*feiv. .'A., *T>^^^ -> INTERVIEW ENTERTAINMENT Interns^ view^ Mom & son 111 I liis Issiii • GAGV interns talk about • Convenience is interoreted for their experiences. Left: Clara the musically-challenged by S«ctl«n A Relyea. John Aceto. NYC AIDS Walk..: 3 Page A6 Page Interview: GAGV Interns..... 6 Making tdhe Scene N Saction B c Entertainment: CbnvenJence for the musically-challenged I Columnists « —.S Home/Traveil/Style: Diva shoes.... 10 r^ Gay Groups 12 Community Center News 14 Classifieds !5 Calenditr 18 Cartoons,,...... „„.....23. Number 347 A Publication of the Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley Pride Agenda brings NewsFronIs mLOCAL AND STATE How^ard Dean here Join in ARI's annual govertior spohe at May 4 ESPA dinner AIDS Walk on June 2 It's time to take to the streets By Susan Jordan published in the program, along with again. AIDS Rochester Inc. (ARI) Vermont Governor Howai^d Dean, a poem by her I O-year-old daughter wili sponsor itsannual AIDS Walk vw'ho Signed the state's civil union Chelsea, in rhe letter Schmidt spoke on June 2. rain or shine, to raise bill, told a Rochester Igbt audi­ about her struggle, and how her funds for the fight against HIV/ ence, "Sometimes you have to fight against cancer had impelled her AIDS. stand up and do the right thing," to forge a stronger and more mean­ The Walk wil! begin at 10 a.m. even though his support of the ingful link with igbt people. at Cobbs Hill Park (registration measure jeopardized his political The dinner also included a com­ and pledges at 9 a.m ). The 10- career. munity volunteer award to jack SPRING DINNER: Duffy Palmer. ESPA board co-chair (left) with kilometer walk will end at the Dean was speaking at the Em- Herrman. a psychiatrist who is on former Executive Director Matt Foreman and Vermont Gov. Howard park, where a celebration will pire State Pride Agenda spring din­ the feculty ofthe University of Roch­ Dean (right) at the Pride Agenda's dinner here on May 4. Chief of Police take place, including food, team ner on May 4 at the Riverside ester Medical Center and Depart­ Robert Duffy presented an award to Jack Hermann, who served as a demonstrations, kids' clinics, au­ Convention Center. "Once in a ment of Psychiatry, and is currently counselor in NYC. after Sept. ! I. More photos on page A! 4. tograph signings by professional career does an issue like this come the Disaster Mental Health Lead for athletes, and live music by Meg along," he said. "Most political ca­ N.Y. State. He worked as a mental and the Clams. reers are about money, resources, health volunteer in For more information, call ARI etc. When the fight, is about money, after Sept. !i. counseling people at 442-2220. you can compromise. But once in who had lost loved ones and acting a generation comes a bill like civil as Red Cross liaison to the N.Y.C. Arena's Florist wins unions that you cant compromise Mayor's office in the Family Assis­ events to rim June 1 -8 Teleflora award for 2001 on. tance Center. Rochester Chief of Charles J. A.^-ena and Arena's Flo­ The BuffeJo igbt corrwntirilty wiU Marketplace and relax and refresh Gov. Dean won a standing ova­ Police Robert Duffy presented the rist is a proud recipierit of host numerows Prid« Bufftilo 2000 at the {OtS^ Aroma) Coffee Tent tion from the hundreds of people award, commenting, "i cannot think TeSeflora's prestigious Top 500 «v*nts this month, including a or the Pavilion Tent. Celebratioo present when he urged gays to of a more deserving and committed !) Award for 2001, given annually Womite^'s Weillndis Day oo June Ssage entertainment will Include a demand their rights. "White people person". to florists who have transmitted FABULOUS opening number re- didn't win the civii rights fight," he Howard Dean, who is hoping to a record number of flora! wire The Annuai Dyke M^rch gath­ ISecting this year's theme, "Brand said. "They helped, and some even run for the Democratic presidential orders throughout the year. New Day^** featuring community lost their lives in Mississippi, but it nomination, spoke about how t^ie ers Saturday, June \ a« 8 p,m. at peformers and the Buffalo Gay The coveted award stands as a was people like Rosa Parks who tax cuts in the Bush budget will Quality parking tot (North St., Men's Chorus. Jackie Beat (S^ix public tribute to these enterpris­ demanded respect and rights.... The destroy social programs which Buffido) znd proceeds at dusk to and the City, FeaHess^ also at Club ing florists and their contribution most Important act in the Igbt would actually save money in the Hamlin House. Shades Dance,, fea' Marcella's Saturday night). BAVV. to the floral industry and to community is the act which is so long run. "While people lost jobs, tuHng RAW (Ragin Asian Wortien Leah Zicari ^n^ her band and per- Teieflona. the world's largest flo­ difficult—to stand up and say. I am die tax cut went to people like Taiko Drummers), will take place fonners from Toronto vdll con­ ral wire service with over 30,000 who I am and I demand to be (Enron's) Ken Lay; we need to fund at Hamlin House startingat 9 |>.m. tinue the festivities. Pride Pavilkw members, known for its leader­ accepted for who ! am." social needs," he said. "If a small On Sunday. June 2, the Prid# wift be open t<> serve food and ship in floral technology and far The dinner included a tribute to state like Vermont can provide health Parade st»ps ratkm stagie Arena's Florist, Inc. has been a supervisor and a strong ally of the everyone in the U.S. sltould have ceeding east on North St, to north ^k>ses>th« energy continues **^to member of the community for 22 Igbt community, who had died of health insurance." • on .Eintwood' Ave*,^: :tHe: ^eM>m*:: theearly evening with a OY4 dance years, and Is located at 260 East breast cancer only days before, Dean commented that sonne of .tion' site'at BidW«jrPar|owayt:^Ov»r.,' floor until 8 p.m. Ave. Schmidt, 43, was an hono»*ary co- the people in Vermont who played 40grauf>$i organizations, ftoacs and Local Catholic church chair ofthe event. She had written key roles in passing civil unions were many others will be marchh^ Bufibfo Pride events will also a letter about her illness and her Republicans. "They got a lot of vit­ At BidwefV Parkway^ or^^izsrs {nckide a Women's Wellness Day on national list of open» say^ you can strotf through the advocacy for gay rights which was riol," he said, adding that during the Sufl»ki contSiiM««3 on P. 3 welcoming churches ESPA continued on p. 3 St, John the Evangelist Church on Humboldt St. Is become a wel­ coming church for gay and lesbian Lobby Day focuses on Dignity for All Students Act Catholics. By M.L. Walling if passed, will ensure a "safezone" in The pastor. Father Bill SpilSy, May 20 was just Monday morning schools nationwide for students and wrote in the church's May 5 news­ In Albany for most, but for hun­ allies like Jamie, 15, who is a fresh­ letter that he had asked the pasto­ dreds of New York's students and man at a high school In downtown ral council to add the church's allies. May 20 was a day filled with Syracuse. name to the national list of Catho­ p>ossibiiities and hope. When i asked Jamie what school lic churches which are open to and welcoming of gays and lestH- 31 lobbyists from Rochester and was like for her as an out lesbian, she ans. others firom Syracuse filed, still confkied. "I've seen kldsgetsbmnted sleepy-eyed, onto a Bluebird bus into lockers or called lag or <|ueer. It Father Bill also repudiated the headed to our state's capital for happens right In front of teachers scapegoating of gay priests in the New York's annual Lobby day, but they (the teachers) don't really pedophilia scandal and wrote of sponsored and funded by the Em­ do anything either, because the kidt igbt people, ''Let us not condemn pire State Pride Agenda. do it in groups, so it's hard to punish them because they are ^y or This year's theme was the Dig­ just one kkl. or they don't feel like iesbian." nity for Ail Students Act. This bill. Lobby cotwtimMd on p. 19 Members of the Rochester group at the rally on the Capitol steps. N«wsbH«fii cont. CMI p. 3 «H(|

-' - .^' *. A2 THE B *i t» T V^ C' l*.0 * «. T- ^t .' - L. '^^mu A •%>«*' -*-W.t^i f 0^ '" nor wilt we be a forum for ongoing dis­ LETTERS TO THE EDITOR: putes between individuals. We reserve Dinner continued from p. I ment, housing and public accomodation. Suffolk The opinions of columnhts, •dltoHal wrtt- the right to edit for space and clarity. We debate "unspeakable thinp" were said. Then County (on Long Island) became the second «rs and other contributing writers are will print anonymous letters if the name their own and do not necessarily reflect and phone number are provided to the openly gay Rep. Bill Lippertgot up and said, jurisdiction to do so In September 2001. the collective attitude of die Gay Alliance Editor, confidenttaltty will be respected. according to Dean, "You know me; IVe Joe Grabarz, executive director of the Pride Perspectives ofthe Genesee Valley or the Empty Ck>seL Submissions are due by the 15th of the served on your committees. These things Agenda, saM, ''We salute the many members of We will print letters at the editor's discre­ month at:Th« Empty Clotet, 179 Atlan­ are hurtful and you're saying them about the City Council who have worked to bring us to tion and on a space available basis.We wili tic Ave. Rochester NY 14607-1255; email viewpoints that matter this historic day, particularly Margarita Lopez, not print personal attacks on individuals. [email protected] me." This changed a lot of attitudes. Dean said, "Most Americans have been Bill Perkins. Christine Quinn and Phil Reed." The brought up with prejudice and they Just Empire State Pride Agenda said it has worked for don't know.... they lash out in fear of the the bill's passage in F>artnership with the N.Y. unknown, but when somebody stands up... Center for Gender Rights Advocacy (NYAGRA) • LOCAL AND ST7VTE NEWS they put a face on who (gays) are. That's the and with other transgender groups for the past single most important act In ending dis­ two and a half years. crimination." Another transgender group, the non-profit Stand with us Dean talked about one senator who had Transgender Law and Policy (TLPI) said that it This and that told voters he wouid vote against the bill, has been working with NYAGRA, the N.Y.State then later changed his mind and voted for it, Transgender Coalition, and City Council mem­ By Bill Hawley, Executive Director even though the bill would have passed bers Margarita Lopez, Bill Perkins. Christine An Empty Closet Editorial by Susan Jordan anyway; he lost his seat as a result. The Quinn and Phi! Reed to pass the law. TLPI was explanation he offered was that, as a social critical of the Pride Agenda for not pressuring studies teacher, he could not have ex­ the state legislature to include "transgendered" ince I began working at the Gay Alli­ Since I began working at the Gay iMliance in hanks to the volunteers ofthe Day of Caring, and to Board members and donors, the plained to his class why he had voted no on in the proposed gay civil rights law (SONDA). ance in January, 1 have met an amazing January, I have been surprised by a couple of offices here at the Gay Alliance Community Center are now freshly painted and this civil rights issue. (An open letter to the community on this subject number of LGBT people and had the things;. First, I have been surprised to learn from the Pride Agenda was published In the carpeted. Stop by and visit us and check out the New Improved look of our workplace S how much the GAGV means to people, and Buffalo continued from p. I T honor to represent the L.GBT community in a March Empty Closet). — it's your space too! In fact, if you haven't been at the Center in the past year, you wili be variety of community settings. These past few how much tt has helped them. But I've also on Saturday. June 8 at the Unitarian Univer- amazed at the transformation ofthe entire building. -Empire State Pride Agenda; TLPI months have shown that greater LGBT in­ been surprised at how m.any people have been salist Church, Elmvvood Ave. at West Ferry The Nopper Room (the large dou^nstairs ing in where needed. Infrared (see-in-the- volvement with the GAGV, in turn, makes the frustrated or disappointed or hurt by our orga­ St., Buffialo. There will be sliding scale admis­ Legislature approves meeting room with library and big-screen TV) dark) cameras will add night vision. Surveil­ GAGV ^ stronger force in creating change in nization. Perhaps because -we each come with sion. Doors open at 9 a.m., and workshops was painted a luminous "Medici" yellow about lance by the Water Bureau and police will be the Rochester area. all of our hurts and slights, all the injustices and begin at 10 a.m. Child care provided; regis­ budget with largest a vear ago, and carpeting and furniture added total Each time i tepresented the LGBT commu­ burdens we have borne simply because wc arc ter by phone in advance at 879-0999 • i' ci;- have made it a welcoming and attractive Therefore, it is nt)t cxactiy a good idea to lesf.!nin, or g;n-, f...'r bi^-'cxua!, (.^r transgender, we sum for Igbt network nity, I realized that I am not there alone. G '\G\' Organisers say. "Come honor your body, New York City AIDS Walk '^pace. Upstairs, the staff offices and reception cruise Highland Park after closing hours, un­ are more sensitive and injured more easily enrich your spirit and open your mind at the members, board, volunteers and staff are with On May 16, the Assembly and the Senate ap­ Actress Tyne Daly (formerly of "Cagney & l.^u:ey'*) telSs a crowd of 40,000 area are now^ done in complementary earth less you happen to be a major exhibitionist when we perceive or feel that our need or our First Annual VVomen's Wellness Day, a full m.e. Vou were with me when I met with Mayor proved a budget that provided the largest sum to pose for a picture at the opening cerennonies ofthe 17th annual N.Y.C. tones, thanks to Joe 0*Toole, GAGV execu­ who also likes getting busted, or mugged, or issue is not met. day of small work sessions and workshops Biiljohnson and City Council Chair Lois Gless, ever In a single fiscal year — $3.6 million — for AIDS Wali<, held on May 19. It is the world's largest AIDS fundraising tive assistant, interior designer and feng shui both. For everyone else, nocturnal park ac­ Recendy a member of the community said with some of the area's top alternative You were in Albany with me on Advocacy Dav the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Health event and benefits the Gay Men's Health Crisis. consultant, who has now left the Alliance to tivities should not be on the list of things to do in March and again on Lobby Day in May. Vou to me that her relationshjp with the CrAGV healthcare providers." explore new challenges in the field of wnting this summer. was a love/hate relationship. She loves all that and Human Services Network. are w^ith me and others from the GAGV when Events will include Massage: Elizabeth Assembly's strong support for the Net­ Third, by joining the GAGV you can sup­ and publishing. Take Back the Focus we do, but hates all our shortcomings, our Governor Pataki's executive budget provided v/e meet with the Otetiana Council ofthe Boy Anderson. LMT & Joanne Vacant!, LMT; work and LGBT New Yorkers in gen­ port us as we continue to provide the services Tlie GAGV staff w^ho have worked w^ith joe Referring to last month's editorial about limitations, our inabilities to do everything. $2.5 million and the Assembly Speaker's discre­ Scouts of America, when we meet and work Herbs: Petra; Tarot Naima Robinson; Ho­ eral," continued Grabarz. "and we thank you have come to depend on, like the Empty for the past two years can't adequately express Take Back The Night marches' original focus And yet, she stated, we couldn't be where we tionary budget provided the other $1.1 million of with representatives ofthe United Way, when meopathy: Sally Williams; Aromatherapy: Governor Pataki for following through Closet. But you can also help us as we move our appreciation for all the things he has me­ on violence against women, it was dishearten­ are without the GAGV. this record dollar figure. This appropriation sig­ we meet with Sheriff O'Flynn encouraging Fran LaRocca; Body Arts: Tattoo Artist on the promise he made to us last fall at forward discerning new^ directions and new ticulously accomplished, and for his humor, ing to see the media describing the April For nearly 30 vears, the GAG V has been out nals the continuation of the Democratic-con­ him and his department to tnake the Igbi com­ Chimene; Storytelling: Margaret Smith; Re­ our annual dinner to fund the Network programs for our work on behalf of our kindness, creativity, good judgement, and ex­ march at Nazareth College as being about there advocating on behalfof our communit}.', trolled Assembly's leadership role In funding the munity' part of his diversity program, when we flexology: C.J. Kurtsworth, BS, CASAC; for the very first time through his execu­ community. In his article in June's issue of pertise in an amazingnumberof areas. We wish "violence in the community," or "violence educating the community at large and offering Network and the emergence ofthe Governor, a meet with Cit^' Council Members, and when I Sex, Sex Toys: Katie White; Two Wheels: tive budget." Of yT", A.ndTew HoUeran points out that even 1 -c all the best in his future career. against women and children'\ ways in v/hich we can gather together as com­ Republican,, as a strong supporter. spoke on a diversitv panel at the Democrat and Shannon Anderson, Motorcycle Racer. "The Network provides basic and es­ as we face new issues as we are assimilated Park alert The Dhrase "violence in the communitv" munity' and celebrate who we are. 1 hope you Tne $3.6 million is in addition to the $1..S Chronick. sential services across the state to LGBT into the larger culture, "prejudice still swims n-ie EUwanger-Barry Neighborhood Asso- suggests issues like drug-related violence, will stand with us as we not only continue to do N.Y.C. extends million announced on March 27 by Assembly But you stand not just with me in my work as youth, seniors, people of color and those below the surface, only in new forms." ci.Ttion is putting together a petition to erect as drive-by shootings and so on. These are cru­ these things, hut hopefully as we expand our Speaker Silver from the 2001 supplemental bud­ members ofthe GAGV. You stand with each with a?id without insurance," said Sheila i4e continues, "Gay culture seems to be manv as three gates in Highland Park, which cial issues to examine, but are not directiy work and program so that even more can be protections to get. Added together, this $5.1 million provided volunteer and staff member as sensitivity Healy, Program Director of the Pride self-conscious in a wav it wasn't before as­ \v(,>uid be locked to exclude vehicles after park related to the equally crucial issue of violence accomplished. to the Network over the past tv^co months is only trainings and safe zone trainings are conducted transgender citizens A.genda Foundation and coordinator of similation; it IS now, for better or for worse, ci( -sing hours. Tlie group has a varierv' of con­ against women — w^hich becomes invisible The second thing that has surprised me is a fev/ hundred thousand dollars short ofthe $5.5 in places like East House, St. Joseph's Villa, St. The New York City Council voted on April the activities of the Network. "We are something examined and critiqued — and cerns, mcluding drug dealing, speeding traffic once again. the mernbership of the GAGV. I expected million the Network had received in total from John Fisher College, and the Brockport .School 24 to extend civil rights protections to elated to learn that the Speaker, the this, as Freud said about civilization in gen­ .ind traffic volume, in addition to gay (and "\'iolence against women and children" also thousands, but there are oniy between five and the state in all its years of funding. Distnct, just to name a few of the recent sites. transgender people. Governor and the legislature are sup­ eral, brings its discontents. heterosexual) use of the park for public sexual evades the issue. We are all concerned about six hundred contributing members, J know "Today's $3.6 million begins a new chapter for You sta.nd alongside of each person in the The bill was approved by a vote of 45-5, portive of this work." "One of these, surely, is that despite the encounters. The idea is that after having to the evil of violence against children. But auto­ that there are a lot of demands upon your time the Lesbian. Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Health Next Step group as they each face the chal­ and passed the General Welfare Commit­ Five yea.rs ago New York State began huge cultural coming-out, being gay still is a park their cars on the street and walk into the matically coupling that with "violence against and probably even more upon your monetary and Human Services Network," said Joe Grabarz, lenges and struggles in their own lives around tee by 7-1. NYAGRA estimates that as funding this unique program to provide problem for some people. The sense, for park a few times, the late-night visitors wiil not women" implies that defense of innocent resources. There are dozens and dozens of Executive Director of Empire State Pride Agenda, coming out. Vou are there with our Vouth many as three quarters of all transgender health and human services specifically instance, that we have solved the gay teenager's return. children must be included in order to justify a worthy organizations to support, so why should the state's iesbian and gay civil rights advocacy Program Coordinator and volunteers as LGBT people In the state live in N.Y.C. targeted to the LGBT community. With problems is illusory. This may be why gay Although the group's agenda is not one of an concern about violence against women — you support the GAGV as well? First, it is the organization. "Not only is it a record dollar and questioning teens and their families are Mayor Michael Bloomberg signed the bill culture seems spent at the moment. It seems anti-gay crusade, sotne area residents at a re­ which is not seen as valid or acceptable in way you can stand with us as we represent the amount for any one year, it also shows that there Budget continued on p. 10 offered encouragement,guidance and support. into taw on April 30. It is the third law in is a bipartisan consensus emerging over the spent because, after being for 15 minutes the cent meeting were definitely homophobic in itself You're present at each Triangle Talk as staff lgbt commumty. New York State to specifically address dis­ importance of the Network's activities. We are Hawley continued from previous Next New Thingj coming out leads to a sense their remarks about "//?eople who do what Why is it so very hard to utter that simple, Second, by joining the GACTV you can be and customers at Borders Books & Music see crimination against transgendered people. thrilled that both major political parties in New of anticlimax, and the assimilation that was they do" in the park. "Better they should park unadorned phrase "violence against women".^ counted. Again and again, I'm asked how many page us gathered in thoughtful discussion. You are Ithaca adopted an ordinance in 1999 to York have indicated through their commitment supposed to solve everything hasn't." in the Park than on my street," one man said. Maybe we need to think about just why those people in the Rochester area are lgbt? Usually that should put the lutal number some­ a part of every word and article in the Empty increase penalities for municipal offenses to the Network that our community is impor­ Please, sta.nd with us now. Join the GAGV Meanwhile, the concerns of the Water Bu­ syllables are literally unspeakable in our soci­ I respond not with our membership number, where between 60,000 and 80,000. Obvi­ Cbset^ our community's new^spaper, the oldest motivated by hatred, including bias based tant to them," said Grabarz, "This can only be and help us to continue serving our commu­ reau are focused on protecting the reservoir ety. >XTien we have figured that out, we'U be but with the general conservative estimate that ously, nowhere near that number is yet out gay and lesbian publication in the state. You on "gender Identity and presentation". In good for our community and is a clear indication nity', fighting homophobia and prejudice in from terrorists. There has been a 24-hour guard well on our way to changing attitudes that 10 percent ofthe general population is lesbian, ofthe closet, but if you add your number to are on the phone line each time a person calls May 2001, Rochester became the first juris­ that we have become an important political force whatever form it takes, supporting each mem­ there, which will soon be replaced by cameras have messed up everybody's lives for a long, gay, bisexual or transgender. In our area alone, ours, perhaps we can continue to encour­ for referrals or information about our commu­ ber of our communit)' as they come to self- sc an ning the perimeter every minute, and zoom- long time. diction in the state to protect transgendered in the state.. age and support others as they come out nit)'. The list could go on and on. awareness and self-acceptance. 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He said that states shouki have saying that this bill is immoral and unjust.*^ bodi houses that is reauly to pass die UN." the right to l«galize gay marriage if they cal political ploy than speak outfor support ever. he had startled many with his open all over the country, i almost never hear &^>erstein was joined at the press con­ choose to do so through the legislative pro­ for ail loving couples and bmilies,** Lambda ^ NATICDNAL AND INTERNATIGNAL NEWS discussion of his sexual encounters with men. from anyone who was fired because they Arizona State R^. Steve May, an openly ference by others Including Rev. Steven cess. Legal's Buckel stated. ''Fortunately, more and Including North AfHcan and Middle Eastern were gay." Tafel wrote, "In fact, I hwir gay Repubitoan lawmaker and member of Bains, a Baptist minister and offkrial with **We agree with the proponents of the more Americans are recognizing that our thentic Catholic teachir^. They are dehuman- Immigrants. He was also an advocate for same almost every ether issue being passion­ Log Cabin Republicans, made a point of People for the American Way, and Bishop constitutional amendment that marriage is government should be supporting all A»mllies, Reform Catholics Mng and could incite some people to anti-gay sex marriage and for gay and won>en's rights. ately argued but not this one. So why all this cHallengingTafel's statement May recendy Kwabena Rainey Cheeks, of Washington's Important *nd that's precisely why every regardless of whether the parents are ^y or violence." Most Dutch gay acthists are liberal or left- energy on a bill that probably won't really became chief of the Arizona House's influ­ Inner Ught Ministries, v^ich has had a protest scapegoating loving couple and family needs access to it" not" he added. According to the Y/caNngton Sfcide, gay wing, but they were shocked by his murder change the lives of gay Americans?" ential Ways and Means Committee. largely African American Igbt following* said David Buckel, senior staff attorney and Two thirds of Americans believe that same- The Catholic Organization for Renewal, a priests are terrified that they will be made and, even though they might not have voted According to the Washington Blade, "Rich Tafel makes an important point -Lambda L«^ Defense and Education coordinator of Lambda Legal's Marriage sex couples will win the freedom to marry. coalition of reform groups* on May 6 called scapegoats as the scandal continues. At least for him, felt that he had provided an energiz­ anonymous sources close to the Republi­ that there are other issues that may affect Fund; Lou Chibbaro, ^r.. The Washington Project "To take the extraordinary step of {WaH Street Joumal/NBC, September 1999), on the Catholic church to end the blaming 177 priests suspected of child abuse have ing force in Dutch politics, and that he was not can co-sponsors of ENDA said that Tafel's the lives of gays more than ENDA," May Bhde amending the Constitution to prohibit states Gay activists tokl the Blade that although of gay priests as the cause ofthe child abuse resigned or been suspended from duty in 28 a fascist like some European conservatives. statement undercut years of work by mod­ saki. "But I think the premise of federal from giving gay couples and their children the the proposal stands no chance of being ac­ and cover-up scandal Hi the U.S. scutes since January. -Lou Chibbaro, Jr.. The Washington Blade erate Republicans who have taken political non-discrimination ie^sbtton is critical. legal protections they need and deserve b an cepted. It could be used to overturn state chfil Blair backs British The Catholk Organasation's statement Others who have recently challenged the risks to back ENDA. Rep. Mark Foley (R- We need this legislation as long as there affront to justice." Bucket added. union bws. as well as the many domestic "strongly condemns" efforts to scapegoat Church's scapegoating of gay priests included Log Cabin questions Fla), said through his press spokesperson are bigots who decide who gets to work bill permitting partnership policies and laws adopted by gay priests, and the equation of homosexual Davki Clohessy, national director ofthe Sur­ that he believes the need for ENDA re­ and who doesn't That's unjust and that's Lambda Legal litigated the first of the law­ orientation witii pedophilia. vivors* Network of Those Abused By Priests need for ENDA mains strong, and chat Log Cabin should why we need this." suits seeking the freedom to marry for all cities and tovms. unmarried adoption couples, which resulted in a landmark pro- "With only a few exceptions, most of ti>c DignityAJSA, a member of tlie coalition, and Dr. Fred S. BeHin, associate professor of Gay activists and some Republican legislators "take a more constructive step to advance -LouChibbaro.Jr., The Washington Bhde Prime Minister Tony Blair's government ftunily decision in Hawaii later overturned at anti-gay attacks in Congress are the legal expressed outrage in late April when psychiatry at Johns Hopkins University. in Washington D.C. are united for once in ENDA". said In early May that it supports amending the polls with a million-dollar campaign by the equivalent of sticks and stones." said Christo­ Philadelphia's conservative Cardinal An­ -Rhonda Smith, Washington Blade concern over the recent statement by the Log Cabin spokesperson Kevin Ivers Right wants to a proposed bill which would allow unmar­ radical right Since then, gay couples have pher Anders of the American Civil Liberties thony J. Bevilaqua stated that his diocese national Log Cabin Republicans that the gay said his group backs the bill, but also thinks ried parmers. including same sex couples, amend Constitution made enormous headway in better protecting Union's gay rights project *This amendn>ent screens applicants to determine If they are Assassin shoots civil rights bill known as the Employment that gay Democrats and Democratic sena­ to adopt children together. their families, with marriage in the Nether­ gay, and that no gay man is a suitable Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) is not tors are more interested in using ENDA as is the legal equivalent of a nuclear bomb. It will Heahh Secretary Alan Mllbum said that conservative gay to ban gay marriage lands, "civil unions" in Vermont strong do­ candidate for the priesthood, "even if he needed. a political football than m seeing It pass. He wipe out every singJe law protecting gay and the new bill would enable gay and other On May IS, Lambda Legal Defense and mestic partnership benefits in California and has rtever committed any homosexual act". The bill calls for banning employment dis­ rejected claims by gay Democrats that Log lesbian families, and other unmarried couples." unmarried couples to have custody of Dutch politician Education Fund condemned as "misguided" Hawaii, and a vast array of other types of Backers of the amendment had a group Bevilacqua added that heterosexual priests crimination based on sexual orientation, and Cabin is trying to downplay the need for adopted children joindy. Gays are already A conservative, openly gay Dutch politician and "cynical" a bill introduced by a smai! domestic partner benefits from employers of supporters at their press conference which are giving up "something good" — a wife has broad bipartisan support, tt is likely to be ENDA to soften the reaction among gays allowed to adopt on their own in Britain. was assassinated in the on May 6. group of right-wing members of Congress looking to retain good employees. But no­ included former D.C. Congressional delegate and family — to become priests, while this approved by the Senate when it comes up for to President Bush's and conservative Re­ *The government's objective is to in­ Pim Fortuyn, 54, was In the race for the post that would amend the U.S. Constitution to where in the United States do lesbian and gay Walter Fauntroy, who said that the existence is not true of gay men, who, according to a vote this fall. Opposition is strong among publicans' opposition to the bill. crease the number of children to have the of prime minister, elections were scheduled prohibit any state from allowing marriage couples have the full equality that comes with of same sex marriage poses a threat to Afri­ Bevilaqua, are not giving up love and family conservative Republicans in the House of Steve Elmendorf. openly gay chief of staff opportunity, through adoption, to grow up for May IS, and opinion polls suggested he by lesbian and gay couples. the choice to honor their commitment to can American families. but rather "an aberration, a moral evil". Representatives, but Republican supporters for House Minority Leader Richard as part of a loving, stable and permanent could have received at least 20 percent ofthe The White House and House Republi­ each other through civil marriage. Religious leaders opposed to the amend­ Marianne Duddy. executive director of say that enough Republican legislators sup­ Gephardt (D-Mo), said the charge that family," Milbum said. vote. Fortuyn was shot several times in the can leaders declined to support the mea­ ment held a separate press conference the DignityAJSA, said. "These comments are port it to enanble the bill to pass, if the House Democrats would sacrifice ENDA for par­ Lambda Legal pointed out that many fami­ The bill Is now working its way through head and neck outside a radio station. Dutch sure. White House Press Secretary Ari same day. Rabbi David Saperstein, director of outrageous and represent the worst kind of leadership allows it to come to the floor for a tisan political gain in the election is "a total lies can be strengthened by therights an d Pariiament authorities have arrested a 32-year-old man Fleischer said that the Defense of Marriage the Religious Action Center of Reform Juda­ i bigotry. They are not consistent with au­ vote. lie. ENDA was put together in a compro- responsibilities that civi! marriage provides. -TTie Washington Blade with ties to animal rights groups. Act (DOMA) sidled by President Clinton For example, with marriage a spouse can: ism, said, "This amendment is not about 1 in 1996, already defines marriage under protect children through a strengdiened par- protecting families. Certainly, my family will

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The staff, board aod "It's a really good opportunity to get hands- tintie as a p>articipant in the Women's Movie terview: she said. community have been just awesome as fax. as on experience and learn about the t?eal working and Trivia nights," she adds, "just for fun." welcoming me and helping me." Her next step environment," Ciara said. Michelle adds, "It wasn't just the presenta­ Michelle feels her time at the Alliance has Gay Alliance Interns Ciara Relyea» Derek Monturo is to go for her masters* degree, probably Tanya Smolinsky commented, "It was a plea­ tion. I didn't know this agency existed, but had had a major effect on her life. **What was of and Michelle Bonura starting n(tyiX January; she received her BSW sure having Ciara here on a weekly basis as an always had, an interest in civil tights. Our text­ most value to me was gettii^ to know the gay last month, graduating with a 4.0 average and intern. She is very bright, reliable and book had just one chapter on Igbt issues, aod community, and making changes in my own I knew that wouldn't be enough. When I found the Al Lindy Award for community service, hardworking. Any non-profit agency would fanxily, such as what church 1 go to now and out there was a Gay Alliance, I knew that was grade point average and positive attitude to­ By Susan Jordan working with. I wanted to intern at the GAGV lucky to have her on staff" how I raise my children. I've joined the Roch­ the place to ieam more." ward her profession. "All I can say about the Ciara Relyea, Derek Monturo and Michelle specifically because I'm planning on going into Derek Monturo is a senior at School With­ ester Women's Community Chorus, and have Michelle is the mother of two young chil­ made ftiends 111 continue to see. No matter future is that I'll use my imagination." Bonura all agreed: the Gay Alliance is a good work with non-profits, either connected \inth out Walls, which requires students to do com­ Michelle Bonura Derek Monturo dren, and commented that she doesn't know Tanya Smolinsky said, "Michelle is the first place to do internships, and their time at the glbt rights or the environment, when I gradu­ munity service (on which they are graded, get­ what agency I work at in tlie future, I'll make it what their sexual orientation A*ill be; she is straight ally we have had do an internship with GAGV has changed their lives in ways both ate next May." ting a full credit at the end of the year) every Summing up, Derek said, "I improved my gay-friendly." of being perceived as lesbian. "At first, when I concerned that they grow up in a tolerant the GAGV. Watching her grow tremendously great and small. Ciara worked with Tanya Smolinsky, com­ Thursday morning. "I had to do a health project communication skills — that was the biggest The most surprising and shocking aspect of did things like go to pick up an order at a store, society. "I grew up in a very homophobic through her internship and seeing glbt com­ Interns can receive college or high school piling data for the 2001 annual report, and this quarter," he said, "and one ofthe places to thing I gained here." If he were talking to her experience was dealing with the homopho­ I'd find myself whispering TTiis is for the home," she said. "I saw how miserable my munity members and clients resp>ond so posi­ credit for their work with the GAGV, and both doing phone interviews with people research- do research was the Gay Alliance, so I chose another student who was thinking about in­ bia of friends and co-workers when they learned GAGV,' but soon I was loudly saying that parents were, and didn't want to be like them, tively to her convinces me that we need many interns and volunteers in general can benefit by that, and then decided to do rny community terning at the GAGV, Derek said he would where she would be interning. "I went through without a momenr's thought. Now, when I put so that taught me to be the opposite." more straight allies as interns here at the GAGV. learning real-world skills, meeting new people, service here too. I decided on that because I was tell them, ^'They'd have to schedule some my own coming out process," she said. "I was where I've interned on my resumes, I'm so "We as staff really enjoy the unique experi­ and feeling that they are helping a worthwhile familiar with the GAGV, and I wanted to help dme weekly to be here. It would be helpful to During her time as an intern, Michelle met shocked at the amount of negative reactions I proud of the gay community, that I feel it's a and befriended many lgbt people. "I became ence of working-with interns. We hope to have cause. Most interns are lesbian, gay, bisexual or out a cause I'm much in favor ot." be strongly for the cause, and for people like got.... I'd say I was going to intern at the Gay compliment when people assume I'm gay! I very close to the gay commumty by participat­ many more students from area colleges join us transgendered, but for heterosexual interns, Derek, who will study clinical psychology that, it's a great place to seive. I worked with Alliance and there would be silence, or they'd didn't expect to go through this, so that was a ing in events and attending workshops," she as interns in future years." the experience can mean a whole new insight next year at MCC, feels that the most challeng­ Patty and sometimes we'd set aside time to just ask, *>«%?'. I found a lot of resistance." shock to me. Bur I am going to remain active said. Her work at the GACiV included answer- into the lgbt exp»erience, and a new^ sense of ing and rewarding thing he did as an intern was just talk, which was great. She showed me Michelle also had to overcome her own fear in the community, and I'm looking forward to befriending and identifying with gay people. to call various youth hotlines around the coun­ how to use the DSM4, which is a diagnostic In the past year, Michelle Bonvira and Ciara try and ask about their hours, questions they are tool used by psychologists; she showed me pnurMjririLrimm^ u. 2'i^lJSJiufLinu, ^unLTL.ry'^^i^^ Relyea have interned ^vith the programming commonly asked, and if they had information how to make it an application to use in the real section ofthe Alliance, and Derek Monturo has about the GAGV and could provide referrals, world." done the community service required by his Party Hayes said, "Derek's a really bright among other topics. He said, "TTiat was some­ Lrnzn h;i;h schoo! by worldng with Patty Hayes and thing I really enjoyed. 1 had to ask about run­ voung man wHo.'s natuniliy inquisitive and ART, rhe GAGV Youth Program, Clara Relyea at the Gay Alliance Community away programs and whether staff was trained to verv quick to learn tasks and absorb informa- Ciara Relyea, who is majoring in women's Center. help gay youth. I'm working on my personal tiof). Some ofthe stuff 1 had him do was stuff svudies and psychology at the University of skills, so that was very helpful. When I v/as I couldn't get to myself.. I wanted a youth to i GIFTS, ing school papers, providing information for Rochester, said that interning at tlie GAGV calling these places, I'm not that great with do the calls to youth hotlines around the their research, along with many other tasks. was her idea. "Oneof my requirements for one introducing myself to strangers, so I had to country to give me an idea of how they dealt Ciara said, "Interning taught me how to ot my upper level courses (3(X)-level women's break down what I wanted to say at first, then with youth. He also pitched in at crunch times FILMS fl organize informadon and how to let support H studies) was to intern. I Icnew about the Alli­ gradually I didn't have to do that any more." to help with key tasks when staff just couldn't '3 ers know where their donations are going, and ance from the Pride Network (U.R.'s glbt stu­ get to them." how to organize workshops and programs." In addidon, Derek did database entr^', and dent group); I'm on the execudve board, and compiled a list of movies with lgbt themes, Michelle Bonura is an older student, a mar­ Not onJy did Ciara enjoy the experience, she we do a lot of work with the GAGV. I was which is now on file at the Alliance. "I also ried heterosexual who was working toward credits it with bringing up her GPA (grade looking for internsiiips, and (the GAGV) was worked on the web page," he said. "I enjoyed her BSNX' degree at SUNY Brockport when a-' point average). "I got a high grade for (intern­ on file at one ofthe organizations that I'd been that — I like working with computers." she became a GAGV intern last fall. She ing)," she said. "It was no stress, just come in Come Connect With Your Pride! S 9 i E? ^JPf^ QKOdi Alt For Your Best Movie Selections In VHS And DVD

