THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT Page Two THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT December 13, 2020
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The Third Sunday of Advent: JOY SUNDAY… Help Make Christmas For Others… This Third Sunday of Advent encourages us to be aware Well the good news is that people are rapidly registering and appreciative of all that we have to be joyful about. Dur- for our Christmas Eve and Christmas Day Masses. A word to ing this COVID-19 Christmas, a lot of ordinary joy-filled the wise: with a capacity of 200 people per Mass, please do moments have been taken away from our lives. I absolutely register in the days ahead, as we will fill up! As of December loved “Donuts with Santa” sponsored by our Men’s Club. 10, our 3:00 PM Christmas Eve Mass is fully-booked; 5:00 There was such a buzz of excitement in O’Mara Hall. And PM Mass has 180 registered; and 7:00 PM has 39 regis- I loved seeing all the smiling faces. The children seemed tered; and 10:00 PM is now over 100 registered. We have to enjoy the event too. I know the Men’s Club did! enough volunteers in the church for Christmas Eve and I missed hosting our Annual Christmas Concert/Gala last Christmas Day Masses. Hurrah! Thank you to these volun- weekend. It was always a delight hearing our choirs and or- teers for your generosity. chestra, complimented by our liturgical dancers. The audi- The problematic part of our puzzle is for people to ence loved it. [Desserts afterward were also a great treat.] volunteer for our 3:00 PM and 5:00 PM Masses in the CJB Our parish organization individual Christmas parties were School classrooms and the McBrady Center. Volunteers will filled with fun as these groups know how to have a fun time. check people in and/or distributing Holy Communion. [Our Similarly, our Religious Education Program catechist dinner 9:30 AM Christmas Day Mass is filling up with volunteers and the CJB School Faculty dinner were always festive and nicely!] So, if you can volunteer to come back to church so delicious. Father John Zurek and I always enjoyed preparing we can open CJB School and the McBrady Center for 3:00 our parish staff Christmas Party, and a good time was had and 5:00 PM Mass, it will be gratefully appreciated. You will by all. All these great events in abeyance. This is sad. But truly make someone’s Christmas. Please contact Carlos this year remembering these great days, events, gatherings, Bautista after Mass to volunteer or contact 708-403-0101 and the people we shared them with remain truly joy-filled x102 or [email protected]. memories. We savor these memories, and the memories
bring joy to our days now. They are bright spots through Our Virtual Ministry/Parish Organization Fair… For some weeks now we have featured in our parish bul- these tough times. letin and on our parish website a “Virtual” Parish Ministry and Remembering these good blessed days in the past help Parish Organization Fair. In past years the Parish Pastoral us to appreciate how fortunate we were to spend Christmas Council [PPC] sponsored this in our church Narthex as a with each other. The people whom we get to celebrate this way to highlight all the good things the parish is doing and all year's Christmas are far fewer in number, which perhaps of our ministries/clubs/groups in which we all can join. This makes them even more meaningful. year due to social distancing, etc., we could not have this in This weekend let us all remember the sources of joy in person, but are highlighting all of them through our website our lives in our blessed past, and blessed present. and bulletin. This Virtual Parish Ministry Fair is also a way to Celebrating Bambinelli Sunday Today... invite parishioners to join these ministries/clubs/groups. COVID-19 or no COVID-19, we continue our tradition of Many things are in abeyance at the moment—but this abey- Bambinelli Sunday on this weekend [Third Sunday of ance will not last and we will be ready to go. Please take a Advent]. On Bambinelli Sunday, the people of Rome bring look at our many, varied ministries/clubs/groups listed and if their Christ Child figurine from their home Christmas creche you want to join one or to receive more information, please to be blessed by our Pope in St. Peter’s Square. When you return the request slip found on the bottom of the flyer in this bring your creche figure to church, we will ask you to stand, bulletin or on our website. You will be most welcome. but not come forward to the altar, and holding the figure we
