THE CATHOLIC MIRROR
Vol. 54, No. 12 December 18, 2020
O Come Let Us Adore Him
They had no parties. We stand at the end They had no feasts. Of a cold, dark year. They had no choirs. Amid death and despair, Just a star in the East. We ask, “Is God here?”
But they had each other For we have no parties, And they had the Christ. And we have no feasts. In a cold, dark world, We have no choirs. God gave them Light. Our celebrations ceased.
But we have each other And we have the Christ. Joy lives on this season. God gave us the Light.
Photo by Paul Falk/Knights of Columbus #4108/St. Mary Parish, Oscaloosa The annual Oskaloosa Lighted Christmas Parade was replaced with a drive-through event this year due to COVID-19. Pictured is a nativity at St. Mary Parish, which participated in the drive-through on Dec. 6. 2 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020 Christmas magnified Two—well maybe presented himself at the parish of- as somehow united to ourselves.” ultimately enrich our culture, who three—gift stories: Christmas fice door asking to meet with the “All this originates in a sense of bring a ferment of values and pos- this year came a bit early when By pastor. The man told him he had esteem, an appreciation of the val- sibilities and who will magnify my 87-year-old Mom Marilyn Bishop a gift for him, and reached into ue of the other.” This is ultimate- our sense of universal solidarity presented me with two boxes of William his big bag and took out a two- ly the idea at the core of the word and dignity among all members Fostoria glass table serving ware Joensen foot tall carved statue of St. John “charity,” where someone is dear of the larger human family. Our that I had given her as Christmas Vianney, almost identical to the and precious to us, stirring us to gift of respect and recognition is gifts over the years. It was not smaller version he had given to freely bestow something upon that expressed in our willingness to that she was tired of the items or two-fold gift: she is full of won- me. Msgr. Joe had never told any- person. “make a place at the table”—at was sending me a message she has der at her virgin-motherhood one about giving up his cherished The Holy Father then Eucharist, in our schools and no room for me or my past gifts in and full of joy at giving birth to statue. And whoever this mysteri- neighborhoods, in prospects for her house or her heart; she is try- the Redeemer.” A two-fold gift: ous “Santa Claus” figure was, the As we conclude a year in employment not simply for sci- ing to simplify her life with a view wonder and joy that stem from willingness of this spiritual father, which life seemed to down- entists or investors, but for those toward that ultimate day—may be ongoing exchanges between this Msgr. Joe, to release something who— like St. Joseph— are it a long way off—when she is no daughter of Israel and God. The that had great meaning and value size, be simplified, what sort skilled laborers. Our support for longer with us. And spare her kids grace of immunity to original sin to him was met by an even great- of exchanges does our faith mothers and fathers who out of a some work in the process. is met with the full offering of her er—albeit quite surprising—pres- ask of us? How might we need to protect their children and Of course, I cherish the body and soul in faith to God; the ent that bore some resemblance to take the initiative to gift give them a chance at a decent glassware even more because of receptivity to the Holy Spirit in the initial gift. others simply for their own life, make their way to Africa and the “re-gifting.” It represents the turn respects the integrity of her The woodworker St. sake? then back again—or who come exchange of love and life over the virginity; the conception of a Son Joseph cherishes his bride-to- to Iowa—enriches us all as we years, and though I haven’t (and who is the Messiah is followed by be with all his heart. The news exchange faith and friendship, won’t) look on eBay to see how the unreserved dedication of this that she was pregnant with a son refers to reciprocal gifts, borne of decency and generosity with our much the items are worth today child given back to God—and to without him must have caused a the sense of “gratuitousness” that sisters and brothers under one God on the market, they have accrued a people who sorely need a Savior. double sense of grief: his bride frees us to do things “without con- our Father. in value to me because they are Like us. has given her heart and body to cern for personal gain or recom- God gives us Mary and wrapped in her steadfast spirit, Second story: Nearly 30 another, and the son is not natural- pense.” If we lack this sense, then Joseph, and above all, their Son, magnified in meaning as they stir years ago when I left my second ly his. And, yet, mysteriously, as life “becomes a form of frenetic the long-desired of every nation. memories of shared family pres- assignment as associate pastor the message he receives sinks in, commerce, which we weigh what As we conclude a year in which ence. Mom, in her selfless way, to go off for further studies, the and as his paternal, protective in- we give [and give up, I might add] life seemed to downsize, be sim- was always at the center of it all, pastor, the late Msgr. Joseph He- stincts are stirred, this just man of and what we get in return” (see plified, what sort of exchanges a nucleus of faith and daily sacri- rard, asked if there was anything I faith grasps that both this unique- Fratelli tutti nn. 93-94, 139-40). does our faith ask of us? How fice on behalf of her family—in- wanted as a parting gift. I pointed ly favored woman and this Son In what I might propose might we take the initiative to gift cluding the preparation of holiday to his 10-inch tall carved wood- of sons, true God from true God, is the prospective third gift, the others simply for their own sake? meals by one who doesn’t like to en statue of St. John Vianney on was being given back to him by pope’s reflection centers on our If we respond as the Holy Family cook! his shelf, and said, “That.” He none other than God himself. Talk ability to welcome others into our does, then the God who is never In the Preface of the seemed a little sad as he handed it about high stakes re-gifting! culture, our country. He challeng- outdone in generosity will be sure Mass dedicated to Mary, Mother to me, but I still took it. Pope Francis, in this es us to open our hearts not only to surprise us, bless us, and magni- of God, we pray: “She who knew A year later, when I pandemic year’s message on so- to receive children, but those who fy our hearts and our hope. not man becomes a mother; she stopped by on break, he related a cial friendship, speaks of the love are different, including migrants Merry Christmas and a who has given birth remains a true story to me. It seems some made possible by God’s grace that and new arrivals to our commu- Blessed New Year! virgin. What joy is hers at your months later an unknown fellow leads us to “consider the beloved nity. These are persons who will Navidad Ampliada Dos – bueno, tal vez tres que ella se hubiera cansado de inmunidad al pecado original se shacerse de algo que tenía gran nos habla del amor que la gracia – historias de regalos: la Navi- estos objetos ni que me estaba cumple cuando ofrece su cuerpo valor y significado para él recibió de Dios hace posible y que nos dad llegó un poco temprano este enviando un mensaje de que ya y alma plenamente en fe a Dios; en recompensa un regalo aún más lleva a “considerar al amado uni- año cuando mi mamá Marilyn de no tenía espacio en su casa o en la recepción del Espíritu Santo a grande – y por cierto muy sor- do a nosotros de alguna forma.” 