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Such is the gift of salvation that of self, through enlightenment not solely the transformation of our Third, Christian salvation Christ has given to the world. It Since I was a little boy, I have and the conquest of all emotions. souls. Rather, Christian salvation is is the process by which we are is no wonder that the heavenly always enjoyed singing Silent The Christian understanding the healing each of us will receive saved from what weakens us for angels sang out with great joy: Night at Christmas. Each time I of salvation is very different in Christ, encompassing body, soul the sake of obtaining something “Christ our Savior is born!” sing this venerable hymn, I am from the one presented by these and spirit. It is for this reason that far greater. Through Christ’s May our Savior born in struck by the end of the second religions. Salvation in Christ is every Sunday we reaffirm our faith death and resurrection, we are Bethlehem bless you and your verse: “Christ our Savior is born”. the transformation and healing in the resurrection of the body in saved from the slavery of sin and families this Christmas and These few words summarize of the earthly life we now live by the Creed. Eternal life in heaven, all its destructive effects, includ- throughout the New Year. n the central mystery we celebrate grace. The suffering, pain and which will be fully revealed at the ing death. Such freedom allows every Christmas, namely, the sav- hurts of this life will give way end of time, will not make us less us to be united by grace with our to a life of endless love, joy and than who we are now. Rather, it loving God in this life and to live Most Rev. Frank J. Caggiano peace. This new life has already will transform us into the image of eternally in His love in heaven. Bishop of Bridgeport begun in the power of the Holy Spirit whom we receive through faith and baptism. It is constantly nourished by the power of Sacred Scripture and the sacraments that we celebrate in the Church, Buon Natale especially the Eucharist. We will undergo the full transformation of our earthly life in a personal way Crèches of when we die. All creation will also be transformed when Christ returns at the end of time to judge DECDEC 11 Italy the living and dead. When that day comes, all who are saved will share fully the resurrected life of ing birth of the Son of God into Christ. toto our world. Three characteristics mark the In our secular world, many Christian view of salvation. First, ask: How is Christ the savior of salvation is a gift that comes from the world? What is the salvation Christ. We believe that Christ FEBFEB 11 that He offers to all people? In is the only definitive savior of the world in which we live, we all creation. This is so because must be ready to answer such salvation can only come from questions, for our sakes and those God and Jesus Christ is God of our children. who became man in his birth Not all religions share the from the Virgin Mary. Christ has same view of salvation as do saved the whole world because Christians. For example, Hindus He conquered sin and death once believe that each person is and for all time through His life, trapped in an endless cycle of death and Resurrection. Since birth, death and rebirth. Salvation the Lord gives to His followers a is achieved when one is released share in His very life, countless from this cycle of reincarnations. men and women have worked as It comes only to the one who missionaries to spread the Gospel realizes that everything, including of salvation to all. In other words, oneself, is an illusion. Buddhism salvation comes to all people only goes even further and states that through Christ. 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By BRIAN D. WALLACE general of the diocese, welcomed By 2015, there will be the guests and said the expansion 80 priests in the Diocese of A large group of retired will serve priests for many years Bridgeport over the age of 75. priests, donors and invited guests to come. “It does a lot for priests’ “Many of the men continue to gathered on November 21 at the morale to know that we’re appre- serve in parishes and enrich the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of ciated at this time in our lives,” sacramental life of the diocese,” Clergy Retired Priests’ Residence Msgr. Scheyd said, noting that McLean said. in Stamford for a groundbreaking 12 priests will be waiting to move Construction of the first 10 ceremony. After several years of into the new wing when it is fin- suites will be completed and planning, a $3.5 million expan- ished in late 2015. ready for occupancy by the fall sion of the priests’ residence is Msgr. Scheyd said that plans of 2015. The remaining six units finally underway. for the residence began in 1998 will be built as the funds become Bishop Frank J. Caggiano when he and Bishop (now available. Each retired priest will described the groundbreaking as Cardinal) Edward M. Egan toured have a sitting room, bedroom, an “exciting and historic moment” other facilities. Prior to that time, NOVEMBER GROUNDBREAKING—(l-r) Msgr. William J. Scheyd, vicar bath and small kitchenette. All for the diocese. He thanked the retired priests, along with Bishop general of the Diocese of Bridgeport; Bishop Frank J. Caggiano; John Burns, residents will have access to a staff for their dedicated service Walter W. Curtis, lived in a wing Jr., of New Canaan, donor; Msgr. Peter J. Cullen, pastor of St. Michael Parish chapel, community room, library, to the resident priests, and he of the former St. Joseph Medical in Greenwich and Barbara Burns at the groundbreaking ceremony for the exercise room and dining area. thanked the donors for making the new wing of retirement suites at the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of Clergy Center in Stamford. The inde- Retired Priests Residence in Stamford. The age of priest retirement expansion a possibility. pendent living facility opened its in the Diocese of Bridgeport is Directly addressing the many doors on January 28, 2000. 75, and most remain active by retired priests gathered, Bishop Msgr. Louis A. DeProfio, direc- of the 22,000 square foot facility for retired priests. The residence helping out in parishes on week- Caggiano said, “While it’s excit- tor of the retired priests’ residence, with a warm fire blazing in the currently houses 19 men ages 75 ends, visiting hospitals and other ing to build, what is at the heart of said that it has become a true home stone hearth at the center of the and older. assignments. In addition to those our celebration today is that you for priests where they can share room. The bishop and others then “With the groundbreaking, at the residence, many retired represent more than 1,000 years of friendship “and the common bond walked out into the cold after- we begin the public phase of priests continue to live in parishes faithful service to the diocese. We of brotherly love.” He said it was noon for ceremonial photos with the campaign,” said William or on their own. owe you a tremendous debt.” also a place that brought them golden shovels and hardhats. McLean, chief development (To make a gift to the Retired He then added, “Let his be a together in prayer and enabled The diocese has launched a officer of the diocese. “To date, Priests’ Residence, call Pam Rittman: house of grace, health and peace them to live independently. $3.5 million capital campaign to through the generosity of 60 203.416.1479 or make an online con- for all who live here.” The groundbreaking ceremony fund the construction of the new donors, more than $2.3 million tribution at: www.bridgeportdiocese. Msgr. William Scheyd, vicar was held in the community room wing, which will include 16 suites has been raised.” com/QueenofClergy.) n Diocese putting wrap on new mobile ‘app’ BRIDGEPORT—Christmas feature information on Mass its many functions. The app will to upload and update key infor- came early for Bishop Frank J. times, diocesan events, prayer include “Find a Parish” and “Find mation on a regular basis. Caggiano when he unwrapped and support groups, volunteer a School” information that will The bishop has sent a letter to plans for the new Diocese of opportunities, and youth news quickly link visitors to online appli- all pastors asking them to desig- Bridgeport “Mobile App” at the along with videos and podcasts cation forms, event registrations, nate a staff member or volunteer recent Second General Session of on Catholic and directions and other information. responsible for updating the secure the Diocesan Synod. spiritual themes. Users can also find daily prayers website with the latest parish “Apps” are computer software Deacon and reflections, spiritual videos and news. Each will be issued user- applications designed to make Toole said that links to other Church resources. names and passwords. Uploading information, photos and videos the app will be Bishop Caggiano had first will be easy and the diocese will more readily available and acces- pre-released to announced the development of provide help if necessary. sible on smart phones, tablets and synod delegates the diocesan app at his recent A key priority for the diocese other mobile devices. Apps are and parish “State of the Diocese” address will be the hiring of a social increasingly being used to access representatives and mentioned that it had been media person who will act as the online information. Deacon Patrick Toole on January 15, 2015. Diocesan developed in response to requests gatekeeper for the app from the “In the listening sessions employees and youth members of by people who attended the first moment of its release. and other consultations, people St. Thomas Parish in Fairfield. the synod will also be field-testing synod listening sessions. The information categories in throughout the diocese have Deacon Toole, an IBM executive, the app before its release to the During the synod listening the app were created based on the told us that they want to see the donated his time and expertise to general public in February, 2015. sessions, people throughout the most popularly visited pages on Church on social media, which is oversee the project. “It’s not easy to capture the diocese said they would like to see the diocesan website (www.bridge- the new marketplace of commu- “I am most grateful to Deacon breadth of the diocese on a small more sharing between parishes portdiocese.com), which records nication in our culture,” Bishop Toole for not only funding the proj- mobile phone,” Deacon Toole and more timely information. The almost 21,000 visits a month. Caggiano said. “Our youth along ect but also for providing the leader- said, “but the use of social media app directly addresses these con- Parallel growth has also been with many adults have urged us to ship and vision needed to build the has enormous possibilities to cerns through social media, where experienced in the use of social use social media to engage, inform app, which offers much promise for invite people into the sacramental people are most likely to search. media. The Diocese of Bridgeport and inspire people of faith.” our diocese,” said the bishop. life of the Church.” The app was made possible by Facebook page now registers The new mobile app is Almost 400 delegates and With a large image of the the development of a secure pri- 1,679 “likes” and Fairfield County being designed and produced invited observers got their first new app on the screen, the dea- vate website designed by Deacon Catholics Facebook page add by Deacon Patrick Toole of look at the new app, which will con walked delegates through Toole, which will enable parishes another 1,875 “likes.” n 4 December 2014 Christmas Giving Year-end tax strategies for benefactors Bridgeport—With tax year gains taxes on the sale of the 3. Consider a charitable 2014 rapidly coming to a close, security. Also, if the cost basis of donation to offset the costs the Development Office of the a security is in doubt, donating of converting an IRA Diocese of Bridgeport would the security to charity relieves the Roth IRAs are growing in like to suggest some ways to donor from having to do cost-ba- popularity, but converting to a consider making charitable sis accounting. Roth from a traditional IRA can donations before year’s end that 2. Consider establishing bring a hefty tax bill. Converting can benefit both benefactor and a charitable gift fund in a year in which you can claim recipient alike. When consider- These days, establishing a a large tax deduction, such as a ing the strategies below, please charitable foundation is not only charitable donation, can be help- remember that the diocese is for the rich. Most investment ful in offsetting IRA conversion also accepting donations to companies offer an opportunity taxes. the Annual Appeal through to establish one’s own charitable The three giving strategies December 31, 2014. gift fund, whereby donations highlighted above are good ways 1. Consider donating appreci- into the fund enjoy the benefits to give at any time of the year, ated securities rather than cash of professional investment man- but can be especially helpful for Donating stocks, bonds, or agement. mous (if so desired). result of new deposits and invest- those who find themselves in a mutual funds that have appre- For example, for as little as Establishing a charitable gift ment performance. high-income tax-bracket, and ciated over time is becoming $5,000, Fidelity Investments fund is particularly effective for Finally, because the donations who want to take year-end steps an increasingly popular way for offers individuals the opportunity those who want to tithe their and subsequent growth within to reduce their impending tax benefactors to support their favor- to establish their own charitable income (by setting aside 10 per- the established gift fund are irre- obligations. ite charities. The tax advantage gift fund. Donations from the cent of their pre-tax income for vocable, donors can designate a Properly employed, each of the that comes with donating securi- fund can be made to charities in charity). Funds can be added to particular charity or a number above strategies represents a tax-ad- ties is that the donor can deduct amounts as little as $50, and the the charitable gift fund in $1,000 of charities to be beneficiaries of vantaged way for benefactors to the full market value of the secu- gift fund allows the donor the increments, so over time, the the fund upon the death of the give more effectively to their favor- rity without having to pay capital opportunity to remain anony- fund can grow significantly as a benefactor. ite charities and causes. n $100 $50