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Networic programs, the Assembly provided to sit down and tell my story as a lesbian bow Sash attended 11:30 a.m. mass on Pen­ For more Information and tickets, call $2.0 million in funding through its discretion­ student. She y«^as unav^re thiat school can be tecost Sunday, May 19, at Rochester's Sacred Strong Memorial Hospital AIDS Center at ary budget, and In 2000 it provided another a place of such torment for so many young Heart Cathedral. Other than the sash, noth­ (585)275-0528, and see the article in the $2.5 million. And as mentioned earlier, the adults. ing distinguished their presence at the ser­ entertainment section. Assembly provided $1.5 million in March "I see statistics as a main part of my job," vice. All who presented were given commun­ Family Movie night, hosted by Gay Fathers' from the 2001 supplemental budget. she says, "but hearing from so many people ion. Group, is Friday, July 12. at 6:30 p.m. The Gay In January when Governor Pataki made that live this daily makes quite a personal "The reception this year was wonderful Fathers' Group hosts a femily movie night for public his '02-'03 executive budget, he in­ impact." And it was that "personal Impact" from the congregation. Last year we had families with children between the ages of sbc cluded for the first time a line item for the that made her and Senator Rick Doiiinger quite a few people who were rude. This year, and 14 years old, at the GAGV Community Network totaling $2.5 million. This ynove decide to be cosponsors of the Dignity for there was none of that," said Rochester Center located at 179 Adantic Ave. For essentially locked in state funding for the five- Alt Students Act, as well as Sexual Orienta­ Convener Charles E. Mudge. more information, contact the GAGV at year-old program. Following the Governor's tion Non-Discrimination Act (SONDA) and Sash wearers were not heckled. The group I 244-8640. announcement, Assemblymember Deborah the 2000 Hate Crimes Law LOBBY DAY: Rochester lobbyists thank Sen. Rick Doiiinger (left) for his committed walked in together, sat In the third row and 1 Also on July 12, at 9 p.m., join the scene at Click (D-Manhattan) sent a letter to Speaker support. From leh to right with the Senator: Nathaniel Hubble, Katie Ewing (seated), worshipped as part of the congregation. the 5th Annual Break a Sweat for Pride. Club Silver asking him to match the $2.5 million Biking from Jack Ellis, Misty Walling, Jia-Jia 2:hu, Thomas Warfield and Jamie Whitbeck. There was no mention made from the pulpit RAINBOW SASH: Charles Mudge and Gail Mastrella iat Sacred Heart Cathedral GQ is the setting of this year's dance benefit with another $2.5 million. The $1.1 million of the group's visible presence. Altar decora­ on Pentecost Sunday, May 19. The sash honors Igbt Catholic identity. to support the Gay Alliance of the Genesee today added to the $ i 5 million March figure Montreal to Maine tions did have a rainbow theme, which may Valley and Come Out and Play. Admission is from ^e Assembly equals $2.6 million. have been a coincidence. "Rainbows every­ Church, and hasn't the church taken enough on aVaccine Ride Pride Weeic events $5. Stay tuned for updates in the July EC. where!" noticed Mudge. of a beating lately? "They are welcome here "We give special thanks to Run or walk for pride on Saturday, July 13, By SherriU Fulghum The Catholic Church makes no effort to any time," Mulligan stated. "Let's leave it at Assemblymember Deborah Glick for her wiil run from July 7 at 9 a.m. It's the Second Annual Pride Fun "I'm really nervous about making the ride. hide its distaste for gays. The Pope tried to thaL" role in today's announcement and for her Run/Walk hosted by Rochester Frontrunner/ I'm not an athlete," said Tom Ferrero when run them out of Rome. His minions regularly "It would be nice to be openly, publicly to Picnic on July 14 ongoing support for the Network," said Frontwalkers. The run/v^lk will begin at he spoke about his upcoming adventure, the get in their licks. Many who lead the church welcomed; however, I know in their hearts Grabarz. "She has obviously had a significant George Eastman House on East Ave. Don Canada-U.S. AIDS Vaccine Ride scheduled insist that gay priests are the reason for the they are with us. By their acceptance of us, it By Susan Jordan impact over how Albany responds to the your pride garb and show your true colors at to take place at the end of August. The ride current fcindraising problems in the church. shows that we are wekome," said Mudge. The The Igbt community of Rochester wili cel­ r^eeds of our community. This is a difficult this fun event to celebrate Pride. For more is a 400~mi!e trek in five days from Montreal connected to its pedophilia scandal. The movement hopes Its visibility shows other ebrate Pride the second week In July with budget year with far fewer discretionary information, contact [email protected]. Quebec tc Portland, Maine. church also hides behind the bigots in its Catholics that they worship with gay, lesbian, the theme "2002: Streets of Pride". dollars available, it is a tribute to Got small children? Mark your calendars The Canada-U.S. ride is one of a series of Catholic League who badmouth gays at will. bisexual and transgendered Catholics every On Sunday, July 7, the annual Pride Tea Assemblymember Glick that the Network for Saturday, July 13 at 11 a.m., when Borders rides scheduled in the US, Europe, and Africa With all of this, why does this group of gay week. Dance will be held from 4 to 8 p.m. as a still received an appropriation." and the GAGV will host the annual Gay Pride designed to raise maney for AIDS research. Catholics work so hard to stay connected? Bishop Clark did speak on the subject when benefit for the Empire State Pride Agenda; Asked whether 2002 being an election Story Time for Young Children, at Borders These rides were created by Dan Pallotta, a As a baptized and confirmed former Catho­ informed of the attendance of the Rainbow place and time to be announced in the July year might be a factor in explaining the Books and Music, located in Henrietta across Harvard graduate who wanted to make a lic, this reporter doesn't understand that, Sash group. He says If the group does not £C sudden increase in dollars going to the Net­ from Marketplace Mall. For more informa­ difference in the world. Wanting to do some­ and was eager for this assignment. I had not disrupt services it will not be denied the Monday, July 8, is the Movie Night, hosted work, Joe Tarver, spokesperson for the Pride tion, contact the GAGV at 244-8640. thing bigger than himself was why Pallotta attended a Catholic mass in at least two Eucharist. "Those who come to Eucharist and by the Rochester Transgender Group. The .Agenda, said, "For some time now, elected The Gay Pride Parade will take to the started Pallotta Teamworks, and it Is why years. Back when I was someone, I was "^^ry observe the courtesies, the protocol, the film will be screened at 7 p.m. at the Gay officials from both parties have been reach­ streets on Saturday,July 13. Line up begins at Tom Ferrero, despite his fears, is going on a Assemblymember Susan John (seated) has always been supportive ofthe Igbt community. involved in the church I loved — from altar good order of our celebrations — we don't Alliance Community Center, 179 Adantic ing out to the Pride Agenda and the LGBT 5 p.m.; Parade starts at 6 p.m. The parade 400-mile bike ride in August. With her above are Nathaniel Hubble, Katie Ewing. Roy Emerson, Justin DeSalvo and Misty boy to lector to Eucharistic Minister to bother them." Ave. For more Information, contact the community to tell us our concerns are being begins at Park Ave. and Brunswick, continues Ferrero graduated fron^i RIT on May 26 Walling. Parish Council President. If they now don't Organisers such as Charles E. Mudge ex­ GAGV at 244-8640. heard and are Important to them. The Pride down Park, turns north on Goodman and with a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in Metal want you, why should you remain a part of plain that the Rainbow Sash movement asks On Tuesday. July 9, COAP (Come Out Agenda has always indicated to the political ends at the Rochester Museum and Science Sculpture and Jewelry Design. He is an ex­ Those wishing to make a donation may the Church? the church to recognize that it deeply needs and Play) will present Pride Volley-Ball in community that good words are a start, but Genesee St. Campus Center on East Ave. For more information, ecutive board member of the RIT Gay also email Ferrero at [email protected] or Privately, many who serve in the church the grace and wisdom of gay, lesbian, bisexual Ellison Park. For more information, contact in themselves are not enough. There must be contact the Business Forum at 234-8706. Community Alliance. He wiil return to Roch­ call him at 860-922^3657. To help in his of Unity Health are very tolerant. They will insist that you and transgender people. COAP at 4S4-3609. a commitment to our issues that translates The parade wil! be followed immediately ester, his second home, in September to fundraising eflorts Ferrero has issued a chal­ overlook the public pronouncements from This year, in addition to claiming our rightful On Wednesday, July 10. from 7 to 9 p m., into legislative action. Only then will our needs volunteers by the Annual Gay Pride Cultural Festival, continue his work at RIT as an Artist In lenge to the business sector. Ferrero wil! the old men in charge. Admittedly, there Is a place within the Mystical Body of Christ, the the Gay .Alliance of die Genesee Valley wili community take seriously their desire for from 6 to 10 p.m. at the Rochester Museum Residence. By making the ride, Ferrero hopes wear each of the t-shirts of the first five strong temptation to return to a means of group also calls for reform in the whole body host its annual Community Center Open our support at the ballot box. Today, words Do you have an hour or two to spare this and Science Center. The festival marics the that the experience will help him in creating businesses to donate $500 on one day of his worship that you were raised on and loved. of the Church, joining our voices with the House. The GAGV is celebrating its 12th became legislative action. This is a very good week? Volunteers are needed at the Genesee end ofthe Pride Parade and the beginning of his jewelry designs. ride. The production at Sacred Heart is polished. voices of non-gay Catholics who are also year at the 179 Adantic Ave. location. Join development for the LGBT community in Street Campus of Unity Health System at 89 an evening celebrating the pride and diversity Ferrero said that a ride like this takes a By making the ride Ferrero iiopes to give They put on a good show. The sermon from calling for reform. Why the demonstration the Board, staff, volunteers and community New York State." Genesee SL (in the former St, Mary's Hospi­ of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender great deal of commitment to ride and train, something back He also hopes to heighten Fr. Joseph Marcoux was relevant on Pentecost Sunday? leaders in this event, and learn about what The Network is unique in the nation. tal). community. For more information contact but that the people at Pallotta Teamworks his knowledge and awareness about AIDS. "I Bishop Matthew Clark was away, calming "it's the day that we ask the Holy Spirit to the GAGV does for the Greater Rochester While a handful of other states fund gay- Positions are available at the information the Business Forum at 234-8706 or visit the are very supportive. In their literature Pallotta hope the experience will make me a better the flock at one ofthe parishes where he had open the eyes and ears of the Church to the Community. For more information, contact specific programs, New York is the only one desk, or to provide clerical support, delivery website www.streetsofpride.com. Teamworks states that the rides will tax person, a more aware person," said Ferrero, fired a priest. That left Sacred Heart Pastor pain and injury of its gay, lesbian and the GAGV at 244-8640. to have a network of organizations from ali services, or friendly visiting with patients In On Sunday, July 14, from I 1:30 a.m. to corners of the state working together and a your wallet, your body, and your spirit, but Fr. John Mulligan to talk with The EmpVf transgendered children," said Mudge. "With Thursday. July 11, is the date of the Pride the Unity Living Center. 12:30 p.m, the Third Annual Gay Pride Wor­ funding stream from the state available to that anyone can ride Pallotta stresses safety Qos^t. He refused an interview. When this the problems In the church and the scandals Social, hosted by the Greater Rochester For more information on volunteering at ship Service will tzke place, just t>efore the help it meet the health and human service and takes care of their participants, but they reporter Identified himself, his comment was going on maybe the people are starting to Gay and Lesbian Business Forum, from S:30 the Genesee Street Campus, contact Merice Picnic. The worship service is being coordi­ needs of the LGBT community. Currently, require a lot more than a commitment to that "too many people read that paper." realize we're not the problem, we're part of to 7 p.m. at the Cunningham House (Roch­ Wilkins. 368-3255. nated by the Open Arms Metropolitan Com­ 3 I of the 50 Network members have re­ ride from each participant. Mulligan didn't take the time to explain the solution." ester Museum and Science Center). For Unity Health System is a 681 -bed health munity Church, but will also include repre­ ceived state funds. Pallotta furnishes medical personnel, food, himself, but it's obvious he can't win by For more information see the related Information call the GRGLBF hodine, 234- care network serving the City of Rochester sentatives from other congregations. The showers, and tents. All personal items, bed­ website www.RainbowSashMovemenLorg 8706. They include Rochester's MCX:HA Project, iscussing the issue of gays In the Catholic service will be held at the Roundhouse at ding and equipment must be provided and western Monroe County. Services in­ Also on Thursday, July I I, the ImageOut that provides health services to men of color, Genesee Valley Park. by the riders. Pallotta also requires a sub­ clude acute care, psychiatry and behavioral Film Series presents two films at 7 p.m. at the Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley's The Annual GAGV Gay Pride Picnic will stantial financial commitment from each rider health, physical medicine and rehabilitation, the Little Theatre 2. 240 East Ave. Tickets youth program; a program in New York City run from I p.m. to 7 p.m. on July 14. The in the form of fundraising donations. For the primary care and family medicine, women's are $6. Why Uot Mt {Pourquoi Pas Moi) that helps reduce isolation among seniors, Picnic, located in Genesee Valley Paric. marks Canada^U.S.. ride that amount is $3,500. health, continuing care, housing, laboratory, Stephane Giusti - France, 1999, 35 mm, 94 and one in Long Island that puts on work­ the culmination of over a week of celebra­ Upon registration for a ride, Paliotza pro­ occupational health and child care services. min. (In French with English subtides) deals shops in Long Island school districts to sen­ tions of community pride. Join thousands of vides each rider with a webpage where with three lesbians and a gay man who sitize students and staff to the hostility faced Tom Ferrero lesbians, gay men. bisexuals, transgendered people may leave messages for the rider and decide it's time they came out to their by LGBT youth. people and their friends and families from atl make a donation for the ride. The net pro­ parents. A dinner party is arranged and -Empire State Pride Agenda over upstate New York, Canada and else­ ceeds from each ride go to the UCLA AIDS soon after cocktaib are served and closets where ,for a relaxing afternoon In the sun by Lobby continued from p. I institute and the Emory Vaccine Center. The VVoiftanMacle Prodlucts opened, comedy, melodrama, and riotous the riverside, or dancing in the Pavilion. funds are unrestricted and n>ay be used In Central N«w York's First Choice for laughter ensue. they have support of the principal." T-Shlitj • ?uzxtei • Night lights • Books • Pottery • Lwnps • Kite* • Drutm • itw^ky Tickets for the picnic will be sold in ad* whatever manner the scientists deem neces­ • ioornmH • Candles • Sun C«tchen • Steel Scul|}tur« • Cem» «i Stoiies * Cloclct • Earfy Frost (Getee Precoce) (Pierre Pinaud— Jamie's hope is that her school will come to T»fct C*rd» • PMIowt • M»itt>rt • ftcfrigeritor Magnets • Children's Toys • Posters vance at locations throughout Rochester. sary. (Pallotta Teamworks is currently being and much, much more... France. 1999, 3S mm, 17 min.; in French develop a zero tolerance policy In regards to sued by indivkluals who claim that not enough with English subtitles) is an innaginative tale Advance tickets will be $5 for general admis­ any kind of biased language. This kind of Featuring The Most Unique of the proceeds actually go to AIDS org»nl- about a young girl*s introduction to preju­ sion and $ 13 to include beverages. Day-of- movement is never going to happen unless xatk>n$, and that too much money goes shirts • Souvenirs • Gifts dice and homophobia, when she and her picnic donations of $ 10 would be welcomed, the bill is passed. In The Finger Lakes toward overhead; the issue is far from being parents realize that her pet rabbit is prob­ and a $20 donation would include Sitting next to Jamie was a ) 6-year old, resolved at this time) ably gay. For more infonnation call (585)271 • beverages.The Gay PHde Pknic is sponsored Jeremiah, who telb a very different story. fc^tm>'^9 Tt^^ -u^^f^^fi^^M. ^»«. '^f^.^jiofhf by Kodak and the Akemative Phone Book. The Student Government Association of s /v 2640 or email [email protected]. "My school has a lot of gay teachers who g1 Fall Street, Seneca Falls, NIY 131-40 • 315-368-936^ RIT has made a pledge to donate $300 to On FHday. July IX the ImageArt Opening Full, updated details on all PHde Week everyone knovys are out, so no one really Ferrero. To visit Tom Ferrero'i website or Art Reception will take place from 6 to 9:30 events will be published in the July Empty sa/s stuff. It's still not perfect though, we to make a donation go to http:// pjm. at Hungerford Gallery, 1115 East Main Chset, available by June 28. For more infor­ have straight allies but only In certain groups homepage.bethepeople.com/display/ St #3B. 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Sheila Healy of the Pride Agenda'sAlbany joe Grabarz, executive director of the Empire office is the liaison with the LGBT Human Services Network. Below, the after-dinner State Pride Agenda, talks vi^th a guest at the pastries tempted many guests. spring dinner on May 4 at the Riverside Convention Center.

