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4 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 By Tara Cavanaugh

Shannon Dettore directs the Office of LGBTQ Services at Central Michigan University. A newlywed, she is pictured below, resting on her wife. I want to make sure the students realize they really have someone on their side.

Can you tell us groups, on activism and social justice. 1.about your job We’re also in the process of feeling out at CMU? what the follow up to this class should be. We actually just I’m having conversations with folks from changed our name, our women’s studies department and family so finally it’s more studies department, talking about possibly inclusive. It was the Office of Gay and having a minor for these students that are Lesbian Programs; now it’s the Office of interested in doing activism. LGBTQ Services – which is very exciting, My partner’s a teacher, so I see what something I’ve been fighting for in my she’s gone through being queer in the three years of being here. Really the big teaching system. And we have a very mission of our office is to provide a safe and predominant teaching program on our inclusive environment. And that’s one of campus. So we wanted to make sure that the big things that I push for in making all we had something so that other teachers of our students feel safe. The other side of going out into the teaching field are able to what I really push for is equal treatment on connect with teachers that are already out our campus and making sure that our queer there working and that are queer. With this students feel as if they have a voice and that mentoring program, before students are in there’s someone here fighting for them. the teacher education program, we’ll be able While I’m trying to make sure our to connect them with teachers that are out campus is safe and inclusive, I also want to in the teaching field and have that mentor make sure the students realize they really to talk to. have someone on their side. The way that our state is with our (lack of) nondiscrimination policy, we want to Tell us about the student groups you lead. make sure that our students feel like they do have support prior to going out into the 2.We have two student groups and we’re in teaching field. the process of starting Queer People of Color We definitely have a lot of exciting as well. So we have Spectrum, which is things going on. I’m the first full time our gay-straight alliance, and then we have director to be in this position, so it’s nice Transcend, which is our transgender student to be able to take on that role and show our group. I’m the advisor for our transgender campus that it was vital for us to have a full student group, which was new last year. time director here. We have seven members, which is small, but on our campus that’s a pretty good You have a really positive attitude. How do representation of the transgender community. 5.you encourage students to have that kind of It’s open to allies as well, but the majority of attitude as well? folks that attend do identify as transgender or gender queer. When I speak with students, I always try and meet them where they are. I know what it So Queer People of Color will begin this fall? feels like to come out in a religious household 3.That is in the process of getting started. We and how scary that can be. And I know those did hold one meeting last school year. And fears that come with holding your significant we had about 50 students show up, which other’s hand as they’re walking down the was a phenomenal representation. I really street. have this big push for recognizing race and I think it’s important to always say OK, sexuality, how they intertwine and how these are the realities of things, and these are they’re different. the things that can happen. But if we allow Really the basis is to have those ourselves to be sucked in by what we don’t conversations and go there. have and what we can’t do, then you’re going to live a very miserable life. Because the What else are you working on for the fall? reality of it is, we don’t live in the best state 4.I am teaming up with our Student Ombuds to be queer. And it’s hard sometimes. Officer to teach an LGBTQ First Year I think that instead of always being Experience class. We have First Year reactive or down on things, I try to be as Experience class on our campus already, proactive as I can in stepping up and making which is for freshmen coming in, so that sure that our students see that these are the they get the feel of what campus is and get things we need – and while we don’t have studying techniques. We are going to still these protections, we’re still OK and still focus on those issues but also focus on able to live our lives and not be sucked in by bringing strong leadership for our student the negativity. Between Ourselves is a bi-weekly feature that highlights those who work on behalf of Michigan’s LGBT and allied community. To recommend someone for Between Ourselves, email our news editor Tara Cavanaugh at [email protected].

Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 5 News Michigan News MichiGan Revitalizing a city with ‘creative justice’ Lesbian mother turned down Hotter Than July heats up Detroit this week The Fire Historical and Cultural Arts Collaborative sparks artistic freedom by state Supreme Court Annual festival hits city hot spots Renee Harmon seeks custody of three children Be sure not to miss the 16th annual Hotter Than July celebration. Organized by the Black Pride Society, the series of events brings fun, education and community to Detroit’s African-American LGBTs. The official host accomodations are at the Detroit Marriott at 100 Renaissance Center and 313-568-8000. Use booking code HTJHTJA for the discount rate of $109.

Friends hang out in Palmer Park during HTJ 2010. BTL photo: Andrew Potter.

Left: The firehouse that is home to the Fire Historical and Cultural Arts Collaborative was originally built in 1903. After 1953 when it could no longer fit modern-size fire engines, it tried on many faces, including a photography studio Wednesday, July 27 -Writing & Publishing 101, 4-6 p.m. and a Laundromat. The building was nearly demolished ten years ago. Right: Denise Miller and Michelle Johnson stand proudly in the arts center, bustling with youth engaged in creative projects. BTL photos: Jeremy Martin. Artist exhibit and reception -Cocktail hour sponsored by Equality Michigan, 5-6 p.m. Featuring Poor Man’s Art Collective -Black Pride Society’s Authors Cafe, 7-9 p.m. 3361 Gratiot Ave. By Jeremy Martin members of the Kalamazoo community to gather, This makes Johnson think about the synergy up the revitalization of a neighborhood, even be -Agape Spirit Life Ministries presents For learn about and explore the artistic merits of between Fuel and Fire. able to shift the stigmas,” Johnson says. 7-11 p.m. Men, By Men: Authentication, Validation and KICK presents KICKIN’ It On The River Empowerment, 7-9 p.m. At first glance, Michelle Johnson and themselves and of each other. “Fire and Fuel are separate entities,” she “We’re especially excited about the social Renee Harmon keeps reminders of her three children around her home. She has not seen them in two years. BTL photo: Andrew Potter. Denise Miller look like a typical couple. Both But a problem remained: how to turn Fire says, “except now Fire’s culinary arts program, justice aspect that we do, especially looking Three hour cruise on the Detroit River, featuring -Books & Brandy Afterglow sponsored by music by DJ Cent Affirmations, 9-11 p.m. hold full time jobs, worry about paying bills, into a focal point of a community known more Bites, will have a home in the restaurant.” at issues of violence from a creative, artistic Boarding begins at 6:20 p.m. at Rivard Plaza and save as much time as they can for each other. perspective. We’re very excited about our young By Tara Cavanaugh “We think that’s shameful and we think better of our Tickets: $55, available at www.e-kick.org or Saturday, July 30 A recent Saturday found the couple at a local people’s projects this year.” state than that.” by calling 313-285-9733 12th annual Ruth Ellis Pride march hardware store shopping for paint, a standard “The neighborhood that we’re in certainly has stigmas One of Fire’s youth projects is the Youth After being turned away from the Michigan Supreme The three Democratic judges on the state Supreme Court, Glow in the Dark Party Registration and lineup at 10 a.m. on Woodward domestic activity. But under the surface, there Speaks Readers Theater, which was created by Court, Renee Harmon, a mother who has not seen her three Justice Michael F. Cavanagh, Justice Diane M. Hathaway and Presented by R.E.C. Boyz and Club Inuendo in front of tennis courts is a far more complex, creative and enigmatic attached to it. We truly believe that there’s a key in art local youth to help stem the spread of violent children in two years, will now pursue her case through Justice Marilyn J. Kelly, dissented. Justice Kelly authored 744 E. Savannah in Highland Park Parade kicks off at 10:45 a.m. relationship at work. ideas and activities. federal court. a scathing dissent of the decision, writing: “Plaintiff’s 9 p.m.-2 a.m. 16th annual Palmer Park Pride Festival The paint the couple wants isn’t for their and culture to be able to pick up the revitalization of a The children research, write and read Harmon is seeking custody application raises significant Partygoers must wear white or neon colors. Noon-8 p.m., bring a picnic basket home; it’s for the interior of a restaurant that essays on a range of violent acts affecting both rights for the children she raised “We see a stark contrast constitutional questions that this For more information call 313-285-1166 Kid’s festival from 1-4 p.m., hosted by Karibu Miller is planning to open in September. Fuel: neighborhood, even be able to shift the stigmas.” the Kalamazoo community and beyond. Recent with her former partner, Tammy Court has not yet considered. or visit www.facebook.com/recboyz House. For more information or to volunteer call 313-865-2170 ext. 3 Unpredictably Vegetarian will feature regional Youth Speaks events have focused on sex Davis. Harmon appealed to the Courts across the country are between what other states Thursday, July 28 Rough Language Detroit Poetry Slam vegetable based dishes from around the world. trafficking, domestic violence and homophobia. Supreme Court for the right grappling with similar issues… Interfaith candelight vigil at Palmer Park in Presented by All I Wanna Say Productions But Fuel is only one of several projects The Youth Speaks series sums up the to be able to present evidence Yet the majority today declines to Detroit –Michelle Johnson are doing in moving forward AJ’s Café that Johnson and Miller are currently working message that Fire is attempting to spread: by showing she acted as a parent. consider plaintiff’s arguments… A night of rememberance for those who have on. Together they run the Fire Historical and using a combination of social justice, education The Supreme Court denied her This case cries out for a ruling passed away 240 W. Nine Mile Road in Ferndale and what Michigan is doing, 8:30 p.m. until 11:30 p.m. Cultural Arts Collaborative in Kalamazoo, which for gang activity than for artistic expression? Since its inception, the culinary arts and artistic awareness, the center is attempting request in a 3-4 decision on from the state’s highest courts.” 7:30-9 p.m. Tickets $15 in advance has been a gathering place for those seeking They created an answer by coining the term program has spun through different locations to adjust the ideals and thoughts of a generation July 22. After the ruling, Harmon Poetry & Comedy Open Mic Night which is moving backwards Contact T. Miller for details at 313-282-1196 artistic freedom and community since 2006. “creative justice.” like a city-wide lazy Susan. of young people into a place where creativity, Under Michigan law, said she felt “Devastated. Hosted by award-winning writer, producer and educator Ifalade Ta’Shia Asanti The energetic couple keep themselves busy by “The creative expression of justice is “It made it really difficult for us to do our learning and self awareness reign supreme. Harmon was never a legally- Discouraged. But I guess in the The Experience 4 at every step.” Detroit CARES Multi-Center Complex focusing their projects on social justice. the model that we see happening at Fire: culinary training and catering, to sustain that part Though Fire caters to a youthful crowd, recognized parent to the children back of my mind I knew … there Party for ages 25 and up, featuring DJ Stacey 8100 W. Davison in Detroit “Hotwaxx” Hale and special guest DJ Christa “(Fire has) always been about people people finding out who they are, what they’re of the project,” Johnson says. not all of its events are specifically for children she raised for ten years. Davis was a very good possibility that Schrupp of Chicago (the judges) would follow party 9-11 p.m. finding their passions and living it,” Miller really into, having an opportunity to get the “Three years ago we shifted from being for or teens. On Aug. 13 Fire will host its first and Harmon planned the children Club Waterfalls rooftop festival, an evening of entertainment and together, and Davis bore the –Dana Nessel, Renee Harmon’s lawyer lines, and that’s exactly what Admission: $10 before 10 p.m. and $15 after says, “and I think for me, my relationship with foundation underneath them to be able to do profit to non-profit,” she says, and they’re getting 673 E. Franklin in Detroit Michelle has done that exact same thing.” awareness taking place in downtown Kalamazoo children through artificial they did. So I was prepared. But 10 p.m. All spoken word artists and comedians that,” Johnson says. close to being self-sustaining. are encouraged to participate. For sign up and 9 p.m.-2 a.m. on the roof of the Radisson hotel parking insemination. Michigan adoption I held out some hope. But I’m details call 313-865-2170 ext. 3 or email The hard part is finding a way to make Fire Tickets $15 in advance at Flo Boutique in [email protected] The fire behind Fire and the idea of creative justice a self-sustaining structure. Musician Annette Taborn, founder of law does not explicitly say that same-sex couples cannot also determined to keep going forward.” Detroit, $20 at the door or online at philosophy. Fire receives funding from several Changing spaces the Kalamazoo Blues Festival, will headline the adopt, but many adoption judges have interpreted the law Nessel said that LGBT foundations and community Hotter Than July Kickoff Party www.hotwaxxproductions.com evening, which also features adult beverages, to say so. centers have been unwilling to support Harmon's quest for rights Presented By AW Entertainment and DJ Reggie In 2005, the couple had the opportunity to area sources who have donated their time and In the same way that Fire’s building was Sunday, July 31 multi-media presentations and speakers. Harmon is represented by two lawyers, Nicole Childers to her children. “Any time we have tried to do anything either Reg, with special guest performer Sisquo rent one of Kalamazoo’s oldest firehouses. They money into helping the organization succeed, but saved from demise by demolition ten years ago, Jazz and Soul Brunch And that event is just one of a dozen projects and Dana Nessel. Nessel is not surprised that the case was with Renee’s case, or with other cases that involve same-sex Club Waterfalls first thought it could be an office space – but Johnson and Miller would like to see Fire stand Johnson and Miller are using the historical and Andiamo Riverfront Restaurant that Johnson and Miller are working on at the turned away by the state Supreme Court. second parent adoption issues, it’s unfortunately our experience 673 Franklin St. quickly changed their minds. on its own two legs. cultural center to boost up a neighborhood that moment, perhaps none more important than “Something we can’t help but notice is that this decision and it’s been Renee’s experience that the LGBT groups don’t 9 p.m.-2 a.m. Noon-4 p.m., brunch served at 1 p.m., showtime “As soon as we saw the space, we started “We work really hard to find ways to be has seen its fair share of hard times. at 2 p.m. continuing to cultivate their relationship. comes on the heels of the new laws that allow marriage in seem interested in supporting legal causes,” she said. Advance Tickets: $15; Advance VIP Platinum talking about all the things that we wanted to as self-sustaining as possible. We do rentals, Kalamazoo’s Edison neighborhood, the Offical Pride Closing Party “We always want more time together,” the state of New York,” Nessel said. “While thousands of “Even though it’s our opinion that it’s the best way to Pass with artist meet and greet: $50. Contact do. Michelle had always worked with youth in and some of our programming helps pay our most populated in the city, has gained a reputation Leshone for tickets: 313-574-1960 Mars Bar Miller says. “I don’t think if we were together New York families can now celebrate their newfound rights, change the law in Michigan when you have a legislature that different ways, and I had always worked with operating costs,” Johnson says before Miller for harboring illicit activity. 10001 Jos Campau in Hamtramck 24 hours a day it would be enough.” Renee’s been mourning the loss of her three children. We is clearly unsupportive of that.” Friday, July 29 youth in the arts,” Miller says. interrupts her with paint swatches. They take “The neighborhood that we’re in certainly 10 p.m.-2 a.m. see a stark contrast between what other states are doing Genesis Conference Workshops XVI With that, the Fire Historical and Cultural a moment to consider bamboo green and has stigmas attached to it. We truly believe that Learn more about the Fire Historical and Cultural Harmon plans for a fundraiser to help pay legal fees this fall. To Admission $10 in moving forward and what Michigan is doing, which is The Detroit Marriott Arts Collaborative was born: a place for charcoal gray. there’s a key in art and culture to be able to pick Arts Collaborative at www.thisisfire.com contribute, search for “Harmie’s Army” on Facebook. moving backwards at every step. 4-10 p.m.

