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The Vaad Hakohol

REBBE'S STORY “When one tells a story about his Rebbe he connects to the deeds of the Rebbe” (Sichos 1941 pg. 68) “Why weren't you the best Zusya you could possibly be?” in Beer Sheva, which has gained worldwide recognition for its mag- From the Book to Know and To Care ground. When he was finally allowed that it appeared to be an error. neto-hydrodynamics research. My Published by Sichos in English to emigrate from the Soviet Union to “ ‘The Rebbe does not make mis- contract with the Office of Naval Israel in 1972, he was already fully Not long before his passing, Reb takes,’ Rabbi Shemtov said emphati- Research was been renewed six times observant. Zushya of Anapoli told his disciples: cally. ‘Allow me to assist you in since that original grant. I could “When I appear before the heavenly locating the scientist.’ not have imagined at that point court in judgment, they’re not going how valuable and far-reaching the “Rabbi Shemtov convinced me to to ask me, ‘Zushya, why weren’t Rebbe’s advice had been. visit Temple University and the Uni- you as great as Abraham, Isaac, or versity of Pennsylvania and to check This year, 1993, marks twenty years Jacob?’ They’re going to ask me, the faculties of these institutions. since the Stanford convention. ‘Zushya, why weren’t you Zushya? After many hours of searching, we My project has just been awarded Why weren’t you the best Zushya were introduced to Professor Hsuan a 15-million dollar grant by the you could possibly be?’ “ Yeh. It was a refreshing change of United States government to further pace to engage in a sophisticated research and development of this discussion with a person who was energy technology.” This thrust - motivating every indi- clearly knowledgeable in magneto- vidual to use his own capacities, Professor Branover frequently briefs hydrodynamics. whatever they may be, to the utmost the Rebbe on his various research - has always characterized the rela- As we concluded our conversation, projects. In one report, he presented tionship the Rebbe has established Professor Yeh said: ‘In six weeks there a very sophisticated study built with people from many different will be a Magneto-Hydrodynamic upon extensive calculations that walks of life. We have collected Energy Convention at Stanford Uni- had been prepared by computer. As several examples of various people versity in California. Although the he reviewed the details, the Rebbe whose relationship with the Rebbe program is already finalized, I will remarked: “Two numbers here are has escalated their potential for insist that your name be added to inconsistent.” After making aliyah, Professor achievement. the list of lecturers. A colleague who Branover was in constant demand Professor Branover was stunned. has arrived so recently from Russia Professor Yirmeyahu (Herman) as a lecturer, but not only in his pro- “But all the calculations were done should be given the opportunity to Branover has achieved world-wide fession. He was frequently invited by computer and the program used present his thoughts.’ renown as an authority on mag- to lecture on science and Torah. is based on our most advanced neto-hydrodynamics. Research Campus audiences around the globe “I looked at him in surprise. ‘Didn’t theory.” in this area of alternative energy were extremely interested to hear an you just say that the program was The Rebbe smiled. “With all due technology is carried out by a very internationally renowned scientist finalized?’ respect to the experts, you will see limited number of highly trained reconcile his belief in the Torah with Professor Yeh added with a smile, that there is an error.” professionals. Raised in the then the supposed conflicts emerging ‘You see, I am on the program Soviet Union, Professor Branover’s from modern science. committee.’ In the preparation of the calculations, published research had won him an “I appreciated the Professor’s offer, an incongruity indeed had appeared. “In the winter of 1973,” relates Pro- international reputation in this field and yet I graciously declined, It took Professor Branover’s research fessor Branover, “I was on a lecture in the ‘60s. explaining that both my wife and I team six months to locate it. tour in the United States. Towards were anxious to return to our home Along with his work on hydrody- the end of the two-month tour, Rabbi Once before Professor Branover in Israel. The trip had already been namics, Professor Branover has a Avraham Shemtov, one of the lead- was scheduled to address a confer- extended more than we would have dynamic Jewish heart. He applied for ing shluchim, requested that I add ence of Jewish scientists, the Rebbe liked. an emigration visa to Israel, knowing the University of Pennsylvania to my told him: “You have an important that it would mark the end of his itinerary. My wife and I were both “I returned to New York and we message to communicate. Tell your professional career in the Soviet weary from the constant travel, but prepared to return home. Just before colleagues that as a scholar of solar Union. He was dismissed from his our commitment to spread Torah leaving, I wrote the Rebbe a report of energy you encourage every Jew to post at the Academy of Sciences in motivated us to agree. our trip to Philadelphia, mentioning emulate the sun. Riga and prevented from continuing my encounter with Professor Yeh. “Shortly before the scheduled date, “Why is this star of such great impor- his research. Once again, the Rebbe made an I was privileged to visit the Rebbe tance? There are larger heavenly unexpected statement. He advised During this time, he was exposed to Shlita at yechidus (a private meet- bodies, indeed, many which dwarf me to reschedule my plans and the Torah and mitzvos by members ing). Among other matters, I men- the sun in size. What is unique to accept the invitation, for the of the Lubavitch chassidic under- tioned the trip to Philadelphia. The about the sun? It provides light and convention presented an important Rebbe inquired about the details generates heat. opportunity. of the program and commented: Newspaper “There are other heavenly phenom- ‘During your stay in Philadelphia, do “My wife and I were taken by surprise Community ena called black holes. These are not forget to introduce yourself to a by the Rebbe’s response. Despite the also powerful sources of energy, 392 Kingston Avenue local professor who has an interest need to rearrange our plans, we were but in this instance, the energy is Brooklyn, NY 11225 in your field.’ acquainted enough with the Rebbe [email protected] directed inward. The black holes to value his advice. I called Professor “TheR ebbe’s statement baffled me. I pull everything, even the energy Published & edited weekly by the Vaad Hakohol Yeh, who was happy to arrange for was well acquainted with the names they emit, to themselves. of Crown Heights. me to deliver a lecture. of the American scientists involved , Rosh Hakohol “The sun, by contrast, generously in magneto-hydrodynamics and I “The significance of my participation Dr. Tzvi (Harvey) Lang, Chairman gives of itself to the entire planetary Rabbi Plotkin, Secretary knew the universities with which at the convention became clear very system. So, too, a Jew must radiate Layout: SimplyUnique ([email protected]) they were associated. I was certain rapidly. I met two representatives of Ahavas Yisrael - love for a fellow Jew. All material in this paper has been copyrighted. It that no Philadelphian was familiar the Office ofN aval Research in Vir- is the exclusive property of this newspaper, unless After all, if the sun was only capable with my field. ginia who had read about my work, otherwise attributed., and cannot be reproduced of heating its own mass, who would without the consent of the publisher. and who were prepared to finance “I made the trip to Philadelphia fol- have paid any attention to it?” Composition responsibility: This newspaper will not further research. They added, ‘We lowing the busy schedule of lectures. be liable for errors appearing in advertising, beyond understand that you want to estab- Professor Branover also is active the cost of the space occupied by the error. Advertiser On the morning of my arrival, when lish your laboratory in Israel, and in developing programs of Jewish assumes responsibility for errors in telephone orders. Rabbi Shem Tov met me at the train All advertisement designed and prepared by the CH we are willing to provide you with education and professional training station, I spoke about my encounter Community Newspaper are the property of the funds for your work there.’ for in the former Soviet Union newspaper and cannot be reproduced without the with the Rebbe. I mentioned the consent of the publisher Rebbe’s strange remark and added “As a result, I set up a laboratory Continued on page 12 January 2, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 3

The Rebbe's Sicha Parshas Vayigash

VINTAGE WINE . . . OR SPLIT PEAS Joseph realized that if he and his “Egypt” signifies straits, limita­tions; brothers had refrained from wine in an extended sense Mitzrayim Reprinted from brothers’ return to Canaan with as a sign of distress,(7) then Jacob, could refer to any confining experi- A Thought of the week the news that “Joseph lives” would who con­stantly mourned for Joseph, ence. Even when the limitations cause his father not only joy —but had surely also refrained from wine imposed by one’s physical environ- By Rabbi YM Kagan OBM also great distress, for Jacob would for those twenty-two years. Accord- ment and material pre-occupation Joseph had revealed his identity to then discover that the brothers — ingly, one can well imagine Jacob’s hinder his service of the Al-mighty, his brothers. He now urged them to his own sons — had sold Joseph pleasure on being offered wine to he must not despair, just as Joseph return to Canaan to bring the joyous into slavery(4) Even if he would not drink by Joseph himself. Further­ did not despair in Egypt. On the tidings that “Joseph yet lives”(“ to discover this fact, Jacob would surely more, by sending old wine, Joseph contrary, he must be strong and have their aged father Jacob, and to bring feel the pain of his long separation subtly indicated to Jacob that all the absolute confi­dence that G-d will Jacob back to Egypt with his entire from his favorite son. Joseph tried years he was in Egypt he had never bring him success in material mat- family and household. The Torah to alleviate his father’s distress lost faith in G-d that he would even- ters in such a way that they will not further relates, in Sidra Vayigash, through sending him one of the tually be re-united with his father. disturb or hinder his Torah-study or that Joseph sent along food and gifts choicest foods of Egypt — split peas Although he had not drunk wine, he Mitvos-observance. for Jacob with his brothers: “And for — indicating to Jacob that there are had wine stored away — for so long a his father he sent like this: ten don- some things in the world that reach duration that it became aged, vintage REFERENCES: Based on excerpts of keys laden with the choice (foods) superlative levels of usefulness and wine — so that it would be ready to the Rebbe’s talk dated Vayigash 5732 Genesis 45:26 of Egypt, and ten she-donkeys laden worth through being split, divided use when the joyous reunion would Ibid 45:23 with produce and bread and other and separated. Joseph hinted to eventually take place. Rashi ibid foods etc . . .””) his father that only through being Mitzrayim, the Hebrew word for separated from his whole family and There are two different interpreta­ sold into slavery in Egypt had he tions quoted by Rashi as to the risen to greatness and was now able nature of these “choice foods.” One to sustain and support his family and explana­tion is that he sent “vintage save them from the famine. wine, which greatly pleases the elderly” while the other maintains Vintage Wine: Some time before that Joseph sent split peas.”) There is Joseph had revealed his identity to not one shade of detail in the expla- his brothers, he had invited them to nations of our Torah-commentators a banquet at his palace, and on that that is, G-d for bid, trite or trivial occasion, relates the Torah, “. . they or lacking significance. Here too, drank (wine). . . together with him.” both of the interpretations quoted Rashi comments, “From the day by Rashi reveal new insights of they sold him they had not drunk understanding of the narrative. wine, nor had he (Joseph) drunk wine, but on that day they drank.” Split Peas: Joseph knew that his

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Horav Hachossid Reb Yosef Menachem Mendel Tenenbaum - Part II

