Marylanders Celebrate as House OUT February 24, 2012 | Volume IX Issue 21 Okays Marriage Bill

Baltimore BY PHIL REESE Washington Blade County Passes Annapolis – A jubilant crowd erupt- ed into cheers outside the House of Transgender Delegates chambers Friday night, as news broke that lawmakers had ap- Protections proved the Civil Marriage Protection BY CATHY BRENNAN Act in a close 72-67 vote. Baltimore County became the fourth local The dramatic outcome – the bill jurisdiction in Maryland to adopt legisla- passed by two votes, triggering a tion to ban discrimination based on “gen- raucous cheer in the chambers – fol- der identity” Tuesday night, as the County lowed an emotional debate over the Council voted along party lines 5-to-2 to measure that would extend mar- approve the measure sponsored by Ca- riage rights to same-sex couples in tonsville Democrat Tom Quirk. the Free State. The bill now goes to Bill 3-12 – which also bans discrimina- the Senate, which passed a similar tion based on sexual orientation – provides measure last year, and is expected to a cause of action if an individual faces dis- vote on the bill in the coming weeks. crimination based on “gender identity or Gov. Martin O’Malley has made expression,” defined as a “gender-related the bill a priority and testified in fa- identity or appearance… regardless of… vor of it at a House committee hear- assigned sex at birth.” ing. Assuming the Senate passes it —continued on page 3 as expected and O’Malley signs as promised, opponents would have until May 31 to collect 55,736 valid signatures to qualify a measure for the November ballot that would strike Roberta Flack Lets it Be(atles) down the law. distinctive mark on a dozen Beatles to express an ageless attitude of a woman “I didn’t do anything, we all did it,” classics, renewing and refreshing who loves another person. So we went with Del. Luke Clippinger (D-Baltimore) them in ways that only Roberta Flack almost a Brazilian feel. As a matter of fact, I said after the historic vote. “And now could possibly do. I spoke with Ms. started at one time to do Portuguese lyrics. we’re sending this bill to Sen. Ma- Flack about her new album and her Trust me, Gregg, that’s a wonderful ques- daleno in the Senate, and we believe career in February 2012. tion. No one has asked me that. And that’s we’ll get this bill passed, and get it to Gregg Shapiro: With such a how I got to this little arrangement we did the governor’s desk, and he’ll sign it vast array of material from which for “And I Love Him” which I think is perfect. right away.” to choose, what was involved in GS: Looking back at your catalog of Clippinger became emotional as the process of selecting the Bea- studio albums, were you surprised to he rose to encourage his colleagues tles songs you included on Let It discover that you hadn’t included a Bea- to support extending marriage rights Be? tles cover on any of them until now? to himself, the six other openly gay Roberta Flack: I think there’s RF: I wasn’t surprised. You probably and lesbian delegates in the Maryland 1,088 or more and it wasn’t it easy. know that I came up through the clubs; a House, their colleague Sen. Richard BY GREGG SHAPIRO What was involved in the final selection was club in Washington, DC on Capitol Hill, Mr. Madaleno, and thousands of same- Still killing us softly more than 40 years my commitment to try to do something that Henry’s. I had artists in the audience at all sex couples throughout Maryland. since the release of her first album, Rober- I thought the songs deserved, their work times handing me songs and telling me “I ask you to vote ‘yes’ because ta Flack, who says she was sure that she deserved, in terms of my musicianship, about stuff that wasn’t even known by the the joy felt by two parents raising chil- “was going to be the first short black girl my musical abilities, and whatever musi- general public at that point. They would say, dren shouldn’t be overshadowed by from North Carolina to be applauded for her cal decisions I would make as being final. “Why don’t you sing a Spanish song? Here fear that the other parent might not knowledge and ability to play Scriabin,” has For instance, I have two versions of “And I I’ll give you the words to ‘Angelitos Negros.’” be able to care for that child in a time turned her attention to the Beatles. On Let Love Him.” The first one is strictly jazz, in Or they would say, “Bette Midler is doing this of crisis,” Clippinger proclaimed to his It Be (429), the diva who ruled the charts the sense that the melody is improvised. But song, why don’t you do that one?” I had that —continued on page 4 in the seventies and eighties, leaves her I felt when I said “And I Love Him” I wanted —continued on page 17 NEWS // LOCAL Area College Students Learning to ‘Bmore Proud’

BY STEVE CHARING Co-Publishers Jim Becker • Jim Williams Over 200 LGBT students representing at [email protected] least 10 Metropolitan Baltimore colleges Executive Editor and universities, convened at the Universi- Jim Becker ty of Maryland, Baltimore County (UMBC) [email protected] on Saturday, February 18. They gathered Managing Editor for the third annual Bmore Proud Intersec- Dana LaRocca [email protected] tions Conference whereby they participat- Production Director ed in breakout sessions covering a wide Bill Andriette range of topics, listened to presentations Sales Director by community leaders, such as Delegate Mary Taylor Mary Washington, who delivered the key- [email protected] note address, obtained related resource Leather Columnist materials, networked with other campus Rodney Burger LGBT individuals and organizations and Contributing Writers Shawn Bradley • Cathy Brennan • Terrence Brower • socialized with their peers. Steve Charing • Jeffrey Clagett • Jeffrey Clouser • Chuck Duncan This leadership summit, under the um- • Gerry Fisher • Eva Hersh MD • Sam Kunz • Jessica Lemmo • Jay Loane • Meredith Moise • Vann Mills • Colin Riley • brella organization the Bmore Proud Queer Gregg Shapiro • College Coalition, promotes awareness and education of queer issues on college Graphics campuses. The conference is the primary Joe Velasquez • Bob Wellington intercollegiate network and clearinghouse Cartoonist serving college and university students/ Bruce Garrett (www.brucegarrett.com) faculty/staff in the Baltimore-Metro LGBT Photographers community. Bruce Garrett • Jay W Photos • Justin Nixon Tami Jackson, a legally wed lesbian, is Web Editor Anja Saine an adult student attending CCBC-Essex. A Participants at the Bmore Proud Intersections Conference, February 18 [email protected] former vice president of the school’s Rain- Managed Web Services The Fusio Group bow Club who will be president this year, who helped him and others attending un- tity?,” “Why Catholics Support Marriage 866-322-7498, www.thefusiogroup.com is determined to enlighten CCBC-Essex on derstand the challenges of this important Equality,” and “BMore Safe.” National Advertising Rep transgender issues. step. During the Resource Fair there were Rivendell Media Margaret Barnett is a UMBC student. From a different perspective, Calla tables set up for such notable organiza- 908-232-2021 She told Baltimore OUTloud, “I want to Thompson is a member of the UMBC fac- tions as The Trevor Project, GLSEN Bal- Founders connect to my community on campus es- ulty who teaches visual arts and photog- timore, Planned Parenthood, New Ways Jim Becker • Joe Berg • Mike Chase • Lee Mooney (1959-2007) • Jim Williams pecially those who can’t come to meet- raphy. She was a presenter of the session Ministry, Black and White and Gay in ings.” “Considerations – Out and Teaching in the America, Chase Brexton, Moveable Feast Baltimore OUTloud Nick is a biology major at UMBC who University Setting.” She discussed “pass- and Baltimore OUTloud. PO Box 4887 Baltimore, MD 21211 is attending his first Bmore Proud event. ing or not passing,” dealing with support- During the keynote address, Del- 410-244-6780 www.baltimoreoutloud.com He had a personal reason for participat- ive and non-supportive colleagues, and egate Mary Washington, fresh off a vic- ing at the conference. “I want to learn a whether or not to censor oneself. tory on marriage equality in the House of Additional Information good way to come out to my parents,” he There were three groups of breakout Delegates the day before, presented her Baltimore OUTloud is published every other Friday by Pride Media, Ltd. in Baltimore, Maryland. Readers comments and explained. sessions that contained an eclectic choice “intersections” – being a woman, an Afri- unsolicited materials are welcomed and may be sent to: editor@ Nick chose a session headed by a of topics. They were interspersed among can-American, and a lesbian and the chal- baltimoreoutloud.com. All materials appearing in this newspaper panel consisting of five representatives three meals provided by event sponsors lenges she faced. are the property of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced without the written permission of the editor. of the PFLAG-Baltimore County chapter that included among others, several uni- She noted several key milestones for versities, and various campus organiza- minorities who were elected in the House tions. of Delegates throughout Maryland history. Breakout Session 1 featured such top- Del. Washington is the first open lesbian Westminster- ics as “1 Girl 5 Gays,” “The Resume – Your African-American to hold the post in Mary- 15 Second Chance to an Interview,” Tran- land. Carroll County Archy – Starting a Gendered Revolution,” Andrea Gibson, spoken-word poet and Chapter and “Queer Sex Ed 101,” a presentation by activist, performed readings in the eve- Chase Brexton Health Services. ning. The conference concluded with a

Some of the topics offered in Breakout drag show and dance party featuring Ju- The opinions expressed in Baltimore OUTloud are solely those of Session 2 were “Sexual Assault 101,” The jubee. the writers unless otherwise indicated and do not necessarily reflect Parents, Families, and Friends Trevor Lifeguard Workshop,” “QueerCore The previous two Bmore Proud con- the views of Pride Media, Ltd. of Lesbians and Gays – Behind the Music,” “Trans-Action,” and ferences took place at Towson University “Queer Minorities – Learning from the Past in 2010 and Johns Hopkins University in © 2011 – All rights reserved www.pflagwcc.org Chair of the Board of Trustees – Jim Becker and Moving Forward.” 2011. The venue for next year’s confer- President – Jim Williams MovinG EquaLity Forward Breakout Session 3 included “Out Loud ence has not yet been determined. t Secretary and Treasurer – Mike Chase Call us at 410-861-0488 and Proud! – Find Your Activist Path,” “Be- For more information on Bmore Proud, tween Women,” “What’s Your Queer Iden- visit Bmoreproud.org.

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Gov. O’Malley Addresses Lobby Day Rally BALTIMORE COUNTY PASSES TRANSGENDER PROTECTIONS the group’s Facebook page. – continued from front page The favorable vote of the legislation BY STEVE CHARING issue. There are thousands of Republicans comes less than a year after an attack on On February 13, Martin O’Malley became in Maryland who support the principles of Chrissy Polis at a McDonald’s in Rose- the first sitting Maryland governor to ap- freedom, liberty and equality.” Facing stiff opposition from religious dale, which advocates alleged occurred pear before the annual Lobby Day rally The governor was introduced to loud conservatives, the council amended the because of her gender identity. in Annapolis for LGBT rights. The event, cheers and chants of “O-Mal-ley!” “O-Mal- legislation to preserve “distinctly private Ann Miller, an opponent who was pres- which was held at Lawyer’s Mall, attracted ley!” “We are united in our belief in the dig- or personal” employee facilities and public ent the vote to film supporters, wrote in an a raucous diverse crowd in excess of 500 nity of every individual,” he stated. In speak- accommodations from coverage. An earlier op-ed that appeared in the Baltimore Ex- with many representing religious and po- ing about fairness, O’Malley argued, “It is not version of the amendment clarified that “dis- aminer that “people are gearing up for the litical organizations from all over Maryland. right that the children of lesbian and gay par- tinctly private or personal” referred to sex- possibility of the bill passing by preparing They cheered enthusi- segregated facilities like “restrooms, bath to petition the bill to referendum.… If pe- astically as several speak- houses, lockers rooms, dressing rooms, titioned, this will be the first county bill in ers made the case for and changing rooms and similar facilities,” but Baltimore County history to be petitioned demanded full equality for that clarifying language did not make the to referendum.” If successful, this refer- all of Maryland’s citizens. final version of the bill. The removal of the endum would appear on the ballot with an The crowd shouted ap- language from the bill will leave the issue expected referendum on marriage equality, proval at the news that of sex-segregated facilities open to inter- which will likely pass the Maryland General Washington Governor pretation by the agency that will enforce the Assembly later this year. Chris Gregoire signed law, the Baltimore County Human Relations Baltimore City, Montgomery County, marriage equality legisla- Commission, and the courts. and Howard County also have adopted this tion into law earlier in the Sharon Brackett, chair of the pro-gen- legislation. A bill pending in the General As- day. While gender iden- der identity organization Gender Rights sembly this year to provide similar remedies tity non-discrimination was Maryland, characterized the “personal at the state level based on gender identity urged during the rally, mar- and private exception [as] consistent with is not expected to progress this session. t riage equality was clearly Montgomery and Howard County [sic]” on the principal focus. Both Sultan Shakir, Gov. Martin O’Malley the campaign manager for photo: Steve Charing Marylanders for Marriage Equality – the umbrella organization consist- ents have lesser rights than the children of ing of a coalition of several progressive or- other parents.” The governor also indicated ganizations who is spearheading the effort to frustration with the animus from opponents. gain marriage equality in the state – and Car- “I had enough of the division.” rie Evans, the executive director of Equality As the crowd broke up to lobby their Maryland, were the event’s emcees. respective legislators on each of the two Speakers included Delegate Keiffer major LGBT legislative issues, the gover- Mitchell (D-Baltimore), Delegate Ben nor expressed cautious optimism concern- Barnes (D-Anne Arundel, Prince George’s), ing the votes in the House of Delegates. “I Candace Jones-Gingrich, and Senator Al- think we’re doing a little better this week lan Kittleman (R-Howard, Carroll). Sen. than we were last week, and we need to do Kittleman remains the sole Republican in better still,” O’Malley told Baltimore OUT- the Senate who is supporting the legaliza- loud. “We need to get a couple more.” tion of marriage for same-sex couples. “I’m Of course, on Friday, history was a proud Republican who supports marriage made as the bill passed the house by a equality,” Kittleman said. “It’s not a partisan vote of 72-67. t

