UJF and its partner agencies will Non-profit Organization 3 kick off Super Sunday season with U.S. POSTAGE PAID a Tailgate Party at the JCC. Permit # 184 Watertown, NY Chanukah celebrations and 4 events are announced; Ronnie Fein offers a holiday recipe.

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december 2014/kislev-tevet 5775 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 16, Number 10 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien Limmud NY Returns to “JM in the AM” Visits CAS Nachum Segal, an inter- sands of listeners through national celebrity in the Jew- their morning routine. Se- Stamford ish music and radio world gal’s passion for important Weekend Retreat Celebrates Jewish and the host of the “JM in causes and his longevity has the AM” Jewish music show, also propelled “JM in the AM” will visit Congregation Agu- to be regarded as the radio Learning Without Limits dath Sholom the weekend program of record in the Thanks to the success of last year’s one paid employee who facilitates of December 19-20, and Jewish world. His interviews event, Limmud NY is returning to the work of countless volunteers, speak three times at the regarding current events are Stamford, CT. who are empowered to oversee every congregation. considered must listen radio From Friday, February 13, to Sun- aspect of the event, beginning a year A graduate of Mesivta Nachum Segal, host for many in the community. day, February 16, more than 800 Jews, in advance and continuing on-site Ohr Torah of Riverdale of the “JM in the AM” He is widely known as one from the tri-state area and beyond, throughout the weekend. Limmud and Yeshiva College, Segal Jewish music show of the few people in radio to from infants to grandparents, of all NY’s goal is to be a participatory began his radio career at analyze and probe issues from affiliations – Reform, Conservative, event, a communal collaboration the Yeshiva University campus radio the perspective of the Jewish world. As Reconstructionist, Orthodox, secular, and a celebration of what is possible station WYUR in 1981. Segal launched a result, influential members of the post-denominational – will gather to when people work together. a Jewish music radio show, “JM in the political world – including political celebrate Jewish life for an extended “Limmud NY 2014 was such a AM,” in September 1983, and it has run leaders from America and Israel – have weekend retreat filled with text study, wonderful experience,” notes Ricky uninterrupted for more than 30 years. sought time on the air and joined Segal discussions, performances, meals, late- Arbron, United Jewish Federation of Segal’s presentation of music, news and in the studio. night jam sessions and opportunities to Greater Stamford, New Canaan and community events reaches tens of thou- See “CAS” on page 2 learn about themselves and each other. Darien’s vice president for educa- At Limmud NY, everyone is a teacher tion. “I am incredibly excited that this and everyone is a student. landmark event will be returning to “Limmud” is Hebrew for “learning” Stamford. Limmud NY’s spirit matches Securing Stamford’s Future and Limmud NY is devoted to Jewish perfectly our Federation’s belief in learning in every conceivable form, ‘better together.’” UJF Holds First Legacy Initiative from learning Torah to learning how Limmud NY will be held at the Stam- to make gefilte fish; from Middle East- ford Hilton Hotel and Executive Meet- Workshop for Community ern politics to Jewish Kirtan chanting; ing Center, right off Route 95 and less On October 19, volunteer and pro- “By developing brochures, templates from Refuseniks to slam poetry; from than a mile from the Stamford Metro fessional representatives from a dozen and a legacy information on its website, Schneerson to Seinfeld; from Kol Nidre North/Amtrak station. “Come with agencies and synagogues participated in UJF hopes to eliminate duplication of to klezmer. Limmud was founded in friends or come to meet new friends! the United Jewish Federation of Greater efforts around town and provide useful England in 1980; there are now more Bring your parents! Bring your kids to Stamford New Canaan and Darien’s first resources for the community.” than 80 Limmud affiliates around Camp Limmud! All are welcome!” said Legacy Initiative workshop. The work- In his welcome remarks at the the world. Sivya Twersky, Limmud NY president. shop was the first of many offerings UJF event, UJF CEO James Cohen noted Limmud NY runs on nearly 100 For registration information, go to will provide the community’s Jewish or- that, “This workshop is a milestone percent volunteer power. Limmud NY www.limmudny.org. There will be pro- ganizations to help them better execute in our effort to lead our community’s seeks to create community through gram-only options for local residents their own legacy planning. According conversation on this important subject. volunteering. Limmud NY has only See “Limmud” on page 2 to UJF Vice President Rebekah Raz, See “Future” on page 14 Family Adult Bits & Pieces 6 Candle 6 17 21 Voices & 22 UJF Annual 24 Lighting Central Education Views Meeting

Mitzvah Madness Comes to Carmel Academy Carmel Academy’s sixth grade girls and their mothers prepared and served a meal at the Inspirica Women’s Homeless Shelter in Stamford. This was the first community service project the mothers and daughters completed as part of their year-long Mitzvah Madness program. See page 16 for article. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 CEO Message community news A Legacy Close to My Heart By James A Cohen shared this column space since I arrived at UJF a year and for their selfless commitment to the ideals Super Sunday Season Kicks Off with Tailgate Party One of the words heard often and a half ago, will finish her term as our president. for which UJF stands. The United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, spirit of a tailgate party. Light refreshments will be for children of all ages, including face painting, crafts at UJF’s offices of late is “legacy.” The time she has invested in this organization and We at UJF have much work ahead of us. Jews at New Canaan and Darien will join together with its served. The event will be free of charge. and sports-related games. People will have a chance As the pages of The New Jewish the caring for this community she has displayed are home, in Israel and around the world are still in partner agencies on Sunday, December 7, to hold The day’s activities will include a Chili Cook-off to visit booths and learn more about the agencies Voice have displayed, we have nothing short of remarkable. From the launching of need, still struggle to provide a meaningful Jewish the first Tailgate Party to kick off the Super Sunday sponsored by area kosher restaurants and caterers. and schools that are supported by UJF, highlighting launched The Herzl Initiative, the initiative described above, to leading the organi- life for their children or care for elderly parents. season. The event will be held from 1-3 pm outdoors People will have the opportunity to vote for their UJF’s theme of “Better Together.” designed to assist all our partner zation through governance, financial, fund-raising Some of us combat antisemitism regularly, while our at the Jewish Community Center sports court in the favorite chili. There will also be activities and games The Super Sunday coin program will also kick off and recipient agencies with their and marketing changes, to assisting with multiple brothers and sisters in Israel confront challenges at the Tailgate Party. In order to involve people of all legacy goals. Additionally, we will emergency campaigns, Shoshana has been an in- that have grown more complicated with the passage ages, children are asked to collect coins as part of the be honoring any legacy givers of valuable leader. The legacy of her term will be felt of time. I can think of no better way to honor the fund-raising efforts for Super Sunday. A container whom we are aware who have positively by our community for generations and for legacy of the volunteer leaders, who have given so JFS Cognitive Fitness Training will be given out at the event for them to start their made their intentions known to James Cohen, that I am personally grateful. much of themselves these past two and a half years, coin collection. Children will have the opportunity any Jewish organization at our UJF CEO Shoshana would be the first to point out that than to continue our work, to improve upon it and to bring in their coins on the day of Super Sunday December 10 annual meeting. This important legacy she did not lead in a vacuum. For the past two to continue to grow our Federation so that future Program Enlists First Volunteers and put them in the coin machine, which will then conversation, which UJF is very proud to lead, serves and a half years, the Executive Committee and generations will look back and thank us for not drop- By Lynn Saltz count the money they have collected. as a wonderful segue for me to shine the spotlight Board of Directors have worked tirelessly to do ping the ball. Under the guidance and stewardship Jewish Family Service kicked off the new at-home Chairing the Tailgate Party are Lael and Dani on one legacy in particular. right by UJF and our community as a whole. All of our incoming president, Ellen Weber, and the new JFS Cognitive Fitness Training Program to assist Shapiro. Lisa and Jeff Manheim have been named At year’s end, Shoshana Dweck, with whom I have of the positive and forward-leading news you have board, I know we will do nothing less. As I invite you individuals looking to maintain and improve their chairs of Super Sunday, which will be held on Super read about in this publication would not have to join us in this endeavor, I encourage you to think cognitive abilities as they age. Bowl Sunday, February 1, from 9 am-5 pm, with a May the redeeming miracle of oil and lights been possible without the hundreds of man and about the legacy you want to leave for the community In 2011, the first of the baby boomers turned 65. As Super Bowl theme. be yours at this season. woman hours of these volunteers. I thank each we all cherish and additional ways UJF can help turn part of the aging process, skills and abilities that were In the event of inclement weather, the event will and every one of them for supporting our work those dreams into reality. once simple and routine slowly decline. Two of these be held in the JCC auditorium. For more information areas are memory and overall cognitive functioning. about the UJF Tailgate Party, or to learn more about Super Sunday, contact Sharon Franklin at 201-321- Dr. Philip J. Bauer and Staff Continued from page 1 There is a growing body of evidence that supports CAS the fact that the use of brain stimulation exercises 1373, ext. 109, or e-mail [email protected]. Segal has also been at the forefront of numerous “We are delighted to be able to bring Nachum can help maintain current levels of functioning in Steve and Hersh Batkin Jewish causes and has been called an inspiration for Segal to the Stamford community to share his the elderly with cognitive impairments, and actually Philip J. Bauer, D.M.D. Jewish activism. During the recent operation Protec- insights on the world of Jewish music and Jewish increase functioning in people with healthy cogni- L-r: Matt Greenberg, CEO of Jewish Family Service;Personal &Robin Commercial Diplomate, American Board of Endodontics tive Shield and during the aftermath of Hurricane journalism,” said Michael Feldstein, who made the tive functioning. Fischel, JFS board member; Judy Schneiderman,Insurance cognitive Deadlines for Sandy on the East Coast, Segal directed his audience arrangements for the visit. “His warmth, sincerity PRACTICE LIMITED TO ENDODONTICS The creation of the JFS Cognitive Fitness Training fitness trainer; Isrella Knopf, JFS director of senior services; how to help others in need, provided guidance to his and overall gentle personality have helped him Strawberry Hill Professional Bldg. 23 Maple Ave. Program was the result of a social worker exchange Roni Lang, cognitive fitness trainer; and Laurence articles 125 Strawberry Hill Ave. Greenwich, CT 06830 listeners, and visited the devastated areas as a sign develop a loyal following and an enthusiastic audi- program through Partnership Together with the Sheinman, former president of the board of JFS. Stamford, CT 06902 (203)661-3277 of solidarity and commitment. ence. And as a person who is deeply involved in Afula/Gilboa, Israel community, in conjunction The deadlines for the next three issues of the new jewish voice are: (203)327-1613 Fax (203)325-2128 the Jewish world, he certainly has his finger on the with the Jewish Agency for Israel, and United Jewish Fitness Trainer will be reviewed by a professional, pulse of the Jewish community.” Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and and feedback and direction will be discussed. JFS Monday, December 23...... February Segal will speak three times at the synagogue Darien – a member of Jewish Federations of North Home Companion clients have already signed on Monday, January 26...... March over the course of the Shabbat weekend – at a America (or JFNA). JFS Social Worker Isrella Knopf to participate in the program. However, it is not Monday, February 23...... April dinner on Friday night at the synagogue, after observed a similar program being implemented limited to JFS Home Companion clients. Anyone Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to 203.302.3880 morning services in the main sanctuary on Shab- and introduced it to the local agency. Laurence needing this service is welcome. There is no cost to Sandy Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford bat day, and between the Shabbat afternoon and Sheinman, Caroline Temlock Teichman and Robin an individual to participate. www.lampebatkin.com Voice” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledge- evening services. Fischel, board members of JFS, were instrumental See “Cognitive” on page 15 ment; please re-send if you do not receive one. “JM in the AM” can be heard on 91.1 FM in the in developing the concept further. New York City area. 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(General Assembly) of important than ever. waited on line for (and paid about $5 a Alas, the Duffin never made it to the Hanukkah Muffin Tin Doughnuts By Peter Lilienthal into France before war was Jewish Federations of North America The G.A. featured a combination piece)? Cronuts, a cross between a crois- United States. 