will bless them as you remain in your pew in church. This Marching Towards Christmas… While our outside church is fully lit, our church sanctuary custom joins your home creche to our parish church creche. was very spare for the First Sunday of Advent. Then last During Advent, it is the one “shrine” you set up in your home, week some Christmas trees were erected. This week our remembering and celebrating the Holy Family. Christmas creche is up in our Narthex. [We do not want to CHRISTMAS SHARING OPPORTUNITIES: lose any church seating space this year!] We are slowly The RESPOND NOW Gift Card Toy Drive… showing our preparation for Christmas more and more, Our St. Vincent DePaul Drive and the RESPOND NOW as a way of showing the progress of the Advent season. Gift Card Toy Drive both conclude this Sunday, Dec. 13. You can drop off your SVDP items or RESPOND NOW Christ- COVID-19 Killers… mas Gift Card Toy Drive at Masses this weekend or by con- Our parish has purchased bright “St. Elizabeth Seton tacting our parish office [708-403-0101] by this Monday, COVID-19 Killer” t-shirts for Mass volunteers and our cate- Dec. 14, to arrange a drop off time [from 9:00 AM-1:00 PM]. chists who have so generously stepped forward so that par- ish life of celebrating Mass and passing on the faith could Our Resurrected Choir… continue. We are very grateful. Following Archdiocesan guidelines, and wearing new masks designed for singers, we now can have three mem- Sacrament Of Reconciliation… bers of our choir enhance our music at Mass. We are also It was erroneously printed in our parish mailing that we teaching the congregation to clap during the “Alleluia.” This could celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation on will not spread germ particles, adds to participation at Mass, Wednesday, Dec. 23. from 3:30-4:00 PM. This is NOT true. and is kind of fun. We are making music together again! We will however, have extended time for Reconciliation this Saturday, Dec. 19, from 3:30-4:30 PM. All are welcome. Thanks To The Knights Of Columbus… Fr. John Zurek and I will be the confessors. The local Knights of Columbus have made a kind and generous donation to those in need in our community. Keep Smiling, I want to thank these “good elves” for making Christmas brighter for others. December 13, 2020 THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT Page Three
FOR YOUR INFORMATION • The parish office is temporarily closed as a precaution due to the COVID 19 virus. Your parish business can still be conducted by calling the parish office at 708-403- 0101. Please leave a message and you will be contacted with arrangements to assist your needs. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
Our Women’s Club is offering
Oplatki wafers for Christmas… WELCOME FREE WILL OFFERING ACCEPTED Celebrate Christmas/w Oplatki James and Kelly Houston
OPLATKI is available in the parish office for (Children: Nora, Emma and James Houston) those wanting to participate in this centuries old custom. Oplatki, Holy Bread, is our Christmas oblation and the Christmas wafer BAPTISMS is reminiscent of the word Bethlehem, which means “House of Bread.” The breaking of Congratulations to David Olson and Courtney Joyce on the baptism bread with family in your home is a sign of of their child, Cameron Joyce, on Sunday, Dec. 6, 20202. charity, unity, and friendship. With prayer for God’s grace and for the welfare of the present/absent members of the family, PLEASE PRAY FOR the broken wafer pieces are distributed to each one at the table. Due to temporary parish office closure Due to privacy issues we honor prayer requests (by you/family member
for COVID-19 precautions, Christmas only) for two weeks. Please call to add name or continue for two weeks. Oplatki is available in the Narthex on a We remember the sick, infirm, and those recommended to our table located outside of the parish office prayers, that they may experience the healing power of Christ: Kathy Kocher door from 9am-1pm and on Sundays Maria Teresita Martinez from 8am-1pm. If these time slots are Haley Galvin inconvenient, please call the office Ray Alba (708-403-0101) to schedule a pickup. Joseph Mannion
Elvira Valdez Seton Sowers Rosemary Sprague Sharon Oskielunas
Newborns in Need Newborns in Need volunteers provide care And for our deceased: necessities to agencies/hospitals serving Eileen Broderick premature, ill, or impoverished newborns. “Heavenly Father, accept the prayers which we offer for them.” Newborns In Need distributes these items free of charge. Newborns in Need is unable to meet due to the current virus but we are MASS INTENTIONS still collecting items. If you knit, crochet or sew, we would be happy to have you make Sat., Dec. 12 (5pm) Vincent Caputo; Kevin Danahy and share baby items for premature and sick Sun., Dec. 13 newborns. The group would also appreciate (7:30am) Barbara Connell; Genine Algenio donations of baby fabric and yarn as well as (9:30am) Olsen Family; Sharon Grill any financial gifts you want to share. For (11:30am) John F. Carmody; Rolando Ybanez information or for drop off arrangements, Mon., Dec. 14 (9am) Norma Burke; Frederick Valentine Borowski call Carol Dimer at 708-479-6994. Tues., Dec. 15 (9am) Frank Stasic; Frank and Lucy Stasic Wed., Dec. 16 (9am) Christine McGrane; David Ferrer Thurs., Dec. 17 (9am) Rolf Helfer; Grace E. Beissel STEWARDSHIP Fri., Dec. 18 (9am) Daniel Paska; Tina Hennis Sat., Dec. 20 (5pm) Purgatorial Society; Jeff Johnson Sun., Dec. 21 COLLECTION FOR 11-29-2020: (7:30am) Jacob Fischer; Steve Lukasiewicz $12,048.00 (9:30am) Charles Lofrano; Grace E. Beissel (Envelopes: $8,519.00/E-giving: $3,529.00) Thank you for your generosity. (11:30am) Jack Hayes; Benedetto and Joanne Sebben Page Four THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT December 13, 2020