6 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 7 Opinions Publishers: Jan Stevenson & Susan Horowitz

compiled By HOWARD ISRAEL The Bachmann ‘pray ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ discrimination away the gay’ clinic Viewpoint “Prior studies in homeless street youth is the latest glitter have found that sexual minorities occur in much higher numbers than we’d expect based on their numbers By Michelle E. Brown bomb victim. Is glitter in the community in general. Teens with a sexual minority orientation are bombing making a more likely than heterosexual teens Showing up, showing out: gay, gifted to be unaccompanied and homeless statement...or making Heather Corliss rather than part of a homeless family. and black This suggests that they may be more us look silly? likely to be mistreated or rejected by their families and ometimes it’s not enough just to be here more likely to leave home. The high risk of homelessness and queer. Sometimes you have to show Pride in self and in up and show out to tear down the curtain among sexual minority teens is a serious problem requiring ofS homophobia and show the depth and breadth one’s community can I thought glitter makes your day better? immediate attention. These teens face enormous risks and all of our community in the fabric of America. –Jessica Ann Grant types of obstacles to succeeding in school and are in need of We all get tired of the stereotypes, but overcome hatred and a great deal of assistance.” often by our silence we perpetuate the image of “gay” as a white, primarily male and affluent hardship –Heather Corliss, Ph.D., MPH, of the Division of community. Case in point: OUT Magazine’s Adolescent and Young Adult Medicine at Children’s Hospital “Power 50” and their take on the fifty most It simply reinforces the GLBT stereotype and , lead author of new study titled “High Burden of powerful/influential LGBT people in mainstream the National Black Justice Coalition, Black makes us look foolish. It does nothing to further Homelessness Among Sexual-Minority Adolescents” that society published in April. There wasn’t a single Enterprise set about telling the story “Black found 1 in 4 gay/lesbian high school students are homeless in Renee Harmon needs our support person of color on this year’s list and, rightly and gay in corporate America: breaking through our quest for equality. Massachusetts, childrenshospital.org, July 21. Of the 6,317 so, our community pushed back, resulting isolation and fear.” This is the latest and perhaps –Jack Miller students who gave full information on their sexual orientation with OUT’s publishing “The Hidden 105” and the most influential coverage of the black LGBT and homelessness status, less than 5 percent of students enee Harmon is a mother. She raised present her case in the state courts, she is taking identifying leadership by people of color and community in mainstream publications, sending President Barack Obama overall identified themselves as GLB, yet they accounted for three children over ten years with her her case to the federal courts. transgender members of the LGBT community. shockwaves through the black community and 19 percent of those who identified themselves as homeless. former partner, Tammy Davis. And Harmon is fighting for rights that our entire Our LGBT community, like the community- blowing open the doors of those closets. whenR their 19-year relationship ended, so did community does not have. Harmon is not the only In February this year both Essence and “Today, we have taken the final major step at-large, benefits from and is strengthened by I dont know, it would have personally made my Harmon’s relationship with her children. She parent in the state without the right to care for its diversity. Unfortunately while those of us Ebony magazines featured the stories of two day amazing if someone walked into my work and toward ending the discriminatory ‘Don’t Ask, hasn’t seen the children in two years. But she his or her children. But she is choosing to be the within the LGBT community receive frequent African-American lesbian couples on the has seen a lot of courtrooms and paperwork and one who fights the battle. threw glitter around while playing Gaga. Don’t Tell’ law that undermines our military reminders through our outstanding leadership of journey from love to marriage. Tackling marriage “Appearance and mannerisms often disappointment. This week, the State Supreme all races and ethnicities, the community at large was big, but shattering the myth that the only –Jessica Ann Grant Court denied her the right to even present readiness and violates American principles serve as a proxy for anti-gay or Do the right thing. is missing the message that America benefits and career path for black gays was choir director evidence in court so she could custody rights or hairdresser – now that’s huge. But that’s of fairness and equality. As of September 20, anti-trans discrimination because is strengthened by its LGBT community. for her kids. Support Harmon. Support Ignorance, denial and fear have led many just what Black Enterprise is doing. Profiled service members will no longer be forced to hide they are a visible marker of what This situation would never happen with in the heterosexual community to look at the are executives in for-profits, non-profits and makes the bigot uncomfortable. straight married couples. In the event of a her right, and our right, to LGBT community as a threat, a sin, something foundations including GM, the Arcus Foundation Well, this is a hard call. I agree, it does reinforce divorce, there are plenty of laws and processes who they are in order to serve our country. Our That’s why it’s crucial for non- unnatural. This is particularly true in the African- and American Express. They are influencing the stereotype but that’s the point of it is to make that allow both parents access and responsibility policies not just at their employers, but through military will no longer be deprived of the talents discrimination legislation to address have a family. American community where being out and open them look gay. Now, I don’t think there is anything to their children. can be not just unbearable but life-threatening. affinity groups and even at historically black and skills of patriotic Americans just because not only members of a group but those But there are no laws in our state that colleges. At the work place being out has wrong with it. I chuckle at it, well, because they Avory This means that we are the ones who must We, LGBT African-Americans, are invisible perceived as belonging to it. You protect the children of same-sex couples. Harmon freed them to be more productive, creative and give her our support. in our own community and for years we have deserve it, but we do need better ways of dealing they happen to be gay or lesbian.” was never even recognized as a legal parent to innovative, and hopefully through BE they will shouldn’t have to claim an identity One of Harmon’s lawyers, Dana Nessel, has wrapped this cloak of invisibility tightly around with things...so I’m pretty split here. the three children she helped plan and raise. start to bring the same freedom, creativity and –President Barack Obama, certifying that the to be protected – bottom line, it’s wrong to discriminate discussed with BTL her difficulties in securing our private worlds to avoid the backlash at home In Michigan, though there’s no law explicitly innovation home to their communities – by –Carla Hallman military is ready to allow gays to serve openly support from our LGBT community centers and in our neighborhoods and churches. Being in the against someone because of how they look or act. That’s against same-sex parent adoption, there is a knocking down stereotypes, inspiring youth, and in the armed forces, clearing the way for an foundations. This we find embarrassing, and – as closet at work is as hurtful and inauthentic as equality 101.” widespread ban on the practice. Judges have building dreams. end to the 17-year old “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” we stated in our editorial last week – shockingly being closeted in your community but it’s just interpreted state law (incorrectly) to mean that “Coming out” remains part of the shameful. Not only would these organizations not something we all choose to just not talk about. law in September, whitehouse.gov, July 22. –Avory, in her blog titled “Looking Gay, the Blood same-sex parents cannot adopt, even though evolutionary process of all communities. Pride support Harmon financially, but they wouldn’t Black Enterprise, a monthly magazine, is Ban, and Anti-LGBT Discrimination,” about the such discrimination is written nowhere in our in self and in one’s community can overcome My vote is “silly.” Kind of plays into stereotypes. even voice public support of her cause or considered the premier business and investment straight man in Indiana who is suing a blood bank statutes. As a result, many children in Michigan hatred and hardship while inspiring a community encourage their members to help her. resource for African-Americans. Aspiring African- –Jeanne Ruzzin because it turned him away on account of “looking with same-sex parents only have one legal parent. to be bigger than the limited space a majority may Harmon has been fundraising, and she will American professionals, myself included, have gay,” radicallyqueer.wordpress.com, July 22. And if those parents split apart, the legal have segregated for the minority. “My old website got hacked. Someone continue to keep on raising money to launch a since 1970 turned to BE to find our black success parent has all the rights and responsibilities. This Black Enterprise continues to be the premier new round of arguments in the federal courts stories – those, who against the same odds we issued a ‘coming out’ statement on is what happened with Harmon’s family. business and investment resource for African- this time. We must support her with our time and faced in our lives, had not just survived but thrived. my behalf. I’m still straight and in Michigan courts won’t even allow Harmon Americans. By turning its focus on blacks money. If she wins, she secures rights for our They headed companies, had their own African- to present evidence showing she acted as a parent, and gays in corporate America, it has opened love with my girlfriend. But not too entire community. If she loses, all of the children American firms and were otherwise noteworthy. which is a shocking affront to this community’s the doors wide so that all African-Americans, straight; I still love musicals, brunch in our community lose. The magazine in effect said this is not beyond values and rights. There have been many cases including black LGBT youth, can see a world Do the right thing. Support Harmon. your grasp and YES YOU CAN long before the and Doogie Howser.” that prove “de facto” parenting. These cases of success and opportunity, all while saying to Support her right, and our right, to have a family. possibility of a Barack Obama was even fathomed. established custody rights (or child support the African-American community, “these are –Zach Braff, the “Scrubs” actor, Do it for her children, and do it for all the children And although some of these leaders may have payments) between heterosexual couples who been and probably are LGBT, that aspect of their your sons and daughters too. Aren’t you proud Comments may be edited for grammar and length. after his website had been hacked were never married. Despite these previous cases, in this community. with a fake coming-out letter posted life was kept way in the back of BE’s closet. But all of what we as a people can accomplish? 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8 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 9 News MICHIGAN News MICHIGAN/National Parting Glances Then and Now Ruth Ellis Center lands $110,000 David Blair found dead grant to enhance street outreach By Charles Alexander HIGHLAND PARK– Ruth Ellis Center, the Midwest’s only organization solely dedicated to serving homeless, at-risk and Detroit poet, singer and songwriter was only 41 runaway lesbian, gay, bi-attractional, transgender or questioning youth, is receiving a $110,000 grant from the McGregor Fund to enhance its street outreach program. The 18-month grant will By Tara Cavanaugh weekend. The Metro Times reports no foul Detroit Weekly. Moles, motes, migraines fund the Center’s efforts to evaluate the program and remodel it play is suspected, but heat stroke may have His first book of poetry, to be more effective and sustainable for the future. The last time David Blair spoke been the cause of his death. “Moonwalking,” about the life of Jackson, “One of the Ruth Ellis Center’s greatest challenges is meeting By Charles Alexander with BTL in 2009, Michael Jackson had Blair, who was born in New Jersey but hit shelves in April 2010. youth where they are in the community, which for the young people just died. lived in Detroit since the 1990s, was a prolific “What interests me about (Jackson's) we serve, can include on the streets or in parks and abandoned There’s an old saying about making a mountain out of a mole The death of the King of Pop, grieved artist. He earned a National Poetry Slam life – and about writing about him – is buildings where they are living,” said Laura Hughes, Ruth Ellis hill. Another about removing the beam from your own eye before by fans around the world, hit Blair – Champion title, performed with Urban Folk that everything that he is calls to mind Center executive director. “The McGregor Fund’s grant will demanding your neighbor remove the mote from his. who authored a poetry anthology about Collective and The Boyfriends, and taught a discussion of race, gender, sexuality, support our ability to create an outreach infrastructure that allows I have a theory, born of the experience that generally, but not Jackson – especially hard. BTL writer Chris poetry and songwriting in Detroit Public poverty, stardom, rags-to-riches and age,” us to better serve the youth and will also make us more competitive always, comes with age. No it’s not: if only I could do it over, I’d Azzopardi captured Blair in mourning, Schools. Performances took him throughout Blair told BTL in 2009. “He’s a very for state and national street outreach funding streams.” do things differently (now that I have to pay the Pied Piper for the writing “‘Whoever thought Michael Jackson the U.S., Russia, Europe and South Africa. American figure. I don't think that all that The grant will support the center’s efforts to maximize its jaunty tunes I’ve fox trotted to.) would die?’ the 39-year-old asks, as if the Blair was also a 2010 Callaloo Fellow, Michael Jackson is could've been produced outreach to youth through one-on-one outreach and the social It’s a simple theory: we frequently create problems that are artist was – or should've been – immortal.” a 2009 Seattle Haiku Slam Champion and anywhere else in the world but right here.” President Barack Obama signs the certification stating the statutory requirements for repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” have been met in the Oval networking platforms that youth utilize for survival. The center seemingly major – but actually are also seemingly manageable – Blair’s friends, family and admirers the recipient of Seattle’s 2007 BENT Blair was also well-known for his Office on July 22. Offical repeal will take effect in 60 days on Sept. 20 of this year. Pictured from left: Brian Bond, Deputy Director of the Office of Public Engagement; Kathleen Hartnett, Associate Counsel to the President; Secretary of Defense Leon Panetta; Kathryn Ruemmler, Counsel to has historically benefitted from the natural referrals networks if we keep working at them, and working at them, and working now find themselves asking the same Mentor Award for LGBT Writers. He was poem, “Detroit (while I was away),” the President; Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Admiral Mike Mullen; and Vice President