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MARYLANDERS CELEBRATE and lesbian lawmakers – including Clipping- into effect from October to January. Another thankful, and I’ll be thankful for what I’ve AS HOUSE OKS MARRIAGE BILL er, who had been a driving force behind the would have changed “civil marriage” to “civil done today.” – continued from front page bill – became visibly emotional. unions,” in the law, a change that at least Bill co-sponsor Del. Nathaniel Oaks de- Alston offered the only amendment that four of those who eventually voted against scribed a feeling of relief after the bill’s pas- fellow legislators. “But more, I’m here tonight was accepted by the legislature earlier in the the bill said would have helped persuade sage, and that sentiment was echoed by to ask you to vote ‘yes,’ as I have before. Be- afternoon, which would ensure that the law them to support the measure, including for- almost every other supporter. cause I am here as a child of God, perfect in could not take effect until all legal challenges mer National Football League quarterback, Voting against the bill was Del. Sam my imperfections. Because I am here – not to the law and any possible referendum were Del. Jay Walker, who cited his fellow former Arora (D-Mont. Co.) who co-sponsored the less than any other person – but a full benefi- settled. However, according to the Maryland NFL player, gay defensive tackle Esera Tu- failed bill of two years ago, and had in 2010 ciary to all of God’s infinite love, just as each Constitution, a law cannot take effect until aolo in his remarks. campaigned on a platform that he would and every person is. Because I am here as a any referendum challenge has been settled Another rejected amendment would support same-sex marriage. Marylander.” in any case, meaning the Alston amendment have changed the legal age of consent for “We feel betrayed,” said progressive ac- The final floor speech before the close merely restated existing state law. same-sex marriage to 18, and a fourth would tivist Karl Frisch, who said that he supported vote was delivered by Del. Tiffany Alston, Supporters of same-sex marriage were have allowed parents to opt their children his friend Sam Arora during his election, who angered many LGBT advocates in happy to back Alston’s amendment if it out of same-sex marriage related curriculum and said he speaks for many of Arora’s for- 2011 when she pulled her support for the meant comfort to those lawmakers hesitant that they found offensive, which lesbian Del. mer friends. “This is about family and doing bill. Alston spoke to the delegates about the to support the bill before them because they Anne Kaiser argued the law already allows. what’s right.” difficulty she had coming to her decision to feared a referendum would be blocked. During the floor speeches Friday night, “I have a friend who bought a house in once again support gender neutral marriage “We talked about it as a possibility yes- Del. Maggie McIntosh (D-Baltimore) gave a Maryland – not far from his district – and they in Maryland. terday, and we were putting things in play to moving speech about making history in 2001 regret not buying the house in his district so “I can say that my religion still tells me see if it would work,” Mizeur said. “By this when she came out as a lesbian to her fellow they would be able to vote against him in the that marriage is between a man and a wom- morning, I was told 50/50, and we didn’t ex- lawmakers the same year that the House next election,” Frisch said. “I hope he has an,” Alston said in a shaking voice, clearly actly know for sure when we were heading voted to enact a non-discrimination law cov- trouble sleeping at night with the shame on emotional. “And I can tell you I still believe into the floor. It was that close.” ering gays and lesbians in employment. his conscience.” it’s OK for people of the same sex to get The bill’s supporters were grateful for “In 2001, I became legal,” McIntosh said Another damper on last night’s celebra- married. But what I know, is that as a state Alston’s vote, as her change of heart in of the vote, calling it a great moment in his- tions was the looming prospect of referen- it’s time for us to move beyond this issue.” March 2011 elicited a backlash from many in tory. dum. “Today, I’m going to cast a green vote in the LGBT community. Throughout the floor speeches, many of “We know there’s people probably out support of the bill.” Alston adding, noting that Of the other amendments that the del- the opponents of the same-sex marriage bill there right now with their petitions gathering she supports a referendum on the issue. egates passed on was a measure that would began to move on from discussing the im- signatures,” said Lisa Polyak, chair of the Upon her proclamation, many of the gay have changed the date that the law went pending vote, to instead rallying for the ex- Equality Maryland board of directors. “We pected ballot referendum, indicating that at have a strategy that we’ve already been least some of the opponents were expecting working on for months now about how we’re the bill to pass. going to 50 plus 1, but we’ll worry about that Baltimore City Health Department “It ain’t over ’til it’s over,” Del. Emmett tomorrow. Tonight we’re going to celebrate.” Burns told the legislature, referring to the On the subject of a referendum threat, HIV Care Linkage Program referendum, and insisting the voters must Clippinger said he is confident that same- have their say. “The battle is not over. Same- sex couples in Maryland will see victory Are you or someone you know in need sex marriage no!” there too. Many of the opponents referred to a le- “We are going to win. The only people of HIV Primary Medical Care and gal fight over an immigration-related refer- that are going to keep us from winning are Case Management Services? endum that opponents attempted to block in those who doubt that we can.” Maryland. A judge has recently allowed that HIV is NOT a death sentence; care management can “Today, the House of Delegates voted for referendum to move forward. Referendum human dignity,” Gov. Martin O’Malley said in prolong your life and improve your health. Take supporters wanted to be assured that there a statement. “Speaker Busch and his fellow charge of your life, get life saving treatments. would be no impediments to giving Maryland delegates deserve a lot of credit for their The Baltimore City Health Department, HIV Care Linkage voters an opportunity to overturn marriage, hard work. At its heart, their vote was a vote Team can help should it pass the Senate. for Maryland’s children.” In contrast to the opposition, many He continued, “There is still work to be We offer LGBT allies in the legislature stood up to done and marriage equality has not yet been • Care Linkage services to quality medical care providers encourage their colleagues to do what they achieved in Maryland. Wherever we happen believed was right, with Baltimore Del. Kei- to stand on the marriage equality issue, we • Same-day appointments ffer Mitchell, Jr. calling LGBT rights “the civil can agree that all our children deserve the • Referral & Transportation services to first & 2nd appointments rights issue of our generation.” opportunity to live in a loving, caring, com- • Free gift for enrolling “I will not vote to deny individuals ac- mitted, and stable home, protected equally cess to the same legal rights and respon- under the law.” Services offered to insured and uninsured clients sibilities that are given to me and my wife “We could not be more grateful to the Care Linkage Team: by the state,” said Del. John A. Olszewski, delegates who today voted to make all Mary- Jr., who said he supported religious pro- land families stronger,” said Joe Solmonese, Kevin Coger: 410-948-2593 visions that allow faith communities to president of the Human Rights Campaign. Orline Johnson: 410-627-5083 make their own decisions about which “Today, we took a giant step toward mar- Rodrique Sumpter: 410-627-8374 marriages to peform. “As I think about one riage equality becoming law – and we are day when my wife and I look back on our in this position due to the unwavering lead- Sheridan Johnson: 443-564-2007 time with our kids when they’re reaching ership and resolve of Governor O’Malley, [the marrying age], I know that they’ll be Speaker Busch and our legislative allies.” t 4 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM NEWS // LOCAL Paul Schurick Gets no Jail Time for Immigrants Threatened Deceiving African American Voters By Feds in Baltimore

Former Maryland governor Robert L. Eh- needs to serve as a message to anyone who BY DANA LAROCCA families in our community, by separating rlich Jr.’s campaign manager was sen- would interfere with any person’s opportunity February 22, under the shadow of Balti- families. tenced to home detention, community to vote, that it is absolutely unacceptable.” more’s Central Booking, the Archdiocese Jerald Sansbury, president of the service, and a four years probation for of Baltimore and the NAACP stood firmly Maryland State Conference of the NAACP election fraud for which he was found behind Casa de Maryland denouncing the said that the Maryland state conference guilty last December. Maryland DREAM Act fact that Baltimore city has been forced to has had a long-standing policy against The case stemmed from a series of ro- participate in the federal “Secure Commu- racial profiling. “Maryland has a rich his- bocalls to African American neighborhoods Referendum Upheld nities” program. tory in defense of during the last general election that said The Secure civil rights and the that O’Malley had already won and that On February 18, Anne Arundel County Communities pro- NAACP opposes voters should just relax, “the only thing left Circuit Judge Ronald Silkworth ruled in fa- gram was originally the imposition of to do is watch it on TV tonight,” the mes- vor of allowing the Maryland DREAM Act launched by the any federal program to be placed on a Immigration and that will open the referendum in No- Customs Enforce- door for racial pro- vember. The bill, ment agency (ICE) filing and civil rights passed last year, purportedly to “fight abuses of people of will allow the chil- terrorism and ap- color in our commu- dren of undocu- prehend danger- nity,” he said mented aliens to ous criminals. Since Lisa O’Reilly pay in-state tuition that time it has been Pastoral Associ- at Maryland Com- used, according to ate for St Antho- munity Colleges, The Maryland Com- ny’s Most Precious provided that their mission on Fam- Blood and St. Domi- parents had paid ily Unity, ICE later nic’s parish said Maryland Income “admitted that the that because she is taxes for a speci- agency has a goal of Irish, she is not like- fied number of 400,000 annual de- ly to be picked up. years. The bill also portations and fully She said she was included a provi- intends to deport in- proud to speak up sion extending the dividuals who do not for people who are sage said, with no indication that the mes- length of time an honorably discharged pose any threat to afraid to walk the sage was sent by the Ehrlich campaign at veteran may obtain in-state tuition. the public in order to streets who “by the the end of the message. Largely an on-line petition derived the meet their quota….” very nature of the The Washington Post reports that Bal- petition for referendum for this bill. Last Baltimore’s Cen- color of their skin or timore City Circuit Court Judge Lawrence July the Washington Post reported, “Con- tral Booking processes from 65,000 to by the very nature of what they do they get P. Fletcher-Hill, “could have sentenced servatives owe part of their success to a 85,000 persons per year, making it the chosen to get picked up.” Schurick to as much as 12 years in prison, first-of-its kind online tool used to connect busiest intake facility run by the State of An official statement from Mayor Steph- said he was moved by more than 130 let- with like-minded opponents and to avoid Maryland. Many of the arrestees are never anie Rawlings Blake said, “I am extremely ters from prominent Republicans, Demo- the clerical errors that routinely doom sig- charged with a crime, but once their finger- disheartened by this recent decision to im- crats, church leaders, community activists nature-gathering drives in Maryland.” prints are taken, under the Secure Com- plement the program in Baltimore and the and others who wrote on Schurick’s behalf The plaintiffs argued that because the munities program, they are sent to ICE and manner in which it is being carried out.” In seeking leniency.” Dream Act was an appropriations bill it the FBI. June of last year, the City Council passed Judge Fletcher-Hill said, “This case should not be subject to a referendum. t Father Ty Fullinger, of St. Dominic’s a Resolution stating, “The City Council of and St. Anthony of Padua Most Precious Baltimore is concerned that participation Blood churches said in reference to the in the Secure Communities Initiative will fasting of Ash Wednesday, “this is the fast- create divisions in our communities, pro- LGBT Weddings & Ceremonies ing I wish, releasing those bound unjustly, mote a culture of fear, and discourage trust untying the bonds of the yoke, setting free between local law enforcement and immi- Full Service Event Coordinator the oppressed,” the crowd of immigrants grant communities throughout the city.” and allies standing behind him were at- The city was given only a one-week CaTerinG tentive. He suggested that Baltimoreans warning that the initiative would be acti- would be compelled to live in shadows and vated in Baltimore. “As the program hits fearful of being participants in the commu- Maryland’s most heavily Immigrant County FLoWers nity. as well as a City that has openly pledged Maria Johnson, Director of Hispanic to attract new immigrant residents, an ex- MusiC Ministries for the Archdioceses of Balti- plosion in transfers is expected undermin- more, spoke to convey on behalf of the ing work in both jurisdictions to gain the archdiocese and of Archbishop O’Brien trust of immigrants,” according to a press Everything you will need for YOUR Special Day. Call for a FREE Consultation 240-605-2912 to convey their opposition to the program. release from Susan Flores of Casa de She said that this initiative would damage Maryland. t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 5 NEWS BEYOND THE BELTWAY