87 años me entregó dos cajas de su corazón para mí o para los re- la vez respeta la integridad de su prendente – que se asimilaba al “Todo esto surge de un sentido artículos de cristalería para mesa galos que le había dado; ella está virginidad; a la concepción de un regalo original. de estima, el aprecio por el valor de Fostoria que por años le había tratando de simplificar su vida Hijo quien es el Mesías le sigue San José el carpintero de los demás.” Este es definitiv- regalado yo de Navidad. No es con una visión hacia ese día final una dedicación sin reserva de este adora a su futura esposa con todo amente la idea en el centro de la – que esperemos tarde mucho en niño hacia Dios – y al pueblo que su corazón. La noticia de que es- palabra “caridad,” cuando algui- llegar – en que ella ya no esté con necesitaba desesperadamente a taba embarazada con un hijo que en es querido y apreciado por no- THE CATHOLIC nosotros. Y evitarles algo de tra- un Salvador. Igual que nosotros. no era de él, debe haberle causado sotros, motivándonos a dar libre- bajo a sus hijos en el proceso. Segunda historia: hace un doble sentido de dolor: su no- mente algo a esa persona. Por supuesto, tengo un casi treinta años cuando terminé via había entregado su corazón y El Santo Padre habla so- aprecio adicional a la cristalería mi segunda asignación como pár- su cuerpo a alguien más, y el hijo bre los regalos recíprocos, asumi- MIRROR porque es un “regalo reciclado.” roco asociado para regresar a los no era suyo naturalmente. Y aún endo el sentido de “gratuidad” Estos representan el intercambio estudios, el párroco, el ya falleci- así misteriosamente, cuando el que nos libera para hacer cosas Bishop William Joensen de amor y de vida a través de los do Monseñor Joseph Herard, me mensaje que recibe surte efecto “sin esperar ningún ganancia Publisher años, y aunque no he buscado (ni preguntó que si quería yo algo y sacude sus instintos paternales personal o recompensa.” Si no [email protected] buscaré) en eBay para ver cuánto como regalo de despedida. Señalé y de protector, este hombre de fe tenemos este sentido, entonces la vale hoy la cristalería en el mer- a una estatua de 10 pulgadas tal- justo entiende que esta mujer tan vida “se convierte en un comercio Anne Marie Cox cado, ésta ha acumulado valor lada en madera de San Juan Vian- favorecida y este Hijo de hijos, ansioso, está siempre midiendo Editor para mí porque están envueltos ney y le dije, “Eso.” Él se veía un Dios verdadero de Dios verdade- lo que damos [y a lo que renun- [email protected] en su perseverante espíritu, y su poco triste cuando me la entrega- ro, le estaba regalando nada más ciamos, puedo agregar] y lo que significado se amplía cuando de- ba, pero aún así la tomé. que a Dios mismo. ¡Pensemos en recibimos a cambio.” (ver Fratelli Kelly Mescher Collins spiertan recuerdos de la presen- Un año después cuando un alto nivel de regalo reciclado! tutti, números 93-94, 139-140). Staff Writer cia familiar que compartíamos. fui a visitarlo durante las vaca- En su mensaje en este En lo que yo podría pro- [email protected] Mi mamá, en su discreto estilo, ciones, él me contó una historia año de pandemia respecto a la siempre era el centro de todo, un sorprendente para mí. Al parecer amistad social, el Papa Francisco Continuar en la pagina 4 núcleo de fe y de sacrificio diario unos meses después, un hom- The Catholic Mirror (ISSN a favor de su familia – ¡incluyen- bre desconocido se presentó a la 0896-6869) is published do el preparar las comidas de las puerta de la oficina parroquial Official monthly for $20 per year by fiestas por alguien a quien no le pidiendo reunirse con el párroco. the Diocese of Des Moines, gustaba cocinar! El hombre le dijo que tenía un Bishop William Joensen has made the follow- 601 Grand Ave., Des Moines, En el prefacio de la regalo para él y abriendo la gran ing appointment that became effective Nov. 11, 2020. Iowa 50309. Periodicals post- Misa dedicada a María, Madre de bolsa que traía y sacó una estatua age paid at Des Moines. Dios, oramos: “La que no cono- tallada de San Juan Vianney que Rev. Mr. Troy Thompson, from Our Lady of POSTMASTER: Send changes ció varón es madre, y después del medía dos pies, casi idéntica a the Americas Parish, Des Moines, to St. Pius X to THE CATHOLIC MIR- parto permanece virgen. Se gozó, la versión más pequeña que me Parish, Urbandale, until Sept. 1, 2023. ROR, 601 Grand Ave., Des en efecto, de dos gracias: se ad- había obsequiado. Monseñor Joe Moines, Iowa 50309. mira porque concibió virgen, se nunca le dijo a nadie sobre cómo PHONE: (515)237-5046 alegra porque alumbró al Reden- se había desprendido de su queri- EMAIL: mirror@dmdiocese. tor.” Un regalo de dos gracias: ad- da estatua. Y quienquiera que org miración y alegría que surgen de haya sido este misterioso “Santa Faithfully in Christ, Jason Kurth DIOCESAN WEBSITE: continuos intercambios entre esta Claus,” la voluntad de este padre Most. Rev. William Joensen, Ph.D. Chancellor www.dmdiocese.org hija de Israel y Dios. La gracia de espiritual, Monseñor Joe, a de- Bishop 3 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020 Accident inspires daily family prayer online The family has been saying 54-day rosary novenas for decades
and as soon as she fin- By Kelly Mescher Collins ished, she’d start a new Staff Writer one, said sister Carol Laughery. The novena On July 5, Mark comes from an appear- Eischeid and a friend decided to ance of Mary to young take advantage of the nice weath- girl who yearned for er on the holiday weekend by healing, according to taking their motorcycles out for a John Huynh, diocesan ride up to Boone Ledges. director of Faith Jour- On their way home they ney. Mary directed the came to a gravel corner near Ja- girl to pray three nove- maica for their turn. Eischeid re- nas for healing and three alized he was going too fast when immediately after for he reached the corner, and was thanksgiving, resulting thrown from his bike, landing in in 54 days of prayer. the ditch next to the gravel road. “When we He was in a lot of pain. were little, we would But Eischeid, a member of St. all climb on the bed,” Patrick Parish in Bayard, insisted remembered Leona they call a friend to pick him up Eischeid. “We have pret- and bring him home. His friend ty much been saying ro- picked him up and drove him to saries our whole life.” the hospital in Guthrie Center. In fact, there “I’m told that as soon as were a number of occa- I got out of the car, I went down sions when one of the in a heap,” Eischeid said. “They adult Eischeid children ambulanced me to Methodist received good news and Hospital in Des Moines.” told their mother about it – who Mark Eischeid of St. Patrick Parish The X-rays revealed he said she’d just finished praying in Bayard on his motorcycle. had a broken pelvic bone, broken a 54-day rosary novena for that clavicle, and eight ribs broken in specific situation. 13 different locations. “On her deathbed she Eischeid broke a pelvic bone, his Two days later surgeons said, ‘Pray the novena – it’s a plated, glued and grafted the ribs miracle,’” said Laughery, also a clavicle and eight ribs in 13 loca- together – the pelvis would heal member of St. Patrick in Bayard. tions. While he was in the hospi- on it’s own. Nine days after his These long-held family tal. his family helped him finish his accident they plated and screwed traditions inspired all of the living 54-day rosary novena. his clavicle back together. Eischeid siblings and a handful of “Everybody says that is nieces and nephews to continue a really painful surgery, but they praying the novena as a family. had me on all of the [pain meds],” They meet online every night at 6 Eischeid said. “I was belly laugh- p.m. ing the day after they plated those “I’m thinking it’s going ribs.” to go on forever,” Eischeid said. His very large family – “We just enjoy it so much. If I had he and 12 living sisters, all prac- to lay money down, I bet we’ll be ticing Catholics, based mostly in doing it for the rest of our lives.” Guthrie Center and Bayard – ral- Sister Judy Eischeid lied around him, surrounding him said she’s happy about that. in prayer. “Mark ‘s accident be- One of his daughters came a blessing in our family,” knew her father was in the middle she said. “Because Mark had of one of his 54-day rosary nove- a motorcycle accident and he nas - a long-held family tradition. couldn’t have visitors, his daugh- She asked the family to help him ters started this Zoom…. We fin- finish his novena while he was ished his, and now we all have hospitalized. our special requests. Caldwell Parrish: Caring about your loss and your faith. “My sisters said, “I just feel like Mom is Des Moines’ Only Catholic-Owned & Operated Funeral Home! ‘Let’s just do a Zoom novena’,” with us,” Judy added. Eischeid said. “They must have It also offers the siblings felt sorry for me, because they a chance to socialize and recon- helped me finish my Novena, and nect every day before praying. You don’t need to settle. we all enjoyed it so much.” “It’s just made our faith The 54-day novena is stronger and just pulled us to- Funeral preferences change. something their mother, Leona gether,” Laughery said. “We’ve Eischeid, prayed her entire life. always been close, [but this made She would pray a 54-day novena, You are not obligated to fulfill your service us closer.]” with the funeral home where you purchased your pre-plan. If you have pre-planned with another funeral home and they are no longer what you have in mind, take comfort knowing that Caldwell Parrish honors all existing pre-arrangements. There’s never a fee for the transition to our funeral home. Make an appointment today to discuss your options.