Joe Biden. Official White House Photo by Pete Souza. that LGBTQ homeless and runaway youth utilize to take care at them – in order not to have to deal with a big problem that has question. Blair, a renowned poet, singer named Best Urban Folk Poet by Detroit's which he performed at the 2009 of each other. Ensuring that the street outreach uses the social the appearance of being insurmountable. (It not infrequently is. and songwriter, was found dead this past Metro Times and Best Folk Artist by Real TEDxDetroit conference. Viagra helps.) platforms will be critical to reaching LGBTQ homeless youth Let me consider dealing with A,B, and C. I may have a who are primarily categorized as couch surfers and the least likely headache that comes and goes, but, God knows that X, Y, and Z, DADT dies for good Sept. 20 to utilize shelters or runaway assistant lines. subset 1, 2, and 3 is a major migraine showing no sign of letting The McGregor Fund is a private foundation established in up in the near or distant future. Equality Michigan names executive director 1925 to “relieve the misfortunes and promote the well-being of In this country we go to war on foreign soils – spending mankind.” The foundation awards grants to organizations in human billions of dollars, in the process killing thousands of people, some services, education, health care, arts and culture and public benefit. militant, most innocent, our own and others – perhaps because Denise Brogan-Kator has served as interim executive director for six months Military certifies its readiness to offically repeal the one insurmountable problem here where we live is dealing with – take your pick – crime, poverty, overpopulation, abuse of Equality Michigan, the statewide she is transgender. ban on openly gay and lesbian service members Community Foundation’s environment, failure of education, drugs, lack of meaningful health gay and transgender advocacy and anti- Brogan-Kator’s activism began in violence organization, is pleased to the mid-1990s when she co-founded HOPE Fund launches media care, aging. All of the above? an open lesbian, said people victimized by announce that Denise Brogan-Kator has a national organization that worked to By Rex Wockner women in uniform, including those who Singly or collectively insurmountable? Or just seemingly so? DADT now deserve an apology. been appointed to the role of executive promote transgender equality. While at are gay or lesbian, for their professionalism partnership to promote growing It depends upon whom one asks. What politician and/or political “I remember and honor the service director after six months of serving as the University of Michigan Law School, “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell,” the military and patriotism during this transition. party one confronts for answers. (And whether that senator, of all the courageous lesbian and gay the interim executive director. Praise she contributed to a major change in the gay ban, will be fully and permanently Every American can be proud that our LGBT leadership of color congressman, mayor, council member, or dog catcher is seeking members of our armed forces who have for her selection came from around the university’s bylaws to add gender identity dead on Sept. 20. extraordinary troops and their families, reelection.) been required to live a lie so that they can community and across the state. and gender expression to its existing It already can’t be enforced against like earlier generations that have adapted to DETROIT– The Community Foundation for Southeast Consider as egregious example: our major adversaries. Those serve our country, or have been discharged “Denise is a skilled leader who will non-discrimination protections. After active-duty troops, courtesy of the 9th U.S. other changes, will only grow stronger and Michigan announced Tuesday a unique media partnership who advocate keeping DADT in place, holding tight without because of who they are,” Baldwin said. continue to provide strategic direction for completing her Juris Doctor in 2006, Circuit Court of Appeals. remain the best fighting force in the world between Issue Media Group and Between The Lines. Aimed budging on DOMA, insisting on employing discredited quack “These patriotic Americans deserve our the organization,” said Dr. Dennis Jacobs, Brogan-Kator and her spouse founded But on July 22, military readiness and a reflection of the values of justice and at highlighting local LGBT leaders of color, the partnership is reparative therapy for LGBT youth, overwhelmingly working thanks and our apologies.” Equality Michigan board chair. “We are Rainbow Law Center, which assists gay to implement Congress’ repeal of the ban equality that define us as Americans.” supported by The HOPE Fund’s Racial Equity Initiative. to ensure that any civil rights won for us at the ballot box be President Obama issued this statement: grateful that she is willing to continue and transgender individuals with the was certified by Defense Secretary Leon Panetta issued a statement which said, The first step in the partnership is the wide release and rescinded; by hook, crook, or crucifix. “Today, we have taken the final major serving Michigan’s gay and transgender many legal complications that result from Panetta; Adm. Michael Mullen, chairman in part: “All men and women who serve this distribution of a HOPE Fund-produced short film called “Growing These of the Fundamentalist (frequently, but not always step toward ending the discriminatory community in this capacity. Under her unequal protection under Michigan law. of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; and President nation in uniform – no matter their race, Leadership.” Over the last several years, The HOPE Fund has evangelical) tribe of zealots – fundygelicals, Rebiblicans – keep ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ law that undermines leadership, I am confident that we will She has also served on the boards of the Barack Obama, setting in motion a 60-day color, creed, religion or sexual orientation made grants to several organizations serving LGBT people of attacking us gays because, well, when it comes down to it, our military readiness and violates American continue building a strong movement for Jim Toy Community Center and the former waiting period until the policy is history. – do so with great dignity, bravery and color. The film focuses on the leaders of these organizations and confronting us, often to the point of day in, day out, 365, 24/7 principles of fairness and equality. In fairness and equality.” Triangle Foundation. She was the recipient The certification confirms that the dedication. As secretary of defense, I am what it takes to incite and inspire others to make the region a obsession – keeps a bigger Biblical bugaboo at bay. Yea, verily! Newly appointed Executive Director of Equality armed forces’ implementation of the accordance with the legislation that I signed committed to promoting an environment Equality Michigan is the result of of the Pride Banquet Committee’s Choice Michigan Denise Brogan-Kator. Photo supplied more welcoming place. What if... into law last December, I have certified and free from personal, social or institutional a 2010 merger between the Triangle Award for “outstanding contributions to by Equality Michigan. repeal and the transition to open service “There is exciting momentum within the region’s LGBT Those on the religious right are faced with a multitude of notified Congress that the requirements for Foundation and Michigan Equality, two the LGBT community” in 2009. will not affect “military readiness, barriers that prevent service members from community, in great part due to the growing base of leaders pressures that weren’t present when the Puritan-steeped, Calvin- repeal have been met. ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t advocacy organizations. Brogan-Kator is succeeding former I’ve received,” said Brogan-Kator in a military effectiveness, unit cohesion, rising to the highest level of responsibility serving communities of color,” said Allan D. Gilmour, chair of predestined, Southern Baptist-endorsed, “the Bible is free of all Tell’ will end, once and for all, in 60 days “We need strong leadership to deal Executive Director Alicia Skillman, who statement after her appointment. “My and recruiting and retention of the armed that their talents and capabilities warrant. the Community Foundation for Southeast Michigan and co-chair error;” “the world is 6000 years old;” “if you’re not a born-again – on September 20, 2011. with ongoing threats to our liberty and our stepped down from the role at the end of focus is to end legal workplace and housing forces,” Panetta said. They put their lives on the line for America, of The HOPE Fund. “The HOPE Fund is very pleased to release believer, you’ll turkey roast it in Hell forever,” got going full tilt “As Commander in Chief, I have lives," said Former Triangle Foundation 2010 and had this to say of Brogan-Kator’s discrimination in Michigan by bringing our “The final countdown to repeal begins and that’s what really matters. Thanks to this film, which highlights several of our Racial Equity Initiative in the latter half of the 19th Century. Amen! Selah! always been confident that our dedicated Executive Director Jeff Montgomery. selection: “Denise is an excellent choice antiquated state nondiscrimination law today,” said Servicemembers Legal Defense the professionalism and leadership of the grantees and their leadership philosophies and experiences.” It’s a new hand-held ballgame, and what’s being hand held men and women in uniform would transition The appointment of Denise Brogan- to lead Equality Michigan. She has a great in line with those states that understand Network Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis, U.S. military, we are closer to achieving the The 3-minute film is available at both www.modeldmedia. is not the Bible (in spite of 125 “specialty bibles” being a million to a new policy in an orderly manner that Kator as executive director provides understanding of Michigan's needs. Denise that equality for all is central to being who urged Obama to now issue an executive goal that is at the foundation of America – com and www.pridesource.com dollar industry – with the once sacrosanct Zondervan Publishing preserves unit cohesion, recruitment, stability and credibility to an organization is a strategist and will be very thoughtful competitive. I know what it is like to lose order banning anti-gay discrimination and equality and dignity for all.” Subsequent to the film, BTL and Issue Media Group (parent Company now owned by Murdoch). It’s the Internet, with access retention and military effectiveness. with deep roots and a proven record in leading us to equality.” a job after you’ve performed well; I know harassment in the military. A statement from Mullen said: company of Model D Media and MetroMode) will showcase a to “revelations” undreamed of in biblical times. Today’s action follows extensive training of accomplishments protecting and Colette Seguin Beighley, Director what it is like to hear homophobic and “Signing legislation that allows for “Certification does not mark the end of number of LGBT leaders of color through written and video What if the earth is several billions of years old? What if of our military personnel and certification promoting the safety and respect of of the LGBT Resource Center at Grand transphobic slurs; I know what it’s like to repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ was our work. Ready though we are, we owe interviews over the coming year. evolution is true? Creation Science, a pseudo science? What if the by Secretary Panetta and Admiral Mullen Michigan’s LGBT communities.” Valley State University, said “Denise nearly lose my children in the legal system; necessary but it is not sufficient for ensuring it to ourselves and to the nation we defend This activity builds on a series of activities by The HOPE X-rated sites are being viewed by – Heaven forfend! – Christian that our military is ready for repeal. As of Brogan-Kator brings a mix of is a woman of high integrity who is I know what it's like to feel unsafe walking equality in the military,” Sarvis said. to continue to train the remainder of the Fund over the last four years to help build the capacity of LGBT believers? What if Rev. Fred Phelps gives the lie to the gospel of September 20th, service members will no extensive business experience and more a passionate fighter for justice. I look with my partner – all for no reason other “It’s critical that gay and lesbian service joint force, to monitor our performance as people of color communities through its Racial Equity Initiative. Jesus? What if muslims are making headway in America? longer be forced to hide who they are in than fifteen years of activism to her forward to continuing the work for equality than who I am.” members have the same avenues for we do so, and to adjust policy where and Created in 1994, The HOPE Fund of the Community What if mega-churches are swallowing up smaller churches? order to serve our country. Our military position. A Navy veteran, Brogan-Kator under her leadership. Congratulations to “I am committed to doing my part to recourse as their straight counterparts when when needed. My confidence in our ability Foundation for Southeast Michigan exists to strengthen and What if missionaries are not welcome in India and China? What if will no longer be deprived of the talents and prepared for her business career by earning the board for this selection – it makes end such ignorance and bias. I sincerely it comes to harassment and discrimination.” to accomplish this work rests primarily on empower organizations that serve the lesbian, gay, bisexual and wily televangelists and faith healers are exposed as frauds? What if skills of patriotic Americans just because a bachelor’s degree in accounting and Equality Michigan the first statewide believe that Michigan is better than this SLDN also promised to advocate the fact that our people are capable, well-led transgender communities, by supporting important charitable fifty percent of church-sanctioned marriages end in divorce? What they happen to be gay or lesbian. an M.B.A. From there, her career grew LGBT organization in the country with a and that once the public truly knows us for legally married service members and thoroughly professional. I have never activities in southeast Michigan and by encouraging individuals if our kids need Hard Rock Gospel to convert? What if ... What if ... “I want to commend our civilian and through a series of promotions until she transgender executive director.” and knows our stories, people will join in to receive the same benefits as their served with finer men and women. They to consider what they can do with their personal philanthropy. Jesus doesn’t come. (But gays usually do?) military leadership for moving forward in became the vice president of finance with “I am excited about the opportunity our mission to achieve full equality and straight counterparts, and to assist veterans will, I am certain, carry out repeal and Since its inception, more than $1.3 million in grants have been the careful and deliberate manner that this a Florida medical products company. She to move equality forward with our respect for our community and that all of in correcting or upgrading discharge continue to serve this country with the same made through the Foundation’s HOPE Fund. The HOPE Fund change requires, especially with our nation [email protected] Have a rainbow day! was terminated from that position because talented team, and humbled by the support Michigan will be better for it.” paperwork. high standards and dignity that have defined also helps people carry out their charitable wishes to benefit the U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis., at war. I want to thank all our men and the U.S. military throughout our history.” lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities.