•3 AT THE STARTING POST: Ellen Yacknin (third from right) at a fundraiser for her OFF AND RUNNING: : N.Y.S. Comptroller Carl McCall was named the official campaign for the Democratic nomination for a City Court seat. The event was held at Max's Democratic Party nominee for New York Governor on May 23. He talks with on April 24. In May, Yacknin was named one of two candidates for the two seats. From left Rochester attorney Ellen Yacknin, who is one of two Democratic cartdidates for two City Court seats, at the ESPA spring dinner on May 4. 4 IN COMMUNITY: Above right: Russell Roybal of the Gill Foundation, based In to right: Tom Privitere (campaign chair), Chris Wilmot (County Legislature), Tim Denver, Colo,, prepares for one of the InCommunlty Workshops which Gil! co- Tompkins (campaign committee). Yacknin, Lynda Gamer Goldstein (County Legislature), sponsored this spring with the GAGV. Above left: Roybal with GAGV board members and Joe Robach (State Assembly). Pam Barres (left) and Shirley Bowen (right). The Gay Alliance was one of the national Igbt organizations chosen to work with the Gill Foundation this year, presenting Bi^v^i^ Sti3>re St^ workshops for non-profit groups on board development, fundraising, strategic planning and more. The workshops have made the GAGV more visible in the Rochester human services agency community. They will resume inSeptember. FINE WINES AND SPIRITS Low Prices Come shop the Daily Specials In business since area's largest and Winter Discounts January, 1995 best selection of ARE YOUR HOME HOURS • 20% off service • 25% off tsres DISCOUNT LIQUORS & WINES fine wines and and M. T, Th, F 10-6 "Leave us home...but not alone, "SM 6S(0 West Ridge Road POSSESSIONS SAJFE AND SECURE? Saturday 10-4 • Mention Empty Closet and get Rochester, NY 14615 spirits at the low­ other hours by appt 50% off inner tubes and patches Creature Comfort 621-4210 fax: 621-6227 est prices. Of course, yois're insured against loss in the case of is hard; cycling should be easy Pet Sitters ttiefl, fire, flood or other natural disasters. 1 757 Mti Wope Avenue (next to Rowe**hoto) •Daly Visits •Waks v^House Sitting (overnight sleepovers) WHY SHOP ANYWHERE ELSE! But do yon have a permanent record on file of all your Rochest^tv NY T462C^ 535-473-3724 •Pet Transportation (taxi servicje) •"Service Dogs" possesions for insurance purposes? •Household Errands e WE DELIVER • WE SHIP IN NYS Fully lnsured/Bon€iocl/Refen»nces Let Paladin Digital Photo Service photograph your ANNIVERSARIES * OFFICE PARTIES * BIRTHDAYS * FAVORS preckMis Items and archive them digitally. Well also iteubize yoor possessions to indicate purchase price, STREETS OF PRIDE Member. National Association of Professional Pet Sitters DINNER PARTIES * WEDDINGS AND UNIONS * HOLIDAYS * cnrrait condition and value. GRADUATIONS * "WILL & GRACE" NIGHT (716)872-9190 cxpetsltters com Hours: Monday-Wednesday 9 am-9 pm / Thursday-Saturday 8:30 am-9 pm G e t Re a d y iprPrVde J

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Aboveand right: scenes from Gregg Coffin's musical Convenience, running at G*ya Theatre through June 16. The play stars Jim Poulos as th* gay son and Haryjo McConneJI as his mother.

Vicky Shaw The Strong Memorial } lospita.1 (SMH) AIDS C»?nteT wiil be hosting a benefit on Friday,July ••i"^ 12 at 5:30 p.m, on the grounds of tfi*; Rochester MuseutTk and Science Center, The event will Bjr JiDlifi M* Aceto am I missizi^ that i shosid be enjoying? What'^s writer, Gregg Coffin, Has dropped two feanire dinner, music, door orizs and the com- I nerves: really likedl the dieater, especiatly wiortg Twtth me? feongs and added five oth^rrs. I mm the aid edy of ViclcTe Shgw. tmtaicals. My i4ie*CCa«ional twos by otigioal production at the Mextstage at tite Some of the scenes haii>e been changed has headiined vanous events including the £iS£aMinndH*nd &ejasi«4ctiie^l^ I never Geva lliftatitf about a yeiar and a half ago, and ako, but as A whole the tnusf cal gels better. Michigan Women's Festival, the Dinah and «aw Phofttam^ Bent^ or Miss^Sk^, I was hooked* So hooked that I saw ka second He has also beefed up the dialogue be­ Lina Shore Golf Tournament jn California and My aunt m Vit^miL coed to <&«» aod W^Srdt Sf&fy^ How do along with. I played them ao ofu»i in the car, with age. and international cruises and resorts. the f^:tof».i«».y on c«e wii^ the audience memorizing all t^ apngs to the point where I The stoty revolve* around a universal Proceeds will benefit the Strong Memorial ntetking ^ tbftc n^sse? ^{ love dus ^cng, pa;^ was convicted I eoi^d Jjlay any ofthe roles, theme: famiiy dynamics, Liz (Mary Jo Hospital HIV Treatment Fund. The treatmenr dbtft Jbet£ho|i^ |ileaB»e*** And £ ilk} s«e CMS, a43d theri of coui«e go o£f ir> Bi^^ McConnell) and her son Vince (Jim fund was developed to assist with exf>enses of oofX' hc^^ jptwt say dNat Now aad Fotesrer Af*es bdisg: broi^^^ to Btoadway to inter- Poulos) ate abandoned by the man of the Strong Memorial Hospital AIDS Center pa­ ca^sed'kitja |!$«ase'Nev^r Agam, est peoducets and playing in Ohio and Call* house whtm Vince is only six years old. tients Padents can receive funds for healthcare- :-' l.|u«!t.^dlidiscit^it. Wh^ aiie these peofxle fbrnia* <:;«fw*«A!WWf Is back M^ £6r its Mother and son ate (|uite namtaily devas­ related, psychosocial/therapeutic, or quality- ^£tyio^ on the Main Sta^ at Oeva, ruani*^ tated by this, liz shut$ down and retreats of-life expenses. The fund is supported entirely ifH^jf^ #o|%. \il!^y a£en*t they tdktng? What until Jiute 16.1 tecendy s&wit a third time. The by donations and is not used to cover any Cocivenlence <»»ntjfuac«l on iMuct page administrative or overhead costs. The AIDS Center is a treatment faciiit}-^ des­ ignated by the AIDS Institute ofthe New York Florida Family Feud; Broadway Baby; In the fundraising despite Topeka's hatemeister Fred State Department of Health, and serves over Life Retrospective; Good VlBErations; and Phelps; political candidates supported by the 850 padents throughout Rochester and the Out Takes: Harvey Fierstein. It will air on Victory Fund; a new gay center in San Fran­ Finger Lakes region. The AIDS Center pro­ WXXI 21 (cable channel 11) on June 16 at 11 cisco, and awards events given by the Lambda vides a wide range of medical^ nursing, case p.m. Literary Foundation and GLAAD. /7Z. recog­ management and social work services in both In tht Ufe turns "10" in this special edition nizes the anniversaries of other gay and lesbian inpatient and outpatient settings.Suggested that celebrates a decade of pride in the gay and organizations in its coverage, as well. And TTL donation is $25 for the general public and $15 lesbian community. In a retrospective, Irt ihe continues History Moments featuring producer/ for UR .students with ID. Tickets mav be pur­ Ufe looks at its own progress in developing director Paris Barclay. chased at the SMH AIDS Center, 601 Eimwood the only nationally televised newsmagazine Correspondents Jonathan Capehart and Ave., Room 3-5000- Tickets will also be sold at series that documents the culture and con­ Daniel Karslake join series host Katherine the door the night of the event. For ticket and cerns of gays and lesbians. IJnton in the episode. event information call the SMH AIDS Center In the lead story, ITL speaks with couples at (585)275-0528. who are fighting Florida's ban against gay WXXI to air two adoptions. Other stories include a profile of Emil Welbekin, editor of VIBE magazine RGMC to present the legendary Broadway comp>oser and lyri­ gay-themed shows ''Men About Town'' cist Jerry Herman, with interviews from Carol On June 2,2000, Bill Clinton proclaimed June Channing and Angela Lansbury. Also TIL as Gay smd Lesbian Pride Month. In his Proc­ The Rochester Gay Men's Chorus will join with In the Life celebrates profiles the editor-in-chief of VIBE maga­ lamation address, he stated, '*This June... wc the Northcoast Men's Chorus from Qeveland, 10th anniversary zine, Emil Wilbckin, with interviews from celebrate the progress we have made in creating Ohio to present "Men About Town" on June Russell Simmons and Brandy. And in Out a sodety more inclusive and accepting of gays 15 at the Eisenhart Auditorium ofthe Museum In the JJfiy America's award-winning gay and Takes, actor Harvey Fierstein gives a com­ and lesbians. I hope that this new millennium and Science Center at 8 p.m. lesbian cuitund newsmagazine presents June's mentary on gay parenting. we will continue to break down the walls of fear Tickets run from f 10 to $8. For information episode on nadonai public television. The one- In OMt ^About, ITL reports on successful and prejudice." 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Convenience continued from p. I Vince communicate, with the adult Vince try­ "P.O.V.: The Smith Family" will air on filmmakers will be doctimenting the personal the Rochester Lesbian and Gay Film and Video WoHd of Women by Monica Nolan - USA, ImageOut, die Rochester Lesbian and Gay Film and Vince is left wondering if he caused the rift ing to protect Young Vince, and attempting to Tuesday June 25 at 10 p.m. "P.O.V. 2002" accounts of long-term gay and lesbian couples Festival strives to inform, entertain, educate 1996,16 mm, 10 min. Film noir faux-trailers and Video Festival,. Ticket info as before. between his parents. Mother and son grow help him overcome his childhood fears and premieres with Tasha Oldham's The &mtb Fam­ around the country through the summer. and enrich the Greater Rochester and Western illustrate lesbian drama like youive never seen apart, communicating only in heated argu­ doubts about his father leaving. ily. The Smiths of Salt I.dke City may have Couples interested in contributing to this docu- New York community through the exhibition it before in hilarious spoofs of giri on giri lust. ments until Vince reaches college age and There is actually a lot of humor going on as America's most common surname, but their mentaiy, currendy in long term relationships Diversity training of film and videos by and about gay, lesbian, Lesbian camp at its best. escapes, moving away and never returning. well. The character of Ethan stands out with a story is anything but ordinary. With two boys, (10 or more years), who have fought to over­ bisexual and transgendered people. My Cmnt by Deb Strutt & Hz Baulch - troupe holds tryouts Throvigh the years mother and son have only somewhat campy send up of the boyfriend. a dog, a nice house and a strong commitment come obstacles for rights or benefits, please The commitment of ImageOut to the com­ Australia, 1996,16 mm, 6 min. Maude Davey limited contact with each other. The lack of And the dialogue between mother and son is to the Mormon Church, Steve and Kim Smith contact [email protected] or call (954) Thalia Productions will be holding auditions for munity is to encourage the efforts of lesbian poses six sly questions about the meaning of communication over the years spawns resent­ blistering with sarcasm, both witty and heart- believed they had achieved the American 328-4864, FYI Productions is also seeking spon­ actor/facilitators on Saturday and Sunday, June and gay film and video makers, who as a group female perfection and tells us what Demi ments — and secrets. wamrung. There is a breakfast scene that will dream. sors to underwrite and promote this important 8-9, fi-oni 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. at 50 Chesmut Plaza, are rarely seen in mainstteam media, so that Moore, Pamela Anderson and her grand­ Rochester. Liz has moved on with her life, eventually have you literally laughing all the way home. Ali But, after nine years of marriage came the documentary, which will air on television and they may record and preserve the stories and mother have in cotnmon. Thalia is a profes.sicnal diversity training com­ finding someone to love, Abe (Martin of the actors have magnificent voices and a shattering revelations of betrayal — enough to at film festivals in the U.S. and abroad. histories of our lives; and to foster collabora­ Balking with Butcbj Episode One by Melissa pany that uses the medium of improvisational, Vidnovic). Vince has grown into a young man, definite stage presence. They seem to not merely test the strongest bonds of faith and love. tions and public discussion which break down Levin & Nina Levitt - Canada, 2000, Video, interactive theatre to help organizations deal who just happens to be gay, and has also found play the characters, but inhabit them. When Steve confessed to infidelities with men, ImageArt accepts walls of social and cultural ignorances about 5 min. Move over Julia Child, here's a butch with issues of harassment, discrimination and a partner, Ethan (Ron DeStefano). But neither Wnhat happens at the end? You'll just have to and the couple both found they were HFV^ entries for July show lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered in the kitchen — bitchin*. interpjersonal relations. Thalia has been custom Vince nor Liz seems willii^ or able to move see for yourself. And I dare you to not tap your positive, Kim made an unlikely choice. The on vocals and Markee Substance j>eople. Up High by Ewjenia Tsahana - Germany, designing training for compatiies nationwide for forward in their respective relationships be­ foot along with many of the songs. Am I now Smith Family is a searing account of one fatruly's ImageOut's Third Annual ImageArt Exhibit, and Darren Decoder functioning as engineers 1997, Video, 2 min. A woman in desperate nearly a decade. cause of aU the excess baggage they carry, left a theater queen? Doubtful. But I am now un­ struggle to preserve family and faith, while Western New York's premiere annual show­ and producers. Some could say is a ImageOut features need of a support bra shows us how boobs We are strongly encouraging actors of color to unpacked. Both Ethan and Abe convince Vince afraid to enjoy live theatre and am glad that redefining forgiveness in the face of daunting case of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender melting pot of all influential music of the can fly. audition. Please contact Heather Anthony at 585- and Liz that they need to talk to each other Convenience helped me turn that comer. tragedy. artists and poets, is accepting art entries this moment. At times surpassing the sound Dido two programs for CBt'O-Matic Adventures of a White Trash Girl 454-1810 to schedule an audition. about who they are and what they are doing strived for on her release, other tinnes calling WXXI continued firom p<^ I month and has events in June and J uly. by Jennifer Reeder - USA, 1995, Video, 7 with their lives. Vince breaks down and de­ No Frills plans The ImageArt Poetry Reading will take place June: girls' shorts and on the sounds of "Becoming X" by Pride Month, WXXI-TV 21 (cable channel 11) niin. Waiting tables by day and raising hell all Beautiful Thingj, a gay cides to plan a trip home for a week's visit. Saturday, June 15 from 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Writ­ , Kosheen blends equal parrs will air two programs that address the preju­ drag comedy night long, this sewer-bom super hero doesn't Neither of them appears thrilled with this runway fashion show ers & Books on l^nivefsity Ave. (entrance off comedy, to open at of dance with drum n' bass and trip hop. dices and fears endured by the gay cotnrnurut\^ think *.wice about waging biological warfare prospect. of Atiantic Ave.) in the new Verb Cafe. The Although Kosheen's version of "" "Frontline: Assault on Gay America" will air on June 8 atVSW The ImageOut 10th anniversary film series with her beaver blaster- Shipping Dock The story and tnusicunfold from there. But event is free, open to rhe public and will be sign- continues this month with two popular pro­ Butch/Femme Polka by Maureen Brownsey is a definite standout with its rubber-band onThursday,June 6 at9 p.m. On Feb. 19,1999, No Fnils Rochester is a multimedia art exhibit Beautiful Thing, a comedy by Jonathan what is compelling and often touching is the language interpreted. Selected poems to be grams. - USA, 1997, Video, 4 min. Ifyou ever thought beat and syncopated vocalSi other tracks are in Sjdacauga, Ala., 39-year-old programmer BiUy that includes a wearable-art, fashion p>erfor- Harvey .directed by Barbara K. Biddy, will open at use of a theatrical device to fill in the story of read by the poets were chosen by a jury, and First, at 7 p.m. on Thursday, June 13, a 10- It was possible to be too butch or too femme sure to pull you in. "(Slip & Slide) Suicide", a Jack Gaither was murdered, the victim of a mance. The event is scheduled for June 8 at The Shipping Dock Tlieatre, Inc., 151 St. Paul St. what happened to mother and son after the prizes will be awarded. feature girls' shorts program, followed at 9 high-powered track reminiscent of Moloko, violent hate crime. One ofthe convicted killers Visual Studies Workship, 31 Prince St. you might just leave the theatre humming (St. Paul Quarter), on Friday, June 14, and end on dad left. This is done by adding two additional Call for work entr^' forms for the ImageArt p.m. by a drag favorite, Battle for the Tmra^ and stumbles into the darker side of hedonism. testified he killed Gaither because he was T^ie show has been verv successful in rais­ this playful tune. Saturday, |uiv 6. characters. Young Liz (Melissa Rain Ander­ exhibir are .stilJ avaijable cv.jrside th.'