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September 2019/elul-tishrei 5779-5780 a publication of United jewish federation Volume 21, Number 5 Unorthodox LIVE in Stamford Be Inspired by Ethan Zohn This year’s 35th Annual Hyacinthe and Harold E. UJF Kicks Off New Campaign for Hoffman Memorial Lec- ture doesn’t have a well- Communal Needs known speaker as in the By Nancy Schulman tional speaker who focuses past. Instead, the lecture United Jewish Federation on the same concepts as the series is bringing to Stam- invites the entire community new UJF campaign – help- ford something different to the launch of its new 2019 ing to build and strengthen – a live taping of the Jewish Campaign for Communal community. podcast “Unorthodox.” Needs on Sunday, Septem- UJF’s 2019 Campaign for The event will take place ber 8, at 6 pm, at Serafina at Communal Needs seeks to at Temple Beth El, 350 The Unorthodox gang (l-r): Mark Oppenheimer, Stephanie the Italian Center, 1620 New- address community needs Roxbury Rd., Stamford, on Butnick and Liel Leibovitz. (Photo courtesy of Tablet Magazine) field Ave., Stamford. There not currently being met in Thursday, September 19, at will be a dinner followed by the Greater Stamford area. 7:30 pm. Doors will open at 6:45 pm. Oppenheimer, Stephanie Butnick a program featuring Ethan Its plan is to enable new Unorthodox has been called a and Liel Leibovitz, co-authors of “The Zohn, a two-time cancer Ethan Zohn and innovative programs to “smart, fresh, fun,” weekly take on Jew- Newish Jewish Encyclopedia: From survivor, author, athlete, humanitar- be funded which will strengthen the ish news and culture. It is produced by Abraham to Zabar’s and Everything in ian and winner of the CBS program Jewish community. The fundraising is Tablet Magazine and is hosted by Mark See “LIVE” on page 20 “Survivor Africa.” Zohn is a motiva- See “Zohn” on page 2 New Initiatives at PJ Library Mussolini, Italian Fascism By Sharon Franklin United Jewish Federation’s PJ Library and the Jewish Question and PJ Our Way have new initiatives in the works to benefit babies, children, By Elissa Kaplan open to the community. Re- parents and grandparents. PJ Library The University of Con- freshments will be served, and PJ Our Way are UJF programs sup- necticut, Stamford, and the starting at 5:30 pm. The ported by the Harold Grinspoon Foun- Jewish Historical Society lecture had previously been dation, UJF and local philanthropists. of Fairfield County invite scheduled for February. The programs provide free, age-appro- the community to a joint- The lecture will discuss priate Jewish children’s picture books PJ Library founder Harold Grinspoon read ly sponsored lecture and the fates of Jews in Fascist or chapter books on a monthly basis to a PJ Library book to young children. (Photo presentation by Dr. Joel Italy. At first, Mussolini was families raising Jewish children from 6 courtesy of PJ Library) Blatt on Tuesday, Septem- not considered especial- months through 11 years old. ber 17, at the University ly antisemitic, but, from Starting immediately, UJF will now child in a family can now receive a free of Connecticut, Stamford Dr. Joel Blatt 1934 onward, the dictator offer one PJ Library book per month Jewish book geared for their own age Campus, 1 University Place, increasingly persecuted per child, rather than one book per group. Sign up at www.pjlibrary.org for Stamford. The co-sponsored lecture Jews, de-emancipating them. From household. This means that each See “PJ” on page 11 will begin at 6 pm, and is free and See “Italian” on page 22

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Anachnu: Schoke JFS Holocaust Survivor Care Program Young children joined local Holocaust survivors who were attending a musical performance by the children of Gan Yeladim Early Childhood Center at Chabad of Stamford. The program was one of the monthly events run for the benefit of survivors by Schoke Jewish Family Service through a grant funded by Jewish Federations of North America. (See article page 10.) 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 From UJF’s Chief Executive Officer A New Year - Exciting Times Ahead By Diane Sloyer in front of us. strengthen and grow our community. The campaign The summer has been anything but quiet The hard work that was accomplished focuses on you, the donor, and places you as the or slow here at United Jewish Federation. over the last year has resulted in the 2019 driver to determine where your money goes. You You know the saying, “If you want some- Campaign for Communal Needs. Great can simply choose to place your contribution where thing done, ask a busy person.” Well, that efforts were made to understand our it is needed most, continue to support the local and saying has never been truer than now for donors and the result is a new model of global work of Federation, or you can choose a pro- both the lay leaders and professional staff donor-directed giving. gram, or several programs, sourced by Federation of Federation. It is simple and based on the philos- and representing the community at large. It’s fully Joanna, Sharon and I have been busy with ophy of: transparent and donor driven and, with your support, two NextGen activities, several successful PJ It’s your community. will strengthen our community for years to come. Library programs, donor events, and build- It’s your money. Please be an innovator and join Federation in ing a new website and developing marketing Diane Sloyer, And it’s your choice. reimagining our community. materials to launch our 2019 Campaign for UJF CEO The programs and initiatives in the Wishing you and those you love a healthy and Communal Needs. And we are planning a fabulous campaign are new and innovative, and will help to Happy New Year. kick-off of the campaign on Sunday, September 8, with guest speaker Ethan Zohn. Volunteers have convened to develop UJF strategic UJF President’s Message plans, review grants of our local organizations, create new marketing programs and worked to review arti- cles provided to us for this newspaper, The New Jewish Questions Voice. The UJF board approved a new president-elect, By Ricky Arbron and answering questions that you may have David Gordon, and got together for a meaningful We Jews are often referred to as “The relating to this new model. and successful board retreat. People of the Book.” Beyond that, we realize By now, you all should have received by With the Jewish New Year upon us, Federation that asking questions often creates more mail the booklet of more than 20 programs can proudly say this was a year of growth, renewal questions as we dig deeper and deeper into of Federation and our agencies and schools. and rebirth. things. Asking questions is in our DNA. These programs, if funded, will strengthen There are few beginnings that are not truly diffi- Each year at the seder, the youngest child our Jewishness in whatever way we decide to cult. They demand of us a great deal of self-discipline asks the Four Questions, all of which are define that for ourselves. We quietly started and self-motivation, forcing us out of our regular rou- meant to encourage a dialogue about the the campaign this summer and will have tine. New beginnings require courage and fortitude. meaning and importance of Passover. We our big kick-off celebration of the 2019 UJF What we do this year – as with every year in love it when the youngest asks them. And Ricky Arbron, Campaign for Communal Needs on Sunday, the journey of the Jewish people – will determine we teach them to sing them, so it is easier to UJF president September 8. We hope you will join us. It our future. do. As a child, I can remember that if I was should not only be fun, but an interesting Each step we take does make a difference. The asked a question and answered it with a question, my evening to learn about the specific programs, see ingredients for a rich and vibrant community are father would tell me that I was thinking like a talmudic friends after the summer and be motivated to make scholar. At that time in my life, I had no idea what our community the best it can be. he was talking about. When we have questions, it is I urge you to ask us questions, and then as we CANDLE LIGHTING an acknowledgment that we don’t know something, answer those questions, make your decision to be but we want to. part of our campaign. We will all be stronger for this! Over the last year and a half, Federation has been TIMES asking many questions and has worked toward finding August 23...... 7:23 pm a new model to answer the needs of our 21st century Zohn Continued from page 1 August 30...... 7:12 pm community and donors. We have redefined, but at donor-driven, so donors can decide from a menu of September 6...... 7:01 pm the same time strengthened, our commitment to im- choices which programs they would like to support. proving our Jewish community here and throughout September 13...... 6:49 pm Many of the community partners whose projects and the world. The new model, developed by a committee programs are on the new menu will be at the event September 20...... 6:37 pm of community members at large and members of our to showcase their plans and answer questions. September 27...... 6:25 pm Federation board, allows each of us the individuality Diane Sloyer, CEO of UJF, explains the similar- September 29...... 6:22 pm to donate to the projects that resonate most with our ity of messages: “Ethan Zohn is an inspirational personal preferences. And it also allows donors to September 30...... after 7:19 pm speaker because he understands the importance utilize the traditional way, allowing for Federation to of giving back to your community and making October 4...... 6:14 pm put communal resources to where they are needed the world a better place. His message is appro- October 8...... 6:07 pm most. As we moved along in the process, questions priate for Federation’s campaign launch as we October 11...... 6:02 pm were asked and answered, and new ones have ap- roll out our new fundraising model: one that is peared. The committee is determined to keep asking donor-directed and transparent, and allows for UJF to serve as a catalyst to strengthen and grow our Jewish community.” Zohn, an advocate for Israel, rose to interna- tional fame when he won the hit reality TV series “Survivor Africa,” a victory he attributes in large part to his strong Jewish values. Having beaten cancer twice, Zohn now serves as the spokesper- son for Stand Up 2 Cancer, the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society and LIVESTRONG, among others. Prior to his television career, he played professional soccer for the Hawaii Tsunami, Cape Cod Crusaders and Zimbabwe Highlanders F.C., and co-founded Grassroot Soccer, a nonprofit that uses the power of soccer to combat HIV/ AIDS and improve the health of adolescents in developing countries. Zohn has also written a series of children’s books about exploring world cultures through soccer. According to Aviva Maller, a member of the event team, “UJF’s campaign launch celebra- tion is a great opportunity to hear a motivating speaker, enjoy dinner with friends and learn about the programs and projects that you can directly support through the new campaign. This campaign is exciting because it is your gift and your choice.” Tickets to the event are available at www.ujf. org/Zohn: $125 price per person through August 30 and $136 price per person after August 30; $75 price per person for NextGen (40 years and under) through August 30 and $85 price per person for NextGen after August 30. For event sponsorship and additional information, contact Diane Sloyer at 203-321-1373, ext. 105.

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Inspired by her parents and experience, Michal converted to Judaism, learned48 and Crescent lived in Street Israel, and now [email protected] her father’s work.m Stamford, CT 06905 www.crescentcleaners.com Beyond Burial and Shiva Deadlines for Psychological Effects of Losing a Loved One The Stamford Chevra Kadisha will spon- Chavurat Aytz Chayim, Schoke Jewish articles sor a program open to the entire community, Family Service of Stamford, the Stamford HappyThe deadlines for the next three issues of The “Beyond Burial and Shiva: the Psychological Jewish Community Center and United New Jewish Voice are: Effects of Losing a Loved One.” It will be Jewish Federation. Thursday, Chanukah! August 29...... October held on Sunday evening, September 15, “I’m extremely proud that all of the Monday,Dry September Cleaning, 23 Laundry,...... 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[email protected] an acknowledgem- issues that he will address in his talk are the a universal one that should appeal to all Stamford,ment; please CT 0690 re-send5 ifwww.crescentcleaners.co you do not receive one.m Dr. David Pelcovitz psychological benefits of the mourning pro- members of the Jewish community, regard- cess; sibling relationships before and after a less of their affiliation or denomination,” parent’s death; getting back to day-to-day activities after said Michael Feldstein, who is chairing the event. the shiva; healing the pain of a loss with time; learning The primary function of the Stamford Chevra lessons from biblical characters about losing a loved Kadisha is the preparation and burial of the deceased Happy one; caring for a parent after the loss of another parent; in accordance with halachah (Jewish law). It serves and making yahrzeit observances more meaningful. the entire Jewish community. New Year! Pelcovitz holds the Gwendolyn and Joseph Straus This program is free and open to the entire com- Dry Cleaning, Laundry, Flat work Chair in Psychology and Jewish Education at the munity. Light refreshments will be served. Pick up / Delivery Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Education and All Work Done On Premises Administration at Yeshiva University. In addition, Stamford Hadassah Opening Frank Policastro/Owner (203) 323-0507 Pelcovitz is an instructor in pastoral counseling at the 48 Crescent Street [email protected] Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary. Serving Meeting Stamford, CT 06905 www.crescentcleaners.com for more than two decades as director of psychology The Stamford Chapter of Hadassah invites the at North Shore University Hospital-NYU School of community to its first meeting of the year on Thurs- Medicine and clinical professor of psychology at NYU day, September 12, at 7 pm, at the Stamford Jewish Congregation School of Medicine, Pelcovitz has consulted with the Community Center. Stamford Hadassah will install Jewish community in the United States, Europe and its 2019 Executive Board with Roz Mangot as the MishkanHappy Israel of Easton Israel on a wide range of psychological issues facing new chapter president, celebrate its achievements The First & Only Synagogue children and adolescents. Pelcovitz, who received his and honor its members. 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PJ Our Way children (ages 8½ -11) made tissue paper flowers to celebrate Shavuot at the Ice Cream Social.