1917-3rd of Teves, 5754/1993 true helpmate to Reb Mendel in his sidim would daven for long hours, as min ha’mei tzar,”. When he came communal and educational work. was Reb Mendel’s custom. to the brochos, he motioned to Reb By Rabbi Michoel Seligson Mendel to say them. Reb Mendel The small group of nine students The Rebbe as Sandek would not say the brochos in place of arrived in Montreal from Shanghai In 1951, Reb Mendel merited for the the Rebbe, and thus, the Rebbe said on Friday, the 2nd of Cheshvon, Rebbe to be sandek at the bris of his the brochos himself. In later years, 5702/1941. son, Yitzchok. At the bris, the Rebbe starting from 5716/1955, the Rebbe told Reb Mendel that at a bris the blew the tekios myushav, sounded The PreviousR ebbe showed a great Previous Rebbe would contribute before the Amida prayer of Musaf, interest in the students. He dis- money toward the yeshiva tuition of and Reb Mendel blew the tekios patched the distinguished chossid the baby boy. The Rebbe then gave m’umed, during the Amida. Reb Shmuel Levitin to visit Montreal Reb Mendel five dollars. TheR ebbe to guide them in the early stages, as Reb Mendel recalled, “If I didn’t have came to the bris accompanied by Reb well as sending a series of letters that the courage to wait and not say the Shmuel Levitin and Rabbi Hodokov. included directives and guidance. brachos in 5712, who knows how it The neighbors who witnessed the would have been done in the years Community leaders, aware of the event, later remarked, “Who was that followed.” students’ ordeal as war refugees, had the young man who came with arranged for them to recuperate at the older Jews? He made a strong Reb Mendel was an Oved Hashem a resort in the Laurentians. To their impression.” and everything he committed him- astonishment, the Lubavitcher stu- self to, he carried out with a special Two additional chassidim, Rabbi dents thanked them for their good devotion. Despite his busy schedule Y osef Rosenfeld and Rabbi Yosef intentions and informed them that at the yeshiva and his long hours Yitzchok Chitrik of Tzfas, had the the Previous Rebbe had telegraphed of personal Torah study, he found honor of having the Rebbe as sandek instructions to establish a yeshiva in time to give adult Torah shiurim. at their bris. Montreal. They committed them- Once a shiur started, he never let it Yeshiva in selves to Tfila and to their studies. drop. His winter Friday night shiur Brooklyn Tekios Shofar In addition, they began kiruv work on Torah Ohr, one of the Alter Reb Mendel merited being the baal in the city, studying with college In 1949, with the Previous Rebbe’s Rebbe’s Chassidic Maamorim on tokei’a, blowing shofar at the Rebbe’s students and attracting younger blessing, Reb Mendel settled inN ew the Parsha, was started in the Sfas minyan. This is how Reb Mendel students. York. He soon became the principal Emes Shul for Gerrer Chassidim in emotionally described the first time of the United Lubavitcher Yeshiva Brownsville, and continued in Rabbi Reb Mendel’s davening made a he was the baal tokei’a for the Rebbe elementary and Mesivta divisions Harlig’s Shul, Bais Dovid, on Rogers deep impression on the students in Tishrei 5712 /1951. then located on Bedford Avenue and Avenue and President Street, and and Anash of Montreal. Even as an Dean Street in Brooklyn, and later A year earlier, the Rebbe had still later moved to Rabbi Ungar’s Shul older man, he continued to daven on Ocean Parkway. davened in the Previous Rebbe’s on 768 Montgomery Street. On at length and with his thin voice he apartment on the 2nd floor of 770. Shabbos morning, over the course of would hum sweet nigunim as he In 1950 Reb Mendel also became a The baal tokei’a was the chossid many seasons and varying weather, davened. member of the administration of the Reb Berel Rivkin, who had been the Reb Mendel would lead a shiur in Central Yeshiva Tomchei Tmimim- Previous Rebbe’s baal tokei’a. chassidus in 770. A Yechidus with the Previous Lubavitch, whose six members were Rebbe privileged to have an audience with After the Rebbe accepted the Cha- A Shulchan Aruch Yid It was not until Pesach of 1944 that the Rebbe every month to discuss bad leadership in 1951 and davened Someone who knew Reb Mendel Reb Mendel was able to obtain a visa yeshiva affairs. in the main minyan, in the upstairs on a personal level recalled the to travel to Brooklyn. The Previous shul of 770, the Rebbe asked Reb Immediately after the histalkus of following. “The most appropriate Rebbe was residing there since leav- Shmuel Zalmanov to blow shofar the Previous Rebbe, Reb Mendel characterization of Reb Mendel ing Europe in 1939. This was the first at his minyan. Reb Shmuel told the became an ardent and committed would be to call him a Shulchan time that Reb Mandel would see the Rebbe that it would be too difficult mekushar to the Rebbe. He had Aruch Yid. He was a chossid who saw Rebbe since leaving Otwock. He for him to daven for the omud and already merited seeing the Rebbe for himsel, that the main objective expected to be able to stay with the to blow shofar. The Rebbe asked if in Poland in the early 1930’s. The was to serve the Creator. Minimizing Previous Rebbe and receive further he could suggest another person and RaMaSh, as he was then referred, in eating and drinking, and waking inspiration. But at their first Yechi- Reb Shmuel named Reb Mendel Farbrenged with the students of dus after Pesach, the PreviousR ebbe Tenenbaum. Yeshiva Tomchei Tmimim during told Reb Mendel that he had chosen the month of Tishrei. Before Rosh him to establish a new yeshiva in HaShana, Reb Philadelphia. Sensing his reluctance, Over the course of the years, the Mendel visited the Previous Rebbe told him, “I Rebbe showed Reb Mendel special with the Rebbe consider you as one of my own limbs, kiruvim. On Chai Elul, the 18th of and was told and there is no need to request one’s Elul in 1950, the Rebbe davened how to prepare own limb to do anything!” This was for the omud. As he concluded the for the t’kios. an outstanding expression of the Shmone Esra, the Rebbe turned to Th e R e b b e Previous Rebbe’s fond regard for Reb ask whether to say tachanun. The instructed Mendel and appreciation of his deep Rebbe received various responses, him to study bond with the Rebbe. The devotion and then turned to Reb Mendel. Reb the Maamor, and hiskashrus of Reb Mendel to the Mendel quoted from the Previous L’Havin Inyan Previous Rebbe was later continued Rebbe’s Sicha that it is a Yom Tov Tekias Shofar, with the Rebbe. and tachanun is not recited. The published in the Rebbe accepted his words and did In the summer of 1945, after estab- Alter Rebbe’s not say tachanun. early were routine and simple things lishing the yeshiva in Philadelphia, Siddur Tefilos mkol Hashana. He for him. Possibly this was because Reb Mendel married Miss Devora On another occasion, at one of the also told him the manner in which from youth onwards he studied the Freed. She was a member of the Rebbe’s , the Rebbe to immerse in the mikva on Rosh Alter Rebbe’s Shulchan Aruch every distinguished Freed-Krasner fam- spoke about Avodas Hatfila. The HaShana morning, pashut, dag, evening, permeated with a fear of ily of Montreal, known for their Rebbe turned to Reb Mendel and pashut three times. Hashem and seeing the necessity charity particularly towards the war told him, “Zechor ymos olem”, refer- Before the t’kios that year, the Rebbe for knowing how to fulfill Torah refugees. Mrs. Tenenbaum became a ring to the good old days when Chas- said the p’sukim, “Lamnatzeach ... and Mitzvos. January 2, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 5

