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what’s inside 16-17 FEATURE Volume XXXIV, Number 1 www.tulsakids.com Picture Books Help Introduce Truth and Empathy to Children By Quraysh Ali Lansana

18-19 EDUCATION Tips for Choosing a School PICTURE BOOKS HELP INTRODUCE By Denise Yearian IN EVERY ISSUE 10 STAGES: Babies & Toddlers Tips for Building Emotional Vocabulary TRUTH AND EMPATHY TO CHILDREN By Kiley Roberson

12-13 STAGES: School Age Make Reading with Your Child a New Year’s Resolution By Mary Beth Ritchie, LCSW

CARING IS 14 STAGES: Tweens & Teens Exercise: A Pandemic Prescription By Julie Wenger Watson

20 A DAD’S VIEW CATCHING ON Lucy and Ethel in Middle School By Rep. John Waldron

21 Tulsakids.com What’s Going On(line)? BY QURAYSH ALI LANSANA 16-17 Be the example. 22-23 BOOKS Magic Trick: Art, Reality, and Books to Treasure Wear a mask and follow By Laura Raphael, MA, MLIS, Children’s Services Coordinator, TCCL

COVID-19 precautions regularly. 26-29 COMMUNITY CALENDAR By Tara Rittler

30-31 GREEN COUNTRY GROWN-UP Meet Teressa Lee: Happy Hands and Happy Heart Protect yourself, your loved ones By Nancy A. Moore Tips for Building Tips for Choosing Schools Emotional Vocabulary 10 18-19 32-33 GET COOKING and our community. Nothing Says “Comfort” Quite Like Warm Pasta Dishes By Natalie Mikles

40 I’M A TULSA KID Sophie Raskin: Singer/Songwriter By Sheeba Atiqi

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Magic Trick: Art, Reality, Nothing says “Comfort” Quite Spread Care. Not COVID. 22-23 and Books to Treasure 32-33 Like Warm Pasta Dishes WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM JANUARY 2021 5 editor’s note tulsaFOR PARENTS. FOR FAMILIES.kids FOR LIFE.

Publisher: Charles Foshee Looking Forward to 2021 Associate Publisher Like many of you, I wasn’t sorry to see 2020 in the rearview mirror. Life was & Editor In Chief: betty Casey disrupted in so many ways by the pandemic. It’s almost mind-boggling to Treasurer & Comptroller debbie Talley think that at this time last year, we were going about our normal lives. Anoth- Web Editor: tara Rittler er major historical event that dove-tailed with the pandemic was the murder Advertising Sales: brandi Moore of George Floyd, and the subsequent protests against systemic racism that it Lindsey Copes ignited around the world. If only there were a vaccine for that. Production: Charles Foshee As a small contribution to understanding, TulsaKids teamed up with OSU-Tul- Johnny King sa and the Tri-City Collective for a series of Facebook Live events called “Dis- Cover Photo: Andrea Murphy Photography mantling Racism.” Our January event about the impact of Martin Luther King, Distribution: Joan Perez Jr. beyond “I Have a Dream” will be on Wed., January 20 from noon to 1 p.m. I Editorial & Special Danielle Hill hope you will join us. Projects Assistant The pandemic has brought much suffering, but also much creativity, from Contributing Writers: how students are learning to, in our case, how we have expanded the reach of Denise Yearian Kiley Roberson TulsaKids Magazine by delivering almost 120,000 digital editions into homes Mary Beth Ritchie with children each month. Julie Wenger Watson John Waldron As the vaccine makes its way into our lives, we can look forward to more Laura Raphael openings of businesses, schools, places of worship and restaurants, not to Nancy A. Moore mention participating in social activities that we may have taken for granted Natalie Mikles in the past. Sheeba Atiqi Quraysh Ali Lansana Life for parents certainly doesn’t stop. It may have been different last year, but moms and dads are still caring for kids and helping them move toward a bright future. After all, having children assumes a certain belief in the future, that life will be even better for our children as they grow to adulthood. In the face of uncertainty, we may have nothing but hope and the ability to do the small things that improve our lives and the lives of those around us. As you read this issue, you’ll find some comfort in comfort food. Natalie Mikles’ recipe column has some delicious, warm pasta meals for the cold month ahead. TK PUBLISHING inc. And, many of you are spending more time at home with your children. This is an opportunity to teach your children and to share your values. So, when TulsaKids is published monthly by TK Publishing, Inc., your toddler asks you to read the same book for the one-hundredth time, 1622 So. Denver Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 don’t despair. Your child is learning so (918) 582-8504 many important things. Read Quraysh Ali FAX (918) 583-1366 Website: www.tulsakids.com Lansana’s piece about reading, and also ©TK Publishing, Inc. 2020. Mary Beth Ritchie’s column about how to All Rights Reserved. maximize your child’s experience. Volume XXXIV, Number 1 Publisher You’ll also find our annual Education & [email protected] Enrichment Guide in this issue. If you’re Editor-In-Chief looking for a school, start with this guide, Betty Casey [email protected] associate publisher and alendar and use the tips in our Choosing a School C editor in chief (submit by 10th of the month prior) article to help guide you. [email protected] Articles and advertisements in TulsaKids do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the magazine or TK Publishing, Inc. We do not assume responsibility for statements made by advertisers or editorial contributors. The acceptance of advertising by TulsaKids does not constitute an endorsement of the prod- ucts, services, or information. We do not If you like to read TulsaKids, you may not know that ON OUR COVER: knowingly present any product or service you can watch us, too! Every Thursday morning on which is fraudulent or misleading in nature. Tulsa’s Channel 8, the local ABC affiliate, join Editor COVER KID WINNER EVAN CZARNIAK Betty Casey on Good Day Tulsa for tips to plan your IS DRESSED FOR WINTER IN A WOOL family’s weekend and more. Watch Good Morn- COAT, LINED WOOL PANTS, SHIRT AND BOWTIE ALL FROM LOLLY MEMBER OF ing Oklahoma on GARDEN CHILDREN’S CLOTHING Tuesdays for tips on IN UTICA SQUARE. timely topics and fam- ily information you’ll PHOTOGRAPHY BY want to know. ANDREA MURPHY PHOTOGRAPHY

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PARENTS INVITED TO APPLY FOR WRITERS’ FELLOWSHIP The Writers’ Colony at Dairy Hollow in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, is inviting writers who are parents of dependent children to apply for the My Time fellowship funded by the Sustainable Arts Foundation. Work may be any literary genre: fiction or nonfiction, poetry or prose, script or screenplay. Prior publication is not a requirement. The fellowship includes a one-week residency at Dairy Hollow and a $400 stipend to cover childcare and/or travel costs. Each writers’ suite has a bedroom, private bathroom, writing space and wireless internet. A European-style dinner is prepared five nights a week in the community dining room, and the kitchen is stocked with breakfast and lunch basics. Applications must be accompanied by a writing sample and a non-refundable $35 application fee. Deadline to apply is Monday, March 15, 2021. For more information and an application, go to www.writerscolony.org/fellowships.

TULSA EDUCARE OPENS NEW CENTER Tulsa Educare recently opened a new facility, Tulsa Educare-Celia Clinton. Tulsa Educare provides year-round early learning and family engagement for children in under-resourced commu- nities. With the addition of the new center, the Tulsa Educare system can now provide education and care for more than 650 children from 6 weeks old through age 4 with full-day, year-round early childhood education and family support services. For more information, visit www.TulsaEducare.org.

HAPPY MEALS PROVIDE FUNDS FOR RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE If you notice a one-cent increase in the cost of your Happy Meal this year, that penny is going to a good cause. For every Happy Meal sold in a U.S. McDonald’s restaurant during 2021, the additional cent per Happy Meal will help support Ronald McDonald House Chapters and families. To help further the impact, 100 per- cent of the funds raised with the Happy Meal penny during 2021 will go to local RMHC Chapters. In addition to the donation increase, McDonald’s will release a 2021 RMHC- branded Happy Meal box to help further spread awareness of their mission.

PHOTOGRAPHY ARTIST LESLIE HOYT Our long-time cover photographer, Leslie Hoyt, shot her last TulsaKids cover in December. Over the years, Leslie has photographed the smiling (and sometimes not smiling) faces of children and teens who have graced our covers. Whether it was an uncooperative 2-year-old or a perfect 12-year-old, Leslie was always able to get the shot. She has been honored by the Parenting Media Association (PMA), our professional organization, for her work. But, like many creative people, she is taking on new imaginative challenges. Moving more toward art photography, Leslie is creating art images that will add a unique design element to homes and businesses. You can see one of her images here, but there are many more incredible works on her website. We will miss Leslie and her talents, but we wish her well with her new endeavor. To see more of Leslie Hoyt’s fine art, go to https://lesliehoyt.com.

WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM JANUARY 2021 7 TULSA AUTHOR RELEASES NEW CHILDREN’S BOOK SERIES Tulsa author Cheryl Alfrey Waldeck has released a series of eight children’s historical fic- tion adventure books designed for young readers ages 6-10. The eight books in the series detail the adventures of a fearless young girl named Meridian Playa who travels through time on the wind. In a flur- ry of white light and swirling mist, Meridian Playa travels back in time and around the globe, where she experiences the culture, people and sights of each location. Waldeck hopes to engage young chapter-book readers in Don’t Miss Out! Meridian’s adventures, while also providing social studies, geography, history and language les- TulsaKids Summer Camps & Activities Guide sons along the way. Each book culminates with Meridian taking part in a historical event in real time. In the most recent book, March 2021 Meridain travels to1889 Paris, France, where she climbs to the top of the Eiffel Tower with Gustave Eiffel himself. For information contact Lindsey or Brandi: Each book contains a map of the country, 20 words in a new language, historically accurate [email protected] or [email protected] descriptions, illustrations by the author, new words to learn and or 918.582.8504 a recipe for a new food. “The Adventures of Meridian Playa” books are available at www.cherylwaldeck.com or on Amazon.

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8 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM Discover the Power of • Small Class Sizes (Avg. 10:1) • Service Oriented • Accelerated Academics • Christ-Centered Education ONEONE Healthy Habit

In 2021, the future looks bright. Make the most of it by adding one healthy habit to your daily routine. Before you know it, you’ll feel stronger, healthier and more energetic. Get started with one of these activities:

Drink one more glass of water per day.

Fill half your plate with fruits and veggies at each meal.

For a better night’s sleep, avoid screen time one hour before bed.

Get 30 minutes of physical activity a day — and make sure your kids get 60!

Want more ideas and inspiration?

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BY KILEY ROBERSON

tips for building emotional vocabulary

s human beings, there using easy words that they can are so many emo- understand. You can use picture tions we experience books to pair emotions with facial throughout our lives. expressions, as well. Doing this AProcessing those feelings, truly will help them put a word to understanding them and what describe exactly how they feel they mean is an important part instead of speechlessly crying or of personal growth and develop- relying on tantrums. ment. Unfortunately, this hard Talk about your own work of emotional discovery feelings – Remember to also doesn’t come naturally. Even the lead by example. Talk about most evolved among us still have your own feelings and show moments of caveman tendencies. how you express those emotions. Don’t we all just want to pick As a parent, you are your something up and throw it when children’s greatest role model. we’re really angry? What about They will mimic how you speak feeling like you just want to and what you’re doing. So, be collapse at the end of a long, careful with how you express stressful day? Yes, we all feel it… your emotions especially when but our kids actually do it. you are frustrated or angry. That’s right, for young chil- Examples of feeling words– dren, when words don’t come Try replacing some common feel- easily, they often resort to the PARENTS CAN HELP YOUNG CHILDREN EXPRESS EMOTION USING WORDS. ing words with new ones to help only way they know how to grow your child’s vocabulary. express their feelings…physical- • Instead of saying, “I am feeling ly. For pre-school aged children, and encountering some for the and bad and that each emotion good,” teach them to say “I am this can be exceedingly difficult first time. has its corresponding causes and –”: delighted, loved or contented because they are just entering a As parents and caregivers, consequences. They also learn • Instead of “I feel sad,” try “I formal learning environment and it is important for us to help our how to use the most appropriate am –”: uncomfortable, worried atmosphere populated with other kids develop a wide range of words that can best describe or concerned youngsters who are also lacking vocabulary for their emotions so their situation instead of throw- • Instead of “I am angry,” try in the self-regulation department. they can accurately describe how ing tantrums or resorting to “I am –”: embarrassed, over- So when the block tower tips they feel. By using diverse and violence to get attention. And at whelmed or annoyed over or a coveted toy is picked up specific words to describe feel- the same time, we get to support Enriching your child’s by someone else, the tears and ings, you can increase your child’s their emotional health develop- emotional vocabulary is a helpful tantrums begin. So how can we emotional vocabulary and give ment from early childhood to way for them to put a label on help our kids find ways to cope? them many words they can use their adult lives. their feelings and take control of Experts say the best way is to to describe how they feel in order So how do you get started their actions. It also helps build help them find words. to express themselves. helping your children build a big a strong sense of self at a tender It is vitally important to By intervening and teach- and robust emotional vocabulary? age, which can definitely help teach and empower children ing our kids how to expand their The American Academy of your child succeed later on. to use words to express their emotional vocabulary, they under- Pediatrics has the following emotions. But of course, it is not stand the subtlety of emotions. recommendations. always easy for them. They are They learn that there is a wide Help explain the feeling– still exploring their own feelings range of emotions between good Start by labeling the feeling