At right: Lauren Zalis and her children enjoyed a picnic and story time at the Sunday in the Park PJ Library Program. (Children’s names held on request.)

The Keep America Beautiful educators teamed up with the PJ kids to clean up Scalzi Park. SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 5 Masa Israel Journey: Impacting the Next Generation In late July, the United Jewish Fed- the Jewish Agency for Israel, and global eration hosted a meeting for donors Jewry including Federations, more than at the home of Barbara and Harry 120,000 young people from more than Webski. The guest speaker was Michael 60 countries have participated in Masa Moriarty, a recent graduate of the Kol Israel Journey programs. Ami Masa gap year program in Israel. Moriarty attended Solomon Schech- Masa Israel Journey is a program ter Manhattan and then the Abraham of the Jewish Agency for Israel that Joshua Heschel School through eighth has been called a leader in immersive grade before going to a public high international experiences in Israel for school. He noted that being Jewish in young adults ages 18-30. The portfolio a secular setting made him appreciate of study abroad, internship, service how his Jewish identity set him apart. learning, or Jewish studies programs After finishing high school, Mori- seeks to foster people’s growth as a arty opted to participate in one of person, a professional and a leader. the Jewish Agency’s Masa programs, Since its founding in 2004 by the Kol Ami, a “gap year” and pre-army Prime Minister’s Office, together with See “Masa” on page 17

Philip Klapper, Elissa Klapper, Dinah Miller-Marlowe and Seth Marlowe joined more than 30 other major donors at a thank-you appreciation event.

Attendees listened to Michael Moriarity (not pictured), a recent graduate of the Kol Ami Masa gap year program in Israel.

Event attendees enjoyed the ocean view and sunset at a recent Federation donor event.

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 bits and pieces By Sandy Golove Emily and Jared Mudge on the birth Ellen and Richard Weber on the Nathaniel Harrison, son of Mary and To submit infor- of a son, Jackson Leo Mudge; grand- marriage of their son, Michael Weber, David Harrison. mation to Bits and parents are Linda and Larry Rezak. to Jacklyn Mahgerefteh. Yael Hochman, daughter of Sarah Pieces, call 203-912- Mielcah and Joshua Munk on the Shelly Welfeld on the engagement and David Hochman. 9945, or e-mail me at birth of a son, Ben Louis Munk; grand- of her daughter, Kayla Sodaro, to Ezra Yehuda Gamzeh, son of Katie [email protected]. parents are Leah and Peter Munk. Weiser. Schaffer Gamzeh and Dovid Gamzeh; WELCOME TO Tina and Yossi Notik on the birth Nurit and Mark Wexler on the en- grandparents are Toby Schaffer and GROWING FAMILIES: of a son, Jacob Simon Notik; grand- gagement of their son, Michael Wexler, Hyman Schaffer. Adina and Steven parents are Judy and Nick Contente, to Rebecca Gourevitch, daughter of Michael Luther, son of Dana and Adelman on the birth of a son; grand- Leah and Mendel Notik, and Leah and Sabrina Sherry and Marc Gourevitch; Robert Luther; grandparents are Fran- mother is Sherry Hertzberg. David Yaniv. grandparents are Debbie and Ben cine and Robert Plansky. Rebecca and Shai Akabas on the Shira and Rafi Pellon the birth of Soifer. Sydney Marks, daughter of Naomi birth of a son, Ezra Levi Akabas; a daughter, Isabella Noa Pell; grand- MAZEL TOV TO: and Jonathan Marks. great-grandparents are Eleanor and parents are Miriam and Gideon Pell. Stephne Behrend on becoming Lilah Scherer, daughter of Margot Mort Lowenthal. Emily Pomerantz and Sean Altman president of the Westchester/Fairfield and Daniel Scherer. Emmy and Rabbi Kivi Attar on the on the birth of a daughter, Mikayla Jane Region of AJC. Michael Mann Segal, grandson of birth of a daughter; grandparents are Altman; grandparents are Honnie and Sandy Goldstein on her retirement Ruth and Mel Aminoff. Rochel and Hecky Attar; great-grand- Sylvan Pomerantz. as president of the Stamford Downtown Avi Shapiro, son of Jodi and Oren mother is Yospa Lieberman. Yana and David Ratner on the birth Special Services District. Shapiro; grandparents are Phyllis and Aliza and Seth Bettan on the birth of a son, Michael Idan Ratner; grand- Biana Lanson on being named the Martin Shapiro. of a daughter. parents are Lori and Stuart Ratner. Curtain Call Dancing with the Stars Hadas Sylvia Shapiro, daughter of Tirza and David Boxer on the birth Sharon and Jason Rosenthal on the People’s Choice Winner. Sharon and Rony Shapiro; grandpar- of a son. birth of a daughter, Gemma Annalise Zach Mainzer, who tied for first place ents are Phyllis and Martin Shapiro. Phyllis Brodsky on the birth of two Rosenthal; grandparents are Sherri and in the Bronka Weintraub High School Madeline Winarsky, daughter of great-grandchildren. Allen Rosenthal. Bekiut Program. Robyn and Mark Winarsky. Melissa Bromley and Michael Mc- Mary and Matthew Slen on the birth Hannah Nekritz, daughter of Stayce WE MOURN THE LOSS OF: Donough on the birth of a son, Elijah of a son, Asher Everett Slen; grandpar- and Stuart Nekritz, on her appearance Liebe Apfel: sister of Ray Bloch. Michael McDonough; grandparents ents are Lisa and Aby Slen. on “Jeopardy! Teen Tournament.” Isaac Baranker: father of Helen are Ellen Bromley and Tom Gizicki. Donna and Glenn Stark on the birth Honni and Sylvan Pomerantz on Felder. Elaine and Ari Disraelly on the birth of a daughter, Brielle Sophia Stark. being honored by Temple Beth El. Selma Bubel: mother of Henry of a daughter, Katarina Isabelle Dis- Laura Stein and Mike Farias on the Rabbi Tzachi Posner, a Judaic studies Bubel. raelly; grandfather is Hillel Disraelly. birth of a son, Damon Joseph Farias; teacher at BCHA, received a Certificate Fran Chargar: mother of Alyssa Danielle and Steven Ehrenfeld on grandparents are Beverly and David in Jewish Educational Leadership from Chargar and Jessica Sosnovich. the birth of a daughter, Eleanor Jean Stein. Hebrew University as part of the Legacy Martin Ebbin: husband of Sheila Ehrenfeld; grandmother is Lee Neufeld. Shushannah and Ari Yasgur on the Heritage Teachers Institute. Ebbin, and father of Daniel Ebbin, Ruchail and David Feldman on the birth of a son; grandparents are Estelle Carl Shapiro on his retirement. Rabbi Ira Ebbin, Steve Ebbin and birth of a daughter; grandparents are and Michael Walshe and Barbara and MAZEL TOV TO OUR GRADUATES: Elana Fertig. Tikva and Charles Feldman and Shayna Rabbi Benjamin Yasgur. Note: This list includes graduates whose Anita Epstein: sister of Harvey and Craig Prupis. MAZEL TOV on Weddings/ information was not provided for inclusion Kaminski. Kendall and Ben Gilbert on the Engagements: in the June-July-August issue of the paper. Barbara Field: wife of Joseph Field, birth of a son, Lincoln Fox Gilbert; Andrea and Eric Bass on the mar- MIDDLE SCHOOL and mother of Alix Field Eben and grandparents are Liz and Bill Gilbert. riage of their son, Alex Bass, to Kristin Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy: Nora Matt Field. Paula and David Giver on the birth of Epsky. Amsellem, Celia Baer, Eli Ben-David, Tamar Gershberg: mother of Ben a daughter; grandparents are Sheri and Randie and Arkie Engle on the Coby Chavkin, Benjamin Cohen, Jenna Gershberg, Michelle Gershberg and David Giver, Bridget and Pat Connor, engagement of their daughter, Aliza Cohen, Adi Farber, Shira Gabay, Daniel Oren Gershberg. and Gail and Michael Snyder. Engle, to Mendy Denebeim, son of Goldberg, Rebecka Grunberg, Naomi David Gofstein: son of Phyllis Aliza Gordon and Benjamin Schuster Sussie and Rabbi Yonason Denebeim. Hanna, Noa Haron, Jonah Hoff, Elia Gofstein. on the birth of a daughter, Shira Melody Randie and Arkie Engle on the Hoffman, Zachary Isaacs, Andrew Donald Halprin: husband of Shirley Schuster; grandparents are Meryl and engagement of their daughter, Noa Jaffe-Berkowitz, Sarah Kaplan, David Halprin and father of Leslie Heyison. David Gordon; great-grandmother is Engle, to Zevi Blokh, son of Shulamis Klein, Isabella Hufr, Jacob Kunin, Lee M. Hirsch: father of William A. Regina Greenwald. and Rabbi Eli Blokh. Evan LaForte, Joreh Mehl, Taylor Hirsch and Valerie J. McAleer. Jamie and Jeff Jablons on the birth Loralee and Philip Granowitz on the Newman-White, Nicole Peru Tamar Roslyn Jablon: mother of Karen of a daughter, Avery Ruth Jablons. marriage of their son, Andy Granowitz, Rosenfeld, Jerrilyn Sibboni, Nicole Jablon, Michael Jablon and Barbara Naama and Zach Kfare on the birth to Eliza Scheffler. Tehrani, Abigail Thau, Gil Vadel, Sa- Reese. of a son; grandparents are Sherry and Denise and David Greenman on the mantha Weiss, Avi Wiederhorn, Allison Leslie Jeney: grandfather of Kath- Bennet Kfare. marriage of their daughter, Jennifer Yakubovich, and Amy Yellen. erine Magyarody. Alexandra and Tony Longhini on Greenman, to Matt Sakofs. 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tabouligrill.com judysbarandkitchen.com “ ” "...the best Israeli food outside of Israel." pure Americana! SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 Hadassah Connecticut Reading Partners Honored with Research Celebrates 20 Years of Award Volunteering By Jodi Maxner depression, alcoholism On June 3, Unit- author and illustra- Stamford, Fairfield, and struggles following ed Jewish Federation tor, and Stamford na- Norwalk and Westport her son’s suicide. Mental brought together al- tive, was the keynote Chapters of Hadassah health fact: By addressing most 80 volunteers at speaker and discussed received a Research Event risk factors such as trauma, a breakfast to celebrate the process involved 2019 Unit Award at the it is possible to prevent the 20th anniversary of in creating the many 99th National Hadassah certain mental health UJF’s Herbert and Sar- books she has written. Convention in July for their disorders, especially in ah M. Gibor Reading Volunteers and sup- Green Dress Fundraiser for children and adolescents. Partners Program. The porters of the program Mental Health Awareness, Funds raised will support program was founded were acknowledged for which was held in May. Judy Collins spoke at the work of pediatric psy- by Elaine Erichson, Su- Elaine Erichson, one of three original years of service and This award acknowledged Hadassah’s Green Dress chiatrists at the Herman san Krieger and Audrey founders of Reading Partners. dedication to Reading excellence in promoting Fundraiser for Mental Dana Division of Child and Frankenberg. Break- Partners success. Rec- mental health awareness. Health Awareness in May. Adolescent Psychiatry at fast attendees included current and ognition pins were presented to five-, The keynote speaker at Hadassah Hospital. Their past volunteers and Reading Specialist 10- and 15-year volunteers. the Green Dress Fundraiser was singer research on children who have exhib- Liaisons from the Stamford Public ‹‹ Five years plus: Leah Baker, Gerry and activist Judy Collins, who shared ited symptoms of PTSD has potential Schools and after-school programs. Di- Boyle, Lynn Canning, Joyce Chavkin, her life experiences in dealing with applications worldwide. ane Sloyer, UJF CEO, and Reading Part- Libby Fatum, Claudine Feurstein, ners Director Lenore Fogel, greeted the Marlene Gatz, Pam Hirschfeld, Cyn- group and were followed by Reading thia Hoffman, Ira Kaplan, Susan Local Delegates Attend Partners founder Elaine Erichson, who Kolbrenner, Mary Maher, Toby Miller, relayed the history of the program and Barbara Mitchell, Meg Mooar, Marge th her personal involvement. Pavlov, Anne Rosivach, Penny Wolff, Hadassah’s 99 Convention Deborah Freedman, children’s See “Reading” on page 14

