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BY ALEXANDRIA FAIZ delegation to World Youth Day est need. Building a sense of com- in Krakow, Poland, this summer, munity among Catholic youth is The momentum from the the acted as the 2016 an important step to fulfilling it. 2014 Synod continues as new World Youth Day liaison for In a recent video message programs are launched around the United States Conference of for World Youth Day, Bishop the Bridgeport Diocese includ- Catholic . Caggiano asked young Catholics to ing plans for the new Catholic “The young people I’ve dealt “renew the face of the earth. We Service Corps (CSC). with, and I’ve dealt with hun- may not be able to solve someone’s Patrick Turner, director of dreds of them in these listening problem, but the Holy Spirit has Strategic and Pastoral Planning sessions for the synod, are tre- given us the power to see others as for the diocese, says that 15 chap- mendous,” Bishop Caggiano our brothers and sisters.” ters are participating in the 2016- noted. “But for everyone that’s (A coordinator for the program 2017 pilot year involving univer- involved in the Church, there are will be named this summer. For sities, high schools and parish perhaps eight or nine who are not more information, contact Patrick groups throughout the diocese. involved.” Turner: [email protected], or Evan They will get together for the SERVING IN FAITH—The Catholic Service Corps will be formally launched This is why he has identified Psencik, coordinator of Youth and first time on Saturday, September on Sunday, September 24 with a day of service and spiritual reflection. A pilot finding creative ways to welcome Young Adult programs: program is already underway in 15 parishes and schools throughout the diocese. 24, with a day of service that back Catholics as the single great- [email protected].) n will include projects across the diocese, concluding with a Mass to clean the grounds of Columbus college life from their fellow at the Chapel at School in Bridgeport. This volunteers. Bitencourt, an active University and a homily from event, organized with the City parishioner at St. Charles, was Bishop Frank J. Caggiano. of Bridgeport’s Neighborhood the link for involving its youth Students involved in the Revitalization/Anti-Blight Office, group in that inaugural event in Catholic Service Corps will dis- gave the program a strong start, April. Sacred Heart is also part- cover that participation will be according to Andrea Caneal, nering with St. Andrew Catholic a different experience than most assistant director of SHU’s Church in Bridgeport. Bitencourt other volunteer clubs. Students Office of Volunteer Programs & is now working alongside Andrea will be asked to make an inten- Service Learning. “The focus Caneal in SHU’s Office of tional commitment to service as a of the Catholic Service Corps is Volunteer Programs and Service way of life. action-oriented projects that will Learning. Turner said that “students will occur throughout the diocese. Schools and parishes that will not only do good works but learn Sacred Heart University is hon- be participating in the Catholic why we do them, within the con- ored to be a partner in Bishop Services Corps pilot program text of our Catholic faith.” Caggiano’s call to engage the include Fairfield University, Each chapter will have two area’s youth,” Caneal said Sacred Heart University, and advisers: one to coordinate the That April project not only Western Connecticut State community projects and the other cleared trash and made the school University; Trinity Catholic High to provide spiritual reflection yard safer for its students but School, Immaculate High School, and guidance. “Before serving also taught important lessons. “It St. High School, Kolbe their communities, students will was an eye-opening experience,” Cathedral High School, Notre engage in a theological discussion shared Geissy Bitencourt, one Dame High School, Fairfield or participate in a retreat. The of the student leaders at Sacred College Preparatory School and work of their hands will then help Heart University. “When we pass the Convent of the Sacred Heart; them reach a deeper faith togeth- a neglected park, we often think St. Charles Borromeo Parish, St. er,” Turner said. someone else will take care of it. Andrew Parish, St. A pilot project took place in To actually have our own hands Parish, St. Aloysius Parish and April when students from Sacred help fix a problem affecting a St. Academy. Heart University in Fairfield community was inspirational.” A dedication to youth is core joined the St. Charles Borromeo In turn, members of the youth to Bishop Caggiano’s ministry. In Parish, Bridgeport, Youth Group group had time to learn about addition to leading the diocesan

ON THE COVER | CONTENTS VACATION BIBLE CAMP—Msgr. Walter 5 WORLD YOUTH DAY 12 NEW PRESIDENT FOR ST. V’S Orlowski speaks with young campers from A pilgrimage in faith Vince Caponi Inside this issue St. Matthew Parish in Norwalk at this year’s summer Vacation Bible School. Many parishes 8 A BEACON OF LIGHT 14 SHU ‘JOURNEY’ 6 Catholic Scouting throughout the diocese host Bible camps that builds character and faith Ministry in the Inner City Empowering young Catholics give children an opportunity to learn about their faith while enjoying Summer activities. TRINITY’S MIKE WALSH Farewell 9 MAGNIFICAT MINISTRY 17 12 for Sister Pat Rickis, DHS For more information, turn to page 13. Please visit us on: A day of renewal for women Set for Hall of Fame ABOVE THE FOLD—CAMPERS at www.facebook.com/ bridgeportdiocese at www.twitter.com/ diobpt Latest news: at St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull learn to bridgeportdiocese.com ® FEAST OF THE ASSUMPTION Frank E. Metrusky, CFP 11 23 President and Financial Advisor reverence the Eucharist and practice virtue. 945 Beaver Dam Road Stratford, CT 06614 Dr. Frank DeStefano September 203.386.8977

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BY BRIAN D. WALLACE many and all present, including the families cheap, you and priests who helped to nur- “The very reason you were must become a ture the vocation of the newly created was to come to this living Gospel, ordained. moment to be one with Christ,” preaching the “What a beautiful and joyous Bishop Frank J. Caggiano said to Gospel with celebration we’ve had together the two men about to be ordained the integrity this day. We will remember this at St. Augustine Cathedral on of your life. I as a moment of grace for two June 25. pray for you young priests and for this dio- More than 750 people filled that God’s cese,” he said. the cathedral, some sitting on people will see Hundreds then gathered on fold-up chairs, to witness the you as a living the green outside of the cathedral of Philip Lành Phan, Gospel.” where a large tent was set up for a native of , and Eric The bishop the new priests to give their first William Silva, a Trumbull resi- told Father blessings. dent, to the priesthood. Phan and Father Phan celebrated his The back doors of the historic Father Silva first English Mass that evening at downtown cathedral were thrown FIRST BLESSING (l-r) Father Philip Lanh Phan and Father Eric Silva gave their first blessings to that when they St. John Church in Darien at 4:30 open for the joyous celebration friends and families after being ordained by Bishop Frank J. Caggiano on June 25, at St. Augustine preach, it must pm. Father Frank Hoffmann, St. with music and readings deliv- Cathedral in Bridgeport. Hundreds lined up for the First Blessing in a day of joy and grace for the be “as men not newly ordained priests. John’s pastor, gave the homily. ered in Vietnamese and English. afraid to tell the Father Phan celebrated his first Vincent Vu, O. Carm., brother truth in and out Vietnamese Mass on June 26 at of Father Phan, proclaimed the mother from Vietnam for the foremost “shepherds of God’s of season, whether your hearers St. Augustine Cathedral at 2:30 first reading from the Book of ordination. people.” like it or not.” pm. Father Justin Le from San in Vietnamese, “Before The two men were ordained “You must shepherd as a Father Francisco Gomez- Jose, Calif., delivered the homily. I formed you in the womb, I following the Introductory Rites brother, servant and friend. Your Franco, pastor of St. Charles Father Silva celebrated his first knew you, before you were born and the Liturgy of the Word. ministry is not about the obser- Borromeo Parish in Bridgeport, Mass on June 26 at 12 noon at I dedicated you, a prophet to the They received prolonged vance of the law alone but the served as master of ceremonies. St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. nations, I appointed you.” applause from the gathering as power of love,” the bishop said. Thomas Marino served as music Father Joseph Marcello, pastor of John Silva, brother of Father the bishop called them forward. The bishop told the newly-or- director and organist for the ordina- St. Parish in Silva, delivered the English read- After they made their promises, dained that they will have the tion, and Marjorie Donalds as can- Trumbull, gave the homily. ings, while Virginia Silva, their the men knelt before the bishop awesome power to preach, to tor. The ordination program also The two priests have already mother, and Xuan ThiTran Phan, for the Laying on of Hands and forgive sins and to consecrate the featured the Diocesan Youth Choir received their first assignments mother of Father Phan, brought Prayer of Ordination. All priests “bread and wine into the body (C4Y) under the direction of Mary as parochial vicars. Father Phan up the offertory gifts. Father Phan present then processed forward and blood of Christ,” but in order Bozzuti Higgins, the Diocesan will serve at St. Mary Parish in had served his deacon internship and imposed their hands on the to lead others, they must “stir Festival Choir, and the Choir of Bethel; Father Silva heads for St. at St. John’s, and in a gesture ordained as a sign of brotherhood. the embers of faith” in their own the Vietnamese Community of the Joseph Parish in Brookfield. Both of appreciation the parishioners Bishop Caggiano told the two hearts. Cathedral Parish. assignments were effective as of had collected funds to bring his men that priests are first and “In a world where words are After Mass the bishop thanked June 25. n Lisa Ferrara named Chief HR Officer BRIDGEPORT—“I am happy ing “hands-on” management taught various grades, as well as diocese,” she said. to announce that Lisa Ferrara has of compensation, benefit plan being involved with the parish A stronger human resources been named the Chief Human administration, payroll, workers sacramental program. She is also team will eliminate duplication Resource Officer for the Diocese compensation, employee relations active with the Sterling House of services and help identify the of Bridgeport,” said Msgr. and employee training. Community Center in Stratford areas that need improvement. Thomas Powers, vicar general Ferrara earned a BS in com- as a Board of Directors member “The needs of the schools are for the Diocese of Bridgeport. munications from Southern and a participant on the HR/ different from the parishes, and Ferrara took her position on Connecticut State University Legal Committee. those are different from the needs June 15, and is already actively and an MBA in human resource As part of her new posi- of the clergy,” she observed. “The involved in restructuring the HR management from Sacred Heart tion, Ferrara has already met bishop’s vision is to have better department in the light of the University in Fairfield. with Patrick Turner, director service to all our employees on a diocesan Strategic Plan. Born in Danbury as the fifth of Strategic Planning for the global basis. We want people to She comes to the diocese with of six siblings, Ferrara grew up Diocese of Bridgeport, Father be comfortable with the human more than 25 years of experi- in St. Mary Parish in Bethel. Dogali, episcopal vicar resources department and trust ence in the Human Resource She and her husband, Keith, are for Strategic Planning, and HR to make this a great place to field, most recently as vice pres- active parishioners at St. James other members of the Planning work.” ident of human resources for Parish in Stratford. They are the LISA FERRARA Committee. “The Diocesan She added with a quick smile, TransAct Technologies, Inc., parents of two sons, one a soph- Synod helped clarify what was “This is already a great place to an international organization omore at West Point Military Stratford,” she added with justifi- really needed in human resourc- work. Where else can I have the based in Hamden, where she was Academy and one headed to able pride. es, and the core of that is better support of my faith and do what responsible for all HR strategies UMAINE this fall. “Both were Ferrara has been a catechist communication and building an I love to do—use my human and initiatives, as well as on-go- Eagle Scouts with Troop 72 in at St. James since 2004 and has HR team to better serve the entire resources skill to help people!” n 4 July/August 2016 Parish News Father Mollenhauer installed as pastor of St. Roch GREENWICH—Father I begin my ministry among you, Arthur Mollenhauer was installed I ask for your prayers that I may as the ninth pastor of St. Roch always heed these words.” Parish in Greenwich by Bishop Father Mollenhauer was Frank J. Caggiano on July 9, at named pastor of St. Mary Parish the 5 pm Mass. It was a festive and joyous moment for the parish located in the “Chickahominy” neighborhood near the downtown. Father Mollenhauer said he is grateful for the “warm and friend- ly” reception he has received from parishioners and people in the neighborhood who have gone out of their way to say hello. “ Francis has insisted that FATHER ARTHUR MOLLENHAUER IS GRATEFUL for the warm and friendly reception he has received from we pastors be ‘Shepherds with the parishioners and neighbors at St. Roch’s in Greenwich. He was recently named ninth pastor of the parish, founded in 1938. smell of the sheep.’ He asks us to ‘go out of ourselves: and serve Degree in Canon Law at St. Paul in 1938, after it served as a mis- and Italian. the needs of our faithful.’ He want University in Ottawa, Canada. sion church. Most of its early Father Mollenhauer will have us to ‘put own own skin and own in Stamford in 2009 and also He completed studies in June parishioners came from a small an opportunity to meet more of the heart on the line’ for parishio- served as Administrator of St. 2016, and will now also hold an village in Southern Italy and their Greenwich community during this ners,” said Father Mollenhauer of Benedict/Our Lady of Montserrat appointment as Adjutant Judicial village protector was San Rocco. year’s St. Roch Feast that will be his new assignment. “I have my during that time. On September Vicar for the Diocesan Tribunal. Father Mollenhauer, who held August 10-13. The festival work cut out for me as I strive to 14, he was assigned by Bishop St. Roch Parish, with its served as a missionary in Chile concludes on August 14 with a fulfill this mission and reach out Caggiano to begin studies on a Romanesque Revival stone for ten years and also studied in procession through the streets of to the people of Greenwich. As Licentiate Degree and Masters church, was formally established Rome, is fluent in both Spanish Greenwich and a noontime Mass. n