10 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 11 News national Creep of the Week Bryan Fischer Defence of Marriage Act repeal By D’Anne Witkowski hearing shows heated debate Like many gay and lesbian Americans I’ve been proudly watching videos and news stories about same-sex couples getting to – finally! – legally wed in New York. By Lisa Keen I got especially choked up reading about the first couple in the state to marry, Phyllis Siegal and Connie Kopelov, who are U.S. Rep. John Lewis, D-Ga., a 77 and 85 years old respectively. They’ve been together 23 years. legendary civil rights activist, led off last “I am breathless. I almost Wednesday’s hearing to discuss repealing couldn’t breathe,” Siegel told a the Defense of Marriage Act, likening it reporter. “It’s mind-boggling. The to laws decades ago that required separate fact that’s it’s happening to us – that water fountains and restrooms for “whites” we are finally legal and can do this like and “coloreds.” everyone else.” “I find it unbelievable in the year 2011 It’s hard to imagine that anyone that there is still a need to hold hearings could look at a photo of these two and debates about whether a human being women and not feel something akin should be able to marry the person they to joy. I am so happy for them. love,” Lewis said. I can’t help but wonder what it But there was a hearing, and there Thomas Minnery, right, with , testifies during a Senate Judiciary Committee hearing must be like for young LGBT people was debate. on the Respect for Marriage Act, on Capitol Hill in Washington, Wednesday, July 20. At left is Ron Wallen Republican Senator Charles Grassley of Indio, Calif., who sits with a photograph showing himself and lifelong partner Tom Carrollo, now Bryan Fischer witnessing this. When I was in high deceased. Wallen experienced “financial chaos” after his partner died. AP photo by J. Scott Applewhite. school, two women marrying each of Iowa and the ranking minority member other was inconceivable. I figured I was sentenced to live in on the Senate Judiciary Committee came the closet forever. well prepared for battle. “I find it unbelievable in the year 2011 that there is There wasn’t a lot of information out there when I was a No other Republican senators showed kid. I devoured everything I could find about gay people and I up to ask questions, and Democratic senators still a need to hold hearings and debates about can’t help but think that it would have been really good for me in support of the Respect of Marriage Act to learn about people like Bayard Rustin in history class. Or (SB 598) were also well-prepared for battle. whether a human being should be able to marry how about Adrienne Rich? She was in every poetry anthology Senator Al Franken, D-Minn., called I encountered but no one ever mentioned that she was a lesbian. DOMA an “immoral and discriminatory” law the person they love.” Homosexuality just wasn’t talked about when I was in and he challenged Grassley’s chief witness, an school. We didn’t learn that there were LGBT people who official with Focus on Family. The witness, Thomas Minnery, claimed a federal study mattered. And though a lot has changed, homosexuality still –U.S. Rep. John Lewis, D-Ga. isn’t talked about much, which is why California passed a found that children raised by a male-female measure mandating the inclusion of LGBT figures in public married couple are happier and healthier than schools. Historically, LGBT people have been kept in the children raised by other families. recognize same-sex marriages performed referring to President Obama when, in closet. This measure seeks to rectify that. “I checked the study out,” said Franken, in other states, and it allows the federal his remarks, he chastised those who are And boy are people pissed. God forbid an LGBT high referring to a 2010 study published by the U.S. government to deny giving benefits to “comfortable sitting on the sidelines” and school freshman learn in school that gay people have made Department of Health and Human Services. partners of federal employees. called on “elected officials … to lead, to be and are making important contributions to history. They “It doesn’t say what you said it does. It says The mainstream media gave some the headlights, not taillights.” might inspire him. He might look up to them. He might even ‘nuclear family,’ not opposite sex married attention this week to a statement by White Ranking minority member Grassley consider them role models. families, are associated with those outcomes.” House Press Secretary Jay Carney that was the only Republican senator to comment But he shouldn’t. Just ask the American Family Minnery said he understood “nuclear President Obama supports the Respect for and ask questions during the hearing, saying Association’s Bryan Fischer, a man who never seems to tire family” to mean heterosexual. Marriage Act. – at times with the vigor of a preacher – that of railing against LGBT people in a way that your great uncle The study didn’t use Minnery’s Carney, in response to a question, said DOMA is “not an expression of dislike Larry only does when he’s off his medication. definition, Franken replied. “It says ‘two Obama “has long called for a legislative for gay and lesbian people.” He and other Fischer is no fan of the new California law. parents who are married to one another repeal” of DOMA. opponents of the bill pointed out that many of On July 24, Fischer addressed the issue on the AFA’s and are the adopted or biological’ parents “He is proud to support the Respect for the Democrats on the committee –including Focal Point radio show. “A controversial law in California of their children. I don’t know how we can Marriage Act… which would take DOMA Chairman Leahy and Senators Dick Durbin was enacted last week that’s going to require that lesbian, trust the rest of your testimony if you are off the books once and for all,” said Carney of Illinois and Charles Schumer of New gay, bisexual, and transgender role models be taught, starting reading studies these ways.” in a press conference last Tuesday. York – voted for DOMA in 1996. in kindergarten, in California schools,” he said. “Ladies and Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman Numerous LGBT groups issued Whelan also said that repealing DOMA gentleman, by definition, somebody who engages in sexually Patrick Leahy, D-Vt., opened the hearing by statements applauding the president after would “have the federal government validate” aberrant behavior is not and cannot be a role model, period, saying he hoped to “assess the impact” of Carney’s statement. They consider Obama’s same-sex marriage and “require taxpayers end of story.” the law on American families. He said the support for the repeal measure specifically to to subsidize the provisions of benefits. And, You got that? Fuck off Bayard Rustin. Stuff your poems 1996 law “goes well beyond the harm to a be a significant step forward in his position. he said, repealing DOMA would “pave the up your ass, Walt Whitman. Go jump off a hot tin roof family’s dignity,” harming it economically, During the 2008 presidential way” for polygamists and other polyamorous Tennessee Williams. health-wise, and in other ways. campaign, a spokesman for Obama said he unions to be recognized under federal law. Look, I don’t know who put Fischer in charge of defining Several of Leahy’s seven witnesses had supported the repeal of DOMA since Bill sponsor Senator Dianne Feinstein, the term “role model,” but he has spoken. The role model provided personal stories to illustrate those 2004. But after he became president, his D-Calif., said DOMA denies rights and buck has officially stopped. harms. Ron Wallen, a 77-year-old man from Department of Justice initially mounted benefits to legally married same-sex couples. Of course, Fischer is under the misguided impression that California, said his life was thrown into a vigorous defense of the law in courts, And she vowed that, “However long it takes” teaching students about the contributions of gay people is the “financial chaos” after his life partner for arguing, among other things, “DOMA does to repeal DOMA, “we will achieve it.” same thing as teaching them how to be gay. That’s not really 58 years succumbed after a long illness. not discriminate against homosexuals in the The hearing was covered live by how it works. Everybody knows that most people become gay Because he was not eligible to receive his provision of federal benefits.” C-SPAN and will be rebroadcast. after being asked to take a personality test by a well-dressed same-sex spouse’s Social Security benefits After considerable outrage from the stranger and then sitting through an educational film. Wait, and pension, his household income dropped LGBT community, the DOJ softened its that’s Scientology. from $3,050 per month to $900. arguments in court briefs. And then, in a Find these stories online: In any case, if Fischer thinks that learning about gay Susan Murray, an attorney who help dramatic announcement in February this people in school makes you gay, then does he also believe that usher in Vermont’s civil union law and year, Attorney General Eric Holder said that • Affirmations re-launches campaign to reduce who represents many same-sex couples, he and President Obama believe DOMA is learning about straight people makes you straight? underage drinking No doubt Fischer is the kind of guy who watches Phyllis said many corporations believe DOMA unconstitutional and that laws disfavoring Siegal and Connie Kopelov exchange marriage vows and feels prevents them from providing equal LGBT people should have to pass the • Couples wed on 1st day gay marriage is legal in NY sick. Where so many see two people in love, he sees two old benefits to their employees. strictest form of judicial scrutiny. • California may see anti-gay ballot measure lady sex perverts. Sucks to be him. DOMA does allow states not to Rep. Lewis seemed to have been 12 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Beyoncé ‘4’ The Gays In this gay press exclusive, Queen Bey talks being inspired by her gay fans, loving Lady Gaga and remaking ‘A Star Is Born’

By Chris Azzopardi

f there’s any girl who runs the world, it’s Beyoncé. The reigning diva – she’s called Queen Bey for a reason, people – is one of the biggest and best voices behind a long run of hits dating back to the late ’90s, when she was part of Isupreme girl-group Destiny’s Child. Years later, Beyoncé still demonstrates just how irreplaceable she is as a solo artist, having released four albums – and dedicating her latest one, “4,” to that milestone – with some of the most memorable and gay-celebrated singles in pop music history. Not every artist can say they’ve had a gay boy lead a football team to glory by performing “Single Ladies,” as seen on “Glee.” And not every artist can say they have 16 Grammy Awards, making her one of the most honored artists in Grammy history. But that’s Queen Bey, who’s also assembled a gaggle of gay fans who are – you guessed it – crazy in love with her. In this exclusive chat with Beyoncé, her first gay press interview since 2006, the singer/actress/glamour-girl spoke about how the fierceness of her gay fans inspires her, the intimidation she’s feeling following in the footsteps of Judy and Barbra for her upcoming role in “A Star Is Born,” and what she really meant by the “girls” who run the world.

I know, according to you, the girls run the world – but what do you think about the girls and the gays teaming up and running the world together? Well, that’s what I meant when I said girls. (Laughs) Sure – we could all be one. Yes, exactly! We are all one. Do you know enough gay people so that we could successfully pull this off and take over the world? Absolutely. I think it’s happening already. I remember my friends were telling me when the song “Run the World (Girls)” first came out in the clubs the kids were going crazy, and I thought it was so wonderful and I was so excited to know that the reception was so positive. You don’t do a lot of gay press, but you have to know that you have a huge gay following. Yes, I do. When did you feel a real connection with your gay fans? I’ve always had a connection. Most of my audience is actually women and my gay fans, and I’ve seen a lot of the younger boys kind of grow up to my music. It’s great when I’m able to do the meet-and-greets, because I’m able to really connect and have conversations. People look at some of the artists that I admire – like Diana Ross and Cher – and they identity that glamour with Sasha Fierce, and I’ve been really inspired by the language. I have my (gay) stylists and my makeup artist, and all of their stories and the slang words I always put it in my music. We inspire each other. Like I said, we’re one. What do gay people tell you when you meet them? I have so many stories; I don’t even know where to begin. I know that I just recently Photo: Greg Gex had a contest where I had everyone reenact my artwork. Just seeing some of the See Beyoncé, page 20

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By Chris Azzopardi For sure; since I was young. Several of my Ellie Goulding favorite people in the whole world are gay “Guns and Horses,” a single from and absolutely amazing. Also, I do have Doors 7 p.m. August 2 her debut album, might have given Ellie a lot of gay guys who are huge fans. And Goulding some much-deserved attention, Royal Oak Music Theatre $22 (advance)/$25 (door) I get the occasional “I’ll go straight for but it’s a different type of guns that the 318 W. Fourth Street, Royal Oak you” on Twitter. (Laughs) ladies love. www.royaloakmusictheatre.com I like how my gay fans are more in “I think that I have a lesbian following touch with their feelings. Some people because I’m quite muscley,” the English say I’ve helped them through a breakup singer-songwriter says. shows, is that right? or my music makes them feel better about Whatever the reason, the gays were onto something or better about themselves or Goulding even before one of her greatest Yeah, there is for some reason. I found I lifts them out of a bad mood – and that’s a career coups – being the only performer to have quite a lesbian following, and I feel nice thing to hear. play at the royal couple’s wedding. Now the like I have quite a big gay following – and Visit our website! 24-year-old is bringing her folk-pop songs on I don’t know why. And straight people have absolutely no http://www.pridesource.com the road in support of her album, “Lights,” emotions. which was released last year. Does your boyfriend ever get jealous of (Laughs) Yeah, exactly! But that’s kind We caught up with the charmingly the lesbians that love you so much? Add our fan page! of what I’ve found (with gay fans). My giddy Goulding, who chatted about her big Yes! But he realizes that I meet a lot of manager is gay and he’s my favorite Search: “Between The Lines Newspaper” gay following, moving into a dark place for people just generally on tour – but, you person in the world. her sophomore album, and how covering an know, he always gets guys and girls after Follow us! Elton John song was a blessing in disguise. him, so… (Laughs) What are your shows like? @YourBTL I hear there’s a big gay turnout at your Have you always had gay people in your life? I guess people describe me as quite See Ellie Goulding, page 19