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By Kelly Mescher Collins Staff Writer
On the Dec. 12 feast day of Our Lady of Guadalupe, parish- es with a large Hispanic presence are typically bursting at the seams with faithful from Latin American countries. Often a stand- ing-room-only crowd squeezes together in the back of churches and along the walls near the aisle. Festivities usually in- clude a procession, dancing, food and celebration. In light of COVID-19, parishes had to find new ways to celebrate the “Empress of the The Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe was celebrated in a more subdued manner than Americas.” usual this year to prevent the spread of COVID-19. Yet parishes found ways to honor Father Fabian Moncada, Our Lady on her feast day that is particularly special to the Hispanic community. pastor of Our Lady of the Amer- icas Parish in Des Moines and a native of Colombia, celebrated the midnight Mass outside in the parking lot. People were asked to stay in their cars for the celebra- tion of the Mass and the Eucharist was distributed through the car windows. Father Luis Mejia, pastor of St. Patrick Parish in Perry and a native of El Salvador, said his people have a strong attraction to Our Lady of Guadalupe. “We have a big celebra- tion down in El Salvador [on this feast day], because we are called mestizo – European and Indig- enous mix,” Father Mejia said. “And Our lady of Guadalupe is our color. We feel that she is Our Navidad Ampliada Lady, for us. She is the brown Continuar en la pagina 4 lo de respeto y reconocimiento se Dios nos da a María y lady, and we identify with her.” expresa en nuestra disponibilidad a José, pero más que nada, a su Though celebrations poner es la perspectiva de un terc- de “hacer espacio en la mesa” – Hijo, que es tan deseado en toda were scaled down this year, the er regalo, la reflexión del papa que en la Eucaristía, en escuelas y nación. Al concluir este año en people are still drawn together in se centra en nuestra capacidad de vecindarios, en potenciales tra- el cual la vida parece haberse re- prayer and solidarity. acoger a otros en nuestra cultura, bajadores no únicamente para ducido y hecho más simple, ¿qué “It’s significantly chal- en nuestro país. Él nos reta a abrir científicos o inversionistas, pero tipo de cambios pide nuestra fe de lenging times, but these chal- nuestros corazones no solamente para aquellos quienes – como San nosotros? ¿Cómo podemos tomar lenging times move us to gather a recibir a los niños, sino a quienes José – son obreros calificados. la iniciativa de dar a los demás together in the spirit of [Our Lady son diferentes, incluyendo a los Nuestro apoyo a madres y padres simplemente por su propio ben- of Guadalupe,]” Father Moncada migrantes y los recién llegados quienes debido a la necesidad de eficio? Si respondemos como lo said. “Any kind of race, any kind a nuestra comunidad. Estas son proteger a sus hijos y de darles hace la Sagrada Familia, entonc- of culture, any kind of language personas quienes ultimadamente una oportunidad de tener una vida es el Dios a quien nada ni nadie can join together in the spirit.” enriquecerán nuestra cultura, decente se abren camino a África supera en generosidad, nos sor- “Our Lady of Guada- quienes traen una levadura de y de vuelta – o quienes vienen a prenderá verdaderamente, bendi- lupe has been the queen of Latin valores y posibilidades y quienes Iowa – nos enriquece a todos al ciéndonos y ampliando nuestros America…,” Father Moncada ampliarán nuestro sentido de soli- intercambiar fe, amistad, decen- corazones y nuestra esperanza. added. “We are all the same body daridad universal y dignidad entre cia y generosidad con nuestros ¡Feliz Navidad y un of Christ in the church.” todos los miembros de la familia hermanos y hermanas bajo un Bendecido Año Nuevo! humana en general. Nuestro rega- Dios, nuestro Padre.
A CHRISTMAS CONCERT FOR YOU
In a Christmas season darkened by disease, division and discouragement, you are invited to celebrate the joy and hope of the holiday by watching “The Lessons, Reflec- tions and Carols of Christmas” a livestream Christmas concert presented by Umeri, the Drake University alum- ni choir. This event, which features music, readings, and reflections written especially for this celebration, was recorded at St. Ambrose Cathedral (without an audience) and can be accessed anytime between Dec. 12 and Jan. 6. Please use the following link:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCd1rPwPhXYl- WOod6Ln6npWg
Bishop William Joensen is the presider and is joined by readers from Holy Family School, Dowling Catholic High School, and other members of the Drake and Des Moines communities. A 25-minute prelude, played by members of the Des Moines Symphony precedes the concert. www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18,, 2020 5 Join us in spiritual communion
A nativity scene stands near St. Augustine Church in Milo, part of Holy Trinity of Southeast Warren County Parish. Photo by Erica Wadle
Due to social distancing requirements and space limitations, some churches are asking pa- PRAYER OF SPIRITUAL COMMUNION rishioners to reserve their seats for Christmas Masses ahead of time. Those who cannot physically be (For those who may wish but for whatever reason are un- present are invited to be spiritually present. able to receive holy communion) Parishes across the diocese are broadcasting Christmas Masses for those who cannot attend. My Jesus, I believe that You are present in the Most Holy The following is a list of some parishes that are livestreaming Masses online. Contact your parish if it is Sacrament. not listed below regarding the availability of its online Christmas Masses. Christmas Masses that will be available online for those who cannot attend in person. If you will be I love You above all things, and I desire to receive You into livestreaming one or more Christmas Masses, please let us know by Wednesday, Dec. 9. Thank you!! my soul. City Dec. 24 Dec. 25 Platform Since I cannot at this moment receive You sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart. Ankeny I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart 7 p.m. YouTube; olih.org wholly to You.