This Summer the programs and services supported by the Annual Catholic Appeal (ACA) are at work every day, reaching out to the hungry, homeless, and to entire diocesan families in so many ways:

• Two young men were ordained priests and are now at work in their first • Hundreds of parents throughout the diocese are breathing a little assignments: Fr. Eric Silva is ministering at St. Joseph Parish in easier knowing that their sons and daughters are enrolled in Catholic Brookfield, and Fr. Philip Lanh Phan has begun his priestly ministry at schools this Fall because of financial assistance available through the St. Mary Parish in Bethel Bishop's Scholarship Fund

• Catholic Charities soup kitchens are a refuge from the heat in Danbury, • 18 retired priests who have given a lifetime of service to the diocese are Bridgeport, and Stamford — offering a cool, safe space and a nutritious looking forward to moving into the newly expanded Catherine Dennis Keefe meal for the poor and hungry Queen of Clergy Residence

• 231 young people and chaperones have traveled to Krakow, Poland for World Youth Day, a pilgrimage that will deepen their faith and stay with them for a lifetime

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For more information please email us at: [email protected] or call: 203-416-1470. 5 July/August 2016 World Youth Day A pilgrimage of prayer and encounter 231 pilgrims aged 16-35, including 11 seminarians, from the Diocese of Bridgeport traveled to Poland Thursday for World Youth Day (WYD). July 21 “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall be Pilgrims depart from the Catholic shown mercy,” one of the eight Beatitudes, Center for JFK Friday, July 22 International Airport. After arrival in Warsaw, Poland, groups are met by is the theme of this year’s World Youth Day They travel on guide and board private motor coaches for a brief two flights. city tour of Warsaw and a welcome dinner. Pilgrims gathering, held July 27-31. stay at the Mazurkas Hotel & Conference Center. u u u u v

The patroness of WYD 2016 u is St. Faustina. Faustina, who was a of the Saturday, July 23 Congregation of Our Lady of Mercy, Retreat Day to spiritually prepare proclaimed Jesus’ message pilgrims for the coming week. “WYD Welcome Party” of Divine Mercy to the world, at the hotel for many of our groups particularly through her Chaplet with a Polish BBQ, prayer, concert, Eucharistic adoration, games of Divine Mercy. and keynote by Chris Stefanick.

Sunday, July 24 After breakfast, pilgrims depart for Czestochowa and visit Jasna Gora, the monastery that u Tuesday, July 26 is home to the Black Madonna This morning is free for exploring the city or to go icon. Mass is at 2 pm and then to the Sanctuary for Divine Mercy or the JPII Center. they continue to Krakow after

The afternoon is the time for the Opening Mass a walk in Jordana Park and

in Blonia Park which is near the hostel. check into the Oleandry hostel. u

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Monday, July 25 Pilgrims depart for Auschwitz, the German

u concentration camp where millions lost their lives, including and . In the afternoon the group travels to the Divine Mercy Shrine and says the Divine Mercy Chaplet in five languages!

Friday July 29 After  Wednesday, July 27 Monday Catechesis in the morning catechesis, pilgrims August 1 is followed by evening Pilgrims cultural events. participate in evening travel from cultural events Warsaw, Thursday, July 28 including Poland, Pilgrims have catechesis the Stations back to Connecticut. u in the morning and officially of the Cross Saturday, July 30 Sunday, July 31 welcome the Holy Father with the Pilgrims join all other American pilgrims Today is the Closing Mass with the Holy Father. Welcome to Krakow this evening. Holy Father. for Mass followed by a vigil. Tonight is the pilgrims’ Group Farewell Dinner. home! u u u u 6 July/August 2016 Fostering Faith Catholic Scouting

BY REBECCA VODOLA through the seven sacraments, exploring God’s call to voca- Bishop Frank Caggiano tions and ministries, developing presented young scouts with self-awareness and understand- faith-based awards at the June ing, modeling the Mary in 18 Catholic Scouting Awards obedience to and love of God and Ceremony. Members of the Boy discovering how the Holy Spirit Scouts, Girl Scouts and American moves in their lives. Heritage Girls, a faith-based Scouts who have been award- CATHOLIC SCOUTS who earned faith-based awards were honored in a June ceremony. scouting organization, received ed all four Catholic Scouting Catholic Scouting Emblems for Emblems receive the “Pillars of completing faith-based scouting Faith” award. This year’s recip- ed,” Kirkman recalled. “As I Immaculate High School in award for significant contribu- programs. ients were Grace Anne Herrick, grew older, I decided to follow Danbury, Kirkman will pursue tions to Catholic scouting. St. It is possible to earn four Victoria Kirkman, Marina Renzi through with the religious awards a degree in nursing at Catholic Rose of Lima’s Cub Scout Pack emblems. Girl scouts can earn and Katerina Ringes, all of St. because they allowed me to gain University in the fall. 570 was awarded the “National “Family of God,” “I Live My Rose of Lima Parish in Newtown. a new perspective on my faith Adult scouting leader Catholic Quality Unit Award— Faith,” “Mary the First ” Kirkman has been a Girl that wasn’t necessarily covered in Katherine Anne Gombos of St. Pope Paul VI” for outstanding and “The Spirit Alive” awards. Scout for 12 years. She said that Catholic school.” Catherine of Siena in Trumbull commitment to the Catholic faith Boy scouts may earn the “Light earning the awards helped her to A 2016 graduate of earned the “Bronze Pelican” from troop leaders and scouts. n of Christ,” “Parvuli Dei,” “Ad grow in faith and knowledge of Altare Dei,” and “Pope Pius XII.” the Church, the Virgin Mary and The award programs assist the Holy Spirit. Scouts in developing a personal “My troop leaders encouraged Let It Grow! relationship with Jesus, discover- me to earn the first religious ing the presence of God in daily award in second grade, but the BY ELLEN MCGINNESS up with the idea that the Girl ter. Keating himself donated life, experiencing personal growth other awards were self-motivat- Scouts, as part of a project to give all the seeds and seedlings for Talk about getting your back to the community, could tomatoes, eggplants, peppers, hands dirty! The Girl Scouts build an organic garden for New radishes, basil, parsley and sun- flowers—and taught the group some tricks and tips of the farming trade. “I really wanted to build a garden so that we could grow something to help families and feed children,” explained Meghan Burke, a Girl Scout who has been in Emond- Breen’s troop since kinder- Catholic Cemeteries garten. Burke has spent many Diocese of Bridgeport hours volunteering for NCC, serving in the kitchen and run- Pre-planning your final resting place ning food drives for the pantry. will give you and your family peace of mind But where did that passion to help others come from? Purchasing a crypt in advance affords you the opportunity The rising sophomore at to have up to two years to pay interest free Notre Dame Catholic High School in Fairfield put it this way: “Part of it is growing up Crypts are available at the following cemeteries: in Catholic schools—helping St. Michael Cemetery St. John Cemetery MORE THAN JUST COOKIES—Girl Scouts planted a community garden at others is part of the culture. 2205 Stratford Avenue 223 Richards Avenue New Covenant Center in Stamford to provide fresh vegetables to families in need. But I also love it because I can Stratford, Connecticut Norwalk, Connecticut see the difference I’m making. I 203.378.0404 203.838.4271 love being able to see who I’m of Connecticut planted the Covenant Center (NCC). The helping.” St. Mary — Putnam Cemetery very first organic garden at vegetables and herbs would be Edmond-Breen agrees. She 399 North Street New Covenant Center, a soup offered in the pantry to families hopes that the Girl Scouts will Greenwich, Connecticut kitchen and pantry program in need. start a trend and build more 203.869.4828 in Stamford run by Catholic Easy to say—but how to do? gardens across the state, grow- Charities of Fairfield County. Lovegreen, the volunteer ing healthy food for healthier By choosing a Catholic Cemetery, one selects a final resting place The endeavor sprouted from coordinator for NCC, knew just living: that reflects the beliefs and values from life’s personal journey. a chance meeting between what to do: he called Maxon “People think we’re all It is a resting place that is sacred and shared with all believers awaiting the resurrection of the dead and the promise of everlasting life. troop leader Michele Emond- Keating of Fairgate Farms in about the cookies. And yes Breen and Jim McPartlan, a Stamford. Keating arranged for that’s a big part of the Girl Catholic Charities of Fairfield three yards of discounted organic Scouts. But these girls really County board member. After soil to be spread into concrete are making the world a better some brainstorming, they came containers in the back of the cen- place.” n 7 July/August 2016 Fielding a Sports Ministry Hidden Rock Sports spreads the Good News

BY REBECCA VODOLA the guidebook to their ministry, strategies for young athletes to Good News for Young Athletes: persevere in sports and faith, with Six years ago, John Moulder Winning Strategies for Sports and chapter topics including joy and of Newtown stood on the Life. contentment, key characteristics sidelines of his daughter’s Hidden Rock Sports was in a faith-filled life. “We have to cross-country meet and, noticing named, Laura said, for the “hid- let our hearts be quiet in a world runners wearing T-shirts with den Rock” within the heart of that’s very noisy. Keep practic- motivational slogans, thought each person: God. ing silence and keep practicing to himself, “Boy, that would be Through HRS, John and sports,” said Laura. a great way to evangelize.” His Laura “introduce kids and their The Moulders expect the initial idea for a Christian T-shirt parents to a relationship with guidebook to be the first in a transformed into a faith-in-sports God through their sporting expe- series, hoping to write similar ministry called Hidden Rock riences. We hope that the parent books for teenagers, parents and Sports. and child will work on that rela- coaches. Eventually, they want Today, Hidden Rock Sports tionship together,” said John. to have a Hidden Rock Sports (HRS) is a ministry of John’s and “Sports can be very important facility where kids could come his wife, Laura, parishioners at to kids, so they are a great entry to practice sports and take part St. Rose of Lima in Newtown. point to build that relationship in faith-based activities like Bible The couple operates a website, with God.” JOHN AND LAURA MOULDER turned an initial idea for a Christian T-shirt studies. hiddenrocksports.com, with an Over the last decade, John into a faith-in-sports ministry called Hidden Rock Sports. In April, Hidden Rock Sports interactive blog for parents of and Laura watched their three held a Faith and Sports family young athletes and an online children, Brianne, Jack and workshop at St. Rose. The work- store where patrons may pur- Aidan, struggle to keep a larger children to navigate the world for “dinner-table” discussion shop offered interactive games chase, among other merchandise, perspective while playing sports. of youth sports, John and Laura among family members. In and lessons based on the link Hidden Rock Sports T-shirts. Last Realizing that it can be over- said the Holy Spirit compelled Hidden Rock’s ministry, he said, between sports and faith. John year, John and Laura published whelming for both parents and them to begin their ministry. An “The challenge is to get family and Laura hope to bring similar idea for an evangelizing T-shirt members to take the message and workshops to parishes and com- turned into their book and then transform their family’s attitude munities across the diocese and HRS. toward sports.” around New England. “We want kids to understand HRS hinges on the cooper- “We’re going to spread the Baseball that, whether you’re the best or ation of both parents and their Good News, going out and deliv- worst player on the team, it’s children. “It’s a dual effort,” said ering the message ourselves, even with the Bishop from God and through God and Laura, because parents must though that wasn’t the original for his glory that you play sports. foster a connection between God plan. We’re following the Holy Our kids responded to that and and sports as an example for Spirit’s guidance and we’re open weren’t so stressed out, worrying their children. Importantly, the to what people may ask or need that every play is going to make Moulders note, parents must pri- of us,” said John. or break them,” said John. He oritize Sunday Mass. At the core of the Hidden and Laura want to share that “You take your kids to sport- Rock Sports message is the idea broader perspective with other ing clinics to improve upon their that “sports and life connect and families. performance. Mass is the greatest can be symbiotic,” said Laura. “In so many communities, clinic you can ever attend, and “Both sports and faith should be sports are a major feature of fam- it’s free and it goes on every parts of your game plan.” ily life,” said John. One of HRS’s week,” said John. (For more information, visit www. primary goals is to be a platform The HRS guidebook outlines hiddenrocksports.com.) n