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By PAT HENNESSY nesses of Christ’s lay faithful, the Dominican Province, will head the silence” and be name-drop- Diocese of Bridgeport is spon- the workshop. Weddell, author pers—the name of Jesus, that is. “We can’t get to the Lord soring a “Forming Intentional of one of the top-selling Catholic Catholics need to know that a without the Church, but the Disciples!” workshop. books and founder of the work- personal relationship with him Church and Sacred Scripture only The practical workshop is shop by the same title, has is possible. “That is the beautiful makes sense if we have a rela- designed to help Church leaders, developed formational resources gift of the Resurrection—Jesus tionship with Jesus Christ,” says parish staff, principals, religious that are used around the world was dead but is now alive. If he’s Sherry Weddell Father Peter Towsley, vicar for education and RCIA directors to equip parishes and school for alive, then you can know him not evangelization of the Diocese of and all Catholic faithful to trans- the apostolic formation of lay merely as a historical figure, but Bridgeport. form their parish and schools Catholics. as a person. And if he’s a person ing about the faith.” To enrich that personal rela- into places of encounter with the When you don’t emphasize and alive, you can have a rela- Weddell says that when ordi- tionship with Jesus Christ and person of Jesus Christ. It will the personal relationship to Jesus, tionship with him.” nary Catholics make the con- empower parishes to be vibrant be held Tuesday, January 13 at Weddell says, you end up with “This has to begin with the scious choice to follow Jesus as places of liturgical worship and St. Catherine of Siena Parish in an institutional faith. That’s what Catholics who are in the pews his disciples they transform parish fellowship, form missionary Trumbull. the majority of Catholics have every Sunday,” says Father life, and ultimately the life of the disciples, and enable schools to Sherry Weddell, co-director of now, an impersonal, mechanical, Towsley. “They’re the Church, whole Church. be places where administration, the Catherine of Siena Institute, institutional faith. It lacks life. the People of God. From them it (The workshop is open to all staff and students are living wit- a ministry of the Western She calls Catholics to “break spreads to the Christmas-Easter interested Catholics. For more info Catholics, and then to those who and for registration, go to www. have not been coming at all, and Eventbrite.com and search for Pope Francis to visit to those who know little or noth- Forming Intentional Disciples.) n Philadelphia in September The Diocese of Bridgeport day the Pope confirmed his visit. attended by Pope Francis will was among the first to respond Mayor Michael Nutter called the take place on the evening of to the historic announcement Pope’s visit “the largest event in September 26 at the Festival of that Pope Francis will visit the city’s modern history.” He Families, a cultural celebration Philadelphia next September. noted that security concerns will expected to draw up to 800,000 “The diocese is organizing be coordinated among city, state people. a group to attend this exciting and federal authorities and police The number of visitors com- event,” said Angela Mantero, contingents from Italy and the ing into the city should swell diocesan director of Marriage Vatican. Nutter expressed con- dramatically during the Pope’s and Family. “I already have fidence in the planning, saying, stay. “We expect the numbers to grow each day,” said Donna Farrell, executive director of the 2015 World Meeting of Families. “By Saturday, there could be close to 2 million peo- ple in Philadelphia.” Catholics will express their faith publicly with the Pope at Sunday Mass, September 27, on the steps of the art museum. Gerald Davis, a member of St. Isaac Jogues Parish in Wayne and a trustee of St. Charles Borromeo Seminary, expressed confidence as he reflected on the Pope’s visit. “I’m delighted and thrilled,” he said. “People will see the a database of people who are “We’ll be ready.” city of brotherly love at its very interested, and we’re beginning Those challenges and others best.” to work out our plans.” stem from the immense throngs “I’ll be collecting names It will be “a once-in-a- of people expected for the week- throughout the coming weeks lifetime chance,” said Daniel long events. About 15,000 peo- and putting together a list so Hilferty, chair of the 2015 ple are expected to attend the we can contact people when World Meeting of Families, Meeting of Families congress at a package is confirmed,” which will be capped by the the Pennsylvania Convention Mantero said. papal visit. Hilferty made his Center from September 22-25. (For more info, or to put your comment during a news con- That will make it the largest con- name on the trip database, contact ference at the Philadelphia Art vention of the year. Angela Mantero: amantaro@ Museum on November 17, the The first major public event diobpt.org, or 203.416.1627.) n 6 December 2014 Consecrated Life Wake up the World!

By FATHER COLIN McKENNA

Pope Francis has proclaimed the liturgical year 2015 to be a year in honor of Consecrated Life. This special year of grace began on November 30, 2014, the first Sunday of Advent, and will extend through 2015 until Prayer for the Year of Consecrated Life February 2, 2016. In this new year of grace, In addition to a program for the Mass, attendees were given the Diocese of Bridgeport was a special prayer card with a prayer for this year of grace. quick to honor the hundreds of Catholics are encouraged to pray daily the following prayer: religious women and men who serve in the diocese. At a special O God, throughout the ages you have called women and men to pursue lives of perfect charity through the evangelical counsels of poverty, chastity and obedience. During this Year of Consecrated Life, we give you thanks for these courageous witness of Faith and models of inspiration. Their pursuit of holy lives teaches us to make a more perfect offering of ourselves to you. Continue to enrich your Church by calling forth sons and daughters who, having found the pearl of great price, treasure the Kingdom of Heaven above all things. Mass in Honor of Consecrated SR. NANCY STRILLACCI, ASCJ, diocesan delegate for Religious, is one of over Life on November 30 at St. 300 Consecrated Religious Women currently serving the Diocese of Bridgeport. A Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you Cecilia Church in Stamford, Mass in honor of Consecrated Life was celebrated at St. Cecila on November 30. in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano was the principal celebrant and many of the women and men the diocese. homilist at a liturgy attended by religious who currently serve in The theme of this year of consecrated life is “Wake up the World!” In his homily, Bishop Caggiano reflected on the many POSITION AVAILABLE ways that Religious men and women “awaken” us to the pres- Executive Director, Shepherds, Inc. ence of Jesus in our midst. “It is your witness that calls us back to Shepherds, Inc., a non-denominational, non-profit organization*, seeks an Executive Director to strengthen the foundation of the organization the tried and true paths that will and build new momentum for its mission. lead us to recognize Jesus Christ in the ordinary moments of daily Founded in 1998, Shepherds provides inner city, at-risk Connecticut youth with the opportunity of a college preparatory education at a non-public life,” he said. high school and the support of a positive role model Bishop Caggiano aptly sum- to help them to achieve their potential. marized the feelings of many during his homily. He said, We seek a strong leader who is a social entrepreneur and who has DATE: Tuesday, January 13, 2015 the commitment and drive to expand our base of donors and mentors “Allow me to begin this Year of and nurture our relationships with students and partner schools. TIME: 9:00am-5:00pm Consecrated Life by saying to each and every one of you—on The essential qualities of our ideal candidate include: passion for our mission, PLACE: St. Catherine of Siena Church ability to work with broad range of partners and constituents, demonstrated 200 Shelton Rd., Trumbull behalf of all of those whom experience to motivate and lead, and a persuasive communicator. 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Follow He concluded: “For in a world Flexibility on hours and working from home feasible. author Sherry Weddell through the steps that will that is forgetful of God’s pres- help Catholics make the conscious choice to follow ence in our midst, it seems to me If interested and qualified, please send resume and cover letter to: Jesus as his disciples, transforming parish life and ultimately the life of the whole Church.” that consecrated life, in all of its [email protected]. forms, is needed now more than Shepherds reserves the right to close this search at any time. For more information contact ever. You stand in our midst, Changing Lives - One Student at a Time Fr. Peter Towsley: [email protected] leading us to Jesus Christ. 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Caggiano issued a formal decree prehensive outreach in place since implementation guide with tive summary included at the end on November 30, the First Sunday 2003, the re-promulgation of the updates to the Sexual Misconduct of each book and online. in Advent, re-promulgating the Safe Environment Program con- Policy and Code of Conduct on “Our goal is to reinforce the diocesan Safe Environments poli- tains new initiatives and clarified the safe use of technology and Diocese of Bridgeport’s efforts to cies and practices for the protection policies, including the following: mandated reporting of suspected ensure the safest possible envi- of children and young people. The Expansion of Safe child pornography. Executive ronment for children and young policies and procedures, in accor- Environment efforts through a Summaries are now available that people through comprehensive dance with the USCCB Charter re-training and awareness series are specific to a person’s role and policies, so that adults and minors for the Protection of Children and to be offered in person or online must be reviewed and signed by have important information on Young People, have been brought on a variety of topics including all adults who work or volunteer how to identify warning signs of together in the Safe Environment the safe use of technology. A in any capacity in the Diocese of abuse and how to properly report Handbook, 2015. renewal schedule of 5 or 10 years Bridgeport. The handbook must suspected abuse to the diocese and The handbook is now avail- will be based on category of per- be re-signed whenever a person to civil authorities,” said Neil. able online, and more than sonnel. changes role, assignment or loca- To report suspected abuse 20,000 copies of it will be print- Renewal of criminal back- tion within the diocese. involving a minor, recently ed and distributed to Catholic ground checks every 5 or 10 years Distribution of new Safe or in the past, contact Erin Center and school employees, diocese. based on the specific category of Environment brochures that will Neil, L.C.S.W., diocesan parish staff, priests and Religious Erin Neil, director of the Safe personnel. be made available in parishes director of Safe Environments and volunteers throughout the Environment Office, said that Issuance of a Safe Environment concerning the warning signs of at 203.650.3265; or Michael abuse and reporting procedures. Tintrup, L.C.S.W., victim assis- Reconstitution of the diocesan tance counselor, at 203.241.0987. Sexual Misconduct Review Board Mandated reporters must to include regular meetings, also directly report any incident SWIM celebrates courage revised term limits and frequent of sexual abuse of a minor to policy review. the State of Connecticut Child BRIDGEPORT—St. caregiver and partic- In 2015, the diocese will also Abuse and Neglect care line: Vincent’s Medical Center ipant at this year’s work to centralize this process by 800.842.2288. Foundation and the SWIM breakfast—the recording the dates of all back- (To register to attend VIRTUS, Across the Sound held the gift of time. All in ground checks into the VIRTUS Protecting God’s Children for Adults, 16th Annual Cancer Survivors attendance were pre- database. visit www.virtusonline.org. Select Breakfast on December 2 at sented with a Swiss All employees, priests, deacons “Registration” and select “Bridgeport the Bridgeport Holiday Inn. Army watch as a and Religious are required to read Diocese.”) n More than 400 people were token to honor their in attendance, celebrating the courage, spirit and spirit of survivorship, courage, success. resilience and hope. The true guests Keynote speaker Joyce of honor at the Saltman, a professor emeri- breakfast—the sur- tus of Special Education at vivors—ranged in FOUNDATION EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Lyn cancer-free “age” Southern Connecticut State McCarthy with cancer survivor and spokesperson University in New Haven and Celida Rossillo. from one to 47 a former standup comedienne, years. “The SWIM spoke to the healing power of has been my anchor humor. “He/she who laughs— proceeds from their annual ware- in a stormy sea,” said cancer lasts,” was her principal mes- house sale to SWIM Across the survivor Celida Rossillo, who sage. Full of light and laughter, Sound. Stutz announced that the is currently in treatment for Joyce entertained the crowd foundation will receive a check breast cancer and shared her while enlightening them to the for $50,000 to assist the SWIM in inspirational story of struggle therapeutic effects of laughter their ongoing effort to help cancer and gratitude. during the healing process. patients and their families. “2014 was once again an Underwriting the cost of the “On behalf of St. Vincent’s exciting year for us at St. breakfast for the 13th year was Medical Center Foundation, I Vincent’s and the Elizabeth John Plasko, owner of Plasko’s want to thank René and Swiss M. Pfriem SWIM Center for Farm in Trumbull. John and Army for the longstanding Cancer Care,” said President/ his wife are both cancer sur- support they have provided to CEO Stuart Marcus, MD. “We vivors and generously donate SWIM Across the Sound over the recently marked our one year funds raised through their years,” said foundation Executive anniversary of being affiliated annual Corn Maze at the farm Director Lyn McCarthy. “Their with the MD Anderson Cancer and at farmers’ markets. steadfast commitment and gen- Network, giving us access to Among the other donors erous gifts are what allows us to some of the greatest minds in in attendance was René Stutz, continue providing survivorship cancer care. No one in Fairfield president/CEO of Victorinox programs as well as financial County has to travel outside of Swiss Army. For 20 years, assistance to our cancer patients.” our service area to receive state- Victorinox has partnered Victorinox had more to give of-the-art cancer care, or sup- with St. Vincent’s, donating each cancer survivor, physician, port after treatment.” n 8 December 2014 Synod 2014 Synod wrestles with challenges