At right, l-r: Delegates Sandy Speter, Stamford Hadassah’s fundraising vice president, and Connie Cirillo Freeman, co-team leader of advocacy on the National Assembly, at Hadassah’s 99th Convention in New York City in July. The delegates, who represented the 300,000 members and associates of the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, adopted policy statements on de-politicizing antisemitism, reaffirming support for reproductive rights, and expanding access to infertility diagnosis and treatment. Volunteers enjoyed breakfast at the end of year celebration. Local Jewish War Veterans Posts Merge The Malcolm A. Tarlov, Post 141, contributed to the Stamford commu- based in Norwalk, is merging with Fred nity and a scholarship award program Robbins Post 142, Jewish War Veterans, to recognize outstanding graduating in Stamford. Members are citizens of Stamford high school seniors. the United States of America, of the The Fred Robbins Post 142 meets Jewish faith, who have served in the monthly from September through wars of the United States of America. June at the Stamford Jewish Com- The local Stamford Post has ded- munity Center, 1035 Newfield Ave., icated itself to the betterment of the Stamford. All veterans are invited to Stamford community. To this end, join the meeting and learn what Jewish in 1945, in conjunction with the city War Veterans is about. Meetings are of Stamford, the Post established the planned for September 8; October 6; annual Stamford Citizen of the Year November 3; December 8; January 12, award, honoring local citizens who 2020; February 2, 2020; March 8, 2020; have devoted their time and effort to April 5, 2020; May 3, 2020; and June 7, the betterment of the Stamford com- 2020. For more information, contact munity. The program has expanded to [email protected] or https:// include honoring veterans who have www.facebook.com/jwv142/.

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 new around town Lisa Corner, Carmel Academy Director of Educational Judith Kuper Jaffe, Temple Sinai Director of Lifelong Resources, PALS Learning Carmel Academy welcomed Lisa Corner in July as the Temple Sinai of Stamford welcomes a new director of new director of educational resources and PALS (Carmel’s lifelong learning, Judith Kuper Jaffe. Prior to her appoint- program for twice-exceptional* students who, with appro- ment to Temple Sinai, Jaffe worked in Jewish education for priate support, can be successful and achieve grade level many years, serving as an education director and director standards and beyond). of congregational learning for three synagogues. Raised in Corner is an educator with experience using many Manhattan, she attended The Ramaz School and Syracuse social, emotional and behavioral curricular approaches. University, earning a double degree in mass communica- She began her career teaching adolescents, subsequently tions from the S.I. Newhouse School and in history from segueing into early childhood education when she joined the Maxwell School. After many years of teaching religious the team of the Therapeutic Nursery at the Tenafly JCC. school, serving as a family educator and youth adviser, Jaffe There she led the program that included speech/language returned to school and earned her M.A.T. in Jewish studies therapy, occupational therapy and focus on social-emotional Lisa Corner at Fairleigh Dickinson in July 2007, and was among the Judith Kuper Jaffe learning, while running multiple social skills groups for very first to be granted the Conservative Jewish Educator children of all ages. Corner has also collaborated with Dr. Michelle Dunn in her certification. As a member of the first cohort of HUC-JIR-JTS Leadership Insti- research and authorship of the Social Skills in Our Schools curriculum, which tute Synagogue Congregational Educators, she took her formal education up Carmel Academy began using in 2018. She is one of the authors on the newest another notch. She also earned a certificate from the Center for Israel Educa- SOS book being published this fall. tion. Through her experience and passion, she will create, develop and execute “Lisa’s experience, educational philosophy and insight into student’s learn- programming that will have the potential to strengthen Jewish continuity among ing styles are completely aligned with Carmel Academy, and she’s an exciting the Temple Sinai students. addition,” said Nora Anderson, Carmel head of school. “The Carmel PALS students and approach are incredible, and I am thrilled Miriam Sperber, BCHA Director of Admissions to lead this critical and unique program forward!” observed Corner. Miriam Sperber has been appointed director of admis- *The term “twice-exceptional,” also referred to as “2e,” is used to describe gifted children sions of Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy in Stamford. “We’re who also give evidence of one or more disabilities. pleased to welcome Miriam to our Bi-Cultural family,” noted Head of School Jacqueline Herman in announcing Sperber’s Dr. Jonathan Garfinkle, Schoke JFS Managing Director appointment. “Her warmth and dynamism and her com- Dr. Jonathan Garfinkle joins Schoke Jewish Family Ser- mitment to the growth of the Stamford Jewish community vice as the managing director of Upper Fairfield County. make her the perfect person to introduce young families He will be located at the Bridgeport office and will reach to all Bi-Cultural has to offer.” out to the Jewish communities in the 13 towns in order A native of Montreal, Sperber received a B.A. from to bring Schoke JFS programs and services to the Upper Yeshiva University’s Stern College in Fashion Design in a Fairfield County area. joint program with the Fashion Institute of Technology. Garfinkle, a clinical psychologist, earned a Ph.D in psy- Prior to joining Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy, she provided Miriam Sperber chology from Yale University and has served for more than freelance interior and website design services, as well as 20 years in various Jewish Family Service organizations. Most creative marketing services, for several Connecticut businesses. recently, he served as executive vice president and COO at Since moving to Stamford seven years ago, Sperber and her husband, David Jewish Community Services of South Florida, and prior to – the parents of two young children – are said to have become integral parts of that he was executive director of Jewish Family Service of Dr. Jonathan the Jewish community. Greater New Haven. Garfinkle “Since we moved to the community we have been welcomed with such “In my new role at Schoke Jewish Family Service, I am warmth. Stamford has become the place that we call home,” says Sperber. excited to take on the responsibilities and opportunities to expand the agency’s “That’s why I am thrilled to join the Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy family services in the Upper Fairfield County area,” remarked Garfinkle. Garfinkle can and excited to help grow the school and give back to the community that be reached at 203-659-3601 or via e-mail at [email protected]. has given so much to me.” Rabbi Rachmiel Gurwitz, Carmel Academy Rabbi-in- Chabad of Stamford Welcomes the Warmflashes Residence Chabad of Stamford announced that Rabbi Rachmiel Gurwitz joined Carmel Academy as Rabbi Binyomin Warmflash has moved the school’s rabbi-in-residence in August. He received back to Stamford, along with his wife, his smicha from Yeshivat Chovevei Torah in Riverdale, Fraida, and their daughter Esther Chana. and brings broad experience, having served as Jewish Rabbi Warmflash and his wife will chaplain and Hillel director at Muhlenberg College Hil- explore the establishment of Chabad lel in Allentown, PA; unit leader at Eden Village Camp; Young Professionals in Stamford. YP is educator and trip leader with Jacobs International Teen a new focus area for Chabad and is com- Leadership Institute; and teacher with Ansche Chesed prised of young Jews who have already Hebrew School and JCC Meyerhoff Early Childhood completed college and have not yet Education Center. started families. YP and the Warmflashs Rabbi Gurwitz says he is passionate about making Judaism, will seek to help these Jews find their sacred texts and Jewish practice accessible to students of Rabbi Rachmiel place in Jewish life. all backgrounds. He will oversee t’fillah (prayer) and focus Binyomin grew up in Stamford and Gurwitz Dr. Harold Orlow will be turning over the reigns of his practice to on enriching the Carmel community’s Jewish learning and attended Gan Yeladim and Bi-Cultural Dr. Rachel A. Messinger who has over 20 years experience specializing in living through new experiential programming and teaching. Day School (now known as Bi-Cultural both Cosmetic and General Dentistry. L-r:Dr. MessingFraida (holdinger is proud baby to Esther) continue and Rabbi “One thing that truly impressed me during my visit to Carmel Academy Hebrew Academy). Fraida is a native Binyomin Warmflash was when I asked a group of parents why they chose Carmel Academy. Every of Montrealto provide out andstanding has been patient involved care for inall of the existing patients and new patients parent had their own unique answer. It showed me that Carmel Academy is Jewishwho education will be joining and ouroutreach dental f amilyin Canada. All of Dr and.Orlow’ thes Unitedstaff will States,be staying as in well as a place where each student, each family is nurtured according to what they aroundt hethe prac world.tice, pr Bothoviding are the said bes tto dent haveal ser a vicespassion alongside and creativityDr. Messing forer. Jewish need to grow and develop their own authentic Jewish identity. I am so excit- awareness. www.stamfordcosmeticdentistct.com ed to join a community… where students of many religious observances and “Both Binyomin and Fraida are known for their warmth and inclusiveness backgrounds can come together to enrich each other’s Jewish experience,” and their drive to share the joy and light of Judaism with Jews of all ages said Rabbi Gurwitz. and stages,” said Rabbi Moshe Shemtov. “Chabad of Stamford is excited to welcome them and looks forward to having their energy enhance the community.”

Wishing everyone a Happy & Sweet New Year!

Dr. Harold Orlow will be turning over the reigns of his practice to Dr. Rachel A. Messinger who has over 20 years experience specializing in both Cosmetic and General Dentistry. Dr. Messinger is proud to continue to provide outstanding patient care for all of the existing patients and new patients who will be joining our dental family. All of Dr.Orlow’s staff will be staying in the practice, providing the best dental services alongside Dr. Messinger.

www.stamfordcosmeticdentistct.com SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 The Power of Women Together Close to 200 women came together for United and Christine Bloom and Sarah Shaw of Hedge Jewish Federation’s Women’s Philanthropy An- Landscape and Floral Design. nual Spring Dinner. The co-chairs were Cheryl “The Spring Dinner is always a highlight for Wom- Bader-Goldblum and Allison Greenbaum, and en’s Philanthropy. It’s nice to see old friends and the auction was chaired by Elissa Klapper, Dinah meet new people. Siggy Flicker, our guest speaker, was Miller-Marlowe and Claudia Rimerman. Flowers colorful and entertaining, and has a passion for Israel and arrangements were donated by Oren Shapiro that left many charged to make a difference,” shared of Mrs. Blooms, Brenda Lamanna of Damselfly, Tara Shapiro, Women’s Philanthropy president.

Auction Co-chairs Claudia Rimerman and Elissa Klapper posed with their mother Norma Kraut (center).

L-r: Allison Ostroff and Robin Fischel caught up at the L-r: Judy Raymond, Devra Jaffe Berkowitz, Anat Chavkin Spring Dinner. and Sherry Steiner.

L-r: Audrey, Rachel and Sandy represented three generations of Waldstreichers attending the event.