1 cup sugar Academy Award winner declared the following day. (or JFNA) took place in Washington, of speakers ranging from political fig- sant and a doughnut, were the first of the So, I made my own. Here’s what I dis- 1 large egg Eric Pleskow will be inter- In 1943, he was drafted DC, on November 9-11. It is consid- ures to intellectuals and philanthropic so-called “hybrid” pastries. covered: while doughnuts and Cronuts are ¾ cup coconut milk viewed by his daughter, into the U.S. Army as one of ered the premier leadership retreat visionaries. They offered new ways of But there was more to come in the mix- messy and time consuming, a Duffin is easy ¼ cup vegetable oil Michelle Abt, president of the “Ritchie Boys,” a small for Federation volunteer leaders and thinking about the work of Federation and-match world of baked goods. Like the and relatively quick to cook. 1 tsp. vanilla extract Selah (Fairfield County’s contingent of Jewish Austrian professionals engaged in the business of and provided inspiration for attendees Bruffin, a cross between a brioche and a The cover of Ronnie What a terrific alternative to the usual 1½ cups all-purpose flour Reconstructionist Congrega- and German immigrants who Jewish philanthropy from across North to bring back to their communities. muffin. And the Duffin, a combination of Fein’s newest Chanukah sufganiyot! Duffins are no-fry, 2 tsp. baking powder tion), as part of the Jewish trained at Camp Ritchie, MD, America and around the world. With (See page 23 for UJF CEO James Cohen’s doughnut and muffin. cookbook, “The no-mess and no kitchen-odor. They taste ¼ teaspoon salt Historical Society of Fairfield a U.S. special military intel- Israel in crisis, it is considered more report on the G.A.) The Duffin especially intrigued me be- Modern Kosher pretty good, too. 2 Tbsp. confectioner’s sugar County’s December Featured ligence unit. They were able cause news of its sales caused a brawl on Kitchen” My recipe is pareve and it’s plain. But you ¼ tsp. ground cinnamon Program. The interview will to exact revenge by returning cover the story of his life – Academy Award to Europe as U.S. soldiers Facebook last year. What happened was can substitute cream for the coconut milk Preheat the oven to 350°F. Lightly grease 10 muf- winner Eric Pleskow that Bea’s of Bloomsbury, a well-known London if you wish and also brush the surface of the baked fin tin cups. from a Jewish schoolboy liv- – using their language and tearoom, created this particular pastry and Starbucks muffin with melted butter, scatter the top with sugar Place the sugar and egg in a large bowl and beat with ing in Nazi occupied Austria cultural knowledge to wage there tried to sell its own version. That got Bea’s and and stuff it with jam as they do at Bea’s. an electric mixer at medium speed for 1-2 minutes or to his return to Europe as an American psychological warfare against the Nazis, until light, thick and smooth. Add the coconut milk, soldier and his subsequent career as interrogate prisoners of war and help vegetable oil and vanilla and blend in thoroughly. a Hollywood executive, during which liberate Europe. Chasidic Pop Rock Band Headlines Mix the flour, baking powder and salt together. time he won six Academy Awards for After World War II, Pleskow was sta- Add the flour mixture to the egg mixture and beat at Best Picture. The program, which is tioned in Germany, where he guided medium speed for a minute or until well blended. free and open to the public will be POW interrogations during denazifica- Chabad Chanukah Celebration Fill the muffin cups about ¾ full. Bake for 18-20 held on Sunday, December 14, at the tion and filmed trials and executions. By Taly Farber Wonderland will “light up” the night with a concert minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center Bartlett Arboretum, 151 Brookdale Due to his short education in film edit- Every year, Chabad House Stamford celebrates by 8th Day. An American Chasidic pop rock band, 8th comes out clean. Let cool for 5 minutes. Rd., Stamford, starting at 1:30 pm, with ing, which he finished before joining Chanukah by creating a Chanukah Wonderland in Day is based in Los Alamitos, CA, and was formed by While the doughnuts are baking, mix the con- refreshments at 1 pm. the Army, he became film officer (U.S. the downtown Stamford area. Families, dignitaries two brothers, Shmuel and Bentzion Marcus. The band fectioner’s sugar and cinnamon together. After the Elissa Kaplan, chair of the Oral His- War Department) in 1945 and was and community leaders alike have attended the has released several albums, but gained popularity doughnuts are baked, but still warm, sprinkle the tory Committee of the Jewish Historical assigned to rebuild the Bavaria Film menorah lighting in Latham Park. Past Chanukah on the Jewish music scene with the album “Chasing tops with the cinnamon sugar. Society said, “We arranged to tape a Studios at the age of 21. Wonderlands have celebrated Chanukah with Cha- Prophecy” (2011). Makes 10. veteran’s history piece with Mr. Ples- Continuing in the film industry nukah shows, meeting Judah Maccabee, arts and Spearheaded by Chabad House Stamford, work- Ronnie Fein is a cookbook author and cooking teacher kow. When we heard his story, we were after being discharged from the Army, UJF staff and lay leaders at this year’s General Assembly. Standing (l-r): Ricky Arbron, crafts, storytelling, Lego menorah building, food, ing in conjunction with local Jewish day schools, the in Stamford. Her latest book is “The Modern Kosher blown away! We wanted Eric Pleskow he worked for United Artists and was Peter Lilienthal, Consul General of Israel in New York Ido Aharoni, Nancy Mimoun, refreshments and more. This year’s event will be Chanukah Community Concert will feature opening Kitchen.” Visit her food blog at www.ronniefein.com and to share his story.” responsible for film distribution in Carol Lilienthal, UJF CEO James Cohen, Ellen Weber and UJF Director of Outreach Sharon held on Sunday, December 21, at Rippowam Middle acts by the children of the local Jewish day schools. follow her on Facebook at RonnieVailFein or on Twitter at A longtime resident of Weston, CT, South Africa and then Europe. He Franklin. Kneeling: Rachel Dayan and UJF President Shoshana Dweck. School, and will feature arts and crafts, multi-media The concert is intended to offer an opportunity for @RonnieVFein. Pleskow, was born on April 24, 1924, went on to become president of United stations, storytelling and other activities from 2:30-4 the entire Jewish community of Stamford to come in Vienna, Austria, the son of a Jewish Artists in 1973. Under his presidency, Continued from page 4 pm, culminating with a concert from 4-6 pm. together to sing, dance and celebrate, and to “light JCC Chanukah Giftique and Book Fair Russian refugee father and a Jewish United Artists won the Academy Award Gift This year, Chabad House Stamford’s Chanukah up” the night together. Hungarian mother. After the Anschluss (Oscar) for the best picture three years Beth Baer and Alissa Wool are also serv- tion, visit stamfordjcc.org or contact The annual Chanukah Giftique and Book Fair at (the annexation of Austria by Hitler’s in a row (1975: “One Flew Over the ing as co-chairs of this year’s Gift Show. Nancy Schiffman at 203-487-0941 or the Stamford Jewish Community Center will run this Germany) in March 1938 and following Cuckoo’s Nest,” 1976: “Rocky” and Admission and parking for the [email protected]. year from December 8-18. The Giftique will feature Aryanization of their apartment, the 1977: “Annie Hall”). event are free. The JCC is located at The Jewish Community Center is a recipient JCC Center Women Annual Gift Show gifts and holiday-related items such as menorahs, family emigrated to the United States In 1978, Pleskow left United Artists 1035 Newfield Ave., at the intersec- agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater By Luisa Viladas movie for kids at a nominal fee. dreidels, candles, gelt, toys, books, paper goods and in 1938, leaving Austria on the last train See “Vienna” on page 9 tion of Vine Road. For more informa- Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. The Center Women of the Jewish Community Center The event raises funds for JumpStart, the JCC’s decorations. The event is organized by The Center will present its annual gift show on Thursday, December therapeutic early-childhood classroom experience Women. For more information, call 203-322-7900 or 4, from 5:30-10 pm, at the Jewish Community Center. for 2- to 4-year-olds with special needs. The only visit www.stamfordjcc.org. “This is everyone’s favorite shopping night out,” program of its kind in the Greater Fairfield County The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of said Co-chair Amy Davidson. “It’s a great chance to area, JumpStart follows the pattern of a typical nursery United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan sip some wine, have a nosh and shop with friends.” school classroom, offering social and educational and Darien. Favorite vendors from past years will return, experiences in a group setting. along with many new vendors offering unique gifts, Fifteen percent of each vendor’s sales will be do- Chanukah Fun at JCC World Series handcrafted jewelry, Judaica, clothing and more. nated directly to the JumpStart program. Co-chair New this year are tastings from area kosher caterers, Ellen Laichtman said, “We feel fortunate to be able of Dreidel including Abel Caterers, Mike’s Center Café, Joseph to help this marvelous education program for chil- On Wednesday, December 17, from 6-7:30 pm, Craig Caterers and Navaratna. dren, and hope that all of Stamford will turn out to the JCC will host its first World Series of Dreidel, a Childcare will also be available, with the staff of shop and support JumpStart.” Chanukah party for families. Everyone will receive the JCC’s Youth Department offering pizza and a See “Gift” on page 5 gelt and a chance to spin the dreidel, with prizes given to the top eight finishers. Other games, snacks and holidays crafts will also be available. Dinner, including pizza, latkes and sufganiyot, will be served. The cost is $12 per person, $42 family maximum; or $10 per person, $36 family maximum, for JCC members. Pre-registration is required by Friday, December 12. Register online at www.stamfordjcc.org or by phone at 203-322-7900. For more information, contact Harrison Peck at 203-487-0970 or hpeck@ stamfordjcc.org. The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien.

Happy Chanukah!

ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 bits and pieces JCC Center Women Presents “Fairy Tale Endings,” By Sandy Golove Lisa and Aby Slen on the engage- Randie Katz on the loss of his father, Michelle Lechner on the loss of her To submit infor- ment of their son, Matthew Slen, to Robert Katz. father, Earl Youngelson. mation to Bits and Mary Cline. Sherry Kfare on the loss of her father, Sherri Rosenthal on the loss of her January 24-25 Pieces, call 321-1373, Linda Spilka and Edward Spilka and Abraham “Woody” Lebow. father, David Weinstein. Women from throughout the Stam- to attend. There is no charge for admis- ext. 107, or e-mail me Barbara Smith Burstein and Ilan Burst- Robert Klanfer on the loss of his David Salm on the loss of his mother, ford Jewish community will take center sion, however a donation of $5 per per- at [email protected]. ein on the marriage of their children, mother, Pauline Klanfer. Dale Salm. stage at the Jewish Community Center son is suggested. Proceeds will benefit MAZEL TOV TO Raquel Spilka to Eitan Burstein. Bruce Klenoff on the loss of his Family of Naomi Schreiber. again this year, singing and dancing in The Center Women of the JCC. GROWING FAMILIES: Lisa and Scott Wasserman on the wife, and Heather, Jason and Mindy Vivian, Lloyd and Ginny Stiassny an original theatrical production called The JCC is located at 1035 Newfield Shayna and Jer- engagement of their daughter, Brittany Klenoff on the loss of their mother, on the loss of their father, Jacob “Fairy Tale Endings.” Ave., at the intersection of Vine Road emy Gilbert on the birth of twins, Wasserman, to David Sand; grandmoth- Joyce Klenoff. Stiassny. Sponsored by The Center Women, in Stamford. Sawyer William Gilbert and Kellam er is Anita (Kandi) Wasserman. there will be three performances of For more information and to order Scott Gilbert; grandparents are Liz and MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: the show, on Saturday, January 24, at tickets online, visit www.stamfordjcc.org. Bill Gilbert. Ezra Franks, son of Hindy Najman rabbi’s corner 7:30 pm, and Sunday, January 25, at 11 The Jewish Community Center is a Laurie Pomper-Ganat on the birth and Paul Franks am and 3 pm. recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of a granddaughter, Lavie Avraham Charlotte Freund, daughter of Cathy A Re-New-ed Focus Appropriate for children and adults of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Bashan; great-grandparents are Judy Bernstein and Bud Freund By Rabbi Jay TelRav own Torah scroll in his arms. alike, the entire community is invited Darien. and Seymour Pomper. Sara Gatz, daughter of Marlene and Every synagogue is proud “As we created a ritual that Ilana and Howard Paktor Glanzman Jeffrey Gatz of the accomplishments would be right for Aaron, by on the birth of a son, Yotam Ze’ev Dawson Elliott Golove, son of Beth of its youth. Temple Sinai extension, the whole family Glanzman; grandmother is Sandra and Rob Golove; grandparents are is no different as its b’nai experienced something very UJF Reading Partners Out Ehrenkranz. Sandy and Fred Golove mitzvah continue to master powerful,” reported Beth. Hilary and Ari Goldstein on the Molly Herckis, daughter of Karen the chanting of their Torah “One of the most powerful in the Community birth of a son, Noach Doniel Gold- and Scott Herckis portions, and embrace the aspects of Jewish worship is its stein; grandparents are Joan and David Gavriel Karsch, son of Liat and Benjy teachings and traditions of ability to speak to the needs of Goldenberg. Karsch; grandparents are Carol and our people, as they stand its participants. Rabbi TelRav Emily and Robert Klein on the birth Dan Karsch before a congregation of Rabbi Jay TelRav and I are simply working to of a daughter, Abigail Sophia Klein; Justin Kipness, son of Elise and beaming friends and family. unlock this key feature of grandparents are Linda and Jacob Robert Kipness Additionally, like many congregations, our tradition for today’s families,” said Darer and Laurie and Mark Klein. Tatyana Lovishuk, daughter of Ga- Temple Sinai seeks to avoid becoming Cantor Micah Morgovsky. Last year’s Center Women production of the musical, “Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Randi and Philip Mayer on the birth briella Lovishuk the stereotypic “bar mitzvah mill” and In the coming months, Temple Dreamcoat,” was seen by nearly 1,000 people in three sellout performances. This