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® Ellie Goulding What was it like performing for Prince out on this record a bit more. Continued from p. 17 William and Kate Middleton? I hear this album will be darker, too. Cool Cities Pretty awesome. I can’t really say Why’s that? anything about it, but it was one of Lansing raunchy but not slutty, because I do the best experiences of my life. I don’t know. It’s just me; it’s just who I am. My music is solely happy like to be sexy when I perform but You can’t talk about it? also I have moments where I just at some points, but there’s always a sit with my guitar. It kind of varies. On two levels, really: First of all, we dark kind of thing running through my But when I’m doing a song like “Salt said we wouldn’t say anything, and songs. I am just kind of a dark person. Skin,” I like to move. also, I kind of don’t want to because There’s always a place in my head I it’s so private. go to to write songs, and the darker Why did you choose to cover Elton it is, the more genuine it feels to me. John’s “Your Song” for the album? Can you talk about how you merge Everyone’s different, but I’m just one folk and electro pop on “Lights”? of those. I think a lot. I think too much, I actually didn’t. It was a song I even when I’m really happy. did for an advert here – quite a big Why do you refer to yourself as a Christmas ad campaign. I would’ve folk-pop artist? Is there pressure on you to be never thought twice about covering I make sure I keep the guitar weirder and more over-the-top an Elton John song. I love Elton running all the way through, and I because the bizarre bar has been set John with all my heart, but it just start everything on guitar and add so high with artists like Lady Gaga never occurred to me to do an Elton everything else afterwards. The John cover. And then when I started sound of a guitar is a thing for me and Katy Perry? practicing to get in the studio, I because my dad used to play guitar, Not really. It’s a tough one, because realized how beautiful it was – and and I always used to listen to guitar I love Lady Gaga – who doesn’t? – so my appreciation for him grew a music. So not only do I write my but I also love, like, Feist, and she bit stronger. I guess now that the song songs on it, but it’s a big feature on doesn’t dress up or anything. I just has been a big success I feel really all of my songs. Even “Animal,” think of myself as a singer, really. grateful, and I feel like it wasn’t such the danciest track on the album, has I love fashion; I’m obsessed with a bad idea after all. And the more I guitar running through it. fashion, but most of the time I’m in sang it, the more attached I got to it – my gym stuff, running, and it doesn’t and to Elton. How will the new album you’re really go very well with high fashion. working on compare to “Lights”? Wasn’t it sort of your ticket to the True. Running in a meat dress would YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD • YOUR MARKET royal wedding? I think it will be different because the stuff I’ve been listening to is really be a challenge. Pinpoint your ad dollars where No, it wasn’t – because I believe different lately, so I think it will Exactly! So I have to make a it was planned way before that just be kind of inspired by that. I’ve compromise. they will do the most good . . . happened. Way before the cover. been listening to Warpaint and Beach Photo: Scott Trindle Advertise in the next Cool Cities Because I met them last year. House, and I want my voice to come TO PLACE AN AD CALL 734.293.7200

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“If anyone is brave and true to themselves, it’s my gay fans. The amount of confidence and fearlessness it takes... is just so beautiful.”

it’s all about women learning from each other, and I respect talent and I respect people that work hard – and good people. I love Gaga. I mean, if she didn’t perform and she wasn’t a singer, just as a human being I love her to death. But on top of it, she is the most talented pop star right now, and I’m so happy for her. It’s just really inspiring to see someone who just creates their own destiny and comes up with their own looks and writes their own songs and choreographs and is in control and is not contrived. If you took away every bit of costume and she just sat in front of a piano, she would still tear it down. She’s just that talented, and she deserves it all. And I’m Photo: Ellen Von Unwerth just happy to work with her. I love her. “I Was Here,” a song on “4” written by Diane ® Beyoncé I feel a bit overwhelmed, and I’m still in Warren, is all about you changing lives. Continued from p. 13 shock. (Laughs) But the studio and Clint What do you hope is the effect you’ve had (Eastwood, the director) believe in me, and on your gay fans over the years? guys who dressed up – like my hairstylist I feel like I’ve been really selective and I’ve dressed up as Sasha Fierce from “Single waited and worked really hard and I’ve done I hope that I’ve given them confidence, Ladies” for Halloween, and I saw so different types of movies – from comedies and I hope that I’ve given them inspiration. many people dressed up in that glove and to thrillers to drama when I played Etta I just want everyone to become a better bodysuit – really makes me feel like I’m James – and I really wanted to make sure person, and I hope that when they see me doing my job and some of the fashion is I was ready. I do believe that at this point I perform they can live out their fantasies making its mark. To know that people can am ready, and I’ve been disciplined and I’ve and see my work ethic and apply it to their be free and confident and do what they want surrounded myself with really good actors. lives and be confident and proud. If they’re themselves, and I can be the person they I hope this is going to be as wonderful of an bootylicious, be proud; whoever they are, want to look like (laughs), is really such a experience as I feel it’s going to be. be proud. On this album, I really focused blessing for me, and it’s very inspiring. I’m I just remember growing up seeing on making people feel good and feel love very happy and proud of that. Barbra Streisand and knowing that she and know that there is love out there and represented that generation’s star, and being goodness exists. I wanted to make a body Yes, you’ve inspired lots of drag queens an African-American woman and being the of work that took risks – to be brave and be out there. What tips can you give them to person that’s represented is such an honor. I myself, and not focus on being cool. respect it and I cherish it and I’m going to be a better Beyoncé? That’s what I love about this album – you work so hard – harder than I’ve ever worked I have many different looks, so find what – to make sure that I live up to filling the did what you wanted to do. Through that, works best for your silhouette and your shoes of those other women. you’ve taught gay fans how to stay true to face. I’ve had every kind of hair style and I themselves. What have you learned from know, for me, there are certain things that I Last year, Lady Gaga made this remark them, though? love to wear and there’s certain makeup and in an interview with E! News: “I was very colors – bright colors on my eyes – that just excited to be working with Beyoncé again. If anyone is brave and true to themselves, it’s my gay fans. The amount of confidence don’t complement my features. So I think It just sort of works out because we both just figuring out which Beyoncé works best and fearlessness it takes to do what maybe for your figure and features. like women.” What did she mean by that? is not what your parents expect you to do or (Laughs) Well… I’m all about women what society may think is different – to be For your upcoming role in the remake of working together and supporting each brave and be different and to be yourself – is “A Star Is Born,” you’ll be part of a lineage other and learning from each other, and I just so beautiful. It’s the most beautiful thing of gay icons including Judy Garland and feel like sometimes women get a bad rap. you can be, and it’s what we all want to be at Barbra Streisand. How does it feel knowing It’s like we’re competitive and we can’t the end of the day. And not worrying about that? Is it intimidating? respect each other, especially if we’re satisfying or becoming what other people both out around the same time – they think you’re supposed to be, that’s like the I’m slightly a bit intimated, I have to say. think we’re going to kill each other. And ultimate dream – to just be that brave.

20 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Life Curtaiin Calls For the latest professional theater news: www.EncoreMichigan.com 'Tartuffe' bubbles over with energy and fun By Bridgette M. Redman REVIEW Whether it is Stephen Colbert’s latest Tartuffe show or Moliere’s 1664 farce, sometimes the most biting forms of truth can be found Michigan Shakespeare Festival at in the heartiest of laughter. Baughman Theatre at Jackson Community If the original actors performed College Potter Center, 2111 Emmons Rd., Jackson. Plays in repertory through Aug. 6. “Tartuffe” with the relish and commitment $30-$36. 517-998-3673. that the Michigan Shakespeare Festival www.michiganshakespearefestival.com actors did this weekend, it is little wonder France’s archbishop threatened to excommunicate any who watched it. It is, Moliere’s tale is of Orgon, an upright after all, a persuasive farce showing how a man who has served his country well in charlatan can wear the outer face of piety as a civil war and has now fallen under the “Tartuffe” continues at the Michigan Shakespeare a means for personal financial and political influence of Tartuffe, a man who makes Festival through Aug. 6. gain. Even though Moliere, through much show of his piety and religious terrorizes all the other family members. the voice of the play’s (mostly) rational devotion. So skilled is he in attributing Haley launches the play with zeal and brother Cleante, is quick to praise true to heaven’s will all that he does, that he energy and if the production has a major piety and warn his brother against lumping manipulates Orgon into falling completely flaw, it is that once she stalks off, she is all religious men with the outrageous under his sway. Much to the dismay of his absent from the stage until the final scenes. behavior of Tartuffe, the play still stands as family, Orgon disrupts their lives utterly Her absence, though, is balanced by a condemnation of those who lead others to elevate and uplift Tartuffe. Tartuffe, an ensemble of actors in which there is no into scandalous behavior by invoking the meanwhile, manipulates Orgon’s devotion weak link. Each performer shows equal name of heaven. to his greatest advantage, whether it be and total commitment in an impressively Don’t think, though, that you’ll be helping himself to his purse, his reputation, consistent manner throughout the four acts attending a sermon or agitprop theater. his property, his wife or his daughter. of this classic farce. Buz Davis as Orgon is No, Director Robert Kauzlaric plays this From the first syllable the actors a man in love who swings between passions one straight, which is to say with all the speak, it is apparent that the audience is in with agile vocal and facial gymnastics. He affectations of a French farce with its for a wild ride. Orgon’s mother, Mmme. turns his puppy dog eyes upon Tartuffe with over-the-top characters, quick pacing, Pernelle, storms onto the stage. Janet Haley all the devotion of a love-sick lad who has humorous wordplay and intense physical takes a role that is prone to screeching and newly discovered the hormonal wrenching humor. Every moment is played for laughs turns it into a show stealer with the night’s that gets dubbed as romance. while always supporting the furtherance most effective and uproarious use of a prop of the story. – a fan that accentuates her every point and Give us moe of ‘Five Guys’ at Mason Street

By Sue Merrell REVIEW Everything about Mason Street Five Guys Warehouse’s production of “Five Guys Named Moe” is bigger than life – from Named Moe the high-enough-to-hide-an-actor boom Mason Street Warehouse, 400 Culver St., box to a monster mama stick puppet who Saugatuck. Tuesday-Sunday through Aug. 7. peeks in between the curtains. And the $26-$39.75. 269-857-4898. high-energy entertainment keeps building www.masonstreetwarehouse.org for two hours until the final medley is so big and powerful, it sounds like the room are continuously wandering off stage and is going to explode. reemerging with a crazy prop or costume Written by Clarke Peters (Lester piece that fits into the song. Freamon to fans of HBO’s “The Wire”), Four-Eyed Moe (Zachary D. Singing “Safe, Sane & Single”, from left to right: the 1990 musical revue features the upbeat McConnell), in his bright orange suit and Will Lee-Williams, Zachary McConnell, Wayne songs of Louis Jordan and other blues and W. Pretlow, Erick Pinnick, Tony Perry and Chas orange glasses, dons a feathered hood jazz composers of the 1940s, presented by Lowery IV. Photo: Jonathan J. Barnes when singing “Ain’t Nobody Here But Us a rainbow-hued male quintet, with each Chickens” in a high falsetto. Little Moe Lowery IV, needs no help in the voice member called some variation of Moe. (Will Lee-Williams) is the most likely to department, giving excellent jazz stylings to Like a high-jumpin’, fast-movin’ basketball add the splits or a back-flip to his dance the opening number, “Early in the Morning,” team of song, they put the full-court press routine, or go for the wide-eyed comic as well as “I Know What I’ve Got.” on Nomax, a lonesome, foolish fellow who expression, which was especially effective With the prominent on-stage band needs to get his act together and reclaim the in “I Like ‘em Fat Like That.” and Rosanna Stewart’s colorful cityscape woman he loves. Lithe No Moe (Erick Pinnick) could setting, the show feels more like a night club Okay, the plot is worse than weak wow the audience with his tap dance routine act than a play, and certainly it functions and the show would probably be better or act silly in a curly lion wig. Big Moe that way with several opportunities for off if somebody just pulled the thread, but (Tony Perry) works well with the audience interaction with the audience including a thankfully the “story” doesn’t slow down in the early “Beware, Brother, Beware” and conga line at the end of Act I. the action much. leads audience participation in one of the For me, the biggest surprise was the Director/choreographer D.J. Salisbury best numbers of the evening, “Caledonia.” country hoedown interpretation of “Safe, has put together a fast-paced show that Eat Moe (Wayne Pretlow) keeps up the Sane and Single,” which showed off the seems to slide effortlessly from song to expected patter about food, but also nails versatility of the cast while adding lots of fun. song, while highlighting the individual the bluesy “Don’t Let the Sun Catch You What a wonderful way to end a fun strengths and talents of each performer. Crying,” which features a great sax solo. day in Saugatuck. They can move together as a synchronized Nomax may need the quintet’s advice ensemble, or stray way off into splits, on life, but the actor playing the role, Charles back flips or just a sexy strut. Members Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 21 For expanded listings, visit www.pridesource.com