Above: Rachel Licht won a basket during the tricky tray auction drawing.

At right, l-r: Co-chairs of the UJF Women’s Spring Dinner for 2019 were Cheryl Bader L-r: Nancy Mimoun (UJF Campaign co-chair), Carol Brewer, Siggy Flicker (guest speaker), Goldblum and Allison Tara Shapiro (Women’s Philanthropy president), Nancy Schulman and Robin Fischel. Greenbaum.

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 JHSFC Remembers Founder Irwin J. Miller, z”l By Elissa Kaplan Miller discovered letters dated in 1721 to cover all of Fairfield County with more The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County showing that the first Jewish resident of than 300 members. remembers Irwin J. Miller, who died on July 6 in Stamford was Nehemiah Marks, contra- Under the leadership of Miller and his Norwalk, CT. He was born on February 19, 1926, dicting an entry in Encyclopedia Judaica. wife, Vivian, the JHSFC Archives, the only in Brooklyn, NY, to Bertha Pincas Miller and Philip In 2002, Miller and his colleague, Linda Jewish archives in Fairfield County, have Miller. Irwin and his wife of 71 years, Vivian Berger Baulsir, researched and published a photo- grown to include records and artifacts Miller, moved to Stamford in 1960, where they raised graphic history, “The Jewish Communities from communities throughout Fairfield their family. of Greater Stamford,” which details the County and beyond. JHSFC has honored Miller graduated from Erasmus High School in origins of Jews in Stamford, New Canaan, their efforts to leave a legacy, which enables Brooklyn in 1943. In 1944, he was drafted into the Darien, Greenwich and Pound Ridge, NY. future generations to study and take pride Navy. He was stationed in the Pacific, where he was a Miller was a founding member and first in the story of these Jewish communities, signalman on the USS Kershaw, and was discharged in president of The Stamford Jewish Historical Irwin Miller, z”l by naming the archives the “JHSFC Vivian May 1946. He was an owner of Gilbert E. Miller Asso- Society. In 1982, Miller and a small group of Stamford and Irwin Miller Archives.” ciates, a manufacturer’s sales rep of audio equipment. residents, decided that Stamford needed a Jewish According to Lester Sharlach, the second president Miller was said to be a historian at heart. The family Historical Society in addition to a Stamford Historical of JHSFC, “Irwin Miller was the cornerstone of our so- tells a story about his father taking him to Gettysburg Society. In 1984, JHS was officially incorporated by the ciety. His encyclopedic knowledge, his unquenchable when he was in elementary school. Looking over the state of Connecticut to “collect, preserve, research, thirst for discovering more and more about Jewish place, his comment to his father was, “Where is the record, exhibit, and publish the story of the settlement history, and his sense of humor guided us for over Jewish history here?” According to JHSFC Immediate of the Jews in the Stamford area from Colonial days 30 years. We will really miss this kind and nurturing Past President Eva Weller, “Irwin became aware that through the 20th century.” Throughout his lifetime, man.” According to his family, “Irwin Miller’s pas- Jewish history was not ‘included’ in the history books, Miller served as the historian of the Society. Now sions were American Jewish history, genealogy and and that led him to a lifetime of research and discovery.” in the 21st century, his small band of 11 has grown the Brooklyn Dodgers.” Jewish Senior Services: A Great Place to Work® By Linda Ciszkowski given us a reputation of excellence.” child development center and fitness center. To find Great Place to Work Institute has honored Jewish “We applaud Jewish Senior Services for seeking out more about the many services of Jewish Senior Senior Services with certification as a Great Place to certification and releasing its employees’ feedback,” Services, call 203-365-6400 or visit www.jseniors.org. Work. 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The grant held at Chabad of Stamford, and a picnic lunch with L’Shanah Tovah Tikatevu! provides funding for socialization events with the musical entertainment was held at Cove Island Park. aim to reduce social isolation and increase feelings Each event brought out more than 60 seniors who of well-being and community connection for Holo- identify as Holocaust survivors and provided them caust survivors. with a day of connection and celebration. If you know Happy New Year from Many local synagogues have opened their doors of a Holocaust survivor who might benefit from this to Schoke JFS. A Yom Hashoah event for Jews from programming, or if you are interested in helping with Elayne Jassey, REALTOR® the Former Soviet Union was held at Congregation events, contact Marina Sapir at [email protected]. #20 Agent in the Country Agudath Sholom. 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At right: Congratulations to Michael Stone, Schoke JFS board member (not pictured), and Lynn Saltz, marketing and communications coordinator (second from right), for their recognition as Connecticut Council of Family ~ Your most affordable choice ~ Service Agencies 2019 Family Champions. O The award recognizes board and staff members Thomas is the son of the former owner of who have gone above and beyond the call of Leo P. Gallagher Funeral Home duty to strengthen and support families in Connecticut. L-r: Beverly Stein, president of 453 S S C 06902 the board of Schoke JFS; Jonathan Fass, COO; 2033599999 C 2039125454 855 817 0097 Lynn Saltz; and Sally Larson Kleinman, W Schoke JFS board member. *Not affiliated with Leo P. Gallagher and Son* SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11 UConn Stamford Fall 2019 Judaic Studies Events During the fall 2019 semester at der will lecture on the afterlife of the JHSFC; both will be held in the MPR On Thursday, November 21, at 12:30 UConn, the Stamford Campus Center ancient Jewish writer Josephus in later (see article on page 1). pm in the MPR, Dr. Sondra Meltzer for Judaic Studies and Contemporary medieval culture. In November, the Center will hold will continue this theme by speaking Jewish Life will run a number of pro- On Tuesday, September 17, the several events. On Tuesday, November on the late Jewish American novelist grams free of charge and open to all, Center will host the Jewish Historical 5, at 5:30 pm, in the A1-Main Audito- Philip Roth. no pre-registration required. Society of Fairfield County for a lecture rium, Blatt and Dr. Frederick Roden, Roden will teach a new course, Two events will be held in Septem- by Dr. Joel Blatt on Jewish resistance coordinator of the Stamford Center, offered weekly on Tuesdays from ber. On Monday, September 9, at 5 to fascism in Mussolini’s Italy. The will interview Roland Tec, filmmaker 5:30-8 pm with a start date of August pm, in the Multi-Purpose Room (or talk will begin at 6 pm, preceded by a and son of Holocaust survivor and 27, concerning “Global Jewish Litera- MPR), art historian Dr. Steven Wan- 5:30 pm reception sponsored by the scholar Dr. Nechama Tec, professor ture: Exile and Home.” The class will emerita at UConn. consider authors from Latin America, Two programs will be held on Tues- India, South Africa, the Middle East JHSFC Connecticut National day, November 12. At 12:30 pm in the and elsewhere. To learn more, contact MPR, Dr. Cathy Buerger will talk on Roden at [email protected] “Fear and loathing in our discourse: or 203-251-8559. For information on History Day Prize Dangerous speech, division, and what auditing the course, e-mail or phone to do about it.” At 7 pm in the MPR, Maxine Tobias, registrar, at maxine. Grace Englehart’s historical paper, Dr. Nehama Aschkenasy, professor [email protected] or 203-251-8532. “Misinformation, Public Opinion and emerita and founder of the former Parking for events is available in the the Lynching of Leo Frank,” has earned Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern Target or Summer Street garages. For her the 2019 Jewish Historical Society of Studies, will lecture on the legacies of any questions about fall programming Fairfield County’s Special National His- the recently deceased Israeli writers or to receive e-mail updates with full tory Day State Prize for the outstanding Aharon Appelfeld and Amos Oz. details, reach out to Roden. entry that incorporates Jewish history, heritage and/or a Jewish personality. A senior at the Greater Hartford Academy of the Arts High School, Englehart first LGBTQ+ Acceptance, became interested in the story of Leo Frank after seeing the prize winning musical “Parade,” which chronicles Advocacy, Awareness his trial and death. Her investigation resulted in an essay about the case she believes is often forgotten in the con- text of American Jewish history, yet is particularly relevant in contemporary society. Grace Englehart

PJ Continued from page 1 children 6 months to 8 years of age, children and get the free PJ Library and www.pjourway.org for children magazine PROOF. PJ Library parents ages 8½-11. can sign up all the grandparents, who In addition, UJF was awarded a grant must be linked to an active PJ Library from the Harold Grinspoon Founda- subscriber, or grandparents can sign tion for a new initiative called “Play up directly themselves. Sign up at Together.” This PJ Library program will www.pjlibrary.org/enrollgp using the gather families together in four local referral code or by filling in the family neighborhoods, regardless of their information manually when filling out background or affiliation, to connect, the form online. Referral codes were A Schoke JFS LGBTQ+ evening of education was held on June 4 at Congregation create friendships, explore offerings sent to PJ Library families’ homes on Beth El in Norwalk. More than 30 families attended and heard speaker Diana in their community, and share Jewish a large postcard. Schutt (founder of Mosaic of Westchester, admissions advisor at Solomon Schechter traditions and holidays. Starting in Nan Gordon, grandparent and UJF School of Westchester, mother of a transgender daughter and spokeswoman for Keshet) September, family groups with children education chair, commented, “I was educate the Fairfield County community on topics of LGBTQ+ acceptance, advocacy ages 3 months to 8 years old will meet very excited to learn that PJ Library is and awareness. At right, l-r: David Weisberg, executive director of the Federation for monthly for a home playgroup with now offering books for grandparents. Jewish Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield County; Rabbi Ita Paskind, Congregation Beth crafts, story times and food. Parents, led As a child growing up, I had no Jewish El Norwalk; Diana Schutt, speaker; Eve Moskowitz, Schoke JFS director of clinical by neighborhood captains, will have a books in my home. I’m thrilled to be services; Dr. Jonathan Garfinkle, Schoke JFS managing director; and Rebekah Kanefsky, chance to create new friendships while able to receive these books and share Schoke JFS director of case management. For more information, contact Kanefsky at their children socialize. Each group will quality time reading Jewish stories to [email protected]. plan their own monthly outings, which my grandchildren.” could include a trip to a museum, a PJ Library programs are either free playground, fall apple picking or a tot of charge or have a minimal couvert, Shabbat at a local synagogue or temple. and they are part of Federation’s The gift of PJ Library is also now engagement and outreach efforts on available for grandparents. Grandpar- behalf of the community. For more ents can receive two free Jewish books, information about PJ Library and these get regular e-mails with recipes and new initiatives, contact Sharon Franklin children’s activities, receive updates at [email protected] or call 203-321-1373, on books being sent to their grand- ext. 109.