SAINT MARY’S CHURCH The Diocese of Bridgeport invites all young adults ages “The Mother Church of Norwalk” | 669 West Ave., Norwalk | www.stmarynorwalk.net | 203.866.5546 18-35 to attend Baseball with the Bishop, to be held Saturday, Pastor: Rev. Richard G. Cipolla Deacon Stephan A. Genovese September 3. Parochial Vicar: Msgr. Ignacio Barreiro Bishop Frank Caggiano, a longtime New Mets fan, will travel to the Mets’ Citi Field with young adults to see the Mets MASSES: CONFESSION SCHEDULE: take on the Washington Nationals. Evan Psencik, coordinator of Daily Masses: Monday-Friday: 11:30 am-12:00 pm; Monday-Friday 8:00 am, 12:10 pm; Wednesday: 5:30-5:50 pm; youth and young adult formation for the Diocese of Bridgeport, Wednesday 6:00 pm Extraordinary Form; said that the event “Will be a great opportunity for young adults Saturday 9:00 am Extraordinary Form Saturday: 3:00-4:30 pm to enjoy America’s past time with our shepherd.” Saturday Anticipatory Mass: Psencik is working with Father Jeff Couture, chaplain at 4:00 pm, 7:00 pm (Spanish) ADORATION: Sunday: 8:00 am, 9:30 am Latin High Mass, Western Connecticut State University in Danbury, to organize Wednesdays: 8:30 am-5:15 pm; the event. 11:30 am English High Mass, Fridays: 8:30 am-5:30 pm The cost is $50 per person, which will cover one ticket to the 1:15 pm (Spanish) game and round-trip bus transportation to and from the game. There are 30 spots available. MARY’S BOOKSTORE 203.854.9013 (To purchase tickets or for more information, contact Evan Psencik: Offering a wide selection of books, crucifixes, rosaries, sacramentals from Italy and the Holy Land, First Communion & Confirmation gifts, & more. 203.416.1649 or [email protected].) n SUMMER HOURS: Saturday 10am-2:30pm | Sunday 9-9:30am and 11am-2pm | Monday-Friday 1-2:30pm (except Wednesdays) Located in Parish Center building behind Saint Mary Church | VISA/MC ACCEPTED 8 July/August 2016 Reflections of an Inner-City Pastor ‘Beacon of Light in the City of Bridgeport’

BY BETH LONGWARE DUFF Council, and he allowed me to see how the budget process took Born and raised in Puebla, place. He helped me to under- Mexico, Father Frank Gomez stand that sooner or later I was came to the United States in 1996 to become a pastor and therefore to enter the Novitiate and College there was no reason for me not to of Humanities of the Legionaries become involved in some of the of Christ in Cheshire, Conn., jobs that a pastor does. where he spent three years. He attended St. Seminary FCC: It sounds like you thought in Stamford before completing his you were pretty well prepared to theological studies at Mount St. become a pastor. Mary’s Seminary in Maryland, Father Gomez: I knew what I and was ordained in the Diocese was getting into, but it was really of Bridgeport in 2009. my as secretary to the bishop Father Gomez was appointed that allowed me to see how diffi- IMMERSED IN THE LIFE OF THE PEOPLE—Father Frank Gomez, pastor of St. Charles Borromeo Parish on the pastor of St. Charles Borromeo cult the job of pastor is. In the year East Side of Bridgeport. (PHOTO BY BRIAN A. POUNDS, HEARST CONNECTICUT MEDIA) Parish in April 2015. He and a half that I was 100 percent also serves as Bishop Frank in the office of the bishop I was of the Haitian community. all four languages, and the parish- there’s no reason why they have J. Caggiano’s secretary and able to see fully all the different ioners love that. to be afraid of one another. Episcopal Master of Ceremonies. parishes in the diocese, so I saw FCC: What makes the parish He recently spoke with the from a different perspective what special? FCC: You have called the parish’s FCC: I noticed on your parish Fairfield County Catholic about all the pastors do. That experience Father Gomez: It’s unique in different cultures and traditions “a website that you have several projects his dual roles in the diocese. allowed me to have more tools to the sense that there are four dif- great opportunity to become a beacon underway and that you have request- use once I became a pastor. ferent communities operating in of light in the City of Bridgeport.” ed the assistance of parishioners with FCC: Let’s talk first about your life the one parish. We have a small How do you capitalize on that? specific construction-related skills. as a pastor, a position you’ve held for FCC: St. Charles Borromeo is the American community, which is Father Gomez: We have to Have you had a good response? just over a year. What were you antici- largest parish in Bridgeport. How do basically the people who founded be able to unite all of these com- Father Gomez: Actually, we pating, and how has it turned out? you manage to meet the many chal- the parish and have worshipped munities into one. For example, have! I want parishioners to real- Father Gomez: When I was lenges it presents? here for many years. Hispanics when I got here there was a very ize that the parish is not mine, a parochial vicar at St. John’s in Father Gomez: We have represent the largest population small youth group that met in the because I’m only here for six Darien, the pastor, Msgr. Frank 2,185 registered families; when of the parish right now, with nine rectory basement. We now meet years. The reality is once I leave, McGrath, made it look easy. we count those who are not reg- different nationalities that all at the McGivney Center every they’re the ones that stay, so we He was very supportive and he istered, we double that number. speak Spanish, each with its own Sunday evening from 6:30 until want to build that sense of com- taught me a lot. One of the things Every Sunday we have about cultural traditions and devotions 8:30 and we have about 55 mem- munity and ownership with them. that I was very grateful to him 5,000 people who come through to Our Blessed Mother. We also bers. To be able to have a safe for was that even though I was our doors. Fortunately, I have have one of the largest Brazilian place in the City of Bridgeport FCC: Any final thoughts you’d the parochial vicar, he got me two parochial vicars to help me. communities in our diocese that where the kids can come, relax like to share? involved in the life of the par- Father Ivanildo Santos takes care speaks Portuguese, and then and socialize without having Father Gomez: I’m very ish. He allowed me to sit on the of the Brazilian community and there’s our Haitian community to worry about being bullied or pleased to be here at St. Charles. Pastoral Council and the Finance Father Churchill Penn takes care that speaks Creole. I say Mass in harassed is critical. And it’s help- What makes the parish is the ing us to build up a stronger com- people, and the people here at St. munity in the life of the parish. Charles are people of faith, peo- Through the youth, we’re able to ple of joy, and people who know bring the parents together, and how to love the Lord. That’s then they get to interact with one what motivates us to fulfill the SAVE THE DATE another and they come to realize mission that we have. n SATURDAY A CENTENNIAL CELEBRATION THE 100TH ANNIVERSARY OF CATHOLIC CHARITIES OF FAIRFIELD COUNTY STAMFORD MARRIOTT HOTEL 243 TRESSER BOULEVARD, STAMFORD, CT 24 Join us at 6:30pm for dinner, live auction and dancing SEPTEMBER with a special appearance by “Shadows of the 60’s.” Reserve your place early by phone: 203-416-1333 or online 2016 at: www.100thgala.eventbrite.com 9 July/August 2016 Women’s Spirituality Magnificat ministry holds Day of Renewal

BY REBECCA VODOLA God’s gifts. its inaugural Magnificat Meal in Recognizing a need for rela- 2003. “Women need one another tional ministry, the Magnificat The Triumphant Heart chapter in a unique way, and need to chapter’s team strives to include is a fellowship of women from share with one another,” said personal testimonies like around the diocese. Its leadership Fran Hood, coordinator of the Angotta’s at their events because team consists of Hood, Angotta, Diocese of Bridgeport’s chap- “women respond to testimony Paniccia, historian Janet Moore, ter of Magnificat, a ministry to more than talks,” said Angotta, and secretary Barb Travis. Catholic women. The chapter, referencing Pope Paul VI. In addition to its prayer named the Triumphant Heart Retreat attendee Pam Rittman breakfasts, the chapter holds of Mary Immaculate Chapter said, “The day was refreshing. bimonthly prayer cenacles and of Magnificat, held a Day of Magnificat draws women from will begin a 20-week Bible study Renewal on June 25. all walks of life, and we see each on biblical women in September. “We intend for this one day other at the core as sisters in Father Larry Carew, the chap- to be the first step toward growth Christ. Fran Karpeij has a special ter’s spiritual adviser and liaison for the participants, whom we gift of tying in life and its chal- to the Charismatic Renewal of hope will examine their lives to “LIVING IN THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT,” a women’s Day lenges to God, helping women to of Renewal, was presented by Fran Karpeij, OFS. The Magnificat diocesan the Diocese of Bridgeport, offers change,” said Pat Paniccia, chap- understand the journey of faith ministry to Catholic women sponsored the day and organizes women’s events healing Masses once a month. ter treasurer. more fully.” throughout the year. (PHOTO BY JANET MOORE) “Magnificat should be a con- Entitled “Living in the Power According to Hood, “This stant, not a one-time retreat,” of the Holy Spirit,” the Day of retreat offered a day of peace, Angotta said. “Women are con- Renewal was presented by Fran a break from everyday life, and istry and openness to the Holy the Magnificat Meal comes in the tinually transformed through this Karpeij, OFS, at St. Stephen a way to praise God and learn Spirit. form of biannual breakfasts. ministry.” Parish in Trumbull. The day different ways to pray, including A key feature of Magnificat’s Founded in the Archdiocese of (The next breakfast will be held included presentations, songs, asking Mary to be our interces- ministry is its Magnificat Meal New Orleans in 1981, Magnificat on October 1, at Ethan Allen Inn in prayer, discussion, reflection, sor.” outreach model. A Magnificat is now an international organiza- Danbury with guest speaker Susan a personal testimony by the Marian intercession plays an Meal is a shared meal incorpo- tion with over 90 chapters world- Brinkman from EWTN. To register, chapter’s assistant coordinator important role in Magnificat’s rating fellowship, praise, person- wide. The Triumphant Heart of contact Fran Hood: 203.744.1856 or Roxane Angotta, the Sacrament ministry, which is modeled on al testimony, and intercessory Mary Immaculate Chapter was [email protected]. Cost: $25/ of Reconciliation and an the Virgin Mary’s Visitation prayer. Table hostesses minister founded by Karpeij in 2000. It person. For more information about empowerment prayer service. to Elizabeth. In that spirit, to smaller groups of women. In took three years from that time to Magnificat in this diocese, visit www. Topics covered included God’s Magnificat is characterized by the Triumphant Heart chapter, train volunteers and set a founda- bridgeportdiocese.org/womens-minis- love and salvation and receiving woman-to-woman personal min- tion for the chapter before it held tries/welcome.) n Room to Grow and Roll! Merton needs BY ELLEN MCGINNESS ing this past spring between And that’s just what hap- Catholic Charities of Fairfield pened. As part of their “Summer emergency supplies Twelve brand-new yellow County and Epsilon (a global of Service” project, Epsilon tricycles, eighteen shiny red hel- marketing firm), an idea was employees from the Wilton office The Thomas Merton Center (TMC) needs your help! This soup submitted an internal applica- kitchen and pantry provides not only food but necessary items tion for a $2,500 grant to pursue for those in need. TMC’s supplies are very low. Can you help by the RTG project idea. Once the application was approved, it was game on, and a cadre of Epsilon employees showed up at RTG in mid-July ready to bedazzle and bedeck the tricycles and helmets into the stuff that pre-school dreams are made of. For over three hours the vol- unteers affixed horns and baskets to handle bars, rolled yards and yards of colorful duct tape around TRICYCLE AND HELMETS—The kids from “Room to Grow” pre-school in tricycle frames, attached license Norwalk have some pretty fancy new wheels to ride thanks to employees from plates to seats and emblazoned the Wilton office of Epsilon, a global marketing firm. helmets with glitzy stickers. And then, the Epsilon crew mets, hundreds of yards of dec- hatched: what if Epsilon donated rolled its festive fleet out onto donating the following? Men’s underwear of any size, t-shirts, orative tape, horns, light-up bas- new tricycles for the preschool, the playground, where a dozen and trial size toiletries. TMC also needs pantry supplies like: rice, kets, streamers, stickers—and five which is operated by Catholic squealing students skipped over coffee, peanut butter and jelly, pasta, jar tomato sauce, and boxed creative volunteers—all added Charities? to the trikes, jumped on, and cereal. All supplies are too low for comfort so please help! You up to one amazing community Taking it up a notch, what if rolled away with glee. can drop your donations off at TMC, 43 Madison Avenue in service project at Room to Grow the Epsilon folks do what they do (To learn more about Epsilon or Bridgeport or make arrangements with Brian Jenkins bjenkins@ Preschool (RTG) in Norwalk. best … create something extraor- Room to Grow, go to www.epsilon. ccfc-ct.org. n During an engagement meet- dinary out of something ordinary? com and www.ccfairfield.org.) n 10 July/August 2016

EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE A Summer Pilgrimage Dee Maggiori, my patient mentor It was a very special moment as young people gathered on the I was brought back to a time over, extracting enough material she patiently explained why she lawn of the Catholic Center last week to board buses to the airport earlier in my life when I heard on each one for a Ken Burns had made certain edits. I learned for World Youth Day in Poland. Nervousness, anticipation and hope recently about the passing of the mini-series! so much from her about what were in air as they prepared to venture out into the world. Their faces writer and editor, Dee Maggiori. With Dee’s tremendous help makes a good story, how to told the whole story: open, idealistic, excited to be with friends, and With her vast journalistic expe- in editing, my article was pub- connect with readers and story eager to find all that life has to offer. rience, Dee served as one of my lished and I went on to write structure, as well as a reinforce- Parents and family members waved from the parking lot as the earliest mentors. other articles for the newspaper ment of the rules of grammar. I buses began to roll as the young people and their chaperones set out Although I had always secretly and other area publications. I am enjoyed her columns for the way for a 12-day pilgrimage that will end on July 31. For many it’s their wanted to become a reporter, life happy to report the early start they wove in her faith, making first time out of the country, perhaps the first time away from their took me in other directions both Dee provided has led to a reward- the topic personal rather than families, and they are rooting this important life journey in their faith. professional and personal. But ing career in communications, dogmatic. This is no ordinary trip. These will be very special days of travel, when my beloved aunt, who had public relations and now mission Dee will be missed by area prayer that will culminate in Mass with and over a mil- been single all her life, met the services at St. Vincent’s Medical readers, especially Catholics lion young people across the globe on July 27. man of her dreams at one of the Center. who came to love her ability to “It will be a moment of tremendous grace for the young,” said diocesan Renew groups, Dee, Although I am sure she was make her faith come alive. She Bishop Frank J. Caggiano. who is leading the diocesan pilgrimage. who served as assistant editor of very amused by the documentary would be pleased to know her “Every pilgrim will be invited to walk with the Lord Jesus during the the Fairfield County Catholic, gave technique I used and the amount legacy continues through the days ahead. Each pilgrim will have the opportunity to come to know this green reporter the chance of time I spent on a simple insightful and talented leadership the Lord Jesus more deeply. My hope is that these days will give every to tell this beautiful story for the human interest story, Dee never and staff of the FCC. pilgrim a deeper love of our Savior and a renewed commitment to paper. Armed with a tape record- laughed or condescended to me become missionary disciples of God’s mercy in the world.” er and a lot of enthusiasm, I set and she made me feel like a true Special thanks to John Grosso, diocesan social media leader, and Janet off to a meeting at a restaurant reporter. She treated me like a Sincerely, Davis, administrative assistant to the Chancellor, who have spent more and must have interviewed every professional and a colleague as Lucinda I. Ames than a year planning and handling logistics for this ambitious undertaking. individual until their eyes glazed we went over assignments and St. Joseph Parish, Shelton Along with the rest of the leadership team and the chaperones, they have worked to make it a safe, successful and reverent pilgrimage. None of this would have been possible without the generosity of those who have to the Annual Catholic Appeal (ACA), which made CLERGYAPPOINTMENTS scholarship money available to youth throughout the diocese who are now attending the event. The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, The Bishop has frequently emphasized that the youth are not only Bishop of Bridgeport, our future, they are here now and have gifts to share with the Church. has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: In addition to listening to their concerns he has invited their leader- ship. Their enthusiastic response to World Youth Day is a hopeful sign in their own lives and the life of our Church. PAROCHIAL VICAR REVEREND ERIC WILLIAM remain Episcopal Chaplain, Notre SILVA, newly ordained, to Dame High School, Fairfield. REVEREND AUGUSTINE Parochial Vicar, Effective date was July 1. NGUYEN, to part-time Parochial Parish, Brookfield. Effective date Coming Soon Vicar, Church of the Assumption, was June 25. ACADEMIC DEAN/THEOLOGICAL ADVISOR In between vacations, much planning and preparation is underway concern- Westport. Father Nguyen will REVEREND MONSIGNOR ing these some important events this fall. Please review and save the date: continue to serve as Episcopal RESIDENCE Chaplain at Kolbe Cathedral High CHRISTOPHER WALSH, Diocesan Blue Mass: The Annual Diocesan Blue Mass, commemo- REVEREND MATTHEW rating the 15th anniversary of 9/11, will be held on Sunday, September School, Bridgeport on a part-time Pastor, Saint Joseph Parish, KRANKALL, Main Street, Shelton, to Academic Dean of 11, 12 noon at St. Church in Fairfield. This special basis and as Episcopal Vicar for Trumbull, to 46 Stone Street, Saint John Fisher Seminary and Mass, celebrated by Bishop Caggiano, honors Law Enforcement, Fire Vietnamese Catholics. Effective date is July 1. Danbury. Effective date was June 20. Theological Advisor to the Bishop. and First Responders. It’s open to all. Effective date is September 3. Catholic Service Corps: A day of service concluding with Mass with REVEREND PHILIP LÁNH REVEREND LUKE SUAREZ, Bishop Caggiano at the beautiful Chapel of the Holy Spirit at Sacred PHAN, newly ordained, to Saint Ann Parish, Bridgeport, to Heart University will formally launch the new Catholic Service Corps on Parochial Vicar, Saint Mary Parish, Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Monsignor Thomas W. Powers, Saturday, September 24. Fifteen chapters are now at work in the pilot pro- Bethel. Effective date was June 25. Trumbull. Father Suarez will Vicar General, July/August, 2016 gram involving young people from parishes, schools and other institutions. Catholic Charities 100th Anniversary Gala: Catholic Charities will complete its Centennial Celebration on Saturday, September 24 Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano Advertise with a Gala at Stamford Marriott Hotel. For sponsorship and ticket Publisher To place an ad, contact information contact, visit www.100thgala.evenbrite.com. Brian D. 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Periodical Bridgeport, Connecticut 06606-2892 Catholics to learn more about the faith and discover new ways to shape postage paid at Bridgeport, CT 06601, Ronnie Lazzaro the next generation of disciples. To learn more contact the Institute’s and additional mailing offices. Copy Editor (Consultant) © Copyright 2016, Diocese of Bridgeport director, Patrick Donovan at: [email protected], or 203.416.1657. n 11 July/August 2016 Editorial Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary

Annunciation Mary embarks means “the exalted one.” will call me blessed: on a journey to visit her cousin, Scholars tell us that the expres- This is the song of a great GUEST COLUMNIST Elizabeth, who is herself expect- sion “leaped for joy” is only used Queen who has accepted a great ing. Artists have loved to portray in the Bible when one is in the mission. BY FRANK DESTEFANO this tender scene of the meeting presence of the Almighty, such as In artistic renderings of the of the two women. The young the time King David danced in , Mary Mary, barely pregnant, greets her front of the Ark of the Covenant. is portrayed as the woman elder cousin whose pregnancy is Elizabeth’s greeting, Dr. Frank DeStefano is a retired clothed with the sun, with the well advanced. moon at her feet, and stars in Professor of History at Sacred St. Luke is the only evangelist Blessed are you among women, her crown. Ordinarily, she is Heart University. to describe this meeting but, of and blessed is the fruit of your pictured with a red dress cov- course, he wasn’t present. How womb... ered with the blue mantle. Now did he get his information? It’s which we repeat every day in “red” is the symbol of earth or eading 1—Revelation the Assumption. Belief in Mary’s possible that he was merely the “Hail Mary,” proclaims that humanity but “blue” is the sym- 11: 19a; 12: 1-6a, 10ab Assumption can be found in relating an earlier oral tradition from Mary will come the Savior bol of divinity. The artists fol- Reading II—1 the writings of the early Church and giving us an account of what of the world. low the teaching of the Church. Corinthians 15: 20-27 Fathers, and for centuries artists the early Church believed Mary R The beautiful prayer of Mary Mary is human but she has been Gospel—Luke 1: 39-56 have delighted in rendering the would have said on this occa- which we call the Magnificat is cloaked with immortality. In the (Visitation) scene of Mary being taken up sion. Perhaps he talked with the a collection of verses from many vigil Mass for today’s feast, the In 1950, when the world was into Heaven. Blessed Mother herself after the sources in the Hebrew scriptures, words of St. Paul apply not only still recovering from the ravag- Of course, Catholics have death and resurrection of her Son. especially the Psalms, those to Mary but to any who put on es of the Second World War, always loved images of Mary. In In that event, this passage would beautiful hymns of praise. We all the mantle of her Son. Pope Pius XII promulgated the the day’s first reading we have represent her profound recollec- know the beginning, When that which is mortal doctrine which we celebrate on the famous image from the Book tion of the Visitation in the light clothes itself with immortality, August 15, the Assumption of of Revelation of “the woman of everything that came after. My soul proclaims the greatness then the word that is written Mary into Heaven. clothed with the sun” who was Nevertheless, what image of the Lord; shall come about: Now, Catholics didn’t start about to give birth to a son, “des- does St. Luke give us of Mary? my spirit rejoices in God my believing in the Assumption only tined to rule all the nations.” In We certainly can’t take from his Savior ‘Death is swallowed up in vic- in 1950. Think of how many the Gospel we have St. Luke’s account that Mary was a bewil- for he has looked upon his lowly tory. churches were constructed before famous account of the Visitation. dered, frightened teenager. The servant. Where, O death, is your victory? 1950 dedicated to Our Lady of Almost immediately after the very name, Mary or Miriam, From this day all generations Where, O death, is your sting?’ n No Hiding from the Hardest Jobs We’ve been married for Actors have a joke. Their large to tangle with. There have been nearly 15 years. This isn’t our salaries, they say, are for all the boiler explosions, loud parties A DAD’S VIEW first barf-o-rama. But Ursula waiting around they do on movie in the neighborhood, and toi- is eight-months’ pregnant and sets. The few moments when they let-plunging emergencies. I want- BY MATTHEW HENNESSEY doing much of the work her- actually get to perform in front of ed none of all of it. But that’s self. I’m mostly fetching things. the camera are done gratis. That’s what I get paid for. Responding to commands. the good stuff, they say. That’s My parents didn’t want to go Grumbling about the unluckiness the fun. We do to the emergen- Matthew Hennessey and of this awful, unbidden thing. that for free cy room that his family are parishioners What did we do to deserve You get paid “And I think: time I split my of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. this? Why can’t we just have a for the stuff you head open on normal life, with normal hard don’t enjoy, not This is what the steel radia- things to do like mowing the the stuff you do. tor. My sisters t’s ten minutes to midnight gone on his books and toys. This lawn or planning vacations or For parents, we get paid for.” didn’t want to when the thought occurs to adds a degree of difficulty to the opening sticky pickle jars? Why it begins at the nurse my sick me: This is what we get paid cleanup. do we have to have ghastly hard beginning, with and helpless Ifor. One of the cleaner-uppers is things to do, like cleaning vomit the diaper changes and midnight mother during her last days. My Ursula and I are standing bare- feeling frustrated—and selfish. off bunk beds, books, and toys feedings. No one else can do it. friends don’t want to visit foot in the kids’ room, dripping It’s me. I want to close the door during the wee small hours of the Only you. You are the daddy. families who have lost loved sweat and mopping up vomit. and leave the whole yucky mess morning? You are the mommy. This is your ones. Because it is the final minutes of until the morning. I want to say, I look at my wife, on her baby, in your house, on your But that’s what they get paid the Fourth of July, everyone has “Oh, well, I guess this room is hands and knees, scrubbing changing table. for. That’s what all of us get paid gone to bed late, exhausted, and, off-limits forever now.” Slammo. the children’s mattresses like a But baby bouncing and diaper for. apparently, undigested. Night night. lowly washer woman. I look at wiping are only appetizers for a The other stuff—the birthdays There is a bunk bed involved. I’m stuck. There are a thou- myself, standing in my t-shirt 20 year-meal that you make and and basketball games, the First The sick guy is on top. Most of sand places I’d rather be—mostly and underpants, loading up the pay for yourself. You also get to Communions and Confirmations, the contents of his incredibly my own bed, where I was winks Swiffer WetJet with a cartridge do the dishes and take out the the summer afternoons at the small stomach have gone over away from sleep just moments of multi-purpose floor cleaner trash. If you don’t do it, it won’t pool, the fireworks on the Fourth the edge, but some hasn’t. Some ago. There are a hundred thou- solution. get done. of July—that’s the good stuff. We has gone on the wall; some has sand things I’d rather be doing. I And I think: This is what we Personally, I’ve killed many don’t get paid for that. We do gone on the mattress; some has can’t do them. I have to do this. get paid for. bugs that I would’ve preferred not that for free. n 12 July/August 2016 Health Services Sisters’ farewell BY PAT HENNESSY