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BY MARY BETH RITCHIE

make reading with your child a new year’s resolution s we approach the that might not normally come beginning of a new up in conversation. Children are year, many will consid- exposed to subjects and situa- er making resolutions. tions that they may not encounter AOne of the most valuable resolu- in their own lives. This can help tions you might consider making to broaden their understanding of this year would be to read aloud the world. Discussing these top- to your children every day. This ics will serve to strengthen the particular resolution will provide bond between you and your child. your child with many emotion- Sharing books with your al and educational advantages. children will also increase their Additionally, it will build the bond vocabulary. The language of books between you and your child. It is different from our everyday oral can also be a lot of fun! language. It’s much more rich Many parents of school-aged and descriptive. This enhanced children stop reading aloud to vocabulary will lead to improved them because the children have language and writing skills. These learned to read independently. abilities will be advantageous for Don’t let this stop you! There are your children in the academic and still many benefits to this pleasur- professional worlds. able activity. At this age, you may Reading to your children can want to include chapter books. also help to develop their listening These books will provide more skills, attention spans, and imagi- complex plots and advanced nations. These qualities will serve vocabulary. Be sure to discuss them well in school and in life what you’re reading. This will beyond the classroom. Success help to develop critical thinking READING WITH YOUR CHILD BUILDS MULTIPLE SKILLS – AND IT’S FUN! in the classroom demands strong skills that will be needed as chil- listening skills. Some suggest that dren transition from the “learning are often lessons and life skills do in this situation?” These con- the time spent reading together to read” stage to the “reading to to be learned from books. Help versations may also contribute to will help your child to develop an learn” stage. The conversations your child learn to identify these. building a strong sense of empa- increased attention span as they about what you are reading are Characters may be dealing with thy in your child. focus on the stories. With each just as important as the actual some of the same issues as your Sharing a book with your new school year, your child will time spent reading. This not only child. This helps to normalize child is an intimate experience need an increased attention span increases the potential for bond- their feelings and experiences. that helps to strengthen the bond and improved listening skills. ing, but it can also help with cog- It also opens the door for dis- between you. There is a physical Literature opens up a whole new nitive skills and critical thinking. cussions between parents and intimacy because you are usually world in the imagination. Devel- Ask open-ended questions such children. Open-ended questions in close proximity while reading. oping the imagination will help as, “What do you think might can be helpful with this, too. Try There is also an emotional intima- to cultivate creativity, a desirable happen next?” asking questions such as, “How cy as you share the book togeth- quality in many areas of life. Books can also assist with do you think that character feels er. Books offer opportunities to social-emotional learning. There right now?”, or “What would you discuss a wide variety of things continued next page

12 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM Developing the habit of read- ly want to have some of your ing to your children will result favorites. Make use of your local in your child associating reading library. Choose a combination with pleasure. This can help your of fiction and nonfiction books. child to develop a love of learning, Librarians will be happy to help which will promote the lifestyle you find books that your child will of a lifelong learner. This is one enjoy. Most importantly, make of the most important qualities this time fun! You want to instill needed throughout life. Success a love of reading, so it’s important in any field depends on continu- that your child enjoy the expe- ing to learn. rience. Don’t be shy. Use funny Are you convinced of the voices for the characters to help numerous benefits yet? How will bring them to life! you go about creating a plan? When contemplating your You may want to establish a spe- resolutions this year, I hope you Four of the six most recent Bishop Kelley valedictorians are School of Saint Mary alums. cial time for reading. Make it part will consider reading to your of a daily routine. I chose to read children every day. The benefits In annual standardized testing, School of Saint Mary with my children right before bed are undeniable and can last a life- middle school students test like high school graduates. each night. It was a pleasant and time. You will be fostering a love relaxing activity that was part of of reading and learning in your The school prepares students for academic successes in a our bedtime routine. You will like- children. You will be contributing faith-filled, caring environment. ly find that your children look to their success in school and in forward to this time each day. life. The relationship between They will enjoy your undivided you and your children will be attention as much as the stories. strengthened as you have fun School of Saint Mary You do not need to own an sharing books together. Turn the Schedule a tour of the school today. extensive personal library at your page to Chapter 2021 with this 918-749-9361 schoolofsaintmary.com home, although you will certain- valuable New Year’s resolution!

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BY JULIE WENGER WATSON

exercise: a pandemic prescription

here’s no way around it. polypropylene is best next to the 2020 was a stressful year. skin. Avoid all-cotton t-shirts. Although the arrival of They can get soggy and cold. The the Coronavirus vaccine next layer should be something Tis in sight, experts say it will be like a loose-weave wool sweater some time before things “return to trap air. For colder weather, add to normal.” In the meantime, an additional layer, like a polar many of us, including teenagers, fleece. Finally, a breathable layer are struggling with anxiety and made of water resistant material depression brought on or exac- helps protect against wind, wet erbated by the pandemic. While and extreme cold. Don’t forget a there are many things we simply hat, mittens and wool blend socks can’t change right now, there are on particularly cold days. Add a some basic steps we can take to facemask or a scarf, as needed, keep our families and ourselves then get out and go. healthy. Exercise is one of them. RESOURCES Exercise & adolescents Most of us are well aware Riverparks.org. of the importance of exercise for Check out this website weight control, disease preven- for an overview of Tulsa’s trail tion, and mood regulation. Phys- system, including Turkey Moun- ical activity is particularly critical tain, and printable maps. for adolescents at a time when long hours in front of a computer Gatheringplace.org. screen and decreased social inter- Find hours, Covid-19 action define the pandemic life- EXERCISE BOOSTS PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH. updates and details about the style. Not only does it keep them Sports courts, Skate Park and physically fit, it’s a natural boost that “green exercise” also reduc- run, bike, or hike, there are just BMX Pump Tracks for this 66.5- for mental health. Studies show a es anger and depression and so many opportunities to get out acre park. sedentary lifestyle is associated improves mood. Think biking, hik- and enjoy yourself. In addition, with a greater risk of depression ing, walking, running and even The Gathering Place offers some- Oxleynaturecenter.org. by the age of 18. jumping rope. thing for everyone. I’ve never Explore miles of free hik- Fortunately, Tulsa offers seen anything like it.” ing trails at both Oxley and sister Exercise during a pandemic a variety of public spaces suitable park, Red Bud Valley. The Centers for Disease for all kinds of physical activity. Dress for success Control recommends 60 minutes “The outdoor recreation- Ice, wind, rain, snow, and Parks.tulsacounty.org. of daily exercise for teens. al component here is bar none,” even an occasional balmy day A guide to Tulsa’s park With most organized team sports notes Joel Koester, director of - winter in Oklahoma is unpre- system, including the 192 acres on hold and access to gyms lim- sport sales for Tulsa Sports Com- dictable at best. With the right of Chandler Park where you can ited, this is a tough time to get mission/Tulsa Regional Chamber. wardrobe, however, your teen climb rocks and hike trails. moving. Shifting your fitness “It’s one of the best infrastruc- can brave the elements. Layers focus to the great outdoors can tures I’ve seen in my travels. are key for staying dry, warm and Incog.org. help. Exercising outside is not You’ve got this amazing trail comfortable. Some type of “wick- Includes maps of Tulsa’s only a safer way to interact with system that runs right next to ing” fiber, like silk, a wool/cotton recreational trail system. others right now, studies show the Arkansas River. Whether you blend or a synthetic material like

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BY QURAYSH ALI LANSANA PICTURE BOOKS HELP INTRODUCE TRUTH AND EMPATHY TO CHILDREN “In Greenwood, we have everything we need, and it might surprise you to know that everyone looks like me.” from Opal’s Greenwood Oasis

icture books are among the school-aged to read to them. greatest resources in an Dr. Vanessa LoBue, in a elementary teacher’s toolbox. 2019 article for Psychology Today, writes “…besides talking to There were few picture children, reading to them aloud Pbooks in my home as a child, also likely exposes children to except for those I checked out new and different words that from the public library. They were parents don’t often use regularly too expensive and too non-es- in everyday speech. Along these sential for my lower-working lines, studies have shown that class parents’ budget with six the number of words infants pro- children. Food and electricity duce and understand is predicted provided enough struggles. But by how much they are read to. they believed in fostering better Besides benefits for word expo- lives for their children, and educa- sure, there is also evidence that tion was at the top of the list. We babies can learn specific content owned a complete Encyclopedia from books, which can begin Britannica set, which was paid for even before a baby is born. In on layaway. fact, researchers have found that Like many people, I was babies can learn the rhythm of a introduced to picture books in specific storybook in the third tri- kindergarten at reading time. mester of pregnancy.” Mrs. Cobles guided us to the Though babies in the womb numbered rug to sit, and we are unable to see the illustrations, drank in the stories and images QURAYSH ALI LANSANA, POET, AUTHOR, EDUCATOR parents often describe what the she conjured. As the youngest images detail in their reading and of six, I knew words had power those words quite yet. me the ability to dream, to imag- the images color the manner in from my older siblings, church But stories and images took ine. This is one reason why pic- which the words are rendered. and 1970s Soul, Funk and R & B me to places and time periods far ture books are important, and you music. I just couldn’t spell most of removed from Enid. They offered don’t have to wait until a child is continued next page

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Parents, your words matter, at Najah-Amatullah Hylton, and I every age and stage of a child’s chose to highlight Black excel- development. lence over Black pain. We chose My career in education offi- to end the story just prior to the cially began in the early 1990s in Tulsa Race Massacre because we Chicago. I was a teaching artist believe the horror and violence with a Chicago Public Schools was too much for the age group vendor license a few years before to ascertain. the city would become known as Opal has just turned eight. the birthplace of contemporary She has just learned to ride her Arts Education, in part due to the bike and has newly gained the elimination of art teachers among trust of her parents that she the rank and file. I hated that art can navigate the neighborhood teachers were the victims of bud- on her own. This is a universal get cuts, as many were friends childhood experience. This and art’s a critical pathway to transcends ethnicity, gender understanding and respecting and sexual orientation. The other cultures. But I loved the beauty of picture books is the freedom to develop my lesson grounding in the familiar. plans, in partnership with units Opal feels safe and loved in of study, to help teachers fur- her community. There are folks ther the learning experience for who are not kin that look out for their students. I could inform my her, who question why she is on curricula with language arts, cre- her own on her bike. Opal is run- ative writing, art, music, current ning an important errand for her events, history and more. mother, her family. She is being The spark that gave birth OPAL’S GREENWOOD OASIS (THE CALLIOPE GROUP, FEB. 2021), COAUTHORED helpful to her mother. BY QURAYSH ALI LANSANA AND NAJAH-AMATULLAH HYLTON AND to Opal’s Greenwood Oasis, my ILLUSTRATED BY SKIP HILL, IS A CHILDREN’S PICTURE BOOK ABOUT THIRD- Books are written to new children’s book, was ignited GRADER OPAL BROWN, WHOSE FAMILY LIVES IN PRE-RACE MASSACRE encourage critical thinking, to in an eighth-grade classroom at GREENWOOD. OPAL RIDES HER BIKE AROUND GREENWOOD, HELPING HER ask questions, to learn about FAMILY PREPARE FOR THE COMMUNITY’S MEMORIAL DAY PICNIC. Donoghue Elementary School on history or different ways of Chicago’s southside in 1995, 25 Tubman, her life, work and her many routes to the Prom- thinking. Miss Gwendolyn years ago. womanhood. I dug deeply into ised Land. We wore her skin. Brooks, the first Black person to Voicing the margins, the researching Tubman to discover The students thrived. We had receive the Pulitzer Prize and one under-explored aspects of the that only two books that detailed localized and found agency for a of my mentors, said “Art should histories of people of color and her truths existed at the time. history hundreds of years gone. move us to think, not tell us otherwise marginalized humans, There were hundreds of fictional- These students found the tether what to think. We have enough has been a driving force in my ized accounts of her life and story, between yesterday and today, pundits, preachers and politicians life since I was an undergraduate but only two real books of biogra- and I became enraptured by who try to tell us what to think.” journalism student at OU in the phy. I didn’t want Harriet to live Tubman for the next several As parents, you have the ability early 1980s. It was there I began in the land of Santa Claus and the years. They Shall Run: Harriet and responsibility to mold your to comprehend the tenuous teth- Easter Bunny. She was flesh and Tubman Poems was my graduate children’s consciousness. er between yesterday and today. blood, woman and Black. school thesis and my second My teaching work in Chi-town The students and I engaged book of poetry. AUTHOR BIO: only solidified the idea that we in a series of kinesthetic, oral You don’t have to be a Quraysh Ali Lansana, poet, cannot arrive at now without and written exercises examining multi-degreed person to do this. author, educator, is a Tulsa Artist understanding the who, what the human, political and geo- You just have to be open to a Fellow, Writer in Residence and when, where, why and how the graphical realities Harriet might history that is inclusive of all adjunct professor at OSU-Tulsa, journey began in the first place. have endured on her journeys. involved. You just have to be a former faculty member of the One of my tasks at Dono- We discussed the weight, both open to truth. Picture books help School of the Art Institute of ghue was to make Civil War personal and social, of her work. adults introduce truth and Chicago and The Juilliard School. History, a required component We explored the climate of chat- empathy to children. His most recent titles include of U.S. History units, tangible and tel slavery and legislated racism Opal’s Greenwood Oasis is Those Who Stayed: Life in 1921 accessible for Black teens in which she led hundreds of a picture book that explores the Tulsa After the Massacre and growing up in a neighborhood enslaved Africans to freedom. rich, vibrant history of Black life Opal’s Greenwood Oasis. He is a grappling with daily surviv- We checked weather charts in the Greenwood District prior member of Tri-City Collective. al. I chose to focus on Harriet and topographical maps along to its destruction. My coauthor,