compiled by Jim Becker lieutenant governor, is behind in his bid New Jersey Marriage Bill Defeated by Veto to unseat Rep. John Tierney (D-Mass.), LGBTers running but still has sizable funds. This story was tradition of tolerance and fairness.” Sen- BY DANA LAROCCA originally published by The Washington ate Majority Leader Loretta Weinberg said, for Congress On February 16, New Jersey became the Blade and is reprinted here with permis- “Civil unions have already proven to be third state in America to pass a marriage raising funds sion. (Washington Blade – Chris Johnson a failure and no ombudsman can change equality bill. The Assembly passed the bill at Washingtonblade.com) 42 to 33, following Monday’s passage in the that.” Washington, D.C. – Gay and Lesbian Senate 24 to 16. The next day, as prom- Steven Goldstein wrote, “A civil union candidates for the U.S. House and Sen- ised, New Jersey Governor Chris Christie ombudsman might well be the country’s ate are competitive with – and in some Romney contributes vetoed the bill that the Senate had first-ever Enforcer of Dis- cases besting – their straight opponents passed on the previous day. crimination – and worse. when it comes to raising money. Fundrais- to anti-gay causes Christie said, “I am adhering to A civil union ombudsman ing numbers for the fourth quarter of 2011 what I’ve said since this bill was is nothing more than the and the year in total became public earlier Boston, MA – Presidential candidate first introduced, an issue of this shameless dressing up of a this month after candidates submitted their Mitt Romney’s charitable foundation gave magnitude and importance, which veto of people’s dignity and campaign filings in accordance with fed- $35,000 to antigay groups in 2010, includ- requires a constitutional amend- equality – the equivalent of eral election law. ing $10,000 to the Massachusetts Family ment, should be left to the people gold-plating a separate water Rep. Tammy Baldwin, who’s seeking to Institute, his of New Jersey to decide.” Chris- fountain for a specific class become the first openly gay U.S. senator, tax returns tie continued his stance that mar- Not a road to of people.” made a particularly impressive showing show. Mas- riage equality should be put to the marriage Similar to the Maryland in the final quarter in her bid to represent s a c h u s e t t s ’ voters to decide. bill, now before the legisla- Wisconsin in the Senate by taking in $1.16 citizens are “The Governor keeps calling for a ref- ture, the New Jersey bill would not require million. The fourth quarter haul means the familiar with erendum, which everyone knows will nev- churches to perform same-sex marriages Democrat and seven-term House member the Institute’s er happen in New Jersey. To borrow the or use church property for same-sex mar- raised $2.5 million last year for her Sen- efforts to con- Governor’s words, it’s time for him to stop riages. ate campaign. Republican candidates in tinue discrimi- Mitt Romney engaging in political theater. Our lives are The legislature has until the end of the the race don’t come close to Baldwin in nation against not La Cage Aux Folles,” declared Steven 2014 legislative session to override Chris- fundraising. Former Wisconsin Gov. Tom- the transgen- Goldstein, chair of Garden State Equality. tie’s veto. my Thompson raised $657,000 and has der community by running ads claiming He said that he includes in his veto the Lawmakers in New Jersey have until $544,000 in cash on hand. Former con- that the passage of the Trans rights bill creation of “a strong ombudsman for civil the end of the legislative session in Janu- gressman and gubernatorial candidate would lead to crime in public bathrooms. t unions to carry on New Jersey’s strong ary 2014 to override the veto. Mark Neu- The Massachusetts Family Institute is also mann raised the organization that sponsored the 2007 $826,000 and anti-same-sex marriage amendment. has $552,000 CNN has detailed reports on Rom- THE LAST HURRAH in cash on ney’s charitable giving and notes that hand. $25,000 from Romney’s foundation went Elsewhere, to the Becket Fund for Religious Liberty. D e m o c r a t The Becket Fund defended the Mormon Mark Takano, Mark Takano Church against lawsuits after the church’s a gay public involvement in financially backing Califor- school teacher nia’s Proposition 8 was revealed. and member of the Riverside Community The contributions are in stark contrast College District’s Board of Trustees, is to the face Romney’s presents during de- also on top in fundraising for the race to bates and campaign stops. Romney has represent California’s newly created 41st repeatedly stated that he will not discrimi- congressional district – although by a nate. (Bay Windows – Baywindows.com) much slimmer margin. Rep. David Cicil- [Nothing surprising here, the man is a cha- line, whom many thought would face a meleon utterly lacking in principles. J.B.] tough re-election campaign because of his unpopularity in the polls, is also outraising his Republican opponents and faces no Sperm is sacred Democratic challenger. Other gay candi- amendment added dates aren’t ahead in fundraising, but are still doing well enough to remain competi- to parenthood bill tive in their races. Democrat Mark Pocan, a gay member of the State Assembly seek- Oklahoma City, OK – Undaunted by the ing the U.S. House seat Baldwin is vacating monumental failure of Personhood USA’s at the end of the year, has raised $274,000 push to declare fertilized human eggs ex- Romney supporter, New Jersey Gov. Chris and has $204,000 in cash on hand. But it’s actly the same as grown ass adults in Mis- less money than David Worzala, another sissippi, conservatives in Oklahoma have Christie swiftly vetoed the gay marriage bill Democrat and the Dane County Treasurer. pushed forward with their own Personhood In Massachusetts, gay Republican Richard Bill. But one outraged Democratic lawmak- credit: Bob Tisei, a former member of the Massachu- er isn’t having it, and she finds the whole Wellington passed by the N.J. Legislature. setts Legislature and former candidate for thing so absurd that she tacked on an 6 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM BEYOND THE BELTWAY amendment of her own that would outlaw undisguised prejudice inflicted upon two weighs her; asks her about her smoking; the spilling of semen in any location other gay men.” They were walking home from Amendment to screens her for depression and examines than a woman’s vagina. Johnny Malloy’s with their friend Brittany Houston charter for her tongue, which has been bothering Pro Choice State Senator Constance Komes on April 2, 2011 when they got into her for weeks. Johnson of Oklahoma City was pushed an argument over a text Jonathan sent to a gay rights Then Klein looks at the electronic over the edge by the introduction of Sen- friend. Ondo went to sit on their landlord’s medical record (EMR) on her monitor ate Bill 1433. The bill sought to define hu- back porch. Simcox and Komes did not Houston, TX – Plans to place a city- and grins: “The system says you need man life as beginning at the moment of know where he had gone, so Simcox start- wide non-discrimination policy before a pap smear says Klein. “But we know conception, before it’s even implanted in ed calling for him. According to the suit a Houston voters became public this week. you don’t.” Helen is a regular patient the womb, and offers full legal protection to man who lived nearby came barreling to- Since December a coalition of organiza- at Boston Health Care for the Home- those tiny multi-celled lumps. In the words wards Simcox, saying, “Shut up, you fag- tions and leaders have been working to less Program’s (BHCHP) transgender of the bill, “the unborn child at every stage got. This is my block.” The neighbor turned draft a city charter amendment that would clinic. of development (has) all the rights, privi- out to be an off duty cop. According to the make it illegal to discriminate in housing, Every Thursday evening, the clinic leges, and im- suit when Simcox tried to push him out of employment or public accommodations on provides primary and urgent care servic- m u n i t i e s the way, the man punched him. He later the basis of “age, race, color, creed, reli- es to Boston’s homeless and marginally available to allegedly assaulted Ondo and Komes. The gion, national origin, ancestry, disability, housed transgender community. other per- police were called and arrested Ondo and marital status, gender, gender identity or The clinic also offers patients behav- sons, citizens, Simcox. They spent 3 days in jail, were re- expression, sexual orientation, or physi- ioral health and case management ser- and residents leased after charges were dropped, only to cal characteristic.” The amendment would vices; a weekly facilitated support group; of this state.” be arrested a week later in a 5:30 a.m. raid also remove anti-LGBT language added a monthly legal clinic provided by Massa- Johnson sub- on their home. This time the charges were to the Houston city charter in 1985 and mitted an assaulting a police officer. As the cops took 2001 – which could allow the City Council amendment of her own to the bill, which them into custody, they refused to let them to vote to offer health benefits to the do- would have added the language; however, wear pants. “Faggots don’t get to wear mestic partners of municipal employees. any action in which a man ejaculates or pants in jail,” the cops allegedly stated. Houston Mayor Annise Parker, who otherwise deposits semen anywhere but in At trial, Ondo famously became the only out LGBT per- a woman’s vagina shall be interpreted and and Simcox son elected mayor of a major American construed as an action against an unborn were found city in 2009, has declined to comment child. That means no masturbating. No wet not guilty of all on the proposed charter amendment dreaming. No blow jobs or facials or pull- charges. until the language is finalized. She told ing out and coming on your lady’s stom- The lawsuit the Houston Chronicle: “I believe it’s im- ach, dudes. No gay sex, unless a vagina’s cites numer- portant for the city of Houston to send around to catch the precious seed. ous grounds a signal to the world that we welcome chusetts Transgender Legal Advocates; The State Senator later willingly with- for the suit, everybody and that we treat everybody HIV testing and counseling; and smoking drew the amendment, telling her col- Jonathan Simcox including viola- equally, and depending on the elements cessation counseling. leagues that she had introduced it to high- and Steven Ondo tion of equal of what was actually in it, I might or might Klein came to BHCHP from San Fran- light the ridiculous sexism inherent in a protection con- not support it,” cisco where she had worked in the trans- Personhood Law that would force women stitutional clauses, cruel and unusual pun- According to Equality Texas Executive gender clinic run by the Department of to be pregnant. (Jezebel.com – Erin Glo- ishment, false imprisonment, intentional in- Director Dennis Coleman, the prospect Public Health. ria Ryan at http://jezebel.com/5883026/ fliction of emotional distress and assault. It of Houston voters approving the non- She proposed a transgender-specific brilliant-democratic-state-senator-tacks- also accuses officers of making “false and discrimination amendment has ramifica- clinic and the clinic opened in 2008. Klein every-sperm-is-sacred-clause-to-oklaho- perjured statements” to gain the warrant tions for efforts to pass similar measures and her colleagues have worked hard to mas-personhood-bill) the produced the second, 5:30 am arrest. in the state Legislature. “Nondiscrimina- make the clinic welcoming and sensitive Their off-duty neighbor is named as one of tion in Houston builds a better case for to its patients’ needs. the defendants, along with the city and six us when we go for nondiscrimination in Restrooms are unisex, so no one is Men sue Cleveland other officers, along with 20 unnamed male Austin,” said Coleman. “To be able to tell forced to make potentially awkward de- and female police department and jail em- representatives that they represent ar- cisions about which bathroom to use. and police for ployees. (Gay People’s Chronicle – Anthony eas that already support these efforts is The early evening hours are designed Glassman at Gaypeopleschronicle.com) very helpful.” The cities of Austin, Dallas to accommodate people who may not be anti-gay assault and Fort Worth all already have similar comfortable in a waiting room during the nondiscrimination ordinances and offer daytime. Cleveland, OH – Two gay men are suing DP benefits to employees. (Dallas Voice Patients are referred to by the name the city of Cleveland and 27 police officers These news notes have been compiled, – Daniel Williams at Dallasvoice.com) they prefer, which may sometimes differ after being assaulted, humiliated and tar- with permission, from the online version from their legal name. geted with anti-gay epithets on two sepa- of various newspapers and other web Staff members have received special- rate occasions last April, including being sites. We thank these publications for Boston homeless ized training in transgender care – they taken to Cuyahoga County Jail without be- allowing us to bring you their news sto- clinic runs trans are savvy not only about the clinical is- ing allowed to put on pants. Officers with a ries. Usually the reports have been sig- sues, but the psychosocial ones as well. SWAT or warrant team that burst into their nificantly edited and you can read the health service Patient Maria Roman says that one apartment house told them, “Faggots don’t full story by going to the web site men- important aspect of the clinic is that pa- get to wear pants to jail,” according to the tioned following the item. Comments Boston, MA – In most ways, Helen’s ap- tients are able to establish trusting rela- complaint. are strictly the opinions of Jim Becker pointment with nurse Pam Klein resem- tionships with their caregivers. t (Bay Steven Ondo and Jonathan Simcox and not of Baltimore OUTloud or Pride bles any other check-in with a healthcare Windows – Vicki Ritterband at Baywin- filed a federal civil rights suit on Janu- Media. provider. Klein takes her vital signs and dows.com) ary 18 which cites “excessive force and BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 7 NEWS // FROM THE KEYSTONE STATE Cheltenham Becomes 27th More PA Mayors Join PA City to Ban Discrimination Marriage Equality Campaign Harrisburg, PA – On February 16, com- cluding the NAACP, League of Women Harrisburg – Following the national launch ness. “All adults have the capacity to love,” missioners in Cheltenham Township, Voters, United Church of Christ, Re- of the Mayors for Marriage Equality cam- she said. Macungie Mayor Rick Hoffman Montgomery County, took the bold step of form Congregation Keneseth Israel, paign, three Pennsylvania mayors joined echoed a similar sentiment “The govern- banning discrimination in housing, employ- PFLAG and the Cheltenham Demo- the call. Four more mayors have decided ment has no right to stand in the way of ment, and public accommodation today – crats, who all supported the ordinances. to join those original three. The mayors of consenting adults wishing to marry.” Mayor becoming the 27th municipality in the state Equality Pennsylvania collaborated with Doylestown, Easton, Macungie, and Read- Sal Panto of Easton last year signed a to do so. CARE and worked diligently with the com- ing have joined the domestic partner The ordinance was introduced by Com- missioners in preparation for the vote. Mayors of Bethlehem, benefits ordi- missioner Kathy Hamp- EQPA President Adri- Erie, and Philadelphia nance into law ton, and the final votes an Shanker, attended in supporting full civil- and previously was months in the works. to provide testimony marriage rights for stated his sup- “Today is a great day for and stated, “The ma- the LGBT community. port for marriage Cheltenham Township,” jority of Pennsylva- “As with other mayors equality. Joining said Dr. David Flaks, a nians, to the tune of from cities around the this national ef- steering team member of 70%, support laws to country, I stand togeth- fort, Panto said, Cheltenham Area Resi- protect people from er with them in support “No government dents for Equality (CARE). discrimination. This of same-sex couples to marry,” said Read- has the right to tell its citizens who they “The commissioners have isn’t controversial ing’s mayor, Vaughn Spencer, announcing can marry.” A majority of Pennsylvanians made it very clear that and this isn’t parti- his support for marriage equality. Mac- support marriage equality, according to Cheltenham Township will protect its LGBT san. This is good, common sense, policy ungie mayor, Rick Hoffman, commented, Ted Martin, executive director of Equality residents even while our state continues to that will serve Cheltenham well.” “I am proud to be a part of this national Pennsylvania. “We applaud these seven condone second-class citizenship.” Now the commissioners will be appoint- effort to win equal rights for everyone.” mayors for standing up for equal relation- Flaks thanked Commissioner Kathy ing volunteers to serve on the soon-to-be- “This is more proof for anyone who still ship recognition for Pennsylvanians, they Hampton who tirelessly championed formed Human Relations Commission, and needs it that our basic rights are re- are doing the right thing and I hope other the ordinance, the Township solicitor interested persons should contact the of- ally not that controversial” said Adrian mayors follow in their footsteps.” Martin and manager and community allies in- fice of the township manager. t Shanker, president of Equality Pennsyl- said. vania, “With Pennsylvania mayors jump- Equality Pennsylvania, a member of the ing on the marriage-equality train, cou- Equality Federation, is the statewide voice pled with polling demonstrating majority for LGBT equality and works to establish support for marriage equality, it is only a a comprehensive network of individuals matter of time before our legislature will and organizations united in securing equal have to catch up with the rest of Pennsyl- rights for the LGBT community. For more vania and provide equal rights for us all.” information browse to Equalitypa.org. t Last week, Freedom to Marry an- nounced that 100 mayors, including those of Bos- ton, Chicago, New York, San Diego, Houston, and Los Angeles, were launch- ing a national effort called Mayors for Marriage Equal- ity. Initially three Check out mayors from Penn- sylvania signed on: the new Mayor Callahan of Bethlehem, Mayor Keystone State Sinnott of Erie, and Mayor Nutter coverage! of Philadelphia. Joining them Add your ad this week are Mayors White of and story here Doylestown, Hoff- man of Macungie, Panto of Easton, and Spencer of Reading. 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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 9 Unlike the “Americans” whose wealth had been in securities, Tony’s wealth came from hard work. The Anthony C. LaRocca Foundation held their annual receptions at the Waldorf Astoria attended by Mayor Jimmy Walker and other notable figures. Charitable giv- ing had become the way in which this Ital- ian-Mexican immigrant family unpacked their privilege. Unpack Your Every American family has a history that includes ancestors who either came Privilege here to pursue the American Dream of an- cestors who sought it after their freedom Some of our ancestors came to America to was secured. Today, the Maryland DREAM escape religious persecution, others came Act is threatened by referendum and Mary- with the dream of escaping poverty, many landers who are targeted by racial profiling came against their will, in chains. Regard- risk the separation of their families through less of the circumstances of our ancestors’ the Secure Communities program, making immigration, most of us would say that it is the dreams made possible for ourselves, a privilege to be an American. unavailable to them. The rich fabric of multicultural diversity “An organized anti-immigrant effort is has sometimes divided us, as during the underway across the nation, and we’ll like- Civil War and the century later civil rights movement. Nevertheless, we seem to pull “Every American it back together after each great struggle. Maria Golindo’s family was murdered family has a history during the Mexican revolution. Richard Harding-Davis, an American war corre- that includes ancestors spondent, brought the orphaned child back who either came here to New York and cared for her. Harding- Davis lived a life of privilege and wealth. to pursue the American So, too, did the undocumented child, Ma- ria. Dream of ancestors who There is some question as to whether sought it after their Tony LaRocca was born in Umbria or, as some say, he was born on the boat, on the freedom was secured.” journey from Italy. His newspaper career wasn’t as glamorous as Harding-Davis’s. ly see more of this type of harassment in Tony was a paperboy. That didn’t appeal the coming months from FAIR [Federation to him very much and the pay wasn’t very for American Immigration Reform] and its good either. So he did the work that was operatives. Our focus will remain on serv- available for immigrants, the work that ing the diverse communities in Maryland “Americans” found demeaning. He shov- and advocating for the social, political, and eled snow in the winter and dug ditches in economic justice for all low-income communi- the warmer months. It turns out that Tony ties,” according to Casa de Maryland. was a darn good ditch digger. By the ripe As LGBT Marylanders, it is our duty to old age of 26 he made stand behind other oppressed his first millions, build- minorities since we share the ing the subways of common threads of discrimina- New York. tion and intolerance. Our Mayor, Maria and Tony Stephanie Rawlings-Blake, the married, the had two Catholic community, and the fine homes in the city, NAACP, have asserted the dig- and a country home nity of immigrants. Let’s work in Pelham Manor, in in solidarity with our Hispanic Westchester County. neighbors and fight for human LaRocca construc- rights for all people. Our Hispanic tion employed many neighbors are workers, they pay of the men, who just taxes, they raise families, and like Tony in his youth, they deserve to be treated with could not find work dignity and respect. They are better than ditch dig- not criminals. They deserve the ging. After the crash same chance that Tony and Ma- of ’29 he continued to ria had to help make the world a support many of them. better place. t 10 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM selves and their history, they would value make others – especially males – feel com- themselves and uncover greatness. Negro fortable and to not credit our own opinions. History Week was about waking people up This is part of the reason why girlhood is to their potential by reminding them of the Ladybug’s significant. We as females have a common greatness of their ancestors. Let’s remem- Political experience shaped not only by our biology, Crossroads ber that the concept of teaching black his- Smackdown but by our shared experience of how we are Chronicles tory was certainly not en vogue when Dr. socialized to be subservient. As a lesbian, Rev. Mother Meredith Moise Woodson began this journey of self-knowl- Cathy Brennan I – like other lesbians – fail on the “making edge. (For more info on Dr. Woodson, go to males comfortable” front in part because Wikipedia: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/ I am not sexually available to them. I still, Carter_G._Woodson.) Gayhood though, had been willing to credit – subcon- The Stone 2) Black history is world history. I am sciously – the opinions of males over my often surprised that people, black and white, is Significant own. As a gay Activist, I was able to quell that the Builders do not realize that black history has global the cognitive dissonance I sometimes expe- context. Besides scientific findings that the rienced when engaging in political work with human race has its origin on the African As I have mentioned in the pages of Balti- my gay Brothers because, well, we were all Refused: continent, people of African descent can more OUTLoud before, I attended a Jesuit gay – we shared the common experience Why Black History Month? be found on every continent on this planet. university in New York City in the late 1980s of same-sex attraction and desire. As I got Despite every attempt to marginalize and and early 1990s. Although my university se- older, though, and more Late-Transitioning minimize the contributions of African people lection plagued me somewhat at the time, Heterosexual males decided to become I have read a couple of articles decrying to the history of humanity, archaeologists, I recognize, on reflection, that the school “lesbians,” I felt less and less comfortable Black History Month. Some say that Black historians and researchers are uncover- perfectly prepared me for a life of advocacy and willing engaging in advocacy in the History Month represents division in our na- ing an unbridled body of evidence which in the GLBT community. Located in the city, “gay community.” tion. Others feel like a separate month to points to an African presence in places like I came of age as a lesbian. Located in the The reason for this is quite simple – celebrate the contributions of black people India, China, Meso- university, the high Jesuit walls protected gayhood is significant. Being socialized in to this nation says that black history is not America, and Eu- me from the likes of Judith Butler and her the gay community is different from being American history. Let’s get to some of the rope since ancient “everything is everything” gobbledygook. socialized in the straight community. We facts: times. Instead of women’s or gender studies, I have different rituals, different culture, dif- 1) Black History Month began as Ne- 3) Black same majored in English and psychology, with a ferent routine – not better, not worse. Dif- gro History Week in 1926, established by gender loving concentration in Victorian literature. And I ferent. This is why I am more comfortable renowned professor Carter G. Woodson, people (LGBT) are only heard about Gender Theory at politi- in the gayborhood than I am in Glen Bur- founder of the Association of Negro Life and a significant part cal meetings, where I quickly thought “huh, nie. The gays are my people. Even the gay History. This brilliant teacher also penned of Black history. interesting” and got back to the real work boys who engage in misogyny all day, every the now famous tome Mis-Education of the This may seem to at hand. day – I definitely don’t like them, but I know Negro. Dr. Woodson believed that by giv- be a no brainer but Fast forward to the late 1990s. I have them. We as gays and lesbians have the ing folks a period of time to focus on them- there are actually people who believe that been out a while and heavily engaged in common experience of same-sex attraction Black LGBT folk do not exist or if they do, political work, including advocacy to enact and how that same-sex attraction shapes they do not exist in their environment. Black the anti-discrimination act, which banned our both our personal lives and how we as LGBT people have contributed to the very discrimination based on sexual orientation the gay and lesbian demographic fit into the fabric of history. in housing, employment and public accom- larger society. and give little, and we don’t believe you be- cause we’ve seen how quick you’ve been to Luminaries like Bayard Rustin and An- modations. In addition to the right-wing nut My trans friends who came out of the gela Davis are giants, leading freedom jobs who oppose All Things gay, the big- gay community – and this includes a great use the sharp edge of homophobia against us when we raise feminist concerns about movements with tenacity, brilliance and gest opponents of the legislation were the many trans men who “used to be” lesbian creativity. James Baldwin and Audre Lorde Baltimore Advocates Coalition, led by two and a great many gay or queer men who gender-identity legislation. Late-Transitioning Heterosexual Males. inspired millions the world over to be more bisexuals in heterosexual relationships, now identify as women – are qualitatively than circumstance would dictate while in- and Late-Transitioning Heterosexual Males different than the white, Late-Transitioning Unlike females, males are socialized to ex- pect that everyone will credit their opinions troducing the world to the life and times of who now “identified” as lesbian. At the time, Heterosexuals MTFs who seem to dominate black LGBT people. Nikki Giovanni and Al- I found both of these groups wearisome the trans movement leadership. lesbians and that they are eminently qualified for any task, no matter how many qualifications ice Walker continue to amaze us with their because they lacked any irony about what are generally not the ones using the word profound creativity and insight. Despite the they were doing. On reflection, their behav- “lesbian” as a shaming tactic. lesbians are they lack. Add heterosexual to the mix, and you have every president we’ve ever had. fact that some people would like to dismiss ior seems to fit a pattern I have noticed in generally not the ones who say that other or diminish their accomplishments, they the 16 years I’ve lived in Baltimore. lesbians don’t speak for the GLBT commu- In making this observation, I am in no way diminishing the journey of late transi- shine without equal. Their most important It’s not lesbians who lodge the most nity or for lesbians. It’s Late-Transitioning example is that walking in one’s truth has vociferous complaints against other lesbi- Heterosexual males who do this with regu- tioning MTFs or the pain they endure due to it – indeed, I have sympathy for any human profound benefit. Living life, a full and whole ans who dare to speak publicly about how larity. It’s Late-Transitioning Heterosexual life, is a possibility when we embrace every- gender-identity legislation robs females of males who tell feminists who argue against who goes through this. What I am suggest- ing, though, as that we as a gay movement thing that we are. their right to exist without the gloss of gen- overbroad feminist legislation that lesbians Black History Month is a great start in der. Rather, it is people outside of the gay “just don’t understand.” A patronizing pat on and we as lesbians in particular might be wise to think not only about the causes we learning about the vast accomplishments of community who only entered into our “com- the head from a Late-Transitioning Hetero- people of African descent worldwide. The munity” when they “decided” to transition or sexual MTF feels a whole lot like a patroniz- take up as our own, but the people who ask us to lift a laboring oar for a cause that does more we learn, the more we realize how when they “decided” to have a same-sex re- ing pat on the head from Every Sexist Man our humanity is interconnected. Black his- lationship (or at least say they wanted one). I’ve Ever Met. not necessarily inure to our benefit – par- ticularly when they employ abusive tactics tory is human history complete with the joys Why does this make a difference? As You think we just don’t understand, but and sorrows of human life. It is among the a female, I – like all females – have been we don’t believe you. We don’t believe you to shame lesbians into supporting them. As it stands now, the gay movement has taken universal testaments of living, and without socialized in our culture to “act like a wom- because we credit our opinions just as much question, joins the panoply of world history an.” This means a number of things, not on a cause for Late-Transitioning Hetero- as yours. We don’t believe you because we t on a global stage. t the least of which is that we are taught to don’t trust you because you demand much sexual Males. How gay is that? BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 11 THINKING OUT LOUD

