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november 2019/cheshvan-kislev 5780 a publication of United jewish federation Volume 21, Number 7 Federation Year-End Celebration to Honor Volunteers UJF Honors Outgoing President Ricky Arbron United Jewish Federation will host following: “Ricky has a unique sense of its “Year-End Celebration and Annual community and cares deeply about the Meeting” on Sunday evening, Decem- Jewish people both locally and around ber 8, at the Ferguson Library, One the world. It has been an honor and Public Library Plaza. Guest of honor a pleasure to work with Ricky the past will be Ricky Arbron, UJF outgoing two-plus years. I am grateful for her lead- president. The Harvey A. Peltz Young ership and her driving force in building and strengthening our community.” Leadership Award will be given jointly Guest speaker Eric Arbron moved to Stamford in 1984 to Dr. Allison and Jonathan Ostroff. Fingerhut, CEO of on a three-year hiatus from Texas, but Volunteer of the Year Awards will go JFNA to Toby Lazarus, Peter Lilienthal, Shari Guest of Honor Jonathan and Allison Ostroff, Harvey A. said she ended up staying after having Raymond and Cathy Satz. David Fogel Ricky Arbron, UJF Peltz Young Leadership Award winners children and realizing what a wonderful will receive UJF’s Distinguished Lead- president place Stamford is to raise a family. Her ership Award. Chairs of the evening The Annual Meeting, including rati- community at no cost. There will also daughter Aly and son Jake grew up in are Dinah Miller Marlowe and Seth fication of the incoming UJF president, be a cocktail pre-reception beginning Stamford, and attended Temple Sinai Marlowe. The guest speaker will be Eric David Gordon, and board members, at 6:30 pm. The cost for the pre-event Hebrew School where they celebrated Fingerhut, newly appointed CEO of will begin at 7:30 pm followed by a des- is $50 per person. their b’nai mitzvah. As part of Arbron’s Jewish Federations of North America. sert reception. It is open to the entire Diane Sloyer, UJF CEO, shared the See “Celebration” on page 2 Jewish Identity, Jewish Community and the Jewish People Annual Saul Cohen-Schoke Jewish Family Service Lecture By Lynn Saltz his life-long dedication to basic human needs. The and day schools creating initiatives Barry Shrage, a Jewish communal the Jewish community. program included increasing including Me’ah, an intensive Jewish professional and educator at Brandeis Shrage is a professor in the community members aware- adult education curriculum; a large-scale University, will speak on Thursday, Horenstein Jewish Profession- ness of Jewish families living program to improve day school quality; November 14, at 7:30 pm, at the al Leadership program and below the poverty level. He and incentive grant programs to support Ferguson Library in Stamford at the Cohen Center for Modern Jew- also developed a program for Jewish overnight camp opportunities and Eighth annual Saul Cohen-Schoke ish Studies at Brandeis Univer- individuals with disabilities boost day school enrollment.” Jewish Family Service Lecture. The sity. Shrage served as president and enlisted synagogues to He said he believes a direct rela- lecture, titled “What Drives Us Apart of Combined Jewish Philan- prioritize inclusion for peo- tionship with Israel is the key to the and What Holds Us Together? Jewish thropies of Greater Boston for ple with disabilities. development of Jewish identity for Identity, Jewish Community, and the 31 years, where he promoted “Professor Shrage is a pas- the next generation. To achieve this, Jewish People,” is offered free to the inclusion and supported the Barry Shrage sionate supporter of Jewish ed- he helped to create the Boston-Haifa community through the generosity needs of Boston’s diverse ucation and other programs Connection, embraced the power of of Mimi Cohen and Saul Cohen, of community. Under his leadership, CJP to strengthen Jewish identity in every Taglit-Birthright Israel, helped spear- blessed memory. This year’s program launched a major initiative to assure a form,” said Betsy Stone, co-chair of the head CJP’s Birthright Israel Campus will also acknowledge Saul’s unex- safety net for those experiencing poverty Saul Cohen-Schoke JFS Lecture Com- Initiative and expanded programs pected passing in March 2019 and by providing food security and other mittee. “CJP worked with synagogues See “Identity” on page 2 Candle 2 Next Gen 4 Bits & Pieces 6 New Around 6 Voices & 14 Super 16 Lighting Shabbat Town Views Sunday

Behrend Institute Kicks off Year of Leadership Training The 2019-2020 Behrend Fellows gathered on a recent Sunday to kick off a year of leadership and learning through United Jewish Federation’s Behrend Institute for Leadership, a multi-faceted program designed to prepare graduates for leadership roles within the organizations that nominated them and for communitywide positions of leadership. Standing (l-r): Eli Niedober, Jonathan Ostroff, Sam Raymond, Shari Raymond, Jason Kaplowitz, Stu Madison, Howard Weiner, Adam Batkin, Ilan Katz, Chris Maroc, Rebecca Stulberger, Elana Genger, Leslie Napach, Aileen Tisser, Ben Folkinshteyn (hidden), facilitator Jonathan Fass and Dan Faizakoff. Seated: Daniel Sobelsohn, Allison Ostroff, Avital Greenbaum, Rhonda Greif, Shushannah Walshe (with her new son), Jessie Katz (with her new daughter), Claudia Rimerman and Sean Altman. Missing from photo: Jenny Fishman, Peter Rosen and Karen Resnick.See article on page 7. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2019 From UJF’s Chief Executive Officer Shaking up the Status Quo to Ensure Our Future By Diane Sloyer the operating budget of Federation by process – what works and what doesn’t, and make Change is hard and oftentimes leads to over 40 percent, greatly streamlined the adjustments along the way. honest disagreements. But change is nec- staff and under Ricky’s leadership we have Last month, Ethan Zohn, a winner of the tele- essary because organizations – both “for re-imagined the mission and vision of UJF. vision show “Survivor Africa” and two-time cancer profit” and “not for profit” – must evolve to To that end, Ricky created a Federation survivor, spoke at our campaign kickoff event where survive. I think back to when I first joined Forward Committee chaired by past Fed- we highlighted the new fundraising and allocation UJF as CEO and realize how much change eration President Fred Springer. Although model. His presentation was inspiring and I was has occurred! UJF continues to play an important and particularly touched by what he said at the end. I took the job as interim CEO for six unique role as community convener, it was “There are two things for sure in life. Number 1 – months in mid-2017 as UJF began a search clear to me and to many other community we are going to die. Number 2 – until we die, we for a new CEO. I was on a well-deserved leaders that the model for raising and are going to live. So, the question is – how do we break after being the CEO at the Federa- Diane Sloyer, allocating funds needed to be brought want to live!” tion in Rockland County for seven years, UJF CEO into the 21st century – recognizing that Our new campaign, called the “Campaign for where I was tasked with saving and resurrecting the the opportunities for philanthropic giving and the Communal Needs,” and its launch have been well organization. Ricky Arbron and Shoshana Dweck need for transparency had changed, but UJF had received. There are always some who choose to live asked me to come on board as the interim and it was not. Historically, the leaders of Federation, drawn by taking comfort in the status quo, because that hard to say no, especially after being a UJF supporter from a cross-section of our diverse community, were is always the easiest path to take. There are always for almost 25 years and having endowed my Lion of able to identify community needs and provide pro- some who choose to live by being negative. I’ve Judah gift for my 40th birthday. Ricky and Shoshana, gramming to meet those needs. For example, Jewish always felt that being negative is a copout – it adds along with many of my good friends, who are also Family Service was founded by UJF and eventually no value. And, there are some who take the bull by committed to UJF and our community, convinced was spun out as its own entity to provide important the horns and make great things happen. This is me to help. After six months, I was asked and agreed services to our greater community. It is in that spirit, your UJF! Leadership is about recognizing that the to stay on as CEO because of caring people who after a year of analysis and deliberation involving world is constantly changing and adjusting not only wanted to make our community a better place and all of our stakeholders, that we came up with a new to survive, but also to thrive. who wanted UJF to evolve. model for raising and allocating communal funds. It is my hope that the New Year brings us all a Having agreed to remain as CEO for another We don’t anticipate that everything will work out year of positivity, growth and strength. Please join two years, I was committed to changing the status perfectly in the first year, or maybe even in the us in building and strengthening our awesome quo. The changes have been significant. We cut second year, but we plan on learning a lot from this community!