Nothing he did was to impress oth- be more lenient with them. the yeshiva and as well as to plant himself to as well. One of his pri- ers. He did not feel that there was spirituality in the area. Reb Mendel mary character traits was a sense of One of his students recalled. “I anything unique in his conduct. would travel with a supply of mezu- consistency. In later years, one of remember when he would test us. I Family members recalled that when zos and sforim, and successfully the older members of the hanhola, cannot forget how with great effort one of the rabbonim in the United spread Torah and Chassidus among he was still coming to yeshiva every he tried to coach a student so that he States raised the issue of a problem Yidden who otherwise had no access day just as he had as a younger man, would give the correct answer. His with kosher meat supervision, Reb to Yiddishkeit. He established a not missing a day. satisfaction and excited face when Mendel said, ‘So, we will manage relationship with the baalei batim he was successful in squeezing out In 1987, Reb Mendel was hospital- without beef’, and from then on ate and every summer they would wait the answer from a weak student was ized after a mild heart attack. He only chicken.” to see him again, and hear words of exceptional.” asked for a brocho from the Rebbe, inspiration and advice. Reb Mendel’s friend, the chossid and was sent twenty-two single dol- Reb Mendel insisted that even a Horav Zev Greenglass commented, lar bills. No one initially understood child who was not an appropriate Meeting the Rebbe on Brooklyn “TheR ebbe RaShaB once said, ‘We the significance of twenty-two. candidate for a specific yeshiva Avenue Daily published the Kuntres Hatfila and While in the hospital, Reb Mendel curriculum and structure, should As a true mechanech he paid atten- Kuntres Hoavoda, which guide us underwent by-pass surgery. Every still remain in the yeshiva environ- tion to details. Reb Mendel realized in davening, we now need to publish day he would exchange one of the a kuntres which tells Rebbe’s dollars with one of his own us how to eat and and give it to charity. On the day he drink.’ From Reb was discharged, he exchanged the Mendel, one can last of the twenty-two dollars! learn how to eat, how After his convalescence he was to hold the bread and urged to shorten his daily rou- how to hold a spoon tine. He decided to ask the Rebbe of soup. His eating whether he should do so. As soon and drinking was in as he was well enough, he joined itself an avoda.” the Sunday line of Jews waiting to Reb Mendel was very receive a blessing and a dollar for private in everything charity from the Rebbe. Before he he did. There were could even ask, the Rebbe gave him Jews who every year a dollar, wishing him, “Long life in before Pesach would Tomchei Tmimim!” Those words give him money for answered all his questions, and he needy families for continued with his original routine Pesach. They relied First row left to right: Rabbis:1) Moshe Rubin. 2) Mordechai Brysky. 3) Rosenberg. 4) Elya Moshe Liss. 5) at a slightly increased pace. on him to distribute Hershel Kotlarsky. 6) Yosef Wineberg. 7) ? . 8) Meir Ashkenazi, Rav of Shanghai. 9) Yosef MM Tenenbaum. 10) Yitzchok Hendel. 11) Rodal. 12) Rabinowitz. 13) Borenstein. 14) Shmuel Hirsch Fox. 15) Gershon Reb Mendel suffered a stroke from the funds in a dis- Chanowitz. 16) ? 17) Sapochinsky. which he never recovered, in his crete manner. This office atY eshivas Tomchei Tmimim was in addition to Second row left to right: Rabbis: 1) Nochum Luria. 2) Prubst? 3) Shimon Goldman. 4)? 5) Stein. 6) Rubin- on Ocean Parkway at the end of the Gemilas Chesed stein. 7) Zev Menachem Greenglass. 8) Garfinkel. 9) Moshe Feder. 10) Pinny Blatt. 11) Shea Bronshtein. 12) Elul, 5752. The days before Rosh fund for yeshiva Portowitz. 13) Shmuel Dovid Raichik. 14) Nochum Preger. Hashana had always been a special students that he time for Reb Mendel. He would administered. ment. He took a strong stand and that at the end of the day the students prepare for the great privilege of was very particular about every would rush to the bus. He spoke to By nature Reb Mendel was a subtle blowing shofar during musaf in the individual student. Even in difficult them about not giving the appear- and settled person. He spoke in a Rebbe’s Shul, a tradition since the situations, he would try to do every- ance of running away from school. pleasant tone, would walk calmly, Rebbe’s first year of leadership. thing possible that every student, an When he heard the reason for the and all his actions were done in a additional Nshama, should remain running however, he encouraged He passed away fifteen months later thoughtful and considered way. This in Tomchei Tmimim. them to run for the bus. at the end of Chanuka, 3 Teves, was reflected to a great extent in his 5754/ 1993. work as a principal in the yeshiva. Reb Mendel would give an afternoon In 1963, Kingston Avenue had been shiur for the students who did not turned into a one way street from He left his wife Mrs. DevoraT enen- One of the main points that he attend secular studies. His students a two way street. The yeshiva bus nbaum, OBM; and may they live and stressed to his students was the recalled that he taught them the would travel on Brooklyn Avenue be well, his son, Horav importance of preserving time. Reb basic principles of Gemoro, Rashi instead of on Kingston Avenue. Eliyohu, Maggid Shiur in Mesivta Mendel himself was very organized and Tosfos. The time that the bus went down ; his son, Horav Hato- and constantly urged others to Brooklyn Avenue was exactly when mim Sholom Ber, Maggid Shiur in cultivate this trait. He told his Reb Mendel was involved with the Rebbe went home for an hour. Lubavitch Yeshiva; his son Horav students that in English, wasting individual students who were not This was an opportunity for the Hatomim Yitzchok, of the Crown time was referred to as killing time. from Chabad backgrounds and with students to see the Rebbe. They Heights Matzo Bakery; his son, They needed to remember at all their plans for the future. would sing Uforatzto and the Rebbe Horav Hatomim Levi, in times what their purpose was and As a true mechanech, he also thought would smile at them and encourage Lubavitch Yeshiva; all residents in wastinges time one is killing about his students during vacation. the singing. Thereafter, the students of Crown Heights; his son, Horav something very precious. In the first years of the Rebbe’s would rush onto the bus to see the Hatomim Alter, Shliach in Irvine, When Reb Mendel saw a student leadership, Reb Mendel would Rebbe on Brooklyn Avenue. California; his many grandchildren, relaxing in bed and reading some- organize parties on Chol Hamoed who all study in Lubavitch Mosdos, For over forty years, Reb Mendel thing that did not require much for the students. This included rallies who are Shluchim worldwide, and instilled respect for Torah and Mitz- concentration, he would tell him, in Lubavitch Yeshiva (at Bedford continue his great legacy. May his vos in thousands of students, giving “Besides bedtime, there is no reason Avenue and Dean Street) as well memory be blessed. them the benefit of his Chassidic to be in bed during the day. A bed as in 770. At the rallies in 770, the warmth and fine midos at the same We should speedily witness “The ones was designed for sick people”. Rebbe would either observe from time. He was available, with patience who dwell in the dust will awaken the window of his room or walk Reb Mendel did everything in a and understanding, to his students; and rejoice” with Horav Hachossid out of his room and encourage the pleasant manner. Rarely did he greeting each with a warm smile and Reb Yosef Menachem Mendel Ten- singing. need to raise his voice and his stu- helping with their problems. nenbaum among them. dents related to him with a special During the summer months, Reb What Reb Mendel demanded of respect. Even while he was testing Mendel would travel to Venezuela others, were standards that he held the students he exerted himself to and Curacao to raise funds for 6 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 2 2009

A Rabbi’s Northern Adventure

From the Heights of Alaska to the Golan Heights “We’ll see,” she said in her practical manner. Reprinted with special permission Alaska, where we were greeted by That solved problem number two. by the author and Merkos L'Inyonei the mayor of the city, the Governor Problem three was the mikvah itself. Finally, we were on our way. I drove Chinuch of the State, and other community I certainly didn’t know how to build to the nearest military installation, leaders. Everyone had come out to one, and I was positive that no one the Naval Air Station in Grand Prai- By Rabbi Yisrael Haber meet Alaska’s new “Chief Rabbi.” at the Pentagon did either. rie, an hour from Dallas, to arrange Five minutes later, at the expense of for movers to ship our belongings After I had shaken hands with some All that afternoon, I had been on my phone bill, Colonel Johnson was to Alaska. Saying good-bye to our two dozen people, a quartermaster the phone with different rabbini- back on the line. many friends in Dallas, and then, just came over to me and said, “Rabbi, cal organizations in New York. “Rabbi Haber, are you still there?” like Sergeant Preston of yore, with a would you prefer a Westinghouse Everyone said they would look into “Yes, sir, I am.” crack of a whip, we set our compass or a G.E.?” the matter and call me when they “It’s no problem,” he said with mili- toward the Klondike frontier. “A Westinghouse what?” I asked found a solution, but none of them tary curtness. “A mixer,” he said. ever called back. When I called “Whatever you need, you’ll get.” And “What kind of mixer?” back a few days later, they said they Chapter 7 once again, he hung up the phone “Beats me. That’s why I am asking were working on the problem, and A GENTLEMAN AND AN just like that. you. Here,” he answered, holding that I should call them when I get OFFICER I couldn’t believe it. The Pentagon up a military order. “It says you’re to to New York. When we got to New Our faithful Chevy brought us to was going to build me a mikvah? I get a mixer along with your regular York before setting out toA laska, it my parents’ home in Monsey, New felt like calling up my rabbi friends issue.” was more of the same: “Yes, Rabbi York, as we began our journey to around the country. “Hey, Yossi, you Haber, we are very interested, very I took a look at the paper. Sure Alaska. My mother was not exactly need a mikvah? Call Colonel John- interested, very interested,” like a enough, the supply order said: thrilled with the idea that her son son at the Pentagon. The Pentagon’s broken record. To this day, almost MIXER, and then in parenthesis would be living on the other side of building mikvaot this month!” thirty years later, I have never heard (Mikve.) They thought “mikve” was the continent, a lot closer to Russia back from one of these groups. G-d certainly works in mysteri- a brand name! than to New York. ous ways. All that sleepless night, Once we knew that we were really on “That mixer is going to cost you “But, Mom,” I argued, “The moun- unknown to me, that in far away our way, Miriam and I began calling about forty thousand dollars,” I tains are breathtaking.” Alaska, the stage was being set friends with the news. said. “That’s wonderful for mountain for my mikvah. The Jewish Com- “Alaska?!” everyone responded. climbers,” she answered. munity Council had met with the Back in Dallas, I had three major “You mean to say there are Jews in “The air is ecologically pure.” U.S. Senator from Alaska, Mike problems to deal with. Alaska?” “Ecological, shmicological. Fancy Gravel, who was up for re-election. Number one, I was stuck. They words don’t fool me. What’s the They reminded him that the rabbi A letter from theA ir Force detailed weren’t asking me to go to Alaska— matter with the air right here in of Alaska had, since World War the adventure ahead of us: they were ordering me. The punish- Monsey?” Two, always been the Air Force ment for refusing a military order Dear Chaplain Haber, “There are already a dozen good chaplain. can be a court-martial and prison. rabbis in Monsey. Alaska is a Welcome to the Air Force Chap- Traditionally, he was the rabbi for So, like Colonel Johnson had said, challenge.” laincy! Your extended active-duty both the civilian and military Jewish like it or not, we were on our way. “If it was such a great place, there orders will direct you to report to the communities of the state. Since the The next problem was convincing would be a dozen rabbis there too. Air Force Chaplain School, Maxwell Vietnam War was winding down, my wife. I wasn’t born yesterday, darling. Air Force Base, Alabama, on 27 the council was worried about a Let’s face it. No one else wanted “Miriam, guess what?” I said, with August, 1973. Your stay at Maxwell cut in military spending, includ- the job.” yesterday’s dumb smile still on my will be for five days. From Maxwell ing the elimination of the Jewish face. you will be directed to proceed to What could I say? She was right. My chaplaincy in Alaska. Since the Jews “What?” she growled, going about the Jewish Welfare Board in New father, however, regarded my new were the largest contributors to the her morning chores. York. Upon completion of your stay career with high esteem. After all, Democratic Party in the state, and “The Air Force is going to build us in New York, you will be directed he himself worked for the Penta- since Senator Gravel was in need of a mikvah.” to McChord Air Force Base, Wash- gon, and the challenge of bringing campaign funds, the council was “Great,” she said with no enthusi- ington, for a flight toE lmendorf Air Yiddishkeit to the Alaskan frontier appealing to the senator to make asm whatsoever. “Bully for the Air Force Base, Alaska. Do not begin represented the type of educational sure that Alaska got a new rabbi. Force.” traveling until you receive the official ideals which he cherished. “No problem, gentlemen,” Gravel “You know what this means? It will orders indicating the effective date answered. True to his word, Gravel After a short visit, we traveled on to be the first mikvah in Alaska! We of departure. immediately called the Pentagon Brooklyn to say farewell to Miriam’s are already bringing Yiddishkeit to and put in a Congressional Order We wish you every success in your parents. Though Miriam’s mom had the state.” commanding the military to get a ministry to our Air Force Personnel. calmed down, she looked at me like “Well, they don’t have to build one rabbi up to Alaska, at whatever the May it be most fruitful and reward- I was crazy the whole time we were for me. I’m not going.” cost. ing for you.” there. After Shabbat, we spent an Fortunately, by evening, her feelings enjoyable few hours in an Israeli sup- So when I called that morning “Wow, are they into order or what? had changed. Seeing how downcast per club in Manhattan. It was hard to demanding a mikvah, Colonel What if we are late for a flight? I was all through the day, she came believe that come morning, I would Johnson, a good Protestant who ”Miriam asked. “Will we be court- over to me, and said, “Wherever be leaving the comfortable hub of had no idea what I was talking martialed?” you goest, I goest too.” For the first American Jewry for a Columbus-like about, discovered that there was time in two days she was smiling. I laughed at her humor. One of the adventure into uncharted seas. a Congressional Order in place, In fact, she suggested we go to a tips we had learned at the orientation requiring the Pentagon to give me Sunday morning, August 26, 1973, bookstore and try to find a nice meeting for new candidates was whatever I needed, and told me no I boarded a plane at La Guardia album of photographs on Alaska. not to be scared by the mechanical problem—whatever you need we’ll Airport on my way to the Chaplain Like the wonderful wife that she letters we would receive from theA ir give you. You see, the colonel had no School in Montgomery, Alabama. is, she sat down beside me to make Force. There was a robot ring to them idea what I was really asking for—he After saying the tefillat haderech a list of things to do in preparation that could get on your nerves: tie didn’t have a clue. prayer for travelers, I prayed to G-d for our big move. your left shoe, then your right shoe, to grant us guidance and success in He thought I asked—not for a then stand up and comb your hair.... “What about your mother?” I my new position. mikvah—but rather, a “mixer,” and That was part of the military. Once asked. after all, how much can an electric we were on the plane, they told us, “At the beginning, she wasn’t thrilled mixer cost the government? I only things would lighten up, and most about our moving to Dallas either,” understood this many months later of the time, we would be our own she answered. “She’ll get over it. when I finally got to Anchorage, bosses. I shared this with Miriam. Mothers always do.” January 2, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 7 Parshas Hashavua