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 Bi-Cultural Conducts In-Depth Active Shooter Exercise Carmel Academy Opens New STEM Lab Several key administrators, faculty and staff of Bi-Cul- to respond to an active shooter incident on campus. At right: Captain Sue Carmel Academy is expanding on its award-winning electromagnetic principles. “Roles in engineering are tural Hebrew Academy spent a half day in July focus- “This was an invaluable exercise,” said Head of Brethauer (facing STEM – science, technology, engineering and math – shaping our world now more than ever, and we want ing on the most effective ways to protect the school’s School Jackie Herman. “The safety and security of our camera) of the Stamford program with the opening of a new STEM lab for the to ensure that our graduates have the strongest back- students and ensure their safety in the event that the children is our top priority and we well understand the Police Department 2019-20 school year. The lab is structured as a “maker’s ground and experience in these areas of study,” observed school building is breached by an active shooter. need to be prepared with a comprehensive plan that discussed effective lab” and is designed to provide multiple opportunities Nora Anderson, Carmel Academy head of school. Led by the Department of Homeland Security covers all bases. This exercise not only provided us with ways to respond to to construct, create and innovate. Students will be The lab will also provide a structured opportunity Cybersecurity and Infrastructure Security Agency specific strategies, it also helped us zero in what in our active shooters and able to engage in experiments to explore the laws of for students to design with tools that include 3-D (or CISA), as well as representatives from Stamford’s plan is working well and what needs to be reviewed and protect students at the mechanics, optics, thermodynamics and more. The lab printing. “The learning opportunities provided by Police and Fire Departments, BCHA held an Active refined, and we’re already working on doing just that.” Bi-Cultural Hebrew will also provide for courses of studies in foundational a focus on imagining and creating are endless,” Shooter-Based Table-Top Exercise to test the school’s Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy is a recipient agency of Academy Active mechanical and electrical engineering, including ro- said Lisa Corner, director of educational resources Emergency Management Plan and validate its ability United Jewish Federation. Shooter-Based Table- botics, technology hardware design, and circuitry and at Carmel. “This is a unique opportunity to evolve Top Exercise while a curriculum that develops the skills and deep Associate Principal Carmel Academy Receives understanding of foundational physics and engi- Bi-Cultural Teens “Cast Off” Rachel Haron listened. neering that are so highly in demand in our inno- Transformative Multi-Year Gift vation-driven world. It is also a place that will foster L-r: Kindergarteners Lance Feinstein and Jordy Rosenthal A Day of Fun with Special Needs Kids Carmel Academy has recently received a commit- social engagement and teamwork, as the students were amazed at the effect of water temperature on glow sticks. ment for a multi-year, multi-million-dollar investment will often work in teams to explore, experiment and By Judie Jacobson Mitzvah Alert to grow and enhance its educational offerings across innovate. This focus on rigorous and cutting-edge The opening of the STEM lab has been called the On June 23, Connecticut children with special Sawyer Price, a rising eighth-grader at Bi-Cultural all curricular areas. The commitments are from a learning footed in strong social systems is wholly latest example of a dedication to STEM education that needs set off on a fishing expedition organized by Hebrew Academy, said he loves to read. He wanted small group of Carmel community member donors consistent with the Carmel Academy educational has been considered a hallmark at Carmel Academy three students from Stamford’s Bi-Cultural Hebrew other children to have that opportunity and decided with “deep ties” to the school, who say they believe approach, and promises to yield exciting results!” for more than a decade. In 2007, Carmel was one of Academy, working with the C.A.S.T. for Kids Founda- to dedicate his bar mitzvah project to students at deeply in Carmel’s mission to educate the whole child. the first Jewish day schools in the country to imple- tion, an organization that seeks to enrich the lives of the Stamford public schools who need a little extra “These are transformational gifts that will enable ment E2K, an inquiry-based and problem-centered children with special needs, support their families and reading help. Price raised money and collected new Carmel Academy to continue to expand and en- educational enrichment program that encourages strengthen communities through the sport of fishing. supplies, games and books for UJF’s Herbert and hance its unique educational experience, and it is students to use logic, analysis, creativity and teamwork Led by Ben Marcus, a fisherman and a junior at Sarah M. Gibor Reading Partners program. These thrilling to be recognized as a center of innovation to approach science and mathematics. The successful the BCHA Upper School, where he founded the will all be put to use by the Reading Partners who and excellence,” said Dr. Michele Slifka, who became implementation and integration of the curriculum school’s Environmental Club, children and volun- spend time volunteering every week in elementary the president of the Board of Trustees of Carmel has been featured in an article in the journal of the teers spent the morning fishing on the Saugatuck and after-school programs in Stamford. Academy in July. “The development of a five-year National Science Teachers Association, and has been River in Westport, then returned for a barbecue To learn more about becoming a Reading Partner plan has commenced, and Carmel has been able to the basis of an advanced STEM curriculum that has lunch and an awards ceremony. volunteer or to support the program, visit website attract some fantastic, new, talented professionals in produced middle school students who have won 15 BCHA Environmental Club members (l -r) Ben Marcus, It was the first time C.A.S.T. for Kids held an event www.ujf.org/readingpartners or contact Lenore just the last few months.” international, national and regional STEM awards Josh Marcus and Gavin Rakitt at the recent C.A.S.T. for in Connecticut. The organization hosts annual fish- Fogel at [email protected]. “This is an exciting time in the history of Carmel for their achievements. Kids fishing excursion. ing and boating events across America to provide Academy, and a unique opportunity to grow and “The STEM program at Carmel has long been in- children with special needs an outdoor recreational enhance the elements of the educational approach tegral to the rigorous educational experience of the and BCHA junior Gavin Rakitt, helped raise funds experience. Participants are supplied with a fishing that make Carmel unique,” said Nora Anderson, L-r: Elijah Gilbert, Josh Hirshfield and Derek Pember worked school, and this opening promises a new chapter of that for and organize the event. rod and reel, t-shirt, hat and tackle box. They are head of school at Carmel Academy. together to build the tallest spaghetti and tape structure. See “STEM” on page 19 partnered with an experienced volunteer angler and Their efforts paid off. “I would have never expected escorted onto a boat where, with the supervision of fishing to be the thing that changed my son’s life [for a parent or guardian, they are shown proper fishing the better, of course], but your event did absolutely techniques and receive natural resources education. that!” one parent told Ben at the end of the day. Marcus, along with other members of the Envi- Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy is a recipient agency of ronmental Club, BCHA sophomore Josh Marcus United Jewish Federation.

Reading Continued from page 7 Judy Stone, Diane Tully, Harriet Weinstein, Hillary The congregation of Zitter and Caron Zampino Lenore Fogel, director of Reading Partners, with Sawyer Price. L’SHANAH TOVAH ‹‹ Ten years plus: Lesley Sandison, Ronni Ginsburg, from Temple Sinai in Stamford Batyah Ben-David, Doris Carlton, Paul Ellis, Cathy wishes its friends, neighbors Ernst, Ronny Kaplan, Lynn Pearce, Barbara Rosen- Bi-Cultural Open Houses for Lower berg, Ena Sarkar, Lori Singer, Joan Weinstein and and the entire community Suzanne Wilsey and Upper Schools ‹‹ Fifteeen years plus: Lois Dreyer, Susan Holzman, The community is invited to learn more about a peaceful Susan Josephson and Ellen Weber Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy at the school’s Open Reading Partners is funded by the Herbert and House on Sunday, November 3. The Open House & Sarah M. Gibor Foundation and the Pitney Bow- schedule will include a morning session for families of es Foundation. The Reading Partners volunteer pre-kindergarten, lower and middle school students, healthy appreciation breakfast is sponsored each year by and an afternoon session for high school students and New Year former Reading Partner Joan Wexler. If anyone is their parents. The times are still to be announced. interested in volunteering, orientation and training The Open House will be held on the Bi-Cultural 5780. are happening now for the 2019-2020 school year. L-r: Marci Marcus (reading specialist and Newfield School campus, 2186 High Ridge Rd., North Stamford. Contact Director of Reading Partners Lenore Fogel liaison), Harriet Weinstein (Reading Partner at Newfield), For more information, contact Director of Admis- 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford, Connecticut for more information at [email protected] or Marge Pavlov (Reading Partner at Davenport Ridge) and sions Miriam Sperber at 203-329-2186, ext. 1310, or 203-322-1649 203-321-1373, ext. 115. Joan Weinstein (Reading Partner at Davenport Ridge). [email protected]. www.templesinaistamford.org

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May the year 5780 שנה טובה ומתוקה bring peace and harmony Wishing You a Healthy, Happy, Peaceful to the community of Stamford New Year and the family of Israel Elayne and James Schoke Jewish Family Service of Fairfield County Serving Greater Stamford, Westport, Bridgeport and Upper Fairfield County Phone: 203-921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org

Joy Katz, Marshall Kurland, Rosh Hashanah Grtings President Chief Executive Offi cer from ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 Bi-Cultural Conducts In-Depth Active Shooter Exercise Several key administrators, faculty and staff of Bi-Cul- to respond to an active shooter incident on campus. At right: Captain Sue tural Hebrew Academy spent a half day in July focus- “This was an invaluable exercise,” said Head of Brethauer (facing ing on the most effective ways to protect the school’s School Jackie Herman. “The safety and security of our camera) of the Stamford students and ensure their safety in the event that the children is our top priority and we well understand the Police Department school building is breached by an active shooter. need to be prepared with a comprehensive plan that discussed effective Led by the Department of Homeland Security covers all bases. This exercise not only provided us with ways to respond to Cybersecurity and Infrastructure Security Agency specific strategies, it also helped us zero in what in our active shooters and (or CISA), as well as representatives from Stamford’s plan is working well and what needs to be reviewed and protect students at the Police and Fire Departments, BCHA held an Active refined, and we’re already working on doing just that.” Bi-Cultural Hebrew Shooter-Based Table-Top Exercise to test the school’s Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy is a recipient agency of Academy Active Emergency Management Plan and validate its ability United Jewish Federation. Shooter-Based Table- Top Exercise while Associate Principal Bi-Cultural Teens “Cast Off” Rachel Haron listened. A Day of Fun with Special Needs Kids By Judie Jacobson Mitzvah Alert On June 23, Connecticut children with special Sawyer Price, a rising eighth-grader at Bi-Cultural needs set off on a fishing expedition organized by Hebrew Academy, said he loves to read. He wanted three students from Stamford’s Bi-Cultural Hebrew other children to have that opportunity and decided Academy, working with the C.A.S.T. for Kids Founda- to dedicate his bar mitzvah project to students at tion, an organization that seeks to enrich the lives of the Stamford public schools who need a little extra children with special needs, support their families and reading help. Price raised money and collected new strengthen communities through the sport of fishing. supplies, games and books for UJF’s Herbert and Led by Ben Marcus, a fisherman and a junior at Sarah M. Gibor Reading Partners program. These the BCHA Upper School, where he founded the will all be put to use by the Reading Partners who school’s Environmental Club, children and volun- spend time volunteering every week in elementary teers spent the morning fishing on the Saugatuck and after-school programs in Stamford. River in Westport, then returned for a barbecue To learn more about becoming a Reading Partner lunch and an awards ceremony. volunteer or to support the program, visit website It was the first time C.A.S.T. for Kids held an event BCHA Environmental Club members (l -r) Ben Marcus, www.ujf.org/readingpartners or contact Lenore in Connecticut. The organization hosts annual fish- Josh Marcus and Gavin Rakitt at the recent C.A.S.T. for Fogel at [email protected]. ing and boating events across America to provide Kids fishing excursion. children with special needs an outdoor recreational experience. Participants are supplied with a fishing and BCHA junior Gavin Rakitt, helped raise funds rod and reel, t-shirt, hat and tackle box. They are for and organize the event. partnered with an experienced volunteer angler and Their efforts paid off. “I would have never expected escorted onto a boat where, with the supervision of fishing to be the thing that changed my son’s life [for a parent or guardian, they are shown proper fishing the better, of course], but your event did absolutely techniques and receive natural resources education. that!” one parent told Ben at the end of the day. Marcus, along with other members of the Envi- Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy is a recipient agency of ronmental Club, BCHA sophomore Josh Marcus United Jewish Federation.