Maryland will be closer to reality. By then caucus in the House prehension that the or- the Senate should have passed the mea- and Senate, the two ganization that took over sure as they did during the 2011 General Republicans in the the fight, Marylanders for Assembly, and one of the heroes of this House (Delegates Marriage Equality, has endeavor, Governor Martin O’Malley, will Costa and Kach) and focused on the legislative OUT sign it into law. Sen. Kittleman in the battles but has not done Spoken This had been, of course, a monumen- Senate who set party much planning to fight the tal struggle. It took an incredible amount dogma aside to do inevitable referendum. Steve Charing of effort by the Governor to complete a dif- what’s right for Mary- This belief has been ficult journey where he started off several land’s citizens. And, disputed by the organiza- years ago by supporting only civil unions of course, House tion’s spokesman, but a And Now the and came around to make marriage equal- Speaker Michael Delegates Clippinger, McIntosh, and feeling of unease hovers ity a major part of his legislative agenda. Busch. Washington singing ‘Chapel of Love’ like a cloud over marriage Hard Part He pushed every button at his disposal, And we should photo: Tim Walstrum equality advocates. Evan tirelessly attempting to persuade wavering thank all those orga- Wolfson, the founder and Three gay Baltimore delegates Luke Clip- delegates. He put his political prestige on nizations, volunteers, religious leaders, as president of Freedom to Marry, told me that pinger, Maggie McIntosh and Mary Wash- the line to help make it happen. well as the community at large who pushed this concern is the reason his organization ington joined some folks from Equality While some cynics question O’Malley’s hard for passage. For those activists who didn’t join the coalition. Maryland on a “bar crawl” the night after motives, such as the speculation that he refused to settle for civil unions legislation, Last September I opined in this paper the House of Delegates made Maryland is planning a presidential run in 2016 and this was vindication. as well as in the Washington Blade that the history by passing the Civil Marriage Pro- needs to catch up to New York Governor planning for the referendum should begin at tection bill by a vote of 72-67. They were Andrew Cuomo to compete for gay money, Now comes the hard part that time. As I wrote then, “The main focus of clinking glasses and celebrating a well- who cares? While the legislative path was not an the plan should be to bring in money – lots of earned victory emanating from the hard Does it really matter that Del. Tiffany easy one to travel despite the happy ending, it – and in a down economy to boot. Just to work and courage from so many people. Alston (D-Prince George’s) who was a “No” we are far from out of the woods. Opponents, raise funds to counter the advertisements by The entourage visited such watering vote almost up until the actual floor debate including major religious groups with oodles opponents in the high-priced media markets holes as the Laughing Pint, Grand Central decided to support the bill merely to rid the of money that will be donated from all over of Baltimore and Washington will be daunting and Club Hippo. And to cap it off, the trio legislature of this chronic issue and felt the nation, are chomping at the bit to deny in itself. The need for printed material, phone stood up at the latter’s karaoke and sang best that the people decide? The result is Maryland’s gay and lesbian couples the right banking and other related expenses will cost “Chapel of Love,” which is becoming an what matters, and hopefully thousands of to marry in the Free State. They should feel a bundle as well.” unofficial anthem of the marriage equal- Maryland gay and lesbian couples will be good about themselves; they have a 31-0 With an expected higher than normal ity movement. You may recall that lov- able to reap the same rights, benefits and record on state ballots so far in preventing turnout of church-going African-American able 1964 pop standard made famous by responsibilities as the rest of the state’s the legalization of marriage for same-sex voters who generally do not favor marriage the Dixie Cups: “Goin’ to the chapel / And married couples. couples. equality, the Dream Act being on the ballot, we’re gonna get ma-a-arried....” This legislative victory had many other As a solid “blue” state, Maryland would the likelihood of older voters significantly By the time this publication hits the heroes – too many to mention – but surely appear to be in a good position to break that outnumbering younger pro-marriage equal- streets, marriage for same-sex couples in a measure of gratitude should go to our gay streak. However, there is widespread ap- ity voters, and what appears to be a signifi- cant money deficit at this time, the task is intimidating to say the least. Baltimore Black Pride Encourages the Maryland State Senate to Pass the Marriage Equality Bill Yet, if the community pulls together to accomplish the goal of defeating a Prop On February 17, the Maryland House Carlton Smith, president of Baltimore community that will sustain and facilitate 8-like referendum, the impossible may ac- of Delegates voted in favor of House Black Pride. lasting and positive change,” said Rev. tually be plausible. Gays, lesbians and al- Bill 438, the Civil Marriage Protection Maryland would join seven other Mother Meredith Moise, Baltimore Black lies who can afford it will need to finance Act, which will allow gay and lesbian states who allow same sex couples to Pride Board co-chair. this expensive battle. HRC, one of the co- couples to marry in the State of Mary- marry. The February 7, 2012 decision “After last year’s disappointing alition organizations within Marylanders for land. After many months of advocacy by the California Ninth Circuit Court defeat against marriage equality, we Marriage Equality, will need to raise money by the Marylanders for Marriage Equal- of Appeals ruling that Proposition 8 is understood more clearly the impor- from outside Maryland to compete with the ity Coalition and gaining the support of unconstitutional has reignited the en- tant role our communities must play opponents. All coalition organizations will 72 to 62 of the state delegates, the his- ergy of LGBT communities and allies in helping to identify support for mar- need to provide resources and boots on the toric vote for marriage equality marks a across the country to continue building riage equality in our racial, ethnic and ground to fight the effort to deny gay and momentous move in the movement for bridges that will further strengthen the cultural communities. As a result, we lesbian couples the right to marry. equal rights. support for individuals to marry and mobilized our members, families and And supportive legislators should, if “Civil Rights icon Bayard Rustin define family in ways consistent the allies to support the passing of this bill. possible, go into their respective districts said, “We can agitate the right ques- long held American value of equality We applaud the House of Delegates to campaign against the referendum with tions by probing at the contradictions.” of all. and encourage the full Senate to swiftly direct voter contact. Town hall meetings While there are still gaps to close, the “This is a wonderful first step to se- pass this legislation, sending it to our would be an efficient method to educate a vote by the delegates for marriage cure the protections and obligations that great ally – Governor Martin O’Malley public, which will be besieged by lies and equality is a testament to the probing civil marriage provides for loving cou- for his signature. We also applaud propaganda from the other side. of the right contradictions by a diverse ples. However, Black LGBT people know those in our communities who stood Although it would have been preferable coalition advocates and allies working that the pursuit of equality and justice is with us for equality and encourage their for the strategy sessions to have begun, with legislative leaders to close the not over. We continue to build bridges continue support” said Kevin Clemons, say back in September, it is still not too late. barriers of inequality in Maryland, said and relationships in the African American Baltimore Black Pride chair. t This is an historic fight, and if done right, we all could be singing “Chapel of Love” next year. t 12 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM HEALTH & WELLNESS EQUALITY MARYLAND

