 25, 2020 April 2, 2020 Edith Bonin, 85, of DeWitt, died Richard Rapp was born April 26, 1928 including Friends and Illusions and A Saturday, April 11, 2020 at Crouse Kenneth Richtand Lerman, “Wildman,” and raised in Brooklyn, New York. He Box of Sand. The novels are based on Hospital. 63, of Los Angeles, CA passed away April died March 25 in Syracuse. He lived in his family’s roots as Austrian Jews who During the 1950s Edith was a regis- 2, 2020. the New York City area his entire life, immigrated to New York. tered nurse at Crouse Irving Memorial After graduating from Jamesville and worked in the entertainment indus- Rapp was predeceased by his first Hospital. She put her career on hold DeWitt High School, Ken moved to Florida, try and Democratic politics. He was a wife, artist Paula Rapp, to whom he was to take a position of full-time loving where he worked with race horses. Then world traveler who loved opera and spir- married from 1951 until her death in mother to her growing family. Edith he joined the navy, serving on the aircraft ited conversation. 1973. They shared a love of music, mod- was a fastidious homemaker, devoted carrier USS Saratoga. He moved to Califor- As a young man, Richard’s father ern dance, art, and political activism. He wife and mother, avid reader, and nia in 1985 to work in the music industry, wanted him to join his accounting firm, will forever be remembered for his big loyal SU sports fan for many years. his greatest passion. Wildman was one of but Richard had other ideas. He loved personality, humor, charm, and honest She was also a member of the Crouse a kind, anyone he met was touched by his music. He played piano, taught piano, opinions which he never hesitated to Irving Nurses Alumni Association and warmth, humor, gentleness & sincerity. and worked for Frank Sinatra’s publish- share...he was a character! Congregation Beth Sholom-Chevra Ken was predeceased by his father Fred, ing company and in concert advertising. Richard’s loving family includes his Shas. his brother Nathan and his sister Nancy. Rapp wrote two popular songs that were wife of 40 years, Sybil Wanderman- She is survived by her husband Vic- He is survived by his mother Marilyn, his recorded by Barry Sadler and the Green Rapp; his children Sue Ellen Rapp and tor Bonin, her children, Eric Bonin, brother Stephen (Rebecca), his sister Caryn Berets and Ed Ames. Lorraine Rapp (Dr. Jeffrey Kirshner); Sheri (Paul) Caja and Scott (Crista) (Randy), nephews Tyler and Josh and niece Rapp was active in the Queens Demo- Sybil’s children Brooke, Todd and Drew; Bonin; her cousin Lois Belavsky, and Alexis, along with lots of cousins. cratic party, was involved in many suc- his grandchildren David, Laine (Brian), several nieces and nephews. A celebration of Ken’s life will be later cessful election campaigns, and worked Garrett, Skye, Reed and Cayla; and his Private services and burial were this summer. Contributions in Ken’s mem- for New York State Assemblywoman Ann great-granddaughter Averi. conducted in Syracuse. Contributions ory can be made to The Vet Hunters Proj- Carrozza for ten years. He was a devoted Donations in his memory may be should be made to the local ASPCA or ect: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme2/ member of The Ethical Humanist Soci- made to The Ethical Humanist Society, your charity of choice. vethuntersproject ety of Long Island in Garden City, NY, 38 Old Country Road, Garden City, NY Birnbaum Funeral Service Sisskind Funeral Service and served as its president for many 11530. years. He was the author of several books Sisskind Funeral Service

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