Celebration Continued from page 1 life long Jewish journey, she celebrated her bat mitzvah more than $2 billion annually, and through planned of UJF. Their commitment to the Jewish community as an adult at Temple Sinai. giving and endowment programs. of Greater Stamford has had a positive impact on us “My history with UJF began when I started taking “I grew up in Cleveland,” Fingerhut recounts. all,” said Diane Sloyer. Melton classes. My Jewish connection to Stamford has “I didn’t realize it at the time, but my early life was Journal ads and reservations can be made online spanned from Temple Sinai to Agudath Sholom and shaped by Federation. I vividly remember carrying at www.ujf.org/celebration2019 or by calling Diane I am grateful to both, as well as the whole community signs in the walkathons standing up for Israel during Sloyer at 203-321-1373, ext. 105. for being part of my Jewish journey,” shared Arbron. the 1967 and 1973 wars. Never did I imagine that In her professional life, Arbron is the third nearly a half century later, I would have the oppor- Continued from page 1 generation of a family real estate investment and tunity to lead a movement that has impacted my Identity management firm. life and so many others. It has a rich history, and I aimed at helping young adults to understand and Arbron joined the Federation board in 2010. In believe it can have an even more impactful future. I engage with Israel and become more engaged and 2017, she became president of UJF and served for three am excited to take on that challenge.” educated Jews. The efforts CJP employs to improve years to complete the transition with Diane Sloyer, The evening will also single out this year’s Peltz Jewish identity parallel a similar effort that Schoke whom she hired to be the CEO. During Arbron’s ten- winners and the Volunteers of the Year. Dr. Allison JFS offers in the Fairfield County community, with ure, hard but necessary cutbacks were made to make and Jonathan Ostroff will receive the Harvey A. financial support for children to attend Jewish day Federation a leaner and mission-focused organization. Peltz Young Leadership Award recognizing them camps and overnight camps. She led a visionary strategic process to re-imagine for their commitment and leadership. Both Ostroffs Shrage will also offer a Lunch and Learn with Federation and its impact on the community. are currently fellows in the Behrend Institute for Jewish professionals and clergy at the Schoke JFS The keynote speaker for the evening will be Eric Leadership, and are active planners and participants Bridgeport office at noon on Thursday, November Fingerhut. For more than half a decade before be- in PJ Library. Jonathan serves on the UJF Board of 14. For details about this program, contact Jonathan coming CEO of JFNA, Fingerhut spearheaded Hillel Directors. Allison and Jonathan are the parents of Fass at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. International, where he developed partnerships and Bi-Cultural kindergarteners Eliza and Rebecca. Prior to the lecture, a Patron’s Reception will asserted leadership in advocacy for Israel and insti- Distinguished Leadership Award recipient David recognize Mitzvah Circle donors for their support tuted a cultural transformation. JFNA represents 147 Fogel, who is completing his term on the Federation of Schoke JFS. For details or to learn how to become Jewish Federations, including UJF, and more than board, is a call night regular and has chaired the Feder- a Schoke JFS Patron, contact Lisa Rich, director of 300 Network communities, raising and distributing ation Allocations Committee for the past several years. donor relations, at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Volunteer of the Year Toby Lazarus serves on Wom- Visit www.ctjfs.org for more details about this en’s Philanthropy board, has recently chaired the spring year’s lecture. CANDLE LIGHTING dinner and this year will chair Women’s Education Day, Lynn Saltz is the Schoke JFS marketing and jointly sponsored with the UJA-JCC Greenwich. Peter communications coordinator. TIMES Lilienthal serves on the UJF board as well as the board of the Jewish Historical Society. As chair of the JCRC, he Friday Night Live and Community October 25...... 5:41 pm was instrumental in the passing of the Holocaust edu- November 1...... 5:32 pm cation bill in the state of Connecticut. Shari Raymond Shabbat Dinner November 8...... 4:24 pm serves on the Federation board, is an active PJ Library Chabad of Stamford will host its community November 15...... 4:18 pm parent, serves on the UJF Grant Committee and is program “Friday Night Live” on Friday, November chairing Super Sunday for the second time. Cathy Satz 8. “Friday Night Live” is a Shabbat experience that November 22...... 4:12 pm has served on the Spring Dinner Committee and has caters to children, families, singles, couples, old and November 29...... 4:09 pm chaired Cardozo affinity events, recently moderating young. The community is invited to join Chabad for December 6...... 4:08 pm a panel on ethics with area judges. a Kabbalat Shabbat and children’s program, followed December 13...... 4:08 pm “Every organization is built on the backbone of by a themed kiddush of Sushi and Scotch. There is volunteers. These awards enable UJF to recognize no charge for the event and all are welcome (spon- community members who give of their time on behalf sorship is available). Following kiddush, Chabad will host a Shabbat dinner for the community and Gan Yeladim families. 2 West 46th Street (The dinner is a paid event.) This event will be held Suite #907 at Chabad of Stamford, 770 High Ridge Rd., at the beginning of Shabbat. New York, NY 10036 For more information, contact programs@ DR. WENDY WOLFSON stamfordchabad.org. PSYCHIATRIST 21 Locust Avenue Gan Yeladim Parenting Club Suite 1D Gan Yeladim will run a parenting club in November New Canaan, CT 06840 for parents of children of all ages. The classes will be led by morah Leah Shemtov and morah Hillary Isaacs 917.499.8250 as parents come together to glean insights and learn 246 Post Road East from each other strategies to effectively raise children. [email protected] 2nd Floor The parenting club will run on Tuesdays, Novem- www.drwendywolfson.com Westport, CT 06840 ber 5, 12, 19 and 26, from 9:15-10:15 am, at Chabad of Stamford and Tuesday evenings at 8 pm at a private • Specializing in the medical management of mood and anxiety disorders and ADD in teens and adults • home in Stamford. For more information, contact [email protected].

2 West 46th Street Suite #907 DR. WENDY WOLFSON New York, NY 10036 PSYCHIATRIST 21 Locust Avenue Suite 1D New Canaan, CT 06840 917.499.8250 [email protected] 246 Post Road East 2nd Floor www.drwendywolfson.com Westport, CT 06840 • Specializing in the medical management of mood and anxiety disorders and ADD in teens and adults •

Happy Chauukah! 2 West 46th Street Suite #907 DR. WENDY WOLFSON New York, NY 10036 PSYCHIATRIST 21 Locust Avenue Suite 1D New Canaan, CT 06840 917.499.8250 [email protected] 246 Post Road East 2nd Floor www.drwendywolfson.com Westport, CT 06840 • Specializing in the medical management of mood and anxiety disorders and ADD in teens and adults • NOVEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 COMMUNITY NEWS “Robbery of the Heart” – Commemorating Kristallnacht By Elissa Kaplan the rise of Nazism, some people became oppressors, of Fairfield County will also welcome Weichsel, who The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County while others were victims. Between 1938 and 1942, all resides in Bridgeport, and his sister Eva Hausman, and the Jewish Film Festival of Fairfield County (a 122 of Wetter’s Jews either escaped Germany for a free a Stamford resident, for the screening and a Q&A program of the Stamford Jewish Community Center) life somewhere else, or were removed and sent to con- following the film. invite the community to a jointly sponsored screen- centration camps where they perished at the hands of Those with questions about the screening of this ing of the documentary “Robbery of the Heart” to the Nazi regime. Seventy years later, a boy who escaped documentary should contact the Jewish Historical commemorate the 81st anniversary of Kristallnacht the Nazis wanted to seek resolution of the broken past. Society of Fairfield County by phone at 203-321-1373, on Sunday, November 10, at the Ferguson Library, The film was shot in Wetter, as well as Roth, Marburg, ext.150, by e-mail at [email protected] or online at One Public Library Plaza, Stamford. This jointly Rothenburg and Frankfurt, all in Germany, as well as jhsfc-ct.org. Questions can also be addressed to the sponsored screening will begin at 2 pm and is free in Bridgeport, Fairfield, Simsbury and Hartford. The Jewish Film Festival of Fairfield County at 203-487- and open to the community. There will be a reception name of the film, “Robbery of the Heart,” relates to 0941, [email protected] or on stamford- starting at 1:30 pm. the former shape of the town. During medieval times jcc.org. Admission is free of charge, but reservations “Robbery of the Heart” is a film that follows Holo- and through the end of World War II, the stone walls are recommended. Reservations can be made online caust survivor Harry Weichsel, from Bridgeport, CT, surrounding the town formed a heart-shape. at www.stamfordjcc.org. Walk-ins are welcome if as he, his children and grandchildren return to his The community is invited to come see the film and space is available. hometown in Wetter, Germany, on the occasion of the meet the film-maker, Micah Brandt, who spent the The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County and the 70th anniversary of Kristallnacht. The town of Wetter majority of his childhood in the New Haven area. The Stamford Jewish Community Center are recipient agencies was a quiet, small town, northwest of Frankfurt. With Jewish Historical Society and the Jewish Film Festival of United Jewish Federation. “Laughing in the Face of Motherhood” JCC Early Childhood Scholar-in-Residence Program Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson, cohosts of the enjoying a great night out to share stories, memories parenting podcast “What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the and encouragement that we are all in this together.” Face of Motherhood,” will present “WFH LIVE!” at Ables is a comedian and writer whose work has the Stamford Jewish Community Center on Thurs- been featured on Comedy Central, MTV, Nickelode- day, December 5, at 7 pm. The co-hosts will bring on, PBS Kids and NickMom.com. She is a frequent their podcast to a live audience, including comedy contributor of parenting tips to the daytime television sketches, games and audience participation. show “Steve Harvey.” Ables and Wilson combine their comic sensibili- Wilson is an actor and comedian who has ap- ties and their usually-completely-opposite parenting peared on Broadway and in dozens of sitcoms and approaches to tackle a host of parenting issues, from films. She’s also the author of the book “When Did picky eaters to slumber parties. “We may not have all the I Get Like This? The Screamer, The Worrier, The answers, but you’ll definitely laugh along,” says Ables. Dinosaur-Chicken-Nugget Buyer, and Other Mothers The JCC is bringing “WFH LIVE!” to Stamford I Swore I’d Never Be” and the play “Mother Load,” after the podcast’s sold-out performances at the a one-woman show that toured nationwide after its Chappaqua Performing Arts Center in Westchester, Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson, cohosts of the parenting hit off-Broadway run. the Blumenthal Performing Arts Center in Charlotte, podcast “What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Episodes of “What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the NC, and the Theater at North in Scranton, PA. Motherhood” Face of Motherhood” are available free by searching Tom Gabbard, CEO of Blumenthal Performing a cell phone’s podcast app, or by visiting the website Arts Center, says, “Our Charlotte audience loved the In the midst of all the laughs are sweet, poignant whatfreshhellpodcast.com. live performance of Margaret and Amy from ‘What moments that everyone relates to. Very quickly they Tickets are $10 for JCC members and $15 per per- Fresh Hell.’ The show is smart, funny and fast-paced. make the audience feel like new best friends who are son for nonmembers, or $20 for all after Wednesday, November 27. The price includes refreshments, wine and the signature cocktail “What Fresh Hellini.” For Cantor Jacobson Brings “Shabbat tickets, visit stamfordjcc.org or call the JCC welcome desk at 203-322-7900. Unplugged” Back to Stamford See “Face” on page 11 Cantor Deborah Jacobson will return “Good Day New York,” “NBC Weekend to Temple Beth El on Friday, Novem- Today” and “ABC Eyewitness News in the Deadlines for ber 22, at 7:30 pm with her signature Morning.” She was featured on Lifetime “Shabbat Unplugged” service that she TV on a segment about women clergy introduced at Temple Beth El when she and on radio stations across the country, articles served as cantor from 2002-05. “The including NPR. The deadlines for the next two issues of The community is welcome to join Cantor Cantor Jacobson presently serves as New Jewish Voice are: Jacobson and her band to celebrate the the part-time cantor at Temple Judea of Monday, November 4...... December-January essence of Shabbat with a rockin’ sound,” Manhasset. “Her cantorate is defined by Monday, January 6...... February said Rabbi Joshua Hammerman. Cantor Deborah her deep connection to Judaism and her Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to Cantor Jacobson has led services Jacobson love of music coupled with her passion to Sandy Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford around the world, including Australia build community and inspire and comfort Voice” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledge- and Singapore. A published author, Cantor Jacob- others through prayer, music, learning and love,” ment; please re-send if you do not receive one. son has appeared nationally on TV shows such as said Rabbi Hammerman.

