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No. 644 • March 12, 2020 • outwordmagazine.com Special Issue Lovely London: Travel Tips page 17 The International Imperial Court page 10 Travel Out Seattle page 20 THE ROW RENO, a City Within a City page 24 Todd Gloria Makes LGBTQ History in San Diego Outword alifornia Assemblymember Todd Gloria won the San Diego Assemblymember Gloria is a graduate of mayoral primary Tuesday night and is on-track to become LGBTQ Victory Institute’s Candidate & Campaign Training – a four-day bootcamp Staff the first openly LGBTQ person and first person of color C that prepares LGBTQ people to run for PUBLISHER elected mayor of San Diego. The top two vote-getters in the primary office. He will also give a keynote speech at Fred Palmer advance regardless of party in California’s jungle primary system. LGBTQ Victory Fund’s San Diego Brunch this Sunday, March 8. Media interested in ART DIRECTOR/PRODUCTION Mayor Annise Parker, President & CEO of San Diegans overwhelmingly chose Todd attending can contact Elliot Imse, Senior Ron Tackitt LGBTQ Victory Fund, released the following because of his strong record of public Director of Communications, at statement about Gloria’ victory: service and his inspirational vision for the [email protected]. GRAPHIC DESIGN “Todd is on-track to make history in city he wants to represent. Todd will Ron Tackitt More information about Victory Fund and November, becoming one of just a handful become the third highest ranking out its candidates is available at victoryfund.org/ EDITOR of openly LGBTQ people ever elected mayor LGBTQ mayor in US history when he ourcandidates. Since 1991, Victory Fund has [email protected] of a major American city. Both LGBTQ wins in November and a role model for helped thousands of openly LGBTQ people and people of color face tremendous LGBTQ youth in San Diego and across the candidates win local, state and federal ARTS EDITOR obstacles when running for public office, but country.” Chris Narloch elections. SALES Fred Palmer The World’s Best Kept Secret by Faith Colburn CONTRIBUTING WRITERS ost women are socialized to not take up space and not fight back. We are supposed to look Chris Allan Matthew Burlingame pretty, be accommodating, and shut our mouths because “no one will like a loud girl”. It can Faith Colburn be hard to disavow these lies, particularly as they are reinforced at work. Those of us who Diana Kienle M Chris Narloch work in male dominated fields are inexplicitly meant to feel grateful for being “given” the opportunity Lauren Pulido to be there. PHOTOGRAPHY It can feel as though our talent, passion, don’t belong. They want us to feel like not belong at the table. 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For the last year and a half Schock has been seen at various gay venues but still classified himself as straight. As a Republican, Rep. Schock was at odds with three-fourths of the LGBT+ community politically. He was elected to Congress at the age of 27. He is now 38 years old. While in Congress he voted against several pieces of LGBT+ legislation gay man. I came out in 1960 when we had including ending “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” for no place to learn about being gay but in the the military and Same Sex Marriage. bars. Anything we found at the library in But the real question is: How did this gay book after book reiterated what perverted man become so conservative and so infused and mentally damaged people we were. with internal homophobia? From the age of 12, I had crushes on other Let’s start with his family church, The boys, but until I came out at age 23 I didn’t Apostolic Christian Church. Sounds know why. harmless enough until one understands Even after coming out, I still had many most Apostolic churches are “Oneness” in fundamentalist beliefs. I struggled with their theology. these beliefs for many years. Although as a What is “Oneness?” This means they do Baptist I took comfort in their belief of “once not believe in the “Trinity,” Father, Son and saved, always saved.” Aaron’s theology Holy Spirit (Ghost). They are so conservative, would send him to hell for watching TV. His they forbid their parishioners watching TV. belief system had so many ways for him to They just come short of snake handling. backslide into hell and being gay was As we used to say in my Fundamentalist certainly one of them. Baptist youth, “We don’t dance, we don’t So while we may criticize Aaron chew and we don’t go with girls that do!” politically for votes in Congress, we should On a personal level, I can sympathize with sympathize with him for the religious Aaron. I grew up in a Fundamentalist struggle he has endured for many years. Baptist church. The late and unlamented If we are comparing damages he certainly Reverend Jerry Falwell, founder of the Moral has not damaged us as those who led the Majority, was my school mate at the Baptist Exodus Movement which caused turmoil in Bible College located in Springfield, MO., many LGBT+ lives and led some to suicide. where I study for the ministry. My Aaron has now come out and we should denomination was to the right of the welcome him as a gay brother and Southern Baptist Convention whom we encourage him to speak out for LGBT+ considered liberal and modernists. rights that are under attack by the Trump I am now an 82 year-old out and proud administration. outwordmagazine.com March 12, 2020 - March 26, 2020 • No. 644 Outword Magazine 5 The AIDS Memorial Quilt Comes Home f you have never had the honor of seeing the AIDS Memorial Quilt in person, you can rectify that situation Ithis April, when a significant portion of the quilt will be displayed in Robin Williams Meadow and at the National AIDS Memorial Grove in Golden Gate Park. A significant portion of the AIDS Quilt will be on display at Robin Williams Meadow and at the National AIDS Memorial Grove in Golden Gate Park from April 3-5th. 1,920 panels will be laid out daily from of three decades, now contains nearly 50,000 April 3-5, in the largest display of the quilt panels, weighs more than 54 tons and in San Francisco’s history, mirroring the first memorializes more than 105,000 individual major display that took place in 1987 at the lives of people who have died of AIDS- National Mall in Washington D.C. related complications. The April 3-5 display will begin at 11 am Conceived in 1985 by AIDS activist Cleve on Friday, April 3 with a traditional Jones during the candlelight march in unfolding ceremony and the reading of the remembrance of the 1978 assassinations of names of those memorialized in the quilt.