year’s of a daughter, Leah Mayer; grandpar- Cameron Morson, son of Michele so, in recent months, has committed to Sinai will worship at Shabbat morn- production, “Fairy Tale Endings,” will be presented on Saturday and Sunday, January ents are Carol Battin and Sam Mayer. and Eric Morson deepening the spiritual experience of ing services led by students who have 24-25, at the JCC. Siona and Perry Smith on the birth Jakob Okun, son of Irene and Mike this important Jewish moment. Today, been deeply affected by their camp of a daughter; grandparents are Shirley Okun many Jewish tweens and teens across memories and who, in turn, have col- Zajdel and Arthur Smith. Margalit Patry, daughter of Rebecca denominational lines uphold the mis- laborated with Cantor Morgovsky to Laura Stein and Mike Farias on the Martin and William Patry conception that b’nai mitzvah marks the choose music to reflect that connec- Opening minds, birth of a daughter, Lily Rose Farias; grand- Yonah Patry, son of Rebecca Martin end of the Jewish journey, rather than an tion. Similarly, Justin Kipness, a student bridging differences, parents are Beverly and David Stein. and William Patry important milestone along the way. So, who has wrestled with the English living Jewish values Cara and Benjamin Zimon on the Joshua Pickel, son of Elizabeth and to counteract that perception, Temple meanings of our prayers, has worked birth of a daughter, Ella Jade Zimon; Alan Pickel Sinai recently collaborated with leaders closely with me to reframe each piece grandparents Sue and Mark Alswanger, Tyler Pomerance, son of Lisa and from 67 other congregations across of the liturgy to reflect his unique view UJF Reading Partners participated in Bridgeport’s 29th annual Read Aloud Day at The and great-grandparents are Fran and Mitch Pomerance movements and geography to grapple of the world while remaining true to Hallen School. Back row (l-r): Dr. Deborah Santacipta; Marge Pavlov, reading partner; Bob Alswanger. Ashley Shapiro, daughter of Tara with the challenges of retention post our long and rich tradition. Marlyn Agatstein, director of Reading Partners; Ena Sarkar, reading partner; and Meg The Abraham Joshua Heschel School MAZEL TOV TO: and Richard Shapiro bar and bat mitzvah, and to seek out Recent b’nai mitzvah families have Mooar,RP Focus reading nov ad.qxp_Layout partner. In 1front: 11/11/14 George 6:43 Markley, AM Page Hallen’s 1 volunteer captain. Deb and Steve Denardo on the mar- CONDOLENCES TO: new ways of engaging our Jewish youth. lauded Temple Sinai’s leadership for Nursery - High School riage of their daughter, Jennifer Lee, Family of Evelyn Barron. The first step, though it may seem their openness and willingness to accom- modate their individual hopes and needs, to Eric Henry Galpin. Lynn Berman and Mark Peters- obvious, has been to encourage young 80 East Ridge 30 West End Avenue students and families to play a more ac- while still preserving their connection to Laura Markowitz and Stewart Casper Golden on the loss of their mother, Ridgefield, CT New York, NY 10023 Marilyn Golden. tive role in the planning and personal- long-standing traditions and customs. on the marriage of their daughter, Stacey (203) 438-5795 Casper, to Daniel Warshaw, son of Mar- Jon Cline on the loss of his sister, ization of the b’nai mitzvah experience. The cantor and I recognize that ridgefieldplayhouse.org tha Warshaw and Steven Warshaw. Alanna Cline. The Temple Sinai clergy have begun Judaism is an ever-evolving tradition. for movies and the performing arts Cheryl Effren on the loss of her coaching and guiding families to “think To that end, even more important than Ariela Dubler father, Abraham Josephson. outside the box” when it comes to the meeting an individual family’s needs, is CLARK CONSTRUCTION COMEDY SERIES candle Claire Fishman on the loss of her b’nai mitzvah service. And already, in the need to acknowledge and embrace Head of School sister, Leah Kasar. the past few months, several families the fact that change is an integral part lighting times Jerry Gold on the loss of his father, have embraced their celebrations in of assuring our Jewish survival into the FESTIVAL OF LIGHT Marsha Feris and Leonard and Robert Gold on the new and innovative ways. future. If even one generation of our An Intimate Evening with Matisyahu… loss of their brother, Joseph Gold. Randy Skigen, whose son Daniel cel- people had decided that Torah ceased Director of Admissions Nov. 21...... 4:13 pm Ari Goldstein on the loss of his ebrated in November, said, “The way we to have relevance for them in their day, Unplugged (212) 595-7087 Nov. 28...... 4:09 pm grandfather, Sam Kaplowitz. have personalized the experience speaks our chain of transmission would have [email protected] Dec. 5...... 4:08 pm Denise Greenman on the loss of her strongly to who Dan is as an individual.” been irrevocably broken. The goal of Sun, Dec. 28 @ 8PM father, Dr. Samuel Kessler. During his service, Dan presented several Jewish leaders everywhere should be Dec. 12...... 4:08 pm Sue Greenwald on the loss of her challenging theological questions to the to inspire an intrinsic connection to The Grammy-nominated artist brings his tour celebrating the Dec. 19...... 4:10 pm sister, Sarah Raikis Gorman. congregation and encouraged his guests Judaism in the next generation through Jewish holiday during the winter months! The performance Dec. 26...... 4:14 pm Jerry Gross on the loss of his mother, to develop their own answers. meaningful, personal worship experi- features sets that include material spanning his entire career – Jan. 2...... 4:19 pm Ethel Scher Gross. Beth Lurie’s son, Aaron, celebrated ences, contemporary music, creative including “Miracle” and “Happy Hanukkah!” his milestone outdoors with the family’s learning and spiritual partnership. Jan. 9...... 4:26 pm UJF Tribute Cards are a Jan. 16...... 4:33 pm wonderful way to connect Jan. 23...... 4:42 pm Mazel Tov to Area Jan. 30...... 4:50 pm with your family and friends Feb. 6...... 4:59 pm and mark any occasion while Feb. 13...... 5:08 pm supporting the extraordinary Professionals work of UJF. To send a tribute, Rabbi Yehuda Jeiger Appointed YU Lead Mentor Feb. 20...... 5:16 pm Rabbi Yehuda Jeiger, coordinator of Middle School Jew- Feb. 27...... 5:25 pm go to www.ujf.org. ish Life at Bi-Cultural Day School, has been appointed as a mentor in Yeshiva University Lead, the YU School Partner- ship’s leadership development program for current and aspiring Jewish day school leaders. As a YU Lead mentor, Rabbi Jeiger will blend the best of online, face-to-face and group learning for this year’s cohort. Throughout this nine-month program, Jeiger will JENNY MCCARTHY support and challenge YU Lead participants to take their PAULA Whitney school leadership skills to the next level by having them re- Dirty, Sexy, Funny: POUNDSTONE Cummings Rabbi Yehuda Jeiger flect on their practices and beliefs about Jewish day schools A night of comedy and Jewish leadership. One of From E!’s hosted by The program began in early November as Rabbi Jeiger participated in a two-day Chelsea Lately Jenny McCarthy Comedy Central's training at the YU School Partnership’s Critical Friends Group Conference, where he and has featuring 100 Greatest joined more than 100 other professional and lay leaders from around the country. appeared on Tammy Pescatelli, YU Lead mentors share a commitment to cultivating and guiding a new gen- Stand-ups Comedy Central Lynne Koplitz, Paula Bel eration of Jewish day school leaders. “My goal for the year is to help facilitate of All Time! Roasts! learning and to create a positive culture promoting a cohesive group where we & April Macie! can all learn from one another and share our experiences in an open and safe environment,” said Rabbi Jeiger. Sat, Dec. 6 @ 8PM Sat, Feb. 28 @ 8PM Fri, May 15 @ 8PM Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 Jewish Family Service and Person-to-Person Exchange Shabbat Re-imagined at Temple Beth El By Steve Lander Shabbat considered a pillar of TBE’s among congregants. Joining Cantor Socials,” with wine and cheese and Collected Food As the fall holidays recede from view, collective vision. Fishman and Rabbi Joshua Hammer- potluck dinners; “Family Shabbats,” Temple Beth El is turning its attention A centerpiece of these efforts is Can- man as part of the spiritual musical team such as the “Shabbat Chanukah” Rebekah Kanefsky, Jewish Family Service case Person’s High Holy Day Food Drives are a long- to re-imagining Shabbat with a variety tor Magda Fishman, whose delivery of is Beth Styles, producer/composer extravaganza planned for Friday, De- manager and Janet King, Person-to-Person director standing tradition, which began decades ago in of service and programmatic offerings. cantorial vocal tradition, contemporary of Stamford’s community multi-faith cember 19, with live music and latkes; of volunteers, exchanged non-kosher for kosher Stamford and have expanded into Norwalk. In the The renewed focus on Shabbat is a by- music and prayer filled the sanctuary choir, the New World Chorus, as well “Shabbat on the Road,” such as the packaged foods. Jewish Family Service, the only spirit of tikkun olam, congregations in Stamford product of the congregation’s recent over the recent High Holidays, and as “The Shabbat Experience.” one planned for downtown Stamford kosher food pantry in Fairfield County, provides and Norwalk were encouraged to donate both exercise in strategic planning, with has led to a new level of participation “Our goal,” Rabbi Hammerman in the winter; “Shabbat Alive!,” a ser- non-perishable food and grocery cards for perishable kosher and non-kosher foods, and to return the stated, “is nothing less than to create vice featuring a live band; and “The items to clients in need, regardless of race, religious filled bags to their house of worship during the a new energy in the congregation and Shabbat Experience” coming up on or ethnic background. High Holy Days. a deeper connection to the Jewish and Friday, December 26, where Temple Jewish Family Service and Person-to-Person, two Jewish Family Service extended its thanks to every- Jewish Women Connected interfaith community at large, building Beth El will join Temple Sinai and organizations that respond to the challenges in one in the community for their generosity at this time on the congregation’s longstanding Selah for a candle-lit, meditative and the community by providing food for the hungry of the year. If anyone would like to donate additional Luncheon record of inclusivity and innovation.” musical community experience. and assisting individuals and families through life’s kosher food items to JFS, contact Rebekah Kanefsky “Every Friday night, members and More information on upcoming Fri- transitions, worked together to collect both kosher at 201-921-4161 or [email protected]. guests are welcomed into a loving, day night events, along with a number and non-kosher foods during this year’s 2014 High Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United spiritual atmosphere, where the mes- of special programs planned for Shab- Holy Days Food Drive. Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and sage and music of Shabbat take us bat morning as well, including learners, Based in Darien and Norwalk, Person-to- Rebekah Kanefsky and Janet King at Person-to-Person Darien. on a journey that is sure to inspire,” musical and meditative experiences, said Styles. will be announced at a later date. A rotation of events will include All Kabbalat Shabbat services begin at JFS Partners to Provide High Holiday Kosher Food “Shabbat Around the World,” such 7:30 pm unless noted otherwise (such as By Iris Morrison the bags of food for the holidays. Keeping a kosher home can be a challenge for as the service dedicated to the story the Chanukah family service, which will Once again, Jewish Family Service has preserved On October 2, about a dozen volunteers from those who are experiencing financial hardships. and music of Jews from Uganda that begin at 7 pm). For more information, the tradition of coordinating the collection and the Jewish Family Service’s JTT program (Jewish Especially in these hard times, a family who wants to took place in November; “Shabbat contact Styles at [email protected]. distribution of kosher food to individuals and fami- Twenties and Thirties) packed large shopping bags keep a kosher home may require some assistance. The lies who are in need of assistance during the High at the Stamford Jewish Community Center. A group generosity of the Greater Stamford community made Holidays, the yomim tovim. The Food Bank of Lower of youngsters from the Stamford JCC Swim Club it possible for JFS to reach out to more families and Fairfield County provided food and the ShopRite offered to assist, as well. The basic High Holidays individuals than it has ever assisted in the past. Partners in Caring program donated $1,000 to as- bag included apples, fruits and vegetables, a jar of Jewish Family Service operates a Kosher Food sist in the project. Congregation Agudath Sholom gefilte fish, a jar of horseradish, a small bottle of Pantry all year-round for those in need. Anyone of Stamford also collected and donated food from grape juice and a dessert. As always, JFS gathered See “Kosher” on page 10 its holiday food drive. This Jewish New Year, almost the names and addresses of those in need of as- 250 individuals or families primarily in Stamford, sistance and coordinated the distribution of the Norwalk, Westport, Wilton and Trumbull received kosher food bags.

On October 14, Chabad House Stamford’s Jewish Women Connected annual Luncheon in the Sukkah was held. The event was chaired by Elaine Finkelstein and had more than 50 women in attendance, including seniors from Bright Horizons. L-r: Jodi Shapiro, Sheri Jacobson, Leah Shemtov and Frances Schaff.

Vienna Continued from page 5 to found Orion Pictures, which he di- Teddy Kollek (2001). rected until 1992. Its greatest successes For information about the program, Nathaniel Morgulis and Josh Herman were hard at work were “Amadeus,” “Dances with Wolves” contact Marcie Schoenfeld at 203-359- counting apples to distribute to those in need from the and “The Silence of the Lambs.” 9148 or [email protected]. yomim tovim food drive. Since 1998, Pleskow has been The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield president of the Film Festival Vien- County is a beneficiary agency of the United nale in Vienna. In February 2007, he Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New was awarded honorary citizenship of Canaan and Darien. Vienna, following Billy Wilder and

L-r: Tatiana (last name withheld to preserve privacy) waited to receive bags of kosher food from Shira and Solomon Green from the JFS Kosher Food Pantry.