." ImageOu': tvt'o other short films. The gid-v' shorts pfo­ Ptach by Chnstine Patker New Zealand, "Slow down/ Ease your mind/ Time to find/ "queer". FrontUne correspondent Forrest Saw­ ing funds> over the past six years f>""»r AIDS "OnJy the theatergt)er with an ice cube where son) and Young Vince (played also by Ron office in the Village Gate's C Wing and at the gram features selections from across the US. 1993, 35 mm, 15 min, A luscioiis fantasy Another ride...." It's pn:)bably the track clos­ yer explores the roots of homophobia in Community Services in Buffalo (ACS). In his heart should be v/ould remain indifferent to DeStefano). Young Liz and present Liz com­ Gay Alliance ofthe Genesee Valley 179 Adan­ and Canada and includes work from Australia, encounter between a lesbian and a 'straight" est to what the boys in the band started play­ America — as a catalyst for hate crimes and as a Rochester, the event is m its second year and the plight of Jamie and Ste, the teenage heroes of fort and confront each other, hashing over tic Ave. Entnes of original artwork (with a copy Germany, Norway and New Zealand. woman. ing as they began their careers. phenomenon that permeates our societ}' — vidll donate its proceeds to Helping People Beauttful Thing... an endearing lopsided smile of a past mistakes and present dilemmas. The two slide) are strongly encouraged, and entries can One selection. World of Woman (Monica Home for Christmas by Frank Mosvold - "Catch" is the most radio-friendly fare you'U and asks how these attitudes, beliefs and fears with AIDS as well as ACS. comedy about a boy who falls for the boy 'CieT^t mothers rely on each other for support and be brought to the Hungerford Gallery at 1115 Nolan, 1996) offers drama like you've never Norw ay, 2000,35 mm, 5 min. Surprise some find on "Resist". The relendess desire con­ contribute to the recent rise in violence against The fashion design p>oftion ofthe fijndraiser, store... Warm and rewarding." - The New York guidance. Similarly Young Vince and present E. Main St. #3B in Rochester on the following seen it before in hilarious spoofs; lesbian camp tained in Evans* voice sublimely captures the gays. starting at 10 p.m., is aimed at giving wearable one this Christmas. Tell them vou're a les- Times. dates for our artist drop-off penods: Saturday, at its best.' Another tells what Demi Moore, biaii! yearning we've all felt at one time or another art a fonam it otherwise wouid not have. Mod­ Performances will be at Fridays at 7:30 p.m., June 15 from 11 am. to 5 p.m. and Saturday, Pamela Anderson and a grandmother have in Advance sale tickets are available at for the love that is just out of reach. "You Fannily Ties els V,T[D stroll, strut and work the mnway in Sarjrdays at 8 p.m., and Sundays at 2 p.m., and June 22 from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. common. (It might make you ponder the mean­ Gutenberg Books, 675 Monroe Ave, Roch­ create misery / have your cake and eat it/ What's the newest Nick News for kids spe­ higt\ly creative couture pieces by designers tickets are $18 general admission, $16 seniors ECTV: Entries will be judged and selected by our ing of female perfection.) ester; the Pride Connection, ?28 South Ave, Take your place in history/ and pray we don't cial? It's called My Famiiy Is Different. Linda from Western New York, New York City, and students on Sundays only. Opening weekend LGBT jurors Lawrence Brose of Buffalo's The late program features Battle for the Ttara Rochester; and at Outiandish, Village Gate, repeat it." EUerbee gets you to spend a half-hour with Toronto, , Philadelphia and special: all nckets $ 16. No holding. Call 232-2250 CEPA Gallery, Joy Duskin of the Rochester (Eric Schiff & Charley Lang, 1998) which goes 274 N. Goodman St, Rochester. "Gone" pulls out a folky guitar, while w^hat's queer families with same-sex parents. Whatever helps Croatia. The choice of materials is a broad for reservations. Institute of Technology and Barb Braxizovich. behind the scenes at a drag "Miss America" Tickets may also be ordered by telephone "Empty Skies" ups the ante with an intense everyone Ieam more about diversity and toler­ range from wood and wire to unusual and This production features |oe Tinkelman, Ke\in There is a S10 tlat entr\' fee to submit one or two chariti*' fundraiser- Contestant's compete in a; the ImAgeOLit oftVe 3t (585) 2^1-2640 or jog and a drive that pushes vour heart to beat ance is good, right? One might consider this the interesting fabrics. TV-.c show combines ele­ Dedes, Daniel Mejak and Meg Devme of Roch­ on the tube? pieces (maximum). The ImageArt opening will bathing suit, evening gown, interview and tai- [email protected]. Re­ faster. The tide track pulls on the strings of first of a what could become new wave of ments oi perfoimance art and dance with ester, and Kerry Young of Ontario, N.Y. By Brad Smith take place Pride Weekend on Friday, J uly 1 2 ent competitions. Gina Gershon and Chris ana maining tickets may be purchased at the dysfunction "How could we resist it, life like "certified" gay content programs since Rosie music, sculpture and coutiire. Reality Twist from 7-9:30 p.m. at the Hungerford Gallery, Ricci also appear. Scream Tetn Scream (Joshua Litde Tlieatre box office on the night ofthe this/ dramatized and rvi-isted w^ith every kiss." O'Donnell is expected to participate. No air Additionally, there will be a multimedia gal- Leah Zicari to sing Tne latest reality programming effort might which is around the corner from the Village Rosenzweig, 1996) even brings back the ghost show beginning at 6 pm. Students up to age "Pride" goes deep. Similarities to Adam F date is set. lerv' exhibit featuring regional artists that will make a lot of sense to ZfC readers. Take five Gate complex. of Karen Carpenter in a one-of-a-kind rake on 21 wnth ID are offered half-pnce admission, at Milestones and Photek not withstanding, Evans con- Diva City remain on display for diree weeks alter the i,^,3\ men and turn them loose on the fashion- Last year attendance on opening nighi teen horror films. ImageOut Tenth Anniversary Film Fesu- Buffalo folksinger/songwnter I^ah Zicari will frf>nts the lover who won't commit. "\XTiat VH1 's Divas programs don't usually have a runway show. The galieiy opening vinill be at 9 cliallenged. Or, as the casting notice calls fon reached 5(K) people! The event is free and open Upcoming programs include a coming out val Program 8 starts at 9 p.m. at Litde Theatre perform in Rochester vmze. thJs month. (are) you gonna do/ ^X'hen it's time to recog­ host. Last week, Ellen DeGeneres became the p.m. on June 8. Tickets are $10. turning a "crude and uncultured" straight guy to the public, and the awards ceremony ac 8 theme night in July and a boy«' shorts program #2, 240 East Ave. $6 (Half-price with stu­ Zicari will sing at Milestones, 170 East Ave., at nize/ Do you wanna get serious/>XTien you're first. Divas or not, adding Ellen to , Celine, into "a hip and happening Renaissance man at p.m. will be sign language interpreted. For in August. ImageOut also plans to premiere at dent ID); (585) 271-2640. Battle for the Ttnra 4 p.m. on June 2, as one of 10 finalists m the Bob walking by my side." Listeners may find the Mary J and the others made for a great lineup in Documentary the hands of five fabulously trendy gay men. more information or to have a call for work sent least two films this summer as fundraisers for by Eric Schiff & Chariey Lang - USA, 1998, Schwartz Memorial Songwriting Contest. track inspiring; it's the lover that falls in the Sin City. The bosses at Scout productions will search direcdy, please call ImageArt at (585)482-5234, the annual October festival week. Details will Video, 40 min. On June 28, Zicari and her band will appear at end. Speaking of Ellen producers seek the worlds of fashion, interior design, culrure, or Kyle Kulp at the Hungerford Gallery at be announced soon. An uproarious behind the scenes look at a Milestones as part ofthe ongoing Go Girls Rock! "Resist" is refreshingly dark and moody. By now^, CBS will have made it official, in­ grooming and food and wine for their five longterm couples (585)482-2040. ImageArt is a program of Advance ticket sales for ImageOut Tenth drag "Miss America" that raises money for music scries. Distainment and longing for affection are stead of not returning her phone calls. The Ellen hands. (Great, another show to advance the ImageOut, Rochester's lesbian &c Gay Film & A.nniversary Filin Series programs are at AIDS charities. Bathing suit, evening gown, constant themes throughout; easily accessible Show won't be back next fall. But Ellen Two people meet, fail in love, and want to gay man's image.) But the producers insist Video Festival. Gutenberg Books, 675 Monroe Ave, Roches­ interview and talent competitions are pre­ forgay boys and girls, I find this quickly DeGeneres is still on the comedy circuit and spend the rest of their lives together, get mar­ Music review: thev need expertise first, not stereotypes, and ter; the Pride Connection, 728 South Ave, sented for a panel of judges including celeb­ becoming a "must have" as I recommend she's preparing for her new talk show, which ried and take care of each other in sickness and remind us that the gay men are shoviang the ImageOut calls for Rochester; and at Oudandish, Village Gate, rities Gina Gershon and Christine Ricci. In­ Kosheen "Resist** discs to friends. Heck, it seems as if the straight debuts next year. She promises a fresh ap­ in health, for better for worse, till death do they way. The Queer Eye for the Straight Guy could 274 N. Goodman St, Rochester. Tickets may dividual stories arc both touching and hilari­ set is picking up on Kosheen as well: "Hide proach ~ such as "guests standing" and "squir­ part... So what prevents these two young (or work for fail festival By Jason Roberts make Bravo's fall schedule. Auditions are in also be ordered by telephone by leaving a ous. U"was recendy added to theplaylistofW^ER rels running around." DeGeneres told The Bos­ old) lovers from being married in the eyes of "Demonstrate and replicate. To set the tone, sit Boston in late June with taping this fall. ImageOut: The Rochester Lesbian and Gay message at the ImageOut office at (585) 271- Kskj €>• Herb: Total Eclipse of the Heart by in Rochester. ton Globe she hopes the show "will take me far the law? It seems like a straightforward ques­ back and wait" Swa|>ping Stud-meisters Film and Video Festival is prepating its 10th 2640 or by email at HYPERLINK Victoria Leacock - USA, 16 mm, 9 min. Once The imagery of the album should not go enough into the future so I don't have to do tion. This haunting message opens "Resist", the Name anodier show so gay it hurts. How anniversary program, and seeks the contribu­ mailtp:imsgeoat@roches ter. rr.com upon a time an aging chanteuse (| ustin Bond) unnoticed. The cover art and inside images (another sitcom) ever again." The answer is, the couple is gay. F\'I Pro­ debut disc released by the U.K. trio known as about TraSng Places on TLC? Two couples, tions of area film and video makers. [email protected]* H^em^ing tick­ was failing in lovCt bur we know she's only combine the awe-inspiring display of wild PP Update ductions will explore the issue of legalizing gay Kosheen. Circuit queens and club kids alike will viJd thousand doUars and two dajrs to screw Ijut year fi\c festival's 43 programs included ets may be purchased at die little Theatre box falling apart animals in their own habitat, complete with Comedian Paula Poundstone—who pleaded marriages in a documentary currendy in pro­ be familiar with rhe Kosheen-penned dance track up someone else's home. No one's out on this more than 120 films and videos. They were office on the nij^of the show be|puining at 6 Scream Teen Scfttam by Joshua Rosenzweig - lyrical capsules from "Resist." After further no contest last year to a felony count of child duction. Producer/Director Catherine Gray "Hide U" released by Suzanne Palmer of the show, but there's enough interior design ex­ shown at The Little Theatre, The Cinema, pm. AU tkkets ate |6. Students i^ to age 21 USA, 1996,16 mm, 38 min. A one-of-a-kind studying the images, the viewer wonders: Are endangerment — continues to impress the has teamed together with Emmy Award Win­ Peter Rauhofer/ Club 69 tribe last summer. pertise and extravagance to keep you in the Nazareth CoUege, the University of Rochester, with ID psy baif-ptice. take on teen horror films that is fidl of campy the animals real or stuffed replicas on display? judge watching her progress. She's attending ning Videographer/Editor, Dwayne Shorey, Interestingly enough, Palmer's version topped game. Root for your favorite designer, but and the Dryden Theatre at the renowned Gcotge On Hmreday, Jiaie 13, Piogcam 7 will fea­ pop culture references and even features a My favonte image includes what is usually a AA meetings and regular counseling sessions. to present the compelling and poignant sto­ Billboard's dance charts before Kosheen were carpenters are the stars here: Ty Pennii^gton Eastman House. ture the Gid» Shorts Program, at 7 pin, Utde ^«i«it by the ghost of Karen Carpenter Jackie fierce- looking wild bear cowardly climbing to Her next probation review is set for eariy this ries of couples across the United States who able to hit the US with the original version ofthe and Amy Wynn Pastor. The Third Coast Call for Work is an entry Theatte #2,240 East Ave. $6 (Half-price wash Beat and Sherry Vine star. the top of a tree stump, hiding from mikttsvtr month. are unable to benefit finom some of the basic same song. Kosheen foUows up the single battle Not That There's Anjrthing Wrong With category designed to highlight the work of film student ID). For information call 585-271- Advance sale tickets are available at Bu btkm. Below the image reads "Thank you Type Casting rights granted to heterosexual married couples with a stellar debut albiam, eager to take their Those Egga and video makers in the U.S. and Canada who 2640. MMI to [email protected] Gieuesifaefg Books, 675 Monroe Ave.; the for showing me who you are." Simply btil- Eonline reports that **Will 8c Grace" co-star - e.g. hospital visitation, adoption, survivor skilled stylings to the next level I can't Did "The Bacbeior** set off your gay-dar? live within a 200~nuie radius ofthe Great Lakes tmagi£[email protected] ; our visit the Pnde Gcmaecttod, 728 South Ave^ and at liant Sean Hayes wiU play Jerry Lewis in the CBS benefits. help but wonder if Kosheen's opemi^ manifesto Trade pub EiectrmiicMedia was first to discuss and the St Lawrence Seaway. ImageOut ac­ website at http://www.imageoat.org OudantSah, Village Gate, 274 N. Goodman For moft information on Kosheen, vitit the bands movie '*Maftin 6c Lewis." No word yet on who "Recendy, 9/11 has put a spodight on a b a dig at Rauhofer. Let*s hope karma is on the issue. Tht Ba£belor'v%& supposed to pick a cepts and showcases wo^ that includes short wwwimageoiit.otg St. Tickets may abo be ondered by telephone ef^eial nmbsits at wnfnf.hosbetn.com. For a fat's wiil be my favorite, Martin. denial of survivor benefits and Rosie Kosheen's side. wife from 24 women. How could he keep his and feature length films and videos. Topics i>Mb^r by LISA HAy«9 - Canada, 1999,16 inm, at dte Ixm^eOut office at (585)271-2640 or pen^ectivet dHckontnnvm.hosbein.net. WnmmmcbeU Convenience O'Donnell has come out to fight for adoption Ko^ieen's success came eady on as notable DJ cool around so many women warm for his range from narrative to documentaiy to experi­ 8 min. Exoesahre pef9pit«tic]«i infaibits a youi^ b^ email at imi«eoye^rocbe3ter.tr.com. more nbont music? Email me at Gregg Coffin's Cmventinte continues its mn rights for gay couples," notes Gray, "Our John Digweed began weaving ehir cnt •'Empty form? And in the end, no proposal! mental. Exhibition fonnats indude 35 mm, 16 woman teyii^to come to tenns with her sexual Remaining tickets may be purchased at the ban&alimMsic^Nitmailcom. at Geva Theatre. Team Rochester, our Gay objective is to show the personal, l^al, and Skies'* into his already-impressive woddwide gigs. iSilf reported spotting "The Bachelor" en­ mm, Betacam/SP and 1/2" video. A VHS orientation. Little Theatre box office on the nig)bt of the Games' team, is oiganizing a group to attend financial implications of denying a segment of Soon after. Kinetic Records noticed the group joying Sunday brunch at Mark's, a popular preview fonnat is required along with % com­ i4g^mM//Wby Isabella V. Chafl • U$A» 1996, «how begjnittf^ at 6 pjn. Students up to age Raptors lose to the June 11 performance. The play surrounds a our society — the sons and daughtett, sistets and began laytngthe groundwork forwhat is now West Hollywood restaurant. After all, *Thc pleted sul»anis8ton form. Thete n a smail pro­ 16 mm, 12 imii. Two teenaged slmost-loven 21 with H> are offered half-price admission. son's coming out to his mother and how they and brothers, aunts and uncles, loyal employ^ ••Resist" Connecticut Crush Bach** was stajring with friends there and ya cessing fee to enter up to two submissions. tneet years later in this bitietsweet, heartbreak­ June 2 the san^ rights straight couples often take hop beats, Kosheen's lyrics are introspective and A shutout is a shutout, but the Rochester place to visit, right? The story goes that he ate the ImageOut office at (585)271 -2640, ot by e- i^ZTlMrVA^byChetylDunye •USA»1991, atte, 240 East Ave. A Rochester premiere great music! Look for details elsewhere in the for granted." faithful, profviding a pervasive source of desire to Raptofs women's pro football team's 19-0 alone, took off his shict and hit the Strip. It maU to [email protected]. Website: Video, 23 min. Chionieles the experiences of filmTBA will be screened as a fondrsiser for EC. FYI Production's 2002 shooting schedule drive the collection. Made up of two dium n* bass score i^^ainst the Connecticut Crush does not might explain why the naan is being careful to wwwimageouLotg. Deadline July 8. one womanis search for love. this fall's 10th anniversary edition of pioneets and a raver giri, Kosheen consists of tcveal die strengdis of Rochester's new foot- commit. includes New York, N.Y. on July 6-7. The Through ImageOut and related activities. s v; ^ '•""'''• S> *-i;t. \^ -, ^ •• J \v'**^ .. ••f t~^ -•ii?'''i*^^^SS^''^ f« V M » IS it "^";>: 5 4 7 E SM1»TV Cl.O$mT B4 IT M^» ^^i^^«.1^j^^,;. >-^>>.\^^-j^^^ PdH ball sensation. Growing Up from Wong's practically everyday (no wonder Although the inaugural season for the team by Eric Bellmann I had taken on the shape of Buddha), and had was characterized by the '*S" word concerning been seeking a new source of guidance for my points and losses, reading between the scores Bii\ ine or Sellinu a I Ionic? life. Feng Shui, self-hypnosis, and wheat-germ shows the team's growth and protnise, as it has n-M Havana shakes were utter failures. I found myself rear­ already signed on for 2003 in the National ranging my furniture in the middle ofthe night Women's Football Lease's Central Division. Cuba was something I thought I had to do. while drinking god-awful green shakes when­ Upon hosting the Crush at East Rochester Few places intrigue me anymore. Where did ever I snapped my fingers. But once I read my High School on May 11, the Raptors pulled the idea come from? Probably the movies. fortune that fateful day, I knew my life was together an increasingly impenetrable defen­ ALL ARK iwiEc: That's where I discover places I want to see. going to change for the better. sive line, holding the Crush to 12 points by And of course, eons ago, like everyone else, Guide to Columtis Pennies from heaven find their way to your halftime. Tightening the pressure as the May I thought the revolution was wonderful and it Please Take Note doorstep today. night turned frigid affinried the Raptors' ever- ip The opinions of colutnnists, I just knew I was going to be rich by the end was, for a while. The previous regime, we all Misadventure In Boyland...... „6 increasing toughness, as they allowed only knew, was corrupt. Rather like when the Shah editorial writers and other contrib­ of the day. The fortune cookie gods were seven points in the second half. uting writers 9re their own and do Gay Questk>ns.com „ 6 smiling down on me. So after work, I njshed fell in Iran, liberals everywhere, like myself, Healthy and Gay ..„. 6 A large crowd of fans came out for the cheered, hoping that life for the average person not necessarily reflect the collective home to teU my roommate. TransGender View» .«««t»**««**«V««4«.«#«^»*«.*^«.