At a lively party at St. Ann Academy in Bridgeport, students and Caponi to head St. Vincent’s co-workers said farewell to Sister Pat Rickis, DHS. A teacher at St. Ann’s for 18 years, Sister Pat had served a total of 34 years in the guidance to the associates, physi- BRIDGEPORT—Stuart Diocese of Bridgeport. When she left for Putnam on May 1, her leav- cians and volunteers who provide Marcus, MD, FACS, will be leav- ing brought to a close the 113 years that the Daughters of the Holy compassionate, personalized care ing his role as president and chief Spirit have enriched the life of the Church in Fairfield County. to members of the communi- executive officer of St. Vincent’s The Daughters of the Holy Spirit were founded in Brittany, ty,” said Patricia A. Maryland, Health Services in Bridgeport as France in 1706 to serve the poor, the sick and children. Bishop Dr.PH, president, Healthcare he considers other opportunities Tierney of the Hartford diocese, which at that time included Operations and chief operating within Ascension, of which St. Fairfield County, was the first to welcome the small group of five officer of Ascension Health, the Vincent’s is a part. Ascension is French Sisters fresh from France, with very little English. healthcare delivery subsidiary of the nation’s largest non-profit and The Sisters came to Bridgeport July 1, 1903. “The Daughters’ Ascension. largest Catholic health system. house wasn’t ready yet, so the , who were already Under Caponi’s leadership, “I have been privileged to here, took us in and kind of guided us,” Sister Pat recounts. By St. Vincent in Indianapolis grew serve alongside the tremendous- August, the Sisters, now with rudimentary English taught to them ly talented and compassionate from a single campus with a ter- tiary to a statewide net- associates and medical staff at VINCE CAPONI St. Vincent’s for ten years, and I work with serving many have tremendous confidence that rural areas. His legacy includes St. Vincent’s is poised to move to im Ministry Market developing a high-quality health- an even greater level of success Executive for Ascension Health. care system, building on local and service to the Bridgeport Earlier he led Ascension’s St. resources and empowering local community,” said Dr. Marcus. Vincent in Indianapolis from capabilities to deliver high-qual- Longtime Ascension leader 1998 to 2013, and later assumed ity, affordable healthcare Vince Caponi will now serve the position of executive board throughout Central Indiana. St. as president and CEO of St. chair for the Central Indiana Vincent became one of Indiana’s Vincent’s Health Services. “We health system. He also served largest healthcare employers, are fortunate to have available as executive board chair of and Caponi led efforts to develop within Ascension a leader like Ascension Texas, and he contin- innovative healthcare solutions ues to serve in a consultative role SURROUNDED BY HER STUDENTS, Sister Pat Rickis, DHS, enjoys Vince Caponi, who brings the for employers and commercial a spirited sendoff at St. Ann Academy, where she taught for 18 years. requisite skills and experience to Health City Cayman Islands markets across the state. Her leaving brings to a close 113 years of service to this diocese by the to lead the St. Vincent’s Health (HCCI), Ascension’s partnership Earlier in his career, Caponi Daughters of the Holy Spirit. Services successfully into the with Narayana Health of to served in executive leadership provide care for underserved pop- roles at two other Ascension hos- future,” Dr. Marcus said. by the Sisters of Mercy, began visiting the sick. It was a struggle ulations in the Caribbean. pitals: St. Vincent’s Birmingham Caponi has enjoyed a long for Sisters to visit and care for total strangers whose language and “As St. Vincent’s in Bridgeport in Alabama, and St. Joseph and successful career with customs were so different from their own. Ascension beginning in 1983. continues to move forward, Vince Hospital in Augusta, Georgia, as will provide steady leadership and Soon they were invited to do other types of work. Within a He most recently served as inter- ➤ CONTINUED ON PAGE 20 year they were asked to teach religious in St. Anthony Parish in Bridgeport for the children of French Canadian workers and the Sisters were soon teaching in St. Anthony and in Holy Sacred Heart Academy Family School in Fairfield. STRONG VALUES . STRONG ACADEMICS . STRONG LEADERSHIP For more than a century, the Daughters always had nursing Sisters, supplying visiting home health care from their convent on Pequonnock St., across from St. Augustine Cathedral. “We always cared for the poor sick, those who fell between the cracks,” says Sister Pat. “The nursing Sisters didn’t have a car or anything. They sometimes took the bus, but mostly they walked.” The Sisters never asked for payment other than a voluntary donation, and since their care was given to the poor and aged, their income was slight. Catholic women in Bridgeport met with the bishop and formed an organization called the Queen’s Daughters, originally called the Daughters of the Queen of Heaven, to support the French Sisters. In addition to providing funds to support the Sisters, the Queen’s Daughters became active in charitable work on their own, including a Home Health Care Program. Sister Pat had come to know the Daughters of the Holy Spirit as a child living in Pequonnock, Conn. Because they valued Catholic education, her parents drove her 13 miles each way to attend St. Ann School in Hartford. “I loved the Sisters,” she says. “When I learned my prayers, I learned them first in French.” From the Daughters, Sister Pat developed a preference for teaching poor children. She taught in upstate New York and Massachusetts before coming to the Diocese of Bridgeport in 1977. It would be her home for the next 34 years, first at St. Anthony’s and then at Holy Family before coming to St. Ann’s. OPEN HOUSE ENTRANCE EXAM Since St. Anthony School eventually merged with St. Ann Sunday, Oct. 16 from 1 to 3 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 5 from 8 a.m. to Noon Impelled by Christ’s Love Academy, her years of service came full circle. “It’s unusual to stay in one place for so long,” she said. “I love 265 Benham Street, Hamden CT | 203.288.2309 | sacredhearthamden.org Bridgeport.” n 13 July/August 2016 Vacation Bible Camp Campers learn to reverence the Eucharist

BY REBECCA VODOLA “Our community has a deep campers that they must feed not devotion to the Eucharist,” said only their bodies, but also their Two Dominican Sisters of Sister Pio Maria. “One of the souls. “Our bodies don’t live Mary, Mother of the Eucharist, greatest gifts of hosting the camp forever,” Father Gannon told the hosted a Vacation Bible Camp was bringing the students to daily children. themed “The Holy Eucharist” at Eucharistic Adoration.” There, “No, but our souls do!” volun- St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull the campers could actively prac- teered one eager camper. during the last week in June. tice prayer with the Eucharistic The camp drew over 160 ele- Sister Mercedes, O.P., and Lord in an age-appropriate way, mentary-school-aged attendees, Sister Pio Maria, O.P., have using the techniques that the representing a sharp increase taught at vacation bible camps Sisters taught them. in enrollment compared to past throughout the United States, On Friday, the last day of the years. Dozens of volunteers but St. Theresa’s camp was their Vacation Bible Camp, the chil- staffed the camp. In addition first in New England. Both sisters dren performed a skit about the to daily lessons and Eucharistic were happy to return to the East Eucharist, from its Old Testament Adoration, the campers enjoyed Coast: Sister Mercedes is a native foreshadowing in the manna music, arts and crafts, and recre- of Brooklyn, N.Y., and Sister DOMINICAN SISTERS Sr. Pio Maria and Sr. Mercedes taught campers how God provided from heaven to ation. Pio Maria hails from Worcester, to reverence Jesus in the Eucharist at Vacation Bible Camp at St. Theresa’s in Eucharistic Adoration today. Lessons from the week cul- Trumbull. Mass. Their community is based “He died so that we may be freed minated in a Eucharistic pro- in Ann Arbor, Mich. from sin,” one camper shared as cession from St. Theresa School Sister Pio Maria explained the children. Each day, the Sisters gave he ripped paper chains from his to the church on Friday. Sister that she and Sister Mercedes The Sisters instructed the the children an opportunity to hands, “and he waits for you in Mercedes was pleased that the spent the week showing the campers with daily lessons about share how they practiced specific the Eucharist.” week ended with a focus on the children how to reverence Jesus living a Eucharistic life and prac- virtues. One little girl “shared Father Brian Gannon, St. Eucharist. She reflected, “If the in the Eucharist. “We say ‘still ticing virtue. “To practice virtue that her grandmother was patient Theresa’s pastor, delivered children remember nothing else body, still heart,’ but that’s not is not just to be a good kid, but with her at the grocery store,” the homily at Friday’s closing from this week, they will remem- just something to do to be good. to live for God,” said Sister Pio said Sister Mercedes, who hopes Mass. Drawing from the week’s ber that we brought them to God speaks to you in the silence. Maria. “The desire is there in the that stories like this one will help Eucharistic theme, he reminded Jesus.” n He wants to talk to you like a children. We are here simply to children to identify what living friend,” the Sisters explained to cultivate it.” virtuously looks like. St. Matthew VBC a hit Invest in her preparation➤ CONTINUED ON PAGE 26 NORWALK—A sala- mander named Sal and a bat named Radar were just two of the cartoon “Bible buddies” that taught campers at St. Matthew Vacation Bible Camp in Norwalk about biblical themes. During the week of June 26, St. Matthew’s hosted 94 camp- ers from pre-K through grade 5 for the camp themed “Cave Quest: Following Jesus, the Light of the World,” a national vacation Bible camp program which individual parishes can implement. Open House Each day is based on a and Spelunker Sports and Games. learned. She will always be your Sunday “Bible Point,” such as “Jesus The stations involved prayer The camp began on Sunday, little girl. We can give her October 2 gives us hope,” reinforced by and biblical teaching, personal June 26, with Mass followed the foundation she 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm a “Bible buddy” like Sal or testimony about the day’s theme, by a coffee and meet-and-greet needs to become a strong, Radar. The day’s activities skits demonstrating the theme, reception with camp volun- Exam Dates promote and bolster the Bible and games that tied back to the teers. It concluded on Friday, confident woman. Saturday point. theme. July 1, with a prayer service in October 15 or 22 At St. Matthew’s, campers A midmorning service project the parish grotto follow by a 8:00 am came together for a morning mobilized campers to fill back- family lunch. session which briefed them on packs with school supplies for Camp Director Joanne Obst Lauralton Hall Apply Now at the day’s theme. They then organizations like Bridgeport’s said that “the excitement of the The investment of her lifetime LauraltonHall.org rotated through four stations: Mercy Learning Center. children, and even the volun- Imagination Station, KidVid Campers convened at the end teers, was contagious. Camp is Cinema, Deep Bible Quest, of each day to share what they the best week of the year.” n college prep 9–12 milford, connecticut 203.877.2786 14 July/August 2016 Faith and Values SHU Journey empowers young Catholic leaders

BY REBECCA VODOLA ulty and staff and Diocese of community service opportunities, Bridgeport delegates who led the and reflections on personal spiri- “As a CEO, your voice is program. tual life. amplified,” said Dan McCarthy, Although Loris wrote the The SHU Journey was held president and CEO of Frontier grant for 24 students, McCarthy, from June 26-July 1 on the Communications, in his June a parishioner of St. Rose of Lima Sacred Heart campus. Each day PARTICIPANTS, MENTORS and organizers celebrate Mass in the Chapel of the Holy Spirit. (PHOTO BY MARK F. CONRAD) 30 address on Catholic business in Newtown, sponsored 10 more had a particular theme, ranging leadership to the 34 high school so that a greater percentage of the from God’s call to its practi- students participating in Sacred 65 applicants could take advan- cal application; for instance, Journey’s participants were Tommy Donohue of Fairfield Heart University’s SHU Journey. tage of the program. McCarthy spoke on the day drawn from within the Diocese said that the program’s empha- “You must use it accordingly. Be The Lilly Endowment is themed “Human Dignity.” He of Bridgeport, several partic- sis on leadership left him with a role model with the right behav- a competitive grant aimed at said that Catholic business lead- ipants came from other areas important skills that he can incor- iors and a balanced approach to “enhancing and sustaining the ers should use their positions as in Connecticut, New York and porate into his parish and high business.” quality of ministry in American leverage to rally their business Maryland. school. Kate Janik, rising junior McCarthy’s keynote was a congregations and parishes” by communities around the poor, “It was a transformative for at Trinity Catholic High School part of a weeklong residential fostering strong pastoral leader- sick, and needy. their hearts and minds, in the and Stamford resident, said that leadership program for local ship, according to its website. “My faith is my moral Catholic intellectual tradition. SHU Journey “deepened faith high school students. SHU Accordingly, SHU Journey’s compass as a business lead- This program was all-encompass- and friendships. We had an won a $500,000 grant from the primary goal was to teach “how er,” McCarthy told his young ing, with prayer, discernment, and opportunity to share our experi- Lilly Endowment to fund its faith relates to the moral issues audience. He said that business discussion. The grace of God per- ences and grow. The leadership “SHU Journey: To God and of the contemporary world, and leaders have to consider both the meated the program,” said Loris. skills and personal ministry we’ve the World.” Dr. Michelle Loris, how Catholics should respond financial return and the welfare of “After completing the pro- learned here will help us to lead associate dean and chair of the to them,” said Loris. Secondary their employees when they make gram, the participants know others to Christ.” Department of Catholic Studies goals were developing self-aware- decisions. themselves and God better,” said SHU Journey leaders chal- at SHU, wrote the grant and ness and understanding in teens SHU Journey included Larry Carroll, executive director lenged participants to formulate served on the team of SHU fac- and providing music ministry, several keynote speeches, like of pastoral services at SHU. a concrete leadership plan to McCarthy’s, addressing Catholic An essential component of implement in their communi- leadership. The program also SHU Journey was its seven col- ties. “SHU Journey is meant to contained guided prayer and lege-aged mentors, SHU students empower young people to go reflection, Masses, small-group who received training throughout into their parishes and schools discussion, classroom instruction, the spring semester. The mentors as strong Catholic leaders,” said and community service at five led small group discussions and Evan Psencik, coordinator of locations, including the Merton meditations. youth and young adult formation House in Bridgeport. Rebecca Dupree, a college for the diocese. Psencik said that Loris said she watched the mentor from Wolcott, Conn., SHU Journey hopes to hold a teens begin “an extraordinary said that SHU Journey “exceeded reunion in the coming months transformation” as the week my expectations by far. It was when participants can evaluate progressed. The students, once eye-opening for the mentors and their leadership plans which, by “shy and reserved,” experienced the participants. It was the tough- then, should be in motion. “an awakening, becoming est leadership position I’ve ever Participant Alek Mierzejewski engaged and flourishing in the held, but it was also the most said, “The program lit a fire program.” rewarding.” within which will burn for Though most of SHU High school participant a long time.” n New Shehan Science Room BRIDGEPORT—On July 7, the newly renovated science room at the Cardinal Shehan Center was unveiled with a ribbon cutting ceremo- ny. A group of six members from the Bridgeport Regional Business Council’s affiliate program Leadership Greater Bridgeport 2015-2016 class had renovated the center’s science room. The group raised the nec- essary funds to install new electrical outlets, replace light fixtures, paint, and purchase new storage units. In addition, they secured valuable donations from local businesses such as microscopes from Aquarion Water Company, tables from Bigelow Tea and electrical equipment from Santa Energy. With a newly renovated science room the Shehan Center will be able to offer even more children the opportunity to use a variety of science equipment and learn in a well-lit and appropriate work area. The renovated science room will allow the center to offer a more in-depth science program all year round. “A year-round science program and a newly renovated science room will help us further grow our youth’s appreciation and understanding of science,” said Shehan Center Executive Director Terry O’Connor. n 15 July/August 2016 Pastoral Services Chaplains breathe life into Catholic identity

