Forward Thinking Can Help Parents Deal with Cancer Dear Abby: I’M Writing in to Cherish from Her
Page 6B East Oregonian COFFEE BREAK Thursday, August 13, 2015 PEANUTS BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ DEAR ABBY Forward thinking can help parents deal with cancer Dear Abby: I’m writing in to cherish from her. response to “Not Talking About the “Not Talking’s” wife may want to Future” (March 24), whose wife has consider doing some of these things. breast cancer, was told she has only a I send her, and everyone else dealing FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON few years to live, and feels sad when with cancer, a prayer of peace. — her kids talk about their futures. My Proud Daughter, Vancouver, Wash. dad was diagnosed with stage four Dear Abby: I was 13 when my multiple myeloma, a type of blood father found out he had cancer. I cancer, in 2006. He was told that even Jeanne didn’t know what it was, and no one the most aggressive treatment would Phillips in my family sat me down and told buy him only two or three more years. Advice me he was going to die. He passed Well, he’s now working on year nine. away at a hospital out of town, and I While I must admit that it’s been wasn’t there when it happened. When hard at times for me to stay positive about I was told, I was heartbroken. his prognosis, I try not to let it show. Instead, Now, as an adult, I am crushed that I every chance I get, I talk about the future with wasn’t able to have the conversations with him — holiday plans, plans for my wedding him I needed — about his boyhood, grand- B.C.
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