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Schoke JFS Farewell Party At a farewell party held at Schoke Jewish Family Service’s office, Ilene K. Locker (left) and Jodi Maxner (right) were thanked for their many years of service and dedication at the agency. Locker is retiring from her position as the director of employment and training. During her tenure of 15 years, she developed four of the five current programs in the Employment and Training Program. In addition, she secured the initial funding and was responsible for budgeting reporting, training and supervision of staff and clients. In more than eight years before this leadership role, she held several positions throughout the agency. Maxner is leaving the agency to pursue other career opportunities. For more than 11 years, Maxner worked at Schoke JFS as a job Some of the teen board members, who worked hard on this event. L-r: Zevi Mehl, Yoni developer and recruiter for the Employment and Training Program. During her tenure, she was Semel, Zach Ostroff, Benji Fuchs, Josh Sherman, Ella Rosen, Emma Goldberg, Ashley also the program manager for the residential cleaning program for five years. Schoke JFS extended Shapiro, and Zoe Jaffe-Berkowitz. its gratitude for the work Locker and Maxner did for the community on behalf of the agency. Hands-On Learning Supports Mitzvot at Temple Sinai Thanksgiving is a national opportunity to re- bags for Inspirica, tote bags for Leket Israel and tor of lifelong learning at Temple Sinai. “This year, member the blessings of life, particularly living in more. As the students do crafts, they learn about Temple Sinai Religious School students will celebrate a democracy where Jews enjoy religious freedom. these organizations and understand that the Jewish Thanksgiving with a greater understanding of the One response to feelings of gratitude is the desire tradition of caring. They study the texts and the myriad blessings they share, as well as the invaluable to give back to the community, which is the reason commandments that guide Jewish thinking, and contributions they make. In this way, their gratitude behind a new approach to mitzvot during Temple are engaged in each project, which seek to make becomes both personal and collective.” Sinai’s religious school. Judaism relevant for the next generation. For more information about this program Temple Sinai Religious School students give “This learning style has been met with tremendous and others, contact Kuper Jaffe at MorahJudy@ thanks and give back every time they come to class. enthusiasm by grownups and children alike. Students templesinaistamford.org. Each week, when they arrive, students engage are excited to arrive at Religious School because in a new, hands-on mitzvah project experience. they know they have an important job to do. These Students have created Rosh Hashanah cards for activities enhance their learning and have already Schoke JFS Anachnu Holocaust survivors, book- become a meaningful addition to the Religious marks for Building One Community, breakfast School curriculum,” said Judy Kuper Jaffe, direc-

Temple Sinai Religious School students wrote notes and packed breakfast foods to donate to Inspirica as one of their weekly mitzvah projects.

Temple Sinai children wrote Rosh Hashanah cards to be included in the Schoke JFS Anachnu baskets. (Names withheld upon request.) NOVEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 5 Holiday Fun with PJ Library On September 19, United Jewish Federation’s PJ Hebrew Academy. Children enjoyed decorating Sunday, November 10, at Super Sunday. In addi- Library hosted “PJ Birthday Bash Supper and Cel- cupcakes and making New Year cards for area seniors tion to receiving a prize in exchange for coins ebrate the New Year.” More than 35 families came to brighten their holiday. donated, children will have fun in the carnival together to celebrate Rosh Hashanah with musical The program was in collaboration with Bi-Cultural room, bouncing in the bouncy house, having entertainment by Rabbi Avi Block of Bi-Cultural and Prizmah: Center for Jewish Day Schools, thanks See “PJ” on page 6 to a generous grant. The next PJ Library program will be held on

Peretz Cik and his son (name held on request) enjoyed a PJ story. Rabbi Avi Block provided musical entertainment. Participants decorated and ate birthday cupcakes. PJ CORNER Spotlight on By Sharon Franklin In addition to sending free award-winning Jewish books to your home each month, PJ Library offers Youth at Chabad wonderful opportunities for young families to get At Chabad of Stamford, the spotlight is on youth. together in our community: Chabad offers an array of programs for youth of all ‹‹ Join UJF at the Super Sunday Extravaganza on ages. November 10 for a special PJ story time with games Chabad’s Chai Five club, for kids in third through and crafts. Collecting coins for the tzedakah coin seventh grade, gets together monthly to join in com- challenge? Drop off your coins between 9:30 am and munity mitzvah and social action projects. The club’s 1:30 pm at The J. goal is to have children experience the joy of giving ‹‹ Want $100 to get together with friends? Go to www. and to empower them with the knowledge that the pjlibrary.org/GetTogether and find out more about world needs them to make a difference. how PJ Library can help you gather with friends to Chai Five participants can also enrich their Hebrew make your Jewish moments and memories happen. reading at CKC, the Chabad Kids Club. CKC, for children ‹‹ Sign up for your free PJ Library monthly books in grades pre- kindergarten through seventh, is a weekly for your kids ages 6 months to 8 years old at www. opportunity for children to learn about their Jewish ujf.org/pjlibrary.org. Sign up for a free monthly PJ heritage, holidays, language and practices through Our Way chapter book for your 8½ to 11 year old at Yael, Elisheva, Bess and Naomi are great PJ ambassadors. interactive classes and hands-on experiences. www.pjourway.com. (Last names withheld on request.) See “Youth” on page 6

ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2019 bits and pieces New Around Town By Sandy Golove Virginia Butts Cryer: mother of Lisa Corner, Carmel Academy Director of Educational To submit infor- Larry Cryer. mation to Bits and Adele Gordon: wife of Leslie Resources and PALS Program Pieces, call 203-912- Gordon. Carmel Academy welcomed Lisa Corner in July as the 9945, or e-mail me at Bessie Green: mother of Arthur new director of educational resources and PALS (Carmel’s [email protected]. Green. program for twice-exceptional students who, with appro- WELCOME TO Sandra Johnson: sister of Darrell priate support, can be successful and achieve grade level GROWING FAMILIES: Johnson. standards and beyond). Erica and George Felix Klebanov: husband of Anna Corner is a special educator with experience using many Brunner on the birth of a son. Klebanov. social, emotional and behavioral curricular approaches. Kate and Peretz Cik on the birth of a Lawrence E. Kraus: husband of She began her career teaching adolescents, subsequently son; grandparents are Regina and Barry Miriam Kraus, father of Aimee Atkin- segueing to early childhood education when she joined Cik, Henry Frommer and Cheryl Tuttle. son and Stacey Guber; and brother of the team of the Therapeutic Nursery at the Tenafly JCC. Pam Ehrenkranz and Matt Green- Howard Kraus. There she led the program that included speech/language berg on the birth of a grandson, Liam Harry Lerner: grandfather of Jon- therapy, occupational therapy and a focus on social-emo- Lisa Corner Yehudah Shabtay. athan Lerner. tional learning, while running multiple social skills groups for children of all Debbie and Lou Ferri on the birth of Allan Mall: father of Elyse Mall. ages. Corner has also collaborated with Dr. Michelle Dunn in her research their granddaughter, Renée Adine Ferri. Emmet Manheim: son of Lisa and and authorship of the Social Skills in Our Schools (or SOS) curriculum, which Trudy Helmsing and Adam Rein Jeff Manheim; brother of Caleb, Josh Carmel Academy began using in 2018, and is one of the authors on the newest on the birth of a son, Levon Joseph and Rachel Manheim; and grandson SOS book being published this fall. Rein; grandparents are Esther and of Fredda and Ed Goldstein and Bobbi “Lisa’s experience, educational philosophy, and insight into student’s learning Harvey Rein. and Mike Manheim. styles are completely aligned with Carmel Academy, and she’s an exciting addi- Ilyse and Dean Schuckman on the Herbert Martin: cousin of Barbara tion,” said Nora Anderson, Carmel head of school. “The Carmel PALS students birth of a granddaughter, Rory Anna Aronica-Buck. and approach are incredible, and I am thrilled to lead this critical and unique Schuckman. Eric Pleskow: father of Michelle Abt program forward!” observed Corner. Caren and Jules Szanton on the birth and Tony Pleskow. of a son; grandparents are Sharon and Judith Price: wife of Honorable Jeff Lewis. Arnold N. Price; and mother of Lynne Mega Family Challah Bake Rachel Leiterstein Zohar and Gadi Frenkel and Robyn Price Stonehill. Zohar on the birth of a son; grandpar- Dr. Stanley Rosner: husband of ents are Susan and Steve Leiterstein, Blanche Rosner; and father of Adam, Takes Stamford by Storm! and Nancy and Shimon Zohar. David, Elissa and Jennifer Rosner. Almost 900 people baked more than “The ruach (spirit) and energy were Vivien White on the birth of a Evie Shapiro: mother of Lauren 1,800 sweet, round challahs for Rosh incredible and infectious,” commented great-grandson, William Arthur White. Chitalia and Jami Fener. Hashanah at Chabad of Stamford’s Dr. Stuart Silverstein who came with his MAZEL TOV ON WEDDINGS/ Maxine Saperstein: aunt of Fred Mega Family Challah Bake on Septem- family for his first challah bake. Beth ENGAGEMENTS: Golove and Rebecca Lehrfeld. ber 22 at the Italian Center in Stam- Baer, who brought her husband and son Judy and Bob Amster on the engage- Nahum Sapir: husband of Rimma ford. This year, Chabad of Stamford to their first challah bake, was equally ment of their daughter, Hillary Amster, Livschits and father of Marina Sapir. took its mega challah bake concept to impressed. “Having the challah bake to Gabriel Pantones. Robert Tatham: father of Sarah a new dimension by not only inviting include men and children brought Kit Ling Wong and Richard Hecker Hochman. women, but men and children as well! such a great feeling of community,” on their marriage. Miriam Rose Tauber: mother of The event was called an afternoon of she said, adding “I love how Chabad MAZEL TOV TO: Lori Marcus. unity and connection in preparation of Stamford welcomes us all no matter Susan Peyser on the opening of her Valentine Voytovich: father of Mi- for Rosh Hashanah (the Jewish New how observant or affiliated we are, to first solo art exhibition, “Poetics of chael Voytovich. Year) as participants from all levels of give us a stronger sense of Judaism.” Structure,” currently showing at the Morris Wertheim: father of Susan affiliation in the Jewish community took “Rock star Leah Shemtov did it JCC through November 1. Pernick, Dennis Wertheim and Iris part in the mitzvah of making, shaping again,” Marianna Tehrani commented. MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: Wertheim. and baking challah. “It was an amazing event full of fun and Lana Busch, daughter of Maria Levin CORRECTION The afternoon kicked off with kids’ great energy.’’ and Greg Busch. The following was listed incorrectly entertainment by Dr. Schnitzel and Stella Cohen, who hasn’t missed a Andre Levin, son of Rebecca and in last month’s “We Mourn the Loss of” a cocktail reception for the event’s mega challah bake since they first started, Radd Levin. listing. The New Jewish Voice apologizes donors. Chabad was also joined by commented that ‘‘the challah bake was Jonah Rosenberg, son of Julie and for the error. several guests, including IDF soldiers an incredible experience which brought Remi Rosenberg. Barry J. Boodman: husband of Linda (courtesy of the FIDF) who led them together over 900 people to bake over WE MOURN THE LOSS OF: Boodman; father of Ben Boodman and in tehilim (psalms) with Sandy Shapiro 1,800 challahs for Rosh Hashanah.” Justin Bernstein: son of Lauren and Charlie Boodman; and brother of Rich- accompanying on the guitar. Prayers For Elise Klein, it was a way to con- Brian Bernstein. ard Boodman. were offered for one another, for fam- nect with old and new friends. “Leah ilies and for communities, in addition and Rabbi Moshe Shemtov always to prayers of healing to those in need. manage to unite the Stamford Jew- Monday Evening Kabbalah Series Chabad emissaries believe that the ish community with their wonderful Join Rabbi Daniel Cohen for a series on “Mystical Principles for Inspired and act of making challah together can events,” she said. “The day was truly Meaningful Living” on Mondays at 8:15 pm at Congregation Agudath Sholom. connect people spiritually, as chal- fantastic and inspiring, the food and The class will explore the wisdom of Jewish mysticism as expressed by the masters lah is said to represent the blessings décor was outstanding and the challah throughout the generations. The class will study secondary sources, drawing on from above for material and spiritual of course, was delicious!” the works of Rabbi Isaac Luria, the Baal Shem Tov, Rabbi Nachaman of Bratslav sustenance and abundance. With that Chabad thanked to Lori Gilbert, Ra- and others. The class will seek to show how, in today’s world, Kabbalah can in mind, in 2009, Stamford had 210 chel Jubas, Lorraine Kweskin, Miriam illuminate an “empowered and eternal path” for daily living. women attending the world’s first Sperber, Alica Janush and all the vol- The class schedule is: November 4, “The Path to Mindfulness”; November 11, mega challah bake. unteers who made the event possible. “Living with Purpose”; November 25, “Understanding the Journey of the Soul and the Afterlife”; and December 2, “Seeing and Experiencing God.” At left: Jackie Herman and her children, PJ Continued from page 5 along with Bruce their faces painted and doing arts To get a free monthly chapter book for Mitchell and his and crafts. children ages 8 ½-11years old, visit www. family, joined 900 To sign up to get free monthly PJ Li- pjourway.org. For more information, other community brary books for children ages 6 months contact Sharon Franklin at sharon@ members to learn to 8 years old, visit www.pjlibrary.org. ujf.org or 203-321-1373, ext. 109. how to make, shape and bake sweet round challah for Youth Continued from page 5 the holiday of Rosh At CTEENs, teens from various eighth grade, where girls gather for Hashanah. local high schools meet monthly to evenings of food, fun and discussions spend time with friends, make some about life as they learn what it means new ones and give back to their to be a self-assured Jewish woman in community. CTEENs seeks to build today’s world. core values that will follow the teens To register or learn more about through high school, college and Chabad of Stamford’s youth pro- At right: The beyond. grams, visit www.chabadstamford.org Pomerantz and Zeide Chabad also runs a monthly Bat Mitz- or contact Chana Stein at youth@ families enjoying vah and Beyond club for girls in sixth- stamfordchabad.org. making challahs for Rosh Hashanah at the UJF Tribute Cards are a wonderful way to connect with your Mega Family Challah Bake. family and friends and mark any occasion while supporting the extraordinary work of UJF. To send a tribute, go to www.ujf.org. NOVEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 Behrend Institute for Leadership Launches a New Session On September 22, United Jewish cilitating this program,” shared Diane ‹‹ Leading with a sense of abundance self, be empathetic with those around Federation launched the eighth Sloyer, UJF CEO. ‹‹ Leadership succession (giving up a you and if you have all three, you will session of the Behrend Institute for “What is Jewish Leadership” was the leadership role at the end one’s term) be a more genuine leader.” Leadership. This communal leadership first session’s focus. The session opened The tone for the year was set with Those interested in learning more program has spanned 15 years and has with a series of icebreakers that focused the following summary by the rabbi: about the Behrend Institute for Lead- more than 150 alumni, many having on getting to know one another. Fel- “Be really present and honest with ership should contact Diane Sloyer at served or are currently serving the lows were paired off to learn about yourself, be compassionate with your- 203-321-1321, ext. 105. Greater Stamford, New Canaan and each other’s interests, feelings toward Darien Jewish community in leadership community, and what brought them to positions. This year’s class of Behrend the leadership institute. Bi-Cultural Annual Fellows is made up of 27 participants When the group reconvened, mem- representing 13 Jewish community bers shared what they hope to gain from organizations, including Bi-Cultural a year of learning together. The guest Celebration Dinner Hebrew Academy, Carmel Academy, speaker for Session One was Rabbi Several Jewish community leaders Chabad of New Canaan, Chabad of Menachem Creditor of UJA-Federation will be honored for their commit- Stamford, Congregation Agudath Sho- of New York. In both chavruta (paired ment to Jewish education and their lom, Friendship Circle, Friends of the learning groups) and as a large group, dedication to community service at IDF, JCC Stamford, Schoke JFS, Temple the participants were asked to explore the Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy of Beth-El, Temple Sinai, United Jewish a variety of Jewish texts. In both scenar- Connecticut Celebration Dinner, it Federation and Young Israel. ios, they analyzed and discussed Jewish was announced recently by dinner “United Jewish Federation is ex- thinking around the opportunities and Co-chairs Taly and Trevor Farber, and tremely grateful to Stephne and challenges in leadership. Amanda and Jasper Lewitton. The gala Kerrin Behrend for their thoughtful The aspects of leadership discussed dinner will be held on Sunday, January and visionary leadership. They saw a included: 12, at 5:30 pm, at the Hilton Stamford communal need and filled the void, ‹‹ Feeling authentic as a leader Hotel. The theme of this year’s dinner creating a thought-provoking and ‹‹ Caring for oneself while caring for is “Imagine. Design. Create.” educational leadership program that others “Bi-Cultural’s pedagogy is multi-fac- L-r: Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy 2020 has, for the past 15 years, created some ‹‹ Leading with the mission of the eted,” said Rabbi Tzvi Bernstein in ex- Celebration Dinner Co-chairs Amanda of the best and brightest leaders in agency in mind plaining the significance of this year’s Lewitton and Taly Farber our community. We are thrilled that ‹‹ Being a self-aware leader theme. “This year’s dinner highlights Jonathan Fass, COO of Schoke Jewish ‹‹ Being wholly present as a leader one of these facets – learning through creativity and artistic sensibilities that Family Service, will once again be fa- ‹‹ Being empathetic to all creativity and artistry. We celebrate the activate our learning. Imbued with the bonds that we establish in our lives and spirit of God, Bezalel, the great artisan UJF Trains Teens as Future our Jewish community through the See “Dinner” on page 14 Gan Yeladim Open House Gan Yeladim will hold an open house for prospective and current Gan families Leaders and Philanthropists on Sunday, December 1, from 9:30-11:30 am. The event is free and open to the The Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah Corps through May, KTTC seeks to teach community. There will be hands-on activities and experiences for kids aimed at began its seventh year with more than and encourage philanthropy and promoting good health habits, including kids’ yoga and a healthy cooking class. 20 teens committed to learning about involvement in the community by This year, the Gan’s nurse consultant, Nathalie Tocci will run a CPR and First Aid tzedakah, the Jewish community and giving teens the opportunity to learn course for parents (pre-registration is required). Gan tours will be available through- Jewish Leadership. Thanks to the gen- about the nuts and bolts of Jewish out the morning. Gan Yeladim will also host a Loaves of Love Cooking Marathon. erosity of the Kuriansky family, United philanthropy, and how it applies Jewish Federation has run KTTC and to a variety of local, regional and has been convening teens since 2012 international organizations. with close to 200 teens graduating from In addition, teens can explore Jew- this program. ish values, and solicit, evaluate and The 2019-20 class will be facilitated award grants to organizations based by Jonathan Fass who currently serves on those values. as Schoke Jewish Family Service’s chief “It is our hope that the teens will see operating officer. Fass also runs the themselves as citizens of their local and Federation’s Behrend Leadership global communities, and will engage Institute and is longtime professional with those communities in social action, Jewish educator. advocacy and education,” shared Diane With sessions from October Sloyer, UJF CEO.