elected officials. blood pressure and diabetes have five What A Week The week ended, with 72 members of times the risk of heart attacks and strokes the House of Delegates voting “yes” on the than those who don’t have either condition. for the Freedom to bill. I was sitting in the gallery when the HIV and syphilis, sexually transmitted vote tally appeared on the board and just Open Wide diseases which can lead to illness and Marry In Maryland! kept staring at the number to make sure ask Dr Eva death, are more common among African it was real! The scene that followed was Dr Eva Hersh Americans. For discussion of some of the wrought with every emotion you can imag- reasons for this, see the last issue’s col- BY CARRIE EVANS ine – tears of joy, yelps of happiness and umn. I am writing this after a very full week in many hugs and kisses. Equality Maryland Sickle cell, a rare but very serious Annapolis! February 13th was Lobby Day is so proud to be part of this moment and Health Risks for and life-shortening disease, is caused by and Rally sponsored by Marylanders for watch as celebrations erupted! By the time a gene that occurs mainly in people from Marriage Equality (Marylandersformarria- you read this story, the bill will have likely African Americans sub-Saharan Africa where malaria is com- geequality.org). What an amazing night! passed the Senate (as it did in 2011) and mon, and their descendents. This damag- We had more than 800 people show up! It will be headed to the governor’s desk for Dear Dr. Eva, ing gene was carried on in the population was such a beautiful sight to look across signature. Since it is African American History because for two reasons: Lawyers Mall and see so many people In addition to our work on the mar- month, how about a column on African • Genetics: It takes two copies of the there to show their support for the Civil riage bill, EQMD has been working hard American health issues and their causes? gene, inherited from both mother and fa- Marriage Protection on passing a bill in I knew about the higher risk of diabetes, ther, to cause sickle cell disease. People Act. We were hon- Baltimore County but lately I’ve heard there are higher rates who inherit the gene from only one parent ored to have Sena- that will add protec- of cancer as well. Is it all genetic? are carriers of the gene: they never get tor Allan Kittleman tions for transgender BJ, Baltimore sickle cell disease, but they can pass the (the sole Republican individuals to the ex- gene on to their children. In Africa, there is senator publicly sup- isting county anti- Dear BJ, a benefit to carrying the sickle gene, be- porting the freedom discrimination laws. The average lifespan of African Ameri- cause carriers of this gene are resistant to to marry); Delegate EQMD Field Orga- cans is five years shorter than the lifespan malaria, a common and often deadly dis- Keiffer Mitchell, Jr. nizer, Owen Smith of white Americans. There are multiple ease. (a stalwart supporter has been working causes for this, including lifestyle, genet- It was more recently discovered that from Baltimore), Del- around the clock on ics, lack of health insurance, lack of ac- African Americans also have higher rates egate Ben Barnes this effort. He identi- cess to medical care, cultural beliefs about of some cancers, including prostate, co- (the original sponsor fied great people to health, and perhaps lower quality of medi- lon and cervical cancer. They also have a of this bill in 2008) testify in support of cal care when it is received. Increased higher death rate from these cancers, even and Candace Gin- the bill and has en- rates of some diseases also contribute to when cancer is diagnosed at the same grich-Jones (a proud gaged residents in the decreased lifespan. Most (but not all) of stage as whites. There are multiple rea- Maryland resident) the County to contact these diseases are related more to lifestyle sons for this: African Americans: address the crowd. their Councilmem- factors than to genetics. The key lifestyle • Are less likely to get screening for We also had the privi- bers to urge a “yes” factors that affect longevity are smoking, cancer, due to lower rates of health insur- lege of having Gover- vote. As expected, high-fat and high-calorie foods, sedentary ance and different cultural beliefs nor O’Malley stop by and give a rousing opponents of this bill have come out in full (“couch potato”) lifestyle, lack of exercise, • Are less likely to get prompt follow up speech on why we need to pass this bill force to spread misinformation on what this alcohol use, and smoking. It’s important when screened, perhaps also due to health and re-affirm his commitment to ensuring bill would do. It is a reminder of how impor- to keep in mind that while these lifestyle beliefs it happens! tant it is to share the stories of transgender patterns are common in African Americans • Because of less frequent screening After the rally was done I witnessed people and their lives. We will win hearts as a group, there are many African Ameri- and starting screening later in life, are di- perhaps the most beautiful sight of the and minds on this issue the same way we cans who focus on their health and avoid agnosed with these cancers at later stages night – hundreds of marriage equality have on marriage – by personalizing the negative health behaviors. There is also in the disease, when cancer is less curable supporters standing in line to enter the issue for elected officials and the general a correlation between negative health be- • Some African Americans carry a gene House of Delegates office building to talk population. haviors and income: lower income people which promotes the development of colon to their elected officials. The line was the What these months have shown is that from all ethnic groups tend to have more cancer. longest I have ever seen; and in that mo- we can never take our foot off the gas negative health habits. If you would like to live longer: ment, I knew that regardless of how this pedal. Equality for LGBT people is a hard Certain diseases have been known for • Stop smoking. week ended, our community – gay and fought battle. It does not happen quickly many years to occur more often among • Limit alcohol use to no more than one straight – had done everything we could or without tremendous sacrifice and hard African Americans. The most common are drink a day for women and two drinks a to change the hearts and minds of our work. A witness to this battle is an 8-year- obesity (overweight), hypertension (high day for men and drink this amount no more boy, who was in the gallery to watch this blood pressure) and diabetes, and the than four days a week. historic vote. He is the son of a same-sex conditions that result from them. Undiag- • Increase exercise. For most people, couple who were plaintiffs in the Deane nosed, untreated or inadequately treated brisk walking is the most convenient (and v. Conaway case (the case that sued the high blood pressure leads to heart attacks inexpensive) exercise. Build up to 40 min- mammograms every year after age 50, and Baltimore City Clerk of the Court for deny- and strokes. Uncontrolled diabetes leads utes three times a week. colonoscopies for everyone after age 50. ing same-sex couples marriage licenses). to kidney failure resulting in the need for • Get health screenings, including Breast, colon or cervical cancer found in He was 2 months old when the suit was dialysis, vision loss with eventual blind- blood sugar, blood pressure and cholester- early stages is often curable. t filed. For his entire life, he has witnessed ness, and circulation problems that can ol checks on the schedule recommended Eva Hersh is a Baltimore family physi- his parents fight for the freedom to marry. lead to loss of toes or feet. Diabetes, like for your age cian. Send your comments and questions What a joy it was to see him also witness high blood pressure, leads to strokes and • Get cancer screenings, including (for to her by email at editor@baltimoreout- this moment of history and to watch him heart attacks. People who have both high women) Pap smears every other year and loud.com. and Governor O’Malley share a big hug! t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 13 READER FEEDBACK PASSINGS

Brennan off-key the civil union law were, and the final an- MARK SHANE DUFFY swer was that it was a failure. FEBRUARY 1, 2012 on marriage In our own state, the City of Baltimore skepticism offers domestic partnerships for LGBT employees and their partners. My ex was Mark Shane Duffy, 54, formerly of Balti- ily, and made each person he came in con- Dear Editor, a teacher for the Baltimore City Public more, passed away on February 1, 2012 tact with feel as if they were his only friend. I am writing in response to Cathy Bren- School System. We filed for DP benefits in St. Petersburg, Florida. He was the be- He will be remembered for his infec- nan’s column “When will we be wed?” as soon as we were able to do so, and he loved son of the late John (Jack) Duffy and tious smile, off-beat sense of humor, his (Ladybug’s Political Smackdown, January gladly put me on his insurance. When he his wife Jean Duffy (nee Orye), cherished compassion towards others, but most of all 27). While Ms. Brennan wrote what might left the city school system to work for the brother of Michael Duffy and wife Patti, for his kind and gentle soul. The world is a be an almost convincing editorial on why Edison Partnership Schools in the City, we Dawn Duffy and Mathew Duffy, and lov- dimmer place without him. Rest in peace we should be looking at civil unions as op- discovered that our domestic partnership ing uncle of Cody and Mathew Shane. posed to full marriage rights, there were was not even recognized by their company. Duffy. Memorial services to be several flaws in her arguments. I was thankful that I worked somewhere Growing up in Catonsville held at St. Mark’s Lutheran For starters, I would hope that Ms. I was able to get a policy on my own, but it Maryland, Shane attended St. Church located at 1900 St. Brennan would realize that the petitions was a level of the dignity of the situation. Mark School, Catonsville Junior Paul Street, Baltimore at and referendums on same sex marriage The sad thing is that initially we expected and Senior High School and 11 a.m. on Saturday March have been designed to enforce the idea Edison Partnership to recognize the city’s graduated from UMBC in 1979. 3rd. that LGBT people are somehow inferior, domestic partnership agreement because Early on he worked for the If anyone would like and we do not deserve equal treatment. they ran schools in San Francisco where Social Security Administration, to make a contribution in Last I checked I pay taxes like any other they had to offer such benefits. was later a proprietor of a Mt. Shane’s memory, please citizen; why should I be denied the rights Lastly, Ms. Brennan offers the follow- Vernon gift shop, and worked consider The Trevor Proj- given to others? Last I checked the 14th ing: “indeed some of the most vocal op- for many years in nursing home ect, a crisis intervention and amendment to the U.S. Constitution says ponents … in the GLBT community have administration with Future suicide prevention organi- that the right to life, liberty, et al. shall not been white gay males…. Perhaps they are Care. zation for LGBT teens. Do- be abridged. Laws forbidding gay marriage used to getting what they want because Shave was loved and ad- nations to The Trevor Proj- do just that. of their white male status?” I am hurt and mired by all who met him. Generous to a ect may be mailed to: 8704 Santa Monica Going to the heart of civil unions, I offended that Ms. Brennan would stoop to fault, Shane was always there to lend a Blvd., Suite 200, West Hollywood, Califor- would think Ms. Brennan missed what hap- racial/gender arguments that have more hand, never expecting anything in return. nia 90069. Please indicate Shane Duffy’s pened in New Jersey when they passed a holes than a pound of Swiss cheese. He treated his employees like his own fam- name in the notation. t civil union law. Simply as a reminder, then I am a gay white Jewish male, and I Governor Corzine (Dem) promised N.J.’s can say with a level of pride that no one LGBT community that the new civil union ever gave me anything because of my gen- law would be equal to marriage but without der, race, or other unchangeable factor. I the word “marriage.” He then had to con- can say that I have a college degree in his- CELEBRATE THE SEASON front UPS when said corporation refused to tory and I follow several news sources – extend benefits to its LGBT employees and liberal and non-liberal. I am proud that I am AND GIVE THE GIFT OF FITNESS! would not acknowledge the civil union law. a member of the middle class, that I have Or if I need to cite a lesbian case, there a level of luxury to follow current events was the lesbian police officer in Ocean and that I am not forced to scrounge to sur- County who was killed in the line of duty, vive. Simply put, I got where I am through and her partner was unable to claim her my own hard work and my desire to better pension. Simply put, a legislative commit- myself. tee in N.J. met to see what the effects of T.C. McCloud Baltimore, MD

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 15 LIVELY ARTS // OUT ON SCREEN Date Night: In or Out? BY CHUCK DUNCAN veillance (saying Lau- Looking for something to do with your significant other, ren is part of the case new friend or group of friends? Movies are always a fun they bungled). It’s far- way to spend an evening, but should you venture out to fetched to think they the local multiplex which is less than intimate, or stay could ever get away home where you can either party or cuddle anyway you with something like want? Well, I have two options for you this week. that, but you kind of Option 1: Go out! If you want to see two hot guys just have to let go and up on the big screen, then you might want to consider enjoy the ride if you’re the new action film/romantic comedy (now there are some going to accept any genres you don’t see mixed together very often), This of this. The one-ups- Means War. The two guys in question are Chris Pine and manship between the Tom Hardy (and Reese Witherspoon and Chelsea Handler guys is pretty amusing are on hand as well), and they play some kind of secret at times and I did find agents who bumble a case, get relegated to desk duty myself laughing in spite as punishment, and end up dating the same girl (Wither- of myself. Handler gets spoon). Tuck (Hardy) is the awkward guy, obviously not to deliver some of the good with relationships due to his occupation – and he movies best lines as masquerades as a travel agent – and FDR (Pine) is the she gives Lauren often horn dog with an endless stream of women hot for his contradictory dating ad- (hot) body. However, they find something grounding in vice. Lauren, so while FDR pushed Tuck into the dating scene, Oddly enough, Pine he now finds himself a romantic rival with his best friend. and Hardy have better chemistry between them than ei- sion tells the story of a man in a secluded cabin awaiting This Means War is a completely outlandish movie ther of them do with Witherspoon, often making me won- the test results from a biopsy. Is he truly alone? Again, without the slightest hint of reality. Tuck and FDR use all der when they would realize they were actually in love it’s really hard to tell if there is a madman loose in the of their government super secret, high tech equipment to with each other whenever they were butting heads. The house or if it’s all part of his imagination. The film does keep dibs on Lauren and each other during their dates, casting is a little odd too, with boyish Pine playing the use silence very well to build tension, but it was a little too going so far as to use other agents to help with their sur- bad boy and tattooed Hardy as the shy guy (I guess ambiguous for my taste. that’s why he never gets Winner Takes All is the best-looking film in the bunch. to take his shirt off). They This one tells the story of a handsome, young actor who definitely play against type, stages a performance for his two boyfriends and then asks but things may have gone them to fight for his love. The directing, editing and light- better had their roles been ing are all top notch, and Alex Mapa has a nice turn as the swapped. As it is, there actor’s “slave,” but you can pretty much see the ending are some laughs and some from a mile away. That said, still not a bad effort. good action sequences, Promise goes back into dark territory as a couple dis- and the movie is entertain- covers an ongoing infidelity on the eve of their wedding. ing enough for a date night, This one is also very well acted, edited and directed, but even if it is quickly forgotten again the ending is left unresolved. Do they go through afterwards. with the wedding or not? You decide. Video Night, the Option 2: Stay in! It’s shortest of the group, features Jack Plotnick as a guy hard to find a big budget, who likes to play dress up and make funny videos with Hollywood studio gay- his friends. Except they see something disturbing when themed film these days, playing back their latest production. This definitely has the and even the indie ones least production value, but its shot-on-video style gives seem to go straight to vid- you that “you are there” feeling. Communication rounds eo now. One of the leading out the set with a story of a young university graduate producers of these films, who enters into a relationship with his former professor Guest House Films, has … who also seems to have another lover that’s not too recently released a compi- happy about the new guy coming to take his place. The lation of gay-themed short film, which is based on a play, wants to delve into the rela- films, Black Briefs, to the tionships between the men and the conflict the grad faces home video market. The with his Judaism, but the short length just doesn’t allow DVD includes six short films any time for that, ultimately leaving the viewer without any ranging from 6- to 20-min- emotional connection to the characters and their plight. utes, and of varying quality. Black Briefs is hit-or-miss but it’s still good to see film- Spring tells the story of a makers given an opportunity to tell their stories for people university student seeking to actually see, and Guest House Films should be applaud- some potentially dangerous ed for making these shorts available to the public. Black thrills, but is he freaked out Briefs is available on DVD from TLA Video and Amazon. or turned on? That answer com (as of this writing, it is unknown if Netflix will be carry- is up to the viewer. Remis- ing the title), and This Means War is currently in theaters. t 16 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM LIVELY ARTS // PERSONALITIES