FEAR NOT, YOU ARE INADEQUATE By Rev. Ronald Rolheiser It is both healthily humbling an excuse to slacken our efforts, be lazy, or to shirk responsibility. and upli ing to accept the God may be the real parent or the fact that we are not God. real teacher or the real friend, but God, in the Incarnation, has tied ver 20 years ago, while divine power to human hands and on a retreat, an elderly nun human effort. Hence the fact that O was assigned to me as di- nobody, except Jesus, is ade- rector. She proved to be a woman quate to give expression to God of rare maturity, providing the must not however deter us from guidance that I needed at the trying. time. Being young and intense, I Be that as it may, this adage, too easily made a cosmic drama the “common-sense faith” of a and tragedy out of every ordinary very good nun—is itself a prayer. desolation or setback and she How? challenged me with a wisdom, an earthiness, and a sense of humor ealthy prayer functions that continually helped deflate my paradoxically: on the one pompousness. H hand, it connects us to God At one stage of the retreat, and links us to divine energy. sensing my Hamlet type propensi- Conversely, at the same time, it ties, she gave me a little proverb: dissociates us from God by mak- Fear not, you are inadequate! He admitted and did not deny it, ing it clear to us that we are not Through the years, that little but admitted, God. Hence, a good prayer life is adage has come back to me, off paradoxical too in its effect, and on, mostly at times when I “I am not the Christ.” namely, it connects us to God and have been a bit overwhelmed by — JOHN 1:20 thus saves us from depression my own inadequacy or have even as it dissociates us from been, usually without a lot of God and thereby saves us from success, trying to console somebody else. There is a inflation and self-righteousness. deceptive depth in that little saying. On the one hand, there is a certain consolation in it. Simply put, if someone does not pray, in some Whether you are a parent, a teacher, a minister, a priest, an advocate for justice, or simply a friend to someone in way, he or she is forever falling either into depres- need, there are countless times when you come face to sion or into infan le grandiosity, either there is a face with your own inadequacy, when you are helpless lack of connec on to God or there is an over iden- in the face of all that you should be doing. At times like that, it is important to remember that God alone is ade- fica on with God. Both have nega ve effects. quate, that you are not God, and that God is more par- ent, teacher, minister, priest, advocate for justice, and Thus, for example, when we look at someone like friend than you are. Obvious as this is, it is not always David Koresh—the Cult Davidian leader who burned to evident to us, as our history of needless worry, being death in Waco, Texas—one sees precisely an over iden- angry, feeling self-important, living with ulcers, and being tification with God. There was plenty of energy, plenty of chronically overextended give ample testimony to. fire, but too little in the way of dissociation. He might well Great spiritual writers have always said this. For ex- have meditated that little proverb on inadequacy and ample, John of the Cross, in a treatise on spiritual direc- come to understand that he was not God. tion, reminds directors that God is the real spiritual direc- Conversely, when we are chronically depressed (as tor and that they are only secondary instruments. That is opposed to being clinically depressed) we are too out of also true for every parent, teacher, minister, priest, jus- touch with divine energy and stand in need of more con- tice advocate, and friend. God is the real parent, the real nection. Accepting our inadequacy can help bring us to teacher, the real minister, the real advocate for justice, prayer. and the real friend and alone is adequate for that task. We are instruments, mere instruments, albeit important ear not, you are inadequate! To accept the ones, and, unlike God, we are not adequate to the task. truth of that is to make a little prayer. It is both Knowing this should give us some consolation at F healthily humbling and uplifting to accept the fact those times when it seems that, somehow, we should be that we are not God and that we are not asked to try to doing better than we are. However, that consolation, be. When we are overly discouraged it is because we expressed so well in the proverb, should never give us have forgotten that truth. When are overly inflated, it is for the same reason. December 13, 2020 THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT Page Five
Come, Let Us Adore Him!