Area teens gathered for the first session of the Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah Corps.

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ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2019 Temple Beth El Speaker Series Temple Beth El in Stamford will Author of several books, Berk is pres- ing at many colleges and universities. The topic of his talk, sponsored by the hold three lectures in its speaker series ently writing a book titled “Our People Berk is frequently consulted by news- TBE Reyut Committee, will be “Addic- this fall. Are Your People: American Jewry and paper reporters. and by television and tion, The Opioid Crisis and Recovery Professor Stephen Berk will speak the Struggle for Civil Rights 1954-1965.” radio stations, including the BBC. Through a Jewish Lens.” on “The Jews of Cuba Rediscovered” The book provides a discussion of the On Tuesday, November 19, at 7:30 Rabbi Eisenberg received ordination on Sunday, November 3, at 11 am, at history of the civil rights movement, pm, Rabbi Richard Eisenberg, the au- from the Jewish Theological Seminary Temple Beth El. Berk is the Henry and and attempts to dispel the myths and thor of the book “Judaism, Addiction and went on to serve as a congrega- Sally Schaffer Professor of Holocaust misunderstandings that surround the and Recovery: A Spiritual and Faith tional rabbi spanning 35 years. He also and Jewish Studies at Union College Black-Jewish relationship. Based Approach,” will speak at TBE. See “Temple” onp age 11 and former chair of the Department of Berk has been a consultant to the History. Berk will be leading a tour of Wiesenthal Holocaust Center in Los Temple Beth El congregants to Cuba Angeles. He has lectured throughout in March, but this lecture is open to all. the United States and Canada, includ- CAS Paint Night Schoke JFS Hosts Young Couples Cocktail Party In early September, about a dozen young Jewish couples gathered together to learn about Schoke Jewish Family Service and the outreach and community support it provides to the Fairfield County community. After a light dinner, the participants learned how they can help the agency and the services provided by the organization. Shown at right is Ari Goldstein speaking to young couples about the activities of Schoke JFS. Matt Greenberg, CEO of Schoke JFS commented, Multiple generations gathered for an evening of artistic expression, wine and cheese at “We listened to the young couples to see how Congregation Agudath Sholom’s “paint night” with Pinot’s Palette. Schoke JFS can better serve their needs, too.” Harpist Performs at Schoke JFS Anachnu Café Europa L-r: Jessica Batkin, Rachel As part of its Anachnu The participants were Biller and Liatte Lasher talked program for Holocaust sur- served lunch provided by Six about the upcoming programs vivors, Schoke Jewish Family Thirteen restaurant and des- at Schoke JFS. Service gathered more than sert prepared by volunteers 60 Holocaust survivors for from Temple Beth El. The a Café Europa event at program included a talk and Temple Beth El, Stamford. performance by Lisa Tan- The Jewish Federations of nenbaum, world-renowned North America Center for harpist and congregant at Holocaust Survivor Care, Temple Beth El. “People saw Claims Conference on Jewish the harp from a different Material Claims Against Ger- Harpist Lisa perspective – as a pearl of many, Kavod SHEF and the Tannenbaum per- the orchestra,” described Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah formed for the Marina Sapir, director of the Fund of United Jewish Fed- Holocaust survivors Anachnu Program. eration support the activities at the Café Europa. For more information of Anachnu in the Fairfield about Anachnu programs, County area. visit www.ctjfs.org/anachnu.

At right, l-r: Inessa Slootskin, Ilya Molodetskiy and Maya Gavronskiy enjoyed socializing and savoring a meal provided by Six Thirteen.

Welcome Back to Carmel Academy! At right: Carmel Academy students were welcomed to the new school year with smiles, balloons and well-wishes. L-r: Morah Etty Furspan, Dylan Bruan, Sophie Feinstein, A.J. Stulberger, Charlotte Siebenberg, Orian Nevo, Jordy Rosenthal, Lance Feinstein and morah Julie Rubin on Carmel Academy’s first day of school. NOVEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11 UJF Receives Partnership Grant United Jewish Federation recent- partnering with day schools, United ly secured a $5,000 grant through Jewish Federation can increase their Prizmah: Center for Jewish Day Schools. offering of programs and deepen their The PJ Library-Prizmah Day School engagement with young families. Engagement and Enrollment Initiative 2. Support day schools in cultivating (or DSEE) supports Jewish day schools families for enrollment. Through host- in running PJ Library programs for fam- ing programs, day schools introduce ilies with young children. DSEE is de- new families to their schools, build re- signed as a community-based initiative, lationships with them and can cultivate partnering PJ Library Implementing prospective families for enrollment. Partners (United Jewish Federation) Together, the AVI CHAI Foundation with their local day schools. Federation and the Harold Grinspoon Founda- will be partnering with Bi-Cultural He- tion launched DSEE in June 2015. brew Academy on this initiative. Beginning in March 2017, Prizmah The DSEE initiative has two goals: joined the partnership to manage 1. Support day schools in becoming the program with its expertise in and community engagement hubs. Day relationships with Jewish day schools. schools are uniquely positioned to “United Jewish Federation is proud to offer rich educational programming have been selected for this grant and and vibrant social networks for fam- wonderful opportunity,” said UJF CEO ilies with young children. Through Diane Sloyer. Carmel Academy Launches New Head of School Search By Danielle Cohen my 17th as Carmel Academy’s Last May, Carmel Acade- head of school, and the time my’s Head of School Nora has come for me to move Anderson announced her on,” remarked Anderson in intention to move on from a letter to the community. Carmel at the end of the 2019- “While we are very sorry 20 school year after 17 years. to see Nora go, we are deeply “We broke ground in the grateful for her extraordi- Jewish educational world. nary contributions and the We embraced the idea of indelible mark she has made religious diversity as a reality Nora Anderson on the soul and excellence of and not just a concept. We the school,” observed Michele opened the first special education pro- Slifka, president of the Carmel Board of gram in the tri-state area, bringing back Trustees and Search Committee co-chair. Jewish children who had educational The leaders of the Search Commit- needs into the day school world. We tee at Carmel, in a recent letter to the adopted Social Emotional Learning community, wrote of their commit- as part of our everyday life and culture ment to making the search process as in the form of our Brit Middot-Values transparent as possible and to engage Covenant and further as a curriculum. the entire school community in this We challenged our community to have important undertaking. high educational expectations, and we “Carmel Academy is extremely com- have graduated scores of accomplished mitted to finding an excellent leader and successful young adults. I could to serve as the next head of school – an not be more proud and grateful to individual who truly understands and have been given the privilege to play personifies theneshama , or soul of the a role in all of this. [This] year will be See “Search” on page 14