BY PAT HENNESSY associate at St. Vincent’s agrees needs.” that Jesus suffered and died on a to abide by the ethical and reli- The chaplains at St. Vincent’s Friday, so he wanted to be with “When you walk into a hos- gious directives of the Church.” understand that listening and the suffering on that day. I saw pital room, that’s one of God’s In addition, an independent responding to the situation of the his example and knew that was children in the bed,” says Father audit every three years allows patient and family is at the heart what I wanted to be.” John Punnakunnel, a chaplain at St. Vincent’s to formally assess of their pastoral role. “One day In common with the medical St. Vincent’s Medical Center in their mission and the way they I may be talking with a family center’s other chaplains, this gift Bridgeport. “I go and touch their express their Catholic identity. about funeral preparations, anoth- to connect caringly with patients hand, and start to talk to them. “We have regular financial audits er time I’ll be helping them make breathes life into the ministry of We’ll talk about what happened, and health care assessments,” marriage arrangements,” says faith at St. Vincent’s. and I’ll ask about their family. If Hoey points out. “If we’re seri- Father John. “When I am bring- “Father John has a unique that person is in pain, when we ous about our ministry, it makes ing the Sacrament of the Sick, if ability to connect to a wide array talk the pain goes down.” sense to have a regular spiritual there are family members present of people,” says Hoey. “One of The presence of chaplains assessment.” I’ll ask each one to make the sign the things the Gospels empha- at St. Vincent’s, the daily Mass “When people come here, of the cross with their thumb on size about Jesus is that, when celebrated in its chapel and the they’re vulnerable. They’re poor their loved one’s forehead. They you were with him, you had his assurance that a priest is on call in spirit,” says Deacon Tim are blessing their mom, they’re undivided attention. Father John at all hours for emergencies are Bolton, supervisor of Pastoral blessing their dad. Whether embodies that. He can talk to some of the most visible signs of Care. “Being available to other they’ve been going to church or you for half an hour, if you need the Catholic identity of the medi- people doesn’t mean knowing not, they’ll be touched in return that—or he might pull a piccolo cal center. In addition to two full- THE PRESENCE OF CHAPLAINS the right thing to say. It’s about by the Holy Spirit.” out of his pocket to play a tune.” time and two-part time priests, like Father John Punnakunnel, showing up, just being there.” Personal experience brought “I make my ministry applica- the Pastoral Care staff includes including daily Mass celebrated in To show others in ministry Father John to his role as ble to the person in front of me,” chaplains of several Christian the chapel and pastoral connection to how to connect with patients, priest-chaplain. Born in India, Father John says. “When we denominations and a Jewish patients, breathes life into the ministry Deacon Bolton has initiated he had joined the Salesian order chaplains enter a room, we are rabbi in order to respond to the of faith at St. Vincent’s. a program to bring anyone as a brother when an accident looking at that soul; we are bring- spiritual needs of all patients. in parish outreach, especially landed him in the hospital. “Our ing peace to that problem.” Founded by the Daughters law,” emphasizes Bill Hoey, vice Eucharistic ministers and dea- archbishop in Calcutta visited the (To contact Pastoral Care at St. of Charity in 1903, St. Vincent’s president of mission and ethics cons, into the hospital experience. hospital every Friday. He said Vincent’s, call 203.576.5110.) n Medical Center is a member of at St. Vincent’s. “Every year, the They spend time visiting patients Ascension Health, the nation’s president of Ascension Health and then reflect together on their largest Catholic healthcare sys- gives a report to the Vatican on experience. “We want to show tem. “It’s important to realize the fidelity to the Catholic iden- them how to be with people in that we are formally a ministry of tity, and we give a yearly report a meaningful way, to respond to the under canon to Bishop Frank Caggiano. Every people’s emotional and spiritual CAPP conference on ‘Escaping Poverty’ NEW YORK—“Pope CAPP (Centesimus Annus al poverty and development. Francis’ Call for Escaping –Pro Pontifice) is a lay-led Following Archbishop Auza’s Poverty: Practical Examples non-profit intended for the study presentation, conference leaders and New Proposals,” will be the and spread of Christian social will define poverty and propose focus of a conference sponsored teaching. CAPP USA is its how to measure it, using the by CAPP-USA and Fordham American affiliate. It was estab- schema identified by the Holy University on Friday, September lished by Saint John Paul II on Father. 23, at Fordham University, June 5, 1993. Speakers and panelists will Mid-town campus. The Fordham Conference will then investigate and propose Pietro Cardinal Parolin, examine the definition and mea- specific, practical efforts which Secretary of State for the Holy surement of poverty and propose fulfill Pope Francis’ call. See, will be the featured speak- specific, practical efforts which Bishop Frank J. Caggiano er at the opening conference operationalize Pope Francis’ recently joined the CAPP USA dinner on Thursday, September insistence that, “to enable these board and will be attending the 22, at the Plaza Atrium real men and women to escape conference. Lowenstein. The conference from extreme poverty, we must (Conference fees are $325/ program will formally begin allow them to be dignified agents person; $150 for accompanying on Friday when Theodore of their own destiny,” as articu- person; $150 for clergy, religious, Cardinal McCarrick will cel- lated by the Holy Father at the academics and teachers; and $30 ebrate Mass at the Rupert United Nations in 2015. for students. Dinner is $190 per Mayer, SJ, chapel. Fordham Conference speaker Archbishop person. Register online at www. University President Joseph M. Bernardito Auza will frame CAPP-USA.org. McShane, SJ, will offer the wel- the issue, elaborating the Holy For more information, contact come and introduction. 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POR MARICARMEN GODOY rar a los niños para la Primera iglesia. Comunión, un horario especial “Gracias a mi Dios desde El 20 de febrero del 2015, de confesiones y sobre todo una la primera misa que celebré a el Obispo Frank J. Caggiano guía espiritual personalizada. Y las 12:30 pm del Domingo de le pidió al Padre Juan en días posteriores la elección Ramos, la iglesia ha estado Acosta, sacerdote nativo de del Consejo Parroquial el que fue siempre llena. Por esa razón Colombia, hacerse cargo de la electo por los mismos feligreses y decidimos ampliar el horario de Parroquia de San Ladislaus, del que siete nombres de hispanos las eucaristías y ampliamos el ubicada en el sector de South prevalecen en la lista. horario con una misa a las siete Norwalk, parroquia que fue esta- El 29 de marzo, el Domingo de la noche los lunes y martes blecida en el año 1907 por inmi- de Ramos del 2015, fue la prim- y otra el sábado a las 6:30 pm”, grantes húngaros. era misa en español que el Padre señaló el Padre Acosta. A YOUNG PARISHIONER crowns the Blessed Mother at St. Ladislaus Después de casi cuatros gen- Juan Gabriel celebró como el De los tres monaguillos que Parish under the direction of Father Juan Acosta. An outreach to Hispanic Catholics in the South Norwalk neighborhood, initiated after his appointment eraciones la parroquia contaba párroco oficial de San Ladislaus, iniciaron el año pasado con el as pastor in 2015, has led to a great increase in the number of parishioners, con pocos feligreses de origen en esa homilía pidió a sus feligre- éste número se ha multiplica- including a hundred children in the religious education program. húngaro, y su sacerdote, el Padre ses que se inscriban para formar do en 31. De los 20 niños que Michael Bachman, en edad de un ministerio (agrupación) de empezaron la catequesis para jubilación, no tenia facilidad ayudantes de misa, entre ellos: prepararse para la Primera De las fieles húngaros que la parroquia. Y que en números en español en medio de un niños monaguillos, lectores de la Comunión este dígito aumentó heredó como feligreses de la se transfieren en 1000 personas. vecindario poblado de nuevos Palabra, recolectores de limos- a 100 más cuatro maestros parroquia, este número se vio Los húngaros, acorde con el rostros hispanos. nas y un ministerio especial de bilingües, considerando que los aumentado con 350 familias Padre Acosta, en su mayoría han “El Monseñor me dijo que la bienvenida para que los feligreses niños toman sus clases de cate- hispanas más que le dan el senti- decidido seguir en la parroquia parroquia no estaba respondiendo se sientan acogidos en su nueva quesis en inglés. do multicultural y multiétnico a para aprender sobre la cultura a las necesidades de la vecindad,” expresó el Padre Acosta. “Y me preguntó si quería asumir este reto”. 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Walter Kennedy Sometimes you win, some- school’s most recent state title with a degree in business admin- Community Service Wing: times you lose. Mike Walsh is far was achieved in 2011. istration in 1969. Football coach Lou Marinelli more accustomed to the former. Among a bevy of Trinity As an assistant to Gary (New Canaan); The veteran Trinity Catholic Catholic selections to the New Liberatore at Stamford Catholic, Basketball coach boys basketball coach, whose Haven Register All-State Team, Walsh spent six seasons honing Mike Walsh (Stamford) 596 victories rank him fifth all- no fewer than three of Walsh’s his coaching skills before taking Jackie Robinson time among state high school stars were three-time picks: the reins in 1981. Professional Wing: coaches, is being recognized Tevin Baskin (2007-09), Dave Baseball is also part of Walsh’s Pro golfer J.J. Henry by the Fairfield County Sports McClure (2002-04) and Rashamel coaching repertoire. He devoted (Fairfield); Commission (FCSC) with its Jones (1993-95). The latter, of portions of 40 springs and sum- Basketball star Rita Williams highest honor—election to its course, gained wider renown as mers to managing Stamford’s (Norwalk) Hall of Fame in the J. Walter co-captain of the University of Babe Ruth League teams, Kennedy Community Service Connecticut’s first national cham- competing in no fewer than James O’Rourke wing. He and six other prom- pionship team (1999). eight Babe Ruth World Series Amateur Wing: inent athletic figures from the “It was my good fortune to throughout the country and in Two former Basketball county will be inducted into the get Rashamel,” Walsh said. “He Canada. He still serves as an stars, the late Manute Bol hall at the FCSC’s 12th annual took us to our first state title assistant baseball coach at Trinity (Bridgeport) Sports Night dinner at the Hyatt game (1995).” Catholic. and the late Maurice “Wilky” Regency in Old Greenwich on Which of Trinity Catholic’s MIKE WALSH “I’ve got a loving wife (Lisa), Gilmore (New Canaan); October 17. championships means the most five kids and five grandchildren. Equestrian Bill Steinkraus “I’m really thrilled and hum- to Walsh? Some may find the at Iona, but was asked to supple- I love what I do,” Walsh said. (Darien) bled at the same time,” Walsh answer surprising. ment the family income and so, “I’m blessed.” n admitted. “When you see the “It was our first FCIAC title names on the plaques at the Hall in 1993, before the largest crowd NUESTRA VOZ FROM PAGE 16 of Fame, it really hits you.” ever in the Wilton Field House,” Indeed, he’ll be joining in he said. “Fairfield was 22-and- hispana. era la feligresía, Ecuador, Costa Padre mismo se encarga de bus- the FCSC Hall of Fame two of 0 and we beat ‘em. They had a De uno solo matrimonio que Rica, Honduras y Perú son países car el mariachi, de organizarnos the four coaches ahead of him lot of very good players, but we se registró en el 2014, para el que también forman la parroquia; para preparar la misa y también on the state’s victory list, St. had Rashamel Jones and Earl 2015 el padre logró celebrar tres seguida por una fuerte partici- para brindar de comer a la gente Joseph’s Vito Montelli (878) and Johnson. Bobby Spillane, who y en el 2016 hubo cuatros bodas pación de los mexicanos identifi- que nos acompaña en las fiestas Harding’s Charlie Bentley (655). was an All-State quarterback for celebradas, y para los meses de cados por su devoción a la Virgen de la Virgen”, repuso. “Vito was the first guy to us, scored 26 points and was the julio hasta septiembre tiene en de Guadalupe. El oficial César Ramírez, call me about my election to the MVP of the game.” agenda celebrar tres más. De De ahí que desde hace más encargado del Departamento de hall of fame,” Walsh said. “I The oldest of nine children, un solo bautismo que hubo en el de un año existe el Grupo Enlace Comunitario de la Policía don’t know how he found out so Michael Walsh was born in 2014, para el 2015 se realizaron Guadalupano de San Ladislaus, de Norwalk, consideró que la soon.” Worcester, Mass., and spent 45 más, y en este primer seme- agrupación que se reúne con- venida del Padre Juan Gabriel Walsh’s resume at Trinity most of his formative years in stre del 2016 ha bautizado a 30 stantemente con el Padre Acosta ha sido una “resurrección para la Catholic is as impressive as it New Canaan. His family advo- niños; entre julio y agosto tiene para planificar las festividades en parroquia porque con su carisma is lengthy. Across 37 seasons, cated a Catholic education, and planeado bautizar a 10 infantes honor a la patrona de México. y juventud ha logrado vigorizar, his teams have won 596 games so young Mike matriculated at más. En el 2015 hubo cinco pri- Cristiana Soriano, miembro del atraer y dinamizar la fe de los against 283 losses, captured six then-Stamford Catholic and at meras comuniones; en el 2016 el grupo mariano desde hace 18 nuevos inmigrantes que viven en CIAC state titles and as many Iona College. número aumentó en 21 y para la años siente que por primera vez South Norwalk”. FCIAC championships. He also Walsh played varsity basket- primavera del 2017 la cifra llegará los guadalupanos tienen un direc- (Maricarmen Godoy es editora guided the Crusaders to six other ball in high school and was a a 42. tor espiritual y una iglesia que los de noticias de La Voz Hispana appearances in the state champi- member of the freshman squad La comunidad colombiana lid- ha acogido en forma total. “El de Connecticut.) n

