Volume 6 ♦ Issue 7 ♦ August 2014 I N T H I S I S S U E Temple Beth El Times Rabbi’s Message…….…...…....…….…2 President’s Message...…...…..…..……3 TBE Religious School……………….…4 Contributions……..……...…...………....5 Sisterhood Events…………..…………..5 Shabbat at the Pool …………………8 KJA Ha’ Kol KINDER KAMP…………………..………....10 Friendshippers Say Farewell….………...11 High Holidays Greetings………….…..……11 Milton Collins Day Camp…..…….….……..12 AJCC Preschool……………………...……..13 President Salutes Volunteers…...…....…..14 AJCC Smokin’ Salmon……………….....…15 Heska Amuna HaShofar Tisha B’Av Services…….…..….……..17 New Kitchen Supervisor ….…….…...17 Rabbi’s Message…………..……….....18 Chairman’s Message….…….….…….18 HA Religious School………………….20 Welcome Back! HARS Pool Party/BBQ………………..21 Putting Our Hearts, Hands and Minds Community News into Jewish Learning Hadassah Highlights….………....….30 Temple Beth El Religious School begins Sunday, August 17 Knoxville Jewish Day School…......34 and promises to be an exciting place to learn during our 150th Celebration. Jewish Congregation/Oak Ridge….26 (See page 4 for more information.) Last spring, our students worked with artist Christina Mattison Klaven Chabad of Knoxville…..…………..…28 to create a mosaic that commemorates our congregation’s 150th Anniversary. KJCFF ...…………………………….…25 Every child from the youngest to the oldest participated, and with the help of Community Calendar.……....................7 Linda Zaretski, our teen class put on the finishing touches. You can see our creation on display in the Temple Beth El Library. Happenings…………………………...8-9 6800 Deane Hill Drive Knoxville, TN 37919 865.690.6343 www.jewishknoxville.org Lunch With God 5 Av-5 Elul, 5774 By Rabbi Mathew D. Michaels, M.A.H.L., D.D. A little boy wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where God lived, so he packed his suitcase with Twinkies and a Inside This Issue six pack of root beer, and he started his journey. When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old woman. Rabbi’s Message…….…...…….…….…2 She was sitting in the park just staring at some pigeons. The boy sat down next to her and opened his suitcase. President’s Message...…...…......……3 He was about to take a drink from his root beer when he TBE Religious School……………….…4 noticed that the old lady looked hungry, so he offered her a Twinkie. She gratefully Contributions……..……...…...………....5 accepted it and smiled at him. Her smile was so pretty that the boy wanted to see it again, so he offered her a root beer. Sisterhood Events………...…………..5 Again, she smiled at him. The boy was delighted! They sat there all afternoon eating Shabbat at the Pool ……………………8 and smiling, but they never said a word. As it grew dark, the boy realized how tired he was and he got up to leave, but before he had gone more than a few steps, he turned around, ran back to the old woman, and gave her a hug. She gave him her biggest smile ever. When the boy opened the door to his own house a short time later, his mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked him, “What did you do today that made you so happy?” He replied, “I had lunch with God.” But before his mother could respond, he added, “You know what? She’s got the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen!” Meanwhile, the old woman, also radiant with joy, returned to her home. Her son was stunned by the look of peace on her face and he asked, “Mother, what did you do today that made you so happy?” She replied, “I ate Twinkies in the park with God.” However, before her son responded, she added, “You know, He’s much younger than I expected.” Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Embrace all equally! (A story shared by my colleague, Rabbi Stephen Arnold). 3 Sisterhood Plans August 5 Celebrate With Us Rosh Chodesh Event at TBE TBE’s 150th Anniversary celebration is scheduled for the The combined Sisterhoods of Heska Amuna, JCOR, and Temple weekend of November 7-9. Beth El will celebrate Rosh Chodesh Elul on the evening of PLEASE send us addresses for Tuesday, August 5. Participants should arrive at the TBE Social your grown children, siblings, or cousins who once Hall by 6:00 p.m. for a light meal and a discussion of “the month of attended our religious school or for your friends and Divine mercy and forgiveness.” relatives who have moved away. Our special project will again be to create Jewish New Year and other greeting cards for Call for Photos and Videos those who live in nursing, assisted, and senior Did you take photos or videos of your child's residences in our community. No artistic talent Consecration service? Bar or bat mitzvah? is required, just your enthusiasm and Confirmation? Other Temple events? We would love to add these to our Temple Archives in time for our 150th friendship. Anniversary media production. Please contact Deborah RSVP to Meredith Jaffe at Roberts at (865) 705-1246 or [email protected] to [email protected] or (865) 408-1420. discuss details. 