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tips for choosing schools

he pandemic has thrown child study or spend quality time students, parents and together. teachers into an educa- tional maelstrom. In this 7. Schedule a visit Tunique time, families are more This may be difficult due often focusing on just holding on to Covid guidelines, but if you today rather than looking to the can, arrange to visit schools that future. Regardless, how children meet your initial criteria. This will are being educated has become give you a feel for the school’s the focus of worldwide attention. academic and developmental Teachers have become heroes as philosophy. Note, however, that they create new ways to reach even schools which adhere to their students, and parents have like-minded philosophies can be more appreciation for the role of tremendously different. A school schools in their lives. If you are that seemed to be the perfect looking at schools, consider fit on the internet, on paper or these tips. phone may prove otherwise once you have visited. And the school 1. Get real with you weren’t initially drawn to recommendations may be the “one.” That’s why Get input from other parents it’s important that you go. Test it. you know and trust. At the same need of constant direction might teaching philosophy? Is there Feel it. See what it is like. time, realize there is no perfect be more suited to a structured a vision for the future? Is there school or one-size-fits-all aca- environment. anything the school does particu- 8. Meet with authorities demic setting. Every school has larly well? What about the curric- While visiting, spend a few a different flavor, and one is not 3. Make a list ulum? Will it cater to your child’s minutes talking with the principal necessarily better than anoth- Write down what you are talents, interests, temperament or school administrator. Discuss er. It’s that one may be a better looking for in a school. Be specific and learning style? your child’s needs and ask if the fit for your child than another. about ambiance, class size, teach- school can meet those needs. Listen to other parents, but also ing style, curriculum, the role of 5. Don’t let cost limit you Ask about discipline policies, and realize that your child may have art and music, homework and Look at a school, even if expectations. very different needs than their where parents fit in the running you don’t think you can afford it. children. of the school. Then prioritize your Many academic institutions offer 9. Make observations list. Some things, such as class scholarships or have financial If possible, sit in on classes 2. Consider your child’s size, a strong art program or reli- aid based on need, so ask about and observe the teachers and stu- individuality gious affiliation, may be non-nego- it. At the same time, ask about dents. Write down obvious facts Take in to account your tiable. Other things would be nice what financial expectations may such as school and class size, child’s strengths, weaknesses, but not necessarily mandatory. exist beyond just tuition. diversity, ambiance as a whole interests and talents. Also mull and within individual classrooms, over what sort of learning envi- 4. Research options 6. Go the distance, if needed absence or presence of a dress ronment your child would be Check out schools’ websites, A ride as far as 30 minutes code and general demeanor of the most comfortable in. Self-motivat- or call and ask for more informa- may be worth it if the school has students and teachers. Also take ed learners, for example, may tion. Consider each one’s pro- an environment where your child note of the students’ attitudes do well in a program where they gram, mission, services, faculty will be happy and thrive. Look and emotions. Did they appear get to direct and carry out their and administration. What makes for someone to carpool with. the school unique? What is its own learning. But a child in Or use that distance to let your continued next page

18 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM comfortable and relaxed, or anx- ious and uptight? Questions to Ask When Considering a School 10. Ask for references What is the school’s teach- If you haven’t already done ing philosophy? Is it accredited? so, get names of several parents What kinds of books are the whose children attend the school children expected to read? Who that would be willing to talk with chooses them? you. Find out what they do and How and when is writing don’t like about the school. If you and composition taught? Is there can, obtain a few names of par- time for creative writing? ents who were not happy with Is the curriculum established the school and enrolled their chil- or does it emerge from the stu- dren elsewhere. All schools have dents’ interests? success stories, but no school How often do the children works for every child. Finding out use textbooks? Workbooks? about a child who did not thrive Worksheets? there can give you a balanced When do children start get- perspective. ting homework? How much at what grades? 11. Get your child’s take How are the children Return to the schools that assessed? meet your criteria and bring When does computer/tech- your child with you. Have him nology education start, and what or her meet the teacher, and if does it involve? possible, spend time in the What extracurricular activi- classroom with the other stu- ties are offered? Is there an dents. What was his or her extra cost? reaction? Did your child seem How much time is spent on comfortable with the school? art, music, drama and physical The teacher? Other students? education or athletics? Are there opportunities for 12. Follow your intuition students who are advanced in You know your child better certain subjects to move ahead, than anyone else. If you have and are students who are strug- done your homework, you’ll know gling provided with special if it’s the right school for your tutoring or individualized help? child. Sometimes it’s not neces- If the school is a high school, sarily a specific program or aca- are there AP and honors classes demic feature that lets parents available? know it’s a good match. It’s that Are there many opportu- intangible feeling—that viscer- nities for cooperative learning? al reaction. They know this is a Inquiry-based learning? Projects? place where their child can grow How is discipline for improp- and academically succeed. er behavior carried out? What is the code of conduct? What about online conduct? What qualifications do the teachers have? Who makes decisions about the school? What level of parental participation is allowed? What is the expected level of parental participation? Art like nothing else.

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BY REP. JOHN WALDRON

lucy and ethel in middle school his year, I’ve been for- about plotting points on a graph tunate enough to stay in math class. Now try doing it at home while my child with text boxes and a cursor. experiences virtual Students end up spending much Tlearning at Edison Middle School. of their time learning systems, so As a former teacher, I am fasci- the same number of math exercis- nated by the process, and deeply es takes much longer online. grateful for his wonderful teach- Less is more. The real goal ers and the work they are doing. of education is to open minds But I am also concerned about up to new ways of thinking and the pressure the virtual approach expressing. But modern data- puts on the children. I see my based education systems tend to son working through weekends value task compliance. Since we and breaks and still not keeping can measure how many tasks a up – and I know he is not the only student checks off, we see that one. Being a teacher has never as a measure of progress. But been harder. They have to do I would challenge educators to everything they ever did, but in slow down and allow students many cases they now do it online, more time to think. It’s often the while learning a dizzying array of empty spaces between assign- new systems. So I’ve tried to use ments that produce the best my two viewpoints – teacher and all alike; each unsuccessful heavy work simultaneously, the learning. They don’t have much parent – to express my assess- student is unsuccessful in their kids would be overwhelmed. But empty space right now. ment of the picture. If I was still own way. Some of these ways if I relented unilaterally, the space Readers, don’t be too hard teaching, this is what I would use could include: lacking adequate I created might just be taken up on teachers right now. They to shape my approach. technology or wi-fi access; living by another teacher’s workload. really need a break. And parents, Lucy and Ethel at the in a noisy house; the absence It’s hard as a teacher to see the don’t be too hard on yourselves. Chocolate Factory. In a famous of strong parental support; a workload from the student’s I know it can feel like your fam- episode of I Love Lucy, Lucy and disorganized approach to learn- viewpoint, because we have only ily is the only one struggling Ethel get a job wrapping choco- ing; a tendency towards per- our own perspective. It helps with this. But until we deal with lates on an assembly line – but fectionism, which keeps them when teachers meet by grade COVID-19 as a society, we’re the line moves too fast, with from completing assignments; levels to compare notes, but we going to have to learn how to hilarious results. It’s less amusing an unwillingness to ask for help don’t always give teachers the adjust to it. If that means figuring in a school setting. Children in when confused, and so on. In an time and the flexibility to do that. out how to do virtual education middle school can receive dozens ordinary classroom, a teacher has We should. well, then so be it. I have faith of assignments each week. Many the chance to observe students Everything takes longer in the excellent teachers in our of them are small assignments and help them overcome these than you think online. The virtual public schools. They’ll find a way and exit tickets. Some of them are obstacles. This is much harder in setting presents an array of new to make it work, as they have very big and take hours. The pace a virtual setting. challenges. Art projects have to be always done. In the meantime, of the work is unrelenting. So if The homework arms race. photographed and emailed before let’s all be patient. a student falls behind on one, it As a former teacher in a compet- they can be uploaded. Math becomes very difficult to make it itive school, I know that teachers assignments might involve more John Waldron is an Oklaho- up because a new wave is always often competed for the attention than one platform. Edmentum, ma State Representative, former coming in. of their students. I wanted my Canvas and other systems all have teacher and a dad. The Anna Karenina Prin- classes to be rigorous – but so did their own quirks, and learning ciple. Successful students are my colleagues. If we all assigned these systems takes time. Think

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BY LAURA RAPHAEL, MA, MLIS, CHILDREN’S SERVICES COORDINATOR, TULSA CITY-COUNTY LIBRARY

magic trick: art, reality, and books to treasure MEET ZACHARIAH OHORA ON JANUARY 22 FOR “BOOKS TO TREASURE” omething magical hap- the final public presentation by pens when you page Zachariah OHora. through a picture book. 2. See Zachariah OHora on Sure, the visual images January 22! Zachariah OHora Smake a story come to life – that’s will “visit” Tulsa virtually for a pretty magical. And, yes, sharing live presentation on the library’s picture books with your child YouTube channel. Check out can create beautiful moments of www.youtube.com/tulsalibrary joy and wonder, a magic trick on Friday, January 22 at 7 p.m. you will want to share again to see Zachariah talk about his and again. inspirations and share his art- No, the actual inexplicable, work – both recent and his child- mind-bending magic recently hood creations! revealed by cognitive science is 3. All second graders in that what your eyes see, your Tulsa and Tulsa County can get brain believes is reality. a special library card online. If The elephant on the picture you have a second grader, you book page lifting its massive can apply for a special Books trunk? Your elemental brain To Treasure library card online totally thinks the elephant is at www.tulsalibrary.org/kids/ flesh and blood in front of you. books-to-treasure and it will be Same with illustrations of ZACHARIAH OHORA mailed to you. You can also go a desert landscape, laughing program, the scientific connec- card with artwork from that to any of the 24 library locations babies, or a redheaded girl yell- tions between reality and art illustrator. to apply for a Books To Trea- ing at a huge bear in a green in the brain wasn’t the driving For 2020, Zachariah OHora sure library card for your second shirt. Your eyes see and your force. But the idea that “art is is our illustrious illustrator, his grader. brain registers: desert, babies, magic” definitely was! delightful moral tale “Horrible 4. Books! Books! Books! girl and bear. Sophisticated brain Because one other magical Bear!” is what every second Copies of “Horrible Bear!” are scans and scientific studies thing happens when children are grader will receive, and the being delivered to schools this prove this odd evolutionary trick: surrounded by books with beau- library card shows the final month to distribute to second The same regions of the brain tiful illustrations and supporting scene of reconciliation between graders, but if your child is in that light up when you see an text -- they become better and redheaded girl and bear. homeschool, virtual school, or actual object in real life also light more fluent readers. Five Things To Know somehow missed the school up in exactly the same way as Every year, as part of Books About Books To Treasure delivery, parents can also pick when you see an artistic repre- To Treasure, an outstanding This Year up books at any of our 24 library sentation of that object. children’s book illustrator is 1. The program says 2020, locations. In other words, art is magic! invited to speak in Tulsa, a free but everything won’t take place 5. You can find a ton of When the Tulsa City-Coun- copy of his or her book is given until 2021. Because of the pan- extra resources for learning! ty Library partnered with the to every second grader in Tulsa demic, the library has had to Teachers and parents who have Anne and Henry Zarrow Foun- and Tulsa County, and all second delay a few things related to become homeschool teachers dation nearly 20 years ago to graders are given the opportu- Books To Treasure, including develop the Books To Treasure nity to apply for a special library book delivery to schools and continued next page

22 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM at www.tulsalibrary.org/kids/ books-to-treasure. You’ll also find lesson plans for each of our past Books To Treasure honored illustrators going back to 2003!