FOURTH SUNDAY OF ADVENT FEAST OF THE HOLY FAMILY Saturday, Dec. 19 Saturday, Dec. 26 5:00 pm 5:00 pm Sunday, Dec. 20 Sunday, Dec. 27 7:30, 9:30, 11:30 am 7:30, 9:30, 11:30 am
*CHRISTMAS EVE *NEW YEAR'S EVE Thursday, Dec. 24 Thursday, Dec. 31 3:00, 5:00, 7:00 and 10:00 pm 9:00 am and 4:00 pm
*CHRISTMAS DAY *NEW YEAR'S DAY Friday, Dec. 25 MARY, MOTHER OF GOD 7:30, 9:30, 11:30 am Friday, Jan. 1 10:00 AM MASS ONLY Registration is required for all Masses. To register, visit WWW.STESETON.COM: *Scroll down website homepage to register for these special holy day Masses: CHRISTMAS EVE, CHRISTMAS DAY, NEW YEAR’S EVE, NEW YEAR’S DAY
CONFESSIONS/ SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION Saturday, Dec. 19 3:30-4:30 PM (in the church)
St. Elizabeth Seton Church Fourth Sunday of Advent/Christmas/ Holy Family/New Year’s Mass Schedule Page Six THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT December 13, 2020
SECOND COLLECTION THIS WEEKEND, DEC. 12/13
In his letter to the Galatians, St. Paul urges us to remain steadfast in helping others: “Let us not grow tired of doing good, for in due time we shall reap our harvest, if we do not give up” (Gal 6:9). During these unprece‐ dented times, many are hurting and need our assistance, including elderly religious. Senior religious were in‐ strumental in establishing Catholic schools, hospitals, and charitable agencies. Often this progress came at great sacrifice, and many older sisters, brothers, and religious order priests served for little to no pay. Today, hundreds of religious communities do not have enough retirement savings and struggle to provide for a growing number of elder members. Covid‐19 has only increased the challenge to provide adequate care. Your gift to the Retirement Fund for Religious provides vital funding for medications, nursing care, and more. If you are unable to give during Mass, please mail your offertory envelope to your parish or donate through your parish’s online giving platform, GIVE CENTRAL. You can also send your contributions to: National Religious Retirement Office, 3211 Fourth Street NE, Washington DC 20017‐1194. Please make your check payable to Retirement Fund for Religious. December 13, 2020 THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT Page Seven
The official public, daily prayer of the Church is the celebration of the Liturgy of the Hours. Psalms are prayed, scriptures proclaimed, hymns and canticles sung, and intercessory prayer is offered. The daily singing and reciting of the Book of Psalms is a most ancient tradition.
ADVENT LITURGY OF THE HOURS
MORNING PRAYER JOIN US WEEKDAYS (MONDAY-FRIDAY) AT 8:30 AM IN THE CHURCH THROUGH WEDNESDAY, DEC. 23 We ask those participating in the daily 8:30 AM Morning Prayer are required to register at WWW.STESETON.COM, under the 9:00 AM Mass (even if you only attend Morning Prayer). Questions or for assistance please contact Carlos Bautista at 708-403-0101, x 102.
JOIN US FOR VIRTUAL EVENING PRAYER WEDNESDAYS DURING ADVENT, 7:00 PM WWW.STESETON.COM Evening Prayer will be offered “virtually” only on Wednesdays at 7:00 PM on our website: WWW.STESETON.COM or on FACEBOOK [St. Elizabeth Seton Church-Orland Hills].
The official public, daily prayer of the Church is the celebration of the Liturgy of the Hours. The daily singing and reciting of the Book of Psalms is most ancient tradition—a way of “sanctifying every hour and moment of our lives prayer, scripture, and reflection.” In the complete “Liturgy of the Hours,” during the course of a month, all 150 Psalms are prayed, scriptures are proclaimed, hymns and Canticles are sung, and intercessory prayer is offered. Here is the outline of Evening Prayer.
Procession Singing of the Magni icat Evening Hymn Intercessory Prayer Lighting of the Evening Lights Lord’s Prayer Singing from the Book of Psalms Concluding Blessing Scripture Proclamation Sign of Peace Quiet Re lection Page Eight THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT December 13, 2020
Help Us “Light The Way” This Advent