By BRIAN D. WALLACE 60 challenges related to the four The goal of the Synod Catholics major themes of the synod: Commission will be to reduce all who no lon- Delegates largely reached con- empowering the young Church; of the challenges to 12 or fewer ger partici- sensus on a wide range of issues building up communities of faith; goals, so that the synod can begin pate in the affecting the local Church during promoting works of charity and to make final suggestions for life of the the Second General Session of justice; and fostering evangelical addressing the issues. Church. Synod 2014 on November 15, but outreach. Throughout the day-long ses- The wrestled with ways to approach Patrick Turner, deputy synod sion, Bishop Frank J. Caggiano bishop also youth, disaffected Catholics, and director, said that in addition to challenged delegates to think announced social justice issues. the discussion and comments outside the box and to under- to delegates More than 350 general del- made during the session, dele- stand the many Catholics who that the diocese is exploring the session was crammed with pre- egates, observers, and invited gates made additional observa- were not in the room. “We are all possibility of commissioning a sentations of the study commit- guests gathered at St. Catherine tions through nearly 1,000 emails believers, but we must also give Marist Poll to survey those who tees, voting on presented materi- of Siena Parish in the Nichols that were submitted during and voice to those who aren’t here,” have stopped attending church in als, and comments from delegates section of Trumbull to review after the gathering. he said, referring to the many Fairfield County. The day-long about the many challenges and List of Challenges and Responses

Accept Accept with Do not as is modification accept Promoting Works of Charity and Justice Challenge #1 There is a Need to Create an Understanding and Acceptance of Social Justice not only as a Gospel Mandate but as a Lived and Personal Experience. 76% 18% 6% Challenge #2 There is a Need to Use Charitable Service to Help the Believer, the Non-Practicing Believer and those of Good Will to Discover Jesus. 80% 13% 7% Challenge #3 There is a Need to Better Identify & Respond to Unmet Needs Across our Diocese and Beyond. 70% 20% 10% Challenge #4 There is a Need to Create an Inter-Generational Diocesan Wide Volunteer Network 77% 12% 10% Challenge #5 There is a Need to better Inform the Populace about Catholic-Sponsored Services 78% 16% 6% Challenge #6 There is a Need to Build & Leverage a Network of Interfaith Communities Working for Social Justice 68% 17% 15% Challenge #7 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 19% - Need to Add; 80% - List is fine Empowering the Young Church Challenge #8 There is a need to introduce Children into the Life of the Church as Fully and Early as Possible. 65% 28% 8% Challenge #9 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? No Voting on this challenge Challenge #10 There is a need to closely examine the issue of Peer Pressure for Teens 56% 25% 20% Challenge #11 There is a need to share the Gospel Message in a manner that resonates with Teens. 56% 34% 11% Challenge #12 I Would Go to Church More Freely, but… 44% 36% 21% Challenge #13 Good Youth Ministries are Tough to Find. 61% 29% 10% Challenge #14 Let’s be realistic, am I expected to practice my faith every day? 50% 27% 23% Challenge #15 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 62% - Need to Add; 39% - List is Fine Challenge #16 There is a need to communicate and connect more often and effectively 73% 24% 3% Challenge #17 “We are too busy”: We Need Time for the People and Things We Love. 62% 19% 19% Challenge #18 There is a need to help Young Adults to Fall in Love with Jesus Christ. 85% 11% 4% Challenge #19 Things We Believe are Contrary to What the Church Teaches. 56% 25% 20% Challenge #20 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 2% - Need to Add; 66% - List is fine Building Up Communities of Faith Challenge #21 There is a need for Engagement of all baptized 88% 10% 3% Challenge #22 There is a need to overcome competing activities, influences and negative media. 75% 18% 8% Challenge #23 There are inadequate resources to fulfill our mission - talent, finances, and tools. 73% 17% 10% Challenge #24 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 18% - Need to Add; 82% - List is Fine Challenge #25 There is a lack of understanding that in order to have a deep life of faith each family member needs to develop a personal relationship with Christ that makes faith central to all aspects of daily life. 83% 12% 6% Challenge #26 There are many poorly catechized parents and a lack of ongoing faith formation opportunities. 85% 12% 4% Challenge #27 Faith formation, a lifelong journey, often does not include the entire family collectively as a family AND all the individuals within the family (regardless of age). 84% 9% 6% Challenge #28 Many in the Church lack an understanding about the complexity and diversity of families and family life resulting in inadequate outreach and programs. 82% 13% 5% Challenge #29 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 15% - Need to Add; 83% - List is fine Challenge #30 There is a need to understand the needs of ALL members of the parish community individually and collectively. 88% 10% 3% Challenge #31 We must address the lack of understanding about the Church’s teachings. 86% 10% 4% Challenge #32 There is a need to create an environment of healing and understanding for the people we serve. 90% 7% 3% Challenge #33 We must acknowledge and understand how current trends and modern culture are affecting traditional Parish organizational structures and the dynamics and demographics of Parish communities. 86% 8% 6% 9 December 2014 Synod 2014 opportunities facing the Church. at liturgies. “We’re singing songs Mass is, and the beauty of the The discussion addressing the written in the 70s,” he said, draw- Mass so every aspect of it will needs of young people and teens ing laughter from the older dele- and can be treated with this beau- drew the most difference of opin- gates. “Why can’t we incorporate ty in mind.” ion, with 62 percent of delegates new music?” Annie Butler from St. Aloysius voting to add to or amend the Colin Lomnitzer from St. Parish in New Canaan said the challenges as presented. Catherine of Siena Parish, a Teen Mass was a powerful expe- Delegates discussed many freshman at Catholic University, rience, with all teens asked to challenges that prevent teens quickly countered him by saying come to the altar during the con- from a deeper faith life, including “Contemporary music by itself secration. “We kneel side by side peer pressure, secular role models is not bad, and can be used at at the altar with our parents and “I will defer to what the young sacraments. in conflict with Church teachings, Mass and be appropriate. The families behind us. It’s a powerful people say for themselves,” he Anne Pollack, a member of indifferent parents who don’t temptation, however, that comes moment.” said, drawing applause from the Voice of the Faithful, said the attend Mass and liturgies that are from using contemporary music The bishop said that the synod gathering. synod had more work to do in often centered on adults but don’t is to contemporize the Mass. This should not make any final deci- Father Michael Boccaccio, including women in leadership reach out to youth. leads to de-reverence of the Mass, sions about what youth want pastor of St. Philip Parish, said roles and decisions about the A young man from St. Philip which should never, ever happen. until he meets with them and he believed that the Church local Church. Parish in Norwalk said that teens So we need to help people and discusses their challenges in an “must address liturgical practic- Sister Mary Karen Toomy did not relate to the music played ourselves better understand what upcoming consultation session. es” as they draw people to the ➤ continued on page 28

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Challenge #34 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 16% - Need to Add; 83% - List is fine Challenge #35 There is an ongoing need to strengthen both the Catholic identity and academic excellence of our schools. 81% 13% 5% Challenge #36 There is a need to make Catholic education more accessible for those families who wish their children to attend Catholic schools. 86% 9% 5% Challenge #37 Catholic schools lack viable financial models that are sustainable over time. 88% 6% 6% Challenge #38 There is a need to strengthen the relationship that should exist between schools, parishes 86% 7% 6% Challenge #39 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 15% - Need to Add; 83% - List is fine Fostering Evangelical Outreach Challenge #40 There is a need to effectively preach the Gospel, to engage one another individually, to share with joy, enthusiasm, and conviction the Good News. 83% 11% 6% Challenge #41 The Saturday/Sunday Mass experience needs to be a dynamic place of worship and fellowship that assists with a personal encounter with Jesus Christ. 78% 14% 8% Challenge #42 Our parishes, schools and their leaders, need to facilitate and revitalize the community of faith, especially in support of the family, and as places of formation, evangelization, missionary zeal and care for the poor. 81% 12% 7% Challenge #43 There is a need for diocesan leaders to encourage solidarity and sensitivity to the uniqueness of each parish, support parish leaders and assist with implementing standards. 74% 11% 14% Challenge #44 Everyone in diocesan leadership needs to nurture, sustain, support and encourage those in crises of faith, both from within and those who have left the Church. 75% 15% 10% Challenge #45 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 19% - Need to Add; 80% - List is fine Challenge #46 There is a need to acknowledge past and/or present sinful actions by individual members of the Church, while at the same time pointing toward the Truth and beauty of the Church as the visible Body of Christ. 56% 17% 26% Challenge #47 There is a need to overcome our individual FEAR of evangelizing, so we might effectvely and fruitfully share our faith in the person of Jesus Christ. 69% 17% 15% Challenge #48 There is a need to prayerfully engage those at risk of leaving the Church, or those who have already gone, in a manner that recognizes them where they are in their lives, not necessarily where we think they should be. 78% 15% 7% Challenge #49 There is a need for all those in rectory/school offices to remember that they are often providing the FIRST ENCOUNTER with Jesus Christ. 78% 11% 11% Challenge #50 There is a need to clarify the theological and historical questions that many people have. 78% 11% 12% Challenge #51 There is a need to more effectively evangelize and train the diocesan leaders, Clergy, Staff, DRE’s, Principals and Teachers so that they may live and share the Gospel message. 75% 15% 10% Challenge #52 There is a need for acknowledgment by those in authority for past transgressions, for the sole purpose of healing those affected. 44% 13% 43% Challenge #53 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 20% - Need to Add; 78% - List is fine Challenge #54 Do versus Being: There is a need to make Social Media and Technology relevant and impactful as a means of Evangelization and Catechesis; not as something we do, but as a share of who we are as disciples of Christ. 81% 11% 8% Challenge #55 There is a need to address the current perception that religion is a private matter and should remain in an individual’s personal sphere. 68% 13% 20% Challenge #56 Generational Gap: There is a need to engage the older generations to utilize Social Media with their insights, wisdom, knowledge and life experiences. 51% 12% 36% Challenge #57 Impact on the Young: There is a need to better understand the formative impact that technology is having on its users, especially young people. 84% 7% 8% Challenge #58 Best practices: There is a need to consolidate our research into the impacts of Social Media so all can leverage it. 76% 12% 13% Challenge #59 Greatest Challenge: There is a need to prioritize our resources; time, talent and finances, to utilize all forms of Media (social, traditional, and new) to assist in the Proclamation of the Gospel and to counter the prevailing perception in the secular media. 81% 8% 11% Challenge #60 Is there anything that rises to a major issue in this group? 10% - Need to Add; 89% - List is fine 10 December 2014 Merton Center 40th Oh, what a night! FAIRFIELD—Friends of the Thomas Merton Center celebrat- ed the 40th Anniversary of the inner-city house of hospitality in a big way with a gala attended by more than 150 people at the Patterson Club in Fairfield. The gala raised $106,000 for the Merton Center, which first opened its doors in November 1974, when a group of eight volunteers led by Father John GALA CO-CHAIRS—Bishop Frank Caggiano welcomed Lorraine Carrano Giuliani walked through the and Jon Vaccarella to the Patterson Club in Fairfield. Lorraine and Jon were back streets of downtown the co-chairs for the 40th Anniversary Gala. Bridgeport and invited the poor A LIVELY EVENING—The evening featured fine food, cocktails, dancing and homeless to lunch. The rest and a live auction. The highlight of the evening was a brief reflection by guest is history! speaker Bishop Frank Caggiano. The 40th Anniversary Gala was the perfect night to intro- people to develop duce the new executive director daily living skills of the Thomas Merton Center, through support Brian Jenkins. Brian provided a groups, case man- heartfelt speech on the import- agement services ant work of Catholic Charities and other programs. and the Thomas Merton Center Many thanks for the needy and vulnerable in to all those who Bridgeport. made the elegant The Thomas Merton Center evening a success, for Hospitality provides breakfast, and to the gener- lunch and day shelter Monday- ations of volun- Saturday to approximately 300 teers and donors people daily, and its Eat Smart who have served food pantry provides nutritious Merton Center so food to over 400 families a generously and month. Merton Center also helps faithfully. n