Atlantic Never permit me to be separated from you. Amen Ss. Peter & Paul 4 p.m. & 10 p.m. 10:30 a.m. Sspeterpaulandmary.org
Des Moines ORACION POR UNA All Saints 4 p.m. 9 a.m. COMUNION ESPIRITUAL Basilica of St. John 4 p.m. & 6 p.m. Midnight Basilicaofstjohn.org/live- 10:30 a.m. telecast; Facebook; (Para acquellos que desean pero que por cualquierrazon no YouTube pueden recibir la sagrada comunion.) Holy Trinity 6:30 p.m. & 10 8:30 a.m. Facebook p.m. Creo, Jesus mio, que estas real y verdaderamente presente St. Ambrose 4 p.m. Diocese of Des Moines en el Santisimo Sacramento. Facebook Te amo sobre todas las cosas, y deseo vivamente recibirte St. Anthony 4 p.m. & 8 p.m. 8 a.m. (English) Streamspot dentro de mi alma. 9:30 a.m. (Latin) Facebook 11 a.m. (English) YouTube Pero no pudiendo hacerlo ahora sacramentalmente, ven al 1 p.m. (Spanish) menos espiritualmente a mi corazon. Y como si ya te hu- St. Joseph 4 p.m. Website: biese recibido, te abrazo y me uno del todo a Ti. stjosephcatholicdsm.org Senor, no permitas que jamas me aparte de Ti. Amen. St. Mary of Nazareth 4 p.m., 6 p.m. & 9 9 a.m. Facebook p.m. Granger Assumption 4 p.m. & 6 p.m. 9 a.m. Assusmptiongranger.org, ADVENT Click on the YouTube Preparing hearts and homes for Jesus’ coming help button families focus on what is truly important at this time of year. Glenwood Our Lady of the Holy Rosary 4 p.m. Facebook The diocese offers a wealth of Advent resources for Neola families for the days leading up to Christmas. Go to dmdio St. Patrick 6 p.m. Facebook for St.Patrick cese.org/Advent2020 for a fun guide full of simple ideas for & St. Columbaus creating family Chrismas traditions. Also find prayer reflec- Red Oak tions and suggestions for incorporating acts of kindness into St. Mary 6 p.m. 10:30 a.m. Facebook your Advent. Urbandale St. Pius X 4 p.m., 7 p.m. & 10 9 a.m. YouTube p.m. Waukee St. Boniface 3 p.m. YouTube West Des Moines Sacred Heart 4 p.m. (English) 9 a.m. Facebook, YouTube 6 p.m. (Spanish)
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Contact Kelly at [email protected] or call 515-237-5054 to learn more. 6 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020 Around the Diocese Local March for Life planned ` Iowans for LIFE plans womb,” said Iowans for LIFE Ongoing Events Catholic Youth Camp • Beyond the Book - Designed to to kick off the new year with a Executive Director Maggie De- The staff at Catholic Youth highlight important social justice lit- March for Life in Des Moines on Witte. erature and local organizations. Reflections & Carols of Christmas Camp are busy planning a great 2021 Jan. 9 at the state capitol begin- The group launched an summer. Registration is open now. • JustFaith Ministries Programs - Bishop William Joensen, ning at 10 a.m. apologetics toolbox in the last joined by representatives of the Campers will find new cabins, a reno- These small group programs will help The march was an- year, and next year will add vid- Catholic community and Umeri, vated Dingman Lodge and double the you explore today’s issues through Drake University’s alumni choir, number of paid staff hired to ensure the lens of your faith and formulate a nounced at the Iowans for LIFE eos to the resource. Supporters has recorded a livestream Christmas safety procedures are followed so personal/group response. annual banquet, held online last look forward to meeting people concert/prayer service at St. Am- everyone can have a safe experience. • Time to Talk - Unique sessions month. The group traditionally at the Iowa State Fair in 2021 and brose Cathedral. This event, which For more information on a fun and designed to provide a safe space for has taken several charter buses to raising awareness of the group’s features music, Scriptures, and re- faith-filled summer, go to stmcenter. discussion on relevant social justice Washington, D.C. for the national respect life curriculum. flections written especially for this com. issues. march. In light of health concerns “Don’t be discouraged,” celebration, can be accessed any- Learn more about our pro- gramming at center forsocialministry. with the pandemic, a local march said DeWitte. time between Dec. 12 and Jan. 6 at: Center for Social Ministry was organized as an alternative. “We know that the battle https://www.youtube.com/channel/ org. Registration is open for “Even in the cold and (to save and respect life) is not UCd1rPwPhXYlWOod6Ln6npWg registration. even in the snow, our presence won through elections or legisla- is needed. You need to bear wit- tion or law,” she said. “It’s one in ness and be a voice of the thou- changing the hearts and minds of Coaches honored for their dedication, service sands of boys and girls who have every human being we encoun- been snuffed out in their mothers’ ter.” Tom Wilson University and Dike-New Hart- at Dike-New Hartford. ford before leading the Maroons. His Dowling Catholic Dowling Catholic High He has a career record of squads have won a state-record Bishop imposes restrictions, School Athletic Director Tom 264-64 including a 171-25 mark seven straight championships and Wilson entered the Iowa Football at Dowling Catholic through the have won eight overall. supervision on priest Coaches Association’s Hall of 2020 semifinals. He has also been a three- Investigation finds misconduct; Fame. He led 21 playoff teams time Iowa Football Coaches As- Wilson coached at En- and coached in 11 title games, in- sociation Coach of the Year. but not sexual abuse of a minor glish Valleys, Wilton, Ball State cluding three runner-up finishes Rev. Robert “Bud” Grant will return to ministry with re- strictions and supervision, following an investigation into an allega- Tom Heithoff 1987. He amassed 279 wins, five program today.” tion of sexual abuse of a minor. Evidence gathered during the inves- state tournament appearances and For Heithoff, being in- tigation established the allegation did not meet the criteria necessary to take to the Vatican for further review or canonical trial. St. Albert girls basket- 11 district championships. volved in the school is a family Since the investigation began last March, Des Moines ball coach Tom Heithoff is joining “Tom is well-deserv- tradition. He told KMAland.com Bishop William Joensen and the diocesan Allegation Review Com- the KMA Sports Hall of Fame. ing of this awared because of his his father supported teachers, mittee gathered and reviewed the evidence, including the initial A 1971 graduate of St. great dedication to St. Albert and coaches and the school board. complaint, examined an investigative report produced by a third Albert Catholic School in Coun- the Saintes’ basketball program,” Read more about party, and consulted with experts in church law. The state’s Attor- cil Bluffs, Heithoff served 40 said Ken Schreiber, St. Albert Heithoff here: https://www. ney General’s office and law enforcement in Polk, Pottawattamie years in Catholic education, 30 of athletic director. “We appreciate kmaland.com/sports/2020-21- and Scott Counties are aware of the allegation of behavior occurring those at St. Albert. all of the time and effort he has kma-sports-hall-of-fame-class- in the early 1990s. He served as head girls put in throughout the years. We tom-heithoff/article_e705c17c- The investigation clearly established that the allegation did coach at St. Albert Catholic appreciate that he is continuing to dbd0-11ea-90b7-57fda4127915. not meet the criteria of sexual abuse of a minor as defined by Church School for 19 years beginning in make a difference in the Saintes’ html law at the time of the incident, because the complainant was above majority age. However, it was also established that Father Grant en- gaged in behavior in select instances in the early 1990s that violated Got a story idea the Sixth Commandment and his priestly promises. Given the seriousness of the misconduct, Bishop Joensen of faith, hope or determined it both necessary and prudent to issue restrictions on Fa- inspiration? ther Grant’s ministry. While not a judgment of guilt with regard to the allegation of abuse of a minor, these restrictions impose remedi- Email al measures and parameters for further exercise of priestly ministry by Father Grant. The restrictions are as follows: Kelly Mescher Collins at • No touch policy for anyone younger than 24 years old except for exchanging the sign of peace with handshake or offering blessing during public celebration of the sacraments. [email protected] • All one-to-one ministry with individual up to 24 years of age, including the celebration of the sacrament of reconciliation, or other academic support is to be in an accessible space visible to the public. • No individual meeting in a rectory, parish, academic or Give yourself the gift other setting is permitted when no else is present in the building or natural space (park, outdoor campus setting, etc.). • Any offsite ministry, course-related or social gatherings of inspiring radio this with individuals up to 24 years of age must have an adult older than age 24 present. These restrictions are in place for one year, to be reviewed Christmas season and adjusted as necessary. Church law does not allow for perpetual restrictions in this situation. Making it Personal with In addition, Father Grant has agreed to a monitor, who will supervise his activities, and is not to engage any ministry beyond Bishop Joensen his current assignments without express permission from Bishop Joensen. Father Grant has been on administrative leave since last Heard every Friday morning at 9 a.m. March. He is expected to return to teaching at St. Ambrose Uni- versity in Davenport and offer sacramental ministry at a rural par- Iowa Catholic Radio ish with the approval of the school and Davenport Bishop Thomas Zinkula. 1150 am | 88.5 fm | 94.5 fm Father Grant was ordained a priest for the Diocese of Des www.IowaCatholicRadio.com Moines in 1984. After ordination, he served in team ministry in three Shelby County parishes: St. Mary in Portsmouth, St. Mary in Spirit Catholic Radio Network Panama and St. Boniface in Westphalia. He served on the faculty at St. Albert High School from 1988-1994. Since 1994, he has served 102.7 FM on the faculty of St. Ambrose University. He has served as a sac- ramental minister at St. Andrew Parish in Bluegrass, Iowa, since Can’t listen live? Catch all his previous shows at 2008. Victims of sexual abuse by clergy and their families are en- IowaCatholicRadio.com/Making-it-Personal couraged to contact the diocesan Victim Assistance Advocate Sam Porter for counseling opportunities or to file a complaint. Porter can be reached at 515-286-2024 or at [email protected]. www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020 7