Vedibarta Bam ~ Vayigash looked iden¬tical to Yaakov, they ‘name’ of my son Yosef still exists and became frightened when they saw that my children say it with respect you do not respect your own laws, Rabbi M. Bogomilsky that the face of the man speaking to and love” (45:28). then follow ours. According to our )בית יעקב ר' יעקב הכהן ז"ל טראב – מסלתון them resembled exactly that of their laws, one can be sold as a slave for "ויגש אליו יהודה ראב"ד ביירות( (זכרון ישראל) .father, Yaakov robbery only if the money produced ויאמר בי אדני ידבר "והנה עיניכם ראות ועיני אחי בנימין "אני יוסף אחיכם אשר מכרתם אתי by the sale is equal to the amount נא עבדך דבר... כי כי פי המדבר אליכם" מצרימה" .(stolen (Kiddushin 18a כמוך כפרעה" “And Yehudah “If your allegation is correct, and this “I am Yosef your brother whom you “Behold! Your eyes see, as do the came near him, cup is priceless, the in¬come from sold to Egypt.” (45:4) eyes of my brother Binyamin, that it and said: ‘Oh my the sale will not cover the robbery, is my mouth that is speaking to you.” QUESTION: The broth- lord, please let and therefore he cannot be sold. If, (45:12) ers were already saddened and your servant speak on the other hand, it is of very limited bro¬kenhearted. Why did Yosef add QUESTION: Rashi explains that a word... for you are as Pharaoh.’ ” value, then according to our laws, to their pain and mention the sale? Yosef told his brothers, “You can (44:18) one who is capable of paying for the items stolen cannot be sold.” ANSWER: Yosef did this without believe that I am your brother because QUESTION: What did Yehudah I am now speaking to you in Lashon -malice. On the contrary, he men )פרדס דוד( tell Yosef? Hakodesh — Hebrew.” tioned it in order to comfort and "והיה כראותו כי אין הנער ומת" ANSWER: According to the relax them. Yosef under¬stood that Great men and kings speak many Midrash Rabbah (93:6), Yehu¬dah “It will happen that when he sees his brothers would have anxiety languages fluently, includ¬ingL ashon argued on behalf of Binyamin: “In the youth is missing he will die.” regarding him. In their minds, there Hakodesh. How did Yosef’s knowledge our laws it is written that a thief must (44:31) would be the fear that his Torah of Lashon Ha¬kodesh prove his rela- make full restitution. ‘If he does not identity was weak¬ened by the temp- tionship to his brothers? Furthermore, QUESTION: At that time, Bin- have the means, he must be sold [as tations of Egypt. He therefore said, Yosef held long conversations with his yamin already had ten chil¬dren. a slave to make restitution] for his “Be assured that I am totally loyal brothers when they came to Egypt Why wasn’t Yehudah worried that theft (Shemot 22:2).’ However, Bin- to Torah and mitzvot; I am the very and a person can usually be identi- the children would die if they did not yamin comes from a wealthy family same Yosef that I was before, and my fied through his voice. Why didn’t see their father returning home? and can pay.’ ” One may wonder, of adherence to Torah did not change the brothers recognize Yosef all this what significanceY ehudah thought ANSWER: Yehudah was well aware since you sold me to Egypt.” time? ) ' ק זצ"ל( ,the Torah laws would have for this that according to human nature ANSWER: You can only recognize ר מנחם מענדל מקוצ "מהרו ועלו אל אבי ואמרתם אליו כה Egyptian leader? a parent worries more about his children than children do about someone through his voice in the language you are accustomed to אמר בנך יוסף שמני אלקים לאדון לכל Yehudah explained to Yosef, “Our their parents. For example, often, hearing him speak. When the person מצרים" Torah is Divine Knowl¬edge. It a child will be late in coming home appears strange that it would pre- speaks another language, his accent is and not think of calling his parents “Hurry — go up to my father and say scribe slavery for one who stole. different and it is difficult to identify who are “pulling their hair out” with to him, ‘So said your son Yosef: G d Who would want to bring a thief into him. worry. On the other hand, a parent has made me master of all Egypt.’ ” his home? Ob¬viously, the Torah will always do everything for his (45:9) Before revealing himself, Yosef never feels that when a person steals, it child, even if he is not happy with spoke Lashon Hako¬desh to his broth- is necessary to know what caused QUESTION: The words “bincha the way the child is behaving and ers. They spokeL ashon Hakodesh and him to stoop so low. If he is merely a Yosef” — “your son Yosef” — seem growing up. he answered them in Egyptian. Now, klepto¬maniac, of course, he cannot superfluous. Why did he not simply for the first time, he spoke to them in be let loose in society. But if he steals Therefore, Yehudah was afraid instruct them, “Tell father I said...”? out of need, society must help him that Yaakov might not be able to Lashon Hakodesh. He therefore said ‘get up on his feet’ and reha¬bilitate live without Binyamin, although ANSWER: When the brothers to them, “If you lis¬ten carefully to him. Therefore, in the home of his Binyamin’s children would adjust returned home after the sale ofY osef, my voice, you will recognize that I am master, where he will be treated to the situation. they showed a garment to their father Yosef, because I sound the same as I and said, “Please identify it: Is it did many years ago when I regu¬larly )ר' מנחם מענדל מקוצק זצ"ל( properly, he will make amends and become an asset to humanity. your son’s shirt?” Yaakov sensed in spoke to you Lashon Hakodesh.” )פון אונזער אלטען אוצר בשם ר' חיים מצאנז their words a frightening hatred and "ולא יכלו אחיו לענות אתו כי נבהלו זצ"ל( animosity. The mere fact that they מפניו" Since Binyamin comes from a very“ wealthy family, there is no rationale did not mention Yosef by name and "ולבנימן נתן שלש מאות כסף" The brothers were unable to answer“ to explain the alleged robbery, only referred to him as “bincha” — “your him because they were frightened of the fact that he is mentally ill and a son” — conveyed to him their attitude “To Binyamin he gave 300 pieces of his face.” (45:3) kleptomaniac. Therefore, it makes no to Yosef. Yaakov in pain and anguish silver.” (45:22) sense that you should employ such a QUESTION: Why does it say “nivh- cried out, “This is indeed my son’s QUESTION: Why did he give 300 alu mipanav” — “his face frightened shirt, and tarof toraf Yosef!” — “[An (פרדס יוסף) ”.person pieces of silver only to Binyamin and them”? It should have simply said evil beast devoured him and] Yosef has * * * not to any of the other brothers? “nivhalu mimeno” — “they were been torn to bits!” (37:32-33). Alternatively, Yehudah asked to frightened of him”? ANSWER: According to an opinion The word “Yosef” seems superfluous. speak to Yosef in secrecy because in the Gemara (Gittin 43a), when one ANSWER: Yosef’s countenance “He was torn to bits” would be suffi- he thought that Yosef did not know sells a Jew as a slave to a non-Jew, he was identical to Yaakov’s. When the cient. Yaakov was telling his children, Lashon HaKodesh — Hebrew — is fined to redeem him for up to 100 brothers met Yosef, the Torah says, “From your words I see that you have otherwise, there would be no need times his value. In the Torah we find “Yosef recognized his brothers, but ‘torn up’ the name ‘Yosef.’ You hate for an interpreter. Hence, he said to a slave to be valued at 30 silver pieces they did not recognize him” (42:8). him to the extent that you are unable Yosef: “You are the same as Pharaoh; (Shemot 21:32). Since Yosef was sold as Why didn’t they rec¬ognize him to even mention his name.” since the two of you do not know a slave to an Egyptian family, it would since his resemblance to Yaakov Lashon HaKodesh, consequently, Yosef, therefore, instructed his broth- cost as much as 3000 silver pieces to was exact? neither you nor Phar¬aoh have a ers, when they returned to Yaakov, redeem him. right to the throne because accord- Yosef did not want his brothers to that they should specifically say the Since 10 brothers played a part in his ing to the laws of Egypt, a king can recognize him. Therefore, when words “bincha Yosef” — “your son, becoming a slave, each one would have only be a person who knows all the he spoke to them, he covered his Yosef.” Thus, Yaakov would see that to pay 300 silver pieces. Consequently, lan¬guages. Obviously, you do not face with a veil (as is cus¬tomary the hatred they bore against Yosef had when each of the brothers was deprived respect the laws of your own land. in many Arabic countries), and the been erased. brothers were unable to observe his of 300 silver pieces, it was as though “When a visitor to a city commits a Upon hearing their message, Yaakov they paid their fine. Binyamin took face. Upon revealing himself, he crime, he should be judged either by exclaimed with joy: “Rav; od Yosef b’ni no part whatsoever in the sell¬ing, uncovered his face and said to them, the laws of that city or by the laws of chai” — “I am extremely grateful and .so Yosef gave him 300 silver pieces “I am Yosef.” Knowing that Yosef )חיד"א בשם רוקח( the city from which he comes. Since jubilant because I perceive that the 8 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 2 2009 Teves Yahrzeiten