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Dr. Aaron Ciechanover, vital cancer research projects. With the the Bi-Cultural Day School Gala; Nobel laureate, distinguished professor generous support of Len and Susan was a board member of Congrega- at Technion Institute of Technology and others, I believe that many of the tion Agudath Sholom, and held the and ICRF research professor, will be cancer cures will come from Israel’s position of secretary and chaired the guest speaker. outstanding scientific community.” the youth committee; and served Recently, Len and Susan Mark be- ICRF-funded research has helped in several positions at Hadassah, came interested in the Israel Cancer lead to the development of life-sav- including member of the National Research Fund, a nonprofit organiza- ing drugs such as Gleevec, Doxil and Board for 30 years, president of the tion whose mission is to harness Israel’s Velcade; the discovery of the location Susan and Len Mark Connecticut Region and national scientific talent to find cancer cures. and chemical nature of the p53 tumor- VP. Currently, Susan serves on the Len and Susan have earmarked a major suppressor gene; and identification of of Kulanu, Stamford’s supplemental Friendship Circle board. three-year gift to ICRF. the “Philadelphia Chromosome.” Since Jewish high school; board member and Len has been a manager of various According to the Marks, “It was an awarding its first grants in 1977, ICRF House Committee chair of Congrega- properties, including self-storage facili- easy decision to support ICRF because has funded 2,115 grants totaling $52 tion Agudath Sholom; and a member of ties and offices, retail and industrial, for of its mission to retain the best scien- million to scientists in Israel, including the Board of Trustees of Bi-Cultural Day 20 years. Previously, he was a builder tific minds in Israel by providing the two Nobel Prize winners. School. He has served UJF of Greater and was involved in the renovation of resources needed to fund their world- Both Len and Susan have been active Stamford, New Canaan and Darien two 19th century mill complexes into class research. We are so pleased that in the local and international commu- in several senior level capacities. The 300 apartments. ICRF has brought together our desire nity for 30-plus years. Len sat on the Marks sponsor the Len and Susan Mark Forinformation on the gala, contact to fight ovarian and other cancers, and Stamford Housing Development Fund Youth Outreach Center in Afula, Israel, Kweskin at David.Kweskin@icrfonline. our lifetime commitment to Israel.” board; was a founding board member for Ethiopian teens. org or 203-321-1006. Slingshot Recognizes Jewish Student Connection By Dave Dossick that helps teens create and operate by providing accessibility without strategy of going to where they are Jewish Student Connection an- Jewish cultural clubs in public and barriers, no dues, no membership and allowing non-Jews to participate nounced it was included in Slingshot’s private high schools across the coun- requirements and no restrictive defi- is very successful.” 2014-2015 guide of innovative and ef- try, currently serves three Stamford nition of what it means to be Jewish. It Jewish Student Connection an- fective Jewish organizations in North high schools: Academy of Informa- brings Jewish experiences directly to nounced that it is thrilled to be a part America. A go-to resource for volun- tion Technology and Engineering, where teens spend most of their time of the Stamford community and is teers, activists and donors looking Stamford High School and Westhill – their high schools. By welcoming grateful to United Jewish Federation for new opportunities and projects, High School. Jews and non-Jews alike to explore of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and the Slingshot guide seeks to ensure Jewish Student Connection rec- Judaism, they seek to open the doors Darien for its support. that the Jewish community remains ognizes that many teens disconnect to students who would otherwise lack To learn more about Jewish Student relevant and thriving. Jewish Student from Jewish life after their bar or bat access to Jewish engagement. The Connection or Slingshot, contact Re- Connection, a non-profit organization mitzvah and seek to counter the trend Slingshot guide sums up JSC with becca Shapiro at [email protected]. the following statement: “There is a Jewish Student Connection is a recipient great need to reach teens with mean- agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater ingful Jewish opportunities, and the Stamford, New Canaan and Darien.

Kosher Continued from page 8 who knows of families or individuals fish, pasta, beans and supermarket and who might benefit from assistance in pharmacy gift cards to JFS should also the future, should contact Rebekah contact Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or e- Kanefsky, JFS case management, at mail at [email protected] to arrange 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. for drop-off at the Stamford office. All requests and referrals are kept Iris Morrison is the associate executive strictly confidential. director of Jewish Family Service. Anyone who would like to donate Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency non-perishable kosher food items of United Jewish Federation of Greater such as canned fruits and vegetables, Stamford, New Canaan and Darien.

L-r: Heather Susman, Rachel Aaron, Robin Treidel and Robin Fischel, all Jewish Twenties and Thirties volunteers, sent out their holiday wishes. 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 National Merit Scholarship Program Recognizes JHSC BCDS Adds Coral Reef Tank to Science Program By Dora Salm and Bullet and Shrimp Goby fish, all play a role Students The newest members of the Bi-Cultural Day School in maintaining a healthy habitat within the 120- community don’t carry books, backpacks or attend gallon, 48-inch-wide tank. The Jewish High School of Connecticut an- The school’s mission is to educate Jewish youth for and creative talents. “JHSC’s faculty encourages class, but they do travel in schools – ocean fish have Building beyond the initial coral reef biology nounced that Miriam Gerber and Eva Gerber have whom Jewish values and traditions shape and guide learning. There are core classes, but there is also joined BCDS in a customized coral reef tank located unit, Graseck is in the process of creating a set been recognized in the 2015 National Merit Scholar- their lives and for whom learning and responsible an emphasis on discovering your own personal just inside the front entrance of the school for both of curriculum plans to use the aquarium in the ship Program. Miriam was named a semifinalist, an action are the foundation for achievement. Student interests. It is simultaneously supportive and chal- students and faculty to view. science curriculum for each grade level. With honor less than 1 percent of U.S. high school seniors voice and individual attention are considered central lenging,” she commented. Featuring subtropical coral ocean life commonly the students helping to maintain the balance of achieve. Eva received a letter of commendation, plac- to the school’s pedagogy. The school is located at the “We strive for an atmosphere of collegiality and found in the northern tip of the Red Sea from the electrical, plumbing and chemistry levels, Graseck ing her in the top 5 percent of students who took Stamford Technology Center, 1937 West Main St., creativity. With our students’ input we develop elec- Israeli port city of Eilat, Bi-Cultural’s new coral explained that the reef tank is an accessible way the exam. About 1.5 million high school juniors in Stamford. The space supports the STEM program. tive opportunities both in school and through virtual reef aquarium adds a level of experiential learn- to incorporate S.T.E.M. (science, technology, more than 22,000 high schools entered the program Students entering all grades may apply now to learning venues to support their diverse passions,” ing to the science program. Middle school science engineering and math) into the BCDS science by taking the PSAT in 2013. JHSC for the 2015-2016 academic year. To apply or said Susan Birke Fiedler, acting head of school. Ex- teacher Christopher Graseck, the caretaker of the program. “We’re measuring chemical parameters, Miriam credited the school for providing an for more information about the school, visit www. amples of courses students have taken are playwrit- tank, explained that the purpose of an aquarium such as salinity, ammonia and nitrate, as well as environment supportive of in-depth scholarship jhsct.org, call 203.357.0850 or e-mail admissions@ ing, engineering, oceanography, Jewish Philosophy, in a school environment is multi-fold, lending it- phosphate levels, making sure that LED levels and conducive to serious integration of academic jhsct.org. politics and society and comparative religion. self to many hands-on learning opportunities and are correct and checking bacteriological filters,” providing real-life examples of living creatures in explained Graseck, who is assisted in performing Science teacher Christopher Graseck explained the Continued from page 1 Future an ocean-life ecosystem. these necessary functions with the help of an after- maintenance specifics of the Bi-Cultural coral reef tank All organizations and synagogues will benefit from a Shalev, president of Sage70, walked participants “Teachers can use the reef to demonstrate school ecology club, as well as the audiences that to students Douglas Herman and Rina Parhi. (Photo by meaningful assessment of what our legacies should through a year of legacy planning. any part of an ecosystem, including ecological pop up when Graseck performs his daily checks Dora Salm) be, and we look forward to providing the community UJF President Shoshana Dweck wrapped up the processes, classification of living things, and of the tank. more assistance in this regard.” formal part of the program by highlighting UJF’s com- symbiotic and co-evolution relationships – how Graseck also explained that an additional benefit they are going to know the names of the various Participants at the workshop heard from several mitment to helping all of the organizations in town animals rely on each other,” Graseck explained. is to “add depth and knowledge” to the eighth-grad- fish even before they get there. It’s a great way to members of the UJF Legacy Committee, which had succeed. Emphasizing that UJF was not undertaking The students learn that the reef fish, which in- ers to reference during their snorkeling activity in incorporate biology and marine life study into their prepared the workshop, in addition to the new ma- to establish a new foundation or fund, she noted that, clude the male and female Lyretailed Anthias, Eilat on the annual Israel Experience trip. “The trip,” Graseck said. terials UJF has created for use by all organizations in “We want to honor any donor to any one of our Jewish the Green Chromis, the Long-Nosed Hawkfish, students are going to see hundreds of fish and Sixth-grader Ben Marcus, one of the members the community. Committee member Rabbi Daniel organizations, local, national or international.” To that of the Coral Reef Club at BCDS, explained that Cohen of Congregation Agudath Sholom opened end, UJF has asked all of the agencies and synagogues he has already learned a lot about the mechani- the discussion by placing the notion of legacy in a for the names of their current legacy donors, so that cal and technical aspects of the tank, yet it’s the Jewish context. He was followed by Committee Chair they can be honored as founding members of the Jewish High School of Connecticut overall feeling that he gets from the coral reef Carol Karsch, who served for more than 20 years newly launched Herzl Society. system that he appreciates the most. “With all the as the executive director of the Jewish Community Feedback from the event has been called very variety of fish from the Red Sea, there’s a cultural Foundation of Southern Arizona. Karsch demystified positive. Sylvan Pomerantz, president of Temple Beth Announces Introductory Tuition aspect of the tank and it adds even more life to some of the elements of having a legacy conversation El, said, “This is a fantastic initiative. The community The Board of Trustees of the Jewish High School to JHSC for the 2015-2016 academic year. To the school,” he said. with donors and gave examples from her decades needs this and we will certainly benefit from it.” of Connecticut announced an introductory tuition apply or for more information about the school, Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United of experience. Henry Bubel, a partner in the New For more information on the Herzl Initiative, of $18,500 for the academic year of 2015-2016. JHSC visit www.jhsct.org, call 203-357-0850 or e-mail Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and York law firm Patterson Belknap Webb and Tyler, or those who have made a legacy gift to any Jewish is now located in the Stamford Technology Center [email protected]. Darien. presented an overview on the legal and financial organization, contact Cohen at [email protected] to (1937 West Main St., Stamford), which offers research L-r: Nimrod Dayan, James Cohen and Eve Nachman aspects of the types of gifts one can make, and Isaac be recognized. labs and is close to the Stamford train station. “We are offering our high caliber program at this tuition to introduce ourselves,” stated Randie Weseley, presi- dent of the board. JHSC is accredited by the New England Associa- tion of Independent Schools. The college prepara- tory program is supported by a faculty committed to individualized attention and mentoring. “Students are encouraged to attain the full measure of their potential. We believe that every person has a talent and a passion and it is up to us to help our students pursue or uncover their unique gifts,” said Susan Birke Fiedler, acting head of school. “The scope of course opportunities is astound- ing,” said Miriam Gerber, a 2014 semifinalist in the National Merit Scholarship Program. “The L-r: Isaac Shalev, Rabbi David Israel and Eliezer faculty’s breadth of knowledge and willingness to Silverman explore student’s interests create a dynamic and supportive academic environment.” Students entering all grades may apply now

Cognitive Continued from page 3 “As a leader in the Lower Fairfield County area supplying care for seniors in their homes for almost 30 years, JFS is well-qualified to conduct the train- ing and evaluation necessary to provide an effective program targeted to improving the quality of life of an aging population,” added Matt Greenberg, CEO of Jewish Family Service. JFS Home Companion is a training and referral L-r: Henry Bubel, Matt Greenberg and Carol Karsch service that provides caregivers for families needing help for one of their members. The service provides customized support allowing clients to remain in the living situation that is most independent and comfortable for them. For more information about JFS Home Companion, contact Isrella Knopf, direc- tor of senior services, at 203-921-4161 or e-mail at [email protected] JFS extends its gratitude to the volunteer re- cruits from local agencies and synagogues. Anyone interested in becoming a volunteer trainer for the program, or who knows someone who may benefit from the cognitive fitness training program, should contact Greenberg at 203-921-4161 or mgreenberg@ ctjfs.org. Lynn Saltz is the Jewish Family Service marketing and communication coordinator. Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien.