Reading Continued from page 7 Judy Stone, Diane Tully, Harriet Weinstein, Hillary Zitter and Caron Zampino Lenore Fogel, director of Reading Partners, with Sawyer Price. ‹‹ Ten years plus: Lesley Sandison, Ronni Ginsburg, Batyah Ben-David, Doris Carlton, Paul Ellis, Cathy Ernst, Ronny Kaplan, Lynn Pearce, Barbara Rosen- Bi-Cultural Open Houses for Lower berg, Ena Sarkar, Lori Singer, Joan Weinstein and Suzanne Wilsey and Upper Schools ‹‹ Fifteeen years plus: Lois Dreyer, Susan Holzman, The community is invited to learn more about Susan Josephson and Ellen Weber Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy at the school’s Open Reading Partners is funded by the Herbert and House on Sunday, November 3. The Open House Sarah M. Gibor Foundation and the Pitney Bow- schedule will include a morning session for families of es Foundation. The Reading Partners volunteer pre-kindergarten, lower and middle school students, appreciation breakfast is sponsored each year by and an afternoon session for high school students and former Reading Partner Joan Wexler. If anyone is their parents. The times are still to be announced. interested in volunteering, orientation and training The Open House will be held on the Bi-Cultural are happening now for the 2019-2020 school year. L-r: Marci Marcus (reading specialist and Newfield School campus, 2186 High Ridge Rd., North Stamford. Contact Director of Reading Partners Lenore Fogel liaison), Harriet Weinstein (Reading Partner at Newfield), For more information, contact Director of Admis- for more information at [email protected] or Marge Pavlov (Reading Partner at Davenport Ridge) and sions Miriam Sperber at 203-329-2186, ext. 1310, or 203-321-1373, ext. 115. Joan Weinstein (Reading Partner at Davenport Ridge). [email protected].

שנה טובה ומתוקה

Wishing You a Healthy, Happy, Peaceful New Year

Elayne and James Schoke Jewish Family Service of Fairfield County Serving Greater Stamford, Westport, Bridgeport and Upper Fairfield County Phone: 203-921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org

Rosh Hashanah Grtings from SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 Carmel Academy Opens New STEM Lab Carmel Academy is expanding on its award-winning electromagnetic principles. “Roles in engineering are STEM – science, technology, engineering and math – shaping our world now more than ever, and we want program with the opening of a new STEM lab for the to ensure that our graduates have the strongest back- 2019-20 school year. The lab is structured as a “maker’s ground and experience in these areas of study,” observed lab” and is designed to provide multiple opportunities Nora Anderson, Carmel Academy head of school. to construct, create and innovate. Students will be The lab will also provide a structured opportunity able to engage in experiments to explore the laws of for students to design with tools that include 3-D mechanics, optics, thermodynamics and more. The lab printing. “The learning opportunities provided by will also provide for courses of studies in foundational a focus on imagining and creating are endless,” mechanical and electrical engineering, including ro- said Lisa Corner, director of educational resources botics, technology hardware design, and circuitry and at Carmel. “This is a unique opportunity to evolve a curriculum that develops the skills and deep Carmel Academy Receives understanding of foundational physics and engi- neering that are so highly in demand in our inno- Transformative Multi-Year Gift vation-driven world. It is also a place that will foster L-r: Kindergarteners Lance Feinstein and Jordy Rosenthal Carmel Academy has recently received a commit- social engagement and teamwork, as the students were amazed at the effect of water temperature on glow sticks. ment for a multi-year, multi-million-dollar investment will often work in teams to explore, experiment and to grow and enhance its educational offerings across innovate. This focus on rigorous and cutting-edge The opening of the STEM lab has been called the all curricular areas. The commitments are from a learning footed in strong social systems is wholly latest example of a dedication to STEM education that small group of Carmel community member donors consistent with the Carmel Academy educational has been considered a hallmark at Carmel Academy with “deep ties” to the school, who say they believe approach, and promises to yield exciting results!” for more than a decade. In 2007, Carmel was one of deeply in Carmel’s mission to educate the whole child. the first Jewish day schools in the country to imple- “These are transformational gifts that will enable ment E2K, an inquiry-based and problem-centered Carmel Academy to continue to expand and en- educational enrichment program that encourages hance its unique educational experience, and it is students to use logic, analysis, creativity and teamwork thrilling to be recognized as a center of innovation to approach science and mathematics. The successful and excellence,” said Dr. Michele Slifka, who became implementation and integration of the curriculum the president of the Board of Trustees of Carmel has been featured in an article in the journal of the Academy in July. “The development of a five-year National Science Teachers Association, and has been plan has commenced, and Carmel has been able to the basis of an advanced STEM curriculum that has attract some fantastic, new, talented professionals in produced middle school students who have won 15 just the last few months.” international, national and regional STEM awards “This is an exciting time in the history of Carmel for their achievements. Academy, and a unique opportunity to grow and “The STEM program at Carmel has long been in- enhance the elements of the educational approach tegral to the rigorous educational experience of the that make Carmel unique,” said Nora Anderson, L-r: Elijah Gilbert, Josh Hirshfield and Derek Pember worked school, and this opening promises a new chapter of that head of school at Carmel Academy. together to build the tallest spaghetti and tape structure. See “STEM” on page 19

L’SHANAH TOVAH The congregation of from Temple Sinai in Stamford wishes its friends, neighbors and the entire community a peaceful & healthy New Year 5780.

458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford, Connecticut 203-322-1649 www.templesinaistamford.org

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May the year 5780 bring peace and harmony to the community of Stamford and the family of Israel

Joy Katz, Marshall Kurland, President Chief Executive Offi cer

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Chickpeas: Symbolic Food for Rosh Hashanah By Ronnie Fein baking sheet. Pour 2 tablespoons olive Sprinkle with parsley, toss and serve. When Rosh Hashanah oil over the vegetables. Sprinkle with Makes 4-6 servings. comes, most of us will be slic- salt and cumin and toss to coat the Ronnie Fein is a cookbook author, food ing apples and dipping them in vegetables. Roast for about 15 minutes writer and cooking teacher in Stamford. honey, a sweet, symbolic gesture or until crispy and lightly browned. She is the author of “The Modern Kosher to welcome the new year (which Remove from the oven and let cool. Kitchen” and “Hip Kosher.” Visit her begins at sunset on Sunday, Spoon the vegetables into a bowl. food blog, Kitchen Vignettes, at www. September 29). Pour in the remaining 2 tablespoons ronniefein.com, friend her on Facebook at But of course we will be olive oil and the lemon juice. Toss. Roasted Chickpea and Carrot RonnieVailFein, or follow her on Twitter feasting on other ingredients Season to taste with salt and pepper. Salad and Instagram at @RonnieVFein. of the season, too, including chickpeas. In his “Encyclopedia The cover of Ronnie of Jewish Food,” the late rabbi Fein’s newest cookbook, and food authority Gil Marks “The Modern Kosher wrote that “chickpeas are a tra- Kitchen” ditional Rosh Hashanah food, a symbol of fertility, abundance and a wish for a well-rounded year to come.” In our house, chickpeas often come in the form of homemade hummus, but sometimes I serve them whole, as a snack, roasted, the way my May you be mother made them when I was growing up – a recipe called nahit. She coated the chickpeas with inscribed in the vegetable oil, sprinkled them with salt and papri- Book of Life ka, and baked them until crispy. I changed her recipe somewhat – I use olive oil, kosher salt and for good health, fresh thyme, or sometimes za’atar, as seasonings. MayWishing the new you year and May this New Year peace, and prosperity. Nahit is a delicious snack and a healthy one, too: your family be a time of chickpeas are a good source of protein, minerals peace & joy for you Marsha Kaiser Shendell be the start and all those you love. (including calcium) and fiber. peace, health & Family For this coming holiday, however, I’ll be making a of onlyand the happiness J chickpea and carrot salad to serve with dinner. Car- H rots are another symbolic ingredient of the holiday, sweetestthis things! Pesach so this recipe is a double-up of special ingredients Edith Samers & of festive food for the holiday table. It’s a dish that Nancy and Gadi Mimoun can be made in advance, which makes it a boon at Edward Smith Have aDiana Happy and & Healthy Barry Gould New Year! such a busy time. And it is colorful, too, fit for any celebration. Roasted Chickpea and Carrot Salad May the sound of 2 cups cooked chickpeas May the New Year 1 pound carrots, sliced ¼-inch thick the shofar bring peace and 4 Tbsp. olive oil Salt good health to us all! bring you ½ tsp. ground cumin 3-4 Tbsp. lemon juice peace, health, Freshly ground black pepper to taste 2-3 Tbsp. chopped fresh parsley or chives and joy! Cook dried chickpeas according to package di- rections (or drain canned chickpeas). Preheat the Nancy and Gadi Mimoun Meryl and David Gordon oven to 425°F. Place the chickpeas and carrots on a Schoke JFS Rosh Hashanah Food Drive Schoke Jewish Family Service will run its annual Wishing everyone holiday food drive and gift bag distribution chaired SHANA by Risa Goldblum. For the past five years, clients a happy, healthy of the Freedberg Family Kosher Food Pantry have and sweet TOVA New Year! received gift bags of food items from local kosher Rabbi Moshe & Leah restaurants, as well as baked goods from kosher bak- Ellen & eries and Chabad of Stamford. Nearly 30 households Tzemach, Mussie, Shternie, Richard Weber Levi, Yisroel, Shaina, Rivka & in Fairfield County were recipients of Rosh Hashanah and Family gift bags last year. Gavriel Shemtov To volunteer to deliver packages and/or help with package assembly, or if you know of anyone who might benefit from a holiday gift this year, contact Rebekah Kanefsky at [email protected] or call 203-921-4163.

Masa Continued from page 5 academy program where Israelis and Diaspora young adults get leadership training, while also May the new year learning, volunteering and discussing the ques- tions about life, Judaism and Israel. Moriarty be the start credits his transformative Kol Ami experience with of only the making him a more Jewish Jew, with a stronger Jewish identity and connection to Israel. sweetest things! Next year, Moriarty will be studying at the Uni- versity of Pennsylvania, pursuing a double major Cheryl Bader, Stephen, in physics and materials science and engineering. He plans to be involved in Jewish organizations and Rachel, Daniel and Evan Goldblum make aliyah after graduating from college. Moriarty shared that his experience was “diverse and often intense” at Kol Ami, which is a Mechina (preparatory) program. “We came together to prob- Wishing everyone lem solve, make our own rules and create our own curriculum,” he said. “We became part of the kibbutz a happy, healthy family and traveled to all parts of Israel immersing and sweet ourselves in the cultural, physical landscape, history, New Year! religion and politics. Learning to be an advocate for Israel, and better understanding the complexities, has better prepared me for my time at Penn.” Advertising To learn more about MASA programs or the Jewish Representative Agency for Israel, contact Diane Sloyer at 203-321- 1373 or [email protected]. ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 Carmel Academy’s Innovative Solution for Teaching Hebrew By Michele Slifka loted the program at Carmel Imagine the challenges Academy three years ago and a child with dyslexia faces have seen significant gains,” as they learn to read. Then Levin said. “I’ve found that it imagine how that same child can be used to teach Hebrew feels when he or she begins reading not only to children trying to read Hebrew. with specific learning chal- Carmel Academy teacher lenges, but to students at Sonia Levin, a veteran He- any level. It’s exciting and we brew language and reading are thrilled to share this with specialist, understands this other educators.” challenge better than most. The school has seen so She has conducted research Sonia Levin much success with the pro- on teaching Hebrew decoding skills gram that Levin is sharing her tech- to children with dyslexia and other niques with teachers throughout the language-based learning challenges, country, instructing her peers about using her research to develop a Hebrew the multi-sensory, phonetic approach reading program at Carmel Academy. to teaching Hebrew language. She Levin originally developed the meth- recently presented her program at Kindergarteners Lance Feinstein, Sophie Feinstein and Jordan Rosenthal sang about the odology to support the students in the Matan, a national organization that days of creation. PALS program at Carmel, which is a educates Jewish leaders, teachers and program for twice-exceptional students communities to create learning envi- and can be applied to varied settings. this novel methodology and program.” facing academic, social or attentional ronments supportive of children with “We are thrilled to share our experi- For more information about the pro- challenges who, with appropriate mod- special learning needs. ence with educators in both day schools gram, contact Danielle Cohen at danielle. ifications and supports, can be success- Matan was the third workshop and afterschool Hebrew programs,” said [email protected], or attend ful and achieve grade level standards Levin has conducted; the course is Carmel Academy Head of School Nora the Carmel Academy Open House on or beyond. She soon found, however, designed for Hebrew language and Anderson. “There has been an immedi- Sunday, October 27, from 10-noon. that her methodology was a powerful reading teachers, speech-language ate and overwhelming response to these Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of and highly effective tool to teach any pathologists, department chairs and workshops, making obvious the need for United Jewish Federation. child. “Hebrew is an entirely phonetic educational directors. The method- language, so this approach lends itself ology is designed for students with well to teaching Hebrew reading. We pi- language-based learning challenges STEM Continued from page 15 story,” said Pam Feldstein, alumni parent To learn more about the Carmel and vice-president of the Carmel Acad- STEM lab and see it in action, con- emy Board of Trustees, whose daughter tact Danielle Cohen at danielle. Friendship Circle Honors Eliza (Carmel ‘15) will be attending the [email protected], and/ University of Chicago starting in Sep- or attend the Carmel Academy Open tember; whose son Doron (Carmel ‘17) House on Sunday, October 27, from Moms with Birthday Gifts is a junior at St. Luke’s School in New 10 am-noon. The Friendship Circle of Fairfield This year, approximately 60 moms Canaan; and whose daughter Atara is Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of County is committed to serving the of children who are members of the a member of the Carmel class of 2020. United Jewish Federation. entire family of children with special Friendship Circle, received a birthday needs. Oftentimes, with the focus on gift. Each woman received a “spa kit” helping only the child with special that included pampering items and a needs, the rest of the family may not swell style water bottle to help ensure receive support. The Friendship Circle they take a moment to look after them- realizes that the whole family’s life selves. In addition, thanks to a generous is altered when raising a child with donation, each mom was treated to a special needs and working to help solitaire pearl necklace to wear, symbol- them reach their full potential. The izing the beauty and strength of these children’s caretakers also need time special mothers. to take care of themselves, de-stress “I just wanted to say thank you for and re-energize. the beautiful birthday gift that came The organization provides such today for me! You all make my heart opportunities for family members. Sib- happy and I love being a part of a pro- lings of the child with special needs are gram that not only reminds me that able to join a support group where they my child is special, but also that I am have a safe space with other children special,” said one mom after receiving who understand their situation. Both her birthday kit. parents of the child have opportunities After opening her birthday pres- to meet in a social atmosphere with ent, another mom said, “As you well moms and dads who are coping with know, life with a child with special similar challenges. In addition to these needs is very challenging but, over groups, the staff at the Friendship Circle the years the Friendship Circle take the opportunity to recognize the has been there for me. I’ve always mothers’ birthdays. See “Moms” on page 22