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1 State Street, New Haven, Connecticut 203-865-0400 • kofcmuseum.org Schools and groups welcome 18 July/August 2016 Obituary Sister Cecile Amore, SSND, 111 years BETHEL—Sister Mary Cecile to help her family. At the age of a bachelor’s degree in 1939 and During these years, she was par- Amore, a member of the School 14, she began to work at a com- a master’s in 1945, both from the ish organist, taught music, gave Sisters of Notre Dame, died on pany in Bridgeport. She was paid Catholic University of America. private lessons in piano, violin, February 18, a day after her 111th by piecework and was so proud While taking lessons, Antoinette and voice and directed choirs of birthday. During her long life, she when she brought home ten dol- began feeling a desire to become adults and older children. SISTER MARY CECILE AMORE was an organist, music teacher, lars earned in one week when she a religious. She was received as a In 2000, she became a resident teacher of voice, piano, and violin, usually earned seven. novice on August 17, 1926, and of Villa Notre Dame in Wilton. sical and old-time musicals, and and an excellent seamstress. Antoinette Marie became very was given the name Mary Cecile. A good cook and an excellent conversing with children. She Antoinette Marie Amore was sick and could not work for about Following the novitiate, Sister seamstress, she often practiced always liked company. born on February 17, 1905, in six months. Her mother prayed Cecile taught in elementary and her skills for the benefit of her A Mass of Christian Burial Pietracatella, Italy. Her father hard and, when her daughter high schools in New Jersey, Sisters. In 2010, she moved over was celebrated on February 22 in went to America when she was recovered, took her to a piano Maryland, Washington, D.C. and to Lourdes Health Care Center, the chapel of Villa Notre Dame. two months old. About six years store. Antoinette picked out a New York, and at the College of where she continued to enjoy Burial followed at St. Mary later, he sent for his wife and new piano that cost $700. She Notre Dame in Baltimore, Md. reading poetry, listening to clas- Cemetery, Bethel. n daughter. The family lived in took lessons at 50 cents each from She returned to Connecticut,

Bridgeport, and grew to include a a Sister at St. John Nepomucene teaching first at St. John DECEASED CLERGY OF THE DIOCESE sister and two brothers. Convent. In three years, practic- Nepomucene in Bridgeport (1946- OF RIDGEPORT ULY EPTEMBER Antoinette studied at Barnum ing three hours a day, she accom- 66) where she had first heard the B : J 24—S 17 Elementary School in Bridgeport. plished five years’ work. call to religious life. She served JULY From the time she was a little In her biography she wrote: at Holy Rosary (1966-73) and 24 Fr. Paul Lalic ...... 2011 girl, Antoinette wanted to take “My poor mother was paying a St. Charles Borromeo (1973-74), 25 Rev. Hubert P. Carrig ...... 1978 music lessons, but when she few dollars a week for a piano long both in Bridgeport, and at St. 26 Msgr. Francis M. Wladasz ...... 1959 was in the eighth grade family after I entered the convent.” Her Theresa, Trumbull (1974-2000). 28 Rev. William G. Mahoney ...... 1973 financial difficulties obliged her mother’s sacrifice was not in vain. In all, Sister Cecile served for 29 Deacon Ian Black ...... 2006 to leave school and go to work Antoinette’s music studies led to 54 years in the Bridgeport area. AUGUST 1 Msgr. Daniel J. Foley ...... 1999 Msgr. John J. Toomey, P.A...... 1992 FUNERAL GUIDE 2 Rev. Patrick V. Lavery ...... 1976 Msgr. James J. McLaughlin ...... 1985 3 Rev. Francis E. Fenton ...... 1995 NEIL F. HARDING 4 Msgr. Michael J. Guerin ...... 1981 Director/Owner Collins Msgr. James F. Leary ...... 1994 Funeral Home 7 Rev. Thomas G. Keeney ...... 1990 9 Msgr. John J. Kennedy, P.A...... 1955 92 East Avenue • Norwalk Msgr. Frank C. Dellolio ...... 1983 866-0747 Msgr. Richard T. Scully ...... 1988 William A. Skidd William G. Lahey, Jr. 10 Deacon William Rowe ...... 2013 14 Deacon Gerardo Ramos ...... 2007 William R. Kelley William P. Skidd 15 Msgr. Edward J. Duffy ...... 1977 Harding Andrew D. Skidd 16 Rev. Victor E. Piaskowski ...... 1961 FUNERAL HOME Family owned for four generations 18 Rev. Alexander Z. Seregely ...... 1971 21 Rev. John J. Dillon ...... 1959 Msgr. Thomas P. Guinan ...... 1998 22 Rev. Michael Fay ...... 2009 PRE-NEED FUNERAL PLANNING 23 Msgr. Emilio C. Iasiello, P.A...... 1969 25 Rev. Richard Futie ...... 2013 MATTHEW K. MURPHY, 26 Lawrence Cardinal Shehan ...... 1984 FUNERAL DIRECTOR 28 Rev. Vincent E. Finn ...... 1958 Rev. Edmund C. O’Connell ...... 1973 29 Deacon Ramon Isidro ...... 2006 203/227-3458 267 GREENWICH AVENUE REENWICH Rev. Joseph Linck ...... 2008 FAX 203/227-1420 G , CT 06830 203-869-0315 SEPTEMBER 2 Rev. Msgr. Francis J. Pranckus ...... 2000 3 Rev. Msgr. John F. X. Walsh ...... 1967 210 POST ROAD EAST Rev. Msgr. Thomas F. Henahan ...... 1998 WESTPORT, CT 06881 4 Deacon Matthew Skurat ...... 2013 “Quiet Dignity Without Extravagance” 5 Rev. John E. Fay ...... 1954 Affordable Direct Cremation 6 Rev. Laurence F. Flanagan ...... 1985 Title XIX Welcome 9 Rev. Richard Monahan ...... 2010 12 Rev. Frank D. Yoia ...... 1974 14 Aloysius J. Hribšek...... 2014 15 Rev. Colin McKenna ...... 2015 Rev. Joseph V. Rossitto ...... 2004 16 Rev. William J. Conklin ...... 1992 Z Family owned for three generations Z Handling every detail Rev. Martin Dennehy ...... 2013 Z Call for free informative brochure Z In home arrangements 17 Rev. John A. Sullivan ...... 1953 Z 203-254-1414 or 800-542-0218 Z Memorial service facility Rev. Robert L. Christopher ...... 1958 19 July/August 2016 Remembering Cardinal Shehan ‘A Blessing of Years’

