Training and Doctrine Command (TRADOC) Army Spouse Protocol and Social Guide TRADOC Victory Starts Here…! Fort Eustis, Virginia Email:
[email protected] Website: http://www.tradoc.army.mil/eso/pdfs/spousesguide.pdf 757-501-5193 Updated August 2017 TABLE OF CONTENTS Part I: Protocol, Customs and Courtesies ii Introduction Chapter I: What is Tradition, Protocol and Etiquette? 2 Chapter II: Official Ceremony Etiquette 3-4 Display of and Honors to the U.S. Flag, Honors to Personnel Entitled to Honors, The Army Song, Seating Chapter III: Social Functions, Official Dinners, and Receptions 5-10 Hostess Gifts, Centerpieces, Candles, Nametags, Receiving Lines, Formal Place Setting, Toasts, Seating, The Introduction, Official Representation Funds Chapter IV: Invitations and R.s.v.p.s 11-13 Invitations, Elements of an Invitation, Addressing Envelopes, R.s.v.p.s,, Sample Invitation Chapter V: Attire 14 Part II: Planning Guide for Training and Doctrine Command (TRADOC) Headquarters (HQ) Spouse Welcomes and Farewells Chapter VI: Helpful Guidelines for Planning Spouse Welcomes and 16-26 Farewells General Information, Official Host/Hostess, Planning, Whom to Invite, Committee Responsibilities Chapter VII: Samples 27-34 Invitation, Reservations Sheet, Planning Checklist, Timeline Checklist, Welcomes and Farewells Activity Planning Worksheet and After Action Report, Awards Reference Chart Part III: Command Team Transitions 36-38 Part IV: Army Spouse Customs and Traditions “A-Z” 40-50 Part V: References, Resources and Acknowledgments 52 INTRODUCTION The Army is an organization richly steeped in tradition, most of which is rooted in its earliest beginnings. Being an Army spouse is very exciting, but it will likely introduce a person to a whole new world of customs, etiquette, courtesies, traditions and protocols.