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 Keep On Truckin’ With PJ Library By Sharon Franklin help people who are sick or in need. Trucks repre- On July 28, United Jewish Federation’s PJ Library sented were fire trucks, a ladder truck, backhoes, an and PJ Our Way held a Touch-a-Truck event. Families excavator, a police car, an ambulance and a sanitation came out to explore a variety of vehicles and to hear truck. Participants also had the chance to color and first-hand from the professionals how to operate write letters to IDF soldiers letting them know they them. Children also learned about the work of each appreciate their service to Israel. driver and what they do to build homes, keep the The Federation thanks all the professionals (Access city safe and clean, take care of the environment and Ambulance Company, Gino’s Landscaping, RMS Companies, Stamford Fire Department, Stamford Police, Stamford Sanitation Department, and Stam- ford Volunteer Fire Department) who came out to teach PJ families about the work that they do and to Congregation Agudath Sholom for the use of its parking lot. For more information about PJ Library and PJ Our Way, or to sign up for free books, contact Sharon Franklin at [email protected].

Rachel and Greg Waldstreicher explored a firetruck with their eldest son. (Child’s name held on request.) Rachel Schilowitz and her children learned about fire safety from an unidentified firefighter. (Children’s names held on request.) Teaching Jewish Values

Miriam Sperber, Nikki and Matt Feinberg, Jessica Furmansky Doni Perl and his daughters learned how an excavator and their children mingled in between checking out trucks. works from an unidentified construction worker. (Children’s (Children’s names held on request.) names held on request.) Fun in the Sun at Gan Summer Camp At Gan Summer Camp, children enjoyed the Darien YMCA 2 West 46th Street familiarity of their year-round teachers along with a twice a week, and Suite #907 crew of counselors. the entire camp Each week had a theme, such as friendship week, enjoyed special- New York, NY 10036 The JCC Sara Walker Nursery School’s Jewish values campingDR. week WENDYand transportation WOLFSON week. The 3- and ties such as mu- program touches the lives of their children, families, 4-year-olds took a school bus for swim instruction at the sic with Bobby staff and community. By teaching the values of chesed PSYCHIATRIST Doowah, sports 21 Locust Avenue (kindness), kavod (respect), ahava (love), shalom (peace) and gymnastics Suite 1D and mitzvah (good deed), children learn that they have the with AnatolieNew Canaan, CT 06840 ability to make the world a better place. Throughout the Vartosu, and clay year, children participate in mitzvah projects, including 917.499.8250 exploration with cooking for local shelters, and collecting food for those Brett Slavin. The 246 Post Road East in need and toys for children in the hospital. Last year’s [email protected] children also en- tzedakah (charity) was donated to the Back to School joyed dress-up, 2nd Floor Shop, as seen in the photo above (names of children www.drwendywolfson.com outdoor splash- Westport, CT 06840 withheld on request). ing with sprin- • Specializing in the medical management of mood and anxiety disorders and ADD in teens and adults • klers, cooking L-r: Emily Bryk, Ike Lewis, Bodhi Soffer, Eliav Levine and Shabbat L-r: Ryan Zwany, Vera Shamsi, Kayla Continued from page 1 parties. LIVE and Liat Rozner. Perl and Jack Meirowitz. Between,” which will be published in October. “We don’t know yet who the trio’s guest(s) will be that evening, but expect lively interaction, fascinating and often irreverent conversation, and wide-ranging 2 West 46th Street perspectives,” said Rabbi Joshua Hammerman. Since its debut in August 2015, Unorthodox has Suite #907 become what has been called a popular and beloved DR. WENDY WOLFSON New York, NY 10036 Jewish podcast, with nearly four million downloads all PSYCHIATRIST over the U.S. and the world. Roughly one quarter of 21 Locust Avenue its audience is international, with listeners not just in Canada, the U.K. and Israel, but also far-flung places like Suite 1D Paraguay, Djibouti, Greenland and even the United Arab New Canaan, CT 06840 Emirates. To get a sampling of the Unorthodox podcast, 917.499.8250 go to www.tabletmag.com/author/unorthodox. As with all Hoffman lectures, the public is invited [email protected] 246 Post Road East 2nd Floor to attend without charge. However, this year, due to www.drwendywolfson.com sell-out crowds at previous venues, reservations are Westport, CT 06840 requested. To reserve tickets, go to https://tbe-uo. • Specializing in the medical management of mood and anxiety disorders and ADD in teens and adults • eventbrite.com or call the synagogue office at 203- 322-6901, ext. 300. A dessert reception will follow the program. For further information, call the synagogue at 203-322- Your ad should be here! 6901, ext. 300, or e-mail [email protected]. To advertise, contact Bonnie Rozen at (800)779-7896, ext. 244 or [email protected] This event is sponsored by the family of the late or Diane Sloyer at (203) 321-1373, ext 105 or [email protected] Hyacinthe and Harold E. Hoffman, z’l, former Happy Chauukah! members of Temple Beth El and the Stamford 2 West 46th Street community, who were dedicated to many civic and Suite #907 Jewish causes. DR. WENDY WOLFSON New York, NY 10036 PSYCHIATRIST 21 Locust Avenue Suite 1D New Canaan, CT 06840 917.499.8250 [email protected] 246 Post Road East 2nd Floor www.drwendywolfson.com Westport, CT 06840 • Specializing in the medical management of mood and anxiety disorders and ADD in teens and adults • SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 21 22 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019 VOICES AND VIEWS Why I Care… teen voices “A person should aim to maintain physical health and vigor, in order that their soul may be upright, in a condition to know My Israel Experience God. – Maimonides By Adi Farber rolling hills surrounding the One of my favorite Jewish city, you are surrounded by experiences in my life so far amazing history. One of the Focus on Dr. Shara Israel was my recent trip to Israel. highlights of my trip was vis- By Sharon Franklin and 2015, I have been a part of My trip was part of my school’s iting the Kotel, or the Western Jane Levene the Maimonides outreach (Bi-Cultural Hebrew Acade- Wall, for the first time. The Dr. Shara Israel is a primary and program planning, and my) eighth grade curriculum kids who had never seen the care physician with Stamford have co-chaired several of culminating in a three-and-a- Kotel were told to close their Health Medical Group. She the events. I also participated half-week trip to Israel. It was eyes before arriving and then and her husband, Rabbi in the steering committee my first time in Israel and it open them in front of the David Israel, executive vice for the “All Affinity Group,” was a truly magnificent expe- Kotel. It was amazing for me to giving feedback and ideas for president of RZA-Mizrachi, rience. As soon as I stepped Adi Farber open my eyes and witness one moved to Connecticut from future events. off the plane, I felt this sense of the most important places New York City in 1995, and Have you been involved of pride realizing that this is in Jewish history. As soon as raised their four children in with other Jewish organiza- my land and that I belong here. I opened my eyes, I felt attached to all Stamford. Dr. Shara Israel tions? One of my personal highlights was that we as Jews have been through to This is why she cares: I am an active member Jerusalem. If not for the ruins and the get to this place. Describe your current involvement of Young Israel of Stamford, ancient walls, you would think you So much of our history has happened with UJF and how long you have been and have served on both the board were in any other modern city. The in Jerusalem – the city has been attacked involved: and youth committees. I have been city is bustling, there are thousands of 52 times, captured 44 times, besieged I have been involved with United part of the search committees for past people everywhere shopping, talking 23 times and destroyed twice. Yet, it is Jewish Federation since moving to rabbis and for youth leaders. I have and eating. However, the ruins and the very humbling and special to know that Stamford in 1995. Upon my arrival to also served on the Bi-Cultural Hebrew rich history are what make Jerusalem despite all that, it is still our land, we the community, I have attended Feder- Academy board, and, while my children special, especially when you compare can pray and live there every day, and ation events and programs each year, attended, was actively involved. We it to a city like New York City. New York we have Jerusalem as the center of our and my husband and I are longtime are also members of Congregation seems like it just exploded out of the religious and cultural Judaism. This was donors. We understand that by sup- Agudath Sholom. We attend a variety ground with modern buildings and an amazing trip and it was not until we porting Federation, we help keep our of community programs and support construction. But, in Jerusalem, you can returned to the airport to leave that I local and worldwide Jewish community local Jewish agencies and schools. feel the atmosphere filled with ancient realized how much there is to do and vibrant and growing. Why is it important to give back in culture and everything historically that see in Israel. It is an experience I will I am also an active participant this way? has happened there for thousands of never forget. and committee member for UJF’s My husband and I understand the years. From the Temple being built Adi Farber lives in Stamford with his Maimonides group, an affinity net- importance of supporting our local to its destruction and, centuries later, parents and two siblings and will be a working group for medical and health Federation. We know our annual gift going back to the Jews in 1967, to the freshman at Westhill High School in the fall. professionals. Since its inception in will help local Jewish agencies, schools, synagogues and temples, as well as Jews in need locally in Stamford, in Israel The New Jewish Voice and around the world. As Jews, we feel Why Israeli Dance? “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #184) is published monthly it is our responsibility to help fellow by the United Jewish Federation Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Jews in need, because if we don’t… By Leng Tan efits, recent studies show that dance Stamford, CT 06905-2521. who will? We also specifically give to There is nothing more pleasurable is also beneficial for our mind. To www.ujf.org for updates and donations Federation because it is a statement of than moving our bodies and swaying quote an article published in The Ricky Arbron...... President our commitment to “Klal Yisrael,” that to the beautiful melodies of Middle New York Times on April 30, 2019: Diane Sloyer...... CEO, Advertising Representative as Jews we are ultimately part of one Eastern music. Israeli folk dance has “Research shows that dance offers been around for about 80 years. How a wealth of anti-aging benefits. It’s Advisory Committee larger collective group. We feel it is Meryl Gordon...... Chair important to be good role models for did this come about? also fun.” It also states: “Studies Meryl Japha, Nancy Schulman, Ellen Weber our children. By being active volunteers The early pioneers who settled show that dance provides multiple at our synagogue, at our children’s in the land of Israel wanted to unify cognitive and physical health ben- Reporter Group Staff schools, and by supporting UJF and immigrants who came from different efits, suggesting it may be the kale The Reporter Group edits and publishes The New Jewish Voice. other local agencies, we are teaching parts of the Diaspora and cultures. It of exercise.” Here is a link: https:// Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... Executive Editor Diana Sochor...... Layout Editor our children to be active community was created to incorporate different www.nytimes.com/2019/04/30/well/ Ilene Pinsker...... Assistant Editor members themselves, ensuring the styles of dance from different coun- move/health-benefits-dancing.html. Jenn