ROBERTA FLACK sound of her voice, I love what she’s done to the songs.” I didn’t get paid, I had a little brandy snifter (on top of the – continued from front page GS: The album closed with a live recording of “Here, piano for tips), and they would come up to me and say, “I There, and Everywhere,” from 1972. Where have you don’t have any money, I get paid on Saturday or Sunday kind of support. But I did do “Here, There, and Everywhere,” been keeping it all this time? and I’m going to give you some money when I see you next “Let It Be” and “Yesterday,” all of the obvious ballads. Be- RF: It was a live concert that I did at Carnegie Hall time.” And they really meant it. It was so beautiful. They cause I was in a club where people adored me and let me and we just snatch that one off of the reel because it was wanted to hear the songs that they wanted to hear. It was do that, I could try anything. I’m the kind of musician, if I a Beatles song. It was a song that I was doing in my live a great education for me. At Mr. Henry’s, I had a chance hear it in my head, my fingers somehow can find the notes. performances, in the clubs and the few concerts that I had to sing for the first time. I had a chance to sing “Let It Be I had a lot of fun while the Beatles were in my head and booked. There I was at Carnegie Hall, my dream, of course. Me” and “Until It’s Time For Me To Go.” Please, there was everybody’s heads. (When I sang) “I Want To Hold Your As a classically trained student of classical piano, at that not a dry eye in the house when you sing songs like that. I Hand,” people would substitute the word hand with another point in my life, my dream was to be at and to play Carn- was singing them with all the love, all the knowledge, all the word, I won’t say what [laughs]. They would make me laugh, egie Hall. And here I was at Carnegie Hall playing “The First musicianship that I had. I had people doing my hair for free, (sings) “I want to hold your hand” and substitute the word. I Time Ever I Saw Your Face,” but not “Killing Me Softly,” making my clothes. These were young, primarily gay artists had a wonderful interaction with people in the club. Every- yet. Just songs that were in my repertoire at the time. The who wanted to be in on it, who wanted to help, and they did. thing that I do on my earlier albums is from that period. audience was my audience and when we had a chance to I began to be aware of what being in this business meant. GS: You mentioned this in answering the first ques- stretch our limbs, I said I’m going to do “Here, There and GS: In 1982, you recorded the theme song to the gay tion, but I’d like to talk more about the arrangements Everywhere.” It worked and it was wonderful the whole con- movie Making Love, which could be considered a dar- of the songs which are quite diverse – from the blue- cert was wonderful. ing move at the time. sy treatment of “Oh Darling” and the acoustic reading GS: Reading what Yoko (Ono) wrote in the liner RF: It was a daring move to make the movie. We were of “Hey Jude” to funky renditions of “I Should Have notes, it’s clear that she gave you her blessing for the still living in the dark ages. I don’t know if it was don’t ask, Known Better,” “In My Life” and “We Can Work It Out.” project. Was it important for you to have that from her? don’t tell or don’t think about it. As an artist, you took chanc- Did the songs go through different interpretations be- RF: Yeah, as opposed to something else [laughs], what- es if you did something like that. Here’s my interpretation fore arriving at the versions that we hear on the album ever that might’ve been. Yoko and I have a very nice rela- about songs, especially songs with words. You can take a or are they basically, as they were envisioned? tionship. I had just come back from Iceland with her where song and interpret it anyway you want it. People have asked RF: That’s another good question she goes every year since John’s death to light me, “Roberta, what were you thinking when you recorded [laughs]. That’s basically the scenario. I the (Imagine) Peace Tower, this incredible light “The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face”? I was actually think- had the idea for “We Can Work It Out,” but that goes up to the sky. Once she lights it on ing about my cat. I had come home after my first job away I didn’t commit to it. That was the case with his birthday, it stays lit until the day he was as- from Washington, DC, at a club in Detroit, and my cat was all of the songs. I could not commit to what sassinated. I was so moved by her invitation to in the yard, dead. I was so torn up about it. It was a little I wanted to do. The one thing I could say come. She invited a lot of people, I wasn’t the black cat that I had named Sancho Panza. I really adored with finality was I don’t want it to sound like only one. A lot of serious music industry people that cat and he adored me. That was the first time I had a Roberta Flack sings “Let It Be.” I wanted it were there as well as people who love her son pet that was mine, I never had a dog or cat. But here I am, to sound like Roberta Flack is singing “Let Sean, young musicians around his age. There a married woman, and my piano tuner gave me a cat for a It Be.” The difference being, when you say I was. I was overcome and overwhelmed. I birthday present. At any rate, when you can sit down at the Roberta Flack sings, I would interpret that thought, I’m going to ask her. She had heard keyboard or at whatever your instrument is an sing the song as I’m singing the Beatles songs the way a little bit of the album and she said, “Oh Ro- that interprets exactly what you feel but at the same time, the Beatles sang it. That’s very hard to get berta, I like that.” I had not really expected her Gregg, giving everybody else the chance to say “I know to unless you’re a musician. It started out as just me and to make a comment. When I asked her, I fixed my mouth, what you mean.” the piano and I thought that was so beautiful and sacred. as my mama would say. “Did you fix your mouth, girl, to ask GS: Making it universal. And then I had this idea that we should do something based her?” And I asked her to write the liner notes and she sent RF: Yes! And that’s what music is. My point is, there’s on the world we live in. I didn’t want to get political or any me back a note saying, “I’m tired, but I’ll listen to the album nothing sacred about creativity. Once it becomes something of that but I wanted to include the voices and the ears from and I’ll make a comment.” And she did, it was just wonderful. that’s in the universe, that palpitates and has heartbeat and the generation that’s making music today. I thought, this GS: You mentioned Mr. Henry’s. One of the first pulse, it’s up for grabs. The thing that makes being a musi- has got to have a hip-hop sound. So we put in that, “yeah, things that I did when I moved to Washington DC to go cian and being a person with creative energy and spirit so yeah, yeah.” Nowadays it’s not just the guys doing that (on to grad school in the mid-1980s was to go to Mr. Henry’s wonderful is that there’s a great big part of it that you can hip-hop records), but the girls do it too. When I do it on on Capitol Hill. I not only had a delicious brunch, but smother and hold close to your chest and say this is mine, stage, my dream is to have a bunch of girls, not holding I got to stand in the place where you performed early this is the way Roberta Flack sounds. Or this is the way Di- their crotches Gregg [laughs], with their hands in the air, in your career. Was that where you would say that you nah Washington sounded, this is the way Janis Ian sounds, going “yeah, yeah.” I hope that when people sit down and developed your gay following? this is the way Celine Dion sounds, this is the way Chaka listen to the words to “Let It Be,” “when I find myself in times RF: Yes. That’s where I developed myself, because the Khan sounds. But there’s also part in all of that that makes of trouble,” it doesn’t mean that it has to be mother Mary, it people in my audience, and they were gay and straight and you that makes you feel like these kids on “American Idol” can be some other source that replenishes your spirit and undecided, especially back in the 60s, and not telling and or “America’s Got Talent” or “X Factor,” because they want revitalizes you and make you get up off your butt and keep telling. But it was wonderful because the one thing that we to do it too! That’s the universality of finding upholds and a going. all had in common was our love for music. That’s how I got heartbeat that everybody can get hip to, if it’s two and four GS: That’s why those songs have endured. Had you “Ballad of the Sad Young Men.” Somebody came up to me or three and five, it doesn’t matter. The point is everybody recorded this album 10 or 20 years ago, do you think the one day and said, “Roberta, there’s a show on Broadway can understand it and move their heads. song selection would have been different? called ‘The Nervous Set,’ and here’s a song from it, ‘Ballad GS: Have you sung at or been asked to sing at any RF: No, because I think you like what you like what you of the Sad Young Men’.” And I embraced it and embraced same sex weddings or civil? like. I love everything the Beatles have done. It might’ve me back. I got a lot of response from my audience for that RF: No, but I would sing! If you know somebody who’s been different to the extent that I wouldn’t have taken liber- song. That is so important. Not necessary, Gregg, but im- getting ready for one, (tell them) have I got a surprise for ties the way we took liberties with George Harrison’s song. portant. The difference being that important means that you you! When you find something that works you hold onto it. It have it and you recognize it and if you really deal with it it Gregg Shapiro: Well, I just had mine on Sunday. I might change, but the basic form is the same to me. I’m can only be good. It would not have had the kind of reading wish I would have known. committed to the music that moves me that I can interpret that I was able to give it had I not had that kind of response RF: You should have waited! You could have called me in a way that people say, “that’s Roberta Flack, I love the from my audience. People would come up to me in tears. and asked me. Well, congratulations to you my love. t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 17 LIVELY ARTS // OUT ON STAGE

Catch a Rising Star opera singers, musical theater singers and instrumentalists. The breadth and BY STEVE CHARING ing the coveted role of Mark in variety of the talent is so widespread it Mark Allen was born to perform. He is looking to put his Rent, Once on This Island, Work- makes the competition that much tough- vast stage experience to good use as a finalist in the 2012 ing, A Chorus Line, L’il Abner, er. Rising Star Emerging Performing Artist Award Competi- Sophisticated Ladies, and Damn “I considered entering under the op- tion on March 24. It takes place at the Peter and Eliza- Yankees. Mark’s currently working era category, given that is my training beth Horowitz Visual and Performing Arts Center, Howard on Next To Normal and is gearing and original background, but I wanted Community College, Columbia, MD. This event is part of up for a production of The Last to pursue the musical theatre genre be- the 15th annual celebration of the Arts Gala in Howard Five Years in late summer. He also cause it has such a mass appeal and it County, a fundraiser for the 31-year-old Howard County performed at Six Flags and had a has a unique emotional element to the Arts Council. two-year stint in the DC Cowboys style. It can be very challenging in op- Mark started performing as a child, and when he was dance troop, which had been a era to connect to your audience with a 12-year-old, he performed at his church in Louisville, popular feature of Capital Pride. more than the beauty of your voice, but KY. While he attended Youth Performing Arts High School, His local venues have included for me, musical theatre provides more also in Louisville, he focused on Vocal Performance and the Laurel Mill Playhouse, Toby’s stylistic freedom and a more expressive Musical Theater. He went on to spend two years at the Dinner Theater, and Red Branch pallet of colors to choose from.” University of Evansville (IN), majoring in vocal perfor- Theater. The winner is selected by the vote of mance and taking ballet. The Anne Arundel resident Mark audience members and receives a cash His professional career began at the age of 16 work- was selected to be one of nine Allen award of $5,000 on stage that night. ing at an amusement park in Michigan. Since then, he has finalists in the 2012 Rising Star “This competition goes beyond that and performed on stages across the globe. “I had a blast tour- Emerging Performing Artist Award is very much an honor,” Mark points out. ing France and Belgium with a revue-show in my teens, Competition among 60 performers “Winning this is something that lives on studied and performed stunt work at a movie studio in Ari- ages 18-35 representing a wide your resume for life, no matter where zona, and played some incredible roles like Zorro and Bat- range of disciplines. Since some of Mark’s stage work has you go or what stage you grace. To be placed on the same man,” Mark said proudly. He appeared in several operas, taken place in Howard County theaters, he qualified for stage with these other in- including Gianni Schicci, Dido & Aneas, Hand of Bridge this prestigious competition. credible finalists is simul- “I wanted to and Samuel. “There are so many different disciplines competing taneously humbling and Mark Allen has since been in several musicals, includ- for this honor,” Mark explained. “You’ve got dancers, and inspirational. Of course, I pursue the hope the audience choos- es me for that honor, but musical theatre this is one tough com- genre because it petition, so it’s anyone’s She’ Baltimore: An Exploration of a Taboo Visible guess. From what I’ve has such a mass seen, any of the finalists BY REV. MOTHER MEREDITH MOISE Baltimore. The city is also a character in the play. From the is winning material.” appeal and it Domestic violence has gotten a lot of media attention late- mention of familiar neighborhoods to accents, Baltimore is on Mark, 33, regards his has a unique ly. Local networks have been covering the trial of George display here. If you have lived here for any amount of time, work in musical theatre as Hughley, who is accused of murdering his girlfriend, Yeard- you will easily recognize the pulse of the city in characters’ a passionate hobby. The emotional ly Love after a night of drinking at the University of Virginia. accents and mannerisms. Nurse Philips, played by Heather tours travel and sched- Unfortunately, the picture that we get of domestic vio- Smith, is like all the ER nurses we have ever met in city emer- ules have taken a toll on element to the lence is usually a heterosexual one. The mainstream me- gency rooms! She had the crowd laughing uncomfortably as him physically to some style.” dia have not covered the reality of this she brilliantly symbolizes the cruelty of bro- extent. He currently works great scourge in LGBT communities. ken health care systems and their detrimen- as an Account Executive Enter She’ Baltimore. Written tal impact on the lives of LGBT people. for CBS Radio, 94.7 Fresh FM, which reaches Baltimore. and directed by Ira Kip, this produc- Each character is like someone we Music and theatre remain a big part of Mark’s life. “One tion chronicles the disturbing cycle know or have met here. Although intimate of the things I have really wanted to do is to start focusing of intimate partner violence between partner violence is not something lesbians, on my own original music. If this huge honor does fall my two women. The play tackles a diffi- gays, and trans folk talk about openly, you way, I would really like to use the award to jumpstart some cult subject... and does so brilliantly. will recognize the hushed tones of discus- original composition work, which would hopefully lead to If you are expecting a nice and neat be- sion by the characters in the play. my own album.” ginning, middle and end, you are bark- You will immediately recall incidents This competition will help Mark on that path. “To en- ing up the wrong tree. “She’ Baltimore” is in your own life when the dance around tertain someone is to take them by the hand and lead not nice and neat. The play is tough and this issue is played out until it can no them through an emotional journey, guiding them through gritty, leaving you to wonder how women get to the point longer be disguised by a plethora of lies and half-truths. your character’s journey and experience. At the end of the of hitting each other. The production is truly a must see but it is a heavy must night, I hope the audience was willing to let me take them The production is sprinkled with facts about domestic see. Be prepared to think about this production days after on that journey.” violence. The lines of abuser and abused are creatively you have seen it. Be willing to unpack its contents to good As for the competition on March 24, Mark is pumped and purposely blurred. The main characters, Linay and friends and family. It is worth seeing... dialogue about do- up. “I plan on going out on that stage and giving the audi- Ebone, take turns abusing each other and being abused. mestic violence in our community will save lives! t ence 110 percent of my voice and my acting. I really want That is the beauty and benefit of this production... there She’ Baltimore continues through February 26 at the the audience to be moved.” t are no easy answers. Load of Fun Theater (LOF/t) 120 W. North Ave, Baltimore, For ticket information, please visit www.hocoarts.org/ The play is called “She’ Baltimore” because it is set in MD 21218 celebration_of_the_arts.