BY BARRY WALLACE into St. Charles College where he dormitory. He was lonely and form stops from Greenwich to began his studies for the priest- frightened but found friends and Bridgeport, where a crowd of seven Lawrence Cardinal Shehan’s hood at 14 years old in 1911. His resources to help him through, as thousand waited to welcome him. memoir, A Blessing of Years, came family moved to a large unheated he was always to do in life. Shehan had high praise for the old as a surprise to me. For one, I house on Kennedy Lane next to The course of study at St. pastors, the parish titans that many didn’t know that the first Bishop his grandfather’s small dairy. The Charles was rigorous. He was of us will remember from child- of Bridgeport had written an auto- brothers played baseball in the a brilliant student, winning hood, men like Father Bart Skelly biography. Shehan was our bishop side meadow on summer days. many academic awards, but he in Trumbull, Father Leo Finn at St. King. The cardinal integrated when I was a boy attending St. At night he recalled sitting on remained modest with a huge Peter’s, Father Nicholas Coleman Baltimore’s Catholic schools and Teresa’s in Trumbull in the 1950s. the front porch with his mother capacity for hard work—traits of Stamford. played a large role in the expan- I remember a saintly but some- and singing Stephen Foster songs that sustained him in the difficult After Shehan’s first jubilant sion of Catholic Charities. He what stiff persona offering us his as fireflies “flickered in the lilac.” job of being bishop. Mass there was a reception at the opposed the Vietnam War and blessing at liturgies and gatherings. His father was a tailor-supply One of the refreshing charac- Stratfield Hotel. Being bishop was two of his parish priests were Our Boston-born adored salesman who traveled often teristics of the Shehan memoirs a princely experience then, and arrested in the destruction of draft him. He was the visible embodi- but made a large impression on is his frankness. He was certainly Shehan was eventually moved records in Catonsville, Maryland. ment of the success of the Catholic young Lawrence for his busi- a man of power and prestige but into the large brick mansion on He writes candidly about the Church and the rise of the Irish. ness-like habits and his love of he could be severe with him- Unquowa Rd. in the Brooklawn Church crisis of those turbulent The familiar small Irish face family. Long summer outings self. He suffered from anxiety section of Fairfield, where he cut years. The burdens were stagger- with gray hair and wire frame up the Chesapeake to a favorite and scruples and wondered if his own lawn on the weekends. ing, but he never stopped fighting glasses was on the book’s cover, picnic spot were sweetened by he was worthy of his calling. Shehan’s ascendancy to car- for his faith and his ideals. A Blessing of Years. I picked it off his aunt’s homemade chocolate In one telling incident, after a dinal came in the turbulent era A Blessing of Years is a surpris- the shelf. Published in 1982, it cakes. The future bishop loved to period of adoration before the of the 1960s and 70s. He was a ingly honest and lively book from now seemed a century old to swim. Although slight of build, Blessed Sacrament, he saw into leader in American Civil Rights a major figure in the 20th century me. I was curious about what his Shehan had a large character. the darkness of his young heart. movement and marched on Church, and a compelling portrait biography had to say about his He felt a calling to the priest- “I seemed to grow oblivious of Washington with Martin Luther of the life of a bishop. n Bridgeport years. To my surprise hood early. 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routine—the daily treadmill of Not the extraordinary but the of silent wonder...to dusk, to life. There are bills to be paid, commonplace is the crisis of life. primrose dawns and lamp lit, POTPOURRI machines to keep in repair; It is probably in the banalities hearth-warm nights...to the still always something wrong, always of everyday that we find the simplicity of gentle days.” Few BY THOMAS H. HICKS something needed. There’s the Kingdom of God. As a writer of us who have seen it forget the dreary round of the monotonous named Baron von Hugel said, scene in Thornton Wilder’s Our chores of life: brushing teeth, “Heroism is always homely.” Town, where Emily, who has shaving, drying the dishes, mak- For most of died, is allowed Thomas Hicks is a member ing the bed, waiting in doctor’s us, holiness will to return to earth offices, etc. Therese of Lisieux consist in the “The truly heroic to watch herself of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. noted that “before we die by sanctification as a twelve-year the sword, we shall die by pin of ordinary life. is usually hidden old girl going pricks.” The celebrated Catholic The Jewish theo- through an ordi- iving is essentially “the trivial round, the common theologian, Karl Rahner, spoke logian in the everyday nary common- a dull business” task.” The path marked out for of our being “tired wanderers on Heschel spoke place day. One (Paul Valery) us is generally a matter of quiet dusty roads” (The Great Church of being able routine.” senses that the “L Most of us live plodding along. Succeeding Year, p.126). to “sense the miracle of life lives of little things. Our lives are days are like those that have However, it is probably true ultimate in the is lived in the pretty prosaic. For the most part, gone before, each one bringing that the truly heroic is usually common and the simple and to ordinary moments. And some- as a poet put it, life consists of its familiar duties and the same hidden in the everyday routine. feel in the rush of the passing thing of exquisite beauty can the stillness of the eternal.” The arise from the humblest scraps of first century Roman historian, speech. Plutarch, observed that it is in Finally, there is a story told in the small, apparently trivial act, C.S. Lewis’ The Great Divorce. that character is most accurately A man is given the opportunity reflected. Making the sacrifices to take a tour of heaven with an to remain faithful to the perfor- archangel as his guide. One of mances that constitute our round the sights he sees is a procession of daily duty can constitute true of rejoicing beings. At the head martyrdom. There is the grandeur of the procession are numerous of the commonplace. There is St. angels singing and dancing. They Teresa of Avila’s famous state- are followed by the , ment: “Know that in the kitchen, the great prophets, the four the Lord walks among the pots evangelists, St. Paul, numerous and pans.” martyrs and doctors of the early But even the ordinary is Church, saints of the Middle lovable. One can perceive the Ages. At the end of the proces- beauty of ordinary everyday sion come four angels carrying on things. We can learn to love their shoulders a golden chair on the little everyday things. Most which is seated a woman of great of us, as we grow older, come beauty. Thinking this surely is the to know the richness of small Blessed Virgin Mary, the traveler things. Small things become turns to his angelic guide and treasures. All one has to do is starts asking, “is that...that...?” go to a hospital and hear all the The angel laughs and replies, simple blessings that we don’t “No, no, that’s Molly Schultz! realize are blessings—being able You wouldn’t know her. She to urinate, to sleep on your side, lived in your city in a rundown to be able to swallow, to scratch neighborhood. She was a scrub- an itch, etc. But more than this, woman, but she loved much and there’s the words of a poem by was faithful in so many ways to Faith Baldwin: “I have come so many people. She is one back to quiet ways; to things of the Great Ones here.” n

CAPONI FROM PAGE 12

well as hospitals in . “I’m excited about working “Most importantly, Vince closely with the dedicated phy- has distinguished himself as a sicians and other caregivers of virtuous servant leader,” Dr. St. Vincent’s in Bridgeport as Maryland said. “His strong faith the health system plots its future and his alignment with, and sup- course in an evolving healthcare port of, the principles of human environment,” Caponi said. “We dignity and the common good will maintain our focus on deliv- translate to a leadership style that ering high-quality, affordable care promotes an authentic communi- with an enhanced patient and ty of work.” provider experience.” n 21 July/August 2016 Column: Joe Pisani The true secret to lasting life

we can live forever on earth. (For more have better mental and an optimistic outlook and suf- Christians, there’s already ever- physical health, and out of 125 fered less depression. SWIMMING UPSTREAM lasting life, but you have to get to studies that looked at the link However, I have my own heaven to enjoy it.) between health and regular wor- theory. When you go to church, BY JOE PISANI Thomas a’Kempis, a 14th ship, 85 showed churchgoers you get graces necessary for a century monk, had a different lived longer.” joyful and peaceful life even take. In The Imitation of Christ, In addition, a study by the amid trials and suffering that he wrote: “What good is a long University of Texas concluded accompany our earthly exis- Joe Pisani has been a writer life if we do not use it to advance that the more you go to church, tence. The true secret to a long spiritually? ... Many count the the longer your lifespan—life and fruitful life is to trust God. and editor for 30 years. years of their conversion, but expectancy is seven more years Take it a day at a time and don’t often there is little to show for it. for weekly churchgoers than for worry about the future. You are truly blessed if you keep those who don’t attend. By some divine plan that we hile I was sitting Social Security System. the hour of your death before you Another study in the U.S. won’t understand until we reach at my desk, trying Every day there’s a new devel- and prepare yourself for it. If you Journal of Gerontology showed the hereafter, God gives each of hard to be a pro- opment, technique or product ever saw anyone die, remember that atheists had a much greater us a certain length of time on Wductive member guaranteed to turn us into cente- that you too must travel the same likelihood of dying over a six- earth to love and to grow spiri- of the American workforce, narians. A drug called rapamycin path. If it is frightening to die, it year period than believers. tually. Everything else, includ- an email popped up on my is being tested on dogs, which may be more dangerous to live Harvard professor Tyler ing our gross annual income, screen with amazing news that reportedly makes them bark long.” VanderWeele published research academic honors, Chamber of proclaimed, “THE END OF louder, run faster and dig deeper Despite all the hype, there in JAMA Internal Medicine that Commerce awards and business AGING!” Good thing I was at holes. is a real secret to a long-lasting found women who go to church successes, isn’t as important as my desk instead of wandering The craziest trend is cryon- life, and you don’t have to be more than once a week have a 33 trying to do his will. It’s a clas- around, or I might have missed it. ics, which has attracted celeb- freeze-dried or start popping percent lower mortality rate than sic case of quality rather than The email said Harvard rities like Larry King and Paris wonder pills. The secret is prayer non-churchgoers. quantity. researchers have discovered the Hilton, who plan to have their and Mass—a growing body of After analyzing data from St. , who was secret “to stop, slow and even bodies freeze-dried so they can research suggests prayerful people 1996 to 2012 on the habits of never one to strive after earthly reverse the symptoms of aging,” come back in 200 years when live longer, healthier lives. 74,534 women, researchers found achievement, wealth, prestige and I’m sure if I clicked on the science has the secret to eternal Dr. Harold Koenig, director that those who attended church or longevity, put it this way: offer, it would show me how I life. of Duke University’s Center frequently were 27 percent less “Remember that when you leave could grow younger for a mere There’s also the emerging field for Spirituality, Theology and likely to die from cardiovascular this earth, you can take nothing $5,000 a month. I’d look as good of “geroscience,” which is the Health, told Newsmax Health disease and 21 percent less likely of what you have received, only as Christie Brinkley and live long biology of aging. Its goal is to that an analysis of 1,500 med- to succumb to cancer. They the- what you have given: a full heart, enough to retire at 90, thereby increase longevity—in America ical studies “indicates people orized that the women enjoyed enriched by honest service, love, singlehandedly preserving the the average lifespan is 79—so that who are more religious and pray friendship, seldom smoked, had sacrifice, and courage.” n

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Call us for a free quote 23 July/August 2016 Saint of the Streets Mother Teresa to be canonized in September Mother Teresa of Calcutta will receiving basic medical training. gregation with 13 members in on five fingers?’ Then, taking “The Sisters help out with be canonized on September 4, the Then she ventured out into the Calcutta, by 1997 it now numbers each finger in turn she would say: Sunday school, but mostly they ninth anniversary of her death. slums. 4,500 members running orphan- ‘You…did…it…to…me.’ That go around to see people who are Fittingly, the canonization of the Her first year was fraught with ages, AIDS hospices and charity was her lasting gift to the world, homebound or sick or in nursing founder of the Missionaries of difficulties. She had no income centers worldwide. to bring people the message of homes, not particularly from the Charity, who devoted her life to and had to resort to begging for Father Paul Check, national Christ, “Love one another as I parish and not always Catholic,” the poor, takes place during the food and supplies. She wrote in chaplain of Courage in residence have loved you.” says Father José Rebaque, St. Jubilee Year of Mercy. her diary: “Our Lord wants me at St. Mary Parish in Norwalk, As he walked the streets in Peter’s pastor. “They also run a Mother Teresa was born to an to be a free nun covered with the became familiar with the Calcutta, Father Check would program in their convent for pre- Albanian family in what is now poverty of the cross. Today, I in Rome, occasionally look into a Hindu school children. It’s not for the the Republic of Macedonia. When learned a good lesson. The pover- where he became a chaplain temple to see what they were like. parish; it’s simply for people in the she was eighteen she joined the ty of the poor must be so hard for and confessor for them at their “Sometimes I’d see a figure of neighborhood who need this help.” Sisters of Loreto, an Irish religious them. While looking for a home Motherhouse near the Vatican. Mother Teresa displayed there. Mother Teresa was the recip- order that ran schools for girls in I walked and walked till my arms For a dozen years he taught a It’s clear that they perceived ient of numerous honors, includ- India. She arrived in India in 1929 and legs ached. I thought how two-week course in moral theolo- something holy in her.” ing the 1979 Nobel Peace Prize. and taught at the Loreto school in much they must ache in body and gy in Calcutta. The first Missionaries of While she was admired by the Calcutta for almost twenty years soul, looking for a home, food “The clue to their mission Charity home in the United world, more importantly people and in 1944 was appointed head- and health.” is in their name,” he said. “A States was established in the recognized her as a saintly person. mistress. In 1950, Mother Teresa Missionary of Charity is someone South Bronx; by 1984 they had Mother Teresa said “By blood, Although she enjoyed received Vatican permission to who brings the fullness of the 19 establishments throughout the I am Albanian. By citizenship, an teaching, she was increasingly start the congregation that would love of Christ to other people. country. The Sisters were invited Indian. By faith, I am a Catholic disturbed by the poverty sur- become the Missionaries of “Sometimes Mother Teresa to serve in this diocese by Bishop nun. As to my calling, I belong rounding her in Calcutta. On Charity. Its mission was to care would walk up to a person and William E. Lori in 2001, when to the world. As to my heart, I September 10, 1946, she experi- for, in her own words, “the hun- take hold of their hand. She’d they opened a convent in St. belong entirely to the Heart of enced what she later described as gry, the naked, the homeless, the say, ‘Do you know the Gospel Peter Parish in Bridgeport. Jesus.” n “the call within the call” while crippled, the blind, the lepers, all travelling by train for her annual those people who feel unwanted, retreat. “I was to leave the con- unloved, uncared for throughout vent and help the poor while liv- society, people that have become ing among them. It was an order. a burden to the society and are To fail would have been to break shunned by everyone.” MOTHER TERESA the faith.” Members adhere to the She began her missionary vows of chastity, poverty, and work with the poor in 1948, obedience, as well as a fourth SAINT OF THE STREETS adopting a simple white cotton vow, to give “wholehearted sari decorated with a blue border, free service to the poorest of the Opening Aug. 20, 2016 taking Indian citizenship and poor.” Beginning as a small con- Little Workers... STAMFORD—On May 21, a delegation of the Little Workers of the Sacred Hearts from Stamford traveled to Calabria, Italy to participate in the ceremonies of their founder, Msgr. Francesco Maria Greco. The Sisters, who operate Our Lady of Grace Preschool and Kindergarten and Villa Divino Amore preschool in Stamford, joined more than 250 fellow Sisters from around the world to see their founder declared Blessed. The Little Workers were joined by more than 15,000 faith- ful and 200 priests who filled the stadium in the city of Cosenza 1 State Street, New Haven to show their devotion to one of 203-865-0400 • kofcmuseum.org their own Calabrese. Free admission & parking On May 22, the Sisters joined BL. FRANCESCO MARIA GRECO in another celebration that took facebook.com/kofcmuseum place in , the hometown of Blessed Francesco. A proces- sion of worshipers carried his relic from the chapel of the Little @kofcmuseum Workers to the Basilica of Beato Angelo. There a liturgy was celebrated by Francesco Nolè, Bishop of Cosenza-Bisignano, with 5,000 people in attendance. n ST. VINCENT’S SWIM ACROSS THE SOUND

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