Face Continued from page 3 For more information, contact Sandi The JCC’s Early Childhood Schol- Waldstreicher, JCC Sara Walker Nurs- ar-in-Residence program is underwritten ery School educational coordinator, by the Charles M. Karp Memorial Fund, at 203-322-6541 or swaldstreicher@ through the generosity of Douglas and stamfordjcc.org. Sharon Karp, and Arnold and Lisa Karp.

Temple Continued from page 10 worked for 10 years as a rehabilitation Earhart, the first female aviator to fly counselor at The APT Foundation in solo across the Atlantic Ocean. She New Haven, CT, where he provided set many records, wrote best-selling group and individual therapy for books and was called instrumental in people diagnosed with substance use the formation of the Ninety-Nines, an disorders. He received his certificate organization for female pilots. in drug and alcohol counseling from Albertson is a historical research Gateway Community College in 2007 editor at Army Aviation magazine and and is a certified addictions counselor. the historian for the Army Aviation His current focus is applying Jewish Association of America. He has au- principles and values of spirituality thored several books. Albertson speaks to addictions treatment, as well as on a variety of topics in history and conveying the message and power has appeared on radio and television. of recovery to Jewish communal life. This program is sponsored by TBE Rabbi Eisenberg has written for the Sisterhood. Forward and Tablet on the topics of All programs will take place at Tem- intermarriage, Judaism and addiction ple Beth El, 350 Roxbury Rd., Stamford, and the opioid crisis. and are open to the community, For On Sunday, December 8, at 10 am, more information, contact Steven historian Mark Albertson will return Lander, executive director, 203-322- to Temple Beth El to discuss Amelia 6901 or [email protected].