www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror February 16, 2018 13 HealthcareDeacon Obradovich professionals appointed lean on faith during these trying times director of Permanent Diaconate By Kelly Mescher Collins StaffDeacon Writer Jim 10 Day Pilgrimage to the Holy Land Obradovich was appointed hosted by Rev. Robert E. Harris by BishopWhen Richard the pandemic Pates to first 10 days Departing October 29, 2018 from Des Moines hit serveIowa asback the in director March, of hospitals the Cost is $3,698—All inclusive! (except lunches) / Deposit—$300 (payable on booking) / 2nd payment bracedPermanent for the Diaconate.worst. (50% of balance)—June 1, 2018 / full balance due August 15, 2018. JenniferThe appointment Phillips, nurse Journey features: round-trip air transportation; First Class & Deluxe Hotels; land transportation via deluxe, private motor coach with free Wi-Fi; daily Masses; entrance fees to all sites; taxes & fuel surcharge is for a three-year term and leader at Iowa Lutheran Hospital ($710) and tips ($80) included; boat ride on the Sea of Galilee /cable car ride to top of Masada; The Jesus boat in beginsDes Moines, March said1. she and her & whisper headsets are included. colleagues wereDeacon grateful Obradovich they had Sites include: Sea of Galilee & Upper Galilee; Jordan Valley; Jerusalem & Bethlehem. timeand to hisprepare. wife, Kathie, are For more information contact: Rev. Robert E. Harris, All Saints Church, 650 NE 52nd Ave., Des Moines, IA members“New of HolyYork Trinitydidn’t know 50313; 515-265-5001; [email protected] it Parishwas coming,” in Des Moines. Phillips He said. “Weserves at least that hadparish some and warning.works Deacon Jim and Kathie Newwith York the was visually a tornado; impaired we saw Obradovich thecommunity. hurricane coming.” ThereDeacon was Obradovicha lot of fear and uncertainty. “As a nurse and health- $1 OFF ADM. wITH THIS AD care professional,A FANTASTIC I had SHOPPING a strong EVENT desire to go help [in New York],” said Phillips, a member of St. Pius X IOWA’SParish in Urbandale. LARGEST “I didn’t feel scared. This is where Over ABOVE: Wendy Mescher, a registered nurse at my faith comes in. I knew that Exh30 Audubon Countyi bMemorial0 Hospital, wears a God would provide the answers itor ARTSVersaFlo mask when meetings patients who are and would provide what I needed. If my time was going to be com- potentially COVID-19 positive. ing, it was already planned. 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INDUSTRIES BLDG.months, andADM. it is Justtaking $ its6.00 toll. “I think you just have (10 & under free) IOWA STATE FAIRGROUNDS FREE PARKING - Free to take it one dayDES at MOINES, a time IOWAand Shuttle Bus Service from part-time atNorth the ManningParking Lot Region on - they were feel- put your faithFri. in5-9; God Sat. that 9-5; it Sun.will 10-4 Both Friday & Saturday. al Hospital, where she often helps ing like they all work out…,” she said. “I do "Where You Can COVID-19Buy That patients. Quality, didn’t want to keep a rosaryHandmade in my purseProduct and At An Affordable Price." “We seem to have a be a part of this world anymore,” pray if aGarden patient Art, isn’t Oak doing Furniture, well Paintings, Ceramics, Jewelry, Metal Art Sculptures, Pet Products, Etchedlot of & Stainedpregnant Glass, nurses Yard andArt, we Simmons said. “It was a shock to or if they are having a lot of pain. Pottery, Blown Glass, Candles, Clothing,try to keep Floral them Wreaths, from Toys COVID,” & me.” SometimesDolls, I Baskets,just go toRugs, the Glassware,bath- Purses, Ornaments, Food and Victim Assistance Advocate Mescher said. “We don’t know Trusting in God is the room andMany say More a Hail Original Mary. Products. Or if All Handmade by the exhibitor. The diocese’s Victim Assistance Advocate is a staff member the ramifications of those moms best way to get through this, she it’s a rough shift,To I’ll Purchase say an Discounted Our Advance Tickets and at Polk County Victim Services. He helps victims of sexual For A Chance To Win $50 Gift orCertificates, of baby gettingVisit Our COVID.” Facebook concluded. Father.” Page at Callahan Promotions, Inc. abuse of minors by clergy through a complaint process and in She and fellow nurses “My pastor, Father Da- COVID-19 numbers in seeking support and counseling services. He can be reached work hard to walk with patients vid Fleming, did a sermon about Audubon County are not as high at 515-286-2024 or [email protected]. through their uncertainty. the disciples in the boat and Jesus as the bigger cities, yet residents “I think the best thing was calling them to step out on still need to be careful. to ease people’s anxiety is the the water,” Simmons said. “And if Though Mescher’s hus- knowledge that you can share you got distracted by all the stuff band was spared from the virus, with them,” Mescher said. “If going on – political, COVID, and she and her two daughters had things are getting worse or get- other concerns, you would start to Consejero sobre Asistencia de Víctimas mild cases• Booksof COVID-19 by your favorite earli authors- • Large children’s section ting better, people like to know sink.” er this fall. But her uncle passed El Consejero sobre Asistencia de Víctimas es un empleado de Polk • Adult formation resources forthose parishes things. 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They have a see family as much as they possi- Yes,, we are llocated nearby for your conveniience.. rapid test that gives them results bly can…,” she said. “I really do within 15-20 minutes.” Through the years,, we have formed think the best medicine and best She comes to work pre- cllose rellatiionshiips wiith the famiilliies we serve.. motivation for people is to have pared and takes steps to prevent their family around them. As neiighbors,, we are there when needed most.. the spread. “The idea of a patient “I wear a normal uni- Wiith a skiilllled and cariing staff.. dying alone is one of a nurse’s form, but I always keep an extra With a warm and comforting atmosphere. worst fears,” Mescher added. “If With a warm and comforting atmosphere. uniform in my car. I also keep you know the patient is dying you Wiith answers and optiions few funerall homes can offer.. one in my locker in Audubon,” try to be with the patient if the said Mescher, who takes several family’s not there.” showers a day. “I shower out be- Simmons and Mescher fore I come home to protect the said their team of nurses is like community.”Victim Assistance Advocate a family whose members lean She has seen about a half The diocese’s Victim Assistanceon and support Advocate each other is a during dozen COVID-19 cases in Audu- staff member at Polk theseCounty trying Victim times. Services. bon. If their symptoms are severe, Nine months into this patients areShe transported helps victims to Omaha of sexual abuse of minors by clergy pandemic, healthcare profession- or Des throughMoines, wherea complaint they have process and in seeking support and als are burned out, Simmons said. ventilators and more advanced counseling services. She can be reached“I have at at 515-286-2024 least three team equipment. or [email protected] that I had to help make Mescher also works a mental health plan, because OPINION 8 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18 2020 Follow the Light My dad’s favorite day of the year is This light of Christ or “flame of seen a great light” (Isa. 9:1). Even the Israel- Dec. 21 - the winter solstice. faith,” as the rite of baptism says, is a gift I am ites, God’s chosen people, wandered and wait- “The shortest day of the year,” he al- Marriage and Family Life supposed to “keep alive in my heart.” ed thousands of years, longing for the Messi- ways reminds me. “From here on out the days But what are signs of a lively faith? ah. get longer!” Living in the woods of central St. Paul gives us a model when he In all times and all places, the human Minnesota, it mainly means he can start look- says, “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, heart has ached for Jesus, just like ours do to- ing at seed catalogs and dream about planting patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, day. his garden! By Kara Storey gentleness and self-control” (Gal. 5:22). In these last days of Advent, may our I do admire him in that instead of fo- It’s easy this season to see the flame weary hearts “prepare him room,” so that we cusing on the darkness, he turns his face to the burn bright in my children. Their faces are ra- may more perfectly reflect his light and love to promise of greater light. It’s no coincidence ask Jesus to shine his light into the darkest re- diant with joy as they gaze upon the Christmas our neighbor. that in the darkest moment of the year, we also cesses of my heart, the corners where I have tree. There is peace in their eyes as they gently And come Christmas, may we peace- celebrate the birth of Christ, who is the light of secretly tucked away my sins and judgments, play with their wood nativity scene. There is fully and joyfully look to him, who is the the world (Jn. 8:12). my knuckles white as I hold fast to “my” love in their hearts as they snuggle in to read Light, to guide us no matter the crosses of this Journeying through this Advent in ways, doubting the Lord’s promise that the “one more” Christmas story. life. May we echo St. John Henry Newman’s a particularly broken, bruised and divided cost of discipleship will not break me. But it’s not as easy to see it amidst poetic words, “Lead, kindly Light, amid the world, my family is focusing on the gift of Je- But his reassuring whisper to trust the pain in our families, our marriages, our encircling gloom, Lead thou me on. The night sus as our light in this darkness. him slowly pries away my fingers to allow his parishes and our cities. Yet, there is hope re- is dark and I am far from home, Lead thou me But my heavenly Father has also healing rays to cauterize my wounded heart. membering we aren’t the only generation to on.” convicted me in recent months that instead For the more whole I am, the more I’m able to cry out, “Come, Lord Jesus, come!” of lamenting the darkness “out there,” I must respond to Jesus’ call to also bring his light to As Isaiah reminds us each Advent: Kara Storey is a freelance writer who wor- first heal the divisions in my own heart. I must the world (Matt. 5:14). “The people who walked in darkness have ships at the Basilica of St. John in Des Moines. In spite of our differences, we’re on a common journey