Support our advertisers and say you saw their ad here in ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Mitzvah Madness Hits Carmel Academy Sixth Grade Girls and Their Mothers Team Up FAMILY CENTRAL By Julie Lapin The program was first initiated in Israel by Carmel For December/January & February 2015 Carmel Academy’s sixth grade girls and their Academy’s director of general studies curriculum FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY GRADES K-8 mothers are piloting a year-long community service and professional development, Dr. Cindy Mann, as a project that they may never forget. Each month, a coming of age project to help raise children’s aware- Challah Club – Challah Basics 4th Annual Havdalah & Hoops Tournament at The J Thursday, Jan 8, 15, 22, 29 from 4-5 pm at Chabad House. Fee: $5 per person. Open to all. Have fun Grades 6-12. Sat., Jan 17 at 6:30 pm. Fee: $18 per person. Father & son 3-on-3 basketball tournament. For sixth grade girl and her mother choose and organize ness of others and encourage children to give back to and make your own homemade challah! Learn the challah basics or try your hand at information, contact Mo Concepcion at 203-487-0971 or [email protected]. a community service project. Then, all the girls in their community. After discussing the program with something more “artistic”. Each week, we’ll try something new! the grade, together with their mothers, complete Bat Mitzvah Club & BMC Beyond Mann, Messinger said she and other parents were Celebrate Chanukah at Temple Beth El For Bat Mitzvah Aged girls. Sunday, Dec 7 from 6:00-7:30 pm at Chabad. Bat Mitzvah coming up? the project as a team. eager to adopt the program at Carmel Academy. Friday, Dec 19 at 6:00 pm. Fun filled, Chanukah themed Shabbat dinner, including a song session for Caught up with the theme, clothing and party favors but clueless about the meaning. Do you think a Bat Termed “Mitzvah Madness,” “the program is a One Sunday afternoon each month, a mother and young children, games and prizes followed by a family friendly, participatory Shabbat evening service. Mitzvah ends or begins with your party? Did you already celebrate your Bat Mitzvah and are wondering powerful way for mothers to model for their daugh- daughter team organizes a service project. The first For more information and to register for the dinner, please call 203-322-6901. “what now?” Then this club is for you! ters the importance and impact of giving back to the Mitzvah Madness project, organized by Messinger Chanukah Community Concert and Celebration Bat Mitzvah Club Shabbaton community and the world at large,” said Stamford and her daughter, Hannah, involved cooking a meal Sunday, Dec. 21. Wonderland from 2:30-4 pm and Concert from 4-6 pm at Rippowam Middle School. For Bat Mitzvah Aged girls. Friday, Jan 23 at Chabad House. 26 hours of non-stop BMC fun! Spend a Open to all. Chanukah shows, meet Judah Maccabee, arts and crafts, multi media station, storytelling, complete Shabbat experience with your BMC leader and fellow BMC friends – an experience not be missed. resident Dr. Rachel Messinger, a sixth grade parent and serving it to 25 women at the Inspirica Women’s Lego menorah building, Chanukah Super Store, food, refreshments and more. For further information: who is spearheading the program with fellow Carmel Homeless Shelter in Stamford. Leah Shemtov at 203-323-2223 or [email protected]. BBYO Academy parent Dr. Eve Goldstein. “Spending time volunteering with my mom and Family Fun Day Brunch For Grades 8-12. Every 2nd Monday from 7:00-9:00 pm at The J. For further information, please contact Carmel Academy sixth-graders Hannah MacDonald of Thursday, Dec 25 from 10:30 am – 12:30 pm at Chabad House. Open to all. Pancakes, waffles, eggs BBYO Regional Office (203) 389-2127 or [email protected] www.cvrbbyo.net. Leviticus AZA (Boys) & Tikvah Each mother and daughter duo will have the friends has been so great,” said Hannah, who had BBG (Girls). Teens engaged in opportunities for leadership, athletic, social and community service. opportunity during the academic year to take on a never been to a homeless shelter before. “It really Stamford and Racheli Meiliken of Rye helped prepare a meal and all the trimmings. Activities and fun for all ages! leadership role by creating a mitzvah project based at the Inspirica Women’s Homeless Shelter in Stamford. Giant Menorah Lighting CKC – Chabad Kids Club made me realize how good it feels to help people Grades K-6. Wednesdays, Dec 3, 10; Jan 14, 21, 28; Feb 4, 11, 25 from 4-6 pm pm at Chabad. Incor- on their specific interests. who are in need and to appreciate things that others Tuesday, Dec 16 at 5:30 pm at Latham Park. Open to all. Light Fairfield County’s largest menorah, joined by dignitaries and community leaders. Donuts and hot apple cider, latkes and gelt for the kids. porating POGS, Chai 5, Hebrew School and Aleph Bet. Hands on Chesed Club, science and cooking, “It’s really empowering for the girls and it gives don’t have like food and clothes. I feel very lucky!” program that brings volunteers and special needs weekly Torah Portion, snacks, aleph bet and Hebrew reading, Judaic homework help included – plus them a chance to do something quite meaningful In October, the group volunteered at Kids Kloset children together for fun activities and friendship. JCC Open House one on one tutoring option available. Sunday, Jan 4 from 10 am-2 pm. Try a group exercise class, use the JCC fitness center and pool with with their mothers,” Messinger said. “By the end of in White Plains, packaging clothing for children and Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of United family and friends. Learn about JCC programs, enjoy special membership discounts. For information, JCC Maccabi Games Open House the year, we will have given our daughters an endur- families in need, and this month they will be volun- Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and contact Ilene Kirschner Madwed at 203-487-0945 or [email protected]. Ages 13 to 16. Tuesday, Dec 9 from 7 pm at The J. and Thursday, Dec 18 at 7:00 pm at The J. For teens and ing life lesson.” parents who want to know more about the JCC Maccabi Experience. Teens must be the age of 13 to 16 by July teering with The Friendship Circle in Stamford, a Darien. JCC Purim Carnival 31, 2015. For further information, contact Mo Conception at 203-487-0971 or [email protected]. Sunday, Feb 22 from 1-4 pm. Fee: Free. Circus performances, games, food and prizes. Tickets and bracelets available for purchase. Volunteers needed. For more information, contact Harrison Peck at JCC Matzvah Ball ‘Pretty in Pink’ 203-487-0970 or [email protected]. Ages 4-10. Saturday, Feb 7 from 6:30-8 pm at The J. Fee: $45 per couple ($5 each additional child); $36 per Chabad Launches New Chabad Kids Club couple ($5 each additional child) JCC members. Fathers and daughters will dance and play games. For Limmud NY further information, contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 or [email protected]. By Taly Farber afternoon program. tutoring options will be available. Friday – Monday, Feb 13-16 at Stamford Hilton Hotel & Executive Meeting Center. Fee: Free. Celebrate the rich Chabad House Stamford has launched its new CKC will be held at Chabad on Wednesdays, from “CKC is an invaluable resource if you are a non- diversity of Jewish culture, life and learning through art, music, text study, film, hands-on workshops, perfor- JCC Supper and Song – Purim Party with Amy Rogel mances and more. Programming for the whole family including babysitting and Camp Ramah at Limmud NY. See description above under Birth through Preschool. kids program, Chabad Kids Club. The new program 4-6 pm, at the rededicated Keravtanu Children’s Hebrew speaking parent, or finding it difficult to tutor All meals are glatt kosher. Financial aid and student pricing available. Register now at www.limmudny.org incorporates all of the previous children’s programs Library. Like before, the program is run by the MO- your own child,” said Leah Shemtov. “With this new JFS Workshop – The Race to College – For Grades 8-12 – like POGS (Parsha and Other Good Stuff), which O-la-mi Family Bingo at The J Mondays, Dec 1 from 6:00-7:00 pm at Harry Bennett Branch of the Ferguson Library. FEE: Free and open RAHS (teachers) of Chabad, open to children from format, CKC provides something for everyone. It’s a Sunday, Jan 11 from 5-7 pm. Fee: $12 per person; $42 family maximum; $10 per person / $36 family to the community. For further information, contact Claire Friedlander at [email protected] or call 203-921- offers science, cooking and PARASHA for kindergar- kindergarten-sixth grade, and caters to public and great afternoon program with academic and social maximum JCC members. Pizza dinner and prizes. Children under 3 enter and eat for free. Proceeds 4161. Pre-planning for college for 8-11th graders and their parents and facilitated by Claire Friedlander, ten-second grade; Chai 5, a hands-on Chesed club for private school students. The new aspect of CKC is aspects, where kids can come learn and have fun!” will support the JCC summer scholarship fund. Pre-registration required by Thursday, Jan 8. For more Jewish Family Service College Consultant. information, contact Harrison Peck at 203-487-0970 or [email protected]. third-sixth-graders; Hebrew School; and Aleph Bet that kids can come get a snack, read a library book For more details, contact Shemtov at morahleah@ Meet and Greet with Cast of Fairy Tale Endings programs – and consolidates them into a two-hour or get Judaic/Hebrew homework help. One-on-one chabadstamford.org. UJF Tailgate Party For children 8 and under, accompanied by an adult. Wednesday, Jan 14 from 5:30-6:30 pm at The J. Fee: Sunday, Dec 7 from 1-3 pm at the JCC parking lot. Fee: Free. Chili Cook-off sponsored by local Kosher If registered before Jan 7: $12 per person / JCC members $9; After Jan 7: $14 per person / JCC members restaurants and caterers, games and activities for kids, opportunity to learn about UJF agencies and $11. Cast members will perform selections from their upcoming performance. Pizza and refreshments schools and a touch football game for everyone. For more information, contact Sharon Franklin at Sha- served. For further information, contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 or [email protected]. [email protected] or 203-321-1373 x109. Sukkah Cycle Takes a Spin Around Carmel Academy Middle School Laser Tag at The J Saturday, Jan 31 from 7-10 pm. Fee: $15 per person / $10 JCC members. Complete in the laser tag battle Is it a bicycle? Is it a sukkah? No, it’s a Sukkah BIRTH through PRESCHOOL of the year. Snacks will be provided. Cycle! Singing and Dancing with Natasha & Steve See description above under Birth - Pre-School. Rabbi Eytan Hammerman, from the JCC of Harri- Babies and Babble at the JCC Birth – 2 years with parents or caregivers. A monthly playgroup on Fridays from 3:30-4:30 pm. Fee: son, brought his Sukkah Cycle to the school’s Green- Yearly $25 / JCC Members $18. To register, call the JCC welcome desk at 203-322-7900. For further wich campus, giving Carmel Academy’s students a information, contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 or [email protected] or Dana Drazin-Polikoff at GRADES 9-12 hands-on tour of his bicycle turned sukkah. Rabbi [email protected]. BBYO Hammerman explained what makes a sukkah kosher Got Shabbat! Tiny Treasures Mommy & Me For Grades 8 - 12. Every 2nd Monday from 7:00-9:00 pm at The J. For further information, please contact and why the Sukkah Cycle completes the command- Birth to 30 months. Fridays from 10 am-10:45 am at Chabad. Second session begins Friday, Jan 9. Fee: BBYO Regional Office (203) 389-2127 or [email protected] www.cvrbbyo.net. Leviticus AZA (Boys) & Tikvah ment of dwelling in a sukkah. He took the children $15 per class (first timers FREE). Bring your little one to feel, taste, touch, see and experience a hands-on BBG (Girls). Teens engaged in opportunities for leadership, athletic, social and community service. Shabbat celebration. Caregivers welcome. on rides around the lower school courtyard. Even JCC Supper and Song – Purim Party with Amy Rogel FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE Head of School Nora Anderson took the Sukkah For volunteers in Grades 9-12 at Chabad Ages 1-8 with parents or caregiver (no charge for children 6 months and younger. Wednesday, Feb • At Home: Every week, pairs of teen volunteers visit special needs children in their homes offering Cycle for a spin. 25 from 5:30-6:30 pm. FEE: $12 per person, if registered before Feb 18 / JCC members $9; beginning friendship and unconditional support. February 19, $14 per person / JCC members $11. Sing along, sup along” featuring guest entertainer Amy Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of United • Children’s/Teen Circle: 15 Sundays through the year. Volunteer to work with special needs children Rogel in a concert tailored to young children. Pizza and a Purim dessert erved to children and adults. For Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and under the guidance of professionals. Activities include art, music, cooking and sports. further information, contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 or [email protected]. Darien. • Special Events. Throughout the year for Friendship Circle volunteers and children and families they Movin’ and Groovin’ at the JCC support. 12 – 30 months, with parent or caregiver. Tuesdays through Dec 16; Jan 6-Mar 24 (no class 2/17) from For further information: Malya Shmotkin at 203-329-0015 #414, [email protected] or 10:00 am-10:45 am. Fee: $253 / JCC Members $209 (11 sessions). Children will swing, spin, jump, www.friendshipct.com stretch, leap, roll and climb. Rhythm, music and song aid in the development of fine and gross motor 4th Annual Havdalah & Hoops Tournament at The J See description above under Grades K-8. At right: Carmel Academy fifth grade students admired the skills, listening and social skills while playing and learning. Sukkah Cycle ridden by Rabbi Eytan Hammerman of the JCC Maccabi Games Open House See description above under Grades K-8. Music and Movement JCC of Harrison. For children birth – 30 months. For toddlers. Wednesdays, Dec 3, 17; Jan 7, 21; Feb 22, 25 from 1:30-2:10 Jewish Student Connection pm at Bi-Cultural Day School. Fee: Free. With Jonathan Cahr and Rachel Bahar. For more information, For Grades 9 – 12. Tuesdays at 2:15 pm at Stamford High School. or Thursdays at 2:15 pm at Westhill contact Joanne Karow, 203-329-2186 x1310 or [email protected]. Music, movement, nursery rhymes, High School. For further information on either Tuesday or Thursday, contact [email protected] dramatization and folk song. Join in whenever you can. JFS Workshop – The Race to College – For Grades 8-12 See description above under Grades K-8. Music Together at the JCC Birth–5 years with parent or caregiver. Music education program that nurtures children’s natural enthusiasm Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah Corps for music and movement. To register, contact Music Together of Fairfield County at 203-256-1656. Meets once a month on Sundays: Dec 14, Jan 25 from 6:30 – 8:00 pm at The J. For further information or to nominate a teen, contact 203-321-1373. For Grades 10. Come together to learn about philanthropy, Shabbat Party leadership, the importance of community, and work together to make our community, Israel and the Kids birth-3 years old (special program for older siblings also). Friday, Dec 6 from 11 am-12:30 pm at world a better place. The group will create a mission statement and allocate funds to a non-profit of Chabad. Experience the tastes, touch, smells and sounds of Shabbat. their choosing based on that mission statement. Singing and Dancing with Natasha and Steve Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing and Shevet