*^ ' Raptors vs. the Crush game, including many — the workers ofthe world—would improve. attitude of the Gay Alliance of the 6 I found my best friend and roommate Marcy TOP Sti-pN^^^ The Chapteri Seldom Tokf. ..7 mothers who were presented with flowers It rarely works out that way. But I did see later Genesee Valley or the Empty sitting at the kitchen table rolling pennies. from their player-daughters, and tlie moms in movies, not Hollywood musicals with bongo Ckifeet, (This had to be a good sign.) Marcy has been ful! team gear who received roses and Mother's drums, but sweet urban melodramas, and one my best friend since seventh grade. (She's been Day greetings from their kids. \1 vKk;^t^V*^ ^ could see that Havana was interesting. It was my savior ever since she gave that litde snot Tlie diversity ofthe crowd was evident, with Jimmy Dooligan a bloody nose for calling me the arcliitecture. Crumbling ornate stucco build­ anyone acknowledges that back home. friends ftom rdykes.com, and the games have queerbait in gym class. He was the reason I ings with tiled foyers and inner courtyards and We are hot and tired and break up into become extremely popular for fainiHes with taped my lunch money to the elastic waistband massive winding wrought iron staircases and smaller groups and the gaggle I'm with wants to kids. The atmosphere is refreshing, missing of my underwear all throughout fifth and sixth balconies, and large rooms with tall windows, eat. We wander. There is the Hotel Angleterre. the high-gloss commercialism of pro sports, grades. I had the imprint of a quarter on my the buildings now all crammed with too many The English Hotel. A wide terrace and tables ap-ift from the sweatshirts, t-shirts and raffle stomach for months.) Frrt5fQt"d;N-Y- H:S34: families, all poor. That's what I think I wanted and it is there we collapse. Service is slow. The tickets being hawked. There's no stale beer I immediately told Marcy of my good "for­ Realty Ofot^fjL to see. waiters are scarce, haughty to my mind, and smeii, no hairy chests being pounded, and best tune." She immediately rolled her eyes at me. It's tedious but not impossible to arrange a when they appear they are slow to return. Not 'M' ill, it is fun. She smirked and said that my new philosophy vnsit to Cuba. It*s just a lot of phone calls to to worry, there are musicians to distract us. Tlie Raptors travel to play the Crush on June on life woLiidn't last two weeks. Marcv re- different agencies and then a bit of money. The Fortunately they are far enough away not yet to B, rhe last game of this season. The NWFX has minded me of all the other supp>osedly Life- only tense moments arc securing the slip of be annoving, as musicians ultimately are in raken the Raptors imder its wing as a 2003 altering decisions I had made it the last six paper just before departure that serves as a Havana. So few ways to earn dollars, playing expansion team, along with the Pittsburgh months — yoga classes, running at 5 a.m. ever\' visa, and then upon arrival when one's pass­ music, selling cassettes, passing the hat after Passion, Junction City Cavalry, and St, Louis, morning, vegetarianism, all protein diet, writ­ port disappears, temporarily one hopes, into every song is ubiquitous. All this is fine with bringing the team total to 24. Visit the Raptors ing a novel, writing a screenplay, writing for a the hands of a stolid immigration functionary. me. I just want to sit and smoke. I turn my head. online at www.rochesterraptor5.com, and see greeting card company, starting my own gay- Cuba does not have relations with the United And there at the next table is the most the site that receives over one million hits per "v^ greeting card company (I was going to call it INTERIOR & EXTERTOR RENOVATIONS States, so there are no ATMs, no one honors beautiful man I have ever seen. And he is month, www.NWFLcentraLcom. Homomark, you know, to play off of Hall­ INCLUDING LANDSCAPING & TREE TRIMMING credit cards or accepts traveler's checks. One pacing rapt attention to his table mate. Lovers! mark. >X^eU it sounded a heU of lot better at the must have cash, all one would need and then Very much comfortable with one another. And Two men talk at the Hotel Angleterre, time), aquatic kickboxing, fencing, jewelry soryie. The picture brightens when you notice as you read in novels, one is dark, muscular, the Brandie Rauber 716-H65-9156 716^20-9214cdl Havana. making, cake decorating classes, and the infa­ there is no European language press — no other, the man I am staring at, is fair and lean. mous beauty school decision. (Marcy was still MENTION THIS AD AND GET 10% OFF newspapers, magazines, no tits and ass adver­ They are casual, yet focused completely on one To be fair, to be kind to me, let me add that trying to grow out the color from that "life- tising. Better yet, no Coca Cola, or franchise another. Where are they from? They're smok- some people, ever\'\x'here, reaUy do like sex altering" choice.) restaurants. mg. One dnnks espresso, the other botded just for its own sake. There are cultures which I showed Marcy my fortune, which I was Matters improve even more when you see ail water. Could they be Italian? Lots of Italians prohibit heterosexual relations outside of now carrying in my wallet. the wonderful old cars, miraculously kept in here. Or perhaps French? marriage. Females are chaperoned. Virginity Pennies from heaven find their way to your motion — ju.st barely, it turns out. Cars with They have good clothes, expensive yet is prized. That sex between men should occur doorstep today. bonnets open and two or three men leaning rumpled. And good watches. And very good is logical, inevitable and sex with a foreigner, I explained that the ver\' fact that she was inside is commonplace. Those old cars have bodies. Yes, good bodies. They are ideal gay by definition transient, can only ensure se­ rolling "pennies" was a good omen. At that «AY^^^*^^ been nursed, repaired and repainted. That's the men and youngish, too, maybe in their early crecy. Gay relationships are an alien concept; very moment the door rang. delight, for they are now cherry red, turquoise, thirties. Fortune is still theirs. it's just sex. However for all that, I had grown "Hi sir, my name is Penny. My associate and emerald green, typical Cuban colors. We're How did they meet? How long have they weary of being flattered. 1 didn't believe it any I are spreading the word of our almighty savior toid that except for some Soviet era cinder been together? Do they cheat? The questions more. Or if I did, the effect was evanescent, Jesus Christ. Have you accepted Jesus into block construction, Havana looks today as it don't matter. I am suddenly drowning m env\'. didn't return home with me like the carpet or vour life?" Featuring; did nearly 40 years ago. I've traveled too long. Once it was my passion. ceramics I hauled. I left my desirability on the Our group of 11 strangers, one must as­ I wanted to see the world, exotic places where Here I was standing at the front door being The Rochester other shore. sume, hold liberal values, are curious. Four I could in some way feel free, not care. Indeed, confronted by a Jehovah's Wimess or a Mor­ Rainbow I often quote Jan Morris, "Strange people from California, a married couple, relendessly I don't care anymore. I don't want to be here mon or a holy roller. (I get them so confused.) go to strange places so they won't feel so Gospel peppy, and two older men, one divorced for and I don't want to go back home. >XTiatever do Marcv immediatelv ran to the door. strange." Isolation, the total change of envi­ the third time, the other with a wife in a nursing I want? I want to be that man who is being "What did you say your name was?" she Choir ronments, has a soothing effect. I like rooms home, both overly eager for a good time. Two stared at by a man who has traveled with him to asked. I don't have to clean, meals I don't have to fix. women doctors getting together for the first Havana, who adores him. Damn! "Penny." I like being pointed towards an interesting "Looks like your fortune came true," she time since graduation. A family of three from email- [email protected] o"^ Milwaukee, the daughter, a gorgeous adopted relic. I like being taken care of. I have paid for laughed at me and then turned and slammed Korean teenager, the only one in our cohort this. Travel had become a habit. It was ex­ the door in poor Penny's face. who speaks any useful Spanish. An elderly lady pected of me. In Cuba I realized I was a tourist Misadventures It appeared that the fortune cookie gods \p from Virginia, whose sugary drawl fails to stuck on automatic pilot, bored. weren't smiling down at me, but were instead ^H^' conceal her witchy character, and me, the single And while most travel books and magazine in Boyland laughing at me, I was so bummed. gent. articles report where gay men congregate at Since it was a Friday night, and I needed to Towards the end of my relendess traveling, night in Havana, it's the peppy hookers tour­ By Troy Robinson get my mind off of the evening's events, I tried when I'd bristie ifyou called me a tourist, I had, ists encounter during daylight. They tag along, to convince Marcy to go out for a couple of Sunday July 14 at 11:30 AM • smiling, cajoling, persistent. I have no idea to my horror, become a sex tourist. Crept up on The fortune cookie gods drinks. Marcy said that she was swearing off me, 1 swear. Didn't plan it, didn't see it coming. what the available men in Cuba say or do, gay bars for awhile. She felt that by spending so Genesee Valley Park Roundhouse A few years back, I had gotten myself a new Liked it a lot, at least for a while. What happens although I'm told American sociologists study much time with the "boys" she was limiting religion. is that poor people husde. Now and then, rural youths who come to the city to earn her ability to catch a man for herself. Her logic Alright, it wasn't really a new religion, but a never expected and always pleasant, a man, money for their families back home. They was best explained in her favorite saying — source of inspiration to guide my behavior. sometimes handsome, would smile. Did I want engage in sex, regard themselves as straight. You don't hunt for polar bears in the Sahara Some people look for help from a higher to help him practice his English.^ Countries list Evenings I just wanted to read, hide from the Desert. (Now there's some advice that needs being. Others search for answers in the pat­ their main industries, one mineral or another, noise of the day. to be put into a fortune cookie.) terns the stars make in the night sky. And quite an agricultural product like olives or tobacco, Our group had come from touring a cigar So I headed out to the dubs on my own. a few of the unemployed have been known to and maybe an expensive craft item. Then the factory. Not uninteresting. Cheerful people, Before dropping into the "meat market," I dial up Miss Qeo in the wee hours of the list stops. The next item, never mentioned, is men and women, many puffing away on very stopped at a local convenience store to buy morning. prostitution. expensive cigars (they're given two each day, a some gum. For some reason I purchased a Well I had them aU beat. I was going to lead I'm not particularly popular at home. Why job perk). Earlier we'd visited a free clinic, a scratch-off lottery ticket. All I won was a buck. school, the Committee to Defend the Repub­ my life by the advice written on littie pieces of did I think flying to another continent en­ So I cashed it in for another scratch-off. paper within those almond-flavored treats we hanced fading charms? I was so giddy, grateful lic. One is obliged, for the privilege of entry, to This time I won $200.1 knew it. I just knew call fortune cookies. ^*^o».sii:ijp SEnvicjE for attention, that I hardly stopped to reflect. see these things. Everywhere people of all my fortune had to be more than a couple of The idea hit me one day after eating menu Never dawned on me that a pierced ear and colors mixed matter-of-facdy with one an­ religious nuts on my doorstep. I couldn't wait item #L27 (sesame tofu) from my favorite bleached hair simply screamed, "target"? other. People of all colors are equal. Castro to tell Marcy tomorrow morning and mb it in decreed several good things, though hardly take-out joint, Wong's Noodles. I ordered lunch her self-righteous nose. ' /•'•-J- rB6 -'A ,' -^'', ,ls'-„'^-4"^X^V •'^n^ i*;%*^-;V.»/sl^»?, '*'/' B7 "#• ''-:s^:Mf%'i'y^ ' B H J?'ir Y;"c;i4/oJ^s^^»'^*' destined to be alone forever. Fortunately, this that area. Candida is also of concern to people do I have in common with transgendered approved the use of volunteers — many in 1 skipj>ed out the door and headed for the turned out not to be true. There are plenty of with HIV, diabetes, or any other immune people, when I don't question my gender iden­ their late teens and all handsome — to engage nearest bar. The drag queens would be tipped other nice gay guys out there—be patient with system disorder because it causes a poten­ tity; isn't that what Transgendered means?" The Chapters those suspected of having homosexual ten­ well that night. yourself as you try to meet them and develop tially serious infection of the mouth called This is true. However, ifyou simply think it dencies. These operatives were allowed to go And to this day I still save aU my fortunes positive, caring friendships that could lead to a thmsh. Both thrush and balanitis are best Seldom Told out, it will be obvious. If a male to female to any lengths in order to acquire names and from my Chinese take-outs. One fortune led healthy relationship. examined by a doctor for treatment. Transgender View Transsexual lives with a woman, and transi­ connections of others in their social circles. me to a boyfriend. (You will find love in the How Far Can You Go Down? While all the above information may be tions, she is now a "Lesbian". During the investigation, which took weeks shadows where others find darkness) I discov­ Q: How do I suck my own dick.^ interesting and useful, you may be wondering Byk.k. By Miguel A. Colon Ortiz If a male to female Transsexual lives in a to complete, 15 shipmates were arrested for ered him working at a tanning salon. Another A: This is very difficult for most men to why it's being addressed in a series on sexually Why the transgender relationship with a man, pre-transition he is having sexual relations with the operatives fortune led me to the stage. (Your happy heart accomplish vinless they are very flexible and/ transmitted infections. The answer is simple: community wili forever be "Gay"(until transition). Witch Hunting in Newport sent by the panel. As John Loughery explains, brings joy and laughter into the worid) I came or missing a ribo r two. It is the ultimate fantasy FUNGAL CONDITIONS CAN BE linked to the gay community If a female to male Transsexual lives with a It was about three years ago when I had the "A scandal may have been prevented if the in second place in a local stand-up comedy SPREAD AND/OR WORSENED for some men, but unfortunately not reality for woman, she is a "Lesbian"(until transition). great opportunity to read the book The Other THROUGH SEXUAL CONTACT. The other nij^t, Rochester Transgender investigative group had kept the investigation's contest with that fortune. And my most recent most. Take a yoga class to increase your flex­ Female to male Transsexuals who have rela­ Side of Silence by John Loughery (not to be Seldom do we think about a condition such Group head Pam Barres and I did "conscious­ reach to the Newport naval base." Instead, the fortune (Keep in mind your most cherished ibility. Good luck! tionships with men would be, after transition, confused with spiritual publications under the as jock itch m a sexually transmitted infection, ness-raising" at a meeting of the the gay group inquisitors, using a military law that protected dreams) has gotten mc back to writing again. "Homosexuals".frhis is society's definition, same titie). In this book, the author discusses but fungus can be passed sltin to skin. In at RIT. the area surrounding the station, began to We ail need something to lead us through but remember, as a community, it is also oursf) many events in gay history during the 20th addition, some sexually transmitted infections Sitting in front of an audience which con­ search for male civilians in the area who were life. Luckily my philosophy comes with egg There are many people who feel simply century. Nothing struck me as much as the Healthy and can worsen or facilitate a fungal infestation. sisted of probably 25 or 30 people, Pam spoke having sexual relations with other men. rolls and chopsticks. androgenous; how do we define their relation­ first chapter's recollection of a Navy sex scan­ For example, gonorrhea causes a discharge for about 45 minutes, fielding questions as she During the second phase of the investiga­ ships? dal that began in 1919. Gay that can worsen risk or severity of balanitis. spoke. As I sat listening and waiting for her to tion, the operatives were able to help arrest the Also, there are Butch Dykes, and there are, According to the few available records, the Ask Gay For these reasons, it is important to treat any firiish, I realized that one of the most important minister of the local Episcopal Church, Rever­ whether the Gay male community wants to sex scandal of Newport, Rhode Island began By Erik Libey fungal condition you suspect quickly and ef­ reasons why we were there had not been ad­ end Samuel Neal Kent. The panel accused the admit it or not, effeminate males. Long a bone when a machinist working at the naval base in Questions fectively, and to be very conscientious about dressed. This issue being: what does minister of being part of a ring of gay sex and of contention among Gay men, the effeminate that town, shipmate Ervin Arnold, was made prevention of these conditions for both jrour 'Transgender" any longer have in common drugs. Unfortunately for the investigating party, •com identity takes quite a lot of abuse. The least aware of an underground web of homosexual Hold the mushrooms piease own comfort and that of your partners. After widi "Gay"? this allowed news of the operation to leak to popular character on the TV show "Will and relationships at the base. As a former investi­ By Mark McFee all, it's your health and it's important to — be We have created our own definitions, activ­ the media, which took it upon itself to defend I have personally never been a big fan of Grace", for instance, is, sadly, the effeminate gator, Arnold became infatuated with the no­ the name of the well-liked clergyman. fungus. You can keep the mushrooms out of gay, be proud, and be healthy! ists, political lobbies, etc. We have insisted upon male character! (This information is the result phone 271.4910 AskGayQuestions.com has been answering tion of being able to uncover those "degener­ What was then considered the biggest sex my salad and off my pizza, thank you. Hon- Erik Ubey is Gcty Health Coordinator for AIDS our separate identities in order to be better of a poll taken among Gay and Lesbian per­ gay-related questions on a variety of issues ates". scandal to face the military forced the U.S. estiy I don't think lim so unique in that rite. Rochester Inc., andean be reached at 442-2220, or understood by society in general(and sons.) 704 university avenue posed by the international community. Ifyou ourselves! We have our own authors, writers, After finding enough sources and connec­ Senate to carry hearings on the matter. It didn't Lots of people know mushrooms are out there hy e-mail at elibey@aidsrocbester. org. An archive of It's hard to believe that, almost 25 years after h ave a question, feel free to stop by the website! politicians. We have insisted upon our separate- tions to make a case, Arnold provided his take long for the Senate to Ieam about the and want to avoid them. What many may not his previous articles, as veil as other gay health Stonewall, people still feel this way! Suspicious Behavior findings to the Station Commander Murphy illegal and uncivil entrapment tactics used by realize, however, is that there's more to the information, can be found at http:// ness in history. Q: 1 am in my first relationship with a guy. I But, until we face some of these negative Foster, and then Assistant Secretary of the the Navy. The Senate was forced to hear ex­ fungus family than portobellos and shiitakes wnnv.aid5r0cbester.org/^heoMj. Gay people might be inclined to ask, '*What like him a lot. But I do not trust him. He has realities of how people still continue to feel, Navy Franklin Delano Roosevelt- According plicit details of the sexual encounters, mainly — and some of the other varieties actually never given me a reason to not trust him I just there wiU never be progress. ReaUy, as many to the story, Foster and Roosevelt agreed to through the operatives being questioned, which pose some health concern. There are two main don't. I hear about how most gays cheat on people well know, some of the worst political begin a full-fledged investigation of homo­ proved that the Navy had sent young sailors to types of fungus that can grow in or on the each other or end up in a threesome or screw batdes are fought within the groups them­ sexual activity at the military station. Along engage in the same illegal acts they were trying human body. around with other people and it scares me. I selves. with the sexual factor for their inquiry, they to combat. don't want that. The first variety is tinea; a group of mold­ Transgender and Gay are irrevocably linked, wanted to Ieam more about other "immoral" Although everyone arrested was set free by like fungi also called dermatophjrtes. These and obviously will always be. As long as society My boyfriend gets on gay.com and chats conditions at the base, such as the use and the early 1920s, along with Minister Kent who with people, his friends. TTiat is also the same organisms live off dead tissues on the skin and defines relationships by gender, "Gay" abuse of alcohol and cocaine. Ironically, the was vindicated after two unsuccessful trials, chat room where we met. I know that he used to can thrive on any structures that grow out of and"Straight", "Transgender" wiil overlap in­ investigation involved cross dressing—some­ the legacy of this travesty help>ed change the the skin, such as nails or hair or in any moist, evitably into the Gay and Lesbian communi­ meet people for coffee never to fool around. thing the Navy had allowed and still allows for course of gay history. Although recent history warm area of the body. Tinea is most com­ ties. So, in my opinion, unity should be the key .\nd now that we are together he still goes in entertainment purposes. tells us that the military has continued its search monly associated with three different types of word, not divisiveness. A house divided can­ that chat room and for some reason it still What began as a small assessment of the for homosexuals in its forces, even with the fungal infections: ringworm (tinea capitis or not stand. 