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teen who died in her arms are also emo- tionally overwhelming. True stories What makes The Interrupters particu- larly poignant is the way that the headline BY GREGG SHAPIRO and national news-making murder of Der- Taking viewers through four seasons in the rion Albert is woven into the fabric of the life of a city wrestling with senseless vio- story. The tragedy called necessary atten- lence, Hoop Dreams director Steve James tion to the epidemic and created interest in returns to Chicago’s inner-city with The In- finding ways to stop the killing. Ultimately, terrupters (PBS/Frontline/Kartemquin). Fo- The Interrupters provide a message of cusing on three violence interrupters from hope amidst the desperation, light in the the anti-urban violence coalition Cease- bleak darkness. DVD special features in- Fire, the doc is as much about the impact clude almost an hour’s worth of deleted as people can have on the lives of others as well as the theatrical trailer. it is about how people who want to change Tim Wolff’s documentary The Sons of the direction of their lives can do so. Tennessee Williams (First Run Features) Beginning in summer during a meet- celebrates more than 40 years of the gay ing at the CeaseFire office in Chicago’s Englewood neighbor- hood, a clash breaks out on the street, resulting not only in bodily injury (i.e. the loss of teeth) but also retribution from butcher knife-toting family members. This example of the way the carnage cycles and escalates, sets the “grievances jus- tify violence” tone for the remainder of the Ameena Matthews (background), violence interrupter film. photo: courtesy Kartemquin Films Ameena Mat- thews, daughter of legendary gang leader Mardi Gras balls and krewes (Carnival- Jeff Fort (currently serving a life sentence oriented organizations and social clubs). for terrorism) and an ex-gang enforcer Through archival film footage and photo- herself, is one of the violence interrupters graphs, as well as interviews with more profiled. Her own story is as compelling as than dozen gay men, this vivid movie allows any in the film. When she takes troubled New Orleans to take its rightful place along- teen Caprysha under her wing, refusing to side other gay American metropolises. give up on her, it makes perfect sense. With Mardi Gras as the backdrop, The Cobe Williams, 38, who served 12 Sons of Tennessee Williams recounts the years for drug trafficking and attempted history and formation of the various krewes murder, is the second interrupter featured and their contributions to making Carnival in the film. He works with Letoya Oliver, a the anticipated event that it is every year. mother of three sons, one of whom is in From stories of police harassment, gay- prison and the other two are in rival gangs. bashing and life in the closet during the He also meets with “Flamo,” whose mis- 1950s to the birth of the balls in the early sion of vengeance almost undoes him, as 1960s to post-Stonewall gay culture, as well as “Lil Mikey,” who was released from well as the impact of AIDS and Hurricane prison at 17. The emotional and dramat- Katrina on New Orleans’ LGBT community, ic high point of the film occurs when “Lil the doc goes into fascinating and infor- Mikey” returns to the scene of the crime, mative detail. Culminating in the 40th an- the barbershop that he held up, to offer a niversary of the Krewe of Armeinius Ball, heartfelt apology to the people whose lives The Sons of Tennessee Williams does its he forever changed. namesake proud in the way it portrays and Interrupter Eddie Bocanegra, who celebrates gay life in the Big Easy. served 14 years, half of his life, for a mur- DVD special features include bonus der he committed as a teenager, sees his footage such as “The Mystic Krewe of Ce- mission as a personal. His presence in lestial Knights: The Pinnacle of Balls,” de- the life of students at the Namaste Char- leted scenes, a costume photo gallery and ter School as well as the young sister of a more. t

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 19 LIVELY ARTS // MUSIC freak-outs of “Surgeon” and unleashes her inner beast on groove of “Way Too Fast,” to mention a few. This is “Year of the Tiger.” Suggestive cuts such static scratch of iMusic: Name game the kind of orgasmic music (see “Shield & Sword”) that “Northern Lights,” “Cheerleader” and “Neutered Fruit” pro- couples, gay and straight, can get busy to. Let’s hope that vide all sorts of insights into this always fascinating artist. BY GREGG SHAPIRO immature one-man-band Owl City is listening and learns The self-titled Drag City (and fourth) studio album by After her first couple of solo studio albums, Björk began something from Active Child. Bachelorette (a.k.a. Annabel Alpers) would, like the Active moving in an increasingly less commercial and less ac- Whokill (4AD) by Tune-Yards (a.k.a Merrill Garbus, Child album, be a good object lesson for Owl City. Not only cessible direction. That didn’t stop her devoted fans from who also produced the wonderful eponymous disc by because of the inventive use of electronics, but also for following her. In fact, the more bizarre Björk got, the hap- queer duo Thao & Mirah) is as exotic and exciting as the the refreshing way that Bachelorette has with lyrics. That pier her fans seemed to be. This trend reached its peak Active Child disc is beautiful. And like the Ac- combo makes this disc an indescribable with 2004’s Medúlla. By 2007’s “Volta,” Björk sounded tive Child disc, you’ve probably never heard delight. Right after “Grow Old with Me” willing to make a concession to comprehensibility. With anything quite like “Whokill.” A rollicking roll- and “The Light Seekers” lull and lure you Biophilia (Nonesuch) Björk is once again venturing into ercoaster ride that will have you on your feet, in, Bachelorette shifts gears and looks at unusual realms. An interdisciplinary multi-media project waving your hands in the air, inventing dance you “through the hole in my chest” on the that incorporates a 13-track deluxe edition CD, an app, steps, from opener “My Country” through the electrified “Blanket” and “Polarity Party.” live shows, a doc and a website, created by a “close team” body slamming “Gangsta,” the Afro-pop of “The Last Boat’s Leaving” goes for a VU who were “up for pioneering into new territories, impro- “Riotriot,” the hula hoop loop of “Bizness,” the vibe and the fittingly titled “Digital Brain” vising” and taking on multiple tasks. The result is a set freaky funk of “You Yes You” and the world- plugs in again, while “Generous Spectre” of songs featuring first and foremost, Björk’s distinctive disco distraction “Killa.” Brava diva! stirs up ghosts of new wave’s past. vocals in settings that include custom instruments such Also exquisite, Within and Without Also playing the name game are Can- as pendulum harp and a midi controlled pipe organ. Björk (Sub Pop), the exceptional album debut by ada’s City and Colour (a.k.a. Dallas Green also revives a bit of the old drum ’n’ bass on “Crystalline.” Washed Out (a.k.a. Ernest Greene). Washed of Alexisonfire) on Little Hell (Vagrant), Active Child, the best thing to come out of New Jer- Out puts a fresh new spin on its new wave revival influ- Release The Sunbird (a.k.a. Zach Rogue of Rogue Wave) sey since Bruce Springsteen, has released the second ences, from the heavy-lidded “Eyes be Closed” to the sexy on Come Back to Us (Brushfire), Miracle Fortress (a.k.a. most gorgeous albums of 2011 (the first being Gem Club’s strut of “Echoes” to the 90’s electro inspiration of “Before.” Graham Van Pelt of Think About Life) on Was I the Wave? “Breakers”). On You Are All I See (Vagrant), former choir- And if you don’t find yourself dancing to “Amor Fati,” have (Secret City), Jack’s Mannequin (a.k.a. Andrew McMahon of boy Active Child (a.k.a. Pat Grossi) swathes the listener someone check your pulse. Something Corporate) on People and Things (Sire/WB) and in the musical equivalent of sequined gauze. As ethereal Strange Mercy (4AD) is easily St. Vincent’s (a.k.a. An- Hess Is More (a.k.a. Mikkel Hess) on Creation Keeps the as the whole affair can be, it is also grounded in a sexy nie Clark) most provocative recording to date. On the 11 Devil Away (Nublu). t and earthy Philly soulfulness, as you can hear on “Hang- track disc, St. Vincent explores a dark dance diva perso- Active Child is performing on May 9 in Washington, ing On,” “Playing House,” “Johnny Belinda” and the slow na on “Cruel” and “Hysterical Strength,” seventies fusion D.C. at Black Cat. SPEciAlSPEciAl GGrabrab bbaGaG NNiGhtiGht •• SSuNdayuNday,, MMarcharch 44thth •• 88pMpM -- 22aMaM 1616 ozoz MGD’sMGD’s $3.75$3.75