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The Scarab Club “Family Ties Exhibition” LGBTQ Affirming Discussion, 5 p.m. 2551. five15.net July 31. 734-761-1800. theark.org DeWitt Theatre, 141 E. 12th St., Holland. Showcasing the work of artists within Womyn’s Music Festival in 1996 through generosity of Dr. Milton Williamston. Through Aug. 14. 517-655- Pippy Longstocking $17 adults, $13 org/Downtown-Events/Whats-Happening/ Considering the story of Adam and Eve Plays in rotating repertory through Aug. family units. The Scarab Club, 217 Flashback Dance Party, 8 p.m. Dance Muelder. MSU Beaumont Tower, 102 The Ark Ricky Skaggs, Bluegrass- 7469. williamstontheatre.org seniors, $13 students; some 10 a.m. Farmers-Artisans-Market returns this August with a and if the story addresses the issue of 11. 616-395-7890. hope.edu/hsrt Farnsworth , Detroit. July 8 - Aug. 13. party with DJ Charles English from Todds Music Building, East Lansing. 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July Scheherazade: Legend of the Arabian watercolors of Maine and Pennsylvania women of all cultures and Kickin’ It On The River, 6:20 p.m. A Consider the Oyster Contains strong members, $27 UM students, $35 general. 25th Annual Music in the Valley, 11 102 Music Building, East Lansing. 6 p.m. 21 - July 28. 734-761-1800. theark.org Sundays at Go Comedy! $7 for the night. Nights $7 adult, $5 ages 17 and under. made from 1939 through the 1960s. Flint generations inspired by three-hour cruise with buffet, live DJ and language and adult themes. $25-$40. University Of Michigan Museum Of Art, p.m. 25th annual celebration. Windover July 27. 517-353-9958. music.msu.edu Go Comedy! Improv Theater, 261 E. Nine All-of-us Express Children’s Theatre at Institute of Arts, 1120 E. Kearsley St., Flint. cash bar in celebration of Hotter Than The Purple Rose Theatre Company, 137 525 South State Street, Ann Arbor. 12 p.m. feminist values through Resort’s music festival oriented weekend. The Palace Britney Spears with special Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-327-0575. Hannah Community Center, 819 Abbott June 1 - Aug. 7. 810.234.1695. flintarts. July. Kick, Rivard Plaza, Detroit. 313-285- Park St., Chelsea. Through Sep. 3. 734- Aug. 5. 734-763-4186. umma.umich.edu relaxation, outdoors, mu- Windover Womens Resort, 3596 Blakely Concerts guest Nicki Minaj. Tickets: $29.50-150. gocomedy.net Road, East Lansing. Through July 30. org/exhibitions/current_wyeth.html 9733. e-kick.org Road , . 989-375-2586 . Palace of Auburn Hills, 5 Championship 433-7673. purplerosetheatre.org Owendale Alyssa G. Smith “5th Annual Percussion 517-333-2580, ext. 0. cityofeastlansing. University of Michigan “Curator’s sic, intensive workshops Dr., Auburn Hills. 7 p.m. July 28. 248-377- Tartuffe $30-$36. Michigan Shakespeare Flint Institute of Arts “Edmund Caring Caregiver, 6:30 p.m. A support reservations@windoverwomensresort. Recital” Admission: Free. Reception Ernie $20-$25. City Theatre, com/allofus Talk” A. Alfred Taubman Galleries’ and music. 0100. palacenet.com Festival at Baughman Theatre at Jackson Lewandowski: Precisionism and Beyond” group for anyone who is caring for com to follow, where guests can choose to 2301 Woodward Ave., Detroit. exhibition curator Xiaobing Tang speaks Community College Potter Center, The Borrowers $10. Hope Summer This is the first retrospective exhibition someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia. donate to Susan G. Komen, combating Through Aug. 21. 313-471-6611. in the informal setting of the gallaries Womyn are shuttled in 2111 Emmons Road, Jackson. Plays in Repertory Theatre at Studio Theatre in the of Milwaukee-born artist Edmund This group is open to family, friends, Sunday, July 31 breast cancer. The Flint Institute of Music Film & Video olympiaentertainment.com as he offers a first look at UMMA’s repertory through Aug. 6. 517-998-3673. DeWitt Center, 141 E. 12th St., Holland. Lewandowski (1914-98), the preeminent along with their camp- spouses and partners. Everyone is Flint School of Performing Arts, 1025 Penn Theatre “E.T.: The Extra-Terrestrial” new exhibition, Multiple Impressions: HTJ!2011 Jazz and Soul Brunch, 1 p.m. Five Guys Named Moe A regional michiganshakespearefestival.com Plays in rotating repertory through Aug. second-generation Precisionist, who ing gear and luggage to welcome! Alzheimer’s Association East Kearsley Street, Flint. 5 p.m. July 28. Summer Cinema Series: Sponsored by Contemporary Chinese Woodblock Brunch served at 1 p.m., performances at premiere. $26-$39.75. Mason Street 12. 616-395-7890. hope.edu/hsrt achieved recognition for extending the God-Des and She and Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Mile smithmarimba.com/breast_cancer_3-day Community Financial and Packaging Prints. University of Michigan Museum the festival’s interior. 2 p.m. Hotter Than July, 400 Renaissance Warehouse, 400 Culver St., Saugatuck. Thank You for Being a Friend $10-$20. style of Precisionism beyond the East Rd , Ferndale . 248-996-1053. Corporation of America. Tickets: $3. of Art, 525 S. State St., Ann Arbor. 3 The “Festival Kitchen” Center, Detroit. blackpridesociety.com Farmington Downtown Development Through Aug. 7. 269-857-4898. Who Wants Cake? at The Ringwald The Commedia Tales of Aladdin $6. Coast and into the Midwest, making it a goaffirmations.org Penn Theatre, 760 Penniman Ave., Theatre, 22742 Woodward Ave., Water Works Theatre Company at Starr p.m. July 31. 734-647-0524. umma. prepares three meals a day, with vegetarian alternatives. Lezread, 4 p.m. Ann Arbors book group Authority “Rhythmz in Riley Park “ Friday Plymouth. Aug. 4 - Aug. 4. 734-453-0870. masonstreetwarehouse.org national style. Flint Institute of Arts, 1120 HTJ!2011 VIP Artist Exhibit and night concerts in downtown Farmington. Ferndale. Through Aug. 8. 248-545-5545. Jaycee Park, 1101 W. 13 Mile Road, Royal E. Kearsley St., Flint. June 1 - Aug. 7. umich.edu for Lesbians. Meets the last Sunday of penntheatre.com Fridays and Saturdays at Go Comedy! whowantscaketheatre.com Oak. July 26 - Aug. 7. 248-703-2645. Reception, 7 p.m. Special guests, art, Walter E. Sundquist Pavilion, 33113 Grand 810.234.1695. flintarts.org University of Michigan “Amalia Pica” This year’s festival entertainment includes lesbian comedians Suzanne Westenhoeffer and every month. Lezread, 319 Braun Court, Go Comedy! Improv Theater, 261 E. Nine waterworkstheatre.com music, network and entertainment. No River Ave., Farmington. June 10 - Aug. Penn Theatre “The Wizard of Oz” London-based Argentinian artist’s Elvira Kurt; Midwest hip-hop sensations God-Des and She; drumsong orchestral perfor- Ann Arbor. 734-678-2478. lezread@ Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-327-0575. The Importance of Being Earnest $7.50 Henry Ford Museum “Discovering the dress code, everyone is welcome. Music 26. 248-473-7276. downtownfarmington. Summer Cinema Series: Sponsored by investigations into perception, time, and yahoo.com gocomedy.net online or $9.50 at the door. Spontaneous The Wiggles Big Birthday Party! Civil War” Tickets: $15 adults, $11 youth. mances with Ubaka Hill, a one world choir performance with Aleah Long and a candlelight and art provided by Detroit artists, such as org/Downtown-Events/Whats-Happening/ Community Financial and Packaging Summer Theater at Comstock Community $15-39.50 general seating,$75 VIP memory, as well as a desire to explore Poor.Man’s.Art.Collective. Hotter Than July, HARC Provided HIV/AIDS Testing, 5 Rhythmz-in-Riley-Park Corporation of America. Tickets: $3. Penn Henry Ford Museum, 20900 Oakwood concert with Ruth Barrett and many others. Great Expectations $18. Flint Youth Auditorium, 2107 N. 26th, Kalamazoo. July seating. The Palace of Auburn Hills, 5 Blvd., Dearborn. May 21 - Sep. 5. 313- how particular gestures read in different Barefoot Wines and The Detroit Liberal p.m. HARC provides anonymous and Theatre, 760 Penniman Ave., Plymouth. Theatre, 1220 E. Kearsley St., Flint. 28 - 30. 269-873-4551. sstshows.org Championship Dr., Auburn Hills. July 29. cultural contexts, pursued across a Intensive workshops through- Art Gallery, 3361 Gratiot Ave., Detroit. free HIV counseling, testing and referral Ferndale Public Library “First Stop Aug. 11 - Aug. 11. 734-453-0870. 982-6001. thehenryford.org Friday” Free rock show featuring two Through Aug. 6. 810-237-1530. 248-377-0100. ticketmaster.com diverse body of work in sculpture, out the week will teach womyn blackpridesociety.com services through its outreach at the penntheatre.com flintyouththeatre.org The Music Man $28. The Encore Kalamazoo Institute of Arts “The photography, film, and installation, as well Jim Toy Community Center. HARC, 319 local bands: SROS LORDS and Them Musical Theatre, 3126 Broad St., Dexter. countless arts, such as latin LGBTIQ Support Group, 7 p.m. An Fostrohs Ferndale Public Library, 222 E. Chinese Scholar’s Brush” Works from as temporary interventions on buildings, Braun Court, Ann Arbor. 734-678-2478. Other Guys on Ice Plays in rotating repertory. Through July 31. 734-268-6200. the Albert and Betty Chang Collection. monuments, and objects. University of dance, drumming, yoga, astrol- inclusive environment for all gender who hivaidsresource.org/hiv-testing Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 5:30 p.m. Aug. $10-$26. Hope Summer Repertory theencoretheatre.org are healing from domestic and/or sexual 5. 248-547-6008. facebook.com/event. Ann Arbor Companion Bird Club “Exotic Kalamazoo Institute of Arts, 314 S. Park Michigan Museum of Art, 525 South ogy and “queering your sex.” Bird Exhibition” Exhibit of rare birds Theatre at Knickerbocker Theatre, 86 E. , Kalamazoo. May 7 - Aug. 27. 269-349- State Street, Ann Arbor. May 28 - Sep. 18. assault. YWCA of KGLRC, 629 Pioneer St., php?eid=164960646906840 8th St., Holland. Aug. 1 - 10. 616-395- The Quality of Life A staged reading. ART ‘N’ Thursday, Aug. 4 supplemented by vendors, speakers and 7775. kiarts.org 734-763-4186. Networking spaces throughout Kalamazoo. 269-349-4234. 7890. hope.edu/hsrt $5. Flint Youth Theatre, 1220 E. Kearsley Jewish Gay Network Family & Friends, Grand Rapids Symphony “The a prize raffle. Tickets: $3 adult, children St., Flint. 6 p.m. July 31. 810-237-1530. the festival’s community center Music of Michael Jackson” Michael 12 and under are free. Weber’s Inn, 3050 Kerrytown Concert House “A Matter of University of Michigan “Calder’s Circus Thursday, July 28 7 p.m. LGBT group discussing issues Hot Dog Mondays $5. Planet Ant flintyouththeatre.org Light and Depth” Photography by Angela and Mobiles” Saturdays Family Style: will offer socialization for teens, impacting the LGBT and allied community. Jacksons legendary hits performed Jackson Ave., Ann Arbor. 10 a.m. Aug. 7. Theatre, 2357 Caniff Ave., Hamtramck. Emory Book Party, 6:30 p.m. This 734-769-3237. aacbc.org The Sex Maniac $16. Broadway AROUND and Jim George, using light to give depth. Learn about Alexander Calder, one of by Grammy-nominated Grand Rapids over 50s, Jewish Womyn, deaf Meets 1st Thursday of every month. The 313-365-4948. planetant.com The Rust Belt Market “A Pinch of Spice month the Emory Book Club discusses Symphony and singer/dancer James Onstage Live Theatre, 21517 Kelly Road, Kerrytown Concert House, 415 N. Fourth the 20th century’s most ingenious and Jewish Gay Network, 6600 West Maple and More” Rust Belt Market for vintage, and hard of hearing womyn, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: A story Delisco. Cannonsburg Ski Area, 6800 Kerrytown Concert House “Week After I Remember Mama Plays in rotating Eastpointe. Through Aug. 20. 586-771- Ave., Ann Arbor. July 1 - Aug. 12. 734- influential artists, in a hands on family Road, West Bloomfield. 