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By BRIAN D. WALLACE have always formed partnerships sented by the speakers was the ic dean of Fairfield Prep, who St. Mary Parish in Ridgefield to testify that “in Christ we have need to respond to the growing recently returned from an inter- has been selected to participate “We are co-workers in the vine- received greater internal freedom.” number of people who struggle to national conference in Spain, said in a pilot program for the center. yard,” said Father James Bowler, More than 200 attended the find meaning in their lives, even that it is important to look at the The goal of the program is to S.J., at the launch of the Ignatian launch ceremony in the Regina as they pull away from the tradi- “intersection between Ignatian introduce the parish to prayer in Spirituality Center at Fairfield Quick Center on campus. In tional faith experience. spirituality and the world” at a the Ignatian tradition. The par- “Each of us has a deep and time of “disruptive innovation” in ish will also learn how to apply abiding hunger, a deep restless- technology. Ignatian spirituality to the deci- ness of heart,” said Bishop Frank She said that Ignatian spiri- sion-making process in the parish. J. Caggiano. “We seek the face of tuality can move a student from As part of the program, the God and wish to encounter him, information to formation and center will establish an annual to walk in his presence. Each of eventually to transformation. symposium to explore the applica- us hungers for a path where God “We don’t teach subjects, we tion of Ignatian spirituality to con- is present.” He added that the teach people,” she added. temporary culture (e.g., science, new Ignatian Spirituality Center Deacon Patrick Toole, a business). The symposium will be will help to bring “great grace” member of St. Thomas Aquinas held on the campus of Fairfield into people’s lives. Parish in Fairfield, is serving as University and broadcast digitally. “We are blessed to have the chair of the Center for Ignatian Ignatian spirituality and the cur- center begin its work here and now Spirituality Advisory Board. He rent environmental crisis will be as we go forward in the pilgrimage received a blessing from Very offered in the spring of 2015. of faith,” said the bishop, referring Rev. John Cecero, S.J., provincial (For more info, visit the Center to the Fourth Diocesan Synod, of the U.S.A. North East, who for Ignatian Spirituality of Fairfield now underway in the diocese. said spiritual directors “facilitate University online at: Fairfield.edu/ Father Jeffrey Von Arx, S.J., the encounter of so many with CIS, or phone Father James Bowler: HEROIC LEADERSHIP—Christopher Lowney, author of Heroic Leadership, spoke about “Meeting Ignatius for the First Time.” He said the 16th century president of Fairfield University, the living God.” 203.254.4000.) n saint is more relevant than ever as people seek to find meaning in their lives. said the new Ignatian Center will help to answer the questions, “What are needs in the life of the Cemetery Offices University on November 23. addition to training lay spiri- Church and in our world? 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By BRIAN D. WALLACE other professionals “to live for from the event in a heavy rain others one person at a time” and thinking about his own three Bishop Frank J. Caggiano set that the desire to serve others is at young children. “I thought, what the tone for the annual CAPP the heart of Catholic social teach- if it were my children? What if it Communion Breakfast in his ing. “My life is all about you, were me begging for money?” homily at the Egan Chapel of which may seem strange to the He said he named the group Fairfield University, when he told world but it is the way to everlast- Al’s Angels because he believes the gathering of business leaders ing life. My brothers and sisters, the volunteers are truly sent by that the Gospel is an “antidote” let’s take that walk together.” God to serve those who are lone- to the current fallacy “that my life At the breakfast that followed, ly and afflicted. is all about me.” marketing entrepreneur and Visiting young children suf- The breakfast was sponsored by philanthropist Al DiGuido of fering from cancer is “like touch- Centesimus Annus Pro Pontifice Westport was presented the CAPP ing the face of God,” he told (CAPP) of Fairfield County and Business Leadership Award for his the gathering, emphasizing the by the Center for Faith & Public work as founder and CEO of Al’s importance of faith. “I’ve seen Life of Fairfield University. Angels, which supports children miracles happen. If you don’t With over 200 men and affected by financial hardships and think Christ is holding your hand, CAPP BUSINESS LEADERSHIP AWARD—Business leader and philanthro- pist Al DiGuido of Westport (left), recipient of the CAPP Business Leadership women gathered for Mass, those struggling with cancer. I’m here to tell you that he is.” Award, is congratulated by Msgr. Walter Orlowski, pastor of St. Matthew Bishop Caggiano said that an In accepting the honor pre- DiGuido finished his talk by Parish in Norwalk, at the Communion Breakfast held at Fairfield University egocentric notion of the self has sented by CAPP member Bob challenging business leaders to only managed to “create loneli- Rooney, DiGuido reminded the build social conscience into the ness, betrayal and hurt” in the gathering that, like the bishop, he DNA of their organizations. else is coming forward to help the itarian network in the world,” people who espouse it. is a Brooklyn native. “Business leaders have a respon- kids and families we serve.” Robinson said that the Church He drew laughter from the DiGuido, a member of St. sibility to build a legacy of caring In her keynote address Kerry fosters an ethic that is “other-cen- congregation when he quoted Mathew parish in Norwalk, said organizations. It’s not just about Robinson, executive director tered, not self-centered,” and that financier Peter Lynch who said, that true leadership isn’t created the bottom line, but motivating of the National Leadership the challenge of the laity is “liv- “We buy things we don’t need when someone is given a title but and incentivizing people to do Roundtable on Church ing vocationally” in service of the with money we don’t have to by “walking the walk and leading good. The world needs faith-filled Management, articulated the Church and the world. impress people we don’t like.” when no one is watching.” leaders. Our responsibility is to same theme. Describing the (For more info, visit The bishop said that the He said that he founded the human family and no one Church as the “largest human- www.capp-usa.com.) n Church teaches that the path of Al’s Angels after a Tomorrow’s holiness is through a loving com- Children Fund event, when he munity. “We can’t see the face listened to the stories of parents of God without loving or making whose children were afflicted others the center of our lives.” with cancer. Most were bankrupt. John Gutman named He told business leaders and He remembered driving away executive director of NCH STAMFORD—New kitchen in lower Fairfield Covenant House, lower Fairfield County. It serves hot meals County’s soup kitchen and food twice a day, 365 days a year. By pantry, announces the appoint- Including the breakfast pro- ment of a new executive direc- gram and food pantry, it www.curtissryan.com tor. John Gutman, a longtime provides over 700,000 meals volunteer at New Covenant a year. The level of its food House (NCH), brings a wide assistance programs has dou- range of experience from the bled in the past six years. corporate world. Prior to joining Founded over 36 years NCH, he was CEO of his own ago, NCH is an interfaith pro- consultancy focused on growing gram of Catholic Charities of start-ups and mid-tier enterprises Fairfield County, the largest through strategic positioning nongovernmental provider of and corporate sponsorship. human services in the area. Previously, he was senior NCH serves the needy and vice-president at several media John Gutman vulnerable, including the ONE OF CT’S LARGEST VOLUME HONDA DEALERS companies and director at the homeless, elderly, disabled, CT’S FIRST ESTABLISHED HONDA DEALER • APRIL 1973 National Basketball Association. balance of a Capital Campaign working poor, and children. targeted to raise $1.7 million • Open All Day Saturday for Service & Parts Gutman holds a BA from No one is turned away. There for a new facility scheduled to • Senior Citizen Discount Syracuse University. He has are no requirements to receive lived in Lower Fairfield County open in the spring of 2015. The services at NCH, except the CALL CURTISS RYAN AT for the past 21 years and current- “new” New Covenant House will mutual exchange of respect ly resides in Norwalk. encompass 8,000 sq. ft. at 174 and dignity. 1-800-523-4190 Gutman will be responsible Richmond Hill, a major expan- (To learn more about

333 Bridgeport Ave • Shelton for leading New Covenant sion from its current 2,000 sq. ft. New Covenant House or to M-Th 9am-9pm • Fri 9am-6pm • Sat 9am-5pm 203-929-1484 House, a key program of location. donate, go to: nchstamford.org/ Catholic Charities, through the NCH is the largest soup capital-campaign.) n NEW & USED VEHICLES • SALES • SERVICE • PARTS • BODY SHOP 13 December 2014 Parish News St. Agnes Parish is 50 years strong GREENWICH—On Clifford Grisé. November 2, Bishop Frank J. St. Agnes Parish is presently Caggiano was the principal cel- undergoing a physical and spir- ebrant and homilist at a Mass to itual revitalization. The church celebrate the 50th anniversary of building is being renovated and St. Agnes Parish. many young families are joining The parish was founded in the parish. 1963, and the first Mass in the Joan Englert-Eaton and Jean current church was celebrated Englert-Arcoite, twins, the first in 1964. two babies to be baptized by For its anniversary celebration, Father Grisé, some 50-odd years the church was overflowing with ago, were present for both the congregants and clergy. The Mass Mass and the celebration brunch was concelebrated by the current in the Carriage Room. They cele- pastor, Father Jim McDevitt, brated the anniversary along with Deacon John Linsenmeyer, pas- their mother, Patricia Englert, tor emeritus Father Bill Carey, one of the founding members of FRED CAMILLO, a Greenwich State Representative, presented St. Agnes with Father John Bambrick and St. the parish. a certificate from the CT General Assembly signed by the Speaker of the House. Agnes’ original pastor, Father J. As part of the celebra-

tion, Father Grisé was presented anniversary. Fred Camillo, a with a key to the parish as a Greenwich State Representative, Saluting ‘Mothers token of appreciation for his presented St. Agnes Parish with AT THEIR 50TH ANNIVERSARY many years of service, and Tony a certificate from the CT General celebration, St. Agnes parishioners and Judy Rocco renewed their Assembly signed by the Speaker welcomed their founding pastor, of the Parish’ wedding vows to mark their 65th of the House. n Father J. Clifford Grisé.