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Pree testing for HIV exposure is avallabte from New York State Department of I lellHh" call Rochester Area R^gk>nal Hotline at (585)423.8081, or I -800-962-5063 fbr pay phones HEALTH: WAVE or calls outside Rochester. Deaf or hearing impaired people should call (585)423-8120 Monroe County WcHTton's Hoakh Netionai Organization for Wonnen (TDD.) Oral testing now available. Statewide information can be obtained by caillog l-SOO* Partnership. 111 Westfiidl Rd., Rochester (Greater Rochester NOW.) PO Box 541-AIDS. Other organizations vWiich provide AIDS-related services are as foliov^^ NY 14692; (7 J 6)274-697a Comprehen- 93196; (716)461-1310. E-mail: AIDS Rochester, Inc., 1350 University Ave^ Rochester NY 14607. 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HPA raises and distributes funds to support programs Outreach. 1350 Unh/ersitx Ave. ARI has Rugby. New players ah^vays welcome, any providing services to people living with HIV/AIDS in nine-co. area. Hotiine (585)987-1853. services for HIV positive women and oth­ sidii level. We wUi teach you the game. Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley provides referrals to physicians and servke ers in the lesbian community. 442-2220. Hotline (585)234-3066; online at agencies. Person on duty Mon./Thurs. 1-9 p.m., Fri. I-6 p.m.; message machine other times. www.thebreastcancersite.com (clscl< www.renegadesrugby.com (585)244-8640. to donate site) ONLINE: Center for Health and BehavioraJ Training of Monroe County. 691 St. Paul St., 4th Community Health NetwoHc. 753 Upietate LesConnect: http:// floor Collaboration of Monroe County Health Department and U.R. Provides year-round South Ave. 244-9000; TTY (7 i 6)46! >9202. groups.yahoo.com/group/upstatelesconnect; training in prevention and management of STDs, HIV, TB and related issues, such as HIV and Pnmary care medical ser-vjces for email [email protected] domestic violence and case management. (585)530-4382 v/tty. HIV positive women, their negative part­ RochesterDykes: www.rdykcs.com; e- ners and fiamily members. OB/GYN, i-^iV mai! [email protected] Comnnunity Health Network (CHN). 758 South Ave. Comprehensive HIV care and pre-test and post-test counseling. Confi­ primary medical care for individuals who are HIV positive, their negative partners and adult ^^OWcny: email: [email protected] fiamily members.CHN offers Nutritional evaluation. Neurological evaluation. Vision screen­ dential or free HIV testing. GENERAL: ings, Gynecological care. Medical case management and counseling. Out-patient treatments Alternatives fov^ Battered ^A^omen Women's Resource Center. YWCA, and inf'jsjons on-site. Liaison nurses to coordinate home care needs. Educational resources 232-7353. Shelter, counseling, Lesbians wel­ 175 N, Clinton Ave. 546-7740. and sijpport groups. Access to cfinica! trials, lab and Pharmacy services on-site, and Referrals come. Slice cf Life Cafe. Feminist vegetarian to substance abu.se programs, psychotherapy, and other specialized health services. (716)244~9000.TTY (585)46! -9202. § Vlctlnn Resource Center of Wayne restaurant. 742 South Ave, 271-8010. County. Newark N.Y. Hotline 800-456- Coalition for Lesbian Visibility. Di­ Rochester Area Task Force on AIDS (RATFA) is a collection of agencies providing 1172; office (315)331-1171; fax (3 150331- verse group of wonnen holding potiucks/ a multiplicity of resources and services to the upstate New York community. Their offices 1189. socials in Finger Lakes area. Second Satur­ are located through the Finger Lakes Health Systems Agency, which also provides Mary Magdalene House. Women's days. Becky Biy. (315)539-6271. medical literature and newspaper clippings, as well as demographic and statistical data for use in developing health care services. (585)461-3520. outreach center for HIV positive women Color Outside the Line Crew. Con­ and women at nslc. 291 Lyell Ave. Open tact Jackie Williams, 482-4945. Men of Color Health Awareness Project (MOCHA). HIV prevention focus for men Mon-Fri. 6:30-9:30 pm 458-5728. Check our monthly and ongoing who have sex with men (MSM) in the minority community. Support groups, one on one peer POLITICAL: Calendars and the Gay Groups section education, safer sex workshops, referral services, buddy testing. Sibley Tower Building, 25 Women Against a Violent Environ- for more groups and events, and call Franklin St., Suite 1060. 420-1400. nnent O^AVE.) Issues of violence against the GaySource Infoline for referrals, at Monroe County Health Department, at 855 W. Main St., offers testing and counseling women. PO Box 15650. Rcchester NY 244-8640. And send us your informa­ for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. (585)464-5928. 14608.234-9709. www.mooreresuks.corn/ tion! leeling lst>liitei!? Depressed? Sexual, Kelatioaifship^ Addiction IsHues? Strong Memoriai Hospital provides a complete range of HIV medicai care, mcluding access to experimental treatment protocols, and HIV testing. Also provides individual and f'mmmmmmm^^ smmss;sm^^m group psychotherapy. Training of health care professionals also available. Infectious Disease Clinic. (585) 275-0526. Department of Psychiatry, (585) 275-3379. AIDS Training AIDS dmeA' 14623 dized housing. 1945 E. Ridge Rd-, Suite 24, Rochester NY 14622. (716)339-9800. 585-327-2121 NETWORK Action Front Center (Action for a Better Community.) Provides HIV prevention n iikelh niswc&jaolco education and case management services. Training and technical assistance to service providers. Resource library open to public. Al! services free and confidential. Multicultural Wc<;kiv Ga\ Men's and biiingiial staff. Rudy Rivera, program manager. 25 Franklin St., Suite I 100. Hcxirs 8.30- 5 pm. Monday-Friday. 546-6180; fax 546-5669. Free anonymous HIV testing on walk-in CI roup Since !S>97 HIV/ AIDS medical care can save your life Planned Parenthood basis, Thursdays 9 am- 4 pm, provided through NYSDOH at Action Front Center. 242 Andrews St. Carmen Hau, 262-4330. Anthony Jordan Health Center Prevention and Primary Care Program. HiV vwww. communityhealthnet. org needs volunteers counseling and testing (free if uninsured), community outreach, Center in-reach with strong focus on education. Comprehensive HIV care and services, including medical treatment, 716.244.9000 Consider volunteering at Planned Parenthood of the Rochester/Syra­ CD4 and viral load monitorinf^ mediations (on-site phannacy). OB-GYN care, opthamok>gy, cuse Region (PPRSR). Currently, PPRSR is recruiting for its Rape Crisis dental, nutrition, mental health and substance abuse services, case management, community Services (RCS) program. service referrals, support groups, assistance with medicaid and disability. 82 Holland St.. RCS continues to search lc»r recruits to become volunteer counselors. Rochester NY 14603; 423-2879. Volunteers are the backbone of this important connmunity service, which Evergreen Health Services. Primary care, HIV and family care, HIV testing and ® serves victints of sexual assault and their families, providing advocacy^ www.Romeceiii.com Let Expcrience Be Your Guide counseling: (585)847-0328. referrals and crisis^intervention and by lending support during medical exams, police investigations, and court proceedings. CDC National STD and AIDS Hotline. 1-800-342-2437; 1-800-227-8922. English McHiroe, Livingston» Genesee, and Orleans counties are all in need of service 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Spanish service: 1-800-344-7432, 8 am- 2 anw new volunteers. Each county will proviiie training this winter for qualified seven days a week. TTY service: I -000-243-7889, 10 am- 10 pm, Monday-Friday. appiicents. Volunteers must be at least 20 years old and able to n^ke a one-year commitment. Interviewilng and screening is taking place now, so Public Interest Law Office of Rochester (PILOR). 80 St. Paul St., Suite 701. Free legal services to HIV positive persons, ^mHies. Spanish bilingual advocates availabie. All ch^il cases Ifyou are interested, please call Kathy Pexton, 585.546.2771, ext. 338 or except dh^orce; no criminal cases. Ask to speak to someone In PILOR. 454-4060. e^nail to HYPERLINK "mailtodq»exton^^pprsr.org** kpexton^pprsr.org. Additional volunteer needs are Ibr Clinic Escorts, Graphic Design Health Association HART (HIV/AIDS Residential Treatment) Progratn. 250 Rome Celli Sandy Cona Professionals, Health Educators, Library Aids, advocates, clerical roles and Esse Ave. (585)232-6382. Provkies housing assistance, acupuncture, massage, reiki, support Seneca Parkway Brighton Schools Maplewood Area Cobbs Hill Area! special events volunteers. There are many opportunities in ¥4ilch PPRSR groups, referral services, Positively Alive (HIV -»' women's support network). Celebrating over 23 vears of Elegant lady! Gorgeous Off Eimwood Avenuel Beautiful Arts & Crafts Nestled in Cobbs Hilll could benefit from your time and talent, so caH now and get involved by architectural details in Express House! 1940's stucco Col. Unique de­ Build your dream sharing a meaningfol volunteer role this year. WestsMe Health Services. Brown Square Heahh Center, 175 Lyell Ave. (254-6480): commitment to real estate Woodward heakh Center. 480 Genesee St. (436-3040). HIV/AIDS services, support, more. every room. 4,200«i- sf. era Cape w/ 2 bdrms & tails! Original hand home on a dream lot! Planned Parenthood protects and supports every person's right to make ciients in everv comer of 1 bath downstairs, 2 w/rental apartment ti painted mural In Din. An extremely rare & a voluntary, informed decisions about sexuality and reproduction in order our community!* legal office. 9 rm. bdrms upstairs. Oaic rm. Nat. trim. Oak firs. McCree McCuHer ^^ellness Center at Unity Health's Connection Clinic.(585)368. exciting 1-t- acre site to lead a heekhy and ftiMIIIng life. To do this, PPRSR provkles health care, owner's residence. 4 floors. Galley Kitchen Liv. rm. w/frplc. Huge on Cobbs Hill i« now 3200.89 Genesee St., Bishop Kearney Bidg.. 3rd floor. FuN range of services, regardless ol bedrooms. 2.5 baths. 2 with adjacent dining Fam. rm. addition. available. What possi­ education. Counseling and leadership in preserving the right to ability to pay. Caring, confidential and convenient. separate grand entries. area. 150' deep yard. 2,000 sf. 3/4 bdrms. bilities! Call for map & reproductive freedom. Asicing $130'sl Call: Garage, f 80'sl Call: 1.5 baths. $90'sl Call: details. Call: 333'^67- Special emphasis Is given to women who have limited access to services. RE^MR^First 083-467-4335 X75607 B8B-467-4335 x7565t 883-467-4335 x 75617 4335x75611 HOME/ TRAVEL/ STYLE Word Search: Coleridge's Rochester garden?

WORD SEARCH: COLERIDGE'S ROCHESTER GARDEN? Provincetown International Film Festival, BY JOSEPH O'TOOLE Find the unusual at Diva which takes place this year, June 13 to 16 (ptownfilmfcst.com). You probably already Find the listed words in the diagram. They can mn forward, backward, up, down, or know about the Crown and Anchor, and a By Sherrili Fulghum Shoes are not the only items that are avail­ diagonally. Unscramble the letters in bold to reveal a quote. whole lot of great places for men to do their "Survival ofthe unusual" is how Frank Moretti able at Diva. Fancy dress hats, jeweled sun­ cruisin*. Women, check out the website of describes his shoe store, Diva, in Midtown glasses, fabulous costume jewelry, and tiaras womeninnkeepers-com for accommodations. s E R O s IF N S P E A R T W S E Y E H O M Plaza. are also available. Handbags and hoisery can It seems that there's a new v/omen-owned p O R B E H A T O P S O I L R H E D G £ Moretti knows his Midtown clientele well. also be found there. Q place in town called Esther's, located at 186 He managed the shoe department of Moretti's customers are varied, but he does E P U R C R 0 C U S T R Q L O U D G J O G Commeraai St. (50a-487-7555,888-873-5001). McCurdv's until thev closed, and then man- cater to a large gay and performer clientele. A Y I L I u U N R L N S A s U P O T I C R U It's a newly renovated, 1800s historic Victo­ aged the shoe department at B Fonnan. After constant turnover of new arrivals helps keep L O L B H C I I O N I H F D O G U rian direcdy across from the Bay in the heart of w O S E the closing of B Fortnaii, Moretti found him­ the business fresh and the customers coning Provincetown's West End, Luxuriously ap- H V I N E S O R P E O N Y U E G R U B P Y self without a job. He also felt that there was a back. Moretti carries everything for the weU pointed guest rooms all with private marble C u T V E W A O Y M w N A G T R U D A E T big void in the shoe business of Rochester. dressed woman except the dresses, and one Frank Moretti bathrooms, queen size beds, tv/vcr/cable, cd The time was right and Frank Moretti opened day he wants to carry those as well. L s G N I T N A L P B I C N Y A T P H A C players, private voice mail, data jacks, air con • Diva Shoes in downtown Rochester. Moretti survives on the unusual, but the U T U V J E T C P H E Z I R I S N I J R A ditionmg and mini refrigerators. Some toonr. 1 Despite the overall decline of business dow^n- unusual is tn demand at Diva Shoes Travel: one thing M w H T R A E H I N F A S E G L E H have water views, tirepiace, jacuzzi tub, or R o iL town, and the many financial woes of Mid- leads to another multi-head European shower. Continental P O M D A F F O D I L N T W S J C R O E E town Plaza, Moretti finds his business is doing breakfast, parking and smoke free. To add to Z V^ I A B S D T L N N O H O E N P V U * E R •. er\' well and has grown over the two years that By Merle Exit this, there's Esther's Restaurant and Piano Bar I I E H B A P W E D T D he has been in business. Moretti says that there I trekked to the Gay & Lesbian 2002 Business E M c U O N B U B with indoor snd outdoor patio dming. arc people coming to his store that have not and Entertainment Expo here in the Bruised F L I L Y M I E R A S F R M H A L E U W S chopped downtown in vears. Apple. It's amazing howmatty companies there ("hcsfcr s Restaurant looks like another great N L V I S Q U E R E E W R B i O L F L D Y were offeritTg alcoholic beverages -—• gratis. spot. Chestcr>, located at 404 Cornmerciiij St. AX e are becoming a destination," says N O O A F H I D I F N T B U P B I P B S N VC'ouid you believe that A^A VC'orld Sep.'ice was (508/487-8200, chesterestaurant.com) **har, set Moretti. People from al] over western New there, too- Now, I get drunk on Scotch tape, new standards for gounnet dining on Cape J W N W R E H W U S P E A R M I N T Q u N >'ork are coming to Rochester to visit Frank •^"N^/ Cod with an empha.sis on ekgantiy prepared E A O N E N T o P T A J U U R A I U O \5oretti and his fabulous, unusual shoes. and first looked for the free food... but alas, iust Q s overpriced "khazarey". food matched with innovative wines. The NXliat makes Diva Shoes such a popular T R T W A R M o s s O L B I N 1 T R A L E The entertainment was prettv' gt:jod — "Na­ candle-lit. djning room offers an experience destination? The shoes of course, but Moretti C R O C S U U Y V E D N N Z K T E R M Y P not unlike a dinner party with friend'j. Impec­ doesn't carry just any type of shoes. Moretti ked Boys Singing'', comedian Michele Baiin cable, friendly service and local art add to the specializes in unique shoes for women. Fancy (check out her tour dates on michelebalin.com), and Jimmy James, just to name a ambiance. The changing menu features the APHID FLOWER MULCH TILL dress shoes with unusual looks, different types BLOSSOM GRASS NEST TOPSOIL of fabrications, and interesting looking heel few. I personally foundjimmyjames to be the freshest ingredients: Wellflcet oysters, (featmentsis what fills Moretti's boutiquest^-^le best female impersonator since Craig Russell Provincetown lobster, Vermont quail, organic BULB GRUB NIP TULIP shop A comfortable atmosphere where men (jou have to be over 40 to know who he was). vegetables and herbs. Recipient of NX'ine BUMBLEBEE HEDGE PEONY VINES and women can feel at home is what separates Jimmy sings the voices of Eartha Kitt, Karen Spectator's Award of Excellence.'* CHIPMUNK HERBS PLANTING WASP Oiva from other sh'.ie stores, Motetti also Carpenter, Judy Garland, Pasty Cline, Boy If you -would rather opt for going by air, CROCUS HOE POLLINATE WEED c.irncs the Lir^irr i^izcd shc-es. George, Stevic Nicks, and more. there's alwavs Cape Air/Nan*;uckcr Adrlini\'<. CROVv^ HOSE POT WILLOW Jimmyjames.com — what did you expect'' Make your way to Boston and then board the I'll soon be off traveling and will get back on plane to tlie Provincetown airport. Call thern CUT HYACINTH PRL^NE WREN each of these destinations. Tourism Montreal at 800/352-0714 and check out theit )oint DAFFODIL IRIS SHRUB ZINNIA had Jean-Francois Perrier as the liaison m the fares. DAHLIA LILY SNOWBELL gay market (wwj/.touripm-montreal,org) and Timeshare in Manhattan.-* ^'^P- Right in the EARTHWORM LOP SPEARMINT Ric Tremaine represented gay tourism for heart of inidtown (7th Ave. and 56th St.) is the FERTILE MOW SQUIRREL Toronto dirough the Great Inns of Toronto new Manhattan Cillub, There are 240 suites that (v^,'^vw.SleepWithFnends.com). Both desdna- feature clas-sic furnishings with accommoda­ JUMBLE QUOTE: tions appear to be quire gay friendly, but (rvvist tions for four, and include a queen size bed and my arm) I'll let you know when i get there. comparable sofa bed, a mini-kitchen, marbled Out In The Cat.skilis wa.-; the title of a bro­ bath, hair dryer, iron and ironing board. Daily "And the chure promodng the accommodations of housekeeping is included too. Aside from the Bradstan Country Hotel in White Lake well appointed suites, members enjoy a private (bradstancountryhotel.com.) and The Lodge at 26th floor lounge serving daily breakfast and Rock Hill in — duh; — a brand new propert)' evening cocktails, a well-equipped fimess cen­ Samuel Taylor Coieridge (1772-1834) — lodgeatrockhil.com. Forestburgh Playhouse ter, a business center, doormen, concierge and offers Equity summer theatre valet parking. Chris label. Part i. (FBPlayhouse.com) and Mr. Willy's is for din­ What makes this timeshare unique is its ing, while The Feast is for gourmet ciilinary conceptof flexible use. LJnlike most titneshares, Answers on page B22 requirements, both in downtown Mondcelio. The Manhattan Club offers the option of stay­ HOME OF THE ROCHESTER RilMS Corning and the Finger Lakes region were ing for a few days at a time and returning for there promoting tourism in Steuben County additional stays -a-ithin the same year. The (866/94<>-3386, cotningfingcrIakes.com). Lots Manhattan Club is associated with RCI (Re­ of wineries to visit (I'll make sure I have bread sorts Condominium International) and has and cheese widi me). Hmm — that means that Gold Crown Resort status, a designation re­ mam I should be returning to Rochester this year. served for only the most highly regarded prop­ With HIV being a huge health issue, author erties, wliich affords members ultimate trad­ Concious was on hand to do some p.r. on her ing power within tliis network of over 3,300 Richard D« newly published Getting Unstuck — giri to girl, world-class resorts. If you're thinking of pop­ you can be infected indeed. I read the 240-page ping in to "the City," take advantage of their Fenwick book in one day. The book is about childhood low rate one or two-night pfeview getaway, sexual abuse, dmgs and her contracting the complete with a 90-minute sales presentation. Contractor HIV virus via another woman. I highly recom- Call your stay in at the Patk Centtal Hotel and mend purchasing the book. More informadon get to listen to a 90-minute sales presentation. Now ofMng Huntsr-Oouglaft can be obtained on her website Call t-800-532-4566. Dial 3 at dw prompt, kMJVtr drapes & (Qrsch mini prettytomboys.com. She told mc that shc*d be then extension 8289. met vtrtical Minds. autographing copies at the NY Sharks women's It's a great way to take in the Broadway 20 % off massage until June football games. Women's Pro Football? Check Dssign, Dry WMI, Dseks, shows. Just saw Forbidden Brvadk»ay — hilari­ Carpsntiy, Proptrty Managmint (for new clients) it out! Tliere's also a team in Albany, and of ous! The Graduate zndSntef.^mell^Sntiessseeaicd FORUM course the Rochester Raptors. So far the NY katesalon@>aoL com just fme CO me and TlNffonghfyModemMi/tie'w2& Repairs io fuii replacement Sharks are in first place ofthe Eastern Division tops. 