BOOKS TO TREASURE 2020 Featuring Zachariah OHora All second-graders in Tulsa County will receive a copy of Horrible Bear! (illustrated by Zachariah OHora, written by Ame Dyckman) and will have the opportunity to get their own special library card featur- ing artwork from Horrible Bear! Public Presentation: Friday, January 22 7 p.m. Live on YouTube: may be interested in the many youtube.com/tulsalibrary wonderful lesson plans related Find out more here: www.tulsal- to Zachariah Hora’s books ibrary.org/kids/books-to-treasure

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Miller Swim School I Sarah Miller On the Cusp Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics I Dr. Ryan Roberts, DDS

Q. I really want my little one to be comfortable in the water this Q: When should I look into braces for my child? spring and summer, but I’m not sure what to do for babies his age? A: Orthodontics is a major role in your child’s mouth! Orthodontics A. Babies as early as 4 months old can willingly accept water acclima- deals with the diagnosis, prevention, and correction of wrongly posi- tion, sometimes even more so than their preschool-aged counterparts! tioned teeth and jaws as well as misaligned bite patterns. We have an While babies as young as 4 months old can begin swim lessons, there orthodontist at our office and he, along with the American Academy ARE some activities you can do at home to help familiarize them with of Orthodontics, say children should have an orthodontic assessment the water beforehand! around the age seven! Now that doesn’t mean your child will need Start by introducing simple toys to your child in the bath. Show them braces at seven-years-old, but it is important to get an assessment to how to use the toys, and sing songs as you play. This creates a positive association with the make sure all teeth are coming in correctly, to see if there is crowding, water from the get-go! or if your child needs a tooth or two extracted to perfect their smile. Most pediatric Next, help them prepare for submersions. Start slowly, by introducing a light trickle of water on dentists practice interceptive orthodontics, which means diagnosing and treating their head. Then, gradually increase the amount of water until you can wet their entire head. malocclusions (the abnormal alignment of the upper and lower teeth) as soon as they are detected! Usually a candidate for braces will be around the ages 11-13 years old, when Finally, make a point to keep bath time fun. Be silly, make up games and keep your infant a child has their permanent teeth! At my office we offer free orthodontic consultations if laughing. Remember, the earlier you can make your little one feel at ease in the water, the easier it’ll be to get them swimming and enjoying water throughout you ever have any questions, don’t hesitate to call! their childhood. South: 8222 E. 103rd St. 6415 S. Mingo Rd., Tulsa • 525 W. 91st St. S., Jenks 918.254.1988 Midtown: 4444 S. Harvard Ave. millerswimschool.com 918.921.8822 • OntheCuspdds.com

HTR Pediatric Therapy I Christina Saveth, M.S. CCC-SLP. Dyslexia Center of Tulsa I Dr. Penny Stack, Founder & Owner

Q: My child has sensory issues. How do I get them to wear a mask all Q: I’ve noticed that my son sometimes writes letters backwards day at school? even though he knows them. Could this be dyslexia? A: This question is on a lot of parents’ minds. The first thing I recommend is to A: Letter reversals are commonly thought of as a sign of dyslexia. buy the right size. Make sure it’s for pediatric wearers. Second, it’s important to However, not everyone who has dyslexia will have difficulties with include your child in the selection of their masks. Take into consideration cur- reversing letters or numbers, and vice versa. Dyslexia is a language rent sensory needs. For example, don’t buy a scratchy paper mask if you know processing disorder. Letter reversals are typically due to spatial aware- your child has issues with clothing tags. ness (knowing how to put parts together to create an image) or ocular I strongly advocate using a visual social story. Many children have issues with motor dysfunction (eye muscles working together to steady an object transitions, so a visual story that you read with them lessens their anxiety and creates space to discuss for visual interpretation). Both of these are separate from and not their feelings or fears. Social stories should also present the expectations you and the school will have associated with the language processing centers of the brain. Left untreated, frequent about keeping the mask on and asking for help if it causes discomfort. Find printable social stories at letter or number reversals can make reading, writing, spelling, and math challenging and www.theOTtoolbox.com. frustrating. An evaluation with an occupational therapist can help identify why he is Discuss why, how and when they need to wear a mask. Talk about how the mask feels when they writing letters backwards and with developing a treatment plan. put it on and which mask feels the best. Lastly, let them wear the mask for small increments of time; Dr. Penny Stack, OTD, OTR/L, CLT, set a timer if needed. At home, they can get used to wearing the mask, and you can 8988 S. Sheridan Rd #D1, Tulsa OK 74133 find out what bothers them about it. If you have any questions, we are here for you at 918.313.5518 HTRPediatrics! www.dyslexiatulsa.com HTR Pediatric Therapy • 6715 E. 41st St., Tulsa • 918.806.0106 • htrpediatrics.com

World Travel Service I Alex Eaton, President Premier Pediatrics of Bixby I Dr. Morgan, MD, FAAP

Q: What are the primary advantages of using a travel advisor Q: Is it too late for my child to get the influenza vaccine? over online travel “discounters” like Travelocity or Expedia, or simply planning a trip yourself? A: Vaccination is recommended to be done by the end of October each A: Some of the more obvious reasons for using one of our experienced influenza season. However, you are still able to get your child vaccinat- travel advisors are time and cost savings as well as greater access to ed! Most local clinics and health departments have influenza vaccines special rates and upgrades. However, the overarching advantage is that readily available as the influenza season is expected to last through travel advisors have a vested interest in you personally and work with April or May each year. Children are eligible to receive the influenza you to customize your trip. The rigidity of booking through Travelocity, vaccine once they turn 6 months old. Children under the age of 9 years Expedia or figuring things out on your own too often results in minimal to no assistance may need a booster immunization 4 weeks later depending on their vaccine history. with changes and does not offer much wiggle room for “mistakes.” Once you hit “send,” it’s on you to navigate and figure things out in an ever more complicated booking Illnesses this year, with our current pandemic, are stressful for families. Make sure to do environment. The prevailing good news is that travel advisors have deep relationships all you can to protect your children. with suppliers, thus allowing for adjustments and providing peace of mind and security in this new age of travel. Premier Pediatrics of Bixby 918.743.8856 • World Travel Service, 7814 E. 121st St. Bixby 7645 E. 63rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 918.943.5777 www.WorldTravelToday.com premier-pediatrics.com

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Drops of Hope Consulting,LLC I April D. Tate

Q: How do I prepare for an IEP meeting? A: Start by sitting down and thinking about your parental concerns. Think in terms of grades, handwriting, attention, speech and behavior. Write these concerns down – it is easy to forget important points you want to cover! Next, search through your child’s schoolwork to find samples to support your concerns. I suggest keeping all of your child’s work throughout the year. An easy way to do this is to set up a box in a spare closet and every day after emptying their folder, drop the work in the box. Then write a list of questions that you want clarification on: acronyms or words on the evaluation, etc. It is so important to write down everything that you want a better understanding of, because IEP meetings tend to be highly emotional. Taking these few quick steps to prepare will help you leave feeling informed and heard.

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come. Oxley Nature Center, 6700 members or with Museum admis- [FREE, W] = FREE WEEKLY [W] = WEEKLY Mohawk Blvd., 8-9:45 a.m. oxley- sion. Available while supplies last. naturecenter.org National Cowboy and Western • ALERT • Heritage Museum, 1700 Northeast *Please note: This information is correct to the best of our knowl- KIDS TAKE OVER THE COWBOY: 63rd St., Oklahoma City, 10 a.m.- edge. However, please always check with the event organizer WOMEN OF THE WEST 12 p.m. nationalcowboymuseum. ahead of time to confirm details, as information could change due The wild, untamed West was a org to COVID-19 or other factors. place where women could often reach beyond what societal norms WINTER WONDERLAND [FREE] established back east allowed. Gathering Place’s Winter Wonder- Botanic Dr., 5-9 p.m. Repeats Jan- They could often own land, run land has returned this year, with January 1 Friday uary 2 and 3. tulsabotanic.org businesses and even vote in many a focus on social distancing! places before the 19th Amend- GARDEN OF LIGHTS ment. Come celebrate the con- Experience thousands of twinkling Time is running out to attend Tulsa January 2 Saturday tributions of women in the West. lights illuminating the QuikTrip Botanic Garden’s Garden of Lights! SATURDAY MORNING BIRDING Take your shot at the Annie Oakley Great Lawn and ONEOK Boat- Pre-purchase tickets at tulsabo- [FREE] Markswomanship Shootin’ Gal- house, creating uniquely themed tanic.org to enjoy colorful lights, Enjoy some Saturday morning lery, try your hand at some rodeo realms designed to look and feel fire pits and s’mores kits, drinks, a birding at Oxley Nature Center! events and enjoy storytime at like you are in the North Pole! photo booth, hay maze and more! Bring binoculars if you have them; 10:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. Free for Learn more at gatheringplace.org. Tulsa Botanic Garden, 3900 Tulsa all ages and skill levels are wel- 26 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM COMMUNITY CALENDAR I JANUARY

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WINTER LIBRARY BINGO [FREE, BUILD A READER STORYTIME: ONGOING] FAMILY [FREE, W] Stop by your favorite library loca- Tune in for this real-time birth-5 tion and pick up a Winter Bingo storytime! Enjoy simple songs and sheet! Complete five squares in books for little ones and more a row to be eligible to win 1 of 3 interactive stories and activities cozy gift sets. Activities include for older children. Join here: www. reading books, attending virtual facebook.com/tulsalibrary. Can’t library events and more! Return make it live? The library will save completed Bingo sheets to your all storytime videos on Facebook favorite library location, or email and Tulsa City-County Library’s a picture of your completed sheet YouTube page for your children to to [email protected]. For adults enjoy later! Repeats January 14, ages 18 and up. January 2-31. tul- 21 and 28. 10:30-11 a.m. CELEBRATE NATIONAL HOT CHOCOLATE DAY ON JANUARY 31. salibrary.org WANT TO MAKE YOUR OWN? FIND SOME UNIQUE VARIATIONS – THE STUDIO: PANTONE COL- LIKE EARL GREY HOT CHOCOLATE – AT TULSAKIDS.COM. January 4 Monday ORS OF THE YEAR [ONGOING] following Zoom Color Along. For All month long, THE STUDIO at ages 10 to adult. Repeats January January 10 Sunday STRESS BALLOONS: TO-GO ahha Tulsa will have materials that 14, 21 and 28. 4-5 p.m. CRAFT KIT FOR TEENS [FREE] correspond with the Pantone col- FAMILY SWIM AT MILLER SWIM Use flour and a balloon to make ors of the year. This is your chance SCHOOL [W] a stress ball you can squeeze and to get creative with color! Included January 8 Friday Reserve your spot at Miller Swim stretch! Stop by the Brookside with admission. ahha Tulsa, 101 E. SECOND FRIDAY ART CRAWL School’s Family Swim time! $2 Library (1207 E. 45th Pl.) to pick up Archer St. ahhatulsa.org Because first Friday falls on New per person if currently enrolled a kit while supplies last. For ages Year’s Day, the Tulsa Arts District in swim lessons; $5 per person if 10-18. tulsalibrary.org COLOR ALONG [FREE, W] is holding a SECOND Friday Art not currently enrolled. Miller Swim Each week the Zarrow Regional Crawl! District venues will be School, 6415 S. Mingo Rd., 4-6 January 5 Tuesday Library will give out a new coloring open late with COVID protocols in p.m. millerswimschool.com/pro- page to color together during this place. Tulsa Arts District, 6-9 p.m. grams/open-swim NOS APOYAMOS! [FREE] virtual Color Along. Join on Zoom facebook.com/tulsaartsdistrict This support group is for Span- to show off your progress and/ January 11 Monday ish-speaking parents of children or post photos of your finished or January 9 Saturday with developmental disabilities. in-progress pictures on the library’s VISIT HELMERICH PLAY- For more information, contact weekly Color Along Facebook STORYTIME AT LAVENDER’S GROUND: BEHAVING LIKE ANI- Hannah Chaboya at TARC, at 918- posts here: facebook.com/zarrowli- BLEU LITERACY MARKET [FREE, MALS [ONGOING] 582-8272. 6-7:30 p.m. ddadvoca- brary. Pick up the coloring page W] At Tulsa Zoo’s new playground, cy.net using curbside service at Zarrow Enjoy a socially distanced story- kids can swing like monkeys, climb Regional Library (2224 W. 51st time each Saturday morning at like leopards and even hang from January 6 Wednesday St.). If you need colored pencils, Lavender’s Bleu! Hand sanitizer webs like a spider! The Behav- please ask for them and the library will be provided, and please wear ing Like Animals playground will CAREGIVER/CHILD YOGA will provide them, while supplies a mask! Lavender’s Bleu Literacy amaze kids and adults – and there With music and movement, you last. Or contact the library at ZR@ Market, 8210 S. Harvard Ave., 11 is plenty of seating, hand sanitiz- and your child are bound to have tulsalibrary.org to ask us to email a.m. lbliteracymarket.com er, etc. available. Pre-purchase fun during this short yoga practice it to you. Register with your email your zoo tickets at tulsazoo.org, together. Learn breathing practices address at www.tulsalibrary.org/ FAMILY SWIM AT MILLER SWIM as admission is limited each day. and poses you can do as a family events or email [email protected] SCHOOL JENKS [W] Tulsa Zoo, 6421 E. 36th St. N. at home. Discovery Lab, 560 N. for Zoom link (requests must be Reserve your spot at Miller Swim Maybelle Ave., 10:30-11 a.m. dis- received before Thursday). During School’s Family Swim time! $2 per FINDING LATINX: A VIRTUAL coverylab.org the last week of the month, people person if currently enrolled in swim CONVERSATION WITH AUTHOR who have posted a picture of their lessons; $5 per person if not cur- PAOLA RAMOS [FREE] STORY TIME AT TULSA ZOO [W] finished or in-progress pictures will rently enrolled. Miller Swim School Join TCCL for a virtual reading Warm up inside Rajan’s and join be entered into a drawing for a Jenks, 525 W. 91st St. S., 4-6 p.m. and discussion with Paola Ramos, the Tulsa Zoo for Story Time. coloring prize! The winner will be millerswimschool.com/programs/ author of “Finding Latinx: In Each week, visitors will get to lis- announced on Facebook the day open-swim Search of the Voices Redefining ten to a different book and have after the drawing and during the Latino Identity.” Join the His-