Hopefully all of The Catholic Mirror Catholicism is not about this world my thinking on this tension. The first from readers are aware that the diocese is commit- as such but a separate world, the Kingdom Abraham Lincoln in his second inaugural ted to helping us understand each other and Guest Column of God upstairs and downstairs not profit or about God and the Civil War: “Both read the respect each other with its Civilize It Iowa what we can agree on. same bible and pray to the same God and campaign. I would like to share a thought or All of us struggle with how we in- each invokes his aid against the other. . . . . two. tertwine these three factors in our life. We do The prayers of both could not be answered -- This past election has been rough on it differently. Catholics who think differently that of neither has been answered fully. The By Kenan Bresnan many of us. about these things, still have taught my chil- Almighty has his own purpose.” We felt friction with other Catho- dren religious education, joined with me in The second quote everyone knows: lics, neighbors and acquaintances. discussion and formation groups, been there “Render to Caesar what is Caesar’s and to The needs for an emphasis such as Catholicism is about faith and truth. for each other’s funerals, walk in the same God what is God’s.” This was Christ’s re- Civilize It come from the fact that the world Democracy is about individuals coming up communion line and prayed to the same God. sponse when presented with a government that we live in is one that has tension between with what is next or possible. Capitalism is Two quotes have always affected coin. His response says that neither govern- the three major factors that make up yours about profit. ment nor money is why he came. and my society or way of life. We have to live with each. He came for the Kingdom of heav- I have always referred to it as the Capitalism, or our economic struc- en; we all want join together on that CDC problem. I started labeling the tension ture, is about profit, not truth or the individu- journey. this way before the COVID-19 outbreak. I al. With the entrance of technology as a ma- am beginning to think I might have to rename jor factor in it, it is widening the gap of have Kenan Bresnan is a parishioner at St. it. Essentially, it is this: Catholicism-Democ- and have nots in the labor market. Thomas Aquinas Parish in Indianola racy-Capitalism, the three forces in our life. I Democracy is about what a majority and retired from Catholic Charities. have found that they really don’t go together of its voting citizens can agree on. It is not He can be reached at kenbresnan@ that well. about profit or truth. gmail.com. Civilize It Iowa Civilízalo Iowa 2020: One for the history books Before ringing in the new year at character as possible is the midnight on Dec. 31 and ushering in 2021, Faith that Conquers purpose of our trials.” I expect to see a lot of TV personalities and Holocaust sur- social media posts proclaiming, “Good rid- vivor Victor Frankl wrote dance 2020!” and #WorstYearEver. about memorable pris- When the ball drops and the clock oners in his book, Man’s strikes 12, we may have well entered the Search for Meaning: “We most anticipated year ever – mainly because who lived in concentration it’s not 2020 anymore. By Kelly camps can remember the But the reality is that even though Mescher Collins men who walked through we’ll have left 2020 in the dust, much will the huts comforting oth- remain the same. We’ll still be wearing face ers, giving away their last masks, social distancing, and mostly working jumped out at me on Facebook shortly after piece of bread. They may and again to my favorite Scripture passage, and learning from home – at least for the first deciding this column’s topic. Running across have been few in number, but they offer suffi- hoping each time to surrender ever more to few months of 2021. it seemed providential. It’s title? Perfect cient proof that everything can be taken from God’s promises. We’ll still want to protect vulnerable through sufferings. a man but one thing: the last human freedom “Have no anxiety about anything, friends and family by limiting our exposure, “Steel is the product of iron plus – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of but in prayer, petition, and thanksgiving, for fear we may unknowingly pass along fire. Soil is rock plus heat and the crushing circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” make your requests known to God. Then the COVID-19. The Centers for Disease Control of glaciers. Linen is flax plus the water that Suffering is an “ineradicable” part peace of God that surpasses all understanding and Prevention’s recommendations will like- cleans it, the comb that separates it, the flail of life, Frankl says. will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Je- ly not change anytime soon. And it will take that pounds it, and the shuttle that weaves it. “The way in which a man accepts sus.” some time for vaccinations to be distributed In the same way, the development of human his fate and all of the suffering it entails, the January 1, 2021 may not offer the – though it definitely gives us great hope. character requires a plus attached to it, for way in which he takes up his cross, gives him magic switch back to normal we’ve all been But despite all of 2020’s ugly glory, great character is made not through luxurious ample opportunity – even under the most dif- hoping for. But with God by our side, I know there’s a silver lining. It changed you. living but through suffering. And the world ficult circumstances – to add a deeper mean- we’ve got this. It made you stronger. It increased does not forget people of great character…” ing to his life,” Frankl wrote. your patience (whether you liked it and know “Suffering is a wonderful fertilizer I’m not pretending 2020 wasn’t it or not.) I hope it gave you more compas- for character,” the passage continues. “The hard. It was. It was trying, sorrowful, isolat- Kelly Mescher Collins is Multimedia Jour- sion. And it gave you ample opportunities to great objective of this life is character, for it ing and more. We all had our trials – and I’m nalist at the Diocese of Des Moines. She can reflect. is the only thing we can carry with us into no exception. be reached at [email protected]. A devotional passage eternity. And gaining as much of the highest In this year of troubles, I turn time OPINION The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020 Grandfather shares wisdom on prized possessions Every week, Udaya M. Kabadi, MD possessions as far as I am concerned. Without most believe. receives a question from his family. Dr. Kaba- good health, progress in career and life itself Talent is a God-given gift. Every di, a St. Francis of Assisi parishioner, writes Guest Column is limited if not prevented. Fortunately, I was human being is born with a talent. Some out a thoughtful response. One week, his fam- blessed with superior health for most of my identify and nurture it. Others recognize and ily asked him: “What are your favorite pos- life and so was my sweetheart, Mary, until never put in efforts to let it grow and still oth- sessions? Why?” After reading his answer, about five years ago when she was diagnosed ers never are aware of it. they encouraged him to share his answer with Alzheimer’s dementia. Treasure is the material wealth ei- with readers of The Catholic Mirror. His re- By Udaya M. By God’s grace I continue to be in ther inherited and/or gained by hard work ply to his family will run in two parts. Watch Kabadi, MD excellent health. Utmost gratitude to him as and appropriate savings or investment. the January edition of the diocesan newspa- my being healthy has immensely helped me Time is a gift to everyone and each of us has per for part two. them even if I thought I could. take care of her at home. to learn to use it to achieve goals. Therefore, one’s family must never Of course, there has been an occa- Most importantly, the wealth is for sharing. What are your favorite possessions? Why? be considered as one’s possession. sional hiccup. Only a lone hospitalization Without wealth, charity does not exist. With- By definition then, the possessions throughout my life of 78 years is absolute- out wealth, enterprise and entrepreneurship When the question was presented, are the things one has garnered or gathered or ly noteworthy. A sudden totally unexpected are obsolete. I concur that wealth may make a my initial answer was my immediate, my various states attained and nurtured through- hospitalization in 1980 taught me a lesson person arrogant and proud. But wealth comes closest family, my parents, my siblings, my out life and thus evolving with time and usu- though: I should not take anything, especially in handy to perform many good deeds if one wife, my children and grandchildren. ally end with one’s demise. health, for granted. keeps the head on one’s shoulders. The more I thought about this an- However, there are exceptions. I am convinced that ‘it is in giving swer, even more I was convinced that the an- Whatever I consider to be my prized posses- Wealth that we receive’ and ‘the more one gives, swer was totally wrong, too selfish. sions are described individually in the fol- I was often wrong in my initial years even more the one receives’. Soon, it dawned on me that ‘family’ lowing paragraphs. of my career to think that being wealthy was is not a possession. Possession is the state of not healthy. However, over the years, I have Dr. Udaya Kabadi, author of the book “Rain having, owning, or controlling something. As Health realized that to be a myth. Wealth includes Drops” will continue his column in next my kids grew up, I learned I could not control Health is one of the most important ‘talent, treasure and time’ not just ‘riches’ as month’s edition of The Catholic Mirror.