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM t 21 After you build a rock-solid, small base I am not a woman.” Convicted by a jury, of support, and as you feel ready, come out African American the judge decided to give her ten years of to others. Start with people who are 90% probation instead of prison time. Unfor- likely to support you, then 85% likely, 75% Transgender tunately, the couple was imprisoned for Getting likely, and so on. Don’t expect everyone fraud since Mrs. Anderson received allot- to have a positive, supportive reaction. ment checks as the wife of a United States Unstuck (Some people “come back around” later; Pioneers Army member. Upon her release, she was Gerry Fisher some never do.) The basic idea is that, we advised not to return to Oxnard, CA. where all can withstand some rejection if we can BY VANN MILLHOUSE she made her home. Mrs. Anderson relo- count on a loving, gay family to hold us. As Black History month 2012 draws to a cated to Los Angeles, CA until her passing Finally, in addition to safety, consider close we must always remember to honor in 1954. Families First who has the power. If someone has the those that have gone before us. A people The Black Church has always benefit- ability to force you into the streets, force without knowledge of their past are a peo- ted from the gifts bestowed upon the LGBT Our old friend, Tales of the City author you into “reparative therapy,” or withdraw ple who face an uncertain future. Living persons in their congregations. Although Armistead Maupin, is on his “coming out” funding for your undergraduate education, your truth with integrity, humbleness and we often hear disapproval of who we are, soapbox again. In a recent interview for then I would support you staying closeted. a spirit of assured- Willmer “Little Ax” Broadnax the UK’s Pink News, he said, “I think we’ve Wait until you can get your feet underneath ness will place you Willmer ‘Little Ax’ is an African-American man cut [our families] too much slack for far too you and can stand on your own. in the long line of Broadnax who used his gift of voice to long.” Maupin spoke about how his North Graduate school coming-out: Hav- pioneers. celebrate his spiritual beliefs. Carolina relatives joyfully participated in ing moved from Massachusetts in 2009, The African- Born in Texas in 1916, “Little his wedding, and then plan to vote that I’ve noticed that we here in Maryland are American trans- Ax,” and his brother formed a right away in the next statewide election. more “discreet,” “bi-curious,” and “not into gender community gospel group call the Golden Just this past week, a buddy spoke in the scene.” In terms of building the grass- has such pioneers Echoes. The group was short frustration about his semi-sort-of closeted roots support needed to win a referendum in its books. Dur- lived but Mr. Broadnax was friend who is out to close friends and fam- or field an effective counter-attack against ing a recent search not discouraged. Recording ily, and who exchanged engagement rings the homophobes, I’m sorry, but our com- for transient fore- with King Records as a mem- and plans to marry in DC soon. At work, munity isn’t ready for prime time. Yet. mothers and fore- ber of the Spirit of Memphis colleagues noticed the ring, and gently, Here are a few suggestions. First, if fathers of color I Quartet, Mr. Broadnax made enthusiastically asked whether “there was learned about Mrs. a powerful music with his ten- anything that we should be celebrating.” “In terms of building Lucy Hicks Ander- or voice that touched anyone He said nothing to them and just smiled. son, the first trans- listening. He also recorded Finally, I was reading a blog comment the grassroots support gendered African- with the Fairfield Four and about California’s Proposition 8. After con- needed to win a American woman the Five Blind Boys of Missis- fronting his parents about voting against to be convicted for sippi. Before passing in 1994, marriage equality, one reader cut off most referendum or field impersonating a at which time it was discov- contact with them. Later, he married in a woman. Before the term transgender came ered that he was assigned female at birth, pro-marriage-equality state. After his par- an effective counter- into existence, Mrs. Anderson, born in 1886 Mr. Broadnax recorded with the Blind Boys ents found out about the wedding, they attack against the as Tobias Lawson, informed ‘his’ mother in the 70s and 80s. told him how hurt they felt… because they that ‘he’ wanted to wear girl clothing. Not Mr. Broadnax, too, instinctually knew weren’t invited. homophobes, I’m sorry, understanding her ‘sons’ desires, the child he was a man. Daring to be true to him- On the one hand, I’m not interested was taken to the doctor. Imagine what the self and celebrate the higher power of his in forcing anyone’s timetable for coming but our community isn’t doctor suggested! The early 1900s, an Afri- out or forcing them to into an aggressive ready for prime time.” can-American child assigned male at birth, style that feels wrong to them. On the other staunchly declaring who they are; a black hand, straights vote with us in far larger female! What to do? It was simple. The doc- numbers if they know LGBT people. More- you find in conversation that you are about tor encouraged the mother to allow her child over, we’re about to face a referendum on to “play the pronoun game” or do other ver- to live as a female. So clear-cut, yet so pro- marriage equality. bal gymnastics, then just come out. “Fake found, this is a concept that many people in In my work as life and career coach, it until you make it.” Speak it very, very the ‘modern’ age still cannot grasp. I help people who want assistance with matter-of-factly, so that your tone of voice Eventually, Tobias changed the given coming out. In this column, I’ll divide tips and body language convey, “this is normal, name to Lucy and independently started to into Coming Out 101 (for beginners) and no big deal.” make her way through life by age 15. Mov- Graduate School Coming Out (for those Help them to connect the dots. This ing to Texas, in 1920, Clarence Hicks and who have been out to self, friends, and a past summer, I tried to convey to my elder- Lucy shared nuptials in New Mexico. Mar- few family members for at least a decade). ly mom and aunt how personally hurtful it ried for nine years Mrs. Anderson fulfilled Lucy Hicks Anderson Coming Out 101: It has to be about was to have such homophobic candidates her womanly desire as a wife before laws safety. Before you come out, make sure running for a major political party in 2012. were erected to deny transgender people understanding further validates Trans per- that you are not vulnerable to physical at- They stared at me blankly, not getting it. I basic human rights. Owning a business and sons of color and trans people as a whole tack, homelessness, becoming trapped in then forwarded Howard Stern’s recent rant remarrying to Mr. Anderson, further proved as productive, influential, necessary peo- a bullying environment, or instant loss of on the same subject, and they got it. that living in your simple truth will make you ple of society. It appears that transgender employment. If I can get my elderly mom to listen a trailblazer. individuals, before the label emerged, have Begin by coming out only to a few very to Howard Stern using “F” bomb in every Her marriage to a serviceman became lived life unapologetically. Sharing and cel- trusted, close people who are 99% likely other sentence, then you can take Mau- null when the district attorney of Ventura, ebrating our pioneers’ accomplishments in to be on your side. Choose a parent, older pin’s advice and nudge your straight allies California, learned of her birth assignment. what appears to be a more restrictive time brother, aunt, counselor, private support to step it up a notch. It’s time. t Accusing her of perjury, signing the mar- may move our legislative system nation- group, close friend, or someone else on Learn more at BaltimoreLifeCoachGer- riage license as a woman, Lucy said, “I wide to grant basic human rights to great whom you can really, really depend. ry.com defy any doctor in the world to prove that human beings. t 22 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD FEBRUARY 24, 2012 • BALTIMOREOUTLOUD.COM PEOPLE WE LIKE Community Bulletin Board went on to win was a weight set and a bed. Brooks “When they showed the bed, I leaned over and told Bob that I really needed a bed February 24 - March 18 March 4 – since I was sleeping on my sofa. He asked if Osman he could mention that on air and I said ‘yes’.” Agnes of God Baltimore Antique After he played the game and won, Bob Spotlighters Theatre. Summoned to a convent, Dr. Martha Bottle Show Livingstone, a court-appointed psychiatrist, is charged BY JAY LOANE Barker asked the crowd to join him with 32nd Annual Baltimore with assessing the sanity of a young novitiate accused of Antique Bottle Show. Largest On April 7, 2007, a dream he had came true saying, “All together, let’s say nighty-night murdering her newborn. Miriam Ruth, the Mother Superior, when he heard announcer Rich Fields say Brooks.” one-day bottle show in determinedly keeps young Agnes from the doctor, the world with over 300 those famous words.... “Brooks Osman, Brooks still has everything he won on arousing Livingstone’s suspicions further. Who killed the come on down.” The Price Is Right – including the bed. tables. 8:00 a.m. to 3:00 infant and who fathered the tiny victim? 817 Saint Paul p.m. at Physical Education He ventured to California with Brooks grew up in Lu- Street, Baltimore, MD. Adults $20 / Seniors (60+) $18 / Center, CCBC-Essex, 7201 a good friend when he learned, like therville, Baltimore County. Students $16. Friday & Saturday at 8:00p.m. / Sunday at Rossville Blvd., Baltimore, many of us, that the most popular After high school, instead 2:00p.m. Order online at www.spotlighters.org 21237. Admission only $3. game show host, Bob Barker would of heading to college, he Free bottle appraisals, free be retiring soon. So, he stood in started working on a career. February 27 parking, handicapped accessible. Baltimorebottleclub. line for 11 hours. Luckily, they were “I worked at a lot of high Baltimore City Health Department org, ph: 443-545-9863. taping two shows that day because end gardening companies Free Flue Shots. No appointment, first come first Brooks didn’t make it into the first and became known as ‘The serviced. Please bring all shot records. Schedule March 10 show. Plant Doctor’. If anyone subject. Some adult shots also available. Call For more Maryland’s Underground Railroad Lecture After getting a call back num- had plants that were dying information 410-396-4454. www.baltimorehealth.org Harriet Tubman Day Commemoration. Celebrate ber – lucky number 67 for him, he or sick, I would get the call.” Maryland’s connections to the Underground Railroad returned a few hours later praying His talents do not stop and attend a lecture given by the Maryland State many would not show up. there. As an accomplished Archives. Hear the stories of slaves escaping to “The studio holds 300 so we did musician, Brooks is in- freedom and learn about their journeys. This program get in but were in the back upper Brooks Osman volved with a local band will highlight stories told in Flee! Stories of Flight in row,” Brooks commented. – InDEADnation. “I started Maryland in Black and White, a traveling exhibition In the second half of the show, playing the piano at five,” created by the Maryland State Archives’ Study of the (you can find Brooks’s episode on YouTube) he commented. Legacy of Slavery in Maryland. 1:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m. with a bid of $4 for camping equipment, The type of music the band plays is, as Banneker-Douglass Museum Brooks won his way on stage. The prize he Brooks describes it, “we are a tribute band to 84 Franklin St., Annapolis, MD. Free. Registration the Grateful Dead.” True to form of Grateful encouraged. For more information or to register, call Dead concerts, no two shows are the same. 410.216.6181 or email [email protected]. If you are looking for a fun evening and enjoy The Grateful Dead music, you can usually find InDEADnation playing at The 8x10 Club in Federal Hill; The Recher The- atre in Towson or even at Au Poitin Stil in Timonium. Besides his love of music, Brooks works at the Stoneleigh Lanes (just south of Tow- son). “They [the bowling alley] are duck pins, which is fun and our alley supports the LGBT community.” The only downside to this bowl- ing alley is there are stairs you need to go down to get to the alley. I won’t be there any- February 27 - March 4 time soon, though I do enjoy a good game of bowling. Coastal Disturbances at FPCT And an event upcoming that everyone For the first time in Baltimore, Tina Howe brings us needs to attend, is the 3rd Anniversary of this beautiful story that examines love from all sides, InDEADnation and Brooks’s 40th birthday amid the ebb and flow of summer life in a private New party on March 3rd. Both can be located at, England beach, swirling around a mishmash of quirky characters. Fells Point Corner Theatre, 251 S. Ann St., March 16 you guessed it, Stoneleigh Lanes. Baltimore. $17 Friday and Saturday Nights; $15 Sunday The Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington Brooks resides in the Stoneleigh area Matinee; Thursday Night. Only $10! Info: fpct.org. with, as he calls it “my best friend. We were Richard O’brien’s The Rocky Horror Show. The Gay friends for 22 years and together for three.” February 28 Men’s Chorus of Washington will continue their 31st season of shows with an all-male production of the The coupleshares their home with two kitties. Baltimore City Health Department When I asked Brooks to describe him- musical RICHARD O’BRIEN’S THE ROCKY HORROR Living Well with Diabetes. Educational class for the self, he quickly pointed out what I have SHOW. March 16 &17 8:00 pm, and Sunday, March 18 prevention of complications for people with diabetes at 3:00 pm. Lisner Auditorium George Washington known about him for years. He is a “fun- 4th Tuesday of each month. Joslin Diabetes Center, University, 730 21st Street, NW, Washington, DC. loving happy guy and if you need help, I’m 6th Fl. North Hospital University of Maryland Medical Tickets can be purchased online at www.GMCW.org, your man.” Center 22 S. Green Street. 1:30p.m. – 3:30p.m. Contact by calling 202.293.1548 or at the door on the day of Good to know – I need work on my gar- information 410-328-6584. www.umm. edu/events/. the show. den. t

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The bedroom has two small gardens, historic charm mixed with contemporary accents closets, a chest, and a queen bed. The bath is a comfort- throughout. This intimate atmosphere is an escape for the able size with a large shower. With all the comforts of home soul, and creates a sense of wellness, ease and comfort to how could you go wrong? the mind. Then there are the comfortable beds with crisp Now we have the place to rest your head let’s look for white linens, pool, and jacuzzi, delicious breakfasts to re- some good food. juvenate with and a friendly Happy Hour where guests are Island House – Island House is a cafe and bar set in invited to mix and mingle with complimentary cocktails. Oh lush tropical gardens beside the resort’s pool. Guests can and yes, let’s not forget full concierge services that are dine under lazy ceiling fans and rusting palms looking at available. the Orchids in the trees and the naked men in the pool. 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Their menu features ers and the Bone Island Bears. ing lagoon fantastic grilled sandwiches, fresh wraps, crisp salads, Ital- Aqua Nightclub is Key West’s largest gay dance club, pool and the ian coffees, beer and Wine, and tasty desserts. drag shows with the Aquanettes, karaoke, Dueling Bartend- spacious in- With dinner done it is now time to party. Let’s see what ers, happy hour Trivia, Texas Hold ’Em, and live entertain- ground ja- we can find. ment. There are three bars including an outside wet bar. cuzzi. There 801 Bourbon Street – The legendary 801 has been a Cork & Stogie – Boutique wine, craft beers, and one- LGBT Group Cruise is a large part of the gay Key West landscape for over 30 years. En- of-a-kind cigars are offered in a friendly atmosphere. Their departing from Baltimore sun yard with joy the downstairs bar or the upstairs nightly cabaret that regular customers particularly value that they personally approve all products that they carry. See Join your friends them and enjoy the most intimate porch on and make new ones Sept Duval Street. onboard the KWEST Men – was voted “The most Carnival Pride. 23 changeable bar in Key West.” During the day This 7-night Eastern it is a very popular “Cheers” bar with a Happy Caribbean cruise will explore Hour from 3-to-9 p.m. At night the shutters the Turks and Caicos and come down, the music and lights change the Bahamas. Your food and as strippers take to the stage from 10 p.m. entertainment will be provided, Open to 4 a.m. bring your sense of adventure and Whether you are looking for a romantic get ready for a good time! retreat or decadent fun, you can find it here Includes Private Cocktail Party in Gay Key West where they throw a party where you’ll meet others from this 365 days a year! Drag shows, commitment group. 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Taking away someone’s home is serious busi- all the paperwork required. These affidavits, ness, and throughout most of U.S. history, signed by the banks themselves, say that the court system has ensured that borrowers although some documents are missing the cannot be forced from their homes without a bank still testifies that it does have the au- powerful legal reason and an abundance of thority to proceed with the foreclosure – and supporting evidence. However, during the that it did at one time have all the proper pa- past 2-3 years foreclosure courts have been perwork. Many judges have ruled that such allowing hundreds of thousands of evictions affidavits are valid, and it is hard to believe to go ahead based on apparently inadequate that the court system will now do an abrupt documentation, which includes such things as about-face at the risk of causing economic fraudulent paperwork and forged signatures. chaos and legal pandemonium. In the offices of some lawyers hired by There may be some exceptions, of mortgage companies, for example, a single course, and it is worth it for LGBT borrowers individual might sign as many as 1,000 fore- to fight to get their property back if they feel closure documents per day. That’s an aver- they have been treated unfairly. age of about one every 20 or 30 seconds, Those with the best chance of win- meaning that they cannot possibly read or ning a reversal are borrowers who qualify scrutinize for accuracy the papers they are in two significant ways. First, they need to signing. The phenomenon has given rise to show that the mortgage lender failed to fol- the moniker “robo-signing” – a term that has low standard protocol during the foreclosure become synonymous with this latest chapter process. It is also just as important to dem- in the ongoing foreclosure crisis. onstrate that they were never delinquent on The disturbing lack of legal protocol has their payments. tens of thousands of LGBT borrowers won- If those two things are true then the mort- dering what it means to them. The biggest gage company was clearly at fault and a question on everyone’s mind is whether fore- foreclosure judge may decide to unwind the closures that were allowed under question- foreclosure and give the borrower back their able circumstances will now be overturned. property – even if it has subsequently been As might be expected, it all depends on each sold to somebody else. Since most people individual situation. Many people, including who have been foreclosed on have already those in high government offices, believe that moved into another residence and may not there is no excuse for sloppy documentation. be interested in getting their old house back, “These people think they can play by the majority of these cases are resolved a different set of rules,” said Ohio Attorney through a cash settlement paid by the lender General Richard Cordray in an interview with to appropriately compensate the borrower. Bloomberg Television, referring to big banks Those LGBT homeowners who are fac- and other major mortgage lenders who can- ing imminent foreclosure and have not yet not produce the required paperwork to vali- lost their homes may be in the most encour- date foreclosure actions. He called the use of aging position in the midst of all this drama. flawed affidavits – which have justified hun- Before going forward with new foreclosure dreds of thousands of foreclosures – a “busi- cases, the courts will be much more cautious ness model for fraud.” and strict, and many mortgage companies Nevertheless, it still may be quite diffi- have already instituted temporary moratori- cult for LGBT homeowners to get their fore- ums on foreclosures until these new allega- closures reversed in court. When there is tions are resolved. compelling evidence, for example, that the The Sheriff of Cook County, Illinois, for borrower missed the monthly payments on a example – who has jurisdiction over the en- verifiable mortgage a judge will be reluctant tire city of Chicago – stopped serving evic- to overturn the foreclosure. It is highly un- tion notices on approximately 1,500 loans likely in those circumstances that the court managed by companies including J.P. Mor- will throw out a mortgage company’s claim to gan Chase, Bank of America, and Ally Finan- repossess property in favor of the borrower cial. The sheriff explained his drastic action simply because there are some supporting to reporters by saying, “I can’t possibly be documents or authorized signatures miss- expected to evict people from their homes ing. Required mortgage payments that are when the banks themselves can’t say for obviously unaccounted for will normally carry sure everything was done properly.” He said more legal weight than a few missing loan he will only resume foreclosure evictions documents – shifting the burden of proof to when he is assured that the foreclosures are the borrower. 100 percent legal. t In some ways, in fact, that legal territory To find gay- and gay-friendly real estate has already been tested. 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