This week we continue with the Yahrzeiten of people who lived in our numerous people. She merited to shechuna. We are also including the Yahrzeiten of Shluchim. In mention- raise her children in the ways of ing them we come to “v’Hachai yiten el Libo”. We learn from their lives, Torah and Chassidus and was nifter lessons that we can incorporate into our own. This column includes the in 1986. Yahrzeiten from the 8th through 13th of Teves. The respective resting places of the individuals noted in this column are near the holy , Mrs. Raizel Rivkin unless otherwise specified. The daughter of Hachossid Reb Men to the security of the shechuna, and Eliezer, she was nifter in 2003. 10th of Teves merited to exceptional kiruvim from 13th of Teves the Rebbe. He was nifter in the midst Hachossid Hatomim Reb Ephraim of his life on Shabbos the 11th of Mrs. Faya Chasya Prus Teves 1977. Zev Hakohen Velvel Coren The daughter of Horav Hachossid The son of Reb Moshe Hakohen, Women Reb Shmaryohu Roitblat, she he was among the first students of 8th of Teves was the sister of Hachossid Yeshiva . He was Reb Elya Chaim Roitlbat. always joyous and anticipated the Mrs. Shaindel Raices She raised her children in arrival of Moshiach. He was nifter the teachings of Torah and The daughter of Hachossid Reb in the midst of his life in 2003. Chassidus with sacrifice Yaakov Yosef, she was the wife of and was nifter in 1998. 11th of Teves Hachossid Reb Elchonon and for twenty years educated the children Dear Readers: Hachossid Hato- of the Mosdos Day Care Center in mim Reb Shmuel Crown Heights. A good hearted Anyone who would like to Avner Schrage and warm person, she was nifter in have their relatives mentioned The son of Reb 1994. in the yahrzeit column should email the name, father’s name, Shraga Feivish, 10th of Teves a coomunity- date of the ptira and some details to [email protected]. A picture may activits, he was Mrs. Yehudis Levin the assistant principal in Yeshiva be included. The daughter of Horav Hachossid Tomchei Tmimim in Brooklyn, Reb Avrohom Drizin, she served founded the Maccabees patrol in as a nurse in for many Crown Heights which contributing years where she saved and cured

Jewish people for 420 years. according to some opinions, with Jewish History Personality Matan Torah, the giving of the Torah EZRA was the greatestT orah scholar to Moshe Rabbeinu, the first and and the Temple would continue. of his generation, and he played an Ezra and Nechemia greatest prophet at Mount Sinai in All of the delays and disappoint- integral role in maintaining the 2448, 1344 BCE. Ezra’s hilulo on the 9th of Teves ments discouraged the settlers, that continuity of the Jewish people and along with a leadership void during the oral tradition in the critical time Ezra not only wrote the canonical Ezra and Nechemia were both the time that Ezra was out of the of transition between the prophets work which bears his name, but also prophets. country, caused a serious weakness and the Talmudic scholars. After compiled the Book of Chronicles According to Tractate Sanhedrin in religious observance. The point studying diligently under Baruch (Divrei HaYamim) until he reached (93b) all of the book of Ezra was ben Neriah, the the genealogy of himself, at which composed by Nechemia. Why, then, great teacher point it was completed by Nechemia. does the Book not carry his name? and prophet in Ezra served as a member of the Men Because he sought credit for himself, Babylonia, Ezra of the Great Assembly (Anshei saying, “Remember to me, O my returned to the K’neset Hagedolah), and left a lasting God, for good, all that I have done for land of Israel legacy of rejuvenating the Jewish his people” (Nechemiah 5:19). “R’ after the Baby- people to return to faith in God and Yosef said: Because he recounted the lonian ex ile keeping the flame of Torah alive, misdeeds of those who preceded him (during which paving the way for the ultimate (ibid. v. 15) [which included] Daniel, the Purim story redemption. who was greater than him. occurred) and In Chapter 8 of the book of the spearheaded The books of Ezra and Nechemia prophet Nechemia, its written: the effort to are accounts of the return of many On Rosh HaShanah, the people construct the Jews from their exile in Babylonia gathered in Yerushalayim, and Ezra second Temple and their rebuilding of the Temple. the scribe read to them from the in Jerusalem. As much as the books tell of the Torah and explained to them what He was so rebirth of the Jewish state, they it’s meaning. When the people heard was reached where there were Jews enthusiastic and passionate about also discuss the many hurdles that and realized that they had been so who actually intermarried with the spreading the words of the Torah, had to be overcome in that process. delinquent in their spiritual work, neighboring tribes! that the rabbis said that Ezra was Of the many tens of thousands of that they began to weep and lament. worthy for the Torah to have been Jews in Babylonia and neighboring Nechemiah spent 12 years in the Nechemia said to them, (v. 9-10), “. . . given through him, had Moses not countries, very few actually listened Land of Israel fixing the walls of for today is Holy to your G-d; do not preceded him. Ezra and his beit din to Ezra’s call to return to the Land Jerusalem and returning the people mourn and do not weep. . . go home, (court) instituted ten enactments, of Israel, and the new community of Israel, each one to his city and to eat good food and drink sweet wine, including the practice of reading was sorrowfully small. Samaritans his inheritance. When the Temple and send portions to those who did the Torah on Monday and Thursday (Kutim) constantly attacked the was finally completed, it was a only not prepare anything; today is Holy mornings and Shabbat afternoon. Jews with arrows and swords, hoping a subdued celebration. The songs to our God, and the joy of Hashem His extensive efforts to bring the to force them to give up the building. of joy were drowned out by the is your strength.” Jewish people back to Torah contin- Eventually, the Samaritans slandered cries of sadness from those who ued as he founded several schools of Ezra was nistalek on the 9th of Teves the Jews before the King, and asked still remembered the grandeur of Torah study. in Eretz Yisrael, in 3442, 350 BCE. him to force the Jews to stop build- the first Temple. But the Temple or 3448, 344 BCE. ing their Temple. It would be years was completed nevertheless, and Ezra’s death ended a 1000 years before the work on the city walls this second Temple would serve the period of prophecy, which started, January 2, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 9 Tznius: "America Is Nisht Andersh”

Open Letter to Dr. David Pelcowitz My appeal to you is to tell us Chas- Eretz Yisroel each year, to a summer sidim that to overcome fear, anxiety camp in the Midwest, immediately Dear Dr. Pelcowitz cares. and even terror we do not need the called a frum psychologist to counsel psychologist part of Dr. Pelcowitz. It the girls in response to a tragedy that Although I am not a Shlucha in the 2) Activating our religious beliefs is the Talmid Chachom with the big befell two of their classmates. true sense of the word, Rabbi Y. 3) Turning Lomo Azavtoni? to heart, a lofty Neshomo and compas- Krinsky (the Rebbe’s Mazkir) told When I asked him why he felt Le’Mo Azavtoni? Converting the sionate character traits from which me that the Rebbe regarded me as an inadequate to handle the situation eternal ‘Why’ question (to which we benefitted last night. honorary Shlucha and for that reason himself, a situation that has surely there has never been an answer in I was always allowed to attend the To the best of my discernment, the afflictedK lal Yisroel before, (i.e. why the Torah), into a ‘How’ question – International Kinus of the Shluchos. only part of your talk that could bad things happen to good people?) Action, Chessed, Giving. Namely, I know that honor was accorded me possibly have come from those he sadly acknowledged that he felt what can I do? because of my dear husband Dr. psychology college classes were the insecure and had lost practice. Larry Resnick A”H who had the You quoted Rav S.R. Hirsch, Rav scientific studies you cited. Studies He then thanked me for reminding zchus to be the Rebbe’s doctor. Since S. Schwab, the Ramban, and the that confirmed what Torah always him that being a Chossid, connected then, Boruch Hashem, I have also Dubno Maggid. You cited touching knew. to the Rebbe and his wisdom should merited to become the mother and holocaust stories of Emuna and Like the fact that we are all different, have given him the strength, courage grandmother of Shluchim which I Bitochon, you gave insight to words that when ‘traumatized’ children and know-how to have tackled the consider the greatest honor in the like Nechomo (consolation) and were given options of entering an general situation himself. But he world. Nosson (giving), the gematrias of art, music, talking, or davening class admitted, that he, like many other Daiga (worry) and Ahava (love) This letter to you comes after a lot of for ‘decompression’ choices etc., frum Mechanchim, have bought being the same and thus intertwined. soul searching and even trepidation they made their choice, stayed the into the notion that even ‘normal’ How you can transform a Nisayon for I have a big request to make of course and did not switch classes. traumas require ‘professionals’. into a Nes etc. All in all a masterful you. Or that study that followed widows and poignant talk full of excellent I think it is someone like yourself, (of the Six Day War) showed that I have heard you on numerous occa- advice and all straight from Torah. with your extensive knowledge those who could share their grief sions and have always found great and experience who knows that Ein So where you might ask is the ‘but’? (not excessively) with their children wisdom and knowledge in your Chodosh Tachas Hashemesh and Actually there isn’t one. fared better. talks. So first I would like to thank that all the factual credible studies you for your lecture last night on the My appeal to you is of a different And then there is an even harder task end up confirming the eternal truth Shluchos Network on the Mumbai nature. that I dare to ask you to take on. of the Torah, can give us back the terror attacks. It was so full ofT orah courage to recapture the wisdom One of the most beautiful Brochos Please reassure our good Chassidishe and common sense advice. of our heritage and the strength to the Rebbe wished my husband was Mechanchim and Mashpiim that disseminate it in an unadulterated If you will permit me to sum up your that he (my husband) should have no they are capable of handling these form to our people. talk, you first validated the extra sen- more patients, “including myself”, ‘normal traumas’ that have been sitivity of women, due to their Binah the Rebbe said. part of the trials and tribulations Respectfully, Yeseira and role as Akeres Habayis of Jewish life since the beginning I am sure you wish no less for Mrs. M. Resnick and especially those in leadership of time, for some of them have lost yourself. May we all merit to be roles and outlined a tri-pronged faith in their own skills. Bnos Melech B’Yachad healed and whole, teichef umiyad, approach back to resilience: [email protected] mamosh. I will never forget how a very well 1) Connecting to someone who known Mashpia who is flown in from