Ask a Priest Our wounds, gifts, and our power to heal are given to us not for ourselves but for others. Q. I hear all the time people saying for. Usually a good search engine But, to be that, they need to be colored “o my god” or “god” when talking will offer a number of options. Guest Column by compassion. We come to compassion by let- to other people. Is this taking the ting our wounds befriend our gifts. Here are two Lord’s name in vain? Thank you, Q. Is the Diocese of Des Moines examples. Suszan Leinen growing or slowing due to When Princess Diana died in 1997, there COVID-19? How are our seminar- was a massive outpouring of love for her. Both A. I agree, it’s pretty com- ies and prospective deacons doing by temperament and as a Catholic priest, I’m nor- mon. Sometimes that could just be their preparation? Is each group By Father mally not given to grieving over celebrities, yet I the initials OMG or omg – which, I still preparing/meeting as a group? Ron Rolheiser felt a deep sorrow and love for this woman. Why? suppose could also stand for “Oh my Because she was beautiful and famous? Not that. gosh.” A. Like many grade Many women who are beautiful and famous and
Decades ago, many parish- schools, high schools, and colleges, are hated for it. Princess Diana was loved by so Nearly 50 years ago, Hen- es had “Holy Name Societies.” The seminaries and diaconal formation many because she was a wounded person, some- ri Nouwen wrote a book entitled The Wounded purpose was to encourage men of the programs have had to face the re- one whose wounds colored her beauty and fame Healer. Its reception established his reputation as parish to use language that wasn’t strictions of the pandemic. Some in a way that induced love, not envy. unique spiritual mentor and he went on to become careless or disrespectful. It seems are doing this virtually, but not Henri Nouwen, who popularized the one of the most influential spiritual writers of the that some people wouldn’t have any all. Who knows how long this will phrase, “the wounded healer” shared a similar past half-century. What made his writings so pow- trouble saying “my lord” but might last? Principals, provosts and col- trait. He was a brilliant man, the author of more erful? His brilliance? His gift for expression? He not say “my God.” lege presidents have to compare than 40 books, one of the most popular religious was gifted, yes, but so are many others. What set The people of Israel and notes on how to conduct business in speakers of his generation, tenured at both Har- him apart was that he was a deeply wounded man many Jewish people even today do the best way. vard and Yale, a person with friends all over the and from that disquieted place inside him issued not use the word “God” because to world; but also a deeply wounded man who, by forth words that were a healing balm to millions. use God’s name was somehow a Q. How many priests and religious his own repeated admission, suffered restlessness, How does this work? How do our familiarity or a power over the di- sisters serve in our diocese? How anxiety, jealousies, and obsessions that occasion- wounds help heal others? They don’t. It’s not our vine. Instead, they use the term “the many will be retiring in the next two ally landed him in a clinic. As well, by his own wounds that help heal others. Rather our wounds Lord” – his title. - three years? repeated admission, amidst this success and pop- can color our gifts and talents in such a way so The Jerusalem Bible uses ularity, for most of his adult life he struggled to that they no longer educe resistance and envy in the term “Yahweh” while oth- A. Right now there are simply accept love. His wounds forever got in the others but instead become what God meant them er translations use the terms “the 112 priests in our diocese. Of them, way. And this, his wounded self, colors basically to be, gifts to grace others. Lord.” Some of my family’s earlier 37 are retired. One is on medical every page of every book he wrote. His brilliance Sadly, the opposite is often true. Our generations said “my land” instead leave, and two are on administrative was forever colored by his wounds and that’s why gifts and talents often become the reason we’re of “my Lord.” Or they might say leave. it was never self-assertive but always compas- disliked and perhaps even hated. There’s a curious “for heaven’s sake” rather than “for Thirty one of the priests sionate. No one envied Nouwen’s brilliance; he dynamic here. We don’t automatically, nor easily, God’s sake.” Perhaps people have are international priests from other was too wounded to be envied. Instead, his bril- let the gifts of others grace us. More often, we’re gotten a little loose in their speech. countries. In the next two to three liance always touched us in a healing way. He was reluctant to admit their beauty and power and years, about 6 will be retiring. a wounded healer. we resist and envy those who possess them and Q. What are your favorite Catholic There are currently 18 sem- Those words, wounded and healer, or- sometimes even hate them for their gifts. That’s online resources? inary students. The 2018 diocesan dain each other. I’m convinced that God calls one of the reasons we find it hard to simply ad- directory listed 18 religious sisters each of us to a vocation and to a special work here mire someone. A. There are countless online in our diocese. Many of them are on earth more on the basis of our wounds than on But this reluctance in us doesn’t just say resources these days. Most Catholic retired. For more information, go the basis of our gifts. Our gifts are real and im- something about us. Often it says something too colleges and universities have web- to www.dmdiocese.org portant; but they only grace others when they are about the persons who possess those gifts. Talent sites with lots of information. shaped into a special kind of compassion by the is an ambiguous thing, it can be used to assert our- Many Catholic dioceses, Got a question for “Ask a Priest” uniqueness of our own wounds. Our unique, spe- selves, to separate ourselves from others, to stand parishes, and publications (includ- and its author, Father John Ludwig? cial wounds can help make each of us a unique, out and to stand above, rather than as a gift to help ing The Catholic Mirror) have web- Send it to communications@dmdio special healer. others. Our talents can be used simply to point to sites as well (dmdiocese.org). It de- cese.org. Our world is full of brilliant, talented, how bright, talented, good-looking, and success- pends on what you might be looking highly-successful, and beautiful people. Those ful we are. Then they simply become a strength gifts are real, come from God, and should never meant to dwarf others and set ourselves apart. be denigrated in God’s name. However, our gifts How can we make our talents a gift for don’t automatically help others; but they can if Letters to the Editor others? How can we be loved for our talents rath- they are colored by our wounds so that they flow er than hated for them? Here’s the difference: we out as compassion and not as pride. will be loved and admired for our gifts when our The Catholic Mirror accepts letters to the editor of 200 gifts are colored by our wounds so that others do Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser is a theologian, not see them as a threat or as something that sets words or less written by parishioners in the Diocese of teacher, and award-winning author. He can be us apart but rather as something that gifts them in contacted through his website ronrolheiser.com. Des Moines. Letters can be sent to their own shortcomings. When shared in a certain Now on Facebook facebook.com/ronrolheiser [email protected]. way, our gifts can become gifts for everyone else. Here’s how that algebra works: Our gifts 10 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020 Iowa bishops’ statement on virus vaccine There is encouraging used cell lines from the fetal tissue news about the development and of an aborted baby in the design, distribution of vaccines against the development and production of coronavirus. Thanks be to God. their vaccines. Some people have con- In response, the USCCB cerns about the safety of the