Modest Apparel #216

Free Grace Broadcaster Published by Chapel Library . 2603 West Wright St. Pensacola, Florida 32505 USA Sending Christ-centered materials from prior centuries worldwide Worldwide: please use the online downloads worldwide without charge. In North America: please write for your free subscription in print. The FGB is sent quarterly without charge. Chapel Library does not necessarily agree with all the doctrinal views of the authors it publishes. We do not ask for donations, send promotional mailings, or share the mailing list. © Copyright 2010 Chapel Library; Pensacola, Florida: compilation, abridgment, annotations. MODEST APPAREL #216 Thinking Like a Christian about Modest Apparel............................................................... 2 Robert G. Spinney Christian Modesty Defined................................................................................................ 4 Jeff Pollard A Crying Sin of Our Age..................................................................................................... 6 Arthur W. Pink (1886-1952) Symptoms of Bodily Pride.................................................................................................. 9 John Bunyan (1628-1688) Avoiding Immodest Fashions.......................................................................................... 11 Vincent Alsop (1630-1703) Accessories to Adultery ..................................................................................................... 15 Robert G. Spinney Your Clothing Reveals Your Heart ............................................................................... 17 Richard Baxter (1615-1691) Too Much, Too Little, Too Tight ................................................................................... 19 Robert G. Spinney Our Royal Apparel ............................................................................................................. 22 Charles H. Spurgeon (1834-1892) A Return to Modest Apparel............................................................................................ 24 Jeff Pollard THINKING LIKE A CHRISTIAN ABOUT MODEST APPAREL Robert G. Spinney HE Christian’s wardrobe is no small matter. The daily statements we make with our clothing—intentional or unintentional, interpreted correctly or incorrectly—are among the boldest statements we make. Our children, sib- Tlings, coworkers, classmates, and fellow church members cannot help but see our clothing. Everyone notices if we are sloppy or neat, simple or glamorous, provocative or modest. Clothing can both affect our self-image and shape other peoples’ perceptions of us: that is why we spend gobs of money purchasing nice clothing. Thinking Christianly about clothing involves many issues… We must first remove two obstacles that sometimes prevent Christians from even considering this subject: the belief that any discussion of clothing is inherently legalistic and the belief that such discussions are simply unnecessary. In many places today, simply to raise the subject of immodest clothing is to set off every legalism alarm in the building. This is regrettable. We do not understand holiness if we think applying Colossians 3:17 (“And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus”) to the subject of clothing is somehow wrong. The person who says, “Jesus will not be Lord of my clothing” is little different from the person who says, “Jesus will not be Lord of my money.” Nor is it legalistic when God’s people endeavor to obey God’s instructions. D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones1 put it well when he said that if the “grace” we have received does not help us to keep God’s laws, then we have not really received grace. To be sure, Christians can handle the subject of immodest clothing in a clumsy, unbiblical, and grace-denying fashion. That is a problem. But surely, ignoring the subject is not the solution: by doing this, we imply there is no such thing as inappropriate clothing. God’s people cannot afford to ignore this issue. Why not? Because Christians who think unbiblically about this issue do not naturally gravitate toward more modest clothing. As is true with other aspects of living the Christian life, we never “drift forward.” Holiness and spiritual maturity must be pursued (Heb 12:14). That pursuit of godliness should be marked by diligence (2Pe 1:10; 3:14). Our mind’s default settings are not godly: renewing our minds produces spiritual transformation (Rom 12:2). Sometimes Christians dismiss the issue of modest clothing as trivial. It is not. After all, it was God Who noticed the first clothing ever invented, judged it inadequate, and intervened to replace it with apparel of His own making (Gen 3:7, 21). And no one can deny that much of the clothing available in stores today is scandalously immodest. “If you’re blind or from another planet,” writes Barbara Hughes, “you may conceivably have missed the fact that modesty has disap- peared. It is dead and buried! If you don’t think so, go shopping with a teenager.”2 A third issue also deserves attention at the outset of this discussion. Some God-fearing Christians dress immodestly, even though they have no wish to offend others, flaunt their sexuality, or turn heads with their skimpy apparel. These believers often sincerely think they are dressing modestly. The problem? They take their fashion cues from the world. They permit the clothing industry and entertainers to define both what is beautiful and what is appropriate apparel. The re- sult? Stylish attire that runs afoul of biblical principles. Clothing that reflects the world’s values can be immodest re- gardless of the wearers’ motives. Innocent motives change nothing: unintentional immodesty and “immodesty out of igno- rance” are still unbiblical immodesty. The Christian might truthfully say, “It is not my intention to dress sensually or seductively,” and yet still dress inappropriately. Surely biblical principles—not worldly fashion designers, movie stars, and celebrities—should set the standards for proper clothing. To whom is this booklet addressed? I suppose to every reader who wears clothing. However, it seems that we tend to direct messages like this at younger women. This strikes me as inappropriate. The message in this booklet is aimed pri- marily at husbands and fathers, who are the God-ordained leaders of families.3 When I see a Christian teenager who is immodestly dressed, my first thought is, “Where is the father? Why is the father asleep at the wheel?” When a married Christian woman does not dress modestly, my first thought is, “Why is the husband so unconcerned with the Bible’s 1 David Martyn Lloyd-Jones (1899-1981) – Welsh expository preacher and successor to G. Campbell Morgan as minister of Westminster Chapel, London, England, 1938-68. 2 Barbara Hughes, Disciplines of a Godly Woman (Wheaton: Crossway Books, 2001), 92. 3 Editor’s Note: and pastors. teaching regarding modest clothing?” A man has a God-given responsibility to protect his wife and children. Immodest clothing invites the wrong kind of people to pay the wrong kind of attention to our family members. In addition, im- proper apparel is sometimes a way to express sensuality in an inappropriate (and public) manner. Men, we dare not ignore these matters. Similarly, a man has a responsibility to protect others from the stumbling blocks that his wife and children may cre- ate with their immodest attire. This is true in all places and at all times, but it is especially true with regard to corporate church meetings. More than one Christian has asked me, “Why can’t we have at least one safe haven from tight clothing, cleavage, bare shoulders, and short shorts? Why can’t people be sure to dress modestly when they attend church meetings? I expect to be tempted by scandalous clothing when I go to a college campus, but God’s people shouldn’t have to face that kind of temptation at worship services. Can’t Christians be more considerate of others?” That is a legitimate request. Men have an added responsibility: they should explain to their wives and older children how easily men are tempted to lust by immodest clothing. Our families may think that we never battle with sexual temptations. Tell your family the truth! I have spoken with Christian women who simply did not know that Christian men are tempted to sin by immodest clothing. Once they understood, they gladly dressed more modestly. Has God given us instructions regarding clothing? The answer to this question is yes…The inspired Apostle writes in 1 Timothy 2:9, “In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array.” Perhaps the most obvious truth in this verse is one that is often denied today: God does care about our clothing…In 1 Timothy 2:9, modesty is specifically linked to how Christian women adorn themselves with clothing. Every discussion of modest and immodest clothing at some point asks what could be called The Line Question: Where exactly is the line between acceptable and unacceptable clothing? How do I know where the line is? I will not cross the line, but could you please define precisely where the line exists? The word [shamefacedness] addresses The Line Question because the modest Christians say, “I don’t want to get near the line! I may not know exactly where the line is between acceptable and unacceptable clothing, but I know approximately where it is . and I will stay away from it.” The word [sobriety]…speaks of exercising restraint over one’s thoughts,

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