248-432-5661. design, and art. Woodward Ave. & 9 as well as womyn from other about a young shepherd who dreams Cannonsburg Road Northeast, Belmont. Art Fair Song Fest - Singing Our Brains repertory. $8-$19. Hope Summer 6333. broadwayonestage.com 769-2999. kerrytownconcerthouse.com workshop. Registration: $44 UMMA or jgnmi.org Mile Road, North West Corner, Ferndale. about treasure and sets out to find it. The Aug. 4 - Aug. 5. 616-454-9451 4. http// Out” Night of cabaret featuring various Repertory Theatre at DeWitt Theatre, 141 AAAC members and UM students, $48 countries. The Tempest $20. Water Works Theatre June 25 - Nov. 20. 246-622-1621. Lawrence Street Gallery “Summer Emory, 22700 Woodward Ave., Ferndale. grsymphony.org/concerts/dw-fresh- genres of music and area star performers. E. 12th St., Holland. Through Aug. 13. Non-members. Advance registration Company at Starr Jaycee Park, 1101 W. apinchofspiceandmore.com Invitational” Annual exhibit featuring The Michigan Womyn’s Music 248-547-6008. facebook.com/event. Friday, Aug. 5 market-picnic-pops/music-michael- Kerrytown Concert House, 415 N. Fourth 616-395-7890. hope.edu/hsrt required. Forum, 525 S. State St., Ann Ave., Ann Arbor. 8 p.m. July 29. 734-769- 13 Mile Road, Royal Oak. Through Aug. 7. newest work by local artists. Showcases Arbor. 11 a.m. July 30. 734-763-4186. php?eid=103445546416768 Womyn’s Film Night, 7 p.m. Film- jackson-special-event Craig Mitchell Smith Glass Gallery Festival is Aug. 2-7 in Walhalla. 2999. kerrytownconcerthouse.com Kolobok $10 adult, $5 children. 248-703-2645. waterworkstheatre.com over 50 works in two and three umma.umich.edu Suzanne Westenhoefer: A Bottom on “Glass in the Garden” Display of Interfaith Candlelight Vigil, 7:30 p.m. Kerrytown Concert House “Alberto PuppetART, 25 E. Grand River, Detroit. dimensional media. The Lawrence Street The exact location is supplied Top. Holding court in front of a receptive The Winter’s Tale $36-30 adults, larger than life glass art in the garden. Candlelit vigil at the Blue Spruce Memorial Rojo Trio” Argentinean music, including Warren/Conner Development Coalition Saturdays through July 30. 313-961- Gallery, 22620 Woodward, Ferndale. University of Michigan “Multiple after registration. Childcare for Indianapolis crowd. Affirmations, 290 W. $12 students. Michigan Shakespeare Admission: $5. Dow Gardens, Midland MI, Tree. Hotter Than July, Blue Spruce styles such as tango and chacarera, “Eastside Farmers Market” Fresh produce, 7777. puppetart.org June 29 - July 30. 248-544-0394. Impressions: Contemporary Chinese Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Festival at Baughman Theatre, Jackson 1809 Eastman Ave., Midland. May 22 - children under 10 is provided. Memorial Tree, Palmer Park, Detroit. as well as jazz standards arranged healthy foods, and unique artisan items. lawrencestreetgallery.com Woodblock Prints” 114 works by 41 goaffirmations.org LIFE: In 4-Part Harmony $15-$20. All Community College Potter Center, 2111 July 31. 800-362-4874. dowgardens.org Registration and more informa- blackpridesociety.com with South American flair. Tickets: Everything locally made and sold directly artists, including Xu Bing, Kang Ning, Elvira Kurt by the growers and producers. Accepts For One Ink at International Institute, 111 Emmons Road, Jackson. Plays in rotating MOCAD “barely there” Group Song Yuanwen, Chen Qi, He Kun, and $30-15, $10 students. Kerrytown Cranbrook Art Museum “Saarinem tion is available at michfest.com. cash, Bridge Card, Double Up Food Bucks, E. Kirby St., Detroit. Aug. 6 - 7. 313-727- repertory through Aug. 7. 517-998-3673. exhibition featuring James Lee Byars, Fang Limin, as well as many other Thursday, Aug. 11 Concert House, 415 N. Fourth Ave., Ann House and Garden” rare integration of Friday, July 29 WIC, Project Fresh, credit, and debit. 1011. allforoneink.com michiganshakespearefestival.com Luis Camnitzer, Jason Dodge, Pable accomplished printmakers. University Meet ‘n Greet, 7 p.m. Meet new people, Arbor. 8 p.m. July 30. 734-769-2999. art, architecture, design and natureXXa Genesis Conference Workshop XVI, Weekly music and entertainment. Mack Helguera, Christoph Keller, Lee Loazno, Of Michigan Museum Of Art, 525 South socialize and discuss age-relevant issues. kerrytownconcerthouse.com Manifest Destiny! (there was blood Thursdays at Go Comedy! $15. Go total work of art. Designed in the late 4 p.m. 16th annual Genesis conference Alter Square, 14820 Mack Ave. , Detroit . Rivane and Sergio, Neuenschwander, State Street, Ann Arbor. July 16 - Oct. 23. Dinner at local restaurant afterwards. on the saddle) $15. The Hinterlands at Comedy! Improv Theater, 261 E. Nine Mile 1920s, Saarinen House served as the workshops. Includes a writing and Majestic Theatre “Buckethead & Wolff” June 11 - Oct. 1. 313-571-8200 x.1117. Wilfredo Prieto, Pascale Marthine 734-763-4186. Ages 18-33. Metro Detroit LGBT The Jam Handy Building, 2900 E. Grand Road, Ferndale. Through Aug. 25. 248- home and studio of the Finnish-American publishing 101 with Anondra Kat Williams Buckethead of Guns N’ Roses solo facebnook.com/eastsidefarmersmarket Tayou and Adolf Wolfli. Museum 20Somethings, 222 E. Nine Mile Road, Blvd., Detroit. Aug. 4 - Aug. 27. 313-454- 327-0575. gocomedy.net designer Eliel Saarinen and Loja Saarinen Theater and authors such as Stanley Bennet Clay, performance. The Majestic Theatre, 4140 of Contemporary Art Detroit, 4454 Ferndale. the20somethings.org 1756. thehinterlandensemble.org from 1930 through 1950. Cranbrook Ifalade TasShia Asanti, and Queen Sheba. Woodward Ave., Detroit. 8 p.m. July 28. Woodward Ave., Detroit. May 27 - July Twelve Angry Men $15-20 general. What Art Museum, 39221 Woodward Ave., Followed by an author’s cafe meet and 313-247-5270. majesticdetroit.com 31. 313-832-6622. mocadetroit.org The All-of-us Express Children’s Friday, Aug. 12 Marie Antoinette: The Color of A Do Theatre at First United Methodist Bloomfield Hills. May 2 - Sep. 30. 877- greet supplied by Black Pride Society. Flesh Previews July 28-31 & Aug. Church, 111 East Michigan Ave., Battle Theatre will bring “Scheherazade: Olympia Entertainment “INXS” “The 462-7262. cranbrookart.edu Also: Agape Spirit Life Ministries presents Older Lesbians Organizing, 7 p.m. 4 ($10-$32). $27-$41. Performance Creek. Through July 30. 773-744-8598. Legend of the Arabian Nights” to the Provides older Lesbians with the Original Sin Tour.” Tickets: $35.50-68.50. THEATER “For Men, By Men: Authentication, Network, 120 East Huron St, Ann Arbor. whatado.org Detroit Artist’s Market “Underwear Fox Theatre, 2211 Woodward Ave., Validation and Empowerment” with chance to meet like minded women Civic/Community Theater July 28 - Aug. 28. 734-663-0681. Show” A curated group show will take a East Lansing Hannah Community Detroit. 7:30 p.m. July 30. 313-471-6611. special guest Dr. D Marcell. Hotter in their common struggles, to share 2nd Annual Playwrights at Work performancenetwork.org Urinetown $29. Farmers Alley Theatre, fun look at exposing this secretive subject Center stage July 29-30. olympiaentertainment.com Than July, Renaissance Center, Detroit. mutual interests and to play and work Weekend $10. Village Players, 221 Farmers Alley, Kalamazoo. matter. Detroit Artist’s Market, 4719 Much Ado About Nothing $25. Through Aug. 7. 269-343-2727. blackpridesociety.com together. Meets the 2nd Friday of every Olympia Entertainment “Death 34660 Woodward Ave., Birmingham. Woodward Avenue, Detroit. July 29 - July Adapted by Susan Pargman from Blackbird Theatre at West Park, 300 N. farmersalleytheatre.com month. Older Lesbians Organizing, 319 Cab For Cutie” Tickets:$30-45. Fox July 29 - 31. 248-644-2075. 30. 313-822-0954. detroitartistsmarket. “The Arabian Nights” stories, this Womyn’s Film Night, 7 p.m. Film-My Seventh Ave., Ann Arbor. Through July 30. Braun Court, Ann Arbor. 734 6782478. Theatre, 2211 Woodward Ave., Detroit. birminghamvillageplayers.com org Normal. The story of Natalie, a young 734-332-3848. blackbirdtheatre.org Wednesdays at Go Comedy! Go Comedy! production tells the tale of the great- [email protected] July 28 - July 28. 313-471-6611. lesbian from the Lower East Side, who’s Annie $5-12. Warren Civic Theatre at Improv Theater, 261 E. Nine Mile Road, Downriver Council for the Arts olympiaentertainment.com est storyteller of the ancient Arabian struggling to find a balance between her Womyn’s Film Night, 7 p.m. Film-A Warren Community Center auditorium, Much Ado About Nothing $30-$36. Ferndale. 248-327-0575. gocomedy.net “Jured Photography Exhibit” The Marine Story. A decorated officer from Michigan Shakespeare Festival, world. Scheherazade must use her dreams of becoming a film maker and her Olympia Entertainment “American Idol 5460 Arden, Warren. Aug. 5 - 13. Working $20-$26. Tibbits Summer DCA is accepting entries for a jured a military family, Alex is unexpectedly Baughman Theatre at Jackson talents to save her people from the lifestyle as a dominatrix. Affirmations, 290 Live! Tour 2011” Tickets:$45-65. Joe 2483905443. warrencivic.org Theatre, 14 S. Hanchett St., Coldwater. Aug. photography exhibit at the Wyandotte W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- discharged from duty. When she returns Community College Potter Center, Arts Center. Professional and amateur hot-tempered King Raynah, who has Louis Arena, 19 Steve Yzerman Drive, $14. Riverwalk Theatre, 4 - Aug. 13. 517-278-6029. tibbits.org 7105. goaffirmations.org to her conservative hometown, the Marine Flaming Idiots 2111 Emmons Road, Jackson. Plays in photographers can submit up to four Detroit. 7 p.m. Aug. 7. 313-396-7000. 228 Museum Drive, Lansing. Through July decided to punish the women in his struggles to readjust to civilian life, but repertory through Aug. 5. 517-998-3673. entries. A non-refundable $15 entry olympiaentertainment.com 31. 517-482-5700. riverwalktheatre.com Theater for Young kingdom for his broken heart. Saturday, July 30 agrees to mentor Saffron, a troubled teen michiganshakespearefestival.com fee is required for all entries. Exhibit who’s enlisting. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Olympia Entertainment “An Evening Audiences Add your events to next week’s issue! Godspell $12. Downriver Youth Out of Order Contains adult themes. begins Sept. 8. Wyandotte Arts Center, 12th Annual Ruth Ellis Pride March, Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. with Angie Stone” Tickets:$40-43. Abracadabra: Popcorn Magic Show $7. Performances are 7 p.m. Friday Performing Art Cente at, Trenton Village $20-$26. Tibbits Summer Theatre, 14 S. 2306 4th St., Wyandotte. May 1 - Aug. 10 a.m. Hotter than July’s Pride March goaffirmations.org Sound Board Theater, 2901 Grand River Tibbits Summer Theatre, 14 S. Hanchett and 2 p.m. and 4:30 p.m. Saturday. Theatre, 2447 W. 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The New Theatre Project at Mix Farmington Downtown Development 819 Abbot Road, or calling 517-333- guests taking a moment to celebrate Great Escape Stage Company at Franke culture, self-empowerment and identity. The Ark Jan Krist. Tickets:$15. The Ark, Performance Space, 130 W. Michigan Disney’s Camp Rock - The Musical A Authority “Farmington Farmers & 2580 ext. 0. MORE Center for the Arts, 214 E. Mansion St., Artisans Market” Each Saturday. Fresh Ave., Ypsilanti. Aug. 2 - 21. 734-645- regional premiere. $10 adult, $6 youth. Features music and entertainment. 316 S. Main St., Ann Arbor. 7 p.m. Aug. 7. Marshall. July 30 - 31. 269-781-0001. Classical 9776. thenewtheatreproject.org Stagecrafters at Baldwin Theatre, 415 S. Michigan produce, baked goods, Follow us and get reminders! Hotter Than July, Palmer Park, Detroit. 734-761-1800. theark.org frankecenterforthearts.org blackpridesociety.com Kerrytown Concert House “Week Lafayette, Royal Oak. Through July 31. 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22 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 23 Life Theater Water Works bewitches with spirit-filled ‘Tempest’ Horoscopes