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ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2019 Bi-Cultural and JNF-USA Honor Firefighters By Judie Jacobson honoring the Stamford Fire Depart- As ceremonies commemorating the ment. The event was held at the city’s At right, l-r: tragic events of 9/11 were held across Turn of the River Firehouse. Jackie Herman, the world, Jewish National Fund-USA, “Today, we remember those who per- Bi-Cultural head together with Stamford’s Bi-Cultural ished on 9/11 and pay special tribute of school; Sharon Hebrew Academy, acknowledged the to our first responders, many of whom Tappe, board chair, nation’s first responders at a ceremony lost colleagues as they rescued people Turn of River from the World Trade Center,” said Fire Department; JNF-USA Director of Westchester and Chief Trevor Bi-Cultural Southern Connecticut Sharon Lewis, Roach, Stamford who is also an alumni parent and a Fire Department; Students Bake Up former board member of Bi-Cultural. and Sharon Lewis, “Our local fire fighting men and women director, Westchester are especially close to our hearts given and Southern CT, a Sweet New Year JNF-USA’s connection with Israel’s JNF-USA. firefighters and our ongoing provision of equipment to them.” Bi-Cultural Head of School Jackie to express a special thank you to the lem is the only commemorative site of Herman accompanied the school’s sev- Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy’s sev- its type outside of the U.S. that lists all enth- and eighth-graders to the event. enth- and eighth-graders and faculty, the names of those who perished on Under the direction of their teacher as well as JNF-USA for reaching out to 9/11. JNF-USA, together with Keren Erin Hupal, the students brought with this station and wanting to hold such a Kayemeth LeIsrael, holds a commem- them two banners thanking the fire- meaningful ceremony with us. It is a tes- oration ceremony every year at the me- fighters for their selfless acts of courage, tament to the importance of this event morial in Jerusalem with members and which will be hung in the firehouse. that we had representation from first veterans from the US Armed Forces, The students unveiled the banners at responders, both career and volunteer first responders, United Airlines staff the conclusion of the event. firefighters, along with the chiefs of the and other dignitaries in attendance. Emphasizing the shared values Stamford Fire Department.” Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy is a between the U.S. and Israel and the JNF-USA’s 9/11 memorial in Jerusa- recipient agency of United Jewish Federation. importance of tikkun olam, Herman told those gathered, “For many of us, 9/11 is a day etched in our memory – we will never forget where we were and what we were doing. For our students, the visit was an opportunity to remember Students throughout the grades at Bi- those who tragically lost their lives and Cultural Hebrew Academy prepared to usher to salute the men and women who in a sweet new year by learning all about daily risk their lives to help others. Our the laws and customs of Rosh Hashanah. emergency management teams – fire, Bi-Cultural’s pre-kindergarten made the police, EMTs – never hesitate to head new year sweeter with honey cake. Pre- into danger, while others are trying to kindergarten student Noah Steinberg (at escape it.” left) did his part by carefully pouring out Fire Chief Captain Carl Alton Jr. just enough honey to make the most delicious thanked the students for sharing the Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy students presented “thank you” banners to the Stamford honey cake treat. day with the firefighters: “I would like Fire Department. NOVEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 “Carmel Reads Together” Brings Authors and Students Together By Danielle Cohen On September 23, Car- mel Academy hosted the first “Carmel Reads To- gether” evening; among the guests were two au- thors of children’s books. The evening included author readings and Q&A, themed participatory ac- tivities, casual conversa- tion and snacks. “This was an incredible opportunity to bring families from the area together around a Front row: Author Yona Zeldis McDonough, Lian Nevo, celebration of reading and Charlotte Bednarsh, Orian Nevo and Amital Farstrup. exploration of the creative Background: Rachel Schneider and Nicola Siebenberg. process,” observed Dr. Michele Slifka, president of the Board of Trustees at Carmel. “Kids and fam- ilies explored different books, partook in fun activities and listened to authors read from their own works.” Featured authors who attended included Yona Zeldis McDonough and Stacy Barnett Mozer. Mc- Donough is the author of In front, l-r: Miel Yechiely, Charlotte Bednarsh and morah many titles in the “Who Julie Rubin. Was” and “What Is” book series for young children. She is also the There was fun for children of all author of children’s books, including ages, as even the youngest of book “The Four Temperaments,” “In Dahlia’s enthusiasts seemed engaged by the Wake” and her latest book, “Breaking authors and activities led by teach- the Bank, “which came out in Septem- ers. “‘Carmel Reads Together’ was a ber. Mozer is an author of books for uniquely wonderful chance to engage middle schoolers, including “The Sweet with authors directly and learn what it is Spot” and “The Perfect Trip.” See “Reads” on page 14 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2019 VOICES AND VIEWS Why I Care… teen voices “The greatness of a community is most accurately measured Stamford native Emma Rimerman has attended schools in New York City, Stamford, and Bethlehem, NH. She is currently in 11th grade at Westhill High School. Emma has by the compassionate actions of its members.” – Coretta worked hard to maintain a connection to Judaism, and has taught non-Jewish classmates Scott King about Jewish traditions and led Jewish friends in observance of Jewish traditions. The following is Emma’s reflection on her Jewish identity. Focus on Jen Rosenfeld By Jane Levene and programs, and we have To Not Know Home Jen Rosenfeld grew up in been donors for many years. By Emma Rimerman from which raindrops could Chicago, IL, and moved to My son, Joey, participated in I was formed in a womb roll with ease. the East Coast to attend col- the Kuriansky Teen Tzeda- that knew two lives: Nor was I like the children lege at Columbia University. kah Corps, UJF’s leadership One that I would live and of immigrants, She then received a master’s training program for area one that I would want. Who saw my pale skin and degree in organizational teens. We have been long- When my mother opened green eyes psychology. Rosenfeld and time subscribers to UJF’s PJ up to introduce me to the And assumed I knew not her husband, Ed, moved to Library program, a program world, of separation. Stamford 13 years ago from providing a free monthly I was greeted by the land But I am of my mother. Riverdale, NY. They have six book for children. that people dream of, I was shaped by the whis- children: Joey (16), Tamar Jen Rosenfeld I am currently a co-chair And so I began. pers of the Mediterranean (14), Ari (11), Ilan (9), for UJF’s Super Sunday with It was filled with endless Emma Rimerman And its breeze, which tick- Yael (7) and Elisheva (4), who attend Shari Raymond. I am very excited to be opportunities led her curls. Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy, Frisch a part of this important fundraiser and And diamonds growing from bushes My arms can feel her working in and SAR High School. Rosenfeld community event, which will be held by the side of the highway, the orchards believes strongly in giving back to the this year on November 10. But my house was from a different And milking the cows Jewish community and in modeling the Are you involved with other places universe. And packing the chickens behaviors of social responsibility for in the community? My ears were filled with the songs of And sneaking into the fields after a her children. UJF has been fortunate I have been a member of the Young an earth I had not seen, long day’s work. to receive the benefit of her time and Israel of Stamford Board, chaired sev- Of “yalla, bye!”s and “am yisrael My feet still ache from my grandfa- commitment for many years. eral of their dinners and helped run chai”s ther’s trek there, Here’s why she cares: several programs over the years. I was And stories of milk and honey so Walking with blind faith in guidance Tell us about your involvement a Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy class rich and sweet that you would not need from a God he could not see. with UJF and how long you have been parent and have been involved with my another meal. My heart still yearns for my grand- involved: children’s programs at the JCC and at Though I heard this in my ears, mother to return When we moved to Stamford, I Gan Yeladim Preschool. Currently, we My heart was empty. And not need to scour stores to touch joined the Behrend Institute, a leader- are members of Young Israel of Stam- I had never seen our home, or felt the fabrics weaved by her friends ship training program facilitated by UJF ford, Congregation Agudath Sholom its luscious fruits on my tongue. For one last connection to her and sponsored by the Behrend family. and the JCC. I had never known the true wonder neighborhood. I have attended many UJF dinners Why is it important for you to give of limonana as sweltering rays beat So it is time for my covenant. back in this way? down on my shoulders. It is time I understand the sacrifices I feel you must give back to the My shoulders were only acquainted of my family. The New Jewish Voice community to keep the community with the burden of confusion too heavy It is time I embrace that I may have strong in the changing world around “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #184) is published monthly for one young girl to carry— been born here, by the United Jewish Federation Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., us. It is important to me to be a The daily conflict between giving But I am not a native. Stamford, CT 06905-2521. role model for my children to teach up our past and embracing new It is time I begin thanking God for www.ujf.org for updates and donations them how important community is. norms, every day, for each is one day closer to Ricky Arbron...... President Children are our future and we must Or celebrating our history at the reuniting with the ground from which Diane Sloyer...... CEO, Advertising Representative model the right behaviors and morals expense of fitting in. I grew— for them. And so I did not fit in anywhere. From the sparkling sea in the west, Advisory Committee Meryl Gordon...... Chair Why did you agree to take on the I was not like my family, From the barren cliffs in the north, Meryl Japha, Nancy Schulman, Ellen Weber role of Super Sunday co-chair? Whose days were spent reminiscing From the crumbling Negev I feel it is important to give back not in tongues I did not know, And the springs of Ein Gedi. Reporter Group Staff only with financial support, but also Speaking as quickly as they had run When I look across the Atlantic, The Reporter Group edits and publishes The New Jewish Voice. with my time. It takes us all to ensure to the bomb shelters. Peering far into the horizon, Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... Executive Editor Diana Sochor...... Layout Editor that our community stays active and I was not like my classmates I squint my eyes until I can see it, Ilene Pinsker...... Assistant Editor vibrant for today and always. UJF does Who ate cucumber sandwiches with And that, Jenn DePersis...... Production Coordinator this for my community, and I want to do the crusts cut off, Finally, Bonnie Rozen...... Advertising Representative my part to ensure we continue to thrive. Their noses forming perfect lines Is when I am home. Kathy Brown...... Bookkeeper Opinions The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces Dinner Continued from page 7 are those of each author and not necessarily the views of the Bible, materialized the design of For more information on the Bi-Cul- [email protected] or 203-329-2186. of the United Jewish Federation. the Mishkan. Through his creativity and tural Hebrew Academy Celebration Bi-Cultural Hebrew Academy is a Letters skill, the Mishkan became a singular Dinner, contact Rachel Cohen at rco- recipient agency of United Jewish Federation. The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of unit, an exemplar for the Jewish nation. interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be This is what we celebrate at our 2020 signed and include a phone number. The editor may Search Continued from page 11 withhold the name upon request. Celebration dinner.” The evening will pay tribute to Guests school, and who knows and embraces Additionally, effort was made to ensure Kashruth of Honor Elise and Steven Cohen of the power of experiential and differen- representatives from all of Carmel’s We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any tiated learning. Carmel seeks a leader geographically and religiously diverse advertiser’s product or establishment. Stamford for their contributions to the pre-kindergarten through 12th grade who will be the compelling visionary populations were included. A national HOW TO REACH THE EDITOR: National Blue Ribbon school, as well able to continue to grow and develop search firm has also been engaged to as to the community as a whole. the school experience, while remaining support the process. Mail: Sandy Golove true to the values and rigorous academ- The committee co-chairs note that 1035 Newfield Ave. - Suite 200 In addition to the Cohens, Alice and Stamford, CT 06905-2521 Jason Janush will receive the school’s ic standards that make Carmel unique,” “Carmel Academy is so very fortunate E-mail: [email protected] Community Service Award; Tina and wrote Slifka and Search Committee to have a strong, active, and supportive Phone: (203) 912-9945 Yossi Notik will receive the Young Lead- Co-chair Pam Feldstein. community, and [we] look forward ership Award; and Laura Kassen will The Search Committee formed is a to finding the next visionary leader Send article submissions via e-mail to representation of school constituents to guide this amazing school into the Sandy Golove at [email protected] be honored with the Alumni Award. marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject The Jane Shoztic Memorial Award, and includes current parents, faculty, future with passion and excellence.” line. Expect an acknowledgement; presented annually to an member of members of the leadership team and Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of please re-send if you do not receive one. the Bi-Cultural staff, will be given to members of the Board of Trustees. United Jewish Federation. David Giver, head of the high school’s HOW TO REACH THE ADVERTISING REPRESENTATIVES: Humanities Department. Reads Continued from page 17 BONNIE ROZEN “We are honored to chair this year’s like to be a writer,” said Head of School consultant for ELA. “Carmel students Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 dinner celebrating the remarkable Nora Anderson. “It was also the perfect are developing a passion for reading, E-mail: [email protected] contribution that Bi-Cultural Hebrew opportunity to introduce the newly writing, and the creative process, and DIANE SLOYER Academy continues to make to our expanded Carmel Academy lending this event was a wonderful opportunity Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 105 community and the difference it has library to the broader community.” to ‘demystify’ the author.” E-mail: [email protected] made in the lives of so many of our chil- “For the last few years, there has To learn more, contact Danielle dren. We look forward to welcoming been an incredible focus on making Cohen at danielle.cohen@carmelacad- SUBSCRIPTION INFORMATION: the entire community to a wonderful the English Language Arts program emy.com, and/or attend the Carmel Phone: (203) 321-1373 evening,” said Taly Farber and Amanda E-mail: [email protected] a flagship strength at Carmel,” ob- Academy Open House on Sunday, Jasper. served Jennifer Gensior, curriculum October 27, from 10 am-noon. NOVEMBER 2019 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 Annual Turkey Drive Comes to the Stamford JCC By Liz Gebert be invited to decorate a feather, write entire community to JCares, KinderPlace and the Jewish their name on it and hang it on the pause and take time to Community Center community will JCC turkey. That feather will represent be with family, friends, hold the 13th Annual Turkey Drive on the family that is having Thanksgiving loved ones and to prac- Sunday, November 24, from 8-11 am. dinner because the Jewish community’s tice gratitude and ‘giv- It is estimated that more than 15,000 tzedakah (charitable giving). ing thanks,’” they said. members of the local community need Beginning Friday, November 1, “It also presents an op- help putting Thanksgiving dinner on the JCC will collect gift cards to local portunity to live Jewish the table this year. The J will collect grocery stories. A basket for the cards values and to model frozen turkeys (kosher and non-ko- will be placed at the JCC welcome desk. them to our children. sher), stuffing and other Thanksgiving One hundred percent of all donations Tikkun olam (repairing Table of donations at the 12th Annual Turkey Drive. fixings. Any non-perishable food item will go to the Food Bank of Lower the world) inspires us to is welcome. For the youngsters, and Fairfield County. engage in activities that help to bring For more information contact Liz the young at heart, there will be pa- The JCC staff believes there is some- about healing in the world. It reminds Gebert, director of KinderPlace at per turkey feathers to decorate. After thing special and unique about Thanks- us that what we do matters. We look The J, at [email protected] or dropping off food items, people will giving. “It is a holiday that invites the forward to seeing you!” 203-487-0968.