STAMFORD—The Stamford District Council of Catholic Women (CCW) held their annual Mother of the Parish presenta- tion on the Feast of Our Lady of the Holy Rosary in October at St. Bridget of Ireland Parish. Father Matthew Mauriello, diocesan CCW moderator and pastor of St. Roch Parish in Greenwich, was the celebrant and

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homilist. The program included the praying of the Rosary and the presentation of awards. The Women’s Guild of St. Bridget Parish hosted a reception following the ceremony. The 2014 Mother of Parish Recipients are Ann Marie Canty from St. Bridget of Ireland; Stanislawa Zalewska from Holy Name INQUIRE. VISIT. APPLY. DISCOVER. Parish; Karen Sabia of Sacred Heart Parish; Rosalie Mastropaolo, Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish; Lucretia Castro from St. Mary Parish; Alicia Sanchez of St. Benedict/Our Lady of Montserrat Parish; Sue Kremheller of the Basilica of St. John the Evangelist; and Helen Foster, St. Gabriel Parish. Priests who turned out to honor the women of their parish included (back row, l-r) Father Pawel Hrebenko, Holy Name; Father Alfonso Picone, Sacred Heart; Father Peter Smolik, Star of the Sea; Father Mauriello; Father Liam Quinlan, St. Gabriel; and Father Edward McAuley, pastor of St. Bridget. The program was dedicated to the memory of the late Marie Walsh, past president of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women, friend of Catholic Charities, and faithful parishioner of St. Mary For more information, to set up your visit, or to learn more about Canterbury, click here. Parish in Stamford, who passed away in January, 2012. n 101 Aspetuck Avenue, CT 06776 |www.cbury.org | [email protected] | 860-210-3832 14 December 2014

EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE The Giving Tree Student leaders recognized School kids from St. Joseph School in Brookfield and teens at St. BRIDGEPORT—The Catherine of Siena Parish in Riverside filled hundreds of boxes with Cathedral Academy Upper school supplies, toys and personal gift items to be sent to needy chil- School, in partnership with the dren around the world. Men from the Knights of Columbus distribut- Walter E. Luckett Foundation, ed warm coats to children in seven Connecticut cities. began the wonderful tradition of Blessed Sacrament Parish, in one of Bridgeport’s most challenged honoring students who exhibit neighborhoods, distributed more than a thousand bags of food to peo- leadership qualities and are role ple in their neighborhood, regardless of religious background. Catholic models for Cathedral Academy lawyers from the St. Thomas More Society brought toys and kids students. Luckett is himself a grad- clothes to the Nehemiah Commission services for children. uate of the Cathedral Academy Teens from all over the diocese collected literally thousands of (then St. Augustine School) and pounds of soup, pasta, rice, beans, breakfast cereal and canned goods Kolbe Cathedral High School. to supply food pantries. “Throughout his life, Walter Why are they doing these things? On the first Christmas, Christ has lived his belief that we must WE SALUTE THESE OUTSTANDING student leaders: Front (l-r) Amayah use and share our God-given Algarin, Kianna Mercado, Matteo Canu and Teyvah Puttasodd. Back: Walter was born in a cold stable. Explaining the Knights coat project, talents and resources with others Luckett, Enike Etsekhume, Michelle Jimenez, Jose Dataram, Asha-Gaye Supreme Knight Carl Anderson said, “This serves as a reminder that and he has a commitment to Lewis, Philomena Appiah, Bryan Estrella and Principal Larry DiPalma Christmas is not simply a commercial holiday but is about giving, and giving back to the community celebrating God’s love for us, and our love of neighbor.” that gave him so much,” says positively affected their class- a leader and shown tremen- You don’t have to be a Knight or a school kid, a teen or a lawyer Principal Larry Di Palma. “His room and/or school dous growth from the begin- to join them. Giving trees, mitten trees and take-a-snowflake trees message to students is that they • someone who has demonstrat- ning of the year. have sprouted in parishes, schools and religious education classrooms. are unique and that they must set ed the following traits: integ- Parishes have a Sunday of Giving, Weekend of Sharing, Bring a Gift goals to succeed, work very hard rity, balance, collaboration, Each marking period, stu- and other programs throughout Advent. Take a tag off the Giving to maximize their learning, and respect for self and others, dents are chosen by the faculty Tree. You’re going shopping anyway for your near and dear. Buy a never give up.” creativity, honesty, organized, as leaders and are honored at toy your own kids would love, toss in a pair of mittens, and spread the Student leaders are selected open to new ideas, ability to a breakfast with Luckett and Christmas love a little further. for the following qualities: motivate others, empathize Principal DiPalma. The first with others Leadership Breakfast was held A Journey of Hope • someone whose actions have • someone who is emerging as on November 25. n Correction: Omitted photo of St. Augustine Medal recipients It’s interesting to note that Advent is sometimes referred to in Julia and Joseph Truglio were unable to attend the St. Augustine Medal award ceremony, but Church teaching as the “little Lent,” a time of fasting and penitence as they submitted a photo taken in their home parish of St. Clement in Stamford. They were disappoint- we watch and wait for the coming of Christ. ed when our special St. Augustine Medal insert did not Advent invites us to introduce a note of prayer and silence into the include their photo. We believe that the photo they origi- swirling music of the holiday season. nally submitted is lost somewhere in cyberspace. Perhaps it does us little good to fret about the commercialization On their nomination form for the award, their pastor, of Christmas and the ever-expanding “shopping season.” Even in the Father Joseph Malloy, wrote the following: “Joe and Julia buying frenzy that has overtaken Christmas, the focus is still on giving have been dedicated parishioners at St. Clement Church to those we love—and reaching out to strangers in need. No need for for decades. They attend daily Mass. Joe, age 94, is a humbug! Eucharistic Minister, altar-server, and parish handyman. The best way to celebrate Christmas is to take it back for ourselves, Julia, age 85, who suffered a catastrophic illness that left to plumb the depth of the season in our own lives—and that begins her handicapped, bakes for all of the various parish events. Joe and Julia have been married for 65 with immersing ourselves in Advent. years. They certainly are true examples of living the Christian way of life by their total love of God, Advent asks us to fast before we feast, to make ourselves worthy family, parish and neighbor.” before the great gift we are about to receive. It calls for some wander- ing in the darkness of our own heart, so that we may be renewed in stronger light. It is worth the wait. In his Advent message this year, Pope Francis Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano Circulation tells us that Advent is a journey of the human family toward hope. Publisher Every registered Catholic household “The time of Advent returns us to the horizon of hope, a hope that Brian D. Wallace in Fairfield County is entitled does not disappoint because it is founded on the Word of God. 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Copy Editor (Consultant) © Copyright 2014, Diocese of Bridgeport 15 December 2014 Editorial The Christmas we need I am writing to you now from Christmas is gone. money, or imitation snow, or dou- Bethlehem. I stood there today, But this kind of contemplation ble-sided wrapping paper. It only Catholic by Grace at Shepherds Field, and the idea does not require an international requires an undivided heart. We of the crowded mall seemed so pilgrimage—although it certain- journey with Israel to the coming By Denise Bossert silly, so completely out of step ly gave me a new perspective. Messiah. When we set our eyes on with Advent. I knelt to pray where One can find this path—from Mary and run ahead to take hold Christ was born, and the idea of Nazareth to Bethlehem—by of her mantle, we remember. That jacking up the credit card to buy a doing some deliberate things. is the journey that leads to Christ. Denise Bossert is a national few more presents seemed almost This pilgrimage begins with Yes, you can make this pil- unholy, almost contradictory. receiving God, your very own grimage through the sacramental Catholic writer and columnist. The two don’t go together. personal Annunciation-moment. and liturgical life of the Church. Not when you are here. Not Christ coming to you in the But if you are able to do it, go to when you are removed from the Eucharist and you being sent to the Holy Land. Some day. Some have dipped my toes in the your December. It will not show bright lights and staged windows go forth once you have received way. Go. chaos of the Christmas- up on its own. It is a polite guest. of Main Street America. Him. The pilgrimage is a journey And kneel there, where you before-Advent scene. I’ve It will not crash your party. Today, I imagined a pregnant with Mary from Nazareth. It hap- can imagine it all, where the real I been to the mall once. I’ve Christmas-without-Advent is a young woman and her beloved pens when we take Christ with Advent cannot be usurped. landed on radio stations that fake. An imposter. We all know it. husband as they journey from us, and we share him with family Nazareth. Ein Kerem. play Christmas music around the The Christmas we all need, Nazareth to Bethlehem, over the and friends, as Mary did at Ein Bethlehem. These are real places. clock—and quickly popped in my the one we long for, the one we rugged terrain that I have walked Kerem in the hills of Judea at the And the Franciscans are here, wait- Rosary CD to escape the noise. can imagine so clearly . . . it only with my own feet, in my own Visitation. The Lord grows within ing for you to come and experience I’ve seen enough of commercial- comes to those who walk alongside Timberland boots, as my filled us as we feed and nourish our life it all for yourself. Pilgrimage. It’s ized Christmas even though I Mary. In the quiet. Away from the water bottle sloshed against my in the Spirit. We do this by read- part of our faith tradition, whether have actively avoided it this year. crowds. Where Sacred Scripture backpack, and I lifted my cam- ing, by praying, by remembering it is a quiet pilgrimage of the heart Advent is the only antidote. comes alive and holiness is real. era to capture the real Nazareth, the poor, by listening to Advent or a pilgrimage that takes us to the But Advent only comes to It’s no mirage, this Advent the real Ein Kerem (Zechariah songs (and waiting for Christmas other side of the world. those who know how to get quiet. journey. It’s not an optional & Elizabeth’s home), the real songs), by eating as a family We are a pilgrimage people. It hides from those who have to side excursion on the way to Bethlehem. And I cannot think around the table with the Advent And we are on a mission to dis- hurry. It will never be found in Christmas. It’s necessary. It’s the of anything but the plan of salva- Wreath as a centerpiece, by saying cover Jesus Christ and to share the crowded places and packed way to Christmas. The only road tion that brought God into our a prayer for those who send us him with everyone we meet. spaces of shopping aisles and city to Bethlehem. world. The part of me that can cards rather than tossing the cards Blessed & holy Advent to you crosswalks. I was blessed to travel to the be so easily abducted and thrown mindlessly in a basket. and your family, from Bethlehem Advent waits to be invited to Holy Land twice in 2014. In fact, into the chaos of commercialized This pilgrimage does not require of Judea. n Snap Out of It, Scrooge jolly this Christmas. I’ve got a bad just a day like any other day? price of things this year than I case of the Bah Humbugs. Whatever’s causing my holi- have in years past. But whatever A Dad’s View I’m not sure why. Maybe it’s day heartsick, I find myself look- problems old Scrooge Hennessey the constant stream of bad news. ing deeper into the spiritual side has, the Holy Family surely had By Matthew Hennessey The tragedies. The protests. The of the season. I always heard the it worse. Homeless. Pregnant. violence. Maybe it’s the political message to look past the com- Confused. Herod on their trail. bickering and fevered one-up- mercialism of Christmas, but I They got through the First Noel Matthew Hennessey and manship I see on my social media don’t think I ever really listened. on faith alone. Maybe I can too. feeds. How many old friendships For maybe the first time, I don’t Here’s what I’m going to do. his family are parishioners have been fractured by Facebook? care if I receive a gift this year. Instead of waiting for the spirit of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. How many happy families have I already have everything that of the season to turn my lump of turned sour thanks to Twitter? matters anyway. No trinket or toy coal into a gingerbread cookie, What a waste. So unnecessary. could come close to giving me the I’m going to take the initiative. ome people get depressed “Omit needless words.” He But that couldn’t possibly be joy that I get from my family. I’m going to turn off the Internet. at Christmastime. My borrowed that from E.B. White. the source of my seasonal slump. I hear folks say that Advent I’m going to put on a Bing father-in-law, Bill Reel, was “One day at a time.” He bor- Partisanship goes on all year is a season of waiting. Maybe Crosby song. And I’m going to Sone such guy. He never rowed that from Bill W. long. It must be something else. that’s my problem—I’ve grown light the Advent wreath. Then could get into the spirit of the “Never worry about money. “Christmas is just a day like any so spoiled I don’t want to wait I’m going to gather the kids and season. Couldn’t wait for January Enjoy your family. The money other day,” says my friend George. anymore. I get everything on read them the Nativity story. to come. “Christmas music is sup- will take care of itself.” I’m pretty “What’s to get so excited about?” demand. I can get an electric That oughta put some pep- posed to cheer us up, but it makes sure that was original to him. Well, I used to get plenty pineapple peeler shipped directly permint in my step. That oughta me sad,” he once wrote. Such good advice. I wish I was excited about it. I used to float to my house—overnight. I have get me in the mood for mistletoe. Mr. Reel had a column in a better at taking it. through December like a seagull the world at my fingertips. 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20 December 2014 Advent/Christmas K of C Museum highlights Neapolitan crèches NEW HAVEN— Neapolitan of the show is a 120-square-foot Bethlehem. These elegant and crèche-making, a distinct and Neapolitan diorama, with more elaborate scenes feature the widely known artistic tradition, than 100 human figures. Child Jesus in the midst not only is closely associated with Naples, Crèches have been a popular of adoring angels and shepherds, the Italian city from which it part of Western Christianity for but also among merchants, musi- takes its name. Each figure in more than 800 years. Introduced cians and commoners; literally these elaborate nativity scenes in Italy by St. Francis of Assisi, at the center of the life of the THE NEAPOLITAN CRÈCHE is perhaps the world’s most popular nativ- is a finely crafted work of art, they serve as a way for every- community. ity style. These intricate and elaborate scenes, on display from now through employing techniques and cus- day people to reflect on Jesus’ The centerpiece and seven February 1 at the Knights of Columbus Museum in New Haven, place the Holy toms dating back centuries to the modest birth. Through the cen- other nativity scenes are from Family among merchants, musicians and commoners going about their daily Baroque era. turies, crèches have developed Bottega D’Arte Presepiale lives; literally at the center of the life of the community. The Knights of Columbus into large and ornate displays Cantone & Costabile, in Naples, Museum in New Haven is show- in public as well as within the all designed exclusively for the K by the crèche chosen by the Pope. how all the people were posi- casing this unique art form in its home. of C Museum exhibition. Artist Antonio Cantone, tioned in awe around the Baby tenth annual Christmas crèche The Neapolitan crèche is Cantone & Costabile was who installed his work at the Jesus,” he said. exhibition, which is on view perhaps the world’s most recog- selected last year by Pope Francis museum in New Haven, proudly Italian-born Father through February 1, 2015. “Buon nizable and popular nativity for creation of the Vatican nativ- said that his crèche was the first Giandomenico Flora, rector of St. Natale: Crèches of Italy” fea- style. It places the Holy Family ity scene in St. Peter’s Square. of Neapolitan design to grace Margaret Shrine in Bridgeport, tures two dozen Italian inspired in the heart of 16th-century One of the scenes on display at the piazza outside St. Peter’s visited the museum and saw the nativity scenes. The highlight Naples, rather than a stable in the K of C museum was inspired Basilica. “Pope Francis liked artists from his native country at

