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Shabbat Services Rabbi’s Column SHABBAT Friday Evening, December 4* Hanukkah is coming! Each year we celebrate 6:05 P.M. – Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Services Hanukkah by lighting the candles and retelling December Birthday Shabbat the story, concluding with the famous sentence whose acronym is found on our dreidels: “Nes SHABBAT Saturday Morning, December 5 at 10:30 A.M. Gadol Hayah Sham; a great miracle happened there.” Of course, what the miracle was depends Torah Portion “Vayishlach” on your perspective on history – or on which version of history you choose to retell. SHABBAT Friday Evening, December 11* For us, here in the challenging year 2020, we know we could use a 6:05 P.M. – Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Services good miracle. The coronavirus pandemic has affected all of us. Some of us have been sick with COVID or have been dealing with a family Shabbat Chanukah Observance member’s illness. Some of us have been impacted fi nancially, being laid SHABBAT Saturday Morning, December 12 at 10:30 A.M. off, or furloughed. Some of us have struggled just to deal with the daily challenges of working at home, helping children attend school remotely, Torah Portion “Vayeshev” and ordering grocery deliveries. The pandemic has presented new and sometimes diffi cult challenges for all of us. SHABBAT Friday Evening, December 18* Perhaps most signifi cantly, we have learned about the challenge 6:05 P.M. – Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Services of isolation. We as human beings are essentially social and so all of the routines required for “social distancing” test us daily. Our Jewish SHABBAT Saturday Morning, December 19 at 10:30 A.M. tradition teaches us that life is lived best in community and that we have responsibility for one another. Those who need help should not be Torah Portion “Miketz” embarrassed to ask and those who can help others, even a little, should not hold back. Within our congregation, that could mean the work of our Social Action Council’s ongoing projects to feed the hungry. It could also SHABBAT Friday Evening, December 25* mean our Member Services team and fi nance department confi dentially 6:05 P.M. – Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Services helping those of our members who have fallen on hard times. It could also mean members who are fi nancially able stepping up to contribute a SHABBAT Saturday Morning, December 26 at 10:30 A.M. little extra. And it also means just reaching out to one another with a kind Torah Portion “Vayigash” gesture, a phone call or FaceTime connection, an understanding ear and a generous heart. Living a life that matters means living as an active part of a mutually caring community. If you have an economic or spiritual SHABBAT Friday Evening, January 1* need, or if you are willing to help, please do not hesitate to be in touch. And of course, in the spirit of Hanukkah, we can all pray for a miraculous 6:05 P.M. – Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Services ending to this pandemic era and a return to normal life. January Birthday Shabbat * * * * * * * SHABBAT Saturday Morning, January 2 at 10:30 A.M. I want to alert the Congregation that I will be away on Sabbatical leave Torah Portion “Vayechi” from December 22 until March 1. I am grateful to the congregation for granting me this time to refl ect and refresh and I intend to return with some good stories to tell. In my absence President Helene Levine, *Please note time President-elect Neal Gussis, and the leadership of our congregation, together with Lori Sagarin, our Director of Congregational Learning, our Director of Music, Marla Aviva Bentley, and our Director of Operations, Amber Wood, will ensure that everything continues to run smoothly in LIKRAT SHABBAT congregational life and that your needs are addressed as usual. Please don’t hesitate to be in touch with them if you have any needs or concerns. We would like to belatedly thank Jon Schneider and Jane Page who made donations in honor of their November birthdays. We would like to thank Beth Sair and Vera Rubin who made donations in honor of their December birthdays. December 2020 Kislev – Tevet 5781 Volume 104 Number 6 IN THE TEMPLE FAMILY FROM THE PRESIDENT MAZEL TOV TO: In Rabbi Darren Levine’s book Positive Judaism, Peggy and Ted Fiala, on the birth of their granddaughter, and Rabbi Levine defi nes “Positive Judaism” as the pairing Helene Rowe on the birth of her great granddaughter, Tessa Jayne. of ancient wisdom and modern science to help raise well-being in the lives of individuals, communities, and ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY: the world. Tom Rath and Jim Harter, senior scientists The following Temple members are recovering from recent