vac- Committees on Pro-life and Doc- cine on account of the speed of its trine had this to say: development and of FDA approval. eople may in good con- In this regard, experts ex- science use the vaccines produced plain that the speed is a testimony by Pfizer and Moderna, which to scientific advances that turned made only limited use of those un- years into months without compro- ethical cell lines (for lab testing of mising safety and scientific integri- the vaccine). ty. Morally speaking, the Some people are con- vaccine offered by these two com- cerned, too, about the risk of side panies is relatively remote from the effects. There is no scientifically evil of abortion, and so need not proven link between vaccines and trouble anyone’s conscience to use other conditions, such as autism. either one. there is no alternative available, It is not uncommon to ex- In contrast, some other however, people may in good faith Pictured from left to right: Most Rev. Michael Jackels Archbishop of perience minor side effects from companies use a cell line from the use them against the serious health Dubuque; Most Rev. Thomas Zinkula Bishop of Davenport, Most Rev. being vaccinated. People may feel fetal tissue of an aborted baby in risk of COVID. William Joensen Bishop of Des Moines; Most Rev. R. Walker Nickless temporarily uncomfortable, but the the design, development, produc- The common good of Bishop of Sioux City. benefit from the vaccine exceeds tion, and lab testing of their COVID public health takes precedence over any burden. vaccines. any reservation about being treated Finally, there is troubling If possible, those vac- with vaccines; they will not be ef- news that some drug companies cines should not be used. If fective if people do not use them. Contributions to special funds ease the financial stress of 2020 Thanks to the generosity brothers or sisters is suffering,” said rector of Development. of people in southwest Iowa, the Maureen Kenney, diocesan Di- A COVID-19 special re- Diocese of Des Moines and Cath- rector of Stewardship. “The way lief fund raised $88,720 for those olic Charities raised more than in which our faith community has suffering from the virus. Contribu- $132,000 to put back into its com- responded to those in need is the tions to the fund continue to sup- munities to help those suffering evidence of Christ’s light shining port families and the most press- from the devastating derecho storm through the darkness.” ing needs in parishes and schools last summer and COVID-19. On Aug. 10, a straight- through the diocese. Catholic Char- “The Diocese of Des line windstorm swept through Iowa ities works through its contacts and Moines, in partnership with Cath- damaging property of thousands of Hispanic ministries to identify in- olic Charities, continues to offer a individuals and families. A special dividuals who are in need. To date, Catholic response to the crises that collection to raise funds for the ben- funds have been distributed in 19 of have faced Iowans in 2020. When efit of those who suffered severe the 23 counties that comprise the An Aug. 10 storm with hurricane-force winds caused much damage we act as one body in Christ, we rec- wind damage to crops, businesses Diocese of Des Moines. throughout Iowa. ognize that we all suffer when one and homes raised $43,819. “We are reaching into of our At one house in the dio- the counties that we service,” said cese, a tree fell on a home’s roof, Holly Ackermann, Community Re- the ceiling fell in the living room lations Manager at Catholic Char- and kitchen and siding broke off. ities. “We are helping people with Debris from the storm has been COVID throughout the diocese.” removed but many are facing high The need for relief in the deductibles and long wait lists with community remains and is antic- insurance companies to assess and ipated to rise, especially with an repair damages, heightening finan- increase in COVID-19 cases in the cial worries. state and greater hesitation to travel Catholic Charities is and patronize shops and restaurants working with a partner social ser- in person. From all of us here at Iowa Catholic Radio, vice agency, Iowa Community Ac- For more information tion, to identify those who needed on how to apply for relief, con- help and distribute $250 each. tact Ackermann at hackermann@ “I cannot believe how catholiccharitiesdm.org. Online generous people have been,” said giving is available at dmdiocese. Merry Christmas Deb Powers, Catholic Charities Di- org/giving. and Happy New Year!
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By Caroli Zimmermann When the pandemic first begin livestreaming Masses, so the Catholic News Service hit and dioceses around the country pastor bought a laptop, a micro- closed churches and bishops issued phone and a camera, and a parish- WASHINGTON (CNS) dispensations for the Sunday Mass ioner helped him set up the connec- -- As the coronavirus pandemic up- obligation, parishes -- with vary- tion to livestream daily Masses four ended normal activities and routines ing degrees of technical know-how days later. across the United States, Catholic -- set up parish YouTube channels By the next week he was parishes, schools and organizations for the first time or dusted off their broadcasting a noontime holy hour, had to quickly, and continuously, Facebook pages for online stream- praying the Angelus, the rosary, the find ways to adapt. ing. Divine Mercy chaplet and Benedic- For starters, this primarily Father Ken Gill, pastor of tion with viewers. involved technology: livestream- Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish in “We’re using this opportu- ing Masses and teaching and meet- Solomons, Maryland, met with his nity to foment and create a stronger ing on Zoom platforms, but it also parish staff after the Archdiocese of bond of community,” he said. prompted outdoor worship, drive- Washington announced there would This happened at many through confessions and, as the year be no public Masses as of March 14 parishes across the country and went on: a return to socially dis- and asked: “What can we do to stay continued once churches slowly re- tanced in-person Masses and class- connected?” opened because Mass congregation es at Catholic schools and colleges, They decided that with the sizes have been limited. with reduced crowd sizes. proper equipment, the parish could Mary DeTurris Poust, di- rector of communications for the Diocese of Albany, New York, said in late March their parishioners were “hungry for spiritual connection and for the grounding nourishment litur- gy can provide at this really critical and chaotic time.” Bishop William Joensen’s Good Friday service earlier this year was lives- Parish closures also meant treamed for the faithful who could not worship together due to the coro- functions such as religious educa- navirus. Antonio Banuelos-Moriel was with him wearing a mask. tion classes and meetings had to team members across the country an opportunity for the church to be- move to an online format, getting and in other parts of the world. gin a new effort of evangelization many people familiar with Zoom, But Zoom fatigue also and catechesis as the public celebra- an online platform they might not set in. Bishop Barry C. Knestout tion of Mass gradually expands and have heard of a year ago. of Richmond, Virginia, used the church leaders determine how best “The internet is the bless- platform a lot this past year with to encourage people to reengage in ing of all blessings” right now, meetings, conferences and diocesan parish life. Sister Susan Francois, an assistant functions including a diocesan eu- congregation leader for the Sisters charistic congress in early Novem- Contributing to this report was of St. Joseph of Peace, told Catholic ber. Mark Zimmermann in Washington, News Service. She has held Zoom Several bishops said a Sam Lucero in Green Bay and Den- Donna Schmidt, of Harlan, was among many who used their sewing talent video conference meetings with yearning for the Eucharist presents nis Sadowski in Cleveland. to make masks for their family, friends and communities. 12 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror December 18, 2020
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