By Bridgette M. Redman REVIEW Flirting is your forte, Virgo!

When Paul Hopper takes center The Tempest By Jack Fertig stage at Water Works Theatre Company’s production of “The Tempest” as the Water Works Theatre Company at Starr Jaycee Park, 1101 W. 13 Mile Road, Royal Mercury and Neptune are in opposition, creating a struggle between magician Prospero, he summons his Oak. Thursday-Sunday through Aug. 7. $20. rationality and irrational, artistic passions. Religion and atheism sprites who transport the audience to the www.waterworkstheatre.com are articles of faith that cannot be explained or proven. Artistic otherworldly island where the fantastical appreciation is subjective. You can explain and describe how you is commonplace and all who enter risk feel about all those things especially well now, but there’s no winning the transformation of their body and soul. delights in his daughter’s wonder at the any arguments there. With a plethora of found instruments world and the love she feels for Prince and flying spirits, the island becomes Ferdinand. Julia Garlotte as Miranda and ARIES (March 20 – April 19): Helping others worse off also a fully realized locale as Director Jeff Zach Hendrickson as the Prince are sweetly Pay attention to details. Don’t helps you keep perspective. Thomakos bewitches the audience with taken with each other, filled with such a obsess, dither or fret! When you stage magic and enchanting original music Paul Hopper and Rusty Mewha appear as wonder at the other that the rest of the Prospero and Caliban in Water Works Theatre find yourself losing perspective, SCORPIO (October 23 – by Composer Dan Bilich. world fades away. Company’s presentation of “The Tempest.” meditate – or at least stop and November 21): As your artistic The spirits perform gymnastics in Rusty Mewha’s Caliban falls Photo: SMyers breathe. Take your work seriously, vision turns to deeper directions, the air, playing their instruments as they from the sky to leer at Miranda and but not morbidly so. A little fun let friends lead you to new twist on the rigging the lets them fly over begrudgingly perform Prospero’s tasks. with voices as powerful as those of and relaxation is necessary! possibilities. To make sense of the stage and through the audience. The He moves as a monster, as twisted on Hopper’s, why would you subject it to the them, let go of logic. Inspirations trio of spirits, Jaclyn Strez, Samantha the outside as he is on the inside, his vagaries of a sound system? The squealing TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): for your career also defy logic, White and Katie Terpstra, are fascinating strong voice and performance later of the microphones and the fading in You need to change a few things but at least think ahead before to watch and are led by the outstanding overshadowing the two drunken clowns and out as people moved through the around the house, but what…? If acting on them. performance of Sara Catheryn Wolf as Stephano and Trinculo. space was a distraction that bumped the you don’t live alone, your frenetic Ariel, the lead spirit who does Prospero’s The transport to the fantastical isle audience out of the fantastical world that aesthetics could be disrupting. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 Visit our website! bidding and helps to transform his was aided by the more than 50 masks that had been created. Talk with your roommates or – December 20): Overwatering http://www.pridesource.com spirit from one of vengeance to one of Nina Barlow designed and created (with The cacophony of the microphones family members. They could help your garden? Romanticizing forgiveness. Wolf’s howls as she re- help from Holly Conroy). These creations were the only distraction from a finely you develop a plan. (or over-blaming) your family? Add our fan page! enacted her imprisonment in the tree were created an island full of spirits who could performed show in which everything from Look out for soggy roots. To heart-wrenching and convincing. be hospitable, beautiful, frightening and Search: “Between The Lines Newspaper” singing, dancing, unusual set dressing, GEMINI (May 21- June know where you’re going you Hopper creates a highly sympathetic befuddling. The masks let Prospero tell costumes, sound effects and committed 20): Family chats can get very need to know clearly where Prospero, a man who grows in virtue and his tales of the past, frighten his guests and Follow us! physicality worked together to allow a dramatic. Is your sibling really you’ve been. Deep affection and honor as the play progresses. He shares enchant those who would do harm. They @YourBTL soul’s tempest to calm and those caught helpful or a provocateur? You do new understandings are great, his vulnerability under the gentle tutelage also served as the device that let him lift up in its throes to emerge better than they need to talk, but you may want but don’t lose perspective! of Wolf’s Ariel, eventually exchanging enchantments and clear away the confusion were before. to be more careful about what his power to claim a humanity of the most in the eyes of the hunted. you actually say. Also, be very CAPRICORN (December tender sort. He is a doting father who When you have trained professionals careful to listen! 21 – January 19): Nothing seems quite right, and logic CANCER (June 21- July 22): won’t make sense of it. Some Remember what’s important. mad, flashy display – say a drag If being right is among the show or surrealist art exhibit top 10, you need to revise the – could put you in the state list. Advance ideas to provoke of acceptance to make more discussion to learn from intuitive connections. others. Facts and figures aren’t everything, but when using them, AQUARIUS (January 20 – make sure they’re accurate! February 18): You know what’s really sexy? The answer to that LEO (July 23 – August 22): is too subjective and ethereal. What’s most important to Sometimes you can’t even you? No, darling, not “being connect with your most beloved, fabulous.” That only works adoring partner on that. Relax; when it serves a deeper purpose. hold on to your self-confidence. That’s what you need to get It will pass. clearer on. When it’s all over, what do you really want to be PISCES (February 19 – March remembered for? 19): When you lose track of who Solution to puzzle from page 27 you are, trust your partner to tell PUZZLE SOLUTION VIRGO (August 23 – you, engendering even more September 22): A little confusion. Throw yourself into self-criticism promotes self- your work; the tasks you take improvement. Taking to heart greatest pride in will help you every negative piece of crap get back on track. from everyone around you is quite another. Filtering is your Jack Fertig, a professional forte. Consider the source and astrologer since 1977, is intent behind all remarks aimed at you. available for personal and business consultations in person LIBRA (September 23 – in , or online October 22): Let your friends everywhere. 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24 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 25 Rear View ODDS & Ends NY’s New Law

Across 42 Celebrity outing, Down 27 Rainey and Kettle perhaps 29 Goose sound 1 Gossip from Ted 43 Jockey’s gear 1 Country house, to By Jody Valley Casablanca, e.g. Nureyev 30 Commercial time of day 44 Shut out 5 Radar images 2 Mother of the bride, to 31 Piece of a pansy 46 Suffix with differ 10 Asks from one’s knees the other bride 32 He played Grace’s dad 47 Request to Sajak 14 Word used in dating 3 Shoot off unseen 33 A real stud 48 Venue of the message 15 All fired up 4 Goal for Sheryl Swoopes 35 Cho delivery 50 Bears’ home, briefly Sex for three 16 Go on and on 5 ___ death (loss of 36 Where Christian Chavez 51 Prostitute, to rolls up his meat? 17 Muse to John Boswell interest) Baudelaire? 37 Writer Gertrude “Lacy” and I have been good friends since them to be my friends, my family. 18 AZT, et al. 6 Future flies way back, like 20 years or so. I would do I just stood there, floored, unable to say 53 Like hands with 7 Nocturnal reptile of 39 Do the moguls Q: 19 Morales of roamin’ fingers? just about anything for her, and now I’m being anything because I was so blown away. They “Resurrection Blvd.” Tennessee 40 Had partners, with “out” asked to go beyond what I feel is comfortable, said that I didn’t need to tell them that day, and 55 Celeb who sent the 8 It extends from a 41 Tiny toiler 20 Start of a message message or for that matter, right. to think about it. So I left. I haven’t been back about NY’s new law pirate’s crotch 44 Janitor’s tool First off, let me tell you that Lacy is since. But I know that I have to face them and 59 Gumbo veggie 22 Batman portrayer Kilmer 9 AARP members 45 Debris from cornholing? straight. She’s married and has a wonderful give them an answer. 60 Gay parade center? 23 More of the message 10 La ___ Tar Pits 48 Bi plus mono 5-year-old daughter. I often babysit her, and I How do I tell them that what I want 61 Neeson of “Kinsey” 11 2010 flick that 49 Score for Glenn Burke love that kid as though she were my niece. I like is their friendship, without being part of 24 Leave open-mouthed 63 Bone separator in the references “The 52 Honshu port her husband, “Fred,” very much, too. He and I their sex lives; what I thought I had? I don’t 25 Rio beach of song back Scarlet Letter” 54 Palindromic tennis star have always hit it off. We both are sports nuts, believe they’ll like that, and it will be the end 28 Oohs’ partners 64 Digital dealings 12 Grind one’s teeth 56 “Here ___ go?” and have spent a lot of time in front of the TV of something that I thought was wonderful 29 End of the message 65 Drops the curtain on 13 Follows a direction 57 Prepare for phone sex watching games. I’m included in many of their and special. 31 Early release 66 Ready for service from The Naked Chef family outings. In fact, they have really been 58 Comic strip dog No Threesome for Me 34 Family of R.E.M.’s 67 Max and Albert, to 21 Triangle sign more like family to me, as I have little family Michael 59 Auberjonois on “Deep Nathan 23 Walking styles of my own. And, those I have don’t approve of 38 Humped antelope Space Nine” You have to go with what’s right for 68 “The multitudinous 26 Start of mature me because of my sexuality. I’m bisexual, but 39 Cruising area 62 Workloads for eds. you – and for sure, it may mean losing ___ incarnadine” ejaculation I mostly lean toward women. At this time, I’m A: (Shakespeare) not involved with anyone. people who have been dear to you. I know Solution on 25 I broke up with my ex “Michele” about five that’s hard. months ago. It was a very difficult time for me. Let them know that you love them as a Lacy and Fred have been so supportive of me. family but are not interested in being a part I’m not sure how I would have made it, had it of their sex lives, and you hope that it can not been for their love and support. They have continue that way. Maybe they’ll be able Pet of the Week really been there for me. to accept that, and you can continue as just I don’t have a lot of friends. I guess it is friends. Maybe not. just not easy for me to get out and meet other In any case, I think it’s important for you people. I do have some friends at work, but to make the effort to get out and find other they’re all married and into their families – friends. It’s not good for you to have all your and a lot of them don’t know that I’m gay, and friendships in one basket. Find other things I’m not sure how it would go over if they did and interests to get involved in. I know this know. (Though I have known Lacy for many is difficult for you, but it is so important that years – we were friends in high school, and you stretch yourself, and get involved in other remained long-distance friends – I just moved things and with other people. here two years ago.) So, to my problem: Last week Lacy and Saying “no” is difficult for most of us. Fred asked me if I would be interested in a Want to know when saying “no” is not only threesome. I don’t mean any Mormon-like appropriate, but necessary for our mental thing, like sister wives. They meant that they health? Go to Dear Jody Valley on Facebook. would like to have me be part of their sex lives, not all the time but occasionally – maybe more Jody Valley spent 12 years as a clinical social frequently if things turned out well. worker. She worked with the LGBT community I was floored by this proposition. Jody, I both as a counselor and a workshop leader in the never saw it coming. 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28 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 Between The Lines • July 28, 2011 29 Deep Inside Hollywood

James Franco. Photo: Fox Searchlight/Chuck Zlotnick By Romeo San Vicente ‘Gay Dude’ goes back to James Franco tells yet high school another gay story with ‘Sal’ You probably didn’t see Disney’s prom- themed teen comedy called “Prom.” Don’t worry, It looks like James Franco is making you’re not alone. It tanked at the box office. But gayness his primary cinematic concern. First one of its young stars, Nicholas Braun, exuded he played Harvey Milk’s boyfriend in “Milk,” dorky teen charm as a shy boy trying to get a then Allen Ginsberg in “Howl.” Currently he’s date to the big night, and now he’ll have another directing and starring as doomed young gay chance to play a high-school nerd in “Gay Dude.” poet Hart Crane in “The Broken Tower” (hitting Yes, that’s the title. The teen comedy revolves film festivals near you right now) and, going around two best friends whose pact to lose their for a trifecta of gay biopic entries, he’s now virginity before graduation hits a snag when directing “Sal,” the film version of the life of one of the boys comes out as gay. Lionsgate “Rebel Without A Cause” star Sal Mineo. Franco will produce and release the hot-property script will also act in the film but the title role goes to from “Parks and Recreation” writer Alan Yang. young Mineo look-alike Val Lauren. There are The best news here is that screenwriter credit; a lot more gay biopics left to be shot, too, so if call it a sign of hope that the finished product Franco wants he can just keep going and give us will resemble something more like a classic John movies about Paul Lynde, Rock Hudson, Charles Hughes comedy than the last big gay-themed Nelson Reilly, Keith Haring, Montgomery Clift movie Lionsgate released: the Cuba Gooding, and Sylvester before moving on to the life of Jr. “comedy” “Boat Trip.” If you didn’t see that still-living people like Neil Patrick Harris. The one either, don’t bother. Your health insurance possibilities are endless and we’re happy to let might not cover the consequences. Franco explore them. “Sal” is due in 2012, so you young people still have time to go watch “Rebel” and study the subject matter. ‘Hung’ casts trans actor to play trans character Glenn Close passes in Jamie Clayton isn’t exactly a household ‘Albert Nobbs’ name. Her biggest media exposure to date has come from hosting the VH1 reality show, “Damages” star Glenn Close hasn’t been as “TRANSform Me.” But the transgendered active on the big screen lately as she was in the actress is about to make the leap to HBO’s hit 1980s when she was nominated for (yet didn’t series “Hung,” where she’ll play a trans woman win) five Academy Awards over the course of who hires male prostitute Ray Drecker (Thomas a seven-year span. But that might change this Jane). Additionally, her character is scheduled for fall when the Irish drama “Albert Nobbs” hits a story arc that may well include her becoming theaters. Based on the George Moore story, “The Ray’s girlfriend. In a casting world where trans Singular Life of Albert Nobbs,” it concerns actors are routinely passed over for trans roles, a woman who, desperate for work, poses as this isn’t just good news for one actor, it’s one a male butler in a Dublin hotel in the 1860s. more step in the march of progress. Now just While living as a man, she winds up in an cross your fingers that her character is portrayed affair with another man. The film also features authentically, reflecting actual trans viewers’ “The Kids Are All Right” star Mia Wasikowska lives. The storyline gets rolling in season three, and “Kick-Ass”’s Aaron Johnson – and, more beginning this October. We’ll be watching. importantly for Close, is already enjoying pre- Romeo San Vicente has made all the self-referential release Oscar buzz. It’s always nice when a “Hung” jokes he can possibly make. There just aren’t deserving veteran actor gets a second chance at an Academy Award. And if they snub her again any left at this point. He can be reached care of she can always go full-tilt “Fatal Attraction” on this publication or at DeepInsideHollywood@ the voting members. qsyndicate.com.

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