illness: at Gallup International, studied hundreds of thousands Scott Meyer, Nathan Fox, and Sharrel Titlebaum. We wish them a of people in over 130 countries to explore the following speedy recovery. question: Are there contributors to well-being that CONDOLENCES: transcend nationality, race, age, and religion? They We note with sorrow the passing of Rochelle Grillz”l, mother of concluded that well-being results from how people experience fi ve key Josh Grill. May her memory be for a blessing. areas in their lives: relationships, health, community, work and money. We note with sorrow the passing of Werner Lawsonz”l, father of Dina Berne. May his memory be for a blessing. I chose this book written in 2019 from Temple Beth Israel’s library. This book among many other new books, both non-fi ction and fi ction, IN MEMORIAM were given to us, from the relationship that we have developed with the Temple Beth Israel announces with profound sorrow the passing of Jewish Book Council. I found this book to be very interesting and wanted SHIRLEY SHECHTMANz”l to share just a small portion with you in this month’s From The President beloved mother of Devy Weitzman. bulletin column. May her memory be for a blessing. I would like to focus on one chapter of the book dealing with Rath B’RUCHIM HABA’IM - WELCOME! and Harter’s Five Areas of Well-Being. The fi ve areas of well-being differentiate a thriving life from one consumed with suffering and JOINING THE TBI FAMILY challenges. Overall happiness can improve with focus and attention to: Our coverage of new Temple Beth Israel members continues. We are delighted to welcome the following TBI households who have discovered Relationships: People with relationship well-being are surrounded just how friendly, supportive, and inclusive our community is. As it begins by people who encourage their development and growth, accept its second century, TBI offers a vibrant and welcoming presence in them for who they are, and treat them with respect. They deliberately Skokie, the North Shore, and beyond. spend time investing in their networks that surround them Jessica & Rob Lott Health: People with good health manage their health well. They Chicago, IL exercise regularly and as a result they feel better. They make good Children: Shuli, 5 dietary choices, which keeps their energy high throughout the day and sharpens their thinking. They get enough sleep to process what Joining TBI represents a “homecoming” for Jessica (Shimberg) Lott. She grew up in they have learned the day before and to get a good start on the next Evanston, IL and attended and participated day. fully in the Temple from a young age. Jessica Community: People with high community well-being feel safe and is the daughter/step daughter of members, secure where they live and participate in their local community. They Jonathan Shimberg & Linda Crohn; Judy & Bob Kemp; sister/sister-in- take pride in their community and feel that it is headed in the right law of Joanna & Derek Lewis; aunt to their children, Naomi, Emilia and Eli; niece of Rabbi Michael & Jody Weinberg and Rob Weinberg & Joy direction. This often results in their wanting to give back and make a Wasserman. lasting contribution to society. Jessica, her husband, Rob and their young daughter, Shuli relocated Work: People with high work well-being wake up every morning with to the Chicago area after spending the past few years working and something to look forward to doing each day. They do work that fi ts residing in metro Washington, D.C. They longed to return here to be their strengths and interests. They have a deep purpose in life and closer to family and friends. plan to attain their goals. In most cases, they have a leader who motivates them and makes them enthusiastic about the future. First Impressions: “I have many wonderful memories from my years as a TBI student and working as the Program and Youth Director. Money: People with high fi nancial well-being manage their personal Returning here enables us to give our daughter, Shuli, a terrifi c Jewish fi nances well and spend their money wisely. They buy experiences education and benefi t directly from TBI’s religious school.” Jessica instead of just material possessions, and they give to others instead acknowledged. of always spending on themselves. At a basic level, they are satisfi ed Getting to Know You: Jessica coordinated social justice programs for with their overall standard of living. the Jewish Council on Urban Affairs in Chicago earlier in her career. She loves to teach and has done so with a range of audiences from toddlers Rabbi Levine goes on to explore if well-being is found in these fi ve to seniors, at synagogues and summer camps, on trips to Israel, interfaith areas, how can we increase well-being in these fi ve areas? There is so dialogue groups, and on campuses.