3037 Kingston Pike Knoxville, TN 37919 865.524.3521 www.tbeknox.org Temple Beth El Times August 2014 3 After 150 Years - What Follows? Excerpted from Installation Speech 6-27-14 - Liz Gassel, TBE President ‘As the first 150 years come to an end, what follows?”, I ask myself, and I ask you? We need a plan. Planning means really taking a good, hard look at what is meaningful to this congregation. And if we create a plan, how can we carry it out? You, our leaders and the entire congregation must take an approach to an organized and thoughtful way forward. After 15 years of being a Temple member, it strikes me that we are a complaint-driven organization. My professional colleagues used to always describe the City of Knoxville as functioning this way. I am so tired of hearing that we “have got to do that” or we “must get this done before this date!” I feel like we are always responding to the latest perceived crisis. We tend to have these routine ways of how to get things done and they are about the NEED of the moment. They can be stressful and they are often how we ask our community to volunteer their time here. As the philosopher, Epictetus says, “Events don’t cause stress. What causes stress is the view you take of events.” Dr. Ellen Langer, a professor of psychology at Harvard, offers that “We live a life that is ongoing, but treat it as if whatever is happening at the moment is the last opportunity we are ever going to have.” Don’t get me wrong, we do accomplish great things. We succeed most of the time in our efforts but we don’t always consider that ‘life is ongoing’, that there is a ‘broader future.’ I come from a profession that values and insists on defining or identifying live a life that is an objective and then a planning process worked out to fulfill that objective. With knowledge of your clients’ needs, you craft a plan - designing, drawing, We ongoing, but treat it and describing a picture of the whole you wish to build. You don’t necessarily as if whatever is happening have to build it all at once. You can think in terms of the next three years or maybe even five years. It doesn’t have to be a ‘long term plan’ which can at the moment is the last sound daunting to pursue. It does not have to be set in stone. Life is always opportunity we are ever changing but at least you have some picture of a future, maybe just a near future of where you wish to be. You visualize it. You work towards it. That going to have. plan may change along the way as life changes. But that is okay. You can’t craft a plan without goals. You can call them themes or objectives. I really want you to tell me what is important to you. We have - Ellen Langer, Ph.D., committees in place…each with its own objectives, but some have no chairs professor of social psychology, and thus no active members. Adult Education, Membership, and Social Justice are a few with no one to lead. Maybe they do not call to you. However, if they Harvard University do, I need you to tell me and ideally step forward and help bring them back to life - or perhaps you could suggest a better approach. Personally, I feel we are in great need of an active way to reach out, to encourage, welcome and follow up with prospective and new members. This could well be our initial objective for this next year or two. However, you, the leadership and you, the congregation are the ones responsible for helping me set the direction of our Kehillah Kedoshah, our Holy Community. Equally important, I need each of you to step up and participate in following through on our shared vision. My personal interest has always been the religious experience, the activity in the sanctuary and all that wraps around it; the learning, the talking, immersing in the depths of Judaism in all its richness and variety. This concern also encompasses embracing the interested outsider, embracing the potential new member family, offering all that Reform Judaism has to contribute to those who crave its inspiration.