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16 Hamilton Street • West Haven, Connecticut 06516 [email protected] • Direct 203.931.2135 • Office 203.932.9639 • Cell 203.410.8925 21 December 2014 Advent/Christmas work installing their creations. across Connecticut. The festi- “The Italian tradition of the val’s opening celebration took Christmas crèche is to reproduce place Saturday, December 6, not only the Nativity scene but with Yuletide Carolers, chil- also the whole town with all dren’s crafts and a visit from St. of its inhabitants,” said Father Nicholas. The museum will also Flora. “The artists’ intention is host a Christmastime Family Day to underline the humility of the on Sunday, December 28, from Holy Family and, in particular, 12-3 p.m., with live music, family of Jesus who decided to come activities and an opportunity to into the world in a stable with- enjoy the Christmas trees and out the majority of people real- crèches with extended family and izing it.” friends. In addition to the exhibition, (The Knights of Columbus the museum will feature its Museum is located at 1 State Street Christmas Tree Festival, with in New Haven and is open 10 am-5 24 trees trimmed and decorated pm daily with free admission and with handmade ornaments by parking. For info, call 203.865.0400 Catholic school children from or visit kofcmuseum.org.) n

Holiday Schedule 2014-2015 We invite you to attend our Christmas The clergy staff and New Years services listed below. Saint Jude Roman Catholic Churchand SOLEMNITY OF THE NATIVITY OF THE LORD of Wednesday, December 24th, 2014 wish Merry Christmas (Christmas Vigil Masses) you a 4:00pm Masses (church and gymnasium), Happy New Year! 5:30pm Mass followed by Children’s Nativity Pageant and 11:30pm Festival of Carols Rev. Msgr. Dariusz J. Zielonka, J.C.D., Pastor 12:00 Midnight Mass Rev. Henry Hoffman Thursday, December 25th, 2014 Rev. Michael Novajosky (Christmas Day Masses) Deacon John DiTaranto 7:30am, 9:00am, 10:30am, 12:00pm Saint Jude Roman Catholic Church SOLEMNITY OF MARY, HOLY MOTHER OF GOD 707 Monroe Turnpike (Rt. 111) Monroe Connecticut, 06468 Wednesday, December 31, 2014 (New Year’s Eve Mass) 203.261.6404 5:30pm Vigil Thursday, January 1, 2015 (New Year’s Day Masses) 9:00am, 10:30am, 12:00pm 22 December 2014 Advent/Christmas Operation Christmas Child BROOKFIELD—St. Joseph School first and seventh-graders recently completed Operation Christmas Child; a program run by the international relief organization, Samaritan’s Purse. At St. Joseph’s the sev- enthgraders are “buddies” to the first-graders. Students packed shoeboxes filled with a variety of items for children ages 5-9. The boxes were filled with school supplies, small toys, hygiene items, and accessories. The students wrote personal notes to include in the boxes and made wrapping paper to cover them. The shoeboxes are sent to children in need throughout the world. The first and seventh-graders, along with their teachers, felt the true Christmas spirit as they were able to spread joy through giving. n

St. James Church Saint Thomas Aquinas Church 2110 Main Street, Stratford, Connecticut 203-375-5887 - www.stjamesstratford.com 1719 Post Road • Fairfield, Connecticut 06824 • 203.255.1097 Rev. Thomas F. Lynch, Pastor Rev. Victor T Martin, Pastor COMMUNAL PENANCE SERVICE Wednesday, December 17 – 7:30pm – Church Individual confessions will be offered at the end of the service. Christmas 2014 Schedule BLESSING OF EXPECTANT PARENTS Saturday and Sunday Masses, December 13 and 14 Advent Penance Service A blessing will be given to those awaiting the gift of a child. Tuesday, December 16 ST. JAMES MINISTRY WITH WOMEN 7:30 pm Friday, December 19 – 6:00pm – Parish Center Please join an Advent Retreat for fellowship, dinner, prayer Christmas Eve Masses and song. $5.00 donation. Space is limited Wednesday, December 24 CHRISTMAS MASS SCHEDULE 4:00 pm - Children’s Mass Wednesday, December 24 – Vigil Masses: 4:00pm and 6:00pm A Mass in celebration of the Lord’s birth at 11:00pm 6:00 pm - Children’s Mass Thursday, December 25 – 8:30am, 10:30am 8:00 pm Christmas Mass Make a promise to your God today by making a greater 11:30 pm Adult Choir Concert commitment in 2015 to open your heart to experience God’s 12:00 - Midnight Mass intimate love by your consistent participation in Sunday Eucharist. THE HOLY FAMILY OF JESUS, MARY AND JOSEPH Christmas Day Masses Saturday and Sunday Masses, December 27 and 28 Thursday, December 25 Families will have the opportunity to write their name on 8:00 am, 10:00 am, and 12:00 noon votive candles as a way of thanking God for His presence in their family in 2014 and asking for a greater openness to Him in 2015. Solemnity of Mary SOLEMNITY OF MARY, MOTHER OF GOD Wednesday, December 31, Vigil Mass: 4:30pm Mother of God Holy Day Masses – Thursday, January 1, 2015, 8:30am, 10:30am New Year’s Eve - December 31 SAINT JAMES NEW YEAR’S DAY OF PRAYER 5:00 pm Mass Thursday, January 1, 2015 New Year’s Day Masses 1:00pm-3:00pm Eucharistic Adoration in Parish Center Chapel REMEMBERANCE FOR CHILDREN WHO HAVE DIED Thursday - January 1, 2015 Saturday, January 3 – 8:00am Mass 8:00 am, 10:00 am, and 12:00 noon A special candle will be lit in remembrance of the children who have gone before us in faith. All parents who have lost a child are encouraged to attend. FEAST OF THE EPIPHANY God’s holy Word among us - An opportunity to come forward to make or renew your commitment to love and pray with God’s holy Word in the scripture. Saturday, January 4, 2015 – Vigil Mass: 4:30pm Sunday, January 5, 2014 – 7:30am, 9:15am, 11:15am, and 6:00pm