Shidduchim A Needle in a Haystack least the couple can do is consider this carefully and give it its due time. By Sarah Junik and insecurity of the first meeting because they were transmitted in a very Each date should be a date for itself will definitely have an effect on your I recently heard of a new phenom- public manner - they were affected by and one should not decide after the feelings. Without the time to reflect enon in shidduch dating. an ayin hara. Here [with regard to first date alone. on the shidduch date and to calmly the second set of Luchos,] G-d said to Couples "double up" the first date, review the date, the conclusions Moshe, 'There is nothing better ("Ein If a boy makes more than one which means they stay out much reached at the end of such a date are lach yafah") [and more appropriate] appointment because he came into longer than the norm so they do not not reliable enough to give you the than tznius' [a modest demeanor; i.e., town for the specific reason of shid- have to go out twice with the same security of having made the right that the second set of Luchos be given duch dating and he does not want person So for example instead of decision. without fanfare.]" (Eternal Joy Vol 1) to travel back and forth numerous being out for 2 hours they go out time, he has to make sure he gives Obviously the date was not a total Similarly anything to do with build- for 4. This seems to be mostly hap- each appointment the right amount write off because instead of short- ing " pening when one side is from out of The construction of this edifice" of time and thought. Do not go out ening the date it was made longer. should be conducted with Tznius in town. The cheshbon being he can for the first shidduch date looking So it was not a no at first sight. The order to imbue this very important "chap arain" more dates with more over the shoulder to see if the next additional time spent together is not step with brocha. It follows that girls if he uses this method. one is better. Each date suggestion equivalent to a second date. staying out so late on a first date is should be judged on its merits as if There are various fallacies with this contrary to this. First of all because most dates start the next girl did not exist. Otherwise idea. First of all just because a couple around 7:30 or 8:00pm if the couple One should never make up one's a true decision is impossible. One goes out for a longer amount of hours goes out for 4 hours they come home mind about such a momentous will never be satisfied with what one it does not mean they will discover ignan much too late, at 11:30 or 12:00 such as this, which is a life decision, has, if one is always looking ahead more about themselves, especially pm. For the first date that is not after only going out once. It does not at the next possibility. not the first time they go out. Tzniusdik. matter how sure of one's decision Let us hope for the speedy demise TheR ebbe says: (From Eternal Joy Vol one is, there are enough examples The Rebbe says clearly : " All mat- of this new idea and much hatzlacha 1) "What remains unclear, however, in of couples whose first date was a ters in this world descend from their for all singles out there, may you all your letter is whether the feelings you disaster and still they went out again spiritual counterparts above. This find your besherte right away. describe are certain and steadfast, and at the end got married. is surely so with regard to building a or whether it is possible that these home in Israel. The construction of Let us not consider shidduch dating feelings stem from your present mood this edifice is the spiritual counterpart just another appointment on our cal- Shidduchim101. and frame of mind and that they will of the wedding of G-d with the Jewish endar, which we check off, another pass." blogspot.com people, who are called "man and task accomplished. After all the Read the articles, Which in this case it is clearly wife." and the letter continues: "The effort and the research on the part of ask questions. understood that the nervousness original set of Luchos were destroyed the parents and the shadchonim, the 10 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 2 2009

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In Those Days - In Our Times - Didan Notzach themselves in their devotion to the Holy One, Blessed be He. Yosef, Excerpts from the Rebbe’s Sicha on was given to the Jewish people, when that the reason for the problems too, had originally tended sheep in the 5th Day of Teves, 5747 we realize how the Jewish people and was only to bring a greater level of Canaan. But now, Yosef’s approach Torah are one entity, we certainly ascent. The only reason for the trou- to Divine service was different. As Published and copyright © by Sichos must realize that nothing happens by bling and uncertain situation was viceroy -- and even in the home of in English accident: Yisroel, (the Jewish People) to accomplish greater things many Potiphar where he was involved On the 5th of Teves 5747, the verdict Torah and the Holy One, Blessed be times over, in the area of spreading in all the matters of the Egyptian in the case of the Previous Rebbe’s He, are one. (Zohar III, 73a) Yiddishkeit. household -- he had to be involved library was handed down and great in the mundane and the profane of Now, if in the story of Yosef he relates 3. At the close of today’s Chumash rejoicing enveloped Chassidim all Egypt and yet this did not affect his that: “It is not you who sent me portion we read that: The spirit of over the world. absolute unity and self-abnegation here but G-d (Elokim),” then, we, their father Yaakov was then revived before G-d. After Mincha on that day theR ebbe, too, must realize now, that when a (Breishis 45:27) spoke about the lesson we must learn Jew finds himself in any condition Chassidus explains that the Patri- How was he revived? When he from the suffering and the pain of -- good or bad -- he must recognize archs’ approach to Divine service learned of Yosef’s words and of his undesirable phenomena. that he has been given a mission to was to be removed from worldly condition -- as we see in the verses fulfill -- and not one delineated by matters and to be devoted to G-d We must increase those areas which and in Rashi’s commentary -- of man, but by G-d. -- but Yosef had to deal with the were under attack, and we must Yosef’s enduring faith and devo- restrictions of Egypt in spiritual expand our work of spreading Yid- The mission and the conditions tion to G-d, he was revived. Even and even mundane matters -- even dishkeit and Torah and the well- may appear in a benevolent way though Yosef was in Egypt and was there Yosef accomplished a great springs of Chassidus. or in a malevolent form. Although involved in running the country -- in spiritual fortitude that he stood in sometimes the situation may be such matters dealing with the mundane absolute unity with G-d. So much Learn Torah, Live With Torah that it appears to be clothed in the and the gentile nations of the world so, that the Torah tells us: These The Previous Rebbe transmitted a framework of a “judgment,” as we see -- nevertheless, he remained faith- are the chronicles of Yaakov: Yosef teaching of the Alter Rebbe to us, in the story of Yosef where Scripture ful. This phenomonon was new for (Breishis 37:2.) that “We must live with the times.” used the term “Elokim,” which Yaakov -- for the Divine service of This was expounded by the Mitteler alludes to the aspect of judgment, the Patriarchs had been to tend the Yosef, the Essence of Yaakov Rebbe, who as the mentor of the nevertheless, the result was all for the flocks, where they would isolate Continued on Page 12 younger Chassidim of the Alter good. We garner from Rebbe, explained that in this apho- this that every Jew must rism the Alter Rebbe was referring realize his/her mission to the Torah portion of the week and and must increase his/ the study section of that specific day her actions in the world of the week. The dailyT orah portion with clear knowledge, as should be learned in a way that we G-d’s -- emis- can live with its message. sary -- in the world. . . Being Tuesday, today’s study portion 2. Stand together of Vayigash will have the added qual- ready...to receive ity of the double blessing “Ki-Tov” the blessing of the (that it was good), which the Gemara Eternal tells us indicates “good to heaven and In recent years great good to man.” This of course does and wonderful things not mean that part of the day shall in the area of spreading be devoted to “heaven” and another Yiddishkeit have been part to “man,” rather, that every accomplished, especially moment, and each action, speech since the Previous Rebbe and thought of the day -- should have came to this country. both aspects -- goodness for heaven The spreading of the and goodness for man. wellsprings of Yiddish- Yosef’s Odyssey -- A Mission from keit and Chassidus is so G-d widespread that even the aleph-bais of Yiddishkeit In the first verse of today’s portion has become permeated Yosef assured his brothers: Now it is and united with the not you who sent me here but G-d source of living waters (Bereishis 45:8) of G-dliness. If so, the Yosef wanted them to know that question is raised, why although his descent to Egypt had was it necessary that in caused him much suffering, he this era and in this area nevertheless realized that his being there should be a prob- in Egypt was a mission of G-d. From lem situation similar to this explanation we learn that when the case of “Yosef was a Jew is in an unfavorable situation, sent to Egypt, etc.?!” Up even after extricating himself from until this time so much that painful condition, he must has been accomplished. explain to others, and certainly to The Previous Rebbe himself, that the troublesome state himself gave witness to was not a mere coincidence, and this fact for he said: most importantly, it was not some- Stand together ready... thing caused by man! He should also to receive the blessing of not carry with him the bad memories the Eternal....and, “You of the suffering he endured. need only to polish the The story ofY osef took place before buttons!” MattanT orah (the giving of Torah). However, we must say How much more so, after theT orah January 2, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 11 10th of Tevet