Achim: The Brotherhood Ages 1-8 years old with parent or caregiver. Wednesday, Dec 10 from 5:30 – 6:30 pm at The J. Fee: $12 per For Grades 8 and 9. Tuesday, Dec 9 from 6:30-8:30 pm at Temple Beth El. You don’t have to be a Carmel Academy students Kayla Erickson of Greenwich, person if registered before Dec 3, JCC members $9; and $14 per person beginning Dec 4, JCC members $11. member of TBE to participate. For further information, contact Lisa Gittelman Udi at 203-322-6901 x305 “sing along, sup along” featuring Natasha and Steve in a concert tailored to young children. Pizza served to or [email protected] Nadav Coll of Stamford, Max MacDonald of Stamford children and adults. For further information, contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 or [email protected]. and Neveh Yechiely of Greenwich took a ride on the Sukkah Speak Up for Israel Cycle. Wonderful Ones Sundays, Dec 14, Jan 25 from 5:00 – 7:00 pm at The J. For further information or to nominate a teen, Ages 1-2 years old with parents or caregiver. Thursdays through Dec 18; Jan 8 – Apr 2 from 9:15-10:15 contact Or Berger, JCC Israeli Shaliach at 203-487-0961. For grades 11 and 12. Israel gets a bad rap, am at the JCC Sara Walker Nursery School located at Temple Sinai. Fee: $234 / JCC Members $195 (13 especially on college campuses. Join an elite group of high school juniors and seniors and learn from sessions). Led by Sandi Waldstreicher. Children get a social, classroom experience including free play, art experts in the field, how to respond and take action. Students enrolled will attend the AIPAC Policy Con- projects, stories, songs; parents benefit from parenting tips and discussions. ference in March. Spaces are limited. A partnership between the JCC and UJF. SHABBAT This American Jewish Life at Temple Beth El Friday, Dec 12 at 7:30 pm. Fun, filled, Chanukah themed Shabbat diner, including a song session for young children, games and prized followed by a family friendly, participatory Shabbat evening service. For more information and to register for the dinner, call 203-322-6901. A Taste of Chanukah at Temple Sinai Friday, Dec 19. Time TBA. FEE: Dinner Only ($18 per adult, $10 per child). For further information, contact Temple Sinai office. Learn and Celebrate Chanukah together WeW' won't makek you Ruach Services at Temple Sinai Friday, Dec 19 and Saturday, Jan 31. For further information, contact Temple Sinai office, 203-322-1649. Ruach means spirit. All musical services are energetic and informal. Open to the community. jump through hoops Shabbat Martin Luther King Jr. Service with Rabbi Phil Schechter Friday, Jan 16. For further information, contact Temple Sinai office at 203-322-1649. to advertise. It’s easier than that. Shabbat With Kolot Sinai Saturday, Jan 31. Open to the community. For further information, contact Cantor Morgovsky at Temple Sinai, 203-322-1649. For information, contact Bonnie Rozen at Tot Shabbat at Temple Sinai (800)779-7896, ext. 244 or [email protected] Birth – 7 years old. Friday, Dec 12, Feb 13 at 5:00 pm or Saturday, Jan 10 at 9:00 am. Fee: Free. For further information, contact Temple Sinai office. Open to the community. Dancing, singing, praying and playing. Led by Rabbi TelRav and Cantor Morgovsky. 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 Battle for Beersheva Bi-Cultural’s Student Council Takes Charge By Rachel Neiman an exhibition of war photographs toured Austra- The charge itself is considered “one of the most By Dora Salm Robinson, the group of more than first projects that the Student Council port to a good cause.” Http://israel21c.org lia… the theory that it actually showed the Belah strategic and decisive Allied victories of the First A talent show, a sports rally, a tzedakah 20 middle-schoolers meet weekly has initiated is the Tzedakah Chal- Wiener also explained that being There is a photograph of the 1917 Australian Light re-staging had already been advanced. However, World War,” according to a proposal for a museum challenge, a book club, a debate team during their lunchtime, to hammer lenge, in which students will collect on the Student Council is important Horse charge on Beersheva that was a critical victory this notion was effectively squashed when Brigadier made by the Light Horse Association, which noted, and an allergy-awareness event were just out new ways to improve the student money for charitable organizations, because it enables students to “have over Turkey during World War I. Or is it? General Grant (who had directed the charge) and “The charge by the 4th (Victorian) and 12th (New some of the ideas Bi-Cultural’s Student life experience. using the campaign headline of “Ev- a voice” and to work with the school “For nearly 60 years, the authenticity of this members of his staff examined the photo and pro- South Wales) Light Horse Regiments of the 4th Light Council brain-stormed – and that was “Our goal in establishing the Stu- ery Bit of Change Can Make a Big through their faculty advisor, who photograph has been hotly debated,” states the nounced that while the landscape in it tallied with Horse Brigade took place over 6kms of open ground, just at the first meeting. dent Council is to create a platform Change.” To jumpstart the Tzedakah assists in transforming student ideas Australian Light Horse Association on its website, that at Beersheba, it did not match the terrain at under heavy enemy fire. In one dramatic hour the Bi-Cultural Day School created for student interests and collaborate Challenge, a Student Council mem- into workable action items. “All the which includes a copy of the photo. “It was claimed Belah. Grant also said that the charge was shown Australian Light Horsemen, backed up by the New the Student Council Organization a with each other. We want our kids to ber wrote lyrics to a Taylor Swift song, ideas come from us and Mrs. Robinson to show the Light Horse charge at Beersheba on 31 in correct formation, finally declaring, ‘I cannot Zealanders, captured the city of Be’ersheva. The few years ago as a forum for middle find ways to advocate for their own which will be used in an awareness- helps us fine-tune and polish them,” October 1917. But the photographer was unidenti- and will not take exception to the claim made in battle’s significance in the context of the war was that school students to voice their opin- interests in a constructive and produc- raising video to be shown throughout said Wiener. fied, the original negative could not be located and the Exhibition catalogue that it is a photograph of it broke the back of the Turkish German resistance ions, suggest new ideas and become tive way,” said Robinson. One student the school. One of the ideas that seemed to reso- the viewpoint of the charge seemed unlikely. How the actual charge.’” in the Middle East. In more far reaching geopolitical active participants in their own daily interest is in giving tzedakah, a core Student Council member Maya nate with many Council members, Rob- does a photographer come to be in no man’s land In the end, the Light Horse Association – a non- terms, it proved to be one of those pivotal history life at school. This year, the energy Jewish value that is stressed through- Wiener explained that being part of inson explained, was having student-run in the path of an actual cavalry charge?” profit organization whose aim is “to preserve the changing moments.” and participation has skyrocketed out all grades at Bi-Cultural. Working the Tzedakah Challenge was about book clubs. “I was most surprised by Controversy swirled around the image from the history and tradition of the Australian Light Horse In 2013, the Israel Postal Company and Australia among students. With the guid- in tandem with the long-standing more than just fund-raising: “We want the students’ interests in the area of very start, with “the official view of the Australian and its predecessors” – researched the surviving Post jointly issued two stamps, one featuring the ance of faculty advisor Adrianne Chesed (kindness) Club, one of the to give students as many options to literature,” she said. “In an age of digital War Memorial… that it was actually taken during veterans and found the man who had taken the statue of an Australian Light Horseman in the give and to feel that they’re part of media, I was happy to see that kids still a re-enactment of the charge staged for an official photograph, one E.G. (Rex) Elliott. The complete Park of the Australian Soldier at Beersheva and a something larger. It’s not just about want to read good books.” cameraman at Belah on the coast of Palestine some text of his account can be found on the Australian second featuring contemporary images of Austra- Bi-Cultural Hosts All-School money; it’s about giving time or sup- See “Student” on page 23 five months later.” There was also a theory that “the Light Horse Association website – www.lighthorse.org. lian Light Horsemen. photograph had been taken by a Turk and found in au/famous-battles/world-war-one/famous-battles- The event recently received additional recogni- his camera when he was captured. the-controversial-photo-of-beersheba – along with tion at its annual memorial ceremony on October Open House “The photograph first appeared as a copied snap- a high-resolution scan of the entire image and rare 31 when it was announced that the Australian and shot passed around among light horsemen on the photographs of the Australian Light Horse going New Zealand Army Corps (or ANZAC) museum Palestine front in 1918. By December 1920, when into action at Beersheva. See “Beersheva” on page 22

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Lone Soldiers (soldiers who serve in tor of the Westchester/Connecticut JFS LIFE TRANSITIONS: JFS CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP the IDF, but whose immediate families Chapter, at [email protected] or Support group for the unemployed at Stamford JFS office. Discuss concerns At JFS Westport, 431 Post Road E. Fee: $10 per session. An open forum to provide live abroad), who fought in Operation 646-275-9669. and issues related to job loss and alternative solutions for career satisfaction. support and help in dealing with the difficulties and stresses of caring for two Supported by both JFS Counseling and Employment & Training Departments. generations. For more information or to register, contact Eve Moskowitz at 203-921- Wednesdays at 11 am. For Information/Register: Rosemarie Delia 203-921-4161 4161 or Email: [email protected]. or [email protected] JFS COUNSELING AT-HOME FOR SENIORS A therapeutic, counseling program to serve older community members in their JFS SENIORS2WORK homes. A skilled social worker will help explore issues, such as adjustments to Job Bank for age 50+. Lower Fairfield employers can list full / part time jobs for living independently, improving social interaction, separation from family members dedicated, skilled mature workers. No fees. and emotional issues. Service can be billed to Medicare. Strictly confidential. For more information, contact Ilene Locker or Jodi Maxner at 203-921-4161 or For more information, contact Eve Moskowitz at 203- 921-4161 ext. 122 or www.seniors2work.org [email protected] JFS HOME COMPANIONS & CERTIFIED NURSING ASSISTANTS Trained aides assist seniors with daily activities, chores, and socialization. Services provided hourly, daily or up to 24/7. SUPPORT For more information, contact JFS Home Companion at 203- 921-4161. FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE PROGRAM FOR ADULTS WITH JFS RESIDENTIAL CLEANING SPECIAL NEEDS Employ professionally trained individuals to clean your home and at the same time help support Jewish Family Service. Rates lower or competitive than other Sunday, Dec 7 from 1-4 pm at Chabad. To learn more about engaging in the Adult service providers. Chapter as a participant or volunteer, please contact Miriam Sperber at Miriam@ For more information, contact Jodi Maxner at 203- 921-4161 or Mort and Eleanor Lowenthal with IDF soldiers at the first FIDF Annual Community friendshipCT.com or 203-329-0015. [email protected]. Event in Connecticut. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 21 American Jews in the Military What’s On for Adults New Exhibit on 350 Years of Service December/January 2015 & February 2015 By Hillel Kuttler learn about the American military’s involvement in WASHINGTON (JTA) – Mementos of Jacob conflicts, events and humanitarian missions. Many OPEN EVENTS SENIORS Goldstein slide across the 3-foot-by-4-foot horizontal items include individuals’ stories. Others, like the AGABHUMI HOLIDAY SHOPPING SPREE The J (JCC) SOCIAL SENIOR PROGRAMS screen like cards being dealt at a casino: his photo- peacekeeping force that President Ronald Reagan Tuesday, Dec 2 from 5-8:30 pm at Agabhumi, 12 Magee Avenue, Stamford. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays at The J (JCC). For more information or reservation: graph, his name, an Operation Urgent Fury headline dispatched to Lebanon, do not, but curators hope Trend setting fashion, jewelry and accessories. A percentage of the sales goes Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected] denoting the 1983 military campaign in Grenada, that Jewish veterans will write in with information directly to Hadassah. Can’t make it, shop online from Tuesday, Dec. 2 – Sunday, Programs vary by day of the week. All welcome. Transportation available for Goldstein’s explanatory text summarizing his role that can be added. Dec 7 at www.agabhumi.com and enter special online code: HAD. To RSVP for Stamford residents. Reservations required for lunch). during the invasion. Elsewhere, the exhibit presents text, photographs Tuesday night’s fun, contact Jodi Maxner at [email protected] or (203) • KOSHER LUNCH Even more striking than the photograph showing and artifacts in chronologically ordered sections. 968-8711. For further information, call (203) 325-2274 or www.agabhumi.com. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays from 12:00-1:00 pm at The J. Fee: Suggested the uniformed rabbi wrapping tefillin on the Grenada Display cases present such Jewish gems as medals beach with his rifle resting atop a mound of sandbags from the Civil War and the Spanish-American War; donation $3 for lunch and $1 each way for transportation ANNUAL MEETING OF UJF is his recollection of going from Lubavitch disciple an 1899 prayer book; a captured German rifle from • AGING GRACEFULLY. Series that addresses common-age related health issues Wednesday, Dec 10 at 7:00 pm at Temple Beth El. Election of new officers; in Brooklyn, NY, to a U.S. Army officer and chaplain World War II; and a Torah ark that a Chinese offi- Recognition of outgoing board members; Honoring our Legacy Initiative Givers with practical advice on how to support each other in aging gracefully attaining the rank of colonel. cer fashioned from teak as a gift to Morris Gordon, and Recognition of Harvey A. Peltz Award and Volunteers of the Year Award. • CURRENT EVENT AND TIMELY TOPICS. Informal conversations and talks with Goldstein is among the dozens of individual whom the officer had befriended after saving Gor- various speakers about what’s going on in Stamford, as well as national and BOOK FAIR soldiers whose stories are told in an exhibition that A U.S. Marine in Vietnam featured a Magen David on his don from drowning during World War II. (Gordon international events and timely topics. opened Tuesday at the National Museum of American helmet, circa 1968. (Photo courtesy of National Museum would use the ark while conducting services on the Sunday & Monday, Dec 14 & 15 at Temple Sinai. For more information: Temple • JCC MORNING MOVIE MATINEE FOR SENIOR ADULTS ON FRIDAYS. Enjoy a cup Sinai office at 203-322-1649 Jewish Military History. Titled “Jews in the American of American Jewish Military History) Burma Road.) of coffee and a movie on the large screen TV in the JCC’s Senior Adult Lounge. Military,” the exhibit engagingly conveys the role of Nearby, from Guam, is the coconut that Seymour CAFÉ CHABAD (for couples and singles) Free to all seniors. American Jews in defending their country, from Asser The interactive digital table from whence Gold- Silverman mailed to his daughter Maurita – writ- Saturday, Jan 10 at 8:00 pm at Half Full Brewery. For more information: Leah • LIFE ENHANCEMENT CLASSES. Classes designed to entertain, educate and enrich. Levy’s being granted the right to bear arms in 1657 stein emerges is dubbed “Service Around the World.” ing her name, their Portsmouth, VA, address and Shemtov at 203-324-2223 or [email protected]. A night on the • MONTHLY BIRTHDAY LUNCHEONS to help protect Manhattan, to the 55 Jewish men and Pull up a chair, select a decade since the Cold War a sketch of a palm tree on the fruit itself. Maurita town for couples and singles. • OUR STORIES ON THURSDAYS. Hear one-of-a-kind stories about the lives, women killed in this era in Iraq and Afghanistan. began in 1945, tap any dot arising across the map and See “Military” on page 22 COME PLAY MAH JONGG experiences, occupations or pastimes of JCC senior program participants. Free Mondays from 6:30-9:00 pm at Temple Sinai. FREE but bring your own mah to all seniors. No class Sept 25, Oct 9, Oct 16, Nov 27, Dec 25 jongg card. For more information or if you are new to mah jongg, call the • SENIORS IN SONG. Sing along with old favorites, Yiddish to Broadway Temple office at 203-322-1649. • SHABBAT WITH OR BERGER, JCC ISRAELI SHALIACH Fridays from 11:30 am- 12:00 pm at the Stamford JCC. Discussions on Israel prior to Shabbat lunch COOKING CLUB Thursday, Dec 4 at 6:30 pm at Temple Sinai. Fee: $36.00 per session, LET’S TALK ADULT EDUCATION registration for one session at a time or all 4 – payment is due at time of Thursdays, 11 am-12:00 pm. Feb 12, 19, 26; Mar 12, 19, 26 at the JCC. Fee: registration. Taught by Chef and Food Writer Ronnie Fein. Maximum: 12 people Free (6 sessions). For information or to make a reservation: Connie Cirillo December/January & February 2015 per sessions. Each session will focus on different types of cooking. Freeman [email protected] or at 203-487-0983. Meet new people or deepen your friendship with those you already know as we engage in meaningful You are welcome to attend all classes listed regardless of your membership status. CROCHET AT THE JCC conversation about a wide variety of topics that may range from how to live a Fee: $30/JCC members $24 plus cost of materials (purchased separately. For fulfilling life, creating healthy relationships, savoring our cherished memories, to See contact info below for more info, to confirm programs and to register. information on both classes or to register: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487- embracing changing life circumstances. All will be encouraged to express their 0983 or [email protected]. Learn how to crochet a scarf or hat in 3 feelings & experiences related to the themes that emerge in a safe and supportive (the J) JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY sessions. Taught by Madeline Field. Limited capacity. environment. Led by a facilitator from Jewish Family Services. Limited capacity. Israel Lunch & Learn Series “From Vienna to Hollywood” ISRAELI FOLK DANCING JCC RETIRED MEN’S CLUB First Thursday of each month: Dec 4, Jan 8 from 12:00 – 1:00 pm at the J. Fee: Sunday, Dec 14 at 1:30 pm (1:00 pm nosh) at Temple Beth El. Fee: Free. Enjoy a great way to connect with Israel while reaping the mental and physical Mondays from 10:00-11:00 am (members only); invited speaker at 11:00 am Free. Join Or Berger, the JCC’s Israeli shaliach, for a lunch and learn series focus- Even Jews Could Go to Heaven benefits of dance. Light, Kosher refreshments are served. For other locations ing on interesting topics and current events related to Israel. Sessions will include (open) at the JCC. Fee: Suggested donation of $3 for lunch. For information or Sunday, Jan 11 at 3:30 pm (3:00 pm nosh) at the New Canaan Public Library. Fee: and up-to-date schedule, go to www.ctisraelidance.com. time for questions and answers often short videos. Bring lunch. JCC will provide to make a reservation: Connie Cirillo Freeman [email protected] or at Free. Co-sponsored by Authors on Stage dairy dessert. For further information or to regtister: Or Berger t 203-487-0961 or JCC CENTER WOMEN GIFTIQUE 203-487-0983. Speaker and kosher lunch. Bridge game after lunch. All welcome. Sunday, Dec 8 – Friday, Dec 18 at the JCC. For more information: [email protected]. BOOK TALKS - December www.stamfordjcc.org or call 203-322-7900 for hours. One-stop shopping for FOR 20s and 30s Speak Up for Israel for Adults Friedman’s Fables by Edwin H. Friedman all your holiday needs: dreidels, candles, menorahs, cards, wrapping paper, Monday, Dec 15, Jan 26 from 7:00 – 8:30 pm at the J. 8 sessions. Fee: Free – All Wednesday, Dec 17 at 10 am at the JCC. FEE: Free. Presenter: Rabbi Jay Tel- decorations, gifts and more. LOAVES OF LOVE COOKING MARATHON FOR 20s and 30s welcome. Monthly sessions to learn the history and complexities surrounding Israel, Rav. Can human behavior be changed? These tales demonstrate how this can be achieved. For further information, contact Marcie (203) 359-9148. JCC ISRAELI FILM SERIES: “BETHLEHEM” Sunday, Jan 25 from 9:30 am-12:30 pm at Chabad. No charge. Bake challah and past and present. All levels of knowledge are welcome. Hear from guest speakers make chicken soup for the ‘Shabbat 2 Go’ packages. Thursday, Dec 4 at 7:00 pm at JCC. Fee: $5 suggested donation. For from AIPAC, ADL and other organizations and engage in deep meaningful discussions. BOOK TALKS - January information or to register: Or Berger at 203-487-0961 or oberger@ SHABBAT DINNER for 20’s and 30’s Led by Or Berger, JCC Israeli Shaliach. JCC program in partnership with UJF. For further Alex’s Wake by Martin Goldsmith information or to register: Or Berger t 203-487-0961 or [email protected]. stamfordjcc.org. See Israel through the lens of a movie camera. Or Berger, JCC Friday, Dec 12. Candle lighting at 4:08 pm and dinner at 6:15 pm at Shemtov Wednesday, Jan 21 at 10:30 am at Atria Stamford, 77 Third Street . Fee: Free. Pre- Israeli shaliach will lead us in a meaningful discussion. home. For more information: Leah Shemtov at 203-324-2223 or morahleah@ senter: Frank Melzer. The author’s journey to recreate the story of his grandfather chabadstamford.org. Enjoy a four course meal and be uplifted by Shabbat and his uncle, passengers on the ill-fated SS St. Louis and ultimate victims of the JCC NESHAMA YOGA holocaust. . For further information, contact Marcie (203) 359-9148. Fridays, Through Dec 19 (not 11/28) | from 9:00-10:30 am at the JCC. FEE: songs. Meet and mingle with others Jewish 20’s and 30’s in our area. $198 JCC members / $231 others (11 sessions). A fusion of Kundalini Yoga and UCONN JUDAIC STUDIES BOOK TALKS - February Jewish spirituality - ancient wisdoms provide a pathway to connect with G-d on ADULT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES To register for the 2014 Lunch & Learn Lecture Series, the annual conference, or for more An Officer and a Spy by Robert Harris a deep spiritual level. Led by Jackie Tepper Robinov. information about these or other programs of the Center for Judaic & Middle Eastern Wednesday, Feb 18 at 10:30 am at the JCC. Fee: Free. Presenter: Peter Lilienthal. A HOLIDAY BOOK WRAPPING DAYS Studies, please contact the Center at [email protected] or (203) 251-9525. fictional account of the Dreyfus Affair of 1895, portraying this historical conspiracy with MAH JONGG AT THE JCC Sunday, Dec 21 and Tuesday, Dec 23 from 10 am-2 pm at Barnes & Noble Store Fall 2014 Lunch & Learn Lecture Series all its intrigue and infamy. For further information, contact Marcie (203) 359-9148. Fee: $35 / JCC members $25. For more information, register or schedule in the Stamford Town Center. Great way to earn money for Hadassah Hospital and Noon to 1:30 pm at MPR at UConn-Stamford. Fee: $50 for the 4-session lesson: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. get our name out in the community. Come the time that works best for you. Sign series, including lunch. Discounts for local students, educators and non-profit TEMPLE SINAI Learn from Mah Jongg masters. All levels welcome. Bring a 2014 National Mah up now by contacting Susan Clarke at (203) 968-2754 or [email protected]. professionals. For further information: | Rebecca Isenstein at 203-251-9525 or Beginners’ Torah Study with Melissa Cohavi Jongg League card. JCC (The J) JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER [email protected] Fridays from 12:00 – 1:00 pm. Fee: Free. Learn about the Torah, its law, its stories What Can Jewish Law Mean to Jewish Citizens of a Non-Jewish State? Kosher Lunch Program for Seniors. Help set up and serve HOT Kosher lunch to Nov 6 – with and the ancient people. Bring lunch. seniors. Tuesdays, Thursdays & Fridays at the JCC. For more information or Dr. Paul Franks FOR WOMEN reservation: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected] Nov 13 – Rewriting the ‘Binding of Isaac:’ The Literary Journey of the Tale of the Bible Study with Rabbi Eugene Borowitz JFS (JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE) Aqedah (Gen 22) with Dr. Nehama Aschkenasy) Saturdays at 9:00 am . Fee: Free of Charge. Join a special group of people who JWC FABRENGEN meet to share in Shabbat and study Torah Drivers needed to deliver food from the Kosher Food Pantry to individuals in the Thursday, Jan 15 at 7:15 pm meet, mingle and nibble; program begins at 8:00 community. For information: Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] Temple Sinai Book Club pm at a private home. For more information: Leah Shemtov at 203-324-2223 Four to five times during the year and led by Michelle Ebstein. For more informa- or [email protected]. Fabrengen “spend time” to connect and JHS (JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY) HADASSAH tion, contact the Temple office at 203-322-1649. share on a soul level. Featuring Mitzvah gifting. • Harry Rosenbaum Judaica Library. At the JCC. Cover 2 hour slot (or more) Book Club - December once a week. You’ll be trained on the computer system and the arrangement of Wednesday, Dec. 10 at 7:15 pm. Location TBD. “Human right day selection – The books in the library. Call 203-487-0957. Sandcastle Girls” by Chris Bohjalian. For further information or RSVP: Rhonda Greif • Help protect the pieces of our Jewish history: Do you enjoy finding out about our at [email protected] or 203-829-9341. CHABAD FOR MEN region’s early Jewish settlers? Do you want to help Jewish organizations retain their history and documents? Call 203-359-2196. Book Club - January Torah and Tea TEFILLIN CLUB Wednesday, Jan 21 at 7:15 pm. Location TBE. | LOCATION: TBD. “My Father’s For Men and Women. Tuesdays from 11:00 am - 12:00 pm at Chabad Loft Café. Every Sunday from 8:00 – 9:00 am at Chabad. For men and kids. Join the guys UJF’s READING PARTNERS Paradise: A Son’s Search for His Family’s Past” by Ariel Sabar. For further information Fee: $5.00 per class. For further information: Leah Shemtov at 203-324-2223 or to wrap Tefillin, say Shema, share, some words of Torah and inspiration and Read one-on-one with Stamford public school children. One hour a week, or RSVP: Rhonda Greif at [email protected] or 203-829-9341. [email protected] bond over bagels and lox breakfast. mornings or afternoons. 11 elementary schools and 2 community centers. Training, literacy focused workshops and support network provided. Contact FOR MORE INFORMATION ON THESE AND OTHER PROGRAMS AND TO REGISTER CONTACT: FOR MORE INFORMATION / ADDRESSES: Marlyn Agatstein 203-321-1373 x115 or [email protected]. CHABAD: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • 203-3-CHABAD #418 • Leah Shemtov: [email protected] • www.chabadhousestamford.org CHABAD: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • 203-3-CHABAD #418 • Leah Shemtov: [email protected] • www.chabadhousestamford.org JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC OR THE J): 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • 203-322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org HADASSAH: Rhonda Greif at [email protected] or 203-829-9341 JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS): 733 Summer Street, Stamford • (203) 921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC OR THE J): 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • 203-322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY (JHSFC): (203) 321-1373 #150 • [email protected] • www.jhsfc-ct.org JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY (JHSFC): (203) 321-1373 #150 • [email protected] • www.jhsfc-ct.org TEMPLE SINAI (TS): 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford • (203) 322-1649 • www.templesinaistamford.org TEMPLE SINAI (TS): 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford • (203) 322-1649 • www.templesinaistamford.org UJF (UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF GREATER STAMFORD, NEW CANAAN AND DARIEN): 1035 Newfield Ave., Ste. 200, Stamford • (203) 321-1373 • www.ujf.org CENTER FOR JUDAIC & MIDDLE EASTERN STUDIES (CJMES) : 1 University Place, Stamford • (203) 251-0525 or [email protected] • www.stamford.uconn.edu/cjmes ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 22 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014 december 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 23 voices and views Touching More Jewish Lives: Notes from the G.A. By James Cohen As I sit at Union Station in Washington, waiting You Have “One More Friendship Circle Program for my train home, I can’t help but look back on the past several days with tremendous pride. Not only Changes Lives am I proud of UJF’s 13 person-strong delegation Child” to the General Assembly of the Jewish Federations By Carol Karsch No two the same, donors ranged By Nancy Heller While the routine has changed, the of North America (G.A.), I am incredibly proud We are each endowed with differ- from 30 somethings to pushing 100, Our family has been part of the importance and strength of the rela- of the work of Federation highlighted at the con- ent talents and advantages. Children, and definitely from all levels of wealth, Friendship Circle for almost 12 years. tionships have endured. ference and the impact each and every one of us in particular, are a blessing that come what we came to call “every walk of We have participated in almost all When Mark became a bar mitzvah al- has on local and global Jewry, thanks to our work to some and not others. But whether life.” Scott, 40ish, came for a short of its programs from holiday events most three years ago, five of his Friends through Federation. we have 17 kids or none at all, we all visit on the way to his lawyer to draft to the sibling support group to the at Home volunteers were there. At age Over the course of the last four days, we heard have “one more child” to worry about pre-nuptials. He quickly designated teen bowling league. We’ve benefit- 14, Mark traveled into New York City inspirational stories about Federation programs and protect. We each have a unique five beneficiaries, half to his synagogue ted from each and every program, on his own with his two special friends, enhancing and in many instances saving lives. The opportunity to pass our values through where he was president. Marion, my first particularly its Friends at Home Stanley Block and Eli Schildkraut. He mayor of Sderot, Alon Davidi, and several IDF soldiers this child to our next generation. That donor, just decided that it should go program, which has had a profound beamed with pride and joy upon his thanked attendees and all Federation supporters for one more child is the community. unrestricted to the community because impact on our lives. return and seemed a foot