Merry Christmas! 23 December 2014 Nuestra Voz El Diácono Reverón, 78 BRIDEGEPORT—El Diácono su juventud vino a Bridgeport. endo el altar, aún con los tubos Domingo Reverón, Sr., diácono Había atendido ya cuatro años de de drenaje en su mandíbula, de la Parroquia de St. Peter seminario en Puerto Rico. Tras dos semanas después de la en Bridgeport, falleció el 9 de llegar a esta área ayudó a intro- operación”. Y sigue diciendo: Noviembre en el Hospital de St. ducir el Cursillo de Cristiandad “Cuando vi a este hombre y Vincent’s, a la edad de 78 años. en la Diócesis de Bridgeport, cuánto amaba al Señor, me hizo El Diácono Tony Detje, direc- empezando esa labor en la anti- decidir que yo también quería tor de los diáconos de la Diócesis gua iglesia de St. Anthony y servir como él lo hacía. Santos de Bridgeport, dijo de él: “Era después en St. Peter. El Cursillo García fue ordenado diácono en el hombre más espiritual que he se ha extendido y convoca 1987. conocido”. numerosas ultreyas a través de la El Diácono Reverón fue Su profunda devoción al Señor diócesis. empleado como cocinero durante de la diócesis, Encuentros Noviembre, se preparó una capil- y dedicación al servicio de los Don Domingo fue ordenado 38 años por United Methodist Matrimoniales. Siendo conocido la funeraria en la Parroquia de St. fieles inspiró otros dos hombres Diácono Permanente en 1979, Homes y sirvió como concejal por su calidez humana, paciencia Peter con el cuerpo del Diácono a ser diáconos: su sobrino el convirtiéndose en el primer durante el mandato del alcalde de y sabio consejo, respondía rápid- Domingo Reverón. A la mañana Diácono Reynaldo Olavarría, diácono hispano de la Diócesis Bridgeport Nick Panuzio. amente a las necesidades de otros siguiente, se celebró el Funeral que sirve en la Parroquia de St. de Bridgeport. Poco después fue Su esposa, Milagros, le había matrimonios. por el diácono con el Obispo Mary en Bridgeport y el Diácono diagnosticado con un cáncer y a precedido y falleció en 2012. Entre otros familiares en esta Frank J. Caggiano. Mons. Santos García, que sirve en la consecuencia de ello, perdió una Estuvieron casados durante más diócesis, sus deudores son sus Aniceto Villamide, párroco de Catedral de St. Augustine. gran porción de su mandíbula de 55 años. El Diácono Reverón tres hijos: John, Domingo Jr., y St. Peter, pronunció la homilía. El Diácono Reverón nació en por cirugía. El Diácono Santos sacó de las profundidades de su Geraldo, su hija Gladys, sus dos Posteriormente fue sepultado en Quebradillas, Puerto Rico, y en García nos cuenta: “Lo vi sirvi- amor en el matrimonio duran- nietos y cuatro bisnietos. el Cementerio de St. Michael en te su trabajo en el programa En la vigilia del 12 de Bridgeport. n Remembering Deacon Reverón BRIDGEPORT—Deacon Domingo Reverón, Sr., a deacon at St. Peter Parish in Bridgeport, died on November 9 at St. Vincent’s Medical Center. He was 78 years old. “He was the most spiritual man I ever met,” says Deacon Tony Detje, director of deacons for the Diocese of Bridgeport. His devotion to his Lord and to the people he met inspired two other men to become deacons: his nephew Deacon Reynaldo Olavarria, now serving at St. Mary Parish in Bridgeport, and Deacon Santos Garcia, now at St. Augustine Cathedral. Deacon Reverón was born in Quebradillas, Puerto Rico, and came to Bridgeport as a young man. He had attended seminary for four years in Puerto Rico; after coming to this area he helped Saint Joseph Church to introduce the Cursillo movement to the Diocese of Bridgeport, Shelton • Connecticut starting first at the former St. Anthony Parish in Bridgeport and “Serving Catholics in the Valley since 1906” • www.SJCshelton.org • 203.924.8611 then at St. Peter’s. Cursillo is now widespread, holding monthly ultreya meetings throughout the diocese. He was ordained as a permanent deacon in 1979, becoming the 2014 Advent & Christmas Schedule first Hispanic to be ordained deacon in the Diocese of Bridgeport. Confession Schedule Shortly thereafter he was diagnosed with cancer, and suffered the Immediately after all weekend Masses the weekends of December 13-14 & 20-21 loss of a large portion of his jawbone to surgery. Thursday, December 18: 12:30-2 p.m. “I saw him serving on the altar two weeks later, with tubes still attached,” remembers Deacon Garcia. “When I saw this Friday, December 19: 12:30-2 p.m. man, and how much he loved the Lord, that made me decide Saturday, December 20: 3-4 p.m. that I wanted to serve the way this man did.” Santos Garcia was Monday, December 22: 5-6:30 p.m. ordained a deacon in 1987. Deacon Reverón was employed as a chef for over 38 years at Christmas Eve, Wednesday, December 24 the United Methodist Homes, and served as a City Council mem- 4 p.m. – Mass in Church (Organ) ber during the administration of Bridgeport Mayor Nick Panuzio. 4 p.m. – Mass in Pastore Church Hall (Contemporary Choir) He was predeceased by his wife, Milagros, who died in 2012. The 4 p.m. – Christmas Pageant Mass (Shelton High School) couple were married for more than 55 years. 9 p.m. – Spanish Mass (“Misa del Gallo”) Among other relatives in this diocese, he is survived by three 12 Midnight – Midnight Mass sons: John, Domingo, Jr., and Geraldo; his daughter Gladys; two grandchildren and four great grandchildren. Christmas Day, Thursday, December 25 Deacon Reverón was received into St. Peter Church for a vigil 7:30 a.m. – Mass (Organ) on November 12. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano was the principal 9 a.m. – Mass (Contemporary Choir) celebrant at a Mass of Christian Burial for Deacon Reverón the 10:45 a.m. – Mass (Organ) following morning. Msgr. Aniceto Villamide, pastor of St. Peter’s, 12:30 p.m. – Mass (Spanish) delivered the homily. Interment followed in St. Michael Cemetery 12:30 p.m. – Mass in Pastore Church Hall (English) in Bridgeport. n 24 December 2014 Advent/Christmas White Christmas Concert hosted by St. Pio Foundation BRIDGEPORT—The Saint CHRISTMAS Pio Foundation is proud to announce a “White Christmas” Saint Theresa SCHEDULE - 2014 benefit concert, to be held in ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH Sacrament of Penance St. Augustine Cathedral on The Mother Church of Trumbull Saturday, December 20 Saturday, December 20, at 7 pm. 3:00-4:15pm The Saint Pio Foundation is a Rev. Brian P. Gannon, S.T.D., Pastor Tuesday, December 23 national charity which supports Rev. Michael Flynn, Parochial Vicar 4:00-5:15pm; 7:00-8:00pm educational, social and cultural projects that enhance the aware- Rev. Shawn W. Cutler, Parochial Vicar Wednesday, December 24 ness of Saint Pio of Pietrelcina, Deacon Salvatore M. Clarizio 10:30am-12:00 noon one of the most venerated con- Mikhailoff, and an intermission Dr. Carolina Flores, Director of Music Masses temporary saints of the Church. by comedian Regina DeCicco. Christmas Vigil The funds raised by the A special performing guest, Wednesday, December 24 foundation are used to establish directly from Los Angeles, will 4:00pm, 6:00pm and 12:00 midnight Catholic medical facilities in the be the internationally-acclaimed Christmas Concert at 11:30pm U.S.; a percentage of its dona- singer, music producer, musician precedes the Midnight Mass tions support the hospital “Casa and actor Lee Curreri, star of the Christmas Day Sollievo della Sofferenza” in motion picture and television Thursday, December 25 San Giovanni Rotondo, Italy, series “Fame,” who had the part 7:30am, 10:00am and 12:00 noon founded by St. Pio and currently of Bruno Martelli. New Years Day owned by the Holy See. Guest of honor for the evening Feast of Mary, The not-to-be-missed event is will be Bishop Frank J. Caggiano, The Mother of God the first organized by the Saint who is also a member of the Holy Day of Obligation Pio Foundation in Connecticut. Religious Advisory Board of the Wednesday, December 31 Organized with the support of Saint Pio Foundation. Vigil Mass at 4:30pm the Diocese of Bridgeport and (Suggested donation $20. For info Thursday, January 1 the St. Padre Pio Society at St. and reservations, call 203.400.5828, 7:30am, 9:00am and 12:00 noon 5301 Main Street • Trumbull, Connecticut 06611-4195 Margaret Shrine, it will feature or email padrepiosociety@hot- performances by Italian Tenor mail.com. For more info about Luciano Lamonarca, pop singer the Saint Pio Foundation, visit Daniela Fiorentino, guitarist www.saintpiofoundation.org, The Cathedral Parish Chris Remediani, the duo Balint/ or call 636.220.6550.) n 170 Thompson Street, Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604 203.368.6777 & 203.335.0106 - Parish Offices www.thecathedralparish.org Care packages The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport Reverend Father F. John Ringley, Jr., Pastor head to troops Reverend Father Sean R. Kulacz, Parochial Vicar Reverend Father Augustine Nguyen, Chaplain to Kolbe Cathedral High School Reverend Mr. William J. Bissenden, Reverend Mr. Santos Garcia, & Reverend Mr. William A. Koniers, Deacons Christmas Season Mass Schedule Christmas Eve New Years Eve Wednesday, December 24th Wednesday, December 31st: 4:00pm St. Patrick 6:00pm (Spanish-English) St. Augustine Cathedral 4:00pm St. Augustine Cathedral 8:00pm (Vietnamese) St. Augustine Cathedral 6:00pm (Spanish) St. Patrick 8:00pm (Vietnamese) St. Augustine Cathedral New Years Day 12 Midnight (Spanish-English) St. Augustine Cathedral Thursday, January 1st: FAIRFIELD—St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic School students collected Christmas 8:00am St. Patrick supplies for Project from the Heart to donate to our troops. The care 10:00am (Spanish-English) St. Augustine Cathedral package materials, which consisted of toiletries, writing material, sun- Thursday, December 25th: screen and some favorite snacks, were presented to the Project from the 8:00am St. Patrick Heart administrators. 9:30am St. Augustine Cathedral The students reached their goal of providing at least 50 care packages 11:00am (Spanish) St. Augustine Cathedral for soldiers in a number of different locations. The St. Thomas Aquinas 12:30pm St. Patrick Catholic School Human Relations Committee is dedicated to helping their school community acknowledge our troops and veterans. n 25 December 2014 Advent/Christmas Season of Giving Passing on Kindness BRIDGEPORT—Students began. Students learn to crochet at Kolbe Cathedral High School and knit scarves, which are then carried on a loving tradition distributed throughout the region with their “Passing on Kindness” to those in need of warmth and project. kindness. When John Tyminski, a This has become a KCHS much-loved religion teacher at tradition. This year, 468 scarves KCHS passed away in 2008, it were hand-made by students, was revealed that he had made blessed in St. Augustine TRUMBULL—The Season of Giving began at St. Joseph High School on and gifted blankets anonymously Cathedral by their chaplain, the First Sunday of Advent when Santa and his elves joined Father Mike Novajosky and the campus ministry team in opening the Advent season whenever he recognized a friend Father Augustine Nguyen, and with prayer and song. Students, children, and parents joined in the tree or colleague in need of comfort. prepared for delivery to home- lighting ceremony and took name tags off the Giving Tree. So began their In his memory, the Passing on less shelters, hospitals, and soup preparations to make Christmas a happy and holy moment in the life of Kindness community project kitchens. n many in the Diocese of Bridgeport.

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December 14: Third Sunday of Advent: Mass for Four Voices (Tallis); Kyrie sine nomine à 6 (Palestrina); Veni Domine et noli tardare à 6 (Morales); Gaudete in Domino (de Wert); Beatus Joannes (Guerrero); organ works of Bach; with the Student Schola Christmas Schedule December 21: Fourth Sunday of Advent: Missa O Virgo simul et Mater (Palestrina); Ecce Special Events: Virgo concipiet (Byrd); Alma Redemptoris Mater (Ockeghem) Posadas, December 15-23, 7:00pm Advent Lessons and Carols, The Midnight Mass of Christmas: Missa ad praesepe December 12, 7:00pm (Malcolm); Verbum caro factum est (Lassus); Quem vidistis pastores (Rore); O magnum mysterium (Victoria); organ works of Brahms, Messiaen, and Bach Sacrament of Confession: Friday, December 20: The Mass of Christmas Day: Missa Dies sanctificatus 11:30am-12:00 Noon (Palestrina); Viderunt omnes (Pérotin); Puer natus est (Byrd); Viderunt omnes (Byrd); Dies sanctificatus (Palestrina); organ Saturday, December 21 3:00-4:30pm works of Vierne Monday, December 22: 11:30-12:00pm Tuesday, December 23: 11:30-12:00pm December 28: Sunday in the Octave of Christmas: Missa Wednesday, December 24: 3:00-4:30pm Praeter rerum seriem (Rore); Praeter rerum seriem / Virtus Holy Family and New Year’s Sancti Spiritus (Josquin); organ works of Bach Christmas Eve Masses: Eve Masses: Wednesday, December 31 - Thursday, January 1, 5:30 p.m.: The Octave Day of Wednesday, December 24: 4:00pm Christmas: Missa Quaeramus cum pastoribus (Morales); and 7:00pm (Spanish) 8:00am and 12:10pm, 7:00pm (Latin) Alleluia. Dies sanctificatus (Léonin); Mirabile mysterium 11:00pm Rosary by the Crèche 8:00pm-12:00 Midnight, (Willaert); Noe, noe psallite (Mouton); organ works of 11:30pm Christmas Carols Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament Tournemire 12:00 Midnight Mass Benediction at Midnight Reception in the Extraordinary Form aint ary s ookstore 203.854.9013 Solemnity of Mary/ S M ’ B Christmas Day Masses: New Year’s Day masses: Offering a wide selection of books, crucifixes, rosaries, sacramentals from Italy and the Holy Land, First Communion and Confirmation gifts, and more. Thursday, December 25: 8:00am, Thursday, January 1: 9:30am (Latin), 11:30am, 8:00am, 12:10pm, 5:30pm (Latin), HOURS: Saturday 10am-4pm | Sunday 9-9:30am, 11am-2pm | Monday, Wednesday and Friday 12:45-2pm | Tuesday 11-11:30am and 12:45-2pm | Thursday 12:45-2pm and 3:30-5:30pm and 1:15pm (Spanish) and 7:30pm (Spanish) Located in Parish Center building behind Saint Mary Church | VISA/MC ACCEPTED 26 December 2014 Obituary Sister Madeline Follachio Sister Gilberte Sister Madeline Follachio, many schools throughout the of Education, tutoring middle RSM, of the Sisters of Mercy, state, but her greatest joy were and secondary students. She Northeast Community, died her years at Academy of Our retired in 1999 but continued Desilets, DHS September 14 in Lady of Mercy, active ministry tutoring under West Hartford. Lauralton Hall, the Milford Literacy Center with Sister Gilberte Desilets, DHS, One of eight chil- in Milford where assignments at Bic Corporation, died on September 28 at the dren, she was born she ministered as where she taught English as a Daughters of the Holy Spirit in Waterbury on dean of students for Second Language. Provincial House in Putnam, February 25, 1920. 14 years. In 2003 Throughout retirement, she where she had been in retirement On June 27, she was awarded maintained an interest in wom- since 2001. She was 102 years old. 1938, she entered the Claven Award en’s and other justice issues. This Born in the town of St. the Sisters of from Lauralton, an past November, she was honored Gregoire, Quebec, Canada, on Mercy. This year honor bestowed to by Sacred Heart High School in February 22, 1912, Gilberte Sister Madeline cel- women who have Waterbury with the Rev. John Desilets entered religious life with ebrated 76 years of “led extraordinary Meaney Community Impact the Daughters of the Holy Spirit religious life! lives, excelled in Award. in 1928 and made her religious She was the first their choice of fields A Mass of the Resurrection profession on August 25, 1931, in her family to earn a college and made significant impact on was celebrated for Sister at the Motherhouse in St. Brieuc, diploma, from St. Joseph College Lauralton Hall.” Madeline in the St. Mary Home France. She was then known as Sister Cecilia. in West Hartford, and went on In pre-retirement, Sister Chapel, West Hartford the eve- She taught in Connecticut and Massachusetts, coming to Holy to graduate study at Fairfield and Madeline served as a para-pro- ning of September 18. She was Family School in Fairfield for one year in 1970. Sacred Heart Universities. fessional in Compensatory buried in St. Mary Cemetery the In 1980 she retired from teaching and served in various capac- Sister Madeline taught in Education for the Milford Board following morning. n ities, including working as a dietician and in domestic services at St. Joseph Guest House in New Haven, while doing private tutoring for students in area Catholic schools. A Mass of Christian burial was celebrated for Sister Gilberte on September 30 at the Provincial House chapel followed by FUNERAL GUIDE burial at St. Mary Cemetery, Putnam. n