Rebbe’s Sicha: 5739 those of Nebuchadnezzar. Senacherib (the time immediately preceding Moshiach. Therefore, if he activates had more soldiers (185,000) and the Moshiach’s arrival) are visible. His the essence of his soul, arouse his Jerusalem in Every Jew Jewish people were less prepared to own soul, his personal Jerusalem has spark of Moshiach and then brings fight him. On the verse in Yeshayah been surrounded and put to siege try Published and copyright © by Sichos these essential energies into the realm “and on this very day he will halt in the “Yetzer Hora” (evil inclination). in English of thought, speech, and action he can Nov,” commentaries explain that had Nevertheless, rather than despair, cause Moshiach to come. 1. In certain communities, the leaders Senacherib not halted, he would have he should realize that the source and of the congregation used to deliver a conquered Jerusalem on one day. We the purpose of this Beige is good, An example of this concept is the siege lecture after the Mincha prayers on see that in Nebuchadnezzar’s case, it is to “somech” — to support and of Jerusalem described before. One fast days. The intention of the lecture the conquest took many years of strengthen the walls of Jerusalem. man, Chizkiyahu, was able (through was to motivate the listeners to do protected siege. his service of prayer) to end the siege The Hebrew word for Jerusalem, Teshuvah. Last year, I explained the and would have (had other factors Despite Senacherib’s great strength, “Yerushalayim,” is made up of two importance of this custom and also not intervened) brought about the G-d performed a miracle and in words—”yireh” and “shalem”—which the significance of the 10th ofT eves. Messianic redemption. one night totally routed the Assyr- mean complete fear. Within his soul, This year, there are new lessons con- ian camp, producing a tremendous each Jew possesses a Jerusalem, a The same applies to every Jew. He can nected with that occasion. victory for the Jewish people. The level of complete fear of G-d. For that hasten the coming of Moshiach. May The Baal Shem Tov explained that victory had spiritual implications as reason he is willing to sacrifice his life he redeem us speedily in our time. “Hashgacha Protis”, Divine Provi- well. The Talmud says “G-d wanted for Torah and Mitzvos. Through one 3. This year, the 10th of Teves pro- dence, controls everything in the to make Chizkiyahu (the King of Jew arousing another and teaching duces an additional lesson. It falls on world. Therefore it is possible (and Judah at that time) Moshiach.” Even him how to express his complete fear a Tuesday, which is a day singled out necessary) to derive a lesson in service though other factors intervened and of G-d, the “siege” will be lifted and in the Biblical narrative of creation. to G-d from everything that we see. the wish was not fulfilled physically, turn into a support for Torah. Indeed, On Tuesday, the Torah repeats the This statement particularly applies to it is obvious that G-d’s wishes cannot the “siege” was originally intended to expression “and G-d saw that it was the four public fasts that are connected remain totally unfulfilled. His wish become such a support. G-d’s inten- good,” a second time. with the destruction of Jerusalem. The had the effect, in the spiritual planes, tion included the concept that the events which happened on those days of bringing the Moshiach’s coming siege could be transformed through Tuesday is also connected to the verse can provide us with clear lessons in much closer. the service of a Jew. When this ser- “He redeemed my soul in peace” inter- the service of G-d. vice is completed, the fast days will preted by our Sages to relate to the Had the Jews seized the opportunity, become days of ,joy and happiness, as future redemption. This connection The four fasts share a common lesson: a similar chain of events might have the Rambam writes “when the Jews further emphasizes the lesson that They teach us that the Golus came happened at the time of Nebuchad- do Teshuvah, they will be redeemed what begins as something negative (on about as a result of the sins of the nezzar. His attack also could have immediately.” the surface) can turn into something Jewish people and will end when the been transformed into a positive force. positive. On the-above verse, we find Jewish people do Teshuvah. However, Yet another example will clarify the 2. The concept described above the comment, “I (G-d) will consider besides this general point, each fast concept. The section in the Chumash applies, not only on a national level, he who learns Torah, does deeds of communicates a particular lesson describing the flood, begins “it began but to each Jew as an individual. No Gemilus Chassadim (kindness and relevant to the events that happened to rain.” Commenting on that verse, matter who he is, no matter what charity), and prays with a Minyan, that particular day. our Sages explained that had the his situation, he holds the key to the as if he redeemed Me (the Divine people of that generation done Tes- entire world. The 10th ofT eves commemorates the Presence) and My children from huvah, the rains would not have come beginning of the siege of Jerusalem In one moment, with one turn, he can among the nations.” Therefore, as a down as flood waters, but as “the rain conducted by Nebuchadnezzar, do Teshuvah and with Teshuvah bring continuation, since we have already of blessing.” 120 years before, G-d had the King of Babylon. The siege is about the Messianic redemption. In learned Torah together (including decreed that He would bring a flood. described by the prophet Yechezkal the book Boneh Yerushalayim, the listening, to the Torah reading as a Based on His decree, Noach had who uses the word “somech” meaning Alter Rebbe declares “if there were community) and prayed together as a warned the people, built an ark, and “lay siege to.” Generally, the word one Tzaddik who would do perfect Minyan, it is proper that we also give even entered the ark. Although the “somech” has a positive meaning— Teshuvah, Moshiach would come in Tzedakah together (even if individuals people observed this entire process ”support.” Why here did the prophet his generation.” gave Tzedakah before Mincha, they and still did not do Teshuvah, G-d describe the siege with this term? should now give again). gave them another chance. Had they How can the Teshuvah of one indi- The answer to this question must done Teshuvah at that time, there vidual bring Moshiach? Chassidus May it be G-d’s will that the activity be prefaced by the explanation of a would not have been a flood. The rain explains that the Moshiach’s soul in these three services (particularly fundamental Jewish concept: Every- itself would have become a blessing. possesses an unique spark relating since it is conducted on Tuesday) thing in this world, including the him to each particular Jew (this con- bring about the redemption of “Me This story describes a period before undesirable and evil elements, have nection will enable him to redeem and My children from among the “Matan Torah,” the giving of the their sources in Holiness. Only after every Jew). The reverse also applies. nations” in the near future. Torah. Torah and Mitzvos (including a series of veilings and contractions, Each Jew possesses a spark of the the mitzvah of Teshuvah) did not have do they take on aspects opposite to the same power then as now. If such a Holiness. It follows that siege began transformation could have occurred (in its source) as a positive act, which before Matan Torah, then surely at had the Jewish people responded the-time of Nebuchadnezzar (after properly, would have remained posi- CROWN HEIGHTS WOMEN ONEG SHABBOS Matan Torah) a similar turnover was tive. However, the Jewish people did possible. Torah Study Group Cordially invites you to attend our not appreciate the opportunity, and their improper response brought Therefore, even though Nebuchad- Oneg Shabbos "Hakhel" gathering about negative results. To express this, nezzar’s Beige brought about the When: 6st of Teves 5769 – Parshas Vayigash Yechezkal used the word “somech” destruction of Jerusalem, and the Bais which indicates that although the HaMikdash, and caused the Golus of Friday evening – January 2nd, 2009 intention in its source is good, it can the Jewish people, Torah describes it 8:30 p.m. turn bad. with the word “somech”—support. Where: Mrs. Chana Esther Slavin -- 785 Montgomery Street The source of the Beige and its poten- Another example from Jewish his- tial effects, (had the Jews responded (Between Albany & Troy Avenues) tory further illustrates this concept. properly) were positive. Nebuchadnezzar was not the first Speaker: Rabbi Michoel A. Seligson king to lay siege to Jerusalem. Before The same lesson applies in the per- Torah Scholar, Mashpia & Author of Many Seforim him, Senacherib, the King of Assyria sonal sphere of service to G-d. Today ע''ה had surrounded the city. In fact, the a Jew finds himself in Golus, and all In memory of his Mother Hinda Rochel Bas Harav Yitzchak Maier HaCohen armies of Senacherib posed a much of the ominous signs that the Talmud greater threat to Jerusalem than did predicted for “Ikvesa HaMoshiach” 12 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 2 2009

Rebbe's Story Tevet 10 were exiled to Babylonia for 70 refrain from food and drink from Continued from Page2 years. daybreak to nightfall, and add the and for Russian immigrants to Eretz Selichot and other special supple- Jerusalem Under Tevet 10 (this year January 6, 2009) Yisrael. In the course of these activi- ments to our prayers. More recently, ties, he has been chosen by the Rebbe Siege Tevet 10 was chosen to also serve for several missions. On the 10th of as a “general kaddish day” for the Tevet of the year victims of the Holocaust, many of “In the spring of 1985, I received 3336 from Creation whom the day of their martyrdom word from the Rebbe’s office that (425 BCE), the is unknown. the Rebbe requested to speak to armies of the Bab- me,” relates Professor Branover. “Of An ancient Jewish custom, which ylonian emperor course, I arrived at “770” as soon was revived by the Lubavitcher Nebuchadnez- as I could. The Rebbe greeted me Rebbe, is to deliver words of inspi- zar laid siege to and informed me of his desire that ration and arousal to repentance Jerusalem. Thirty I relay his forthcoming message to on fast days. Presented here is our months later -- on various persons in Russia. Not in my modest contribution to our duty as Tammuz 9, 3338 -- wildest dreams was I prepared for Jews to reflect on the significance of the city walls were the content of the message. the tragic events of our history and breached, and on is observed as a day of fasting, come away motivated, encouraged, “TheR ebbe unraveled before me the Av 9th of that year, the Holy Temple mourning and repentance. We and -- yes -- even inspired: precise details of the unbelievable was destroyed. The Jewish people change that was going to take place in Russia. With Mikhail Gorbachev’s In other words the forces of evil try Yaakov and Yosef. We will go with ascent to power, a new era of open- Hey Tevet to cause the “victim in the field.” glad hearts to our Holy Land as it ness and freedom would begin, the Continued from Page 10 will be expanded to include the land Rebbe prophesied. Waves of Russian Specifically inY osef was the essence So the Alter Rebbe says that every of the Keni, Kenizi and Kadmoni, as Jews would immigrate to Eretz of Yaakov revealed, Yaakov who was Jew cannot and does not want to be “G-d will expand the borders.” Yisrael. Two years afterwards, in the “chosen one” of the Patriarchs. separated from G-dliness -- and the expectation of this wave of immigra- Rambam likewise rules that when Then we will have the complete This greatness of Yosef was con- tion, the Rebbe initiated the plan to a Jew says “I want” to follow the redemption through our righteous nected with the wagons Yosef sent build a special housing project in ruling of Torah, it is his true, inner Moshiach -- youth and elders, sons to Yaakov. Why does the Torah say Jerusalem for the new immigrants. desire which is revealed. And even and daughters -- a great company that Yosef sent the wagons when when one is far away in a field he is -- together with the greatness of “To say that I was stunned is quite actually Pharaoh had sent them? really close. the perfect Torah and mitzvos and an understatement. If I had heard Rashi explains that Yosef sent the the great gifts given to us by G-d, these words from anyone but the wagons to hint to Yaakov about the Here we see that Yosef, the Nassi starting with “children, life and Rebbe, I would have dismissed them laws of “the calf which is decapitated of our generation, provides us with abundant sustenance.” Including as fantasy. As such, I was neither in the valley” (see Devorim 21:4). the “wagons” to protect us from the also great study and great action at surprised nor offended when various [They had studied that topic just perils of the field and thereby he the time of “the heels of Moshiach.” people in Russia whom I contacted before Yosef left his father.] gives us the power to convert the Each person will accomplish great by phone were skeptical. ‘Are you field into a “house,” a dwelling place Our sages explain that the details, things in Torah and mitzvos and in sure this is exactly what the Rebbe for G-dliness. He then gives every connected with the investigation of all areas for the sake of heaven. said?’ they asked again and again. Jew a mission which will lead to the the unsolved murder which involved And, may I add, these people were state of: The spirit of their father the decapitated calf, lead to the Do More Today! not unfamiliar with the Rebbe. Yaakov was then revived. ultimate discovery of the culprit (see Simply put, today, do more tzedakah, Quite the contrary, these were his Medrash Aggadah: Bachya). It also give money to the poor and also help own people who were directing the 3. Your Home -- A Chabad leads to a condition that “the people Jews in every way. Disseminate these Lubavitch underground activities in House will hear about it and they will words; start today this mission of Russia. It was simply that the Rebbe’s Starting from this Tuesday, and with fear” (Devorim 17:13). Thus, when spreading Torah and good deeds in prediction seemed so far-fetched.” these verses of Torah, make your we study this subject everything an ever-increasing way -- down to own home a -- and “In the spring of 1985, newspapers becomes revealed and everyone will earth -- to complete the ultimate goal then influence all the Jews in the such as the New York Times and learn to be careful, not to follow the and that which is temporarily nega- field, likewise. The nations of the the New York Post had published path which might lead to a case of “a tive will reach the true and ultimate world recognize the power of Yosef front-page articles predicting that victim in the field.” perfection, to create a dwelling place the ruler of Mitzrayim, and this will Gorbachev’s government would for G-d in the lower worlds, in the Generally speaking Esav is a “man influence their observance of the follow a Communist hard line. This last moments of golus. This good- of the field.” When there are Jews Seven Noachide Laws. was felt even more powerfully by ness must be increased -- with joy who for some reason find them- people who were living in the then This will speed the coming of the and glad hearts -- soon and in our selves in the “distant fields,” there Soviet Union. resurrection when we will see the days -- may this all be in reality and is a possibility that Esav will seek rejuvenation of Yaakov and the res- may the reward be greater than the “When I related the response from ways of trickery to bring about the urrection of Yosef, the Nassi of our pain, as a true find -- the coming of Russia to the Rebbe, he requested opposite of: Only you, the ones who generation. “Arise and sing all who Moshiach -- in our time Amen, so that I contact them once again, remained attached to G-d yourL -rd dwell in the dust” (Yeshayah 26:19); may it be! assuring them that these changes are all alive today. 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Yam Ski trip On a beautiful, clear and crisp frantically trying to Thursday morning the YAM team clean up and close as set out with a group of 17 teens on they had extended a trip westward towards Pennsyl- the hours of the vania. Destination: Camelback Ski mountain by one Resort. hour, and the staff was already ready to The purpose of the trip: a reward for go home. The head consistent participation in YAM’s honcho there was Thursday night Beis Medrash pro- a shortish women gram and a chance for everyone to with a big head of relax and get to know one another blond hair and a very better. loud voice and rough After braving the unexpected long demeanor. She was lines and a strange computer system, screaming at the everyone hit the slopes. Some had staff to hurry up and skis, some snowboards. There were at the patrons to get first-timers and 20-year veterans— a move on. Here we were standing the whole spectrum. Conditions in the middle of Shema, and she was were warm and a little icy, but a great trying to get us out. Then she real- time was had by all. ized we were praying, and said, “You guys do your praying. You take your One interesting story that happened time and do those prayers.” Another at the end of the day: A small group seeming obstacle transformed to a of frum Yidden were staying local helper for the Yidden. This is what for the night as they wanted to we have been told over and over by relax after a long day and not have the Rebbe—when the Yidden do to worry about the tiring drive their job, all the other obstacles fall back to New York. They asked us away by themselves. to help them make a minyan, so we obliged, of course, with joy. The only Another day in the life of YAM. Ten problem is that we made the minyan years and still kicking. in the rental area where they were 14 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 2 2009