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•?^ ^^. * ^^^•5^^"' ''ir'j^ #%%^,„, ^ 'A '"^i^:^own on June 7 wiil focus on Butch and one). Worship with us on Sundays at Wc will be holding two scheduled please give us a call. In years past, Under". 5 p.m. in St, Luke and St. Simon motorcycle club. It is a small band of Femme Weddings! Treblemakers camping weekends at Jones Pond ROTC-Rochester has performed For more information and exact Cyrene Church, 17 South Fitzhugh men of similar interests: motorcycles, Come share yout stories about BT just finished up its concert season this coming summer. There wiU be a with Bassically Treblemakers March­ location, phone Paul at 254-4422 or St, — yes, the church with the pink leather, fraternity, and good times. planning, being in, or part of (or . playing a Dixie/Big Band concert for picnic Saturday afternoon for the ing and Big Band for events such as The Rams provide community e-mail to [email protected]. attending) a wedding! It's 7-9 p.m. steeple! After services each week we the GREAT Tournament held the campers and also those who cannot the HPA Benefit at the Convention IT'S ALL ABOUT HAVING FUN service both to the gay community There is a Unit of 15 for this event, at the GAGV community Center, socialiase at a coffee hour where you first weekend in May. It was a fun way spend the entire weekend with us. Center and Night of a Hundred Par­ — through our series of bar nights so RSVP early. 179 Atiantic Ave., comer of Elton are welcome to join us. to end up our concert band season, The two weekends scheduled are ties at Bausch ScLomb Garden, as GRGLBF Empire Bears — and to the community-at-large and Adantic. Bring a snack or non­ For more information about Dig­ and if you missed our concert, you 19-21 July and 23-25 August. We well a.s marching in Toronto and through charity work, donations and The Greater Rochester Gay and Les­ The Bears will be on a camping week­ alcoholic beverage to pass. nity-Integrity, please call the D-I will get one more chance to dance to have reserved a site at Jones Pond Buffalo, and at the N.Y. State Fair. our annual toy drive at Christmas. bian Business Form would like to end as the'month gets underway. Well On Wednesday, June 26, meet up InfO'Line at 234-5092 for recorded "Fm a Ding Dong Daddy" or swing for 11 weekends for use by club If you're interested in twirling or Wbmen's Hiking Once a year, we hold the celebrated thank our membets and friends for be at Hillside Campground in Penn­ with us at the GAGV between 7 and information or to leave a voice mes­ to the music of "I'm in the Mood for members. the color guard, please contact Tim Rams Run in a secluded campground Ladies, come join us each month for their support. sylvania. Thete are more camping 7:15 p.m. for a Beach Walk Night — sage, sec our Web page at http:// Love" at this year's GAGV Ptide Pic- Other dinnerparties/meetings are in Upstate New York, where over a with BT at (585)242-0237. our fun hikes at local parks. All dif­ The GRGLBF's mission is to weekends planned this summer, so we'll head up to Durand Eastman www,ggw.org/DI-Rothestef/ or nic onjuly 14. held at members' homes during the hundred Leathermen converge an­ ferent ages and hiking abilities are alwsAdy lit % ^CO^* $0Jdd sponsor and organize the annual sign up now. We just got back from Park for an hour of strolling on the send us E-mail at year. Our naked swim/gym events This year for Rochester Pride, we nually for a weekend-long getaway. fine. Pride Parade and Cultural Festival. our trip to Toronto, where we took in sand (bring your blankets and [email protected],com. for next October thru April are now Wine Society are hosting the Big Apple Corps Band Underwear: the unseen comer- This is a great way to meet fvin and to tbe Es^^ Clo^ We raise funds through our mem­ a show and a ball game. The Bears are munchies ifyou want to stay after to scheduled. Som.e of our meetings The GLBT Wine Society gathering at from New York City, as well as the stone of modern society, until to­ interesting women. And moms, bring t79A^«f«kAi«SH bership dues and admission charges. traveling, looking for fresh meat! watch the sunset.*) In case of rain, are clothed events. We will be at­ Abyssinia Restaurant on Thursday, Fishing group Church Street Pipe Band from night! Join the Rams and the guests your kids! They make it even better. Eoc;hest£x 14^^ jb^ tlie The GRGLBF is open to anyone Movie nights continue every Mon­ we'll head off to an area mall for a tending the RGMC concert at the May 9th, was a rousing success. Mem­ Love to fish? Want to Ieam to fish? Toronto. As part of our agreement of the Bachelor Forum for "Boxers Ask about our Vermont Adventure who is interested in networking and day, beginning with supfjer at 6 p.m. mall walk and window shopping with the N.Y.C. Band, they required Eisenhatt in June. Assuming the bers from botli the Wine Society and coming up. We're interested in forming a and Briefs Night". Wear your boxers socializing. at Mel's on West Henrietta Rd. Meet evening! that we play a concert together so weather cooperates, we will be hav­ the Cooking Group were in atten­ womyn'f? freshwater fishing group, or briefs (no pants) and get a drink Interested? Call Donna Kearney Our monthly social hour is held the Bears there for a relaxing meal, For further info, contact Kerrv' at that each band could hear the ether, ing a picnic the afternoon before the dance and had an excellent time sam­ "Fishing in the Fingerlakes,'' for courtesy of the Rams and the Bach­ St 585-442-6399. on the second Thursday from 5:30- served up by the Bears' favorite wait­ 865-4619, e-maii and then we join forces for the end­ concert. Otherwise, we will be go­ pling premium quality wines from weekend day/weekend evening elor Fomm. That's Saturday, June Chess Club 7 p.m. at the Cunningham House on ress, Becky. [email protected], get on our ing of our performance. The Big ing to a restaurant. Fairview Estates of South Africa. group outings to lakes, rivers, canals, 15, at The Bachelor Forum, 670 the campus of the Rochester Mu­ Other monthly events include our online meeting notification list at Apple Corps is one of the finest Membership is open to males over A hearty thanks to Robin Back of etc, here in the Finger Lakes Region. University Ave. llie Chess Club will meet on J une 13. seum and Science Center. The RMSC meeting on June 5 at 7:30 at the RochBPConriealJst@yahDogKxipsxxrn, LGBT Marching and Concert Bands 21 years of age who have an interest Fairview for supplying us with Who knows, maybe we'll even fit Peterbtlts, Macks. Big loads. Does This club, which welcomes all, is located at Goodman St. and East GAGV, and a poduck on the Bth at or write: P.O. Box 60698, Roches­ in the U.S. in social nudism. Most members samples of seven of his family's highly GAGV in a boat trip or two and catch a really a weekend that features big tigs, and whatever the person's skill level, Ave. For more information piease 6:30 at the GAGV. This will be our ter, N\' 14606. See you all there! come from the greater Rochester rated wines, and for being such an BIG one! Ifyr'u'd like t:o participate Now that we are in r>ur marching the men that drive them strike vou as -^'iccts every second Thursday at 6:50 call our message center at 234-8706. last potiuck for this season, as the area, though Buffalo, Syracuse, informauve, congetiial host. Thanks Youth or get more information, e-mail us at season, you will see us at the Roches­ sometlung out of the pages oiHoncho p.m. in the Gay Alliance's first floor Be sure to join us June 13 for our heat of summer hits. The theme is Utica, and the southern tier are also also to Abyssinia fot the great food Dignity Integrity [email protected], or call ter AIDS Walk on June 2, as well as in magazine? Fantasy becomes reality COnference room, the Lewis Nopper next social and networking hour. The picnic foods, and all Bears and cubs Buffalo the same day for their Ptide represented. and the (free) use of their restaurant Group D-I will begin the lazy days of Cindy or Kerry at (585)654-8776. at this year's Rams run, "Truckstop Room. The Community Center is at dates of the future social and net­ are invited to show up with a big pic- Parade. Then, at the end of June, we For more information, call our to host the event. To those in our gay summer with a traditional poduck Hope you'll drop us a line soon! 2002". Details are available on the fQ Adantic Ave. working opportunities are July 11 a-nic basket of goodies. The will be marching in the Toronto Pride information line and leave your name community who missed the event, dinner onj une 16asweliasourusual Rams' website at H^TERLINK The Youth Group Refreshments wili be provided, (Pride Week) and Aug. 8. Mark your BEARNIGHT at the Forum for that Parade. July 13 is Rochester's Pride and how we may contact you at 585- sorrv' yoi.i weren't there. services — come join us for worship Unbroken "http://www.rochesterrams.con-.r' Aryd vou should bring a chessboard if calendars and join us for our social. evening is a Batechest night, so show Parade at 6 p.m., so come out and 234-7641 or use our E-mail address: There was plenty of wine for all update for the and for fellowship any Sunday this httpt/ZunA^w. rochesterrams.com vou have one. The president, Paul We are looking forward to seeing off your form at the Forum on June Threads cheer us on. [email protected], or writ.< and everyone had an outstanding, month can be Forceiia, would love to instruct you month! very soon! you. Due to the relocation of Gate­ 8. If you're looking for a group to join ROMANS, PO Box 92293, Roch­ relaxing evening. Dignity-Integrity Rochester is a Please note: Due to personal circum­ found on page B15 on how to be a better player. way & Co., we are no longer holding Outings are scheduled for the for the summer and you are an instru­ ROMANS ester, NY 14692. Since you missed that event, our O^me one, come ail! See you in our social at their place of business. living faith community- of gay, ies­ stances, the UnBrokenTbreadsgToup RGMC concert on June 15 and a mentalist, flag rwirlerj ot color guard, Rochester Male Naturists (RO­ next one is ail ready in the works. On (Community I unci We would like to thank Mr. Rob bian, bisexual, and transgender will be on hiatus until October 2002. ROTC brunch at Golden Ponds on the 16th. or anyone who wants to help out MANS) is a social organization of Wednesday, June 12, starting at 7 Center News) LaFave and Mr. Peter Garbacik for people and their friends who wor­ We look forward to resuming our Have a great summer. WOOF! carrying a flag, etc, please give us a gay naturists who enjoy camaraderie Righteously Outrageous Twirling p.m., Jim V. of the Wine Society will ship openly with one another. We meetings and seeing you all in the fall! hosting us these past few^ years. call: Tim @ (585)242-0237. Corps is looking for interested people host an Australian,/New Zealand /^ Third Presbyterian Church a More Light Church Dignity-Integrity Rochester Elaine Elkins M.S. where glbt persons are welcomed as (Roman Cathofkr-Episcopal) Psychotherapist C^ounselor/^Lesbian partners in ministry We welcoine all regardless of worship tradition or sexual orientation. Individual and relationship counseling: Sunday Worship 10:30 a.m. (Child care available, wheelchair accessible, Liturgy every Sunday at 5:00 p.m. r^ ncouragcmcnt looped for hearing impaired) RMMW CMth0h€ first, tkmt, Mtdfifth Smidm^ if At jz (716)334-S3S0 Certified Clinical Mental SpiriiMa Christi Church Specializing in Concerns of: Health Counselor A Clirist-ceiitered CatlMlk Chttrcli mchiiig beyond tlic instHiitional Isolation and Loneliness, /y^^ N«w Pati«iit« w6leoni« c&Mf rcli Ut be induiive of all Relationships, Separation, ADDRESSj \l< x.iiKit r .M ^IK "YU. Uj:ii'«^ , MS. Bd. EvMilng and Satordat] appta. available Liturgies: Thursday: 7:00 p.m. at Spifitus Christi Chuich NationaUy Certified Saturday: 5:00 p.m. at Spiritus Christi Church Self-Esteem, Abuse, and 6C/BC p«rtidp«tlng prav«

" / « « • < Gay Fathers* ' Group GAGV Volunteer of The Fathers* Group is pteased to say that the 2001-2002 year has been a the Month: successful one. We have had many new dads come to our meetings Leslie Apetz throughout the past 10 months. CoinjtnuiiityCeiitser Wc enjoyed getting to know ev­ eryone and have made many new ftiends. The group also planned a year-end picnic at one of die dads' Community Center homes on May 28. Leslie Apetz with Team Rochester at the Amsterdam Gay Games. As the summer approaches, we Information GAGV Community Center. 179 At­ Board Preh(ei;:h^ir accsssthk. related issues for the past several warding in your volunteer work www.gayaliiance.org Board mectifsgi are sckcdnk(iJ'or the second indirectly in the g3y scene organising years, and invited gay friends to \We also plan to participate in a Center liours: Mon./Thurs., I -9 pm; with the GAGV? Wednesday ofthe m&nth. and playing softball, worship with our family, including group walk with Rochester hi. I -6 pm. The people at the GAGV are ter­ Frontrunners/Frontwalkers on "I was active in Rochester's emerg­ girlfriends, I did not 'declare it' until rific, friendly, accommodating and Father's Day weekend, Saturday, ing gay scene from '80 to *86, until i recently, when 1 was asked to be on interested in serving our community. w^rw.gayalliance.org and click on moved to New Orleans, Washing­ June 15. We wUl be meeting at the Youth speaic out a panel regarding being gay and They are open to new ideas and truly "Youth Pages." ton, D.C. and Adanta. There I was Chnstian. In general. I have tried to George Eastman House parking lot have our communitv in mind. in Albany Hay 20 active in IciCal AIDS organization's, live jT[y life openly, not hiding o\ at 9 a.m. "Hit walk \s,-tii be 2,8 miles What ^svould you say to others to the AIDS Qujlt and loco.! church feeling like I could not get involved long. Ail fathers and their families By Patty Hayes, Youth ProgTam encourage them to become a vol­ Stepping out efforts to provide respite care for in a gay t*vent simply because it was are invited to participate. Coordinator unteer with the GAGV? HIVpositive parishioners and gay. At vaiious times of mv life I We are pleased to say that we will On May 20,19 members of the Youth with Next Step Think o^ an idea you'd like to do friends. When 1 returned to Roches­ have been more successful at this be co-sponsorjng the Family Movie Programs went to Albany to attend that builds our comm.unity — maybe Twelve individuals completed this ter in 1993, I becafYie involved with than at others." Night with tlie GAGV again this Lobby Day. During th or arc just ncwjy coming out. dous amiount of •work into making panshitjncrs. happened in '9''. youth, Amanda Cspuano, Phi! Through facilitated discussions, in­ TeamRochester a success. And "In addition to working as a phar­ In what capacities have you most recently, your Claiming the Write for a free 2 - issue ifial subscription PLAGAL Ljndquist and Rebekah Rosenfeld, teractive exercises, and journal writ­ maceutical sales rep, I am in the volunteered with the GAGV (e.g. Promise bible study is a wonder­ Name — also received awards from tl-ie Em­ ing, the rwo leaders for the group Masters of Divinitv Program at Triangle Talk discussion leader. ful addition to the workshops we Address Says Donna Mane Kearney, Prol jfe pire State Pride Agenda for their help participants identify their City, Slate. Zip Colgate Rochester Crozer Divinitv- Claiming the Promise Workshop offer through our Strengthening /Uliance of Gays and I-^sbians Vice- leadership. strengths and resources that will en­ School. For fun 1 play golf, garden, facilitator)? Oiwscives Program- |g_BG! III President of New York State, "In the In the month of June, Vouth able them to achieve their personal HKm^B^BfflSfflBi history of the gay and lesbian com­ Group and Young Adult Group goals regarding taking the next step CP HOUSEKEEPING munity, there.' has not been an (irgaru- members wiil help at the annual in their coming out process. people are willing to volunteer their parucular volunteer experience is a III Volunteers keep m^ NO HOME OR OFFICE Cutting edge zation to take action on pro- life con- AIDS Walk. We will be staffing one The overwhelming majorir)- of to lead a book discussion. really wonderful way for p>eople to of the water and snack stations and TO BIG OR SMALL Irreverent • • Activist vicdons until the Pro-Life Alliance of participants indicated that they had a GAGV going We currendy have nearly dozen get familiar with GAGV and its staff, I Gays and Lesbians, in 1990 PIAGAL helping to cheer on the walkers. "very p>ositive" experii;nce and thai volunteers with our Community and not have to make a big commit­ Comroversiai m By Tanya Smolinsky $20.00per hr for the first 30 days • llsivnary came into being out of the rock- This month we will also begin our the group was "vety successful" in Education Project. Each of these ment of time. Many volunteers have Hbrnan-centered m Pride Week pla.nning. Plans will in­ V^oiunteers are absolutely essential to $25.00per hr thereafter, B Radical bottom Ixsijef that when anything helping them in taking their next individuals attends a six-hour train­ learned new skills or seen dieir writ­ o clude organizing our parade contin­ our ability to offer the number of Price includes both of us. Subversive threatens human life, rights, or dig­ step in conung out. When partici­ ing so that they are prepared to lead ing or photos in print for the first ctf nity, that threat must go. gent, planning a fundraiser, and, pants were asked what they most programs and services that we do to prcjfessional quality sensitivity train­ time. And yes, we are both GAY! Homophobia's one such threat. hopefully, another youth dance. If liked aljout the gtoup, almost every­ the Greater Rochester area commu- ing sessions. \X^e provide approxi Another opportunity hke this is mammmmamaam rut),'. We utilize volunteers in virtually Specializing in carpet cleaning. Aboraon's another. Interested? Have you thought we were loud and proud one commented that it was the sup­ mately 75 sensitivity training ses­ volunteering with sp>ecial events, like riie feminist tiewsjoumaj questions? Join us," last year, just waid port that they received frotn fellow every aspect ofthe organization, start­ sions each year, and we reidly rely on die Sweethean Ball or the Gay Pride Cleaning weekly, Bi-weekly, for over 30 years ing with our Board of Directors, PLAGAl^ P.O. Box 33292, Wash­ If you are a youth or j'oung aduit group members. volunteer trainers to lead many of Picnic. Typically, this is a one-day II o wliich is compnsed of 24 hard-work­ Monthly, or ONE TIME ONLY ington, DC 20033. (202) 223-6697. 13- 23, come check out our ptogtams. Participants in this spring's ses­ these. comminnent that allows people to •irew&ac** ing and dedicated individuals who Email: [email protected]. Website: The Young Adult Group (18-23) sion ranged in age from their late Patty- Hayes, our Youth Program get involved with the community, Other services are available such « 3337Bl*hW»»«fcNW give many hours of dieir time and II ai www.plagal.org meets every Sunday from 12-1:30 twenties to their early sixties. Some Coordinator, depends on ncariy a help the GAGV, and meet lots of o I experti.se each month attending com­ As laundry, shopping errands and Yard Work pm at the Gay Alliance Community individuals were married and had dozen volunteers to help co-facili­ people. We are dependent on a large mittee meetings and helping with Great references available Center. The Youth Group for middle children, others were partnered in a tate the two Sunday youth groups. number of great volunteers to put on fundraising efforts. Call 202-6196 or email at and high school smdents meets ev­ same-sex relationship, and others had Volunteers with the Youth Group big events like our annual Pride Pic­ ery Sundny ftom 2-4 pen abo at the never been in any type of relation­ We rely on volunteers to help fa­ arc required co go through a very nic, coming up next month. Cphous€keepiiig@aoLcoiii Gay Alliance. The Yoqth of Color ship. Some individuals had just come cilitate our support gttmps such as selective and careful screening pro­ Without volunteer supp

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