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boring Stuart Park are open daily January 15 Friday from 6 a.m.-11 p.m. Admission is free, and you can get printable CELEBRATE: NATIONAL HAT DAY scavenger hunts ahead of time at Dress up in your favorite hat – and gilcrease.org/gardens. 1400 N. do some research on the history Gilcrease Museum Rd. of head-wear! Fedoras, beanies, berets – what’s your favorite type TAKE-HOME CRAFT: NATIONAL of hat, and where did it come HOBBY MONTH [FREE] from? Stop by Central Library (400 Civic Center) and pick up a take- FANDOM FRIDAY TRIVIA: ‘90S home sewing kit in celebration of TV [FREE] National Hobby Month! Supplies Looking for a fun night of trivia are limited. Watch a preview for about your favorite ‘90s TV shows? this take-home sewing kit on the You got it, dude! Join TCCL as Central Library Facebook page: librarians test your knowledge on https://www.facebook.com/cen- everything from the “Fresh Prince” trallibrary/. For ages 5-12. Repeats to “The X-Files.” Register online January 19-30. at www.tulsalibrary.org/events to receive a Zoom meeting invite. JOIN TULSAKIDS FOR OUR FIRST VIRTUAL SCHOOL FAIR ON TEEN BOOK CHAT [FREE] JANUARY 13! DETAILS AVAILABLE AT FACEBOOK.COM/TULSAKIDS Questions? Contact Rebecca.Har- Join on Zoom to chat about the MAGAZINE [email protected]. For adults. Sequoyah Book Award nominee 6:30-8 p.m. panic Resource Center on Tulsa ready to get your groove on! Dis- “With the Fire on High” by Eliza- City-County Library’s Facebook covery Lab, 560 N. Maybelle Ave., beth Acevedo and swap favorite page, www.facebook.com/tulsal- 10:30-11 a.m. discoverylab.org January 16 Saturday recipes! Register online at www. ibrary, for this livestream reading tulsalibrary.org/events with your TULSA FARMERS’ MARKET and discussion. A vital and inspir- email address to receive the Zoom TULSAKIDS VIRTUAL SCHOOL [FREE] ing work of reportage, “Finding FAIR [FREE] link. Visit https://tccl.bibliocom- Shop at the Tulsa Farmers’ Market mons.com/item/show/4388073063 Latinx” calls on all of us to expand TulsaKids Magazine is hosting all year long! The Winter Market our understanding of what it our first ever Virtual School Fair! to find a print or electronic copy is held every other Saturday at today! Synopsis: Deciding what means to be Latino and what it Learn about local school options Kendall-Whittier Square, 1 S. Lewis means to be American. The first for pre-K through high schoolers. to do after high school is difficult, Ave., from 8:30 a.m.-12 p.m. tulsa- but Emoni Santiago knows what step toward change, writes Ramos, This event will take place on Face- farmersmarket.org is for us to recognize who we are. book – RSVP to our event page at her passion is: cooking. When a For all ages. facebook.com/tulsakidsmagazine new elective opens up, Emoni has for details! January 17 Sunday to take Culinary Arts. However, Emoni has a daughter, Emma, and January 12 Tuesday Find more events at tulsakids.com/ she relies on her Abuela for so CLAY DAY AT AHHA TULSA calendar. EXHIBITION: PROJECT HOPE, On one day a month, ahha Tulsa much. Can Emoni find the balance UNITY AND COMPASSION brings out the clay! Visitors can between school, family and her Leading up to the Trump rally this enjoy building and creating with January 18 Monday future, or what will she have to past June, local artists mobilized clay in THE STUDIO. It’s all includ- sacrifice? 6-7 p.m. TULSA MLK PARADE [FREE] to create works of art on boards ed with admission! ahha Tulsa, 101 The theme of this year’s MLK covering downtown storefronts. E. Archer St. 12-9 p.m. ahhatulsa. Parade is Standing Strong: For Jus- January 20 Wednesday From January 8-22, these works org tice, Truth, and Freedom. Attend- will be on display at Living Arts of SCIENCE DEMO ees are invited to remember Dr. Join Discovery Lab for an excit- Tulsa, 307 E. Reconciliation Way. January 14 Thursday King’s legacy and think about how Learn more at livingarts.org. ing science demonstration! This they can be a part of keeping his event is included with museum KIDS CONNECTION [FREE] dream alive. Detroit Ave. and John This is a social group designed admission. Discovery Lab, 560 N. January 13 Wednesday Hope Franklin Blvd. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Maybelle Ave., 10:30-11 a.m. dis- for children, grades K - 5, with mlktulsa.com DANCE & SING ALONG high-functioning autism For more coverylab.org Join Executive Director Ray Van- information, contact Sherilyn Wal- diver and the Discovery Lab band ton or Steve Pitts at 918-582-8272. January 19 Tuesday DISMANTLING RACISM: THINK- as they sing classic children’s 4:30-5:30 p.m. ddadvocacy.net ING ABOUT MARTIN LUTHER VISIT GILCREASE GARDENS songs. Dance with scarves, play KING, JR. [ONGOING] This month’s Dismantling Racism along with instruments, and be The Gilcrease Gardens and neigh-

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discussion will look at the life ets required. Reserve yours at and work of Martin Luther King, January 23 Saturday gilcrease.org. Gilcrease Museum, January 28 Thursday Jr., beyond the famous “I Have 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd. a Dream” speech. Join TulsaKids BEHIND THE SEAS FULL MOON HIKE Editor Betty Casey and OSU-Tulsa Camp isn’t just for kids at the January 25 Monday Take a self-guided night hike to professor Quraysh Ali Lansana on Oklahoma Aquarium! Spend a day experience the sights and sounds Facebook live at noon. And as Behind the Seas to learn about Find more events at tulsakids.com/ along a nature trail through native always, feel free to participate by how the Aquarium staff cares for calendar prairie and forest. Wear comfort- asking questions and comments its animals. Participants will feed able walking shoes and bring a throughout the discussion. face- animals on and off exhibit and January 26 Tuesday flashlight for this 1.5 mile hike on book.com/tulsakidsmagazine learn about our research and con- mowed path and rocky trail Not servation efforts. Ages 21+. Camp Find more events at tulsakids.com/ recommended for children under capacity is limited to 10 partici- calendar age 6. January 21 Thursday pants. Oklahoma Aquarium, 300 Aquarium Dr., Jenks, 8 a.m.-12:30 Hot cider, s’mores kits, and beer THE EXPERIENCE: IMAGINE AT p.m. okaquarium.org January 27 Wednesday and wine will be available for AHHA TULSA [ONGOING] purchase before or after your Have you made it to THE EXPERI- BIKES, BALLS & YOU (AGES 1-5) walk and fire pits will be located ENCE: IMAGINE? This fantastical WINTER WONDERLAND FAIRY [FREE, W] world is made up of art like noth- CAMP This open gym time for preschool- nearby. Ticket is $10 per person ing else. Six Tulsa-based artists Registration Closes January 9. ers is a great way to socialize with for Garden members; $15 for have built an entire floor for you Experience winter wonder in this other kids. Families must bring non-members. Spaces are limited to explore at ahha Tulsa. Learn short weekend session of magical their own riding toy. Please no and advance tickets are required. more and plan a safe visit for the fairy fun! Children will create a food or drinks in the gym. White- Purchase online at tulsabotanic. whole family at www.ahhatulsa. fairy wand, fairy wings, and a fairy side Community Center, 5009 S. org. Tulsa Botanic Garden, 3900 org/the-experience-imagine. Ahha headband inspired by the spar- Pittsburg Ave., 9-10 a.m. cityoftul- Tulsa Botanic Dr., 5:30-7:30 p.m. Tulsa, 101 E. Archer St. kle, snow, and ice of the season. sa.org tulsabotanic.org This camp will be taught virtually over Zoom. Supply delivery is an January 22 Friday MOVE IT! January 29 Friday additional $15, or supplies can Move to music, play a game, and be picked up at ahha at no addi- OUT-LIT: YA BOOK CLUB [FREE] read a book! All activities center CELEBRATE: NATIONAL Talk about issues No. 1 of the tional cost. Camp for kids ages around a theme and are designed PUZZLE DAY graphic novels “Backstagers” by 5-8 meets 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. and for young children’s physical, You can observe National Puzzle Tynion IV and Sygh; “Lumber- is $45. Camp for kids ages 9-11 mental, emotional, and social Day by doing any kind of puzzle, janes” by Watters, Ellis, Stevenson meets from 1-3 p.m. and is $75. development. Discovery Lab, 560 from crosswords to sudoku to the and Allen; and “She-Ra and the Learn more at ahhatulsa.org/class- N. Maybelle Ave., 10:30-11 a.m. classic jigsaw puzzle. Have a fam- Princesses of Power” by Gigi D.G. es/winter-wonderland-fairy-fun. discoverylab.org ily puzzle competition - or work Get e-books on Hoopla. Register together! online at www.tulsalibrary.org/ EXPLORE THE FLORA [FREE] TEEN CONNECTION [FREE] events to be emailed the Zoom Explore the flora at Oxley Nature This is a social group for middle January 30 Saturday link. For ages 12-18. 4:30-5:30 Center, 6700 Mohawk Blvd. 10:30 and high school students with high p.m. a.m.-12 p.m. oxleynaturecenter.org functioning autism. For more infor- Find more events at tulsakids.com/ mation, contact Sherilyn Walton or calendar BOOKS TO TREASURE [FREE] January 24 Sunday Steve Pitts at 918-582-8272. 4:30- Join children’s book illustrator 6 p.m. ddadvocacy.net January 31 Sunday Zachariah OHora LIVE on YouTube EXHIBITION: WEAVING HISTO- for a freewheeling talk that will RY INTO ART: THE ENDURING CELEBRATE: LIBRARY SHELFIE CELEBRATE: NATIONAL HOT include an art demonstration and LEGACY OF SHAN GOSHORN DAY CHOCOLATE DAY examples of artwork from when he [ONGOING] Take this opportunity to do a little Warm up with a cozy beverage! If was a kid! Join OHora here: www. Weaving History into Art: The re-organization! Are your book- you want to make your own hot YouTube.com/TulsaLibrary. Spon- Enduring Legacy of Shan Goshorn shelves looking a little…meh? Try chocolate from scratch, check out sored by the Tulsa Library Trust features the art of Shan Goshorn sorting your books by color or these recipes from our website: through a grant from the Anne and (Eastern Band Cherokee, 1957- thickness, or arrange the titles so tulsakids.com/hot-chocolate-inspi- Henry Zarrow Foundation. Visit 2018) and her legacy of influence they form a secret message! Don’t ration-four-unique-recipes. https://www.tulsalibrary.org/kids/ carried forward through the works forget to post a #libraryshelfieday books-to-treasure for more infor- of four contemporary Native photo when you’re done! mation. For all ages. 7-8 p.m. American women artists. Learn more at gilcrease.org/exhibitions. This exhibition will be on display through March 28. Advance tick-