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Amiens on a cold winter day and An effusive warmth filled You often find yourself look- saw a beggar, shivering at the Linda. She was looking for ing to the skies, waiting and gate and asking for alms. Christ, and here he was in this watching and wondering the Everyone ignored him, except little boy, performing this simple ll year long, Linda wonder and joy the shepherds same way people of good will Martin. Moved to pity, he act with such love. The Kingdom looked for Christ in must have felt, one that would watched and waited two millen- unsheathed his sword and cut his belongs to such as these. Didn’t her daily life, but she reassure her that despite the daily nia ago for a Savior and a King cloak in half and gave it to the Jesus say that? In those few Adid so especially at headlines about murder and who would make things right that man. That night in a dream, he moments, Linda looked at the Christmas. During Mass, she’d mayhem, things were going to be had gone so terribly wrong. saw Jesus, surrounded by angels, world as Jesus does, with com- say a simple prayer, “Lord, please all right because ... the Prince of At a time of year that belongs and he was wearing the cloak passion and love. A little boy show yourself to me.” Peace was coming. to Christ, so many people try that Martin had given him. taught her that lesson. Her prayer She knew he was there, but It’s easy to be disappointed to push him out of the picture. Christ has many faces. Many had been answered. she wanted a special glimpse, one at Christmas. Instead of holiday When I went to the store to buy of them are shunned by the Merry Christmas. n that would dispel the gloom from cheer, there’s a lot of holiday Christmas cards, there were doz- world and many others the world too much holiday glitz, one that gloom that comes when your cen- ens on sale, but I could find only wouldn’t even recognize. 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regularly to discuss and discern • Accept the Challenge as pre- youth and to those who no longer challenges within their respective sented regularly attend Mass, or have Synod Update themes. These study committees • Accept the Challenge with left the Church, brought about are made up of individual general modifications the most discussion and suggest- By Patrick C. Turner delegates, diocesan officials, and • Do not Accept the Challenge ed modifications. local and national experts. The results of the delegates’ As part of the year-long dis- Utilizing data received during responses are available on pages 8-9. cernment process facing the the September session, feedback If a delegate accepted the general delegates and the Synod Patrick Turner is the deputy and ideas submitted to the synod challenge with modifications, or Commission, Bishop Caggiano synod director for the Diocese office through the listening ses- did not accept the challenge, they reminded those present “we must of Bridgeport. sions held across the diocese, and were asked to submit an email also give voice to those who their own background and areas clarification. In the days follow- aren’t here.” of interest and expertise, mem- ing the Second Session, the synod One delegate reminded all n November 15, more tations from each of the four bers of the study committees were office received 825 emails with present that the synod also needs than 350 general study committees and had the tasked with coming up with a more than 1000 comments or to remember those who suffer eco- delegates, observers, opportunity to provide feedback series of challenges to be present- clarifications from the delegates. nomically within the diocese; for Oecumenical guests, through table discussions, floor ed to the general delegates. These comments and modifica- example, those who can’t afford seminarians, and members of comments and emailed responses. On November 15, each of tions are being analyzed and will to send their children to Catholic the Synod Commission gathered They also were privileged to hear the four study committees had help Bishop Caggiano and the schools, or must work two or together for the Second General a discernment presentation from a block of time to present those Synod Commission begin to syn- three jobs in order to provide basic Session of the Diocesan Synod at Dr. Joan Kelly, who is on the challenges. After the verbal feed- thesize the challenges. needs for their families. Another St. Catherine of Siena Parish in faculty at Holy Apostles College back, the general delegates then There is a great diversity delegate reminded the synod office Trumbull. and Seminary in Cromwell, enti- voted on each one. This was among the delegates, who range that the final document must res- The purpose of this session tled “The Catholic Church: One, not an effort to find out winners in age from 13 to 86, and their onate with, and speak to, all of was to begin to discern, in a more Holy, Catholic and Apostolic.” and losers, but an opportunity comments and feedback spanned the Diocese of Bridgeport: “the concrete and detailed manner, The four themes announced by to discern whether the study the political and theological spec- 17-year-olds, the new Americans, the challenges facing our diocese. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano in June committees were moving in the trum. Many of the challenges the single parents, the widows, The general delegates took a are: Empower the Young Church, right direction and to “take the received overwhelming support, the parents struggling to feed and number of actions during the day- Build up Communities of Faith, temperature” of the general dele- but delegates struggled to agree educate their children, and those long session. Foster Evangelical Outreach, and gates to see where consensus was with other challenges and some- facing despair or impoverishment To begin the day: Promote Works of Charity and beginning to form. Using elec- times questioned the supporting of spirit.” • Delegates unanimously Justice. Since the First General tronic response devices, delegates information provided by the The Third General Session approved a declaration summa- Session in September, study had three options to express their study committees. In particular, of the Synod will take place on rizing the activities of the First committees have been meeting thoughts for each challenge: issues relating to outreach to the February 7. n General Session on September 20, 2014; • In response to a need identi- fied by the study committees, the SAINTLYLIVES BY ED WALDRON delegates unanimously approved the establishment of a new Study Committee on Communications and Technology. This issue cuts across all four previously identified themes of the synod. The committee will be tasked with examining the formational aspects and uses of technology and will also look at the appro- priate and strategic uses of com- munications to reach the Catholic faithful and people of good will within Fairfield County; • The delegates overwhelmingly approved a resolution to extend the appointment of the general delegates beyond the formal clos- ing of the synod in September 2015. The purpose will be to provide the bishop and the Synod Commission a gathering of peo- ple to receive periodic reports and provide feedback on the progress of the implementation of the Synod recommendations. It is anticipated that this body will formally meet twice a year. Delegates then heard presen- 30 December 2014 Bits & Pieces “IT’S A WONDERFUL HOPE on Mon., Dec. 15 at 7:30 dren in the religious formation and adults will be offered at Our register, contact Angela Mantero: LIFE” performed at Trinity pm at Christ the King Parish, program. Reception to follow. Lady of Peace Parish, Stratford. 203.416.1627 or amantero@ Catholic, Stamford, on Sat., Dec. Trumbull with Fr. Larry Carew; No cost; goodwill offering. Youth classes on Tues., starting diobpt.org. 13, at 7 pm. Tickets available and Mon., Jan. 19, at 7:30 pm For more info, call the parish: Jan. 6; adults, Thurs., starting GIFT SHOP at St. Jude at www.crusaderplayers.org at St. Lawrence Parish, Shelton, 203.227.7245. Jan. 8, both from 7-9 pm. Cost: Parish, Monroe, is open Sun. or at the door. with Fr. Charles Allen. For more LESSONS & CAROLS at St. 8-week youth class plus book: after 9 & 10:30 Masses. Wreaths, CHRISTMAS CAROL info, call 203.268.8253. Theresa Parish, Trumbull, by the $150; 10-week adult class: $200. religious articles and cook books. SING-ALONG “Help the ADVENT EVENING combined St. Theresa Choirs on For more info and reservations, For more info, call Fran at the Homeless and Hungry,” Sun., OF RECONCILIATION at Sun., Dec. 21, at 4 pm. Free will contact Dawn: seawall96@opton- parish office: 203.261.6404. Dec. 14, at 3 pm at St. Margaret’s St. Bridget of Ireland Parish, offering will be taken. For more line.net. WOUNDED WARRIORS Shrine, Bridgeport. (snow/rain Stamford, on Mon., Dec. 15, info, call 203.261.3676 or www. “COME & SEE” Secular Pilgrimage to Lourdes, France: follow signs to indoor venue). at 7 pm. Prepare homes, hearts sttheresatrumbull.org. Franciscan Vocations Mass: St. May 12-18, 2015. The Warriors Admission is one non-perishable and families. Celebrate the TRADITIONAL Emery Church, Fairfield, on to Lourdes Pilgrimage for food item per person, collected Sacrament of Reconciliation and CHRISTMAS EVE sponsored Sat., Jan. 10, at 9:30 am. Social Military Personnel is a joint by Operation Hope. Santa Claus prepare to meet the newborn by the Knights of Lithuania at St. follows. For more info, call project of the Archdiocese for for the kids. For more info, call Lord with a soul cleansed of sin. George Parish, Bridgeport, Sun., 203.255.8801. the Military Services, USA, and 203.333.9627. For more info, call the parish: Dec. 21, at 12 noon. For info and GOSPEL OF LIFE SOCIETY the Knights of Columbus. It is “LET IT GO” SING 203.324.2910.for individual reservations call 203.878.0519. meets the second Sat. of the month designed to allow military per- ALONG benefit at St. Joseph reconciliation. TELEVISED MASS for (Jan. 10) at St. Mary Parish, sonnel and their caregivers a time High School, Trumbull on Sun., “BEHOLD THE CHILD” Christmas, Thurs., Dec. 25, Norwalk, at 10 am after the 9 am of resting, praying, healing and Dec. 14, from 1-3 pm. Tickets: concert at St. Luke Parish, WLNY, Channel 10/55 at 9 am; Pro-Life Mass. Dr. Bentivegna connecting with other members $12. For more info and for tick- Westport, Sun., Dec. 21, at 3 pm WWOR Channel 9 at 8 am; Salt will speak on the medical view of the military from across the ets, go to www.sjcadets.org/ features the adult and children’s and Light TV: check your local of Ebola. For more info, contact world. Applications and pay- frozen. choir. The concert will conclude listings. Eileen Bianchini: 203.847.5727 or ments (if applicable) are due by MASSES OF HEALING & with a Nativity tableau by chil- CURSILLO ULTREYAS [email protected]. Sat., Jan. 31. For more info, go are held throughout the dio- “FORMING to www.warriorstolourdes.com. cese: Mon., Jan. 5, at St. James INTENTIONAL DISCIPLES: MEDICARE/HEALTH Parish, Stratford, at 7 pm; Thurs., The Path to Knowing & INSURANCE counseling is Jan. 15, at St. Mary Parish, Following Jesus” with Sherry offered free of charge at St. Bethel, 7:30 pm; and Mon., Jan. Weddell: Tues., Jan. 13, from Vincent’s Medical Center. 19, at St. Bridget of Ireland, 9 am-5 pm at St. Catherine of Individuals can meet privately Stamford, at 7:30 pm. For more Siena Parish, Trumbull. How with a health insurance specialist info, email [email protected]. can we transmit a living, per- by appointment. For more info or Looking for a deeper relationship sonal Catholic faith to future to schedule an appointment, call with God? What is Cursillo? generations? Forming Intentional St. Vincent’s Volunteer Office: Check out www.natl-cursillo. 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