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“Peace for the Galilee” belief that a Jew must always cringe its task and completely attain its goal. and cower before non-Jews, and The operation could and should have always, always, take their opin­ion published by sichos in english up to the occasion. The avowed been completed in the ten days. But into account. intention of this campaign was the since it was not, G‑d has granted Since the beginning of Operation complete eradication of the terrorist What is the source for this mental- another opportunity to make good. “Peace for the Galilee,” the Rebbe, menace. But some political “leaders,” ity? When a Jew loses his own self- And since the enemy has broken has strongly called for the campaign employing the most irrational of respect, when he no longer knows the cease-fire, Eretz Yisroel not to be fin­ished fully — the complete reasoning have protested, insisting how a Jew thinks, speaks or acts, only may, but must break it. To sit elimination of the terrorist threat to that the campaign be halted and not he adopts non-Jewish attitudes. by pas­sively will be construed as a Jewish lives. brought to its necessary conclusion. When a Jew no longer knows what it sign of weakness and fear on Eretz As the operation proceeded, with Unfortunately, their influence suc- means to truly fear G‑d, he becomes Yisroel’s part — exactly the opposite G‑d showing open miracles, it ceeded in obstructing the progress subservient to the “strange god that of this cam­paign’s purpose. became increas­ingly evident that of the operation; and therefore the is within you.” That “strange god” But still, in the face of all logic, there its progress was being hampered campaign has not, as yet, completely is the antithesis of the true Jewish are those Jews who caution against by political obstructionism. At fulfilled its goal. attitude of submission to G‑d’s publicizing the enemy’s breach of different stages of the operation Torah, the Halachah; but rather Likewise, there are those who, blind the cease-fire, maintaining theE retz the Lubavitcher Rebbe pointed out how the non-Jewish world expects to past experience, wish to repeat Yisroel must continue to honor its the many opportunities available him to act. the mistake made in previous wars. side of the agreement. They cite wherewith to bring the operation Although the territories which Eretz This irrational fear of non-Jews and instances of similar conduct in past to a successful conclusion, and the Yisroel now controls are vital for the public opinion results in submis- years, including the disastrous Camp folly of repeating the mistakes of safety of its citizens, territories which sion to all sorts of pressure — even David treaty, where, even when the previous wars. G‑d has miracu­lously delivered into while one knows that to do so is to other side immediately broke the This publication is a synopsis of the its hands, there are those who wish act against the best interests of Jews terms of the treaty, Eretz Yisroel Rebbe’s many public addresses on to immediately surrender them. This and Eretz Yisroel. Thus the pathetic announced they would continue to the sub­ject, translated and adapted same error was made after previ- eagerness to sur­render lands vital for honor it. by Rabbi Yosef Loebenstein. While ous wars, and each time the result security, and thus the hesitancy in We have tasted the fruits of such an it is but a syn­opsis, every effort has was the neces­sity to engage in yet carrying out the present operation attitude, and they have been bitter been made to give as accurate a another war. After previous wars, to its logical, avowed conclusion. All indeed. Let us make sure that this representation of the Rebbe’s views the government literally begged for fear of what the gentile will say, time the error is not repeated. It is as possible. the Arabs to take back the land it what the gentile will think of us. imperative that all Jews be able to had captured from them — and in In this instance, the golus mentality live safely in all parts of Eretz Yisroel I. Fulfillment of Mission the next war, the Jew­ish army had worked its influence even with- — in the north and in the south, in Operation “Peace for the Galilee” to fight to recapture the same land. out outside pressure. It had been the east and in the west. No other has been highly successful, with G‑d Such reck­less magnanimity has announced beforehand that the considera­tions can be taken into showing open miracles to the Jewish resulted not in peace, but greater President of the U.S.A. was leav- account. In matters of security, the soldiers fighting to assure peace for bloodshed. ing Washington for a ten day trip, opinion of the military must prevail, Eretz Yisroel. But for complete vic- Shulchan Aruch, the Jewish Code of and would have an extremely full for they are the experts; and they tory, the operation must be brought Law, prohibits the surrender of lands itinerary in Europe. This was a clear are of the unanimous opinion that to its full, avowed conclusion. We necessary for security. This applies indica­tion that Eretz Yisroel could Opera­tion “Peace for the Galilee” cannot repeat past mistakes of halt- not only to Eretz Yisroel itself, but mount this operation without fear must be fully completed. Since this is ing the campaign before it is fully also to lands outside Eretz Yisroel. of any real pressure from the U.S.A. the consensus of military opinion, it completed, or surrendering land Until now, Jews in the Galilee could Indeed, although the President could becomes the Halachah — and must vital for Eretz Yisroel’s security. not live peace­fully, and were forced have communicated with Eretz be fully adhered to. The hand of the L‑rd has done this to hide in shelters from terrorist Yisroel from overseas and applied In addition, only the full completion (Yeshayahu 41:20) shellings from Lebanon. The aim some pressure from there, there was of this undertak­ing can justify the of Operation “Peace for the Galilee” no real attempt to do so. This was a We raise our banner in the name of casualties which have occurred. was to remove the terrorists from clear signal that Eretz Yisroel had a our G‑d (Tehillim 20:6) Every Jew is a “complete world,” and Lebanon once and for all, thus full ten days in which to complete every soldier killed is an incalculable All the nations of the earth shall see allowing Jews to live peacefully the operation without political loss. The purpose of this campaign that the Name of the L‑rd is called and securely. Yet, despite the results hindrance. was to assure the well-being of Jews upon you and they shall fear you. seen from previous submis­sion to Moreover other nations are now living in Eretz Yisroel. If this goal is (Devarim 28:10) pressure, there are those willing to too occupied with their own wars not attained, the casualties incurred repeat this mis­take and surrender Eretz Yisroel is currently engaged in to concern themselves with other will have been in vain. Only the full the now terrorist-free area. Operation “Peace for the Galilee.” matters. Cer­tainly then, it was the realization of the operation’s avowed As its name indicates, the purpose Our Sages say that had the Jewish proper time to begin and fully com­ aim will justify the deaths and inju- of this operation is to assure peace people merited it, the redemption plete the campaign. Yet, because of ries. And it is only by completing the for the Jews in Galilee by removing from Egypt would have been final, their golus mentality, some Jews operation that future casualties will the terrorists, who, entrenched in with no exile following it. So too imagined pressure which did not be pre­vented. Lebanon, have been menacing the today. If, after victory in previous even exist! Fearing, as usual, world entire region. The operation has wars, Jews would have followed opinion, they succeeded in hinder­ In the name of G‑d been highly successful, with G‑d the directive of Shulchan Aruch ing the progress of the campaign. May it be G‑d’s will that all Jews, once again showing open mira­cles. and been steadfast in their refusal united “as one man with one heart,” The Israel Defense Forces have been to surrender lands necessary for Full completion of operation resolve to conduct themselves victorious far beyond expectation, their very security, this present Although this ten day period of according to the directives of G‑d, and the operation has proceeded war in Leba­non would have been grace has passed, it is nevertheless the L‑rd of Hosts, as recorded in His with stunning rapidity — actions completely unnecessary. not too late to rectify the mistakes Torah, the Torah of truth and life. which were expected to take two of the past — for repentance helps The soldier, who have the great merit days were executed in one day or less. The golus mentality in all instances and at all times. A of protecting Jew­ish settlements Individual sol­diers have related the Why are Jews willing to surrender true desire to fulfill Torah law will with self-sacrifice, should continue miracles they have witnessed; and these territories? They are possessed see the campaign suc­cessfully and to fulfill their goal and mission of all agree that “the hand of the L‑rd by fear of gentile reaction, the age- fully completed. Moreover, the assuring the well-being and safety has done this.” old fear of “what will the non-Jew enemy has broken the cease-fire of Jews. And this should be done say.” A “golus mentality” has become agreement; and thus by Divine with the knowledge that victory Same mistake — again? integrated into their very character; Provi­dence Eretz Yisroel has been Yet, not all have been to measure and embedded within them is the given another opportunity to resume Continued on page 16 16 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 2 2009

Shleimus Haaretz of Hosts.” This trust is achieved by and when a Jewish soldier has a will that we must resort to natural Continued from page 15 strengthening their bond with Juda- le means — physical weapons — to ism, to the extent of full observance his merit, an eternal bond is formed ensure the safety of Jews in our Holy comes not because of one’s own of Torah and mitzvos in daily life. between him and the other Jews Land. But when we fight in the name strength, but because “we rely upon Moreover, each soldier in the Israel in the Sefer Torah, Thus, when a of G‑d, when we act as true Jews in and invoke the Name of the L‑rd our Defense Forces should possess a Jewish soldier goes into battle, he our daily lives, we will not even need G‑d” and “we raise our banner in the letter inscribed in his merit in one does not go alone, but together with to use them, for then “all the nations name of our G‑d.” of the Sifrei Torah cur­rently being 304,804 Jews. Naturally, this assures of the earth shall see that the Name It is thus necessary for the soldiers to written to unite all Jewry. There are complete victory. of the L‑rd is called upon you and have absolute trust in “the L‑rd, G‑d 304,805 letters in a Sefer Torah; they shall fear you.” Today, in the time of exile, it is G‑d’s January 2, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 17

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