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meet teressa lee – happy hands and happy heart hen Teressa Lee us, which was very inspiration- left her job of al to me. I believe it was God’s almost 30 years, calling to be a special education she was open to teacher, and I have a sincere com- Wthe possibilities and dared to mitment to ensure that children dream of the opportunities that are equipped with the foundation lay ahead. As a seasoned profes- of learning. sional in her field, she worried TK: Why do you think you that her talents might be over- have found your dream job? looked, but that was certainly not Lee: God had blessed me the case! She considers herself with the opportunity to teach fortunate to have found a posi- unique and special children in tion she loves and wants to share public school for almost 30 years. the message that you can land With God’s timing and a leap of your dream job at any age! faith, I was again blessed with TK: Tell us about yourself. the opportunity to continue Lee: I was born in Okmulgee working with unique children, and grew up in Liberty Mounds although in a private Christian (Hectorville), Oklahoma. I met my school. My passion for sign lan- husband while attending college guage, following God’s plan for in Edmond, and we have two my life, and the desire to see all children and two grandboys. kids learn is at Happy Hands My master’s degree is in Special Education Center! Education and I am currently TK: What advice would you teaching at Happy Hands which give to others on pursuing their is a Christian early education dream job? center. Our primary focus at Lee: Follow your passion and Happy Hands Education Center find your purpose in life. Pray and is for all to know Jesus and our TERESSA LEE LOVES WORKING WITH CHILDREN pay attention to the ‘God winks’ mission is “to empower children WHO ARE DEAF OR HARD OF HEARING. that may occur in your life! who are deaf and hard of hearing PHOTO CREDIT: SHEEBA ATIQI TK: Tell us about your job at or have other communicative dis- Happy Hands. orders to flourish.” heart.” Also, Matthew 5:16 is one to events where she worked with Lee: Being an assistant TK: What is your favorite of my favorite verses: “Let your special needs adults. I remember teacher is perfect for me as I con- inspirational quote? light shine before others, that wanting to go with her more than sider myself a ‘night light’ and Lee: I love this quote by they may see your good work and allowed because I enjoyed and not the ‘chandelier’. My class- Helen Keller because it reminds glorify your Father in heaven.” desired to help the residents. In room co-workers and I are a won- me to have deep and meaningful TK: What sparked your middle school, I had a wonderful derful team and we each have our connections: “The best and most interest in pursuing a career in teacher named Mrs. Joanne Cox. own God-given talents and skills beautiful things in the world education? She made a difference in my life that mesh together well so we cannot be seen or even touched. Lee: When I was young, I because she made learning inter- They must be felt with the would go with my Aunt Malinda esting and she really cared about continued next page

30 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM Training tomorrow’s can provide for and meet the indi- TK: Being a non-profit program, vidual needs of our children. how can individuals help Happy leaders today! TK: How has Happy Hands Hands? accommodated during the Lee: Being a non-profit, we pandemic? depend on donations. We have Lee: The pandemic has an ongoing Wish List if anyone affected our ability to meet new would like to donate. Our cur- people and potential new donors. rent needs are: Size 5 diapers, Nurturing, responsive teachers We are now offering virtual powder-free vinyl gloves, paper ‘See The Story’ tours instead of towels, copy paper and postage Academic curriculum: math, people actually coming inside stamps. science, phonics, art, and Spanish the building. Visitors and volun- TK: What else would you teers are temporarily restricted. like to mention? Age-appropriate learning centers We wear masks as we enter and Lee: I am incredibly blessed in each classroom exit the building and in the halls. and thankful for all the children We received a donation of clear I have known through the years. masks to wear as needed They have taught me many to accommodate lip readers. things about life! We remain in our own classrooms (like family) and have discontin- To learn more about Happy ued gathering as groups or vis- Hands Education Center, visit iting other classrooms. We very www.happyhands.org or call Call to enroll your child today! much miss seeing and hugging 918.893.4800. Happy Hands will our parents as staff now walk be having their next VIRTUAL (918) 258-0594 the children to and from the “See The Story” tour on January building instead of parents com- 21. Please contact Nathan Tifft if 1025 W. Kenosha, Broken Arrow, OK 74012 ing into our classrooms. We all interested: nathan@happyhands. RhemaChildCare.com wash our hands a zillion more org or 918.893.4812. times throughout the day! Our administration has developed a Pandemic Policy to help keep us safe and healthy. TK: What makes your class- room/curriculum unique? Lee: Our classroom is a unique setting where children enjoy play-based learning and ‘loose parts’ which helps them inspire imagination and creativity 35 YEARS OF on their own terms and in their own special way. We encourage and offer natural, sensory, and recycled materials for open-end- collaboratorsDISCOVERY ed learning. Our teacher-child investigators thinkers ratio remains small, giving us more availability to assist each performers child with their different needs innovators musicians and individual goals. We play outside as much as possible and environmentalists families are so blessed to have our own area right outside our classroom creators readers door to play and explore! Our children use a variety of aids and athletes SCIENTISTS ways to assist them with recep- difference-makers tive and expressive language, so in our classroom we accom- researchers modate their needs to enhance communicators communication and learning. Ver- problem-solvers bal skills and sign language are encouraged! environmentalistsRIVERFIELD.ORGwriters 918.446.3553

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BY NATALIE MIKLES nothing says “comfort” quite like warm pasta dishes omfort food is one of the degrees for 30 minutes. Remove cures for getting through the cover and bake an additional a long winter. 15-20 minutes or until the baked Particularly this rigatoni is bubbly and cheese is Cyear, we need foods that will golden. Garnish with the remain- warm and nourish our bodies and ing chopped basil. give us a lift. Eating them in a cozy room with a fireplace or lit EASY SPAGHETTI candles helps too. CARBONARA Children experience the Serves 6 same crash adults do after the • 1 pound spaghetti holidays, and can be buoyed by • 1 tablespoon olive oil the same things that give adults • 1 pound bacon joy. A simple needlepoint project, • 1 cup diced onion painting on canvas, learning to • 3 cloves garlic, minced play guitar, baking bread – invit- • 5 eggs, lightly beaten ing our children to join us in our • 1 cup shredded Pecorino winter projects is a good way Romano or Parmesan cheese, to sustain us as we continue divided to social distance and dream of • Salt and black pepper to taste warmer days spent with friends 1. Cook the spaghetti until al and family. Good food helps, too! dente. Reserve some pasta water. Big bowls of comfort food Drain pasta, place in a bowl and – think soups, stews and chili – toss with a little olive oil. are perfect for cold, dark nights. This meatless pasta bake is pasta according to package 2. In a large skillet, cook Another nearly universal favorite delicious and easy to make. You directions. Drain and set aside. bacon until crispy. Remove and for kids and adults is pasta. can substitute ziti, penne or any 3. In a large saucepan over drain onto paper towels. Tear or Most children are agreeable favorite pasta. medium heat, cook the marinara cut into small pieces. to a bowl of spaghetti and meat- CREAMY AND CHEESY sauce and cream cheese together 3. Using 2 tablespoons of balls, macaroni and cheese or BAKED RIGATONI until the cheese melts. Stir often. reserved bacon fat, cook the creamy, cheesy baked rigatoni. Serves 8 Add the pasta to the sauce and onion until just translucent. Add So we’ve gathered some of our • 1 pound uncooked rigatoni mix well. the garlic, and cook 1 minute favorite recipes for winter pasta • 1 (32-ounce) jar marinara sauce 4. Pour half the sauce in more. Return bacon to pan and dishes. These are the kinds of • 1 (8-ounce) package cream the prepared baking dish, and combine. recipes that will have your kids cheese, softened sprinkle with half the mozzarella 4. Combine the bacon mix- asking for seconds – a thrill for • 16 ounces shredded mozzarella and half the Parmesan cheese. ture with the drained pasta and parents of picky eaters. They also • ½ cup grated Parmesan cheese Top with 2 tablespoons chopped toss, adding more olive oil or make great leftovers, so make • ¼ cup chopped fresh basil fresh basil. Add the remaining pasta water if it seems dry. Add extra for dinner the next day, 1. Heat oven to 375 degrees. pasta and sauce, then top with the beaten eggs, and toss with or to put into a thermos for the Spray a 9-by-11-inch casserole the remaining mozzarella and tongs until eggs coat all of the kids’ lunch. dish with nonstick cooking spray. Parmesan. 2. In a large pot, cook the 5. Cover and bake at 375 continued next page

32 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM CHRISTIAN MONTESSORI ACADEMY In a Christ-centered environment, CMA educates the whole child using the Montessori Method. pasta. Add 1/2 cup cheese, and We love this fun idea for a toss again. Add salt and pepper pasta side dish from Food and to taste, and serve with extra Wine. It’s enough to fill 10 regu- Community oriented, multi-age classrooms cheese. lar-size muffins or 24 mini muffins. Authentic Montessori materials and curriculum This makes a great little meal Freedom within limits You might be surprised for toddlers. how much your kids will like MUFFIN CUP MAC Hands-on learning this pasta. If you’re not a fan AND CHEESE Opportunities to learn beyond the lesson of smoked salmon, you could • 4 tablespoons unsalted butter, An emphasis on whole learning and substitute cooked shrimp, or plus more for greasing retention just leave out the seafood. • 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour Learning with and from peers This recipe comes from food • 2 cups whole milk Led by Montessori trained guides writer J.M. Hirsch. • 8 ounces sharp cheddar based assessment LINGUINE WITH GOAT cheese, shredded Comprehension CHEESE, SMOKED SALMON • Salt AND PEAS • Freshly ground black pepper Serves 4 • 8 ounces ditalini • 2 tablespoons olive oil • 1/3 cup fresh breadcrumbs

• 1 medium red onion, 1. Preheat the oven to 350 thinly sliced degrees. Grease either a mini • 3 cloves garlic, minced muffin pan with 24 cups, or a • ¼ teaspoon red pepper flakes regular-size muffin pan. In a Christ centered environment, CMA educates the whole child using the • 12 ounces linguine 2. Heat 2 tablespoons of the SchedMontessoriule a t Methodour today! • 1 cup frozen peas butter in a saucepan over mod- 3702 South 90th East Ave. • 4-ounce package smoked erate heat. Add the flour and Tulsa, Ok 74145 salmon, cut into thin strips cook, stirring until smooth, for 1 918.628.6524 • 4-ounce log goat cheese, minute. Drain. Add the milk and www.montessorilearning.org cut into 6 chunks cook over moderately low heat, • ½ tablespoon chopped stirring occasionally, until thick- fresh dill ened, about 10 minutes. Add the • Grated zest of 1 lemon cheese and stir until it’s melt- • Salt and ground black pepper, ed and the sauce is completely to taste smooth. Keep the sauce warm 1. Bring a large saucepan of over very low heat. salted water to a boil. 3. In a medium pot of boiling 2. In a large skillet over well-salted water, cook the pasta medium-high heat, combine the until al dente. Add the pasta to olive oil, onion, garlic and red the cheese sauce and stir to coat pepper flakes. Sauté until the completely. Divide the macaroni onion is tender, about 5 minutes. and cheese evenly among the 3. Cook the pasta according muffin cups. to package directions. 4. In a small skillet over mod- 4. Meanwhile, add the peas erate heat, melt the remaining 2 to the onion and sauté until the tablespoons of butter. Stir in the peas are heated through. Remove breadcrumbs and cook, stirring, the skillet from the heat. until they are golden and toasted, 5. Once the pasta is done, 3 to 5 minutes. Sprinkle the toast- reserve ½ cup of the cooking ed breadcrumbs over the tops of water, then drain the pasta. Add the macaroni and cheese muffins. the pasta to the onions and peas, 5. Bake until golden and then toss. bubbling, about 15 minutes. Let 6. Add the smoked salmon, the macaroni cool in the cups for goat cheese, dill, lemon zest and 5 to 10 minutes before removing ¼ cup of the reserved pasta cook- them and serving. ing water. Toss until the cheese is melted. If the sauce is too thick, Make Ahead: Mac and add more of the pasta cooking cheese muffins can be baked, water. Season with salt and cooled and then wrapped individ- pepper and serve. ually in aluminum foil and frozen. Reheat in the oven or microwave.

WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM JANUARY 2021 33 “Meet Georgia …this fourth grader is a real go-getter.” She loves to read, so she started a student- SCHOOL led book club. More than 20 of her classmates wanted in on the fun and now they meet out- side at lunch and discuss the most recent book they picked together. HIGHLIGHTS She loves to write, so she and some of her classmates started turning out newsletters about class happenings. They feature things Parents, teachers like a review of the school Christmas play (calling it “pure magic”), an article questioning “Where are all the playground balls going?”, and students and of course they recognize the four-square “players of the week.” There are even inter- views with new students asking, “What do you love their schools! like about Metro?” with answers ranging from small class sizes to great teachers. “I was thrilled when these kids decided to They shared some take it upon themselves to create these clubs, and coming from a public school, I expected to jump through a lot of hoops for it to happen,” of their reasons said Leslie, Georgia’s mom. “However, it was really easy, and the teachers were so encourag- ing and willing to help. I am always amazed at with us on the encouragement the students get when they Metro Christian Academy have an idea.” 6363 S. Trenton Ave. Working together to help students achieve Tulsa, OK 74136 these two pages. their goals, it’s what Metro Christian Academy 918.745.9868 is all about. Metroca.com

“Why I chose this school for my child.” “We were really needing, for both of our kids, a very creative, indepen- dent environment. I looked for about a year and a half. When “What I love about University School is that it challenges my Montessori came on daughter academically but also nurtures her creative spirit and our radar, I knew we inherent curiosity about the world. In addition, you can’t beat had to be a part of it.” the cultural diversity of the student body; I know my daugh- –Jami Hill, ter is learning a lot about the world from her teachers but also parent of a middle school from her classmates who have roots in Africa, India, and China. and elementary student University School really is the whole package.” –Kristen Oertel

Montessori Academy of Owasso Contact Information Debra Price, Director | [email protected] 708 N. Atlanta St. Elizabeth Overton, Executive Director 326 S. College Ave. | Tulsa, OK | 918.631.5060 Owasso, OK 74055 [email protected] www.utulsa.edu/uschool www.owassomontessori.com 918-217-8033

34 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM “Why we JJ chose Monte Commandos Cassino” Center & “We chose Monte Cassino because the Aspiring teachers and staff go Chemist above and beyond to ensure our children are challenged, encouraged Cascia Hall Minimester and equipped with not inspires students like JJ only a high quality to experiment with new education, but faith, a ideas and to become sense of community, oustanding in whatever critical leadership skills, fields they desire. and a servant mindset.” –The Hulver Family

CASCIA HALL PREPARATORY SCHOOL 2520 S. Yorktown Ave. | Tulsa, OK 2206 S. Lewis Ave. | Tulsa, OK 74114 | 918.746.4238 918.746.2604 | www.casciahall.com www.montecassino.org | Contact: Brooke Jones

“Holland Hall has such In 2016 and 2018, God a loving and friendly grew our family through environment. I came the gift of international from a small school that adoption. As a multicul- I attended for 11 years. tural family, we realized I was mostly attracted to the importance and need to surround our Holland Hall because it children with diversity, was small, academically both in race and culture. inclined and prepares God opened our eyes to you well for college. My VCS and the moment we favorite part is learning toured the school and new sports and continu- walked through the hall- ing to meet new people. ways, we knew this was Overall, I love being a part the place for our family. of the Holland Hall family The culture of the school mirrors the culture of our and I know others do, too, own home. Knowing that because this school has so our children are being much to offer.” taught a solid education — Hosanna, new all while being encour- VICTORY CHRISTIAN SCHOOL Holland Hall 9th-grader. aged to develop the gifts 7700 S. Lewis Ave. | Tulsa, OK 74136 and anointing God has 918.491.7720 uniquely placed inside of www.vcstulsa.org | @vcstulsa HOLLAND HALL | 5666 E. 81st St. them is priceless. We are Contact: Jan Thomas, Tulsa, OK | 918.481.1111 proud to be Conquerors! Admission Specialist www.hollandhall.org –Rocky & Samantha Ausbrooks [email protected] | 918.491.7763

WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM JANUARY 2021 35 36 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM VICTORY CHRISTIAN SCHOOL to THE EXPERIENCE: IMAGINE, a large-scale in March. Be sure to call early, as spots are and in life. Students in grades 6-8 have Contact: Jan Thomas, Admissions immersive installation unlike anything else limited. Serving ages 4 months through opportunities to earn high school credit in Specialist in Tulsa. Activities are included with the Pre-K. Oklahoma DHS Licensed. *Adapted math, science, and world language. Students 7700 S. Lewis Ave. price of admission: $12.75 for adults, $8.75 drop off and pick up, sanitization and disin- in grades 9-12 can earn college credit in the Tulsa, OK for youth (3-17), and free for kids under 3 fection, and classroom procedures to meet extensive Advanced Placement program. 918.491.7720 and ahha members. Be sure to follow @ and exceed current community health and College-level courses are available to upper- vcstulsa.org ahhatulsa on social media for information safety guidelines* classmen through concurrent enrollment. Victory Christian School is a K3-12th grade, about community art classes, teen programs, Cascia Hall Upper School hosts a unique fully accredited school with a Biblical worl- and camps for school-aged children. Explore BRAIN BALANCE OF TULSA program called “Minimester” for students dview. Over the last ten years, our senior your creativity today! www.ahhatulsa.org 6022 S. Yale Ave. to explore student interests and ambitions. classes averaged $4.3 million in scholarship KingsPointe Village With an enrollment of approximately 550, offers, produced 8 National Merit Scholars, AUGUSTINE CHRISTIAN ACADEMY Tulsa, OK students are related to as individuals, result- and had an average score of 25 on their John Ahrens, Headmaster 918.488.8991 ing in stronger motivation and achievement. ACT. We had numerous district, regional 6310 E. 30th St. www.brainbalancecenters.com One hundred percent of Cascia Hall seniors and state championships while signing 43 Tulsa, OK The Brain Balance Program is the leading matriculate to college following graduation. student-athletes to collegiate scholarships. 918.832.4600 drug-free program designed to help kids We have played for state championships in www.acatulsa.org improve focus, behavior, social skills, anxi- CHANNING DAY SCHOOL football, basketball, baseball, track and golf Augustine Christian Academy is a Christian, ety, and academic performance. The Brain Contact: Carol Ainsworth while winning four state championships in a classical, non-denominational, college pre- Balance Program offers a comprehensive, 2952 S. Peoria Ave. row in Volleyball. Our 5th – 12th grade robot- paratory school for grades Pre-K–12. We non-medicated option that goes beyond the Tulsa, OK ics program competes in state and regional are dedicated to educating young people to more traditional, mainstream approaches 918.742.6731 competitions often resulting in invitations think, reason, and persuade from a distinctly you may have tried before to help your child www.channingdayschool.com to compete at the national level. Our band Christian worldview. Our goal is to equip get to the root of their challenges versus Channing Day School, Where love for learn- consistently obtains 1’s in state competi- students to understand their times, to impact masking them. The Brain Balance program is ing begins. It’s a fact: children who are given tions, and we are the only private school in their culture and to serve God and man. specifically designed to strengthen and build positive support right from the start are far Oklahoma to have won Sweepstakes. We Augustine Christian Academy uses a classi- brain connectivity with a unique combination more successful than those who are not. were blessed to add a brand new STEM lab cal model that integrates every subject with of physical, sensory, and cognitive activi- For more than 50 years, our time-proven in 2020 and have expanded our Kindergarten the Biblical truths of the Christian faith. Find ties. When you work these brain functions methods, programs and activities have given Wing to house our growing Elementary. us on Facebook and on our website at www. together, different networks in the brain fire children the tools to enter kindergarten We were founded to challenge students acatulsa.org! together. Over time, this changes the speed ahead of the curve and eager to learn. Uti- to become men and women fulfilling God’s and efficiency in the brain’s communication lizing a thematic curriculum for ages three destiny for their life. Through challenging BOSTON AVENUE WEEKDAY pathways. These new, efficient and effective to five, Channing teachers work one-on-one academics, a celebration of the arts and SCHOOL connections in the brain lead to improve- with each child to help them develop their championship-level athletics, Victory Chris- 1301 S. Boston Avenue ments in our executive functioning and our fine motor skills. Our hands-on activities are tian School is where your student can thrive! Tulsa, OK ability to complete cognitive tasks. If your structured to help kids learn as they play. Student-led chapels, biblical studies, and 918.699.0112 child suffers with behavioral issues, ADHD or See the difference in your child that only a missions trips train your children and present [email protected] a learning disability, then you’ve experienced low, eight-to-one student-teacher ratio can opportunities to develop their faith. VCS is www.bostonavenue.org their painful frustration and lack of confi- provide. more than an education. It’s a preparation for For 50 years, the Boston Avenue Weekday dence both academically and socially. Brain a calling. Learn more at vcstulsa.org. School has nurtured children spiritually, Balance can help! Call today to schedule CHRISTIAN MONTESSORI ACADEMY emotionally, socially, creatively, cognitive- an assessment. RoseMarie Mann, Director ahha TULSA ly and physically while offering a warm, Laura Chisholm, Office Manager Hardesty Arts Center accepting early learning environment. Our CASCIA HALL PREPARATORY 3702 S. 90th E. Ave. 101 E. Archer St. weekly theme-based curriculum, which SCHOOL Tulsa, OK Tulsa, OK includes early faith lessons, supports teach- Contact: Makala Welsh 918.628.6524 www.ahhatulsa.org ers in their center-arranged classrooms, 2520 S. Yorktown Ave. www.montessorilearning.org Ahha Tulsa is the arts destination for fami- with a small teacher to student ratio. 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WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM JANUARY 2021 37 trained guides and are encouraged to make science, and math. choices to help develop a sense of indepen- Metro’s secondary school offers a range of dence and self-worth. academic programs including 15 Advanced Children attending CMA are not viewed as Placement courses and eight courses for a group, but rather as individuals working concurrent college credit. Metro offers toward their full potential within our commu- activities for students of all ages including 11 nity. We believe that the impressions formed varsity sports, debate, leadership, missions today have a lasting impact on a child’s ity educational experience in a nurturing atmosphere of discovery, LHM offers healthy and fine arts classes like studio art, drama, attitude towards learning and life itself. Tours environment. Our highly trained staff works lunches, dance, Spanish, soccer, music, band and choir. and visits can be scheduled by calling the to get to know each individual child and his/ yoga and art. School time is 8:30 a.m. -3:00 At the heart of Metro is a sense of commu- office or visiting our website. We look for- her cognitive and developmental needs, p.m. and before/after care is 7:30 a.m. - 5:30 nity. Students, parents, faculty, and staff all ward to meeting your family! while seeking input from families to make p.m. Follow us on Instagram or Facebook! work together to educate and nurture stu- the home and school transition smooth and dents to reach their full potential. “We work CHRIST UNITED communication open for the success of the LEGACY CHRISTIAN ACADEMY to develop this culture in which everyone METHODIST ELC child. Through a balance of developmental Tandi Wells, Principal knows who you are,” says Adam Taylor, Ath- Contact: Laurie Pearn play and planned educational activities, our 1201 N. Elm Place letic Director. “You are somebody here. You 3515 S. Harvard students learn best through doing–all while Broken Arrow, OK are someone important.” Tulsa, OK having fun and expressing themselves cre- 918.286.6794 MINGO VALLEY CHRISTIAN 918.743.7673 atively. Our teachers conduct conferences www.legacyba.org www.cumctulsa.com twice a year in order to build a strong home At Legacy Christian Academy, we partner Mrs. Lisa Padgett, Admissions Our program is a Monday, Wednesday, Fri- and school team. We want to keep parents with you in the education of your child, as 8304 S. 107th E. Ave. day pre-school program. Hours are 9:30 a.m. informed about what their child(ren) is well as the development of his or her char- Tulsa, OK to 2:30 p.m. There are several options as to learning, developmental milestones that are acter, faith, and spiritual growth. By incorpo- 918.294.0404 how many days and the times children can being achieved, and suggest skills that can rating God in all areas, our students learn to www.mingovalley.org attend. In the afternoons, we offer enrich- be practiced at home. We believe that our empathize and show kindness to others. Our Mingo Valley Christian (PreK-12) has been ment classes in gymnastics, music and child-centered philosophy will foster a love students are being taught what it means to partnering with Tulsa area families for “Bible Buddies.” Our staff members are cho- for learning in these ever-important early have a relationship with Jesus and how to over 40 years! We are a college prepara- sen for their early childhood experience and childhood years. be life-long followers of Him. tory, non-denominational, private school, training as well as sensitivity to the individual Here’s what our parents have to say: encouraging personalized learning for each needs of each child. We use a hands-on HOLLAND HALL “We are new this year, and I’m kicking student. We partner with parents and incor- approach so children learn by doing. Classes Contact: J.P. Culley, Head of School myself for not finding Legacy sooner. porate a Christian worldview into all aspects are arranged in learning centers and areas 5666 E. 81st St. Between the remarkable education, the wel- of the learning process. Our students are of interest where the daily theme is carried Tulsa, OK come environment, and the wonderful staff, I tomorrow’s leaders, so our school culture out throughout the room. Parent participation 918.481.1111 couldn’t think of a better place for my child.” is infused with opportunities for leadership, is encouraged. www.hollandhall.org “The teachers and staff truly love and care mentoring, and service to the Tulsa commu- Grades: Pre-school – Grade 12 about my child holistically. He’s not only nur- nity. Learning happens best in the context of HAPPY CAMPERS ACADEMY Holland Hall is Tulsa’s Pre-K3 through Grade tured academically, but emotionally, socially, relationships, so our teachers engage per- Happy Campers—Cherry Street 12 Independent Episcopal School. We offer and spiritually. It is such a blessing to drop sonally with each student to foster academic 1819 E. 15th St. an ambitious curriculum, an extensive array him off in a safe environment.” success. We offer honors and AP courses, Tulsa, OK of exciting electives, dozens of individual and “We love the small class sizes, NHS/NJHS, concurrent college enrollment, 918.584.2779 team sports, transformative arts program- family-like atmosphere, excellent academics, art, computer, music, and foreign language, [email protected] ming, and an apprenticeship in self-reliance. and most of all, the discipleship and Biblical with technology utilized throughout all 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Our student/teacher ratio of 10:1 means your teaching that take place each day to help academic disciplines. Our highly regarded child’s teachers truly know who they are our children experience God’s goodness and theatre program attracts arts patrons from Happy Campers at Temple Israel and where their strengths and passions lie. understand the importance of being a light in across the Tulsa community. Our athletic 2004 E. 22nd Pl. Located on a beautiful 162-acre campus, the darkness.” programs include football, volleyball, basket- Tulsa, OK Holland Hall provides a lively and uncom- ball, soccer, cross country/track, and pom. 918.747.3122 monly kind community that honors the indi- METRO CHRISTIAN ACADEMY For more information or to schedule a tour or happycamperstempleisrael@gmail. vidual integrity of each child while providing 6363 S. Trenton Ave. shadowing day, please call or visit our web- com the bedrock education every student needs Tulsa, OK site. You are invited to view a virtual Open 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. to succeed in college, work, and the world 918.745.9868 House at any time at mingovalley.org/tour. beyond. metroca.com Accreditation: State of Oklahoma (OPSAC); Happy Campers at John Knox Located on a 60-acre campus in the heart of AdvancED; Association of Christian Schools (This location has school-age after- LAKE HILLS MONTESSORI Tulsa at 63rd and Trenton, Metro Christian International (ACSI) school care and summer camp) Contact: Jodie Whitman Academy is an independent Christian school MISS HELEN’S PRIVATE SCHOOL 2929 E. 31st St. 5130 E. 101st St. serving students age three through 12th Tulsa, OK Tulsa, OK grade. They’re all under one roof but with Contact: Jayme Wingo-Baker 918.742.7656 918.296.9936 distinct areas for preschool, elementary, 4849 S. Mingo [email protected] lakehillsmontessoritulsa.com middle and high school. Tulsa, OK Happy Campers Academy offers Tulsa and Lake Hills Montessori is committed to pro- Metro’s Elementary program offers two 918.622.2327 surrounding communities quality child- viding quality education for children ages tracks for students. One features traditional www.misshelens.com care. We accept children ages 6 weeks 2-6 years in a safe, loving, and stimulating curriculum that students may join at any Miss Helen’s Private School is a fami- to pre-kindergarten, and provide parents environment. Each child’s day is organized to time. The other is a Spanish Immersion ly-owned, family-focused business cele- an opportunity to view their children in the ensure successful experiences that will fos- section that students may enter in Pre-K brating over 60 years. Teachers are college early learning center through a closed-cir- ter self-esteem and a love of learning. LHM or Kindergarten and continue through 5th degreed, caring and dedicated. All pre-kin- cuit internet connection. At all three of our offers a traditional Montessori curriculum grade. Spanish Immersion students become dergarten classes offer music, Spanish, midtown Tulsa locations, Happy Campers that allows children to learn through explo- bilingual by learning core subject content in art, stories & science, pre-reading skills, utilizes a child-centered philosophy and ration and play. In addition to providing an Spanish including history, language arts, math and dance through small group and partners with our families to provide a qual- independent activities. Small class sizes in