DePersis...... Production Coordinator Jewish communities they live in will tries. Most of the earlier Israeli folk Israeli dance helps us connect with Bonnie Rozen...... Advertising Representative remain robust and thrive. dances were about the land of Israel Israel and is an important part of the Kathy Brown...... Bookkeeper As a longtime resident of Stamford, and biblical stories. Jewish culture. What better way to ex- Opinions how have you seen the community Nowadays, Israeli dance classes offer ercise, enjoy Jewish melodies and reap The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces change and grow? traditional Israeli folk dances and new, the mental, physical and social benefits are those of each author and not necessarily the views As part of the Orthodox community, modern style Israeli dances that are of Israeli dance? of the United Jewish Federation. we have seen young couples and fam- more complicated. Israeli folk dance Leng Tan has been teaching Israeli dance Letters ilies move to Stamford by the droves classes are offered all over the world. in Stamford and the tri-state area for more The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of in the last five years. It is great to see Besides the obvious physical ben- than 25 years. interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be so many new faces and young chil- signed and include a phone number. The editor may withhold the name upon request. dren in synagogue and at the schools. There has also been a growth in the Kashruth availability of kosher shopping and Italian Continued from page 1 We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any advertiser’s product or establishment. local kosher restaurants. Stamford September 1943 until the end of ments” (New York: Berghahn Books, has become a destination for young April 1945, about 15 percent of the 1998) and has published a number HOW TO REACH THE EDITOR: Jewish people to live, a sign that our Jews in Italy were murdered. In addi- of articles. He is currently writing a community and city will continue to Mail: Sandy Golove tion to analyzing Mussolini’s shifting book on “The Assassination of Carlo 1035 Newfield Ave. - Suite 200 grow and thrive. policies, Blatt will also discuss the and Nello Rosselli.” Stamford, CT 06905-2521 Rosselli family of emancipated Jew- The lecture will focus on the topic E-mail: [email protected] ish Italians. Carlo and Nello Rosselli, of human dignity, a major theme of Phone: (203) 912-9945 Moms Cont. from page 19 born in 1899 and 1900, came from JHSFC this year. According to Eva Send article submissions via e-mail to appreciated your kind, generous a wealthy family of Tuscan Jewish Weller, “JHSFC has had a long and Sandy Golove at [email protected] and thoughtful support. As for the heritage. The Rosselli brothers were enriching relationship with UCONN, marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject gifts themselves, I can’t fully express veterans of World War I, academics and anyone attending the lecture will line. Expect an acknowledgement; how moved I am by the card and and antifascist resisters. Carlo Ross- benefit from an intellectual workout.” please re-send if you do not receive one. your inspirational and encouraging elli was a “liberal socialist” and Nello To learn more about the lecture and HOW TO REACH THE words. The beauty items remind me Rosselli was a “liberal democrat.” program, contact the Jewish His- ADVERTISING REPRESENTATIVES: to sometimes stop and take care of Blatt has been teaching European torical Society of Fairfield County BONNIE ROZEN myself, and the pearl necklace is just history at the Stamford Campus of at 203-321-1373, ext.150, or info@ Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 beautiful. When I wear it, I will feel UCONN for many years, and he has jhsfc-ct.org, or visit http://jhsfc-ct. E-mail: [email protected] inspired and blessed.” been chosen a number of times as org. Reservations are requested, but DIANE SLOYER To learn more about joining or “Outstanding Professor.” His area not required. Walk-ins are welcome. Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 105 supporting the Friendship Circle of of specialty is politics, society and The Jewish Historical Society of E-mail: [email protected] Fairfield County, and discover its many international relations of France, Fairfield County is a recipient agency opportunities, e-mail Director Malya Italy and Europe 1914-1945, and he of United Jewish Federation of Greater SUBSCRIPTION INFORMATION: Shmotkin at [email protected]. has taught and co-taught a course on Stamford, New Canaan and Darien and Phone: (203) 321-1373 the Holocaust. He edited the book The Federation for Jewish Philanthropy E-mail: [email protected] The Friendship Circle is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation. “The French Defeat of 1940: Reassess- of Upper Fairfield County. SEPTEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 23 Chabad of Stamford’s First Mega Family Challah Bake Chabad of Stamford will hold its This year, Chabad hopes to dou- and enhance your Rosh Hashanah annual Mega Challah Bake with a twist ble that number. Women, men and celebrations,” said Leah Shemtov, this year. The 2019 bake is now open to children from the entire Stamford co-director of Chabad of Stamford. men, women and children of all ages Jewish community are invited to attend “Hundreds of women in Fairfield who can come together for a pre-Rosh and be a part of reaching the goal of county have drawn inspiration in a Hashanah Mega Family Challah Bake uniting up to 1,000 people. Chabad powerful and uplifting way when they that will take place on Sunday, Septem- sees the event as an opportunity for came together to fulfill this mitzvah, ber 22, at 4 pm, at the Italian Center, inspiration, spiritual growth and fun and Chabad hopes to spread this ex- 1620 Newfield Ave., Stamford. The for men, women and children of all perience to families for the first time cost to attend is $18 per child, $25 per ages, across generations and the Jewish to include men and children.” adult and $54 family price. Sponsorship The ingredients needed for a perfect challah. demographic spectrum. To be part of the pre-Rosh Hashanah options are also available. The event is being chaired by Lori Mega Family Challah Bake as a captain The Mega Challah Bakes started in women gathered for the inaugural Mega Gilbert, Rachel Jubas, Lorraine Kwes- or participant, or to get more infor- Stamford. It began its life as a vision in Challah Bake. Since then, Loaves of kin and Miriam Sperber. mation, including the cost to attend, January 2009 to get together 118 women Love has partnered with other Chabads “What better way to gear up for the contact Vered Links at 203-3CHABAD, in one room at one time to bake togeth- and women’s organizations from across holidays than to learn how to make, ext. 103, or programs@chabadstam- er, in order to partake in this mitzvah. Fairfield County. These events have shape and braid delicious, sweet, round ford.org, or visit www.chabadstamford. The event was called a success, as 215 drawn up to 500 women. challah bread for your family to enjoy org/challahbake. Dodgeball Tournament Helps Dodge Childhood Hunger Teams from various synagogues and called fierce, but the JCC team came nizer and UJF staffer Sharon Franklin. Kosher Market of Scarsdale; Belkin, agencies gathered together on July out on top. Nearly $2,000 was raised for UJF thanks Craig Price, Josh Levine Burden, Wenig and Goldman, LLP; 17 for the sixth annual United Jew- UJF’s 3SQUARE program, which helps and Seth Young for organizing the and Beldotti Bakery. ish Federation’s NextGen Dodgeball children in need in the local public tournament; referee Glenn Price; and For more information about Next- Tournament for Charity benefiting schools, and for Sandwich Packers, a Titlevest, the tournament title sponsor. Gen or 3SQUARE, contact Diane Sloyer food-insecure children. More than 75 nutrition program in Israel. Other sponsors included Season’s at [email protected]. guests, players and spectators enjoyed a “Each year, we attract new guests to barbecue and mingled together before the tournament who not only have a the games started in the auditorium of great time, but feel good giving back to the Stamford JCC. The competition was a wonderful cause,” stated event orga-

Some of the players from the community who played for UJF’s 3SQUARE program and Sandwich Packers in Israel. Save the Date for JHSFC Heritage Award On Sunday, November 17, at 1 pm, at Temple Beth El, the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County will honor Judith Altmann and Agnes Vertes in recog- nition for their work in Holocaust and Genocide education. Both are survivors of the Holocaust. This has been called an important event for the community as it was only last year that Connecticut became the 10th state to pass the Holo- caust and Genocide Education and Awareness Act requiring public schools to provide Holocaust and genocide education. Altmann and Vertes are said to put into action the notion frequently attributed Guests and players enjoyed the barbecue and mingling at the event. to Edmund Burke that “the only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” They have spoken at hundreds of schools and events, addressing thousands of students, teachers and other adults. In fact, Altmann’s records reflect JCC Membership Open House that she has spoken to 80,000 individuals since she began speaking 20 years ago. The Jewish Community Center will hold a Membership Open House on JHSFC is partnering with the Voices of Hope in Connecticut and The Holo- Sunday, September 8, from 10 am-2 pm. A fall promotion, where new members caust and Human Rights Education Center in Westchester to help ensure that can save 50 percent on their first three months of membership, is taking place their work in Holocaust and genocide education continues. now and ends on September 8. For additional savings, the registration fee will be waived when you join by Monday, September 2. The J seeks to offer something for everyone. There are more than 60 group fitness classes per week, an updated fitness center with certified personal trainers, and a renovated pool and gymnasium. In addition, there are full-day childcare and half-day options, as well as an after-school program and enrichment classes. More changes will be coming this year, including new fitness equipment. Call or e-mail to set up your tour and to receive a seven-day complimentary guest pass for full use of the J’s facilities. Stop by the Open House on September 8 for more information. Current JCC members are encouraged to bring their friends to the Open House, or refer them to the J, and they will receive a free month of membership when their friends join. For more information, and to receive a complimentary guest pass, call Ilene Madwed at 203-487-0945 or e-mail [email protected]. The JCC is located on Newfield Avenue, at the intersection of Vine Road in Stamford. ICRF: Heroes for Hope Gala in Stamford The Israel Cancer Research Fund Connecticut Chapter will honor Greenwich humanitarian Stuart Berni for his philanthropy and leadership at home, across the nation and internationally. The fourth annual Heroes for Hope gala will take place on Sunday, November 17, at 6 pm, at Stamford’s Hilton. Dr. Tali Lando Aronoff, an ENT pediatric surgeon and the author of “ Hell and Back: Wife and Mother, Doctor and Patient, Dragon Slayer,” will be the guest speaker. Funds raised will support the research of Israel’s cancer scientists after they have been selected through a vetting process. Over the course of 45 years, ICRF, a U.S. based charity, has granted $70 million to scientists through- out Israel, two of whom became Israel’s first Nobel laureates in the sciences. ICRF supported scientists are responsible for laboratory research that has led to several cancer drugs used worldwide to save tens of thousands of lives. Stamford Mayor David Martin will be the evening’s honorary chair along with Honorary Host Committee Co-Chair U.S. Senator Richard Blumenthal. Event chair is Jerry Silber. The ICRF Connecticut Board of Directors chair is Leslie Freedman, Ph.D. For registration, sponsorships and questions, visit www. icrfctgala.org or e-mail [email protected]. 24 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2019