taller! Now all of the help provided to the South of Israel, both This concept hit me on the day she couldn’t read the future. Jeff and The Friends at Home program 15, Mark paces by the door each Sunday, during and after this summer’s war with Hamas. We that Dan and I bought our first small Marlene chose the Jewish Community matches teenage volunteers with a before he heads outside to play football heard from actress and activist Marlee Matlin on how insurance policy in Philadelphia. Benjy Center for a third and a third for each child with special needs. The pro- and soccer with Daniel Jubas. Federation is on the forefront of supporting programs was 5 months old and the reason for of two organizations picked by their gram asks that the volunteers spend Our daughter, Karen, became a that make it possible for persons with disabilities to be the purchase. There was a line on the son and their daughter in cities where one hour a week with their “special Friends at Home volunteer four years included in every aspect of Jewish life. Jewish Agency document for a contingent beneficiary they lived. friend” to provide companionship ago. She was paired with a teenage for Israel chief and bona fide hero Natan Sharansky L-r: Sharon Franklin, Edith Samers, Nancy Mimoun, James Cohen, Ricky Arbron, Shoshana Dweck, Ellen Dweck, Carol and I wondered: Who should receive Some meetings were joyous, others for the child/young adult, as well girl, Ellie, and they developed a close detailed all of the efforts being made to help Jews in Lilienthal and Peter Lilienthal at the General Assembly in Washington, DC. the insurance money if we were all to brought tears, some were nostalgic, as needed respite for parents and bond through reading, doing puzzles France, Ukraine and other places of concern reach die? Dan and I then had our first legacy others recalled loss. But it was always siblings. Both of our children have and looking at family pictures. In safety and freedom in Israel. We learned about how from Connecticut. In addition to expressing his tre- and that the Jewish people were a prime example conversation! electric. And it invariably ended with participated in the program, one as addition to home visits, Karen at- through its Israel Action Network, Federation is help- mendous thanks for all that Federation does to bind of an interconnected world long before the ad- The legacy idea grew on us, together a feeling by the donors of accomplish- a child with special needs and the tended theater performances and ing students combat the “BDS” (Boycott, Divestment the Jewish community, he shared useful insights on vent of the internet. While urging Jews to “care with the realization that our family ment and a feeling of completeness. As other as a teen volunteer. movies with Ellie and her family, and and Sanctions) movement on college campuses with how to conduct meaningful discussions with those for one another” even if they disagree with each had expanded and now had one more I walked into an event one morning, Our experience began in 2002, when shopped with her as typical young facts and fortitude. skeptical about Israel. He noted that we can’t ignore other, Sacks referenced a point raised by many member who would receive a portion of donors I’d spent several years assisting our son Mark was 4 years old. Every women do. Now a freshman in col- The list of informative and thought-provoking Israel’s challenges, but that we must be able to speak speakers over the course of the G.A., namely that the legacy – no matter what happened. called out with a big smile: “Best thing Sunday afternoon, Mark would wait lege, Karen volunteers with a small sessions was as long as it was worthwhile (including effectively about the positive; to talk about relevant “Federation touches more Jewish lives than any It didn’t mean that the portions were we ever did!” by our front window. When he saw the group of individuals with special Vice President Joe Biden, two U.S. Supreme Court aspects of the miracle that is modern Israel that will other organization on Earth.” equal, just that something would be So, who is your “one more child”? familiar black car go up the driveway, he needs through the Chabad Center justices and PM Benjamin Netanyahu via satellite!). resonate specifically with individuals or organizations. I think I speak for all of us who were in attendance shared. Of course, I didn’t realize at It is how you define community and would smile, jump up and down, and go on her campus. But there are two specific messages we heard in There simply is no monolithic response. at the G.A. when I say that we look forward to sharing the time that I’d end up in Tucson, AZ, it is a unique opportunity to put your to the door to greet his amazing teen The Friendship Circle programs Washington that I want to share. First, Ambassador The other message was from Rabbi Lord Jona- more from the conference with you and to continue as a Legacy professional explaining to personal imprimatur on the future. volunteers – Natan Warmflashz”l and provide a safe haven – an environ- Ido Aharoni, the Israeli consul general in New York, than Sacks, the former chief rabbi of the U.K. to work with all of you to help” touch more Jewish hundreds of other Jews how they, too, A music scholarship to memorialize Elie Niedober. Every week, they’d do ment where individuals are accepted spent some private time with all of the delegates Noting that “Globalization is the oldest of the old” lives” through all of our joint efforts. could leave a legacy for their “one more your parents, lunch for kids who go to the same activities with Mark and listen and cherished for who they are and child.” But in that moment, I truly be- school without breakfast, UJF to fund to the same songs, but never seemed not judged by their challenges or gan to understand just how powerful the American Jewish Joint Distribution to tire of the routine. defined by their diagnosis. For us, Continued from page 18 the concept was. Committee because they brought you Since those early years, we’ve had the Friends at Home program taught Beersheva to America, or, of course, your favorite four more sets of teen volunteers, all Mark the meaning of friendship and dedicated to the 1917 Battle would be established org.au, and the Society for the Heritage of World War feature writer and consumer columnist. Rachel began The New Jewish Voice organization. This child is one that of them patient, dedicated and con- fostered Karen’s self-confidence and in Beersheva. I in Israel website, http://www.ww1-israel.org. writing about Israeli technology companies at LINK you believe in and that you choose to nected to Mark. But they’ve also been esteem. And this month, our circle Speaking at the ceremony, Australian Ambassa- A veteran media professional who has lived in Israel Israel’s Business and Technology Magazine and is a “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #189) is published monthly by the dor to Israel Dave Sharma noted that, “The so-called since 1984, Rachel Neiman has been part of the Israel21c professional Hebrew to English translator. In her spare United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and protect by including in your legacy. connected to one another, as Mark has will be completed, when Mark begins Darien Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 06905-2521. Carol Karsch is the founder and chair of been handed down like a Torah scroll his journey as a Children’s Circle Sykes-Picot settlement – the borders and states of organization since 2008. Prior to that, she served as time, she is an active member of the Havurat Tel Aviv managing editor of Globes Online, the English-language congregation and the Holyland Hash House Harriers, www.ujf.org for updates and donations Israel Legacy Central. from siblings to cousins and friends. volunteer. the modern Middle East – is under strain elsewhere. But one element in particular of it endures. For it edition of Israel’s leading business daily, and, before part of an international running and drinking Shoshana Dweck...... President was on this very same day, 31 October 1917, that that, at The Jerusalem Post, as a business reporter, disorganization. James A. Cohen...... Chief Executive Officer Military Continued from page 21 the British War Cabinet approved the text for what Advisory Committee Silverman would follow her father into When Schjolberg’s daughter, who Spain, a precursor to JWV. A photo- would become the Balfour Declaration, a declara- Meryl Gordon, Dana Horowitz, Meryl Japha the military, serving as a nurse in the works at the nearby Jewish Community graph shows Murray Blum, killed on tion of sympathy for Zionist aspirations, setting off Reporter Group Staff Vietnam War, according to museum Center of Greater Washington, sought December 3, 1943, after rescuing a a chain of events that would eventually lead to the The Reporter Group edits and publishes The New Jewish Voice. archivist Pamela Elbe. to publicize a talk on this Veterans Day Merchant Marine shipmate when a Ger- creation of the modern state of Israel in 1948.” Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... Executive Editor (The full text of the ambassador’s address is avail- Diana Sochor...... Layout Editor “Jews in the American Military” is a by a Jewish author of a new book on mili- man U-boat torpedoed their vessel. Michael Nassberg...... Assistant Editor permanent exhibition that took eight tary heroism in Iraq and Afghanistan, a Then there’s Col. Gerald Fink, a able online at https://ausambisrael.wordpress. Jenn DePersis...... Production Coordinator years to develop at a cost of $750,000. local JWV post refused to help promote Korean War fighter pilot shown in his com/2014/10/31/battle-of-beersheva/.) Alaina Cardarelli...... Graphic Artist The funding was raised by Jewish War the event. Indeed, said Schjolberg, a plane, “Big G” chalked on its door. The The new museum will be a highlight along the Bonnie Rozen...... Advertising Representative Veterans of America groups and from San Diego-area resident who served plane was shot down in 1951 and Fink JNF-KKL’s 100 kilometer ANZAC Trail, which re- Kathy Brown...... Bookkeeper the national office of JWV, an affiliate in the Naval Reserves for 28 years, she was tortured as a prisoner of war. He traces the route taken by the horsemen when they Opinions of the museum, with which it shares its didn’t learn of JWV’s existence until passed his time woodworking and, using conquered Beersheba. It was re-enacted in 2007 The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces brick DuPont Circle building. after she had retired. Her late father, shattered glass and an improvised knife, on the battle’s 90th anniversary by members of the are those of each author and not necessarily the views While the museum has mounted Harold Fuchs, a World War II veteran, sculpted a three-foot crucifix memorial- Australian Light Horse Association. An Australian of the United Jewish Federation. exhibitions on such themes as Korean lived just 10 blocks from a JWV post izing Father Emil Kapaun, a Catholic Light Horse contingent plans to re-enact the ride Letters War service and females serving in near Los Angeles and would eagerly chaplain and fellow American POW. in 2017, the 100th anniversary of the charge. It is The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of World War II, it has never presented have participated in the organization “Surely, the crucifix made by a Jew hoped that construction of the museum will be well interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be under way by then. signed and include a phone number. The editor may a comprehensive look at the Jewish had he known about it, she said. for a deceased priest in a Communist withhold the name upon request. presence in the U.S. military from Schjolberg said she hopes the exhibit prison camp is unique,” the exhibition’s For more images and information, visit the Austra- the start to present day, said museum helps inform non-Jews of the contribu- text states. “It was a point of pride for lian Light Horse Association website, www.lighthorse. Kashruth We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any coordinator Mike Rugel. tions made by this one ethnic segment Col. Fink until his death in 1987.” advertiser’s product or establishment. Drawing on figures supplied by the of America. The National Museum of American National Jewish Welfare Board, which The exhibition abounds in exam- Jewish Military History, at 1811 R St. NW, Student Continued from page 19 Deadline tends to the needs of Jewish soldiers, ples. Col. Teddy Roosevelt, the exhibit in Washington, DC, is open 9 am-5 pm Robinson also has been pleased with the students’ Regular deadline is the last Wednesday of the month for the next issue; i.e., the last Wednesday in July for JWV and museum officials estimated, text states, held his Jewish soldiers in Mondays to Fridays, and by appointment initiative and collaboration within the group. “It’s the September issue. for example, that some 10,000 Jews high regard and became a member of on Sundays. It is closed on Jewish and impressive to see all the middle-schoolers working fought in the Civil War, 225,000 in the Hebrew Veterans of the War with federal holidays. together, and everyone has something to bring to In Connecticut, nearly one child in ve is hungry or food insecure and does not get enough food out- How to reach the editor: World War I and 550,000 in World the table; from the excitement of the sixth-grad- side of the free meal programs provided by the public schools. Women’s Philanthropy of the Jewish Mail: Sandy Golove War II. ers to the experience of the eighth-graders,” she 1035 Newfield Ave. - Suite 200 Contemporary membership num- added. “Students just want to be heard; all the ideas Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien is joining other programs throughout the Stamford, CT 06905-2521 bers for JWV are modest, however, as come from them. I’m just a conduit. It’s exciting country to do something about this situation in our own backyards. E-mail: [email protected] older veterans are dying and the num- to see the students create ways to encourage each Fax: (203) 322-3277 ber of Jewish enlistees dropped once other’s ideas.” Your support helps 3 SQUARE provide elementary school-age children identi ed as “in need” with a Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 107 the compulsory draft was lifted follow- Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United bag of food each Friday to sustain them through the weekend. Most of these children are chronically Send article submissions via e-mail to ing the Vietnam War. The organization Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Sandy Golove at [email protected] now has 20,000 members, mostly World Darien. hungry and don’t have regular access to food. marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject War II veterans, according to Norman For information on advertising, line. Expect an acknowledgement; Rosenshein, its treasurer. For further information, please contact Rebekah Raz at [email protected]. please re-send if you do not receive one. To remain viable long-term, JWV contact Bonnie Rozen at How to reach is recruiting returnees from Iraq and (800)779-7896, ext. 244 or the advertising Afghanistan while offering free mem- [email protected] Representative: bership to the 20,000 Jewish soldiers Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 now on active duty. Poor outreach Subscription Information: seems to stand in the way, however. Phone: (203) 321-1373 ext. 107 JWV’s national chief of staff, Marsha An artifact case shows objects from World War II. (Photo courtesy of National Museum Schjolberg, provided an example. of American Jewish Military History) ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 24 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2014