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Change your Name Change your Life "You are more than who you've become. Remember who you are." © 2015 Redeem the Day 1 Important Note: We trust you’ll find this PDF inspirational. But more than that, we hope you find it instructional too. It’s Truth...and Truth requires a response. We designed this PDF to be used with the upcoming FREE webinar. Please secure your spot now (if you haven’t already). Spots are limited. We’ll use the webinar to help you “fill in the blanks” and prepare you for success. Click on the REGISTER NOW above OR copy and paste this URL into your browser and then register on our special webinar page. http://www.karyoberbrunner.com/ysn-webinar AND now let’s DISCOVER YOUR SECRET NAME © 2015 Redeem the Day 2 The 1 blind spot that plagues 70% of us. According to experts, 70% of people struggle with the Impostor Syndrome. They feel they don’t know themselves—like they’re phonies and frauds. They describe their fears with phrases like: • “I’m a _______________. • “I’m going to be found out.” • “They’ made a __________ and I shouldn’t be here.” Put another way, people who suffer from this syndrome believe a discrepancy exists between how they see themselves and how others see them. Although other people might see them as successful, brilliant, and balanced on the outside, they hardly feel this way on the inside. © 2015 Redeem the Day 3 Fixating on this gap, they feel like ____________. Believing it’s only a matter of time until their cover is blown and the world finds out what they already know to be true–they’re imposters. Do you ever feel like you’re an _______________? Actors aren’t immune either. In an article called “Behind the Mask” published in the Toronto Star, celebrities like Mike Myers, Kate Winslet, Michelle Pfeiffer, and Jodie Foster admitted feeling like imposters, like they’re only a breath away from being found out by the “talent police.” In an interview with Mike Wallace of 60 minutes, Foster explained that upon notification of winning the Academy Award for best actress she thought it was a fluke. “The same way [I did] when I walked on the campus at Yale. I thought everybody would find out, and they'd take the Oscar back. They'd come to my house, knocking on the door, “Excuse me, we meant to give that to someone else. That was going to Meryl Streep.’” Jodie spent nearly her entire life in the spotlight. And she’s © 2015 Redeem the Day 4 one of the most respected and highest-paid actresses working today. Yet she has trouble wearing her own success because of her struggle with inadequacy. How to bridge the gap: © 2015 Redeem the Day 5 I’ve discovered we’ll never outperform our own self-image. If you see yourself as a 72 on a 100-point scale, the world isn’t going to raise the value. ___________ and self-image have a bunch in common. If you’re set at 72 internally, you’ll never reach 100 externally. Even if people around you compliment you or give you a raise, your results will always drop back to 72—the exact setting of your self- image. © 2015 Redeem the Day 6 The 2 "mindfields" that blow up your potential. After working with thousands and thousands of people, I’ve discovered all self-limiting beliefs center on two core lies: 1. I am _____________________ (lack of __________________). 2. I don’t have __________________ (lack of ______________________). © 2015 Redeem the Day 7 Obviously, operating with this story set on repeat inside your headspace keeps your self-image at an incredibly low set-point. Check out the seven most common manifestations: __________________ ____________________ ____________________ 1. Physically Beauty I hide in fear. 2. Mentally Education I hide in _____. 3. Spiritually Discipline I hide in fear. 4. E ___________ Experience I hide in fear. 5. Financially Money I hide in _____. 6. Intellectually B ____________. I hide in fear. 7. Relationally Friends I hide in fear. How to overcome them: 1. Remember your Position A – ________________________________ B — _______________________________ C— _______________________________ © 2015 Redeem the Day 8 2. Practice your Position The 3 toxic tendencies that define all victims. Victims tend to define their lives by: B = ________________________ E = ________________________ D = ________________________ © 2015 Redeem the Day 9 How to eradicate them. The 3 conscious choices all victors make. O = _________________________ A = _________________________ R = _________________________ © 2015 Redeem the Day 10 How to embody them. The 3 truths you need to reset your self-image. B = ______________________ G = ______________________ S = ______________________ Why you need to discover them. To the one who overcomes, I will give a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it. © 2015 Redeem the Day 11 Are you truly content with the ___________ you’re getting in your life? If the answer is NO, then choosing not to make a decision is choosing to ___________ exactly where you are. Either way you make a ____________. © 2015 Redeem the Day 12 Kary Oberbrunner Kary Oberbrunner left his day job to pursue his dream job— Igniting Souls. Through his writing, speaking, and coaching, he helps individuals and organizations clarify who they are, why they are here, and where they should invest their time and energy. As a young man, he suffered from severe stuttering, depression, and self-injury. Today a transformed man, Kary invests his time helping others become souls on fire. He is the founder of Redeem the Day, which serves the business community, and Igniting Souls, which serves the non-profit community. The author of several books, Kary and his wife Kelly are blessed with 3 amazing children and live in Columbus, OH. Kary and his business partner David Branderhorst created the Igniting Souls Tribe, a community of world changers. They’ve four built four powerful brands and three international teams of speakers, coaches, and trainers. © 2015 Redeem the Day 13 .