38 JANUARY 2021 WWW.TULSAKIDS.COM grades K-5 enable students to have more options to accommodate multiple children individualized instruction and work beyond and busy schedules. traditional grade levels. In addition to basic *2nd Winter session runs through March academics, we offer Spanish, fine arts, and 13th. Open enrollment, SIGN UP TODAY!* community service and charitable projects, *Spring break camp will be March as well as health, nutrition and fitness. After- 15th - 19th * school activities include computer tutorial, *Spring Lil’ Kickers will begin March 22nd. swimming and music. Serving ages 3 years RHEMA CHILD DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL OF SAINT MARY Spring registration will be open by mid through 5th grade. CENTER Contact: Ms. Sarah Edwards, February* 1025 W. Kenosha St. Admissions MONTE CASSINO SCHOOL UNIVERSITY SCHOOL Broken Arrow, OK 1365 E. 49th Pl. Contact: Kevin Smith, Headmaster Contact: Debra Price, Director www.rhemachildcare.com Tulsa, OK 2206 S. Lewis Ave. 326 S. College Ave. Rhema Child Development Center is commit- 918.749.9361 Tulsa, OK Tulsa, OK ted to providing the finest quality programs www.schoolofsaintmary.com 918.746.4238 918.631.5060 to help your child develop academically, The School of Saint Mary carries out the www.montecassino.org [email protected] socially, and spiritually. These goals are educational mission of the Church - educat- For more than 90 years, Monte Cassino www.utulsa.edu/uschool accomplished with dual emphasis on Chris- ing students in peace, justice, and human School has been committed to academic The mission of University School is to chal- tian values and Bible truths as well as aca- rights, according to Gospel principles and excellence while educating the whole stu- lenge gifted students with a dynamic curric- demic programs in our classroom activities. Catholic tradition. The school strives to dent. Beyond the classroom, Monte Cassino ulum in a nurturing academic environment. Additionally, we believe that the first step in promote academic excellence, to be respon- Students, ages PreK 3 – eighth grade, devel- We serve students from age 3 through 8th learning is developing a healthy self-concept sible stewards, and to motivate students op socially and morally within a supportive grade. Our program is well rounded and in each child. We want to help each child to give generously of self in an attitude of community to develop skills they will use includes art, music, physical education, feel that he/she is worthwhile and a valuable Christian charity. throughout their lifetime. Monte Cassino foreign language, and computer classes for person in his/her world, and in the eyes of Quick Facts: School offers a 14:1 student/teacher ratio, all students. Located on The University of God. The enrollment process is easy! We *Four of the past six valedictorians at Bishop students who rank in the 94th percentile Tulsa campus, our beautiful facility provides encourage you to come by, between 10 a.m. Kelley High School are graduates of the of school norms for standardized testing, a unique setting and resources that few and 3 p.m., Monday–Friday, to take a tour, School of Saint Mary. teachers with advanced degrees and a schools can match. University School stu- meet our teachers, and get to know RCDC *In annual standardized testing, our middle wide-serving support system in our REACH dents benefit from a rich variety of learning a little better. We will also have a packet of school students test like high school grad- department. Extra-curricular opportunities opportunities and interactions with college information waiting for you, along with a few uates. abound for all students including team professors and students as they endeavor to forms to be filled out. *99% of parents say the School instills a sports, Robotics, Rocketry, Academic Bowl, maximize their potential, develop creativity, commitment to the Faith. fine arts and drama and more. Led by the and become responsible citizens. RIVERFIELD COUNTRY legacy of the Benedictine Sisters, Monte DAY SCHOOL SOCCERCITY TULSA TULSA ZOO Cassino School offers a faith-filled, Catholic Contact: Kacey Davenport Contact: Dustin Knight education. 6421 E. 36th St. North 2433 W. 61st St. 5817 S. 118th East Ave. Tulsa, OK Tulsa, OK Tulsa, OK MONTESSORI ACADEMY 918.669.6600 918.446.3553 918.249.0044 OF OWASSO www.tulsazoo.org www.riverfield.org www.soccercitytulsa.com 708 N. Atlanta St. Encourage and grow your child’s passion Riverfield provides a student-centered Ages: 18 mos. – 9 yrs. Owasso, OK 74055 for wildlife at the Tulsa Zoo! Through our approach to education for students 8 weeks Step onto the field during any Lil’ Kickers Contact: Elizabeth Overton, fun and engaging education programs, we through 12th Grade with an innovative class, and you will find it transformed into a Executive Director inspire guests of all ages. Children can GO program of authentic, experiential learning world created just for your child. Our well- [email protected] WILD at our virtual classes learning about in which individuality is valued and the trained coaches will thrill your child with 918.217.8033 animals and meeting them up-close. Virtual needs of the whole student are honored. 50 minutes of highly creative, high energy www.owassomontessori.com school and outreach programs offer unique Small class sizes, along with the collabo- and age-appropriate activities that serve With the help of parents and Montessori ways to explore the zoo or to bring the zoo rative nature of our classrooms, provide as a great introduction to soccer, and help teachers who wanted educational opportu- to you. The zoo offers year-round learning the opportunity for students to cultivate children master developmental milestones nities for their children focused on individu- experiences kids of all ages. Visit tulsazoo. leadership, interpersonal skills, and the appropriate for their age. Because Lil’ ality, personal development, and advanced org to discover more about educational confidence needed for success today and Kickers is first and foremost a child develop- academics, Montessori Academy of Owasso opportunities at the Tulsa Zoo. Tulsa Zoo: tomorrow. Personalized programming and ment program, our purpose is really to help opened its doors in 2014. Our school has Connecting, Caring, Advocating for Wildlife, flexible scheduling offer Middle and Upper children mature on all levels. Our program grown since its founding, now educating stu- People and Wild Places. School students the opportunity to develop focuses on helping children build strong dents from toddlers through 8th grade on our talents and explore interests in a college physical, intellectual and emotional skills that 1.33-acre campus in the heart of Owasso. prep setting. The 120-acre campus encom- will help them be successful on and off the A Montessori education is a child-centered passes a barnyard, hiking trails, gardens, soccer field. We believe in teaching children approach to teaching. Each student has their freshwater system, outdoor classrooms and in ways that suit their developmental level. own curriculum and works through lessons athletic fields. Accredited by the Indepen- So, you won’t see adult-like skill drills in our at their own pace. There is never pressure to dent Schools Association of the Southwest classes, but you will see teaching methods perform or earn a certain score on a test. We (ISAS), National Association for the Educa- specifically designed to create an atmo- believe students should love to learn without tion of Young Children (NAEYC) and Oklaho- sphere that is effective and fun. You will also rewards or penalties tied to their progress. ma Private School Accreditation Commission see happy, confident and sweaty kids who Educating the whole child - socially, emo- (OPSAC). are eager to learn and want to keep coming tionally, and academically - is the hallmark of back for more. 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Sophie Raskin: Singer/Songwriter

As the pandemic of 2020 get longer by days and months, 17-year-old Sophie Raskin decided to take her extra time and focus on her passion. Sophie worked as a nanny between song writing and being a senior at Booker T. Washington. All the hard work payed off, and Sophie was able to write and record her first EP!

TK: How did the pandemic affect you, and what did you do to pass the time? Sophie: Because of the pandemic, I was definitely presented with an excess amount of time. I turned to music as an outlet, not only to pass the time, but express myself. It was a good way to disconnect from screens and the boredom of not being able to leave my house. I was able to write 10+ songs, two of which were featured on my EP. I also used the time organized with the musicians to make recording possible. I was also nan- nying for part of quarantine, which was a big reason I was able to finan- cially make this project happen.

TK: How long have you been singing and song writing? Sophie: I have been singing since I was little. My dad is a musician, and he really helped create my love for music. As I got older, it became more and more of a passion. I got my first guitar in fifth grade, and I wrote my first song when I was a freshman in high school and haven’t stopped since.

TK: What was the inspiration for your EP? Sophie: There wasn’t one specific thing that inspired the songs in my EP. They were written over a span of three years, so my life and the person I was when I wrote each song was drastically different from the next. I real- ly wrote what was inspiring to me at the time.

TK: What made this project so unique to you? Sophie: This project felt so unique to me because I was finally able to create something for others to hear. I have always had big dreams or ambitions, but some of them have been too big for me to reach. I always TK: What other hobbies do you have? wanted to release my music but was too scared because of fear of judgment. Sophie: Other than writing music I also have gotten into writing scripts. I have It intimidated me that others would be able to know some of my personal written a couple of short films and stories, while also starting a couple of plays/ thoughts. But I pushed myself to not let that fear control me. musicals.

TK: What advice do you have for others who would like to follow in your TK: What do you want to be when you grow up? footsteps? Sophie: I would love to pursue music as a profession. It has always been my Sophie: To not let something that might seem out of reach be inaccessible. dream. I am also very passionate about the environment and climate activism and would love to go into a field regarding protecting the earth as well. TK: Where’s your favorite place in Tulsa to find inspiration? Sophie: Nature. It has always been very magical to me and definitely an inspi- TK: What is a fun fact about you? ration to my music, even if a song isn’t directly about it. Sometimes even look- Sophie: I don’t know if this is necessarily a fun fact, but when I was younger, ing out the window to my backyard or going to the park near my house. I was so incredibly shy. My mom took me to audition as a young child, and I refused to get on stage to audition. My fears and passions just didn’t seem to TK: Who inspires you? align. But I pushed myself out of my comfort zone because performing is what Sophie: One of my biggest musical inspirations is Amy Winehouse. Her style I have always loved doing, even though it still scares me to this day. And one of music and voice is so beautiful. I love jazz. The way she combined modern other fun fact is that I am releasing a single later this month that I have been music with jazz is so incredibly unique and innovative. My father also inspires recording with one of my friends, Dylan Wagman. me. He is my root for music and why I have always loved doing it.

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