JCC Thanksgiving Luncheon for Senior Adults Thankful for Pumpkin Pie All senior adults in the community are invited to share in a traditional Thanks- giving meal and entertainment on Friday, November 22, at 11 am, at the Jewish By Ronnie Fein You know that Community Center. The Thanksgiving Luncheon is sponsored for the senior joke about the adult community, free of charge, thanks to the generosity of Marsha Shendell. cast of characters Make reservations by Friday, November 15, by calling Connie Freeman at at Thanksgiving 203-487-0983. dinner? Uncle The Jewish Community Center is located on Newfield Avenue at the inter- Harry who boasts section of Vine Road in Stamford. or Aunt Shirley whose political leanings are the opposite of some- one else’s? The cover of Ronnie I suppose it’s Fein’s newest cookbook, Dairy-free Pumpkin Pie not funny in fami- “The Modern Kosher lies that have real Kitchen” and beat ingredients for a minute or issues that make until well blended. for a stressful Thanksgiving dinner. But Pour into the pie crust. Bake for 15 at the very least the food should always minutes. Reduce the temperature to be welcoming to everyone. Thanks- 350°F and bake for another 45 minutes giving is a celebration, after all, and or until set. Remove from the oven the differences among us politically, and let cool. economically, racially and so on don’t Makes one pie serving 8 people. need airing over the dinner table. Dairy-free Pie Crust Fortunately, in my family, we all get 2½ cups all-purpose flour along socially and politically, so there’s 1 tsp. salt none of that at our house. However, we 1 tsp. grated lemon peel do have a varied cast of characters when 8 Tbsp. cold Earth Balance Buttery it comes to the food. We are a mixture Spread or margarine of kosher and non-kosher, gluten-free, 4 Tbsp. cold shortening dairy-free, vegetarians, fish-free and 4-5 Tbsp. water or juice (orange or nut-free. apple), approximately That can make planning dinner a Combine the flour, salt and lemon challenge for some, but I love figuring peel, if used, in a large bowl. Cut the out solutions to all of these culinary spread and shortening into chunks matters. and add to the flour mixture. Work the Here’s my answer to the dairy-free fat into the flour mixture using your thing: Pumpkin Pie made with coconut fingers or a pastry blender until the milk. ingredients resemble crumbs. (If using Dairy-free Pumpkin Pie a food processor, give the ingredients 1¾ cups mashed pumpkin (not several quick, short pulses until the pumpkin pie mix) (one 15-ounce can) mixture resembles coarse meal.) Add ½ cup sugar the liquid, using only enough to gather ¼ cup dark brown sugar pastry into a ball of dough. 2 large eggs Cut the dough in half and flatten 1½ cups coconut milk each half to make a disk shape. Wrap ¾ tsp. ground cinnamon the dough in plastic wrap and let it ¼ tsp. ground ginger stand at least 30 minutes. ¼ tsp. freshly grated nutmeg Makes enough for a one crust pie or ¼ tsp. salt two bottom crust only pies. 1 9-inch unbaked dairy-free pie crust Ronnie Fein is a cookbook author, food (see below) writer and cooking teacher in Stamford. Preheat the oven to 425°F. Beat the She is the author of “The Modern Kosher pumpkin, sugar and brown sugar with a Kitchen” and “Hip Kosher.” Visit her whisk or electric beater set at medium food blog, Kitchen Vignettes, at www. for a minute or until well blended. Beat ronniefein.com, friend her on Facebook at in the eggs, one at a time. Stir in the RonnieVailFein, or follow her on Twitter coconut milk until well blended. Add at @RonnieVFein and Instagram at @ the cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg and salt RonnieVFein.

Stamford JCC Will Host Annual Gift Show The Jewish Community Center of Stamford will present its annual gift show on Tuesday, November 19, from 5-9 pm, at the JCC. Vendors from past years will return, along with many new vendors offering gifts, hand-crafted jewelry, Judaica, clothing and more. Vendors’ table fees, admission fees and donations will support the JCC’s early childhood education programs, inclusion programming, summer experiences and youth sports. Suggested admission for the event is $5. Parking is free and there will also be free offsite overflow parking. The Jewish Community Center is located at 1035 Newfield Ave., at the intersection of Vine Road. For more information, visit stamfordjcc.org or contact Sheryl Young at 203- 487-0954 or [email protected]. ÊVisit www.ujf.org or facebook.com/stamfordFederation 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ NOVEMBER 2019 Non-profit Organization U.S. POSTAGE PAID Permit # 184 Watertown, NY

november 2019/cheshvan-kislev 5780 a publication of United jewish federation Volume 21, Number 7 Federation Year-End Celebration to Honor Volunteers UJF Honors Outgoing President Ricky Arbron United Jewish Federation will host following: “Ricky has a unique sense of its “Year-End Celebration and Annual community and cares deeply about the Meeting” on Sunday evening, Decem- Jewish people both locally and around ber 8, at the Ferguson Library, One the world. It has been an honor and Public Library Plaza. Guest of honor a pleasure to work with Ricky the past will be Ricky Arbron, UJF outgoing two-plus years. I am grateful for her lead- president. The Harvey A. Peltz Young ership and her driving force in building and strengthening our community.” Leadership Award will be given jointly Guest speaker Eric Arbron moved to Stamford in 1984 to Dr. Allison and Jonathan Ostroff. Fingerhut, CEO of on a three-year hiatus from Texas, but Volunteer of the Year Awards will go JFNA to Toby Lazarus, Peter Lilienthal, Shari Guest of Honor Jonathan and Allison Ostroff, Harvey A. said she ended up staying after having Raymond and Cathy Satz. David Fogel Ricky Arbron, UJF Peltz Young Leadership Award winners children and realizing what a wonderful will receive UJF’s Distinguished Lead- president place Stamford is to raise a family. Her ership Award. Chairs of the evening The Annual Meeting, including rati- community at no cost. There will also daughter Aly and son Jake grew up in are Dinah Miller Marlowe and Seth fication of the incoming UJF president, be a cocktail pre-reception beginning Stamford, and attended Temple Sinai Marlowe. The guest speaker will be Eric David Gordon, and board members, at 6:30 pm. The cost for the pre-event Hebrew School where they celebrated Fingerhut, newly appointed CEO of will begin at 7:30 pm followed by a des- is $50 per person. their b’nai mitzvah. As part of Arbron’s Jewish Federations of North America. sert reception. It is open to the entire Diane Sloyer, UJF CEO, shared the See “Celebration” on page 2 Jewish Identity, Jewish Community and the Jewish People Annual Saul Cohen-Schoke Jewish Family Service Lecture By Lynn Saltz his life-long dedication to basic human needs. The and day schools creating initiatives Barry Shrage, a Jewish communal the Jewish community. program included increasing including Me’ah, an intensive Jewish professional and educator at Brandeis Shrage is a professor in the community members aware- adult education curriculum; a large-scale University, will speak on Thursday, Horenstein Jewish Profession- ness of Jewish families living program to improve day school quality; November 14, at 7:30 pm, at the al Leadership program and below the poverty level. He and incentive grant programs to support Ferguson Library in Stamford at the Cohen Center for Modern Jew- also developed a program for Jewish overnight camp opportunities and Eighth annual Saul Cohen-Schoke ish Studies at Brandeis Univer- individuals with disabilities boost day school enrollment.” Jewish Family Service Lecture. The sity. Shrage served as president and enlisted synagogues to He said he believes a direct rela- lecture, titled “What Drives Us Apart of Combined Jewish Philan- prioritize inclusion for peo- tionship with Israel is the key to the and What Holds Us Together? Jewish thropies of Greater Boston for ple with disabilities. development of Jewish identity for Identity, Jewish Community, and the 31 years, where he promoted “Professor Shrage is a pas- the next generation. To achieve this, Jewish People,” is offered free to the inclusion and supported the Barry Shrage sionate supporter of Jewish ed- he helped to create the Boston-Haifa community through the generosity needs of Boston’s diverse ucation and other programs Connection, embraced the power of of Mimi Cohen and Saul Cohen, of community. Under his leadership, CJP to strengthen Jewish identity in every Taglit-Birthright Israel, helped spear- blessed memory. This year’s program launched a major initiative to assure a form,” said Betsy Stone, co-chair of the head CJP’s Birthright Israel Campus will also acknowledge Saul’s unex- safety net for those experiencing poverty Saul Cohen-Schoke JFS Lecture Com- Initiative and expanded programs pected passing in March 2019 and by providing food security and other mittee. “CJP worked with synagogues See “Identity” on page 2 Candle 2 Next Gen 4 Bits & Pieces 6 New Around 6 Voices & 14 Super 16 Lighting Shabbat Town Views Sunday

Behrend Institute Kicks off Year of Leadership Training The 2019-2020 Behrend Fellows gathered on a recent Sunday to kick off a year of leadership and learning through United Jewish Federation’s Behrend Institute for Leadership, a multi-faceted program designed to prepare graduates for leadership roles within the organizations that nominated them and for communitywide positions of leadership. Standing (l-r): Eli Niedober, Jonathan Ostroff, Sam Raymond, Shari Raymond, Jason Kaplowitz, Stu Madison, Howard Weiner, Adam Batkin, Ilan Katz, Chris Maroc, Rebecca Stulberger, Elana Genger, Leslie Napach, Aileen Tisser, Ben Folkinshteyn (hidden), facilitator Jonathan Fass and Dan Faizakoff. Seated: Daniel Sobelsohn, Allison Ostroff, Avital Greenbaum, Rhonda Greif, Shushannah Walshe (with her new son), Jessie Katz (with her new daughter), Claudia Rimerman and Sean Altman. Missing from photo: Jenny Fishman, Peter Rosen and Karen Resnick.See article on page 7.